/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

If it makes you happy, then by all means go for it. Just remember it's a permanent change and you can't undo back to your original face when it happens.

Personally I have considered a nose job too but I have a phobia to any type of surgery (like intense fear of anything that cuts skin up, I don't even have my ears pierced) so I haven't done anything. Also you'll have to consider how people around you will react when it happens; unless you're brave and you don't care about social stigmas then you go girl, do it!

Also - you can use makeup to alter your face as a substitute to plastic surgery. I'm Chinese and if I slap on Japanese style makeup plus circle lenses it's easy to pass as kawaii uguu Lolita? I feel like it's easier for Asians to do it in general, including Filipinos (just need to do some nose countering + circle lense and eyelid glue). Some of my close friends here are from the Philippines and they pull off the look even better than I can!

>>8348694
Eh, if it's something you've always been insecure about do it. If it's just a passing phase... I wouldn't.

Personally, I'm considering a nose job but not for cosmetic reasons, however I WOULD like to lose the little bump on it and have it straightened out (deviated septum, my nose curves to one side and it's somewhat noticeable) as a bonus. Frankly, I don't give enough of a shit about it otherwise and find it a waste of time that usually does more harm than good.

>>8348790
Different anon, but i have the type of nose you described (i'm not sure about a deviated septum, but i know that it curves to the side) needless to say i really want to get it fixed.

Are curved noses a common thing? I thought i was weird for having one, luckily mine isn't crazy noticeable but its something my eye is always drawn to.

>>8348694
I've been thinking about it too. Mostly my eyelids, one is mono and one is double, makeup can only do so much.
But too pussy to go get it done because scared of fucking up my face.

>>8348810
Well it's a sign of having been broken at some point iirc, usually in childhood. I think it depends on the degree of the curve, mine is slightly noticeable irl and REALLY noticeable in pictures + I have a hump on it as well.

>>8348841
I've always wondered if I had a deviated septum. I've always had nose troubles but within the last few years it's become harder for me to breathe, and I've noticed a slight curve in my nose. Or more like, one side has been flattened?
I think it's due to my glasses - I also have a bump on my bridge from my glasses resting in one place for years and creating a dent. For a couple years I had a problem with falling asleep with my glasses still on, and I only really sleep on one side. I've heard that cartilage can be molded over time so I wonder if that's what I did unintentionally.
To keep OT I've always wanted rhinoplasty for my nose. I never really paid much attention to it until one day this random kid I didn't know started talking about my "huge Jew beak" and all of a sudden everybody would make sure to point it out. I even told my own mother I wished she had become a plastic surgeon so I could get it done for free. The only thing stopping me was the cost, and I even looked up if there was any way to cheat the system and get it covered by health care. I'm glad I was never able to though, because now that I'm an adult the rest of my face has grown to proportion with my nose and everything looks fine. I shudder to think what my 13-year-old self's idea of a kawaii uguu nose would look like on me now.

>>8348841
I'm not sure if i've ever had a broken nose before, though its quite possible seeing as i was dumb as shit as a kid.

>seriously thought it would be cool to watch a basketball fall from being thrown in the air
>it fell on my face
>GG 9 year old self

Sorry to hear yours is noticeable irl, that really blows.

>>8348922
same, though from looking at my tweenage pictures I seriously did look like an elderly Polish Jew's midget doppelgänger (curly red hair and all). Now I'm not as ugly, thank god. A lot of it has to do with having a childish face and thin mouth (as children do), combined with a big/long nose it looks really awkward. On adults in can even look pretty if you've got the face for it.

I'd love to get a nose job and do something about my square facial shape. I've always felt insecure about these but since I got into j-fashion it has just gotten worse, I can barely look myself in the mirror some days and I feel odd in my clothes because my face doesn't match

>>8348694
What's with the Swift picture? Curious about what she did to her face.

>>8349151
Same here, anon. I hate my jaw and chin shape, and I have one of those noses that can look like 3 different noses in photos depending on the angle. Smiling is also out for me. It sucks. I just want to be kawaii.

>I am currently filipino
i think you'll still be filipino after surgery, no matter what you look like

I was going to go on a rant about how you will probably get a terrible job and scar your face forever, that the likelihood of finding a good and experienced physician in your area is very slim, but then I saw you mention you were filipino.

Yeah go for it 100%, you can't get it to look worse.

>>8348790
careful with the bump, i've noticed looking at some before & after pictures that getting rid of it tends to give people a pig nose

>>8348835
>Mostly my eyelids, one is mono and one is double

Holy shit. Are you me, anon? I call one the perfect double eyelid and other the retarded inbred sister. The retarded one isn't even mono. It's a retarded version of a double lid eye.

