/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Just found out that two of the other maids in my local con’s upcoming maid cafe are super racist. They were spamming the group chat with talk about various ethnicities they disliked. First a ton of uggos join and now this, I’m starting to consider quitting this cringe fest.

>>9951303
Post screen shots. For all we know, they's
re "racist" against your speshul 666gender or something. Weeb is not an ethnicity.

When a girl in your comm puts a dildo on the teapot and acts like we're supposed to laugh.

After dealing with sexual harassment from my superiors, and then getting kicked out of the military for reporting it, I decided to really try with my art since it really seemed like my last and only option.
I’ve finally picked up and my Etsy store has only been open for four months and I’ve already hit 500+ orders, and I’ve only got a few items available so far, and I’m planning for so much more. I’m making so much money now it’s nauseating, and now I can finally buy all the Lolita dresses I want! I wanted to go to college, but I think I’ll just focus on my art for a few years because I think I really can become something.
This is literally a dream come true! I’m so proud of myself and I wish I could tell someone that, but I don’t have many friends.
So thank you /cgl/ for always being there for me.
I was at such a low time in life after the military issue, I literally just cried all day and stayed depressed. But now things are finally looking up! My dreams can come true!

>>9951312
This is so sweet! I'm super happy for you. I wish you a ton of success!

>>9951312
That's really sweet anon. Congratulations!

>>9951312
I'm so happy for you anon

>>9951301
Put on fat during bulk for cosplay feelsdietman

>>9951312
Also congrats, seriously.

I let go of what I learned were some really toxic lolita friends, am getting rid of all but the most special dresses, and left lolita for good. I’ll still wear the ones I’m keeping but I’ve kinda grown out of it and moving on to better things.

It’s been a great decade gulls, so long and thanks for all the fish!

Tfw a girl ridicules your bf for jerking off to anime.

>>9951301
Pic or didn't happen

>tfw had countless fictional crushes as a young girl
>started crushing on real people a few years ago
>"oh good, I finally grew out of that"
>fast forward a few years
>have acquired several new husbandos and forwent relationships with real people
>only mildly interested in cosplayers who dress as my husbandos
>fictional master race all the way
I'm a mess, gulls. A-at least this means I won't have to explain my lolita to an actual guy, my husbandos will always love me no matter what.

>>9951359
Idgi.
Do girls not masturbate to anime too?
Then why are there so many yaoi doujins?

I'm never leaving another review on a product until I wash it ever again, I washed an ivory blouse I bought and it came out pure white. Disgusting.

>>9951312
I'm so happy for you, I hope it works out for you you deserve this anon!!!

I need a cute boyfriend so badly, con is next week, I'll fall in depression if I dont find one.

gf would also be fine, kind of, maybe.

>>9951312
What kind of items do you sell, do you feel comfortable sharing a link? I’m proud of you for making it through as someone who was also kicked out of the military. (Mine was a med board though) I’d love to support your shop!

>Leaving for con tomorrow
>Mom asks if I have enough money
>Yes, I've saved up, I'm not a kid
>She says she found an old savings account in my name
>Transfers my money to me
>Like finding 400$ under the couch

Here's to hoping I find some of my dream merch at the con.

>>9951357
you're not french are you?

>>9951303
Receipts or it doesn't count.

>>9951303
sounds like a great group, youre probably one of those unwanted itas

>>9951428
I'm the same way but with idols.

>>9951476
I just don't feel anything for 2d. Girls who like yaoi should also be ridiculed desu.

Reminder that these threads are literally made by a discord full of crossboarders. They're the people who spam bait and off topic threads all over the board and somehow mods let them stay in here to organize.

>>9951548
brainless ita

>>9951548
Invite please

>>9951538

Man I just really love cosplay

>>9951538
hurr everyone that doesn't like the same things as me should be ridiculed

>>9951529
Nope! I’m from burgerland. The drama and subsequent cutting them out of my life was private.

>>9951577
No, just the ones that objectify and fetishize someone else's sexuality

>>9951577
Yaoi is awful and fujoshi need to go and stay go.
I have so many shitty memories if then girls trying to pay me and my friend at cons to kiss and ruining the entire rest if the trip
Not to mention the paddles

Let me tell you a story of dumbassery and redemption, gulls

>go to party in beloved velvet dress, get drunk, spill shit on it
> rinse it off and resume partying
>get home, take dress off, throw it in hamper because too drunk to make good decisions
>wake up in the morning, velvet looks like shit
>ohno.jpg
>look it up on the internet
>"you done crushed the pile, you fucked now"
>after I've washed the dress (yes, I handwash velvet, I've washed this particular dress before and it's been fine) I hang it up and try to softcore steam with iron as recommended on the internet
>it does absolutely jack shit
>cry forever but keep dress even though it's unwearable

BUT THEN

>get steamer for birthday
>apprehensively try it on dress, using the brush attachment to try to brush the pile back
>holy shit it's working

It still doesn't look as good as it did before, and I suspect it never will, but it's actually wearable now and looks so much better after just 10 minutes of steaming it. I can't believe I didn't get one of these earlier.

TL;DR: I'm a dumbass who doesn't take good enough care of her dresses but it worked out in the end thanks to the magic of steamers

>>9951614
Mte. They're just as bad as straight men treating lesbians as porn irl

>>9951630
I don't think I've seen guys actually do that. They don't go up to girls and ask them to kiss. Stright girls kiss and do Yuri bait photoshoots to get attention though, which is something most straight men would never do.

I already have enough of a problem with my Christian family hating cosplay, I don't need to show up in yaoi blogs and fetish captions on top of that.

>>9951630
come back and say that when there's a Yuri paddle guys buy and smack girls upside the head with

>>9951639
I don't go to cons, but I've been outside with my girlfriend and had random dudes film us and scream at us

>>9951645
We're talking about on-topic stuff here anon, not that some mouth breather on the street in your city once looked at you weird.

>>9951646
Kys

>>9951303
lmao that's awesome

>Bought secondhand cosplay of a character I dressed up as years ago but had to sell the original costume for textbook money
>package arrived Monday when it was bought Friday before, excited about how fast it arrived
>details on costume are made with craft foam stuck on with double sided tape
>measurements given were also wrong
I should've known it was too good to be true.

>>9951646
Can't believe 3 letters got deleted but this bait stays

>>9951680
>Bait
>Anon talking about cons
>"I don't go to cons, but some guy looked at me and my gf once and that was creepy"
It's simple, stay on topic and your shit won't get deleted

>talk to qt in artist alley
>we talk for awhile
>she mentions doing stuff with her partner
I hope she meant artist alley partner or something and not a SO.

>>9951693
Are you blind? The off topic comments are still there

>>9951652
>>9951534
>>9951533
200lb ita edgelords in their feelings

>>9951476
yaoi doujins aren't read for sexual reasons, it's popular in the same way twilight is. sooo cute! forbidden Love!

>>9951496
this happened to me recently too! my tax returns were going to muy mother so she sent them all to me- ez 700 buckaroos

>>9951638
>>9951639
>acting like a con is an example of real life
>acting like guys don't jerk off to lesbian porn & don't ever harass or bother lesbians

>tfw depressed
>tfw the only thing that makes you happy anymore is cute clothes that you can't even bring yourself to put on so you can look/feel cute in them
>tfw you've started to comfort eat and are too scared to weigh yourself in case your ED tendencies creep up again
>tfw you suddenly, randomly burst into tears while in call with friend(s) on Discord, and have to act normal and fake laugh (thank god for push to talk)
Why is everything so bad?

