/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9877522
Congratulations, anon! What dress is it?

>>9877527
Elisabeth bride of death! I never thought I'd get it, but there were two on y!a for weirdly cheap. Hope it was just a lowballing seller and not damaged dresses... But anyways, I'm so happy!

>>9877522
>fucc the discord that seems to have a monopoly on feels
pretty sure that was a troll, I haven't heard of it since

>>9877535
Either way, this is the 4chan uprising. No more shall the feels threads be dictated by off-topic 'editions'. They shall be ours and ours alone!

Man I just really love lolita

>>9877544
Man I just really love cosplay <3

I'm finally working on my Angelic Pretty ~so gothic~ coord, with veil and halo headpiece and all. I was too sick to wear lolita (or even leave the house much) when the trend was around so gulls, be ready, it's my time to shine and I feel no shame.

I went outside to have a smoke and a lolita just walked past me! I saw a lolita in the wild! She had two men with her though so probably a slut.

Professor Pyg is almost done. And Ive lost 52 pounds this school year. All good feels.

Also how many variations of the same character is too many? Because Im about to do two more versions of Scarecrow bringing it to 4.

>you will never be a 1980s rock n roll revolver toting cowboy tough guy

>>9877552
Why do you always post a deerstalker gif with your cosplay feel?

>Hurr lolita IS cosplay
No

>planning honeymoon with fiance
>both of us want to go to Japan
>Was so excited to be able to shop in glorious nippon
>He's supportive of lolita, but doesn't understand why I'd shop on our honeymoon

fuck me man, is there anything to do in the Laforet/Harajuku area for normies? I think if he has something to do he'd be ok with me shopping. I'm not going to Japan and not coming back with burando.

>>9877654
Just let him hang out at the meiji shrine while you shop. It's literally across the street.

>40 year old spinster sister just got back together with dead-end druggie hippy boyfriend
>for the third time
hey caroline maybe you should have married the one that bred dogs, or the one that worked for the cocacola company, or the fat one, or the one with the small dick, or the one who already had a kid

>Had a sex dream about Asherbee last night

>>9877658
The shrine was under renovations last year so be mindful of that, but yeah he can go to the shrine and there's plenty of places to sit down in and grab a bite to eat.

>>9877765
>and liked it

Lolita helped me realize how gay I really am....10 years into a hetero relationship/marriage.

At least my husband is ok with me fucking his best friend’s wife who’s bi and thinks I’m cute in my frills.

>Want to bring qt to con
>She says she needs to find a job first

>>9877772
It wasn’t awful. She didn’t smell bad and she had a completely different voice.
But it was still fucking Asherbee.

>>9877794
pay for her bro

>>9877839
That's exactly what I offered.

>changing in the locker room after tea
>one girl gives me a shocked look
>"Oh! I always thought you were trans."
>mfw

>>9877595
>no other explanation, must be shtoopin' em both!!

the CoF thread is teeming with self-esteem issues, much worse than normal. why are people so broken like this?

I've also realized that my ideal partner is someone who's never chan'd in his life. not even once. the children that this place raises, my gosh!

>>9877923
>tfw my ideal partner also used to be someone who's never chan'd but now I have a crush on someone who I met through this hellhole

>>9877923
I think people might be bandwagoning, honestly. One anon comments positively or negatively and others feel the need to hop on and join the shitposts, whether they genuinely believe the things they say or not, either to get others to join in or to simply derail the thread.
I tend to take the shit people say on here with a grain of salt though so idk maybe I'm wrong.

>>9877840
I don't let other men pay for my entertainment or food because it has strong implication of providing return sex. She doesn't want to feel obligated to do that... After all, conventions are expensive.

>>9877595
>mfw walked back to the station from an event with my partner and a gay friend last night. I live in a big city and was wearing lolita.
If it was me you saw, you can fuck off.

>>9877886
What? why did she thonk you had ap enis?

>>9877654
Honeymoons are times to be with your married partner together and to have copious amounts of sex. I suggest you plan things together without doing things separately.

My wife and I went to Japan and went shopping with her at Laforet. I actually had fun after all and found a good shirt to buy.

>>9878054
Because anon is a shitposter.
>changing in the locker rooms after tea
indeed.

>>9877970
She wants the D though. Are you forever alone?

>>9877522
Aren't foxes considered evil in japanese culture tho?

>>9878188
They can be mischievous but not necessarily evil.

>>9878188
b-but foxes are such cute little fur balls!
How could something so cute be considered evil :<

>>9877654
Just do anal and he'll tolerate you shopping

>>9877654
What kind of stuff does he like? There's lolita shops all over Tokyo so you can pick an area with more stuff he'd be into to go shopping in.

>Tfw scrolling through a feels thread ages ago where someone recognized a cosplay of pic related
> Tfw tons of good feed back so I look up the series
> Tfw love the comic but it feels like it's taking forever for the story to progress
> Like, I know it's because it's all colored and she does animation for it and it's probably done by one person, but I'm also an impatient ass hole
So thanks gulls for introducing me to something that I love and am extremely frustrated by. Really thinking of doing a demon Ava cosplay

>>9878202
Isn't it kinda gross sticking your penis in the place where the poop comes out? I mean, chances are the inside isn't gonna be completely clean even after you've shat out all the shit that's in there. I've also read that if you're inexpierenced with anal, there's the chance you might shit on your partners dick.

This is starting to sound like scat fetish shit.

>>9877736
I too like watching my sibling make awful life decisions. He’s 24 tho, so nigga’s got time, but not much. Not in college, diagnosed with diabetes (type 1) which he doesn’t take care of, sleeps with anything with a pulse and harassed women on tinder, lives in a garbage dump of a room with a car that’s not much better and doesn’t give a fuck about the job our dad got him, goes in like a slob every day and is otherwise a useless, degenerate. He has all these plans like moving out to arizona (from Jersey) for x, y, or z job that will totally make him a lot of money for no work.

He disgusts me but I really do worry for him. In other news
>tfw no cosplay gf

I finally bought a dress made of the uberfabric. I know I'm trash, but I can't stop smiling.

>>9878279
Welcome to the Grandma's Couch Club, anon, you're one of the cool kids now.

>tfw I just bought my first lolita dress and am about to go down a financial hellhole of getting other pieces to make my first coord and try not to look like a piece of shit

Also >tfw too fat for Lolita am afraid of being made fun odd for being a fatty chan

>>9878339
It's gonna happen.

If you love the fashion it will motivate you to lose weight. I've lost 20lbs since I started the fashion and am able to fit into so much more without looking like a stuffed sausage and worrying about stretching stuff out.

If you don't want to lose weight, then don't expect any coddling from this board.