>secretly saving up so I can get surgery on my thunder thighs

I was going to say something like >>8349307 ...
Get surgery if you want to OP but get a procedure to make you look like a prettier you, not just to look like a Japanese or a Korean. Say you want a korean v-line jaw or whatever (ignoring the fact that even many koreans don't have it- not naturally anyway), you have to ask yourself whether this will look good & balanced alongside the rest of your features and be really confident in your "yes" before you go through with it.

I have a mole on my chin. It's always been bothering me while cosplaying because the make up won't cover it. So lately I've been thinking about mole surgery...
Just a curious question if someone has done the same here and are the results good? I'm really afraid if the surgery just makes it worse since it's facial area.

>>8349285
Exactly.
My nose isn't ugly per se, but it looks so big in pictures and me not being photogenic in general doesn't help either. I got ONE good angle because of it... And my mouth look super small because of my facial shape. It's like each of every trait in my face aren't bad by themselves, but together it's really a hit or miss sometimes.

>>8349383
I had a mole on my top lip and my parents bought me to a doctor/specialist who lasered part of it off. I can't even remember the name cause I was still a child when it happened. But it fucking burns like hell, I nearly screamed the practice down.

It 'broke' the mole down so it's a lot lighter and faded now that I'm older, to the point where my foundation can cover it. But I didn't go back for another session because my parents were like welp sounds like she's in some horrific pain so I can't even tell you more about it.

>>8349383
I'm doing it in the autumn, because the doctor said it's not recommended to do it in the summer. If you want it biopsied it's gonna have to be surgically removed, at least it's what I've been told. People keep mentioning MOHS surgery and lasers but apparently my country doesn't do it and the only laser clinic scalps everyone because they can, so I'll take scars on my face over ugly moles.
You'd think tiny flat ones would be easier to remove, apparently not...

>>8349388
oh and for the 'but moles are cute' people... they're only cute if you are, else they just make you look even more stupid.

I don't know if it counts as cosmetic surgery, but I'd love to do something with my jaw and face shape in general. I'm fairly slim, with thigh gap and sticking out collar bones etc, but my face... it makes me look 20kg heavier and gives me terrible case of baby face. I'm 24, I want to look like an adult during job interview or exam and instead I hear 'Oh, I didn't know children are accepted to universities, hehe!' It would be much better if my face wasn't so round and fat. I already wear rather strong make up and contour the shit out of my jaw and non-existing cheek bones, but it only works to certain degree.

That being done, I'd love to take care of eyelids, which are so hooded, that they're near monolids territory.

>>8348694
>I am currently filipino
You can change your look all you want but you're still going to be filipino.

>>8348835
>>8349333
my eyes were the same until i was around 22? well, it would happen occassionally, but at 22 it stuck. they magically became even double eyelids. same happened to my coworker at 30! hers goes back to a monolid sometimes.

I used to be obese, but even after losing a ton of weight and becoming a healthy weight for my height, I still have some tummy pudge that I can't seem to get rid of. That's the only thing I'd consider getting plastic surgery for. But I'd worry that I'd just gain the pudge back after a while anyway...

And I don't think it's worth the money. I'm not that insecure about it, and it's not noticeable if I'm wearing clothes that fit.

>>8349388
Is it flat or raised? I've had succesful removal of raised ones with liquid nitrogen. I got one surgically removed and they discovered I had a scarring condition (prone to keloids), so after the biopsy turned out fine on that first one, I got the other ones removed with LN. I have no experience with removal of flat moles, I actually like mine a lot.

>>8349592
Im the second anon with the retarded sister eyelid. I'm 22 and they haven't changed :(

>my winged eyeliner will never match till im 30

>>8348694
Congrats on being a weeaboo AND koreaboo. Wow.
Do what you want but no surgery will make you a true japanese/korean girl. You'll stay Philippino deal with it. I am actually japanese and i'm so fucking tired it's like everyone think we are some kind of kawaii speshul master race i swear if you go to Japan one day and look at an average girl on the street or in school or whatever we aren't kawaii perfect animu people...geez. It's the same as people there that think that europeans are all kawaii dorrus with pale skin,big eyes,... only by looking at some european models /medias/... and shit jfc

>>8349613
But most Europeans do have pale skin, what are you on about

>>8349383
you need to be aware that large moles leave a nasty scar that does not go away naturally
my sister had to get a cosmetic surgery 5 years after getting rid of a mole to smooth out the surgery scar :s

>>8349615
Brits sure like their fake tan though.

