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Christmas is near edition

Old one: >>10056149

>> No.10057561

I'm sad.

>> No.10057567

>go to sleep at a normal time in the evening
>wake up two hours later
>can't get back to sleep no matter what I do
Fuck

>> No.10057568

>>10057567
I experience something similar

>have fucked sleeping pattern because of work
>regularly falling asleep at like 3pm
>wake up at 8pm
>5 hours of sleep and feel great
>too bad I can't do anything
>sometimes go to bed at like 9pm-10pm, normal time
>doesn't matter how many hours I sleep, still feel like shit when I wake up

>> No.10057573

Does anyone else wear surgical masks in public? (For fashion, self consciousness, whatever)

>> No.10057576

>>10057568
if we're spilling our sleep feels
>have a yuge fear of sleeping through alarms (dumb, I know)
>have to wake up at 6am for work every day
>somehow keep waking up at random times every night in panic that I've slept through my alarm
>feel energetic and awake at these points, but when I wake up at 6 I'm so bloody tired
Help me

also

tfw a lack of lolita shoes.

>> No.10057577

>>10057573
No, but I want to when I wear lolita. I'd rather not bump into coworkers since I keep my powerlevel hidden. However I live in a place that's very terrorism-conscious so I think I'd only look suspiscious if I covered my face.

>> No.10057580

>>10057573
I do. I do it for both self-conscious reasons and fashion reasons. Plus its nice in winter to keep my face warm.

>> No.10057581
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>>10057558
Why are you gulls always so sad, life is beautiful ladies you just have to grab it

>> No.10057582

>>10057581
I'm a guy.

>> No.10057583

>>10057567
>>10057568
Allow me to shill you melatonin. Worked wonders on my circadian rhythm.

>> No.10057584

>>10057567
Tell more, how much time it takes until you feel sleepy again?

>> No.10057585

>>10057577
UK?

>> No.10057587

>>10057582
Regardless, be happy

>> No.10057589

Still sick, mentally ill, in a shitty job, no friends, no partner, hardly any family, not getting anywhere with uni, ugly, hate face, hate body.

I want to die but I'm too scared to kill myself.

>> No.10057590

>>10057581
Because I can't stop thinking about my abusive ex long enough to enjoy life's beauty

>hey this movie is pretty good
>DOESN'T THAT CHARACTER CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNER REMIND YOU OF HOW YOU GOT CHEATED ON
>aw man look at how cute my cat's being, I should take a picture
>YEAH AND SEND IT TO HER OH WAIT YOU BROKE UP WITH HER FOR BEING A PSYCHO HAVE FUN BEING ALONE AND MISERABLE
>wait the cute girl working at the burrito place drew a smiley face on my burrito's foil and was smiling a lot and talked to me more than other customers, was she flirting with me?
>YEAH JUST LIKE HOW YOUR EX USED TO FLIRT WITH YOU SO SHE COULD TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER, REMEMBER THAT?

Fuck my stupid broken brain

>> No.10057600

>>10057587
No, fuck you

>> No.10057601

>>10057585
Damn straight

>> No.10057602

>>10057584
Usually multiple hours, it's been three since I woke up prematurely and I'm still wide awake

>> No.10057607

>>10057601
Hope you've paid your Lolita Licence m8

>> No.10057609

>>10057607
U wot

>> No.10057612

>>10057590
Same anon same, I got cheated on about a month ago and I'm on the same boat but I'm still trying to grow you can do it

>>10057600
My place or yours

>> No.10057617

This is the first Christmas of my life that I won't be spending with family. I know I could reach out to people and try to have fun anyway, but I'm grieving the loss of my childhood and my family connections which have weakened so much over the last two years. I do have a boyfriend, but he's working over Christmas and is pretty sad about it too. I guess it's better to be sad together than sad alone, but it's still a lot of sadness and I'm alone most of the time anyway. The best I can do is try to tidy and white-glove my messy-ass house. Maybe once it's perfect I'll feel more festive. Wish me luck, gulls.

>> No.10057618

>>10057609
"In the United Kingdom and the Crown dependencies, any household or individuals in possession of/in the process of wearing burando (dresses, tights, shoes, bloomers or assorted accessories) is required to hold a lolita licence."

https://www.lolitalicensing.co.uk/about/foi-legal-framework-AB16

>> No.10057626

>>10057618
I wasn't aware of this and I've never been checked once. How do they even enforce it?

>> No.10057632

>>10057618
>>10057626
>>10057609
>>10057607
Well, this one is more elaborate than usual. But you should have actually made a website if you really wanted to commit to this

>> No.10057644

>>10057632
>expecting me to manufacture an entire website off the back of a joke I just made poking fun at the UK in a feels thread
I love you gulls but I don't love you that much

>> No.10057645

i wish jannies would nuke these shit crossboarder threads once and for all
you don't even try to keep it cgl related anymore

>> No.10057648

>>10057645
See you next week.

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>>10057617
Good luck anon.
I am also staying away from family during Christmas this year; and it's the first year my Gran isn't there anymore as well. She was more like a mother to me than my actual mother. I was supposed to go, have tickets and everything, permission from boss...but my husband is in poor health and I can't just leave him alone like this.

Let's be sad together.

>> No.10057657

Man I just really love cosplay

>> No.10057662 [DELETED] 

Man I just really love creampies/impregnation fetishes and hate children

>> No.10057666

>>10057662
can you stop

>> No.10057669

>>10057666
>demonic trips
I'll do no such thing, vile temptress

>> No.10057670

>>10057645
I hope not. These threads fill a niche that doesn't exist anywhere else on this site.

>> No.10057673

>>10057662
Hot tbdesu

>> No.10057676
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>>10057670
NAYRT Make your own board or go somewhere else if you're not trying to stay on topic. Feels threads seem to just be the thirsty crossboarder threads and it's actually getting really annoying to deal with nothing but pointless assholery. At least ita threads are on topic assholery that serve as examples of what not to do.

>> No.10057679

>>10057676
Imagine being so retarded that you come into a board's designated off-topic/containment thread and complain people aren't on topic
>it's actually getting really annoying to deal with nothing but pointless assholery
Make your own board or go somewhere else if you don't like it :^)

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Man I just really love lesbians

>> No.10057681
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>>10057679
Imagine being so retarded and new as fuck that you think feels threads are for off-topic whining instead of cosplay and lolita related feels.

>> No.10057682

>>10057676
You know what would happen if you removed these containment threads right? No containment.

>> No.10057686

>>10057681
>new as fuck
I've been here for over 5 years you fucking idiot, these threads are always full of off-topic garbage and you telling people PWEASE BE ON TOPIC U GUISE and complaining about muh crossboarders for the umpteenth time is pissing in the wind. Also what >>10057682 said. Shut the fuck up and be glad these posts aren't shitting up your autistic ita vendetta threads

>> No.10057687

Thread's off to a good start

>> No.10057693

what's up with the influx of insufferable cunts on this board recently. or is it the same one trying to role play her way as a lolita

>> No.10057699

>>10057680
me too anon (but they don't like me)

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>>10057699

Donate to their Patreons then

>> No.10057703

>>10057701
two problems here
first, they still wouldn't "like" me, if you know what I mean
second, I don't have that much money

>> No.10057707

>>10057703
you don't need to have the validation of lesbians "liking" you to support them lmao

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>>10057703

If they "liked" you they wouldnt be lesbians

>> No.10057713

>>10057708
There's no chemistry in this picture

>> No.10057714

>>10057707
but why should I support them in the first place then

>>10057708
true, on the other side, no women like me in general, so...

>> No.10057718

>>10057713

Allegedly a real life couple too
People say the same about Bunny and Susu

>> No.10057720

>>10057708
this is the least gay picture i've ever seen
>>10057714
because they're lesbians why would they ever like you unless gasp you are ALSO a lesbian. TF is wrong with you incel types

>> No.10057723

>>10057720
What's the most gay?

>> No.10057725

>>10057680
I love them but I'm too bi for them to like me back.

>> No.10057726

>>10057720
>TF is wrong with you incel types
sorry, we also have just some needs

>> No.10057730

>>10057726
Maybe if you weren't so insufferable you could attract a mate instead of shitting up here for negative attention like a 12 year old.

>> No.10057732

>>10057708
This is hilarious awkward.

>> No.10057734

>>10057726
Why would you admit to being something so shameful?

>> No.10057735

>>10057708
They look like they're sniffing each other's cheeks

>> No.10057738

>>10057730
not getting a mate in the first place, made me sp insufferable

>>10057734
I don't care anymore

>> No.10057742

>>10057738
You are the chicken and the egg of cowardice.

>> No.10057745

>>10057742
hold on, I can talk to women (even tough, I sometimes loss my spagethi)

>> No.10057755

What are you idiots crying about this time

>> No.10057759

>>10057735

Maybe they dont want to do anything too intimate(like proper kissing)for their patreon lewds?
Would make sense

>> No.10057762

>>10057755
incels not attracting lesbians, what else is new?

>> No.10057763

>>10057762
Why would anyone want to date a gull, how is any guy on this board that desperate

>> No.10057765

>>10057763
"similar" interests, I guess

>> No.10057769

>>10057765
I have a few gull friends and they are fantastic but I just can’t see myself date anyone from this board at least not again

>> No.10057770

>>10057763
And lesbian ones at that. We’re all borderline bisluts or lesbians. Hardly the perfect waifu material these robots are looking for.

>> No.10057771

>>10057769
>at least not again
What happened the first time?

