/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>tfw I tore my frenulum

who /fit/ here?

NOFAP
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You have been visited by the Short Roid Crusader, reply "Crusader, begone!" or Crusader will murder you in your sleep while sobbing.

>>9680079
Cheeky OP

/fit/ checking in

tfw will never be jojo big

>>9680086
>nofap
>comes to the girl board
Living on the edge.

>>9680079
Don't mind me girls, just planting some bombs in your board.

>>9680086
>Tfw I pushed 1pl8 OHP
>hopefully another 2 months before 2pl8 bench
>Doing a decent amount of accessories geared towards hypertrophy
W-will I be aesthetic enough to pull off a reg cosplay by July next year

>>9680095
>gear
Crusader, begone!

>>9680089
Don't let your dreams be dreams, anon

>tfw no /fit/ bf to cosplay your JoJo husbando

>>9680102

>>9680079
op dont say shit like "there could be anons ooo w oooo" just put the rules and pray for janitors

Ok so I learned about r9k, what is the deal with the other boards though?

>>9680141
IDK about the other boards, but /fit/ has a roiding tripfag by the name of Crusader who posts about his insecurities here regularly, and now other anons from /fit/ have come here to mock him.

/vr/ here. does 'gull likes to play sim games?

>>9680086
Crusader, begone!

>>9680086
>tfw it could take years to look like a 1980s post apoc tough guy
>tfw I won't eber actually be a 1980s post apoc tough guy

I can't help feeling just stupidly jealous.
I joined a group, put tons of effort into my costume, and got into it a lot. I invited my friend into the group, who made her costume in 2 days, and everyone fucking loves her. People have literally cheered as she rolls up (and gets out of my car as I have to drive her there)
Everyone loves her, gives her shit, and makes a big deal if she ever misses an event.
Before events, she bitches to me about nervous she is and how no one likes hers.
After events, she bitches how she doesn't really like anyone but she still has fun.

I know she makes better stuff then me, my props never look as good as hers despite me putting considerably more time into mine. Its just so fucking frustrating.

>>9680141
>>9680142
>came to have my yearly /cgl/ tour, because I have been retired for a while
>found out seagulls nowadays come from third party sites and don't even know board culture
>let alone other boards

You should all just kill your selves tbqh, fucking normal-fags polluting this hobby and the site in general.

>>9680149
pisses me off just to read that.. just because i'm a salty bitch

I'm gonna be a NEET for a few months due to issues which means no lolita. I'm feeling guilty enough but knowing that makes me feel even more miserable.
I don't want to mooch my parents so I definitely rather have that than buy lolita and have them pay for me but god...

>>9680079
We were talking on /fit/ about /cgl/

Is it true you fellows are mostly anti fit fatties?

>>9680156
50/50

>>9680149
Try to enjoy your life with her! Being the best doesnt mean you can't have your own fun

>>9680152
Yeah, thats my issue. I know im just being a salty bitch and I should be happy. but its frustrating.

>>9680156
Another /fit/izen here, it's true.
Gaze upon evidence of such whales being astounded because they must cut a mere 300 cal a day.

I cna't conceive how some one is consuming 1500 cal and not losing weight, probably she was under-counting hardcore or has a super shit lifestyle.

Since you "bros" are already here I might as well ask:

How do you get rid of muffin top?
How do you get a true flat belly?
How do you destroy love handles without sacrificing your hips or whatever?

How do you cope with the states and embarrassment of wearing jfash in public?
I grew up adoring all the FRUITS and egl magazines my old weeb friends showed me, but now that I'm an adult and still in love with it and the money to buy it, I feel so.. childish and stupid wearing anything that's eye-catching. Do any other gulls feel this way?

My older brother has three con crushes and they're all Chinese. Is he racist?

>>9680175
Running, calisthenics, stomach vacuums, squats
Always squatz

>>9680176
I used to when I was a teenager, but eventually you get used to it and stop giving a shit.

>been asking my boyfriend to measure me since febuary for a custom cosplay I want made, would ask friends but I don't have any
>in febuary I had someone picked out to hire to make my cosplay, hired a photographer, rented out a studio for photos
>its November, the month of the photoshoot
>I don't have the cosplay all because my bf was blowing off measuring me for cosplay for several months

I should have just gone to a tailor, I'm super pissed off about it, I was excited and now I'm the asshole that has to cancel on everyone. Any time I bring it up, bf tells me "you blew it off too" which is straight up bullshit

>>9680091
>girl board
nigga I browse what I want

>>9680168
I know. I do have fun.
Just back of the mind shit.
My feels if you will

>>9680175
read the

S T I C K Y
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>>9680175
Genetics lol

>>9680189
I bet you keep your genetics on your fridge too, right whale-chan? ;^)

>tfw cosplay is the only thing in your life that brings you joy anymore

>>9680149
I know how it feels to be on the other end. I can make a song in an hour, while my musician friends take at least a week to finish a song. And my songs STILL come out better.

Funny thing I'M the one that is most self-critical and anxious. I read somewhere that the more talent you have the more you doubt yourself? Don't know where but yeah, just because someone is at the top of their game they may not always realize it.

>>9680192
I'm a dude, dude.

>>9680197
>>>/fit/43435655

>>9680201
I'm not fat bro. I weigh like 70kg wtf

>>9680202
>male
>not fat
>70kg
There is only one logical conclusion:

RATTLE RATTLE EAT MORE CATTLE

>>9680149
Iktf dude. My only friend atm is sweet but she can do everything way better than me with a lot less effort and it can be pretty disheartening. I obviously don't say anything because it'd make her feel bad and would just be super bitchy on my part but yeah it's really frustrating.

>>9680210
Pssh, ain't need muscle when you have the FACE

>>9680192
>>9680197
I'm not and I really do wanna know, I want a smooth beautifil midsection, not full on gross defined abs

I think men aren't observant at all.
For example, if you post a picture of a very skinny girl next to a girl who's not even close to fat, but is markedly not as skinny as the other girl, most men will unironically be tricked into thinking that the average girl is "fat", and they will describe her as such. If it was a picture of her alone, they'd look at you like you were crazy if you called her "fat", but they can easily be fooled by a particularly skinny girl being placed next to her.
The same goes for makeup. They'll swear up and down that they can tell the difference between a woman wearing no makeup versus natural makeup, then they'll post photos of girls wearing eyeliner, foundation, light-colored lipstick, etc to say "See? Girls shouldn't wear makeup". They think night/Instathot makeup is the only type of makeup.
Also, they don't even realize when an image of a woman's body is heavily Photoshopped images. They won't even notice if someone's door is curving right into their waist or if their ass is in another dimension, and if you point these things out, 60% of the time, they will rush to her defense and accuse you of either being jealous or of "sour grapes" (depending on what gender they think you are). I've seen all of these things happen multiple times.
It pisses me off because men are generally naive as fuck, don't notice basic things and are very easily mislead, and yet women allow their opinions on looks to mean anything. The only guy I value the aesthetic opinion of is my boyfriend (because I do care what he thinks, obviously), and even in that case I'm more like "Understandable, have a nice day" than "Yes, let me change for you".

>>9680079
My friend was running to catch a shuttle as 2B and her panties fell down.

>>9680218
Dude fuck you, a little definition on abs and quads is hot as fuck

>>9680219
I'm a guy and I notice these things. But I honestly don't care. Don't listen to guys. 99% of them are fucking idiots, like all people.

>>9680219
I mean it makes sense, men generally aren't as familiar with what women look like as women are. Though it does always mildly trigger me when guys post pictures of women with no makeup to advocate for the natural look and the girl is clearing wearing lots of it, she just isn't made up like she's going to a nightclub.

>>9680219
>that whole post
looks like SOMEONE has a really bad case of insecurity!

>>9680187
I am sorry for it. I am a robot, too autistic to feel for the others

>>9680227
t. easily manipulated man

>>9680232
Not that guy but whether he is easily manipulated or not is irrelevant. You have massive insecurity issues

>>9680235
>"Not that guy but"
>knowing he's a guy
>implying I'm even the original poster
Go back to /r9k/ or /fit/ or whatever board you invaded from

>>9680219
>tfw girls ask me if they look better with or without makeup
>I'm autistically honest
>>You look better with makeup
>They're hurt and offended

WHY WEAR MAKEUP THEN IF YOU DON'T THINK IT MAKES YOU LOOK BETTER?