>>9878339
Use your new dress as motivation, it's what I do to keep staying fit.

>>9878339
Everything look better if you're thin ;)

>>9877544
Man I just really love cosplay

>>9878348
>>9878352
I’ve already lost 5lbs in general because I want to be healthier overall. Its just my shitty self esteem + anxiety. It’s been hard but being able to fit into that dress will be so worth it. I won’t be getting it until the end of July sadly but it’ll enough time to lose some more weight.

>>9878339
Lolita is great motivation to lose weight. I lost 40 lbs through veganism (then gained 8 lbs switching back to vegetarianism lol). You don’t even have to do drastic dietary changes, just eat lighter meals and do lots of cardio. Good luck!

>>9878391
Take ashwaghanda supplements for losing weight while anxious. It lowers cortisol levels and the fat build up from having cortisol.

>>9878401>>9878348
>>9878339

Ive lost 43 pounds thanks to lolita motivation and intermittent fasting! Im still a chubby-chan but it gets easier the longer you go!

I almost cried when I finally tried on one of my dream dresses the other day and it fit, not perfectly, but without a struggle and not looking horrible.

Theres always a way to improve yourself!

>have plans to crossplay as Mami for upcoming Con
>Mami has huge boobs
>need to find a comfortable, but cute pushup bra to wear
>"I know, I'll ask /r/abrathatfits on Reddit"
>post thread
>post my chest on Reddit w/face blurred
>some users give me advice
>receive messages
>"Hi, I wanna say that you're going to look great crossplaying as Mami. I think you're going to be at so-and-so Con. Can you hook and I'll peg you???"
>"Can I suck your cock while crossplaying Mami?"
>"Can you post your dick? How big is your dick?"
>"Is it wrong that I wanna be your Madoka and live like lesbians for the rest of your life?"
>delete thread
>never went to /r/abrathatfits ever again

I know Reddit is bad, but women who post on Reddit are even worse. I heard a horror story about a woman fapping to a guy that posted their makeup do-up in /r/makeupaddiction.

>>9877654
just don't shop everyday

>>9878215
sounds like me, but at least I cleaned my room yesterday

>>9878431
and I thought /r/eddit is decent, but compared to that, even yellow boards on 4chan are pure

>>9878431
>>"Is it wrong that I wanna be your Madoka and live like lesbians for the rest of your life?"
>Madoka and Mami
>live like lesbians
It should be forbidden to have such shit taste in pairings.

>>9878431
Some women are just as disgusting as the worst of men. Welcome to the internet, anon.

Not really a feel but I wish there was a board for woman's fashion because /fa/ is pretty much all men's fashion.

This drama queen, scammer, and animal hoarder/abuser commented on a post I’m following in a cosplay group I’m in. She said “I’m popular but everyone hates me”. I want to comment “wonder why, bitch” so badly, but it’d be on zuccbook with my real name. Its taking all my self-control not to.

>>9878487
Make another account and do it

>>9878339
>>9878348
Very true. I've lost over 80lbs so far just chasing the chance to wear my dream dresses. Life in general is better when you lose weight. You can wear the cute clothes you want, you have more energy, sex is better, food tastes better when you've been eating healthy. Seriously, if you are thinking about losing weight just do it! I wish I had sooner.

>>9878713
thanks for the motivation anon

>>9878713
I just recently bought a motivation dress.
I'm not too far off from fitting it; about 3~5cm in the waist to lose but oh man it's going to push me to lose that last 10~15lbs to get there, I hope!

my ovaries hurt so fuvking much, i think im dying. make it stop

>>9878719
I'm so glad to be born male. After being with exgf for 6 years I didn't realise how much shit girls put up with their own bodies that seemingly happens and disappears for no reason.
>Ow my vagina hurts
>>why?
>I dunno
>*next day*
>Vagina doesn't hurt anymore

At least if you're a guy
>my balls hurt
>get off
>all better

You have my empathy and respect.

>>9878717
>>9878716
>>9878713
>>9878391
I'm cheering for you all! Some day you gonna look like pic related, you just need to keep up exercising and eating well.

Gambatte!

>>9878482
It's almost like 99% of 4chan is male or traps....

I think i may actually die soon. I've been having a lot of migraines, nosebleeds, and seizures recently and the doctors don't quite know what's wrong. It's hard to love day to day. I used to dress up in lolita 4-5x a week, but now I'm down to once or twice every two.

My closet will probably rot. I'm afraid of turning into another Goodwill-chan, where my closet I've collected since 2010 slowly bleeds out through there, but it's looking more and more likely every time I have another seizure.

I won't get to see my favorite Vkei band again, I think. I won't get to meet new lolitas, I think. I'm scared y'all

>>9878778
Stay strong, anon, you will make it

>>9878778
Bury your closet along side you anon!
Take that shit with you into the afterlife

>>9878732
but then the traps could hang out there too.

>tfw you discover the hidden visceral hate in the Lolita community

>>9878790
Hi C!

>>9878790
hidden?

>>9878804

Aren't Lolitas supposed to be very kindhearted?

>>9878809
who told you that lol?

>>9878778
Sometimes the mind affects your health more the anything. Don't allow yourself to stress and do things you enjoy to keep your mind off of it. People who believe they will recover from illness are more likely to then those who give up. Stay strong.

>>9878809
Lolitas are uber bitches lol

>>9878778
You should definitely get buried in a dress. If not donate your dresses to someone that knows what to do with them, or have a will set up. A will isn’t a bad idea even if you aren’t sick.

Death can be scary, I’ve been near it before. Just focus on the present and do your best.

>tfw the teal of my Miku wig is way darker than the teal parts of the costume
Am I screwed? Or am I going to survive?

>order tail for Spice and Wolf costume
>it arrives
>mfw it's a buttplug

>>9878897
You know what to do. :^)

>>9878897
SCORE!

>>9878809
Ah yes, this old thing.
The sooner you realize that lolitas are people like any other and are capable of being horrible just like anyone else, regardless of their fashion choices - The better.

>>9878809
No. They're just as brainwashed as regular women.

>>9878778
Make a LM account with drafts of your wardrobe, so your family can sell them quick and true to value in the worst case scenario, put it in your will too.

>>9877522

>shitpost on twitter
>keep it anon and dont post pics of myself
>everyone assumed I was a trap?

I don't know how I feel about this it's like I'm 14 again doing shitty roleplaying on the itnernet

>>9877923
I think you may want to adjust that to
>Someone who doesn't make it seem like they use 4chan based on their demeanor in the rest of the world
Which is more about depression, anti-social behavior, et cetera, as opposed to doing something like going full /pol/ mode. The former is way more subtle.

>>9878897
I love it when you get extras in the mail.

>>9878939
Everyone wants to see traps now...

