/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

The guy I was into got a gf and he's an asshole how do I get over him? Jesus fuck my life is shit I'm so sad and upset

>>9901224
Same except the guy is actually a good guy and I feel bad I missed my chance.

>>9901232
Same except I'm a guy and the girl didn't get a bf she just doesn't know I exist

Man I just really love lolita

>>9900447
>aspiration is to be the real life version of a 1980s tough guy
>grills don't like 1980s tough guys anymore

I want a Ichigo to my Momoko

Man I just really love cosplay

>>9901274
just work out for strength, not the whole muscley look.

I like pretty much all body types aside from morbidly obese and noneck beefcakes. Chubby but also a tank as far as strength/muscle is concerned is pretty much ideal. Nice and cuddly but could also crush me and/or my enemies.

>>9901288
Who the hell works out for strength besides wrestlers and chuunibyou, it's for health and appearance obv

>>9901182
>eating samples at the con
>cough
>bf thinks I'm choking
>tries to give me the heimlich
>doesn't know how
>just wraps his arms around me and double-punches me in the crotch
>mfw

>>9901309
>>just wraps his arms around me and double-punches me in the crotch
nice

>>9901288
But running a ppl is fun

>fill cart on SS site with Taobao items
>somehow can't bring myself to actually make the order
>try removing items, switching them out, adding others
>still feel strangely reluctant when I hover my mouse over the "Pay" button
>it's been two weeks
Does this happen to anyone else? I don't get it, I want these things.

>>9901345
You’re not alone. I do this every time I buy anything online, though the time it takes for me to finally confirm the order varies between a day and infinity (like when shit sells out or I decide against the order completely). I have a job and plenty of money left over for bills and necessities, yet I feel so guilty every time I think about spending money on myself. Shit sucks.

>>9901258
>>9901275
Seconding both.

>>9901345
Try using the budgeting template from the taobao thread to see how much you will pay for each item and include shipping as well. Don't forget to add paypal fees and all that stuff. It helped me get better with buying stuff I want and justifying the purchase and minimizing the buyers remorse.
I also made a pinterest board with all the items I find interesting to compare them and find the ones I like the most. (Mostly because I can't add the pictures to the budgeting spreadsheet)

>>9901182
What's this panel from?

>>9901274
Muscles are hot, anon. I'm 171cm and and like to feel small next to a person that isn't morbidly obese. Live your dream and hopefully, you'll meet someone you're compatible with.

>>9901258
Man I just really love lolita too :D

I've decided to sell a few pieces that I've barely ever worn, they don't flatter me and I don't like wearing them at all but for some reason it still feels like I'm selling my children.
>tfw I love lolita too much

>>9901274
Okay, you got me dying in laughter with that image you picked. See >>9901412, there's still some ladies out there who want their 1980's tough guy!

>>9901419
I feel this feel, just try to imagine they’re going to a home now that will appreciate them and wear them around.

>find older MM skirt on LM
>buy it, fall in love with it when it comes in
>browsing fril
>jsk version appears in similar colorway
>it’s mine now too
I’ve been having really good luck with smaller items recently; I also just got in a bolero that finally matches the pinks of my dresses beautifully. It’s amazing how some small piece can make you fall in love with lolita all over again.
(Pic related is the jsk)

>>9901456
Oh wow, it's stunning! I hope this stroke of good luck of yours continues, anon!

I bought this dirt cheap broken AP umbrella some years ago and today i finally got around to replacing the broken spoke. Looks good. Feels good.

>Been interested in lolita since I was a tiny middle school weeb
>Never had the funds to wear it, been wearing other more casual j-fash styles
>Always dreamt on becoming a lolita
>Been active in cgl and lurking lolita communities for ten years now. Livejournal, cgl, social media, I've seen it all
>Already know my preferred style and have a plethora of dream dressed
>25 now, just graduated college and got a good job on my own field
>Finally a good chunk of disposable income
>Go look for dresses to buy
>Can't bring myself to buy any of them, it all feels meaningless
>Will lolita add anything to my life? Is there a point in buying dresses? Is my dream fucking stupid? Will I just feel like I wasted my money?

It's a complicated feel

>>9901495
iktf anon. I was pretty much in the same situation, except add a few years (had to wait for a promotion before disposable income became a thing).

What finally got me to buy my first dress was seeing the clothing up close and in person. There's a weeb store near me that actually stocks some secondhand burando and I couldn't resist when I saw it in person.

Live your dream anon, you can do it.

>Go to con in southern Italy
>Booth selling lolita shit
>!!!
>Just a bunch of overpriced taboo crap

I guess it makes sense bc not a lot of ppl will go to the trouble of buying something from taboo themselves but it hurts that the only lolita stuff for sale was pricey crap.
Plus side:
>Saw like 7 adorable lolita's
>one was the most precious country style
>they let me take their photos

>>9901502
autocorrected taobao to taboo. Sorry gulls

>>9901495
do it for the frills
I'm in near enough the exact same boat as you anon, age and lolurker status as well. I've only ever been able to afford second-hand bodyline and even then I don't wear it or go to meets because I feel like a cunt in these clothes that I love to look at so much.
I'm a teacher now so I can't wear it if I want to anyway.

>>9901495
Just go for it anon. You've waited so long, at the very least give it a shot.

>spent all day yesterday setting up a washing machine, refrigerator, bed, leather couch and tv
>hunting for other furniture, potted plants and kitchen appliances today
I'm so fucking happy, my autistic man-cave is a reality

>>9901408
The art is definitely Giséle Lagacé's, so I'm guessing Eerie Cuties? Been years since I read it so idk.

>57/60 business days
>Not a word from the brand
>SS told me they don't do "it will take this long" correspondence
>Don't know if they've sewn my damn dress
>Feeling just about ready to send an emal
>Just a little "hey, what's up?"
>Anything I try to write comes out passive agressive
>Don't want to shit on my kind SS
>Also afraid that they'll already have the dress, just forgotten to ship it out
>With express shipping mind you
>All possible scenarios seem bad in some way
>Decide not to send an email
>Left wallowing in my stressed passive aggression on my own

Thank god for the feels threads.

>>9901580
If you don't email them today, at the very least email them tomorrow. It's not passive aggressive to ask where the item you paid for is, and sometimes shopping services do need reminders, it happens.

>>9901499
>>9901522
>>9901528
Thanks lovely gulls, you have given me enough of a momentum to try it out. I'll be ordering some stuff soon, it's reassuring to know other gulls have been/are in the same position.

>>9901182
I'm at the point in my life where I've worked at the same job for too long, and while it pays well, it's absolutely mindnumbing to be here. I've started purchasing more jfash with the raise that I received recently, but not even that makes me want to stay here. Should I just be grateful that I have a job and I can buy jfash comfortably or look for something better?

>>9901652
Sorry I don't have any advice but I'm in the same situation. I have a great job, love my manager and supervisor, have a desk in a location where no one can see my monitor so I can dick around freely once I get my work done. But it's almost 1,000 miles away from my family (moved here for my job). I have no friends and the state sucks in general (shit infrastructure, 4th most expensive state in the US).

I've been lowkey looking for jobs closer to my family that pay the same or more, but haven't really thrown myself into job hunting 100%.