>> No.10057775

>>10057770
It’s baffling the places where people try to find love or coochie

>>10057771
Long story short I got cheated on and she still blames me for not being more accepting of it

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>>10057726
Maybe instead of whining about girls not fucking you, get a pocket pussy, and work on your personality. No one wants to date a man who whines about how he needs to get laid or how he wants to touch a fucking boob like he's a 12 year old

>> No.10057780

>>10057759
No. That literally makes no sense at all.

>> No.10057785

>>10057770
I don't want a waifu
someone who let me fuck her is all what I need

>>10057779
>get a pocket pussy
don't really want to do that

> and work on your personality.
yeah, it's always my fault

>> No.10057789

>>10057785
Buy a hooker like the rest of the pathetic men who bitch about not getting laid. No excuses.

>> No.10057797

>>10057789
>No excuses.
I have two
don't want to lose my virginity to one
don't have the money for it

>> No.10057809

>>10057797
No excuses loser

>> No.10057826

>>10057797
you have a lot of excuses for someone who complains about being an incel. It doesn't sound that involuntary at this point yr just an idiot

>> No.10057834

>Super interested in J-fashion as a teenager, wanted to wear lolita and ouji, loved street styles too
>No income and too awkward to ask parents to buy stuff online so just admired from afar thinking I'd get into it after getting a job
>As time went on I got other priorities and kinda forgot about it
>meme'd myself into believing a capsule closet full of the normiest easy to wear clothes was somehow the best way to dress
>Now I really want to start wearing cute clothes
I feel like I wasted so much time. At least now I've got nice stuff coming in the mail, although I know I won't be able to make decent coords until I get cute shoes, accessories and learn to style my hair.

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>First meet up was great
>Everyone was nice
>Had such a good time
>Felt confident in my coord
>Got a genuine compliment on my hair
>Fell asleep warm and happy with butterflies
>Next day
>Doubts.mov
>What was I wearing? Did I look good?
>Feels like a distant dream
>Photos start popping up on FB
>Washes my worries away
>I look cute and happy
>My coord looks nice
>The dream was real

I look forward to meeting my local comm again! I don't think I'll abandon you salty seagulls on here, since this is where my love for lolita started, but now I've officially graduated from being a lonelita. Life is good!

>> No.10057839

>>10057834
That's ok anon, better late than never. I hope you have fun in the fashion!

>> No.10057876

Looking for specific wishlist items is so frustrating! Day after day checking the market just to see that nothing you’re looking for pops up. I know that’s how things go, I just wanted to vent.

>> No.10057880

>>10057834
Well hopefully if your normie style is good then your first few coords will turn out decent. I think part of the difficultly in learning how to dress in lolita is that a lot of girls don't have a good sense of style in the first place. I'm sure you'll look amazing!

>> No.10057905

>>10057682
Unfortunately they aren't containing anything but only invite these fuckers to stay and shit up other threads with weak bait and pretending to be cosplayers/lolita.

>>10057686
>Shut the fuck up and be glad these posts aren't shitting up your autistic ita vendetta threads
Have you visited any other thread besides this one in the past year? They are already doing that, it got even worse. And either your memory is shit or you're lying, because take a look at the archives and compare feels threads from 2013 to now and tell me with a straight face the amount of off topic garbage didn't grow. Containment my ass.

>> No.10057911

>>10057905
Contain this
*unzips dick*

>> No.10057914

>>10057911
>tfw no dick present
woopsie

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>>10057911
>implying you have one worth showing
well where is it?

>> No.10057945

Why are feels threads allowed on this board?

>> No.10057949

>>10057945
I don’t know I think it’s lonely girls just sad over nothing

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Gulls how do I get a gf

>> No.10057988

People in toxic families trying to give advice to other people in the same situation are always like 'run away when you're 18'. I don't know why it's so simple to them, like some people have been abused with no outlet or nowhere to hide and so the morale is really low to go get a job, especially if you have a mental illness and no consistent transportation

I'm never gonna be like my cute friends who have a bunch of cute clothes and anime figs and hang out every weekend, meanwhile I'm too scared to leave the house to check the mail sometimes, let alone hold down a job to fund a hobby. Some days it's easier and I at least managed to get a degree through online school, but I can't keep living like this and it's terrifying.

>> No.10057991

>>10057979
Look somewhere not here

>> No.10057996

>>10057988
watch youtube tutorials and learn a skill, teach yourself a programming language, do transcription jobs that pay relatively low but it's still some sort of income, become a patreon thot, sell nudes, you can do a lot these days with the internet

>> No.10058002

>>10057945
Containment thread for autists and crossboarders

>> No.10058014

>>10057945
Because, once upon a time, they were moderately /cgl/-related since a lot of things in life are affected by the clothing we wear. Job hunting, spending habits, relationships, and the ilk are a bit different when it's involving someone who wears frilly dresses religiously or travels regularly to attend conventions in costume. In the past couple years, they've gone horribly off-topic. As it stands, feels threads are pretty much grandfathered in.

>> No.10058017

>>10057988
It's because, at the end of the day, only you are responsible for your own actions. In more progressive mental hospitals, they have to get patients to recognize this before any real treatment can begin. You have a legit reason why you're too scared to leave the house, but, at the end of the day, the responsibility for not leaving the house falls upon yourself. Nobody can make you leave the house.

It's very terrifying to be suffering with mental illness, but we can't just blame our illnesses indefinitely.

>> No.10058024

>>10057996
How long does it take to learn a programming language? I keep seeing this advice but realistically, if I started doing CodeAcademy tomorrow when could I expect to land a job? I became a nursing assistant due to my family situation and didn't have the opportunity to go to school, but I don't want to to this forever...

>> No.10058025

>>10058024
You'll land a job once you're competent with coding. Some people can genuinely pick up coding in a matter of weeks, but other people take years. U.S.-wise, there's a large amount of tests and certifications that show competency more then any college degree so if you can obtain certification, places will hire you.

>> No.10058029

>>10058024
Depends on your aptitude for picking it up, although this could also preclude you from learning one at all. Standard webdev/codemonkey autism could take a few months. Being able to land a legitimate engineering position could take much longer

>> No.10058038

>>10058024
>if I started doing CodeAcademy tomorrow when could I expect to land a job?
Don't think of it this way, you'll give up long before you can get a job. Use it as a stress release from your current situation, learn to love it as a hobby. Make things you're proud of and can show other people. Eventually you'll find that you're employable. If you really need to, in the meantime flip burgers or something similar to make ends meet, even if that means moving menial jobs somewhat frequently.
Really wish I had taken that last bit of advice myself when I was younger.

>> No.10058052

>>10058017
I wish more people understood this instead of just going "my depression/autism/etc made me be a shitty person so it's not my fault!" and having everyone pat them on the back for being so brave

>> No.10058066

>>10058025
>>10058029
>>10058038
So just be really motivated? I taught myself Spanish for work so hopefully that means I'm capable of this sort of thing. Thank you for all the advice gulls. I mentioned CodeAcademy but are there any other resources or sites I should look at?

>> No.10058067

>>10057988
I know. It's never that easy. I'm sure you hear it all the time, but I would look into getting medication. You have to motivate yourself to apply to jobs, though. If you don't, you'll never have the resources to get out. I'm in the same boat. I'm planning on finally moving out in 2019.

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>>10057701
Donating to a lesbian's patreon because they're lesbian instead of because you like their work is one of the most homophobic things I can imagine

>> No.10058081

>>10058002
This
>t. Crossboarder

>> No.10058087

I'm too skinnyfat to cosplay but too lazy to do anything about it. What do

>> No.10058089

>>10058087
Find something you want to cosplay so badly that it's worth getting in shape for

>> No.10058092

>>10058087
Cosplay a skinnyfat character.

>> No.10058093

>>10058066
If you know of any particular programming language you'd like to learn, they may have official learning materials. Or, if you have a coding field that interests you, look up the languages & tech used in that field first.

>> No.10058107

>>10058089
You underestimate my laziness friend

>>10058092
Like what

>> No.10058108

>>10058107
How skinny fat man?

>> No.10058113

>>10058079
Yeah I'm sure those girls really feel the homophobic hate of someone giving them money.

It's not homophobic. It's fetishisation sure (as if they are fetishising their relationship themselves), but not homophobic.

>> No.10058127

>>10058113
fetishing someone is phobic bc you don't have actual respect for them other than as a sex object so i mean

>> No.10058129

>>10058127
That's neither a fear of nor an aversion to homosexuality. It's the wrong word.

>> No.10058140

>>10058127
Fetishising someone isn't phobic. You need to revisit your definitions.

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Alright gulls what are you guys up to tonight, and how are you feeling? I've been had a pretty ok weekend did some schooling enrollment, but im happy to have finally got back to my cosplay and more rider content.

>> No.10058150

>>10058127
As someone who experiences actual homophobia, this ain’t it sweety.

>> No.10058151

>>10058127
sweaty....

>> No.10058152

>>10058146
I'm tired. Coming out of the worse from my sickness. I got pestered at work today with colleagues asking why I don't have a girlfriend yet and them trying to set me up with their friends and now I have some family thing on where I can pestered on why I don't have a girlfriend again except this time my mother tries to set me up with her friend's daughters.

I just don't know. I want to sit in my room all day, watch anime and play with my dolls.

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>>10058152
That's rough anon, I understand why you feel like that sometimes it's so overwhelming that you just want to relax and enjoy life. Don't rush it man keep doing you. I wish I was in your position to be quite honest I like to think if I stop looking for someone I can click with she'll come but I've gotta put in some effort

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>>10058146
Pretty shitty. I lost my job recently so that isn’t helping what little self esteem I have left. I hope I find something soon or I may have to check myself in to a crisis center.

