/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>Haven't gone to a meet up in a while due to school
>>go to the first one in forever
>>friends can't go so I go alone
>>awkwardly watch as itas show up
>>be only one with a solidly good outfitt
>>one girl stands out
>>wearing really shitty sailor bodyline
>>awkwardly bad handmade accessories that look like a three year old made them
>>stained white tights and no makeup
>>stay 10 feet away form her at all times
>>fast forward to us getting food from a stand
>>everyones in small groups talking and I'm standing off by myself when I see it happen
>>she needs a napkin
>>doesn't ask for it
>>instead steals napkin right out of older guys hand uses it
>> throws it back to him
>> it hits him square in the face
>> he's shocked
>>I'm shocked
>> she LAUGHS and runs away
>> am the only one who saw
>> dude and I look at each other
>> mouth sorry awkwardly and walk away

TO BE CONTINUED

>>9248170

LATER

> We're all walking around
> she casually mentions she's 14
> no one knows what to do
> she's a minor
> we don't let anyone under 16 attend our meets
> no one knows what to do
> look to meet host
> awkwardly makes an excuse and says she has to leave
> rest of us are trapped with cringey underage
>decide to get food in a restaurant
>half decide to leave
>there's 6 of of us left
>arrive at restaurant barely
>have to trade off on who's keeping an eye on her the whole way
> get stuck sitting next to her
> and am enjoying conversation while she literally stuffs herself with food
> thankful she's quiet for once
> she leaves to go to the bathroom
> everyone lets out a huge sigh
> talk for a bit and everyone's enjoying conversation
>cringe-chan comes back and rejoins convo
>starts talking about smut and fanfic
>everyone starts getting uncomfortable
> no one knows what to do
> go back to previous conversation
> I start to talk about my academic research
> everyone's interested
>cringe-chan opens up her mouth
> says my research is wrong
> says it's dumb
> everyone gets really quiet
> I'm shocked and visibly angry
> tell her I'm a doctoral student
> I work with the top professionals in the field
> continues to insist she's right
> no one knows what to do
> people start to tell cringe-chan she doesn't know what she's talking about
>doesn't stop
> We ask for bill
>dead quiet
> I'm shaking with rage and being told my life's work is wrong by a 14 year old
> no one else knows what to do bill comes
> we all pay our parts
> bill comes back someone didn't pay enough
>guess who
> we all just suck it up and chip in more
> all just want to leave
> finally leave and cringe-chan continues to follow the other group
>duck into alley to loose them
> never going to a meet without friends again.

>>9248174
>> bill comes back someone didn't pay enough
>>guess who
>> we all just suck it up and chip in more
Ok so I'm with you on the rest of this, she's a fucking shitbag and god bless you and your comm for babysitting her weeb ass, but here, right fucking here, is where you all should've told her the fuck off.
>1. Our comm has a rule against people under 16 and we have generously allowed you to stay
>2. You have on more than one occasion in this meetup alone publicly embarrassed us
>3. You insisted on coming along to eat at a restaurant where you did not have enough money to pay for the food you bought

>What you need to do, cringe-chan, is call your mommy or whoever your guardian is, and tell them you're at a restaurant and can't cover the rest of your bill, and then tell them to pick you up. If they want to know why, we will be glad to let them know.

The Lolita Collective is never going to come to another con in my state because of stupid con drama. That kind of sucks.

>>9248174
>getting this mad about what a baby thinks of your doctoral research
shiggydiggity

And someone seriously needs to message her about etiquette and talk to your mods about ensuring that children aren't allowed at your meets. And possibly learn how to tactfully shut people down.

Once I attended a meet with a really new "lolita." She's not wearing lolita, at all, has never done research on her own, doesn't understand what lolita is, and her only reference is from Black Butler. She decides to ask me 21 questions about lolita, and basically asks me to spoonfeed her info. I told her about lacemarket, and she asks to use my phone to look at the website. I tell her she can look it up on her own phone but she refuses and says "I'm not comfortable with sharing my public information with you. I just want to look through your account"
Then proceeds to ask me to be her shopping service because she doesn't want to use her own card or info. I tell her sure, as long as she's willing to pay me 35% commission off everything she buys. I mean, why not right? If she's too lazy or paranoid to do it on her own, she should pay. Plus I didn't think she'd take me up on the offer. But anyway, she agrees and busts out her wallet.

Hands me a $50 and says she wants a dress with "this much" like some child asking to buy a teddy bear. I show her some bodyline pieces and she shakes her head and points to my dress saying "NO, I want DIS ONE!" Again, like a child. I laugh and tell her my ride is here.

I haven't been to a meet since. She apparently goes to all of them now. She follows me on insta and occasionally messages me telling me I'm her "kawaii loli senpai" ....

>>9245366

>> Large amount of teenagers in comm,
>> Aristocrat Pedo bear joins comm,
>> You see where this is going

I would feel bad if we flat out had an age restriction or gender, but the orginal comm mod won't let us screen.

>> Plus had to deal with cops, not my fave thing.

>>9245366
Ho boy I got one
>Be me, at large con with another friend
>not comfortable with being alone, but I manned up for most of the con
>friend meets an emo guy, and she is in love apparently
>he was a fucking douche
>Like, 6 years older than her
>I tried to warn her, but she just wanted to kiss him and make me feel awkward every second
>I fuck off to walk around, and she calls me an hour later
>"HE ONLY WANTED TO SLEEP WITH ME WEH WEH"
>the fuck did I tell you.jpg
>She is crying and wants me to comfort her and ruin the saturday (best day of the con)
>I refuse
>She tells my friends, and they all call me a heartless monster
>after an hour, I make new friends, and have a good time

I just found out she died of a heroine overdose a few weeks ago. Really makes you think.

>>9248301
Jfc, sorry about that mess you knew, anon. I've met a few like that that and they'll totally ruin your cons with their self-made drama. I'd say "Sorry for your loss", but you're really better off.

>>9248253
i too have encountered a clueless child like this who imprinted on me after i spoonfed them. thankfully i've managed to cut her out of my social interaction, but jesus christ, never again

>>9248211
Lolita collective says that to every con they go to. Nothing new they have always been drama whores.

>Have meet near place that's popular with tourists and families
>Annoying af brolita attends
>After meetup, chat about going for some food
>Nobody has paid attention to brolita for 5 seconds
>Decides it's perfect time to screech at the top of his lungs about all the gay sex he had at da club recently
>Mortified
>Tourists and families look on in horror
>Rush into elevator
>Brolita continues yelling about his escapades in this small enclosed space
>At least now not a giant crowd of normie onlookers
>Cringe forever
>This is a regular occurrence

>>9248210
OP here

Yah looking back we should have but like she was 14 and none of us wanted to be mean or act inappropriate so we all kind of just quietly looked at each other waiting for someone else to.

