/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>tfw get into character when I cosplay
>tfw cosplay Le Fezzer near-constantly
>tfw his personality traits bled into my normal personality
>tfw I cannot go a day without flapping my hands about when I talk, hunching my back and wringing my hands, or making one analogy before calling it rubbish and the making another one
>tfw my last 3 relationships starts only because I was close enough to being The Doctor for 6/10 LEL SO NEEEERDY GURLS XD to throw themselves at me
>tfw despite all this, my cripplingly low self-esteem is getting lower and lower by the day

>pic related

>>7895375
>Mfw don't get that into character much when I cosplay-- only when people do it to me
>Just kind of snarky in general though
>cosplays Amy Pond all the time
>"OMFG UR REAL LYFE AMY WHERE UR RORY"
>shit like that all the time
>have people try and get into my pants when I wore kissogram because obv I act like her and she was a g rated stripper I must be one too

God damn these Whovians. Though there's good feels, too.

>in London on vacation
>eye swelled up and had to go to the hospital
>finally get in after three hours
>my nurse looks like Arthur Darvill
>acts like series 5 Rory
>wtf

We could have had glorious babies and pleased the Whovian masses. Alas, I didn't ask him on a date because my fucking eye was the size of a golf ball

>want to play Tera because Elin characters are kawaii as fuck
>join and dowload client
>"Sorry, Tera is not available in your country at this time. "
>mfw
Goddamit.

>tfw Voldie-senpai will never notice me

>>7895388
you stop that shit, I already have plans to ask her out next con, get in the way and you will find yourself blindfolded, strapped to a portapotty and left on the roof of the hotel.

>>7895406
No, I'll win her heart, Anon, and you can't stop me!

>>7895418
you keep this up and I'll take your boypussy too.
she's not for you, she doesnt want a future-less neet. move on if you know whats good for you.

>>7895388
>>7895406
>>7895418
>>7895423
>tfw feels thread already going to shit

>>7895431
Always by fucking males.

>>7895388
>>7895406
>>7895418
>>7895423
Godspeed

Can you clean up this thread janitor-san? Thank you!~*

>really want to date someone even if just casually
>only attract dudes that want to whip their boxersnakes around my face
>ffs go away I'm not even particularly interested in sex
>guys that actually get romantically interested in me changes their mind and start dating someone else in the last minute
>am I crazier than I thought or something seriously

I sound really thirsty, but I'm just tired of feeling like a sex doll.

>>7895489
I'll treat you right, baby.

>>7895387
What country doesn't allow people to play tera??
Elin's are to cute, but sadly it's feel to wrong being one.

>>7895522

>>7895542
Thirsty

>Cosplaying male characters, female myself
>A really cute and sexy girl falls in love with me
>I'm not a lesbian and I hate the idea of dating girls but I really want to fuck her
>She clearly wants a real relationship because she's head over heels
>mfw

>cat disappeared around this time last year
>my best bud gone..
>see an ad for a cat on CL
>muster up the courage to call
>neutered, declawed, docile, sweet
>omg yes please!
>asking for 75$, the price she paid when she got it from the shelter
>I'm down
>realize that the cat is an Exotic Shorthair
>didn't notice from looking at the first photo
>OMG YES
>mfw I get to meet my new cat this Sunday

Anons, I've missed having a cat in my house.
And an Exotic Shorthair to boot?
I feel so happy!!

Lolita feels:
>realize I hate my comm
>mostly a lone lolita anyhow
>no real reason to go out in sweet lolita
>maybe want to tone it down to more "kawaii" fashion than be a full-on lolita
>waist is fine, but...
>96cm boobs
>dammit
>most of the cute taobao items I want won't fit my tits
>feel bad

>>7895529
Ghana. I think all of Africa is blocked really, and pretty much everywhere in/around Asia except Singapore, Polynesia and Malaysia. Shit sucks.

>>7895552
I almost expected you to find out it was the disappeared cat

>>7895552
>replacement cat that looks like the old one
You know, my cat's getting on in years. His fur is getting matted. He has trouble going up/down stairs. Occasional drooling. Will meow, forget he meowed, and respond to his own meow, effectively having conversations with himself.

When he's on his death bed, would that be a good time to start looking? Should I clean out the house of old cat smell before introducing a new one?

>>7895552
>declawed
Why do people do this? I really hope you didn't get your last cat declawed.

>>7895387
You can't just put in a different country? Or does it read IPs?

>>7895489
Sex and love are not mutually exclusive. Trying to make them so is just selfish.

>>7895586
It's a good time to start looking when you feel it's a good time to start looking.
Although I wouldn't go introducing a new cat to one that's already slowing down.
I hope you're feeling well, anon.

>>7895591
Before you go into a tangent, my last cat had all his claws and we were best fuckin' buds. Never scratched me or tore shit up.
I would have preferred a cat with claws, but I don't mind getting one without, either. This lady told me she got him from the shelter like that.
Animal control picked up this poor guy wandering in the rain with no front OR back claws.
I don't get it either, but I'd be happy to have a nice companion, either way.
I'll chalk it up to "adopting a formerly abused animal" if it makes you happy, anon.

Anyone need a boyfriend?

>be clinically depressed, heavily suicidal
>finally start dropping subtle hints to my best friend because I'm getting scared about the thoughts appearing in my head
>best friend doesn't notice, downplays it ("You'll be fine." "You're just overreacting" "calm down")
>make plans to work on cosplay together, the only thing that makes me happy at all through the depression and suicidal thoughts
>She ditches me to be with her boyfriend(my brother)
>Things start getting worse mentally, try telling her more directly how I'm feeling
>She doesn't take it seriously, downplays everything again.
>Take all my meager savings, make plans to go to my dream con with her, want to kill myself after it's over. A fun last hurrah.

>She backs out to go to oregon with my brother.


>Con quickly approaching. I'll be alone.

>I wish I could at least be with my only friend before I go.

>>7895663
Bye

>>7895663
choo choo attention train coming through

>>7895642
Ask /soc I know some sissies are looking for some

>>7895595
It reads IPs.

>>7895679
No

>Always wanted to join in on a teaparty
>Drinking different teas, eating desserts, and talking about random things sound comfy as hell
>Am a guy
>Very successful in life
>Still cant join one because I'll look like a creeper

The bar scene is my only option, but I don't even like to drink

>wanted to cosplay Sakura forever
>hard to find good-looking cosplays for her
>can't sew to save my life
>too cheap to commission someone + bad experience has put me off
>find someone selling one of the outfits I wanted to cosplay anyway
>it's a perfect fit
>well within budget
>thank you based anon

>>7895717
>not having Asian friends
>not going to a Chinese restaurant while they're serving Dim Sum
>not drinking tea and eating desserts served a la carte
>not kicking the shit with friends while doing so

>tfw you are an overgrown child
>tfw nobody will ever love you
>t
>f
>w

i literally cant even
like i literally just can not even right now

>>7895691
Stop being so picky

>>7895757
Sounds like you just need a hug, anon.

>>7895772
Pls no gayerino

>tfw you get up at 6am and are at home by 7:30pm
>go to bed at 10pm

Fucking nothing gets done.

>>7895782
what do you think women are for?

>>7895786
>I am the woman.
What board do you think you're on? Silly boy.

>>7895805
Then what the fuck are you doing?

This thread is an abomination.

Why don't virgin males keep out?

>>7895805

Get a BF

This thread is an abomination.

Why don't whores keep out?

>>7895806
House shit? Making myself dinner and lunch for the next day? Boning my husband? When I say nothing gets done I mean my hobby sewing. You know, /cgl/ related content.

>>7895824
You must be slow

>>7895816
What satisfaction do you get from shitting up these threads? Mommy not giving you enough attention that you have to seek it here?

>turned around in bed and about to scratch my throat
>feels an odd bump in my thyroid area
>oh no
>I want to call my mom about this to make sure I haven't suddenly turned into a hypochondriac but it's 2am
>welp there goes my sleep

>spend a couple weeks working on halloween costumery
>planning to go down to where my friends are at college (that's a whole different bad feel) next weekend for the holiday
>text from friend: "you're coming over this weekend right?"

>all my friends are having a party this weekend and nobody told me in advance
>halloween is my favorite holiday

>>7895781
Not gay if they're in a dress

>>7895979
that just makes it gay and delusional

>>7895947
What does it feel like, exactly? How big is it, is it very solid or kind of squishy?