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>>10058158
I'm sorry to hear that anon, you can do it though. Be strong my friend it's rough now but you can push through

>> No.10058160

>>10058146
I'm a bit frustrated, some components I bought second-hand off a guy arrived today and turns out they were so jammed up with dirt as to be non-functional, so I just spent the last couple hours disassembling them, washing everything thoroughly, drying it all, lubing the parts that need lubing and reassembling them all. And then after all that, one of them still doesn't work because turns out the mainspring is fucked.

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>>10058160
Yikes man what is it?

>> No.10058164

>>10058159
Thanks anon. I’ve been looking around for work and am hoping for the best.

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>>10058164
You are a good lad anon, If you need help or someone to talk to Im here

>> No.10058171

>>10057988
I keep seeing mine because I don’t want them to feel lonely. Also I have no friends or any other social life, so visiting them is the only event I have in a week.

>> No.10058174

>>10058160
Never buy anything mechanical or electronic second-hand unless you can test it before you buy it.

>> No.10058175

>>10058163
Some Chinese half-length magazines for the only shooting sport you can legally do without a firearms licence in Australia, foam dart blasters.

>> No.10058176

>>10058174
33% discount versus retail for something I can fix myself if necessary though.

>> No.10058177

>>10058157
It'd just be nicer if I was more confident in myself. I want plastic surgery but y'know, expensive and shit.

>> No.10058179

>>10058177
You don't need it dude trust, you just need to be more proud of yourself and be more accepting dont wanna make a big choice like that

>>10058175
Ah I see, It's always aggravating getting parts for hobbies that come in slighty used condition. it's a very big fear i have when buying cosplay bits

>> No.10058182

>>10058179
Eh. They are features which have always bothered me and when I've asked online for critique of my face, these are been the most common things people have pointed out.

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>>10058182
You are a good anon and deserved to be cherished, someone is bound to think you are the light of their life phyically

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I just want to vent about how much I’ve come to hate lolcow. Most of the cows now are boring as fuck or have the same things said about them over and over again in different ways. And the nitpicking is so bad. People are STILL posting about/nitpicking irrelevant as fuck people like Kota. Even Momokun is no longer interesting. Not to mention how fucking broken the site is. I don’t want to dismiss all anons on there as deranged nutters but the majority of them are, it’s unsettling and sad.
I honestly don’t know how anyone can stand it there anymore or think that site is a benefit to their mental health BECAUSE IT ISN’T. I’ve gotten to the point where I just don’t give a shit about petty drama and the salt in my veins has been reduced to a pinch. I’m going to spend 2019 working on cosplays I always wanted to do and improving myself goddammit.

>> No.10058189

>>10058127
You're absolutely right, don't let people tell you otherwise.

>> No.10058191

>>10058066
To preface, my perspective on coding is as an engineer in the aerospace/defense industry after a bsc in math. Main languages on this side of the industry are things like C, C++, Java. Everyone that I work with that can code either went to school for something related to code or they taught themselves on the job, but it's also a place where you're not getting hired with an IQ below 120-130. The other side of the industry I imagine is the javascript, python, webapp sorta thing, which I imagine is what you should pursue if you're not gonna go for a degree and aren't some 200IQ nut that can shit out some insane project to impress people hiring for the big tech companies.

Motivation is required of course, as well as the ability to sit down and teach yourself a subject. Coding is basically just an exercise in logical problem solving, so it helps if you can hold a couple levels of a problem in your head at the same time. CodeAcademy is probably a decent start since you're basically just gaining a foothold to base further learning through tactical application of google. If you like videos I would just check youtube for 101 videos or little beginner projects. If you have/gain any ideas of projects you can do, I would start working on those after you build up a little base and just pick up everything you need after that as you go, since your endgame is probably some personal project that you can throw on a website/github that you can point to as evidence that you're actually capable of producing something to people looking to hire.

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>>10058146
>going through the drive-through last night
>astolfo-bean-plushie patch on my jacket
>qt at the window says she likes the patch
>t-thanks you too
kinda wanna die desu

>> No.10058202

>>10058192
That's fucking adorable

>> No.10058206 [DELETED] 

Lads, I thought Mohammed was an Islamic name and India was a Hindu country.

>> No.10058210

A lack of romantic affection and sexual fulfilment is one of the largest contributors to my perpetual unhappiness

>> No.10058222

>>10058210
it really do be like that

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>>10058202
thanks you too

bonus:
>hitting the range with my friend, have the same jacket on
>guy checking people in sees the patch, pulls out his phone
>astolfo phone case
>legend of the range trap lives on

>> No.10058238

I'm 26 and my highschool friends have started getting seriously married... Meanwhile I've been in a relationship for seven years but we'll probably never get married because we feel too young and would try to have a cringy cosplay wedding and make fools of ourselves.

>> No.10058247

>>10058238
do what makes you happy, and if you think your ideas are cringy get a second opinion - but it's your wedding.

>> No.10058253

>>10058210
Same

>> No.10058255 [DELETED] 

>>10058191
>Not getting hired with an IQ below 120-130...
Well, I happen to have an IQ of 138 so I'll be alright... I'm just poking fun at the way you worded that because it shows you really are a programmer, doesn't it? It's not that uncommon for people to be above that range; hell, I am. I really am just poking lighthearted fun at you though. No salt. Anon just said they taught themselves Spanish so they'll likely be fine.

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>>10058146
I can't sleep because I slept all day trying to fight off a cold. It was a short weekend because I only had one day off. I can't wait until next week because I'll have a whole 3 days off! Feeling kind of bad that I'll be skipping on seeing my family this year, but working at the factory has gotten me really tired. I'm still feeling bummed about getting buff because I always wanted to be a delicate flower, but life apparently wants me to be Lady Oscar instead. It's not very cute when you can lift more then your guy friends. It's even less cute when you like wearing frilly petticoats and pastel clothing.

I'm excited though because I get to dress up to go cash a check at 9, and I get to do some online shopping before work. It's nice knowing I'll have money to actually spend this holiday season.

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>In discord for a game
>Cosplay channel gets implemented a while ago for cosplayers
>I linked to community shit
>All the other cosplayers post links to their Instagrams and describe how real their boobs are or aren't
>There was an assumed unspoken rule to let a post get attention for a few days before putting up another post, being that there was usually a 2 to 4 day gap between posts
>Put a post up for a photoshoot at a con and not quite two days later a cosplayer posted "new pics" of a cosplay she'd already posted previously. Post was still second visible so okay whatever.
>Day after her, this attention whoring trap who has been spamming the channel with his instashit posted another picture of a cosplay he already previously posted.

I say attention whoring because the dude has had a noticeable pattern of posting absolute shit selfies (with his face censored) whenever someone posts a [way better] cosplay.
>Ex. 3 posts after his 1st post, he posts a second shit selfie of same cosplay but with daki because "for the lulz"
>Another cosplayer with tits posts professional photos of Popular Character A, he posts barely a day later also with his selfie of Popular Character A with a pitiful "lol sorry guys I have no cleavage :c"
It's literally like the guy HAS to be within the last three posts or else he's posting himself again with another shit selfie.
I came to realize, I hate people.

>> No.10058276

>>10058188
kek same
I noped the fuck outta there a while ago when some sperg started fighting with me in a pixie locks thread about a stuffed animal. It was embarrassing, mods also suck at their job but who is surprised lmao

>> No.10058277

>>10058067
I want to go on medication really badly, although a lot of people try to convince me that therapy alone is enough, which is really disheartening. The transportation and no money thing applies to doctors too, so all I can really do is read self help books...

I hope you can move out, anon. This is a really shitty situation to be in.

>> No.10058284

>>10058277
Medication is okay when therapy isn't enough. That's the whole point of why medication exists. It's true that groups, like the American Psychiatric Association, speak against using medication as a first-line of treatment, and over-medication has led to many having stigma against it's use. If you're going through therapy and it's not working... that means you should consider medication. It's nothing you should have to feel guilt over.

>> No.10058303

How do I cure my lack of motivation? I think of changing my job or learning new stuff because it might cheer me up, but I always feel like meh why bother I don’t care. I’d like to have more disposable funds for brand and better job could help here, but again I don’t feel like I can help it.

>> No.10058308

>>10058191
how do you think what skill has the most demand swift or android framework?

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>tfw no 142cm tall with a L-Cup 100cm bust Anila draph gf

Fuck this gay fucking earth with zero, ABSOLUTELY FUCKING ZERO fantasy races to interbreed with.

>> No.10058338

>>10058263
I'm sorry you had a shitty weekend, hope your week turns out good! But also, Lady Oscar is goals to me. What's your gym routine? And don't worry about being buff, lolita covers pretty much everything! The difficulty is finding things that fit but once you do there is no reason why you can't look cute too.

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>>10058329
Don't worry Anon, we'll get our harems of draph and erune women sooner or later. We just have to wait for now.

>> No.10058340

>>10058113
I meant it in the traditional sense of the word not the literal root meaning.

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>>10058191
To add onto what this Anon is saying, there's a middle ground where you work on large technical systems that isn't industrial code but rather "Enterprise" code that the front end monkeys will work on
>t. Cloud developer monkey

>> No.10058348

>>10058263
>Can lift more than your guy friends
I'm guessing they don't go to the gym? What's your bench and squat?

