/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>capture the flag girl from last thread
>don't have local friends
>bfs friends practically ignore me because they don't find me attractive due to my race (what my bf tells me anyway)
>was going to go out with friends I made on /cgl/ (I'm the only one with a car) for the first time
>this will be my first positive socialization with local people for a year
>be a pushover and let bf use car (I assume for a day)
>he's gone with the car the entire weekend
>I'm home alone and start overthinking things
>oh god what If I've been ignored because of my race
>oh god it would all make sense
>I just want friends, I don't like being unnoticeable, what asshole guys ignore a girl because they aren't attracted to her and why is this so common
>break down crying
>text bf in tears
>tell him I don't enjoy being mistreated because of my race (happens often) let alone ignored because of it
>tell him I'm depressed and have been for a while and I've been hiding it for him
>get one single text back "what do you want me to do about it"

am I being an overdramatic baby? or should I leave him because he and his friends are shit?

>>7817244
>people ignoring you and taking advantage of your kindness
So you're white too, eh?

>had horrible time pre-university
>was very stressful due to politics and drama affecting actual schoolwork
>had no exams so every piece of schoolwork counted into final grade
>slept less than 4 hours daily just to complete work
>also had a boyfriend who was very emotionally dependant on me

>took gap year
>dump bf last month

>will start my new university program next monday
>am anxious like shit
>will it be like pre-university - or worse? the competitiveness, backstabbing, power struggles, love hexagons and all
>am i even gonna make a single friend
>dread dread dread

>>7817248
yes, and that's why someone shouted "NIGGER" at me from their car


>>7817254
university is amazing you'll do fine and make friends.

>>7817244
Leave him right now.

>tfw want to post in the suggestion thread but am too spooked by the thought of someone calling me ugly or recognizing me

>>7817244
Did you let your bf know you needed the car at all that weekend? Cause that would mean you're at fault there. But he sounds like a fucking douche. He doesn't seem to care about your feelings and doesn't seem to want to tell his friends they are being retarded. If I were you I would have dumped his ass a long time ago. You can find someone who actually appreciates you anon.

>>7817271
>tfw same feel

>>7817244
No one has the right to make you feel like shit. The people around you are supposed to enrich your life and your significant other is supposed to support you.

I would go and find some people that enjoy my company and didn't treat me like shit. I know that is easy for me to say. But you can do it. Don't let fear hold you back. If he really felt for you he wouldn't let his friends treat you bad, take your car the whole weekend or come back with such a dumb comment.

>>7817244
What country are you from anon, also your bf is shit

>>7817273
he did know I needed it, but didn't believe I'd actually leave the house since I usually cancel my plans last minute because I'm generally scared.
my /cgl/ friends have been really supportive and messaging me constantly and I've finally gotten to a point where I am comfortable and know these people enough to spend a day with them.

He knows I don't like his friends, and I tell him if the ignoring/interrupting gets out of hand I will say something, something from the heart.

he just told me "please don't do that, then you'll get ignored because everyone will think you're a bitch."

>>7817278
>he just told me "please don't do that, then you'll get ignored because everyone will think you're a bitch."
And, seeing as they're his friends, his job is to defend you.

Girl no wonder you feel like garbage with someone like that to "depend" on. You'd literally be better off dating Cleverbot.

>>7817282
>that feel

>>7817271
>tfw scared of posting body onto suggestion thread in fear of seagulls calling you a fitfag and to gtfo of cgl for being fit even though I don't visit the /fit/ board

>>7817278
Better to be ignored for an opinion you have than for your race.

Don't let these people disrespect you. There are other ways of making a stand besides saying something. Don't hang out with them. Don't let them in your house. Don't loan out your car if they are going to be driven around in it. It's your time and your car. I wouldn't be wasting it with people who were arseholes to me.

>>7817244
>"what do you want me to do about it"
Oh god, get your car back from him and fucking DUMP HIS ASS. That is fucking ridiculous.

>>7817215
>socially awkward autist in my comm has latched onto me and a few other girls
> Asks me the same questions every meet "Where can I buy a petti?" "Can you link me to some makeup tutorials? " "Where can I find loliable shoes?"
> I pointed out to her I've already answered these questions several times. She then went on fb asking other comm members if I hated her because I snapped.
> Followed me about local con, got offended when I asked for some privacy because I was talking about some personal problems with a friend.
> Has been posted to ita threads/btb occasionally, will flood fb for days later about how mean people are and how she isn't worthy for such a lovely fashion.

How do I shake the autist without being told off by the mods?

>>7817244
What do you want me to do about it isn't necessarily as insensitive as it sounds. He probably just has no idea how to deal with it so he's asking you.

>>7817244
>boyfriend tells you his friends ignore you because of your race (I'm assuming)
>tell him you don't appreciate it
>"what do you want me to do about it"
Idk get friends who aren't racist shits? They're not obligated to find you attractive but they shouldn't be fucking ignoring and disrespecting you.
Agreeing with the other that you'd be a lot better off dumping this asshole and finding better company. It might be difficult at first but you will be so much happier when you've found people who actually appreciate you and don't take advantage of you.

>>7817364
Uh, comfort her? That's what significant others are supposed to do when you feel like shit.
He can't directly get everyone to stop being assholes, but he can at least be sympathetic toward her feelings.

Biting.
> join military
> move over a thousand miles away from a cosplay friends.
> local con is completely shit. Can't exaggerate just how crappy this thing is.
> no cosplay friends or anyone to help craft.
> friends suck with cameras as well.
> just nothing.

(Pic not related. )

>>7817364

See >>7817278

>He knows I don't like his friends, and I tell him if the ignoring/interrupting gets out of hand I will say something, something from the heart.

He has repeatedly shown that he doesn't give two shits about how she feels. He's not asking for her to help him with being more sensitive - based on context, it sounds like "these are my friends, bros before hos hurrrrr you don't like them you can leave."

And OP, you should leave. He's neglecting your social needs and isn't making an effort to support you against his friends.

>last boyfriend always made sure to make me feel included even if it was awkward hanging out with his close knit group of friends
>always asked me if I was all right if I was too quiet

That's the type of behavior you want from your BF. Maybe not quite as extreme, but he should always be making sure you're comfortable.

>>7817244
>the I'm girl that said you reminded her of kellam

I agree with everyone else that you should leave him. You're not being overdramatic at all. A guy who acts like that is no boyfriend material and you'll be a lot happier without him. Get far away from the shits as you can.

>>7817373
which branch?
I know that feel right now, we might be closer than you think!

>never gone to a con before
>plan to go to con with group of 4 friends
>I make the hotel arrangements a month in advance, sign up for all con pass
>friends all flake the week before, hotel already paid for, decide to go to con by myself
>arrive afternoon on first day of con
>all these girls are so pretty
>feel unattractive for the first time in my life
>feel intimidated every time I see another girl dolled up
>super self conscious about being at con alone
>spend rest of con hanging out with random groups I meet
>meet random group of people, hang out for like an hour, split from group after I feel weird encroaching on their space, repeat for remainder of con
>most of con is spent with boys or groups of mostly boys
>nobody ever compliments my dress
>nobody ever comments on my dress
>evening of last night of con, meet 6' asian guy, 2 years older than me
>spend like 30 minutes talking while waiting in line, I think maybe we are hitting it off
>I follow him back to his hotel, conversation continues as we walk
>as we're in the hotel elevator he starts talking about how he's really tired
>we get to the hotel and I go to the bathroom to take a dump that I've been holding all day, when I get out he is passed asleep on bed
>it's 1 AM, don't feel safe walking alone outside to hotel half a mile away
>sleep on floor of his hotel room
>next morning I wake up, he's left
>still haven't deleted his number from my phone

>>7817696
>not going before
>not holding it in while being rammed, feels like being stuffed with two.
>guys dont ask for it you have to offer

>bf and I live together with a few friends
>he keeps getting fired from jobs
>constantly needs my help to pay rent
>doing whatever I can, cutting my own spending on hobbies, food etc. so he can get by
>job is cutting my hours because they overstaffed like a bunch of idiots
>lucky if I break double-digits in hours weekly
>can't get a better job because uni takes priority
>savings account is drained
>checking account is pocket change
>keep having to sell possessions online to make rent
>almost out of non-loli possessions to sell, will soon have to sell some of my dresses
>I have emotional attachments to all of my dresses, will kill me to sell them but living is more important
>bf lost his wallet now, had his bank cards, license, and social security card inside
>now has no chance of getting a job because ID is so necessary until we go to a bunch of government offices to replace it all
>he has depression so I can't be too upset at him for his lack of motivation and meh work performance
>also have depression, have not had the money to refill my prescription/continue seeing my psychiatrist
>stay awake crying some nights when he falls asleep due to money stress
>think of breaking up way too often because of money, I could get back on my feet without him to support
>but I still love him, it's just money
>this is probably all over the place and I'm sorry I just wanted to vent feels

>>7817733
you two just have bad luck, be happy its not him being a slob or avoiding getting a job
stand by each other, if you brave this storm, youlll be closer than ever before since you know he will stick with you no matter what life throws at you

>>7817278
You shouldn't even have to hang out with his friends in the first place - they're his friends, not yours, ignore them all you want. Who cares if they think you're a bitch? You don't owe them anything, you don't need to impress them and nor does he. If they're his friends they should be supportive of him.

Also, it's your car so you get to do whatever you want with it. Don't be a pushover and assert yourself.

His friends are shitty to both you and him because they're also disrespecting him by disrespecting you. He's also a shit because he lacks integrity and doesn't seem to care how you feel. Altogether, they don't seem like worthwhile people.

