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Last thread die. >>9571426

Time to let those feels flow, but try to stay on-topic. Don't fight, and limit yourself to cgl issues.

>> No.9573647

I just want a bf, or even friend to go to a con with. But I'm broke and have no friends with anime interests.

>> No.9573648
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9573648

My comm just disbanded because our main organizer pooped in her thong diaper at a meet.

>> No.9573651

I'm too ugly for cosplay

>> No.9573661

>>9573648
I feel like this is several /cgl/ memes rolled into one.

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>>9573648
Shit like this is what gets thong diapers banned at meets.

My comm already outlawed excessive pubic hair and exposed buttplugs. I'm sure thong diapers are next.

>> No.9573688

I kind of wanted to do a group or couple cosplay for the next con I go to, but no one I know does anything like that, and putting out there that you do cosplay just seems to be women repellant
most of the people know just buy a Chinese costume and style a wig for a random character and call it a day

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9573706

>toilet at the hotel shatters
>everyone wants to blame the sole fatty-chan

I feel bad for her.

>> No.9573711

>>9573706
it probably was her though.

>> No.9573712

>>9573688
Buy me a plane ticket and I'll go

>> No.9573715

>>9573711
No girl mobile enough to leave her home would shatter a toilet. Even the people of TLC don't do that.

>> No.9573718
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9573718

i was watching 2b cosplay videos on youtube and there was this girl doing her cosplay stuff and without realized i have a crush on her, i fucked up. now everyday i watch her videos and in the nights i fall asleep while listening her voice. i swear i'm not a creep.
also i think about her most of the time.
i don't like having a crush on someone, it's so annoying and now i have to wait at least 4 months

>> No.9573719

>>9573715
If it's not in the best condition and some massive 180lb+ fatty comes along it's not impossible.

>> No.9573733
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9573733

I got one!
>Have MM Ekaterina OP in courdory
>love it to pieces, but can never coord it to my satisfaction
>Debating on selling it
>Browse closetchild
>find the PERFECT bolero to balance it out
>Mana-sama has smiled upon me this day

Also
>spent a good amount of time on lolibrary trying to find pic related
>periodically showing boyfriend different MM dresses I like, telling him their names and fun facts
>I think I put him to sleep

>> No.9573734

>>9573712
sorry, I have more self-respect than to pay money for strangers

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9573743

>>9573718
out of curiosity who is it? I may have to join you in these...endeavors

>> No.9573764

>>9573647
Have you tried prostitution?

>> No.9573766
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9573766

>tfw a beautiful cos-girl had a con-crush on you
>talk to her occasionally over the past nine months
>still haven't asked her to be my gf because she lives a five-hour bus trip away

I hate being this pathetic and dragging my feet. I want her to be my gf super bad.

>> No.9573769

>>9573647
you could try the friend finder.
most guys on there never get anything since girls put "no guys" in their info
a lot of people are also gay if you're a dude

>> No.9573774

The more I introspect about cosplay the more I realize I do it for narcissistic reasons. I want to be photographed, posted online, praised, etc. I still follow the basic rules, no playing stuff you haven't watched, no lewdplays, etc, but I feel like a bad weeb.

>> No.9573796

>>9573774
Everyone cosplays for attention. The people who deny this are fucking delusional.

>> No.9573812

>>9573774
At least you're doing it for the sake of cosplaying and not trying to sexualize the shit out of it. I'm quitting cosplay cause of the shit reputation it's been accumulating through patreon thots and constantly being asked "How easy are you? I wanna see lewds" when I'm at a con cause some casual fuckwad thinks soft porn is a norm in the community.

>> No.9573833

>tfw you buy queen size bed sheet from goodwill to make mock up
>pick nice color/feel for potential bonus dress
>get home wash it
>start to cut out pattern
>find fucking paint stains everywhere
>like someone did an art project on their bed

I would be more upset if it wasn't just $2. But goddam goodwill

>> No.9573859

>>9573743
endeavors? sorry i dont understand;
yeah, just type ''2b makeup'' on youtube, the nazi one

>> No.9573869
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9573869

Normies are going to start ironically liking lewd/moe anime soon and not just shoen

>> No.9573883

>>9573774
There's nothing wrong with enjoying praise from others. Attention isn't the only reason most people cosplay, but it's often one aspect. And that's fine.

>> No.9573886

>>9573869
I hope so.

>> No.9573983

>>9573766
Same position, except the girl is homeless. So I may actually have a shot??

>> No.9573995

imagine the effort that guy had to take to get all three up in there
one, two, okay. three. damn son how you gon hold all them squids?

>> No.9574009

>>9573983
Are you........ going to offer her a home?

>> No.9574024

>>9574009
Yes, shelter and food. She would be a qt shut in maid catering to my sexual needs.

>> No.9574034

I really enjoy reading btb secrets every Saturday, and last Saturday was a disappointment. I don't want to see it die for nostalgic reasons, but I can't bring myself to make secrets. I have a Pandora's box of caps that could bring shitty people to light. It could spark fights between friends, between comm members even!

But I won't ever do it, I don't want that bad karma on my shoulders.

>> No.9574051

>>9573651
Makeup

>> No.9574054

>>9573648
Luckily for us you and your comm, I'm creating a new online initiative, LFTD (Lolitas For Thong Diapers) so that we can all enjoy our hobby and thong diapers without fear of bullying!!

>> No.9574057

>>9573648
>pooped in her thong diaper at a meet.
Isn't that the whole point of wearing a diaper

>> No.9574087

>>9574057
>thong diaper
>cuts the poop in half

Nani the fuck?

>> No.9574093

Do you think if I'm crossplaying and have a girly body and face at a con I can get some cute cosplay girls to do fun things with?

>> No.9574096
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9574096

>finally order a nice dress I can wear more often
>seller doesn't send invoice
>have to send her PM 3 days later telling her I bought the dress
>she sends invoice, I pay
>no word from her of confirmed shipping or tracking number after another 3 days
>nervous as fuck
i-is this bad or am I just paranoid? This was my first time ordering off of LM so I don't really have a basis for reference...

>> No.9574102

>>9574096
Did you check paypal, anon? Sometimes sellers ship and don't send the tracking number over LM or they forget. Sometimes they just update PP with the tracking number. Also, you can always just PM her and ask her what's going on! If the seller has good feedback, you probably don't have anything to worry about!

>> No.9574214 [DELETED] 

>>9574102
Where do you girls hang out in public? I don't want a normie gf and some of you are alright.

>> No.9574228

>>9574214
Please don't.

>> No.9574230

>>9574228
Oh..o-okay. ;_;

>> No.9574235

>be me
>was recently harassed and cornered by a group of dudes while wearing lolita
>haven't been able to wear lolita outside since
>can literally feel the life force draining out of my body

i have so many beautiful things and i just can't wear them right now. i had a small amount of free time and planned to dress up and go to a cafe but i'm too scared of going places by myself. even in normie clothes I've been harassed and followed to my car. i'm hyper-aware of how weak i am and how i couldn't defend myself when somebody raped me because i was "too pretty not to"

this is suffering

>> No.9574237

>>9574228
don't what

>> No.9574239

>>9574237
I don't think anon wants me to look for a /cgl/ tier gf.