Oh but apparently I'm the asshole for not taking the bait.

>>9680225
I guess there are exceptions, but it feels like they're a tiny minority. I don't expect most women to know that much about what guys do for their appearances, so it goes both ways, I guess. I just don't see as many women picking men apart as vice-versa.

>>9680226
For people who spend a lot of time masturbating to women (when straight), they generally don't seem to know that much about them.

>>9680227
Even if I am insecure, nothing I said was wrong, and like I said, the only guy whose opinion I value is the one I love. It's just annoying to see other girls fall for the meme and listen to random guys who don't know shit about shit.
As a sidenote, screeching "insecure!" is another tactic a lot of guys use when they can't argue with someone who's a girl when it comes to looks. I should've added that in. Either "jealous" or "insecure". :^)

>>9680239
They're just fishing for compliments. Unless someone is really bad at makeup, literally everyone looks better with it.
Men would be 800x more attractive if they invested in some foundation or concealer, penciled in their eyebrows if they didn't have much, tweezed their unibrows, etc.

>>9680238
>the topic is her massive insecurity
>immediately changes the topic and tells me to leave
Thanks for confirming that I guess

>>9680243
I pluck my eyebrows but that's about it. Wearing makeup makes you look insecure when men are supposed to be filled with natural charisma and confidence.

>>9680244
That wasn't the topic at all though?

>>9680245
>Wearing makeup makes you look insecure
Your most admired male celebrities all wear makeup. Every single one of them. Just letting you know.

>>9680243
only if you like the sculpted pretty boy look, which is fine. other people (like me) like their men rugged and a little imperfect.

>>9680241
I don't get why guys don't pay more attention to other people. It's fucking tho. Makes it easier for me mwuahahaha

>tfw STILL no lolita gf to support unconditionally and to have bully me relentlessly when we're alone

>>9680241
>screeching "insecure!" is another tactic a lot of guys use when they can't argue with someone who's a girl when it comes to looks
Uh no? It's said when we can smell your insecurity through the god damn monitor.

>>9680254
>someone makes a point
>all you can do is scream that they're insecure and run away instead of even attempting to discredit a thing they've said
It almost sounds like you're projecting tbqh. It's called "ad hominem".

>>9680086
>tfw tempted to go to a testosterone clinic and blast and cruise 100% legally

>>9680210
I'm male and 57 kg, and I still have muscle

>>9680151
>claims to be le epik oldfag girl
>uses "tbqh", which is extremely cancerous and was started by facebook normies

Nah, you go fuck you're own selfie

>>9680256
>these femoid argumentation skills
It's not ad-hominem when I actually have something to go on. If you said "I hate black people" and then I called you a racist, would that be ad-hominem?

>>9680178
yellow fever cuck probably

>>9680210
RATTLE RATTLE EAT MORE CATTLE

>>9680246
>someone makes it the topic
>LALALA CAN'T HEAR YOU

>>9680219
Same thing happens when an average man is near a tall man, fuck off.

>>9680248
>Your most admired male celebrities
>she thinks men admire celebrities because she admires celebrities

>>9680261
>femoid
Incel confirmed. Your opinion is worth even less than the average random guy's. I'm not going to try to engage with you anymore, as every piece of attention you receive only encourages you. Feel free to accuse me of hypocritically using an ad hominem after calling you out on it, but understand that you will not get any (You)s from me in return.
Have a nice day, and may our jannie and mod(s) throw you out on your ass.

>>9680243
>Men would be 800x more attractive if they invested in some foundation or concealer, penciled in their eyebrows if they didn't have much, tweezed their unibrows, etc.

This is why you should never let a woman dictate your looks. Don't ever make that mistake.

>>9680252
>tfw no lolita gf to use me for sex I don't want to have and leave me feeling sullied

>>9680268
Anyone who's even the least bit observant can look at proportions and figure that the average guy is usually just 5'7 or 5'9 at shortest compared to a tall guy who's 6'2+. Come to think of it, I think that's why all the "Look at that fucking manlet LEL" memes seem to be most popular on male-dominated forums and boards. Most guys just don't seem to pick up on that shit, and take things at face value.

>>9680257
Never bro, never fall for the liquid jew. You can do it, you are man enough, trust your own testosterone, feel it.

>>9680273
Who are you talking to? This is a female board anon

>>9680277
I'm 6' 0", a-am I tall femanon?

>>9680271
Nice, you ignore my entire argument because of some dumb meme. FYI I've had and DO have sex. Not like that matters you idiot.

These threads have gone to shit, it's all crossboarders, men vs women shitflinging, and tfw no gf fags that add lolita to their post so they can claim it's on topic.

>>9680280
Not anymore, this is now a multiboardcultural board, like it or not, /g/ here. And check OP
>There could be anons from /r9k, /fit, /pol/ and /fa/ lurking in the shadows

>>9680195
But you realize your stuff is better. And i get anxiety, thats why I can never actually talk to her about this, just bitch on a anon forum.

>>9680283
Too many menz here. We should just let them slapfight each other on feels, and stay on our lolita/cosplay threads where they can't derail it with their worthless opinions.

>>9680283
I've been 'tfw no lolita gf' posting long before the crossboarder invasion this week, gull. We're all being affected by this

>>9680277
Man here, I have to reckon you are right, but only if you are talking about normies. You have to reckon normie women are pretty retarded and dumb too in their own areas. As for me, I'm not a body positivist or any of that crap, but I take women as a whole, I like women with proportions that make sense. I dislike boob monsters, ass monsters and such. There are thresholds of weight in which it doesn't really matter if you weight 10 lbs more or 10 lbs less, for instance.

>>9680286
I'm going out of my way to post anti-men bait in these threads in hopes that they'll link to it on their shitty homeboards, get angry, flood them and condense in the feel threads (because "that's where it's all happening guise") instead of spreading over to relevant threads and shitting up the whole board.
Sucks for those of us who liked a casual place to post feels, but sacrifices must be made in a time of struggle.

>>9680283
>>9680286
>>9680287
>>9680293
>tfw I was the guy who started all of this derailing with my baits because I was bored

Ask me anything.

>>9680286
But I never asked to be born this way. I could have been a lolita, but now I'm just an ouji. ;-;

>>9680278
>Never bro, never fall for the liquid jew.

Natty is a nice dream but you have to understand that the jews have put soy in everything, hosed it down with atrazine, and packaged it in BPA. We don't have the testosterone levels we should - the average testosterone levels in America have dropped drastically in the last few decades. I certainly don't want to cheat, I just want to be everything that God meant for me to be before the slimy dreidel-spinners got their hands on the food in this country.

Benching 2plate is nothing compared to the weight of these feels on my heart

>>9680278
>don't lift for a while
>get back into it
>mood swings like crazy
I don't even know how anyone could handle roids

>>9680297
Dude, listen, do not give me that shit, you know full well you can avoid the plastic jew, the bpa jew, and most of those jews. You are right to say it is hard to 100% have the testosterone levels our ancestors had, but that is no reason to give in and be a good goy.

Do what is in your hand to have healthy t levels naturally.
Distill your water and don't drink from plastic bottles.
Do not eat food that contains phytoestrogens (flaxseed, soy, etc.)
Avoid the most xenoestrogens you can, and fight for your natty medal.

We are white men, we should act like it.

Roiding is the ultimate shame and cuckoldry, the syringe is the shackle.

You think our ancestors had it easy? No! They could not bulk whenever they felt like it. Make the right choice, achieve your genetic potential and be content.

>>9680142
So /r9k/ are creepers (I assume /soc/as well)
/Fit/ is insecure guy + troll
/Pol/ probably posts about politics and ppl don't want to hear about it here

>>9680301
Beta males are so insecure they are willing to put their health at risk and take 100 pills a day for the sides while dealing with mental stuff that comes with it, just so they are finally (((accepted))) by (((others))).

Some can't even achieve anything substantial even with all of that, like crusader.

>>9680252
>>9680276
why don't you all just leave contact info and your location please

>>9680304
> Dude, listen, do not give me that shit, you know full well you can avoid the plastic jew, the bpa jew, and most of those jews.

I already do all this, but that doesn't change the fact that I was consuming this shit when I went through puberty. My T levels are probably irreversibly fucked on account of this (am getting tested soon).