>> No.10058350

>>10058338
Aw, thank you anon. I think my week will be good, and I've been busy picking out what I want to gift myself. It's not really a gym routine that I'm doing. I work as a sanitation worker at a meat processing factory, and the gains are... intense to say the least. Some of the stuff I'm lifting and moving around to clean, like the collapsible shipping crates, weigh up to 160 pounds. It's very physical work. I only weigh 110 so that's quite a bit to be hauling around. Yeah, that's true with covering pretty much everything. I like yumekawaii stuff, but the sleeves are longer fortunately. I just don't feel very cute when I look in a mirror now regarding my upper arms, and I hate it so much. We wear head covering so you can't really see anything except our eyes... Still, it really hit me hard this last Saturday when one of the new guys told me he thought I was a dude at first. It hurt because I don't want people to think I'm masculine. That sounds really stupid, I know, but it hurt a lot.

>> No.10058355

>>10058348
I didn't mean lift in the context of gym slang. I apologize for the confusion. I meant lifting as in lifting and pushing objects for my job mentioned in >>10058350. That's why I said life apparently wants me to be Lady Oscar. It's the only stable job I was able to score where I live, and I kind of have to do it to make a living. It makes me sad because I don't like the way it's making my arms look. I feel like a freak. I like being feminine and cute, and this isn't very feminine looking.

>> No.10058357

why my titties hurt yet they won't fucking grow

>> No.10058359

>>10058355
Have you tried wheyfu mode?

>> No.10058360

>>10058357
if anime has taught me anything it's because you don't have a bf to massage them for you

>> No.10058364

>>10058359
Your post made me laugh a little, thank you.

In all seriousness though, I do not want to be a wheyfu. I've never particularly liked the look of muscle on women. Yet, lo and behold, here I am now. It makes me sad.

>> No.10058379

>>10058364
I'm kind of sceptical of your arms being as big as you think they are. People are often terrible judges of their own body.

>> No.10058380

>>10057726
fuck off to /r9k/ and stay there

>> No.10058393

>>10058210
I feel this

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>>10057726
Just go mgtow and get an anime waifu sex doll. Boom. Needs met.

>> No.10058408

Gulls, I need an advice. How do I tell if I’m abusive ass gf?

>> No.10058410

>>10058408
If you have to ask...

>> No.10058411

>>10058408
What makes you suspect you might be?

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>>10058408
Assuming you're straight, switch the genders around for the situation. Would it be acceptable for your boyfriend to do to you what you're doing to him?

>> No.10058417

>>10058411
I constantly complain to my gf about my stuff and pay a little of attention to her problems

>> No.10058427

>>10058417
That's called neglect. If you keep it up she's probably gonna wisen up and leave you anon. Best lend your ears to her before it's too late.

>> No.10058436

>>10058364
Anon if it makes you feel any better, it's easier to lose muscle than it is to lose fat, so once you eventually get another job you'll definitely slim down and look even nicer than before! In the meanwhile, oversized long sleeves should hide anything you don't want to show, so don't worry about it too much. Good luck with your job!

>> No.10058494

>>10058408
it makes you a shitty gf (in that aspect at least) but not abusive. nothing stopping her from dumping you for someone better tho

>> No.10058513

>>10058308
Not really familiar with mobile dev, my uninformed opinion would be android due to market share.

>>10058343
Fair distinction. Is that something the anon could get hired for soon after teaching themselves a reasonable level of coding, or perhaps something to move to after some experience?

>> No.10058564

>>10058303
>try something new
>do well at it
>enjoy the fruits of your labor
>build on that success

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i'm going to do my make-up today and feel pretty and try to be productive before and after work! i just went 4 days sitting at home letting my hair and skin get greasy, i need to be reborn

>> No.10058593

>>10057836
Yay! I can't wait to do this.

>> No.10058610

>>10058436
This isn't true, inactivity loses muscle, weight loss in general loses fat.

>> No.10058611

>>10058513
They could get hired from self teaching.

>> No.10058613

>>10058586
enjoy your new life

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>>10058364
>I do not want to be a wheyfu. I've never particularly liked the look of muscle on women.
you have yet to see the light. fit lolita best lolita

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>>10058692
This guy gets it

>> No.10058715

I think everyone in my comm hates me. I’m one of the better dressed people in the comm, so I know I’m not being snubbed for being ita or poorly dressed. I’m thinking that because I am pretty shy and have a hard time talking or connecting to others, I think I come off as aloof or snooty. And I’m pretty sure one of the 2 faced divas are telling newer members that I am mean. I’m really depressed about it. I don’t know how to change my perception. I’m not mean I just want to be friends and it’s really depressing that people might think that.

>> No.10058716

Can I vent and ask for advice without being considered a lolcow? I know gulls can be very mean sometimes.

>> No.10058718

>>10058707
I really wish I had that kind of body desu. I used to think it was ugly but now I realize that even if it means bulking a little, I'd be healthy and strong and it'd fit my cosplay aesthetic even if it will make doing lolita more difficult. I'm working at my future self, but it's a long road ahead of me.

>> No.10058719

>>10058716
it depends on what u want advice about

>> No.10058725

>>10058719
W-what to do if someone spread rumors about me? (Example: telling everyone I’m mentally ill because I stalked her facebook, which is not true btw)

>> No.10058728

I got my first brand dress, and I love it so much! I wish I hadn't been directed to bodyline and taobao when I was a newbie, brand is so much nicer.

>> No.10058729

>>10058725
if that's all it is, ignore it and it will go away

>> No.10058730

>>10058729
But that person who she told everything is a literal sociopath, vendetta chan talks bad about me since summer. And now everyone thinks I’m some weirdo who stalks people. Plus it really hurts since she pretended to be a good friend...
;_; sorry I had to vent.
>if that’s all it is
What should I do if it is more? (i didn’t say everything)

>> No.10058731

>>10058718
I personally think it's hot as hell, way better than fatties or skellies

>> No.10058744

>>10058730
Tell your mods. We had a similar issue and once all her lies were out because people started to talk to each other, everyone realized she was the bitch and was booted

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>person acts very friendly to you at con, even compliments your cosplay
>completely ignores any attempts at reaching out online
I hate this meme.

>> No.10058756

>>10058744
It’s not just her, it’s actually a lot of people spreading rumors about me all thanks to one sociopath who is extremely butthurt about me. But hers just hurt the most since she pretended to be my friend. And I’m not milky or anything, I’m just an autist who trusts people too easily.
Meh the mod really doesn’t care, there were nudes leaked (not mine) and they didnt delete them. I got out of that circle anyways long time ago but they still talk about me. I guess I should let them and become the best I can be and let it go. But I wish that person sending me screencaps about what people say about me would stop though, what do they even want? My attention or something?
/vent
Thank you for the (you)s and the listening ear. I will stfu about it now.

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>>10058756
I've been there. It takes time, but they get tired. Just don't give them a single drop of attention. Stay strong and make sure to have friends in different social circles.

>> No.10058767

>>10058759
<3

>> No.10058768

Hope this doesn't sound too whinny.

I bought a BTSSB dress and wore it to a Meeting this last week.

Unfortunately, the dress was a bit frumpy on the bust and waist area (I'm a board), so I used some pins and fixed it on my body, no problem.

But then, during the meeting, a girl approached and asked about the fitting. When I told her that Baby's measurements usually are a bit large for me, she went full berserk, as if I were mocking fat girls while not recognizing my "thin girl privileges".

It bothered me a little, since that was not the point. I am small (152cm) , and I guess it's only natural to have small measurements, since I'm also healthy and sporty.

Anyway, I'm kinda sad right now. I don't want this kind of reaction, but I also want to talk normally about brands and discuss their fits. I don't want to feel like I'm stepping on a landmine whenever the topic arrives just because I'm thinner or smaller.

That's that, I don't even feel motivated for the next meeting. Sorry if it sounds a bit stupid.

>> No.10058772

>>10058754
some people don't like to socialize online

when the next con comes around that you're both attending, meet up for food or a drink or something and i'm sure they'll be friendly to you again

>> No.10058774

>>10058768
that girl was just jealous and angry, sorry you had to deal with someone shitty like her. 152cm is small , try to not let it bother you, if it happens again i would retaliate and or bring it up to the mods. gl

>> No.10058775

>>10058772
thats pretty messed up tho

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>>10058772
>when the next con comes around that you're both attending, meet up for food or a drink or something and i'm sure they'll be friendly to you again
I might try that.
Maybe they just don't want talk with me and there's no easy way for them to say that. If they say anything mean, people can screenshot it and start drama so easily nowadays.
I don't want to force things. maybe I just mistook gentleness for friendliness.

>> No.10058781

>>10058768
Don't give the fat itas time of day. Next time just talk to the pretty girls instead.

>> No.10058784

>>10058775
how????

>>10058779
if you invite them to meet up or if you see them around and they seem uninterested then maybe they just didn't know how to turn you down originally but meh i know a lot of people who i don't speak with much outside of cons but as soon as we see each other we always give hugs and grab coffee or w/e

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>>10058784
yeah It's probably like that.
It just feels strange because I thought we'd be close friends when we first met (similar fandoms, same retarded kind of humor).
just to be clear, they never acted mean or said anything rude. It's just me being bitter about a magical friendship that never happened

>> No.10058797

>>10058789
then that's you being entitled and you're the one who's messed up

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>>10058797
I don't think neither them or me are messed up anon (not for that at least), sorry if I implied otherwise. This was more of a vent than anything else.