>> No.9574240

>>9574237
Don't start with this
>tfw no cgl gf
thing, and don't seek us out in public to ask us out, chances are we're not interested.

>> No.9574241

>>9574235
Are you seeing a therapist, anon? You really should if you aren't. Other than that, do you have a local comm near you, or a close friend who will be able to go out with you?

>> No.9574242

>>9574240
haha no worry.
I don't think I'd do that even at the lowest point of my life.

>> No.9574244

>>9574242
You wouldn't but >>9574214, whom I replied to, would, hence "please don't".

>> No.9574245

>>9574240
Do not automatically assume people are going to swoon over you, that's your ego talking anon.

>> No.9574246

>>9574245
Tell that to anon who wanted to find out where lolitas are hanging out in public so he could meet his dream cgl gf.

>> No.9574248

>>9574244
Well, I was thinking you were saying don't come see you.
That would be weird. As far as I understand, cosplayers need an audience.

>> No.9574249

>>9574246
I don't understand the problem.

>> No.9574251

>>9574248
Lolitas aren't cosplayers.

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>>9574251
really I wasn't aware of the existence of Lolitas, sound pervy.

>> No.9574296

> When you're a crazy weeaboo bitch with rapidly declining health and your handsome, secure and not-at-all-nerdy boyfriend supports and encourages your hobbies and helps you with your crafts when you are too fatigued/unwell

;-;

What did I do to deserve him gulls? I'm waiting for him to get hit with a meteorite or something because that's far more like me.

>> No.9574302

>>9574296
well, clearly your sister is hot.

>> No.9574305

>>9574251
potato, tomato

>> No.9574310

/FIT/ FAGS OUT OF OUR BOARD REEEEEE

>> No.9574324

>>9574302
Eh. My siblings both live OS

But she is and I can't say I'd blame him

>> No.9574335

>>9574324
>she is and I can't say I'd blame him
how do I find a girl who would be fine with me smashing her sister

>> No.9574382

>Order a wig and some necklaces a month ago, for a cosplay that I'm supposed to wear this friday
>Arrived in the customs office last friday
>ohboyherewego.jpg
>Send the customs office all info they need before they contact me, so we can hurry things up
>"sorry, we need your case number"
>don't have a case number yet because there is no case yet because I'm trying to hurry things up and save them the trouble of sending me a letter with said number
>Feeling angry all weekend cause this prob means I won't get my shit in time
>Got letter yesterday with all info I need to send to the customs office
>Sent them the info minutes after receiving the letter and marked it as "URGENT"
>Received mail a few minutes ago
>"documents missing"
>I sent them everything I have

The worst part is that the customs office is literally 20 minutes away from me but it's closed off for anyone that doesn't work there as my country thinks it's so much smarter to only communicate over e-mail.

>> No.9574405

>>9574235
Anon, I'm so sorry these horrible things happened to you. No one deserves harassment of any kind, regardless of what they're wearing. It sounds like you're having a hard time, and I want you to know that you're not alone. If you ever need to talk to someone, feel free to PM my discord, @lieselfogel#2494. There are also hotlines you can call, such as the National Sexual Assault Hotline. Getting a therapist or a counselor could also help, if you're open to it.

I hope things look up for you, anon.

>> No.9574408

>>9574214
If you want a GF be interesting and nice with out being a beta cuck.

>> No.9574424

>>9574408
If that is based on your life I hope you know that half of your life is a r9k meme

>> No.9574440

>>9573715
My boyfriend's roommate broke their couch by sitting down on it too hard. She was very fat but but no means immobile. She and her boyfriend also destroyed her bed by having sex in it so she slept on a mattress on the floor for over a year. If I heard of a toilet shattering anywhere in her vicinity, I'd look straight at her too.

>> No.9574444

>>9573833
Maybe they used it to protect their floor. I'm currently using newspapers, but if I had a ratty old bedsheet that was thick enough I might use that, too. Does it matter if it's just for a mockup? Better than blood or cum stains.

>> No.9574456

>>9574245
But I'm so beautiful

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>>9574214

>> No.9574464

>>9574335
How do I find a girl who would be fine with me smashing her and her sister at the same time?

>> No.9574487

>>9574464
Look for a girl called Jenny.

>> No.9574492

>>9574335
You should just date one of the guys roleplaying as girls ITT.

>> No.9574495

>>9574492
All of them?

>> No.9574497

>want to wear lolita out because ive finished some pretty coords
>remembers my lolita friend who was murdered two years ago
>remembers that the guy who killed her did so because she looked like a yuppie and thus deserved to die
>irrational fear

she wasnt wearing lolita at the time, but the whole "culture" of it was part of her every day life. in how she acted, how she dressed. and thats why he killed her. it honestly terrifies me to go out in lolita because of it, even though this was an isolated incident

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>>9574497
sorry for your friend, was she hot? any pics?

>> No.9574502

>>9574497
Sorry to hear about your friend, I'm pretty sure I know what you're talking about and I don't even live anywhere near you.
Anyway, as for your problem, don't go out on your own for a while, maybe even consider taking some self defense lessons, just so you feel a bit safer.

>> No.9574506

>>9574502
i mean, it happened two years back but i was reminded of it recently. im thinking of taking some self defense classes, so maybe i will. honestly im probably only going to stick to wearing lolita at meets, or in large groups.
>>9574501
if youre smart you can find them yourself. i dont want to post pictures of her here myself but others can if they know who im talking about.

>> No.9574509 [DELETED] 

>>9574506
>if youre smart you can find them yourself
I'm a tourist from different board srry

>> No.9574515 [DELETED] 

>>9574509
if you want to find dead girls to jerk off to, go to /r/cutefemalecorpses

>> No.9574516

>>9574506
Holy shit, just read up on it, that's completely fucked up.
The guy was clearly a psychopath though, hopefully there aren't too many of those walking around on the streets, but as that other anon said, if self defense classes make you feel more safe then absolutely go for it.
It would be a bit shit to give up on one of your hobbies because of one person. I can't imagine that kind of thing happens a lot over there.

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>>9574501
>>9574509

>> No.9574528 [DELETED] 

>>9574515
haha I don't jerk off anymore, I need energy for other things sry, just curious about your friend.

>>9574517
I don't like this post.

>> No.9574531

>>9574516
i think id be less worried if the incident wasnt so personal to me. makes it seem all the more real because she was a friend.
its like, if it happened to her, it could happen to me.
i think id feel most comfortable going with other girls in lolita. i dont think that she would want any of us to stop the hobby though. she was always a big believer in never letting others stop you from doing what you want.

kinda sad actually because one of her last blog posts involved that sort of rhetoric. i miss her. oh, and thank you anon for the reply, as well as the others <3

>> No.9574534

>>9573648
>pooping IN a thong
But it's just a string? Also, I'm pretty sure most comms ban thongs because they aren't Victorian or whatever.

>> No.9574576

>>9574534
okay I'm just gonna ask
how will a comm know if you're wearing a thong, besides from it you make a big deal out or if yourself?

>> No.9574585

>>9574576
It's a meme.

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>browsing around on Taobao and filling my shopping cart
>find reservation for skirt/dress that's cute af and perfect for summer
>love all the colourways so fuck it I'll get two
>it's super late and I'm sleepy so I'll go to bed and put in my order tomorrow when my head is more clear

>check shop page today
>"this baby is off the shelf"
>mfw

>> No.9574720

>>9574576
During penis inspection dumbass.