>from a cold climate
>summers are mostly around 20°C, it's rare to weather be over 25°C
>it has been +27-33°C for weeks
>feel like boiling most of the days
>mfw miss lolita so fucking much but just can't wear it
>this is going to last for atleast two more weeks, probably even four
I just hope my body would adjust to this already. I feel so ill and tired all the time and don't have any strength to do anything during days. I just want to wear summery coords but I can't make it out at day time in crop top and shorts so it's impossible. Fuck this shit, atleast I will remember to enjoy properly when it's -30°C again. Happy feels:
>bf has a birthday
>will go to this great ice cream place bc he gets a free ice cream
>got him a present which includes his waifu and I'm so excited to give it to him and see if he likes it

>>9951616
What kind of steamer is it? I am looking for one myself.

>>9951837
This particular one is Philips Steam&go GC361, which I guess is midrange price wise. I'm very happy with it, but I've heard several people saying that even really cheap steamers can be pretty good, so I'm not sure if it's worth the extra money compared to those.

>>9951303
based and redpilled

Man I just really love Jojo

>>9951863
>le racism pill xddd
Fuck off, crossboarder.

>>9951868
Not based and bluepilled

>>9951811
50 shades of grey was born from twilight

>>9951638
>They don't go up to girls and ask them to kiss
They literally do

>>9951409
Getting in trouble for wearing a thong or diaper to tea is a common shitpost here.

>>9951616
so happy reading this. I've had so many clothes ruined at parties or otherwise so hearing about a successful resurrection is nice

>>9951834
Exact same situation here, anon. I hardly have enough clothes suitable for this weather so I’ve been wearing the same 5-6 normie outfits week after week. All my favourite dresses are velvet or wool blends. I can’t wait for the weather to cool down so at least I can start wearing layers again. Having nothing between my underwear and my outer clothing feels so unnatural. I feel like a gross ita even when I’m not wearing lolita.

>>9951892
I have never seen it and it has never been brought up in any of the con threads we have on here, it's always fujoshi smacking people with their paddles and trying to get guys to kiss for their ships

>>9951889
Fuck off, crossboarder.

>>9951904
Cringe and bluepilled

>>9951904
it's a literal meme at this point, calm down sperglord.

>>9951907
>>9951910
>he replied twice
>to a post saying the same thing twice, actually referencing an already established meme on the board
Crossboarders are embarrassing

>>9951915
Bluepilled af

>>9951917
>Heh....no one will notice me editing a (You) out of a screencap...
Cringe.

>>9951897
>Having nothing between my underwear and my outer clothing feels so unnatural. I feel like a gross ita even when I’m not wearing lolita
God I hate this too. I don't like revealing clothes at all and I feel everybody is stearing at me. I'm not even fat but I hate how I look in shorts. I just want to cover myself but I can't take the heat.

>>9951903
I think men at cons tend to be a bit more progressive, you don't see the same type of guys there that you'd see at a sports bar, asking if you want to do a threesome as soon as they find out you're a lesbian/bisexual. Now girls just need to realise that "cosplay is not consent" also applies to the guys cosplaying someone they "ship".

>>9951897
>wearing panties with normie clothes
WHAT THE FUCK

>>9951918
My shop skills aren't that good.

>>9951931
Based and redpilled

>>9951923
The problem with that is young teenage girls will get away with most shit. It's why cgl is allowed to be so sexist against guys and why girls will go up to people at cons and honk their boobs or grab at them.
Eventually they won't be young and pretty and be able to get away with it, but then they're replaced by the next generation of edgy 19 year old cosplay girls

>>9951940
They only get away with it if nobody speaks up. Yeah you might get attacked at first, but so do all the girls saying cosplay is not consent.

>>9951945
If you have a ''cosplay is not consent'' panel at your local con you should ask them to educate fujoshi

>>9951940
young teen girls are the group that's most likely to listen to older men though. whenever i see/hear fujoshi treat men like a fetish or try to touch them i speak up, but i'm just 1 person and there are still tons of men that'll call you a fag if you don't appreciate all female attention. so i make up tons of examples of gay men getting harassed by yaoi fangirls (i'm sure it happens, i just don't know any gay men, but teen girls like that want to fit in with the ''woke'' crowd so they don't want to do anything that offends gay people).

Buyers like this make me rage. The lowest price in my auction OBVIOUSLY.

I've been deliberately misbehaving at cons just so my bf will spank me. Am I a bad loli?

>Have one year wedding anniversary coming up in October.
>Husband and I are going to universal studios for our honeymoon finally.
>Taking anniversary pic in front of Hogwarts because we're both huge fans.
>Wanna look super nice and do a Slytherin lolita coord.
>Don't even know how to lolita.

>>9951962
People who ask for the lowest price instead of making an offer piss me off in general. It just seems rude. I usually ghost them or refuse even if I wouldn't mind to go lower.

>>9951931
>taking a sideways picture of your own edited screencap
>"proof"
Peak crossboarder IQ

>>9951962
Look, I don't mind if someone makes a reasonable offer, but people like the one from the screenshot just want to low ball. Cheapskates.

>>9951979
Don't do fandom coords if you don't even know how to coord on a basic level. Put together a nice Slytherin-inspired outfit out of whatever style you wear, it's possible even if all you wear is normie clothes.

>>9951979
why are you going to do that if you don't have lolita clothes? Violet Fane did a wizard school print in the 4 house colours.

>>9951998
Violet Fane's quality is generally shit though.

>>9951962
I hate this shit, it's the fucking worst. Especially with other sites that are full of normies and wannabe "kawaii" kids
>Lowest price you'll take?????
>Would you take $6 shipped for a skirt??
>Swap???
>where did you get this item?

>>9951999
she has improved a lot according to some people who just buy her stuff for the prints

>mfw might be moving to a hot climate in the next two years or so because of bf's job
>thing I'm the least thrilled about is that I won't be able to wear my extensive collection of lolita coats

I prepared so much for sub zero weather and now we may be going somewhere where it barely goes below 40 F ugh.

>>9952003
>>Swap???
literally nothing wrong with this. i got 2 of my dream dresses through trades. sometimes people don't want to get rid of a rare dress for money but they'll do it for a print they'd been looking for. i also traded a lot of ''boring'' dresses because i bought them years ago when they still whent for 300 euro, if i put them on sale now i would get maybe 50 or 100 for it? so i prefer to trade them for things i wear or need to complete a coord.

My big brother says he wants to hug a sad lolita, and I'm not sad lol. Any takers?

>>9951995
I mean I'm pretty good about putting things together fashion wise and I have been lurking for years. I guess I am just afraid of looking like an ita.

>>9951998
I thought this would be a perfect opportunity to buy my first pieces. I didn't want to do anything super in your face. Just work with the basic colors so I could wear the pieces with other things later. Just do basic green, black, and accent it with silver accessories. Maybe the tie if it doesn't look too shit with it.

>>9952010
Do what you can and if you're really worried about looking ita, either don't tag your pics as lolita or don't post them online at all.

>>9952008
I should've clarified
I usually get that from people who want to swap some ugly old normie clothes or some used dirty shoes for say an AP skirt

>"Dude, my con crush just turned 18!"
>"Aren't you almost 30?"
>he just laughs and starts dabbing on me
Should I help him, gulls?

>>9952069
>starts dabbing on me
he is lossed forever

>>9952069
Put him down gently anon, it's inhumane to kill an incel any other way

>>9952010
I would just get a secondhand black skirt, weather appropriate blouse that fits well, and get some harry potter stuff to accessorize

And a petticoat and bloomers
>>9952087

>>9952069
I wish I could go back in time and murder the living shit out of Cam Newton before the 2015 season, so dabbing would have never become a thing

>>9951476
don't believe them, I'm female and I jerk off to porn and sometimes hentai when I feel like it. Mostly yuri tho bc I get how it feels. I watch yaoi and gay porn out of curiosity, bc it's something I can't experience.

