/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I miss Marina

just want to add +10 encouragement points to my fellow black female dorks.
please continue to do what you love and be genuine
>watch that animoo
>wear that jfash
>cosplay your fav character
>or even the flavor of the month character

never give up, I love you

>>9856551
thanks anon, i needed this today

>>9856551
you forgot one
>ask out that white boy

>try to get buff for cosplay coming up in a few months
>train weights for 2 hours 3 days a week with an hour of cardio for the rest days in between
>check that scale
>down 20 lbs from a 3 months ago
>wake up this morning, check that mirror, notice my body is slightly more dorito shaped
>my delts look bigger, my traps look huge, my calf muscles are sculpted.
>notice that all along Ive have wide as fuck burly shoulders like All Might but I could never tell because of all the fat I had
>got a lot more to go but Ive been trying to lose weight for about 2 years and Im proud of how much progress Im making
mfw cosplay and looking like my favorite anime character is the motivation I needed to get shredded

>>9856556
99% of white boys don't want black girls lel you're setting them up for failure

>>9856556
>>9856566
Not to mention white boys who want black girls are skeevy AF. Skip.

>>9856566
>>9856568
I spy with my little eye a couple of black guys afraid their girls will taste the forbidden fruit

>>9856572
I'm a white female but keep projecting your own insecurities about your race senpai

>>9856576
So why don't you want your black friends to day white guys then?

>>9856579
She doesn't want her orbiters tasting the forbidden fruit, obviously.

>>9856579
I dont approve of mixing laundry loads

>>9856560
>Not lifting for Lolita

>>9856593
>lifting for women and not for your own self improvement

>>9856566
>>9856568
Jealous, insecure white girls? On my /cgl/?
>It's more likely than you think

>>9856556
why are you so stuck on race fetishism?
white guys aren't better than other guys, there are plenty of gorgeous people out there to meet from different backgrounds as well.
>>9856566
my family history begs to differ but definitely keep thinking this. as a woman, how can you speak for 99% of white men? and in what location?
You're spouting a meme

>>9856615
I bet she runs her fingers through his hair when he's asleep like a creep

>>9856615
Just statistically, White male on Black female is the least common white male relationship in terms of race.

It goes
white-white
white-asian
white-native american
white-hispanic
white-black

Get your head out of your ass and stop this race baiting bullshit, ruining my fucking day and my fucking feels thread. Seriously fuck you.

>>9856623
>>9856615
>defensive jigaboos whining about how white guys love black girls despite the overwhelming evidence to the contrary

>>9856627
>white-native american over white-hispanic
I live in Florida, I refuse to believe this

>>9856637
>i live in a place that is predominantly hispanic over native american and this skews my perception of the matter so i refuse to believe the national average is something other than my own personal perspective

k

>>9856627
>>9856630
>>9856626
>says others are whining
>so angry they had to dig up statistical data to soothe their inflamed feelings
>fantasizes about what other couples do but thinks they aren't the creep
Very insecure, indeed

>>9856647
What's funny is you're replying to multiple people and it makes you look even more delusional when you throw in about us "fantasizing" about other couples.

Settle down Jemima.

>tfw /cgl/ started the race war

Almost 30 and still doing YouTube stuff. Everyone else in my house knows what they want to do in life after they quit YouTube.

>mfw i'm a black girl
>mfw my current boyfriend is a white guy who's kinda hot and funny and nice
>mfw seeing white girls I thought were my friends start getting pissy and passive-aggressive (one of them tried to flirt with my bf, but he showed me her texts and we both laughed at her)
>mfw we get dirty looks from black men and the occasional dumpy white woman when we hold hands in public
>mfw reading this thread
I had to change who I hang out with at anime cons and in uni, but oh well.

>>9856657
Shut up porchmonkey. Did you ever think there's a reason why you get such negative reactions?

>>9856649
>thinks the bitter white girl hivemind is worth multiple, tailored responses when they can just be collectively mocked
>"J-J-Jemima!"
I love pancakes, nice try

>>9856566
>>9856568
>>9856657
>>9856659
This makes me so sad

>>9856659
Gee, I dunno, anon. Maybe because you're a salty, jealous, lonely cunt who can't get a boyfriend, so you and others like you want to drag others down.
"Porchmonkey"? You can do better.

>>9856662
>gets called out for wrongly thinking it's the same person
>tries to cover it up

It really is true that niggers have lower intelligence.

>>9856664
That post says there's a ton of people who give negative reactions, so trying to spin it on me is retarded

>mfw i've been in a committed relationship for five years yet some uppity nigger on the internet thinks she can dig at me for being single

Lel.

Man I just really love cosplay

>>9856665
>can't comprehend that no one cares to respond one by one to the same breed of autism
Aryan genes at work

Man I just really love lolita.

Also yall should be assamed of yourselfs. Lolitas are lolitas no matter what race they are.

If you only like white girls fine. More gfs for the rest of us.

>>9856669
Keep trying to make it look like it was intentional, maybe some literal retard lurking will believe you.

>>9856670
Black girls don't suit lolita. Lolita is supposed to be about extreme femininity. Not jenky weaves, masculine body structures, and hollaring like baboons.

>>9856674
>>/pol/

>>9856676
>too dumb to link a board properly

Nigger genetics at their finest I see.

>>9856667
"Multiple" people being a small collection of fake friends and the occasional pathetic stranger. No one's ever had a problem with me personally, but some people I mistook for friends started getting angry because I'm in a happy, loving relationship with a guy of another race. I still have no problem making friends, and I'm generally living a happy life, so I doubt I'm the problem.

If you're telling the truth about being in a 5 year long relationship, I just feel even more sad for you. There's obviously something wrong if you're this triggered by someone on 4chan's relationship. Maybe seek therapy?
Good on you, though, you graduated to using the dreaded "nigger". The same one you'd probably stutter and hesitate to use to an actual black person's face in real life. Maybe next, you'll be able to come up with some decent insults.

>>9856680
Yet you had to entirely change your con circle and make changes at your uni. Smells like bullshit.

>trying to say something's wrong with me/my relationship because I dislike niggers

Even more bullshit.

>>9856674
>Black girls don't suit lolita.
Ok

>>9856685
Thank you for posting an example that proves my point.

>>9856683
Did a fatty stretch your brand or sonething? Whats the real problem?

>>9856688
>sonething

More lovely examples of nigger intelligence.

>>9856683
Because those were the same friends at both cons and in school. If you don't have friends, I can understand why that'd be confusing for you. Again, seek therapy. You clearly have some unresolved issues.

>>9856687
So, your point was that black girls are adorable in Lolita?

>>9856692
> jigaboo doesn't know how to read

Well I can't say I'm surprised.

>>9856690
Why do you keep projecting with your unresolved insecurities shtick? It's really obvious.

tfw no lolita softcore porn gf

>>9856694
Considering I'm not the one who randomly lost their shit when they read about someone else's relationship, I doubt I'm projecting.
Are outdated slurs your only defense when people make you upset or something?

>>9856698
Did she Photoshop her head into a complete circle?

>>9856694
>no reading comprehension
You're embarrassing yourself and the entire white race, just stop
t. whitey mcwhiterson

>tfw look forward to going to a con so much that I sit and watch old videos of the con from last year

Hey, kuro-anon, don't feed trolls. It's probably some /pol/-twfnololitagf-shitposter.

People who have problem with race mixing are mentally ill. And people, who are thinking that black lolitas are bad, are probably fugly ita themselves.

is it too much to ask to have a feels thread that is actually related to cgl topics for once? i come here to talk about dresses, not interact with racist poltards.

>related feel:
>my mother recently gave to me my grandmother's old china tea set, said that i would enjoy it more than she does
>it's all so beautiful, with pink flowers on the teacups and plates
>starting to plan an extravagant tea party in my mind, coords, what cookies to make
>remember i have no irl lolita friends
>cry

>Tfw I just now decided to start a cosplay FB page.
>Tfw I worry if it's too late in my life for this kind of thing.
>Tfw I'll be 30 in July.

>>9856698
She has no lips what the hell.