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9574753

it's over a hundred degrees outside and my petticoat keeps sticking to my leg-sweat

>> No.9574773

>>9574753
Get a hoop skirt.

>> No.9574776

>>9574773
do you have a recommendation senpai

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>>9574720

>> No.9574854

>>9574497
I didn't know her personally and wasn't involved in the comm then, but her loss is still pretty tangible even now. I'm so sorry for everyone that was close to her, and I'm so sorry you feel this way, anon. <3


>>9574501
She was a teenager and I don't think she was of legal age at the time since her killer apologized for attacking an "innocent", so.

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>>9574497
This post made me cry so hard that the Wendy's guy brought me a Frosty.

>> No.9574960

>>9573796
Jokes on you, Anon! I'm autistic with various personality disorders and I just really like pretending to be my favorite characters.

Adopting their quirks and mannerisms just wasn't enough, I gotta B E C O M E

>> No.9574982

>>9574960
So you just cosplay in your own home?

>> No.9574992

>tow no weeaboo friends

>> No.9575000

>>9574992
>tow

>> No.9575013

>>9575000
>inspection
Sorry, I was phoneposting

>> No.9575014

>>9575013
Goddamnit

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9575178

i really wish i could just wear the clothes i like without attracting so much attention

i mean, i know it's a silly wish as a lolita, but i'm tired of answering questions and being approached by onlookers every time i go out. i am an introvert. i want to wear my frilly armor in peace. i accept that lolita is abnormal and that i will attract questions and comments but sometimes i wish people would just shut up and let me get to where i need to go. i'm just agitated because today was especially bad and a lady flipped up the skirt of my JSK to "see what was underneath" while i was shopping for furniture.

>> No.9575194

>>9575178
Sorry. Mandatory penis inspection.

>> No.9575209

>>9574776
F+F's are alright, and I've heard great things about DivinityDoll on etsy.

>> No.9575227

>>9575178
I don't mind any words people say but if they start touching my shit I want to cut them

>> No.9575243

>>9575178
Yeah, it sucks but it seems even positive attention wears me down after a while. I've never really gotten used to it.

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9575246

Meetup tomorrow. The supplements didn't clear up my stomach aches, but my ass has turned this room into Auschwitz.

>> No.9575334

>>9575246
shit like this makes me glad girls are a thing desu

>> No.9575420

>>9573719
'Massive' thanks bro

>> No.9575497

I'm sad that jfashion seems like its dying (other than lolita) now that I finally have money to buy it after all these years of following it closely. I just graduated college so now I don't have to save up for it anymore. The fact that things have been slow on cgl and forums are dead doesn't help. Does anyone know anywhere else where jfashion is discussed thats somewhat active?

>> No.9575505

>>9575497
Just realized I should clarify jfashion to mean alt or niche fashions, not mainstream stuff.

Sage for samefagging

>> No.9575515 [DELETED] 

So who's going to let me see those beautiful lolita feel and soles, gulls?

>> No.9575548 [DELETED] 

>>9575515
How much will you pay me. I've got cute feet.

>> No.9575551 [DELETED] 

>>9575548
I'll pay you even more to let me cum on them

>> No.9575607

>Taking a 1-year-turned-1-month intensive summerclass so I can get back into the groove of going to school since I start university in September after a year long break
>Really loving this class, but won't be attending the exams because a vacation falls on the same dates and I don't need them for anything anyway.
>Have ditched the weekly test exam to work on cosplays at home since I currently have classes 7 days a week and very little free time
>Convention time this weekend, first one in ages
>Super excited
>We had a test exam today and I stayed home
>That makes it 3 sick days in total since the course started
>Parents are aware that wednesdays are test exam days and that I won't be attending the exam
>They still decided to lecture me and bitch at me for being disrespectful and tell me that I won't even last a single semester in university with my current attitude
>Never mind that I'm the most active student in class in anything but the test exams and I'm way ahead of the rest of the class
>Never mind that I'm the only one in the family who has even graduated from high school
>No longer want to go to convention because their bitching got to me anyway and I'll be missing a further 3 days of school.

>Going to convention friday morning with people from my local town that I've never met before
>Have absolutely no friends in my area, everyone lives super far away, so I'm excited to meet them
>This guilt tripping is making me consider cancelling our trip to the con together and now I'm feeling horrible cause I'm the one who contacted them to ask if we should go together in the first place

>> No.9575651

>>9575607
From your parents's perspective it is very hard to sympathize with you if they have to pay for your university.

Will you use your parents's money for university?
Or will you cosplay to support your education? Or scholarship?
Most people I know tell their kids they either get a free ride for uni or go to work after high school. Getting in debt is a terrible option.

>> No.9575658

>>9575651
if it's just a summer school to get into the rhythm of university, I don't see the problem with taking the days off
I'd probably do the same thing if I were in that position. why sit tests you don't need to?
anon says they're ahead of the class anyway.

I say go for it while you can, anon, you definitely won't have the time when you're at university and you won't be able to take days off then.

>> No.9575663

>>9574235
learn how to fight
it changed my life, now nobody wants to fuck with me anymore

it's amazing how much everybody respects me now

>> No.9575679

>>9575013
>inspection no weeaboo friends

>> No.9575680

>>9575663
how though

it's not like strangers just automatically know that you know how to fight, so how do you have respect from them? what happens if they pull a weapon? what if you're sickly like me and have a bad heart? what if they were over a foot taller and at least 3 times my weight? too many uncertainties to be confident that this would actually do anything for me

>> No.9575683

>>9573651
Masked characters

>> No.9575684

>>9575658
That's the thing with learning, you might feel very confident when other people explain the materials to you, all those worked out examples and spoon feeding home work exercises, but you can't claim to understand anything if you don't pass the test. That is the purpose of the test. Not sitting for the test is effectively equivalent to wasting all the efforts she put into that class before, (if she actually did).

Her parents don't go to the class with her, nor do they understand the subject being taught at her class, it is not reasonable to expect them to believe that she learned something from that class, I mean, can her teacher even say that, when she skipped all the exams. Not to mention
>year long break
I feel bad for the parents. I'm also very curious what those classes are about, if they are related to mathematics, perhaps I can help.

>> No.9575709

>>9575651
I should have specified, I live in one of those countries where education is free.
They have no stake in this.

>>9575684
It's an advanced English class. The test exams I'm skipping consists of writing essays that has nothing to do with the actual learning material. I will be attending the oral exam so I'm taking the rest of the class fairly serious where it matters.

>> No.9575721

>>9575709
Good for you. What's your major?
Do understand that your parents are just worried for your future. For the same reason I mentioned, aside from finance. I have no comment on the relevance of the tests in your study lol, that's your teacher's problem.

I don't know how universities in your country are like but if they are anything like mine you will have plenty of time to pursue your hobby, and are encouraged to do so. In fact many people I know get into cosplaying in uni, there are of course other clubs, and also sororities for Stacies.

>> No.9575743 [DELETED] 

>>9575515
>>9575551
Nayrt, but how badly do you want them?
I like making men beg.