>>9878851
We can't say without pics, but it's probably fine.

>>9878897
nice

>meet a group of weebs
>house party at one of their houses
>we are all talking cosplay
>dude shows us the giant hands he has for his wreck it ralph cosplay
>I crack a joke about them being Yaoi hands
>everyone goes quiet
>one girl tells me she's uncomfortable with me sexualizing gay culture
>another dude says he's uncomfortable with me telling everyone what porn I'm into
>they refer to me as the "weird yaoi girl" now

fuck

>>9879009
I always hated how fucking uptight the cosplay community it.

YOU DRESS UP AS FICTIONAL CHARACTERS AND PLAY PRETEND

You'd think they'd have the imagination and openness to understand a mildly edgy joke. I'm glad I got my friends who are all 5 years older than me, all different races and oreintations and we crack some of the most disgracefully edgy jokes known to man.

>>9879009
What the fuck? That's not even a half edgy joke, yaoi hands were a rather common meme a few years ago, maybe still are. I think it's hilarious, and I generally dislike yaoi.
Sorry you landed on a group of humorless weebs; I wonder how they'd react to actual edgy shit.

>>9879009
Hey! Weird yaoi girl! Let's share our collection's!

>>9879009
Ah I see your mistake.

"Meet a group of weebs".

Yeah.... stop doing that! :D Problem solved!

>>9879022
Bad news, anon: We're all weebs here. I'm a weeb, you're a weeb. And you must be a weeb, otherwise you wouldn't have come here.

>>9879009
>one girl tells me she's uncomfortable with me sexualizing gay culture
>another dude says he's uncomfortable with me telling everyone what porn I'm into
wtf is wrong with them
as if anime was somehow puritan?? can't people talk about sex or make a sex/hentai joke??

>>9879011
this, so much this
that joke isn't even edge, it's literally a meme

I'm mad.

How much should I weight for fitting lolita perfectly?

>went from 190lbs to 160lbs
>5'6"
>still fatty-chan
>I can fit into some of pieces but still looking like a ham
>how long will I suffer

>>9879009
i know that feel.
i used this picture as a reaction image and was called sick and disgusting.
since when do the degenerates on this website become such pearl clutching weenies?

>>9878949
no. I want someone who doesn't harbor hate deep in their hearts.
>>9879038
the thing that bothers me most is that woman attempting to call you out for "sexualizing" gay "culture"
>white SJWs, every. single. time.
first of all, yaoi isn't about culture. it's fiction. sex fiction. people aren't wanking it to stories about guys who go to protests and play board games together, and also happen to be gay. I want to know how you can desexualize literal pornography.
there's also no such thing as gay culture or community in Japan, as far as I know. Liking guys is not taken seriously whatsoever, and everyone's expected to marry a woman, regardless of what you're really into.

what a bunch of idiots.

>>9879041
do you even know your measurements?
buy things that have a max that is at least 8cm above your measurements and learn how to dress your body flatteringly.
it's not your weight, and never will be your weight, that tells you if you're fitting the fashion. know you shape, know all your measurements, and buy/style accordingly.

>>9878928
>friendly, kindhearted
>brainwashed
Friendly is to brainwashed as oatmeal is to coyote

>gulls suddenly interested in working out
is this opposite day?

>>9879072
The brainwashed eat the friendly?

>>9879072
I was suggesting that media and bureaucratic system of government "education" is influencing women to be more nice than they would otherwise be. I associate kindness with morality because it's not okay to be an asshole. I've seen my own mom negatively influenced by the "Real housewives" (as if there's anything real about the lives of rich women) picking up on the constant depiction of women being catty with each other constantly.

>>9879078
*less nice. Polite sage for my sleep deprived responses.

>>9879045
>there's also no such thing as gay culture or community in Japan, as far as I know.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwXcgSZQR08

sorry for the bad quality, couldn't find a better version in YouTube. But the TL;DR is that it isn't as bad as some people think. The younger folk are a lot more open and there are bars where gay people can flirt without issues.

>>9879041
Keep fightning, anon. One day you'll look like pic related in all your dresses.

>>9879073
Fixed

>>9879009
>>one girl tells me she's uncomfortable with me sexualizing gay culture
How can sexuality not be anything but sexualized? And what exactly is gay culture beyond pozzing poopers anyways?

>>9879046
No, I've never mesure myself. I'll look into that. Thanks a lot. Are there any tips for fitting apple body shape in lolita one pieces? I'm usually wear skirts and shirts to accentuate the waistline.
>>9879086
Thanks! I'll keep fighting.

>almost time for our comm to have an inflatable sumo suit fight
>mfw one girl is too fat to fit in the suit

>>9879073
Aren't most female gulls just skinny?
I figure a majority of guys here are either fat and trying to lose weight or were fat and did lose weight though

>>9879105
Fighting oppression is the usual answer they give. Anything and everything SJWs get upset about always, always, always boils down to either "I just don't like it" or "It's oppression."

I have never been given another answer. I become an indignant fuck when drunk and like to make people squirm.

>>9879210
>tfw guy
>tfw 6'1
>used to be 110lbs
>>No ED just didn't eat
>gf at the time mentioned that she didn't find me attractive being so skinny
>had to work on eating and going to gym
>6 months in
>now 160lbs
>tfw no gf anymore
>Still get called skinny


It's all so tiresome.

>tfw losing weight to get Lolita gf
>Lost 16 lbs. in 45 days (249 - 233)
>Probably going to be a bare minimum of three months before I even start to look remotely lean
I'm lucky because I'm six feet tall, but fuck I'm nervous about how I'll turn out

>>9879216
I think you meant to post this on /fit/ my dude

>>9879267
I'm just replying to the contrary that the guys here are fattychans.

>wear diaper to comm
>accused of being a DDLG

>>9879216
well, at least you had a gf...

>mfw parents bought me new releases for maintaining a 4.0

>>9879353
what do you mean?

>>9879354
nayrt but GPA

>>9879216
>6’+
Dude get some muscle and you will be drowning in cunnie juice

>>9879337
Why did you wear a diaper?

>Hit the showers after comm mom gives us sewing lessons
>She bullies us with her milf bobs and says we all have itty bitty kitty titties ;~;
>Tells us to get pregnant so we can goddess physique

>>9879379
next time, tell her that at least your boobs won't get sacky over time

>>9878897
Just cut the butt plug off. Now you have a butt plug and a tail. Congrats.

>male
>gets bullied by lolitas for being male
I just want to be accepted.