>>9952094
i guess if 1 female does it all the other females do and think the same way

>>9951638
>I haven't experienced something therefore it doesn't exist

Where I'm from literally every con has at least several creeps trying to talk girls into doing yuri bait poses and other creepy shit for pics, and hardly ever see girls do it to guys - but I have seen (presumably) straight guys do yaoi bait for attention. If you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

>>9951975
>I've been deliberately misbehaving at cons just so my bf will spank me.
Keep that shit in your bedroom, stop ruining other people's con experience

>Am I a bad loli?
Not gonna play into your fetish, roleplay-kun

>>9951638
I dont know, I'm a boy and I wouldn't mind doing a picture like that. I just dont think a lot of guys would be okay with something like that.

>>9952101
i guess if 1 female doesn't do it all other females don't and the one that does is an anomaly
also no not one, many of my friends jerk off to porn too, I'd suggest you ask your friends about it too but you might be too young to be discussing sex

also claiming people who jerk off to porn in any format should be ridiculed is horseshit and hopeless. There will always be a demand and concequently a supply for sex work, the best we can do is make it as ethical as possible.

>>9952084
He's not an incel. He's tall and baby-faced, so he can get barely legal girls.

>>9952087
Aww this is adorable, I love the simplicity but you can clearly tell the theme

>>9951837
>>9951849
Just a heads up read some reviews before buying one and don't go for the cheapest ones - they are prone to gathering condensation and then spitting out water droplets along with the steam, and some fabrics get stained by water and need to be washed to get the stains out. I have a pretty good Rowenta steamer and I've never had this issue.

>>9952114
Nayrt but where did someone say anything about "all females" or "no females" do this? Btw I don't think you're doing the most to only view ethical porn desu.

>>9952069
I would constantly feel nauseated if I was hanging out with someone who crushes on minors

>>9952115
>He's tall and baby-faced, so he can get barely legal girls.
he sounds mega gross

>>9952111
I was working at the Disney Store once, and I saw some DDLG bitching about how her daddy wouldn't buy her an Elsa doll. He was threatening to spank her in front of everybody.

I shooed them the fuck out, and ended up leaving that job after a fellow employee got mad and dumped bleach on some Sheriff Woodys.

>>9952128
>a fellow employee got mad and dumped bleach on some Sheriff Woodys.
wut

>>9952125
He sounds like me.

I... I'm not gross.

>>9952139
>gross city
>population you
stop perving on underage girls.

>>9952149
>is a weeb
>doesn't respect the Japanese age of consent, 13

>>9952149
Barely legal is not underage.

Finally lost enough weight to firm in my brand again, but it’s bittersweet because I have to leave lolita since that weight was lost through a chronic illness. At least I’m getting lots of money to buy clothes that fit and I saved some dresses I will wear in a nonlolita way when I recover more.

>>9952149
>>9952165
18 is just the age to do porn, most places have an age of consent from 14-18 depending on country/state. Pretty sure it's 16 here in maplesyrupland.

>>9952159
>is a weeb
>doesn't know that Japanese age of consent is higher in each and every province

>>9952217
>is a weeb
>doesn't know they're prefectures

>>9952159
>>9952217
Japan generally prohibits sex with minors under 18, 13 is for "romantic relationship approved by parents" (IMO it's to legally support arranged marriages since those can be agreed on by the families for literal kids but I may be wrong), and yes, different provinces have different local laws too.

>>9952119
I don't actually have a "one woman => all women" stance, quite the opposite, I was merely mocking >>9952101 's attempt at sarcasm that completely missed my point. I wasn't trying to say that all women do this or that, I was just answering >>9951476 's question and then >>9952101 started jumping to the wrong conclusions.

>Btw I don't think you're doing the most to only view ethical porn desu
Ethical porn I could find was all paywalled and I'm sorry but I don't get paid enough to pay for porn. In any case my consuming non-ethical porn doesn't negate the fact that kinkshaming people is dumb and will get you nowhere.

>>9952069
Based.
Never really understood why hags get so hung-up on the idea of men being more attracted to prime age girls rather than their older, sagging counterparts. It's just common sense.

>>9952165
>>9952209
just to be clear
>>9952069
>>"Dude, my con crush just turned 18!"
>>"Aren't you almost 30?"
a 30 yo perving on a 17-18 yo is gross whether it's legal or not. people grow up a lot from 18-22, someone just out of high school or just finishing their first year of college is not totally an adult. seriously, a 30 yo doesn't really have anything in common with an 18 yo. only the most superficial things like, we both do cosplay or watch anime or whatever.

>>9952236
>It's just common sense.
yeah it makes total sense why emotionally retarded and stunted 30 yo creepers perv on 18 yo girls. they never actually grew up because they're stunted so now they think they relate to people who haven't had the chance to grow up. and they're intimidated by women who actually are mature.

>>9952240
But mature women are elder god tier

>>9952240
>women who actually are mature
Nice coping, women age like absolute shit, even the pretty ones. There's a reason rich men get divorced and go for younger wives every 10~15 years.

>>9952241
i don't know what you're trying to say?

>>9952243
i don't actually have a problem with a serial divorcee remarrying a 25 yo woman. it's a little yikes, but whatever, she knows what she's getting into. an 18 yo woman getting into a relationship like that does gross me out, though.

>>9952245
Teenagers(specially the ones in their late teens) aren't children, they know what they're doing, unless they're mentally impaired. Not to mention age of consent greatly varies depending on the country.
This infantilized view of teenagers seems to be a mostly american/leaf thing.

My comm leader is 36 and a virgin because she pledged herself to the fashion.

>>9952236
>>9952243

I just judge the dudes for being shallow chads. I mean,

>saggy
>age like absolute shit

She doesn't have a sparkling personality? A kindly heart? Doesn't she make you laugh or want to build a family together? Or you just wanna wait until your own daughter's old enough and then stick your dick in her and breed your own grandchildren?

If you get married at 20 right out of college, 33 is just old enough that your daughter is 13, which according to some of you means you can totes stick your dick in her, right?

Yeah, that's kind of gross.

Sage, and leaving cos eew.

>>9952243
You sound the one who’s trying to cope lmao men age the worst because they don’t take care of their skin or themselves at all. I don’t know what is it with this delusion that men age better.

With that said
>tfw I’d rather have a sugar mama than a sugar daddy. My sugar mama could buy me lolita and have have tea with me. While we enjoy each others company.

>>9952252
>Teenagers(specially the ones in their late teens) aren't children, they know what they're doing

Y i k e s. I hope you're just saying this because you're like 16 and triggered and not some older creep trying to justify your attraction to kids. According to you, 13 year olds know what they are doing. And I don't know where the fuck youcome from, but every 13 year old i've ever met is a fucking moron. Hell, almost every 19 year old i've met is a moron.

>>9952236
I wish you smelly robots would fuck off
Everybody know 2D husbandos are the best and 3D men don’t stand a chance so you should throw yourselves off a building now so you don’t have to suffer later

>>9952269
COPE

>>9952263
I never said men aged better, time is a cruel mistress for either gender. But you sure as hell don't see old men getting triggered over young lads slaying pussy, regardless of the age difference. That kind of petty jealously belongs to hags. Hell just look at the damage control replies that post received.

I fucking hate you autists

>>9952270
I’m not the one getting triggered and typing in all caps

>>9952276
Same
I wish they’d all get pecked to death by a group of seagulls, only then can Mana-same save them

>>9952259
OMG I love her!

>>9952259
fashion is suffering

>>9952165
Age of consent doesn't mean u can commit statutory rape? Most places you can't sleep with someone under 18 if you're "x" years older than them (IE: in Colorado age of consent is 15, and you can DATE up to 25, but not have sex until you're 18 (obviously there are exceptions like 17/18 year olds, but you get the point)

Stop being a fucking creep

>>9952289
Barely legal is 18

>>9952243
>acting like men don’t look like shit from start to finish.
Let’s be real the kind of dudes who keep getting divorced and remarrying younger women can’t handle anything other than a maid they can fuck.