>> No.9575744 [DELETED] 

>>9575743
Give me your email and I'll beg

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>>9575663

oh wow you are amazing
I hope you won't get raped any time soon.

>> No.9575853
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9575853

>>9573719
I weight 200 lbs (I'm 6'5") and I've never, ever broken a toilet.

>> No.9575859

>>9575794
>>9575680
have you ever seen a bully picking on someone his own size?

why ?
because deep down we are still animals with instincts and shit. Before I learned to fight I was weak and they knew they could bully me. After the training my posture and lets call it "aura" has changed. I wasn't weak anymore and they felt it. I was more confident in myself.

>it's not like strangers just automatically know that you know how to fight
No, but they can feel that you are not an easy target.

>what happens if they pull a weapon?
I would give him my wallet

>what if you're sickly like me and have a bad heart
one of my Masters has similar problems. He's rather small, has a thin body build and gets sick very easy, but his Martial Arts training is excellent and when I look at him I cannot see any weakness.

>> No.9575865
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>>9575859
>Before I learned to fight I was weak and they knew they could bully me. After the training my posture and lets call it "aura" has changed. I wasn't weak anymore and they felt it

do you have a photo of this posture?

>> No.9575866
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9575866

>>9575865
I had a hunchback which made me small

>> No.9575867

>>9575865
Anon probably just started acting ultra aggressive like they have a chip on their shoulder and normal people just started avoiding them

>> No.9575870

>>9575859
you sound like a dude. women will always be seen as "easy targets" whether we walk with our back straight or not. ESPECIALLY lolitas.

>> No.9575886

>>9575870
none the less it helps
and if you get frequently molested you should really know how to defend yourself

>> No.9575890

>>9575870
I honestly believe if some thugs are harassing a cute girl and she tries to fight back they'd get super turned on.

>> No.9575893

>>9575890
they do and i know this from experience. i can't just "give them my wallet" like anon said because a dude doesn't want my wallet, he wants to fuck me. and when i got raped i fought for my fucking life and it only turned him on more.

there is no winning, might as well die

>> No.9575934

>>9575859
Looks like they noticed your qi and backed off, just like my animes!

>> No.9575969

>>9575246
I had this problem. Turns out I'd developed lactose intolerance at 23.

>> No.9575992

>>9575969
milk is overrated anyway, who needs to grow up

>> No.9575996
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9575996

is it bad that I like to cosplay popular characters because I get more attention just for being dressed as say someone like guzma or vegeta?

>> No.9576006

>>9575996
Nope.

>> No.9576017
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9576017

You know black dudes are getting into cosplay when more and more top cos-models are white women with giant asses.

>tfw team tiny-butt

>> No.9576066

Still looking for a lolita to show me her feet :3

>> No.9576088

>moved recently
>just got a new shoe shelf so I unpacked all of the boxed-up shoes
>a pair of BtSSB shoes are missing
>can't be 100% sure they're gone until I've unpacked everything but I've unpacked most boxes and opened and looked in the few that remain without seeing them
>can't remember exactly where I put them but the most likely place has been completely emptied and they're not fucking there
>fucking panicking because they won't have been packed alone, so if I can't find them that means I've probably waylaid an entire box somewhere
>after shipping and fees those shoes cost me well over $80 even though I bought them second-hand
>they were my only pair in that colour and it took me ages to find that style in my size

I'm so anxious that I might have lost a boxful of stuff that I feel physically nauseous, and I can't even tear the room apart looking because not all the furniture is here yet so there's a bunch of stuff I can't even unpack because there's nowhere to put it but the floor

>> No.9576090
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>be me
>running head of guest relations for the third year in a row and con director for the first time
>want to get a popular voice actor
>had written to this voice actor in 2012 when I went through some really rough times
>parents didn't give two fucks about my sister and I
>end up writing to the voice actor about how I was trying to turn my life around but didn't know where to go
>lost my grandmother and my aunt in a year's time
>both of which i'd been very close to
>their character they voiced was a huge reason for my inspiration
>they write back to me a full page saying how I'm an inspiration to them
>many feels were had
>try to invite this voice actor to our con knowing they'd be a draw
>found out december last year 6 months prior to our event that this voice actor could make it
>after two years of stress and finding the right agent, I could finally make this happen

Fast forward to day 0 of con

>Pick the voice actor up along with 4 others at the airport
>I trembled and tried to restrain years of built up fangirl
>the voice actor came up and hugged me many times
>later that evening had the opportunity to express my gratitude for the letter that was written back to me
>the voice actor blurts out that they remembered my letter and how much I'd changed for the better in the meantime
>completely threw me offguard
>was still able to be professional
>until the con was over

We ended up not only having one of the best run years but also the most chill group of attendees. I was so grateful after it was all said and done.

>> No.9576109

>>9576090
That's so sweet anon, I'm a sappy fuck right now because of PMS but it made me nearly cry.

>> No.9576116

>>9576088
I FOUND THEM ALL IS WELL

I know I sound melodramatic posting about how I'd lost them and then finding them ten minutes later, but when I made that post I'd already spent nearly two hours looking. I gave up and went to the kitchen to make food when I noticed the box of cleaning supplies in the hall, checked it on a whim and the shoebox was hidden underneath all the cleaning stuff. I've no idea how it got there but I'm so fucking glad I'm not missing anything.

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9576121

>>9573642
>Agreed to business trip to shithole third world country with boss because I could get small Japan trip in afterwards
>Seriously a shithole, hate it after one day
>Thank god it's only one week
>"anon they want us to stay longer"
>mfw

>> No.9576123

>>9574497
Buy a kawaii pepper spray! Mine has sparkles.

>> No.9576128

>>9574096
update: She still hasn't sent me any indication of it being sent. Had to send her a PM, hope she reads it. I don't think having to remind your seller that you bought something and she hasn't shipped it in a week is normal...

>> No.9576133
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9576133

>AP is re-releasing Freshly Picked Strawberries
>Super tempted to go for it but I'm really trying to save money right now
A-at least it'll be cheaper on the secondhand market after this, right? Maybe?

>> No.9576145

>>9576128
Name and shame, or report her to LM

>> No.9576158

>>9576145
Naming and shaming over a 3-day delay is excessive and would sour the transaction anon, leave it a little longer before pulling out the big guns.

>> No.9576258

It has been two years since I've joined my comm, and as time goes on and I get to see the faults in the members I used to look up to. Now I want little to do with them, at least until I can forgive them for some of the passive aggressive toxicity I've witnessed. There are events I enjoy, though I have little interest in most meet ups because they are cheap and all about getting pictures taken. I'd almost rather remain a lonelita except for the major yearly events. It is more enjoyable to wear Lolita for my friends and family who are supportive of Lolita all on their own.

>> No.9576265

>>9576121
Where?

>> No.9576310

>>9576265
Rural Philippines. We were only supposed to stay in Manila which is perfectly fine but then they decided we should go out to the jobsite and it's in bumfuck nowhere. Again, only supposed to be a week but now they want us there longer. Both my boss and I have gotten food poisoning within the span of five days. It's been awful.