>>9879399
just forget females

>>9879399
>female
>gets bullied by lolitas for being ugly

Generally speaking what's the cutoff for how fat you can be while still looking good? I'm aiming to do cosplay that requires a certain level of fitness as a fatass who's only just starting to lose, and I have little perspective on where I ought to be to start dressing as anime dudes

>>9879399
>>9879404
lolitas bully everything that can walk, just ignore it

>>9879409
As long as your face doesn't look fat, you are probably skinny enough.

I'm so bored and lonely and tired all of the time. I stopped finding enjoyment in all of my hobbies, music and media I liked or every other thing I try to do. Almost all my time is spent sitting around for a long time thinking about what to do next, doing it for 5 minutes, getting bored and repeating. No job or chance of getting an occupation for almost half a year. No friends to do anything with, no money, nowhere to go and little to look forward to in the future
I'm not even depressed or anything I'm just so damn bored.

>>9879446
Keep trying, anon. You're the only one who has control over your life.

>>9879446
Life is pretty much just a grind. Work 40+ hours a week for a company that would fire you over anything so you can afford to keep working for that company 40 hours a week. At the moment I'm just part time but man the future looks bleak to me. I hope I have enough money to travel sometime but I'll never have enough time to see what I would want to.

I posted this in another thread before this one started, but it fits better here.

What is it with scammers and this guilt trip shit after they get caught? Every single time, they unload their lives to make YOU look like the bad one.

This was after telling me 3 seperate times that she had sent it out.
Her reasons for delay were
>my post office was closed for a week!
and
>I didn’t have the money to ship it!
When I paid for shipping.
After a month of being nice and checking my mail everyday I finally confronted her and she sent me this. She also had been ignoring my messages until I threatened to make a beware.

I get it, things happen and I’m so sorry.
But tell me at the beginning instead of willfully lying to me for more than a MONTH

Also
>tldr, not to go into details
>unloads entire life

>>9879458
What I'm saying in other words
Don't even bother.

>>9879446
In my case I am depressed, but lately I've been living vicariously through vlogs of people. I find those that live a seemingly more minimalist lifestyle somewhat calming.

Even tho I'm busy studying for what is seen as a respectable job, I honestly just want to marry someone and become a stay at home mom. I know that sounds stupid, but the idea I might one day become one is the one thing that makes me happy.

>>9879471
Is it because you think being a stay at home mom will be less stressful? lol

>>9879473
No it's not that, I know that it's not. It's just something I'd rather do then slave away at a job.
Of course you don't know it till you actually have to do it so for all I know I'll fucking hate it lol

>>9879464
What the fuck. Name and shame this baby.

>>9879476
>you don't know it till you actually have to do
try being an au pair. a lot of people want to have children until they actually have to look after a child for more than a few hours and realise they hate it

>>9879464
I hope you get your stuff and then she succeeds at the next suicide attempt. She's awful and to guilt trip you after the fact that she wouldn't reply until you were threatening to lower her ratings shows she does think about the future with her in it and is lying about being suicidal which pisses me off further,

>>9879471
>>9879476
Having a child pretty much means you will never have time for yourself anymore. Take into account it could become an autistic NEET that will stay in your house forever and shitpost in lolita threads.

I want to be a stay at home wife

>>9879471
Yeahhhhhh I thought being a housewife was a great idea and would make me happy. And it probably would have if I didn't marry an asshole. Don't make my mistake.

I want to be a trophy wife with a secret gf.

>>9879510
>tfw you were raised by a drunk and want to be husband material for a good family

>>9879399
Our community is for fashion. Wear ouji or gtfo.

>>9879471
Yeah, I feel the same. I want to raise our children, have time for cooking, cleaning and decorating, prepare lunch-boxes for my husband, cultivate a garden, but I don't have time.

>>9879486
No. Just no. Looking after other people's children is something completely different than a parenthood. You can hate every other children but you can love yours just because they are YOURS.

>>9879510
How long do you know each other before the marriage?

>>9879471
ayrt, this is odd because this is the exact same motivation for me, except I'm a guy (inb4 /r9k/) and want to be the good husband someday who can provide for his family so that my wife doesn't have to work, and raise my children to be happy the best I can. Though when I said I have little to look forward to I was being defeatist to myself because I can only see myself failing and I'm constantly worried about the future and how much time I've wasted getting not better as a person or coming closer to finding someone, so for me it's not very calming to live like this. I really, really wish I could just fast forward to Autumn when I go to university and am able to do part time work and start trying to improve my social skills

good luck for what you're hoping for, and I hope your depression get's better

all of these followers but no friends to chitchat with me on slow summer days

people suck up to me when i post but that's about it

>>9879009
They sound like basic bitch weebs and not actual seasoned weebs

>>9879575
Why not message someone who comments on or likes your posts a lot?

>>9879464
How long do you have to do a chargeback? I have a bad situation going right now where I've been waiting on a package for over a month and I overpaid about twice what the dress was worth because it was my dream dress. I think I got scammed hard but still waiting...

Sometimes I wish I had more resolve then I might finally kill myself.

>>9879370
I know, I know. I've been told I'm a very "pretty" boy but it's difficult when you're actually an aspie.

tfw no qt 2d yandere bf to couple cosplay with

>>9879617
i have this weird "imposter syndrome" complex that makes it hard to relate to people... and on top of that, i'm afraid that if i reveal too much information about myself to someone like a follower, they'll totally hate me or be disappointed in my personality.

so in the end it's my fault for keeping my distance, but i can't shake the feeling that i'm just not worth contacting anybody.

>>9879657
Do you wanna chitchat?

>>9879661
>offering to chitchat AND posting best girl
i'd really like to, do you mind dropping your contact?

>>9879665
of course, anon

>>9879670
sent! thank you anon!

>>9879575
I can kinda relate, but its not so much I want people to like me, its I want to like them. Would be nice if *I* could look up to someone or we see each others as equals. Not really interested in talking to NEETs who think i'm some sort of god for being a functional adult.
Hard finding people who like anime and lolita, AND are functional adults.
Next month makes 5 years I've been single too. In that 5 years, i've only had a crush on 3 people, and made 2 or 3 new friends.

>>9879446
That sounds exactly like depression though, anon. Depression isn't just ONE rockhard definition. Your brain needs some help. It's nothing to be ashamed of either, because a lot of us have brains like this. Do you have health insurance? If you don't, then get it. (If you're American.) Go to your general practitioner and ask to test for depression. Tell them what you've told us. What your brain is doing is impacting your day-to-day function, anon, and whether or not you believe you have depression, that's not healthy. Go to a doctor and at least talk about what you're feeling. It will be a sense of relief to have taken at least one step towards being healthy. I mean it when I say we feel better when we're healthier. Good luck.