My best cosplay friend, who happens to be black, is becoming a rabid sjw person, but only in relation to black people, everyone else needs to stop being so sensitive, according to her. We used to have a lot of fun tearing shitty costumes apart at cons (to ourselves, obviously, never insulting the person directly because who the fuck would do that). It's always been construction based rather than physical traits, but since she's started acting this way, if I call out a black cosplayer on their crappy materials or construction, she gets offended and says I shouldn't talk about them that way. Then she'll turn around and shit all over some non-black person's costumes no problem. I just sort of rolled my eyes through our last con because I didn't want to start drama over something that stupid, but the next time it happens, I'm going to call her out on being such a huge hypocrite.
Sorry, I just needed to vent a little.

>>7817733
Has he got parents or family that can help him out? Can he move back home? What about welfare?

You probably need to make it clear to him that you're not in a position where you can financially support him at this time and he needs to do something about it, whether he gets a job, moves in with his parents/family/someone, or goes on the benefit if he isn't already.

>>7817733
kick him out, you deserve better gurl

>>7817741
This sucks, a similar thing happened with my ex turning full SJW. We actually ended up breaking up over the fact that he was just so horrible to be around (and though the same of me because I'm not a SJW idiot). My new guy though happily browses /cgl/ with me, loves lolita drama and even makes fun of this bitch in my cosplay comm with me. i hope things work out for you and your friend!

>>7817745
He has no family support. He was raised by his grandparents who, when he has work, constantly ask him for money to pay their bills because they spent a few thousand on expensive car parts instead of their electricity. He has no father, and his mother prefers to pretend he doesn't exist -- she even recently asked me if, on top of everything else, I could add him to my cell phone plan so she didn't have to bother with it anymore. I'm the only one willing to financially support him.

He's way too proud to go on welfare, even though he's really the most qualified out of any of us to be on it. Recently I brought up applying for food stamps just so we don't have to worry about putting what little income we have towards food, and he begrudgingly accepted the idea, so hopefully that works out.

It would probably kill him inside if he had to move back in with his family, which is why I've been fighting so hard for him not to. But I just can't keep it up if he's not doing anything in return to prevent it from happening. One of our roommates has promised to help him with rent this month one last time, but if he hasn't found work by the end of next month I think neither me nor anyone else here is going to help him out. It's awful, but he's in so much debt to all of us already, and I think he's beginning to become dependent on our money... it makes me sick to think about, but I don't want to be dragged down forever by him. Own life to live and whatever. Even if it hurts me at this very moment, it'll be better in the future...

>problems with moths for several months
>discover today that there's a cocoon and larvae nest in emergency bag
>next to my bed
>2 ft away from lolita closet

Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. Posting this between vacuuming, washing, vacuuming and burning shit. Fuck moths.

>>7817777
>too proud to go on welfare
>he
I hate to break it to you, anon, but the welfare system does not support most women without a child, let alone a man. Hopefully foodstamps will work out for him, but it's doubtful that he could even get cash.

>find out two cosplayers I admire and look up to are going to be at local con
>one of their costumes was actually what pushed me out of a 3 year hiatus to go back to cosplaying, as I pretty much went "I want to be that good one day" when I saw it
>returning to cosplay actually helped me make some friends in the community and improved my self esteem
>want to tell them how much I love their work and how they made a positive impact on my life, but afraid to creep them out

I'd love to bring them some kind of gift and tell them they're awesome, but since they'll most likely be judges in the contest it would risk causing problems ;w;

>>7817733
Honestly, there is nothing wrong with telling him you cannot support him anymore. It doesn't mean you don't love him, it doesn't mean you have to break up (unless he's shitty about it or you're overly nuturing to the point where you're going to ruin yourself taking care of him if you stay with him), it just means you need to set boundaries financially and that you both need to recognize that you are not in a position that will allow you to care for him like this. You shouldn't have to sell the things that matter to you, and you definitely should not just stop taking meds abruptly because you're too busy paying your boyfriend's bills.

I say this as someone with severe depression. I understand losing jobs. I understand being stressed about money. But ultimately, he needs to take care of his shit, swallow his pride, and do his best to keep whatever job he can get. The longer you continue trying to support him financially, the worse it will be for both of you.

He doesn't need an ID to work odd jobs until his replacement documents come in. Have him look for handy work on craigslist or put up notices for any services he could offer locally (cleaning, lawn care, whatever). If he can get government/state assistance, he needs to do so. I think what you said in >>7817777 is for the best, about not helping him anymore if he can't find work by the end of next month. You can't let yourself become responsible for someone who won't help himself.

Sorry to preach, I just hate to see people in these crappy situations, especially someone as kind as you obviously are to have put so much in for him. Take care of yourself, anon, and best of luck to everyone.

>Necer done a group cosplay
>Tag friends on facebook about cosplaying from semi obscure ps1 game
>They actually show interest in cosplaying from it
> Two have already told me that they'll try to get it done for our next convention
>One even wants to do the armor version together as well

I have the best friends in the world.

>>7817779
>problems with moths
How is that bad, moths are kawa-
>lolita closet
Oh. Fuck that.

>tfw all treble
>tfw no base

>>7817779

Fuck anon that is my worst fear. That and moldy clothes. Best of luck and may your clothes be protected against moths in the years to come.

>>7817733
All that stress and unhappiness is a result of you dating him. Your actions relate to your happiness.

>tfw you're starting to fall out of cosplay

I used to visit cgl almost everyday and this is the first time I've gone on in over 2 months now. I've started turning off posts from cosplayers in my area on my facebook feed, haven't touched any of my accounts and have been completely unmotivated when it comes to adding things to my cosplay lists.

It makes me kind of sad. I still watch anime and play video games but didn't think I would fall out of it at this age (I'm 21 and have been cosplaying since I was 16) but I'm just finding myself more and more interested in other hobbies and actually seeing cosplay as a waste of time and money. I never thought I would ever think that.

>>7817244
He sounds like a dick and you should dump his sorry ass.

Things went surprisingly well today cgl.

>got ready for a tea party at noon
>wore toned down lolita because I had work right after and no time to change
>no wig, no fancy bag, no circle lenses
>just jsk, tights, bolero, and tea parties
>mom actually showed up to the tea party with me and didn't flake like usual
>we had a good time; older ladies loved my dress

>later at work
>designer clothing retail
>braced myself because I was sure people would be dicks
>most coworkers were actually really nice to me and gave me compliments
>only the already bitchy ones did weird shit like not make eye contact with me/twisted half-smiles

>manning the dressing room
>customers love my outfit
>ask me for opinions about clothes and bags
>they rarely did that when I was in normal clothes
>everyone suddenly believes I'm a fashion guru due to obscure clothes
They mainly asked where my dress was from, how much they loved the print, etc. I tried to mention that I had been at a tea party because so many said I looked like Alice in Wonderland. I think I only mentioned to a couple people that it's a street fashion. Though really, I'd rather have them believe it's an event-specific outfit than try to explain what lolita actually is, since others have assumed it's a fetish from just mentioning the name (and I can tell from their eyes that they never get past that). Wouldn't want a confused customer trying to tell my manager that I'm bringing a fetish to work..aheh.

>>7817777
I'm sorry about your situation, anon. What the others have said is definitely true, you absolutely cannot let him ruin you financially, and sell your precious things to help him out. He's not your husband.

If you love him and are commited, you can still be by his side and support him emotionally, and he should understand that you are not in a position to pay for him. Please take care of your needs first.

> con is months away
> want to cosplay
> con is now a couple weeks away
> made no progress on cosplay and decide not to do it this year
> Rinse and repeat

>>7817789
You could always give the present to them after the contest?
I would love to hear that I've inspired someone, so do it.

>>7817733
honey you might say "it's just money" but at this age you should really be thinking about your future. Why does he keep getting fired from jobs? Is it his fault? Do you want to have to support someone like this your whole life when it seems like you would be so much better off by yourself? Is he selling his things as well? I started to fall out of love with someone because they were completely lazy and I was the main money support, and they weren't even making an effort. Later down the road he showed even more negative attributes, and I got out of there. Now I'm with someone who's even more motivated than me, we take turns paying for things, and I know we will never be in too much trouble because we are both determined to have successful lives. It's about give and take and finding someone who fits you not only emotionally but in a practical sense. Does he?

>Senpai liked my photo on facebook
>Its an unflattering angle and a bad pose
>OH WELL SENPAI NOTICED ME

>My comm is mostly older girls, I'm 30+ myself.
>A wild pre-teen appears!
>The pre-teen clings to you for some reason!
You don't fucking understand, I hate kids, I'm an old fuck I hate interacting with immature people, get the fuck off my lawn.
I'm doing my best to be guiding and nice but I really just don't want to interact with her.
I was there once and I get that, my ita ass could have used a mentor. I just don't want to be one, but I don't have it in me to just ignore her.
I'm going to grit my teeth and deal with it, but I just wish she would find friends her age.

