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Let's go, gang! Edition

>> No.9865892 [DELETED] 

>tfw no lolita gf

>> No.9865898 [DELETED] 

>>9865892
>tfw no androgynous cosplay gf

>> No.9865919

I love fairy kei

>> No.9865922
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9865922

>tfw my platonic arm candy got a bf, and now she's HIS arm candy
FUCK. I had cosplans for us.

>> No.9865934
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9865934

>tfw the new girl's Instagram bio is "sexy little loli"

>> No.9865941
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9865941

>see mookunt get patreon bucks for doin jack shit
>make a patreon for art/cosplay because if she can do it so can I
>no nudes or lewds
>make crafts and cosplay pictures and ship jewelry to patrons
>since im not a whore I make shit for pay on there
>get an artist cosplayer gf
>ask her to cosplay and do some art with me to put on my patreon
>she agrees, says cosplaying vocaloid sounds like fun
>next week she breaks up with me
"my friend told me patreon was for whores and I dont want to be sex trafficked, I cant talk to you anymore, sorry"

weird but not wrong about it being used mostly for whores lol

>week later
>shes messaging all my friends left and right to tell them to stop talking to me and that I tried to force her into prostitution by forcing her to cosplay
>sends them screenshots from my twitter of me saying "i'm hyped to cosplay with my girlfriend!" as "proof" of sex trafficking
>joins the same discord groups as me and tells mods i'm a sex trafficker
>mods laugh her the fuck out

christ im glad i got dumped, I wish I was joking about all this

>> No.9865946

>be basement dweller for a year post graduation
>finally find perfect job opportunity
>next two days busy with errands
>finally sit down today to update my website and apply to dream job

"job listing is no longer available"

can i just die already please

>> No.9865955

>>9865941
You dodged a bullet anon. Sounds like she’s easily swayed by the next person’s opinions without doing her own damn research.

>> No.9865959 [DELETED] 

>>9865934
>tfw no sexy little loli

>> No.9865961
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9865961

>be me
>struggle through first year of school
>still managed to get decent grades
>actually made some friends ????
>got a summer job that is in my field of study

It's gonna be alright.

>> No.9865962

>>9865941
Would have been nice if you could have made a couple bucks off her before she attempted to ruin your entire life.

This is why I stick with 2D

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>>9865941
That's too fucking insane. No way this could be true.

>> No.9865967

>>9865964
I wish it wasn't. The "friend" that told her is her hardcore beta orbiter, which makes more sense

>> No.9865981 [DELETED] 

>tfw no 2B cosplay gf

>> No.9865996
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9865996

>Want to help transgirl
>Offer to fund whole transition since she's jobless
>"No I don't want to be dependent and it feels better to earn it myself"
>Offer her job
>Rejects that too
I THINK SHE'S JUST MAKING EXCUSE I'M PISSED.

>> No.9865998

>>9865996
well what was the job

>> No.9866000

>>9865998
Well I need some help sorting the copious amount of photos on 4chan, tumblr, and other sites that I've accumulated over the years. She's going into IT (more specifically databases) so she'd do some pretty basic work with remote desktop, maybe a few scripts, and database queries sorting through all of this shit. We're talking literally millions of files. Videos and images. She's someone close so I can trust her with that.

>> No.9866001

>Only ever use hotel room at cons to sleep and shower
>Never room with anybody because I don't have any weeb friends
>$800 hotel bill all to myself
>Contemplating buying a van to circumvent hotel costs while still having a place of my own to sleep
>Vans don't have showers
>Don't want to be that guy who substitutes copious amounts of deodorant for a proper shower
What do? Would you guys be cool with letting a stranger use your shower at a con? I'd make it quick and bring my own towel if that matters.

>> No.9866006

>>9866001
Why don't you just make friends and then room with them / use their shower? I just feel like that's a much more rational solution than buying a fucking whole ass van to sleep in.

>> No.9866028
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>>9866006
I'd be buying the van for van reasons anyway so it's not like I'd only be using it once a year and it's not like it'd be brand new, either. I'd be more akin to pic related (probably without the paint and wheels at first) and I'd just drop a bed in the back.
All that said I made a few friends at my last con so rooming with one or two of them at my local con is entirely within reason but I'm hoping to branch out more in the coming years and I may or may not have friends at the cons I attend. I just want to see if it'd be feasible to drop into the Dragon Con thread or whatever and ask to borrow a shower or if that'd be completely out of the question.
It'd also be a lot cheaper to drive to literally any con in the country and sleep in the van than to fly and rent a hotel room for the weekend on my own.

>> No.9866029

>>9865996

dude how much fucking money do you have

>> No.9866030

>>9866028

So it would look like a rape van?

>> No.9866032

>>9866030
Until I could paint it, probably. It's not like I'd be inviting anybody inside or even showing it off. It'd just be a van in a hotel's parking garage that I sleep in and nobody has to see it.

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>>9865892
>>9865898
>>9865959

>> No.9866057
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9866057

>tfw you find someone cute on insta you want to follow for the fashion but 90% of their content is unrelated shit

>> No.9866060

>>9866057
It seems like single-topic Instas always fare better. Mine is, sadly a mix of cosplay, toy collecting, and sick dance moves.

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>>9866029
Enough to write her a check for a few years of HRT and whatever surgery she would want.

>> No.9866063
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9866063

>I’m making it a personal goal to be friendly and positive instead of a salty, jaded bitch this con season.

Wish me luck, gulls. I’ll need it.

>> No.9866064

>>9866001
Dude just book a hotel room like you normally would and join a roomshare group for whichever con you’re going to.

>> No.9866065
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9866065

i dont even know what i feel

i just know its not very nice

>> No.9866066

>>9866032

>letting guy with rape van use my hotel shower

Going to leave that there for OP to see and mull over.

>> No.9866067

>>9865941
I know that’s not the point of your post, but handmade jewelry sounds like a cool pattern reward. I’d take that over lewds anyday.

>> No.9866078

>>9866066
Why can't a van just be a van, man?

>> No.9866088

>>9865996
God get your sugardaddy tranny fetishes out of here, that's disgusting

>> No.9866090

>>9866088
She passes better than most trannies in her current pre-HRT state. I just want to see this happen. I don't want to wasted potential.

>> No.9866098

>>9866028
So kind of like an RV
desu i would be willing to let someone use my hotel shower since i only use it for sleeping & showering myself, but i would ask for a security deposit because I don’t want my things stolen or ruined.

>> No.9866105

>>9866098
Yes, like an RV only significantly under-equipped.
What kind of security deposit did you have in mind? I'm not going to give a stranger a wad of cash just so they'll feel like their belongings are "safe". I have absolutely no interest in anything beyond your shower and possibly your sink and how can I be sure you won't take my money and split?
I could give you a spare door key to the van or maybe a copy of my license so that if any of your stuff did go missing you'd know who to go after but money or any kind of irreplaceable collateral is out of the question.

>> No.9866108

>>9866105

Arguably, the same could be asked of you. You're essentially asking to use a stranger's amenities that they paid for, for free.