>>9952292
Wrong reply whoops

TFW your maxipad inverts inside your bloomers and turns into a bikini wax

>>9952289
Murican law isn't universal.
Just because burgers are haglovers doesn't mean everyone else is.

>>9952295
Some do, some don't.
Chads don't seem to have any trouble turning cunts into waterfalls with just a glance.

>can’t handle anything other than a maid they can fuck.
Yes? Why else would you even remarry otherwise?

>>9952273

Bro have you looked at the content and the dumb questions being asked lately. The board's full of teenagers.

The ones doing damage control replies are the young pussies. lol


>>9952304

Please don't stick your maxipads to your bloomers. Please wear panties under your bloomers.

A+ content though, probabley fueled some robot fetish somewhere.

>>9952295
I'd rather have a little sister I can fuck desu.

>>9952315
My brethren.

>>9951891
Worse, it was a fanfic

>>9952310
Just cuz yr a bitch doesn't mean i can't fight u

>>9952335
The fuck are you even on about lol.
Senile cunt.

>>9952315
Onee-sans are superior

>>9952338
Why not both?

I'm lonely and I want to die.

>>9952310
>Murican law isn't universal

It will be when we uprise and take over the rest of the world. And who's going to stop us? Americans have more guns per capita by far than any other country and in places like england it's illegal to carry a fucking sharp stick. Other places like sweden and germany would bend over and grab their ankles to greet us just like they did with other foreigners.

Literally who would stop us?

>>9952344
>can't even fight a shitty guerrilla terrorist group like ISIS properly
>got absolutely demolished in 'nam by a bunch of half-starved gooks
Kek.
Not to mention Trump has been keeping a isolationist policy recently. There would be no reason, public support or even the funds to some ridiculous world-wide takeover campaign like this. All those burgers you've been eating must've damaged your brain somehow, goblino.

>>9952348
Reread the post. I'm talking about citizens you fuckwit. Why would I bring up per capita if I meant military? Ironic you try and say my brain is damaged when you don't even have reading comprehension. Fucking thirdworld scum.

>inb4 that would never happen

Literally how our glorious country was made.

>>9952337
Kek better than being a pedo

>>9952349
Lame, go back to /pol/

>>9952349
>300 million mutts
>more than half being so fat they can barely stand

Lol, I doubt you could take over even just north America, let alone the entire world. Probably wouldn't even be able to get past fucking Mexico.

>>9952354
>300 million mutts
>more than half being so fat they can barely stand

Nice strawman and inaccurate facts. PS, you don't have to be able to stand to turn people into swiss cheese with an AK

I hope this thread gets nuked soon, all this off topic talk is cringe

>tfw will never be tall or hench enough to cosplay Jodariel

>>9952358
Feels threads are nothing but off topic posts. Lurk more

>>9952361
I have lurked, they were never this bad awhile back
it's a shame seeing what it's become and how there's not much being done about it
but whatever it's nice having discord now were you can filter out all the trash

>>9952367
It's been like this for almost the past year so either you're lying or an idiot

>>9952367
>discordcancer calling anything trash

The irony. Also, please refrain from posting such monstrosities here. This is an imageboard, not SeaWorld, no one wants to look at whales.

>>9952369
One time I caught someone here replying to themselves 3 times, shit was wild
and all their posts got deleted. Felt good
also don't take this board too seriously anon, because then you just end up baby mad for no reason

>>9952370
hey congrats to Agnes for losing weight

>>9951485
I'll be your boyfriend. If you're not cute enough I'll take cash, conversation is extra.

>>9952304
That's horrifying anon.

>>9952367
>there's not much being done about it
There's absolutely nothing being done about it and I'm convinced the mods hate lolitas

>>9951819
Why is everything so bad, anon?
Have you tried seeing a doctor?

>>9952111
Am I allowed to cosplay this? I have everything for it lol.

>>9952484
>Why is everything so bad, anon?
See >>9952304

>>9952359
She has hoof like feet, shoes like that will make you look at least 6 inches taller. The hair and horns will help too. And it doesn't matter if you're a little short, as long as your cosplay is recognizable people will be happy to see you. So get lifting anon!

Also Holy shit, someone else wants to cosplay one of my favourite indie games!? I've been considering an Oralech cosplay since I played but figured no one would get it.

>tfw got long deco nails last week
>tfw menstrual cup + long nails = PAIN

>Bought a new dress
>Suddenly realize I don't have any matching accessories
>Dress is some sort of gray-ish... mint???
>Tries to find some whenever I have time without any luck
>Walks around town today
>A familiar (and frustrating) color catches my eyes
>COULD I FINALLY HAVE FOUND....!!
>It's saltshakers
>Fucking saltshakers
>The only thing I've found so far that matches my new lolita dress is SALTSHAKERS

Some sort of higher power obviously has a sense of humor

>>9952826
Is it printed or solid? Instead of trying to match it exactly, introduce a new color to the coord. Gray-ish mint sounds like it might look very nice with dusty pink, for example.

>doing free photoshoots
>really don't want to shoot with some of these pepople but too scared to say no

>>9952828
It's printless, luckily. But I've actually considered matching it with some dusty pink roses, this is my first time dealing with solids that isn't black and/or white. Got a matching headdress at least lol. But would using only dusty rose-colored accessories work though?

>>9952587
maybe try it with plastic gloves? clean the gloves beforehand though

>>9952833
um it also has ivory, white and gold if you hadn't noticed

>>9952833
Definitely work in some beige too, and make sure that your pinks match and are balanced throughout the coord. Try to add in a little bit of the grey too if at all possible, even if only by making some sort of small accessory with matching ribbon.
It should be fine though.

>>9952490
Please do. I would if I were a grill.

>>9952128
Jesus, that bleach guy sounds like a fucktard.

>>9952846
And water is wet, I just felt that it would be a bit overkill with all the ivory since my blouse and shoes are that color too

>>9952847
Thank you so much for the advice anon, it helps a lot!

>>9951476
Female. I jerk off to BL and yaoi. I hate the way chicks look in yuri and hentai, but I also am a dirty pig so I'll go for that too, if I'm desperate for something graphic. Whatever floats your boat as long as real people aren't getting exploited is how I think.

>>9951630
Nah, straight men and fujoshi are two different beasts. Fujoshi are easy to deal with. Frat bros into lesbians are a different story. False equivalence.

>>9952907
>Fujoshi are easy to deal with
Confirmed for never met a fujo

>>9952908
There are different levels of fujo, most of them know how to hide their powerlevel in public

>>9951616
>Partying
FUCKING NORMIE GET OFF MY BOARD
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

I have to carry three small plushies with my costume, and there's no easy way to attach them to me or tie them together.

>Really like the idea of cosplay lolita but I feel like it's cardinal sin even if I did it privately in front of a mirror

>>9952904
Female (male)

>>9952918
Bait anon, lots of people here party and have thriving social lives. I'm sorry that goes against you trying to push it's a female /r9k/. Here's another awful fact of life... most people here have, or have had, significant others.

>>9953027
>cosplay lolita
Do you mean characters that actually wear lolita like Momoko or Miwako, characters that wear pseudo-lolita (i.e. mostly the frilly garbage that weebs think is lolita), or putting together "lolita versions" of any character?
Because these three are all very different.