>>7818260
Similar feels, anon
>old crush from when I was a kid 'liked' a photo of me
>tfw it takes senpai like 7 years to notice you

>>7817215
>tfw you're 28 and are entering the creepy old guy phase and will be there until old enough to cosplay Rayleigh

>anon with crazy roommate from last thread
>she likes to start drama on our floor
>guy next door who I've known for two weeks
>first few nights we hung out a lot alone
>in his room alone for five hours with him playing games and buying me ice cream
>wow this guy is cool I'd date him he seems like he's into me!
>tell suitemate because she was cool at the time
>we later find out he has a long distance gf
>she asks me how feel about him still
>"nah he has a girlfriend plus I've known him for only a few days"
>"I agree anon! glad you aren't pursuing anything more with him." she says
>yesterday I stop by to say hello to him and his other suitemates (who I am also VERY close to)
>he brings me out into the hall
>um yeah anon I don't think we should talk anymore I know you like me I have a girlfriend yeah
>super vague and tells me he doesn't want me visiting his friends anymore
>"what but I don't like you"
>"that's bullshit anon your roommate told me you did yesterday please don't talk to me anymore thanks"
>confront my roommate and tell her she fucked up big time
>five hours later at 1AM I get really rude texts from this guy while he's drunk
>tell him to go fuck himself and go to bed
>still keeps texting me "stop talking to me"
>texts me this morning when he's sober
>texts me again this afternoon
>he removed me from all forms of social media and I fucking blocked him in return.
>he refuses to talk to me in person
>STILL KEEPS TEXTING ME
>pic very much related

Seriously. He sends me a bunch of texts this morning saying "don't talk to me anymore" and five hours later he sends me more texts. So now I have a crazyass neighbor and a crazyass suitemate that act like children.

>>7818339
Dropped very related gif

>talk to some broad from /cgl/
>meet up at a local con
>she is a complete bitch the entire time
>shit talking everybody elses cosplay the entire time
>doesnt want to go to any panels or any events, just walk around the shop area, and places outside of the con
>we go out for icecream after the con closes
>she kisses me
>starts crying
>i have to drive her home since her little brother was at a party and didnt want to leave to give his sister a ride
>"Today was really great, I'll talk to you later"
>mfw

she dressed up as Nui and kept having me fix the eye thing inbetween rants about how fat chicks were cosplaying AoT and some guy dressed as Panty

yall cray

>>7817789
I think a gift would potentially cause problems as some might see it as you attempting to bribe the judges, personally I'd just say "I really admire your work, it's what boosted me to get back into cosplaying" and wish them a good time.

>Can form an attractive smile for selfies.
>My regular smile shows way to much gum, makes my cheeks puff out, my witch nose stand out even more and is generally really, really unflattering.
>Can't fucking help smiling genuinely at meetups because I am just so fucking happy
>9/10 photos of me suck
Everyone who does not know me IRL must think I shop everything to high hell.

>>7818371
That's so cute anon.

>not a very social person
>love people, have friends, just don't go out and do things ever because it exhausts me
>trying to change. become a part of 4 different trips/meetups in the next 2 months
>so afraid of getting burnt out mid-trip and crying in front of people
Goddamnit my life is monotonous right now it's killing me but doing things is always so stressful.

>>7818371
have you tried just being yourself?

>>7818374
just be yourself, it's so easy

>>7818374
Err, don't jolt yourself into being social and risk having breakdowns. That's not fun for anyone. You can always hide out and recharge in the bathroom...?

>>7818380
>You can always hide out and recharge in the bathroom...?

?... or just be yourself

>>7818382
> be yourself
Being myself =/= taking care of myself

>>7818387
just be confident

>>7818388
I am confident. Just very introverted.

> not first anon btw

>>7818389
1. be yourself
2. be confident

it worked for me so it can work for you

>>7818377
>>7818382
I think the issue here is anon is either introverted or has some form of social anxiety and gets burned out from extended socialisation. The need to recharge is important or socialisation is probably quite stressful for them. It's not a case of "just be yourself"

>>7818392
Of course anon, your life experiences and personality is probably 100% identical to everyone else's.

>>7818380
>>7818382
I love doing things it's by the end of the day I'm exhausted and shaky and need to be in my own home. Usually this exhaustion holds off until the end of the day but sometimes weird shit happens and I flip out and bawl. Like getting a flat tire or having a weird guy creep on me really hard so I just need to get out of there forever.
I have all these new cute clothes I want to wear out too goddamnit.

>>7818394
>It's not a case of "just be yourself"
just be confident

>>7818396
>Of course anon, your life experiences and personality is probably 100% identical to everyone else's.
Stop believing you are a special snowflake

>>7818398
>I have all these new cute clothes I want to wear out too goddamnit.
so just be yourself

>>7818398
Anon I feel exactly the same, the key is building up your social interactions gradually, for example going out with a friend for a coffee and building up to a big trip or outing.

>>7818398
Yeah, I know how that feels. Like I said, if you need to recharge, then go recharge. I don't know about you, but I get testy when I start to run out of fuel. I learned to notice the signs and go get some alone time, less I explode on someone.

>>7818399
You reminds me of that picture of the guy holding a paper that says "lettuce" in kana and insisting over and over it says "never give up" while everyone keeps saying "no, it says lettuce".

>>7818399

>>7818406
You reminds me of that person who blames other people for their problems

>>7818392
There's a difference between confidence and introversion.
Introverts gets exhausted being around people for too long and need to be alone to feel better. No matter how much they like the people, it just happens.

To the anon that this is circulating around: Don't feel bad about going off by yourself occasionally, it's just how you are. As long as your friends realize and respect that you need it.

>>7818413
>i just cant be around people

try being around people and not being such a buzzkill?

>>7818405
I'll try this, thanks!

>>7818414
> Introverts gets exhausted being around people
> i just cant be around people
> exhausted
> cant
Learn to read

>>7818422
learn to not be a pathetic failure who cant even socialize with fellow humans??

how did this trait even manage to survive over the thousands upon thousands of years we have existed

>>7818018
EVERYONE KNOWS THAT FEEL

>>7818361
Well she was nailing the personality right at least

>>7818431
she was pretty bipolar too

she literally went from professing her love to me, trying to eat my tongue, to bawling her eyes out in the span of 10 seconds

like damn bitch im just sitting here drowning my sorrows with a mint chip cone and you are freaking out

the entire time all i could think was "wow its just like the greentexts on my japanese anime website"
when her brother called her saying he wasnt going to pick her up, and she begged me for a ride, it was surreal

i felt like i was going to have to feed her eggs or play strip halo or some shit, like it was my destiny

>>7817244
No
You deserve better. Seriously. He didn't even tell you what was going on for the weekend? Don't let him step on you like that. Try talking to him about it, and if nothing good comes out of it, it's seriously a lost cause. If you feel you need to hide being depressed from your boyfriend, there's something wrong there.
As for your race, that may very well be true, sadly. And if he's friends with cunts who'd do something like that, then that's also pretty sad.
I really feel this situation. Ganbatte, anon.

>>7818423
I wonder how your apparent lack of empathy managed to survive.

It's like a morning lark trying to convince night owls that nighttime sucks and mornings are the best. (Which also has a biological component, like I/E research also points to)

> Add some old bodyline to my sales album
> Notice a girl spamming a wtb post for a blouse and skirt so I PM her.
> "I really like the skirt and the blouse, but I can't afford it until I'm paid on the 24th will you hold it for me?"
> Combined they're literally $40.
> Tell her no, been burned too many times.
> She proceeds to tell me her life story about how much she loves lolita but she can't afford much with her Mcjob paycheck.

Bitch why you spamming a WTB if you can't pay up front?

>>7818436
>It's like a morning lark trying to convince night owls that nighttime sucks and mornings are the best. (Which also has a biological component, like I/E research also points to)

do you legitimately have autism

>>7818439
If they have autism they just need to be themselves and be more confident.

>>7818440
well if they did, nobody would tell they had autism until they want on tard rants like the scientific reasoning for owl migration

i dont think you get tired around people
i think people get tired of YOU

>>7818442
Says the person trying to make people "teach themselves" out of their inherent nature.

I'm not even that introverted, I just think that the "advice" of "stop being the thing that you are" phrased as "just be yourself" is jaw-droppingly self-centered, autistic levels of non-empathy.

>>7818444
if you want to be popular, get in a relationship, stop being alone, and get friends, there is literally 2 (3) things you need to do

1. jus b urself
2. b confident
(3.) this one negates the previous two, meaning if you fulfil "be attractive", being urself or confident have no effect

>>7818446

>>7818448
>"I have no argument"

>>7818444
>say it to women and you are autistic and "jaw-droppingly self-centered" with no empathy
>say it to men, and those stupid faggot neckbeard virgins should just man up

>>7818446
Is this what /r9k/ told you

>>7818453
has /r9k/ ever been wrong?

>>7818452
Eh, the inability to recognize someone is different from you and refusing to empathize with them is a key trait of autistic people, is all. It's also indicative of a low EQ. Low-EQ people make for terrible friends, extraverted or not.

Luckily you can teach yourself to develop your EQ, and that makes you better friend material. Things like understanding other people's problems and issues and helping them find good solutions.

Same is true for both men and women.

>>7818462
More like have /r9k/ ever been right.

>>7818465
yes

this girl:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PnUDlRTw6aA

>>7818442
Extrovert here, no, they get tired of people. I have an introvert friend. He and I are literally best friends. He despises public functions after a few hours, but can be the life of the party up until that point.

This is only tangentially /cgl/ related, but I just need to feel this anonymously somewhere.
>Be a drag king.
>Really aiming to take my drag to the next level and make it to a national pageant this year
>It's also my senior year of college
>Due to having a nervous breakdown after being raped by my ex freshman year I'm sort of behind with my course load
>Took online courses over the summer but couldn't finish them because my mother made me work full time too
>She blamed my not finishing them on cosplay
>Promised her I'd take the final during fall break
>Am now gearing up to take the final during fall break
>Drag prelim to get to nationals that I know I could win because the competition in my home state isn't stiff is also during my fall break.
>they are on different days
>know I could do both
>know my mom will freak the fuck out if I try because she views cosplay and drag as both being huge distractions and the reason I've failed at college.
>not the PTSD or anything, that would be too obvious
>drag isn't exactly something I can sneak off to do because I'd be gone until very late and I have to take an entire suitcase of stuff with me to a pageant
>whyudothisgod.png
I'm probably just going to have to suck it up and do a later prelim, but that's going to mean driving from here where I go to college, because I just found out the prelim that's held in my city probably won't be happening this year. And I don't have a car here, so I'm going to have to bum a ride from another king. And the completion is going to be stiffer. It's making me super anxious though, because even though I know it's probably a lost cause, I still have this half baked hope, ya know?