>a couple who are friends with me went to Orlando last week and brought me a SW T-shirt from the gift shop, and it fits well
>they said they thought of me when they saw it
>they also are supportive of my General Hux project
>after some internal drama in my group i've been approached by my colleagues who told me i'm with the reason and I acted in the best way possible

Good feels, /cgl/. :)

DO NOT PURCHASE CIRCLE LENSES WITHOUT FIRST CONSULTING A DOCTOR!

It doesn't matter if you are using circle lenses for cosmetic reasons only. See a doctor about it before purchasing lenses.

>>9879747
i will take this opportunity to share the story of me being an insecure dumbass as a warning to others. learn from my mistakes:

i started wearing circle lenses when i was a really young teen because i hated my natural asian/almond eyes. i didn't know anything about getting measured for lenses because nobody told me that was a thing and they were so easily available online. it got to a point where i was so used to seeing myself with lenses in that i hated how i looked without them. i thought i was hideous and abnormal. this was around the ulzzang craze, i think? i wore them while i was at school and took them out at home where nobody saw me. i kept this up from ages 13-16!

and then i woke up one day and i was literally blind in one eye. i couldn't see and exposing it to any light hurt like a bitch. it turned out the lenses had scratched up my cornea. it took a couple months of treatment and wearing an eyepatch to get back to normal, but my vision is permanently impaired. i'm 19 now and haven't worn lenses since then, but i went to the eye doctor because i noticed my vision was really, really terrible. turns out the frequent lens wear from years prior left tiny scars all over my eyes. on top of that, my eyes had grown a crazy amount of blood vessels because they were being suffocated by the lenses. i had to use steroid eyedrops of some sort and couldn't wear my normal (prescribed vision-correcting lenses) for half a year.

i still have tiny scars that will potentially affect my vision in the future because i was a sad insecure preteen. i can see fine now, but i need to be very careful. everybody here is old enough to know better, so please--consult a doctor first, limit your wear STRICTLY, or even better, don't wear them at all. for the most part, lenses themselves aren't the issue, but it's how lax so many people are about their use.

Can "cosplay" be a noun as well as a verb? I got bitched at for using it as one.

>>9879657
I'd be happy to chat too, anon!
>I don't have any good Sayori pics saved, sorry. But maybe a cat is fine too?

>>9879764
>Can "cosplay" be a noun as well as a verb?
Yes and it's always been that way.

>>9879685
I sometimes wonder what being a cat is like

>friend's 50yo mother messages me
>her profile pic is Kanna wearing a MAGA hat
WTF.

>>9879765
i'm the anon you replied to and totally! here, i'll drop my throwaway for you

>>9879337
>tfw the comm mother gets TWO SCOOPS

>>9879766
>>9879764
The original word *is* a noun, just in English you can use nouns as verbs. Slap whoever told you that (don't really).

>>9879764
Yes

>>9878431
Are you sure they were female? Wanting to suck a crossplayer's dick is not unusual among nasty little NEET males.

>>9878188
Who cares about Japan when foxes are so cute

>>9878279
This is beautiful! Uberfabric uber alles!

>>9879074
Oatmeal, the only known predator of the coyote

celestial mto is arriving to me soon
so happy

>>9879372
Maybe they're incontinent? I don't see why anyone should care whether someone is wearing diapers in the first place, since it's really no different from wearing pads.

>>9879210
You couldn't be more wrong. If you stalk the typical lolita generals and instagram often, you'll soon notice that a lot of them are borderline chubby.

>>9879909
I'm going to assume you and the person claiming to have worn a diaper are both trolls.

>>9879924
Why? People needing to wear diapers is definitely a thing.

>>9879924
>assumes someone is a troll
>responds anyway
>doesn't even sage

>>9879927
Sage isn't a downvote, newfriend.

>But muh responded
It's possible they are just inarticulate. I offered a chance make proper defense.

>But muh bump
I wanted them to see that I said that for a response.

>>9879657
Look, if it were me, I'm a guy who loves chatting up kawaii girls, I'd be thrilled to talk to you, believe me

>>9879957
If you have to reply to a shitpost you shouldn't bump the thread at the very least.
>b-but I wanted them to see me responding to their bullshit!!
Are you retarded?

>tfw studying abroad in Japan for 4 months
>super American look (/fit/, blond hair, blue eyes) so all the Nippon girls flock
>huge fucking nerd and only got into /fit/ness since I'm asthmatic and can't do sports and I like cosplaying (sewing is one of my hobbies)
>literally all the japanese girls I've talked to say their interests are "movies", "shopping" and "music", really boring as fuck

I don't want to sound incel but when all the girls that talk to me are too boring to chase it's kind of like that. I'd rather hang with homies that have relevant interests so it's not all smalltalk.

>>9880011
That doesn't make you an incel, despite what the meaning behind the term might be; incels tend to be terrible people who can't get laid, who then pretend they choose to not get laid.
Anyway, maybe these girls keep their "interesting" interests to themselves so they don't seem "weird"? I doubt they're going to bust out the fact they like animus and mangos on the first date, unless you told them you're into that yourself.

>>9880014
I mean, they ask me what sports I play since I'm relatively built and I kind of escape with tennis (despite that fact that I was the debate captain in high school). I guess they think I must be a football jock.

Then I bust out my insta and show some of my cosplays to them, which should be enough to tide them over and lower their guard. They don't really let loose after that, which makes me think they're really... Boring?

I'm not really hurrying to smash and dash but seeing other guys that get into relationships with absolutely insufferably boring people is disheartening, makes me feel picky that I want someone I can talk about my passions with.

>>9880014
No, japan girls are really that fucking boring on average.

>>9880020
It's entirely possible they're just normies who aren't into nerdy hobbies, which can give off the impression that they're boring.
People suffer through relationships with boring and even awful people just to not be alone; I agree that it's disheartening, but it happens. Doesn't have to be your reality though, and having standards doesn't make you picky.

Oddly enough, there's a discussion in the lolita general about how lolitas tend to have ugly boyfriends because they're into nerdy shit and nerds tend to not be physically attractive, but there are no set rules to this, it only depends on how important physical attraction and mutual passions are to you, and whether you're willing to settle for anyone who isn't your ideal. I wouldn't settle if I were you, I'm sure you'll find a cute girl who will share your hobbies with you eventually.

>>9879471
>>9879476
Oh honey. Being a stay at home mom is anything but a calm life. You basically never get a break. It's much more slaving away than a job because you're done your job when you go home, but not with motherhood. It's on call all the time. My kid is all over me nearly 24/7. It's exhausting. And mine is actually quite independent compared to some other children I've seen.

I know that's going to change quite a bit in the next few years but depending on how many kids you have and how they're spread out, you could end up in that "no time for myself" stage for quite a few years. Daycare is very expensive especially when you've got a single income earner household and it only gets worse the more kids you need to pay for. you might like it though, some people really relish the motherhood role and just kinda bloom and become the most skillful micromanagers lol. But it's even more thankless than working a job for sure.

