/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>7657893
I came onto 4chan just to talk shit about one of my friends.

>>7657893
I fap to a lot of the photos of my friend's cosplays.

Several weeks ago my cousin gave me $20 to eat a heaping spoonful of my dog’s food. I pretended to be utterly disgusted by it, but I actually really enjoyed the taste. Since then I’ve been sneaking handfuls of it out of the pantry and making sure none of my roommates catch me, and proceeding to eat it like candy. I can’t help myself, I actually crave it like an addiction.

The sad thing is that nobody would ever guess this about me, a tiny Asian girl who wears sweet lolita and cosplays loli characters. I’m afraid of someone ever finding out, they’ll never look at me the same.

I’m not even trolling or joking right now, this is dead serious.

>>7657925
What brand, anon?
Like, what brand of dog food?

>>7657925
hahah oh god, this is awesome.
What do you like about the taste of it? I've definitely eaten cat food but I was a lot younger and I haven't felt compelled to try it since. I think almost everybody has at least tried their pets food.
>at petco
>make some comment about how good the dog biscuits near the register look
>cashier: yeah they taste great too, I sometimes grab a couple on break

>>7657893
I have a crush on Clef

When watching Lolitas on Youtube I masturbate to them and fantasize of me taking total control of them well they are in full lolita.
I also have fantasies where people fuck me in my lolita and treat me like little girl, but not like Daddy and baby shit.
I am not even a sweet lolita.

I really hate that I like the F+F Doctor Who print. I kind of want to get it and I would only wear it to cons, but I am afraid of the "Omfg fandom lolita" comments. I even hate fandom coords too, but it is calling my name.

>>7657927
Pinnacle, duck and potato flavor.

>>7657931
I can't even explain it. They're like odd meat flavored crackers and I don't know it's crazy.

>>7657925

>>7657945
You and me both, anon. I'm hoping once people actually start receiving them that there will be something fundamentally wrong with their construction or materials or something just so I don't regret not buying one.

>>7657945
Just looked this up and I really love it even though I'm not a huge Whovian. How do they expect to sell any of the red though...

Fatties with cute faces are uglier to me than ugly fatties. They look like someone pumped a cute girl full of air, or like the Michelin man with makeup on. It irritates me for days if I see a morbidly obese chick making a 'kawaii' face or pose and acting like they're a delicate little flower. Of all the fat girls I've ever known, especially in Lolita, they all think they're made of porcelain and seeing them attempt to act dainty is just sad. I feel horrible about it, because even if I like their personality, a small part of me still seethes when they act like that.

>>7657947
Huh, I've never tried Pinnacle. Just be careful and take some vitamins to make sure your immune system stays tip-top, the cleanliness standards for dog food manufacturing are ridiculously lax and you're putting yourself at risk for lots of nasty bacteria. You may also want to take a good hard look at your diet too, if you're craving the dog food this much you might be missing something else that your body doesn't know how else to ask for except reminding you of the thing you've had most recently that had that missing nutrition in it. This sort of thing is actually a lot more common than you may think, anon. I've worked in a variety of pet stores over a span of almost 7 years, I've seen some shit man.

>>7657966
Also I just realized how weird this post sounds but at this point I don't really care, I just don't want you to beat yourself up about this because stressing about it will only compromise your health even more.

>>7657971
>>7657966
Thanks for the advice anon.

>>7657966
>I've worked in a variety of pet stores over a span of almost 7 years, I've seen some shit man.
Story tiem?

>>7657925
Girl, we should meet up. I am the same way with my cat's kibbles. They're just so... meaty and salty. I understand these feels. Nobody knows I eat them, and if they did, they'd judge me to death.

>>7657925
I eat my cats treats sometimes. They're not like, the cat food like ones though they're just dried chunks of chicken so it's kind of just like really low quality chicken jerky.

>>7657945
If it wasn't for the tardis plastered all over it I'd love it. I think the night sky thing is really nice.

Somebody post a picture of this Doctor Who dress please.

>>7657998
lrn2google

>>7657931
> hamster treats

Smelled sweet, but were salty as fuck. Makes sense though, since you're not supposed to feed your hamsters too much sugary stuff.

I want to hook up with a cosplay girl so bad, the only reason I am talking to this ugly girl in my class is because she does a really really good sakaki. I just want to fuck her once in costume.
Can't let my girlfriend find out though ;_;

feels bad but I just want to hook up with a cosplayer

This is boring, but I love baiting and calling out people from the comm I don't like on /cgl/. It gives me intense satisfaction when they respond too.

i have seriously considered getting a boob job so i can gain more confidence and get more attention in cosplay. my complex is too strong because my tits are way too tiny

>>7657998
http://www.fanplusfriend.com/time-lord-cyber-gothic-underbust-dress-jsk-2colors/

>>7658003
To be fair, googling "Doctor Who lolita" does not go very well.

>>7658009
are you cute? if so i will help you out

sleeping with guys w/ gfs is my fetish (that can be my confession i guess)

>>7658028
Er, the first post actually says 'F+F Doctor Who'. It's not that hard to just go to Fan Plus Friend. And then it's right there.

>>7657951
>>7657960
>>7657996
Fuck it, I think I may just ask for it for my birthday coming up. The more I look at it, the more I want it. Hope the quality won't be shit-- haven't heard anything about F+F in a long time.

>>7657996
Oh man, this is great. I used to eat cat crunchies and the red berry bits in my hamster's food a few years back. It's like we're all coming outta the woodwork, pet food gourmets unite.

Totally with you on the plastered tardises thing, not to mention the red makes them look like regular/retro phone boxes which i think is gonna irk other Brit lolitas. The modern night skyline thing is just gorgeous. I love the idea of a futuristic skylinexlolita so much, it makes me want to rip off their design and replace it with something more blade runner-like.

My first cosplay was Deidara. I was 12, wore a satiny cloak with cotton, hand cut patches on it. I didn't wear a wig, and sharpied the mouths onto my hand. I'd share pictures, if i hadn't destroyed them all

>>7658047
>My first cosplay was Deidara. I was 12, wore a satiny cloak with cotton, hand cut patches on it. I didn't wear a wig, and sharpied the mouths onto my hand. I'd share pictures, if i hadn't destroyed them all

my first cosplay was "prom gaara"

right there with ya buddy

>>7658047
>>7658049
mine was sexy no jutsu kakashi. i was a little overweight and not sexy at all with no make-up and a mediocre inuyahsa wig. i hate myself each time someone asks what was my first cosplay. destroyed as much pictures i could remember putting up of it

>>7658017
I like to do this too

Brisbane threads are my favourite

and I'm in that comm

Sometimes I just get really angry over people who are prettier and better than me. I know I should just appreciate them and their skills/looks but I just can't.

I think because of this and some recent stress I've been sorta binge eating too and I've put on a ton of weight so I'm even more annoyed. Like what's even the point trying to be skinny anymore if it's all useless in the end.

Whenever I see an American in Europe I get a little pissed off. Especially if it's a tourist.
Especially if said American goes somewhere on vacation and then starts to lecture everyone on that country despite knowing diddly squat about it.

>>7657935
I have a crush on Chef

this.

I came to /cgl/ for the larp thread field trips, as well as a slight interest in cosplay. I stayed for /cgl/'s addictive brand of horrible people.

My friends were forging badges to AX and I bought mine on moral grounds

I bought a camera just for a media pass. It works.

I only go to cons to get laid

My boyfriend just proposed to me and I'm starting to regret saying yes.

We met online 5 years ago, I was always open to webcamming and showing my face. He only showed me photos. We talked every day and he was the only person I could be open with about my lolita/cosplay hobbies. We finally met in person a year later... He didn't look anything like his photo at all - he was sending me photos of his older brother.

I'm physically attracted to his brother but I would never be interested in him because of his personality being the complete opposite of my boyfriend... not to mention him being a complete asshole and making fun of us for liking anime. But every now and then when we're having sex his brother's face pops up in my head. I'm trying to rationalize and defend myself because I was fantasizing/having cyber sex with his face for a year... makes sense, right??

Neither of us has brought up the brother-photo incident.

I love my boyfriend. It was his personality that I fell in love with. We've lived together for 3 years and I couldn't imagine having a life without him. But I'm getting cold feet about marriage and I feel like shit

>>7658355
> I stayed for /cgl/'s addictive brand of horrible people

that's how it starts and then suddenly 'fuck, i think might be one of them'

>>7658419

Just fuck his brother to blow off some steam

I think /cgl/ has helped me come to understand that the con life isn't for me. Anything I want I can buy online or try to make for myself, and honestly my few normalfag friends are a lot more valuable to me than the shitlords I've met and had as friends through conventions over the years.

/cgl/'s part in this realization was showing me that more often than not these kinds of people are just parasites looking to ride off of someone else's coattails rather than actual mutual kinship. I know stating that makes me sounds like a cynical jackass but at this point I am too happy with where I am now to really care anymore.

>>7658419
Christ anon, if you're having second thoughts now, better to address it as soon as possible, not several years down the line when you're already married and the whole thing has made you bitter and twisted.

You'll continue to feel like shit until you're actually honest with yourself about what you want. It is possible to love someone and not be physically attracted to them, your boyfriend also fucked things up when he engineered things so that you ended up equating the personality you love with his brother's face. You need to talk about this and he has to take responsibility for using such an embarrassing and dishonest 'foot in the door' technique when you first started communicating.

I think it's totally ok to cosplay for fun, you don't even have to remotely look like the character! Be as ill suited to the character as you want. Take 2 days to make your cosplay and don't put actual effort into it. Have all the fun!

Just don't think for one second that you should be wasting everyone's time in contest with that shit.

>>7658419
get out now, now later.

Ugly lolitas making fun of fatty-chans

Like damn check yourself

I genuinely love the Bodyline clock print and I hate that it was babby's first ~print~ for so many poorly dressed noobs because it really is super cute and I hate the bad rep it gets.