>> No.9866112

>>9866108
You make a very good point. By "wad of cash" I mean like several hundred dollars. Offsetting the anon's room cost a bit isn't unreasonable but if they want several hundred dollars as a "security deposit" they may as well just let me room with them.

>> No.9866121

>>9865961
Nice! What is your field of stuy?

>> No.9866129

>>9866112
or you could offer like $30 bucks just to use the shower for the whole weekend or something
assuming you’d be asking someone you know, but the biggest issue is theft imo

>> No.9866136

Man I just really love lolita

>> No.9866139
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9866139

>Didn't pre-plan coord
>Got dressed quickly in the dark to meet lolita friend and go to a jfashion event
>Leave house and rush to train
>Realise that I'm wearing a warm toned skirt with cool toned everything else
I guess I'm the token ita today.

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9866146

>>9866136
Man I just really love cosplay

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>>9866139
>dress in the dark

>> No.9866185

>>9866063
That's a nice goal, anon. I wish you the best.

>> No.9866192

>>9866063
>tfw you're an autistic pragmatist
>naturally become friendly and positive because it has the best cost:benefit ratio
>immediately drop people who I cannot see being a beneficiary to me in the long term anymore

Feels fucking good being warm and friendly and then a stone cold autist at the same time.

>> No.9866222

>>9866063
I always try this and always fail. Hope you have better luck, anon.

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>>9865934
Ugghhhh. One girl brought her older bro to a con and he greeted us with "What's up, lolis?"

>> No.9866239

>>9866001

Take water bottles and a flannel or wet wipes?

>> No.9866240

>>9866192
Burning bridges won't benefit you in the future

>> No.9866245

>>9866236
Sounds like a funny guy to be honest. I think that's how I'd address a group of lolita's just because I know it annoys them. Unless he was being serious, then that's a little cringe.

>> No.9866246

>>9866240
Hence why I say 'beneficiary to me in the long term anymore'. I can understand that short-term some people will need help and assistance.

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9866252

>tfw you realize you're fat

>> No.9866271 [DELETED] 

>tfw no fat cosplay/lolita gf

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9866274

>>9866271
>>9866252
hmmmmm

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9866279

>>9866252
you have no one to blame but yourself

>> No.9866281

>>9866001
Shower at the Y? Or get a 1 day gym pass somewhere

>> No.9866288

>>9866279
I know. I've been sad lately, so I just haven't been eating right

>> No.9866290

>>9866064
Isn't this how horror stories begin?

>> No.9866293

>>9866288
>tfw complete opposite

Whenever I get sad or feel bad I deliberately starve myself as a form of self-punishment.

>> No.9866298

>>9866288
>women eat when sad
Well done being a stereotype

>> No.9866299

>>9866298
idk there are a lot of women stereotypes but that's one that applies to men and women. thats why there are so many fat people of both genders

>> No.9866301

>>9866293
I feel like I need to do something, but I don't feel up to anything, so I eat, clean, and shitpost

>> No.9866302

>>9866301
I feel you. Life just seems too difficult. I just kind of want to run away to another country and be a nobody, just start a new life.

>> No.9866317

I've been a student my whole life and always enjoyed wearing whatever I liked. Recently I figured out uni wasn't for me and I quit and got a job while figuring out what to do next. It's actively killing my soul to not be able to wear anything interesting. I'm incredibly bored with my aesthetic and I just want to wear cool clothes, but it feels pointless to buy anything new that I like because I won't be able to wear it to my job anyway and that's where I spend most of my life now. On top of that I lost a lot of weight and a lot of old clothes are baggy and unflattering on me now, but I don't want to spend money on boring normie clothes I dislike either.

Are there any jobs where I could wear lolita apart from literally working for Angelic Pretty? I'm so bored with myself and how I look but I feel like there's nothing I can do about it.

>> No.9866321

>>9866317
Other than the job, this also depends on what style and colors you wear. Unfortunately, frilly pink AP tends to not be taken seriously and seen as a costume by most normies, which isn't something you want in a professional environment.
I work for a public relation agent, I come in to work wearing IW in dark colorways on a daily basis and get nothing but compliments.

>> No.9866322

>>9866129
>>9866105
You can room share with randoms on con threads and groups, just keep all your shit securely in your van. If you have nothing to steal that minimizes the chance of horror story fuckery. If your roommates turn out to be chill, great, you made some friends and you have a place to shower and sleep. If they're crazy, just go to shower and say something like you made friends and are crashing their room for the night.

>> No.9866324

>>9866321
I wear gothic lolita, usually all-black and no print. I work as a barista in a trendy hipster-ish cafe which is Japanese-inspired so I thought that maybe it'd be okay to wear my regular outfits if toned down a bit. I tried gradually phasing it in but I got a call from my boss who very nicely explained it didn't suit the feel of the place according to him and told me to "just wear a t-shirt". Before in uni I was pretty much a daily lolita so I'm feeling really... alienated from myself somehow.

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9866328

>>9865891
Has anyone on this god forsaken board actually played Nier: Automata? To the very end?

>> No.9866330

>>9866328
yes why

>> No.9866332

Why don't males realise that confidence is key? Sure, being attractive helps, it makes you look less creepy. But if you don't have confidence what's the point?

>> No.9866339

This cosplayer on Instagram blocked me when I asked her not to joke about PTSD lmao

>> No.9866341

>>9866105
>>9866098
>>9866030
>>9866028
>tfw only just now realized that "rape van" and "recreational vehicle" are both RVs

>> No.9866343

>>9866000
>going into IT
>getting a degree to do menial labor
>not getting a far more marketable CS/software dev degree
Drop them, every ITfag I’ve met is a certifiable dumbass.

On topic feels:
>Spring cleaning my closet
>Listing a bunch of items I don’t wear
>have 2 new pieces on my wishlist that are coming in this week
>Just bought two more
>Getting in a taobao tights order soon
I feel so organized

>> No.9866344

>>9866332
It's not something you can just buy at the store and it's not easy to fake

>> No.9866345

>>9866317
Embedded software engineer, my wardrobe is MM/VM classic. I’m surrounded by a bunch of guys who are very protective of me, and most are weeby enough to even know what lolita is.

Gotta work hard to play hard. Anything consumer-facing/retail is probably going to pitch a fit over aesthetics.
sage for samefaggery as I’m >>9866343

>> No.9866346

>>9866341
Welp, guess I'm not getting a van anymore.

>> No.9866348

>>9866332
We do realise it but easier said than done when you feel under pressure to try and get a girl to like you. There's also a fine line between confident and cocky which is usually defined by how good looking you are. It's the Virigin-Chad dichotomy. If Chad does something cocky it's, "Oh he's so confident and bold. Yeah sometimes he's wrong but he's so dedicated to himself." Then when the virgin does it, "Fucking arrogant asshole, who does he think he is?"

The more attractive you are the better people perceive your personality and the more forgiving they are of your faults.