>> No.9576350

>met my dream gf at a con
>things are great for a year
>move in together
>she quickly gains weight and is the most disgusting slob on earth
>can no longer fit in her lolita or cosplay
>try to be positive and cook good meals etc
>wastes it by going to McDicks
>outright tell her she needs to change or we're breaking up
>says she'll cut herself or something dumb
>lmao whatever we're done here then
>runs(waddles) to the kitchen, grabs a knife, and starts cutting herself
Long story short I agreed to stay. How do I break this?
I just want cute fun times at cons and cuddles.

>> No.9576358

>>9576350
literally call the police

>> No.9576361

>>9576350
she made a mistake by showing her colors early
most women don't show their crazy side and let themselves go until after you get married

>> No.9576470

>>9576017
Stereotyping.

>> No.9576504

>>9576350
Is your main problem with her weight?

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>>9576350
>runs(waddles) to the kitchen

>> No.9576534
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9576534

>tfw the local mall your near by brand shops are in is having a huge summer sale and you got 40% - 50%

Got two jsk's for like 14000 yen each and an OP. Damn good day.

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9576558

>tfw burando doesn't heal my physical and emotional pain

so why do i keep buying shit as if it'll actually help

>> No.9576561

>>9576558
You should be my lolita gf so I can cuddle you to make the pain go away in addition to saying you look cute in brand

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>>9576561
thanks for the cute sentiment anon

i have a (very unlucky) boyfriend who deals with my sadboi bullshit on the reg. i hope you find your qt lolita gf and treat her right.

>> No.9576566

>>9576350
Bitch she's a psycho, just drop her, she won't change

>> No.9576569

>>9576565
You're very welcome. If things go south with him, let us know in another feels thread and I'll swoop in for the rebound.

>> No.9576621

Gulls I am devastated and it's a really stupid thing to be devastated about
Recently, I had to transfer a bunch of my lolita stuff to be my google drive and take them off of my laptop.
Well I downloaded them again today and half my files have been deleted
all the COF coords I've downloaded for inspiration
an old-school folder with over 600 pictures
my list of dresses that I would like, after I had gone through all of lolibrary and sorted them into brand, date and ones I like the best
There so many things going wrong with my life atm, I'm too fat to fit into brand, I can't find a decent fucking job where I don't get paid minimum wage and my boss doesn't hate me, my boyfriend has some serious commitment issues
and now this just makes me want to shoot myself in the head
I realise that i'm being completely over the top and melodramatic, but it's just upsetting to me

>> No.9576624

>>9576621
>I realise that i'm being completely over the top and melodramatic
Not really. I'd feel the same if I were in your position.

>> No.9576746
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9576746

Tfw you own this print and never post pictures wearing it because literally every coord shot you've seen is an ita trainwreck.

>> No.9576753

>>9576504
Yes but she's also a slob and does nothing around the house. And psycho apparently which is fine since I am too.

>> No.9576757

>>9576566
Funfact- if someone is threatening suicide you can call the cops/911/999/01189998819991197253 and they will take the person to a crisis center.
Youre not allowing youself to be forced to stay and you keep your hands clean of any blame.

>> No.9576764
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9576764

>looking at con pics from 2015
>I was so skinny
>gained 20 pounds after getting fired last year
>mfw

>> No.9576769

>>9576116
I'm happy for you anon

>> No.9576835

>>9576624
i should probably just do it all again, but i don't see the point

>> No.9576860

>>9576746
Then wear it right and show the itas how it's done?

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9576893

>>9575246
Sorry English is not my 1 language./

Your vitamin made you hungry like in the Hollocost?./ East breakfast./

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>>9576893
>tfw you recognize and have fapped to two of the hentais pictured in this image

>> No.9576905

>>9576893
The room was filled with gas, I guess.

>> No.9576908

>>9576757
>>9576358
Thanks
It's not like I want her to hurt herself. I still care about her, just not what she's become. Guess I'll do this, have to find the right timing.

>> No.9576939
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9576939

>tfw you just turned 28 and your lolita clock is ticking

>> No.9577128

>arrives home
>removes shoes
>sees a hole in the sock
>Angelic Pretty OTK's
>my only AP OTK's

Please, kill me

>> No.9577140

Waiting is agony.
>PayPal ruined by a bad buyer which I notched about in a previous thread
>made a new PayPal but my card isn't accepted so now I'm fighting with that
>dream dress appears in cut and colorway I'm searching for, unworn
>in my state
>just started a new job and waiting on that paycheck before I buy it up
>relisted twice
>check today
>1 bid, from Canada
>auction ends in 3 days
>still waiting to be paid, PayPal still not cooperating.
>NOT AGAIN

if I get paid I can hit the buy it now and hopefully negotiate to meet up and pay in cash but...ugh. That sounds so sketchy.

Send me strength. I don't know if I can wait for this dress a third time.

>> No.9577145

>>9577128
Sew it up man

>> No.9577152

>>9577145
That's what I'm gonna do, but now... they are... corrupted.

>> No.9577157
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9577157

>>9575866
>yfw you actually have more than 5 of these things and is akwardly true

>> No.9577176

>>9574382
it's the exact opposite here. You need to do everything via letter and need to go there. Emails don't work anymore becaue that would be too futuristic. I hate it.

>> No.9577199

>>9577157
It's a troll picture.

>>9577152
If it's not part of the sock that shows, what's it matter?

>> No.9577262

>>9577128
Darn!

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>>9577262
I see what you did.

>> No.9577288

Post-convention adventures:
>visiting friend's grandparents on drive home
>cutestoldcoupleever.jpg
>so much food, so nice
>everyone watching tv after dinner
>friend asleep
>grandpa/Merle asleep
>cat/Sweetiepea even watching tv
>foodcoma...so comfy...
>suddenly see mouse run along floor
>startled, half jump up
>look around, no one else noticed
>sit back down, relax
>grandma gets up, goes into kitchen
>think I see mouse again as she goes
>Not sure what to do
>friend said grandpa used to be strict
>don't want to cause a problem
>follow grandma into kitchen
>Me: "I think I saw--"
>Grandma: "Shhh..."
>Grandma says quietly: "Don't worry about the mouse, that's just Wilbur!"
>Wilbur the mouse
>Grandma: "Don't tell Merle, but if you'd like you can give Wilbur a strawberry and a piece of your fairycake."
>just now notice she has a pink saucer on the counter with a peanut and a sliced strawberry on it
>Grandma: "Be very quiet, and put the saucer under the desk in the front hall and he'll come and eat it."
>Grandma: "Sweetiepea and I have been feeding him all winter. He's gotten pleasantly plump and if you sit quietly, you can watch him eat!"
As long as "Wilbur" doesn't chew on my props, it's all fine and good, but I think I'll put my luggage back in the car.

>> No.9577295

>>9577288
Someone buy grandma-chan a hamster.

>> No.9577308
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9577308

>Dress I really love shows up on auction again
>Remind myself cut would be unflattering and it wouldn't fit my bust anyways
>Every time it comes up I have to remind myself this
>Still really want it
>Other cuts exist but I don't love them nearly as much
>halp

>> No.9577309

>>9577295
Seconded, mice breed and she could end up with a serious infestation.

>> No.9577310

>>9577308
Would a binder work?

>> No.9577315

>>9577310
Possibly, I'm iffy on binders because every time I've worn a binder I've had to take it off within 15 minutes because it hurt so much. Maybe I'm wearing the wrong size, idk.