I honestly want to fuck in cosplay.
but that shit is expensive and I ain't risking it.
Unless I buy a cheap shit from Taobao.

I have had a horrible crush on ValleLator ever since I saw his cosplay of Kotetsu.

>>7658491
I have a friend who totally rocks it, she saved the print for me because before I saw her coord I felt the same way you do. I don't have any pictures or I'd share, sorry about that!

i lost my virginity at a con last weekend and it was great but i cant tell anybody about it for really complicated reasons.

I browse /fit/ and started coming here because it was generally known as a mostly female board, I stayed because you guys actually got me into cosplaying and helped me along with my costumes

I only browse CGL to shitpost and for girls.

>>7658028

I actually like the red. It doesn't scream 'Dr. Who' to me.

>>7658511
That's great, nobody cares anyway.

>>7658450

Adding along:

> don't get angry when no one wants your picture
> don't get angry when there's a better cosplayer around
> if you're doing closet cosplay, don't get angry when no one knows who you are

>>7657925
Pet food in the US at least has to be safe for human consumption, so NBD.

>>7658004
My hamsters really like those yogurt drops so I tried some and they were delicious. Not sour tasting like actual yogurt at all.

>>7658419
>>7658446
How does one even start that conversation??

"Remember how we met? You pretended to be my brother and now I think of having sex with him."

>>7658543
*your

>>7658419
You guys should at least address it lol.
But it sounds like you fell in love with his personality, and associated it with his brother's face. I think you need to talk about it, and make it clear that you fell in love with his personality, but why did he use his brother's face? put it on him to explain and just make it clear it was the personality that drew you to him. I wouldn't bring up the sexual fantasy stuff at all...

>>7658526
trouble i find is, it's still the tardis (says 'police box' on it, yet resembles an ordinary phone box because of the color) but in the wrong color, so it's gimmicky as well as inaccurate (if you're into Dr Who).

>>7658543
Well, I wouldn't recommend saying that and agree more with:

>>7658547

>>7658511
if it was a one night stand type of ordeal, I don't blame you

>>7658551

Well, the thing is, I don't like Dr. Who, and that's why I prefer the red colorway.

Besides, red police boxes existed in Glasgow:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Police_box

Either way, I'm not buying it, so it's really a moot point.

I want to tell a friend that her and her bestie have this persona as "attempting to steal the spotlight of the con" from everyone else with their attitudes but how do you bring that up to someone without sounding like a bitch? You don't. It'll be bitchy no matter who it comes from.

I'm just over them rocking up late to cons; getting offended when the rest of us have been there all day and are either happily settled into a friend group or tired as fuck and cannot deal with anymore shit but stay for the comps; have impractical costumes they made the weekend or days before and then cry that you're acting like you dont like them when they pretty much ignore you bar 5 minutes.

If you don't want people to hate you; don't act like an elitist cosplayer?

I have consumed nothing but chocolate whole milk and strawberries for the last two years.

I had a spinach salad once on my birthday.

>>7657925
When I lived with my parents, they had the Scooby Snacks dog treats for our dog. I liked them more than he did. Never tried just the normal food though...

>>7657945
I love the red. I love the cut and the colors and would totally coord it with red as an accent. But I hate the blue.
I'm trying really hard not to buy it for the same reasons as you...

>>7658419
I am glad you're happy-ish but anon I don't know how you could have stayed with someone who lied to you for a year. I mean, if you're cool with it...

But it sounds like you aren't in your own way. You are attracted to someone that basically doesn't exist. (Your bf's personality but his brother's physical being.) You'll probably want to have a talk about this, and I really suggest before the wedding.

To the people who eat pet food: please don't do it! It is not healthy even for the pets becaus of sugar and chemical aroma. That's propably the reason why you craving for it. Cat food also contains taurin whoch you can find in energy drinks&co.

My secret is, that I'm craving for a lolita girlfriend (I'm not into dykes). It's worse because I have a boyfriend for many years now but I miss the times having good sex with girls who did understand me a lot more.
I fell in love with a lolita in my comm but I feel so bad about it. I will never confess to her and lose her friendship but the situation makes me go crazy.

>dream of heaving a cute lolita "concubine" who also does cosplay
>who with a right state of mind would do this?!
>feels bad man

>>7658668
>I'm not into dykes
Clearly you are one.

>>7658677
Maybe stupid for wanting this but clearly not a dyke. I'm pretty feminin looking' even too fem looking for crossplay males.
Or did you mean my orientation? That would also be a No. I'm bi and always have been (I'm into she-males too)

>>7658703
Nah, you're a dyke.

And if you call a trans person a "she-male" to their face they'll probably punch you, much less want to sleep with you.

>>7658668
I wouldn't worry about it. I get moments of missing girls as well even though I've been married for years. Take a deep breath, wait it out.

Maybe try talking to your boyfriend, perhaps he's not doing something right and it's making you miss women more. If you can't talk to your boyfriend... well there's your problem, you should be able to communicate your needs.

If it's really unbearable, there's plenty of porn out there of cute lolita cosplay concubines.

My confession is I have pretty irrational feelings.

Recently, a "before Lolita" acquaintance (friends of friends) joined my FB comm, even though she doesn't live near the comm's location. She's been in lolita forever, and I've barely started.

I wanted to organically grow as a lolita, and be able to make a few mistakes, but she dresses so well I just feel so much pressure. I wanted to do lolita as something new for me to meet new people to enjoy something different and just for me,
and her being there feels so intrusive. We aren't close enough that I can ask her questions, but I have so much pride that I don't want her to see me as I stumble around with my "baby's first coords", or see what my first purchases are.

I'm having a hard time explaining my feelings, but I wanted lolita to feel like an exciting adventure, and her being there just kills it. I know I'm being crazy, thinking "THIS IS MY COMM, GO AWAY!!" with people I've met like twice, but I hate it.
captcha: execute sorrow

>>7658742
Block her or put her on a restricted list so she can't see your stuff but you could still chat if you wanted to down the road.

But I honestly don't think she'd make a big deal of it, this just sounds like you don't want to disappoint senpai or something. Which is normal, and also kind of adorable.

>>7658714
If you think I am a dyke without knowing anything about me, is pretty close minded but not my problem. Don't know what kind of rqeaction you are expecting from me.

Just for your info, there are males who are feminin looking and have tits but do keep their dicks. That's a she-male/lady-boy. Just do your homework before accusing someone.

If you don't have any good advice for me I will ignore comments like your's.

I think that its okay for guys to cheat but not girls

>>7658751
I disagree which I'm sure is common and not entirely a surprise and I'm personally not interested in debate but I'm sincerely curious anon--are you a guy or girl?

>>7658739
I can talk with my boyfriend about everything and I already told him about my needs. But he doesn't give me my private space when I need it.
I don't want to break up with him, I love him too much but it's droving me nuts to watch a girls neck in front of me and litteraly drooling over it.

>propably need a hooker

>>7658748
Maybe you're right. I just want to get the hang of it before she sees me, I guess. I don't want her seeing comm meetup picture of me all... badly dressed.

Whenever I'm upset, I sometimes just avoid people and see if anyone cares enough to go out of their way to contact me and check up on me. I just want someone to tell me they care, and go, "hey, you haven't been on in a while, is everything alright?" or whatever.

I don't know, maybe this is dumb of me to do.

>>7658751
I don't know, dude.

It'd be really hypocritical for some guy to judge a girl for cheating if he already fucked like 20 girls behind her back.

I think the consequences should be equal for all parties involved.

>>7658771
Everyone wants to feel cared about in some way. It's not dumb, it's only natural. Don't feel bad.

Every time I see someone mention that they have had sex in exchange for money I feel this deep visceral disgust which I can't even explain.

>>7658812
Same. It is truly degenerate no matter the circumstances.

>>7658812
I do, too.

I've been taught to hate anyone who does that since childhood. All of a sudden it's the norm. What the actual hell.

>>7658823
>>7658820
>>7658812
you're feeling that because it's morally wrong. it's normal.

>>7658823
>All of sudden it's the norm

Life on easy mode is never great.

My boyfriend and I are struggling for money, and have been for a year and a half. We have to choose between food or rent most times. I love my boyfriend to death, and if he asked me to marry him I would say yes in a heartbeat...

But lately, I've been contemplating on becoming an escort. I honestly have no desire for any other man - like, at all - but the amount of money some escorts make in a night is mind-blowing. What an escort makes in one night could easily last both of us months. Also, it'd be nice to buy him nice things every once in a while... He really is such a sweet, loving guy - and that's probably why I'll never do it.

I purposely spread lies about how easy cosplayed girls are to friends and local communities of guys because I enjoy watching them fail

I don't give up my seat for elderly or handicap on the bus. I always look away and feel really guilty cause everyone is looking at me.

>>7658891
Wow. This is actually some serious shit. I'd usually say go to /adv/ since this hardly has anything to do with /cgl/ but I'll bite for a bit.

No. It's simply not worth it. The money they get a night is indeed huge, but that's also because of the things they're risking, sometimes it could even cost them their lives. Most of the johns who go for escort services are often married men or creeps, these are guys who want to do things they can't do with their wives, and that's never a good thing. Another thing is that this is one business you cannot run totally on your own, this is why escorts have pimps, and remember to get them to work with you, that's a huge percentage of what you get going to them too.

> Also, it'd be nice to buy him nice things every once in a while
He's already happy having you. You're just telling yourself this to appease yourself, not him.

>He really is such a sweet, loving guy - and that's probably why I'll never do it.

Then don't do it. It's not simple, but go get a job.

sage because /adv/

>

Anytime I add a new lolita friend on FB, or even meet someone new, can't help but go on extreme stalker mode.
Stalk their facebook page, months back,
same with tumblr. I'm surprised at how open people are open on their tumblrs. Naked pictures, and sex toys galore. Nothing wrong with that, but its so different from the feeling people give off on FB.