I feel like I've hit my natural boundary - I used to be 120 lbs (am 6 feet tall white aryan man) and am 180 lbs now. Can barely bench 2plate, probably more like 200. I've put in the time and effort here. The reality is that a healthy lifestyle only takes you so far when the jews have taken away our birthright. Do you think there's something inherently wrong with using medication to reclaim it? I don't see the problem, especially if it's the only way to fully reclaim what I was meant to be.

>>9680310
Mariano Rajoy Brey

Complejo de la Moncloa, Avda. Puerta de Hierro, s/n. 28071 Madrid. (España).

You can find me there from 11:00 to 13:00. I hope you look good ;).

'sup

>>9680318
Oh i remember you, the pedo girl

>>9680258
No, you don't.

>>9680220
H O T

>>9680323
Well I'm looking in the mirror right now, and I can say that I do. I used to weigh 61kg when regularly going to the gym, so I've lost some definition.

>>9680310
Original poster. Europe. You US or nah?

>>9680320
No, that was another chick.
My guy is 19.

>>9680315
Fellow white brother, do not let the jew take your hope away, I am too 6 feet tall and there's no fucking way 180 lbs is your natural boundary. Are you bulking properly?
You have really realize that you need to eat a lot to feed your muscles and make more. You used to be 120, which, do not take offense, is ridiculous for a 6 feet man, so I believe you might have a problem with eating and achieving your kcals a day.

I too fell for the food jew when I was young, believe me, but I do not thing my t was fucked permanently, I do not thing that can happen from the foody jew alone. Once I fixed my food and routine, I felt my T levels increase. How? you might ask yourself. The way you think is the key. Females have certain thinking patterns, and males have their own too, these are modified by hormones, you guessed it, mainly estrogens and testosterone.
Do you watch porn? Do you have weird or unmanly fetishes? Watching porn is a big no, my brother. You'll have a lifechanging awakening if you stop watching porn completely. It really DESTROYS your brain, wrecks your self-esteem at deep levels. I can go on this if you want, or you can do your own research. "https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/"
You can masturbate, though do not do it every day, wait at least 3 or 4 days in between. But NO PORN.

Keep working hard and eat more my white brother. Believe in yourself, give the finger to the liquid jew.

>>9680326
Unless you're like 5'3", you're critically underweight.

Look at what Crusader, a fucking manlet, looked like at 58kg.

RATTLE RATTLE EAT MORE CATTLE

>>9680332
Did he seriously roid for that?....................

>>9680271
>may our jannie and mod(s) throw you out on your ass
Our mods and janitors suck even more these days. I'll be glad when applications open so we can get new ones.

>>9680332
He unironically looked his best at 58kg

>>9680315
Also, you might want to look into this "http://www.weightrainer.net/bodypred.html"

>>9680336
This. I'm a guy and even though I know that physique is objectively the most attractive to girls I can't help wanting to be hyuge

>>9680332
I'm 5 ft 10
I can send you a pic if you want my dude.

>>9680334
Yeah, he has what we call a critical deficiency of scoops.
Cunt failed to eat enough.

>>9680336
This is why we roid for ourselves and not for women.

>>9680331
>Do you watch porn? Do you have weird or unmanly fetishes? Watching porn is a big no, my brother.

>tfw literal cuckolding fetish

>tfw go to /r/cuckold daily

jesus christ you may have a point

>>9680339
>5 ft 10

L M A O
M
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>>9680340
>'we only do it for ourselves and not for women', he utters during his third day shitposting on /cgl/

>>9680339
Post it here.

>>9680344
I've been here for months.
Also, married, not in the market for a girl with BPD.

Only reason I've been outing myself is to talk shit about Crusader.

>>9680345
Here. Nothing amazing but better than the roided dude at 58kg. I'll probably delete this in a few mins.

>>9680349
You're just lean, not muscular.
No traps, no delts, pecs of a 12 year old.

It's astounding how poor your ab definition at what is likely 10% body fat.

>>9680341
Somehow I knew, that fatalist view comes from a broken man, you started with normal porn and started going down the degenerate ladder, am I right?
Porn industry being controlled by jews is an indisputable fact, ever wondered how cuckshit has been growing more and more? The internet porn industry is not that old, probably our generation is the first to go through it. This cuckshit is the final stage of watching porn. Some end up liking traps, some end up as cucks, etc.

The most common is to end up with unmanly and degenerate fetishes, how? you might ask.

You start watching normal porn, everything seems fine, right? Suddenly, after a few months of daily fapping, vanilla porn does not cut it anymore, so you go after something else, perhaps you start with lesbian porn, you beat it watching women interacting among themselves, this is the turning point, this is not normal for your brain, you start to develop autogynephilia, you associate your pleasure with that of the woman, you cannot selfinsert willingly or involutarily, because only women appear. This starts changes in your brain, a few more time passes, and you go deeper into the degenerate fetish hole, perhaps traps now? you take the passive role, right? you want to be the one fucked, ever wondered why all this trap stuff and such is so popular here? Your brain assumes the role of a woman, you are the sub. /g/ is literally full of traps that were once normal people with normal brains. I mention /g/ because I frequent it, but this is sure to happen somewhere else in 4chan.

This is just a path of degeneracy you can take, there is the cuck path too.

The cards dealt here are, you interiorize a literal dick complex, you see constantly those (((cherrypicked))) porn actors and wonder, whether consciously or not, if you can really please a woman, this runs deep. Your self-esteem goes down the drain, you start to somehow "adapt", or rather, your brain does, think coping mechanisms. cont.

>>9680351
>12 year old with this arm
you dont have to go that far

>>9680332
Veiny arms are gross.

>>9680349
You have a nice torso. I hope your legs are nice too.

>>9680295
How's your day, and what cgl feels are you feeling?

>>9680332
I'm 6'1".

Stop shitting up this thread.

>>9680353
you start to blur out of the picture, you have already interiorized and accepted that you are incapable of satisfying women, you perceive this from their body language on the videos, how they react and such, this BECOMES your reality, because you see it all the time. How does your brain cope? You make the woman enjoy indirectly, using another man! and you jack off to it, solved, right? You even enjoy seeing her pleased from the learned autogynephilia.

This is a very complex topic and is no joke, of course this is extremely difficult to research as it is in their (((interests))) that you keep poisoning your mind and your perception of reality.

Your sexual reality is absolutely screwed, you've been through a literal brainwash, you are a husk of a human being.

Drop the porn, seriously, never look back. Go to /pol/ and ask for the "porn redpill screencap", maybe someone has it, it might be better explained than this. It was researched by someone who talked to actual "traps".

Well I only said I had muscles at 57kg, I never said I was muscular, I'm aware that I'm lean. Keep in mind I haven't been to the gym in a while and lost 5 kg. I don't look like the 58 kg guy, and that's enough for me.

>>9680358
>veiny arms are gross
Really glad that's not a common opinion. To be fair crusaders looks pretty ugly.

>>9680331
Does this mean I'm a high test manly man if I fantasize about affectionately dominating a tall fit girl into my loving wife and mother of my 4+ children every night?

>>9680362
>>9680351

>>9680354
Your bicep basically looks unflexed...
But I was comparing your pecs to that of a 12 year old.

Eat more, lift more.

>>9680358
Again, most people who roid aren't doing it for gulls, it's mostly to do with hitting the wall and realising that there's only one way past it.
Crusader is, thankfully, the minority.
>>9680362
Everyone "has muscles" if you want to be that petty about the wording.

>>9680353
>>9680361
I think you're half right. There is another half of it where I am using it as a way to control the girl - she cheats on me, but she does it in a way that I am "allowing" so mentally it's more palatable than her doing it behind my back.

Believe me though, I am already on board the whole no-porn train. It's just an addiction I'm struggling to overcome.

>>9680295
how does it feel taking credit for something on an anonymous forum?

https://discord.gg/yZnFFdn

>>9680369
Alright dude. I lost all my weight over the holidays when I was eating 1 meal a day and doing nothing. Since you've saved my pic, might as well give me some advice.
I've got a bench press, and some free weights. There's some protein powder in the house as well. My school gym has closed so until I get a job that's all I've got. What sort of regime do you suggest?

