/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9786207
Bf really likes it, he's quite supportive and often tries to offer suggestions for coord ideas, he's even offered to buy me things off AP's website.

>>9786207
My husband really likes it, and eventually wants to wear aristo to match my classic coords once he reaches his fitness goals. For now, he does try to match with me in semi-formal or fully formal clothes. He also knows my body shape, so he sends me links to dresses that he knows would fit and flatter me well.

probably loves it more than I do

He loves both and even wants to cosplay with me. I'd ask him to do aristocrat with me but he's really tall (6'5") and thin so it's hard to find him clothes that fit, much less Asian clothes that fit.

My hubby thinks it's adorable and has bought me dresses for celebrations like my birthday.

>having a boyfriend
>not being lesbian master race
>the year of our lord two thousand and eighteen
I shiggy diggy doo, /cgl/.

My gf is a huge weeb too, met her via mutual friends at a con. We're going to do some couple cosplays this year. Can't wait to surprise her with merch and jfash from my trip to japan <3

>having bf
>having gf
>not sitting at home alone wearing brand and drinking / eating sweets on Valentine's
none of you are doing it right

>>9786466
Fuck off, don't start this shit again

>tfw your husband won’t be the Elias to your Chise
My husband just isn’t too big in to cosplay, but has always encouraged me and recommended things. But still I’m sad.

>>9786466
>not having went with her
Nothing says surprise and romance like a consolation prize

My boyfriend loves lolita. Whenever we're out I don't really mind if my dress brushes against something but he always panics and steers me out of the way. The first time I actually wore lolita out (and not to a con) was because he encouraged me to. He gives me coordinate advice and always takes as many pictures as I want him to. Neither of us are really interested in ouji but he does color coordinate his dress shirts and pants with me.
He's purchased a lot of lolita stuff for me but I always try to reciprocate by buying things he likes and supporting his hobbies too. A lot of our interests overlap so it's not difficult. We have a few couple cosplay planned out for this year as well. I really love him!

>>9786207
My husband is a big normie, he likes that I'm into it and supports me but no cute couples cosplay for me

>>9786473
This is the only true answer. Everyone else ITT is just a seagull poser.

How do I find a cute lolita gf

>>9786207
I don't think he really cares one way or the other. He likes my printed thigh-highs, but he's not a very fashion-oriented person. At least he doesn't give me shit over it, I guess.
Also, OT but Finn Wolfhard is so cute.

>>9786911
You don't.

>>9786913
He likes the absolute territory.

Luckily my bf is really understanding and supportive; he’s not crazy about lolita, but he accepts my passion for it, compliments my coords, etc. has expressed an interest in aristo, but idk if he’ll be down to spend the amount it costs lol. With cosplay he’s even more supportive, once even traveled with me to an out of the country con to help me because I had a costume I couldn’t put on myself and do much in. I lucked out this time ^_^

My bf likes and welcomes everything I like.

>>9787105
sounds like a doormat

It's not his preferred style, but he appreciates that it makes me happy, just asks that sometimes I dress normie too.

Well my girlfriend thinks it's fucking weird and is always making fun of me for it. Not that she doesn't hop on every chance to fuck me in costume that she can, even if she has no idea who I am.

I suppose that's what you get for dating a typical sorority girl though...
>No flame for being male pls :)

>>9787399
Why are you dating a sorority girl?

>>9787408
PHI KAPP PHI KAPP ALL THE OTHERs SUCK

>dear god I just wanted some friends please save me

>>9787399
Sounds unhealthy anon, you should really find a gf who is more supportive. There are even other sorority girls out there who won't tease you for your interests

t. dated a sorority girl myself

>>9786207
My boyfriend thinks lolita is really cute, he's even learned how to tie nice waist bows for me. He also encourages me to buy stuff I'm on the fence about, the little devil on my shoulder saying "do it" when I'm wondering if I really need something.

>>9787230
yeah it’s kind of annoying to be honest. but i guess i’d rather have him than someone who hates everything i like..

>>9787515
How are you supposed to act?
Hate 50% of everything a girl likes?

>>9787399
>>No flame for being male pls :)
Kys

>>9787535
Have your own original thoughts and don't pretend to like something or be interested in something you don't care about, it's very obvious

>>9787557
You'd be surprised :)

>tfw no bf

>>9787602
fuck off man
try being a lesbean with no gf then come at me with life's difficulties

>>9787623
As a lesbean, I understand but pls don't be like that

>tfw no gf (female)

my bf cosplays and wears ouji with me, it's pretty awesome

>>9786466
Yeah fuck men lol XD I hate half of the population as well!

He likes it, although some of my grandma couch fabric lolita dresses seem frumpy to him.

Whenever I wear lolita he usually tries to dress nice and match the color scheme. He thinks I look cute and elegant and he's pretty handsome so I like to go out for tea to show him off. He's also bought me a couple of my dream dresses.