>>9856700
>baboon shrieks intensify

I didn't "randomly lose my shit" lol. Do you not know what a discussion is? You see, when people who aren't niggers have two different opinions, what they do is voice those opinions to eachother. I know it's confusing since it's your "peoples" custom to shoot eachother up or get into a fist fight over words, but it's about time someone educated you on this.

>>9856698
Her tits are fake.

>>9856701
>not getting where I was twisting what anon said to make a stereotypical "niggers are dumb" joke

kys

>>9856704
I know that feeling.

>>9856705
I'm 27 this year and I bought my first lolita dress three months ago. I know that it's too late for me to be beautiful and I want to kill myself because I never was and never will be pretty.

>>9856689
you're a lazy troll and I just want to expand on my first of my two previous posts itt to say:
never stop ladies. do what you love, be excellent to yourselves and each other, and know that there's a community that will always be here to mentor, encourage, and create alongside you.

You are loved!!
>t. black lolita

>>9856703
Thanks, anon. I just have too much fun with b8ers sometimes. I'll stop after this point.

>>9856707
>had all the time in the world to come up with an actual jab
>could only think of "baboon" and some more pitiful misfires they're convinced could sting anyone outside Tumblr
Kek

>>9856713
thank you fellow anon. I could make it a comm event, but I only have room/time for around 8 people, and there are some people in my comm who I'd like to come and others who I really don't want in my house. I love my comm, but there's a wide divide where there's 13-17 year olds and then 22-30ish year olds, and I'd rather have the older lolitas come if I were to do a tea party, but also don't want to do anything to upset the comm or the younger members. I suppose I can just have a tea party by myself...

>>9856715
And there will also be a community always ready to string you guys up from tree branches like tire swings.

>>9856717
>can't come up with an actual reply
>reuses same ineffectual garbage

Maybe if you try one more time it'll work.

I once had sex with a blasian chick. First night there wasnt cocaine up my nose I noticed the smell.

>>9856714
27 isn't that old anon. Plenty of lolitas are older and very beautiful. It's never too late for anyone to feel that way. I'm just spazzing because I feel silly about the whole thing. Like why didn't I do this sooner? Why did it take me so long? That kind of thing. So please don't ever think it's too late.

>>9856701
Maybe.

>>9856706
They're right on her face!

>>9856708
Maybe.

>>9856714
Misako is in her mid-thirties and still looks fantastic. Mana-sama is around fifty, although he's probably a vampire, so maybe he doesn't count. You probably are very beautiful, but just have low self-esteem. Believe in yourself, anon! Lolita is beautiful on all ages.

>>9856724
Yeah, people with black blood have a very distinct animal smell to them.

>>9856724
newsflash: it was your own unwashed dick. she deserved much better, poor girl.
>>9856723
catch me if you can, goober.

Tfw no cute lolita gf (male).
Is a cute lolita gf with a feminine penis too much to ask?

>>9856715
I wonder what racist-chan even looks like (if it's even a girl, that is). Probably the awkward girl who smells like old milk and frequently gets called out for vendettaposting better-looking girls in ita threads.

>>9856736
No she was a skank and was jealous I was favoring her white friend. Really lucky I didnt catch anything. Lesson learned I guess.

>tfw don't cosplay
>just like attending cons
I wonder if I'm the only person on /cgl/ that does this.

>>9856736
Niggers usually smell musty. Also didn't you just say you were going to stop replying? Hmm.

>>9856741
>projecting this hard

It's sad.

>>9856741
it's probably a maleposter from another board

>>9856735
Imagine having to make up stories and reply to yourself because even people on an anonymous board are sick of you.
Interesting that you threw in the other race you're probably most jealous of (Asians) for this tale

>>9856747
>replying to someone who's not even talking to you
Must've struck a nerve

>>9856749
I wasn't even the poster saying he fucked a blasian girl. Learn to read.

>>9856748
Factually incorrect.

>>9856750
>nobody can reply to me but the person I was talking to

W e w you must be new

>>9856747
Not all anons are the same, brainlet-san.

>>9856752
Who said that? If the post didn't strike a nerve, why'd you feel the need to defend yourself?

>>9856753
>says catch me if you can in response to a post talking about one person continuously posting something

Nobody said they were but this directly implies it's the same person.

>>9856751
Uh-huh, sure.

>>9856757
You did, retard-chan. Stooping to new lows, even for a nigger.

>>9856759
I love it when posters are delusional enough to try and actually impose their views and insist that I am a samefag/some male poster/etc when I'm not. It just makes you seem wildly unstable and fit for only a mental hospital.

>>9856747
so you're trying to tell me that you've been around black people of all nationalities and classes, close enough to smell them? doubt it. in any case it'd be inconclusive considering there's little way to test without the scent of your own anxiety sweats coming into play.

Also, narp, never said that. Still replying because I've finished all my work for the day and waiting for the day to be over so I can go home and finish working on a sewing project.

>>9856758
The "catch me if you can" post was obviously directed at the
>And there will also be a community always ready to string you guys up from tree branches like tire swings.
I'm not even that person, but keep up.

>>9856764
So, you've shitted up this place so many times, and are so unhinged, that multiple people here have guessed that you must be a samefagging incel from /r9k/? Wew.

>>9856764
>wildly unstable
>for calling same or crossboarder, when it's known to happen all the time
This is an Indonesian shadowpuppet board. you're being really extra right now.

>>9856766
>i'm not that person but let me tell you what they were trying to imply

Lel really? Try harder.

>>9856765
>narp
>can't even meme right

Stank more, hypocrite-nigger-chan.

>>9856760
But I didn't say that at all. It must suck not being able to read.

>>9856771
You did. Jesus, it's like you're so dumb you're not even human or something.

>>9856657
Do you run your fingers through his hair when he's asleep like a creep tho?

>>9856769
>someone who doesn't know me or anything about me feverishly insists that they do because i have an opinion that disagrees with theirs
>not delusional

okay.

>>9856770
I don't want to talk to someone who's never seen Hot Fuzz. Goodbye.

>>9856746
You're not. I only really come here for the local con threads and these entertaining clusterfucks. I have zero cosplay-making skills and no real interest in j-fashion beyond looking at cute girls in frilly dresses.

>>9856770
>"You're totally that person for correcting me!!"
>trying this hard to cover up your own stupidity
Even if I were the anon, that wouldn't change the fact that you were too dumb to connect one 4chan post to another and figure out what's being responded to.
I wish Hiroyuki made it so people were required to take a simple reading comprehension test before being allowed to post.

>>9856778
Then stop talking to me spook-chan.

>>9856781
I was implying you were stupid for thinking you knew what they were saying. Ironic you talk about reading comprehension when you clearly lack it.

>>9856703
>It's probably some /pol/-twfnololitagf-shitposter
Fun fact: There are black people and women on /pol/

>>9856776
Nope, but he likes to run his fingers through mine, and tries to braid it sometimes. It's cute.

>>9856786
How can he run his fingers through a nappy tangled mess? Sounds fake.

>>9856777
>someone who doesn't know me or anything about me feverishly insists that I'm delusional and fit for a mental hospital
seems like you're the delusional one

>>9856784
Anyone could tell what they were saying if they had an ounce of reading comprehension, which you obviously don't.

>>9856734
she's a busted old biddy tho

>>9856787
It's simple: My hair's curly, well-kept, thick and nice, not greasy, flat and lifeless.

>>9856776
You should, it's really fun and gives me a weird pleasant feeling I can't really describe in my tummy

>>9856780
Same I just come for my local con threads and stories. I guess the minor things in terms of cosplay for cons is change from earrings from certain animes. Going to wear Potara earrings this year for my con. Did meet up some people in the gaming room one year, was fun.

>>9856788
Learn to read. That's not what I said.

>>9856791
But you're a nigger. That's physically impossible. Are you talking about your weave?

>>9856789
And anyone could tell what I was saying if they had an ounce of reading comprehension, which you obviously don't.

>>9856786
You should, I do and it's really fun and gives me a weird pleasant feeling I can't really describe in my tummy

>>9856796
It's only "physically impossible" if you don't know anything about black hair and/or live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere and have only seen two black people in your life. I don't wear a weave, either, but nice try. Sorry you weren't blessed with pretty hair genetics and feel the need to project your shitty ones, anon.