>>9248218
To be fair, OP was probably like already fed up with underage-chan so her dumb comments probably pissed her off more than usual, where any other day it would've been like "lol, you're so dumb, thanks for your shit opinion"

idk maybe i'm just projecting

>>9248174
>I'm shaking with rage and being told my life's work is wrong by a 14 year old

Get ahold of yourself for fuck's sake.

Not my comm, but this showed up in my Instagram feed and I think it counts

>>9248657

>>9248657
Guys. She actually posted on reddit about her kid puking on the dress. She knew the event wasn't kid friendly and brought it anyway.

>>9248657
>>9248660
wait wait. was it the mom's dress, or someone else's dress?
holy fuck, deets

>>9248660
Holy shit, links?

>>9248661
Nope. The kid puked on another lolita's dress as she was posting on reddit asking about what a proper apology gift would be. The other non-lolita moms told her she should definitly pay for the cleaning and buy her extra gifts. She said it was a flocked chiffon AP dress. So pretty sure it was her posting.

>>9248662
It's in a subreddit you have to request to join. I just went back and checked to see the original post and account was deleted.

>>9248666
Jesus fucking Christ, I hope she follows through and reimburses the girl her baby puked on. I don't think anyone in my comm has young children, but if a baby ever turns up at a meet, I will be as far from it as possible at all times.

>>9248502
This is why I wish I was not too much of an autist to go to meets, essentially because I'm enough of an autist that I would have had absolutely no problem telling her to fuck off (in kinder words).

>>9248666
wow. hopefully she pays for the cleaners, and then never brings her baby to a meet again. jesus.

my comm is home to a few drama queens who are constantly pulling this type of shit. i've gotten used to it and don't let it bother me (unless they do something particularly egregious), but here's a story from one of our more recent events.

>rural/outdoor museum meet
>they've got these cute little wagons for people's kids to ride in
>we ask if its okay to use one for our purses, since its not a busy day, people give us the go ahead
>one member always brings her elderly mother to meets. both can be pretty cringe worthy, and today the mom claims she's been deathly ill for three weeks
>the check in/out station is at the bottom of kind of steep hill
>we get about a third of the way up it and mother 'can't go on'
>daughter suggests she get in the cart ... and she does, after making us take all our stuff out
>daughter pulls her up the hill, everyone else exchanges uncomfortable glances and takes off to do things
>about twenty minutes later we meet up again to organize
>mother can 'barely stand'
>daughter decides they need to leave, right that instant ... taking her back down in the hill in that damn cart
>rest of the meet was fine, looked around some more and had a cute brunch

>>9245366
This one happened a while back, but I haven't typed it up before, so with me luck!

>>Be me, part of small but chill local community - some girls are better at coording than others, but everyone's decent, and we all get along really well
>>Meets tend to be budget as most of us are students, but we go for tea, play games, and catch up as a comm at least every month - but most of us are friends outside of the comm too, so if there's a vintage fair on or we fancy going out, there will usually be two others who'll come with
>>Comm is just chill and lovely, meets are inexpensive and relaxed, comm is a solid 9/10
>>UNTIL Douchecanoe-kun, D for short, joined the comm...
>>First meet, shows up in the plainest black JSK I've ever seen, a white work shirt, black converse, and no legwear
>>No legwear is highly relevant here as D had pasty-white legs, and dark hair.
>>Because the lack of make-up and dental hygiene wasn't enough, this man-child was seriously greasy, with lank hair and the distinct smell of parents who didn't love him enough to make him wash
>>Force down the literal gagging, try to be nice, it'll be fine, right?
>>NARRATOR: "IT WAS NOT FINE"
>>D has the social awareness of a drunken penguin, and while the comm tries to facilitate him, it gets ridiculous
>>Constantly late to meets, needs someone to fetch him from the station when he arrives, doesn't participate in games or conversations
>>Has been going on about this massive Taobao order since the first meet, is only wearing this shitty coord until it arrives and he will be a beautiful lolita-chan.
>>A year later, no sign of this Taobao order - mass hallucination? Pointless lie? Who knows
>>But things come to a head when D makes a very public post slamming my community for discriminating against him on the basis of his autism
>>There are no reaction images for what my face looked like, but I am so done.

>>9248745
Part two:

>>Comment on the post in question
>>"Literally nobody gives a rat's ass, son - I was diagnosed as HFA by a trained professional when I was nine, I get along with everyone. You started reblogging "Autism Awareness" memes six months ago?"
>>While I generally keep my mouth shut about my autism because nobody cares, they're all close friends, and they're 10/10 fab at explaining when I'm dense and miss context
>>"Also, we've busted our asses to get you involved - we invite you to meets, one of us sits with you when you have a "moment", we've started only playing team games at meets so you'd have the chance to interact!"
>>"And if you seriously felt this was happening, why not raise it with the comm mod who's been trying to integrate her fellow Vulcan, instead of slamming our comm when we've put ourselves out for you?"
>>I have summarised, but it was glorious - after months of this BS, I got to call him out, Ride of the Valkyries is playing from the heavens as I tear this boy to shreds on his status, my pen is poison and I am the hammer of justice
>>A few minutes pass, and I get a notification that he's sent a PM, this is going to be good
>>The boy is backtracking and denying what he did like a Republican, not sure if delusional or thinks I have the IQ of a cabbage
>>Now understand why autists are called bad liars, because the second-hand cringe is making me wince, and I have the EQ of a turnip
>>And he's asking for help as he thinks he's offended the rest of the comm
>>Slight tea break here while I adjust my will to include the proviso "shoot me if I ever get to this level"
>>Reply to this message with "IDK, you kinda messed up here, I've got nothing. Apologise, maybe?"
>>Meanwhile, I have capped everything, because I do not have the IQ of a cabbage
>>And while this boy backpedals and makes excuses, the whole comm is getting these caps

Part 3 to come!

>>9248760
i spit out my drink
please post caps anon

>>9248760
Continued:

>>The rest of the comm is as cross about this as I am, because we have all busted our asses to be friendly and include this shit
>>And I propose that, if D doesn't feel included and thinks that it's appropriate to treat us the way he has, we should just ban him and save ourselves the headache
>>Tiny chill comm has no kind of booting/complaints issue, this is the first time anyone has ever had an isssue
>>But a unanimous vote was made that he was now the problem of the next comm over
>>Victory has never tasted so good...