>start going to the gym; lifting weights because cardio is boring
>make nerdy gym friends; most are males especially because im not into doing classes or yoga
>most of them complain im looking to butchy because the weight loss made me lose my chest but some exercises kept my butt looking decent. Guy i had crush on keeps telling me to eat more and starts saying i have an eating disorder. feelsbadman.jpg
>start talking more to one of them because hes lifting weights to cosplay; make plans to go together
>i think hes starting to like me, sends too many kiss or heart emoji. At first i thought he was just being supportive because he knew i had body image issues among other or still just being weeby because we use to send anime shit to each other a lot, some of them were moe girls and normally i would react with a "Cute" or heart emoji.
> (inb4 triggers someone) he also says really beta stuff, calling me perfect and beautiful eveyrtime when i post a stupid selfie ons napchat stories or something in our group chats. Also makes it known hes into flat chested girls and calls my chest perfect and stuff like that.
>im not done working on myself to consider dating him, i just was loooking forward to doing con stuff with him because i dont have anyone to go with anymore and im slightly worried if im not careful enough hell pull "nice guy" shit on me and try to kick me from gym friends and claim i was causing drama.
>i just want supportive friends who have similar interests. Most of the female friends dont commit enough to the gym or give me the feedback i need on what im doing, weightlifitng form etc.

>semi related. female friends wont tell me if they think im too skinny or acknowledge to me that i lost weight (40lbs) so i have no idea how they feel about this. Im worried about triggering them because most of them also put on 20-30lbs themselves and arent motivated enough to commit to losing weight. When i told them its slow process they just want to take short cuts.

>>9953330
How is this board related at all?

>>9953382
The word con is mentioned somewhere in there, gatekeeper-kun

>>9953330
Tldr

>>9953330
I feel you anon, but the last part would probably get more insight in a ladies thread in /fit/

>>9951834
>33°C is boiling
Sometimes I forget the rest of the world isn’t buttbuddies with the sun.

>>9953388
>ladies thread in fit
anon, youve never been there right.
That shit isnt helpful even if you claim "my girlfriend is doing this, i dont think its right, help me advise her"

>turning 30 in a few years
>still have a teenager's hobby
Should I kms?

>>9952259
Badass

>>9952128
Pic related.

I thought the jar of change in my bf's room was a swear jar, but it was actually a "jerked off to traps" jar. Is he going to leave me because I don't have a dick??

> fall in love with lolita when I was in high school
> to poor to afford anything
> have a steady job now, tons of disposable income
> spend the last year and a half spending thousands of dollars on lolita
> closet too full at this point
> feel less enthused about lolita overall, kind of feel like selling off my closet

I'm not sure if it's just a funk I'm going through or if I'm falling out of love with lolita. I did kind of go ham with spending at first because it was really the first time in my life where I could without any sort of financial repercussions. I'm not hurting for money but I look at my closet and feel a little like I've been wasteful. I'm not sure if I should sell most of this stuff and keep only a few favorites. I have quite a few pieces that I know are dream dresses for several anons. I did feel genuinely excited about getting them at first but now I feel like I don't appreiate them enough. I haven't even worn some of these pieces personally yet.

>>9953586
grow a feminine dick

>>9953637
Have a clear out. You don't have to sell everything.

>>9951303
Would this maid cafe happen to be this Saturday?

>>9953637
I'm going to be pretty frank with you anon. If it hasn't even been a few years and you feel like you're falling out of love with it and don't feel enthusiastic about it, it's probably best to sell. That's a very short amount of time to start feeling this way. I'd hold onto a few favorites at most if I were you.

>>9953637
I'm the same way anon, right down to feeling wasteful at the excess of it. A whole room in my house is lolita & I barely get to wear it these days.Thing is though they are just clothes. Just wear when you can or when you feel like it. Plenty of normie women hold onto dresses til they have an occasion for it. Fuck it.

>>9953722
Yeah, I'll most likely do a closet cleaning sale to get rid of most of my stuff except for a few pieces. I have a couple of pieces that I am very attached to but I think the problem is that I was impulsive and bought a bunch of dresses that I liked but wasn't super crazy about.

>>9953786
I started off a little slow several years back with one or two pieces but started REALLY buying stuff in the past 1.5 years due to finally having money. I think I was a bit pickier when I had less money to work with and only really bought things that I had been keeping an eye on for years but now I've just been buying things if it seems cute in the moment and that probably wasn't the smartest thing to do. I'm a lonelita so after the initial excitement of being able to afford things wore off, I realized I don't really have a place to wear things to or people to wear them with. I've found a different niche fashion that calls to me more at the moment so you're right anon - I'll probably end up selling the pieces that I don't have a strong emotional connection with.

>>9952920
magnets

>>9953809
How do they work?

>>9953795
Thanks, anon. I'm also a little worried that I'll regret it after I let some of these dresses go but at the moment I'm not wearing them and it feels like they would be better loved with someone else than just sitting in my closet. I travel a lot for work so it's hard for me to plan an outing with friends so I can have an occasion to wear stuff out. I wish I had more friends into this stuff so I could dress up together with them. I hope you find more chances to wear your dresses out!

>>9953234
The third while thinking of the first although no real character in particular.
Just making a coord that feels like it'd be almost a cosplay but it's not, I wouldn't really wear it outside but I would just try it on as reference for characters I draw or just feel happy that it looks cute. Dunno, just go all out.

>>9952069
>tfw me
Why is this hobby so full of hot teens? It's sick!

>>9953550
>>9953586
>>9953832
You are the same person. Your posts are gayer than gay sex

Am I still welcome at meets if I lose my virginity to a man?

>>9953872
no, you must stay a virgin forever

>>9953872
The stupid questions thread is here >>9948361

>>9953785
Part one is

>>9953872
Sorry, you can only lose it to Misako, just like the rest of us.

>>9953872
Only if it's mana-sama

>>9951638
I once did it after my friends told me they would buy me a really nice meal and a free wig, not proud but also no pics.

>>9953872
Sorry, only pure maidens allowed.

I bought some shoes on LM and the seller listed it as they were in very good condition, okay cool. Shoes arrive and they're damaged, not cool. Seller says she'll refund, goes AWOL for a week. Comes back and says her paypal is messed up but she'll still refund. I was being much more patient with her than I should have, but I went ahead and opened a Paypal dispute earlier. Since she's been ignoring my messages frequently I'm tempted to escalate it to a claim tomorrow if I get no answer, but I'm not sure. Ugh this sucks.

>this evening, walking into my bedroom and see a pretty shade of red on my bed
>oh wow that’s pretty, wonder where it came from
>looks out the window, sees three firetrucks and an ambulance and police cars
>think what the heck?
>EMTs are loading a lady in her early 40s onto a stretcher
>they quickly put on an oxygen mask, attach some sort of pulsating compression thing that’s going up and down on her stomach
>rush her into the ambulance and everyone starts to leave except for a few police officers
>think “dang” and work on the computer for a few hours
>notices while working a guy is kinda standing outside the window and down below waiting
>he’s been there a while, but think nothing of it
>an hour later, notice he’s now talking to some police officers and he’s signing a few papers
>two police officers/social workers (what appeared to be) pull him over to the side and say something to him
>he breaks down and starts weaping uncontrollably in the parking
>realize they had just told him his wife had just passed away

I spent the rest of the night bawling my eyes out, it was so sad. Honestly, at any given moment someone could give me the news that my spouse or parent has passed away, any given moment.
I almost wish I was born into this life without people I care about, and honestly I would rather die than going through the death of the few people I find close.
And what’s the point living now? Knowing it all WILL come crashing down? Knowing I will HAVE to also go through what that man had to? I really don’t have the motivation to live anymore.

>>9954018
Just escalate it. Avoidance is a sign shitty scammer behavior too

>>9952587
duuuude
every time i try to pull out my cup, my nails would snag a bit of vagina flesh
im convinced ive torn it up so im cutting my nails asap
fuck vaginas lol

>>9954039
>fuck vaginas lol
But I'm gay.

>>9951312
Thank you for your service.

>tfw gained 20 lbs from sadness so all my brand is tight so can’t bring myself to wear it out on the daily like I use to
fucking hate myself. at least I caught it before going full blown landwhale.