>>9680371
>There is another half of it where I am using it as a way to control the girl - she cheats on me, but she does it in a way that I am "allowing" so mentally it's more palatable than her doing it behind my back.

See? And why would you even think about her cheating on you, how would you even come to the point of being so sure it is going to happen, sooner or later so you might as well "let" her?
Because you have no self-esteem, you don't deem yourself to be capable of satisfying her sexual needs.

You might not realize these things because there are a lot of unconscious mechanisms on this.

Search for the screencap, seriously, you'll see it more clearly, it talks about the cuck crap too.

>>9680376
>See? And why would you even think about her cheating on you, how would you even come to the point of being so sure it is going to happen, sooner or later so you might as well "let" her?
>Because you have no self-esteem, you don't deem yourself to be capable of satisfying her sexual needs.

I dunno about all that, man. Your heart is in the right place but some of this e-Dr-Phil-psych evaluation stuff is just off. I can make girls cum, I have a giant dick, I'm just totally apathetic about it. I believe women will always cheat (or get bored and start behaving badly enough that I'll dump them) because of our (((modern culture))).

I don't think you're wrong on the big picture, though, for sure. I think I've seen the screencap you're talking about but I can take another look.

>>9680379
Please start believing you are worth a girl who loves you and maybe girls will stop doing that to you.

>>9680359
Well, about my day, just another day wasting my time on 4chan and procrastinating things I have in mind.

What I feel?
>tfw when INTP and it's 99% safe to assume I'll never have a cute, pure gf who adores me and will follow me to anywhere I want to go, both mentally and spiritually
>tfw I'm wasting my prime years in a shipping container bunker making mongolian forum

>>9680372
It feels bad because nobody would even believe me, since this is anonymous. I somehow feel a bit of pride in giving seagulls a fast thread for offtopic stuff in which things other than fashion are discussed.

>>9680379
>I believe women will always cheat (or get bored and start behaving badly enough that I'll dump them) because of our (((modern culture))).

I see where you come from, and certainly, most (((modern women))) are pure trash, are unfaithful, or moneydiggers. But not for the (((porn))) reason of MUH DICK. But because they were raised in a mindset in which they don't need to be responsible for anything they do in this (((society))), they are overprotected by the (((state))), and basically are 13 year olds mentally wise. They also have these boogeymen to blame for their failures "the patriarchy". They can be with you, use you as a toy, drain your cash, and cheat on you or leave you because some random whore on their fav ((((((((TV))))))))) series did it and they want to see how's like for example. Because they are like a kid with no empathy whatsoever. They are also somewhat fucked in the head and become very salty when they realize they cared more about their career or material possesions than about raising a family, and biology hits them hard when it's already too late.

Places lacking this are mostly in eastern europe, so if you are white, there you go. CAUTION: go for rural girls, and actually travel there, women you see on the internet are just looking for people to take the to the first world and get free alimony bux and become a (((modern woman))) themselves

My advice on this one is: get a good one.

Whatever you do, you are better of without porn.

"https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/"

>>9680381
Good advice

So does this mean we can all go over to /fit/ and start posting about cute dresses?

>>9680375
Starting strength.
Buy some rubber matts to protect the floor.

You should be able to box squat on the bench and you can deadlift using the bar and the floor matts.

Calculate your TDEE, eat between 300-500kcal more than that.

>>9680388
Don't do this, /fit/ is engaged in nofap november.

>>9680388
We would actively welcome it.

>>9680243
Or you get called a girl

>>9680243
>Men would be 800x more attractive if they invested in some foundation or concealer, penciled in their eyebrows
>some foundation or concealer
>penciled in their eyebrows

>>9680388
n-no...please d-don't do that. we would h-hate it.

>mfw it turns into a thread of fit males crossdressing

>>9680398
>impying they wouldn't close the fuck out of the browser the moment they see roachbro cooking cockroaches and eating them for free gainful protein.

>>9680394
It's true. Eyebrows make up 80% of how attractive you look. Some guys should tweeze that shit and some guys should pencil it in so they don't look like Voldemort.

>>9680389
Alright. I was thinking of starting running, since I don't do any cardio. Would that mess up my gains or would I just have to eat more?

>>9680402
You'd only have to eat more.

>>9680388
They literally wouldn't care.

>>9680401
In tweezing I agree, but pencil? What the fuck? Do you even know how much that would stand out on a man? He'd become a fucking dragqueen.
If you said hair implants for voldemort types, I'd agree, but pencil? Come on.

>>9680402
>cardio
Why do you want to get less gains and actually promote weight loss if you are bulking?

Are you suffering from the ol' tardos?

>>9680401
>not wanting a hairless bf with silky smooth skin

>>9680407
You can create a natural look with pencil, y'know? It's just there to make you look like your eyebrows aren't balding. No one is telling you to do sharp edges and arch them to the moon.

>>9680401
>Eyebrows make up 80% of how attractive you look.
>[citation required]

>>9680416
>>>9680401
>>[citation required]

Dude that's half this thread

>>9680412
Shit, you're right. I was a fool.

>>9680416
Shave them off and you'll understand.

>>9680415
I have very stuffed eyebrows, so I don't think I'll ever need that, but I do need tweezing between them.
Good luck getting that natural look as a guy though.

>>9680419
>hairlessbf.jpg
>has hair on the nose and on the ears
Nice scam.

>>9680422
That's not hair, that's fur. :^)

Why do girls dislike fat men?

>>9680425
Because it's unattractive and shows that the guy doesn't take care of himself. Same goes for fat women.

>>9680423
A cat has no hair, only fur, so in this context, we are talking about the same thing.
*teleports behind you and susurrates into your ear* Nothin personnel or anything, girl.

>>9680429
Touché. No toucher though.

>>9680426
What if he does take care of more relevant things or everything else in his life?

>>9680435
>more relevant
what can be more relevant than your own self?

lose weight tubster

>>9680438
>be /fit/
>you no longer need to care about anything at all
Is this what you literally believe?

>>9680441
You literally just eat less. If you can't do this you show lack of self control.
No excuses for being a fatfuck.

>>9680446
>moving the goalposts
>being angry and rude
Are you on roid rage?
Why eat less when I can eat more?

>>9680448
I'm not the other person.
The original question was why someone wouldn't like fat people.
It shows lack of self control. Of course you can eat more, but if you don't move more to off set it you're just going to get fat.
Which is physically and mentally unattractive.

>>9680449
>mentally unattractive
How?

>>9680450
Lack of self control. I just said that? Gluttony isn't attractive.

>>9680452
What if instead of a self-control issue, you use eating as escapism, or as a drug?

>>9680453
That's also unattractive. What kind of dumbass question is that.

>>9680454
What things are attractive then?

>>9680457
That's extremely vague and subjective. Technically being a fat piece of shit with no self control is attractive to someone, but probably not the type of person you're willing to be with or want to attract.

>>9680459
t.

>>9680459
>not getting a qt 3.14 with a fat fetish as a gf

>>9680465
I don't want someone with shit taste.

>>9680474
>only phyzikul stuf matters xDD :-DDD

>tfw I lost all my dressed in a fire

>>9680086
crusader really needs to grow a pair

>>9680486
>that pic
>roiding for that

My natty beliefs are augmented

>>9680487
it's synthol too
this is natty though

>>9680483
How?

>>9680505
I broke up with my boyfriend and he literally set my house on fire.

>>9680220
Holy shit. Is she okay??

>>9680508
Dump his ass.

>boyfriend keeps insisting I wear costumes and do roleplaying in bed
Ugh why are guys like this? Why can't they understand what cosplay is actually about?
It's so freaking annoying

>>9680550
In jail, you mean?

>ordered from some taobao reseller store
>they don't send me any tracking number after 2 weeks
>email them asking what's up, they say sometimes they get tracking numbers a little bit late
>uh ok
>wait 12 days, still nothing
>email them again
>they copy-paste the same answer
>have to prod them to give me an estimate for how long until they'll send my tracking number
>"It takes 2-3 weeks to get a tracking number generally. We'll send it to you in 10-11 days time"
>mfw it's been over 3 weeks
>mfw they're probably just trying to stretch this out until it's too late to file a credit card dispute (which I probably wouldn't do anyway, as filing disputes is generally more trouble than it's worth here)
I'm kind of annoyed, but if they really need $41 that bad, I guess they can have it lmao. I'll be more wary from now on.