>>8349615
Most. But not all.
Like some asians/some europeans/... are pretty.
Some. But not all of them.
And as >>8349622 said, some bitches love to look like an old orange leather bag in Europe.

>>8350022
Ugly asian here. Can confirm that most asians are ugly as fuck, just like every other race on earth.

Protip: there are ugly and beautiful people of all ethnicities, you just fell short in thr genetic lottery. Dont get cosmetic surgery to look (insert ethnicity here), but do it to flatter your face and features.

>>8350071
Exactly. Work with what you've got. Changing entirely is just asking for your life to be full of malicious rumors from family and peers.

Subtle changes are good. Don't go big.

>>8348694
>l
I've always wanted to get just the tip of my nose cut off and turned up (?) a bit. It just sticks out just a little too far and droops slightly and looks witch like...I hate it!

>>8349383
i got a mole removed (a pretty big one) under my eye/near my nose. the plastic surgeon i went to cut it out and there was a scar at first. i got it done a little less then a year ago and you can barely see the scar.
i use this and it works so well anon, if you go through with it please buy this.

i have really thin skin under my eyes..it makes it look so dark and hollow. i want to get some kind of dermal filler has anyone done that before?

>>8349383
I've gotten a couple small flat ones on my face shaved off. First they numbed the area (needle injection), then shaved off, then cauterized. Took a couple days to heal and then was mole-free. I don't think there are any scars but they were small.

>>8350407
I've gotten Restalyane a couple times and been pretty happy. Lasts about 9-12 months. There is about a week of swelling and bruising so be aware. The filler will help the physical depression, but if the skin is discolored (ie purple) it will stay so. My doc reccomended Rentin A + whitening cream to help thicken the skin and change the color. It's helping over time.

>>8350071
This so fucking much

lol wtf

>>8350401
thank you so much anon, I'm getting a small one above my lip surgically removed and was getting worried that it'd scar a lot. I can live with a small one.

>>8348694
My skin is naturally warm-toned and I have natural ash brown hair while my brother is blonde. I'm naturally lighter than he is but I have dark circles and brown eyes + dyed strawberry blonde hair that I always look like a trashy Mexican indoors. I don't know why. Both of us are of Norwegian heritage so I shouldn't be looking so busted indoors but I do, when I go in natural light I look normal though. I'd love to change that so my hair colour can look more natural indoors but I can't.

>>8349385
Are you me?
on the mirror I'm somewhat pretty but in photos my nose conquers my face and my lips are kinda thin but look even thinner with my face.
Really sucks when you're a cosplayer who isn't photogenic.

>>8348694
uhhh Filipinos are dark as fuck

you won't pass as Japanese

>>8352002
she could be one of those light skinned ones tbh
I mean there's blonde Turks so it can't be more uncommon than that

>>8351756
not that other anon, but especially for moles where there is a lot of pigment, make sure that area stays out of the sun for a few months after you get it done. even the soft pink skin after a scar falls off darkens very easily and makes a scar stand out

i've had lots of mole removed before, but it was when i was younger and i stupidly didn't keep them out of the sun enough, so there are still dark spots which still haven't faded (i did the procedure about 6 years ago)

>>8352005
pacquiao is considered light skinned for a filipino

and that fucker was almost as dark as mayweather

>>8348694
>filipino
kill yourself no hope for you

>>8352007
Yeah, my doctor said she'd do it after the summer for that reason. Thanks for the advice!

>>8352002
maybe she got ching chong bloodline who knows

>>8352011
I mean like this bloke
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmlAs4qVu_c

>>8352002
Erm... Alodia?

>>8349603
You don't need surgery, you need to do some strength training like lifting/pilates/whatever to be leaner (aka toning)

>>8352876
she's chinese, also gone through many surgeries

>>8348835
>>8349333
>>8349592
>>8349606
Eyelid tape. I am in the same boat as you guys; 28 now and I doubt my retarded eye will magically fix itself. Get eyelid tape and wear it religiously. I'm to the point where I only need to wear it for a full day, and the eyelid will stay double for 2-3 days by itself before i need to tape again. It's the tape that's sticky on one side, btw - don't get that double-side-sticky tape cuz that will stretch the skin and make your lids saggy.

>>8349613
race is just dna. She can still change her look. heck even with blonde hair and blue eyes you can be as Asian as ever.

>>8353016
>race is just dna
holy shit no. also she's already asian, she's never going to be another nationality.