>>7818488
>raped by my ex freshman year

>Be manager at seasonal costuming store that's only going to be open for a few months
>The last manager over-scheduled nearly 100 work hours before getting fired
>Holy shit
>Clean the schedule up, realize we have way too many employees
>Each employee only gets like, 20 hours a week under a correctly put together schedule
>Cut my own hours, put in lunch breaks, do everything I can to give all the employees more hours
>Start getting angry calls from employees "Hey, I had loads of hours before now! What's going on?"
>Tell them honestly that there will be more hours as we get closer to the holidays
>Some take it well, others flip their shit and literally scream at me
>Sinking sensation as I realize I'm going to have to put my foot down and tell them that I'm their fucking boss and if they want more hours they need to get their shit in line
>Who the fuck screams at their boss when they aren't looking to get fired anyway, seriously?

I'm not going to reward their shitty behavior by giving them more hours, I'm going to try to give them to people who were nice and understanding about the situation. I just don't like being screamed at.

I'd like to get my cosplay done, but I've been being called into work suddenly so much it's been tough. I haven't been able to even have dinner with my fiance for a couple weeks.

>tfw nobody appreciates your sacrifices

>>7818490
>people who are complete spineless little pussies become managers

how to ruin your business in 1 easy steps

>>7818496
I'm not saying I'm not going to put my foot down, I'm just tired, sad, and stressed out. I'm also confused as to why they think screaming at their manager is going to get them what they want?

Maybe they're used to a manager who gives into that kind of crap. Maybe that's why the schedule was so fucked up.

>>7818489
How did I know that the moment I decided to include that, that would be the one thing someone would pick out of the wall of text in order to derail the thread? Knew I shouldn't have. Meh. Commence the shit show then, I guess.

>>7818505
>somebody quotes 6 words from your rendition of Atlas Shrugged
>abloo abloo woe is me

better throw yourself a pity party because people were talking on the internet

please tell me how you like literally cant even right now?? like you literally can not even right now????????

>>7818509
Woah someone is mad. This is a feels thread, anon is allowed to feel. That's the point of the thread.

>>7818423
Because introverts tend to not jump into situations (meaning they are most likely to survive when there is an actual threat.) I wonder how assholes made it this far.

>>7818516
m8 im not the one crossdressing and whining on the internet that mommy will get mad at you

>tfw somebody tu quoque's you

>>7818520
>I wonder how assholes made it this far.

Yeah it's a wonder how actually attractive and fun women manage to have a good time and be in relationships.

Frigid antisocial bitches should be rolling in love and commitment

>>7818509

> replying to obvious bait
Never change /cgl/

>>7818521
Everyone's feels are different but at least we can all agree most are a drag, that anon's just happens to be literally.

>>7818528
/cgl/ doesnt get attention in real life, so it has to desperately respond to bait just to get a reply

even been to the anime club? the fat chicks who watched naruto and wore cat tails didnt just stop existing, they merely got older

>>7817741
She's not being a SJW, she's just being a hypocrite. Has she been picked on a lot because of her race? Do the comments you all make insult the cosplayer and not their just their costume?

If so, that kind of makes you a prick and her a prick and a hypocrite.

>>7817215
>find something mean to me that husband did 3.5 years ago
>at the time he blamed me
>organizing/unpacking boxes from then today
>find evidence

I gently reminded him of the incident when he came home from work

>mfw he actually apologized

>>7818541
>your wife brings up shit you did almost 4 years ago
>apologize because you dont want to get in a fight with her anymore, it's all you ever do anymore
>she wants you to go to another japan thing with her while she dresses up like a cartoon
>helium tank arriving within the week

>get on with friends' girlfriends really well
>can't find gf for myself

Maybe I'm actually really charming, but not around enough single women.

>talking to friend how i dont want to have casual sex
>tell him i want a long term girl that i can eventually marry because we love eachother
>"dude you're a faggot haha"

why do i even try

>>7818558
Get a new friend. Seriously.

>>7818542
Yeah, I bet you apologize to your palm every night before you go to bed.

>>7818561
I need to get a new life
i just wasnt made for these times

suddenly because i dont do drugs or drink to get drunk i'm a buzzkill

because i dont want the town bike as a girlfriend i'm a sexist

i dont want to kill myself, i just wish i never existed

>>7818542
>apologize because you dont want to get in a fight with her anymore, it's all you ever do anymore
No, that's not how people stay married, but thanks for superimposing whatever fucked up relationship you have managed to have onto my marriage. Totally appreciate it.

>>7818575
dont be getting snappy with me just because your husband doesnt find you pretty anymore

>>7818581
Do you literally get your jollies by camping out in feels threads to purposefully be a douche? Because I swear you are the same faggot who keeps replying in a faggish manner to all the stories on here. Must be a sad life, bro.

>>7818591
Nice choice in reaction pic considering Woody was right and Buzz was delusional about the situation

>>7818594
>Oh shit anon was right
>Uuuuh, maybe if I nitpick their choice of reaction image no one will notice that I am a sad asshole from a different board trolling the feels thread on purpose just like they said! Yeah!

I can relate. If you're going to be away from home, bring something that can make you feel comfortable and safe. Like a plushie, blanket, fragrances, as long as its something that makes you feel comfortable.
For me, I take my sketchbook everywhere even if I know I'm not gonna have time to draw. I know its there and it makes me feel safe. If anything weird happens when I'm out, I can just go to a corner (or hotel room) and start doodling whatever I want. It brings me back to myself, so I can become my own comfot zone. I believe feeling safe and comfortable is crucial for people like us.

Drama con!

>>7818581

That >>7818600 goes to this >>7818374

Sorry.

>>7818597

>>7818558
Tell me about it.
>say I am going to do something nice for my girlfriend because she started her doctorate and is working very hard
>haha you're such a fucking doormat mate

>>7818600
My phone is sort of my security item. It's something to keep my hands busy so I feel less awkward and if I'm nervous I can text my boyfriend or sister.

>>7818568
I think you just need to get out of your current environment. It sounds toxic if it makes you feel like that.

>>7817844
>tfw you know those feels

>>7818374
As someone who's very introverted, make sure that you get some down time. I once went on a five-day trip with a large group, and after 48 hours I was so exhausted that I just told my friends I wanted to explore a bit on my own, and went off for a whole day. Felt hella good, did it again before we left. There's no reason you have to stick together all the time. You can teach yourself to handle longer periods of time though, start off with just hanging with one or two close friends and go to a movie for two hours, and then slowly build up the size of the group and duration. Good luck!

>>7818339
>He sends me a bunch of texts this morning saying "don't talk to me anymore" and five hours later he sends me more texts.
That's the most pathetic shit I've read all morning.

>see person in friend thread in my area
>don't respond immediately
>2 days, still haven't responded
>worried I might be too late

>>7818556
Similar feels. I get along with the opposite gender just fine unless I'm attracted to them, then the spaghetti usually, but not always, drops. Don't get too confident on the whole charming thing though. Being nice is awfully easy, keep this in mind when thinking of self-proclaimed nice guys who can't even get that right. If you're not stupidly attractive, having some kind of interesting/useful talent, whether it be humor, romantic poetry, carpentry or alligator wrestling might set you ahead of the pack. Heck, knowing when to be brutally honest can win you some loyal friends who know you're not another yes man.

>>7818488
put that shit in the car when she's asleep or something
and you went to study at the library. yeah. a late closing library. or bookstore. or coffee shop.

>Parents are assholes who are forcing me to support myself financially while I live with them.
>I have to pay my degree myself, despite having being forced in it by my parents. This degree is super expensive and I really really hate it, it's taking a toll in my emotional wellbeing even.
>Parents don't even give me an assignation anymore because "you are too old anon if you need money get a job"
>When I get a job they take my salary away because "we need this money to pay for your expenses" and "your brother medicines are expensive". Later they force me to leave the job because "you don't earn enough for it to be a real job" and "your grades are going to get soooo low if this shit job distracts you"
>My saving are on minimum now and I'm so fed with this shit
>Thinking about spending all my savings so my parents are forced to maintain me or dump me out of our household.
>I am presented the opportunity of going to a Kpop academy, which is my dream. This will make me spend all my savings and fuck up my grades but the idea makes me so incredibly excited despite knowing for sure I will never get hired in a Kpop company because I'm very very white.
I needed to bent /cgl/ please don't judge me for being a Koreaboo (and an idiot)

>>7818298
to be fair, you don't look 28

>>7818490
Is it possible you could tell them about the past manager's mistakes? or is that considered bad etiquette?

>>7818694
What degree? What would you rather be doing?

What reason do you have for not bringing up your issues with the course/job with your parents?

What's stopping you from moving out on your own and taking a different course? AFAIK it's the student's decision if they want to leave the course.

Don't deliberately blow your savings, you'll be broke and homeless.

Probably not the best time to go to that, for one. Two, I think there's better ways to learn those skills than one of those kinds of barely useful "academies" of dubious credentials. Three, fame will fuck you up. Don't you read drama threads?