>>9792479
jelly. wish i had a boy toy

>bf is a huge weeb, loves my taste in anime and wants to cosplay
>buying slutty seifuku he can fuck me in

life is good, tbqh

>>9793615
>buying
>he didn't already buy a bunch
Pathetic

>>9793615
The dream

>exgf got me into cosplay years ago
>never had a SO cosplay with me since
Feels extra bad, all I want is to make cosplays of and dress up as Sailor Scouts with someone who loves me

>>9786913
>>9791478
I feel this. My bf is just very neutral on lolita, and not clothes or fashion orientated. It makes me slightly wistful seeing girls who's bf is excited about it, but ah well.

When I was getting back into it a few years ago and it was the first time he'd seen me show interest in it, he asked me "is this a sexual thing?" and I felt fucking awful. Idk I probably feel more sad about it than I should since lolita can look weird to outsiders, but I cringe so much when I think about it.

>>9787602
obligatory
>tfw no gf

>>9793615
Where do I get a gf into this

>>9793632
we're only a few months into this, i just had the idea first and told him to pick between two hehe

>>9793776
>>9794076
honestly, i got really lucky when i asked him out where he worked at. i had no idea he was a weeb and was just gonna smash and pass but lo and behold, we're two peas in a pod

it'll happen one day, i promise!

>>9793615
...

>>9787752
>2018 not having a gf(male)
I bet you voted for trump

>>9787535
Women don’t care about having men like what they like. Just say whatever comes to your mind, whether you like it or not. If you’re compatible, you’re compatible. If you’re not, you’re not. Never lie about what you like to your girl, that’s a woman’s job, pretending to give a shit.

My bf thinks I'm hot in cosplay and wants to have sex in my costumes but that's not happening since it took months to make and isn't for that. We just went to our first con together though and now he thinks it's a selfish hobby and doesn't like it/me cosplaying in public. Feeling pretty shitty about it this week. Happy Valentines Day.

>>9794513
Dump his ass. But seriously, have you tried bringing up couple cosplay? It's also pretty shitty if he keeps pestering you for cosplay sex even after saying no each time.

>>9794513
Are they really intricate costumes are can you just buy a shitty one to wear for fucking? Like is it just a maid outfit type deal or are we talking really complicated shit?

My boyfriend really likes it and wants to cosplay as well. He even went with me and some friends to one of the cons, had a pretty good time!

I've been taking a break from cosplay/cons for over a year now, but we've talked about both general cosplays and couple cosplays we can do when we decide to get back into it.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years this friday. Through every dumb phase I've been through since I was 16, he has been by my side cheering me on. He loves it when I wear lolita, he says I look my happiest when I'm in it. He's bought me some socks and chipped in for a new release before and even bought me my usakumya rucksack!

>>9794076
You don't, just give up.

>twiggy androgynous figure and usually dress in neutral/masculine clothes
>majorly lucked out and bf actually thinks it's cool that I look kind of like a boy
>want to get into ouji
I bet he'll be supportive. Wish me luck gulls.

>>9795232
>bf actually thinks it's cool that I look kind of like a boy

Is he actually gay?

>>9795265
Some guys actually like the pixie look.

>>9794519
if he thinks she's hottest in a mecha suit, they might have more problems than we think

>>9795345
Mecha pilot suit should be doable instead though.

>>9794157

>>9794513
>now he thinks it's a selfish hobby
what

>>9796010
Probably thinks she's selfish for doing something fun for herself that doesn't include his dick. Sad.

>>9796016
This seems like a really deluded and vindictive statement.

>>9796020
Just going by what >>9794513 said. If I'm wrong, she's free to come in and correct me.

My gf is really supportive about me wearing lolita. She doesn't blame me for splurging on brand and knows brands/releases/community things even better than I do although she doesn't wear it. Sometimes it feels even weird, because all of my previous partners didn't like it saying it's too unattractive and were calling it cosplay (one of them told that pic must be made after some anime character).What if she has a thing for it, like it's some kind of fetish or something?

>>9796031
>What if she has a thing for it, like it's some kind of fetish or something?
Are you implying this would somehow be bad?

>>9796031
Probably not. She's just not a stupid normie.

>>9796031
I don't think that knowing a lot about something indicates a sexual interest in said thing. The best way to know whether she finds it sexually appealing is to ask her, she IS your girlfriend after all.

>>9796035
Some people (myself included) aren't comfortable with the idea of having our hobbies, passions, or ways of self expression, fetishized or sexualized.

>>9796038
All my hobbies are dumb non-fetishizable things aside from cosplay, so maybe I'm just speaking from some pit of distant ignorance, but my SO finding my hobby kinky doesn't sound like something that would squick me out.