>>7657925
I used to be addicted to dog snacks when I was younger too. I'm sure I'd probably still like them if I ate them today.

>>7658286
>Chilling around in local airport in my home country, going to England, waiting for check-in and so on
>Stop by 7/11 inside the airport to get some snacks for the flight
>Group of 3 extremely obese old people standing in line before me
>All sound like rednecks, one guys belly is escaping from his t-shirt and sweatpants
>Traumatised for life

>>7658286
>you hate annoying tourists

Jeepers Anon

>>7658771
I do this too and I've learned that it's really poisonous habit. Whenever I'd feel upset I'd just stop talking to everyone and wait for them to come to me, which they never would. So I'd end up hating myself more and acting passive-aggressive towards my friends for not caring about me or my state of mind. I end up being more and more miserable and my friends would never know about it because they just thought I'm busy or something, or even worse losing interest in them so they didn't want to bother me.

I realized how fucked up this is after another friend of mine played these mind games to test her friends (basically do they initiate a conversation if she's silent). I still do it to some extent though because I really would love to hear ONE time someone ask me if I'm all right.

I don't actually cosplay and have never been to a con.

In fact I'm a complete shut in and I spend most of my days filling the empty void by going onto various boards and pretending to have certain hobbies. After awhile I can almost convince myself that I lead a somewhat normal life with my own hobbies and tastes.

But I've also lost any real sense of identity and if asked to talk about myself or give details on who I am on a personal level I'd draw a blank.

>>7658946
Nigga you have depression.

That said, I assumed cases like this would be rampant in cgl

Otherwise, you wouldn't be cosplaying

>>7657925
I used to regularly eat fish food flakes before one day I was just like this shit CANNOT be good for me I gotta stop. Ngl tho I had some cravings for awhile...

>>7658901
So all those stories on here from guys saying how easy it is to get laid at a con is a lie huh, and don't feed me no "yeah i banged a girl ez mode" and she's a 4/10 weeaboo

>>7658978
They're people, not objects.

If you fall for this kind of bullshit you're either an idiot or an Arab.

I'm a lesbian and all my female friends have suddenly gone trans and want to be boiz now so my confession is that I'm butthurt as fuck that all my cute girl friends want to be shitty ugly femboiz now.

>>7658537

My ex's girlfriend got into lolita and I feel like it was because she was jealous of how cute I am and how manfaced she is.
I quit lolita because I didn't want anything to do with her, and I'm now into mori.
She literally only bought one bodyline outfit before she started going to meets, she befriended everyone I'm on bad terms with and just fucked with my one happiness outlet.

I pawned her diamond necklace I found in my then-boyfriend but apparently her boyfriend too's bed and sold off all my lolita because it made me feel better at the time.

Now she's into gyaru and she'll be marrying him soon.

I hate that slut but I confess that I'm so regretful that I rose to her level and let her ugly manface hurt my feelings.

>tfw still butthurt
>tfw actually really sorry I fucked her bf
>tfw I had to shut down all my social media to stop her from fapping over me
>tfw this was such a long time ago and I'm eternally buttfrustrated

I found out who shitposted about me and someone else in my comm.
I'm not going to tell them I know. I'm not going to tell anyone that I know.
But I'm going to nurture this grudge.

>>7658749
You are just making things up now. You sound retarded.

>>7658497
me too

I really and truly hate the way most people from the US pronounce "Lolita".
Protip: It's not supposed to sound like "Loleeeda" (/loʊˈliː.t̬ə/). It's pronounced /lɒˈliːtə/. Look it up and pronounce it right.

>inb4 it's awwright to pronounce it that way in America!!1
No. It sounds awful. No exceptions.

A year ago my ex ended our relationship and got together with a really good friend of mine right after.
They're no longer together and the friend/ex of my ex has deleted all traces of their existence ever since realising how shitty it was to make that sort of move.
My ex would mentally abuse me while we were together, always asking if it was ok to fuck around with other girls while I was and wasn't there, telling me that if I didn't want him to be rough with me in bed then we couldn't be together, if I didn't want to go to the rave with him then we couldn't be together, he always made one excuse after another for why we couldn't be a couple all the while telling me that he definitely loved me and really wanted to be with me.
He completely broke me down and I ended up attempting suicide a couple of times after the breakup due to his behavior.
The girl he scored with right after was everything he hated in terms of the shit he had filled me with which only made it even more of an insult. Today he hates me and most likely blames me for everyone hating him and for his girlfriend leaving him.

My confession isn't cosplay related but I really wish he and I could be good friends again. I don't even care if it means that he has to fake it and only pretend to give a fuck about me, a lot of the things he did fucked me up but most of the time with him was some of the best I've ever had with anyone. I really wish things wasn't this awful and that he hadn't turned out to be such a terrible person. I've just been missing him a lot as stupid as I sound.

I have a Go Fund Me campaign, but I'm not really homeless.

I'm interested in married woman, but she rejected me so I stalk her at conventions and take as many creep shots as I can get. Along with her friends when they show their goods off. Figure might as well since I'll never get to fuck them.

>>7659146
does it work?

>>7659148

>>7659136
It's not stupid, it's just dangerous. I know it must still hurt and I've been in a similar situation but you really need to just stick it out, having someone as emotionally poisonous as he sounds in your life isn't going to help you progress and be happy. When we lose someone we tend to always remember the good parts and gloss over the bad parts somewhat, but for your own health and happiness maybe leave it a little longer and see how you feel before attempting to contact him if that's what you're feeling like doing. Stay strong anon, it's his loss and you deserve much better

>>7659155
We made up after his girlfriend broke up with him, but he still ignores me 99% of the time I try talking to him, when I ask if he has a problem with me all I get is "no." and then he goes back to ignoring anything I say to him.
He insists we're friends but act nothing like it. I just can't get myself to remove him from my life.
We still go to all of the same events and the community isn't very big. Last event we were both at, we crashed into each other multiple times a day all weekend and it completely ruined that event for me. I just don't want things to be that way, I miss him immensely and I really just wish we could go back to at least just talking to each other again. All of the drama happened so long ago now but for the last few days I've had to hold back tears since it's all just come back to me recently.
I have a boyfriend now who actually cares about me and I really do just want to be good friends again and nothing else.
I am forcing myself to ignore the situation but it only results in me feeling more and more like shit when the thoughts return to my head occasionally.

>>7659151
it works http://www.gofundme.com/92m3b8

>>7659136
are u me?
Sorry you feel the same way :(

>>7659155
I second this but would also add, don't contact him again, seriously, don't do it, no matter how tempted you get. You deserve respect and he never gave you that, you shouldn't even be acquaintances with someone as toxic as that. Find better people in your life to be with.

>>7659181
>Have serious money problems
>Social network isn't good, not a lot of people who could help if I set up a fuding thing
>Gofundme seems to be the best funding site for personal shit
>Doesn't support my country

I know it's stupid but I am building up a "cosplay portfolio" right now so I can start up a cosplay page and attempt to get enough followers ogling at my body that I can ask for economical help.

Still only cosplaying characters I like, from things I like, but I am including some skimpy ones that I normally wouldn't cosplay just so I can attract potential funders in the future.
I'm awful but fuck.

I'm starting to feel bitter towards my cosplay "friends". They're the type to bandwaggon over any shit one of them gets into and the excuses the give themselves to why they cosplay in the first place sounds fake as fuck. Not that I'm jelly or anything, but when I have something to propose or talk about, I feel that whatever I have to say doesn't matter/they don't care, while if another person in the circle has a say about it; it'll be the best thing ever and insta-cosplay. I think it might be because I'm not doing their coat-tail trip with other people.
Kinda sucks, I don't feel appreciated that much at all.
I need new friends.

>>7659219
yeah you do.

>>7659196
Fucking this. if he cant love you, at least love yourself

I have a deep hatred for tripfags here who act like /adv/fags

>>7658954
Fish food smells so good and I've eaten it a few times, not a good but not a bad taste.

>>7658749
Trans person here.

Don't call anyone she-male unless they specifically ask for it. They WILL feel unsafe around you and you ARE a transphobe if you do it.

Same goes for ladyboy which isn't even our term to use because it is Thai and if I remember correctly was pushed on Thai transgender people by European imperialists. Don't quote me on that though.

I realize this sounds SJ as fuck but it is transphobic and you need to sit down and get your fucking facts straight.

>>7659278
I think they're talking about she males like Bailey Jay, you know porn type? Bailey doesnt:t claim to be trans, the appeal is the girlish body/face with a dick

Fat people terrify me to no end. They're pretty rare where I live, so when I see an incredibly huge person I try to stay as far away as possible from them.
Just seeing their cankles and arm fat makes me literally sick to the point of gagging and having to close my eyes and walk away before I scream

I once hugged a fat person who was a cousin of a friend and she was so huge I couldn't even wrap my arms around her as my body was engulfed in hers.
Oh god I almost cried and avoided her the whole night.

>>7659242
I get that everywhere.

ignore, report or deal with it.

I feel like a giant SJW for saying this but I wish there were more female characters with backbone and a personality other than "teehee I'm a gurl, I can be stwong too! Oh wait lol I was wrong, save meeee!" or a sexy lamp that only ever talks seductively. Or characters that only talk about 1)boys 2)love 3)feeeeeelings.

Fuck, I don't even mind titties, have as many titties as you like, make them bigger than the Epcot center for all I care, just give the damn woman some decent personality and interests to go with that because otherwise they get reeeeeeallly bland.

But whomever I talk to irl just snubs me off and calls me a "feminist" for saying that.

pic unrelated

>>7659295
Doesn't change te fact that she-male is and will forever be offensive and transphobic.
In that case just ask for crossdressing/transvestite/femme guys. There's a big difference and it's not that hard.