>> No.10058808

>>10058781
>>10058774
hahaha, thanks alot, anons.
You both made me laugh a little about this situation. Next time I hope I can remember your messages and get a bit stronger!

>> No.10058824

I'm super depressed. I don't know what to do anymore. I had a ton of fun at a con this past weekend, and it was enough to distract myself temporarily, but now it feels like my old ana-chan ways are hitting me tenfold, along with all of the other bad stuff I usually deal with. I feel like I'm on the verge of relapsing really bad, and it feels like I can't talk to anyone I know without being a bother. Christmas is coming, I just want to tell everyone to return the gifts they bought me so they don't end up wasting money on someone who'll probably be dead by this time next year anyway

>> No.10058827

>>10058824
Don't you have an online friend who could help you talk and release your anxiety a little, anon?

Looking for medical help might also be a good idea.

Don't let morbid thoughts take your mind, though. You'll be alive next year, think of nice things you want to see or do, like brand releases, or cosplay plans. Think of someone special, of vacation plans, anything that might give you some perspective for your life.

And don't forget to talk about it to someone, being your friend, parents or (specially) a doctor.

>> No.10058828

>>10058824
Go see a doctor.
Also, don't think you're a bother to your friends. That's unhealthy and simply not true in most cases.

>> No.10058834

I don't wear lolita outside of my house yet my mother keeps on attacking me for buying them and saying I'm mentally ill and have a child brain and I should spend my money instead on high brand clothing and bags like a "normal girl" (I wear nike and adidas clothes in my daily life) this is makes me crazy I'm sick and tired of this she thinks she wants the good for me but she's doing the opposite, my dream in this whole life is to live in an another country far from her but the problem is I can't live alone unless I get married but you can't choose a someone that will accept me for who I am except if I get lucky...

>> No.10058835

>>10058834
tell her that lolita brands have a high resale value, so they're more like and investment, and maybe she'll stop whining.

>> No.10058854

>>10058754
>tfw I'm the one ignoring or acting different online, often taking days to reply
I don't know man, it's just so much more enjoyable in person vs. online

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>be me, a guy
>ended up not cosplaying because losing weight, but currently still pretty hammy
>trying to branch out, but I didn't want to approach anyone even though my friends were telling me to because that feels weird
>feel like I've gotten into the cosplay scene too late, will be 26 next month
>trying my best to look up, but it's always going to be a struggle
>doesn't help that I'm self-conscious about my money and career situation and I'm a wage slave that has to save for months to go to cons
How do I approach people at cons without coming off as creepy, or is it just always going to be creepy and my friends are full of shit? I really don't want to come off like an ass. I'm putting in a lot of effort to present myself, and I'm looking better than ever, but the only girls I've ever met at cons were those that approached me in the past (which is literally just 1 - my ex). Should I just give up and look elsewhere? I feel like a selfish prick for having massive anxiety around girls. Like, I feel like I should be able to take things far more casually, but I wear my goals too heavily and I'm looking for serious relationships only. Like, conventions don't feel like the places to mingle any more, and the adult events I go to are always too sleazy and off-putting for me and I hate it. I'm doing so much to work on myself but I feel like polished brimstone. I look great and feel great, but I'm still just a coward beneath the shine.

>> No.10058859

>>10058834
Why can't you live alone?

>> No.10058872

>>10058855
You haven't gotten into the cosplay scene, don't worry! First, you shouldn't only approach girls like you're looking for a relationship. That's the number one way to always feel awkward or anxious while talking to people. Start by making friends with girls first. Once you can start doing that, it'll be easier to approach girls to flirt with them.

If it helps, try looking through the convention tags on Instagram or something and talking to girls with similar interests through there first. I find it easier to talk to people irl if I've talked to them online for a little bit first.

Being not-creepy takes practice! It takes a lot of practice and hard work. As long as you keep working towards it, you'll eventually get to a place where you aren't creepy at all. You just have to take small steps. Make comfortable eye contact, listen to what other people have to say and build off of that. You'll get there, anon! Just practice.

>> No.10058874

>>10058872
You haven't gotten into the cosplay scene too late* I mean

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>>10058854
>I don't know man, it's just so much more enjoyable in person vs. online
I agree, but damn I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to chit talk with cosplayers who share the same fandom and jokes

>> No.10058892

>>10058872
>>10058874
It's funny that you mention this, but the thing is that I actually can be very easy to talk to and I have plenty of friends that are women. I just had a miserably bad previous relationship and I'm now more stressed than I probably should be about what women think about me, especially ones that find me attractive.

I'm just so hopelessly intimidated by girls at conventions, and I just don't know if it will ever be something I can get over. I love complimenting girls and talking about how much I like their cosplay, and I can even hold conversations, but it never progresses more than that. Like, I know I'm handsome (I know that sounds really fucked up to say probably, but I was approached by tons of girls in high school that I weren't interested in, so I know I'm cute) but I get so intimidated by girls that I AM interested in that I'll initiate, enjoy the conversation, but then immediately go into full blown panic mode:

>oh man she's cute, but I haven't really gotten her age yet, I need to know this but I don't want to come off as a creep, oh fuck what if she has a boyfriend? I don't know how to fish for that, and I'm having difficulty holding this conversation further, fuck I feel like I'm sweating, I don't want to let out my autism, but she's so cute and I wish I could talk to her about more stuff besides what she's wearing away from every one, oh my fucking god what am I thinking, who am I thinking, I'm not hot shit if I can't even ask her this shit up front fuck fuck fuck

That's sort of what goes through my mind. I know it sounds autistic as fuck, but I'm just so intimidated by women, even though I've been historically complimented as looking good. It's getting better as I lose weight, but I feel like I have too much to worry about now and I feel like I would have had so much more fun at conventions when I was younger.

con't

>> No.10058893

>>10058892
Sorry this post got stupid long, but anyway.

I have plenty of varied interests and hobbies that aren't just "lol I play vidya and masturbate". I can talk about those as well.

I know this sounds hopelessly fucked up, anon, but I promise I'm not going to cons strictly looking to bone girls. I'm just lonely and it would be beri naitsu to have a cute cosplay/lolita gf to talk to that I actually connect with and not some Tinder thot that ghosts me when she realizes that A) I like anime, art, animation, and other shit and B) a softie that enjoys talking about my emotions.

>> No.10058895

>>10058436
That's true. I'll work at the place for a good while simply because the pay is really good, I like my co-workers, and the shorter shift is lovely. You're right though. It's nothing permanent, and, yes, oversize long sleeves and comfy big t-shirts will hide the part I'm not liking with my upper arms.
>>10058707
>>10058692
Y'all are cracking me up.
>>10058718
On one hand, I do feel healthier then I've ever felt. I think my issue with it is more a complex then anything. I use to be really tomboyish, and going into high school, that started to lead to people bullying me. In contrast, I ended up dressing super feminine and whatnot. So, I guess to some extent, my feelings toward it being 'masculine' might just be related to the past. It's relieving to hear some people maybe don't see it that way. Yeah, with lolita it might be an issue. I just don't like... the thickness. It's not fat, but it's wide and some sleeves hit right where it's widest. In my case, it'd be an issue if I wore baby-doll style tees.
>>10058348
BTW, anon, I needed to say something. No, my friends don't go to the gym, but most use to be stronger then me. However, that's my friends. I certainly CANNOT lift more then the men working in my department. I can handle most the department, but 160 is the limit it would seem. There are a couple pieces of equipment that I cannot lift, and the guys there have to move it. Generally, they'll move it on their own, but sometimes they won't do it until they watch me try a few times. I'm assuming it amuses them.

>> No.10058898

My hair is seriously thinning on the sides of my head recently. It looks really thin, you can see my scalp through it, the hair looks like it grows in streaks because of lines where no hair is growing. Doctor keeps telling me "It's hardly noticeable. From the front you can't even tell at all." But it's completely destroying my confidence. I don't want to go outside, I don't want to do anything, I don't want to speak to anyone, I don't want to look at myself in the mirror. I don't have the genetics for balding (and the type of hairloss and where it is occurring couldn't be male pattern balding) so my doctor has told me it's caused by stress and it should clear up in a few months and just to keep the stress down from there on but it's been months and nothing has changed, if anything I feel it's getting worse but he just tells me to be patient.

I want to see a dermatologist to get a real diagnosis because even though my life has gotten less stressful this hair problem has caused me more stress than anything else in my life so far. But I don't think he will give me one. What do?

>> No.10058902

>>10058898
sadly hair takes a long time to grow back. Try taking vitamins for hair, maybe even massage etc. same thing happened to me and it's slowly getting better, but I've drastically reduced my stress and have come to terms with it. it sucks and I still hate it when I let it bother me, but life is too short and I'd rather just do my best to make myself happy despite the obstacles.

>> No.10058907

>>10058902
Like it is starting to actually consume my life. I am constantly looking at the sides of others guys heads and thinking "Fucking hell mine looks so fucking bad." I'm not even a bad looking person, I think I'm kind of cute but this has me wanting curl up into a ball of ugliness and fucking end it all.

How long did yours to start growing back?

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>>10058898
I hope it's not alopecia, but a dermatologist will be able to tell you. Even in that worst case scenario, there's treatments now to keep it under control. It likely is just stress. Are you eating okay? Sometimes we don't eat as well when we're stressed, and that can show in our hair. If you like peanut butter, eat peanut butter. It has all except two of the amino acid components needed to build hair; it'll help your new growth.