Got two feels today~

I'm going to a concert tonight with an old friend. We last saw each other on really bad terms and it's been over a year since I've seen them. She apologized and we were making up until she asked to bring her boyfriend who is kind of the reason we dropped off in the first place. Everytime he joins us for an event he gets too "anxious" to get her attention and she spends the whole time with him and will completely ignore me the whole time. Classic third wheel syndrome. I'm afraid this will happen again and it's giving me a headache with how nervous I am to see her again. But if all else fails o have three other friends to go see at the same show and I think I'll be fine with or without my old friend (unless her bf wants to leave early then I'll be really fucking mad since he's our DD)

>cgl relate
I have two of my dream dresses in the warehouse and I'm waiting on both SS's to send me shipping confirmation. I'm pretty excited for my new dresses

>>9954030
I hope I die before someone I love passes away.

>>9954086
Don't beat yourself up about it. Like you said, you caught it before it got too bad, and you can definitely get back to the weight you were before. Hell, if I gained 20 pounds, I don't think my brand would fit at all. You can do this!

Some time ago I wrote here how it pisses me off how these non-lolita guys keep coming to my circle's lolita and cosplay events just to find a gf.

Now I finally got the courage to open my mouth and I said I have problem with this kind of thing. And it turned out lot more lolitas in my comm thought the same way, and some felt just neutral about it. I thought I'd be hated because I thought lo of them are friends with these guys, but I guess they were just being polite. So we came to conclusion that we won't allow them come to our meets anymore. Yay!

>>9954346
Wonderful! I'm happy things turned out well for you, anon.

>>9951962
OOH BOY IT GOT WORSE.
>messaged me with $65 offer when auction started at $60
>Didn't give me a whole 24 hours to respond to the offer
>BIN when I didn't respond because they were afraid someone else was going to take it

ALL MY RAGE

>>9954086
I am working of almost 40 i gained in the last 7 months. I can't fit in to any of my brand bc i'm a gd fatass.

I feel you anon.

>>9954376
>BIN and wants to make an offer you haven’t accepted yet
>she was afraid of someone else actually paying full price for it
Holy shit what the fuck I would literally not sell the skirt to her because of her bitchass attitude

>>9954376
Sell it to her so you can give negative feedback

can I get some advice gulls? I broke my toe like yesterday and I have an event tomorrow where I'm going to be wearing lolita, is it okay for me to have a spare shoe to wear when not in pictures as long as I still have socks on??

>>9954393
OH IM TAKING HER MONEY AND RUNNING. I just don't know what to say to her as I am SEETHING anger rn.
>>9954389
I want her stupid money tho...

>>9954376
This is so damn rude, wow.
>I can pay the $100 but how about I try to haggle for $25 less instead after you refused the first time, now that no one else can make a better offer
I'd refuse to sell to her and list it again. If she gives bad feedback, you can PM the mods about it.

>>9953586
maybe he actually hates it

>>9952259
is she still interested?
I mean, losing her virginity

>>9954376
Name and shame that bitch

>>9954397

I took the money and ran last time this happened to me, and it surprisingly ended well? Me +$400, person I sold it to left a really nice review.

>>9953872
who says, you have to tell them

Otakon is in 2 weeks and I still have a shit ton to do and only weekends to do them.
Guess who isn't sleeping this weekend.

>Having first AA
>Super excited
>Bf offers to help
>Even more excited
>Bf calls off help to go to EVO last minute

Will I be okay doing AA alone?
At first I thought I could handle it but now I'm a little nervous since it's coming up in a week

>>9954403
She lost it to Angelic Pretty

>Goths worship a sissy fetishist
>Sweets are diaper fetishists

Classic master style

>>9954574
Alcoholics Anonymous?

>>9954598
Artist Alley

>tfw some incel fatty-chan ita dabs on Misako, and the rest of the comm has to put her through a spanking machine
https://youtu.be/FcxwnGh7GIU

i had another nice day out in lolita

that's about it

My sister is well over 200lb and is one of those body positivity landwhales. She also keeps stealing clothes from me and my brother and is a hoarder of the ugliest normie thot clothes. She also went to a buffet wearing pic related, with her cottage cheese thighs, greying bra and massive milk tanks on display. Soon when my lolita wardrobe grows, she will hopefully have nothing to steal,

>>9954860
Your sister sounds based as fuck

>>9953586
is this >>47117845 perhaps your boyfriend?
(sorry for linking to /r9k/)

>>9954086
>>9954385
I'm also in the same boat. I gained around 30 pounds from comfort eating while I was super depressed. My brand and a lot of my wardrobe doesn't fit me any more. I've been super upset about it but I decided it was time to make a change.

Good luck anons! You can do it!

>>9951301
I'll never be cute enough or rich enough to do crossplay

>>9954860
If she's taking your clothes, then are you not also a fatty-chan?

>>9952367
Discord is shit since everyone act fake af

Warning: Major reeeing and excessive amounts of salt.

My non j-fash interested thread has come into the habit of trying to boss me around as to what I should wear in lolita. It started with her getting mad at me at a con for being too excited to eat much and she'd scold me, to trying to tell me how to flirt with someone, and now she's crossing a line that I am massively defensive about.

i've been a lolita for 8 years, and to have someone who knows jack shit about it let alone fashion in general bossing me around, telling me I should wear different substyles/colors I don't feel comfortable in/etc makes me boil with fucking rage.

I know what looks good on me, I know what I'm comfortable in, bitch you and your no fashion taste can shove it up your hairy v

>>9955054
>bitch you and your no fashion taste can shove it up your hairy v
delivered on the salt. good job anon.

>>9955054
Well that's dumb, why is she bossing you around in the first place? I don't suppose you know the reason but it's weird that she's doing this at all, considering the fact she's your friend. I hate to pull the jelly card but maybe she does have a reason to be jealous of you.

>>9955054
It's probably well intentioned. Probably just wants you to look your absolute best from their pov

>>9955060
I always deliver with salt.

>>9955061
I know why. Amongst our friend group there is a japanese artist who is popular, and he's "interested" in me, and she likes his coworker and thinks through manipulating me she has a shot at his coworker even though they're both famous and it's stupid for her to try. She thinks she has some inside look into the workings of dudewhosinterestedinmes brain and is just acting weirdly controlling.

I thought she was my friend but now I'm over it, she's lied to me, bossed me around, tried to rewrite the past in her favor.

She insists I should wear certain styles that she thinks would look good on me even though 8 fucking years in this fashion has given me knowledge on what does and doesn't look good on me.

I'm hurt and salty that she's trying to control the thing I am most inspired by to get what she wants.

>>9955082
I don't think it's from a purely well intentioned place at all.

>>9955093
Have you talked to her about this? Let her know it bothers you? I mean catching her for a genuine, mature talk, preferably in person if at all possible.
Maybe she is doing it out of malice, I wouldn't know as I don't know her; but sometimes people are just idiots who don't know that what they're doing is the opposite of helpful unless you tell them otherwise. Maybe telling her to cut it out won't change anything but it's something you should do, you know? Assuming you haven't yet, of course.

>>9955093
>getting mad at me at a con for being too excited to eat much
Legitimate reason to be mad at her
>to trying to tell me how to flirt with someone
Well if you're single and have been for a while this can be seen from her pov as trying to be helpful
>telling me I should wear different substyles/colors
>insists I should wear certain styles
This seems to be the core of your problem, but I'm not completely sold on her being a pos.
You are correct that in 8 years you know what you like and are comfortable in, but she is not "bossing" you, she is giving you information from her perspective, which is very useful because the extent to which you can know how well you look is limited to your own perspective and considering how many people have image issues isn't always reliable, people can always use support.

Your post just comes off bitter because someone(probably autistic) thinks you(most definitely autistic) might look good in different things. There is nothing inherently wrong in thinking that someone could look good in something else.

>>9955117
She is bossing me around. She has told me that I shouldn't buy things in the color I want, but colors I know don't work for me, that I should wear punk when I don't want to, that I should spend hundreds of dollars on prints I dislike. I explained that she tries to control multiple things about my life, and gave her creepy reasonings for why.