>>9880014
>I doubt they're going to bust out the fact they like animus and mangos on the first date, unless you told them you're into that yourself.

This is 100% what's happening. >>9880011, you should tell them your hobbies. Chances they might feel free to share their hobbies with you will be higher.

Remember that there's enough public in Japan to have anime target targeted on woman. So they're out there.

>>9879446
heh.. t-try doing that for 6 years! ha!

I like watching silly cosplay stuff like music.ly but so done with 90% of the obviously female cosplayers like salt queen saying they want to be called he. Anyone who can either see, hear or feel notices you are female.

>>9880087
just had a glimce at it. Why would you indulge yourself with kindergarden level entertainment? This is like watching the Spiderman x Elsa videos.

>>9880011
>I'd rather hang with homies
that's just your fragile masculinity talking

My friend is so fucking beautiful and I want to compliment her but I don't want to come off like a creep or make her feel uncomfortable. I feel awkward when other girls compliment me so I usually don't do it. But gulls she's just so beautiful.

>>9880011
Go to fucking comiket. (Or some smaller otaku events.) You can find people with similar interests there.

>>9880185
Just tell her, anon! Next time you see her, tell her "Wow, you look beautiful, I love your dress" or something like that!

It hurts me a bit whenever i hear my SO say "i'd smash the fuck out of her" looking at porn or cute thots. Even though i enjoy looking at it with her a bit it just makes me self conscious af
It reminds me how i'll never be pretty like those girls no matter how much she says she loves me the way i am

>>9880095
I'm easily entertained.

Went to my second therapist appointment and got diagnosed with ptsd. I don't know what to make of it

>>9880235
Congratulations! You're now a part of the pharmaceutical industrial complex! They'll put pill after pill on you until you end up being worse than before. Next you'll have depression and bipolar disorder. I imagine you wouldn't be surprised that you're diagnosed with PTSD if you have it.

>>9880238
There was literally zero talk of medication in both sessions

>>9880242
b-but that's impossible! The big pharma boogeyman is responsible for all my problems!

I always feel relieved when people get called out for shooping their body in lolita/jfashion.
As much as I don't actually think shooping is a big deal and I wouldn't dislike someone for doing it, I have a very messed up body image after overcoming a very long ED. When someone shoops their body into something that looks 'perfect' for me, I get a bit anxious and I don't like looking at their pictures because it brings up very bad feelings that I am still working hard to overcome. I'm trying to lose weight (healthily) and I don't need the extra self-hatred, so when I can think to myself 'well it's ok because she doesn't really look like that, it's all fake and you don't have to compare yourself to her' it is a relief.
However I know that it isn't anyone's actual intention to make ME personally feel bad, I'm very aware that it's my own issue. I guess I can understand the anger around shooping, though I don't want to participate in dragging someone down because they do it. I just wish people would be a bit more honest. Unless you have a very strong self-image it must be saddening to turn yourself into a more thin and beautiful version of yourself through shoop.
I guess that's just my two cents.

>>9880185
ask her if you can compliment her.

>>9880233
>i'd smash
why do people say this?

>>9880233
dump her ass

>>9880233
I've heard this a lot lately and I've gotta say, anon: The ONLY reason to ever say something like that to your partner is if you want to upset them. It's manipulative as fuck and rntirely unnecessary. It's never a lack of self-control - it's a controlled measure meant to be hurtful.
You're better than that. Be with someone who tells you how much they wanna smash you.

>Made redundant at shitty, depression-inducing job* recently.
>Finally in a position to pursue my dream and make money doing what I love.
>My last day is Friday but I'm just sitting here hyped to get home and work on my store.
>Writing/planning stuff while I'm still here. What are they gonna do, fuckin' fire me?

*I already live by myself and have no friends. This job involves sitting in a dark room by myself all day every day, putting parts in boxes. I didn't even realize how depressed it had made me over the past year until I was told I'd be leaving - it's such an insane feeling of motivation.

Sad feel below----

>be me, on Mother's Day
>have no real relationship with family, but try
>brother is a violent drug addict, cut him out of life, to my mom he's still #1 and if I say anything bad about him or his addictions she starts crying and yelling at me
>call parents every week, they don't seem too interested in what I'm doing, their son is #1
>try getting ahold of my mom for a week to make plans, she ignores calls and texts
>finally get ahold of my dad; he's very happy to hear from me, tells me to come over for dinner, that he bought a big sushi tray (totally out of character for him)
>go buy mom a cake and gift
>start putting on shoes to leave, get call from dad
>"she's not feeling well, doesn't want company, don't come over"
>o-okay... She won't even pick up the phone to say hello
>find out it's because shitty brother is going over, mom bought sushi tray for him and didn't want to see me
>at home eating cake alone, buying myself an expensive dress to feel a little better

Better luck next year, I guess.

>>9880233
dump her dont be a cuck

>>9880324
>This job involves sitting in a dark room by myself all day every day, putting parts in boxes.
Ones hell can be anothers heaven. What exactly is the job called? Where did you work? How did you find it?

>>9880327
God family can be garbage I wish there was a way to lessen the sense of obligation. Can't wait to become the black sheep when I come out as a gross tranny.

>>9880328
>>9880303
>>9880324
Talked it out with her and she said she was so sorry and never intended to hurt me and that i had all the rights to feel like i do. She said she just wanted to look at porn with me because she thinks it's cute when i get embarassed. Then she told me me how much she wanted to smash me, listed all the things she loved about me and how attractive she found me then just hugged me and kissed my forehead.
I was kinda over reacting myself since she just meant she finds them attractive but would never ever do anything to any other girl but me. I love her gulls, and i love you guys too but dumping isnt always the answer

>>9880300
Holy shit, anon. Are you me? You even type a bit like me, only you're more articulate. I know this feel so well and completely agree.
>Even though I do shoop a little myself... but I'd never deny it if asked.

>>9880327
>tfw you're the middle child and the odd one out
>For some reason my dad abused the shit out of me but not my brother or sister probably because I was a lot of effort as a young kid due to being aspergers
>left with depression, anxiety, bpd and some garden variety complexes
>I'm a fucking mess while my brother is earning 6 figures and my sister is cruising through uni
>Resent everyone
>They all avoid me because it's awkward to talk about me and my failure of a life
>Working on moving to another country and disappearing

If that doesn't work I'm legitamtely going to kill myself. I hate this.