>>...until he attends the next comm over and starts badmouthing our comm to every girl assembled
>>Our big regional comm includes this comm too, so big meets are shared, and there are some girls who are part of both
>>Some of the girls who are part of both enlighten the rest of the group on what really happened
>>D was banned from the next comm over, and the regional comm
>>And considering we had to walk him to and from the station and put him on the train? Somehow I doubt he's going to the comm on the other side of the state.
>>Somehow, the aftertaste of victory is even better, because he brought it all on himself

>>9248760
>>9248745
F5 F5 F5

>>9248729
I don't understand why the he'll anyone would think it was appropriate to bring a baby to a meetup. They're basically like small animals. (Also please don't bring your pets to meet up holy shit)

>>9248452
How is nobody like "can you shut the fuck up, you're being awful and embarrassing us" especially if it's happened multiple times?

>>9248174
You sound like a total sperg jesus christ

>>9248777
now imagine being in my comm, where the vast majority are mums who all bring their babies ranging from infancy to young children
>if you complain they WILL ban together and kick you out

>>9248867
Jesus. I'm a morher and my kid stays far away from the meetups. I was always worried something like >>9248657
Would happen and I'd rather be safe then sorry. If I didn't have a baby sitter. I didn't go. If it was at a family friendly place(like the zoo) my husband takes the kid to enjoy the rest of the place and I hang with the other lolitas and meet him later on.

>>9248832
An aspie? On 4chan? No....

>>9248867
I'm.so sorry anon. Children are great, but they have no place at meets.

>>9248709
I am that autist. It's honestly kind of crazy how so many girls will whisper and make faces whenever someone is doing something they don't like but never seem to dream of speaking up. I'm not even talking about telling someone to fuck off, but simply correcting an oblivious person on their behavior.

>in the train with other comm members heading to a meetup
>one younger girl is taking up multiple seats by sitting crossways and having her bags and parasol strewn everywhere
>train gets more crowded, other people would probably like to sit but girl doesn't seem to notice
>bunch of other girls, including both of our comm mods, start whispering like "omg can you believe it, she's embarrassing all of us, how can she be that blind, is she retarded or something, omg I'm so embarrassed I hope those people don't think lolitas are all like rude retards like she is"
>since nobody else is going to say anything I decide to speak up
>Hey [name] could you maybe put your bag on your lap to free up some seats? I think other people would like to sit down. Cool, thanks!
>girl thanks me for mentioning it and immediately gathers her shit up, we end up joking about it
>later during the meet she comes up to me to thank me, says she's an aspie and doesn't always notice when she's being rude unless someone points it out to her
>she ends up leaving the cafe early and as soon as she's gone, mods & co. start talking shit about what an embarrassing autist she is
This actually made me angry, to be honest. Our mods are both >26 year old women and the oblivious aspie girl is 17. I get that they don't want to play mother hen all the time, but don't spend half the meetup bitching about her and say she ruined the meetup for you if you didn't even make the slightest attempt to correct her behavior.

>>9248737
Why even subject your mother to this? If I'm old and a pile if bones, the last thing I want is to be dragged outside by my daughter to play IRL Barbie dolls.

>>9248872
Isn't it sad that I wish more mothers were like you? Not even just in lolita but in general. So many moms seem to think that every place and event is acceptable for their children, and most of the time it's just a really shitty situation for both the kids and everyone else around them. What child would honestly have fun at a lolita meet, unless it was somewhere like an aquarium or a carnival? Good on you for being responsible. It should go without saying but I feel like it's so rare these days that your behavior is commendable.

>>9248502
I understand that you all were dumbfounded back then and I salute you for acting so gracious. However it is not at all mean to try and educate a child about how people interact socially in a way that works for everybody.

>>9248210
is good advice.

>>9248174
What´s the subject of your reasearch, anon?

>>9248867
I'm so not okay with this. Like if you want to have a lolita mummy coffee group meetup with your sprogs, fine. But if you insist that children should be able to come to ALL meetups then that's just....retarded and a half. You know the solution is to host your own adults-only meetups at fancy cocktail bars right?

>>9248657
We have a mum in our comm and she tries to make the dad take care of their child for meetups as far as possible, but if she can't make it she always asks and is ok if the answer is no.

Anyways, my mum had 0 social life or dates (single mum) for 18 years except for ocassional weddings she couldn't avoid where I stayed with my grandma. I don't understand why these people can't stay at home with their children desu...

>>9249128
>0 social life or dates for 18 years
>I don't understand why these people can't stay at home with their children desu...

You honestly can't see why that might be a living hell?

Parents are still autonomous human beings, anon. They're allowed to have fun and do things on their own.

>>9249149
>They're allowed to have fun and do things on their own
>on their own
>without dragging their babies with them
yes

>>9249151
I got the implication that anon was saying "They shouldn't even get babysitters, they should stay at home with the kids 24/7."

My bad.

>>9248867
sounds like they should just have a moms only group

Speaking of shitty comm members dragging their spawn to meets.
>Be me
>Have a few chronic health issues, on medication and a wheelchair user, but still come to meets looking put together and cute as fuck
>Everything is great, all the girls who come to meetups are helpful and chill
>A very small portion of meets aren't accessible, but it's not a big deal because I am an adult and not a toddler
>Enter toddler #1, let's call her T
>This woman is way older than the rest of the comm, has been in the comm for a couple years but was inactive for as long as I'd been there
>My turn to plan the comm's meet, it's christmas in less than a month so I plan a festive meet with a cute (but cheap) gift exchange. It's a small enough comm that most of us get each other christmas presents every year anyways
>Find a cute cafe that serves christmassy shit, make a reservation for the amount of people who had confirmed, plus a couple to be safe
>Post on the comm with the address and time of booking, everyone is happy
>A couple of days before the meet, T comments, saying that we cannot have the meet there, as there is nothing gluten free for her.
>T has neither confirmed that she was coming or told me that she was gluten free beforehand
>Another comm member is coeliac, but always offers to bring her own food. I have raised this with the cafe, and they've said that they have no issue with her bringing her own cake to have with their tea.
>Mention this to T, who is very triggered
>The cafe is small, can seat maybe 25, and the other comm member's coeliac is bad enough that even using the same baking tray sets her off. Asking them to do it is not realistic.
>Explain this to T, who is once more, triggered.
>T suggests we hold the meet (the deposit for which was paid two weeks ago, when the confirmation went through) at a local greasy spoon so she can have fries.
>I refuse, because the comm members who RSVPd on time have paid a deposit (which is non-refundable and goes towards the bill)
>cont