>> No.9866349

suddenly, I'm feeling good about not going to this local anime con

>check the fb page for that event (from jigoku producciones)
>the people running it made two noteworthy statuses since the event opened
>one basically says they're opening up late (which happens every now and then, no big deal)
>the other says that the second floor of the con will open "in a bit" (the timing of this indicates that it had been over two and a half hours into the event, with no second floor available)
>the second floor is where all the good stuff is, btw - guests, anime showings, vidya room
Best part is that it has been raining, so the poor schmucks that got there early are basically getting fucked. I've been to one jigoku event that only had one floor avaiable and it honestly sucked, so I bet the people at this one are not having a good time waiting for the second floor to be available.

also, are image uploads broken right now? or is it just me?

>> No.9866350

>>9866345
>lolita embedded software engineer
naisu

>> No.9866351

>>9866349
The site has been screwy as of late cuz of the feds, just give it a few hours and it will be normal.

>> No.9866352

>>9866348
go outside you fucking dweeb

>> No.9866353 [DELETED] 

>>9865891
>tfw no /cgl/ gf
somebody please love me

>> No.9866355

>>9866332
it's hard to be confident when you've been rejected your whole life. women always say "lol just be confident dude", but that's partly because they've never actually had to initiate anything and don't really know how being rejected can affect a person. it's no better than say just be yourself

>> No.9866356

>At con teaparty
>my friend absolutely hates the president and constantly quietly badmouths her to me because of some previous drama
>president taps on glass and stands on her chair to gather everyone's attention
>"I have an announcement to make! It's been difficult to talk about this with people, but I feel like it needs to be said. As some of you might know, I have been fighting an eating disorder for a while, and I've been going to a therapist and getting encouragement from friends and family, some of them in here. And I would just like to say that if anyone else here has an ED, that it's okay to-"
>Friend blurts out "Good, you really could stand to lose some weight, you fat bitch!"
>Everyone goes into stunned silence for several moments
>President screams out "fuck you, you whore!" and bursts into tears
>Friend screeches and tackles her from the chair
>Fighting ensues and chairs are pushed away
>Yelling and laughing from all sides
>Run in to pull them apart
>pull my friend away from president
>She starts yelling at me "I'll kill her! I'll fucking kill that bitch!"
>What the fuck? Why what the hell is wrong with you?
>"You don't understand, anon! You just don't get it!"
>She starts sobbing
>Get what?
>grabs me by the shoulders and pulls me in close
>"tfw no cosplay/lolita gf"


>>9866332
I'm unattractive but confident.
Doesn't do any good for me.
The latter doesn't cancel out the former.

>> No.9866357

>>9866355
>but that's partly because they've never actually had to initiate anything and don't really know how being rejected can affect a person.

Oh boy what an assumption...

>> No.9866358

>>9866355
Maybe try not being a presumptuous dope or believing convenient generalizations. Just saying, this reads exactly like what some bitter /r9k/ faggot would say.

>> No.9866359

>>9866357
>>9866358
i'm not talking about people here, i'm referring to normalfags

>> No.9866369

>ask the clearly not cream of the crop guys in the thread a question
>get honest answers
>SEXIST RAPIST VIRGINS CHOP OFF YOUR DICKS ALREADY
Maybe not ask the question in the first place? If you want the perspective of cute guys go out and ask them

>> No.9866377

>>9866332
I'm only confident when it comes to things that I'm good at. Talking to women is not one of those things. Doing it more doesn't help because rejection doesn't come with any constructive criticism so I can't actually fix anything.

>> No.9866379 [DELETED] 

>tfw no qt gothloli mistress to dom me and play sugar daddy to

Feels bad.

>> No.9866385

>>9866345
a FEMALE software engineer?????

>> No.9866392

>>9866385
More than likely a tranny

>> No.9866397

>>9866392
This.

>> No.9866404

>>9866317
My solution to this is to shop at thrift stores as much as possible. You can get stupid normie clothes for dirt cheap and still retain some personal sense of style or a vintage twist since you're bound to find more unique things thrifting.

But you're right, it mostly sucks to have to spend money on such things.

>> No.9866405

>>9866379
>play sugar daddy
>to a domme
So basically you want to pay someone to treat you like shit for your own sexual gratification? Sweet. Does this extend to classic lolitas? I wear a lot of black, if that counts.

>> No.9866408

>>9866379
>>9866405
I hope the best for you two until the money runs out.

>> No.9866409

>>9866352
Don't know what you're implying yo. Attractive people get treated better, if you think that's false you're the one who needs to step outside

>> No.9866410

>>9866392
>>9866385
100% girl actually. Both my parents and my brother are software engineers so I’m the rare one that was actively encouraged to go into the industry from an early age. I’m jokingly called the token girl and have had to fight like hell to get to my comfy job but
>thinking trannies are more socially accepted than women in tech
Sure

P.S. there used to be more women back when it was newer and more electrical engineering related. The Internet boom and people realizing you can make serious bank brought in all the airheads who would be going into finance otherwise. Not that there were many girls before, it’s just gotten worse.

>> No.9866411

>>9866356
8/10
I scrolled to the bottom because I felt suspicious. Work on that.

>> No.9866412

>>9866369
I'm a cute guy. Having to be confident sucks though, I like being shy and having girls come up to me which happens every now and again.

Too bad I don't want a gf

>> No.9866414

>>9866410
But are you cute looking?
Also which language do you work in?

>> No.9866416

>>9866405
It's a bit more nuanced than that, but essentially yes. And it doesn't need to be specifically goth, it just can't be sweet.

>>9866408
I currently earn far in excess of my living expenses, and even with all my hobby spending (anywhere from $2K to $3K per month, depending on my mood) I'm still saving more than I'm spending. Basically, it's not running out any time soon.

>> No.9866417

>>9866410
Do you play, or did you ever play, Magic the Gathering?
If the answer is yes I'm willing to apologize and call you a "pretty cool chick" on top of that

>> No.9866422

>>9866416
What the hell kinda job do you have?

>> No.9866424

>>9866416
Would it bother you if I'm a virgin? I have a lot of repressed anger and aggression that I'd love to channel as a domme to a willing partner, and at the same time I want to be loved. Being worshiped for my frills is a nice bonus, too.

>> No.9866426

>>9866410
Sage for samefagging but if it helps, I was structural bio/biophysics first, wanted to do computational stuff, and fell down the rabbit hole of coding. Molecular biology is a strange STEM pocket of women: almost all the people I suffered through gradschool with were also female

>> No.9866428

>>9866424
I'm in love

>> No.9866431

>>9866428
W-where do you live, anon?

>> No.9866432

>>9866422
I'm a writer, mostly for games though I have worked on comics/graphic novels in the past. To be fair, I earn in the top percentage for the field, so my earnings aren't really representative of the usual individual.

>>9866424
Doesn't bother me at all, and that actually sounds like exactly the kind of thing I'm looking for.

>> No.9866433

>>9866432
What have you worked on, anon? That sounds really interesting!
>tfw the odds of us living in the same continent are next to none

>> No.9866434

>>9866417
I tried a few years back, I prefer yugioh more out of nostalgia but I’m out of practice on both.
>>9866414
I’m spoken for, but my boyfriend thinks I’m cute. I get called a Disney princess at meets so I guess this means I’m decent enough. You won’t find me on COF tho. I’m shy.
Also C for production-tier, C++ sometimes, Python for scripting/analyzing data. Device-based shit requires system calls, and assembly is currently inefficient for what we want to accomplish

Back on topic
>already sold three things I posted
Today is a good day

>> No.9866435

>>9866426
I never met a woman who can actually program (well).
I really want to challenge you to some competitive coding now.