>>7896006
It is pretty solid, it is not extremely visible but you can easily feel that it is there if you touch my throat. I think it's sort of...medium sized?

>>7896029
Well, if it's thyroid cancer it's easily treatable in this time.

>>7896029
IDK anon, in my throat it feels like there's two little lumps where each of my tonsils are, but I was at the doctor a short while ago so it's definitely not cancer. Might just be your throat.

>>7896049
Thank you, this is sort of calming.
I can't wait for tomorrow morning to come so I can talk to a doctor

>>7895642
feel free to fuck off and never come back, go back to /r9k/

>>7895810
lately we've been plagued by this shit, threads full of "hurr i'd fuck you" and "durr you just need muh dick"

go away permanently nobody here cares

>>7896078
Sounds like you just need muh dick

>>7896079
would i even feel your babby dick?

>>7896086
Let's find out

>>7896078
How new are you? People will always shit post on this site. Just report/hide them, it's that easy. They are nothing but a bunch of low tier trolls. I was playing CS:GO last night, and there was this one guy, who was talking in a very calm type of voice about some guy's profile picture being a woman's as. He and the guy went back and forth for like 20 minutes arguing whether or not the profile pic of the woman's ass meant that he treats women like gods or some dumb shit. The guy fucking trolled him for 20 minutes, and all the ass man had to do was block communications. It's that fucking easy.

>>7895548
Get dat ass anon

>go out with friends today
>they want to go to McDonalds
>don't want to eat McDonalds but don't want to ruin their fun
>find out they have been playing the monopoly game
>i buy a fish fillet
>get rare ticket
>turns out my friends have been collecting the others
>mine completes the set
>5000 dollar target shopping spree
>going to spend my share on foam and cosplay supplies

good feels today

>going to Japan for the first time ever in Jauary!!!
>SO FUCKING EXCITED
>boyfriend suddenly asks if it's okay if his friend joins us on the trip
>can't stand his friend
>really can't stand his friend
>tell him I'd rather it just be the two of us
>he agrees reluctantly and drops the subject
>next day, message from friend I can't stand on Facebook
>"Hey Anon! Can't wait for Japan! It's going to be great!"
>confront boyfriend
>apparently his friend has been depressed and threatened to commit suicide if he couldn't tag along
>found out boyfriend is probably paying for his lodging and part of his plane ticket too
>really, really fucking pissed off about going to Japan now

>>7896149
calling bullshit on the suicidal person. Nobody whose really suicidal would tell people. You probably already know though. Confront your boyfriend again dont let him be guilted into ruining your trip.

>>7896158
Oh, I know. That is precisely the reason I hate this guy. He uses emotional blackmail bullshit all the time to get what he wants.

Invites us over for the weekend but we're busy? Cue mopey Facebook status about how he "should be alone" tonight, but is going to drown his sorrows in cheap booze. See you tomorrow! Maybe!

I'm waiting for my temper to cool before I say anything, because I'm currently too angry to be rational with my boyfriend on this one. It's been two days and I'm still fucking livid.

>>7896149
No. You have to put your foot fucking down about this fake ass suicidal friend. If he was really going to off himself he would just fucking do it.
Are you in school? Tell a counselor about his threats. Get his ass help and out of your hair.
Do not let this ass ruin something that should be a wonderful trip for the two of you. Especially if your boyfriend has to foot the bill for him, Oh HELL no. If your boyfriend is to much of a pussy to tell him he can not go, you have to. No fucking third weal no fucking way.

Sorry I am really mad for you

>>7896165
>Shouldn't be alone*

>>7896169
Hah. I wish I could use the excuse that he's young and dumb, but he's a grown-ass adult. Big boy job, mortgage, etc. He's just an emotional leech and pulls shit like this all the time.

>>7896172
>>7896172
Well fuck, yeah that just makes it fucking worse. Tell that ass directly that this is a couples trip that you are doing as a couple and he is not welcome. He is a grown man, and he is free to finance his own trip on his own time to wherever the hell he wants, and it is not acceptable or appropriate for him to decide he is going with the two of you.
Drop a suicide hotline because he is *So going to off himself*
cut all fucking contact. You two do not need that shit in your life I have been there just don't anon.

>>7896174
I agree. And I want this ass out of our lives completely. He's ungrateful, rude, emotionally abusive, and all around a massive asshole.

The problem is that my boyfriend is basically his last friend. Everyone else jumped ship over time as they figured out what a manipulative dick he can be. So now my boyfriend feels guilty about being the last one to dump him, because WHAT IF HE REALLY DOES KILL HIMSELF.

I've got to convince him that this guy's life or death isn't his responsibility. Not just because of the trip, but because of what the trip means overall. There have been at least three or four nights in the past few months where this sort of thing has happened over even smaller situations. Like having plans that we couldn't just drop to go hang out with him. Or seeing a movie without taking him, because we wanted a date night. That sort of shit. He hasn't taken over our lives or anything, but sometimes I feel like he's trying to.

>>7896177
Call the police and tell them he's threatening suicide. They'll put him on suicidal watch and BOOM he's either outed as a fake or out of your hair for god knows how long.

>>7896187
Did not know you could do that, I'm not the anon you're replying to but that's good to know thanks.

>tfw try to make a cosplay
>tfw looking at materials and realize I'm too poor for this

>>7896187
Sadly, it doesn't work that way here. If they show up and he says "Oh no, I'm fine" that's it. They leave. They can only force him to be admitted if he is, in that moment, a danger to himself and others (caught with a weapon, or putting the hose into his car's tailpipe, that sort of thing).

So it really achieves nothing, because I'm already pretty confident that he's full of shit. He's refused help/assessment before. I just need to convince my boyfriend that he's full of shit, and that we don't need his threats and the added stress in our lives.

>>7896177
I was friends with a guy like this. I dumped him and what do you know? He's still alive and being a pathetic piece of shit even if he's been straight up told numerous times that no one wants to hang out with him because of the way he acts

>>7896075
Not him, but...
feel free to fuck off 4chan and go back to tumblr, whore

>>7896106
Which one was the rare one?

>>7896106
Wish I had that kind of luck

>>7896219
Lmao @ this beta trying to act tough

>>7896223
The tickets came attached to the boxes of certain things. My fish fillet box came with one ticket. When i peeled it off it was one of 10 rare tickets in a certain monopoly railroad set. All the tickets in a set are rare and you usually get tickets not associated to any set or that give you free food. If you're asking in particular it was a Short line railroad ticket.

>>7896234
Nice one, really got me
But really, with your tumblr tier comments, acting like a wigger, and all around cancer, get the fuck out

>>7895387

That sucks anon, but you can at least take solace in having good taste for using an SSY image.

>>7896237
I wasn't even the anon you responded to lel

You're just coming off as a massive beta, tryhard faggot
>f-fuck off girls!

>Keep the shitposting to a minimum.

Anyways, I'm kinda sad that I'm not more organized, because I lost plans for a costume. At least I had the forethought to take pictures of the drawings.

>>7895663
talk to someone else, anon. Someone who listens.

>>7896158
>Nobody whose really suicidal would tell people.
That's some fucking bullshit.

>Netflix keeps removing things I like to marathon while working on stuff and cleaningthe house.

They took off clean house and paranorman, and all but the last season of destination truth. They took off fact or faked, ghost hunters, and ghost adventures(they added in a best of recently)

God damn it, I just want my stupid ghost shows.

>>7896260
alright well maybe not nobody, but obviously in that anon's case the guy is just a manipulative asshole.

>>7896316
HOW THE FUCK CAN DO THAT IN SPOOK MONTH

>LDR with bf for several years
>going well
>spend much of the summer together, everything awesome
>lately he seems down
>drinking more
>going on long walks alone
>worry about him
>he confesses he has a crush on a girl in his class and wants to ask her out
>still loves me and takes us very seriously, makes this very clear
>extreme anxiety go
>first tell him he shouldn't do anything
>after discussing it, decide that he should try asking her out
>discuss open-ish relationship, we've brought it up before, my interests in mind as well
>don't feel terrible about it
>anxiety despite being ok with it, even supportive
>both super connected and have amazing chemistry, feel good about long-term future of relationship
>but i secretly hope she turns him down and nothing happens

i just want to be happy with my boyfriend but i also want him to be happy ;_; but i would be lying if i said i never wanted to try sleeping with someone else since he was my first and he said he'd be understanding if i wanted to do things with other people, but i really don't want to ruin our relationship. i just want a healthy non-possessive relationship where we're both committed to each other, because we're insanely compatible and have really deep connections, but a relationship where we wouldn't be opposed to doing stuff with other people sometimes. i really just want full disclosure though, we're honest with each other so it helps.