>>9786207
My husband isn't really opinionated ony my hobbies. But if it makes me happy he' alright with it.
Sometimes he teases me and says "lolitas are weirdos" or "yeah well you're wearing children's dresses". But that's simply how we both are.

Though he loves buying me stuff so I owe him one.

He does not really understand my love for it but he loves seeing how much joy it brings me and has even told me that he would be sad if I ever gave it up.

>>9796040
Which is why I said that *some* people aren't comfortable with it; if you're not one of them then that's fine and the statement doesn't apply to you.

>>9796071
Well, why are you not comfortable with it? My hobbies are a small facet of myself, what's bad about my SO liking those things?

>>9796074
It's not about my boyfriend liking my hobbies, I'm happy that he does, but I wouldn't want him to stick his dick in my hobbies, you know what I mean? It would make me feel that everything about me, even things I enjoy doing for myself because they're fun, is inherently related to sex and nothing else.

>>9786207
I dated a guy for 8 years who hated my love for lolita. He tried for 8 years straight to get me into short shorts and revealing cleavage tops even though he knows i'm very un-comfortable with my body.. i'd stress to him I do not want to be sexy.. i want to be cute.

I've always had a more 'fit' body which alot of guys feel that is 'sexy'. Prob is in my country guys are real fucking sleezeballs and honestly i'd rather go out fully clothed than barely any. Lolita was a way I could finally feel cute and honestly truely happy and he could never accept that. (also this guy i was dating was someone who didn't believe in such things as depression..)

Don't ever be with someone who changes you. Lets say he's happy an ex.

>>9796078
>It would make me feel that everything about me, even things I enjoy doing for myself because they're fun, is inherently related to sex and nothing else.

Well. It is. Why do you think he's with you, your stunning personality?

>>9786926
reaperreaper

>>9796315
> 8 years and that was the deal breaker
Yeah totally sounds reasonable, but I’m sure there were other things. Perhaps he suggested as pair of heals one evening and it was too damaging to your perfect unique sense of self.
Such is life

>>9796078
You sound batshit crazy to compartmentalize your thoughts into feels that way
Holy shit get therapy

>>9796031
> feel oppressed when people don’t like it
> feel sexualized if someone’s into it
Can’t fucking win can you

>>9796043
They are children’s dresses though.

>>9800183
doesn't matter if you're not dating a lolita though

>>9800174

>heals

Yeah my bf always tries to force me to be the healer but all I really want to be is a kawaii lolita tank.

>>9800187

>>9786466
Disgusting lesbians, can you guys stop swarming this board?

>tfw no gf

He thinks it’s hot and is always asking that I make two of whatever cosplay, one to wear to con and one for...him

Alright I'm looking for a cgl girlfriend

Preferably in Europe/Netherlands

Add me on Discord Shadow#3658

>>9786466
Dang lolitabians/lolesbians stealing our cosplay GFs
>mfw

>>9802125
>makin a damned over9000 hours of work full armor
>twice
he should pay you for cosplay comission uknow

>Implying any of you incels are dating

>>9803276
>Mr Miracle
I'll be ur gf

My gf thinks lolita is pretty and encourages me to wear it when we're going out. I wear mostly toned down classic and gothic, though.

She usually dresses pretty boyish so I've tried to get her into ouji a few times but it hasn't stuck, although I learned that she apparently really loves the look of a lot of IW's plain pieces so maybe....

>>9803367
Are you tall, muscular, and named Barda?

plz say yes

>>9803388
Just leave it as is, anon! You'd look so cute together

>>9803417
That's so cute It nearly brought a tear to my eye. That's so close to what I dreamed of 10 years ago

>>9796043
theses are children's dresses

>>9796043
>>9806704
these are lolita dresses

>>9806707
You shall admit there's still something childish about bright colours and cutesy theme alongside.

> tfw my date always wears some very mature, but still sharp and sessy clothes
> tfw I wear my cupcake stuff almost on daily basics

ugh, I feel like I constantly embarrass her with my clownish outfits

>>9806795
>you got to admit that all adult clothes are drab and kinda ugly
Well, you're wrong.

My boyfriend spoils me with dresses and I don’t feel like I deserve any of them but yeah he loves lolita and when I dress in jfashion and started talking to me because of it actually lol. We plan on cosplaying together one day so I’m pretty excited for that!

My boyfriend thinks it’s cute but besides that doesn’t care much about it, he’s not like my ouji accessory or anything. He’s a fitfag so he just cares about gains, he usually wears kinda retro casual clothes with a bomber jacket, I think our different styles make us look really cute together though. For my birthday and Christmas and stuff he usually buys me brand though, i really appreciate that, he’s the best <3

>>9807725
A fit and cute bf. Yummy. Sexs must be great.

>>9807729
Yep, I’m lucky