>>9856798
I once touched his hair and it kinda reminded me of my puppy's fur. 6/10

>>9856797
And what you were saying was retarded, or else somebody else would've defended you by now.

>>9856803
>not absolutely adoring puppy fur
i bet you're a cat-gull

>checking out Baby's new series up for res
>see pic related
>that fabric texture
>my heart

it's gorgeous. thank you Baby for not just printing on polyester chiffon all day everyday.

>>9856803
So it IS about your weave, got it. Do you also have a big old jar of lotion for your ashy skin?

I'm a bi girl and my lesbian side haunts me all the time. I never got to experience girl love and it's seriously bothering me. I can't stop thinking how would it be to have a cute lolita gf, or cute gf in general and dream about extreme feminity. The thing is, I'm in a relationship and I even if the cutest girl ever came my way I wouldn't leave my bf. I have never experienced love like this and my feels make me guilty. The sex with him is the best I have had but all I think alone is cute girls. Being meets is painful sometimes because I can't stop thinking all the cute lesbian girls afterwards. I haven't had crushes though so it's more sexual attraction. I feel shitty because this would probably hurt him a bit but I just can't stop. He doesn't want to share me with girl and I wouldn't want that either so maybe I will just wait here and hope it passes.
>mfw surrounded by cuties at meet and trying to keep my lesbo hidden and mind straigth

>>9856806
I like both, but cats are obviously superior, anon.

>>9856812
I have the same feels, except the sex being good part.

>>9856811
>can't even read
Bad hair genetics, the mind of a neckbearded, tfwnogf shitposter from /pol/, and now illiteracy. Truly an unfortunate soul.

>>9856803
don't waste your breath, anon.
any self-respecting person would be embarrassed about talking out of their ass and not acknowledging that they have no personal experience with or knowledge of certain subjects (like black hair textures).

or women's hair in general. My Italian friend has long wavy hair down to her butt but she'd have to detangle it while wet before you could attempt to clear it with your fingers.

>weak characters and willing ignorance are not kawaii.

>>9856819
>projecting all that's wrong with you onto me

I'm sorry, maybe you should kill yourself now? Surely you can't be this unfortunate in your next life too.

>>9856596
Why not do both?

>>9856812
This is relatable as fuck. Maybe you can convince your boyfriend to let you do stuff with girls? Straight guys are usually not entirely opposed.

>>9856814
Well there you go people. two black gulls with dreamy white boyfriends who can't see eye to eye because one of them(her) has objectively inferior taste in cute little animals

Racism solved

>>9856825
>cute banter between two black gulls
>Racism solved
if only, friendo.

>>9856825
It doesn't have to be this way, anon. Just accept that kitties are better.
Look at this face

>>9856823
Women leave tho

Man, I just really love Lolita fashion, and I want you girls to know that you have good damn taste.

>>9856822
Lesboposter here: Lead by example, autismo.

>>9856840
Thank-u, anon <3

>>9856785
>It's probably some /pol/tfwnololitagf poster
I'm so tempted to self post again and express my discontent in that way, but just know that I wholly resent your sentiment and think that racism is a horrible philosophy

>>9856818
>>9856824
It's kinda comforting to know it's pretty common as I have been feeling bad over this. I joked about we getting a gf and he said if I wanted but he wouldn't be comfortable about it. And I feel him, it would be extremely hard to let him be with another woman but I have said if there is something I can't fulfill we can discuss about it so maybe it pushed him to say that. Sometimes I just miss the emotionality and softness of women but it might be due to occasional slight discomfort in my current relationship. Even though my type makes it hard to cope with masculinity sometimes I doubt it's much easier with women and I'm determined to work things out but... Still. It's like a fucking itch that won't go away.

Heres some fresh feels.
My fiance of three years cheated on me with a girl who was also engaged. She claimed her so was horrible and abusive etc and I believed her because....well why wouldn't I? I even had her living at our house, which I suppose was all part of her plan.
I got the house and car because theyre both in my name, but holy shit this hurts. I'm about 2 weeks out and I've been hanging with the 'abusive' ex of hers who had no idea what was going on until I posted their 'secret' messages online. He's just as shattered by this whole thing.

On top of that, my dad has lung/throat cancer and is down to about 100 pound on a 6ft frame, he cant even eat without pain. I drive out to see him and mom every other week. and it hurts so much to see.

The coup de grace is wayy back in 2013 when I was an idiot ita fuck who just turned 18, I did some weird foot porn for some site I found on cgl, and 5 years later when I thought it was all behind me, I see it on btb with people acting like its new. Now I don't even have lolita to escape to because I'm terrified of people thinking I'm scum for some shit decision.
No games because I played them all with my ex.
No job because we worked together at a local place.
Nothing but sitting at home waiting for things to quit hurting.
Sorry for the rant, I just want everything to stop.

>>9856832
>superior face
>superior paws
>superior ears
also
>that wonderful smell
But you go have fun with your toxo machine

>>9856853
Stay strong, anon!

>>9856854
lets not forget the cutest fucking attitude

>>9856857
Thanks anon.
Is there anything I can do about the porn thing? Or is it just going to haunt me for the rest of my life?

>>9856848
>#notALL lonely/pol/shitposters

>>9856860
It's with you the rest of your life. To be fair, you are scum for doing it. Lots of people come across hard times but the majority of people don't do fucking porn. They work a shitty job at mcdonald's or something instead.

>>9856867
Fair enough.
I wish I could smack my younger self desu.

>>9856734
You're just jealous you'll never have a perfect froot loop anus like her

>>9856861
I'm not a /pol/ poster at all. I think their whole schpiel is authoritarian idiocy in a different flavor from mainstream authoritarian demagoguery, but it's all the same basic thing

>>9856853
>living at our house
wait, she was engaged, living at your house under the guise of abusive SO, but SO didn't know where she was, and you never saw them spending time together? was their relationship LD?

>>9856860
no one cares too much about foot porn. don't give up lolita anon. I wish the best for your family. I read secrets every week and have no clue what foot stuff you're referencing. I think it's safe to say no one really knows about it but a possible close friend who's vendetta-chan in disguise. do what helps you stay positive in this time. I'm really sorry your fiance is a pigman.

You're only 23, same age I was when fiance broke my heart and then married someone else. it's way better for this to have happened now than after you married. grow, heal, and then find someone who actually loves you.

>bump into math teacher from last semester
>she complements my hair and says I "should be like a model"
I'm so pretty

I have never seen a lolita in the wild.

>>9856884
She was engaged living at my house because she said she was being abused, previously she lived at his house.
Before that I would see them together, but he's a quiet guy so I assumed he was a standoffish dick, which only fueled everything.
He didn't know where she was for a week, then she said she was at my house. He was fine with it because she told him she just had cold feet but still loved him and just needed a break. Told us he was threatening her and was going to burn her things. I went with her to his house to pick up clothes etc and she wouldn't let me in the house with her, said she was worried about his reaction. He told me after the fact that she told him I was going to hurt him. It's all a clusterfuck.

It means a lot what you said, he really was a pigman, those two deserve each other I guess. He told me he never loved me, that I was just convenient.
I think it'll be a while before I lolita again, but I'm going to keep all my dresses for the time being.

>tfw comic Con in your state sounds more like the state Fair in terms of guests
I was thinking about going but it sounds pleb as fuck, I'm gonna hold out for the anime convention

It's Arctic Comic Con, that's this month.

>>9856898
This is one of the reasons I wear lolita every day; I doubt I come across gulls in public, but if any of them does see me, they know lolitas do exist outside the internet.
Where do you live, anon? Maybe your day will come and you'll see a lolita in the wild.

>>9856898
>>9856908
I live in a small village in Europe and I've seen 3 so far, one of them regularly

>>9856908
Fucking Arkansas. So I doubt it. But I hope to be living somewhere near Seattle this time next year.