>>7896355
I know right? They're missing a golden opportunity to be running these shows. At least they could have brought them back for October.

I just want to watch my 2spoopy shows.

>>7896369
I even checked a site to see if they might have all the ghost shows on Netflix in other countries--but no luck. Sad, sad day.

>Friend invites me to friend's party, because he's bringing the booze
>Never gotten drunk before
>Excited to actually go to a real party
>Friend tells me today that his friend said she wants to fuck me
>Only kissed a girl once
>Not sure how I feel
>Not sure what to do

I feel conflicted about whether or not I'll hate myself for going through with it. I always wanted my first time to be special. Will I regret it if I don't take my chance.

Also, to keep it /cgl/ related.

>Always here about how much fun people have at cons
>Here all the horror stories of spergs and shit
>Want to make friends, but don't want anyone to think I'm one of those spergs
>Feel like I'll just be annoying or harassing people

>>7896158
>>7896169
>>7896174
>>7896187
Small update. Had a (not quite argument level) talk with my boyfriend. Decided not to cool off and let him know just how angry I am about the whole thing. He's upset that I'm upset, and upset that his friend is (potentially) self-destructive.

But.

The friend is no longer coming with us to Japan. My boyfriend is going to tell him tomorrow evening because we apparently promised to hang out with him. If he pulls the "But I'm so depressed and lonely and might not survive alone for two weeks" bullshit that he did when my boyfriend was talking to him about the trip before, we're going to do something really low and dirty ...

... and call his parents. While he's there with us. Because emotional blackmail can work both ways and if it turns out he really needs help, they can be the ones to force it on him.

>>7896390
I'm sorry anon, I giggled pretty hard when I read

> ... and call his parents

Fucking hilarious

>hanging with a bunch of cosplay buddies this weekend
>oh yeah cosplay and anime fun times party
>suddenly two of the friends have a huge fight over the fact that one of them acts like a cunt sometimes
>cunt friend pulls a manipulative bitch and texts the other that she's going to off herself. Doesn't contact anyone else, just friend
>"look at what your making me do" sort of shit
>friend freaks out and goes to cunts house, tries to get inside to help, ect
>friend ends up calling the police and cunt had just lightly cut her arm and taken a few pills
>turns out cunt had done this to her current boyfriend as well
>assumes I didn't hear about all of this
>"oh no anon I can't come to the party I'm so sorry I just have other things going on"
We've all defended her so many times for stuff that happened to her in school, and she just acts like such a kid. She will stop in the middle of the road and walk another way if she's mad at you and sees you.
>tfw just wanna hang out with buddies and not deal with this
>tfw you know this is all they will talk about

>>7896358
If you hit the point where you want to commit to someone, an open relationship kind of defeats the purpose, doesn't it?

>>7896390
I kind of hope you do have to call his parents. Congrats on getting your boyfriend to grow a pair.

>>7896358
If you're having anxiety about him asking someone else out, maybe you're not as comfortable with having an open relationship as you thought. You want to be a supportive girlfriend, which is great, but don't think that you have to hide your feelings and pretend to be just fine with something if you're not.

>>7896390
You know anon, in the long run calling his parents would be good for him, assuming it helps at all. So i don't think that's really low or dirty.

>>7896399
>>7896420
The phrasing was meant to be a bit tongue in cheek, since he hasn't lived with his parents in roughly a decade. If we have to resort to that, we will (I'm not convinced it'll make much difference, personally).

>>7896358
This sounds like a recipe for disaster. This is your first relationship I assume, since he was your first? And now you're looking to turn it to an open relationship? One of you will get hurt in the end. He has a 'crush' on another girl; 'feelings' for her. This is not a case where he's just lusting for sex with someone other than you. If things go right for him and they do go out, he will start to become emotionally attached to the ‘other’ party. Eventually he will want to spend time with the other person instead of you, especially since you are in a LDR and the other girl is readily available to be by his side as they are classmates.

>be white girl
>get into kpop
>REALLY into kpop
>fetishize asian men the way white guys fetishize asian women
>no sizable asian community near me
>go to anime cons to find asian guys
>get into cosplay so asian guys talk to me

Am I the only one who does this?

>>7896454
No

>>7896454
stop being the literal female equivalent of a neck beard

>>7896460
But oppas are so nice.

>>7896462
We'll make it anon
We'll get our oppas some day

>was hoping I'd run into my internet friend at upcoming convention
>have crush on friend
>plans aren't working out because of our work schedules
>mention we could meet up anyway
>get weird, short reply
>don't know what to think now

>>7896462
pls no pls
I know another girl who did this but she started when she was 16
she is a vapid reck right now
pls korea is such a shit place

>>7896462
Its a shame most asian men don't look like that

>>7896474
>have yellow fever
>not into the oppa look

Thanks, self, for making my hunt so simple.

>>7896467
>pls SOUTH korea is such a shit place

No problems up in the North, baby.

>>7896474
>be white girl in midwest
>go to a con, only a handful of asians
>meet six foot tall oppa, looks like T.O.P.
>inb4 racist, saying all asians look alike
>"I go to university nearby, I'm on the swim team, I'm moving to NYC because I already have a job lined up!"

tfw no wall street oppa to make bulgogi for ;_;

>>7896482
Its gonna be ok Anon, i know that feel.

Ever consider moving in the future?

>>7896490
3 more years of college to go, NYC was my top choice to move to anyway.

>>7896491
You ever considered Boston?

>>7895853
When he tells anyone IRL about the things he'd like to do to people with his wee-wee or yells at his mother to get back to the kitchen, people beat him up. So he comes to the 4chan girl board to feel like a big man.

>have asperger's syndrome
>want to go to a con
>magazine level coords, face is very neurotypical-passing
>still super awkward and afraid that I will make people uncomfortable without noticing
>have heard multiple horror stories about fellow star children
>I think I'll drop it and go to the park alone with my parasol and some cakes

>>7895375
Cosplay other characters, you're staying in your comfort zone and staying in your own comfort zone erodes your selfworth

>>7895382
The way you act is the only way people can truely judge the way you are, if you don't want to be considered a g rated stripper, don't act like one.

>>7895387
if it's free to play go ahead but if it's still pay2play don't bother, otherwise you're missing no

>>7895489
Every guy who is attracted to you wants to wave their boxersnake in your face. Most men are interested in sex and most men are not interested in you if you're not interested in sex.
This is reality, it doesn't bend for you.
The fact that guys start dating other people suddenly is because other people probably do have sex.

I'm not telling you to change, do with this information whatever you want.


>>7895548
You might be bi, if you're going to experiment don't do it with this girl who obviously already has her shit figured out.

>>7895552
Lose weight, the fact that you mentioned boobsize in CM instead of bra size says enough.

Also grats on the cat, shorthairs are fun.

>>7895663
Stop trying to find happyness in other people, or kill yourself, whichever you think is the best. Reconsider going to the con alone because it will only confirm for you how lonely you are. If you're going, approach other people, but do so without expectations.

>>7895717
Host a tea party? won't help with the creeper part but hey one way to get on the list is to make sure you're the one making it.

As for liking to drink; nobody likes to drink, we do it because we have too.

When was the last time you heared someone say 'Ooh you have tequila? I'd love some of that delicious nectar!'

>>7895748
nice

>>7895757
you forgot
>tfwnogf/bf

>>7895947
Eat cake
Blame genetics
????
Profit

>>7895970
>"you're coming over this weekend right?"
>they didn't tell me
They did, their timing was just off.

>>7896106
Lucky AF, should've rubbed it in a random fat persons face that you never come there

>staying up all night to finish a cosplay
>burn finger in the same spot twice with glue gun
>realize the trim is a whole shade darker than the canon outfit
>I'm ok

>>7896536
Hey fellow aspie! It will be great, as long as you are conscious about your behavior it's usually fine, don't get the horror stories get to you.
Otherwise you could ask the people you meet to tell you if you overstep any boundaries!