>>8353027
Nationality:the status of belonging to a particular nation.
All you have to do is move to a different country.

>>8352002
>sieg talking
My city is pinoy town, and they are many who are light AF.
And dark Nippons exist.
Fuck me for replying.

>>8353047
that's the definition yes, legally sure, but you're damn stupid if you think that it means the same thing socially.

>>8353099
It does? Like you have people of mixed race nowadays, it's not a set group of people anymore.

I had a nose job done late last year after wanting one since I was 12 and am very pleased with it. Not only has it helped my confidence, but it's improved my breathing and stopped my chronic nosebleeds since they fixed my septum at the same time. It isn't for everyone, and I would want to be absolutely sure of it before going through with something, but I can say from personal experience that it's been a substantial life improver.

Getting work done just for cosplay is creepy af and trying to look like a different race is even moreso.

Not for cosplay, but I'd kill someone for a nose job.
Wanted one since I was old enough to look in a mirror. I got my dad's middle eastern monster.

>>8354534
I feel you. I have the "roman nose" while everyone else in my family has cute noses :I people tell me they think it suits my face but I'm pretty sure they're bullshitting me.

I want botox or fillers in my marionette lines eventually, but I'm super duper worried about the whole "you gotta sleep on your back" thing. Like I can't control what position I sleep in omg. How do people do that?

Also kinda OT but one time in a class of mine we were discussing plastic surgery and the societal effects and blahblah and some girl raised her hand, mentioned she wanted to get a nose job, pointed at me and was like "I want to get a nose like yours" which felt like almost too much of a compliment. Cue blushing.

>>8352002
>be filipina
>be light skinned
>everyone thinks i'm japanese
>war veterans speak japanese to me
>japanese tourists speak japanese to me
>weeaboos and yellow fever dudes speak japanese to me

same goes for my aunt. it's weird. when i visited the philippines, they refused to believe that i am filipina. to be honest, i'm glad i look more japanese than filipina, but i'd rather just be cute.

>>8349285
>iktf

>>8352990
na she is half chinese filipino and half spanish filipino, so I have a point.

I do agree about the surgeries, she has that been-under-the-knife look.

I want to fix my longish face and get a cute roundish heart face. I'm thinking of going to South Korea someday and getting double or triple jaw surgery. The problem is that I can't find any place that has before and afters of white patients. So it's a little bit annoying. I feel that is the only thing my face needs. It's long in the mid-face and weak/long in the chin area. My bite seems to be too "forward" also, so it makes my chin look completely flat... I hope I can do it someday.

>>8348694
Honestly I just want surgery to look cuter in general. I am a female but I look kinda like a man it is embarrassing. I have a big nose and a strong jawline that contributes to this look and quite frankly no matter what I do I look like a teenage boy. I am pretty sure the only way to fix this is surgery (at least a nose job) so I totally understand that need anon.

>>8351963
Me as fuck; being a nonphotogenic cosplayer is suffering. My friends comment on it as well; I'm apparently graceful in motion, but in pictures it's just...bad. Big nose problems.

In some ways I'm tempted to save up for nose surgery once I become a Real Adult With A Job (as opposed to a college student which I am now), but on the other hand I've had this nose for my entire life and gotten teased for it so relentlessly that I sort of want to keep it as a general fuck you to the world. It's a weird decision to think about.

>>8354663

Why not just be proud of what you look like facially and embrace the things you can't change as parts of what make you you?

>>8348694
I'm a light skinned filipino, no one believes I'm filipino. I know a lot of dark skinned filipinos who tell me that they are jealous of me. When I visit, everyone assumes I'm half japanese half american. you should look into skin bleaching and skin lightening creams. You should also try make up to contour your flat filipino nose. You should also start wearing circle lenses on a daily basis with eye enlarging make up. Also do hairstyles that flatter your face. Lose a lot of weight and work out til your round filipino face gains a nice jawline

>>8355037
I can change it with the surgery. Embrace my ugly face? Um, no. Maybe you don't understand what it feels like to be ugly.

Can surgery fix a weak jaw? That's really the only major insecurity I have. If it can't, I'll just try and work with what I have.

>>8355037
You can't be proud of looking ugly mate.
>but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder blah blah
You keep telling yourself that, every time people tease you and take the piss and reject you for x or y. You can be an amazing person but you'll still end up alone if nobody is attracted to you and I highly doubt that people can change THAT much and become literal Mother Theresa in order for someone to love them. Most people are somewhere in the 'okay' category personality-wise and if you try to be funny or whatever you'll mostly end up looking stupid instead. Not to mention that if they aren't attracted to you they won't be interested in getting to know you anyway, and not everyone can charm people with like 2 seconds of interaction.