>>9856900
>He told me he never loved me, that I was just convenient
I actually am crying from reading that, that's so horrible. I wish he left it at his actions and didn't leave you with such horrible words. I'm really sorry anon. What kind of...?

>>9856912
I vaguely recall some lolitas posting about looking for a comm in Arkansas so maybe not all is lost. Can't tell you much about how many of them (if any) wear lolita outside of meetups though, unfortunately.

>>9856913
You're telling me, I've been telling myself he just said it to make leaving easier but...

He said I never made him happy, that he deserves to find happiness no matter who it hurts, He said he only got engaged because he felt like it was 'the right thing to do at the time'. Bought a house with me because 'maybe it would make him happy'.

The literal last thing I heard from him before I just stopped trying to get him back completely was: "I just latched onto the first person to give me attention when I was sad, you were just convenient."

>>9856898
I think I saw some before I knew what lolita was

>>9856931
Were they cute?

>>9856687
I know this is bait, but I wonder how ugly or plain you are. Probably some fat, white ita or just a cross boarding neckbeard

>>9856687
Yo, she's cute fuck off.

>>9856848
It's all r9k. There is a discord dedicated to spamming this shit all over 4chan. especially cgl which they believe is a board full of all girls.

Are there really girls who like chubby guys?

>>9856978
as a former chubby guy, Yes there are chicks out there that are all about it.
Hooked up with this one chick who was thin and used to play tennis and no shit after we fucked she was like "youre so soft thats why I like dad bods"
I was just like "wtf"
she replied with "what can i say guess Im a chubby chaser"
desu the dad bod is so in right now and it actually makes me angry because chicks will tell me "oh you dont have to lose weight! oh you look great just the way you are"
Shits straight annoying

>when a group of irrelevant cosplayers try to start a witch hunt on you for no reason, they don't do shit and end up cutting ties with literally everyone else and start fighting amongst themselves

>>9856812
I was in a similar boat when my bf and I started discussing marriage and having a family and stuff. I ended out making out with a girl at a party (which he was cool with) and got that all out of my system. Now I welcome the heterosexual lifestyle!

>>9856978
Yes. I'm legit a chubby chaser. But my last fling was a shorter petite guy who honestly felt just as adorable. I like all kinds of body types, within reason. I like w i d e b o i s because I like to be with someone who matches me. I'm a burly chick. But I'm older now and really JUST care about finding someone who is full of love, not an ego bag, and is thoughtful/vulnerable. The cute outer shell is only a fraction of the joy.

If you like to eat and you're chubby because your hobbies keep you more still than active I don't mind. Just have some kind of personal style
>these are just my interests but weighing in as a gr1l

>>9856995
Anon is bisexual, not bicurious friendo. This helps her exactly zero percent

>>9856933
I really only remember one. She was sorta fat

>should be working on cosplay
>instead procrastinating watching speedruns and shitposting

>>9856978
yes but

>>9856685
I'm black and I wish I looked this good in white colors... instead it just makes my skin look really dull.

>>9856698
>tfw her body type looks a lot like mine...
>her face is still cuter though

Man, I just really love lolita

>>9857025
I'm sure SOEMTHING can be done to help but fuck if i know what it is.

>Feeling anxious about money
>you know what helps? Shopping!
>have less money
>rinse repeat
I have no self control. At least i have nice stuff at the end of it.

>>9856812
open relationship? Ask your guy if he'd be comfortable bringing in another girl into the relationship.
>Have threesome
>win.rar

Is it better to wait around and be picky with who your boyfriend / girlfriend is, or should you be focusing on just dating a lot?

i wanna get bangs cut to match lolita better, but last time i had bangs i looked like a dying horse and im too scared to do it again...

>>9857052
pick someone you are already friends with and are attracted to... cause desu if you cant be friends it wont work out.

>>9857052
Agree with >>9857059, nothing is better than having a partner who is also a best friend.

>>9857061
as long as he's hot tho

>>9856812
Me too, anon. I'm lucky that my fiancée understands and is OK with me seeing girls but I'm shy and never going to say anything to my lolita crushes because don't want to risk their friendships. But I do spend a very long time thinking about how much I'd like to date or be fwb with a cute girl.

It sounds like it's even more difficult for you than for me though. At least if you ever break up with your boyfriend you could try to date a girl?

>>9857017
Disgusting
Don't date terrible people, that's awful.

>>9857025
It's cuz you're prolly cool toned wearing warm white anon. Stick with your tone and you'll look lively and healthy!!

>>9856978
me!! my bf is the best person in the world and as a bonus hes super soft and comfy!!! ^-^

>dream for years to be in a cosplay group
>found no group results in my hometown
>heard horror stories of 100% drama groups
>too laid-back to hold a group together, none of my friends really enjoy cosplay.

If I'm at the con and I see a girl who is really pretty, life's too short for me not to try talking to her. If that girl was you, how would you prefer to be approached?

>>9857125
Don't.

>>9857125
I don't even mean this like "how would I win your heart" or some bullshit, just how I could tactfully be like "Hi, do you wanna go sit down" and strike up a conversation

>>9857129
I won't be dissuaded, life is too short for that. I'll take rejection, but if there's a lady I see who's particularly attractive, I feel like I ought to take a shot and say hi. Can't fix >tfw no gf without making an effort to put myself out there

>tfw no cosplay/lolita gf

>>9857137
As someone who has guys approach me often at cons, it's not going to go well dude. It's an inconvenience, you look thirsty, and 9 out of 10 times guys like you never take the hint to go away and end up making me and my friends uncomfortable.

>>9856993
Is this Drew trying to make himself look like his shit isn't crashing and burning

>>9856657
>bf shows you texts thirsty girls send him to laugh at
That's a keeper

>>9857074
Uuugh anon I am in exactly the same boat! My husband actually encourages me to do stuff with other girls, he thinks it's cute! But I'm so awkward and shy and I don't know how to go about finding other girls who are comfortable doing stuff with someone who is married and only want to be casual about everything.

>>9857149
That always feels like a risk as a guy, though. What's the right way, then? It feels like because of how retarded some guys can be, it's like all men are supposed to be passive with good women now. I don't really know how I ought to meet girls with similar interests, due to the stigma.

>>9857137
Honestly anon, be upfront but for the love of god take a hint. If someone doesn't seem interested then just tell them to have a nice day and see yourself out. Don't be /that/ guy who won't leave someone alone.

>>9857162
If I like you, I approach you and compliment you on something. Alternatively I flirt with you non verbally, like if you catch me looking I smile and giggle, etc. It's not hard to pick up on social cues bruh

>>9857163
I completely agree, and I'm okay with that outcome since it's to be expected, but my attitude is be polite but unafraid to try. I'm turning over a new leaf from the old shy me

>>9857166
You sound like the epitome of a "nice guy" desu

>>9857168
I'm actually going to kill myself now

>>9857168
Actually, what's wrong with being a nice guy?

>>9857168
how? the stereotypical ''nice guy'' is entitled and gets angry when his niceness is not appreciated to the full extent

>>9857172
she's talking about a meme

>>9856850
Yeah, I don't think I'll ever be in an open relationship either. It's definitely on my end, due to my pickiness, but I get plenty frustrated that my bf isn't as soft and cute as some women can be. I just really like frills and femininity and would love to be surrounded by it. With lolita, I only really wear it on my off days due to my job, and my taste in decor and (other) hobbies are just "masculine". Though I love getting my nails and hair done and I'd love to have a partner to share that with, along with a lolita wardrobe and coord twinning. At this point, I really don't care about sex. I just want a lolita romance. Maybe the grass is just greener on the other side.

>It's like a fucking itch that won't go away.
This.

>>9857176
I have a bf and when I told him about this stuff he learned how to do girly hairstyles from youtube. He really enjoys doing my hair in the morning and he loves the smell of nailpolish so he does my nails as well.

>>9857173
Yeah, it's whatever if someone's not interested. Is my ego bruised because I probably looked a bit dumb? Sure. I'm not hurt outside of that though, so I wanna just keep trying within reason. I'm not asking out everyone with a pulse, I have standards, so it's probably once every few months I see a girl I could actually see myself dating.