>>9249235
>She hissy fits but gives in, saying that she'll just not eat, because she 'has issues with eating in public anyway'
>Let it go, return to being chill. She doesn't pay deposit, but whatever.
>Meet comes up, and most of the comm is there. Atmosphere is great, everyone looks adorable, and even though it is warm in the south, most of us are in cute seasonal outfits.
>Then T arrives
>From the get go, she looks less than great. Hot topic 'lolita', if ever I've seen one. No blouse, flat hair, mismatched shades etc.
>Assume she's new to lolita so cut her some slack.
>Gift exchange goes really well, but she wasn't included due to late RSVP, so while that's happening she gets irritated. She's not the only one not in it, but she's the only one who makes a fuss.
>Food is lovely, the cafe are really sweet and even bring out clean plates and napkins for our coeliac to use, everyone is happy
>Meet finishes, we all go shopping and for drinks and then go our separate ways.
>A few girls compliment me on the meet, it was simple but intimate and very festive
>Best friend in the comm messages me to say that T has posted a big rant about this meet.
>Read rant, try not to laugh. T was claiming to be oppressed because she had to go to the convenience store a minute away to get food, when she'd said in the comm that she had issues eating in public and didn't want to eat.
>Message her privately, explain to her that changing the meet last minute was not possible, and if she'd told me before booking it I could have made adjustments.
>We argue for a while, but she backs down eventually and deletes the post. I have caps, as do half of the comm.
>Best friend's turn to plan a meet
>There's a local historic house, and it's a lot of walking, but the other girls all offer to chip in pushing my wheelchair so I decide to go
>Again, a couple of days before the meet, T comments, saying that it would be expensive for her because she'll also have to buy a child ticket
>Hold up
cont

>>9249254
>"Oh, yeah, I'm bringing my three year old because she loves lolita."
>Best friend is confused, because this meet was very much a 'relaxing in cute clothes' kind of deal, and not very kid friendly.
>Best friend messages T, saying as much, and once again T is feeling very attacked and makes a post about how lolitas hate mothers because we're all children and we don't understand the world because we are all immature
>Done with her shit, make a comment on the post that is polite but shuts down her argument, clarifying that the reason the meet wasn't really child friendly was because there was nothing for children to do
>She won't accept that as a reason, still makes out that we have done her some injustice etc
>One of the most active members in the comm, who is like a big sister to everyone, snaps and comes down on this bitch hard for talking shit
>It is hilarious
>Meet time again, and none of us are expecting her to show her face after that debacle
>She does
>Of course she does
>Hasn't brought her child, and thankfully so, as most of the meet was just walking.
>Brings up her kid every two minutes. 'She loves roses, she's so well behaved, pink is her favorite color, she would have loved your headdress'
>Nobody is falling for her buddy-buddy shit, but we are polite
>Meet ends, a few of us decide to go for food and drinks in a local cafe
>T comes, despite not being invited, calls her boyfriend as soon as we've ordered food, and has him come over and bring her daughter
>Kid is messier and louder than any child I have ever met
>She makes the girls crowd in around the table to accommodate these additions
>Want to leave but have already ordered food
>Hate screaming but love food
>Most difficult decision of my life
>End up staying, because bacon
>Her boyfriend is staring at me the whole time
>Literal eat and run
>Get home, and she's posted another rant
>This is getting pretty fucking old
cont

>>9249263
Oh boi, this is the most fun read I have had in days *grabs popcorn*

>>9245366
Fresh from October MCM.

>Friday MCM rolls about
>getting ready in hotel room
>stomach isn't happy
>stomach.exe has encountered a critical error
>lead into bathroom and puke guts up
>just water
>"you ok?"
>"I'm fine."
>continue getting ready convinced it was just a hangover or something
>stomach still kills
>drink water etc.
>feels better
>five seconds later
>stomach isn't happy
>FUUUUU
>barf entire bottle of water and coke out
>"K thats the last of it"
>Dont eat for the remainder of the day
>walking around in costume when suddenly i get the sweats
>onopls.jpeg
>Run to door with bathroom symbol above
>go through door
>No bathroom just lift
>nonononono
>too late
>Barf in corner
>all water
>leave the scene of the crime
>Noone noticed
>feel fine for most of the day after that
>walking with qt 3.14 and mates
>"So you think it was this?" one asks
>Mind swims
>sweats start
>onopls
>friends keep asking about the vomit
>sweats overdrive
>run to bathroom
>Again, bathroom not found just lift
>"fuck it"
>barf hardcore in corner
>noone notices minus asian family looking horrified at me
>Smile and wave
>tell cleaner
>walk back in excel

Didn't eat or drink that night and woke up feeling fine next day.

Fucking worst comicon experience so far

>>9249263
>Directly mentions me in this rant, calling me immature because I don't appreciate the 'wonder that is childhood'
>Trying so hard not to reply 'I love kids, you bitch, just not your eldritch crotch spawn'
>Big sister-chan ends up saying almost exactly that, points out that I am still legally a child and that I volunteer with children.
>"There's no way my child is the problem, if you don't want to be around my child it's because you're prejudiced!!!!"
>T messages another girl in the comm, ranting about me, calling me a handicap and saying "It's like me hosting a meet at a gym, how would she like that? Although, I've seen her get out of her wheelchair and walk, so she'd probably enjoy it once she stopped lying about being so sick"
>Girl sends me caps, because of course she does, also sends them to the mods
>Big sister-chan, one of the mods of the comm is absolutely livid, talks to the other mod and they decide T is banned from our meets
>She whines and shit talks to anyone who will listen, but is ultimately too broke to travel to other comms (because she's on welfare) so runs out of willing listeners pretty quick
>To this day, she still lurks around our area, and a couple of times we've bumped into her during a meet. It's about as awkward as you can imagine.
>I still have nightmares about her three year old touching my AP with her lasagna-coated hands
>Apparently she is having baby #2, still on welfare, because she posted in about four local sales groups asking for 'maternity friendly' lolita, then complained when anything was over $50

I have nothing against kids. Some children are wonderful, and I've been to meets that have been kid friendly and gone without a hitch. But people like this, who are so entitled to everything for nothing really really rub me the wrong way.

>>9249288
>I am still legally a child
maybe reword that before the mods come

>>9249291
OP here!
Yeah, that perhaps needs clarification, thanks for pointing it out.
When all this was happening I was 16/17, I'm 20 now.