In the meantime, if your hair is a natural color, you can use Toppix. It's a bit pricey, and often advertised for 'male pattern baldness', but it's superior for the patchy and stress-related baldness. It's worth the price if you desperately desire a temporary fix. You'll have to reapply it when you style your hair, and make sure to shampoo well so you don't build residue. I hope maybe my rambling helps a little.

>> No.10058910

>>10058909
I've never had issues with my hair even when I was an ana-chan. My hair has always has such an insane amount of volume in it that it was unwieldy sometimes.

>> No.10058911

>>10058898
you could get a hairstyle for the time being that's very short at the sides

>> No.10058913

>>10058911
My hair already is short at the sides but the problem is my hair grows very quickly, probably double that of normal people.

I shave the sides and back of my hair to a zero and within two weeks it's already grown out to a length where the thinning and bald streaks are very noticeable.

>> No.10058914

>>10058907
this is the same for me. It literally sucks. I do spend a lot of time looking at other people's hair and feeling bad about my own, but seriously, stressing out doesn't help. You really just need to stop thinking about it as much as you can if it is really stress related. And sad to say, but it's been about a year and a half now. I'm a woman though, it might be different for a man. Just try to be positive and calm anon. I'm really sorry, I know how shitty it is... people judge a woman a lot by her appearance, and I know I judge myself a lot on things like hair too, and I can only imagine it's the same for a guy.

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What kind of panties do I wear with sweet lolita?

>> No.10058916

>>10058915
none
;^)

>> No.10058918

>>10058910
We get older though, and our bodies can react differently. It was just a suggestion though. I hope you get it resolved soon. If you feel like going to the dermatologist, you should. It would provide a little bit of relief.

>> No.10058920

>>10058914
I can imagine it's much worse for you being a girl. I know a lot of girls who's hair is their security blanket in a way and they can hide behind it.

I know as a guy I can just go to skinhead if I was really desperate but fuck I do not suit a shaven head, I have such nice hair and I always loved styling my hair and I used to get compliments on my hair and now whenever someone compliments my hair I just think it's insincere now and they're just trying to make me feel better and I can feel them staring at this fucking abomination of the sides of my head.

I just want to cover myself up and die.

>> No.10058922

>>10058915
why do people keep posting that boy everywhere?

>> No.10058923

>>10058756
I feel you on this, anon. Had a situation almost identical to this happen to me and some other girls in my comm. It took a while (almost a year and a half) for them to cut their shit out but it did happen eventually. My only issue is that so many people ignored what they did/do to others since it wasn’t actively happening to them so now that it’s pretty much done with they still have plenty of admirers despite being horrible people. I would just ignore it as best you can at this point, anon. As long as you aren’t engaging or acknowledging them others will hopefully see that the ones hurting you are bullshitters.

>> No.10058924

>>10058834
Where exactly do you live out of curiosity? I don't know if I can understand the perspective you're coming from due to your comment on marriage. Tell her outright that she's doing the opposite, and she's insulting you. Tell her it's not 'children's clothes', and it's more akin to clothes adults use to wear. It's expensive, but there's a whole lot worse that people spend excess cash on.

>> No.10058926

>>10058922
STOP THIS MEME SHE HAVE A PUSSY

>> No.10058929

>>10058893
Ohhh, I see! My point still stands that practice makes perfect. You don't sound hopelessly fucked up. I understand how you feel completely, as I've found myself in a similar situation a little while back. You just need to retrain your brain. It's easier said than done, but the payoff is SO worth it. Just know that if you're easy to talk to, girls probably don't think you're creepy at all!

You could fish for that info you need really subtly, it just takes practice. You could ask about age by asking about drinks—some bars will have themed drinks around convention time, and it could be as easy as asking "hey, have you tried the (specialty drink) yet? I was thinking of trying it." If everything goes well and it's still early on in the convention, you could ask for her Instagram or Twitter or something if you wanna meet up again in a little bit. You could also ask for those socials if you take a pic with her! This is the digital age, man, social media stalking is everything.

Just make sure to breathe, anon! With patience, you'll be able to get through.

>> No.10058933

>>10058728
Yep, this was the same for me.

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PSA... Don't fart at meets. Just go poop.

If you have time to brap, you have time to crap.

>> No.10058942

>>10058913
well yeah every 2 weeks is normal for that kind of thing. ur hair grows at a normal rate.

>> No.10058943

>>10058942
It grows an inch in 2 weeks, even my barber noted how fast my hair grows.

>> No.10058957

>>10058941
This image is so cursed that I can feel more and more demons entering my home the longer I stare at it

>> No.10058982

>>10058941
Wtf niggie

>> No.10059002

>>10058915
Thong diaper

>> No.10059004

>>10058915
Children's print panties

>> No.10059009

>>10058926
You don’t know that anon

>> No.10059010

>>10058941
This is a power move right here.

>> No.10059018

>>10058941
>men want one thing and it's fucking fabulous

>> No.10059022

>>10059018
>tfw no fabulous gf who always looks incredible, even when she's just woken up and after sex

>> No.10059037

>>10059022
>mfw i am this fabulous gf
idgaf what other gulls think, submitting to men is fantastic

>> No.10059041

>>10059037
Be ready to get called a LARP in 3...2...1...

>> No.10059046

I'm meeting up with my friends soon and one of them decided to buy us all presents this year when he knew the rest of us can't afford to buy presents for each other. I think it's kind of rude? It was really without warning as well.

>> No.10059050

>>10059046
It's counter-intuitive, but it's entirely self-centered on his part. Giving presents makes him feel good, so he gives them with no thought to how receiving presents might make the recipients feel.

>> No.10059052

>>10059046
Just accept it graciously. It's not coming from a bad place. He knows that he has the resources to spare so maybe if feels a little bit obligated since nobody else has the money and people might look down on him for having all these spare resources and just hoarding them despite everyone else doing it tough.

>> No.10059053

>>10058859
Tbh because I'm scared without anyone with me even if I was brave my family won't allow me

>>10058924
Middle east, yeah it's better than my sibling who waste them on Vbucks

>> No.10059057

>>10059037
I remember you posting this. As a guy, you're cute, but too young for me to say anything inappropriately off-the-cuff. Still, just so you know, you rocked that shit.
All I remember is you saying that this was your prom night, so yeah.

>> No.10059070

>some melon of a technician cut the internet line for my suburb and short circuited the exchange box
>lose home internet completely
>call up support to complain
>"we'll fix it at some point after Christmas I guess"
Guess I'll just do nothing until then

>> No.10059074

>>10059070
>"we'll fix it at some point after Christmas I guess"
That is appalling service.

>> No.10059122

>>10058941
W-what’s the story behind this?

>> No.10059126

>>10059122
She likes lolita and Joseph Joestar

>> No.10059133

>>10059126
How can you tell?

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I've spent $800 on VM's newest collection alone.

It's not enough.

>> No.10059163

The IRS has probed my thotting ways.

>> No.10059170

>>10059163
If you're a thot can I probe your vagina?

>> No.10059175

>>10059170

Thats on my $100 Patreon tier

>> No.10059180

>>10059163
Is it customary to tip whores? Asking for a friend.

>> No.10059183

>>10059180
Not the kind you normally find on the streets.

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Good morning cgl hows your night/morning going, I just finished some good ol fashion farming on fgo and now im working on some cos

>> No.10059190

>>10059188
I'm with a terrible migraine, but nothing outside the expected for this time of the month.

Right now I'm debating over buying a new release from Lady Sloth or just saving my money for future Moitie releases.

Hope you have a nice day, anon!

>> No.10059194

>>10059190
That sucks a bit but hey it’s the winter. I’m having an ok time someone I’m really found of just came back home and I can finally message them. I am happy I am clicking so well with them

>> No.10059195

>>10059188
I just realised my sore throat isn't actually a sore throat and is something more sinister so I'm purging with throat cleanses and salt. Tastes like shit, but whatever works.

>> No.10059200

>>10059195
Go get em anon don’t get sick, kill that bug before it kills you

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>>10059188
I slept way too much, I need to list some of my brand for sale but I have no motivation to get up and do anything. I miss being excited about things.

>> No.10059203

>>10059195
I usually gargle a mix of water and vinegar to clean my throat. Hope this helps you.

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>>10059201
You and me both anon I wish I had more things to be happy for but you know what my friends have been having some really good luck lately and that makes me glad. Maybe we could be friends too

>> No.10059210

I'm glad 4chan's /cgl/ only has like around 100 people going to it. I don't have to think about it as being the crosssection of the cosplaying community.

>> No.10059211

>>10059200
Thanks anon, it will probably get lost on its own after a few days.

>>10059203
I might try that as well. All for the full on assault!

>> No.10059213

> meeting tinder guy for sex again today
> told myself never again
> may greet him in cosplay for fetish reasons and to solidify my hatred of myself

>> No.10059218

>>10059213
Damn, how do I get in on that action?

>> No.10059231

>>10059188
Time for a good feel.
Tidied my house and garden listening to Ali Project today, then went and picked up a new jsk from the post office.
Going to watch tv and drink tea in my aatp cutsew op with my usakumya.
Feels good. Hope you have a good day too anon

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>>10059213
I don't get it, anon. You're not doing anything wrong, why would you hate yourself?

>> No.10059237

>>10059213
If you know you're going to regret it, why go through with it?

>> No.10059238

>>10059213
>at work Christmas party
>One of the very, very rare occasions anybody ever sees me outside of work as well as one of the very few times a year I'll drink
>Basically all the people I work with surround me and try to interrogate me because I'm very private and closed off to most questions
>Eventually get to the questions of sex and whatever
>Admit that I haven't had sex in over a year since my ex left
>Everybody is just floored by my answer

Turns out everybody thought I was some sex god with a personal harem apparently. I don't care to gossip at work but I got told that people took my constant texting as messaging girls since I never talk about hanging out with friends, they know I'm single and if someone asks who I'm talking to I just always say "It's just a friend."