>>7896063
I really hope so, I might just be overreacting but I get scared like this sometimes even though I come from an extremely healthy family.

But if it is something and I might have to get under the knife I'll at least maybe have some nice stitches in time for the halloween party?

>>7896149
Your boyfriend is either a naïve man with a big heart or someone with a spine of jelly, remind him that friends don't threaten suicide to other friends to get what they want and if that friend still comes on the trip, remind the friend of the same thing.

>>7896172
Is he paying from it from a personal or a shared account? if it's the first, not your loss, if it's the second, then being mad is completely justified

>>7896358
Just break up already, if he's willing to date other girls, you're not his dream girl. Not that you have to be, but in this case there are others who fit that description better.

Don't beat yourself up over it, just spare yourself the hurt, shit like this doesn't end well.

>>7896383
The first time isn't special, 80% of men I know think back to their first time with a shiver across the back.

Your first time will be awkward and it will be bad, but if you want to wait for that special person only to have her walk out of your life because you've never properly statisfied a woman then go right ahead, but here's my advice;

Get some experience fooling around before you commit to the real thing.

>>7896405
Next time manipulative bitch threatens with suicide, give her a 4chan favorite
>do it faggot
seriously that shit's fucked up yo

>>7896454
Probably not, 7 billion people on the planet and all, but yeah this is neckbeard level.

>>7896465
Maybe it's the busy work schedule.

>>7896481
North Korea is just shittier, doesn't mean South isn't shit, asians in asian countries are racist AF

>>7896536
Stop worrying about making other people feel uncomfortable, instead, worry about not making yourself feel uncomfortable

If you approach people with an aura of discomfort around you, they will pick that up and feel uncomfortable as well.

>>7896547
>>7896555

Thanks !
However when someone asks me to explain Lolita to them, and I do it, I'm afraid that I'm making all lolitas sound like retards or something because I explain things in a rather awkward way (plus lolita is really my thing so it's hard to keep it simple) and I don't think I can avoid those situations.

>>7896555
>The first time isn't special, 80% of men I know think back to their first time with a shiver across the back.
4u

My husband and I were both virgins and it wasn't great, but it gets better over time. Most women won't give a shit unless they're in it for the sex. It's an individual thing and some people don't particularly enjoy sex without feelings so their first time is indeed special for them.
Sex is different for everyone. If someone walks out of your life because you're bad in bed they put less value on it than you do, so it wouldn't work out anyway.
Please stop giving shite advice.

>see crush talking to another guy
>she likes to talk to him
>he makes her smile
I have a list of how perfect she is.
Telling her how I feel is suicide.
I'm a coward.
Would a seagull advice me to confess and just move on?

>>7896587
maybe this guy is just a friendly person.

my senpai makes everyone smile , including me , so I got mistaken and thought that maybe he loved me back , but he didn't. Maybe that guy isn't interested in her/she isn't interested in him. friendship is also a thing.

What is your current relationship with her ? If you're friends I think you should tell her. If not , become friends. Nothing really bad can happen to you.

>>7896595
The first time I met her I really couldn't keep my eyes off her. It was at the arcade. I was mesmerized. After a few weeks I worked up the courage to talk to her and told her how cute she is. Got her phone number. No follow up. I fucking suck. Fast forward 3 years. I still talk to her from time to time. Worked on a little project together. I've always tried to start conversations with her but its hard to talk. I know she is perfect though.
art student
works hard
watch some anime
play some 3DS
good taste in music
timid
really cute
I would say she is exactly like Yuno from Hidamari Sketch.

>>7896566
Agreeing with this. Sure it was awkward as hell but it was with someone I truly love, so it really doesn't matter that the sex itself wasn't amazing. We were both happy to share our first time and look back at it with fond memories, sometimes laughing at how awkward it was.
Honestly if he told me that he "fooled around" with random women before me just to get his virginity out of the way and gain experience I would have been really uncomfortable with that. If it was a meaningful relationship then fine but random flings just for the sex? Ech.

Some women prefer a sexual partner with tons of experience, others don't. It's silly to generalize and tell someone to do something they're not comfortable with because "that's what women want" is bollocks.

>>7896587
>>7896595
>tfw my current boyfriend took months to approach me because he thought I was in love with this other guy
>tfw this other guy was actually my flamingly gay best friend
talk to her fgt

>>7896598
tbh you seem to be putting her on a pedestal quite a bit. There's nothing wrong with really liking someone and thinking they're a perfect person, but if you have trouble talking to her then how will you start a friendship let alone a relationship?

You need to spend more time really getting to know her personality , through dating or otherwise. And don't confess unless you think you already have a good relationship with her (even if it's platonic). You seem to know her traits and taste in music/games pretty well at least so that's a good place to start.

>>7896219
>HURR TUMBLR
yep its a neckbeard

>>7896598

You really need to tell her. But avoid idealizing her too much though. She may do things that aren't that perfect but still are a part of her and although they're small normal person things you'll be super disappointed. Make sure you love her for who she is and not what you idealize her to be.

sorry for my shit english , hope you can get what i'm saying

>>7896605
This. My husband has told me that the first time he met me the thought I was cute (he has a thing for short girls) but then when he showed me some of his work, he quickly found out that I was a blunt bitch. That knocked me off a pedestal so fast. This allowed us to become friends and eventually partners.

>>7896598
>play some 3DS
she's prob childish as fuck bro

>>7896626
go back to your dungeon sieg

>>7896629
w-whats your friend code plz
want to play smash bros :'(

>>7896636
I only put out for professor layton

>>7895663
>>7895663
>>7895663
Ok, I've been in a similar situation. She's probably ignoring you because she can't deal with it. She isn't a good friend, in fact, she seems kinda crap if she's not taking it seriously. Best thing you can do is get some counseling or some sort of therapy. Talk therapy worked for me, but it's different for every person. In my personal experience, those who are closest to you are the worst people to talk to it about. They don't take it seriously and get annoyed with you.

I doubt you'd have the courage to end up offing yourself, but you need to get some advice from a charity of government agency for the services available to you. Unfortunately, 'you' have to do it because no one else is going to do it for you.

>>7895663
>Take all my meager savings, make plans to go to my dream con with her, want to kill myself after it's over. A fun last hurrah.

what a romantic notion

too bad you'll back out of it then cry about not having any money

>>7896645
I read this way out of context

>Everyone confides their secrets in me because I pick up when something is wrong and let people just talk
>Almost literally everyone tells me their deep shit because I do it without meaning to
>Teachers have told me about internal power struggles or proceedings taken against teachers by students
>Friends have told me about drug abuse, bad breakups, or accidental pregnancies
>Strangers tell me their wacky bullshit too
>I have one friend who really hates weaboos
>I love stuff he considers weaboo such as Sound Horizon, conventions, and cosplay
>He's also way too into the alpha / beta / omega type personality bullshit and keeps on considering himself above others for banal reasons
>Friend says if I was a weaboo he'd stop being my friend in an instant
>Tfw my friend isn't a real friend but is still a friend as long as he doesn't ever find out muh sekrits
>Tfw no-one to be open with about anything

>>7896659
No, you read the right context

>>7896692

>>7896694

>>7896624
every guy has a thing for short girls

>>7896722
I don't. I like women that are closer to my height, it's awkward otherwise.

>tfw can't decide what to cosplay and the convention is in five months

>>7896679
That guy sounds like someone you'd WANT to get rid of. Why do you hide yourself to stay friends with him? He doesn't seem to be offering much in return.

>>7896543
>>7896555
fuck off ya smug cunt. this isn't /adv/

>>7896775
Well at least she's giving actual advice, unlike /adv/

>Tfw in a shitty abusive relationship for 2 years
>he makes me feel like shit all the time, like I'm worthless and I don't deserve anything
>get really depressed, feel like I can't leave.. he also physically stops me from leaving
>So fucking depressed
>break up with him, travel to him to collect my things (computer, clothes etc)
>he takes my phone and refuses fly me home.. passport magically "disappears"
>No money, no ID.. stuck in canada.
>walk out in public and throw a strategic temper tantrum, he follows, someone on the street calls the police for me
>police come, I get my phone, they take me to a women's shelter
>manage to get home on emergency passport and shit

>best friend supporting me through the whole thing, he's wonderful
>we're both interested in each other
>he's visiting me for the first time in a week to meet at a con and have fun

>says he got me a gift
>sucks at surprises, lets loose it's a ring
>sadly can't have it when we meet since he got the wrong size and it has to be resized
>shows me a picture of it and I start sobbing
>"please don't cry, I love you"
>"why did you even give me a ring? What did I do to deserve it?"
>"you were you. You're my princess I just wanted to give you something nice."