>>9680564
>tfw no gf wearing costumes and roleplaying in bed with me

>>9680568
Uhhh, $41 is a solid chunk of cash, my dude. You do you, I guess, but I'd absolutely dispute the hell out of that transaction.

>>9680564
I dont feel sorry for you dating a normie, all of my bfs so far have been cosplayers and it’s way chill.

>>9680564
What is cosplay actually about? Ugh

>>9680590
>has had more than one bf
prostitute.jpg

>>9680596
Prostitutes are professionals, she's just a slut.

>>9680600
>she does it for free
Ugh.

>>9680582
Meh. I said I wouldn't do it as long as they sent in the tracking number within the allotted time, so hopefully that'll make them get their shit together.

>>9680564
You sound like a boring vanilla bitch in bed. Don't blame him for wanting spice since you're obviously not bringing any.

>>9680508
Kill him.

>>9680351
lol /fit/izen getting mad at chad

>B-B-B-BUT YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY GET CHICKS WITHOUT M-M-MUSCLES!!!1one

>>9680564
>why are guys like this?
Why are girls so generalizing?

These threads are complete and utter garbage now, holy shit. Is this what all /fit/ threads are like? Turborunts and manlets juicing up thinking it's going to mask their social ineptitude and make up for their failures with women? lmao. Neck yourselves

>>9680646
Worked for Zyzz. He even admitted he was autistic with women but still got laid because he looked good.

>Agree to do a SS(?) trade with close friend since we are now long distance.
>Im near a brand store and she does taobao orders often enough.
>we work out a deal that i go to the store and buy the items in person and she orders on taobao. Both are halloween goodies.
>Her taobao stuff got there mid sep. she sent photos confirming
> i went to the brand store as requested and bought the halloween items she wanted as well as some regional treats.
>sent mine off at least two weeks before or so with tracking because my post office basically will only do 3 day priority now.
>friend claimed she already sent mine
>she got hers, thanked me
>"hmm weird i didnt get mine yet, maybe she got to ship hers the slow way"
>had plans to wear the items the weekend before halloween.
>doesnt arrive
>"okay maybe on halloween...."
>nope
>arrived on the 2nd. She shipped it on the 30th of October according to the postage.
>we had plans to do a similar trade for christmas. Ill just order from taobao on my own now.
>We both do swapping websites. Im so pissed because with so many feedbacks i didnt think she would screw me like this

>>9680665
swaping websites meaning like penpals and trading goods not like SS websites.

>>9680651
>because he looked good.
He didn't, though. He was a good status symbol for girls looking to impress (and so that when they say "If you don't stop bothering me, my guy can and will beat the shit out of you" it can actually mean something), but nobody except other men would find his body atractive.

>>9680671
You make no sense. So you're saying his body isn't attractive to girls, but his body is an attractive status symbol. So which is it?

>mods nuked the last feels thread and sterilized this one

About fucking time

post gull feels now, it's safe

>Kpop idol: nigger, nigger, nigger, man I really hate niggers
>Brainlet kpop fans: Omg stop overreacting, they didn’t even know. Yes they’re adults and google exists but they’re from Korea and they live under rocks and didn’t know any better. Why are you niggers always so sensitive about everything???

>>9680691
Ugh, when are brainlet kpop fans going to finally accept the truth about niggers?

>>9680692
>>9680690
Oop, looks like we still have /pol/ transplants running around. Time to duck for cover again.

>>9680690
Is it tho?

>>9680690
I made a Halloween coord, but my comm didn't even organize a meet so I just wore my cute outfit around the house on Halloween and drank the night away.

>>9680731
>tfw no witchy lolita gf to feed alcohol to

>>9680369
You really think muscles matter mate? Are you for real? It's all about the face, man. Get redpilled.

>>9680731
post coord

>tfw like A-line better than bell

>>9680751
I'm with you, A-line is a lot more flattering imo.

Anon from r9k. I was told to come here and I could find a cutie cgl gf...

>>9680761
Give us your credit cards, loser.

>>9680762
Only if you become my girlfriend.

>>9680760
I'm a dude though, so flattering is out the window for me. A-line has a more Alice in Wonderland period look while bell has a more porcelain doll look. Both look cool, but A-line has a more understated aesthetic to it.

My bf insists on spanking me when I misbehave. God my ass hurts.

>>9680184
I mean, you could have walked up to him with a measuring tape in hand and just told him to do it really quick. It only takes 5 minutes. Some of the measurements you could've taken yourself, too.

>>9680772
Well, if you don't like it, ask him to stop. If you do like it, why complain?

>>9680775
I don't mind it. Ass still hurts though.

>>9680779
I spank my gf but it never hurts it. Ask him to use a closed palm instead of an open palm. It'll give the impact but lessen the pain.

>>9680782
>it
her* lol

>>9680772
>bf spanking me with a wooden spoon
>mfw he accidentally slaps my labia

>Thought I hated kids.
>Go to a local con as someone from RWBY because I make bad decisions.
>Walk up to the photoshoot.
>A bunch of kids want hugs and pictures with me.
>Hang with them for a bit, have fun.
>Back at work, a coworker mentions she knows some kids who went.
>Show her pictures. It's the same ones at the photoshoot.
>Next day, she says she told the kids she works with me.
>They went nuts and kept talking about how cool and fun I was.
>Feeling like I want to work with kids now.
>Want to be senpai.

>>9680686
mods are gay /r9k/ warrior reporting in

>>9680149
why are you mad that she's talented? she wants to impress people just like you do, maybe you'd be well received if you changed your attitude my dude. doing things doesn't always earn affection. just loosen/lighten/brighten up your spirit and people will gravitate to you.
you may not be able to see it yourself but you could be giving off really sour or scary vibes.

>>9680809
that's adorable af, mechazawanon

>>9680220
Why were her panties so big?

I think my con crush may actually like me. She just messaged me out of the blue to have a real talk about her life. I don't think she has many friends in this country.

Damn it, I wanna go on a date with her to McDairy King.

>>9680865
are you sure you're not just an emotional tampon?

>>9680868
Don't use pickup artist lingo on the cute board.

>>9680865
>I think my con crush may actually like me. She just messaged me out of the blue to have a real talk about her life

if a girl isn't having sex with you, she doesn't like you

she just wants attention

>tfw no gf

>>9680898
>>9680933
DO NOT

>tfw no bf

>finally meet a qt cosplayer at my school costume contest that doesn't isn't a disgusting wreck
>can't work up the courage to talk to her
>she leaves and l never even got her name
Why am l like this

>>9680936
I'll be your bf

>>9680079
>/r9k
Hello, I've heard there were gfs here!

>Jealous of semi-pretty cosplayers.
I am a bit overweight, weighting 150 pounds. I am losing weight at the moment and look better, but I feel like my face is just plain ugly. I know some of these girls photoshop their faces and I don't, but it still makes me feel bad.

>22 year old
>got fed up with waiting for a gf to appear in my life
>look up escort agencies
>find qt 3.14
>look at the price tag
>500€ (five hundred eurodiroos)
>f i v e h u n d r e d e u r o d i r o o s
>fuck it, I have savings
>contact her
>she wants thir party references
>wat.mp4
>she explains that it's a requriement to be accepted as a client by the agency
>tell her I've never used these kind of "services"
>she reluctantly agrees to meet, but asks for a picture first
>warn her that I'm a virgin
>"oh that's sweet i'll take care of you"
>asks if I want girlfriend experience
>wat.bmp
>she explains what it is
>"h-how much would that be?"
>NOTHANKS.TIFF
>fast forward
>in front of the hotel room's door
>heart beating at 100000rpm
>knock on the door
>she opens the door
>shes so qt, fuck
>go inside
>nervous as fuck, literally mumbling and stuttering
>"s-sorry I've never d-done this"
>she chuckles, so qt
>"want a drink?"
>"j-just water"
>drink the water
>she starts getting naked
>heartbeat increases
>literally seeing little green dots and motion blur
>her body is awesome
>boner.png
>"well?"
>"yeah, uh, I'm g-going to undress"
>get into the bathroom and undress there
>"you're a bit shy aren't you?"
>"uh... yeah"
>"do you want to see my last std check? it came clean"
>"i-it's ok"
>start fucking her missionary
>can't fucking take it and come after barely 11 seconds
>"oh boy, that was fast, you really were a virgin eh?"
>feel horrible
>realize I've just wasted 500€ for this
>for this
>five hundred euros
>suicidal thoughts
>sad as fuck
>get dressed
>she doesn't say anything else
>open my wallet and take the money out without looking at her in the face anymore
>"what's the matter? it didn't go as you were expecting eh? I can tell that money is important for you by the way you dress. Look, take a rest and we'll try again"
>second guessing if I should
>"ok"
>rest for 30 minutes
>go back to the room
>"h-hey, I think I'm ready"
cont.