>I'm actually just talking to my internet friends who are all male

It was nice and all getting the affirmations of my physical attractiveness from some of the girls, along with my dating eligibility and watching them go kind of predatory but really strange knowing I had this alter-ego form around me.

>> No.10059239
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Tfw Lolita great eats all the unicorn shapes from your Lucky Charms box

>> No.10059247

me: I have too many clothes
also me: I need more clothes

>> No.10059266

>>10059213
>when you're thought of as attractive by women, but you're petrified of them because trust issues and phobia of STDs from high school
I'd murder a village to find a cosplay gf on Tinder.

>> No.10059273

>>10059266
>tinder
>cosplay gf
>phobia of STDs
?????

>> No.10059276
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>nasty fattychan in my comm taunts and belittles me over item I desperately want that she has
>am depressed
>feel like I’m undeserving trash that no matter my efforts and hard work
>fattychan struggles financially
>always begging for money on fb to pay her bills
>has to sell hers and almost the rest of her wardrobe off
>finally get my own much nicer version
>accomplished many personal goals
>really happy things have improved for me

I know I should feel bad for her but I don’t at all after how rude and hateful she was towards me over a stupid material thing. I feel satisfied knowing she will probably quit lolita all together soon so hopefully she won’t pull this crap on any other girls in the future

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>>10059276
Hopefully she'll stop belittling others, lose weight, learn to manage her money better and become a better person altogether

>> No.10059279

>>10059273
Did I say something confusing? I thought what I said was pretty concise and coherent, albeit cringey. Lol

>> No.10059292

>>10059190
Winter Spices is damn cute and the skirt is only $80..... But if your heart belongs to Moitie then save your money.

>> No.10059308

I need to start working on my cosplay and I keep thinking about it, but it's a ton of self-drafting for something I've never made and I really don't like the trial-and-error phase of sewing. Also, I can't figure out why the one step buttonhole foot doesn't feed, and it keeps making globs on the bottom side.

>>10059238
I feel hard with you anon

I'm a senior in college and a lot of my high school girl friends were totally shocked to find out I was single. Back in high school I was attractive and funny, with the only caveat being weak, and now I started working out to fit cosplays (and because I started browsing /fit/ xd)
On top of that, I get ogled at cons and girls will generally take a photo with me and then stare after. Too bad I have a terrible fear of rejection to make a move

It's great on one hand but on the other hand it fucking sucks knowing you're your own biggest enemy

>> No.10059321 [DELETED] 

>>10058380
>fuck off to /r9k/
maybe
>and stay there
I doubt I will stay there

>>10058400
it's, not the same...

I at least post some happy feels (even still /cgl/-unrelated)
I good a new job (just have to wake up around 6 o clock in the morning)

>> No.10059330

>>10059279
yeah cause if tinder + cosplay gf = high chance of stds

>> No.10059363

>>10059330
I'm not saying women on Tinder sleep around (some do) I'm just saying that I have an irrational phobia of meeting women I haven't gotten to know at all for flings because I'm from the south and had third world sex ed that taught me to fear vaginas and condoms and to never trust anyone. I'm working on getting over it. Don't take it personally. I said it was a phobia for a reason.

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>>10059330
>tinder + cosplay gf = high chance of stds
this is a meme.

>> No.10059369

>>10059367
I see through your lies, herpes-chan. You're not going to get me to sign up.

>> No.10059374

>>10059363
Are you stupid?

>> No.10059381

>>10059374
No. I have a phobia that I'm working through because I had religious nut jobs come to my school and literally tell my penis would rot off and condoms we're not an effective means of preventing shit. Are you emotionally distraught by what some random guy said on the internet? Stop being insulted by something that I made sure to clarify that it wasn't something to be taken personally.

>> No.10059382

>>10057558
I wanna kill myse

>> No.10059385

>>10059363
>>10059369
>>10059330

Holy shit, what a disgusting misogynistic piece of shit.

>> No.10059386

>>10059381
Just to add, even though this is getting pretty off topic, I don't use Tinder at all because of this fear, let alone use it for cosplay gfs

>> No.10059388

>>10059385
Two of those posts aren't even me. I'm fucking off before I get banned. JFC

>> No.10059391

>>10059385
I really hope you aren't serious or you need to get your sense of humor checked.

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i hate robots

>> No.10059398

>>10059396
Don't worry, you have to prove you're not a robot every time you post on this site, so you should be safe here.

>> No.10059402

>>10059396
All of us girls do.

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>>10059398
She's calling men in thread "robots" ie r9k ie she refuses to humanize men because reasons.

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>>10059404
I don't think that's the case and I'm very aware what she was saying, that was my attempt at humor.

>> No.10059410

>>10059404
Incel men are not human.

>> No.10059413

>>10059410
>feels thread is always "incel men" bitching about sexually frustrated "thots" and vice versa
Why don't you guys fuck just so you can get a better understanding for each other and then keep thread on topic (or better yet, just leave the thread and talk about shit relevant to the board topic and not about how your genitals haven't been touched in a while)

>> No.10059416

>>10059410
This, if you somehow can't manage to get laid in high school that's a clear sign you're undesirable and might just as well not even exist.

>> No.10059417

>>10059277
Hopefully but I doubt it. She’d rather sit on her ass, shovel food into her mouth nonstop and blame others for her crappy life.

>> No.10059419

>>10059363
are you dense? tinder is literally a hook-up app. and the more sex you have the higher chance of stds there is. if you want to find a cosplay gf on tinder she has a higher chance of stds. how do you not understand the point i'm making

>>10059367
>bowsette
stds confirmed

>>10059385
i'm a woman and the same logic applies to men who use tinder? the only reason you're crying misogny!!!1!1! is because you sleep around and have stds and are taking it personally

>> No.10059421

>>10059385
If I say no herpes after sleeping with you does it not count like that time I slammed a twink in the asshole but said no homo after jizzing in his eye?

>> No.10059437

>>10059363
Then don’t use Tinder?????? There are other apps like okcupid that around revolves around hook ups.

>> No.10059446

>>10059308
Hopping on the mutual feels train. I'm also a senior in college now and have had girls approach me and stuff (so I don't think I'm totally unattractive), but when I was like sixteen I had some bad stuff happen to me -- idk if I would be right in calling it sexual assault given our age and the situation, but a girl would show her interest by suddenly grabbing or trying to kiss me and then really aggressively pursued me for a long time -- and now my feelings on intimacy are so confusing and scary that I immediately reject everyone and am terrified when female friends try to turn the relationship romantic

It's the same feeling of knowing you're your own biggest enemy in that regard

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>>10059417
That's unfortunate, but let's wish for the best. Perhaps she just needs the right motivator to improve.

>> No.10059483

>>10059396
sorry

>> No.10059516

>>10058892
The fact that you can talk at all and form coherent thoughts while conversing means you can get back on the horse. Just keep talking and you'll get there.
My brain just goes
>AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
every time a girl even makes eye contact and God help me if she engages. I might keep my shit together for 30-40 seconds but any longer and I run out of words to say.

>> No.10059550

I’m really blessed and lucky to have a husband with a great job that lets me stay home and gives me a monthly budget for lolita and other frivolous things. I’ve worked hard for everything I ever wanted until I was diagnosed with fribromyalgia but the girls in my comm don’t see it this way and think I’m just some spoiled gold digging entitled brat that begs for stuff. I don’t ever rub my life in others faces or act like I’m better than anyone else and I really like to buy brand for others. But no one stays friends with me for very long because they think I don’t deserve what I have because I don’t work. I’ve thought about telling that I don’t because of my fibro but everytime someone talks about having a real diagnosed problem at a meet or tea sjw types and fatty chans have pissing matches over whose the sickest with self diagnosed crap. some others we have just say chronic illnesses if you aren’t fat, poor, etc is just an excuse.

I wish I could move far away to a better city with other girls that are well off. I know how bad that sounds but I am older than most girls in my comm save for a few badly dressed ones that do weird fandom lolita and renne faires. I don’t judge people based on wealth or lack of but I feel like being in a comm with other girls with established lives won’t be so cruel to me and would accept me and be my friend.

my dream is to someday host a luxurious tea party in a beautiful, historic building with harp being played gently as we enjoy a lavish spread of sweets and savouries whilst discussing latest releases, reminiscing our days as babby lolitas and trends come and gone over the years. But it will never happen where I currently live. There are no such places as this and people don’t make much money here unless you have great education. High paying jobs are scarce unless you work tech or medical. It makes me hate myself for having fibro because I want to work and move away and live my frilly dreams. (1/2)

>> No.10059560

>>10059550
i’m sorry such a long post. lately I have been thinking about this often and it makes me very depressed. I wish so badly I could move away but my husband doesn’t want to leave his family while I have none to leave behind.

times like this make me wish I could be as oblivious and just poor enough that I could fit in with my comm. I just want to have dear friends to share my love of lolita with. besides my husband and his family and our beautiful home I have nothing else I love so dearly as lolita. my dresses are my pride and joy and make me feel so beautiful and confident it distracts my from the constant pain I am in. I really envy you gulls who have such communities and friends. (2/2)

>> No.10059567

>>10059550
>I’m really blessed and lucky to have a husband with a great job that lets me stay home
Good god this is disgusting
>and gives me a monthly budget for lolita and other frivolous things.
Phew. Well at least you don't have children.