Also it's a cold hard fact that most people saying 'luv urself' don't know what it's like and don't have that problem themselves. And if surgery will make them happier, why not? Within reason, of course, don't go full BDD.

I'm not ugly but I had a big nose. Had it fixed (insurance yay) and you can really notice the difference in how people treat me. Just that one little tidbit. You can be proud of being a failure all you want but you're still gonna want to not be one at the end of the day.

>>8355097
It absolutely can.

>>8349325

haha I've seen a few of those strange pig-nose-like on some older ladies, that made me think they had a nose job years ago and that is what aging with plastic surgery does since it never looked natural in the first place.

>>8354576
>be filipino
>be fairly light skin
>everyone thinks i'm japanese (I always went ha! no filipino >.<
>fast forward 10 years.. parents visit p.i. for funeral - mom finds out she has Japanese and Chinese relatives from her side of the family.

You may be part Japanese. There are areas in Philipines that were either predominantly japanese/chinese immigrants there long before the war.

>>8355097
Just look for South Korean plastic surgeries. Jaw surgery is common

>>8355037
or maybe you can embrace the fact that people can do what they want with their faces if it makes them happy

>>8355097
Totally. I got a silicone chin implant and it turned out that was all I needed to fix mine.

>>8355112
i've asked my grandparents, and they say that they just have spanish on both sides. and i don't mean in the way that a lot of filipinos say that they are part spanish. my grandfather's mother was spanish. on my mom's side, there's recent spanish blood as well (i think another great grandparent?) to be honest, a few of my great aunts (grandma's sisters) look white.

>>8355037
Also why would an ugly face make me ME? That makes no sense. My personality makes me ME. Why can't people like you just accept the face that some people want to look good/attractive?

>>8355924
pics?

>>8348694
You're really holding yourself back. The sooner you learn to accept who you are (or least stop feeling ashamed of it), the sooner the stigma against your people's features will wane. Get surgery to enhance yourself, not become someone else.
And get over that weaboo/koreaboo shit.

>>8355104
>since it never looked natural in the first place.
Many nose jobs look natural though?

>>8349325
Eh, my nose doesn't age well anyway. People in my family get massive hook noses as they get older, so I'll take my chances.

I don't want a whole lot on my face, maybe my nose and my forehead, but thats it.

What I do want; is some of my ribs removed so I'll have a smaller waist and more of an hourglass figure.

>>8349552
truth. sorry.

PS: The Philippines is the worst place to cosplay.

>>8357279
Everyone's nose gets bigger with age.

I want to get breast implants.
nothing too big but I am so flat chested I don't need a bra. only reason to wear one is so my nipples don't poke through my shirt if I'm cold.

to fit into cute clothes I use crossdresser methods and wear 2 or sometimes 3 padded bras at once.

Going out swimming is a huge emberassment, so I just buy myself kids swimsuits.

If I was shorter people would probably assume that I was a kid but I'm a 5'11" girl and people question my gender constantly. even asking my mother. out of second hand emberassment in highschool she started getting me super pushup bras.

I was thinking about getting prosthetics to help it but why not just get surgery and not have to deal with this again.


>gender gets questioned constantly by rude strangers
>If I wear 3 padded bras at once to simulate boobs no one asks my gender
>want to get implants to fix this
I'm tired of being in the itty bitty tiddie committee

>>8360763


It's a shitty position to be in when people keep asking about your gender, but don't let that dictate your body.

If you really want the tits, get them. Plastic surgery has such a bad hype, but it's so common these days. Getting a slightly bigger set of buzungas doesn't seem like a big deal at all.

I know a handful of people who have got the procedure, and it seems like breast augmentation is a pretty easy in-out surgery these days.

>>8355025

I'm crazy scarred from acne, so I try to cosplay characters with masks or hidden faces. I won't say it's a brilliant technique, but it works well, and keeps me from worrying about someone taking a picture and seeing nothing but pizza-face.

Nose surgery is fucking painful in the healing process. If you do decide to get it, make sure when you save up money, you're also saving up enough to be out of work for a couple of weeks. Or just leave your nose, like I leave my face.

I'm an "unfortunate" looking person, but there's not a lot I can do about it. Dressing nice, having a nice haircut, and being the nicest person in the room has been the only reason I'm not quasi-modo hiding in a church-tower.