>> No.9866436

>>9866433
I don't want to out myself on 4chan of all places, but I have worked (in some capacity) with companies like SLG, Markosia Enterprises, Dontnod, and Bandai Namco.

>> No.9866441

>>9866433
Girl, he could fly you out.

>> No.9866442 [DELETED] 

>>9866434
What's the problem with this and how would you fix it?

struct Object {
Object()
: member{4}
{}

void mutate() {
++member;
}

int member;
};

struct Foo {
Foo(Object& obj)
: obj{obj}
{
use_object();
}

void use_object() {
obj.mutate();
}

Object& obj;
};

struct Bar {
Bar()
: f{obj}
, obj{}
{}

Foo f;
Object obj;
};

int main() {
Bar b{};
}

>> No.9866443

>>9866435
Fuck off m8

>> No.9866444

>>9866443
Fuck off m8

>> No.9866446

>>9866442
Gatekeeping is bullshit, fuck off back to r9k. This shit is why women who know the real you will never want to fuck you

>> No.9866448 [DELETED] 

>>9866446
Fuck off whiteknight faggot

>> No.9866451

>>9866433
One of you should just make a throwaway email to got this ball rolling.

>> No.9866453

>>9866448
Ooh, did I hurt your feefees? Too real for you, little boy?

>> No.9866454

>>9866436
SLG as in Slave Labor Graphics? Shit, anon. Can I ask what sort of work you did? You don't have to completely out yourself, I'm just curious.

>>9866441
Maybe that's true. Don't give me false hope, please.

>> No.9866455

>>9866448
Incels pls go, this shit is a cringefest.

>> No.9866456

>>9866332
>get rejected by everyone
>lol just be confident
typical roast

>> No.9866457

>two programmers engaging in the coding mating dance
Please proceed

>> No.9866459

>>9866431
The Deep South.
>tfw no qt lesbian to dom me while i wear moitie

>> No.9866463

>>9866454
That's the one. This was back in...I wanna say 2013~2014ish, before I seriously got my foot in the door. I did editing (as in, both the job of an editor as well as going through and rewriting/cleaning up the script) on a mini series they were putting out at the time.

Also, would you like to exchange some form of contact info?

>> No.9866466 [DELETED] 

>>9866453
>>9866455
Why are you defending a girl on the internet? There will be no reward.

>> No.9866468

>>9866463
It's actually pretty late at night right now and I'm not really focused, so I might need to sleep on this first. I'll think it over and maybe post my throwaway email tomorrow, if you're still around.
Whether we form any sort of contact or not, you sound fascinating and I wish you well, anon.

>> No.9866469

>>9866466
>Assuming I'm a guy
You fucking walnut, go back to braincels

>> No.9866473

>>9866468
Sure, sure. I'll keep the thread open if you decide to.

>> No.9866481

>lolita being groomed by a serial rapist
It's terrifying but i can't look away!

>> No.9866482

Hoping to see stalker lolita today

>> No.9866485

>>9866481
Holy shit, for real? Or is this TV or something?

>> No.9866486

>>9866481
Yeah, that guy with the code test was pretty creepy.

>> No.9866488

>>9866481
What did he mean by this?

>> No.9866491 [DELETED] 

>attractive
>still no gf

how do i fix

>> No.9866492

>>9866486
>>>/r9k/
>>>/tumblr/

>> No.9866493

>>9866491
Get a daki

>> No.9866494

>>9866491
Get a fleshlight

>> No.9866495

>>9866491
Check out /jp/'s eternal onahole thread.

>> No.9866499

>>9866343
>Drop them, every ITfag I’ve met is a certifiable dumbass.
She's smarter than most women, but it seems like I have to choose between a woman being a psycho or having average or below intelligence.

>> No.9866502

>>9866499
Who cares about someones intelligence as long as they aren't actually retarded?

Provided they are willingly ignorant and refuse to learn, there's no issue there.

>> No.9866505

>>9866491
Seconding this, I don't even care if it's a boy girl or nb, I just want a pretty someone to cuddle and play Mario games with. Sadly that's too much to ask with 0 social skills.

>> No.9866507

>>9866505
>i want a gf
why?
>because i want to play videogames with her
kys, girls don't want guys that play videogames

>> No.9866509

>>9866507
...But I'm a girl... So you're telling a girl who wants someone to game with that girls don't want someone to game with?
How else will I do my dungeons in b&s?

>> No.9866510

>>9866502
>Who cares about someones intelligence as long as they aren't actually retarded?

>Provided they are willingly ignorant and refuse to learn, there's no issue there.
Have you not noticed most people fall into either of those categories?

>> No.9866511

>>9866509
>I'm a girl
sure you are

>> No.9866512

>>9866511
I wish I was a guy, since being an attractive guy has more benefits than being an attractive girl.

>> No.9866514

>>9866512
as an attractive guy this is actually false. my jawline and a good face. but it still doesn't give anything to me.

>> No.9866516

>>9866507
>tfw no bf who spends all night playing vidya with you
>tfw no bf to have duo builds with
>tfw no bf to have matching armor & cosmetics with
>tfw no bf who pats your head after you did a good job defeating the enemy

why even live

>> No.9866517

>>9866514
Move to west Europe, here cute girls will throw themselves at you just for your jawline.

>> No.9866519

>>9866517
Yeah. I've found that living in NA people don't care about the jawline as much and it's depressing.

>> No.9866521 [DELETED] 

too many larping trannies in the thread

>> No.9866522

>>9866516
wow post discord

>> No.9866523

>>9866516
I will live for the day this becomes reality.

>>9866519
They're missing out.
I wish we even had pretty guys in my country, or at least guys who put effort in.
This is why I became the ikemen cosplayer in my friendsgroup.

>> No.9866524

>>9866522
what do you play? please no OW/LoL/Fortnite/PUBG

>>9866523
me too anon ;_;

>> No.9866527

>>9866524
As of right now i don't play too much since not many people to play with. But, usually dota, sometimes ffxiv. I've been playing quite a bit of splatoon 2 but it's boring alone. I'm pretty open to a lot of games though.

>> No.9866528

>all these r9k trannies tricking guys into thinking theyre girls

>> No.9866529

>>9866481
>>9866486
I kekd.
It seems to be gone now, but why even use a struct constructor? Are you one of those retards that thinks OO is god? Cut that shit out. Sage for OT, sorry for killing the thread, guys.
>>9866499
You do you man, good luck trying to wrangle yourself a trap sugar baby

>> No.9866531

>>9866528
tfw guys can't accept girls existing on a board that's 50% fashion related.
How deprived are you?

>> No.9866533 [DELETED] 

>>9866531
>grils can't accept everyone is a guy on a site with 80% guys and 19% faggots
How naive are you?

>> No.9866534

>>9866523
one day my looks will get me a gf, then i'll come and complain that all she cared about was my looks.