>>9901604
follow your heart chick, if you've got the money you deserve your burando

Tfw look at pics from two years ago when I was thin and cute
Tfw thought I was fat back then
Tfw time to diet but you can't diet without going back into ED behavior that made you fat in the first place

Just wanna fit into brand better

>>9901182
>try out two new cosplays for momocon
>did parzival from ready player one on saturday
>spent a few hours getting it ready and all the parts together
>feeling proud about it
>expect a few people to get it because lol vidya
>only three people talk to me about it

>dress as Swan from the Warriors on friday
>add bruises, cuts, and blood for appeal
>didn't take long to get it ready
>expect just a few fanatics to get an old cult classic
>several people ask for a picture and say they love that movie/compliment my cosplay
The irony is unreal

I was going to buy Cream Cookie Collection OP and ended up browsing other sales online. It's gone now. I'm a retard and forgot to check JP time. My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.

>>9901182
just lost auction for a dream item
it was the best price and best condition I ever saw it in.
it's rare so I'm lucky if I ever see it again, and if I do it's going to be at least $100 more and worse condition.
feels really fucking bad man.

>>9901652
my job is quite mindnumbing too, but I like it. it makes me feel worthy and distracts from how boring and unsatisfying my life is

>>9901681
I'm sorry, that sucks so much. What was it?

>>9901662
I hope we can both find jobs that suit our needs more eventually.

I work at a small ice cream kiosk where every single day is the exact same. It pays well, but my boss is incredibly forgetful which makes my life harder, and I'm sexually harassed from time to time. There's only one person working at the kiosk at a time, so even if I'm suddenly sick, I can't leave.

Let's hope for the best for us both.

>>9901522
one of my friends is a teacher and she wears lolita and cosplays and stuff! it's not impossible!

>>9901673
I feel this, anon. my ED wrecked my life and now I'm a fatty chan who desperately needs to lose weight but can't without going full anorexia again, and I just really don't want to do that

>>9901309
Ouch lol

>>9901495
I was in that position 5 years ago. I’m the only person in my comm who has never worried about making rent because of their hobby. You’re doing it right anon, the hesitation you feel isn’t because your dream is stupid, it’s because you’re finally able to take that step and it’s a little scary to jump. DO IT!!!

>>9901673
Big fuckin relate gullfriend. I'm in a position where I can't not eat every few hrs now or else my stomach starts acting up and I get super sick. I could never go ed again and it low key sucks. But also I guess being healthy and losing weight naturally is better

>sweet lolita

A sweet lolita I met turned out to still be in the "rebellious" phase of life. I thought people grew out of that after high school. I also don't know how she is a sweet lolita and also a rebellious troublemaker.

>>9901716
>>9901815
>>9901673
Stop spending all your money on brand and get a fucking nutritionist and coach

After going to A LOT of cons with my friends and not doing anything fun or wholesome since those retards refuse to meet new people or even cosplay, I'm going alone to the next local con and I'm quite nervous. It's also the first time I'm cosplaying in public and I don't want to look like a retard, just make some friends with the same hobbies as me.
Any tips?

>>9901896
If I just speak to a nutritionist, all my compulsive ED behaviors will go away!

>tfw pass bumhole inspection

>>9901906
That's not what I meant. I meant that at least you'll have someone telling you the right way to do it and holding you accountable rather than feeling lost, helpless, and confused.

>>9901993
Sounds like you mean a therapist, not a fucking nutritionist

>>9901888
all sweet lolitas I've met were either super into the whole ~acting 'kawaii' & innocent, collecting stuffed animals and only watching magical girl anime~ or were trying to be the biggest edgelords & proving how 'badass' they were despite wearing pink frilly dresses, it's weird

>>9901996
Sounds like you don't know a lot of sweet lolitas

>>9901994
I wouldn't trust my therapist to tell me how to eat and get fit, he's really fat. But if you want to do that, go ahead.

>>9902007
A nutritionist can't tell you how to "do it safely" you walnut. A nutritionist can't help with an ED. You know who probably can? A therapist.

>>9901824
Sweets are the most heterosexual lolitas.

>>9902009
>walnut meme
How funny and original. And yea of course a therapist helps with the mental health issues of the ED but there is literally a whole branch of nutritionists who specialize in helping people with EDs. The nutritionist at first plans meals and later helps the person with the ED learn how to feed themselves again once they're doing better mentally. I should know, I went through that whole process when I left home to college and started bingeing from stress. My therapist helped me change my relationship with food but it's the things I learned from my nutritionist that help me stay physically healthy day to day.

>>9902026
XDDdd SO ORIGINAL *tips sarcasm*

You should binge again you insecure fat fuck

>>9902027
Looks like someone didn't pass butthole inspection day...

>>9902017
And who are the most homo sexual?

>>9902033
Classic lolitas, obviously.

>>9902035
What are gothic lolitas then

>>9902036
idk probably satanists

>>9902031
Nice meme you mentally defective little shit

>>9902027
I don't know why I bother trying to talk to people here. Whatever, stay fat and sad then. If you don't want to recover or fit brand that's your choice I guess

>Chad would rather date some stacey who shops at urban outfitters and dresses like shit


LOLITAS RISE UP

>>9902049
>Lolitas would rather date chad
I don't see the issue here

>>9902049
>implying lolitas care about anything other than brand
You can at least try to seem convincing.

>>9902043
>stay fat

Lmao i'm not fat, binge-chan. Keep projecting your deep rooted insecurities onto other people and ignore the deep red to shovel food into your fat fuck face

>>9902041
More like idolaters worshiping an aged visual kei star

>>9901896
A nutritionist is not going to help my body repair itself gull

>shitposting asshole gets the lgbt cosplay thread deleted because they don't like seeing gay people in their hobby
This is why we can't have nice things.

>>9902142
It was deleted because it was off topic. Mods on this board are good and go in and delete practically hundreds of shitposts from one thread if the OP is on topic.

>>9902144
Yeah, the dozens of pictures of cosplayers were not on the topic of this board...

>>9902144
>cosplay thread
>off-topic
wew

>>9902145
Nayrt--chill m8 it's 4chan don't expect them to get it. Just move on it'll be worse if you don't

>>9902049
except not really
>be me, everyday sukeban fashion gull
>pick up a fit 6'4 chad from class
>falls for me instantly because i'm nothing like the stacies he's banged (e.g. not a vapid cunt)
>reveal my lolita power level
>he supports it fully
>constantly fawning over me because i a) have a brain and b) look good
>keeps proposing even though it's too early
>insists on pampering me every day (massages, runs my baths, etc etc)

chads just go for stacies because that's the crowd they surround themselves with desu. something weird is more than likely welcome.

>>9901182
>tfw lolita gf meticulously plucks individual hairs from your shoulders and arms after a shower

>>9902027
OP here, you're kind of a cunt. Telling someone to go binge... Yikes. Sounds like you're the insecure one, since you obviously can't take someone having a different opinion to you.

>>9902146
>>9902145
Then why was it deleted when mods on this board always go in and clean up specific shitposts vs nuking a whole thread?? I know it's hard to understand that certain threads you may consider to be off topic aren't to others, but complaining against the mods like you're doing is against 4chan rules and it just makes you look unnecessarily salty.

>>9902145
Nevermind we'll just make one at some other point when that shitposter isn't around. This board has had successful lgbt threads before and one squeaky little fart isn't going to stop them forever.

>>9902158
>I'm going to directly go against a mods decision because I feel like it

Yikes.

>>9902153
Because people were arguing and someone spammed reports for it and mods delete anything that gets reported enough.