>>9249288
>"I've seen her get out of her wheelchair and walk, so she'd probably enjoy it once she stopped lying about being so sick"
I'm glad you guys banned her ass, people like this need to fuck right off.

>>9249275
>leaving your vomit in a fucking elevator without telling anyone

You are a bad person.

>>9249128
Jfc if my husband and I couldn't get the occasional date or I couldn't get out with friends sometimes, I'd lose my damn mind.

>>9249128

My mum was a bit like that too. I love her but I wouldn't call her normal.

Unfortunately, that's shaped me as well but I wouldn't hardly hold that up as a realistic expectation of a human being.

>>9249395
It's called hiring a babysitter and not bringing your hairless chimp with you everywhere you go.

>>9248657
I was at this meet when this happened and I felt like everything was moving in slow motion and no one could stop it.

>>9249395
>choose to ruin your life by giving birth
>complain about the responsibility
>make everyone around you miserable with your shitty kid
i hate the vast majority of parents.

>>9249275
Haha, someone posted your lift puke on the facebook page. Everyone thought it was piss.

>>9249395
That's the responsibility you take when you become a parent. I had to give up a lot of shit when I became a parent. Does it suck I don't got to do a lot of things or miss out on stuff because I couldn't line up a babysitter, kid got sick, etc.... yeah it does but that's my responsibility as a parent. I choose to have the kid and I accept the choice I had to make. I still find time to do things for myself or enjoy time with my husband away from our kid. Just not like I/we used to.

>>9249395
That's why you pay people money to take care of your kid for a few hours. We're hardly living in feudal England where your only options as a parent are churning butter and making sure your kid doesn't die of the common cold.

>>9249409
>>9249465
Sometimes I forget 4chan is full of edgy 16 year olds.

>>9249500
Not those anons, but I'm 26 and hate crotch goblins.

>at pretty small meet up in local park
>talkative older ita is annoying and had zoned in on me
>"brand is overpriced and not worth it. i can make things way better"
>"my fiance will be a billionaire soon"
>"ive been a lolita since the stone age" etc etc
>random friend of hers sees us at park and approaches us
>loudly tells her that she offended these people at a party the weekend before because she kept flashing her vag
>ita starts trying to explain why she never wears underwear

>>9249512
I sometimes wonder if people remeber how it was when they were young. I don't think kids belong in the meets either or in a fancy restaurant in the evening but they are still humans. It's pretty cruel to hate them because we all have to pass that stage to become reasonable adults. Shitty parents are a different thing obviusly but that's not the childs fault.

>>9249555
>I sometimes wonder if people remeber how it was when they were young
Not who you're responding to but I remember. On the occasions where my mom dragged me to adult events the other adults didn't pay attention to me and I'd rather been home playing with toys or watching cartoons. It's funny how you don't think the child is any more happy about being there as the adults are any more happy to be in the child's presence. Bottom line is there's judgements if parents show they're cheap and lazy by stringing them along to an event not intended for them just to save a buck and a phone call.

>>9249500
Sometimes I forget how much in denial people are about children. They're gross and horrible. Get over it.

>>9249555
Rationally I know that it's the parents' fault when children are a nuisance, but it doesn't change the fact it was the child who was smearing spaghetti sauce all over everyone's brand and screaming at the top of its lungs at the meet. Also I feel like a lot of the "hate" is just venting out frustrations.

>>9249555
I do remember what being a child is like. It's half the reason I don't think they belong at meets; they'll be bored and hate it. No kid wants to sit quietly at a cafe while strangers ignore them and talk amongst themselves for hours.

The whole experience is way more painful for the child than the adults honestly. Hours seem so much longer when you're that young and there's a million fun things at home they know they could be doing. But they're stuck in this unending, boring situation because their parent was too damn lazy/cheap to get a babysitter and make everyone happy.

>>9248974
A lot of people are passive-aggressive in social situations at meets like this, I wish they'd get over it.

>>9249422
did holy lantern girl cry?

>>9249634
No, but she was clenching her fist and shaking. She said it was the first time she'd worn the dress out, and it looked like she wanted to punch the mom.

>>9249644
How did the baby even get puke on it, was she holding it? I have a lot of questions about this.
Also at the very least I'm glad the mom was looking for advice to pay for cleaning and a gift though, it sounds like she genuinely feels bad about it and isn't one of the entitled moms discussed in this thread.

>>9249647
We were taking a group photo, and mom was holding the baby during the picture when the kid started to spit up. She felt really bad about it, and was offering to pay for dry cleaning and everything.

>>9249649
That's such a shitty situation to be in for Holy Lantern-chan. You can't really be mad at anyone, obviously not the kid, and the mom can't do much more than what she did. Still it's 100% unfair and shitty for her, even with dry cleaning I wouldn't want to wear that dress anymore.

>>9249409
>>9249465
>>9249478
>>9249487

Slow your roll dudes. I have a babysitter and I'm a pretty responsible parent. My kid doesn't go to meets, he stays home with dad or hangs out with grandma. Maybe grow up before you make assumptions.

>>9249644
She should have.

>>9249659
You seem to be the exception to the rule cause a lot of moms act like this and not just in lolita comms. Ive had friends who got preggo right out of highschool and they make a lot of gatherings about their child. It being child safe. No loud music. Things like that. Moms tend to make everyones life around them different because they would rather impose on others and ruin their time than get a babysitter or just not go. You are a shining example of what a mom doing other things should be and im sorry you may get lumped in with the majority of moms who are irresponsible. Im also almost 26 and i hate ill behaved children. Im not a monster. Im not immature. I was little once and my parents kept me on a tight schedule and sacraficed their time out because they were aware that they shouldnt for example go out to eat and let a screaming tired teething kid ruin everyones time out within earshot. Im not really as mad at the kids im really more mad at the irresponsible often immature parents who arent taking responsibility for rearing their child.

>>9248174
>shaking with rage at a 14-year-old

kek, everyone in that meet sounds like a pushover

>>9249653
Except she could be mad at the mom for bringing her kid to a fucking meetup when she was told it wasn't kid friendly???

Maybe???

>>9249653
>and the mom can't do much more than what she did.

If she REALLY regretted it, she'd buy a replacement.

>>9249555
Nobody on 4chan was ever a child. All demon hellspawns.

>>9249555

Oh boy do I remember. And that's why I don't want kids.

>>9248293
>deal with cops
I would love to read this incident/story

>>9249535
I am so sorry anon, it must of been cringy as fuck.

Everytime I read "older on any stories here I think of an early 40s- mid 50s.