>> No.9866535

>>9866527
ah I'm not into MOBA and haven't owned a nintendo console in years, been wanting to get into ffxiv though
pc or ps4?

>> No.9866536

>>9866332
Confidence doesn't exist in a vacuum, it works on a feedback loop

>> No.9866539

>>9866535
pc and ps4 really. i use my pc more though.

>> No.9866542

>>9866539
ah nice
my discord is bread #0243, I'm about to head to bed but I'll add you tomorrow if you want

>> No.9866544

>>9866531
>feels threads filled with open hostility and disgust towards tfwnogfers
>suddenly accepting and inviting
It's fucking trannies

>> No.9866545

>>9866542
i sent over an invite

>> No.9866546

>>9866544
Only accept the cute ones.

>> No.9866548

>>9866545
alright! talk to you tomorrow then anon

>> No.9866549 [DELETED] 

>>9866546
The ones who haven't shown any proof of being cute whatsoever?
It's fucking trannies, only they are that attention starved and desperate

>> No.9866555

>>9866548
Wow congrats anons you have a boyfriend and you have a girlfriend.

>> No.9866557

>>9866542
bread??!!? i have you on steam!

>> No.9866561

>>9866557
You can't say steam without posting yours. It's the rules.

>> No.9866565

aoknfds ands l

>> No.9866566

>>9866442
I have both this thread and /dpt/ open at the same time, this post threw me for a loop. Anyways >>>/g/

>> No.9866570

>working 45hr week tiring job
>high needs dog, tired all the time
>only thing to look forward to is con in may, excited to cosplay and spend the weekend
>friends 1 and 2 dont want to go
>we-used-to-cosplay-together friend now thinks she is "above this stuff"
>flaky friend already lining up excuses
>new friend "refuses to cosplay, drink, or attend panels"

My friends really suck sometimes. None of them have any desire to be spontaneous or plan out something fun and im so tired of trying to convince them to have a good time.

>> No.9866571

>>9866332
i have confidence whenever I wear costumes that cover my face.

>> No.9866573

>>9866570
Fanime?

>> No.9866575

>>9866505
Please date me we can play Mario Odyssey and Splatoon together

>> No.9866581

>getting back into lolita
>had sold some stuff before, about 15 main pieces left over
>1/3 of it is too wintery
>1/3 doesn't fit properly because I gained weight
>1/3 of it I just don't like any more
Some of this overlaps but it feels like the majority of my wardrobe is unwearable :(
I am searching and searching for new dresses, but my sense of style has changed and I'm too hesitant to drop money on anything even though I have a good job now and it's ok.

>> No.9866611

>>9866355
>>9866359
I personally have rejected several women

>> No.9866612

>>9866581
This is coming from my own experience but I’d suggest biting the bullet and selling off your main pieces and starting over. I sold the majority of the sweet dresses I owned to get into sweet classic, classic and otome. At least you’ll have some extra money too.

>> No.9866616

>>9866611
ugly fat chicks don't count tho

>> No.9866617

>>9866616
I haven't been hit on by too many fat chicks or uggos though. Most girls get the impression I'm stuck up and think I'm too good for them
>tfw they're probably right

>> No.9866618

>>9866379
Pay me, I'll do it. I'm hot too.

>> No.9866639

>>9866349
Yeah, basically never go to Jigoku events outside of the ones named "Jigoku Style" - the "Random" events tend to get way too many people coming because those are free, and the "Jigoku Market" events are fucking trash.

>> No.9866644

>>9866332
Confidence only goes so far, it's much better to be attractive and shy than ugly and confident.

>> No.9866645

>>9866516
if only this was real

>> No.9866649

>clearing out old pics from my phone
>come across one pic back when I was a fat fuck
>happy about weight loss
>pic also includes my defunct cat slumped on my shoulders
>sad about catto

>> No.9866651 [DELETED] 

Why are girls so mean? I honestly used to think that maybe getting a femanon gf would be better because perhaps they'd understand where I'm coming from, but everyone in this thread is attacking each other. Can you really not understand where some of these people are coming from? This is like normalfag levels of inconsiderate. You could at least try and say something helpful instead of calling everyone losers and saying we should just be confident. People like you are why /r9k/ says the things they do, the lack of empathy can be quite sad to see

>> No.9866653

>>9866651
fuck off incel

>> No.9866654 [DELETED] 

>>9866651
Death yourself

>> No.9866655

>>9866651
Stay strong, bro

>> No.9866656 [DELETED] 

>>9866653
>>9866654
Man, what kinda daddy issues do y'all have to react this way?

>> No.9866675

poor guy

>> No.9866679

>>9866653
no u

>> No.9866685 [DELETED] 

>>9866656
The kind where my dad was a big, strong, rough, tough manly man who was involved in my childhood and passed those ideas on to me, instead of letting me be a whiny faggot. If you need help go to the right place for it; I assure you it is not here

>> No.9866687 [DELETED] 

>>9866685
You're literally being an internet tough guy, your shitty comments and attitude serve no real purpose other than to put someone who's down even lower. Like the fuck mate?

I aint even the same fag y'all were telling to kill themselves.

>> No.9866690

>tfw want to cosplay so many things
>seen as the dominant tough guy of the group because i lift

end me pls, i just want to look handsome and help others cosplay

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>>9866348
an oldie but a goodie

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9866692

>>9866691
and the flipside for fairness sake

>> No.9866699

>>9866691
I will always hate how much I look like the guy on the left.

I will always be grateful to the military for stopping me from waddling down that road.

>> No.9866701

>>9866691
>>9866692

I do somewhat agree with both of those, but there's a bit more to it than that? For instance my bf is a little on the chubby side (inb4 he's going to die of a heart attack - we're both working at working out more and eating better), but he's got a very genial look about him and he talks well, so people are attracted to him. It also helps that he generally cleans himself and dresses himself neatly. So while you can't really change your genetics, you can certainly polish your presentation and most people can thrive just on that.

>> No.9866708

>>9866701
The paintjob certainly helps, but it can't always save what's underneath.
Pro-tip: If you wanna make him fit real quick then take the reins of his diet, groceries included, at the end of the day we're big children and we'll eat whatever the most important woman in our lives puts in front of us.

>> No.9866716

>>9866708

He's got this, but thanks for the advice.

>> No.9866718 [DELETED] 

Janitors have an odd sense of what is and isn't kosher.

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>> No.9866737 [DELETED] 
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9866737

>>9866736

>> No.9866773

My girlfriend and I recently got a house together and it's been great, but she has an entire closet full of lolita she never wears. We've been together for a few years and I saw her wear ONE dress ONCE to an event. I've been gently trying to nudge her to sell some of it and just keep a few dresses she really loves, but she's dragging her feet on it. We're nearing 30 and I don't want her to fully give it up because she loves it, but I feel like trimming down the collection would be good.

>> No.9866778

>>9866773
What does it matter if she does or doesn't sell the dresses? There's no continuous cost if they remain

>> No.9866779

>>9866773
honestly fuck you. it's her shit, she can do what she wants with it.