>>9902162
>someone spammed reports for it
>mods delete anything that gets reported enough

But they don't. Plus I was one of the people in the thread saying it doesn't belong and I only reported it once. Why can't you accept the mods decision?

>>9902159
Are you friends with the mods or something? They're just people and people make mistakes. Even mods.

>>9902149
>everyday sukeban fashion
Sweet Jesus I want to be you. I love sukeban clothes so much I would actually leave lolita for them if I knew where to get them and how to wear them daily. I wish I could see your outfits for inspo.

>>9902163
I can't not accept it for that thread, seeing as it's already gone. But we have had successful lgbt cosplay threads in the past, and I do believe we can have them again. Especially if people like you just scroll on past rather than getting all offended.

>>9902165
>are you friends with the mods

No. I just appreciate their decision to keep threads on topic. Including nuking a thread that is better suited for another board.

>>9902163
>But they don't
Not that anon, but are you new to 4chan? They absolutely do.

>>9902169
>I cannot accept it for that

Well that sucks for you, being unable to accept reality.

>>9902171
>y-you must be new!!

Classic default for those who don't have an argument and can't accept the L

>>9902174
Ugh, that's not what I said. I didn't say I can't. I said I "can't not". As in, I have to accept it for that particular thread, but others in the future may be OK. Jeez.
>though to be fair it was fucking stupid of me to write it like that

>>9902177
Why are you dragging this out? Stop bitching about not being able to have your off topic thread.

>>9902180
I'm bored and waiting for some paint to dry. Why are you dragging it out? You could have just let the thread be or just stopped replying to me, anon.

>to keep the feels related:
>tfw it's cold and rainy and the paint on my chest piece is taking even longer to dry than usual

That feel when you've fallen head over heels in love with a cosplay girl who will never know you exist.

Anyone know this feel?

>>9902186
No, because I'm not a cuck

Wow... and you cosplayers say us lolitas are bad!
>tfw lonelita with mediocre dress sense and boring coords
>at least I'm not a cosplayer, thank Mana-sama

>>9902187
Hey I thought I wasn't a cuck either. She's just got such a cute, funny and sweet charm to her that I've never seen before.

>>9902191
one of you bitches upthread literally told another one to start binging again. i don't think you get to feel superior to us

>>9902193
Break the cuck chains that bind, my man
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PP1pmL-fNPQ

>>9902195
At least lolitas know we're gay as fuck, senpai

>>9902198
I genuinely used to think guys who followed model accounts and accounts of IG thots were pathetic thinking that commenting 'ur so sxc bby' was going to get them laid. I still kind of do. Like I know there's no chance on God's Green Earth I'll ever even been within a thousand miles of her let alone even see her in person but it still just makes my face feel warm seeing her pictures and seeing her comments on things. She types like an excited puppy.

I wanna make an ita bag but the fact that they're called "ita" bags keeps putting me off...

>>9902184
You're the ones who dragged it into an entirely different thread to bitch. Shut the fuck up. Boo hoo, mods didn't like your gay thread. Big fucking whoop.

>>9902217
Keep replying, hopefully the heat of your anger will dry this fucking thing faster.

>>9902214
I thought I was the only one!
I want to make a non-anime ita bag but basic fucks won't "get it"

>see a beautiful asian lolita on the train
>also see a fat white lolita at the mall
Are fat asian lolitas banned? When I think about it I've never seen one

>the risk of taking lower pay to transition into new job at animal hospital by starting part-time and moving to full-time JUST to train and certify as professional dog groomer pays off
>boss approaches me and officially tells me they're taking me on as a groomer in training
>going full time with benefits
>recently landed god-tier dream dress
>going to local con at end of month, debating showing the dress off in fashion show, get the fun now of planning a coord
>lonelita but not too bothered by it
>life is good right now
FeelsGoodMan

If you take risks and seize opportunities when they do present themselves, you'll move forward in the direction of your dreams, anons.
>cute doggos all day!

If we get lgbt cosplay threads I want my emiay threads back as well. Membership has been dry since the threads got outlawed and I don’t want my comm to die.

>This girl was majorly cuntish to my friends at a con this weekend
>She had this attitude that she could do whatever she wanted because she was a super famous cosplayer
>Want to tell the internet about how nasty she was
>I can’t remember this bitch’s full name
>But I remember what characters she was cosplaying
>Scroll through several pages of the top posts of the cosplay tag for each character, plus the conventions tag
>Can’t find her

“Super famous cosplayer” huh

>>9902142
Maybe next time don't use so many pictures that look like softcore fap material? Half the pictures you used were lesbian makeout pics and videos.

>>9902257
I've seen a few and they're actually very cute

>>9902287
>tfw face blindness so I struggle to tell people in the same cosplay apart based on faces alone

My friend is going to Japan next year and she's gunna go to closet child for me! <3

Sorry this isn't really cgl related, I just need to vent abt this.. I hooked up with this guy I met through cosplay and we've been really close friends for the past year. We haven't really done anything besides hang out and drink ever since we hooked up. The past few times I've tried to hang out with him he's told me he's busy, but then I find out he was asking a bunch of our mutuals what they were up to. We ended up meeting on ILD and he wouldn't look at me or talk to me. I called him out on it last night and he just gave me shitty responses back (he replied "lmao" cause I threw that in out of habit).

My bday is coming up and my boyfriend, his family, and my family helped plan a surprise trip for us to Vegas to celebrate my bday (I found out today). We are planning to do a lot of fun things while we're there. I'm so thankful.

>>9902308
sounds like they want you to marry, anon

How do I get the attention of qt gay girls at cons when I'm a short femme and can't really pull off crossplay? All the gay girls I see are fujos who just wanna make their yaoi ships reality and won't even look at me twice.

tfw cosplay gf never ever

>>9902313
show them a titty or feel them up, just like in animes.

>>9902311
Both families have met and get along with each other. Everyone seems to approve of our relationship. I would love to marry my bf!

>>9902307
you should talk to him and make it clear, he's obviously feeling awkward about it. Otherwise he might think you're just a one night stand type of girl.

>>9902316
do you think he's going to propose sometime?

>>9902318
We've talked about marriage before. Unfortunately, he might be feeling the pressure because his two best friends have taken their relationships to the next level. One just had a baby with his wife and the other just proposed to his long time girlfriend. If he does propose, I hope it's genuine and not because he feels pressured to do so.

>be part of a group chat owned by this guy (nickname starts with an M)
>don't spend much time with anyone there, but enjoy their company because I've known some of the members for years and they're funny (and there's one person there I really like, but am too anxious to approach outside of the group)
>one day, I find out that M secretly hates me for whatever reason and calls me a "stupid cunt" behind my back (I have never said or done anything even slightly negative to this person, and when asked, the person who told me insinuated that it's just because I'm a girl who never slid into his DMs)
>start to feel uncomfortable, unwelcome and weird whenever M is in group calls
>stay in the group for the few people I do actually feel some sort of friendship with
>mfw I'm hanging out with the somewhat friendly people and/or the person I like, then M and his girlfriend suddenly enter the call
>mfw they stay for hours and dominate any and all conversation, then go quiet whenever I say anything (I've noticed M especially ignores me if I even say "hi" to him when he joins, but greets everyone else)
>mfw they've probably shit-talked me before
>mfw I can't really do anything about it, as he owns the group and everyone else seems to like him
I kind of want to just message M once and for all, tell him I know he's openly shitted on me to others, ask him what his issue is with me, and try to hammer things out (assuming it's not what I'm thinking, ie that it was just because I'm a terrible, awful no-good femoid who wouldn't touch him). I don't really like being involved in passive aggressive Mean Girls bullshit, and I'm tired of feeling unwelcome when I just want to chill with friends, but he seems kind of unstable (by his own friend's admission) so I don't want to cause drama.
It'd actually be so nice to just cut the shit, decide none of this is worth it and start exclusively talking to the person I like, but I'm just too shy. Fuck.