>>9248974
As an autist, thank you. There aren't nearly enough people who are willing to do that. I try to point out stuff if it's needed, but usually I get butthurt answers.

>>9249647
You'd be surprised how far a baby can projectile vomit. It's actually impressive.

>>9249275
JFC I have emetophobia and I'm sweating just thinking about the possibility of finding someone's vom in the corner. There are trashcans every 5 feet at cons. Or, shit, you know you're sick, take a store bag with you and puke in THAT in the corner.

And maybe don't go around a highly populated area while you're clearly sick, because you'll infect everyone around you.

>24 hr puking bug
>probably norovirus
>extremely contagious

Do cosplay comms count?

>>9249865
Agree with this

>>9248974
Aaaand this is why i'm not a social person and given up on feminism.

>>9250208
...what the fuck does this have to do with ~feminism~?

>>9249323
>>9249475

Wasn't in the elevator. It was outside in an alcove away from everyone.

I saw the piss post and that wasn't me.

>>9250135
Wasn't norovirus. There was no bins. Didn't feel sick till I was there just presumed it was from a few drinks the night before.

Also man up.

>>9250237
you don't understand Anon.

>>9250208 ~isn't like the other girls~

I can't believe all these fucking entitled moms. You chose to be a parent and a child can not go ANYWHERE with you. Jesus.

Some of you might remember me from a few months back when I found my boyfriend's ex was in my local comm and how it was nearly a trainwreck. She just added me to this group she created and posted this shit. She also keeps posting in meet pages about how broke she is and wanting to bring her babies (plural) to meets. On her personal page all she bitches about is how goverment wellfare doesn't pay enough for her to be a single stay-at-home mom.


I might leave the comm soon, so hopefully I can unfriend her without drama.

>>9250208
Sup >>9248974 here. Men are just as bad, believe me. My friend group outside lolita consists mostly of men and they talk mad shit behind the backs of people they think are awkward or uncool. There's more posturing than with my lolita comm, but when it comes to actually speaking up about socially awkward situations it falls to me, the diplomatic autist. Funnily enough the guys think I'm better at this sort of thing because I'm a woman.

>>9250135
Emetophobic anon here too, I was cringing reading these posts. I felt bad for anon but nothing pisses me off more than people getting sick at work or social functions and then refusing to go home.

>>9250241
>man up
Even disregarding the phobia, which is admittedly stupid, it's really irresponsible to walk around in a crowded place touching everything and breathing on everyone when you have a contagious illness. Not shaming you for getting sick in the first place, but it's dishonorable when you continue to walk around spreading it to other people. Have enough sense to stay in bed next time.

>>9250241
It's still contagious you piece of fucking garbage.

>>9250295
This is not cgl related. Keep your political bullshit on facebook

>>9250325
no

Idiot comm members overstepping their bounds and adding a bunch of other people in the comm she's never even met in person is absolutely a cgl-related horror story. I'm not the only lolita from my comm she added to that shit, there were 14 people and like six of them were comm members.

>>9250326
Missed the quote
>>9250336

>>9250325

It's not fucking airborne. Just make sure you wash your hands afterwards, jesus fucking christ at least know how ~norwalk virus~ spreads.

>>9250344
People can step in it without knowing and when they take off their shoes get infected that way. Or if the vomit splashed high enough and someone doesn't notice it, touches the wall, then their face and gets infected.

You're a fucking idiot. I've studied virology, I know how shit spreads. Vomit is a very effective way of spreading illness.

>>9250349

You would also know that good hand hygiene is by far the best prevention to even vomit on the floor. Probably even moreso than anon sloppily cleaning it up with a wet towel because it would probably still leave viruses if she didn't use the right disinfectant.

>>9250352
If people do not KNOW there is an issue they aren't nearly as likely to take extra steps to protect themselves. That is the point. You can't police other people washing their hands, but you can be an adult and clean up your own vomit or alert people who have the tools to do so instead of leaving it for people to stumble across and get infected.

From the sound of it, it may not have even looked like vomit and someone may have cleaned it up thinking it was just water and gotten infected that way.

It's disgusting and a terrible thing to do to leave your filth unattended. It's no different from taking a shit on the floor and walking away. Only a garbage person would do that.

>>9250352
>>9250355
>You can't police other people washing their hands

This, I'm so emetophobic I have developed a rigorous system where I always wash my hands before touching anything that will eventually go into my mouth, and after they are washed they cannot touch anything "unclean" and if they do I have to rewash them. As a result of my obsessive rituals I have not thrown up once since I was about 11 years old and I rarely even catch colds. You're right that obsessive hygiene is the best defense. But it's limiting to live this way and I would not wish it on anyone. There will always be a risk of contagion in public spaces and individuals should protect themselves but that's no excuse for people to just go puking everywhere.

Also, gastrointestinal viruses can stay airborne in water droplets for short periods of time. How much do you want to bet anon coughed after throwing up?

>>9250418
Fun fact, there have been cases observed of people vomiting in a restaurant, and people around them getting sick even though they didn't clean up the vomit.

It's not airborne but aerosol spread. So while you may not dip a finger into the vomit and suck on it, you can still get ill.

Say an aerosol droplet gets on your shirt that you didn't know of, and you touch your shirt and then your mouth. You have an increased chance of catching whatever made the person vomit.

>>9250418
once in high school a kid didn't wash his hands after going to the bathroom so i said 'aren't you gonna wash your hands?'

he took his pee covered hands and wet them then flicked them at me and got pee/water all over me

>>9250420
Yeah - this is why when I lived in a hoarded house with my hygiene-challenged family, I shut myself in my room and starved myself for days whenever anyone was ill. (My upbringing has a lot to do with why I have this phobia in the first place.)

Thank God I escaped

>>9250428
I remember going to church and having grown ass adults cough directly on me because they thought it was funny to taunt the depressed germophobic girl. I don't go to that church anymore

>>9250241
>people are grossed out by you being a disgusting piece of shit vomiting all over a convention
>"lol man up"
Christ, you gross little fuck. If you're puking this much in the span of a few hours just go fucking home instead of spreading your bug all over the convention. Shits like you is why "con plague" is even a thing.

>>9248301
>he was a fucking douche
>>Like, 6 years older than her

if thats the case, most guys think commitment because they want to marry young so they can have kids.
if shes older then him, totally nail n bail

>>9249649
>>9249653
>>9249854
She really shouldn't have brought the baby, given that she was told the meet wasn't kid friendly, and this is coming from someone who brings her kid often enough that everyone here would consider me entitled.