>>9856810
baby always uses this type tho, it's nothing new

>>9857158
Where are you anon? I'll be your lolita friend who might become a fwb

>enjoying tea
>when comm president randomly bursts into tears
>tells everyone she has an announcement to make
>hands shaking, she pulls her bloomers to her feet and lifts her petti
>mfw she's wearing a diaper
>...and it's not the thong kind
>whole comm bursts into autisticscreeching.mp3
>gothic lolitas stand up to beat her ass
>sweet lolitas hold them back
>itas huddle under the table for protection
>fatty-chans use the confusion to steal cakes
The venue owners had to call the lolice, and it took three hours to restore order.

>>9857213
W...wheres the tfw no lolita gf ending? Why would someone tell a story like this without the proper ending? REEEEEEE

>>9857202
some lolitas only look at ap i guess

>like girl
>she has a bf

why does this always happen

>tfw getting fatter and older each year
>I still enjoy coisplay even tho I cant cosplay cute schoolgrills anymore
>just got depressed and started eating more thuus, gaining more fat
>Im addicted to food and I cry everytime I binge
>I wanna keep cosplaying

Entire thread deleted wtf

>tfw no qt cgl bf or gf to shower them in burando

>>9857235
What thread and why?

>>9857230
If bulima or Binging disorder, go get some help. It's worth it in the long run. Way better than destroying your body and/or self esteem. Keep cosplaying in the meantime. Having that little bit of focus helps. How old are you even, BTW? If you're not sixty or something, you can always find some character to cosplay.

>>9857230
Hit the gym you sad excuse for a woman

>>9857238
Wtf is burrando

>>9857265
Kawaii third vice president

>>9857184
That's too cute. I'm glad it's working out for you two! He sounds like a really sweet guy.

I've taught my bf on how to braid and use the curling iron, but he refuses to do it because he says he's not good enough at it. I've tried encouraging him that braiding takes practice, but he's not willing to try...let alone use tiny brushes to paint nails. He has long hair, too, and loves it when I braid it and I'm more than happy to do it. He just won't do it for me.

Sorry for the blog posts, I don't like airing out relationship frustrations with irl friends and my family because the issue is with me, not him, and I don't want to paint him in a bad light. This is pretty much the only place I ever get to talk about it.

>>9856912
>>9856898
I've seen a few lolitas in the wild before and I live in Alabama.

>>9856900
>He told me he never loved me, that I was just convenient.

I feel you. Same thing happened with my ex-girlfriend. She fell for some other guy in her classes and after four years of a relationship she told me she never really loved me and kept me around because she didn't want to be lonely.

It's heartbreaking but you're not alone and you can get through this.

>>9857213
Nice.

>>9857184
Marry him anon

>>9857283
>Tfw no gf to pamper
I can make rope from scratch but I've never even touched a girl's hair. I'm also really good at fine-motor type stuff like soldering and pinstriping but I've never had an opportunity to give a girl a manicure. It's literally micro-scale bodywork only I won't feel like dying when I'm finished and it smells better. I'd genuinely enjoy doing this kinda stuff.
Why must I be such an unlikable shit?

>you will never be a skirt chasing, freebasing, killing every villain post apoc tough guy
>you will never drink and rock and rhyme and pillage

>tfw makeup tutorials start showing up in recommended videos amid the usual Beastie Boys, Van Halen, '80s anime, football, and Byzantine history related stuff

>>9857039
Man, I just really love cosplay

>>9857346
Just started reading this manga cause your reaction image was cute. Sorry about your troubles but ty for the accidental rec

>>9857364
At least something good came from one of my posts for once.
Kuroko's adorable, you're in for a treat.

>>9856995
I am bisexual, have dated women, and was being sarcastic about the heterosexuality, but thanks.

>>9856999
I am bisexual, have dated women, and was being sarcastic about the heterosexuality, but thanks.

There's a girl I fancy really much, but I've never met her in person. Never been dating women before. What if I'm not even near to bisexual? I don't want to drop her. I don't want to be alone or even worse, be back to dating with men.

>>9856978
>>9856988
>>9856997
>>9857086
>be me
>chubby
>still no girl wants me

>>9857390
It's your confidence, dude. What do you do for work?

>>9857399
>It's your confidence, dude.
yeah, it's always my confidence, not cause I am ugly...

and I work as a paperboy

>>9857400
Do you feel happy? Are you feeling fulfilled? Your confidence is unironically a big key to your self image. If you're happy, you will be more confident.

>>9857402
well, yeah, I actually feel happy

>tfw boyfriend told me he wanted me to give him a blowjob while we were hanging out at my place
I'm disgusted by this

>>9856824
>>9856995
>>9857074
>>9856850
So bi girls really are all sluts, huh?

>>9857415
kek.
why disgusted tho?

Too shy too post in the friend finder thread, even though there are people in the city I am next to.

>>9857431
He urinates from his penis, what business does it have being in my mouth? That just seems nasty

>>9857346
Best of luck with finding yourself a future gf to pamper!

>Why must I be such an unlikable shit?
Aw, hey now...don't get yourself down like that...part of it is attitude? Though I must be an unlikeable shit, too, because my bf doesn't do much to pamper me.

>>9857054
Get clip in bangs, that way you won't have to commit to the look.

>>9857435
Your mouth istn't sterile either. Imagine, how nasty it must be for him to shove his dick.

My fatass slob roommate annoys me more every day. He doesn’t have any money issues and is nice, I’ve lived with him for three years, but this is the first year I’ve been with him alone. He works 3.5 days a week max and NEVER leaves the apartment otherwise. 27 years old and sits playing single-player videogames in the dark day in, day out, only leaving his chair to get energy drinks from the fridge or his near nightly delivery wings, pizza, or McDonald’s (yes, delivery McDonald’s) that he’ll disgustingly burp out later.

The point is I think I have a control issue. His life should not affect mine at all but seeing him waste his 20s like this just angers me. Not like pity, but disgust at the absolute state of him and the rest of men whose main “hobby” is videogames. He has done nothing malicious to me and tries to be friendly even if it is an annoying “what are you watching” “what are you working on” when I’m clearly trying to work. I just cannot see how someone can spend 12 hours sitting in one spot staring at a screen, doing something that isn’t creative or gives something to the world, and it pisses me off to think about rather than just be like “well I’m glad it isn’t me.”

>also mfw I realize I’ve never seen or heard him brush his teeth
>I move his toothbrush so that I’ll know if it has been touched
>it has not been moved in over a month

>at my local con
>lot of lolitas, maybe there where a meet up between them
>It's a nice time to talk with them since I would like to join a com when I would have more time.
>all of them are mostly brolita/ transwoman in lolita, maybe it's due to the huge amount of lgbt peoples in my city. The only lolita women where like really young " baby lolita" probably first timer .
>talk with one of the "brolita" ask them if the comm is great
>they try to say the mentality changed in a good way
>" ah, there is not more "ita" stuff ?"
>meant the " hi hi hi, look she is so much of an ita, let's shit talker in her back and sucking her dick when we see her irl " mentality
> see that I triggered him because I doesn't know how to express myself like a human being
>fuck.jpeg
>keep seeing dudes having brand, nice ott coord but without makeup and walking like gorilla
>look like middle age truck drivers in lolita

maybe I'm not going to join a com after all.

>>9857496
Anon I'm sorry but your post smells like bullshit. Where the hell do you live that brolitas/trans women lolitas are the majority?

>>9857054
Oh man, I was like this last year when I got my first proper hair cut for lolita fashion. Bangs can make or break a face. I had bangs before but it made me look like an alien.

Depending on the hair you have, good to go to a Japanese hair salon. Japanese style of bangs is triangular vs the blocky, chunky Western cut. Before you book that appointment, it might quell your worries to figure out what face shape you have and how thick or feathery you want your bangs to be. I was so nervous, I made a Pinterest folder of the bangs I wanted. I have a fairly big chin and if my bangs were to cover my eyebrows, it would just amplify the length of my jaw and so I keep trimmed to just touching the top of my brows. (Again, IDK about your hair texture) but without heat styling, my bangs would be stick straight and that looks fucking goofy (pic related). I use a straight iron and take 1 to 1.5 inch sections across and straighten my bangs, curling inwards at the end of each section. The curling shortens my bangs to about a centimetre off my brows and it's the perfect length for my face. It also makes it neat and smooth.