>>9680564
>tfw cosplay and roleplay for gf in bed all the time
>tfw she does the same for me
>but neither of bus would dare do the lewd with her wearing lolita

Cosplays are literal costumes. Have fun in them. Also it can be funny at times. Cosplaying Tweak from South park and ramming her ass while spazzing out and screaming about how we're all going to die unless I fill her anus up RIGHT NOW.

Leads to tons of laughter post sex when you're cuddling in the afterglrow.

>>9680988
>"are you sure? It's only been like, uh half an hour"
>"y-yes I'm sure"
>we start foreplaying
>she starts really getting into it
>lot's of oral
>start penetration
>lasting like a champ
>really enjoying it
>she comes and I still don't
>she wants to finish me off with oral
>tell her I want to finish off vaginally
>she agrees
>finish
>best time of my life
>very happy
>"hahaha, well look at that, you're in a better mood now eh?"
>chuckle
>pay her and we say our goodbyes
>worth every penny

feels good man

>>9680898
coming from someone who is celebrate, that ain't true.
some people need to be in a relationship first. if she did him now that'd basically be anon sex. not ragging on hookupps, just know that not everyone does that.

>>9681020
>some people need to be in a relationship first.
total bullshit. every single girl who says this has had sex with a guy pre-relationship under the right circumstances. if the girl is head-over-heels for you like she should be, she will bang you. otherwise you're just playing pretend and your relationship is going to suck

>>9680079
I have been cosplaying for a long time now and I tend to cosplay the same sort of thing all the time. I feel like I haven't learned any new techniques in years and like i'm getting left behind by all these amazingly intricate costumes. I want to do something complicated and elaborate but it seems like most of the designs like that are armor based and I am more interested in learning more textile wise. Everytime I find a design I like it is a crossover or an AU of some kind and I'm not so sure that I want to put the time into something like that.

>>9681020
Please don't take the bait.

>tfw objectively hideous
>tfw loving bf

I took a break from cgl for a few months and I think it was good for me, but now I'm totally out of the loop on everything that's going on in the community. Feels weird man, I don't want to come back but I don't know how else to keep up since I don't really enjoy any other platform.

>be at con
>See cosplayer from series I like
>Ask for pic, get pic, talk to her for a while
>Tell her I'm about to get lunch and ask if she wants to go too so we can keep talking
>She blurts out that she has a boyfriend and leaves
Why, what the fuck is wrong with people?

>>9681113
My boyfriend always tags along, but I do try to mention I have one if someone is talking to me and I suspect something.
Do have to say that some people think everyone on the planet is hitting on them, which is indeed an overreaction.

>>9681135
yeah but how does having a boyfriend prevent you from getting lunch with someone and talking about anime?
does having a boyfriend mean you can never talk to anyone of the opposite sex for more than 30 seconds?

>>9681140
>>9681113
Any girl at a con that is remotely attractive probably gets hit on 100x a day.

>>9680774
took everything I could myself and trust me, I've tried that. At one point I got pissed and started flinging the measuring tape around like a whip. He said he'd measure me today but its too late tho

>>9681143
ok I'll keep that in mind. I shouldn't attempt to make friends with common interests because "boys are icky" and other guys probably creeped on here.

>>9681140
well, I wouldn't want to go out for lunch without him, but my boyfriend and I have the exact same hobbies and taste. We stick together all the time because we both enjoy all the same activities. I wasn't there so I can't tell why, but maybe she wasn't feeling comfortable? Maybe she didn't want to go with a stranger?

>>9681147
yeah, but just say you aren't hungry or something. Screaming I HAVE A BOYFRIEND like a sperg just seems like a weird reaction to that situation.

>>9681148
As I said, I don't know the exact situation and she might have been weird. It could also be to make her seem unavailable and make sure you wouldn't chase her or try and convince her. Both cases could be true, we don't know. Just speculating here.
Don't let it bother you too much, but women are quite alert when it comes to strangers. We are being told to watch out for strangers from a very early age, so yeah.

>>9681146
I didn't say that. Your approach clearly seemed like an attempt to hit on her from her point of view.
It's also possible her boyfriend doesn't want her going out to lunch with random dudes.

Try being in a group or approaching someone in a similar costume, same series, etc.

>>9681153
>try being in a group
isn't that the point of a convention? to go meet other people with the same interests as you? I also mentioned I was talking with her for a decent amount of time before I even asked about it, and I only did because we were clogging up the hall standing there talking. We both liked the same series and were talking about it, so it just seems really weird to me that I can't seem to make friend with even the same interests because they sperg out and think I'm trying to get in their pants.

I guess I didn't know that nerd girls were so uneducated about guys to think that we literally only think about sex and picking up girls, that we have zero interest in having friends.

>>9681154
You're doing the same as she might have done now. Most girls I know are open for friendships, but inviting people you don't know that well to go with you to *insert place here* even if it is to grab a bite is not-done. At least, in my country it isn't. I did a lot of spontanious stuff, from hanging out with new friends, to bringing a boy without a place to sleep home so he could sleep on my couch, but my parents were always involved and I didn't leave the convention grounds.

>Girls might be open for a friendship, but inviting them to follow you to somewhere for whatever reason can set off alarmbells even if it's unrational in your eyes.

/fit/ gave me higher standards for my body and physical health, and /cgl/ gave me higher standards for my looks and mental health. /r9k/‘s raids and /fit/ threads made me more wary of men in general. Lolitas woke me up to respecting and partaking in arts and a higher intellectual culture. I find myself wanting to learn proper etiquette, reading gothic novels, etc. Cosplayers woke me up to the joys of creation. I want to get better at art and sewing. I didn’t think I’d ever feel positively influenced by coming to 4chan.

>>9681162
lol don't try too hard

>>9681162
>Lolitas woke me up to respecting and partaking in arts and a higher intellectual culture.
lmao

>>9681154
Guys and girls don't make the best of friends typically, sorry to burst your bubble. And no the point of going to cons isn't to meet people.
You can make it that, but not everyone has the same goal.

>>9681172
>guys and girls can't be friends
I don't know if this is actually /r9k/ or if /cgl/ is just that close to /r9k/ in terms of opinions

>>9681186
Who are you quoting? Because I didn't say that dumbass.

>>9681172
>And no the point of going to cons isn't to meet people.
lolwut you say nigguh?

>>9681186
That person is right.
I'm not saying it's -impossible-, but statistically speaking boy/girl friendship ends up most of the time in a ludicrous amount of drama an disappointment.

>>9681315
I go to cons to cosplay and to buy shit. Idgaf about meeting people.

>>9681342
wth are you even doing desu you recluse?

>tfw your face and physique aren't feminine enough to cosplay cute girls, but neither masculine enough to do crossplay

having some concerns on going full crossplay from now on, since I give up on cosplaying female characters

>>9681315
I've been going for years and haven't met a single person I kept in contact with.

>>9681342
Same, people are the worst.

>>9681342
isn't the whole point of cons that you get to take your mask off and be a weeb and meet other weebs?
if you just want to buy stuff, you can do that online

>>9680193
me too anon

>>9680453
This.
Fuck you G-d for creating something so unbelievably terrible

>>9681384
Yes and no. I get to act like the retarded socially autistic faggot that I am, sure. Doesn't mean I want to find new people to hookup with. Chances are they still live forever away.
I met a really cool guy and he was from Canada last con. My aim is never to make new friends, if it happens it's a side thing.

>tfw have no friends
>trying to build up confidence to go a con and make friends
>tfw reading this thread
>people don't want friends

Guess I'll stay as a recluse then.