>>7818694
dont do the koreaboo thing
go to the bank and open up a big girl bank account that your parents cant access
become a big girl student and stop studying shit because your parents want to ESPECIALLY if you're the one paying for it

>>7818694
Do it. Like, seriously. Don't do something that makes you miserable. Even if this Kpop thing doesn't work out, it might help you figure out what you DO want to do.

>>7818703
English Philology. I'd rather be doing pretty much anything, but I think I could do good in a maths-related degree , in another language which I actually don't hate, or I have considered being a cook as well.
I have already talked with them about that; they do know that I hate the degree, that I dislike my colleagues and that this is causing me several distress but they will warp our situation so it looks like it's my only option.
I can't move out because as soon as I attempt moving they promise me they "will start being nice" and if I don't fall for that they take my money away. I can't live on the streets because I have an illness which makes me highly unfit for living on the streets or alone for that matter.
>>7818704
Can't because as I am living with my parents they will read all correspondence which arrives with my name on it, so they are aware of my bank account and pin.

>Will be 24 early next year
>Everyone from highschool is getting married or in long term relationships with some even having children.
>Most of them have taken out a mortgage and bought a home.
>I haven't even had a date.
>Live alone in a studio apartment
>Feel like a child compared to all these people from high school.
>Have extensive savings but can't commit them to a home until I have a second income backing me up
>Feel like I've already passed my prime appearance wise and the chance of hooking with someone who isn't already taken is dwindling rapidly.

This is certainly something.

>>7818666
them feelios

That's exactly what I do after being socially exhausted. I end up wandering off on my own then meeting back with my friends later on.

>>7818709
>Forced into English Philosophy
Pic related. Are your parents failed literary types at all? How they hell can they convince you that accepting a dead end degree with bugger all practical or financial future is "your only option"

Hmm. A private P.O Box? Camp the mailbox? My bank at least gives you the option to stop sending out paper stuff. Worse comes to worse financial abuse, ie: witholding accounts, financial information, etc. is recognized as a form of domestic abuse, look up the exact wording/advice for something to bring to the negotiating table next time.

>>7818716
Um, sorry if my english is misleading but I meant English Philology, as in, the study of the english language. The story of why did they force me it's basically:
>Dad works in an airport so he knows a shitton of air traffic controllers. He has been told that they work like 1 day a week and they earn 3000+ € a month.
>He knows I'm kind of fluent on English.
>He asks his air traffic controller friends and they tell him that you have to study only 1 year of any language course, English being preferred and then go to an special boarding school in which they pay you to stay.
>Dad sees $$$ could be made out of this, goes all "DAUGHTERCHAN U GOING TO BE AIR TRAFFIC CONTROLLER"
>Shit goes on about that on or country, and nowadays you have to pay a good chunk for that boarding school and air traffic controllers don't earn half as much
>"DISREGARD THAT DAUGHTERCHAN. I'M NOT PAYING THAT MUCH FOR U. U ARE GOING TO STUDY ENGLISH ANYWAY BECAUSE IT'S CONVENIENT, THIS WAY U'LL LIVE WITH US AND WE CAN CONTROL WHAT U DO!"
Camping the mailbox it's difficult as when the mail is delivered I'm in Uni already, but I will research about the private P.O box. Also I'm not sure about that option in our country as everything has to be on paper here.

>>7817215
I just got back from the worst con I've ever been to.

Most of the cons I've attended have been smaller scale and about meeting people who are into the same stupid shit you're into. This one just felt so... soulless yet professional. It was bigger and fancier, but it felt like it was more about making money than meeting new people.

It was just kind of depressing honestly. I got really excited and hyped for this and it just turned into such a letdown.

im not even sure if i had fun

>>7818709
Your parents sound incredible, and I mean that in the worst possible way.
Do you have any other family that you can stay with? Friends, bf/gf? Move into a shared flat? It sucks, but living in a toxic environment that makes you miserable is hardly worth it.

>>7818722
Okay, you're going to have to give him a reality check. English Philology has zero realistic job prospects. Zero. I don't give a shit what you do but you need to switch majors to something actually useful. Switch it secretly if you have to. I doubt your parents are going to know the difference.

Your father is a total idiot, if only because he didn't realize that if you were making 3000 euro a month you wouldn't have to stay with his dumb ass.

>>7818722
it'll be on paper, it just will be at the post office and not at your house. you pick your mail up from there.

>>7818722
Anon what country are you from?

>>7818739
English is not their mother tongue so I doubt they live in an English speaking countr. That said, it's still pretty useless unless you wanna be a teacher or something, but not as bad as being an English major born in the anglosphere.

>>7818737
In fact, I don't at this moment. Most of my family is pretty damn abusive and the only person I get along with is my uncle who is, in fact, still living with his abusive parents. I'm trying to convince my friends to get a shared flat now.
>>7818739
Told him, in my country to get a job related to English Philology what you have to do basically is 1. prove you are an english native and/or 2. prove you have been an amount of time in an english-speaking country. Studies don't have a purpose if you don't meet these requirements. Still he's caught in the "DEGREE MAGICALLY GRANTS YOU A JOB" mindset.
>>7818743
Spain

>>7818747
isn't there a way to get that degree and do the "let's move to korea and become a teacher" thing?

>>7818749
I'm pretty sure Korea has that same mindset that Spain on that aspect, I'd need to be an English native to be able to teach English there. I guess I could move to there and try to teach Spanish but I'm not sure if there's actually a market for Spanish teachers in Korea

>>7818694
>Kpop academy
anon pls
>>7818709
English? Sorry to say but for a student of English philology your English is awful. English students in my country are incredibly well-spoken and need to work with a big vocabulary in order to graduate with a passing grade. Where are you from?
Also why do you let your parents do this? My helicopter mother used to do the same because she "knew best" and eventually I started hiding things from her. Try to get a place in a dorm.
>>7818722
Please apply to study elsewhere or abroad. I used to want to study English as well but the degree is a joke and if you don't shill books you wrote to your students or teach privately for peanuts, the only thing you'll be able to do is wipe your ass with the diploma.
Even business is better because with business schools they usually force you to do internships and, at least in my country, you can study law as your masters afterwards or get hired in a bank.
Also air traffic controllers are very few, and you're responsible for s fuckton of people's lives daily. It's a lot of stress and in airports they hire only a handful of people. The odds are against you.
>>7818751
Yeah that's stupid. Americans are trying to push the same shit in my country as well, "I'm born in an Anglo country so I can just waltz in anywhere in the world and they'll BEG me to teach them English! :DDD No matter that I have zero experience with their mother tongue, the problems they might face nor do I know how to actually teach, but hey! Let me in guys, I'm totally qualified! :DDD"
That's why Koreans and Japs have shit English skills.

>>7818746
still going with zero because it's not a degree that has exclusivity. It'd be like having someone in America be a Japanese major. Yeah, you'd be able to speak Japanese at the end of it, but a guy who studied a lot in his offtime would do a decent job too.

>>7818747
sounds like your whole family is fucked up.

>>7818759
>Please apply to study elsewhere or abroad.
Not that anon but isn't studying abroad like... pretty expensive to say the very least? Unless you have connections or able to apply for scholarships

>>7818759
The problem is more with the Korean and Japanese side's organization and not so much the English side. The English teacher is limited to what the organization lets him do. In Japan at least the ALT can get overruled by the Japanese English teacher.

>>7818766
In Europe you can apply for a student loan or apply to a school without tuition fees.
Since anon is from Spain she can study in The Netherlands, Sweden, UK, Ireland or some other country with English undergraduate programs.

>>7818747
Anon, in my country, if you are an adult and your parents don't have a special paper made at the bank that allows them to share control on your bank account, they haven't got any right to put their nose in it.
And we share a border. Surely, things couldn't be that different for you?
If you opened a new account which they couldn't have access to, even if they know you ahve it you'll still have money for yourself.

>>7818771
yes but living fees are still not going to fall from the skies

>>7818775
Living fees are 600€ per month which I doubt anon will have trouble with. You can apply for free lodging and rent books or get them from a library. I study in a Dutch university and I'm from Montenegro, even I can afford that. Our salaries are 300€ per month so I'm sure conditions are much better in Spain.

>>7818774
her parents are probably doing their best to keep her in the dark as much as possible. they're trying to pigeonhole her so she can't find a way out

>>7818260
>tfw your crush praises your cosplay

>want to cosplay something
>sure it'll look amazing on me
>have a big nose
>insecure because of this
>not sure I should cosplay it now

>>7818789
How big? Oy vey big? Durka durka big? What shape? What character?

>>7818709
I live in a different EU country (a poorer one at that), but the account access information isn't sent in physical form unless requested (especially since it's fucking unsafe to do so and if a country still does that, I would leave it ASAP). You really should go to a bank and ask them all the details about how it's done.
All of my finances have been in my control since I was 16 (in a big part thanks to having narcissistic parents like yours). In this age, it's really not that hard.

Other than that - if you have more than 50% of the time for acquiring your degree remaining, I'd change it to something else ASAP. If not - soldier it through and search for translating jobs on the side (this and being an English teacher, while both requiring extra training, are the only jobs I can imagine for an English Philology student) or alternatively do some courses in fields you might find profitable in the future.

Also - move out and cut all of your ties with your parents. Your future self will thank you.

>>7818539
That's why I called her that. I just meant her attitude is sjw-y solely in regards to black people. She's always point out racism against blacks these days, which is fine until she's like "I want a war bonnet, they're cute, fuck Indians", for which I have called her out. I just haven't really said anything during cosplay bash times. I know she's always felt uncomfortable with her white family (she's mixed), but I never noticed anything like that while we were in school, and now she's just, I hate to say it, hypersensitive about the issue.