TL;DR depending on your hair type, texture, and willingness to make bangs work every day,

Or just do what >>9857453 recommended.

>>9857494
What's wrong with single player games?

>>9857503
I only mentioned it to highlight that it’s not like he is talking, laughing, or yelling all the time like one would with multi-player games. So there is even less for me to hate and still.

>>9857504
oh alright, carry on then.

>>9857494
There must be a reason for spending one's time like this. Maybe, he's coping some problems through the videogames and you'd better leave him alone.

>>9857504
Sounds like he's a good roommate you've just spent too much time with. His behavior is innocuous enough but it gets your goat. The toothbrush thing is kind of gross but you're not kissing him so that doesn't matter. Consider different roommates for a time but you might miss him when he's gone considering how bad a roommate can get and how ineffectual he is in more ways than one.

My stomach lining is inflamed and I can't eat anything other than toast and really bland foods. Remember that bitch who could only eat toast on that British TV show? How the fuck did she do it? I'm less than a week in and I already hate everything. Whenever I ate anything, I am in so much pain whenever I eat anything.

>ED voice: at least I'll lose weight

>>9857494
I think you are giving too much of a shit here, and it isn't justified. He isn't mean to you, and from what you say, it sounds like he doesn't leave the kitchen/common areas a mess either. If you're so bothered by his existence, then move out. He probably has some issues going on, but you do as well with how autistic you are abt this.

>>9857620
What's causing it anon?

>>9857628
I have some eating issues, whenever I am stressed out I eat around 2000-4000 calories in a sitting. After having chronic stress and constant binge eating for about a month, my stomach and entire body is like "u dun fucked us this time"

It may also be a specific bacteria, I'm not sure what it's called? But it can get into your stomach and cause inflammation and possibly ulcers. I'm on a medication to tackle any of those bacteria. But.. I think this is happening because I abused my body for that long.

>>9857624
No shit, did you not read?

>>9857637
That sucks anon. I guess you'll just have to wait and let the medicine(and time) do it's thing.

>>9857638
why are you this cunt-y in the morning, bitch?

>>9857620
my exgf was allergic to salicylates which is in almost every single food bar a couple in addition to also having IBS and she was celiac. She was always so bloated and in pain but when she restricted her food to suit her allergies holy shit I didn't realise how skinny and toned she was. Her stomach became so tight and flat literally overnight. It was bizarre to see.

But she never stuck to the diet because it was so restrictive. She literally ate nothing but broccoli, banana, pear, green tea and skinless chicken breast.

>>9857643
Are you mad you’re illiterate?

>>9857350
>Beastie Boys
I see you have perfect taste
but, nothing wrong with a little glamour.
>"I got a bedazzler so my outfit's tight!"
Take it from Adrock himself

>>9857435
don't do it if you're not into it.
it's not fun for anyone if you don't actively want to do it.
I'm a messy gobbler and I enjoy the heck out of blowies. ironically, I feel very uncomfortable making out and I'm even more shy about people going down on me. I'm kind of open to both but I basically have to be restrained because I'll move away.
everyone's different and nothing is expected. just express yourself the way you like to and never do things that you don't want to do.

>>9857435
Women who dont suck dick are the worst kind of women

>>9857664
nice brainwashing there, m8

>>9857662
please be real

>>9857662
>tfw no gf to pin down and go down on
Suffering

>>9857673
>tfw no gf to pin down and go down on
>Suffering
>tfw no gf
Suffering

>>9857451
>part of it is attitude?
Well, yeah, but I don't know what to fix. Hopefully not my sense of humor because I've been perfecting it for close to 20 years, now. Whatever the case, I'm only ever "friend" material despite making my intentions explicitly clear.

>Though I must be an unlikeable shit, too, because my bf doesn't do much to pamper me.
Wouldn't happen to live in Washington, would you?

>>9857677
Yes

>>9857390
my boyfriend is way more than chubby. hes a great person and lots of people like him and are friends with him. are you an asshole? do you go outside? if you show that youre a fun person to be around people will want to be around you.

>>9857679
>Whatever the case, I'm only ever "friend" material despite making my intentions explicitly clear.
How's your appearance? Do you flirt with them and build up to it or just blatantly confess?

>>9857494
find a new roomate. hes probably the type that wont do shit until he has to. if you're not there to help pay rent he's gonna have to try to get his shit together or he'll suffer.

>attract women with looks and personality
>never had a gf in my life

>>9857684
>How's your appearance?
I don't dress nicely, if that's your concern. I get dirty for a living a dress accordingly. Unless I have something explicitly formal to attend it's jeans and t-shirts every day with a flannel shirt on top of that if I need sleeves.

>Do you flirt or just blatantly confess?
I would like to think I'm flirting but I honestly barely know what distinguishes flirting from polite conversation. I definitely don't just outright confess, I try to move things towards some sort of casual date but it rarely even gets that far.

>>9857692

Handsome autist, how is this related to /cgl/

>the predatory lesbian is at it again

>>9857697
Start dressing somewhat nicely when not at your job. You don't have to go overboard, just put in some effort. Are you in fit? If not start lifting.
As far as flirting goes, try to make some risque jokes without going to off color. Make your intentions known somewhat early on.

>>9857689
His job pays like $12 an hour and it’s rare for him to go to work more than three days a week. His brother and I thinks he gets money from their dad since he gets delivery so often and is always buying new games and systems.
“This Oculus Rift was $400 but I got it for free since I got a $500 bonus at work” despite complaining about his unfinished undergrad debt he’s never cleared type deal

What bothers me a lot is I never get the place to myself because he doesn’t so much as go out to eat. I just needed to rant senpai and I do think I have an issue that’s come out from living like this.

>>9857701
>risque jokes
don't do this

>>9857703
i mean if he has to live alone he'll either have to get his shit together or suffer. or maybe move back in with his parents based on this new information. if its stressing you out so much find a different roommate. whats stopping you?

>>9857704
Anon please, I almost had him.

>>9857697
do you even have any friends? can you make friends?

>>9857698
Don't hate me 'cause I'm beautiful

>>9857708
You almost had him? You never had your car.

>>9857719
>You almost had him? You never had your car.
What?

>>9856560
What's your full routine? I'm trying to lose fat too but I'm really struggling recently, probably because I don't have a proper schedule.

>>9857721
/o/tism

>>9857213
>call the lolice

>>9857725
We have a car board?

>>9857707
I can’t afford paying for two rents at once

>>9857727
Yes, and it's pretty bad.

>>9857701
>>9857704
>>9857708
Just because I can't flirt doesn't mean I don't know what is and isn't socially acceptable.

>>9857709
I used to have friends but life got in the way and we don't really get time to hang out anymore. Making friends as an adult in Washington is fucking impossible. Nobody follows through on anything. You get a lot of "Yeah, let's hang out sometime" and then never hearing from them again.

>>9857727
>>9857736
/o/ is my home board, can confirm.

I feel so gross I recently got weighed by my doctor and I've gone from 50kg to 55kg in the past few months. I'm 5'5 and I just don't feel cute anymore I know I'm not big I just feel so gross about myself

>>9857204
I'm in Georgia(USA) what about you anon?