>>9901896
When I see posts like these, I always want to help out. I’m a certified personal trainer and I’ve taken too many “nutrition/health” classes in college to count, and I love helping people reach their dietary and fitness related goals. (I help my friends out a lot in my free time)
Would offering my help on posts be too cringy? I would post an email I could be reached at and there are people that seriously want help I could help them out.

>>9902191
imagine being this tribal over a subsection of a korean coloring book forum

>friend is selling her 2B costume on Fb
>foreigner comments
>"will pay extra if skidmark"
>mfw

>>9902027
Are you the same person that replies 'get help' to everything?

>>9901896
Haha

'Nutritionists' is a shitty guesswork job that's based on pseudo science

>>9901182

>tfw gone from fat to /fit/
>tfw no qt3.14 gf to cosplay GENTLEMAN INSPECTOR HILDIBRAND and Assistant Nashu with

>>9902349
Anon, get a grip and contact the people you like, ignore M, confronting him won't help you.

>>9902035
I can confirm that. Most of gays wear VM/MM/JetJ

>>9902349
Befriend everyone in the group, make an effort to be more social and cheery. Be charismatic and fun to talk to, and get everyone in your side. In group calls make references to inside jokes that M would not be a part of. Start excluding him during your conversations, pull the group away from him as you exude more friendliness and positivity and let his backstabbing nature speak for itself. Eventually make a new group, with just a couple of the good friends. Slowly they can invite more people and re-form the group. Put all of your skillpoints into social maneuvering and take his throne. You get bonus points for being a non-slutty girl, you just have to own it.

What >>9902389 said is equally as valid if you don't have the time/effort to fuck this guy over. I love doing that sort of thing.

>>9901673
Actually me except I've gone back to full ana and its ruining my life and im not even thin yet:/

I love lolita so much that I have the simple dream of moving to glorious nippon and working as a shop staff or something for burando
also just being able to buy what I want online without worrying about ss fees & shipping
but I know I’d never be able to move there unless I found a visa husband online
I know it’s weeby, materialistic, frivolous etc but man I want to live a simple cute life

>>9901555
It is Eerie Cuties.

>work extra hard, do extra hours of overtime to get a lot of work finished
>boss (who is also dad) still yells at me first thing monday morning for something that isn't even my fault

>>9901888
I wonder what's responsible adult supposed to do to their views when they "grow out" of them? Admit their uselessness or something?

>>9902437
Don’t work for your dad. Honestly, been there. It’s never gonna work out.

>>9902205
It's just an act to get money and attention from beta cucks like you.

>>9902360
I'm the OP, I'd love to get some help. I'm not massively overweight but I need to slim down, if you'd like to post an email I'd adore that.

>>9902444
I probably shouldn't but I'm afraid I'm too much of an autist to work for a different boss.
It usually goes well but he sometimes has fits of anger....also it happened in front of almost all of my coworkers wich makes it extra painful

>>9902478
Well she doesn't have a Patreon or any sort of merchandise. She just does it for fun.

So, whatever.

>>9901495
Don't. You will wish you kept it to go towards a house someday.

T. Lolita with a diuble roomful of frilly crap

>>9902214
>>9902218
just call it a pin bag then

>>9902287
probably can't find her because she shoops herself to hell and back and looks entirely different in her online photos

>>9902191
I’d prefer if we avoid starting a civil war. Recently I’ve noticed a slight uptick in anti-cosplay sentiment from the EGL folk here and it’s a bit concerning.

>>9902257
They're as bad as the fat white lolitas and tend to get shunned by the other Asian lolitas

>>9902214
>>9902256
but they're purposefully called "ita" for the same reasons in lolita, because they're so gaudy they hurt to look at
>or your wallet hurts from buying so much stupid useless shit

I've gotten an allergic reaction, so now my eyelids are all puffy. It's been so long since last time and I had totally forgotten how stupid I look. I'm fine, and thankfully I hadn't gotten around to even thinking about makeup today yet.

>>9902506
Dude's overcompensating so your co-workers don't accuse him of playing family favoritism. One reason why it's best not to work for your family.

>>9902349
>>9902412
This would be a pretty solid plan if you can pull it off, and it sounds like this immature cuntbag deserves it. Realistically, you don't even have to go all the way with this. You can reach out to the members you're closest to and propose talking with them in a separate chat. You don't have to go into detail, but explain that M has been making you feel uncomfortable and while you don't want to make a big deal out of it, you'd like to avoid him if possible. If you've really connected with them as much as you think, they would support you. If they don't, they're part of the problem, and as much as it hurts, the only thing you can do is leave the group altogether.

>>9902520
Yet.

>>9902578
You're really dedicated to proving someone is a beta cuck because they like to look at a pretty girl with a sweetheart personality. I could go and have sex if I wanted to, I'm not a bad looking guy at all. I just really don't want to.

>>9902520
Patreon or selling merch isn't a core requirement when costhots have beta orbiters to gift them shit.

>>9902580
She's never requested anything and has denied people offering her money or giving her things. The only thing she accepts is fan art.

I wish I'd saved up for a few nicer pieces rather than buying a ton of cheap ones

How can I stop having crushes on girls in my comm? They're just so cool and pretty. I can't help falling for them.

>>9902591
stop being gay

>>9902591
How can I stop having crushes on instagram lolitas that are way more relevant than me. Can't even comment on their posts because I'm ugly and short and the gap is too wide, I almost feel like some orbiter loser.

>>9902610
No thanks. I'd rather crush on girls than hairy smelly men

>>9902615
I feel this too. But really we should both just do it and comment on their stuff, maybe it would make them happy to see someone appreciating what they do! Especially if they're pretty but new or less popular

How is Love Nikki even related to this board? Why can't people at least post it in the Mobile Kanojo thread

>need trap boipussy
>last year 2 of them literally sat next to me and one in front of me face to face while chatting with his friend
>pokerfaced while on my phone, wanted to say something but fear/autism kicked in

I'm not gonna let this happen ever again, I'm way better now in every way, I'm not going home without a new BF or at least a friend(or some action).

>>9902017
All the lesbians in my comm wear sweet whereas many of the classic lolitas are in heterosexual marriages.
>tfw only gothic lolita in comm

>>9902625
It is a videogame about fashion. Mobile Kanojo games are about girls who you can dress up in fashion if you want, but it's really about the girl. Waifu simulators. Love Nikki never simulates a girl.

Then there's the minor detail that Love Nikki has more downloads than several waifu simulators combined, but that's just icing on the cake.

What you should be asking is if neither game has any place on this board, you sandy cunt.

>>9902641
But are you gay or not, gothic-chan?

Took my measurements today for the first time in a while.
I’m 37-25-40, and I’m pretty disappointed. Dresses almost never come in this measurement, so I guess I’m going to have to lose weight or get everything in custom measurements. I just want to be stuck thin to fit into Lolita nicely.

>>9902645
NYOP but i'm gothic as well and gay with a sweet lolita.

>>9902676
Oh fuck you sound cute.