>>7659313
I understand maybe offensive, but that doesn't mean the ignorant one who used it is transphobic.
same goes with faggot, using that word doesn't make one homophobic

also, not that guy

>>7659301
Hi there!

You seem to have made a bit of a mistake in your post. Luckily, the users of 4chan are always willing to help you clear this problem right up! You appear to have used a tripcode when posting, but your identity has nothing at all to do with the conversation! Whoops! You should always remember to stop using your tripcode when the thread it was used for is gone, unless another one is started! Posting with a tripcode when it isn't necessary is poor form. You should always try to post anonymously, unless your identity is absolutely vital to the post that you're making!

Now, there's no need to thank me - I'm just doing my bit to help you get used to the anonymous image-board culture!

>>7659313
How is it transphobic when talking about nontrans people like Bailey Jay? I've seen the term shemale used in porn for years and years before trans people became more common place. Dickgirls is another term I've seen used for years, is that offensive as well?

>>7659330
it's not offensive, that person is just an sjw.

I'm sorry if I hurt anyone with the terms of she-male and lady-boy, this wasn't my intention. My education about this gender(?) is coming from porn...
All I wanted was to underline that I'm not a dyke (homosexual) and that I'm not drawn to a specifig gender. (I don't know why it's important for some people to pick on things which have nothing to do with the main issue)

Btw one of my best friends is trans ftm and he would hate me for calling him trans! He is a man.
Maybe some human with breasts and a penis will tell me how to address them correctly.

>>7659330
it's offensive because they want the opposite genitals of what they currently have.

>>7659396
dyke doesn't mean homosexual....

I used to think that all people of PRC were evil unorthodox unscrupulous businessmen who made their riches by stuffing human hair into soy sauce bottles, until i started buying taobao on my own and then i realise how nice and friendly the sellers can be. they're also pretty legit and honest shop owners.

>inb4cg

>>7657893
I want to cosplay and be a lolita but I have no money to spare and am ugly/fat :[
That feel when you know you'll never be pretty/cute and have nice dresses and clothes and be able to dress up like your favorite characters and get positive attention about it. And if I were to manage, I'm sure I would get comments on how I'm too fat or ugly...
fuck life D:

>>7659397
So thats their fucking problem.

>>7659396
If you only know the terms from porn, that makes sense. Is English not your native language, anon?

she-males as a word is usually limited to porn, people prefer to be referred to as trans when discussing gender transitions, but usually people individually prefer to be referred to as the gender they are trying to portray, like your friend.

Dick girls usually refer to a magical creature that is a girl who has somehow grown a dick. They don't exist in real life. For more information, visit >>>/d/

Dyke is a slur used to refer specifically to butch or masculine lesbians, though some people stretch it to apply to all lesbians. It is usually not a polite term, but some lesbians refer to each other as dykes. The other anon was calling you masculine.

Ladyboy usually specifically refers to (young) men who dress up like women and look like women, but they do it because it is fun or they are turned on by it, and not because they feel their gender is incorrect.

Can any Tumblrinas correct my definitions?

>>7659448
Ladyboy refers to kathoeys and you're talking out of your ass, your entire post reeks of tumblr.

>>7659448
"is English not your native language" - wow dude, I'm not sure if you're being sneakily condescending or just unable to see things from a different point of view.

This anon has said nothing to warrant a vocabulary lesson. A lot of these terms are quite modern and the definitions themselves still relatively elastic. You've also got to take into account that this is /cgl/, not a "trigger safe" (or whatever tumblr people call it) zone, and none of her points were at all trans/homophobic to start with, and she even identified herself as quite fluid in her understanding and appreciation of gender.

I swear, all you people who try to stick rigid labels on things are at times as bad as those who discriminate based on gender/preconceived ideas. Anyone sensible would ask a person they encounter how they wished to be addressed or referred to if they were unsure. Past that, it doesn't really matter.

Tumblr is as much as a victim of oppressive culture as real life communities are sometimes.

>>7659396
The reason he doesn't want you to call him trans is probably because he doesn't want to be outed or reminded that he is trans. Transgender/transsexual is the medical term for experiencing gender dysphoria.

>>7658025
>tiny tit mastur race

>>7657942
That's disgusting! Do you know how expensive those dresses are if you were to stain them?

>>7659324
The issue is when we ask people to stop using the term and they retort with shit like "stop being so focused on labels it's just porn I don't know what else to call them". Transwomen aren't shemales, theyre transgendered women. Regardless of whether they've gone through with surgery or not.

As for the fact that it's used in porn...
See, I totally get that it's a kink, I don't have an issue with the fact that people get off to the thought of a girl with a dick. Now the porn industry is totally debatable on a whole other level and this isn't the place for that discussion and honestly I'm not even involved enough to say anything about it. But I would really appreciate it if we could call trans people for what we are, not for what we may or may not have between our legs.

>>7659334
Actually, I'm just a transperson trying to live a normal life without feeling like the only reason anyone might be cool with my existance is because I make porn.


Back to the topic, though:
I always feel so guilty when I want to crossplay, because I have issues passing as is along with people taking it on them to policy who is "really" trans and who isn't. So crossplaying really doesn't help the situation. Thing is I don't really feel dysphoria in cosplay because I'm another character and not myself, which just makes me feel even guiltier even when I can't bring myself to cross dress outside of cosplay. Still, feels bad man. I just want to pay homage to my favourite characters without having to worry about it too much. As is now I do genderbends but it feels lazy.

I also secretly think I am the most canon cosplay of one particular character, but I'd never say that out loud.

>>7659695
Because there are people like me in porn*. I am not a pornstar, god.

>>7658904
That's because you're a dick

>>7658668
Mine is that I don't know what people mean when they say "comm", like in this post.

>>7659913
It's short for community. Sorry for robbing you of your confession.

>>7659924
Nah, I worked that part out.

What I mean is, when people say "comm", what community do they mean? Like are they usually talking about a forum, or something?

I found out my ex posts on /soc/ and I can't stop wondering if they come here.

> Have weeb/ita friends
> learn that their help in Lolita is basically useless
> want to do it right
> losing weight, working on coord skill, overall just trying to be better
>"why do you even bother, anon? They just keep making fun of you and posting you in ita threads. You will never gain their approval. There is nothing wrong with being fat and dressing how you like. Fuck the haters!"

They ask me all the time if they are posted to /cgl/ because they cannot take the hate without going into a flurry of butt hurt. So I lie all the time and say no because I know they never want to get better at Lolita. I love them as friends, but they won't even take small advice (I.e. wear a blouse/cardi/bolero) and I really just get tired of being told I'm following a trend because I want to be thin. How is being healthy a trend??? I worry they are going to not like me as this progresses. I've lost 1/3rd or the weight I've set as my goal already but they just keep on telling me I am wasting my time because I'll always be made fun of. I feel like they are projecting. But sometimes I feel like they are right and I'll never make it to at least normal, standard Lolita tier. I don't even wanna be great or noticed. I want to go unnoticed and blend it with the sea of ruffles.

>>7659941
No, they're talking about their local community of lolitas or less usually cosplayers. usually they're groups run through facebook that meet in real life.

>>7659970
Our friends are meant to be reinforcers of positive behavior and/or supportive of what helps us improve in our lives. If they're dragging you down, then perhaps the best course of action is to find new friends. This is never an easy choice to make, nor is it easy to follow through, but if you surround yourself with negative people, then it becomes hard to force yourself out of a slump.

This all being said, so far I (we) only know about this negative side of your friends, but is there any way in which they compensate and help you improve your life in general?

If not, then like I said, perhaps you need new friends.

>>7659993
Alex, I've been seeing you around here for a while and something kept bothering me.
Now, you seem nice, so don't take this the wrong way or anything, but I am just dying of thirst to know the following:

Why are you such a titan-giga-mecha faggot?

>>7659695
Seriously, fuck off back to Tumbrl SJWchan.

Don't try and speak for everyone. People have their own prefered descriptions so stop believing you decide what is right and wrong.

>>7659993
They are good friends as long as "fat shaming" and criticism of outfits don't come into play. We have normal interactions of daily life. I just don't want to be a fat weeb anymore and I think I'm finding their constant "You look great, anon!"a bit annoying. Plus, like I said, I sit here quietly and let people bash me without getting defensive because I WANT to learn and know what I'm being criticized for. Realistically, I cannot help the fat thing any more than I already am. I don't let that upset me because it is what it is. But I learn something new and my friends get all, "That is so cute! I wanna do it!!!" Then get mad when they don't get praise because they still look like a hot mess. I doubt I'll get rid of them, they are good people. I just feel really exhausted with it. And kind of bad since I've started lying. I think I'll just have to bite the bullet and start being honest. I've told them I don't judge, if that wanna stay this way I'll still love them. It sort of feels like it's just an overall adjustment for my change in lifestyle.

> Come on, Anon! Let's go to RANDOMFOODPLACE!"
>I can't. That's too many calories and I had an odd day yesterday so I can't binge again...
> Oh come on, one milk shake won't hurt...
> milkshake has about 2000 useless calories in it!

I feel like this is the point where things are going to change our go stupid. I'm tired of lying. I lied to myself for so long.

>>7659970
With that attitude I think you're definitely on the right path anon. I believe 100% of the perpetual itas are people who just don't want to improve and can't take criticisms. Since you do I don't see how you could fail!

I love lolita dresses.

I hate the communities and rules. I don't want to wear blouses sometimes because I think it looks ridiculous with some dresses. I also don't feel that some of the rules or styles are particularly flattering for anyone and cringe when I see friends head to toe with pettis that make you feel they'll have a moon orbiting them soon.

It's gotten bad enough that I haven't worn a dress in several months and am almost scared to show up at community get togethers. I just want to wear the dresses in ways that they look flattering on me, whether or not that follows anyone's 'rules'.

>>7660031
I hope so. Everything feels like a giant "trial under fire" from all directions right now. I kind of want to give up and fuck off to some unknown area of the internet where I can be useless and sit like a rock.