And no, I said in my post that we only make fun of construction rather than physical traits, pls2read. But if I point out the shitty construction on a costume worn by a black cosplayer, she gets sensitive and acts like I insulted the person instead of the cosplay. And then will make fun of someone else who isn't black's costume a second later. It's just stupid, I'm gonna bring it up next time, I was venting, blaaah.

My male roommate is turning into a selfish slob.

>never does his dishes and uses my dishes/pans
He has a sink full downstairs that he's been adding to for days. I guess eventually I'll have to be his mommy and nag him to do them once they start attracting flies.
>his room is a disaster
I know it's his room, but it speaks a lot to me that an individual chooses to live in disorganized squalor. I tried sprucing up my room last night and he patronizingly told me that cleaning was a 'Sunday thing', except for the fact that he never cleans no matter what day it is.
>he mooches me for my bud/booze/car
He never gives me money for bud since he doesn't have a job and lives off his prepaid campus card that no doubt his parents paid for. He constantly asks me for shots out of my vodka (I don't drink much so seeing me with ample alcohol supply makes him jelly). And he begs me to take him places since he doesn't want to walk anywhere and has no car. Oh and interestingly enough..
>he's pretentious as shit
One of those boring, not-that-smart guys who TRIES SO FUCKING HARD to sound intellectual.

Last night he begged me to drive him to a bar. I complied even though I worked all day and had no real desire to drink around a bunch of loud fucking freshmen.
After he kept me there for almost two damn hours I told him I was leaving. He even said "hurrdurr anon don't worry I can walk home, go ahead." Yet not 15 minutes after I got home, I got a drunken phone call of him begging me to pick him up from some park because he didn't actually want to walk the 2 miles back.

Then when I picked him up he was bawling about how he had to "dumb down" his conversations because apparently all women are so fucking stupid, and if he is his "intellectual" self then everyone calls him an asshole.

I don't get it, really.
He's an overweight, below average dude who watches anime yet he acts like a frat boy reject with a chip on his shoulder about women when in reality HE is the cause of his own misery.

>>7818851
If you don't like his behaviour why are you enabling him?

>>7818851
>living with random roommates

>>7818862
>enabling
Easy for you to say, one wrong move and it'll be a fucking war with this cunt for the rest of the year. And if you think I haven't put my foot down at all then you're mistaken.
Laws need to be laid down gradually for people like this to realize they're wrong, and if you think he isn't embarrassed about his conduct from last night then you don't know men.

One thing about dealing with assholes is that you have to let them realize that they are assholes, because if not, then they'll falsely believe you are the asshole.

>>7818864
>rooming with friends
Arguably just as worse.

>>7818843
Remind her that as long as you're not making fun of other people's racial traits--like implying that certain races make bad costumes or whatever--it's not racism.

>>7818866
As someone who rooms with friends, I can wholeheartedly concur. Still cool with one of them, but the other one turned out to be a complete autist and has ruined our friendship with her shitty behavior.

>>7818866
I room with my cousin. Shit is fantastic. Peace and quiet in the house and we both are neat freaks. Never once argued with each other. Blood is thicker than water.

>>7818747
If you're in Europe, do Erasmus. Go to the UK, or somewhere in Scandinavia, anywhere. There's financial aid for students, and you could do up to a year, It's a way to get away from your parents while you sort your life out, and actually quite beneficial.

>>7818875
Forgot to mention, in case you're interested, this is their website:
http://ec.europa.eu/programmes/erasmus-plus/index_en.htm

It's a very reputable student exchange program, most universities have partner schools that you can apply to. Definitely look into it.

>>7818875
As a fellow student in a similar situation, try looking into exchange programs overseas too. A friend of mine recently got a scholarship for Canada and she was given around 4000 euros by the Canadian government. You will need an international english degree but it's totally worth it.

>tfw no friends except bf
>tfw want to do group cosplay of the 2hoos
>tfw bf is willing to dress up as yuugi
>tfw bf suggests asking his friends even though they'd only do it as brohous
I just don't want to dress up alone ;_; I don't mind

>tfw no gf

>>7818894
I know that feel
>no friends except bf
where are you anon?

>>7818901
The most boring part of Northern California. ;_;

>>7818751
My Finnish friend got a job in education in Korea. It's harder if you're not a native but still doable.

>>7818779
Woah, that's cheap. I'm pretty sure living in the UK, Sweden or Ireland will be 2/3 times that.

>TFW will finally be living together with senpai in a month, as the renovations on our new apartment are coming to a close.
>TFW will finally have a space dedicated to sewing.
>TFW senpai loves me in lolita and is really enthusiastic to help me with the electronic parts/parts that require powertools for my future cosplays.
>TFW finally have someone to snuggle up to while watching animu and cheezy sci-fi...

Have I have won the lottery, cgl?

>>7817215
I couldn't resist the urge to buy that jnig photobook...

>>7818779
>300€ per month
How do you... You know, SURVIVE?

>Want to dress up for Halloween for once
>It's on a Friday this year
>Only one class that day and it's a test day so taking ample time to dress up when I'll only be on campus an hour maximum is pointless
>Don't like parties and wouldn't get invited to one anyway
>Probably just going to watch the college's Halloween contest and then go home like I did last year
I'm getting so jealous being on /cgl/ and looking at all these Halloween threads and purchases.

>>7818521
/r9k/ go

>>7818779
> Living fees are 600 euro
> Our salaries are 300 euro

So exactly how do you get by?

>>7819031
I sympathize. For comparison, my Halloween feel last year:

>two years ago dressed up for work, everyone loved it.
>awww yiss
>last year request to work Halloween, got my costume all set.
>don't get scheduled. Get scheduled the days around it instead.
>school implemented a fall holiday for the end of October
>Halloween is Thurs. Falls on the holiday. No classes to go dressed up to.
>no parties.
>it's raining and cold. Bought candy but not a single trick or treater.
>dis sucks.
>end up watching movies with SO

But...

>lolita comm wants to do Halloween meet
>non-loli friend wants to do "Witches' Tea" and decorate cupcakes
>I hope at least one works out, esp. because we don't have class on Halloween again

>>7819031
those feels

I moved to a new city last month for school and know no one so I don't have any plans for Halloween and won't be dressing up even though it is my favorite holiday.

>move to new city a year ago
>struggle to make friends, have a few con friends but no one to hang out with regularly
>local community finally formed
>too shy to go to first meet
>suck it up and go to second one
>everyone is so welcoming
>invites to do stuff at least twice per week now

I wish this group had been around a year ago and spared me some loneliness, but I'm so, so happy to have it now.

>>7818387
holy hell. just... this.

>eldest of three siblings, brother is 13, sister is 7
>sister is a nastly little brat, constantly throws tantrums
>no grammar, orders people around like "PASS SALT NOW!"
>no mental issues just spoilt and never told off
>sister's on the wii, watching some minecraft shit
>she's a brain dead retard so we have to keep helping her
>brother's typing stuff up for her
>screaming at him to get it right, refusing to say please
>rude as fuck
>had enough so i call her out
>*engage tomato* how dare i speak to her like that
>dad comes in
>"ANON WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING"
>sister punches dad in face
>it's my fault
>gets shouted at while the witch smugly nods
>brother joins in
>i thought you were on my side........
>stand my ground
>"anon you're making your sister cry(scream)"
>say "she deserves it, she's a stupid brat."
>fuck.
>tfw i'm banned from con, living room and dinner
>tfw i can hear my whole family talking shit about me rn
>tfw i'm too young to move out and have to live with child satan

>>7819090
So are you underage or what

>>7819093
not 18 yet

>>7819090
Don't be rude to your sister, just stop letting her have her way.
She asks for salt? Tell her to say please in a calm voice or get it herself.

>>7819098
You probably shouldn't have said that

>>7819098

>>7819098
Anon, you need to be 18 to be here. You might want to leave.

>>7819093
>tfw i'm too young to move out
>too young to move
>too young

>>7819099
that's what i do, but she just flips her shit anyway even if you ask her calmly because she always wants her way, plus my dad gets pissed if i try to "scold" her when its just asking her to be polite

>Stab self while getting the pit out of an avocado with a knife like an idiot. Have to go to hospital to get stitches
>Bills come, I pay them, like over 1k in shit
>This was like...A year ago? Maybe two? whatever its been a while
>Mother calls me up SCREAMING today
>They got one of the bills for it
>In my dads name (not really surprising, its his insurance, but I was not expecting any more bills then what I paid already)
>She never told me about it
>They let it go to collections
>She is fed up with collections calling them
>Somehow this is my fault.
How the fucking shit am I supposed to know you got one of my medical bills, one that was not in my name and sent to your house, and did not pay it if you did not tell me?
At this point it has been so long I'm not fucking sure it is mine or if it is one of theirs and they are just blaming me.

>>7819107
Keep doing it. She'll eventually realize that you're not having her shit.
Your family needs to stop enabling her too. They might be exhausted of her shit and that's why they're letting her go, but it's really not good for her mental development.

>>7819098
When someone asks if you're underage next time, just don't reply

>>7819113
fuck, yeah, i'm almost so i didn't think about it

>>7819109
> 1k for stabbing yourself with a knife
Thank god for free health care.