>> No.9577406

>>9576764
gotta hit the gym anon, I was 215 with no muscle coming out of college in '15. Now I've platued at 194, but it's come with a significant amount of muscle mass. Didn't even have to swear off the sweets or wheats. Slow and difficult, but not impossible.

>> No.9577411

>>9573715
>Even the people of TLC don't do that.
On an episode of My 600lb Life, Lupita did. Broke the toilet at the hospital. Needed several paramedics to lift her off it.

>> No.9577423

>>9573647
L
O
N
D
O
N
?

>> No.9577448

>>9575497
J-fash is alive and well, the secondhand market is amazing and brands release more than ever

>> No.9577453

>>9576116
Where tf did you get baby shoes for that price, I have been paying 75-90 for them on Mercari, cc, and y!j

>> No.9577457

>>9577140
I want to buy it and send it to you when you get things worked out, what dress? I lost out on my dream dress recently

>> No.9577471

>>9577288
>mouse

I read moose, would have been hilarious

>> No.9577472

Finally went to a meet after my comm's hiatus was finally over. Went to a restaurant after museum visit. Waiter drops the tray of food on me as he's setting it down. My favorite dress and otk's ruined.

>> No.9577503

So I took the plunge and got my bangs cut.
Problem is I look like Yumi King now.
>just fucking kill me

>> No.9577508

>>9577288
That's the most pure, darling grandma.

>> No.9577583
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9577583

I really thought I'd hit it off with this hot girl in my little sister's comm. But today she was bitching about "dindoos" (apparently a Swedish slur for black people) and I don't think I wanna touch her anymore.

>>9577472
Hope you raked their asses over the coals, anon.

>> No.9577586

>>9577583
>dindoo
>swedish slur
anon....urban dictionary exists for a reason

>> No.9577592

>>9577288
Okay, everyone laugh at me and tell what a horrible person I am, but I did this with a mouse in my parents' house too!

Maybe I read too much Beatrix Potter but I couldn't help it! The mouse was just so small and sweet and he was running along the floor like he so hungry! I had to leave food for him.
I named him Mr. Sneakybottoms because his little fluffy bottom looked like he had on poofy pantaloons.

It was as close to Disney princess-itude as I ever got.

>> No.9577604

>>9577471
I was talking to a telemarketer once and he told me on his grandfather's farm the horse would get out of his pasture and come up and look in the window of the house to watch television. He'd make a fuss and stomp on the deck if they changed the channel when he didn't want them to.

>> No.9577613

>>9577592
>I named him Mr. Sneakybottoms because his little fluffy bottom looked like he had on poofy pantaloons.
I want to believe this is cute, but the internet has ruined me on shit like this and it just sounds like ageplay babytalk. Fucking yikes.

>> No.9577617

>>9577592
My friend had a mouse that ran around his house and we named it Anita.

Mice are cute. Rats, on the other hand, freak me out. Pet ones are alright, but god... Wild rats are so huge.

>> No.9577628

>>9577613
No, I'm just delusional like that, I name everything.
Ageplay is giant nope, I've worked with actual adults who wear diapers because of severe mental retardation and paralysis/seizures/etc, seeing them, especially when they're suffering, changes your perception on things. I just like the world to be beautiful and simple sometimes.

>> No.9577632

>>9577617
>Anita the mouse
That is so cute.

>> No.9577635

I spent a bunch of money on cosplays to do with my boyfriend but he gained a lot of weight and refuses to wear them. He hasn't lost the weight after a year even though I went in on a fitness plan with him to support him and I ended up getting really healthy. He admitted to me that as soon as my back is turned he binges on anything he can get his hands on. I am recovering from a very intense ED and have been putting my best foot forward in showing him that I want to pursue health together, but he gets really aggressive with wanting to be the star of the shoot

>> No.9577639

>>9577628
>>9574497
Eventually we slip away and shed our mortal shell, becoming one with the aether and eternity, and the sunlight and the rainbow.

>> No.9577705

>>9573766
Just. Do. It.

>> No.9577768

>>9577705
>anon misinterpreted her friendliness and got shut down
>everyone else laughed because it was obvious to them
>anon stabs her 49 times

T-Thanks /cgl/

>> No.9577789

>Local comm is doing a purge to get rid of inactive members
>I am inactive member

I read all the posts but often feel any contributions I want to make are too boring or feel too shy as I feel like I'm interrupting established group convo. I had to move away temporarily but will be back in a few months so able to attend meets etc. I've always been a lone-lita and I realised that cgl and this comm group are my only 'interactions' with others in the fashion. Would it be stupid to message the mods and explain myself.

>> No.9577795

>>9577789
just shoot them a message in any case.

>> No.9577805

>>9577789
It wouldn't be stupid at all but don't be needy, weird, or sappy in your message. Just let them know you've been busy but keep up with the community posts and can be more active once things die down.

>> No.9577808

I want to have D and D meetups. Where we show up in Lolita and play one shots.

>> No.9577822
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>>9577705
Being in a similar situation, I can understand why he doesn't.
It's not so much a fear of failure, getting rejected isn't a big deal, the problem is that with a close friendship, once the question to advance it has been asked, there's no going back.
Even if you try to continue normally, there will always be a nagging at the back of your mind, and at the back of her mind is the thought that you're just friends with her in the hope to get closer to her.

>> No.9577829

>>9577808
Tomb of Horrors during a halloween themed meet, please.

>> No.9577836

>>9577315
Wearing a binder that's too small will definitely hurt. I recommend taking proper measurements and buying from a site that specializes in them and if there isn't an exact match get one that's slightly bigger than smaller.
A good binder will be pretty comfortable, but don't wear it too often since it will ruin your chest. Every once in a while is fine even for the whole day.

>> No.9577860

>>9577789
I can understand worrying you're inturrupting if you're entering an established comm but most groups want to grow and welcome new members. I say this as hypocrite who was removed from my comm page for lack of activity, I commented once and was made fun of for an unpopular opinion, never worked up the guts to post again.

>> No.9577970

I recently discovered a second hand but also indie store in my own country that sells jane marple, ETC, Baby, AP, LF and more for less than $100 and i'm so happy, i already ordered a bunch of stuff!


>>9576123
Where can i get this?

>> No.9578010

>>9577822
If you dont you will always torture yourself thinking of what could have happened. Just like me for the past four months.

>> No.9578028
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>>9577822
That's how I messed up my relationship with my step sister.

>> No.9578034

>>9578028
lol did you try to fug your step sister

>> No.9578078

>>9578034
Yessir. We're still friends, but we were never as close as we were before.

>> No.9578099
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9578099

Can I be real for a second?

This community is fucking atrocious right now. You're all acting like a bunch of whiny, entitled little babies. Ordinary women spent their money on fancy clothes for you to marvel at. They made it for YOU, and they're going to wake up tomorrow morning and see that instead of enjoying it, this community of "fans" picked out the 3 or 4 things that weren't perfect and are using that to fucking riot.

Guess what? No coord was never going to be perfect. It was never going to live up to your hype. It was never going to be everything you'd ever want in a lolita.

What it WAS meant to be was a fun way for girls to feel angelic and pretty, and I just checked the #lolita tag on Tumblr and it was exactly that. What more do you want?
Is the coord blouse-less? Sure. Is it wig-less? Maybe. Are the tights purchased from Spencer's Gifts? Sure, fine.