>>9902381
jesus christ men were a mistake

>Part of a couple group cosplays for the first time, super excited
>Not my first choice of characters but really putting my all into my costumes for both, can't wait to take pics with everyone
>2 weeks until the con and people keep either dropping out or bitching about their character choice after already changing it several times, others offering their character choices just to shut them up
>Some have gone completely silent and I have no idea whether they're actually doing anything or just sick of the whiny group chat chatter
>No photographer/time/photoshoot booked for one group, get brushed off if I ask if we can finalise that

Are my hopes of having a nice memorable group cosplay going down in flames? Does it always go like this?

>>9902617
>lolitas never smell bad
You've never been to a farting contest

>>9902676

>mfw my waist size but gigantic titties and ass

If I weren't in lolita, I'd want those proportions.

I know this is kind of a lame story, but I really needed to let it out.
>be me, male
>always had more feminine/indoors-y interests and my single mom always supported that and told me I should be happy I'm not like the other boys
>isolation got so worse that around middle school I thought I was trans and told my mom
>few trips to the psychologist only made it worse so I just moved on
>start dreaming about cosplaying a couple female characters around that time
>find out about 4chan and /cgl/
>tried making friends at new school but I was in that awkward space where none of the social groups felt right or liked me that much
>got involved with pedophiles online since they liked me and just wanted me to be cute and since everyone else called me a fag I might as well be one
>despite that I didn't actually enjoy any of that and it felt really wrong so I just ended up feeling lonelier after that
>end up in current state; friendless NEET who will never be a cute lolita crossplayer or a normie with actual friends
I kind of want to try and use the summer as a time for me to try and change myself to fit in with the normies, but I don't know if I can muster the strength to cut my hair short, get into sports, cars and all that other jazz.
>>9902427
Same here anon, same here.

>>9902709
Instead of trying to fit in, how about you take the opportunity to try crossplaying? There's an entire thread dedicated to this with resources you could use, plus you can find more information online.
You don't need to be trans to enjoy feminine things.

>>9902709
Don't bother being something your not. Find people who'll accept you for you. Even if it's just internet friends.

Because I kind of feel you to a degree
>Was abused by dad
>Protected by my mother
>Always got along better with girls at school because I'm not bad looking but I'm painfully shy so guys rejected me but girls didn't
>As a consequence of hanging around girls so much I developed very feminine body language and ways of doing things
>Infuriated my Dad to no end seeing his son act like a girl
>Wanted to piss him off because I hated him so I took the girliness up to 11 and starved shaving my legs and arms and wearing my little sisters makeup
>I'm totally heterosexual and love girls
>Result is everyone to this day thinks I'm gay or a tranny in denial
>Everyone I meet in uni ends up asking if I'm gay or just assuming outright
>I don't even speak like a gay. I'm just soft spoken, have very feminine body language and have a relatively small frame for a guy
>Guys reject me because I make them uncomfortable acting so girly, girls reject me because I'm not the gay friend they can treat like an accessory and brag about to their friends
>Only ever made one friend who kept making subtle passes he likes traps but he eventually dropped out

I just want to hold a cute girls hand and stick my tongue down her throat. But sometimes I think maybe it would be easier if I just became a trap. Definitely find some internet friends, they can help a lot honestly.

>>9902725
...Nayrt but you sound cute. Do you still wear makeup? Are you any good at it?

>>9902716
I really want to, there's actually a couple cons annually in the city I live in (surprising considering I'm in eastern Europe) and I know I have the looks for it, but it kind of feels like I'm running away, you know what I mean? Like I'm some sort of human refuse that can't function in a proper societal environment. And besides, people will react negatively to traps.
>>9902725
I have internet friends, but they're just internet friends and I don't have very deep relationships with them or anything, just goofing around mostly.
>Guys reject me because I make them uncomfortable acting so girly, girls reject me because I'm not the gay friend they can treat like an accessory and brag about to their friends
Fuck, this hit me hard. I just want people to stop looking at me like I'm some kind of caged animal but I feel like I have to give up on a part of myself in order to feel comfortable around people.

>>9902732
I haven't worn it recently because it costs money and since I'm a guy I can get away with not wearing it. But I never did anything super cool. Just some foundation, lip gloss, eyeliner, mascara and blush mainly. No ridiculous contouring. I never tried to look like an actual girl just a really feminine guy, think like bishounen. I usually wear circle lenses to uni though because I think they make me look better. If I really feel like looking pretty for fun I will but I am painfully shy and don't like people looking at me and I've been harassed by strangers for wearing it before.

I'm not that cute though and I honestly wouldn't make a very good trap, considering I'm like 185cm. I'd prefer if girls saw me as an actual guy.

>>9902734
Try and make some deeper connections with them. Just say you've been feeling down recently and ask them if they wouldn't mind listening. Most of my internet friend group is just us sending us anime memes to each other. It's all good fun but they always listen to me when I need help and I listen to them.

>tfw you're not a faggot or tranny in denial

>>9902740
>some foundation, lip gloss, eyeliner, mascara and blush mainly. No ridiculous contouring
This is a good thing imo, contouring should've stayed with drag queens where it belongs.
>I'm not that cute
Do you look good though?

>>9902645
Other gothic chiming in to say
>Bi pride world wide

>>9902615
Fake it till you make it

>>9902744
>contouring should've stayed with drag queens where it belongs.
Yeah. Ironically drag queens really make me uncomfortable.

Good as in? I've had my internet friends say I'm a 7 to an 8.5 but they're all guys so I don't know how I look to girls. One even said with my voice and face I could do ASMR for lonely girls kek. I've had girls at my work express interest in me just from rumours if that helps at all? But I'm very insecure so I'm not sure.

My makeup skills are really not that good and I keep it very simple. Most of the time it's just foundation and concealer under my eyes.

>>9902740
>Try and make some deeper connections with them.
I mean, I can talk to them about my issues and it kinda lessens the pain, but I sadly can't place my brain in a jar and live in an escapist virtual reality. Yet.
>>9902742
Sure anon.
On another note, >tfw turns out the lolita guidebook lied to me

My closet has become unmanageable. Just the other day I re-purchased a headbow I forgot I already tracked down a year ago.

I love all my clothes but fuck it's a nightmare trying to choose a damn outfit. Several of these are also old or rare pieces I'd have trouble buying again in good condition. How do gulls keep track of huge wardrobes?

>>9901182
I have heard that sexy cosplayers with Patreons are basically providing a product and "people", by which I mean thirsty lonely virgin weebs, support and fund that product. That it's just a business.

I can kind of see it. If you have a nice body and you're proud and confident to show it off, why not make money off it? And so they do. The problems, I guess, are
>1. When these "people" think of it as more than a business, when they feel entitled to actually talk to or befriend the cosplayer they're supporting
>2. When cosplayers who put in a lot of work into prop making or craftsmanship and don't just show off their bods in lingerie don't get as noticed?

Right?

>>9902725
You sound like my type and I'm a girl. Where are you, anon? Maybe we can meet up

>>9902750
>This humble bragging
God, I'm sick of you already.

>>9902761
Sure, they can do it, but they're on the same level as any other person who does porn and acting like they aren't is where the problem comes in.

>>9902742
>you will always be a white, heterosexual, football, rye, and Van Halen loving American man

>>9902676
I'm the same size as you with smaller tits and I fit comfortably. What brands are you struggling to wear?

>>9902676
>>9902776
Same, I’m 34-25-40 and fit everything but ETC and some MM pieces, and AP and Baby tend to be too big in the waist. Do those three inches really make such a big difference?