>>7660032
Justdon't call it lolita and go your merry way, what's the problem ?

I want to be a well-known cosplayer just for my costumes and personality, but I'm honestly too modest to market myself and feel like a total sleaze asking people to check out my pages. I wouldn't want to sell prints or start kickstarters or anything; I'd just genuinely like to be known and, preferably, liked in the community and, yes, honestly, have attention, but not for my body. Maybe someday.

>>7660032
>>7660052
Yep i was just about to say that. What you want is not lolita. Its cool to use your clothing however you want. Go ahead and wear it in public. But the lolita communites are lolita communities and you can't expect them to accept you with open arms if you arent doing the one thing a lolita is suppose to do: wear lolita fashion.

>>7660014
Trying really hard not to be an asshole, but for now that's just who I am. Working on bettering my personality, but things slip through sometimes. I love people in general and want to contribute to society, but I need to work on my self-control at times (and fully acknowledge that); whether it be in what I post or say or do. And I'm working on that.

>>7660027
Lying to yourself is one of the easiest and worst mistakes a person can make (and I'm guilty of that sin). Unfortunately, it seems like your friends are reinforcing poor behavior and lifestyle choices, and you'll have to confront that sooner rather than later. From what you've said, they don't seem that bad of friends, and perhaps you should talk to them about critiquing your health and life choices because you want to live a healthier lifestyle. I wish you the best of luck!

>>7659110
Sorry about your autism, bud.

>>7660056
I dont mind helping you manage your page if you ever start one. it's all about having the initiative to move forward.

>>7659303

fuck, this post. SO. MUCH. though tbh, I feel like guys in anime often suffer from lack of personality/really cliche personality stereotypes too. it's universal.

confession- I have only cosplayed a couple times, because I don't like having my picture taken and don't like fighting with weird garb/wigs/makeup all day when I'm trying to have fun at cons. I also don't wear anything cool fashion wise (jeans/tshirt/baggy sweaters every day) because I think I look too tryhard, and can't justify spending money on clothes past whatever I luck out and find at thrift shops.

But I love seeing cosplay, love living vicariously through progress threads, love planning exactly how I'd make such-and-such costume component. I love the frilliness of lolita and love that pastel goth/creepycute trend. So I keep coming back to this board.
So many saved pictures. So many unfufilled dreams.

>>7659695
You're not even addressing the issue in the first place, you just spiraled it around to make it all about you.

People here really don't give a fuck if you're trans. What they do care about: if you're annoying, self-obsessed, and causing drama by not admitting that yes, you were wrong to blindly call anyone who calls a girly male porn star a shemale transphobic. You didn't even understand what they meant! Jesus fuck, our community already gets enough hate without people acting like fucking retards. I've never met another openly trans person who wasn't a prick, an attention whore, or both. So far you're not looking to be an exception.

Sage for ot.

>>7659278
anon...I'm sorry but you ARE a SJW.

>>7659296
LITERAL fatphobia!

(Not the tumblr definition)

I'm fat and happy. Not really a confession, but it seems to be something that's condemned everywhere. I'm not one of those people that goes around talking about "OH LOOK AT ME, I'M FAT AN PROUD, FUCK ALL YOU SKINNY BITCHES" but I'm not ashamed of myself either. I eat the food that I like and I have a lazy lifestyle that I enjoy and I don't have any health issues that would be any cause for concern (My blood pressure and heart rate are both normal).

But I feel like, especially in cosplay and lolita you aren't allowed to be okay with whatever size you are even if you dress for your shape.

>>7657893
>Be 14
>Cosplaying for the second time in my entire life
>"Hey anon we are doing a photo shoot outside you should come with us."
>SO EXCITED I'M BEING ACKNOWLEDGED.
>Taking pictures of my cosplay
>"Could you take your shoes off?"
>wat
>That's weird but mmk I'll do it cuz I just want some people to hang out with.
>Go looking for photos 4 months later.
>Guy who took photos only posted pictures of me with bare feet.
>Top comments are of people saying they want to tickle them.
>Friend says dude bro must have a foot fetish.
>wat is foot fetish?
>14 year old me googles foot fetish
>Oh.
And that's how I unknowingly took feet fetish pictures at 14 years old.

>>7660471
That seems.... vaguely pedophilic.... and maybe illegal?

>>7657893
I feel horrible anger towards anyone who poses nude in cosplay. Particularly the whole Cosplay Deviants thing. How are you even cosplaying when all you're wearing is a pink wig at the end of your set? The bros that are all complementing your costume really just want to look at your tits they don't give two fucks about who you're cosplaying. I'm all for doing what you want but for some reason nude cosplay just sets me off.

I took a picture of a cosplayer I don't remember meeting (drunk) and made her my phone wallpaper. Really cute though. Pretty creepy

>>7660478
It's just feet, faggot

>>7660606
yeah but still sexual. and creepy.

>>7659813
But, if nobody else will give up their seat, why should anon give up his/hers?

If nobody else is willing to, there's no pressure to do it. The people looking are just as big of dicks as anon is in that case.

I'm consumed by hatred towards a cosplayer who used to be my friend. but then we got into a fight and she made me out to be this really bad person to all of our mutual friends and I've become this pariah.

I really hate how I feel because this hatred makes me feel like a bad person but at the same time, it's all her fault. Even today, she still trashes me for no reason even tho we've had no contact for months.

I wish I could I could raise an online army to trash her online to get back at all the rumors she started about me. I just want to see her miserable and depressed.

>>7660644
Don't stoop to their level. Two wrongs don't make a right, but two Wrights make a plane.

>>7660644
Take comfort in the knowledge that her negativity and apparent jealousy will continuously eat away at her on the inside and leave her friendless and depressed.

The sooner you let go of your hatred, the better your life will be. And the better your life, the more jealous she will be, and she will continue diving into a self-destructing cycle.

i half assed my last cosplay and was with 4 friends.

I'm going to a con alone now and i'm scared shitless. I'm trying to do a good job, and i'm overwhelmed. I don't know anyone who'd be able to help me, and even with the sticky FAQ my head's still spinning.

maybe i should just stick to motorcycles.

I'm what people call a 'sugar baby', and I use the money to pay for my cosplay. I feel really weird about it but I just can't afford it otherwise.

>>7660644

This just happened to me, and I'm sincerely fucking hoping you aren't who I think you are. Does your name, and your friend's name, start with A?

>>7660644
this almost identical thing happened to me anon, with my former high school best friend. She was the roommate from hell, and she tells everyone wherever she goes that I was the bad one. She's now on her fourth set of roomates/friends in two years. mfw I hear she did the same shit to the other two groups after me (and the current one I'm sure), too bad no one listened to my side of things.

>>7660679
Not that anon, but

as if they'd seriously tell you.

I keep putting in applications but ya know...no job. Poorfag here.

I want to see if I can make money from fetish modeling/camming but I'm too scared to do so. My bf is totally fine and ok with it since I wouldn't physically be with anyone.

But I'm too scared to do it due to the moral shit that comes with it.

....It feels good to get it off my chest.

I don't do cosplay or lolita, I tried once but I panicked before entering the con and went home

>>7660704
>being a prostitute

>>7660704
I totally get that feel, but I say just go for it. I felt that way for so long but then I ended up not having any choice because I was broke and had bills to pay and I don't feel nearly as bad about it as I thought I would. It's pretty easy, you only have to do it for a few hours a day and you make a pretty decent chunk of money.

>>7660719
You could get a job like a man has to

>>7660719
That's totally what I figured. With the number of different options out there you can make your own kind of terms and conditions. That's the only thing that makes me feel better about it. I was thinking of ways to make my own niche.

Is there anywhere you would recommend? I don't want to out you or anything if you're not comfortable.

/sage for no content

I really really really love MLP:FiM, but nobody in my lolita group of friends or my normalfag friends like it. I wish I could go to a meet up for mlp fans, but I know it's going to be mostly 'tism-tastic neckbeards and not a group of cute girls to just talk about pastel ponies and magic with.
>tfw just wanna talk about muh fluttershy

>>7660725
Except it's hard to get an "actual" job sometimes. I spent months running around with my resume trying to get a job, and I only got one interview that whole time. I couldn't even get a job at McDonads. My options ended up being escorting or camming when I finally ran out of time to pay the bills.

>>7660731
Exactly. I'm free to set my own terms and do as much or as little as I want, which is really nice. I'm on Angel Girl Studios, so I'd recommend that! The site looks a little sketchy tbh, but I had a good friend recommend it and it's very well run. I had an admin come in to make sure I was doing alright on my first day, you aren't obligated to do anything you aren't comfortable with, and you can block people that harass you or don't respect your limits. I haven't had any issues so far. You don't even have to get naked if you want- a lot of the guys on that site are lonely and just want to pretend they have a cute virtual girlfriend for an hour or two.
That was kind of a wall of text, sorry! Hopefully I helped you at least a bit though!

>>7660759

Come to Texas, anon. Let's be frilly pony friends.

>>7660771
No that helps a lot! I will check it out. I was thinking I could maybe use the virtual girlfriend thing as my niche and play up an innocent style for my room. That way I wouldn't have to show off anything I don't want to do but I wasn't sure if that would actually make any money.

I don't mind but at the same time I'm not super comfortable with my body but thought it be fun to maybe boost some self esteem? I def change my appearance and usually look a lot different when all my make up and wigs are on.

Is this one of the sites were you can set what countries can see you?

Thanks again for answering!

>>7660441
that's because people who are stealth/closet transfolk are much milder and less self obsessed, at least from my experience
i dont understand people who advertise the fact that they're trans. do they want a sticker or something?

>>7659073

Are you me?
They want to be boiz or just "genderless heehee"
>tfw no mature gf

I forgot which ALA it was but in a drunken stupor I took a shit in someone's bathtub full of drinks during a party

I don't cosplay. At all.
I lurk /cgl/ because it somehow feels the most welcoming/familiar to me.