I don't think he understands how much it means to me. He's sticking with me even though I'm all broken and fucked up right now. I'm not really hung up on the material possession, but rather how good he's being to me.
Anons, I'm happy again for the first time in awhile.

>>7896783
Pic related is ring. Isn't it gorgeous?

(Captcha: onselsf applause)

>>7896777
It's shit advice though.

And that's a man, baby.

>>7896783
>>7896786
Anon, I know how you feel I was in a shitty ass relationship like yours for 4 years. I'm so glad to be out of and with someone who is good to me. Everytime I look at my bf I thank God for giving me someone so amazing.

>>7896679
> sound horizon
> weeaboo

fuck that guy for thinking that

>>7896792
Why do guys even do shit like that? I could never imagine doing something like that to someone.

>>7896796
They're insecure.

>>7896796
That's because you've never had a gf to do it to

>>7896320
that might be true.

>>7896788
>that's a man, baby.
You got me you sly cunt. don't see why it has to matter though.

Go ahead and hate, I'm just posting what I would do in their situation, what they do with the advice is up to them.

>>7896792
story time?

>>7896743
>women that are closer to my height
but girls like taller guys
"majority" of guys like shorty loli girls
weirdos like giraffe lanky girls that are 5'10+

>>7896872
>when someone disagrees with me they're a HATOR

>>7896872
If you actually gave good advice, your posts would be tolerable.
Can you properly trip so we can filter you out?
Thanks.

>>7896910
I'm 5'11" and I like girls that are around the same height area, so of they're shorter by a few inches, it could be perfect.

>>7896910
I'm 5'0" and I prefer guys closer to my height.

6 ft is such an awkward distance when you're so short. Anyways, it's all preferences.

>>7896910
>Here we observe the butthurt short girl that's upset she isn't taller because of her shit genes

>>7896943
I'm pretty sure that's a dude.

>>7896679

Yeah, honestly while you don't need to burn bridges dramatically or anything this person doesn't really sound worth spending your time on.

If they'd hate you or others just for having different tastes, he's just a shitty person. Not to mention anyone over 16 who buys into the whole alpha/beta male shit (and as a point of pride) needs to grow up, badly.

>>7896946
Fine.
>Here we observe the butthurt manlet that can't face facts that in today's world, 5'10 is average height

>>7896358
Honestly, having been in a LDR myself I would suggest using this as a way to break up. It doesn't seem like you two are fully committed to each others so it would probably be best to just break it off, hope you can remain friends before one of you burns the other.

>>7896910
>tfw a giraffe grill ;__;

My BF is like 3" taller than me? But he's still growing and he's getting too tall. I liked being the same height as him.

His uncle, who he seems to take after, is like 6'5" ish

>>7896973
Being the same height as your partner is a great thing. You can kiss without any effort, and during sex it's a lot more intimate.

>>7896973
Mr. Husband is a foot taller than I am.
>me 5ft
>he 6ft
>tfw I can't reach anything when he puts away the dishes

>>7897003
>mfw I used to have to help my mom get and put away dishes since she's like 4'9"
I want to marry a women almost as tall as me so I don't have to deal with that again

I fucking dislike my penpal but I don't want to stop writing her because I think she's being a bitch on purpouse. I'm too stubborn to let her 'win' this. I should just forget about her but the things she writes irritates me just in the right ways that has me wanting to respond within minutes. I let myself have a cooling off period for 24 hours and I wonder why the fuck I even write back to her in the first place. There's nothing I owe her.

>>7896973
>still growing
anon are you dating a 15 year old?

>>7897012
maybe she's dating Abraham Lincoln. Nigga never stopped growing.

>>7896786
that ring is hot as fuck.

>>7897012
My brother kept growing until he was 20. The human body is retarded.

>>7897015
okay so he just has gigantism

>Jobless former friend is constantly posting new brand purchases.
>She lives away from home, her parents don't subsidise her and she has no form of income.
>I actually worked out how much she spent in the course of this month it was approximately £300 on wigs, cosplay and brand.
>Her income is about £50 a week on jobseekers.
>She is constantly spending so she doesn't have any savings to speak of.
>I'm baffled as to how she's affording all this unless she's sucking dicks for money or getting massively into debt.
>I'm also pretty mad because taxpayer money is essentially funding her brand habit.

I'm currently losing weight so I can fit into my brand blouses. However , besides the fact that I am super booby and afraid my bust won't go below 95 cm (if so, I'm converting to Gothic and buying a ton of corset skirts I swear) I'm also thirsty as heck and afraid that it will get in the way and make me leave lolita to look like one of these hentai girls that wear cuter clothes.

>>7897046
Corsets are hot as fuck, but go for whatever you want though. Dressing like a hentai girl might get you more dick, but won't get you a genuinely good guy that could dick you just as much.

>>7896914
Not him, but how about you specify why the advice is bad instead of just asserting so with no justification or evidence to why you think so. Or do you just want to bitch because you have nothing else going on in your life?
>>7896912
When someone says 'it's shit' and particularly referring to that person as 'a man' on a board which is hostile to men in general, yes. He has good evidence to infer that she's hating on him. Might not be true, but it seems to be the case.

>>7897119
Telling a suicidal girl to kill herself
Telling a virgin male that his first time will be shit and to just fuck as many slags as he can to gain experience before committing to that special someone
"No one likes the taste of alcohol!"

If that's not bad advice, you're a fickle fuck. Get your head out of your ass.

>>7897119
Bruh, why are you trying to defend yourself lmao.
That topics been dead for awhile now, move the fuck on.

>mfw i'm obsessed with the number of likes or notes i get on my pics
>get worked up if one didn't get as much as my best ones
>"omg it must be because i did something weird or because my face isn't pretty"
>freaks out internally when is see that i have 600 followers and 800 friends and that only a super small part of them liked it (100 or 300 max)
>i'm lacking of self confidence a lot
What do /cgl/ i'm tired of being so anxious about superficial shit

>stay up all night after getting back from work to win auction on lacemarket
>super excited to win this dress, Its been one of my dream dresses since I started the fashion, never thought I'd be able to have it, yet here it is, not only that, but its built to fit a tall lolita so omg yes I want this
>dreams come true I'm so freaking happy, I win it.
>get message from seller
>"would you be willing to give the dress up? the other bidder really wanted it, she said its her dream dress and she couldn't win the auction in time"

>>7897385
What the fuck? If you won then you're entitled to the dress. Leave negative feedback if they end up giving it to someone else.

I'm so sick of all my "ex friends" being all "OMG YOU ARE SO CUTE" over a tiny azn girl just because she's asian. Everyone is litterally all over her just because omg asian and special style...

>>7897422
Also she's loved by everyone and she's 13,acting like a bitch too (if you're not speshul or cute or famous she won't talk to you)

>>7897385
seems simple, just say you wont consider giving it up, it's been your dream dress forever, etc. If she still goes with the other person threaten negative feedback.

>>7897432

this

>>7897381
Don't give a shit what other people think.

>>7897422
>>7897427
someone's gelatinous

>>7897465
i wish i could anon i really wish but i just can't manage to do it
it doesn't help that i have low self confidence either

>>7897474
i know someone similar anon and if that's not jelly then i can tell you it's no fun either. the type of girl feeling super important just because people praise her because she's asian so everything she does is always "oh so kawaii" and she eh.

After having to suddenly halt my psychiatry appointments and antidepressant regimen six months ago due to money problems, my depression and suicidal tendencies have finally come back full force. For awhile I actually felt good, like maybe the antidepressants had actually "cured" me, but I guess that was too good to last. Doesn't help that with my depression comes complete and total lack of motivation, so those extra 15 pounds I managed to lose this year are almost all back on my body. That only makes me feel worse, but I can't be arsed to stop eating fucking shit.