>>9857683
>are you an asshole?
this might be the answer
>do you go outside?
sometimes
>if you show that youre a fun person to be around people will want to be around you.
can't really say, that people want be around me

>preordered sweetie violet through SS cause wasn't sure if it would come to AP USA
>it came to AP USA
>would have reached the rewards points discount if I waited
Fuck

>>9857727

Yes. but it's more about mechanic stuff than "car meet up culture" stuff. You get scolded if you start talking about illegal car meet ups, drag racing, and

>>9857869
the mechanics killed him

>>9857722
Well I do the reg park workout
https://oldschooltrainer.com/reg-parks-beginner-routine/
So monday, Wednesday, and friday I follow the routine but on those days I add deltoid excercised. Do whatever kind you like, I like landmine rows and the deltoid raise machine. I work 30 min of cardio in at the end and then hit the sauna for 15 min to activate the growth hormones in your thyroid glands.
Tuesday, thursday, saturday are legs and cardio focus. I do usually a few sets of hack squat, leg extension machine, and then some calf raises on the smith machine going for high reps low weight. Then hit the eliptical or stair stepper. Avoid tredmill because too much running as a beginner with fuck up your knees and the other methods are great low impact. I usually hit the stair stepper for 10 min then hit the elliptical for 45min.
Then stretch and hit the sauna again.
It is important that before and after every workout that you stretch for at least 10 min. This will help with soreness and improve flexibility. Also be sure to get 10 hours of sleep. This workout is intense and when I dont sleep a full 10 hours I feel groggy.

>>9857913
Also follow up
Cut out high frutose corn syrup and soy.
Find a good organic whey protien.
I use orgain whey and its awesome, the chocolate flavor tastes like real chocolate and not like chemicals.
I typically drink at least one protien shake as a meal replacement a day, doesnt matter if its breakfast lunch or dinner I just pick one thats convinient and make a shake.
Now when it come to working out
It says do wrist and calf work
For the wrist work look at wrist curls, these isolate your wrists and increase grip strength and forearm size (dont want big biceps and lil tiny forearms)
For calf work I like to do standing calf raises on the smith machine. The smith machine will help isolate the movement so that you are targeting those calves. The cardio days I do focus on thighs and the calf machine will help build those up so you dont have tiny lil chicken stick calves.
If youre havin problem staving off hunger and are prone to binge eating, take a small bag of nuts with you wherever you go. I always keep about 10 ounces of mixed cashews, almonds, and pecans in my backpack.
Drink a fuck ton of water. Carry around a gallon jug if you need to but make sure youre hydrating.
Good luck my friend, train hard.
If you need motivation look on /fit/
They always post threads of motivational anime characters and goal bodies to inspire you to become the best version of yourself.

Today I hung out with a bunch of Asian exchange students today.

Suddenly the ridiculous sizing charts make sense. I will no longer deny that I'm an XL compared to them.

>finally brave enough to wear a midriff baring cosplay last weekend
>start to get tagged in photos
>see how chubby and short i look, and how i have zero waist and look horrible in every photo

why even live, tfw not >100 smoll cosplay girl, i want to wear mumus and sweaters for the rest of my life

>>9858065
Post yourself, you're probably fine

>Friend of mine about to take big test
>Outcome will decide her immediate and possibly distant future career
>Have been hyping and calming her for this
>We both decide that if she does good we'll go out drinking
>I set aside money to ensure a good time
>Believe with my whole heart she's going to make it
>She fails
>"I fucked up" is the first text she sends after the test is done
>I ask what she wants to do
>Reply is get home and cry
>I'm crying too now
>Nothing I can do about it
>Take drinking-money
>Buy a bunch of shit to add to my Taobao order
>Frills to frame my feels

On the bright side my cash will go to material goods instead of fleeting times well spent. But man, I really wish I could have spent that time with her.

>>9858082
I would never, cgl was the site that got me worried about my weight in the first place and pointed out my weight gain. ive lost some weight but not enough to self post confidently.

>>9858093
You're gonna make it, as long as you're trying to improve your fitness you have nothing to be ashamed of

>>9858090
Can she take it again sometime? By how this hurt to read I’m guessing not...:(

>>9858097
i dont think all the fitness in the world could make me look how i want. i have a short boxy torso with no waist, no as, and no breasts. its the worst body type ever. my measurements say im a spoon or pear, but i look like a disgusting apple. im just full of so much self hate.

>>9857137
This is a great mindset and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

>>9858105
Whether you post or not, I bet you're pretty anyway

>>9858099
She can. In one year or more. That might sound swell, but she had been aiming and practicing so hard this time around to make it. It's the whole determination to have a linear career path which just got a year chopped out if itself.

I still don't know how she "fucked up". I'd rather hear that next time we see each other than ask her to explain over text.

>tfw your Daddy Dom gets you the MTO you thought you were gonna miss out on
>tfw he also surprises you with a bunch of limited edition san-x plushies

Being a degenerate slut is the best.

I'm fat AF and my comm is falling into absolute shit (weebs and itas as far as the eye can see)

I have so little motivation to go to meetups (not that we ever really have any) and any time I dress up I just feel like an actual stuffed sasuage. I've started being more strict with my diet/exercise and I've lost 7 pounds so far this month but I still have 60 to go and I feel so discouraged every time I look in the mirror. Past ED and chronic depression doesn't help, my meds are the primary reason for the weight gain.

I was diagnosed with PCOS in january which is no excuse but apparently my struggle with weight makes sense. All of the support/weightloss groups I joined are for women getting pregnant which is the opposite of what I want.

tl;dr i'm a fat sad sack of shit fml

>>9858218
If you want the easy way out, take some DNP. Just don't kill yourself with it.

You can drop 1lb a day.

>boyfriend constantly reminding me he wants ouji clothes
>Really wants to go around dressed up together
>Asks me why I haven't ordered anything yet
>Don't how how to tell him that I haven't done it because I'm a brandwhore
>He's on the big and tall side, so we're stuck with comissions or F+F and I keep procrastinating on it because of that.
I want to be a cute matching couple but it's hard to kill my brandwhore tendencies.

>>9858218
Well as long as you try youre doing better than most of these disgusting hogs running around in ill fitting cosplay. If you continue to push yourself and become a better version of yourself you will have earned a decent amount of respect and self worth.
Seriously body positivity makes for some cringe as fuck cosplays and has ruined a large part of the cosplay community

>>9858226
Do not do this.
You max wanna lose 2 pounds a week.
Anymore than that can hurt you and leave you with gross loose skin.

>>9858233
That's not how weight loss works.

>>9858134
I don't know. I bet being a cockatoo with sunglasses is pretty great

anyone wanna critique my application essay for a teach in japan program lol. if i can't get into one soon it's just gonna be too late and i'll just have to settle into my regular non-weeb career without living my dream.

>dream Cat's Tea Party was $500 on LM
>wake up
>check email for confirmation email
>realize it was a dream
>fuck

>>9858218
PCOS is a bitch, can relate. Best thing that helped me loose weight was completely cutting dairy and an occasional cigarette to help with cravings. Lost 10 pounds in three months

>>9858249
What’re you applying for? Im doing the same thing lol. I’ll peep. Trade ya even

Man I just really love lolita

>>9858274
Man I jus really love you

>>9858258
AEON for now but will probably apply to more. Would be happy to trade edits. Email in name field.

>>9856702
I do the same thing

>>9858276
I have a couple friends working for AEON right now. As a JET reject I’m doing Interac. I’ll trade you once I modify my JET essay to fit my Interac one tomorrow lol

>>9858241
This is true. I'd switch places with a sassy psittacine any day.

>>9858282
I'm a JET reject too, got an interview but didn't prepare enough. If you can ask you friends who did AEON how long their essay was that would be a big help, I think I wrote too much...but yeah, send it over whenever dude! Kanpai and gambatte and stuff.

>>9858289
Lel I didn’t even get an interview. I am only a Japanese minor with NO experience with kids so I believe that hurt me a lot. I will ask them. I do know they said the day-long interview thing or whatever was hell.

>>9858065
As long as you aren't obese, I'm sure you look fine. confidence adds a lot of attractiveness.

>>9858238
Yes it is fucktard

>>9858329
nayrt but chill
if you're extremely fat it won't hurt you that much but it might make it harder to keep the weight off

>>9856978
i'm 5'3 107lbs and my bf is 6'5, was 210 and is down to 190. he just has a beer belly, i love it it's a big pillow and i usually fall asleep when i lay on it

>>9858338
word, chubby guys only if they're over 6'0
seriously though, how chubby is 6'5 at 210 or even 190 like that doesn't sound that bad desu

>>9858329
It literally isn't yo. Loose skin is caused by adipocytes becoming depleted however your body cannot destroy adipocytes (or rather it really does not want to). Whether or not you have loose skin is up to your body, not how fast you lose weight. Generally the myth is perpetuated because of crash dieting where people lose a shit ton of weight very quickly without filling in the skin with muscle giving the appearance of loose skin.