>> No.9866782

>>9866690
Cosplay dominant tough guy things :^)

>> No.9866783

>>9866773

You're like my boyfriend except you have a house eg more fucking room for shit. Shut the fuck up.

>> No.9866784

>>9866773
Anon those dresses can become more than just things to wear, they're pieces of a collection she enjoys. Maybe she enjoys looking at them or just knowing that she has some rare ones that others don't have but I wouldn't base your decision on her needing to get rid of some off of how often she wears them. They're more than just pieces of clothing. Do you collect anything? It's somewhat similar.
That being said if you guys really need the space or something it would be reasonable for her to cull of few of her least favorites.

>> No.9866785

>>9866783

On second thought, if it's Jahr, sell your fucking shit Jahr.

>> No.9866788

>>9866773
Are you in need, anon? Just treat her collection like an investment you can sell later for scalper price. Like for real, if she sells it now, you will waste the money for some random daily crap, but this way it persist.

>> No.9866793

>>9866778
>>9866779
>>9866783

I have to wonder, if your boyfriend had a bunch of stuff taking up space (ie, a closet) he never used, would you bitch at him to get rid of it or just say nothing?

>> No.9866795

>>9866793
My BF has a closet full of clothes he never wears like jackets and shit because he moved to a warm climate from a cold one. But just in case he ever wants to use one or has occasion to he keeps them. I don't bitch at him for it.

>> No.9866797

>tfw lolita gf

>> No.9866799

>>9866793

Kind of depends what it is. If it's a closet full of powertools and stuff, I'm used to that seeing as I inherited a lot of collector's habits from my dad. If it was a closet full of dead ex wives, there might be issues.

>> No.9866800

>>9866795
Btw OP never said they actually need some space for something useful, they just say "it would be good". There's no even rational reason for taking her shit out.

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9866804

No spoilers
>see Infinity War
>the character I cosplay fucked up big time
Will I get bullied at the con?

>> No.9866805

>>9866612
I've been thinking about it, anon. It wouldn't be the first time I've done this.
I'll for sure get rid of the 4-5 I really don't like anymore though it's scary to see the wardrobe shrinking.
I might even finally sell honey cake in mint. That's a tough one to let go.
But if I haven't work this stuff much in a couple of years there's probably a reason why

>> No.9866806

>>9866804
only by autists probably

>> No.9866808

>>9866773
>she has an entire closet full of lolita she never wears
>I saw her wear ONE dress ONCE to an event
Sorry to tell you this but sounds like she's practically a cosplayer, not a lolita. Lolita is a special event costume to her.

>> No.9866811

>>9866793
My /toy/ bf has an entire closet full of figma boxes that I give zero shits about, checkmate asshole.

>> No.9866813

>>9866811
>Asshole for asking a reasonable question

Aren't you a catch.

>> No.9866815

>>9866808
> using some teen maximalistic shit to argument with adult person who has their own house and stable relationship

You make us all look retarded

>> No.9866820

>>9866793
I'm a dude so. I have zero issues with a girl keeping a bunch of dresses provided they are out of the way and kept nicely.

>> No.9866827

>>9866815
It's possible to wear these clothes outside of events and be a functional adult, anon. Wear them indoors, wear them on the weekend, wear them to the fucking grocery store even. If you only wear them to events you're a cosplayer, sorry.

>> No.9866829

>>9866827
Okay, why would functional adult feel bad for being lolita cosplayer?

>> No.9866830

>>9866829
I never said anon or his girlfriend had to feel bad about it, just clarifying that his girlfriend isn't a lolita.

>> No.9866831

>>9866830
But she wears lolita. That's the fucking definition of a lolita

>> No.9866832

>>9866831
Anon said he's seen her wear it once in the years they've been together; wearing it only to events means you're treating it like a costume, not a street fashion, so you're not a lolita.

>> No.9866838

>>9866832
>you're treating it like a costume, not a street fashion, so you're not a lolita

On which purpose do you state it in every single post? Like yeah, she's not lolita, she still looks pretty in her clothes, whatever. What kind of reaction do you expect here?

>> No.9866840

>>9866838
Like I said before >>9866830 not expecting any particular reaction, just clarifying.

>> No.9866843

>>9866832
Point taken

>> No.9866858

8 months into fitnesa journey and Im dowm 50 lbs and 7% body fat. Good feels gulls.

>> No.9866930
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>guy airs out legitimate gripe
>ITS HER HOUSE YOURE JUST LIVING IN IT CHOP OFF YOUR DICK ALREADY YOU SEXIST VIRGIN
Shouldn't be surprised, after all this is the board that defends rapists when they happen to be women

>> No.9867005

>>9866930
It's not a legitimate gripe, you bitter virgin
and this board isn't a hivemind, people bicker at each other all the time. Way to give away your newfaggotry.

>> No.9867007

>get these anxiety attacks when I'm unable to think rationally and am psychotic mess
>get urge to do stupid things
>like burn all my lolita, just leave and wander somewhere and sleep outside, kill myself bc I'm worthless piece of shit and it's pretty much hopeless to live with personality like mine
>mfw in the middle of this rn
>haven't really spoken to bf since yesterday when he said I eat omg how much are you going to eat
>he left to have fun and comes back tomorrow
>idk if I can survive this time
I'm so fucked. I have never felt this lonely, I'm just so alone and scared as hell. Last night was rough and I don't doubt this one will be too. I guess I will have to just keep emergency number around in case it gets unbearable. I just wish I had contacted doctor earlier, if I was lucky I would have already gotten something to knock myself off. Positive thing is my feet hurt so badly I can't leave this appartment.

>> No.9867023
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>>9867007
Call a family member and have a nice talk about whatever. Talking to someone who loves you will make you feel better. Going for a walk helps too, but if you can't lave your apartment, I won't suggest it

>> No.9867031

>>9866930
But nobody said to do that, only you did.

>> No.9867034

>>9866930
>this wild exaggeration
Stop being hysterical, Kyle.

>> No.9867039

>tfw no lolita friends
>out of nowhere local lolita invites me to go to the theater with just the two of us
>assume it's not a date because she already has a girlfriend
>start chatting with her every day
>start thinking I finally found my lolita bff
>find out she broke up with her gf a few weeks ago
I don't have the social skills to change this situation so I'll probably just ghost her

>> No.9867042

>>9867039
What if it's not a date and she just want some to be friends?

>> No.9867048

>>9867042
It's possible I guess... She's been flirty with me, but at that time I just it was her personality and I shouldn't be conceited since she has a girlfriend. I've also been overly friendly with her because I was excited to make a lolita friend. But the fact that she was single the whole time, puts everything in a different context...

>> No.9867049

Also the timing that she asked me out right after breaking up and never showed interest in me before
>>9867048

>> No.9867050

>>9867039
Lesbians can have friends too

>> No.9867054

>>9867050
I am a lesbian. We're the only 2 lesbians in our comm afaik.

>> No.9867056

>>9867048
I think you're assuming things desu. Wouldn't be the first time a straight girl thought a lesbian was hitting on her when she was just being friendly. You even admitted you have poor social skills.

>> No.9867057

>>9867054
Well... Is she hot?