Our comm actually had drama that swung in the opposite direction. We're a small comm and very chill for the most part, but a new member came to an event where she knew there were going to be children, and then acted super triggered by it (and that was just the tippitty tip of the iceberg of her shitty behaviour that day). It just makes me think that I'm super fortunate to have made so many good friends through my comm. Mind you, not that I think that children absolutely deserve a place at meets - we're just an exception that made it work. The biggest problem is that while many people wouldn't mind well-behaved kids, the kind of person who is entitled and absolutely has to have them everywhere is the kind of person who also lets them do whatever they want and ruin everyone's time.

idek why I'm writing this blog anymore kek
tl;dr kid friendly meets can be nice but it's not something your comm owes you. Host your own or get a babysitter if you don't like it.

>>9248873
Jokes aside, why is this board filled with autistics?

>>9250683
the entire website is

>>9250701
Lel

>>9249275
I had that norovirus during the same week (britfag here), holy fuck I couldn't even leave the house let alone go to a con. I had to skip work because I interact with elderly people and wouldn't want to spread the germs. You're pretty irresponsible, vomchan

>>9248974
also an aspie here and thanks as well. I can look back on some things I've done in cosplay/lolita and cringe really hard, but I'm only able to do that and prevent doing it again because I had friends tell it like it is and not talk behind my back.

>>9250241
>Man up

News flash: you can't fend off bacteria/viruses by "manning up"; as others have pointed out the vast bulk of the responsibility for containing your illness is yours. It's good that you told someone about the vomit the second time, but if you can't possibly stop yourself from walking around a massively crowded space while very ill, I hope you have the sense of decency to constantly disinfect or wash your hands to mitigate it.

Related, it grinds my gears so much when people refuse to admit that they're sick and then as a result refuse to take any measures to keep their friends/coworkers from becoming ill. Just say you're sick so that we can stay the fuck away from you, and/or "man up" and wash your hands every once in a while.

>Arrive at hotel for con. Male friend is sniffling all over the place.
>"Are you sick? Let me know if you're sick, I don't want to catch it at con."
>"No I'm not sick it's just allergies/the dry air I swear."
>A moment later we're discussing how late we stayed up working on cosplay. He mentions he had a tough time of it, because he's had a fever and cold sweats the past two days.
>"....That sounds like the FLU."
>"I'M NOT SICK."
>Argue back and forth for a few minutes before giving up. Make mental note to wash hands like a maniac.
>Next morning, friend kindly offers to cook us all breakfast in the hotel kitchen. Remind him to wash his hands.
>"I'M NOT SICK."
>Watch as he licks the spoon then sticks it right back in the pancake batter.

>>9251983
>Watch as he licks the spoon then sticks it right back in the pancake batter.
Sickness aside, that's fucking disgusting.

>>9248666
Well, how did the baby puke on the dress? Was the other lolita holding it?

>>9248783
I don't get that either. I feel that in my comm I always have to be the voice of reason in my comm, and it's getting annoying. I don't want to be a bitch or anything and I sometimes feel bad after telling someone to fuck off, but I don't like being embarrassed in public and I also don't feel obligated to babysit every manchild/womanchild who decides to attend a meet.

>>9252090
projectile

>>9252141
Yeah, I read it later in the thread. Bringing babies to meetups is a realy shitty idea.

>>9251983
Reminds me of a con I went to

>friend is coughing like crazy, ton of cough drops
>swears up and down she's just getting over a cold or something
>swears she's over it and fine
>almost immediately after con
>me and another girl who slept near her both get pneumonia

Needless to say, I became near germaphobic after that. I always have two bottles of hand sanitizer on me, I don't shake hands, I don't touch, nothing. That was the worst point in my life.

>>9245366
>Live in rural village with no real comm since only lolitas in the area are me and a friend plus a few others who borrow our stuff to wear to Christmas/Easter meets
>Friend is aspie to the max but has been trained to behave well in public, is happy to listen to advice on how not to be cringe central
>One day, Rawrr-chan moves in with her grandparents
>Rawrr-chan is thin yet weirdly lumpy
>Rawrr-chan hates brand but loves replicas
>Rawrr-chan latches onto us like a fucking limpet in the middle of one of the rare meets we have with more than 2 people and refuses to fuck off
>We're in the park so we disperse and walk along the most winding roads we can find to lose her after she fails to get the hint
>Next week Rawrr-chan shows up to me and Sperg-chan's weekly lolita outing at a cafe with her gran
>She is very smug and gran is shaking with anger
>HOW DARE WE BE SO MEAN TO HER LITTLE BABBY
>IF WE DON'T LET HER SIT WITH US SHE'LL CALL THE POLICE AND OUR PARENTS
>We're both adults and Rawrr-chan looks like she is one too, in age if not in mind
>Open mouth to tell them to shove it but Aspie-chan is terrified into compliance and agrees before I can say anything
>Gran walks off smug as can be and Rawrr-chan attaches herself to us like a tacky plastic tumour
>It gets so much worse
>Nobody knew where she lived/what she did/who she was/how old she was because she was a pathological liar
>Gave us 3 different names before telling us to call her Emmi. Went between being 21, 19 and 27 in one hour, then stuck to 22 for the rest of the day. Said she was taking a break with her grandparents but refused to say from what, which was fine, except she kept hinting that it was for a mysterious and extremely gothic-novel-y reason, when it blatantly wasn't
>We strongly suspect she's 14 and desperate but this'll only last for a day, right?
>No

>>9252571
>Next week she shows up in an AP replica and insists we lend her some stuff because she looks like a melting cupcake while me and Aspie-chan are wearing toned-down gothic and she feels left out
>Tries to one-up us every damn time we say anything, then spirals into a sperg session when we start talking about work
>'You earn money with a job but I get FREE STUDENT CASH FOR BETTERING MY MIND'
>'I have replicas because I'm too THIN for brand, suck on THAT fuckers, I CAN AFFORD IT'
>'I went to Korea and had plastic surgery for my boobies because I was so thin they said I'd never get a chest but I never have boobloaf and the were free because the surgeons liked me so much EVEN THOUGH I CAN AFFORD IT'
>Rawrr-chan can't afford her lunch though, Granny has to pick her up and pay for it after I feign being broke and Sperg-chan follows suit
>Gran looks a lot less happy with her babby this time
>She even makes her return the accessories we lent her before leaving and looks faintly apologetic as we get foundation-smeared stuff back
>Decide to call friends for a big meet next week somewhere far away from home so we don't have to deal with this shit
>Meet goes great, the week after that Rawrr-chan is nowhere to be seen...
>Until she came back to stay with her gran just before Halloween.
>She's grown up into a Proper Womyn.
>She wears gothic complete with a smeared layer of pound shop greasepaint that doesn't look quite as romantic as she thinks it does
>She has a whole other Dark and Mysterious Past now, and her name's changed: it's now Melody, the full version of Emmi, and she's called that because of her hauntingly beautiful singing voice
>Oh boy, here we go