>>9902704
Nayrt but my ass is small, I’m all hips. Fortunately it doesn’t matter in lolita.

>>9901888
I know a woman in her 40’s who never grew out of that rebellious phase and regularly posts snarly selfies with captions about how she’s Real and nobody can tell her what to do, take that haters who are just jealous because they have no life!!!! She’s a NEET who hardly leaves the house but every time she does, she’ll have a new story about how some closedminded normies looked in her direction like the boring no-life haters they are, but they’ll never bring her down!!!!1 The comment section is always full of the same group of people encouraging her to Stay True To Herself and not let the haters get to her. It’s fascinating. She’s a sweet lolita (or rather a sweet ita), too.

>>9901546
This really is a good feel. Did you just get your own place?

I'm planning to move out of my current hell (parents' home) within the next few months, can't wait for my autistic woman-cave to be a reality.

>>9902783
What sizes do you usually order? Ms or Ls?

Why so many lesbians around lately?

>>9902860
Pride month/people taking memes too seriously

>>9902843
Always M if it’s an option.

>tfw almost bought a DD through facebook
>seller turned out to be a scammer
>got my money back but fuck
>found another DD on facebook
>seller is acting kind of weird, haven't purchased it yet because wary from previous experience
>asked for more proof pictures
>looked up sold listings of the dress
>her "proof photo" was ripped from a lacemarket listing
Why is my luck so bad with DDs and facebook scammers, help me

>>9902501
Yeah, feel free to send me an email. Anyone else for the matter can too, I’ll help out with your nutrition and fitness goals. You can tell me what you want work on and what you want to look like ect ect and I’ll help you the best I can.

>>9902943
What dress is it? Have you tried looking for it in the Japanese market? Facebook sales are too risky and not worth it at all imo.

Haven't done any cosplay in forever and been going to conventions and cosplay events in normie clothes lately. I want to cosplay something new, but summer is soon over and it's too late to make something new now so'd need to use my regular hair at least because can't order wig now.

HOWEVER, I finally made up my mind, will be going to cosplay school when summer is over, I'm way too old but got no other choice and not everyone hates older people so there's a chance I won't be excluded over my old age.
So I feel really nervous because it's a bad idea in the first place because it's expensive and I worry I'll end up alone while I am there, but I'm also looking forward to really working on my dream cosplays even though that's another reason for worry, people may not like my dream cosplays either they may dislike me for that. But I'm starting to want to look for reference pictures and just don't do anything cosplay this summer but instead be ready and make awesome cosplays perhaps.

>>9903035
Wow, cosplay school? I'm a lolita and I had no idea that was a thing. Sounds really fun, chase your dreams anon!

>>9903041
It's not a cosplay school but it's a one year school where one of the options to do the year is cosplay.

>>9902640
>ftm
>want to fugg at cons
>everyone I meet is turned off by boipussy

>>9903063
>ftm

Damn post office forgot to scan all my packages and won't give me a refund for the now useless $6 extra tracking I paid for every single one.

Some of you are alright, don't visit DHL tomorrow.

>>9903063
>ftm

>>9903063
Pretty sure that's not what OP meant by boipussy

>Ordered from EZcosplay
>Placed order back in April
>Need cosplay by second week of June
>Order status still says “payment review”

>>9903105
Serves you right for buying your cosplay

>>9903088
>realize that OP probably meant trap (mtf) boi “pussy”, and not trap (ftm) “boi” pussy
>contemplating putting myself in special ed

>>9902742
Okay brad

Ugh I know 4chan won't understand my tranny-fag ass but it's a feels thread so whatever

>be me growing up (F)
>poor family, moms a druggy whore
>dad moved away 6+ hours when I was born
>still comes to visit, he's my idol
>finally he gets custody of me
>move to Cali
>learn about jfash
>welp here comes my emo kawaii desu desu phase
>gets made fun of constantly for acting like a boy or looking like a lesbian
>becomes very insecure so I start starving myself to be pretty desu
>move to Colorado
>still getting "you look like a lesbian haha you have a dick!!!!1" jokes
>years later I realize I'm non-binary
>accept my manish attitude
>never outgrew my jfash love

I love presenting as a high femme woman, and I consider myself sapphic wlw but I know the moment I bring up I'm trans to anyone who doesn't know me I'll get bombarded with "wow I couldn't even tell!" As in "wow you used to be a dude?!!'"
>activate intense dysphoria
I just want to look pretty as fuck, my Frills are one of the only things left in my life that give me real purpose. I've been actually taking care of myself since I started wearing lolita, and I started losing actual weight because I have a goal finally. I know I shouldn't care what others think but I don't want potential friends or comm members thinking I'm some a tumblr fuckhead who thinks being a cat is a gender. I just don't id with entirely male or female, does that mean I can't like inherently effeminate or masculine things?

I don't know I needed to get my thoughts out. It makes me sad I'm not entirely welcomed for something I can't really help.

>>9903232
>>>/tumblr/

>>9903235
Tumblr can actually eat my ass

>>9903178
Sense of humor and has a vagina? Please be my boyfriend

>>9903237
Idk from both your posts you sound like you belong there

>>9903232
You do realize that women can be not feminine while still being women, right? What does "acting like a boy" even mean? Do you constantly spit on the ground, scratch your crotch in public and douse yourself in Axe? Because that doesn't make you non-binary, that just means you have no manners (and possibly no sense of smell, if you do the Axe thing).

>>9903232
If I were you I'd give it more time. My own cis-gendered opinion wants to point out that in your situation presenting and identifying yourself as female is just easier. If that's the way you present yourself the best (go you, take care of yourself for lolita) just bow down to the majority's expectations. Nobody will be that upset over a manish woman, but their knickers will twist the moment we bring pronouns into the mix.

>Can't like inherently effeminate or masculine things
I swear you transfags are the most rigid gender role lickers. So much for wanting less boundaries in our fresh post-feminist society. Just like what you like, your gender has nothing to do with it.

>be friends with a guy for a few years now
>get along really well, share a lot of similar interests
>realize a while ago that I have a crush on him
>conversations seem way harder to maintain now then they were in the past
>want to talk to him but constantly worried about bothering him

when will we finally get the option to have our emotions surgically removed, this sucks

>>9903266
What's the chemistry like when you're together?

>>9903254
Lol no I don't it's a feeling way beyond stereotypical "man" behaviors. >>9903258
Typically I don't even mention I am, because of the backlash it seems to get. And I never meant that I can't like those things, I do! And I do it all the time, and I give a big "fuck you" to people who look down on me. It literally just makes me feel weird that because I go by they/them instead of she/her it automatically makes me some tumblr-fuck gender liar q-q at this point it's mostly a nagging feeling in the back of my brain because I want more lolita friends but I'm scared I won't be taken seriously.

>>9903266
nice /cgl/ related feel

We got some heavy /lgbt/ cross boarders in here.
Please go back to your containment board and stop shitting up the threads with your 'let me throw in the word jfash so I'm relevant' blogposts.

>>9903270
it's really good and relaxed, but I feel like he sees me as just a friend
I'm really autistic when it comes to this stuff and have no idea how to subtly show my interest either though so I have no idea what to do without potentially messing up the friendship

>>9903273
>spergs out over this but not all of the trannyposting

>Be me
>26 years old, 6'1 male. Asian recovering neckbeard cosplayer
>Used to weigh 340 pounds, now 220 pounds /fit/
>Super self conscious about being a recovering neckbeard still-virgin
>Too self conscious to do muscle cosplays

I don't want these feels

>>9903275
I'm a LGBT lolita who has lolita problems because of being LGBT should this not be a lolita issue..?