For the most part, it's quirky and outgoing. Full of people who will actually have an argument and willing to admit when they're wrong.

>>7659073
Oh god anon, I feel you so hard.

>>7659073
>>7660961
14 year olds detected.

I feel like a horrible person because I am so fed up with all the gender arguements.
It's not that I dont respect people who are trans or whatever... it's just...shoved in my face all the time. and those people (who are mostly on tumblr) who freak the fuck out whenever you try to have an opinion. I dunno. I just dont want to hear it anymore.

>>7660835
Yeah, it works really well on this site- I just wear some cute clothes and act really sweet and it works pretty well. And you can set what countries, or certain states/provinces for the US and Canada if you prefer, can't see you. If you set it so a certain region can't see you, your profile won't even show up for them even if they search your username. And not a problem!

>>7657893
Girl I was with is now gone for good, and now i'm going to cons by myself and it's so weird and i'm just digging up old leads to find someone to go to cons with.

Like. When did I get so desperate for company? Cons used to be fun, now it's kinda lonely.

I think less of people if they even mention tumblr.

>>7660987
From the dawn of man, we've traveled in groups. You've rejoined the group culture and feel the need to continue being in one. That shit's normal, and not a bad thing.

Just choose your friends wisely; if you become too desperate for company, it might cloud your judgement.

>>7661009
No like, it's worse though. I used to do all these solitary things while working in forestry and hunting and trapping. and then she stuck me in the city, took me to cons and I feel like she domesticated me and took something away from me. how could this have happened. and how can I go back.

>>7660977
Same except for different reasons.
people don't realize that its not a form of expression its not pride its just a genetic fuck up
Thats not to say im against trans just true scum

>>7660759
Why do you like it, knowing full well that the fandom is absolutely terrible?

>>7661061
yeah, it's like everyone is jumping on a bandwagon and it's getting really old really fast.
Don't come to me asking me to call you some made up fucking pronoun bullshit because it's who you really are. No. it's not. you're just a pretentious bitch who needs to be different.

The /true/ trans people I know, don't make a big deal out of it so it irks me when everyone else does.

>>7661073
just because something has a shitty fandom doesn't mean you can't still enjoy it for what it is standalone.

>>7661073
>caring what the fandom is like

Are you saying that just because the fandom is crap, we should hate whatever it's connected with?

Or was that sarcasm?

>>7661077
Seriously. I just read some posts making up more "genders", apparently there is such thing as a magigender like demigenders and it's like... That's enough. I mean, whatever, call yourself what you want, but I just don't understand it...

Honestly, these little fucks will latch onto anything that isn't of the majority. In this case, ANYTHING to not be seen as... gasp, a dreaded cis person! How dare people be comfortable with their own gender, they're truly the scum of the earth!

I sincerely don't want to believe these people are real, sometimes.

incoming wall of text

I have a ton of friends who are cosplayers, and even though I try to support them, I think it's the dumbest fucking hobby in the world. I see them spending hundreds of dollars and wasting countless hours making costumes they only wear a handful of times a year. I'm starting to shit-talk them hardcore, especially when they start crying about having no money for food and say they had to borrow money for rent, etc.
I would almost feel bad, until I try to talk to some of them about the things that are going on my life, and then they're like, "yeah thats nice..." and just go right back to talking about cosplay-related fuckery. I dunno if i can handle this shit for much longer. what hits me the hardest is the fact that they bitch privately about other people in the community constantly, yet follow all of their social media accounts of these people they apparently "hate" and then act like tryhard faggots to them, since they think it'll get them noticed in the community because somehow that's important?
I want to stay friends with these people because they do have great qualities underneath all the cosplay slime, and some of them I've known for so many years, but the shitty change in attitude is just leaving me feeling lost and unsure of what to do.

Tumblr has gone from a fun place to share pictures and stupid reaction images to a hub for SJW assholes. But I still can't bring myself to leave it.

>>7661093
If you think its bad to be around them imagine if for you everyone of these fuckers gives less legitimacy to your own life. Its sad as fuck cause these people think there being forward and what they are actually doing is fucking up other peoples lives.

>>7661098
I really can't stand people who put cosplay before their adult responsibilities. Like that shit is privelege not right. get it together you twats.

like those people making gofundme accounts to try and get to AX. No. Fuck you.

I have a weird as fuck social phobia. Like, I can go out, but I always get tired really quickly and only sometimes do I worry about whether or not people are talking about me/staring.
I also tend to not talk to friends at all. Like, I consider them my good friends, but I don't txt them or pm them or anything unless they start the conversation. And I feel really lonely too. I wish I could talk with them 24/7 and visit them (my only good friends live 2 hours or more away) but I always feel like I'm annoying them or I run out of things to talk about and don't reply back.

Another thing is that there's this semi-annoying girl that lives right down the street from me, and I can call her a friend, but she's not really a friend to me. I lie to her all the time about being busy and pretend that my phone isn't working when she calls. I mean, she's nice, and pretty much the only person near me with similar interests, but she's a pathological liar, requires a LOT of energy to be around, obvious weeb "i dun give a fuck about what the normies think!!1" attitude, and dumped her nice boyfriend (who paid to come to the states to see her like twice and was always really nice to her) for some other dude whom she had been fawning over for months.
I just want to be able to have friends with similar interests and be able to hold daily conversations with them like a normal human being.

>>7661093

everyone is just people to me. I dont care what you have or don't have between your legs, you're a person.

and if you're an asshole I hate you. end of story.

I just got a part-time job but it's not one that I want or one that will help me further myself in my study field. I'm doing fine for money (on a small scholarship but I dislike being unemployed.
The negatives out way the positives in regards to hours I'd be working (late nights) and pay rate.

I'm not sure what to do.
-Keep the job and then when something better comes long, quit
-Decline the offer and keep waiting for something more relevant to my field

cgl related as I'd like more cash to spend on my cosplay

>>7660996
You're an idiot then.

>>7660654
Heh

>>7661110

I have friends who literally spend thousands of dollars a year on cosplay and conventions without a second thought. I guess it's their money and their life, but that doesn't stop me from laughing at them and thinking they're pathetic retards.

>>7658025
But anon
fake tits are shit

>>7658419
I'm often thinking of cute anime bouys when I fuck my BF because I was never physically attracted to him.
And I considere our relationship ideal.

Physical attraction is not necessary for a successful LTR, IMO. As long as he doesn't disgust you and it's only in imagination that you cheat on him...

I don't actually cosplay, I just come on this board for shits and giggles and occassionally a fap thread.

>>7661216
uh, ok hun. keep telling yourself that.

>>7661368
I don't find 3DPD attractive except youg Jensen Ackles, so it's that or being ronery.

You sound like a huge judgemental cunt.

>>7661216
Fantasizing in the bedroom is okay but physical attraction is also important.

>>7661310
me too. When I'm having a bad day I read lolita gossip and it cheers me up.

>>7661381
Yeah well basically it's a nice way to see females say what they actually think and to read stupid fucking stories from weeaboos.

>>7661376
Ok fine, I'm a huge judgemental cunt. It's just like... you become physically attracted to someone your in a long term relationship with eventually. I dunno. You're right, it's your sex life, what do I care.

I make fake dating site profiles using obscure pretty fashion models for the photos. Everything else is accurate about me however, like my hobbies and education and etc.

I do it because im ugly and i enjoy the attention i know id never get if i used my real photos.

I do feel bad for the really excited geeky boys who contact me and think im some hot nerd goddess come true.

>>7660704
My best friend does it.
She said it's not as bad as one would think. They can't see you and you can always say no to shit that's too weird. I considered doing the same thing, too.

>>7660704
Your BF sounds like a betafag.

Not that I'd be any better, but I feel like I wouldn't be okay with it.

>>7661439
IMO its more beta to care, if he doesn't care that shows he's trusting and confident

>>7661442
Maybe beta is subjective.

Still I don't know, I guess cams are really the lesser of all evils, there really isn't any contact at all. Still though, I like making sure my woman is mine. I'm sure that's pussy repellent or whatever.

>>7661428
Be more confident in yourself. Geeky boys who share your interests are going to like you regardless of how you look including me

>>7661387
I'm not exactly attractive, so my dating pool is low quality anyway.
I'm not one of yours, pretties who can date nice pretty boys.
I manage with what I can get. And I wholeheartedly prefer an ugly dude with a good personnality to a physically attractive supreme gentleman or other emotionally fucked up/poisonous poisonous people.

>>7661446
Depends how far you take it. My boyfriend is too jealous to be comfortable with the thought of me camming but I'm okay with that. My ex wouldn't even let me be friends with other straight guys, and that shit don't fly.

I really want to be loved by cgl. I try so hard to talk to tripfags at cons but I always get ignored or forgotten. When I go to meet ups I usually try to get into conversations but everyone seems to already have their circles. I really want some cool cosplay/lolita friends. The threads never work out for me cause the communication eventually get awkward or slows down.I just wanna be a loved seagull ;_;....

>tfw no gf
>tfw taken

I just want to touch boobies ;_;

I want to go to a con and cosplay but i'm a 21 y.o hairy chubby guy and there are no cons in my country. Even if there were i couldnt cosplay either as femboy nor manly guy.

>>7659296
I feel this way about people who have obvious mental disorders. When I see them I just can't deal and have to move away.

>>7661612
You and me both sister.

>>7657925
It's ok anon, I have a bad case of pica. I eat weird stuff too.

>>7661437
Thanks! It seems to be the growing thing and there are ways to do it where you aren't totally disrespecting your body and morals. You have control and no one can make you do anything. It's probably harder to not be in the more explicit side but there is a market for everything.

Also, being able to control who see what is a big draw since I can make sure no one in my general area see's it.