But holy shit what do these people OWE YOU?
How fucking entitled do you have to be to witness this painstakingly-crafted Jfash and then say "yeah but..."

We should all be fucking weeping in our chairs right now at the sheer size and scale of the achievement. We should be showering the people behind this thing with the praise they deserve for pulling off one of the most elegant fashion trends in recent history.

Lolitas don't owe you their beauty. Yet they gave you 18 QUINTILLION blogs of it.

If you have the fucking audacity to complain about it then you don't deserve it and you were never fans in the first place.

>> No.9578101

>>9578099
You sound irrationally upset about this. This is the fucking internet, everyone and everything gets shit on for no real reason here. There's always going to be some asshole with a comment that reads like the equivalent of someone firing off an airhorn right next to your ear, and there will always be someone who doesn't like what you like.


Put your big girl panties and learn the old lesson of sticks and stones.

>> No.9578104

>>9578099
Ouch, someone has a hard time taking concrit

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>>9578099

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>>9578099
Try to be angry like fire but also calm like water. You will hit a lot harder.

>> No.9578115

>>9578099
>fans
I'm not "a fan" of lolita, I am a lolita. Fans appreciate from the outside, I'm an active member of the subculture and the fashion, and a part of this subculture is constructive criticism which is meant to help others develop and grow. It's a positive thing, and not mandatory, as in you don't have to take other people's opinions to heart if you don't want to. Why are you so angry? If anyone here is a whiny brat it's you.

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>>9573648
The official garment of cgl.

>> No.9578128

>>9578119
didnt know it's real

>> No.9578135

>>9578099
Gimme your lunch money, nerd

>> No.9578138

>>9578099
Ita spotted lmao.

>> No.9578151

>>9578099
who are you directing this anger at anon?

>> No.9578216

>>9578128
Not every picture on the web is real, anon.

>> No.9578335

>>9578099
I get you. The menpig fetishists & polacks on here aren't helping either anon. Sticking to a friends only IG cuts down on the weirdness factor too. Plenty of genuine lolitas that are passionate about the hobby.

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>>9578099
Somebody got posted to the ita thread.

>> No.9578375
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>>9578099
>>9578105

>> No.9578395

whats the redpill on dating /cgl/ women?

are they all materialistic attention whores who cause lots of drama because of stunted personalities proven by wanting to be younger girls in little girl dresses made for 6 year olds?

>> No.9578398

>>9578395
No, but it doesn't sound like you want one, so why do you care?

>> No.9578405

>>9578375
Where does that come from ?

>> No.9578419

>>9578395
>dresses made for 6 year olds
Yes our adult sized clothing was 100% made for young children to wear.

>> No.9578421

>>9578398
Not him but I kinda want one. I want to do autismo couple cosplays, without her being a filthy casual

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>>9578099
>this entire post
new copypasta

>> No.9578441

>>9578421
I did couple cosplays before. For her she really liked it when we worked on them together and finally cosplayed at a con. She had a lot fun so it made me feel glad.

>> No.9578448

me and friend just found out about a local lolita community. They know she is female but don't know that I'm male.
It is acceptable to be male as long as I go to meets with a female friend, right? Or is being male just a no no.

>> No.9578452

>>9578448
It's acceptable if you're not a creep and you actually wear lolita/ouji

>> No.9578478
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9578478

i got my ultimate dream dress in the mail and it suits me better than i ever dreamed it would

it has been such a shit week and i finally feel pretty again

>> No.9578489

>>9578441
Sounds comfy af

>> No.9578490

>meet cosplayer
>they recognized my cosplay too
>spoke for a brief moment
>feel like we clicked
>got a couple pics with
>forgot to ask for social media
>now all i have are these pics of this cute cosplayer who i dont know

>> No.9578492

>>9578395
Hahahaha, enjoy jerking off to women like us who wouldn't look at you on the street you sad fuck.

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9578496

>try to lose weight
>gain five pounds

I'm actually going to kill myself because I'm 5'0 and almost 200lbs. Any advice on how to drop 80lbs would be appreciated.

>> No.9578498

>>9578496
Smoke meth

>> No.9578499

>>9578496
www.iifym.com

t. went from 230 to 170. I'm 6'0 but the rules will work for you too

>> No.9578510

>>9578099
Sorry you got posted to the ita thread, anon.

>> No.9578514

>>9578496
fast. Its literally the fastest way of loosing weight and its pretty healthy for you.
your 50, you should know this

>> No.9578516

>>9578514
>literally
>pretty healthy
>your 50
Not sure if you're a troll, or a young summer kid.

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>>9578496
Just count calories. It's literally that easy.

>> No.9578522

>>9578516
I guess you consume krokodil and meth if you want to lose weight even faster.
It wont be healthier though.

>> No.9578525

I went on /pol/. Scum of the earth.

>> No.9578529

>>9578525
start lurking a bit more. After a while you can see past the trolling and baiting and find actual different opinions. If your too offended by that then theres no
hope

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>>9578525
Pic related.

>> No.9578543

>>9578529
Occasionally been going to /pol/ for about 2 years now, and basically never see real opinions, just memes.

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>>9578529
For actual political discussions go to places like Stack Exchange. It's pretty much impossible for unintelligent voices to be heard there.

>> No.9578561

>>9578522
nayrp but pretty sure other anon was pointing out the level of stupidity. with the poor grammar and thinking a height is an age.

>> No.9578576

>>9578496
First: /cgl/ is not the place for supportive and reasonable weight loss advice. Try reddit or something.
Second: Some actual advice. Go about your week normally, but download MyFitnessPal and track everything you eat. This will be your baseline. Then, change your diet so you're eating ~1200 Calories every day, and keep tracking yourself. Only weigh yourself once a day, and keep looking at the big picture. You can exercise if you want, but you can't outrun the fork.

>> No.9578578

>>9578496
Just go to /fit/, ignore the board, read the sticky. Various weight loss schemes all have the same underlying principles no matter how they try to sound fancy.

>> No.9578670

>>9578496
consider weight watchers. they provide you with the knowledge about food (sugars, carbs, proteins and how they all interact) and seeing weight loss as a lifestyle change rather than a diet

>> No.9578692

>>9578496
MyFitnessPal

>> No.9578712

Is anyone else here pro-Ana?

>> No.9578719

>>9578712
I'm pro-Anal

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>>9578712
Elsa is better.

>> No.9578758

>>9578719
Yay :P

>> No.9578764

>>9578525
/pol/ is like a warped reality.

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>>9578730
>Strongly Disagree
look at this cutie

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I'm finally getting my sh*t together and getting better. Problem is I don't feel like cosplaying like before or even wearing lolita. I feel nothing. I used to be so happy about those things, making big plans and searching hours for that perfect dress. What happened?

>> No.9578820 [DELETED] 

test

>> No.9578903

>>9578576
You can out-exercise you eating habits for sure
Look at the huge ripped guys like the rock, he eats like 5k calories a day and he's not fat

>> No.9578906

>>9578903
Yeah he's on roids and us huge, so his tdee is probably around 3800-4000 calories. Not comparable at all to a 5ft girl.

>> No.9578909

>>9578906
The point of my post just zoomed right over your head didn't it?