First step to being healthier is gonna have to start with my mind, but fuck it if I even know when I'll be able to go back to a doctor. I have a kitten who needs flea medication and to be spayed, Christmas presents to buy, and a goddamn live in boyfriend who can't find a job. We're actually both moving in with my mother due to home issues for a few months so hopefully we can catch up on what we need to pay for and he can find work, but I still can't see me being comfortable enough to get my damn prescription renewed till at least next year. It's all I want in the world rn.

>related story
>was at fiction writing class yesterday
>wrote about suicide
>class discusses it, their takes on it and concrit and w/e
>teacher points out that a lot of the crit is coming from the fact that suicidal tendencies are impossible for most people to understand
>mfw I always forget it's not considered normal to think about offing yourself everyday

>>7897700
> Depressed, suicidal, broke, lack of motivation to do anything, moving back in with mom
> Gets a kitten that still needs to be fixed, lets it get fleas

>tfw car battery dies
>tfw (somewhat) misanthropist introvert taking public transportation to and back to work
>smell like sourdough, cheese, sweat, and B.O after a long shift
>on my way back to the apartment via bike
>typical college party occurring on the way back
>apparently, even in the dark and wearing all black uniform, people could still see my face and I'm Asian
>(drunk?) class 1 asshole makes a racial slur
>I need to pee and shower BAD - aintnobodygottimefordat.gif
>tfw hoping he saw my middle finger before I went out of view
>went to pick up an electric razor before I got home- realized I bought the wrong battery size
>roommate was home before I was and takes shower before me
>tfw by the time I shower, the water is cold


God I hope I can sleep tonight because I'm sick and I'm pissed about my weekend so far, and I'm getting nervous about corporate heads visiting my workplace.

Eugh, I swear, if I didn't smell and pee so badly, I would have turned my bike around and hurt the guy in a very sensitive spot - shit, I could have thrown my nasty shoe at him. I'm so tired of trying to keep my cool and pretending to not give a shit when this is such a reoccurring phenomenon through my life. I almost wished that he had cat-called me because I really smelled and probably looked a little gross.

/sage because although a strong set of feels, not totally cgl related unless I extended my post

>>7897848
Oh man, I just ran into a photo of an Iron Totoro cosplay and I feel so much better.

>>7897385
Please update and say you told her you want that damn dress, it's one of your dream dresses too, and you won it fair and square. Fuck that whiny cow trying to qq her way into your dress.

>>7897010
What makes you call her a bitch? Examples? And can you just tell her it makes you uncomfortable or whatever when she talks a certain way, or is it just not worth it to you?

>>7897848
Put key in, turn to 2nd setting, press and hold clutch, shift into first, release parking brake.

Roll car down hill, pop clutch.
Will spin wheels a bit if your car has any torque whatso ever

But will start...

>>7897848
Put key in, turn to 2nd setting, press and hold clutch, shift into first, release parking brake.

Roll car down hill, pop clutch.
Will spin wheels a bit if your car has any torque whatso ever

But will start...

What's happening: in he olde days of ford cars used to have to be cranked to start, ( killed people) a bar attached to crankshaft to jar the motor/start internal combustion process.

Today they use electric motors on the flywheel ( attached to crank)

When you press clutch in brake fluid travels to pressure plate, forces clutch disc back away from flywheel, when you drop the clutch, momentum of car pressing up,against first gear and balance shaft of trans, force travels to no engaged flywheel, boom ghetto starter....

Should have enough battery power for fuel injectors, electric dizzy and ecu....and even radio once running assuming your alt isn't dead

My old k24 civic was a drag car, and my battery was relocated in fromt of the passenger fromt wheel nuked my battery 5-6 times in that car....

>>7896467
>shitty Korea
It really is and it shows the only reason kboos want to go there is the kpop and manufactured pretty people

>>7897474
>>7897493
I also know someone similar and I agree it's damn annoying. The worst are the kind that push it, like by putting "Korean" or "half-Japanese" as the second thing "about them" on facebook, instagram, tumblr, etd.

I recently drew, colored, printed, and laminated a small poster of my friend from my jpop/kpop dance club marrying her oppa. It was a funny cute birthday gift, and I hate bragging but I'm a pretty good artist so it was well-received...by everyone at the party. I REALLY shouldnt have given it to her at the party. Because now all my other friends who aren't as close as this one are telling me their birthdays and oppas.

I legit like drawing people because they really like it but I just won't have the time for all that especially when the majority of them barely count as friends.

>tfw best gift-giver I know
>own birthday is in summer and never get gifts myself

>Tfw currently in abusive relationship
>I feel like such shit, like I'm too worthless to have anyone interested in me ever.
>Boyfriend (and parents, they were pretty abusive too) have also convinced me that if left to my own devices the only way I could get by would be by prostituting myself of the streets
>Boyfriend and parents always joke about how I'd probably spend all the money on lolita dresses, my parents like the fact he is controlling because "I need someone to guide me"
>I only buy two dresses a year this isn't funny
>Have a crush that's shown interest in me too.
>He wants to move out but doesn't have the funds
>I want to move out and actually have $$$ (which my boyfriend is probably using me for)
>It could be beautiful
>He hasn't talked to me ever since I have been really obviously been showing interest in him
>mfw

I guess I'll stay in this relationship for a bit longer, I'm useless as a child, aren't I, I'm fucking worthless without someone helping me out, I'm just a female neckbeard, If I make anyone angry, its my fault, hell, that's probably why my crush just dropped me out of nowhere, because I'm a goddamn spaghetti monster and can't even have a straight conversation with him without giving an "oh god please don't leave me" vibe.

>>7896783
that's a cute ass story.

>>7897788
I found the kitten on a highway, she had fleas when I found her. It's been a struggle getting rid of them and I do think they're all gone, but I'm getting one last treatment to make sure thy're all gone. All of my disposable income has gone to making sure she is happy and healthy and up-to-date on her medical care. She and what work I have are the singular things right now that makes me happy, so if you'd like to criticize my choices please choose something else you're not pulling out of your ass, thx.

>>7898095
Come on anon, lets rock talk, tell me about your crush, what's he like?

>>7898146
He's cute and friendly and nice and a total gentleman, I think I come off too strong though, I'm not used to people treating me nicely.

>>7898198
How do you two usually communicate, text or in person?

>>7897929
Seig, you drive a stick?
I hate you a little less.

Just found out the guy I always had a crush on through middle and high school just killed himself.

I haven't seen him in years, but I feel really fucking broken.

To make it /cgl/ related, he was the only one in my old school district that didn't think I was really weird for cosplaying.

>>7898210
Text usually, since he's so far. I wanted to call him.. but.. stuff happened.

>>7898218
I'm sorry anon, it's always devastating to lose someone in that way. It's sad to think that if he had maybe known how far his death would reach, it might have made a difference.

>>7898224
Well anon, does he know about you having a bf, does he know about your current situation.

I always go to cons alone. If I see someone I know, I might be able to chat with them for a bit, but I know they went with their friends and have their own friend circles or groups. To not intrude, I usually leave after a bit and just continue on my way. I have never gone to a con with a group of friends. God, it feels like high school all over again, people I want to talk to are off in their own friend groups and I just have too much spaghetti to try to successfully befriend people, and even then, that never works out well. I have never had a friendship that lasted for more than, at most, a year and a half. Walking through cons alone, seeing people in groups... I do not know how, somehow, it hurts.

>>7898226
not at all.
>>7898218
I'm so sorry

>>7898238
Well, that cancels out the theory of not wanting to cheat on his side. When was the last time you two texted, if you don't mind me asking, what did you two talk about?

>>7898238
Anon, please break up first. It's a bit shitty to your crush to hide that from him and cheat, no matter how abusive your current bf may be.

>>7898249
I'd advise against this, because we don't know if the crush wants to go out with anon.

>>7898263
so what? you'd rather she stay in an abusive relationship than be single in case he doesn't want to go out with her? That's really childish. So she'll be single for a while, would do her good to focus on herself and get her life back on track. I don't get the girls who are so scared of being alone they ride the shit relationship for as long as they can until they secure a new one. Are you 16?