> meet guy at work, get along great, get drunk, make out, sober up, make out again, really like him
(this happened over the span of three weeks)
> "i'm not a relationship-guy but i'm weird about having casual sex with someone who i could imagine being in a relationship with"
what the fuck am i supposed to do?
i can't be with him because he's not looking for a girlfriend but i also can't fuck him because he considers me to be gf-material?
i've never been more confused in my life

> Meet guy at con
> Hang out all con
> Seems super interested
> Babby's first crush
> Go to other con together
> Seems less interested
> Mixed signals
> Unsure if interested/gay
> Doesn't respond to direct question

> Ask what's up every day
> Probably messaging too much
> Ask what's up every second day
> Probably still messaging too much
> Afraid he'll think I'm uninterested

;_; This is so hard. And I want to ask him if he wants to cosplay with me at an upcoming con, but I feel like I'm messaging him too often.

>>7819130
He was in the honeymoon phase at the first con
You aren't interesting enough to keep his attention past the initial moment of contact

Work out/get hobbies/be more attractive next time

>started sewing a pleated skirt last night
>out of knit fabric
>ends up stretching horizontally to way past my waist measurement
>today
>cut it shorter in hopes that it would fit better
>now the pleats won't stay down no matter what I do
>looks terrible with the pleats all stretched
>dreading that I'll have to remake it because it took forever and knit is frustrating to work with
>not sure if remaking it would even help

I can see now this was a terrible idea. I might have to sew the pleats at least halfway down if I want it to look decent. Hemming is a bitch too.

>>7819140
> be fat
> skirt doesn't fit
> cut skirt shorter in hopes it might fit better
> complain about skirt not fitting
Are you literally retarded, anon?

>>7819125
Run, just run. Don't play those mind games (and I hate using that phrase) Don't hook up anymore, don't be "secret" bf/gf and unless he's willing to lay down the rules about what he specifically wants and you agree %100, just don't do it.

>>7819125

>>7819138
We have most of the same interests, though, and I already work out pretty seriously :[

>>7819130
If you're literally sending him "what's up" every (other) day, that's a shitty conversation starter.
Otherwise, no he isn't interested, give it up.

>>7819151
well I can only offer you advice form the male perspective, so get your "do not read/reply/respond to male posters" pic ready

whenever i hang out with some girl at a con, i dont excpet to ever see her again
the con is like a separate reality from real life
its like going to an orgy and seeing one of the people at your work the next day, you dont want it to happen

that and I'm not shitting you, every single woman I have met at a con that i later met outside of a con, has been a gigantic insufferable cunt

have you ever tried actually talking to people outside of a con? because this guy has tried to let you down easy, and sooner or later he is going to tell you to fuck off because you are an annoying bitch

>>7819146
Probably. Also not fat. The fabric seems to have stretched when I sewed the waistband on. I was going for 32" to sit on top of my hips but it stretched out to like 38"

>>7819107

Youtube that shit, get comments on how shitty your sister is, publicly shame your parents into changing her behavior

>recently get haircut that doesn't look good at all on me
>start talking to qt guy from my city online
>going to hang out together for the first time tomorrow
>planning to just wear the realistic wig I own because it actually suits me
>scared he'll think I'm a fucking weirdo if he somehow notices (by trying to touch my hair or something) even if I explain that I'm not bald or some shit

>>7819166
you should show up in OTT sweet instead

wearing cosplay materials to a first date is completely normal and wont put you in the fuckzone for sure :-DDD

>>7819166
Just tell him the truth-bad hair cut. It's easier to slap on a cute wig than worry about a stupid hair cut all day. If he's weirded out that easily it's not meant to be

>>7819169
>tfw he actually thinks lolita is adorable but I don't even wear it

It's not a cosplay wig though, it's literally the exact same color and length as my real hair but with nicer bangs.

>>7819173
Thanks, anon. Yeah, he's not judgmental or mean, so hopefully it won't scare him off. At least it's not like I plan on wearing it forever. ;_;

>>7817733
...Dracard?

>>7818711
>Feel like I've already passed my prime appearance wise

I wouldn't worry about that, unless you don't take care of yourself at all.

Also, I feel you, same situation mostly, except I am a few years older. One of these days I will find a girl.

Self created bad luck I suppose, my hobbies (Gym, vidya, comics) and work (Military) are all mostly solo and/or basically no women.

>>7819190
Are you me? I spend all my time in my barracks room when I'm not at the gym or the galley.

At this point, my only hope is that when I change duty stations I'll be able to get out more. Right now I'm stuck in Hick Town, USA and the only civilians are hillbillies and their mothers.

>>7818851
>guys not doing their dishes

Seriously, FUCK male roommates who don't do chores and expect girls to do it because their mothers did it for them.
For the past few years I've roomed with a couple male roommates, and I always notice that the ones who bitch the loudest about feminism, or the ones who expect girls to be stereotypes in general (ie cook for them, clean, be sweet), are also the ones who expect their female roommates to do the chores & dote on their asses.
Gee, must be convenient to hate on girls who don't do their chores for them since it fits the fucking rhetoric.

I had a misogytard roommate who was so bad once that he seriously believed that guys messing with female birth control so they can get prego was "a myth in my head." It was also no coincidence that he ate my food, used my dishes and wouldn't clean them, and left his pube hairs all in the tub.

>>7819207
>dishes in the sink
>gf tells you to do them because she did them last time
>you start getting all touchy feely and slowly move it into the kitchen
>"hold up one second i need to use the restroom"
>go in the bathroom and watch a twitch stream for like 5 minutes
>come back out and she is doing the dishes

every time

>>7818701
I can, and I have been, but it doesn't matter in the wake of "Wah wah muh hours!"

I wouldn't even be so bothered if it was people who really needed the money, but all the employees that actually need this job for their livelihood are the ones that have accepted the hour cut with grace.

It's the high schoolers and the trust fund college students that flipped bitch.

>>7819207
You think guys mess with their girlfriends birth control to get them pregnant? I've never heard of this happening, though I suppose it's not outside the realm of possibility.

>>7819196
>Are you me?

Bitch, I might be.


Where do people meet people even. It's like every day I see the same people basically. The only other people I see are people at a store/just passing by, it's not like I can just ask a girl at the grocery store out.

At least gym has been going good, trying to get serious and do a strongman competition.

>>7819228
I know your pain. I'm on the midnight schedule right now so I hardly ever come out during the daytime. I go to the gym and do grocery shopping and stuff early in the morning and as a result I hardly ever see anyone.

One time a waitress smiled at me. That counts as romantic interaction, right?

>>7819224
The controlling, abusive types yes.
Happens to men too when the woman wants to get pregnant but he doesn't want to be a father.
>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_coercion
They need to teach kids about these kinds of issues. It's sad that so many don't know.

>tfw losing weight
>tfw ass getting flat and tits becoming saggy

I will never be hot, will I?

>>7819252
Just get plastic surgery and lie about it like everyone else.

Then you can be one of the bubble asses in that fucking Anaconda video.

>>7819255
>tfw also poor
Not an option.

>>7819026
You know those jokes about Italians living with their mamma? We do the same. Most people here own at least some property and their children live there until they get married or get enough money to move out. Which is easier said than done because rent here is sometimes as much as a salary and electronics, games, branded clothes (even h&m-tier) etc are expensive due to import tax and universities Jew the shit out of you (one of my teachers literally said "if you buy my book I'll raise your grade" with a straight face and some students actually DEFEND her because "easy grade man :D").

Food is thankfully cheap, though, but games and clothes cost as much as in the rest of Europe so lel pay up or go naked, goy.

>>7818433
>i felt like i was going to have to feed her eggs or play strip halo or some shit

>>7818894
>brohou yuugi
i'm okay with that

>>7819090
>>sister punches dad in face
>>it's my fault
what

>>7819098

Anon, when I was your age, I knew better.

>>7819233
>One time a waitress smiled at me

Negative, waitresses are basically strippers/whores. They are nice to you for money

>>7818793
Big as in a bit wide. I want to cosplay pic related.

>>7819123
the best part is the bill I missed was 5k~!

>>7819090
1) don't mention you're underage or else you'll get banned.
2) Find a shelter for homeless youth. It'll be really scary, but it'll be 100% better than what you're living with. They'll help you find a job, they'll help you with school, and they'll actually be supportive of you and help prepare you for what it's like to live on your own. Ditch that toxic environment because it'll do nothing for you.

>>7819484
>little sister is mean
>"Join a homeless shelter!"

dam nigga u dum
dum as hayl

>>7819484
>Find a shelter for homeless youth
No. Don't move out because a small child is being a dick to you, put your fucking foot down.

>>7819484
>a shelter for homeless youth

You're an idiot, they can't do that, they'd be a runaway. They didn't get kicked out, they're just dealing with the annoyance of being an eldest sibling. The environment she described isn't toxic, are you an only child? You sound like underage tumblr.

>>7819484
I hope you don't procreate. I don't think I have to worry about you mating, but I do know that pond scum does reproduce asexually, so there's always a risk.

>>7819491
>>7819506
>>7819510
>>7819513

Even better plan,

Just say your little sister raped you!

>>7819506
I think anon recommending a homeless shelter is extreme, but it sounds like she may need to call child services since her parents are refusing to feed her. I doubt it is an isolated incident. Parents who take away food as "punishment" are shitty and deserve to get in trouble for it

>>7819516
>refusing to feed her
>not eating in the same room as family when you are in trouble = refusing to feed your child

ayy tumblr lmao

>>7819513
Depends on what you mean by pond scum. Some algae reproduce sexually, some don't. Cyanobacteria has three different methods of reproducing asexually. Pond scum can consist of both algae and cyanobacteria, so it may or may not involve asexual reproduction, depending on the components.