>> No.9867058

>>9867057
Not really... And I just don't want to date anyone considering my bad social skills.

>> No.9867059

>>9867058
Go to the theatre with her. Then when she makes a move on you say you thought you were just friends. There. Job done.

>> No.9867061

>>9867059
Thanks, this is actually helpful

>> No.9867084

>>9866840
No need to bother next time

>> No.9867087

>>9867050
No they don't, they're like guys, horny all the time and can't keep it in their pants to save their lives

>> No.9867094

>>9867087
If that's your experience with men, it's because you have nothing interesting going on besides your body.

>> No.9867103

>>9867050
I tried to make friends with lesbian girl, but I just felt like I'm basically friendsoning her. Too bad one day I said I only see her as an entertaiment, although she was the only friend I had at the moment. She was so furious and never wanted to talk to me anymore. Year has passed since it happened but I don't even try to talk to her anymore. She seems doing great, she's got a girlfriend and new cool tattoo. I just don't want to mess it up. Also, I'm still not sure if she would treat me just as friend. I miss this friendship, but I gues it would be better to leave it as is.

>> No.9867108

>>9867087
We´ll there is nothing to pull out of the pants so it´s more like we can´t keep our pants on.

>> No.9867109

>>9867103

>Too bad one day I said I only see her as an entertaiment

Ouch man. Even str8 girls wouldn't put up with that. Genuinely asking, are you autistic by any chance?

>> No.9867110

>>9867108

>penis can't even stick out of the zipper hole

That's rough, I'm truly sorry

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>>9865996
Oh hey look, some degenerate preying on the mentally ill. Some things don’t change.

>> No.9867123

>>9867108
Keep the gloves on then if you will.

>> No.9867149

>>9867094
not that anon but this explains why I can't be friends with men

>> No.9867154

>>9867087
Sure they can if they have something more interesting about themselves than their sexuality.

However single lesbian asking another single lesbian with similar interests out to the movies does sound like something with romantic intent.

>>9867094
they probably do have something more interesting, just dudes are dumb and see titties before they see anything else.

>> No.9867156

>>9867154
"Guys are horny dumbasses" is just a mantra spouted by uninteresting women who have nothing to offer. While there are definitely desperate guys out there, the fact of the matter is that if your exclusive experience with guys is that they're all horndogs, the problem is you. You just don't have anything substantial to pique their interest.

>> No.9867162

>>9867156
but instead of just ignoring those women they try to sleep with them

>> No.9867164

>>9867162
Some guys do, sure. Just like how some girls will get guys they're not interested in to buy them things/be a shoulder to cry on when they need it/whatever.

The point is, if every experience you've had with X group of people has been bad, then you need to realize that the common element is you.

>> No.9867167

>>9867156
I am a man, who has led an active social life with many other men, and I say this with 100% conviction. A high percentage of men are horny fucks who don't know what to do with their dicks and fail to notice anything other than titties and ass.

It's a stereotype for a reason my dude.

That chick could have a bunch of interesting things about her but if shes at least a strong 4 those interests will be ignored because men want to give the dick and will say whatever they can to deliver it.

Granted that also depends on your area and how many chicks are in a community, this will obviously change a little if there is a bunch of 7s/8s

>> No.9867169

>>9867164
I already agreed that it's my own fault that every guy I meet tries to sleep with me

>> No.9867174

>>9867167
>I hang out with a bunch of emotionally stunted chads

FTFY

>> No.9867176

>>9867167
Yes yes Sir White Knight, I'm sure she'll touch your penis now that you admitted your sex is evil.

>> No.9867177

>>9867174
that's fair, it was the military.

>>9867176
I'm white knighting? Fuck I'm such a cuck I didn't even realize, thanks for the red pill lad.

>> No.9867230

>>9865996
you're that weird french fucker from /sp/, aren't you?

>> No.9867305
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Had a fight with my normie friend about the China dress situation.

I don't think it's appropriating, maybe because I see Japanese and Korean women wear them all the time. I guess all Asians are just grouped as 1 race though.

>> No.9867311

>>9867305
If anyone unironically uses the phrase "cultural appropriation", you then know you can immediately ignore that person for the rest of your life and be better for it.

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>>9867023
I gotta thank you anon, I think I made through the worst part. Sewing, crafting, vaping and animal documents were enough to distract myself from the awful thoughts. I'm gonna get up early tomorrow and wear lolita again - makes me happy and forcing myself to look decent helps. But seriously thank you - your comment was felt better than an anonymous comment on 4chan should.

No idea how I'm gonna explain my bf I fell into this by his stupid comment about me eating too much though. I don't know even myself about all the stuff he is going to ask so I'm probably going to nose dive into this as soon as he is back home to question me.

>> No.9867330

>>9867305
It's just an evening/party dress in China. If she'd worn a fucking wedding qipao or like a formal old lady kimono I could understand the bitching a little, but she's literally just wearing a party dress.

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9867331

>>9867305
the china dress is fine and she looks cute
however posing like this is pretty offensive which I think she should apologize for so people hop off her ass about it

I think people just have their panties in a knot because she wore an asian item and mocked asians whilst wearing it

>> No.9867333

>>9867331
This is a meme pose, nothing to do with China. The guys are doing vape naysh and the girls are doing the crackstyle.

>> No.9867334

>>9867331
Bruh, she's Indian. She's a Scotch-Indian.
If she can't make a pose originating from her family's heritage,then I'm done.

>> No.9867335

>>9867333
its very similar to a poe used to make fun of chinese, so I feel like it would have just been cleared up if she referenced the pose she was doing.

>> No.9867336

>>9867334
>she's scotch-indian

how do you know this? why do you care enough? how is any of this cgl related?

>> No.9867338

>>9867331
It's only "offensive" if you don't know the context behind it. It looks like you're not familiar with "vape nation" and "papa bless" signs. Harmless H3H3 memes.

>> No.9867340

>>9867305
The Qipao has become a symbol of Chinese patriotism, but it's still just a dress, it isn't of religious importance, it's cultural significance is still very very new, it's been 'just a dress' since it's inception.

Now, I will say though, that the 'correct' way to wear a Qipao is so the fit is like a second skin, so she got that right at least.

>> No.9867341

>>9867103
> just moved in with my long term girlfriend
> just recently got my first tattoo

God you sound creepy as hell. Now I am wondering if you are someone I have personally dropped from my life. This is why I never want straight men as friends.

>> No.9867343

>>9867336
Twitter
And really, I don't care, but the screaming over every imagined offence is tiresome.

>> No.9867350

>>9865946
It takes less than an hour to fill out a job app anon and shit's competitive as hell. You can't just sleep on stuff like that.

>> No.9867351

>>9867336
>how is any of this cgl related?
None of the last 10 or so posts are /cgl/ related in the slightest. Just report and hide stuff if you need to.

>> No.9867352

>>9867341
How is that creepy?
I could say something similar about, oh, let's say a friend I had in high school that I parted ways with from briefly looking at what she has set to public on her fb page.
No digging, just taking a quick gander.
Are you going to tell me that looking someone up on fb is doxxing?