>>7898249
My boyfriend stated that he would fucking rob me if I left. So I'm trying to pack up on the sly slowly, and move my things. He thinks I'm just "cleaning the room" when I'm really just putting keeping things at my friend's house. Its something I tried to discuss

>>7898271
You know anon, I'm adamantly against filing false police reports. However, for your case, I suggest you get your shit secured, get yourself a gun, or plan to live with someone who could protect you. Then when you are ready to leave, give yourself a black eye. Lock yourself in a room. Call the police and claim that your boyfriend hit you and threatened to kill you. Chances are they'll take him away. Go to friend's house, file restraining order, get your gun and CC.

Of course, I'm just some fucking guy on the internet, so do what you feel will work.

>>7898285
>>7898285
Don't ever do that please anon. It'll anger him a lot and make him more dangerous, and if it's ever discovered it'll unlegitimize you if anything really happens. Plus threat and domestic abuse (mental abuse included) is enought to go to the police. Don't give yourself a black eye.

>tfw no gf to cosplay miku while I cosplay scott from dominos

;_;

>>7898314
>And I will never go around a con with her asking random people if they've heard of "Hatsoony Meeku"

;___;

>>7898095
Sounds like you're just giving yourself rationale.

Hurr Durr he was so abusive! He made me pay for my own rent once!

Oh noes growth u beta break it off with him.

Give me sympathizes plzzzzz

>>7898212
Yeah?

> doesn't realize sieg heil is a trip someone came up with because I drove a friends e46 at a scca autox in 2006...

> doesn't realize I'm an /o/g tripfag

>>7898317
This is really good Japanese food

>Enjoy cosplaying characters i like
>Suddenly girlfriends wants me to cosplay a character I won't like (she's told me about him) from a game I haven't even played
>Want to make her happy anyways

W-what should I do

>>7898352
I'd say do it, unless its a hard cosplay that'd cost a lot of time/money. I'm sure you'd love it if your gf cosplayed something you wanted to her cosplay.

Besides, future leverage

>>7898352
Do it. And okay the game too while you're at it.

>>7898361
Damn, meant play. Stupid auto-correct.

There's a con today.

But I can't keep my hair from sticking out from under my wig.
Maybe I'll just not go.
Don't have any friends anyway.

>>7898218
Maybe if you confessed, he would have had a reason to live

>>7898362
I actually wanted to play the game but while my girlfriend was playing it was looking at her screen and I got the biggest spoiler of the game.

I suppose you're right anyways. What is truly important to me is to see her happy. Thanks for the advice.

>>7898323
>thinking anyone cares
Please just stick to your trip so I can effectively filter out your posts.

>>7898363
>>7898228
go do some /yuri/ and solve each others' problems
It doesn't have to be on the moon, either.

>putting together a floordinate
>don't want to put shoes directly on dress, look for plastic bag to put underneath
>apparently boyfriend threw out all plastic bags except one
>only one left is from a lingerie brand
>it's actually adorable and the colours go with my coord
>but worry that the bag shouts "hey I wear expensive lingerie y'all!" and would be kind of trashy to include in a coord picture
>but it's so cute and I don't have anything else
>mfw I have the dumbest problems

>>7898396
How is anyone going to see the brand name on the bag if your shoes are covering it up

>>7898396
turn the bag inside out

your problem solving skills are pitiful

>>7898440
There's a logo all over it and the brand name is on the bottom. My feet aren't that big that my shoes completely cover an entire plastic bag.

>>7898444
The inside is this gross grey colour and the logos and brand name are still visible.

This is serious business okay. Did you think I didn't consider all the possibilities? Putting together 100% aesthetic floordinates is very important to me.
I'm only half joking. I might start collecting cute handkerchiefs or doilies in various colours for this purpose alone.

>>7898455
For fucks sake just place them next to the dress and take a wider shot.

>>7898455
Fold the fucking bag so it is the size of the soles of the shoes
>FFS

> tfw somehow everyone you know online is a cute anz girl

inb4 ur jelly, well yes I am because I'm a gross manfaced white girl

>>7898352
What game and what character?

>>7898489
What's so great about Asian girls? White girls can be cute too.

>>7898493
I find Asian girls too small and their faces too round for my taste.

>>7898493
more in the sense that they all seem to be petite and tiny and all, and less so much their actual race. I just hate being a really tall and bulky person;

>>7897465
problem solved i deleted my fucking facebook and tumblr

>>7898500
I happen to be a non petite and tiny Asian so I know that feel anon. I want to feel small and cute too.

>started going to the gym this week after a push from a friend
>didn't want to go the first day but loved it afterward
>trying to lose weight coming up to a con next month, already making progress and cutting all of the shit out of my diet along with that
>delivery pizza is my biggest weakness, haven't had it in over a week
>went out and got drunk last night, had a can of fizzy drink/soda and a pizza slice while I was fucked
>felt immensely guilty about it this morning
>go to check my weight this morning
>still on track

I don't know why I thought I'd undo all my progress with a slice of pizza and that drink, I'm a fucking idiot. At least I'm in the right mindset.

>>7898534
The more you deter, the more you're likely to do it in the future.

>>7898545
I just want to get to a healthy weight (I have to drop like 40 pounds to get to a good weight that's right for my height) and look better. I think once I have some leeway around my target weight I can start enjoying smaller pizzas and stuff as treats once a week instead of cutting them out altogether.

>>7898548
You can still do that and lose weight before you hit your goal, I don't understand.

>>7898566
I don't trust myself to be honest. Even if I have a bar of chocolate I just end up craving more so I think it's best if I just avoid stuff like that completely for the moment.

>>7898571
That's probably the best option, especially since sugary/fatty food (especially sodas) can be truly addicting. You might find that after you've weaned yourself off these things you don't even crave them anymore. I still crave potato chips but managed to completely stop drinking or even liking soda and that makes a huge difference.
Forcing yourself to live off of water and salads will just make the process unnecessarily difficult, and that's where a lot of people go wrong. Sneaking "guilty pleasures" can be a bad idea too, depending on frequency, portions and how much you exercised that week. It's probably best to replace the culprits with healthier alternatives. Have you ever tried making pizza yourself?

>>7898599
A lot of the time I don't even crave these foods and instead just eat out of boredom. I still live at home and my mother usually brings home the likes of chocolate from work and it's just sitting there in the fridge, so I take a bar or two and say "might as well not let them go to waste". If I don't have access to the junk food in question then cravings usually aren't a problem.

Fortunately a lot of the foods I already liked to eat are healthy enough and are helping me with my diet. I've been mainly living on porridge, brown bread, turkey and chicken all week along with some veggies for dinner. I love fruit too but I'm careful not to overindulge because of the sugar.

I really should try making the pizza myself but Domino's has always been an enormous guilty pleasure of mine, to the point of ordering it once or even twice a week sometimes.

>>7895548
Why don't you want to date a girl anon?

>>7898617
cause that's a motherfucking dude, dude.

>tfw i will never have a tall princely lesbian gf to cosplay my yuri otps with and be kawaii lolita couple with

Yuri life is suffering.

>>7898644
Heck I'm straight and I can never find a non obese weeb bf to cosplay my straight fantasies with.
It's harsh for all women in the cosplay field.


>inb4 poster is a ugly cow
I'm not that bad looking. Just not amazing.

>hanging out with bf and friend
>we get high
>they leave me alone for video games
>i was alone for three hours while high
>stare at ceiling for an hour
>know that if i say anything i'll seem like a needy bitch
>try to sleep to avoid that
>everyone's talking so loudly
>2am, sleep deprived
>throw a tantrum
>bf is mad at me now
>tfw i always fuck things up

>>7898654
Women actually want this? What the fuck I've never dated a woman that wanted to do this, and I'm not fat or that much of a weeb.

>>7898654
>Just met qt weeb guy
>20/10 by weeb standards
>He's definitely interested
>I just got out of a relationship
>I wasn't looking for this yet
>Why is this happening to me
>I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO

They exist. They just show up at the worst possible times.

>>7898644
>would love to be the price to a cute girl's princess
>slender, sharp features, boyish-looking
>love the aristo-style aesthetic
>only 5' 6"
>tfw too womanlet to look elegant

>>7898895
You can be like Farquad.