>tfw you will never be convincing enough to be a cute loli nazi Tanya because manly jaw line and height

>>9856978
My current bf is a chubby guy. But I didn't date him because he was chubby I dated him cuz he seemed like a swell guy.

>>9858367
It's possible, I had a beer belly at 190 and I was 6'1", I wasn't even overweight and still had it.

>>9858367
nayrt, those BMIs aren't overweight but are still on the higher end so you could still look chubby even if you aren't medically overweight

>>9856978
No. Fat men don't deserve to live.

>>9858374

Same t b h fampai. Wouldn't trade him for a 6'0 chad.

>>9858117
How does she know she failed? Did she get the results on the spot or does she just feel like she fucked up?

>Fallen in love with a few dark-skinned characters recently
>Can't cosplay them because my body-type wouldn't be a good fit and don't want to get angry SJWs hunting me down because I'd have to paint my skin
>Ranting to my friends about how I want a dark skinned boytoy to cosplay any characters I wish and do anything I want
>"anon, you realize you essentially just want a slave?"

>>9858394
It's not slavery if they agree to it.

>>9857500
It really surprised me, like generally there is like 3 lolita girls in the local convention but it was a new one much bigger than the others.

Maybe it was because they where so OTT that I didn't noticed the other less flashy lolita girls .?
But when i mean a lot it's like 5 in total and a lot of them where from the whole region not just my city like it used to be. ( my city don't have a com so it's a com for the whole region )
And maybe the fact that I live in France can explain the difference?

>>9857679
>Wouldn't happen to live in Washington, would you?
Sorry anon, up here in Canada...

>tfw no Ranko gf

>>9856978
I think you'll find more is that girls won't mind a chubby guy and be fine with it. Personally my bf is chubby, would he look better if he lost weight? Sure. Is he attractive to me and turns me on at the weight he is right now? Most definitely. Does I still encourage him to lose weight for his health and his own personal self esteem since it does bother him sometimes? Yes.

But like another gull pointed. Laying down on that fucking belly is absolute heaven. It's so soft and relaxes me so much. Being smothered by him is the best feel. 10/10. He's my plush toy.

Is anyone else creeped out by all the robots in this thread saying they like “chubby” guys?

>gull related feel
>going to AX for the first time
>largest con I’ve ever gone to is like 5k attendees
>also AX will be the farthest I’ve ever been from home
>AX in less than 2 months now

I feel so nervous and unprepared even though I only have 1 cosplay left to finish ;_;

>>9858532
I don't think some of them are that fake. People have their preferences.

>go to job
>save $100 a week for AX since February
>necessary shit saved up (hotel, food, con pass, car rental)
>save up for swag (aiming for $1,100)
>Kingdom Hearts Orchestra coming to my area and all the cheap seats sold out one week
>Gravity Falls announces that there will be a complete series Blu-ray box set a few weeks after that
>Tickets for the Hamilton tour go on sale next week
>tfw the next 11 weeks saving up for AX are going to destroy me

>>9858394
>paint my skin
do not do this.
you sound creepy m8

>>9856818
same. SAME. God, I hate admitting it.

>>9858370
>WWI-inspired setting
>Nazi
please do not encourage ignorance

>>9858588
I just use the term because it's evokes imagery basically immediately rather than say "cute kaiser loli Tanya".

>>9856812
I'm probably going to leave my boyfriend over this, but our relationship is tumultuous anyways. I just can't see myself being happy settling down with someone if there are all these experiences i haven't had yet. Also I'm in love with a girl with amazing taste in fash who doesn't have weird pol ideals and who wants to live in Japan with me so...

>>9858591
>I just use the term because it's evokes imagery basically immediately rather than say "cute kaiser loli Tanya".
You should have just said "cute kaiser loli Tanya."

>>9858593
Do what makes you happy. If you're not happy with him get yourself back on the market.

>>9858597
I don't like using terms most people don't understand despite that I could talk for hours about WWI and WWII. Makes people appear elitist.

>>9857350
let me be your lolita gf

>>9858600
>Makes people appear elitist.
So? Use the correct term or people will think you don't know what you're talking about.

>>9858600
It's closer to Imperial Germany than Nazis. To call the military in that show about lolis flying through the air through magic and shooting huge guns at other armies flying through the air through magic Nazis is doing a disservice to the show. You just like Nazis and the attention it brings from evoking the imagery. My only reply to your bait.

>>9858389
Results on the spot.

my bf and I are moving into a 3b 1b place and I’m going to able to start buying LolitA FUCKING FINALLY.

>tfw one of the rooms can be a crafting room as well

>find out friend is a top-tier shitposter on cgl
>some of my favourite greentexts are by her
>pretty much in awe of this GOD of shitposting

None of you bitches can compete, sorry. I thought I was an expert, but no, I will never be on her level. Let's take a moment of silence to pay respects to the art of shitposting.

>>9858606
If someone wants to get into a discussion about the topic I'm happy to engage with them. I'll stick to normie language since most people I've met can't actual distinguish between WWI and WWII.

>>9858607
The current meme meta language is "nazi loli" so that's the term I use. Calling someone a nazi sympathiser over using nazi instead of kaiser because of expediency is a bit extreme. If I wanted to be exact I would call her the isekai imperial loli.

>>9858615
>I'll stick to normie language since most people I've met can't actual distinguish between WWI and WWII.
The proper term is normalfag.

>>9858618
Whatever it is. I'm just happy a Wartime Alt-History series got produced, was good and got popular.

The light novels are pretty nice as well. I would recommend them.

>be a gay chubby chaser
>my Dream Guy is someone who’s good looking but is my type of guy, confident, loves anime / cosplay / vidya that’s open to either a relationship or for FWBs
>go to multiple anime cons
>all the chubby guys in cons are 99.99999% straight

>>9858629
It's almost like majority of people are straight.

>>9858602
Okay

>>9858367
he's fit all around (he's played basketball his whole life up until college for a bit) but isn't active anymore

he looks normal with a shirt on (gut doesn't hang over or stick out through his shirt) and is very tall and really only has his beer belly (well, from beer)

i love it, and tell him that but i think he's trying to lose weight for me and i keep telling him don't lose the belly

>>9858386
What if your boyfriend retained his personality but he became a Chad, surely you wouldn't be disappointed with that?

Also, out of curiosity, how did you two meet?

>>9858664
You should encourage him to lift weights and cut the alcohol, that's the secret to losing the gut.
>t. Got stuck with a gut

>>9858453
I don't have a passport so that's unfortunate.

>>9856978
Most of them are gay men with a chubby chaser fetish for other chubby men

>>9858685
nayrt but no-neck beefy chads are so icky

>>9858861
Your face is icky

>>9856978
I love chubby/stocky guys so much! I don't ever think I could find a really thin or buff guy attractive desu. I like soft and cuddly but still strong feeling and protective so much. Obviously, being too fat is probably jsut as much of a turn off as being too skinny or too buff for me, but chub is awesome!

>>9858931
I don't understand why it must be this way, but I have some shirtless pictures that may appeal to you then

>>9857220
I have an ap dress using that type of fabric.

>>9858937
baby uses that type of fabric on basically everything printed even recent releases. AP rarely uses it anymore.

>>9858947
ah, I see. I only have one dress from AP and it is an older dress. I don't even know when it's from, though it does have an older tag (pre 2010 at least)

>>9856705
Anon, I'm 8 years older than you and starting a page. Do what you love and never be ashamed of it.

>>9858861
Dumb woman

>>9856705
What this anon said >>9859017
I'm 37 and while I have loved lolita since 2001, I only recently started actually wearing it. Do what you love. Who cares what others think. Don't let it stop you from loving your life.

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>>9859043

>>9859023
Digital was a mistake

>>9857923
>>9857913
Thanks breh! I'm going to the gym right now!

>>9858664
yeah that's what I figured, chubby just sounds bigger than skinnyfat lol
nice catch tho