>>8352002
>never seen people from okinawa

If I can afford it, I would change everything of me until I look pretty, no matter the risk

>>8348841

Could you break your nose without noticing? Legit question. I don't remember breaking my nose and neither do my parents, but my nose is crocked to one side (even if it's just a little, enough for me to notice it and to cause some breathing problems). Although I do remember getting hit with a ball a couple of times when I was little during gym class, and I know it really hurt but no signs of bruising or anything so Idk.

>>8348694
Subtle nose job and subtle jaw reduction are on my wishlist for when I finally get a steady job.

I wish there was a way to like, tone up my face? I'm not fat, but there's just not any definition to my face, it's a squishy little potato. The idea of cheekbone implants horrifies me, though.

>>8360763
I had a girlfriend that looked like her breast were on the larger side, like a large C cup. She'd wear shirts that made them look big but when she took off her top I was totally confused, her tits were rather small. I inspected her bra and it was filled with water, all of her bras were padded in some form or another. She started to realize what I was doing and thought that I was materialistic. She believed I was checking to see if she wore brand name clothes but in actuality I was looking for her true size. She was an A cup

It was strange that initially she seemed to enjoy believing she was fooling me with her fake body and getting away with it. What a stupid girl

If you want to deceive people plastic surgery is going overboard imo, there's no need for it when there are so many products designed for that without the expensive surgery

I was thinking about cosmetic surgery for the longest time but I always worry about what the long term effects of it can be. Will it make me look awful years later?

>>8362176
>It was strange that initially she seemed to enjoy believing she was fooling me with her fake body and getting away with it. What a stupid girl
>and now that s-s-tupid w-whore is buried in my basement while i gently fondle my japanese boob mousepad boob mousepad chan will n-n-never lie to me...

My face looks so fat even though I am not. It is so frustrating I tried to lose a lot of weight but that just made me look sick. I either look emaciated or fat and honestly it is so frustrating. I don't know what I would get done but just in general make my face look better would be a great start.

Also just general body improvements I suppose like my stomach and thighs and hips and such.

>>8362176
>things that never happened

>>8349383
I had a 17mm birthmark taken off my face via laser and it's healed really nicely. Just do EVERYTHING the doctor tells you to do for aftercare and your skin might look a bit melted after the laser. I also had a small mole taken off my upper lip and it healed perfectly with no melty effect during healing time.

>>8349618

Mine healed in less than six months.

I really want to get a subtle filler in my upper lip because right now my lips do that awful :3 thing. I also want to get my freckles removed. I freckle really badly and all the light ones have been removed via suncare but the really dark ones aren't going anywhere.

>>8351963
Oh god yes, I'm so happy to find someone that can relate.
Luckily I don't cosplay, but I do have friends that don't want to take pictures with me because I'm so unphotogenic it's embarrassing. Now I'm really hyped to save up for surgery just because my feelings about this are validated hahaha

I want a breast lift and augmentation. Speedy weight loss made my tits deflate and sag, and now I'm pregnant, so I gained a shit ton of weight again, a lot of which I will likely lose once I start breastfeeding. That's a lot of breast tissue damage. Of course, it will be a few years before I can start financing a cosmetic procedure.

I'd also love rhinoplasty. I doubt I'll be able to do both that and the tit improvements, though.

If I get my pre-pregnancy abs back, along with a tit job and maybe rhinoplasty, I plan on cosplaying Jeanette from VTM. And that's just to start. Of course it's only loosely cosplay related.

>>8360763
Saaame as fuck. My lack of cleavage severely bothers me. It doesn't help that my friends constantly make jabs at it. My bf has expressed many a time that he's a boob man, too. Like I have tried all forms of boob magic, multiple bras, contouring, inserts. It's just straight sternum there.

i have uneven titties and i want nothing more than to have them evened out

>>8360763
>>8362726
as someone who feels like tiny to nonexistent boobs are hot as fuck, especially on tall girls, i always feel sad when people want to get rid of their beautiful flat chest, even if i'll never see it.
i know people have different tastes and all, but you two don't even sound like you actually find your lack of boobs ugly, it's just social pressure and lack of self confidence...

God you girls are such trash.

>>8362908

>>8362908
why are you here then?

>>8362817
i've got them too, and i can tell you mine have evened out a little with time. there's still a small difference, but it's way less noticeable that when i was 20.
i was told it could disappear with pregnancy too, but i'm not gonna get pregnant to check...