>>9880235
Eh I have it too, it helps having a support group/people/person that is willing to hold your hand and face the hard events together; whether that be a therapist or your bff/boyfriend/family/etc
>tfw bff and I found my stalker ex (aka the person terrible enough for me to gain a ptsd diagnosis) on fb and spent the night laughing at his equally terrible girlfriend

On topic feels
> ordered a bunch of shit through japonica
> taking forever for everything to come in
>they finally say they can send a shipping invoice
>week goes by, still no invoice
>have to remind them a second time they were supposed to send me a shipping invoice
>items are finally shipped out about a month later
I just want my new blouses

All the little thotties want to be the next Jessica Nigri.

And they all pronounce her name "niggery" for some reason.

>>9880185
You're so lucky anon. I wish I had a beautiful lolita friend.
>Or that I were pretty enough to be the beautiful friend

When my VM dress arrives, I'll finally own one dress from what I consider every major brand. I don't know what my next lolita goal should be. Please help

>>9880471
get Misako to autograph your burando

>Had a massive crush on a girl that I was talking to last year
>She was an awful texter and that turned me off completely
>Havent seen her since the yearly con in my city last year
>Now with a new girl who lives really far away so only get to see her occasionally (5-6 times a year)
>Old girl is now showing interest in me again and has become a way better texter

I love my current girlfriend but I'd be lying if I didn't say the distance definitely is a huge pain in the ass. I'd never leave my current girlfriend nor cheat on her, but I can't help but wonder what things would be like with girl #1.

>>9880185
compliment her!! it'll probably make her happy.
>tfw u secretly hope ur the beautiful friend but ur probably not

>be gull who's posted about having an ED in the past
>complained about all of my clothes looking wonky and sagging off of me
>get a friend
>go to therapy
>appetite comes back
>back to a healthy (though still too low for my liking) weight
>burando fits again for the most part
>look healthy and glowy as opposed to gaunt and tired
>hair stopped falling out too which is a major plus

i really really really hope it lasts this time

>>9880570
I'm proud of you anon. ED's are difficult. I've never had one personally but I imagine it's hell. Keep up the good work, don't let anyone minimize your struggle.

I just want to say that I really love my babygull! She's smartest, kindest and sweetest person ever, who also happened to have super cute face and juicy tits + ass! :3

To make it more cgl-related: finally we've got all materials for our Zero and CC cosplay, so I couldn't be more excited!

>girl from comm shows me an anime she loves
>it's cute girls getting abused
>mfw she's REALLY into it

>>9879769
being a cat is like a psychopath, who doesn't give a fuck

>>9880586
What anime loser?

>>9880011
you sound more like a vocel

>>9880014
>incels tend to be terrible people who can't get laid
>incels tend to be horrible people
>incels
>horrible people
from my personal experiment, they are people who become horrible, cause they can't get laid

>>9880097
they only don't want to put up with the bullshit of women, that's all

>>9880235
>>9880238
>>9880242
as someone who also takes psychopharmaca, I can tell you, they can't force you take pills
(I only take mine, cause my mother insists on it)

>>9880463
at least (or unfortunatly), they don't call her "nigger"

>>9880598
not that>>9880586 loser, but I guess it's one from this session (has something to do with magical girls)

>>9880598
Uuhhh, it's the one where the girl can't get her period after too many punches in the stomach. Idk, cried the whole time.

>>9880598
Mahou Shojo Ore

>>9880626
sounds more like mahou shojo site to me

>>9880341
I almost am glad that someone resonates with this feel. It ok anon, no one hates you for shopping, just if you are making your body dramatically different you might need to take a look at yourself. As much as I would love to shoop myself I can't bring myself to do it in case someone else was feeling like me.

>tfw send email to 3 people about their bst post and nobody replied..
you're selling them for a reason, right!?

>>9880628
That was the joke.

>>9880601
>they are people who become horrible, cause they can't get laid
No one is entitled to sex. If not having sex makes you wish rape and death on half the world's population then you're damaged and rotten to the core, being a virgin is the least of your problems and sex isn't going to fix you.

>>9880376
I'm having similiar problems with Japonica, anon.
I thought they'd been scammed by one seller as they were taking so long to get back to me

>>9880658
It's pretty horrible knowing that you are a complete failure in one of the key metrics upon which men and women judge men.

Not speaking from personal experience but I can understand incel frustration.

>>9880011
Since you're already there try getting into japanese pro wrestling

>>9880687
That whole concept is a lie, though. Whether or not you have had sex has no bearing on your capabilities as a man to accomplish anything important, and in fact, you are going full retard if you ignore the fact that sex is a process by which you have children. For the love of all things holy, you don't need to engage in such a risky behavior because stupid people obsessed with having orgasms think so. Your time will come if you focus on being a good man by other respects.

>>9880658
well I don't wish rape and death on half the worlds population (at least, not always)

>>9880866
>>9880658
Just half? Why stop there?

>ctrl+f "gf" to see how far you have to scroll ITT to come across a pathetic /r9k/ incel revolutionist
>>9878215
here it is already

>>9880658
>No one is entitled to sex.
*No guy (male)

>>9880011
And here's the
>/r9k/ incel revolutionist posts his self-projecting fantasy on /cgl/ (aka the "board where I interact with girls" as he knows it)

God I hate 4chan "males".

>>9880238
>>9880606

i wish they could force me to take pills. they make me feel better but i see shit like this and think 'my life isn't that bad, why should i be depressed' 'i'm using this medicine but i just need to cheer up' then i stop and the depression comes back and i start to spiral because 'im too stupid to keep up my medicine' 'it's too hard' 'i'm bad at this, etc etc depression

>>9880957
>i wish they could force me to take pills. they make me feel better but i see shit like this and think 'my life isn't that bad, why should i be depressed' 'i'm using this medicine but i just need to cheer up'
Illness won't discriminate, and will attack your brain whether your life is hard or not. You're sick and need medicine to get better. It's as simple as that.

Of course, you probably know that already. I hope you can keep up your treatment and feel better anon.

My weight is extremely low but when I weigh myself and see that the numbers are going up I get agitated
Being at this weight is causing me life threatening issues though. god damn it

>>9880957
Yeah don't take medical advice from 4chan. This place is full of depressed bitter people who want to keep everyone they can that way. This place is a pit for people for people with depression which I guess is why I keep coming back to keep hurting myself.

>>9880938
>>9880947
Found the /r9k/ browsing female. You aren't any different from the people you espouse to hate.

>>9881027
Read this guys post >>9880011 and tell me you think it's realistic or fuck off

>>9881029
You replied to the guy who posted it - twice

>>9881044
Too fucking drink for this thread tbhdesu

I should be doing my cosplay but the weather outside is too good

>>9881098
Do it outside then

>>9881029
It's pretty fucking normal for dudes to reach points where they're bored because they don't mean women that interest them. Same deal with girls wondering where all the good guys are. You're overreacting. This isn't a guy saying that all women are bitches and whores or something equally angry and absurd.