>>9681438
>to hookup with
that wasn't part of the statement anon
I said friends, not hookups. the fact that your mind immediately went to sex when dealing with any guy came up shows some issue with yourself, not me.
Guys aren't all sex crazed monsters you know. they don't constantly have boners, they aren't constantly thinking about sex. You people are just like a genderswapped r9k lol. you guys have no idea about guys and just spew some guys are bad nonsense

>>9681440
>Spend entire life as friendless loser.
>Have to make up stories at work when people ask about childhood/teenage years.
>Talking about imaginary friends makes me want real friends more.

>>9681440
4chan represents only a tiny fraction of congoers, and /cgl/ an even smaller fraction. Please don't get discouraged, I'm sure you'll have a good time and be able to make friends.

>>9681440
yeah, don't try to make friends with people on here. most of the girls on here are sexist man-haters who think men should just give up their money and die.
You'd be more disappointed if you looked at the friend finder thread, where most women routinely put "no men" on their posts and guy sit there wondering what's wrong with them and why no one likes them.

It's pretty sad to see that stuff. Guys left to wonder what's wrong with them and why people won't be friends with them until they're left to kill themselves out of loneliness.

>>9681478
This post is demonstrably inaccurate.

>>9681478
>being this upset women don't want to talk to you when there are tons of other boards where women get shit on
If you're so upset about women being "sexist man-haters," why can't you talk to the guys in the friend finder thread instead? There are plenty of them.

>>9681478
I'm not a guy and I've made every effort to be polite to people I've met here, ask them questions and show interest in them as people. It's a people problem. People want attention, validation, and emotional support but they want to brute force it somehow without putting any effort in to actually make sure you fucking like each other enough to even be friends.

Still get ghosted. I guess that's my feel for the thread since it just happened in a non-4chan DC server where someone contacted me first and then stopped replying after a few minutes but kept talking in the server.

I must be autistic. People only like me when I treat them like shit.

>>9681484
Lol

>>9681492
I mean I had a post up above where I mentioned trying to talk to and be friends with some girl and all I got for replies were people thinking I was some thirsty guy trying to get my dick wet. The girls here have no clue about guys lol.

>tfw Halloween is over

>>9681460
I meant hookup as in stay in contact with. Sex doesn't mean anything to me.

>>9681440
Cons are very difficult to make friends at. It's really all about timing.

>>9681384
You can see stuff in person and decide if you want it. Also Artist Alley. I don't want to meet any autistic weeaboos.

>>9681511
>cosplaying
>no autistic weebs

>>9681507
B-but I heard cons were very easy to make friends at. I've been told I'm an attractive guy, I just have zero self-confidence and get so much anxiety. Does it help if you're not a fat, greasy weaboo and you just want cool people to talk about weeb things with?

>>9681511
>autistic weeaboo
>I don't want to be friends with autistic weeaboos
???
this is practically r9k levels of delusion anon

>>9681515
Cosplaying isn't just for autistic weebs anymore sadly.

>>9681517
Wrong. Your definition of friends is way too light. Everyone at a con is easy to get along with because we're all disgusting weirdos, but being friends is a different matter. Yes your appearance should help.

>>9681520
What is the definition of a friend? I just want people to hang out with, invite each other over to watch some anime, go to cons together, read manga in a pair and discuss it, go ice skating and go to the planetarium, stroll around my local botanical gardens in bloom...I'm so damn lonely that I keep imagining scenarios with imaginary friends and how much fun we would have doing these things...fucking end me.

>>9681164
>>>9681162
>>Lolitas woke me up to respecting and partaking in arts and a higher intellectual culture.
>lmao

To be fair, you have to have a very high IQ to understand Lolita. The humor is extremely subtle, and without a solid grasp of theoretical physics most of the styles will go over a typical dresser's head. There's also lolita's nihilistic outlook, which is deftly woven into its characterisation - its personal philosophy draws heavily from Vladimir Nabokov literature, for instance. The fans understand this stuff; they have the intellectual capacity to truly appreciate the depths of this fashion, to realize that they're not just style- they say something deep about LIFE. As a consequence people who dislike Lolita truly ARE idiots- of course they wouldn't appreciate, for instance, the humour in Loli's iconic brand "Baby the stars shine bright," which itself is a cryptic reference to Rococo's baroque epic architecture I'm smirking right now just imagining one of those addlepated simpletons scratching their heads in confusion as Meissonnier's genius unfolds itself on their coord. What fools... how I pity them. And yes by the way, I DO have a Lolita tattoo. And no, you cannot see it. It's for the ladies' eyes only- And even they have to demonstrate that they're within 5 IQ points of my own (preferably lower) beforehand.

>>9681523
Those are friends, but the problem you're probably having is you're rushing in to it. I have lots of acquaintances, but very few actual friends.

Everyone you meet at a con is an acquaintance. It takes time to make a friend.

I'm, like, 90% certain that a friend of mine who does AA at cons traces some of her art. I don't think she does it from well known sources or anything, but looking through her pieces, a handful are really nice but the rest are very ugly and amateur, as though they were produced by someone with an entirely different skill level from her good pieces. I don't know if I should attempt calling her out on it or if I should even bother as she's small potatoes, but it does make me uncomfortable seeing her get recognition in her fandom for artwork that was almost certainly at least partially traced.

>>9681492
This is so true. Even the few friends I have successfully made here and through cons and whatnot mostly only contact me to tall about themselves and only seem to ask about my life as an after thought. It doesn't help that I naturally fall into the listener role and don't tend to talk about myself unless prompted, but even when I do, most of my cosplay and lolita friends seem to do the bare minimum of paying attention before talking about themselves again. It sucks, but it's definitely just how people are.

Sorry, I thought I had something more germane to add, but I guess I just had my own cgl friends vent to get out.

>>9681580
I totally get where you're coming from because I'm the same way, but at the same time what would we talk about if we're both listeners and don't talk about ourselves unless prompted to?

>try to take my LDR to tea via Skype
>wifi in the venue is down
>can't get cell signal
>tfw no bf

>>9681478
I will hoist you from the flagpole by your tidy widies and make you into my lunch money piñata

>>9681492
I really should finally hit you back. You are kinda weird though

>>9681518
>>9681515
You can be a weeaboo and not be autistic, surprisingly enough. It may be a foreign concept to you because of who you are, but know that people like that exist.

>>9681599
what does that have to do with anything?
if you think you're some "alpha or bully" boy do I have some news for you faggot

>>9681613
Shut up nerd

>>9681602
I doubt we have even spoken because I gave up on 4chan contacts a while ago.

If you ghost somebody, that's truthfully your prerogative. But maybe before diving into approaching people, or trying to makeshift a lifelong friendship out of thin air, we should first ask ourselves what we are looking to achieve. If you don't want to talk to that person, and know that you dont, and know that you'll just bail on them, maybe consider not getting their hopes up just to flake again.

>>9681632
lol

>overhear a girl on the phone, "I want to move to Atlanta, but their comms are full of den doos."
>mfw
>Google "den doos"
>"Did you mean 'den doors'?"
Can somebody help me? Are "den doos" basically itas?

>>9681644
din dus

>>9681644
>Are "den doos" basically itas?
Yes.

>>9681644

>>9681492
Did you try responding to them in the server?

Speaking personally, I never much use direct message unless it's something personal or specific. Usually, I just talk on the server, and if I'm not responsive in private then it is nothing personal.

>>9681499
You immediatly put yourself in the victimrole whereas I tried to include the way she might have been feeling. I never said you were hitting on her. Reading is difficult, I know.

>>9681440
I made some great friends on 4chan, both male and female. Some of them I even met irl, some live on the other side of the globe.
I think it depends on the person, but convention friendships are quite hard. I know a lot of people at my local conventions, as I am extroverted, but only few are real friends. There are some great friends waiting to meet you, but you might have to go through a lot of people who just want to have the most "friends" at a con or people who are only nice to you to make you their follower/fan.
You can do it anon!

>>9681613
boohoo. you are so ridiculously butthurt over one person. so entitled that you already had it in mind that you deserved that girl's time and full cooperation. it stopped when it did so just move on. you can't force people to leave and chill with you. you are letting one situation feed some existing lady-hate inside of you. be honest.
anyone else would have thought, huh, what a weirdo. and moved on to find another person to talk to without spiraling into
>asdfjklaaALL GIRLS ARE....
all you had to do was say, hey let's get out of everyone's way in this cramped hallway and sit over here and continue our chat. if you were hungry you could have said, hey man I'm starving but really want to keep talking with you about this series I love. do you mind if we walk towards the food?

you can't be that unaware. any convention, including business conventions, is seen by many as a golden opportunity to get booty, often via infidelity.
don't be such a self-centered brat to not try and view what happened from different perspectives. understand that cosplayer may have anxiety or social issues.
also, next time choose your words better and explain what you really mean.