>>7661439
If that's what you thinks. He's confident in our relationship. I can get were a lot of guys wouldn't be comfortable with it. I can get where you're coming from too.

BUT when you need money and no one is contacting you back, certain things do get appealing.

>>7660656
that actually makes me feel better.

Intellectually, I know that my life is better than hers already; I have an awesome full time job and I have a good salary with awesome benefits. She's a part time cashier and her application for college just got rejected. Her boyfriend is jerk and most of her friends are abandonning her.

so I guess I kinda win...

>>7661612
I know those feels so fuckin' hard.

>>7661969
her life being shit compared to yours may be why she's been mean to you.

She's jelly maybe.

>>7661213
This

I'm having second thoughts about a con I've been excited for, for over a year because my friend who is my kind of ex, is getting into a relationship with someone else and she's gonna be ditching me half the time to spend time with her. I don't want to go to a con alone because the thought of being alone in a crowd of people I don't know scares the shit out of me. But the hotel is already paid for on my moms credit card and we were stupid and accidentally booked a non-refundable hotel. She wants her girlfriend to stay in the hotel with us and I'm really fucking uncomfortable with that. I'm at a point where I don't even wanna go anymore and my depression is taking over my mindset when I think about it

>>7662042
>lesbian drama
Not even once

>>7658393

It took me a sec, I was like why is Cable there.

Link, Cable. Got it....

>>7658919
>I'm surprised at how open people are open on their tumblrs. Naked pictures, and sex toys galore.

Links?

>>7659407
>nice and friendly the sellers can be

People that you do business with and give money to are nice because they want you to come back. I bet you think that waiter was super nice and the stripper was totally into you too?

>>7659412

There are very few women who aren't at least decently attractive when they are at a healthy weight.

>>7662099
you'd be surprised.

>>7661213
this, especially implants in small titties
it looks so fake and gross, if you're a flattie better stay a pettanko forever, it's cute

>>7662070
I don't think they meant self-post nudes and sex toys

>>7662109
yeah, most just do it to be edgy tbh
A friend of mine reblogs all the creepyyeha and "artsy" porn to show that "look! I'm a girl and I watch porn xDD"

>>7662099
yeah, you'd be surprised. Plus I personally don't think I'm that ugly, but for lolita and cosplay? Yeah I don't have a chance.

>>7660562

Well, I don't completely disagree with you. But, at least for me, it does matter what they are cosplaying.

Like, attractive women getting naked while wearing a wig, yea that's cool. But, attractive women getting naked while dressed as a favorite character is another level.

>>7662042
No. It's powerful word.

Tell your ex: " I am not comfortable with your ex staying with us - I'm sure you understand that. I want to have a good time at the con too and I think her staying with us would prevent me from having a good time. I hope you can understand how I feel."

You'll make new friends at the con, I'm sure of it <3

>>7661121
I feel you so hard on this one.

>tfw i have a crush on a straight friend which escalated because we cosplayed a popular yaoi ship to a con
And now we're cosplaying siblings which makes it a bit strange. But I dunno; I'm so picky and I feel this is my punishment

I don't feel like I belong to any "geeky" cultures. I don't like anime enough to feel like an anime fan, I don't play video games enough to feel like a gamer, I don't care at all for Dr Who. All I want is to feel like I fit in somewhere.

i wish i could make friends at cons. my costumes get a decent amount of attention, but only from creeps or weirdos. (i typically cosplay a loli character due to my babyface)
i see a lot of really hot people at cons too. sometimes i get really aroused because there's so many hot people. boys and girls both. if i wasn't already sure i was bisexual cons would give me a serious identity crisis. thank god my boners arent visible.
speaking of which, at AX someone said i looked like a cosplayer named "mizuki" or something, does anybody know her? i'm really curious. sorry to go off topic.

>>7662124
>>7662106

Eh, I stand by my statement. But maybe I have low standards. Or you are too hard on yourself.

The world may never know.

>>7658286
>lives in Florida
>Orlando
Shutttt the fuck up.

>>7657966
There's a lot of truth to this. Cravings come usually from either a nutrient deficiency or an addiction. And considering kibble probably isn't physically addictive like let's say heroin, it's probably a lack of nutrients somewhere else in your diet.

Then again, if you grew up on Asian snacks, a pretty common theme is crunchy savory/salty seafood and meaty flavors. I can't see how kibble is too far from that. You're totally justified.

I might only be saying that because the more I think about it, the more I'd be willing to pay money to get this on video. For reasons.

>>7658616
Eat some dog food. This thread tells me it's not so bad

>>7662261
what dat mean, kuwait?

>>7662261
What? I live in Europe.

I limit myself to carrots and celery a week before any shoot/con. I also exercise heavily before any cosplay event too.
Then I go back to my horrible diet and get all flabby and I don't even care because food makes me happy.

All I want is one good girl friend. Friendships with guys always get weird and anyway, it's a totally different thing. I'm in my late 20s and I feel like I'm never gonna have a close friend again. I don't even know how to go about it. All my hobbies are reclusive and I'm hesitant to join any groups. I seldom go to social events but when I do I'm pretty outgoing and have no problem talking to other people. I just haven't made any meaningful connections. I don't care if they share my interests as long as they're down-to-earth and easy to get along with.
>tfw your best friend died years ago.
>tfw you don't think you'll ever be close to anyone again.
>tfw too many feels.

>>7660665
Psh have more fun.
Don't stress, organic growth and all that.

Faggot

>>7662396

Friend thread: >>7654415
Worth a shot, at least.

Also, the words "never" and "ever" are way too distant for you to be using them. Especially when you're only in your late 20s. It's always hard to make a very close friend, but it's possible. My uncle once told me that most people get only one BEST friend (meaning, a person that they would kill and die for, that they are like brothers/sisters and would vouch for in any given situation), but that he was lucky enough to make 3.

It's possible to make more close friends, you just have to be selective. I wish you the best of luck.

>>7662396
Are you a girl too?

>tfw all of your acquaintances/friends since high school have been gay guys and you don't know how to interact with any other people, let alone other girls

I have a fetish for tights, stockings, etc and I stalk my lolita friends' facebooks and then fap to the pictures of them in their costumes. Nobody wears fancy stockings like girls in lolita, it's great. I feel like a massive creep though.

>>7662198
A pretty good description of why people are friends are
1. Same interests
2. Same situation
3. Same geographic location

3 usually makes things the easiest/harder to maintain relationships without it, but you really only need two of the three. Take that as you will.

>>7657925
I am now fantasizing about a cute girl wearing a petticoat and a leash bending over onto the ground eating out of a dog bowl. You have yourself to blame for that.

>>7662410
Thank you. Funny, that's exactly how I felt. We were like sisters, I would have killed or died for her and we went through so much together during those weird, awkward years of middle and high school. It is a bit silly to use absolutes. I just get so lonely and feel like a pariah. It seems like everyone already has their pre-established groups and relationships already and I'm the odd person out. But there I go with absolutes again. "Everyone." I will try the friend thread!

>>7662447
Yes, I'm a girl too. I grew up primarily around boys in my family and neighborhood. At school girls usually picked on me or pretended to be my friend and trash talked me behind my back. I am the stereotypical "gets-along-better-with guys" but not by choice! Most of the time boys were looking for something more and it would end when I didn't want to go there. I hung out with a few girls in my adulthood, trying for friends, but it was always very shallow and I'd end up getting disillusioned and disappearing. Lame.

>>7662396
Similar feel, but with a twist
>into not typically girly hobbies
>friends I have are male, and either get "friendzoned" and then whine about it or tend to be a tad patronising
>girl friends I have are either really girly and into your typical girl hobbies, or not girly but into the whole tumblr hipster ~omg I LOVE reading and drinking tea~ type stuff. So I'm stuck feeling like a big ol' trucker bulldyke.

>>7662396
>>Friendships with guys always get weird and anyway, it's a totally different thing.

>>tfw you want nothing more than a normal friendship with a woman
>>tfw they always end up assuming you're a creep
>>tfw it's always "different"
>>tfw even if you defend yourself and tell them you're not interested they still suspect and treat you differently
>>tfw thirsty beta males have ruined normal friendship for everyone

>>7662540
oh and if perchance I do interact with another girl that I don't know well I'm always scared she'll think I'm gay or hitting on her if I compliment her or something.

>>7662544
>>7662543
>>7662536
c-can we all be friends, at least online

>>7662540
>> ~omg I LOVE reading and drinking tea~

Holy fuck I hate this. You could drink a sea of tea and read every library on Earth and you'll still be a stupid bitch, tumblrina.

>>7662540
iktf anon. I forgot the patronizing part. There were two friends in particular who would always talk over and interrupt me too. It wouldn't even be about the same subject either.

Me: So the other day I'm out at the store and this lady starts-----
Guy Friend: Oh! Hey they're having a screening of whatevertheobscurefuck at whatevertheobscurefuckingplace on Friday and guess who's gonna be there?
Guy Friend 2: Whoeverthefuck
Me: -dies a little inside-

>>7662543
Sucks, bro. I'm not opposed to being friend with guys necessarily. But I swear it's like 10/10 that every single guy I've hung out with has ended up wanting to date me and then dropping off in a sea of butthurt because I'm not gonna go there. I hate how conceited that sounds, but it's painfully true. Every time I lose a guy friend it really hurts. I'm not a flirty, attention-seeker either. I put up healthy boundaries but I'm also really chill and friendly so Idk. Hope you find a cool platonic girl friend soon.

>>7660619
Yeah, that's true, but two assholes don't make a nice person. They are ALL fucking assholes.
I always get up. And if I'm already standing and people don't get up for an elder I glare at them. When I'm brave I'll even say something. This makes me feel like I'm a better person than others. The fact that I'm not a vegetarian makes me feel worse.
Trail of thought...

>>7662586
>tfw I have one single friend who's a girl
>she acts flirty around me all the time when she's with her boyfriend just to make him jealous
>I always give her this look like "I'm not even doing this shit today."