>tfw no lolita bff to explore the world with
>tfw too old to explore the world in general
Adult life sucks so much. Suicide soon.

>tfw you finally find a hot gyaruo guy to flirt with but you hear he's a player.

My dream of being a cute gyaru x gyaruo couple is killed.

>>9881195
that's a cute girl anon.
I wish I could have been your bff, if you go through with your suicide please feel free to come haunt me and we can be friends forever and I'll take us everywhere you want to go. I'll even let you possess me sometimes so you can enjoy my youthful, athletic body if you'd like

>sick with some godforsaken virus that is being passed around my office
>achy, can't decide if I'm hot or cold
>lymph nodes trying to free themselves from this mortal meat prison and escape to greener pastures

>>9878851
just look at the project diva models for example, they're different shades, you're fine

>Trying to work hard on a day where there was a fuckload of shit to do
>Have to use the bathroom several times
>Hold in the urge to piss for so long I accidentally wet myself a bit
Good thing nobody could see, but I think my burando is ruined

>>9881259
>Hold in the urge to piss for so long I accidentally wet myself a bit
that's not healthy, anon.

>tfw extreme vaginal dryness.

Does anyone else ever buy cosplay stuff that is quietly normal in public with just one piece? Like it can just look old fashioned, or like part of a tux/dress? I find that best so people don't worry about it

>>9881267
find a hot guy or sometin

>>9881267
Vagisil lube or sliquid

>>9880855
This is a post-structuralist concept of sex which doesn't exist.

Sex indicates your value to society because someone who is having a lot of sex is obviously the choice of many people because that person possesses desirable qualities whether they be qualitative or quantitative.

>>9881341
In addition, I don't claim that sex is a barrier to completing things. Nikola Tesla was a celibate his entire life. But generally speaking sex is not the key to a successful life but it is a symptom of one.

The problem with incels is that they believe it to be the other way around. Instead being successful and then getting sex because others like successful people. They believe if they get sex that will cause them to be successful. It's the same deal with guys or girls who think getting a partner will save them and magically fix their lives.

>>9881341
>>9881346
Sex for pleasure doesn't matter, and yet people are encouraged to be obsessed with the pleasure of it. Incels are hedonist sex addicts all the same as other sex addicts, only they're frustrated sex addicts because they can't get their fix, and your line of thinking reinforces their misconceptions.

The only two lasting impacts that sex can have are a strengthened bond in marriage, and the production of children. Everything else involved is temporary, and you're kidding yourself otherwise.

>>9881366
>Sex for pleasure doesn't matter
ya know except to almost everyone.

It's funny how even these threads are 60% male nowadays, just like /cgl/ itself.

>>9880957
well, then better take them

a beautiful pink gothic lolita

>>9881195
>tfw too old to explore the world in general
you could still do that

>>9881341
>>9881346
but on the other side, even unsuccessful people get laid, so...

>>9881530
what the fuck

>>9881540
Pink is new black.

>>9881530
Like this?

Stop talking about pathetic wasts of space know as incels. They are not worth our time. This if /cgl/ we have begger problems to deal with.

>tfw no lolita gf

>>9881557
Truly pressing matters, anon. Why do you want a lolita girlfriend?

>>9881557
implying incels don't have tfw no lolita gf

Is it wrong to use the bathroom in lolit?

>>9881566
Silly incel, lolitas don't poop.

>>9881566
No, you must strip naked first. Or wear a diaper or just shit on the floor. Whatever.

>>9881558
Nayrt but I just find lolita to be an attractive, cute, and hyper-feminine fashion. I like cute stuff vicariously through a cute girlfriend who sustains herself on cute things (so as to protect my masculinity, since I am dignified and am not exclusively obsessed with cute stuff).

It's like how some people say when you find your feminine side, you marry her. I find the abstract version of this to be true, I know what kind of femininity I like, and it happens to be turbo-cuteness in women.

>>9881595
Huh. That's actually pretty good reasoning; though personally I wouldn't think less of a man who loves cute things, I can understand why others may disagree.
Is there a particular substyle that you like more than others?

>tfw your gullfriend probably ghosted you

Why do people pay cos-thots? There's real porn on the internet.

>>9881657
Ghosting people is not nice.

>>9881595
this this this
I always think pic related when I see lolita irl

My coords that perform well on CoF and cgl don't do anything on my personal insta, coords that do amazing on insta are hated by CoF and cgl. I DON'T GET IT.

>>9881566
>even thinking about pooping in lolita

>>9881566
This board doesn't even think you should fart in lolita

>mfw I low key wish these >tfw no lolita gf guys would see me in public
I'm not eager to date anyone but I wear lolita daily and barely anyone ever approaches me, and while it doesn't really bother me either way, it is nice to hear positive feedback from people who like the fashion.

>make tons of research
>handmade lolita
>ask a couple prominent lolitas for their opinions for said dress
>they seem to like it
>first time attending a meet
>everyone is lovely, have a terrific time
>then find out they made fun of you for being a poorfag even though you saved and waited for discounts to get high quality materials
>idk man. I like lolita aesthetic but this feels bad

>>9881723
Aww, that's sad. Maybe the girls you talked to were just being nice to your face instead of giving you their honest opinions.
Are you comfortable posting a pic of the dress you've made? I wonder if you do need honest criticism to improve on it, or if they were just shitty people (which is entirely possible).

>>9881727
I would love to but these people frequent cgl so I'd prefer not to out myself and agitate them. I lost my respect to all of them either way.

>>9878730
elf is better tho

>>9881777
Oh I see. Well, whether your dress is well made or not, it would've been better if they were just honest with you, rather than talk shit about you behind your back. I'm sorry it happened to you.

>>9880097
>jealous of a dude's bros

>>9881267
most gulls are nintendrònes tho

>>9881195
the world is lame anyway

new
>>9881785

>>9881596
I can't generally identify substyles apart, but I really like more old fashioned Victorian inspired outfits the most, personally.

>>9881670
different strokes for different folks

>>9878778
I'm so sorry to hear that someone else who likes lolita and vkei is going through this. I wish nothing but the best for you. Love and solidarity

>>9880011
I lived there for three months too and was really close with all the japanese exchange students at my school and even lived with them.

most japanese girls watch anime and shit a little bit, they just aren't going to make it a talking point at first.

cosplay might freak some out but not that many.

>>9882310
>and shit a little bit
everyone shits anon

>>9881195
My feelings exactly. Let's explore together?

>>9881704
do you live in tyrol?

>>9883083
Tyrol Austria? No anon, sorry.