You sound like a manipulative cunt just like her.

>>9955117
>>9955123
Not to mention, I told her that I have no interest in being in a relationship with this guy and she keeps trying to force it further between us. To have someone who's supposed to be your friend trying to get you to flirt and hook up with someone you admire but don't see "that" was is scary.

>>9955123
You're literally delusional, get therapy, seriously

>>9955096
>I mean catching her for a genuine, mature talk, preferably in person if at all possible.
idk dude, sounds like this bitch is doing some thirteen year old drama. i would drop her like a potato, but maybe that's just me.

>>9955126
>You're literally delusional
wut. jumping to conclusions much? ffs anon.

>>9955029
Nope. Neither is my brother. That's what's so baffling about it. I never catch her wearing it, I just go into her room and find a bunch of my stuff there.

>>9955132
Of course I am. No functioning human ADULT would say "this person is bossing me around" when that's literally impossible if they're not in a position of power or even let that happen if it was true.
All jokes aside this person does have some mental issues or maybe a shitty past, there's no reason a normal person says this shit like she does

>>9955134
You sound like you're projecting a lot of shit onto my situation, including mental illness. All I'm saying is I'm mad about someone trying to act like they're the boss of me and manipulate me to their own end and you come in here screeching about how I'm not a functional adult? fuck right off you crazy bitch

>>9955134
You do know that people can boss people around without actually being in a position of power right? Nobody has to listen to them for them to be bossing people around.

>>9955136
>trying to act like they're the boss of me and manipulate me to their own end
Do you not see how delusional and paranoid this sounds? She is suggesting things to you when she is not in a position of power to do so. This is the silliest thing to ever get mad about

>tfw you have to gently let your friend know you don't want to stick your penis inside of her.

>>9955139
>someone being manipulative and domineering is the silliest thing to ever be mad about

You sound retarded.

>>9955139
It honestly sounds like anon is an abusive friendship. You're a terrible person for trying to gaslight someone who sounds like they're in a bad situation over the internet.

>>9955139
>>trying to act like they're the boss of me and manipulate me to their own end
>Do you not see how delusional and paranoid this sounds?
literally that does not sound paranoid and delusional at all anon, wtf? have you never met anyone that was bossy before? it's super common, and super obnoxious, and not at all surprising to hear someone vent about it.

>>9955144
is in an* whoops.

>>9955140
tell her you're gay. then turn gay. gg ez.

My gf hates it when I wear lolita, she thinks it looks silly and basically a waste of money. I really enjoy it, so I decided not to wear it around her and hide away my purchases. Somehow she keeps pinching me for that, I couldn't get what's the matter until I discover her looking over my browser history. I have zero clue how did she do that, but she's basically saw everything I was trying to hide all this time, and that feels as abusive as you can imagine. I have a hard time dealing with my low self esteem and other kinds of insecurities, so knowing that someone looks through my laptop is just off-putting, even if that's my SO. Need to mention, when it comes to another things besides this, she's really amazing person, but this lack of privacy upsets me all the time.

>>9955196
She sounds insecure and possessive. Your self esteem may tell you that she's too kind to you, but would you advise a friend to stay with someone who doesn't respect their privacy or let them enjoy their hobbies? Treat yourself the way you would treat a dear friend here. Have a very serious conversation with her, at the very least. This sort of thing isn't acceptable in a relationship. People deserve to be respected and treated right.

>>9955197
Seconded

I'm going to start working on a dream cosplay in three weeks or so, but I'm too fat and need to lose at LEAST 5 kgs, but preferably 10 or even more, and I have so poor self control and just keep eating trash, but is it even possible to lose 5 kgs in three weeks if I try. I wish I began thinking about this a bit earlier.

>>9955251
It's not really possible, the normal range per week is half a kilo to a kilo. You might be able to lose more by starving yourself, but if you already have poor self control, you'll likely eat like shit after to compensate and gain back the kilos, and then some.

For the long term though, you should stop buying any foods that you usually snack on or eat too much of. I have the same issue as you : I have no self-discipline and can't stop myself from snacking and having dessert if there's anything sweet in the house. So I don't buy any unhealthy foods anymore, cook every meal from scratch, bake whatever rare snacks I'll have so I can control the amount of sugar and fats better. It takes a lot of time and effort but it works.

>>9955255
I may postpone the cosplay I wanted and instead find something else, and not start on the cosplay I really want until a few months, but I still need to stop being fat to get ready in time, and still want to find something I care about even if it isn't the character I've wanted to do for years.

>>9955145
>>9955144

I don’t think you see the other anons point.

Her friend is not in a stratified position of power over her, and therefore cannot be her “boss”. She cannot issue enforceable orders. All anon has to do is say “No” and that’s that. If the other person wants to be a bad friend, then cut ties and move on. That easy. You all make it seem like the mountains are coming down.

>>9955134
You sound like a teen that thinks they’re all grown up and they know everything. You’re never to old to be bossed around by someone who has no real power over you. Hopefully you learn not to give in to those kind of demands but it still happens to functioning human ADULTS.

TFW your cosplay involves panties on your boobs, and your friends keep giving you boob wedgies

>>9955424
No one claims that anon's friend is her "boss"; acting bossy doesn't that indicate the person in question is in any position of authority but rather acts like they do, usually to the annoyance of their target.
If anon has told her friend to stop it and this friend is relentless, it's understandable that she's irritated enough to come here to vent about it. I agree that anon should cut this person out of her life and maybe she will, I just try not to judge her for not doing so yet because we don't know the exact situation she's in.
That other anon claiming the op is "definitely autistic", delusional and paranoid for venting about this was reaching though, and none of it was called for.

>tfw I'll never have a qt skramz lolita bff to start a powerviolence band with
I just want to be like Self Deconstruction is this too much to ask for

>Fucking lolita gf
>Suddenly cake frosting falls out of her ass

Umm, is there something I should know about you gals?

>>9955557
Sounds more like cream pie filling are you sure you looked close enough

>>9955557
She's been using /u/ too much.

>>9955557
is it possible to frost a cake with your butt?

>Hey anon, I'm interested in this item!
>asks over 9000 questions
>all answer messages on read
>never hear from them again
I wish I could give negative feedback for this kind of behaviour. At least say you're not interested in it. A thank you for wasting my time with answering your questions would be fine too.

>>9951303
that's great, diversity bullshit is not needed

>>9955557
That’s just where cake frosting comes from. Didn’t you know that?

>>9955054
For them trying to get you to wear other things that you dknt like, tell them that you'll wear it if they buy it for you. And that you're going to buy whatever you want.

For the relationship forcing, tell them to kindly fuck off. Especially if this isn't the only time they've pressed the issue. Or be the exact same way they're acting to them about the guy they like.

I been in a relationship with a lolita in our Comm for three months. Another person (we'll her M) in our Comm who has mental health issues, went to the ER last night upon learning about our relationship. M OD on aspirin. M is good friends with the person I'm dating. I don't hang out/not friends with M because of her mental health issues and shyness towards me. M never raised any concerns to either me or my SO. M has a crush that she never with the lolita I'm dating.

Unfortunately, our hugbox mod has taken issue and is demanding I apologize to M. Is this 2014 all over again? I'm an adult. We both agreed to a relationship, but our actions have affected the mental health of M. I need recourse.

>>9955908
What the fuck? You don't have to apologize for shit, you're not responsible for her health or lack thereof. That's bullshit. It's sad that she did that but again, it's not your responsibility.