Also, don't be a dick.

>>7819519
>tfw i'm banned from con, living room and dinner
>not eating in the same room as family when you are in trouble = refusing to feed your child

Where did she say she was not eating in the same room as family but still eating?
I know some people whose parents used to not let them eat when they were in trouble.
Funny how you're using a common tumblr phrase ayy lmao

>>7819531
i dont think this broad needs a homeless shelter
she needs to learn how to fix herself food

>mommy didnt make me pasta im starving to death ;-;

a y y
y
y

>>7819516
>being sent away from the dinner table once
>"her parents aren't feeding her!"
Seriously though...I've had my fair share of abuse in my life, and child services will pretty much only step in if you're starving to death or being beaten blue. Calling them over being refused a meal is not going to help.

>>7819516
>call CPS over not eating dinner due to punishment
>CPS laughs at her face and tells her to stop wasting their time
>family hates her even more

based retard

>>7819539
>Reading comprehension
I didn't say she needed a homeless shelter. Are you retarded?

>>7819569
>I didn't say she needed a homeless shelter.
that is what we are talking about though

>Are you retarded?
that's what the doctors tell me

>>7819519
If they actually are 18 or older it would make the story even stupider

If you can't eat their food just cook your own or drive/bike/walk to a convenience store for a sandwich or some shit

>>7819090
Lol at all of the proposed solutions people are responding with. I know this feel though, dear underaged anon. After already raising three children, my parents pretty much gave up on raising the fourth. My dad started working more and my mother was too busy drinking to give a fuck about what my little brother did, unless she heard him throwing a fit because that impeded her quiet time. Bitch would come storming in the room yelling about how I was older therefore responsible for any bit of annoyance caused.

At your age though(assuming 17 since you said you are almost 18), you should focus on finding a job, spending as much time out of the house as possible, and getting ready to get the fuck out of there as soon as the clock strikes midnight on your eighteenth. Good luck sweetie!

woah this has blown up a bit (anon with sister). i don't think i need a shelter or childline i was just pissed at a bitchy child earlier

>>7819597
assumption correct, and yeah that's the plan ahah thanks

Do people really think this bitch is telling the truth? Kek

>tfw not many cosplayers in Germany
>tfw I only meet disgusting stereotypes like:
>attention whores
>battledykes
>gamr grills
>pretentious girls
>NEETs
>total socially awkward/shut-in/shy girls
>;_;

>tfw got married last weekend
>tfw have a cosplay/wizard partner for life

>>7819678
And which one of those stereotypes are you?

>>7819678
None of them, because I'm male. I know, there are many negative stereotypes about us as well, but I'm not one of them.

>>7819726
None of them, because I'm male. I know, there are many negative stereotypes about us as well, but I'm not one of them.

>>7819735
>tips fedora

>>7819735
sure you're not. I believe you.

>Wardrobe goal for the year is to flesh it out with blouses and accesories.
> Since beginning of year I've been buying and selling main pieces.
> Look at my closet and a lot of what I've started with this year has gone and has been replaced.
> Its like starting all over again.
> Plans to make a taobao order.
> Plans fall through due to unexpected expenses.
> End up buying some dresses.
> Still lack of blouses and accesories.
> A nice wardrobe full of dream items but I only have a few I can wear due to lack of other items.

How do I do it anons? I just can't seem to buy blouses (socks and headwear to a lesser degree).

>>7819737
>implying I am a fedorian
kek

>>7819735
>i'm the perfect nice guy
>all grills are insensitive sluts
>that never go for the "nice guy"
>but they go for the bad guys
I bet you are one of the many "nice guys" who never find a girl because "grills are all bitches and no one is a good girl. That is your stereotype, anon. That "nice guy" but in reality isn't nice because he is an asshole.

>>7819757
>implying you know me
>implying I'm any of this
>still trying to classify me as fedorian
If you'd know the community here, you'd think the same.

>>7819735
>I'm not like the others! Stupid grills, they're are all disgusting!
Right, I'm sure it's not your fault at all that you can't meet anyone.

>>7819760
Also, while most German cosplay are stupid-ass weeaboos, they're not that bad overall. Still pretty sure you're just a huge douchebag.

This is my second time posting in a feels thread about my new relationship but

>always dislike myself
>feel stupid, bitter, mean and materialistic
>boyfriend likes me anyways
>boyfriend buys me my dream dresses, wears ouji with me
>boyfriend holds me and lets me cry as I cry out of frustration of classes and essentially have a mental breakdown
>makes me tea and spends the night helping me with my work. for the first time ever, I actually am understanding complicated math.
>sleeps over, tucks me in and puts me to sleep by cuddling me/kissing my forehead, telling me I'm wonderful and not useless.

Again, I could cry /cgl/. I never knew someone so sweet existed.

>>7819760
Nah, there are also here good people, but from your list of "bitches" i don't think everyone that matches with these stereotypes is a ugly bitch. The evil belong to /r9k/, a board where i bet you post bawwing about girls.

>>7819790
an* ugly
>typo

>>7819786
Good for you, anon! He's a keeper.

Posted a couple of threads ago about my husband being passive-aggressive about my going to meet ups, because of wanting kids, but not taking care of our cat. Updating on the situation..

>caught flu, sick for days
>husband picks up the slack while I'm dying in bed with fever
>cleans litter box, feeds cat daily
>this continues after I feel better
>sit down for another talk about his passive-aggressive bullshit
>get an apology for nastiness AND the cat situation
>really was related to feeling pressured to have kids
>he has taken it as a sign that we really should wait, having reflected on his feelings and reactions to the things I said

... and it all went better than expected.

All my feels always end back at
>tfw no gf
It's the root of all feels

>>7817244
Yeah your boyfriend is a dick

>>7818711
I know that feel Anon.

>Will be 25 in less than two months
>Literally the only person in my office who isn't in a LTR or married
>Work with someone I went to college with
>He's been married for a year and a half now
>first child is going to be born in a months time
>Haven't had a girlfriend since graduation
>I did have a date though so I got you beat there Anon!
>But it turned out she had a boyfriend
>MFW

>>7818726
What con did you go to?

>>7819484
DO NOT DO THAT.

>>7819090
It might sucking living there for now but your time to move on will come. I had to live with in a really situation and just put up with it until a good opportunity to move on came along and I went for it.

>>7819090
Your sister sounds like a brat. I hate it when the family enables those little shits. Even if you can't get out now, you can start planning on it though. Find a job and become more or less financially independent. Surround yourself with good people/friends.

Also what >>7819295 said. Wat.

>>7819850
>I did have a date though so I got you beat there Anon!
>But it turned out she had a boyfriend

I know that feel.

>>7819920
It sucks.

>trying to find this goddamn maid uniform
>cosmates link will be $50+
>try aliexpress
>it comes, obvious knockoff
>horrifying quality
>get refund
>try taobao
>after a week, get message
>seller can't make it
>THEN WHY IS IT STILL UP FOR SALE, FUCK
>mfw head maid couldn't just pick a non-special snowflake uniform

>>7819678
who would make that picture
take it down

How do people find girls for threesomes? I just want a cute little sub girl me and my girlfriend can play with for a while. I am a girl by the way. She's been asking me this for months and I can't figure out where to find one. I tried fetlife but it's really annoying to navigate. Fuck.

I know this isn't /cgl/ related so sorry, but whatever. Fuck. If anyone knows please let me know.

>>7820152
Okcupid. Also if you're in university, anime club. There's bound to be at least one attractive girl there amongst the landwhales. Did you try craigslist too?

>>7820157
I'll try OKC, craigslist just ended me up with a bunch of smelly guys asking if I'd ever be interested in trying out a man...

My friend who is a noob at sewing recently tried to make McCalls Merida dress.

I ended up making it for her but that's not the point.

She keeps complaining on how McCalls patterns are hard to understand [bitch sewed all of 4 seams, 2 of which I had to rip]. I'm keeping my mouth shut and waiting for her to realize all patterns are like that and she's just an idiot who needs to commission her costumes.

But she has the excellent ability of getting other people to do her stuff for her, so I don't think that's going to change anytime soon.

Except for me, she's getting no more sewing help from me anymore.

>join local lolita comm
>everyone is very friendly, nice etc.
>only one girl keeps giving me looks
>not sure if resting bitchface or she has a problem with me
>also very shy and awkward at meets
>feel like i'm being a burden to the others and can't help feeling like an ita

>>7820157
OKC is a huge shithole though, expect to be message by creepy dudes left and right if you're a grill. You'll probably still end up with smelly guys asking if you want to fuck them. Just make sure to ignore and block liberally.

>>7820294
I wish it were possible for you to block certain kinds of people from messaging you or even viewing your profile on sites like this. Lesbian not looking for any kind of relationship with a man? Anyone with their gender set to 'male' cannot message them. It would save people a lot of abuse and unnecessary bullshit.

>>7819854
It was just a relatively small one in northwest Florida.

>>7820420
You can turn off straight people you know

>>7820443
They can still find your profile and message you though, right?

>>7820455
Nope. They'll just find you through quickmatch, but when they try to go to your profile it will give them some "this user doesn't want to be viewed by straight people" sort of message. Same for trying to look at straight people though, which kind of sucks.

>>7820531
Oh, that's really cool. I deleted my okc a while ago, but I'll remember that.

>>7818711
Me will be 24 this year and i see most girls my age had already or still in a LTR, me never had any but i want one so bad. I have only found wrong, abusive people or one sided crushes. The situation is made worse for the fact i'm really social inept and not trusting so much people.
>let's suffer together anon

No sage!

Ughhhh