>>9681528
I actually just got a sense of heavy narcissism and kinky cunts using fashion as an image shield to present themselves as cute until they can trap their target and begin the mental abuse.

>go to con
>talk with random guy about vidya
>my bf come and gives me a kiss
>guy gets mad at me

Wtf dude, talking is not a consent.

Inb4 friendship between men and women doesn't exist. I have some male friends but we know each other for years and they know that I'll never be interested in them in a sexual way.

>>9681785
He got mad because you and your boyfriend were disrespectful cunts and pretty much just displayed the same behaviour as a dog pissing on a pole to mark it's territory. You need to get some self worth for one and your boyfriend needs to get checked for cuckolding fantasies.

>>9681644
Tell your comm president how racist this cunt is being.

>>9681801
I'm sorry. Next time I'm gonna talk with my bf about vidya and kiss some random guy in front of him. I hope that makes everyone happy.

>>9681785
Why are you going on about consent? I think you used the wrong word.

>am musician
>so good at it I work for for Sony Music Entertainment as a ghost producer
>tfw still no gf because I never go outside

>losing weight
>starting to feel happier
>hear about utterly inhumane horrible shit my country's government is doing to innocent people
>binge eat to numb the pain
>still very distraught and now my tummy hurts from eating too much

>>9681814
>tfw no bf to lose weight with

>>9680989
underrated lmao

>>9681806
Den due detected

>>9681729
>being this mad at a post online
Jesus Christ anon...

>ywn be the blue eyed yandere teenage otome boy a skinny lonely slightly autistic stuttering possibly bpd BJD nanchatte coord loving semi agoraphobic gull craves to rescue her from herself

i must be colourblind because your red flags all look green to me, anon

>>9681801
Getting mad is unnecessary. Idgaf about pda but I guess some people are bothered by it.

>>9680079
/pol/ here came to check out that autistic r9k thread for the lols
any tips to help us achieve /mlpolo/ or /polo/ ?
Not /x/ this year for some reason we've lost that connection it seems

>>9681970
/o/ here, it's between /polo/ and /mo/ right now.

Finally getting to terms with myself. Every day I care less about being judged. And finally can enjoy wearing sweet Lolita.

>>9680114
Newfriend.

>>9681814
The bitches had it coming

>tfw tell bf about repressed fujo fantasies
>he thinks it's funny and enables me
>dresses up as south park characters I used to ship when we have sex

>ghosted again by friend finder contact
>tfw you feel like a battered wife contacting new people from those threads thinking the next time will totally be different and things will change

>>9682027
how do you find a friend? link me the thing? don't really have any myself ha ha

>>9681987
I thought this post was going to be about being sexually attracted to birds.

>dude stops me on my way to work
>compliments my coord and my parasol
>says i look very cute
>somehow agreed to exchange numbers with him
>immediate fear and regret.jpg
I don't want a date, I don't want a boyfriend, I just want to be left alone but I'm too chickenshit to say no. Why am I so broken, gulls?

>>9682027
I know that feel anon

>>9681644
I hear it's a Swedish slur for black people, so slap that bitch.

>>9682043
So don't reply or tell him you're not interested?

>>9682072
That's the most logical way to go on about it, but I feel like I have to go on at least one date with him because we already exchanged numbers. I'm more socially and romantically retarded than I thought.

>>9682075
the guy's not gonna be happy since any way you do this it's gonna look like you're leading him on, and you kind of are

>>9682076
That's the opposite of what I want. Any advice?

>>9682075
Don't waste your time or his time..

>>9682077
rip the band aid off fast, you aren't going to get through it without upsetting him, but turn him down when he asks you for a date and stop it as soon as it starts

>>9682077
Just tell him you're sorry and that you felt nervous to say no but you're not looking for romance at the moment.

>>9682081
Thanks anon, I'll do my best.

>>9682083
You're right, honesty is the best option. Thank you.

>>9682088
I'm glad to hear that. It's probably the easiest way of letting him down.

That's what I would want to hear from a girl if I asked for her number anyway, just not leaving me to lament over where I should take this cute girl on a date. It's understandable if you were intimidated or nervous when he asked. Guys aren't always so friendly if you reject them.

>>9682043
You must either be really lonely or a pushover

>>9682091
Thanks for being so understanding, I do feel bad about this and want to mend the situation as best I can. Do you think I should contact him first to say this?

>>9682099
I'm both, actually. All the more reason to not get involved with anyone, I'm just not ready.

>>9682102
Yeah contact him first. He either won't respond at all or just give a neutral response.

>>9682077
It's too late, you're gonna have to marry him and bear his children

>>9682064
>"dindu"
>Swedish

>tfw a tranny
>tfw scared to buy lolita/jfashion-y blouses because maybe my neck won't fit

I feel alone as fuck..

>>9682178
I feel it
I go out a couple of nights every week with people
I chat to people every day, proper conversation not just polite small talk
But I just can't find anyone I can really connect with
I don't know if I'm doing something wrong, if my expectations are fucked, or what

>Things have been rough lately
>Use retail therapy/wearing lolita to make me feel better
>Bad things keep happening
>Releases I want keep appearing
Someone pls stop me

Also generic “Lacemarket is slow someone buy my unwanted shit pls” post

>>9682185
High five, anon. Your post could have been written by me.

Earlier I relisted stuff on LM and now I'm wearing lolita while browsing y!j auctions to take my mind off stressful things.

>>9682180
Holy shit. Are you me? I have friends in my new city but I can't get close to any of them. It just feels so shallow and boring. None of them like anime or Jfash and it sucks.

>>9682202
>friends/people blanking me for no reason
>country's only decent con is disbanded and not happening this year
>putting our second dog of nearly 15 years to sleep this week after we lost our first one a few months ago
>dropped out of college and rarely leave the house now

Wew lad

>>9682212
Meant to reply to >>9682178, soz

>>9682027
Same. I really want to make /cgl/ friends but I'm just so afraid of being ghosted...

>>9682212
Condolences about your dog, sounds rough.

>>9682231
sound ruff

>>9682231
Thanks anon. They really are one of the family

>>9682025
Are you me?
>BF finds my fujo history by searching up my old username
>Pokes fun at it but then assures me it's fine and suggests cosplaying and acting out my repressed ships
>He contacts our mutual buddy we have threesomes with and they literally just have yaoi sex for me to masturbate to

>tfw 5'0" guy
>feminine face
>slim body
>really love lolita
>fit brand effortlessly
>study lolita makeup tutorials extensively
>been on /cgl/ since 2011 so it isn't just a weird phase
>but I'm not trans, sissy, or femboi, or even gay just really appreciate as admire the fashion
>help out lolita friends with their coords and they consistently come back to me for more ideas when they get positive response from the community
>one of them is really pushing for me to just brolita it up
>I really want to but
>have a monster 5 o'clock shadow that will rear its ugly head within just 2 hours of shaving and would make me look terrible
>plus a stubborn mustache that will never shave close no matter how many passes I make against it

It's not fair.

>>9682306
Laser hair removal/waxing.

>>9682306
I'm the same, seriously let's both just go for laser hair removal. If we really want facial hair again I think it comes back in like 10 years. It's a few hundred to never have to worry about this shit again. I look terrible with facial hair anyway, look great smooth.

Also I really love dressing in frilly feminine shit too, I'm actually not gay in any way as well and the constant gay jokes get kind of grating, not because they offend me, but because people think I am something I'm not and the stigma annoys me.

For female cosplayers having boyfriends from the anime/manga/costplay/general nerd shit scene, how stable are you relationships and how long do the last? Asking for a friend.
Also how did you meet them?

>>9680564
>Why can't they understand what cosplay is actually about?
Getting attention from guys that aren't your bf?

>>9681186
(S)he's not wrong. Male anime nerds will usually hit on and try to date any girl with the same interest.
Those friendships usually only work if the guy is in a relationship (once again, we are talking about non-normie guys).