>> No.9867354

>>9867341
reading comprehension mate, do you have it.

I'm pretty sure that's a chick talking about her lesbian ex friend who got a new girlfriend and a tattoo.

>>9867352
It's creepy because she thought it was a man

>> No.9867356

>>9867341
But how would a straight guy friendzone a gay girl though?

>> No.9867360

>>9867354
>She thought it was a man
One, now I see that and she's a chump, two, it's still not creepy even if they were a man. OP's a dick for calling her friend 'entertainment' though.

>> No.9867362

>>9867360
Oh yeah they totally could have been way less a dick about it

>> No.9867377

>true lesbian gets triggered by tourist lesbian

>> No.9867380

>>9867377
>tourist lesbian
The term is lipstick lesbian, thank you.

>> No.9867382
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9867382

>tfw even if I starved for days I'd never be as skinny as Spiro

>> No.9867387

>>9867382
that's because you don't get skinny from actually starving yourself dummy

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9867390

>>9867382
what a shame

>> No.9867432

>>9867087
>>9867154
Gonna say, I'm a 100% straight guy. I love having female friends and going on platonic dates. Girls I find are much easier to talk to. Majority of my close friends are female.

>inb4 it's because you already have a girlfriend
I'm single
>inb4 it's because they think you're gay
We talk about sex, sexual preferences etc. They know I'm very straight.

But I'm aware I'm not the majority.

>> No.9867448

>>9867432
i believe you. i have 1 straight male friend who never tries to have sex with me.

>> No.9867453

>>9867448
As long as he's not a creepy beta orbiter, that's dope.

>> No.9867468

>>9867432
Nah I get where you're coming from dude, sorta same. I just get mad crushes on all of them and suffer in silence then get over it eventually. Friend dates are fun tho.

>> No.9867472

>>9867468
Sure there's sexual tension which I think is just natural when you have two young people of the opposite sex together but can't say I get crushes on them. So far it's only been the other way around which I have to stamp out.

>> No.9867482

>>9867331
The boys are doing vape nation and the girls papa bless.
Are you reaching? Besides it's a praying pose, it's not like they're all pulling their eyes apart and sticking out their teeth.

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9867539

>>9867482
>>9867482
I know its a meme pose currently, but the exact pose was used to make fun of asians (specifically chinese) in the past, lets not pretend otherwise.

I'm not defending people jumping down her throat for choosing a cute outfit, but I can understand why they see that pose as offensive, especially if they are from an older generation.

in the 90s kids ran around doing this pose, bowing and shouting CHING CHONG CHING CHONG, so forgive me for understanding why people would be heated lmao

>> No.9867543

>>9867539
It's almost like context matters or something.

>> No.9867544

>>9867305
The history of that style of qipao is from British occupation of China anyway. The tailoring and shaping is Western, there's nothing that traditional about it anyway.

>> No.9867545

>>9867539
she was probably born in 2000
how would she know that

>> No.9867555

>>9867545
maybe someone could explain it to her calmly and she could calmly explain the meme and how its not racist back.

because we all know the internet is a logical place

>> No.9867560

>>9867539
being a teen in the late 90s... no one ever did that, but okay

>> No.9867565

>>9867560
>i've never seen it so it didn't happen

>> No.9867568

>>9867539
It's almost like...your feelings don't matter when it comes to what people do with their own freedom...

HMMMMM

>> No.9867577

>>9867568
this logic makes no sense because you're saying that girl's feelings don't matter either

>> No.9867580

>>9867539
I'm Chinese and this whole debate is retarded lmao. Westerners getting triggered by other Westerners over shit they have no business sticking their noses in. If I squat in a dress and put my hands together am I being racist to myself? No. I'm memeing. She's memeing, this doesn't even have anything to do with /cgl/ and it's time to move on.

>> No.9867583

>when im trying to argue for both sides and /cgl/ disagrees so strongly with one side I'm arguing they derail a thread over it

welp, I'm done.
ya'll are retarded

>> No.9867599

>>9867539
Get your eyes checked hun, only 1 girl in the group is wearing a qipao and they’re all squatting, not standing stiffly as though about to bow. It’s more believable to claim that those insulted by her “racist pose” are just retarded and reaching.

>> No.9867601

>>9867577
They don't.

>> No.9867609

>>9867599
>I'm not defending people jumping down her throat for choosing a cute outfit, but I can understand why they see that pose as offensive, especially if they are from an older generation.

>im not defending people jumping down her throught
>i can understand why they would do that

never said they werent reaching "hun"

>> No.9867623

This thread started with people telling others to be confident, and now it's turned into discussions about a dress. Shit's wild desu.

>> No.9867630

>>9867580
People cosplay in these dresses all the time

>> No.9867635

>>9867623
Technically this thread started with
>tfw no lolita gf
But the mods deleted my post

>> No.9867638

>>9867635
even better

>> No.9867641

Got bitched at for dabbing at the comm, but I was really just sneezing into my elbow pit.

>> No.9867645

>>9867641
Did you adult and laugh it off explaining?
If not, too late now I guess.

>> No.9867647

>>9867390
>tfw you will never have his triangular figure

>> No.9867648

>>9867641
this is where you be alpha and just dab in their face and walk away.

>> No.9867657

>>9867580
>I’m Chinese

Please can we end all the samefag posting in this thread to try and defend your point? Let’s get back on topic with /cgl/ feels

>con coming up in less than a month
>pulling lots of overtime to earn time off for con and have some extra cash
>no time to work on cosplay
>anxiety rising to extreme levels
I think I’ll finish in time for the con but it still makes me nervous to still have so much to do.

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I nearly drowned at t party. I good now tho!

>> No.9867677

>>9867390
>>9867647
>Tfw you will never be a literal dragon

>> No.9867679

When you wear a costume with an exposed ass... Do you ever fear that you'll sneeze, and poop all over the floor?

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9867697

>>9867679
I have a feeling that creepy men occasionally come here.

>> No.9867704

>>9866773
Sorry I posted this and fucked off, I just needed to vent. I read all of your replies. We're both girls and we've been together a long time. She's been holding on to these dresses for a while. If it were something she were passionate about still, I wouldn't ask her to trim down the collection, but she's not so it just feels like hoarding to me. She is awful about holding on to things she doesn't care for anymore on the off-chance she needs it for something and we're not in a *huge* house. The closet she's using is almost unaccessable from all the lolita stuff. I'm guessing like 40+ dresses.

I don't feel like it's unreasonable to ask her to trim the collection down to a few key dresses. If an event comes up, she'll have stuff to wear, if she decides she wants to get back into it, she'll have a base set to work with.

She's been talking about wanting to buy an embroidery machine so I'm trying to nudge her to sell some and use that money to invest in something she really wants. Some of you have reacted like I'm twisting her arm. I'm really not, I promise. It's not a "me or the dresses!" scenario.

>> No.9867718

new
>>9867717

>> No.9871669

>>9866001
you are using a shower?

>> No.9871676

>>9867087
>horny all the time and can't keep it in their pants to save their lives
well, men also have some needs

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>>9867641
>>9867648
or to the "Hitlergruß" instead