>>8362935
shitty males always find trashy girls hot, even if they can't admit it

I had facial reconstruction sugery 2 years ago, which included a rhinoplasty, bichat bags extraction and mentoplasty. I love what my doctor did in terms of nose and cheeks but Im still conflicted about my chin.

>>8363277
Wow, anon, you look great. I think your chin is nice!

This made me seriously consider surgery, but the fact that my friends/family would all know bothers me a bit too much.

>>8363288
Thanks Anon, that's really sweet of you.
We come from different backgrounds and have different stories, so I wont ask you why you family's and friends' opinions matter so much to you
For me:
>classmates made fu of nose since kinder
>cry about it
>parents promise surgery when I turn 18
>parents remind promise every year when Id complain about nose
>Turn 18
>parents "lol jk"
>be mad af, so start making my own money
>save enough for surgery
>parents try to dissuade me
>"Im going to have the surgery sooner or later with or without your help"
>be happier with new face

>>8363277
quit while you're ahead

this is the best advice you've ever received

>>8363313
I feel like if I got surgery it would upset my dad since we have almost carbon copy faces, I don't want him to think I think he's ugly or I don't like our family features. I've kind of just resigned myself to being a little goofy looking.

I'm glad you're happier now! As long as you're doing it to make yourself happy I think plastic surgery can be great for self-esteem.

>>8363324
>carbon copy face of dad
>goofy looking
is your name Maximilian??

>>8363277
i remember you posting about two years ago! the doctor was your dad's friend/coworker, right? you look great~ your chin looks really good, in my opinion.

>>8363339
10/10 post

>>8363341
Hello kind Anon. Yes it's me, Im back to show support to those that feel conflicted about having surgery.

>>8363339
top kek, anon. That's basically my life though.

>>8362944
How old are you now? Because I am 20 right now and this is horrible. The other problem is mine look totally different and I really like the way my smaller one looks and I'm afraid if they do even out, the smaller one will end up looking like the bigger one.

>>8362176
Plastic surgery isn't really deceiving people, though. You DO actually look like that after the procedure. It's only deceptive if you say that you've never had cosmetic surgery.

>>8362944
I'm pregnant now and it has made my uneven titties worse. I hope that it evens out during breastfeeding, but the difference has gone from barely noticeable to "holy shit my right areola is twice as big as the left."

>>8363644
sounds like youre gonna need a breast
lift. i doubt theyll be matching sizes after birth since one stretched out that much

>>8360763
You're super lucky though anon
I totally wish I didn't have a large chest
It looks super cute with most Jfashions
Wanna cosplay a guy?
No problem
Wanna cosplay a woman?
Just get some fake boobs to put into a really large bra

I kinda wanna get surgery to make my breasts smaller, maybe b cup
I think people will think its super weird though, weirder than getting implants
Also I've looked at pictures of women who've gotten breast reducing surgery, and it looks awful

>>8363277
Wow, you look amazing. I really want to get surgery now.

>>8360763
fake tits are disgusting, expensive and high maintenance. plus guys who like fake tits are usually stupid douches. stick to your tiny ones or get the fat transfer kind.

>>8364696
not that anon, but i'd go for the fat transfer kind, but i'm totally afraid that the fat will distribute weirdly and become lumpy. i've read that it happens, at least.

>>8364696
>has obviously never seen a good boob job

there are different types and shapes of implants. depending on the ones you choose and their size they could look natural

>>8364696
>fat transfer kind
explain

>>8348694
The only way to honestly look decent is just getting rid of the round looking nose.
As a half filo i at least have a nose bridge but lack definition on the tip, thinking about getting it done but yea. And since the other half is aussie everything else is pretty good.

I like to use Belo products for toning my skin. You just need makeup and such to give of the Kor and Jap look.
If your getting your nose done because you want to look more kawaii, you must me 13 so wait till your older and think about it.

>>8362019
Absolutely. Especially when young, I didn't even know that I'd broken mine until I went to see an ORL and she said 'oh, you've got a deviated septum and there's signs of broken cartilage'. Now that I think back I can pinpoint exactly what'd caused it (falling on my face... from a low balcony) but I was raised in the sticks where any injury is treated with 'eh, let's just dab some whiskey on it and see if it gets worse in the morning' so it's possible that nobody really knew about it.

>>8363313
that's the worst, I hate it when people tell me to 'just be happy with myself lol' when they're not the ones who have to live in my damn body 24/7. People made fun of me since primary school, I used to look like Lauren Socha and whenever I complained about looking like I steal scrap metal for a living people would just butt in with 'nooooooo, you have an.... aristocratic nose!'
So much better now.