>>7657925
When I was.... I don't remember how old, like 7 or 9 or something I convinced my friend to start eating cat food like me. When our parents found out they freaked and for some reason automatically assumed she was the one who came up with it. My parents still refer to her as "that friend who made you eat cat food when you were little".

>tfw no cat so no excuse for snacking on cat food anymore
Other shit I like snacking on includes whole chili peppers and raw mushrooms. I need more legit savoury snacks but all I can find in the supermarket is bland as fuck or super fattening.

>>7662590
popcorn isn't fattening
I also make "popcorn" out of cauliflower

>>7662586
i'm in college, and didn't really have any friends in high school. i think because i was shy, but not afraid to stand up for myself. i mean, i didn't really have enemies but i was just alone all the time. now that im in college i'm realizing how difficult it is to make friends with just about anyone. guys only want sex literally 100% of the time, that or they get jealous when you hang out with any other guys. i tried to make friends with a fellow gamer and he instantly got really creepy and wanted to "make me his" and asked if i'd had boyfriends before. he was also like four years older than me, which isn't a lot but is enough to make that behaviour creepier.
i mean, everyone gets horny, fuck. but these guys are literal infants. they're so needy and openly incompetent about treating girls like people and not attainable commodities or their ticket to an active sex life, if they can only dupe us into catching feelings for them.
the ironic thing is, i get horny too and would probably do casual sex if guys didn't get super clingy and try to emotionally manipulate me. LOL

>>7662586
It doesnžt sound conceited at all, anon. A few times I told some people in the very beginning "Ižm not looking for a relationship" but the two things they end up saying are:
Option 1: "GOSH you're so full of yourself, you think everyone is trying to get into your pants"
Option 2: says - "hehehe okay anon I understand :3" (thinks - "maybe in time she will grow to love me! I must show her the power of my kind, whiteknight heart and sweep her off my feet!") and then I get called a bitch when he whines to his friends how I dun wuuuv hiiim waaaah wimmin r bitches when I have clearly stated I'm not interested in the beginning.

>>7662622
holy shit sorry my keyboard wasn't set on English.
I meant
>doesn't
>I'm

>>7662586
>>7662614
Yeah idk what is wrong with these people, if you get so fucking horny that you need to start glomming on random people maybe it's just time to jerk off before you go outside.

>>7662614
So frustrating, anon. I had this one "friend" who hung out with me all summer, watching movies, going around town, he even helped me babysit my sisters one night and we had a lot of fun. He said I would make a wonderful mom and that I was the perfect woman, kind and sweet and pretty. Red flag. A couple weeks down the line he tried to drunkenly grope me. I turn him down. Forgive him because he was drunk. Happens again. I cut him off. Find out he's going around telling everyone I'm a ugly drunk and a whore. I actually cried, it hurt my feelings so much. We've known each other since 4th grade.

>>7662661
*an ugly drunk. Probably should have green texted all that but oh well.

>>7662661
>>He said I would make a wonderful mom and that I was the perfect woman, kind and sweet and pretty.
>>Red flag
Wut?

>>7662682
She meant red flag as in "hint that he was interested in her and trying to be more than a friend"

>>7662689
Oh, fair enough. That just sounds like a sweet compliment at face level but I guess the circumstances made it weird.

>>7662689

yes. this.

>>7660366
You should just go for it girl. No one will judge you for putting more effort into your appearance, and it really helps your self-esteem when you feel good about how you look. If you're not sure where to begin, just start with buying a few basic pieces - look at images you like and identify why you like them, then buy shit.

>>7660725
There are plenty of male webcam strippers

>>7662614
definitely so true, college is so hard to make opposite gendered friends in.
I have one straight, male friend, and I think our relationship only works because he's dating my other female best friend.
>tfw boyfriend has a ton of female friends
>half of them want to bone him
>the other half he mentions a lot and compliments "oh she's lost a lot of weight, she's pretty now" "yeah she's so nice and smart, she's amazing"
>he means well, he's just oblivious
>i understand now why girls are catty bitches to random female friend-of-friends

>>7657893
Broke up with my bf about 2 months ago because his life got a bit fucked over and he flirted with one of my friends when we were on break, also had "cheated" on me with other girls before in our relationship. (that being making out with them while drunk, and got a handjob from his ex)

Problem is I still kind of like him and he likes me too and it's all just really shitty, we agreed to get our shit together and maybe try going out with other people or whatever, but honestly I just want to be with him again and do all the stuff we did before.
I kind of want to reject him and tell him to stop flirting with me but I also just want to get together with him again, it's very conflicting.

Also my friends were happy when we broke up which baffled me a bit and makes me a bit nervous about getting together with him again. I know it may sound super stupid but I just needed to vent out I guess.

>>7662170
yeah I told her that it would make me uncomfortable and she said "we need to make it as cheap as possible blahblah" and I did something not the best and said "well me being comfortable is more important plus its on MY moms credit card" i was upset and in the moment but it kinda seems to be in the past (i was able to talk to her normally today)
my biggest issue is being alone. Even though I'm medicated, I still have social anxiety and the thought of trying to befriend strangers who are too concerned about their own friends scares the shit out of me. I'm trying to invite another friend of mine to go with me but he's throwing the maybe card a lot. I guess I need to not really think about it and just go with the flow since I have a tendency to over plan things

>>7662575
That's honestly sad that you accept that, no wonder they do that to you. I would be like the fuck dude, I was talking. and if they kept on trying, get rid of them, because they obviously have no respect for you.

>>7662901
I did stand up for myself after like the third time it happened. Yes, it took a while, but by then I felt completely justified and I was really angry. I said "Can you stop interrupting me? It's really disrespectful and I'm tired of you talking over me." I felt a little shaky, but I was firm and it was such a relief. I have had trouble sticking up for myself in the past, even though I wouldn't consider myself shy or quiet I'm not very confrontational.

>>7662856
he didn't "cheat", he cheated. Get away from that loser.

>>7662856
oh no. bad news. your feelings are your worst enemy right now. he's already showed you what he's capable of and that's not going to change. going back is just signing yourself up for more heartache. you may still have feelings, you may still be attracted, he may ruffle you by flirting or showing interest, but you're in for an emotional ride through the dirt if you don't value yourself enough to STAY AWAY FROM HIM.

>>7662356
I think they meant to say that you don't have it as bad as they do because they live in one of the most touristy area of the world.

>>7663137
I live in Paris.

>>7663041
Well that's good to hear. I'm glad it helped you stand up for yourself, anon.

I still feel burning shame from the first con I went to. I did some stupid weeaboo-tier stuff and acted terrible, and the second time I went I wasn't as bad, but I closet cosplayed a Homestuck troll.

Father forgive me for my sins.

I just want to do a couple cosplay with someone.

I'm pretty bitter and frustrated about it.

>>7662661
its true. i'm so sorry he hurt your feelings- it's borderline psychotic how guys will go to so much effort to get us to let our guards down and accept them as good friends and then they try to shove their dicks down our throats and get butthurt when we're, at the least, emotionally conflicted about changing the nature of the friendship we had and enjoyed with them.
i mean shoving dicks as a euphemism but actually one guy friend i had got drunk with me and shoved my face aggressively into his (clothed) crotch. cue me never speaking to him again. i mean we were both fucked up, but still.
idk what's so difficult to understand: we're people first. but so many guys think of us as "girls" before they think of us as people, and it's the worst shit. i hope i'm articulating myself well lol.
i feel you. and these guys ruin potential friendships with non-assholes. it's a lose-lose

My confession is that I am sick to death of so much Loli-fied crap in coordinates. I know it's petty to think this but I feel like it's barely trying.

>>7663999
Same anon that you responded to. I feel for you, girl. I had a guy start jacking off over me when he thought I was asleep. Back story:
>Used to hang out with this guy in junior high.
>Dude has a flirty nature so never took it personally when he said little things to me here and there.
>Always respectful and seemed to have a lot of pride and dignity.
>Stop hanging out for a few years as I move out of state.
>Flash forward a couple years and I'm back in town.
>End up at his house doing mushrooms.
>Late night, early morning, stuck there, tripping balls.
>Friend has progressed from decent guy with flirty undertones to full on degenerate pervert, begging to see my tits, trying to bully me into sex.
>Tell him to leave me alone, that I just want to sleep and leave first thing in the morning.
>Curl up in ball on couch in farthest corner of the room.
>In between sleep and waking, still tripping.
>Hear dat unmistakable fappity-fap-fap sound.
>Open horrified, disbelieving eyes to former friend crouched over me, stroking away.
>Scream out "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING??"
>No shame, no shock, guy says "Well, that's what you drive a man to. What else was I supposed to do."
>Grab things and proceed to walk miles home in darkness, still tripping, sick and sad and shaken.
>mfw probably still justifies it by saying I was "asking for it."

>>7663999
And yes! The whole "people first" thing. I started developing breasts at nine and it really changes your perception of the world. Even grown-ass men start looking at you. I remember boys at school cornering me, asking to see them. I've had so many guys ask to see my butt or boobs as if I wasn't even a human being with any sort of emotion or thought. Like how is that supposed to make me feel? I'm not even trying to be all SJW feminist about it, but it is seriously the most degrading thing having complete strangers come up to you with the expectation that you will get naked for them just because they asked.

I'm always thinking of posting this girl I hate here... she's stupid, fat and thinks she's the best cosplayer/lolita in the world.
And I'm not the only one who hates her in my local com, but I know CGL might actually like her or find me. Sometimes I post her on the Ita threads.

I want to be a pretty girl, but at the same time I'm pretty happy being a guy.

I wish I could switch between being either or freely

New thread:
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>>7659313
>>7659695
she-male is a porn term. The whole point of porn is what people have between their legs.

>>7666300
Pretty sure that's what the term "genderqueer" meant before tumblr fucked it up.