>> No.10059578

>>10059070
consolidated? they do this shit all the time and we have had to force them to come out and fix it - they tried blaming our internet being out on us, sure enough someone knocked the line out down the street

>> No.10059582
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Why haven't I had any kind of motivation for the past month? It is unexplainable, I have no reason to feel like this. All I want to do is sleep during the day.

>> No.10059583

>>10059582
same anon - if it's not depression (things are going good you just don't feel like doing anything anymore) you might be low on B12, aka your energy vitamin.

i just got prescribed a shot i give myself of b12 every two weeks, as well as daily sublinguals you can buy over the counter. i would suggest taking b12 if you are feeling this way

>> No.10059584

>>10059210
I'm only here regarding fashion, and I'm sure others are similar so the amount of cosplayers is likely even lower then your estimates. Even a few cosplayers I know only really browse for fashion and a few miscellaneous threads.

>> No.10059586

>>10059180
It's not unusual to tip if you're a "regular" whether that be a stripper, webcam worker, dominatrix, or, yes, an actual prostitute. Otherwise, you don't really pay more then asked.

>> No.10059589

>>10059180
Adding to my response, outside being a regular, you only 'have' to do so if they specify 'tribute'. That's usually only required with dominatrix or other BDSM stuff though.

>> No.10059591

>>10059578
Telstra. They're owning up to the problems, at least, they just don't fix them and do the bare minimum of infrastructure maintenance/improvement.

>> No.10059592

>>10059053
I figured you had to be located in Middle East. I hope it gets better, and she either lays off, a male family member saves you, or you find an awesome dude who isn't a douche about your fashion, my middle eastern anon in frills.

>> No.10059608

lol I blew it this semester

>> No.10059613

>Bf randomly asked for my waist size today
>Happily responded 80
>Play it smooth by going off on what a good number it is
>Even and easy to remember
>Don't mention Christmas
>Conversation rolled on to different topic
>Inside I'm overjoyed whatever he has planned involves my waist

Gulls, don't settle for less.

>> No.10059640

Finally we're back

>> No.10059658

>>10059613
>80
damn alright...

>> No.10059662

>>10059567
I thought girls that wanted to be hyper pampered wanted this kind of arrangement...

>> No.10059666

>>10059658
Was lying of course

>> No.10059719
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>>10059658
>>10059666
80 CENTIMETRES YOU BIG DUMB MEANIES

>> No.10059721

>>10057558
Why should I date a gull

>> No.10059723

I missed you guys.

I went into a mild panic and got really grumpy when I couldn't post in the feels thread because this is like one my only forms of social interaction I get.

>> No.10059724

>>10059723
Ug anon are you ok do you want several hugs and rubs?

>> No.10059737

>>10059724
I would love some back rubs if you're offering. I also like having my hands massaged.

>> No.10059739

>>10059737
Well aren't you a needy lass, but like i like pampering a girl thats worth it

>> No.10059741

>>10059739
I have a dick, sorry to disappoint.

>> No.10059742

>threw a bunch of old clothes out yesterday
>still sad

WHY

>> No.10059743

>>10059741
yikes

>> No.10059745

>>10059122
gull felt like flexing her powerlevel and went to prom like that

>> No.10059749

>>10059743
If I wasn't as tall as I am, I think I could be a pretty cute girl if that's better. I really want that back rub.

>> No.10059773

>>10059749
I have a massage fetish. I'm not going to do anything with your dick but I can give you a nice back massage.

>> No.10059779

>>10059773
>I have a massage fetish.
What does that even mean?

>> No.10059783

>>10059779
It's sexually gratifying for me to massage someone.

>> No.10059785

>>10059742
Because you're a white woman, the 2nd most privileged sort of person in this world after white men.

>> No.10059786

>>10059785
found the nigger

>> No.10060127

>>10059783
Are you that freak from Catfish that cruises around town with a massage board in his car and begs for feet pics?

>> No.10060129

>>10060127
No. I'm a shut in. I used to like to massage people before I became a shut in though.

>> No.10060132

>>10059567
How is it disgusting? I am physically unable to work and I feel lucky I have a partner that can take care of me. I have a degree in engineering that I’d love to put to use but can’t. If we had kids I would be more than willing to give up my monthly spending for them.

>> No.10060145 [DELETED] 

>>10060132
Aaahhhh, sorry, I didn't know you were fat positive. Then it's okay. But please don't have kids with him if he's a white dude.

>> No.10060147

Most of my fetishes are dangerous and that makes me sad. I'll never be comfortable enough to find a girl that wants to get painfully strangled during sex or get flogged

>> No.10060148 [DELETED] 

Holy shit, I just noticed there are 6 fucking "feel" threads up at the same time. This board really went to shit. Might as well call it /fem9k/

>> No.10060152

>>10060148
/frill9k/*

>> No.10060154

>>10060148
Mods need to enforce a one-thread rule.

>> No.10060187

>>10060148
You can take the fem out of that. These threads are crossboarder central.

>> No.10060193 [DELETED] 

>>10060187
This. It's all the men's fault.

>> No.10060196

>>10060193
How?

>> No.10060200 [DELETED] 

>>10060196
Don't @reply to me, male pig.

>> No.10060205

>>10060200
Are you good dude?

>> No.10060218

>>10057779
Boobs are cool though. Except fake ones

>> No.10060223

Lmao my buddy told me about this board and I came to check it out, this is sad. Why are you sluts playing coy? Girls can get a good man easily provided they want to have kids and take care of their family, but while there are disgusting stacies there is also you who waste time on weeb shit. You're not getting any younger

>> No.10060229

>>10057558
I’ve been planning my cosplay for a few weeks now and I really hope that I’m accurate with some of the bits, I’m not the type of guy that has an eye for detail so I’m alittle never for next year but hopefully everyone that knows what character I’m from gets it

>> No.10060248

>>10060132
Don't listen to that jealous bitch. And I bet you'd love having kids, it's really great. I'm 26 and already have 2, looking back I wish I could've had them sooner so I can have even more. The only girls I know who don't like kids are the sex and the city types who'd rather be out getting drunk and whoring themselves out, but then think the world is to blame when they turn 40 and realize they're all alone. The crazy cat lady is a real thing

>> No.10060250

>>10059785
You really think I'm gonna apologize for who I am? I'll bet you're either jewish or a spic, because even the black girls I met could be nice

>> No.10060255

>>10060248
I saw my 2 little cousins the other day who are 6 and 7. And they are the most darling little girls I've ever met in my life afterwards I got home and I'll admit I cried a little bit about not being able to have my own.

>> No.10060256

>>10060255
naryt btw

>> No.10060260

>>10058087
just fast dude, OMAD is great too.

>> No.10060264 [DELETED] 

>>10060250
>>>/pol/

>> No.10060275

>>10060255
Oh, you can't? I read your reply regarding your condition, but I didn't know this was one of effects. I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you.

>> No.10060276

>>10060264
>If you use racial slurs you must be a right-wing nut

This is why nobody likes the left, either you're a full blown commie fighting the good fight or you're an evil nazi. No inbetween. Ever actually interacted with real people? I've called people racially insensitive shit all the time, call my asian friends chink boy, indian friend curry nigger, african friend Jerome. I get called snow nigger or white trash. Nobody actually cares.

>> No.10060278

>>10060275
I'm nayrt so don't worry about that, just bringing up kids made me remember but I'm one of the couple of anons who lurk here who are infertile.

>> No.10060330

>>10060276
t. someone who only talks to people on discord and hasn't said these things in public ever

>> No.10060332

>>10060278
are you steroids anon or the anon who had cancer?
stay strong either way.

>> No.10060346

>>10060332
steroids anon.

>> No.10060380

I'm having a really bad insomnia night and considering hurling myself out a window

>> No.10060382

>>10060380
Hurl yourself into my arms

>> No.10060383

>>10060380
Hurl on my dick.

>> No.10060389

>>10060383
vomit fetishism is disgusting

>> No.10060390

>>10060389
It just seems overly messy and a lot of clean up.

>> No.10060633

>>10060380
Defenestrate someone else. Defenestrate whenever possible. Become the serial defenestrator.

>> No.10060639 [DELETED] 

>>10060389
No
>>10060633

>> No.10060644

>>10060639
While i'm all for more serial defenestrators I'm not sure what my post had to do with your refusal.

>> No.10061298 [DELETED] 

Test

>> No.10061719
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>Celebrating new year's with new group
>Really excited about it
>New friend I like a lot says she'll be giving away presents
>Want to give one back to her
>No idea what her present is going to be though
>Could be anything
>Might be a drawing
>Find some socks I know would fit her style
>Don't know if buying my way out is sound
>Time and inspiration to make some art in return is low
>Even so, WHAT IF IT'S NOT A DRAWING?
>SHOULD I GIVE HER SOCKS??
>AAAAAAAAAAA

>> No.10061721

>>10061719
Just make sure they're cool socks. Or warm socks. Whatever.

>> No.10061728

>>10061721
It's brand socks. 20$.

>> No.10061730

>>10061728
She'll enjoy it then. Go for it, gull.

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>>10061730
Thank you.

>> No.10061825

I’m pretty sad around this time of year lads what are am i gonna do?

>> No.10061943

>>10061825
Take your vitamin D supplements. 5000 units.

>> No.10063122

rip feels threads
it was nice while it lasted
t. crossboarder

>> No.10066226

>>10059396
robots are the soul of this site, to be fair

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