>>8364696
>>8364700
I want the fat transfer one for after I have kids and my boobs get all gross, but I'm super worried about fat necrosis because if it goes wrong you end up with smaller, lumpy boobs

>>8365305
I had to google who that was.
I can't believe that actress is 24. She looks 30.

>>8363277
You look like two different persons. Did your friends not recognize you at first? Or was the recovery so gradual that everyone adjusted?

>>8365479
big noses and thin lips make people look older than they actually are
I know a lot of ugly teenagers that look 35 in the face but have the body of a child

>>8363313
>parents lie to you for years giving you false hope
bruuuh

>>8363978
grass is always greener. I'm thankful for not having back problems and have no interest in crossplaying.

>>8363277
wow, anon... we have a very similar face. i always thought i wouldn't be able to fix it much, but you give me so much hope. ;_;

>>8363277
Hey anon, can we have b&a pics from the front? I'd like to see if you were one of those people who look qt from front view but weird from the side. You're a qt3.14 now btw

>>8363637
You're partially right and at the same time totally right if they don't come clean
But you're deceiving pretty much everyone you meet because that isn't really the way you're meant to look, aside from the usual weight loss or weight gain, piercings, hair color and so on. It's deception on a deeper level. That's the way I see it anyway, there are exceptions with extreme cases, most of which are medical. This is my perspective and probably alot of other guys too, for the most part we live our lives the way we came in, the only thing you'll find on our faces is hair. Our experience with our looks molds us and gives each person a unique experience, whether it's considered favorable or not we take it and love ourselves for who we are, judge ourselves by our actions and character. There's more to life than the superficial, although you might not realize it by our comments we're alot less critical irl.

That ex's small breast wasn't really the issue.. it was her attitude. Her insecurity, that need to be dishonest about herself and using it as bait.

>>8365679
What's the way you're 'meant' to look then? And isn't surgery itself a unique experience that moulds us? I've had an appendectomy and now have a huge scar across my abdomen, was I MEANT to have it? Are people MEANT to have cancer too? If your face was mangled from birth and people recoil when they see you, would you not want to look normal? Are cleft palate surgeries deception too?

By your logic, wearing pretty clothes is 'deception' too, but you still enjoy women who wear them. Which in my book makes you a hypocrite.

>>8365686
No, it's a procedure based on superficiality and vanity. It changes you on the outside while you on the inside remain stunted or rotten

>>8365701
Confirmed for retard.

>>8365701
if i am rotten and vain on the inside, why not make the outside how i want? the plastic surgery reflects how shallow i am on the inside. do you think that ugly people are ugly on the inside?

>says being rotten on the inside matters
>believes artificially making yourself pretty is deceptive
>judges people's insides by their outward appearance
>ishygddt

>>8363523
it started evening out at 24-25

>>8363644
well fuck

>>8365134
They're still high maintenance, like anon pointed out. Even if they look good though, they don't feel or act like real boobs and weight more than they would if the size was natural.
>>8365151
They take fat from other areas of your body and stick it in your boobs. As other anons have already mentioned there is a chance of fat neurosis(the fat in the breasts leaving the breast area or disappearing all together, or the fat will be lumpy and cellulite shaped.

>>8365701
Plastic surgery is just a kind of body modification like any other, it's more drastic though. It's the same idea as getting a ton of tattoos or facial piercings, it changes the way people view you as a person. A lot of it is fad or based on the trends of the time, which make it really interesting to me. Things like boob jobs were never heard of or desirable until a few decades ago(same with liking large breasts all together) and may go out of style eventually as well. Even so, extreme body modification for beauty is prevalent through ancient cultures, some being long standing traditions like foot binding in china which lasted 1000 years.

The idea of natual being beautiful is also a very recent thing almost world wide. corsetry, breast binding, foot binding(as I mentioned), makeup and all those things have been around since ancient times.

Your idea of natural beauty and how one is 'meant' to look is infact the alien one even though our culture is trying to shift into that being the norm, it's doubtful it can happen any time soon because it has history to go up against.

Fads may change but they will still exist, you'll just need to learn to accept it.

>>8363322
Perhaps, I don't want to become an addiction.
>>8365305
I feel ya, worst part is when people tell you you can't change your "insert body part" because you'll change who you are, like wth Im not just my nose!
>>8364687
Thanks kind Anon, go ahead chase your dreams!
>>8365570
There's always hope!
>>8365482
Friends who knew about the surgery did recognize me, they said I looked nice, other friends who didn't asked if I had lost weight lol.

>>8365575
Sure, and thanks Anon!