>probably will always be a lonelita
>try to join local comm
>request denied almost instantly
>oh ok
>too chicken shit to message a mod about it because they're a well known lolita and i don't want to bug them
probably for the best, though. I'd probably drop spaghetti in front of them and sperg out at meets anyways.

>>7898895
You'd still be taller than me anon. I'm only 5'1.

Recently reached my weight loss goal of 70 pounds gone. Feeling confident enough to cosplay again and starting to pattern new cosplay. Feels good man. Also strange bc I have to make a new block pattern for my smaller size as I'm even smaller now then when I does started cosplaying.

>>7898927
>70 pounds

Jesus, fair play anon. How did you do it?

>>7898654
>tfw non obese handsome weeb with good social skills
>tfw normalfag gf who wouldn't even go to a con let alone cosplay with me
>tfw hiding my powerlevel 24/7

Wanna go out?

>captcha: essential folds

I started trying to lose weight back in April when I hit my highest weight of like 180lbs after staring a bunch of psych meds the previous year.

I'm not progressing fast... and I've only lost 12lbs, but I am proud of myself for maintaining it for so long.

What I've done is cut my portion sizes and stopped drinking lots of calories (replaced tea with sprite zero and water). That dropped me 9 lbs in the first month, and then I lost 3lbs just maintaining that.

Now my next goal is to lose another 9lbs or so through another diet change (thinking of cutting out snacking after 8pm) and then maintain that for a few months. Rinse and repeat until goal weight I suppose

Wish me luck anons!

>>7898974
>tfw not that big of a weeb
>tfw talking to 2 girls
>one weeb one normalfag
>can't decide

>>7898985
>tea
>lots of calories

What? Don't tell me you were mixing your tea with milk and sugar, etc.

>>7895366
>tfw talking to a lolita friend
I'm so excited gulls now i have someone to talk about frills with

>>7898992
Pick the weeb as long as she has good taste. Ask her if she likes Ghost in the Shell and Watamote. If she says yes, pick her. If you don't like those, consider suicide.

>>7898993
It was sweet tea (I'm from the south).

>>7898999
Good tastes, anon. I haven't watched Watamote yet, but GitS is definitely my favorite. Not OP btw.

>>7899005
Tomoko is my waifu. She's the only person I know of with dark rings under her eyes as noticeable as mine. I don't even know where I get mine though, I sleep the needed 7 hours.

>>7899003
Ok, that makes sense. Regular Green Tea is probably one of the best beverages to drink. It increases metabolism which helps with weight loss.

>>7899011
muh genetics

>>7899011
I'm pretty sure it's like 8 hours, I got some dark circles, but I stay up until like 2 everynight. It's not that noticeable with my glasses. I was thinking of using some sort of medicine to get rid of them, because I noticed that I don't look like some nerd ass with my glasses off.

I'm so enough of myself sometimes. I really am an overgrown baby.
Outside of Lolita I cannot bring myself to show my true personality. I keep acting like a gross caricature of a random normalfag (uh don't do this i'll kill/rape you ! and all those jokes I hate more than anything) and basically am a completely different person every day.

Now I'm in love and he rejected me because how could he know I'm totally his type on the inside when I keep pretending to be the opposite. If I suddenly started to show my true self it would look super creepy though, but I guess I'll have to start somewhere.

I think I came to be like that because I've been bullied during all my scholarship. It's like I was born to be hated so now I act all gross because even if I acted normal , I still wouldn't be treated as well as the others.

>>7899017
Thanks, I'll try some out! I'm always looking for drink replacements, especially for my sprite zero now, but sprite zero seemed better than sweet tea in the interim.

>>7899030
Seems like you should go into the TV anon and face your "true self"

>>7899020
I'm exactly the same way! I take off my glasses and you can see the dark rings, but when I have them on you can't notice them. The rings have gotten worse though lately, but I don't know if I should do anything about them. I've always had them as long as I can remember, and girls have never seemed to mind.

>>7899020
>>7899046
Wat is your ethnicity

>>7899060
I am white. Irish and German descent.

Why do people keep deleting their posts?

>>7899081
What do you mean?

>>7899102
Two posts have been deleted so far.

>>7896383
So, today's the day, got any last minute tips?

>>7899154
I doubt you'll end up fucking her. Update us when you fail.

>>7899158
Will do, headmates-chan.

>>7899165
Real talk tho, it's your first time getting drunk; you'll end up with whiskey dick. This can either be good or bad depending how you react to it. Either you won't be able to get it up at all, or you'll end up lasting longer in the sack and not being a one pump chump your first time, or not be able to cum at all.

>tfw decked out in finest lolita, sitting in a giant pile of lolita stuff

I did this as kind of a joke, but this feels awesome! Look at all this stuff! It's all mine!

>I recommend this to anyone trying to curb an impulse buy, it's very satisfying, but then
>tfw putting it all away again (unless you're into that kind of thing)

>>7899154
>getting drunk for the first time and attempting to lose your virginity on the same night

What could possibly go wrong!

>>7899173
He's not going to get whiskey dick unless he gets wasted.

>>7899173
Nah, I'm not gonna get drunk. I was gonna, but now that I know she really does wanna fuck, I'm just going to lightly drink.

>>7898985
Great job so far! I've been losing weight too but also slowly. I've lost around 35-40 now since March from a full diet change and cutting out all soft drinks. I was at 245-50 at my highest/worst and I'm at 207 right now and finally starting to lose a pound a week.
You definitely can do it, just keep it up and hopefully you can wean off the sprite altogether.

Good luck!

>>7899182
Don't forget it's his first real party.

>>7899187
Have you've ever even met her before? Sounds like a strange situation. "By the way, I wanna fuck your friend."

>>7899181
Post a pic of you doing it. I wanna see all them dresses.

New thread: >>7899206

>>7899194
Is it really any weirder than meeting someone at the bar or a party and fucking them? Not OP.

>>7899242
Yea, because you actually met them at the bar or party. Sounds like she saw a pic of anon and told his friend she wanted to fuck him.

>>7899252
Idk, I don't see much of a difference between the two. Assuming that both girls are going to a part/bar with the intent of fucking someone, one sees a picture of someone they want to fuck, the other sees someone at the party they want to fuck. There's not much sense in just wanting to fuck someone, in my opinion.

>>7898962
Changing up my eating habits and walking. I walk about 9k day broken up thoughtout the day. Now that I am lighter though I am adding running because I can now without feeling like I'm going to die. But really it was the added exercise that helped. I changed my eating and for a couple months saw weight loss but it wasn't until I added the walking that it really started to come off.

>make a cosplay friend online
>have similar interests, bjds figures anime ect
>have to start working another job to support myself though school, while still barely putting a little something aside for cosplay stuff
>friend, from the UK, is done with schooling
>lives with parents without rent
>unemployed
>see pic related from her twitter and deviantart
>wtf you don't even pay rent stop mooching

>TFW working on matching Halloween costumes with my roommate/friend
>It's a aucking horrible frustrating experience
>Halloween is less than a week away and I have no desire to finish these costumes
>Don't want to live with him anymore
>Doubt I even want to be friends with him anymore
>We've been friends for over five years
>Just want to move to another another province to further my career and work on cosplay by myself
>Would be easier to save money if I moves back in with my parents but I really don't want to do that
>Don't know what to do for Halloween now
>Frustrated and unhappy overall

>>7899158
>>7899165
It's been a full 24 hours, guess he's still a virgin.

>be me, always been pretty chubby
>actually feeling okay with myself thanks to great influences in my life
>not depressed and shit and crying all the time because I'm not skinny
>really, really happy
>have a nightmare last night of some random slutty cosplayer talking mad shit
>"She's such a fatty. She should kill herself~ God and look at her smile. Why doesn't she fix that gap in her teeth? Haha what a loser. I bet she's poor. dumb bitch"
>wake up crying, feel really stupid

Idk guys. I think my subconscious is telling me it's time to give up cosplay. All it does is make me self conscious and miserable. I don't make very many friends because most of them are shallow, and I've had tons of them start talking shit behind my back.
I feel like I should unfollow any cosplayers and just sorta take a step back from the community.

>been unemployed since july
>unlucky as shit with finding a new job
>suddenly got a call
>I'm going for a job interview as a real estate assistant on friday
>fuck yeah things can only get better from here

I'm pretty sure I am going to nail this, I'm really confident when it comes to work