>> No.9578910

>>9578903
Lol, please educate yourself some more.

Sure, you can out-exercise your calories, but the guy eating 5000 calories is eating lean meat and veggies, not ho-hos and Taco Bell unless he's doing a dirty bulk.

>> No.9578931

>>9578910
Get the fuck out Crossboarder lol
You idiot ignore the fact that there's two sides to the coin and cutting what you eat isn't the end all be all of losing weight

>> No.9578933

I fucked up on part of my cosplay and it's less than two weeks to the con.
I painted the wrong part of the boots so I had to sit there with acetone for 3 hours removing it.

>> No.9578941

>>9578712
This is such a cringeworthy term that comes from wannarexics/crash dieters who look at anorexia as a diet. GFYS.

>> No.9578946

>>9578909
Yeah if she jumps on roids and grows a foot taller she'll be able to eat more.

No. Diet is way more important and you don't burn nearly as many calories working out as you think you do. If you even count calories burned in your total calories for the day you're retarded. It's completely unreliable.

>> No.9578947

>>9578931
Yes it fucking is retard. Exercise is icing on the cake compared to diet.

>> No.9578960

>tranny
>pass pretty well in public, haven't been gendered male for a few years now despite wearing andro and neutral clothing
>still not confident enough to be seen by others in cosplay/super feminine clothing for fears of potentially not passing and looking like a freak/fetishist
>cosplay collection/cute clothes that i spend all my free money on gathers dust, have never been to a con before

>> No.9578963

>>9578947
>>9578946
god, I can't wait for summer to be over and for the /fit/ meatheads to go back to their containment board

>> No.9578965

>officially been in lolita for a year now
>coords are still okay, finally have money because i am a workin' girl who just graduated from uni
>looks bad at first coords
>they werent good, but hey... i never had a terrible wig phase!!

>> No.9578967

>>9578963
Stop deluding people in to thinking they can keep the same diet and lose weight especially at 5ft 200lbs. They need a diet overhaul or they'll blow their fucking knees out. Or they can swim but it still won't overtake their diet.

You are a straight up piece if shit and have no idea what you're talking about. Never reply to me or my thread ever again.

>> No.9578971

>>9578967
>>>/out/

>> No.9578981

>>9578971
Nice argument retard.

>> No.9578988

>>9578981
any argument I use will be lost on your tiny meathead brain, so I might as well not ever try

>> No.9578990

>>9578988
>>9578981
You're both moronic and need to shut the fuck up

>> No.9578997

>>9578988
You don't have an argument because you know you're wrong.

>> No.9578999

>>9578997
NAYRT but someone needs to put you in time out, it's clear you can't be adult about this and stfu

>> No.9579001

>>9578999
You still haven't showed me your feet

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>>9579001
here u go pal

>> No.9579010

>>9578999
If you have nothing to contribute to the conversation you can't stop posting anytime.

>> No.9579012

>>9579010
Your "conversation" is the equivalent of two children screaming and swatting at each other over a toy, both of you need to shut the fuck up and stop derailing the thread.

>> No.9579013

>Cosplay in the 90's.
>Meet fellow cosplayer
>Converse, exchange praise of each others costumes.
>Exchange personal info, phone numbers, email, or AIM screen names to get into contact later.
>Either become friends, or start something else up romantically sometimes. If not, cool to have new friends.

Flash forward:
>cosplay in the 2010s
>Meet Cosplayer
>Compliment each others costumes.
>Exchange info.
>I give real number and facebook.
>They gives me their fucking cosplay facebook/page card and nothing else. No real actual contact info.
>Message them once. Get like one response.
>Treats me like I'm supposed to be one of their "fans" and not a potential friend, let alone anything else.

Cosfame was a mistake. You can't even make friends anymore doing cosplay. Everyone has a fucking print to sell now or something.

>> No.9579026

>>9579012
You have no idea what you're talking about, please stop replying to me. Someone posted misinformation and I corrected them.

>> No.9579032

>>9579026
>please stop replying to me

Shut the fuck up and go back to tumblr

>> No.9579038

>>9579032
Nice shitposting retard. That mad your posts are worthless?

>> No.9579039

>>9573718
Are you talking about Lana Rain? The literal pornstar?

>> No.9579041

>>9579038
You're literally doing nothing but shitposting right along side me m8

>> No.9579050 [DELETED] 

>>9579032
>>9579038
>>9579039
>>9579041
Both of you fuck off

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>>9579050
what the frig did I do????

>> No.9579061

>>9579054
Sorry, clicked your post by mistake. Realized after and deleted the post.

>>9579032
>>9579038
>>9579041
These ones fuck off

>> No.9579062

>>9579032
>>9579038
>>9579041
>>9579061
all of you should fucc off

>> No.9579063

>>9579062
Reeee

>> No.9579067

>>9579062

>> No.9579068

>>9579061
>>9579062
All of you should fuck off

>> No.9579069

>>9579068
don't tell me what to do -.- you are not my mom

>> No.9579072

>>9578536
Don't mean to be rude, but what is wrong with that exactly?

>> No.9579076

>>9579026
Your "correction" was to tell a board with already a bad eating disorder problem that to lose weight you should drop down to almost half the recommended calorie intake because you think exercise doesn't do much
It was bad advice and you're just shitting it up with your feud over "don't reply to me" shitposting

>> No.9579081

>>9579076
What? I didn't say any of that shit retard. I said diet is more important than exercise, because it is. You should eat slightly below your tdee and slowly lose weight no faster than 1-2lbs a week excluding initial water weight. I'm not saying don't exercise, just don't count the "burnt" calories because they're wildly inaccurate. Also don't reply all on exercise to lose weight, diet is how you lose weight.

>> No.9579086

>>9574405
>literally "i crie everytiem i think of u hurtin" the post
top kek

>> No.9579099

>>9578099
I'm pissing.

>> No.9579118

>>9578099
y come u think we'refans and not lolitas ourselves who spend just as much money as the people you're white knighting
In some cases we spend more because we don't get our shit from spencers and buy blouses and petticoats

>> No.9579120

>>9578099
It's a fashion, fashion is based on appearance. Ofcourse peolple will judge and look at appearance.

If you post on the internet, you know the consequences. If you don't, you're not old enough to be online. If you need a savespace, internet is not the place. People are judgemental by nature, and posting in a fashion community will make people look and talk about how you look. We don't own people posting online anything, just like they own us nothing. And if they post online, the consequences can be positive or negative. Do't like that option, don't post. Being a cry baby about it never made people think others looked better. It just made them think their behavior is even worse. And the more you look out of the norm, the more people will dislike. If you can understand the world isn't a place where everything love you because you're a special snowflake, it's time to learn.

And about the "rules" of perfection. The fact that some things look bad, and other things are "not done", doesn't say you have to be perfect to get out. Instead of being butthurt about concrit, you can also use it to learn. And just like you're not wearing "tees and jeans" without a t-shrit and jeans, and gothic, metal, punk or any style for that matter, you're not wearing lolita without certain things. Because that's the whole point of a certain style, certain elements that keep coming back. You can miss one element, and be fine. But have non of these elements and it's not that style. That's just how it works. And lolita has never had as much different options to wear as it has now anyways, there is only more variety than before....

>> No.9586490

>>9578405
gatchaman