>>9903272
I still want to know what "acting like a boy" means. Please enlighten me.
And you'll make lolita friends as long as you dress well and act like a normal person. Itas who behave like monkeys at meetups make very few friends, if at all, regardless of whatever gender they identify with.

>>9903275
I wish they'd take the hint. Their thread got deleted. But they're too dense to fuck off

>>9903277
>I haven't

You can fuck off too

I'm fat but I want to get into goth and classic lolita. I've already got a coordinate planned from a couple years ago, but i'm scared I'll look ita just because I'm not tiny. I don't want to embarrass myself, I just want to wear cute clothes. :c

>>9903285
I mostly have male friends, and to me acting maculine and doing "boy things" usually includes joining them in things they'd never ask their gal pals to join in on. I'm always a wingman, I'm always asked to go to metal shows, or go hunting or play sports with them. I don't think doing those things make you a boy it's just stuff that is looked at as masculine. Fuck lmao if my boy friends asked me to go with them shopping or do their makeup I'd also do that and consider it a boy thing.

>want to get back into lolita
>hate self
>wardrobe is waiting patiently in closet
>just diagnosed with PTSD (with both anxiety and paranoia as symptoms)
>can't stop hating self

>>9903280
You have
>wheh people don't take me seriously because I'm a trans man that dresses like a girl
feels.
That's an /lgbt/ feel. You're better off finding advice and friendship through your 'non-binary' pathway because, I assure you, you'll still find plenty of alt fashion aficionados that way.
Going the path of just wanting lolita friends is the path of shallow low interest acquaintance-ships rather than relationships.
You'll think you're failing to make connections just because you're trans and not because lolita is full of flakey uninteresting people.


I am not trans, but if I was born in the 2000's I could clearly see myself being 'confused' I was a true cut and dry tom boy with boyish features, always getting into shit and had an attention span as short as boys.
Maybe your brain is half male and half female biologically, maybe we'll be able to tell in the next decade, or maybe you never had someone say to you 'it's ok to be a girl and hate everything other girls like'

>>9903290
I can't find the image I had with all the outfit elements on it, but this is the dress I was going to wear. With some dark brown lace up heeled shoes and some frilly socks.

>>9902725
>I just want to hold a cute girls hand and stick my tongue down her throat
It's reassuring that there are feminine/girly men out there that are straight. Bishounen men are superior, stay strong anon!

>>9903290
>>9903298
Why did you make two separate posts?
You're not going to be ita just because you're fat unless you stuff yourself into something that doesn't fit, wear something of shit quality, or both. Dress yourself well and you'll be fine.
The dress you posted is neither classic nor gothic by the way, it's sweet.

>>9903301
It's sweet? I never would have guessed. I'm so used to seeing pink and white and pastels for sweet.

>>9903304
Lurk more newfag

>>9903304
Sweet comes in bold and dark colors too, it even includes jewel tones like emerald and bordeaux and muted tones like antique pink and beige. Colors are an easy way to tell substyles apart on a basic, surface level, but they don't actually determine the style of the piece or coord, see >>9890818
You don't seem to know what you're doing so I suggest you lurk, look at experienced lolitas' coords and read more about the style before you go for it.

>>9903304

>>9903291
Bruh, I do fucking all of that.
All my friends are men, we all do guy shit together.
That doesn't make you trans, that doesn't make you non binary.
The fact you think all of that can't or shouldn't be something women do at the same level and degree, that women can't be hard pieces of shit too, is probably the worst fucking about you from all the oversharing you've done.
I hate women who over complicate shit like everything needs a fancy label and a shiny name, like you putting yourself in the non binary category at all for 'acting like a man' is probably the most stereotypical 'cis woman' thing you could possibly do.
That, and emphasizing articles rather than subjects in sentences and generally being a whiney cunt.

>>9903241
The question is, do you have a vagina? Dick is ok but not my preference

>>9903308
I never understood trans in that way either. I work with all dudes, friends with dudes, don't get along with women, and outside of my lolita hobby my interests are largely male dominated things like fishing/hunting. I'm still super girly and I've never felt out of place for being a girl in these settings.

>>9903348
>don't get along with women
>pick me! pick me! pick me!

>>9903314
I'm cis female, anon. Hope that's OK?

>>9903366
>>9903314
>/soc/

>>9903352
I don't get it. What are you trying to say? I'm not the personal anon originally replied to, I'm agreeing that I don't understand the
need for distinction.

>>9902765
I'm Australian.

>>9902766
Just tell it like it is.

>>9903299
th-thanks

>Have to get naked to get into cosplay
>Bathroom doesn't have a door
>Rooming with guys

>>9902757
you really need to get some closet organizers that are hanging up so you can see everything. theres headband hangers you can make pretty easily with ribbon and pin up somewhere

>>9903529
Ask them to step outside or like pin a towel to the entrance of the bathroom with tape or something.

>>9902757
Pinterest. I add all my purchases to it immediately.

>>9901495
I mean, you're not wrong. I've slowed down my purchases way down just cause, yeah, it's kinda meaningless. It's fun at first and then it's like, tea parties get kinda boring and it feels a little empty, it's fun to dress up but it's just fashion, enjoy it while the feeling lasts, eventually you might want to move on but until then have fun.

I'm really sick. I can't go back to work, I can't wear lolita nearly as often. I can't really do much of anything lately. I've tried laying out coords on my bed and taking pics of them to post online for fun but it's not the same as wearing them.

I feel more and more tired each day, I'm sleeping more and more each day. Nothing helps. I think on top of being sick, I'm depressed. I had to cancel one of my trips over seas this year, hopefully I can still make the next, but I doubt it.

I feel like I'm fading away gulls. I honestly don't know if I have another few years in me, and I'm scared.

>>9903352
what

>>9903640
A Pick Me is someone, usually a woman, that claims or does something to show that she's not like the other women with the underlying intention to get men's attention.

>>9903637
thats called languor.
what is exercise?

>>9903644
I have uncontrolled epilepsy paired with severe migraines and nosebleeds. I've been advised not to excercise until I get my seizures under control. But thanks for your shitpost

>>9903637
>depressed
Yeah, it sounds like it anon.
What's causing it?
>Jordan Peterson (see meme) is a great guy to look into.
Baby steps anon, but you've got to identify what brought this on and deal with it.

>>9903649
>>9903648

>>9903649
Ahh dropped my pic

>>9903652
Ah, didn't see that.
Do you not have the means to get treatment?

>>9902414
you know if you're ana even if you lose weight you'll just look old and haggard, right? being chubs looks better than being prematurely aged

>>9903655
Me and my doctor are trying to figure out a good treatment plan but I have moderate to severe ADHD and it makes it difficult because being on a stimulant can counter act a lot of seizure medications, but I can't exactly be off of my ADHD meds.

It's just depressing. I can't drive any more, I can't do a lot of things any more. I feel like my independence has been stripped from me.

>>9903659
treadmill anon. good for cardio

>>9903663
Going from 7-10 miles of hiking every day to 30 min of cardio won't help me exercise wise. I used to be so active. Now all I can do is lay in bed stuck in my apartment all day because my family can't be assed to take me anywhere

>>9903656
Being of lean body within the healthy bmi range will look better than being fat or being a spooky skelly.