>>9955497
This is retard

>Be me, go to a meetup yesterday at a really cool place
>Get super dolled up for pictures, because this meet had a lot of really nice locations to take pictures at
>Felt really good about myself, got plenty of compliments from friends and the normies that were around us
>Wait patiently for two hours after the meet for the pictures my friends took
>MFW I get them and am so horrified with how I look that I begin to re-think of getting plastic surgery and holy shit all those compliments I got probably meant nothing and people were just trying to be nice to my ugly face

>>9952259
Sex is overrated

>tfw find a dream dress on LL and ask for a shipping quote from seller.
>No reply
>Wait a few days, message still unread
>Post a comment on listing
>No reply, listing ends
>Message finally read by seller and item relisted
>Still no reply to either message or comment

Wtf, sellers of LL what gives?
In which circumstance would you do this to a potential buyer?
I have perfect feedback and the only thing I can think is that they don't want to ship overseas despite their terms and listing not stating anything. They've even sold to other overseas buyers in the past.

>>9955908
Shame she didn't take enough of the aspirin.
Jokes aside that sort of behavior is BS attention seeking.
Your mod should be called out, what a fucking moron. If you have more than one mod then maybe write to them explaining what's going on.
You have been put in an unfair position and you shouldn't need to be justifying why you're in a relationship to anyone.

It just hit me how in the last year I've made some truly wonderful lolita friends and I'm going to international meets with them and it's going to be so much fun! I'm so glad I came back to the fashion and stopped being a lonelita. Best decision ever
>Man I just really love lolita

>>9956154
good feels dude!
>>9956126
>>9956154
also catposting

>>9955910
Our mod emphasized that our actions has created a consequence to a member. It's not our fault and you can't make everyone happy. There's no rule in dating members in the Comm.

>>9956143
Our mod is not too bright. There was an event planned and she dropped out the day before leaving other members high and dry without a ride. Another time, she had a panic attack driving on the way to the tea party that everyone else had to pay for her seat. She is a mod because she's been in the Comm for a long time and created the Comm's Facebook page.

>>9955591
I can kind of see the other side of this though.
So often I see lazy sellers not posting measurements or link to lolibrary, or anything. They are perfectly in their right to ask questions and not buy if the info makes the item not suitable to them.

Also fuck "flat measurements". Almost nobody cares about that.

>tfw have developed a unusual and strong passion for power ranger/super sentai costumes
>have a growing folder of sexually tense cosplayers
>been getting into the super sentai stuff just to try to date cosplayers and clang with them in cosplay

I'm pathetic.

This years been very lonely, though I finally have my cute cosplay together!
I hope I can make a few friends or find a girl I can mesh with at this convention soon..

>still cant stop laughing at fat people in bad cosplays
>cant stop cringing at obvious attentionwhores
will i ever grow out of it?

>>9956260
aw good luck to u anon!

>>9956271
I've been doing this shit since middleschool.
So to answer you: No, embrace it.

>white coord
>scared to get period or diarrhea

>>9956372
Wear your damn diaper bitch.

>Cosplaying Antarcticite
>Someone’s nasty drunk mom starts interacting with me
>Says “Aww, I can barely see it” while staring at my crotch (thank god for dance belts)
>Demands that I turn around
>Grabs my shoulder and tries to spin me, partially succeeds
>Tries to smack my ass

>Friends thought it was funny
>Con staff did jack shit

It actually bothered me a lot and I needed to vent, thanks /cgl/

>>9956390
You have shit friends.

>>9956390
Ugh that is so upsetting, sorry that happened to you anon. I wish more people took this stuff seriously.

>waiting 2 weeks for an auction on LM I bid on to end
>spent the last 4 days hoping someone will outbid me.
>that's right, after 10 days I've decided I don't care enough about this auction to desire to win it anymore.
>but I don't want negative feedback for backing out.

I wish I had someone to bid on it and take it from me so I don't have this overwhelming bidders remorse. I do like the dress its just not a DD.

>>9956372
if my period is near I wear a thin pad and bike shorts under bloomers and I never had anything worse than a small speck of blood on my bloomers happen with it.

I can't look forward to future cons, because I know I'll be a year older when they happen, and thus a year less valuable to society.

>Play DDLC
>Have irl female friend with depression
>Worry that I may have a real life Sayori on my hands
>Also had a dream about hanging myself a few days later
What a sick ass game.

>>9956372
Are women secretly incontinent? Is that why some of them are littles, so they don't have to think about periods and diarrhea?

>>9951303
>Uggos
Not much sympathy for you desu

>>9951312
What was your mos? Base? Who was in your chain of command? Name names.

i have a friend who i love dearly but she always expects me to make her fucking costumes. for free nonetheless. i hate it. there have been cons where neither of us have finished costumes because she wanted me to make hers too in an unreasonable timeframe.
every year she says hey! can you teach me how to sew? and i enthusiastically say yes! of course!
and then she puts it off until the last minute and cannot make her costumes. so i have to do it. i hate it.
this year i’m going to put my foot down. i don’t want to say no to her but i can’t take this anymore. i don’t want to spend 10 hours of each goddamn day sewing things that aren’t for me.
i’m more mad about this ordeal this year because it’s looking like she’s hoping i’ll sew two costumes for her friend too. for free. she wants me to make four costumes. for free. i already have two time intensive costumes to make for myself and the con is in a few months. she knows this. i taught myself how to sew when i was 14, why can’t she put the effort into learning with someone holding her hand the whole way through?
sorry for the rant, i’m tired of this and can’t talk about this to anyone.

>>9956417
>Are women secretly incontinent? Is that why some of them are littles, so they don't have to think about periods and diarrhea?
Pretty much lol. My sister is a DDLG who likes to go to cons and dab in her Pooh kigurumi.

>>9956463
Jesus.

>>9956463
Fuck

>>9956227
Idk anon, almost all of the questions I get are either answered in the description or in my terms. I have no idea while people even consider buying something but can't be bothered to scroll down and read about the item. It's more effort to write a message. Do they usually look at pictures and hit the buy button? Who does that?

>>9956438
You're enabling her. Stop being a doormat and making shit for free, you'll also see if it's a true friendship that way or if she's just using you

>>9956438
Dump her ass.

"Replicas encouraged"

>order shirt from OMO-cat
>it not ship after a week
>message them and they tell me it went out of stock and will eventually be sent
>would have been nice if they actually told me that without me asking... but ok
>3 weeks after order, finally get a package from them
>Its the wrong size labeled
>open shirt op
>sent a kaito shirt instead of Len
My day was ruined 10 minutes before I opened the omo-cat package, and opening it just made my day even worse. UGH

>>9956434
I would anon, but I’m still dealing with the legal battle of getting my discharge upgraded. They gave me a terrible DD214 and I had to pay for a lawyer to potentially get it upgraded. As -soon- as I get it upgraded I’ll probably make a public statement about it, because people need to be aware that this behavior and harassment existing to this day in the military. I have a bunch of witness statements so I’m hoping for the best. This whole situation has been hell though.

>>9957084
I’ve heard so many complaints about OMOcat it’s not even funny. Heard the owner was a fraud but lives in a multi-mill mansion though.

>>9957095
I know, but I love most of her art and shirts though x.x
First shirt I ordered went just fine. Then I went to their booth at momo-con and the 2 shirts I wanted and the 1 my friend wanted were all out of stock/weren't stocked at the booth, so that was bleh. Then this.
I just want my Len shirt :/
I ordered it literally ~20 minutes after it was released too......

I wish I was a hotblooded ace pilot from the 1980s

>>9957084
Would you buy more Omocat if she made a Ookurikara shirt?

>>9957116
>Ookurikara
not sure who that is so probably no.

>>9951303
>First a ton of uggos join
You don't sound so nice yourself.

>>9957137
Maid at a Cafe, of course they all have sand up their cunts

I'm so tried of comm dramu.

>>9957279
Then you should beat them up

>>9951312
>kicked out of the military for reporting it
You're full of shit. Have you watched the news in the past 5 years? Any time sexual harassment happens, especially in the military, it becomes a nationwide scandal.
Bad bait post, the Etsy thing gives it away. So cringeworthy that so many anons are falling for the bait. Guess this means I just did too.