>>9252572
>She waits for me or Aspie-chan at the office we work in
>She insists on sitting in the graveyard and eating a romantic gothic lunch of crisps and a sandwich while staring mournfully at confused dog walkers while we're at work
>She is not aware that Gran's asked us, very politely, to put up with her for a bit, since she's going through a lot of problems at home and needs to get away from it all for a bit, and she's still too young to understand what she's doing
>Aspie-chan feels bad, and I agree to let her cling to us for a bit
>I helped Aspie-chan become a functioning member of society, maybe I can help this thing too!
>Ha, no.
>Halloween meets are always simple but fun, but Rawrr-chan says it needs to be child-friendly for her baby
>WHAT THE FUCK
>'I had a baby and came here to get away from the hate and prejudice and discrimination and hate and prejudice I faced back home'
>Bitch you lived in a council estate, having 20 kids at 15 is the norm
>Assume it's another lie and shrug it off
>Saturday rolls round and we meet at the pub, and Rawrr-chan shows up fifteen minutes late with A FUCKING CHILD
>Either she's a lot older than she acts and doesn't know that babies are different to five-year-olds or she kidnapped someone off the street
>Neither option is ideal
>Loudly announces that she wants to go somewhere quiet because her little boy has a Very Special Condition and hates loud noises and crowds
>He looks extremely confused and keeps trying to wander off, asks if he's getting his Coke soon, and tries to climb on the empty tables nearby
>Rawrr-chan doesn't notice as she's too busy telling us about how he's autistic and needs a lot of attention paid to him at all times
>And then Gran shows up, looking pissed as shit.

>>9252579
holy shit F5 F5 F5

>>9252579
>Rawrr-chan's baby is not hers
>It's the neighbour's kid that she was meant to be babysitting
>Rawrr-chan flips her shit and screams that she shouldn't be such a liar and that she was just trying to get him out of the house because autism is a horrible sickness that nobody deserves and she needed to get it out of his system before it stuck
>Aspie-chan decides to intervene
>Aspie-chan hates people who think autism is optional/can be cured/is caused by vaccines and a lack of spanking
>Aspie-chan corrects our gothic friend by throwing her drink over her head and screaming at the top of her lungs
>Aspie-chan goes on a long rant about how wrong Rawrr-chan is and how ashamed she should be
>It's Tumblr-style shit but looks terrifying, since Aspie-chan's standing up and rocking and flapping her arms in a very threatening way as she rants
>Rawrr-chan bursts into tears and announces she only wanted a friend
>Gran steps in to set her straight
>'You're the reason you don't have any friends'
>'You weren't kicked out of college, you left because you couldn't steal your friend's boyfriend and tried to break into his house to confront him about it'
>'You tried to get him sent to prison by planting weed in his house and bragging to everyone that you'd done it'
>'Last time you were here you pretended you'd killed yourself and stalked his Facebook to see if he missed you'
>'The only reason you're here is that there's a waiting list for mental health services and I don't want my granddaughter on the street looking like a deranged baby'
>Rawrr-chan starts bawling, Aspie-chan is still ranting, and the kid's sitting in a corner with a drink ignoring everything
>Rawrr-chan looks around dramatically to see if anyone will come to her aid
>It's a Saturday night at the pub, so no, there's music blasting over the yelling and more interesting fights
>She annouces she's going to kill herself
>Next day, we saw her being driven to the station by her gran, looking grumpy

>>9252587
I find this story hard to believe because of the convenient info dump from gran, but I still love it.

>>9248745
Omg if you're who I think you are I remember you telling me about this ahahahhaa

>>9252571
>>9252572
>>9252579
>>9252587
I want to believe. It's both glorious and horrifying.

>>9250135
>>9250322
Guess I'm a third emetophobic.
It's this very reason I refuse to go out of my hotel room after 10PM at cons, because weebs can't hold their liquor. My friends that stay out always report on the idiots puking in the planters and whatnot.

>>9250420
I've heard of "sympathetic vomiting", kind of like someone being grossed out by the other person vomiting that they do it too. One of my coworkers has it and he does it even if an animal barfs. I have to run the hell outside when that happens, because he just won't look away from it and it activates his gag reflex.

Animals I've gotten used to for the most part. You can pretty much regulate what they eat. Humans? Hell nope.

>>9252588

Clarification on the info dump:
Gran and I met a couple of days ago at Tesco. She started by apologising for setting her tard spawn onto us, then started ranting about what had happened. She told me she'd been made to believe that Rawrr-chan had been the unwitting third party in a love triangle and needed to spend some time away from college to forget about her 'true love', and was mad that nobody else could see how traumatised her poor darling was.
By the time Rawrr-chan was dumped at the station, she'd apparently cost her gran a fucking fortune- she'd dropped miscellaneous paints (nail polish, foundation, glow in the dark body paint, blush, and other shit) on the white bedroom carpet and had done fuck all to clean it up; she'd gone days without showering after her revival as a gothic queen of the night because she didn't want to reapply her makeup and had smeared unsealed shitty greasepaint all over the place; she frequently left the lights/TV/heating on before wandering off for hours; she used to trek dog shit all over the house because it came from the mega-goffik graveyard (BURIALS FROM LIKE 1845, GUIZE!!! HOW UNUSUAL AND ROMANTIC IS THAT) and was therefore part of her ~aesthetic~. Gran was pretty sick of her by that point and more than willing to explain why in front of a bunch of strangers.

She refused to pay for any of the damage, and is now back at home, stalking the poor fucker she was so obsessed with over Facebook again. Apparently she's now calling herself Julie and has ditched the gothic dolly look for a concealer lip and raccoon eyes, since that's what her forever husbando's girlfriend wears and is therefore the key to his heart. She's now a badass bitch who chews gum and is part of da hood, a refreshing change from her previous incarnations.

I really hope she doesn't show up again at Christmas. She's fucking insane and I'm pretty sure her gran's ready to fend her off with a flamethrower if she tries to stay there again.

All these stories make me so glad my comm is made up of like 5 people

>>9252922
all these stories are made up by like 5 people from my comm