>>9903674
well yeah, no shit anon. Being a healthy weight is obviously ideal. But if the choice is starved skelly vs. chubs, chubs looks better and is less damaging to one's health by far, assuming anon doesn't reach true obese levels complete with stretch marks

>>9903676
>But if the choice is starved skelly vs. chubs, chubs looks better and is less damaging to one's health by far

AHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA. literally the entire fashion industry would like a word with you.

>>9903678
The fashion industry says that being a skelly is better for your health than being chubby?

>>9903678
>less damaging
This much is true however

>>9903278
I kinda have a weird thing for virgin dudes. Just be honest and you'll find some girl who wants to be your first. They probably won't want to stay with you for long, though, if they're anything like me. I'll be your buddy forever, but the serial monogamist in me wants a new relationship bout once a year.

>>9903292
are we the same person?

>>9903680
>being this dense

>>9903681
Long term being a bit underweight is less damaging than being a bit over weight.

>what is science and medical studies

>>9903678
literally not a single normal non ED-suffering person thinks high fashion models look "good" let alone healthy... I'm really not being sarcastic or mean but you should get help.

>>9903690
>literally not a single normal non ED-suffering person thinks high fashion models look "good"
>G-get help

You are so very very wrong. People wouldn't strive for that level of beauty or use them as models if they didn't think so. But keep being delusional, fatty.

>>9903689
>a bit underweight
Not spooky scary skelly underweight anon

>>9903692
My BMI is 17.9 and I'm a recovering anorexic. Seriously anon, that's some disordered thinking right there. People strive to look like actresses and curvy instathots, literally only ED-prone people and flaming faggots/skelly fetishists find high fashion models' characteristic thinness appealing.

>>9903693
How does this change what was said? At all??

>>9903694
>Projecting your own admitted mental disorder on others

You should be focusing on recovering instead of trying to police people on the internet before your thighs start to touch again.

>>9903529
>Bathroom doesn't have a door
...where are you staying in which the bathroom doesn't have a door?

>>9903697
>backpedaling this hard
I feel like you'd fit in a bit better over at mpa.

>>9903699
>continuing to project this hard

Maybe you should projectile vomit that food you are 3 hours ago into the toilet instead

>>9903704
Huh?

>>9903695
we're talking about skellies and chubby people anon like hovering under/around the overweight area, not hambeasts. if you seriously think somebody with a 25 bmi is worse off than a skelly then you're fucking retarded

>>9903704
that anon was anorexic you retard. now you're the one who's projecting

>>9903695
They're saying it's unhealthy to be a skelly anon, not just a couple bmi points.
Also, being a bit overweight, not obese, does actually carry into being overall healthier.
In general, the prescribed is where you want to be, but a little over is slightly more beneficial than being a little under.
We're talking the difference of getting sick one less time, it's very subjective and individual.
Nutritional science is again, as I've said before, mostly guesswork, and the BMI and other weight scales for what is 'healthy' and 'not healthy' isn't an end all be all for every person.

>>9903704
>>9903697
is this the same anon who was shitting up the lolita general?
if this is C, please end your life! if not, enjoy shitposting

>>9903708
>Also, being a bit overweight, not obese, does actually carry into being overall healthier.

Fat fuck confirmed

>>9903709
Not C. You should kys tho

>>9903708

Sorry, that study that showed overweight bmi was healthier was debunked. It was found that they had enlisted a bunch of people with cancer and diseases that cause you to be underweight, thereby skewing the findings. They didn't account for that. Moral of the story is that JAMA has great quality control and you shouldn't trust everything from renowned medical journals without a pinch of salt.

>>9903711
why are you so angry, anon? what could've happened in your life that's so bad

>>9903710
Please learn how to read, skimming for troll posts is unbecoming
>Nutritional science is again, as I've said before, mostly guesswork, and the BMI and other weight scales for what is 'healthy' and 'not healthy' isn't an end all be all for every person.

>>9901274
>1980s tough guy
Patrician taste. We need to bring back this look

>>9903529
can you and your dumb fetish just fucking leave

>>9903719
t. fatty

>>9903533
>>9903698
You guys are really gullible huh.

>>9903735
Don't think so. I've been in hotels that didn't have bathroom doors to keep a more open floor plan.

>>9903733
A nice and healthy 25 with stronk thighs you wish you had wrapped around your face.

>>9903721
>not Don Johnson of miami vice

pleb fattieww

>>9903739
>Helathy BMI
>lists an overweight BMI

fatty confirmed

>>9903637
I've got fibromyalgia and other not clearly diagnosed problems (rheumatoid arthritis,lupus) and things have been getting worse for me as well. I take naps for 3-5 hours on my days off from work. It's hard working each day to my end of shift. I use either a cane or a wheelchair when I go out. I can't clean my own house anymore. It's hard to function.

Just keep going, anon. I believe in you. It's some rough shit. I've developed an alcohol problem, but I'm trying to get it together. My husband sometimes helps, sometimes hinders. He tries.

>>9903739

I’ve got a few /cgl/ related feels

>tfw I saw a really really beautiful girl on the cosplay recommendations thread who ,based on her next cosplay ideas, has a decent amount in common with me and the ones I posted about wanting to do. But idk how to compliment her and maybe ask chat with me on discord or something without sounding like a neckbeard or a total fucking creep
>tfw want to cosplay Minato but don’t know any Qt Kushina cosplayers in Central FL
>tfw was keeping up with that really ominous and depressing child trafficking thread over on /pol/ hoping that somebody gets brought to justice but I just ended up falling asleep and having a nightmare about getting kidnapped walking from the con to my hotel (not really the prime target for kidnapping since I’m a 6’0 tall dude but still)

>>9903745
>>9903743
I lift bro

>>9903755
Unless you are at a competitive body builder levels of "I lift bro" you're still fat

>>9903744
seriously look into leaky gut syndrome if you haven't already, and do your best to change your diet to see if it helps. it worked for me and my sister (i have hypothyroid and she's been diagnosed with fibro and rheumatoid arthritis)

>>9903768
Hm. I have 3/9 of the issues mentioned for leaky gut, but it doesn't seem like it quite fits. I don't consume much gluten. I appreciate your suggestion though, anon. I'm thinking of trying keto to see how that works.

>>9903765
Is what it is anon, medical professionals all my life have been happy with my weight for my height, and my leg press is fucking impressive.

>>9903771
You won't always have all of the symptoms. I only had one. I do keto though and I definitely recommend it. Especially if you do your best to eat healthy and low carb, instead of the people constantly cramming butter and ranch and cheese in their pieholes. Eat good meat, drink bone broth, get your carbs from green leafy veggies, and make sure you eat healthy fats. it helps in so many ways. Good luck anon.

>>9903689
It depends. I.e. being a bit chubby id better during the menopause because of hormones produced by fat. It can protect you from the osteoporosis.

>>9902725
>tfw always wanted to wear makeup
>but don't want to be judged as a faggot
I just want to look better man...

>>9903649
>Jordan Peterson
Now I know you're trolling

Why do “cosfamous” people always seem to make the worst roommates? I don’t care if you think you’re hot shit on social media. Keep your shit somewhat tidy, don’t touch other people’s shit without asking, don’t charge shit to the room without the room host’s permission, and pack your shit and leave in time for checkout. If you can’t follow simple rules and be courteous, go e-beg for enough money for your own room.

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>>9903824

>>9903833
Clean your room