Feels thread

[Anonymous No.10427362]

No tea until 2021 edition.

[Anonymous No.10427411]

I posted this elsewhere, but I'm still mad.

USPS lost my package after only having it two days in the US, while Japan Post kept it safe, in a giant backlog, for two months.

Sometimes I wish I was a regular person who just ordered mass-produced shit from Amazon that could be replaced.

[Anonymous No.10427444]

>first year of no Anime Expo
>go to work on what would’ve been Day 0
>depressed as fuck
>shit day at work
>a bunch of Karens make a ruckus for being told to wear their masks
>4 people quit on the spot
>wear AX Max jacket
>jacket got fucked up
>had to order another one on eBay
>had to make up the year to treat myself to a laptop for a bunch of steam games
This feels depressing and weird at the same time. Fuck 2020.

[Anonymous No.10427449]

>preparing my room for a coord post
>clean room
>take photos
>publish one on my IG account
>forget to realize that a pair of PINK boyshorts are under my bed and be clearly seen in photo
>they’re a cute pair too and would’ve matched with my coord
>delete photo and take a new one with boyshort removed from ground

[Anonymous No.10427456]

This board is becoming more and more insufferable as time goes on. A lot of the time, it just feels like no one here even gives a shit about having genuine discussion about fashion. It's overridden by larping newfags, bait posting, thread derailing, etc., and I'm just tired of it at this point

[Anonymous No.10427459]

Let's see if we can have a normal thread that doesn't get deleted this time.

[Anonymous No.10427506]

>>10427456
I don't really agree. I blame corona. Nobody has anything better to do, everything has slowed down drastically because all the cons are cancelled, new co-ords are being pumped out at a slower rate and there's no events. So people have decided to just dick around.

>>10427459
It would be nice if people didn't use this thread to vent about their personal lives. That's what truly kills threads.

[Anonymous No.10427513]

>>10427506
you're literally agreeing with everything she said...

[Anonymous No.10427519]

>>10427506
I had to double check this is the feels thread. If not venting about lives and feels than why even have the thread?

My feel? I feel disappointed when jannies allow OT male posters in fashion threads

[Anonymous No.10427548]

Lost 4lbs this month, feeling pretty good.

[Anonymous No.10427564]

These threads keep getting deleted because of incels. Y'all are them's.

[Anonymous No.10427574]

What would happen if a girl went to a convention dressed up like this?

[Anonymous No.10427581]

>>10427548
Correction; Last month. I forgot this is a new month

[Anonymous No.10427595]

>>10427548
That’s awesome. I’ve been meaning to try losing weight and well. Just hasn’t been happening.

[Anonymous No.10427598]

>>10427574
she'd catch the coof

[Anonymous No.10427610]

>>10427574
the real question is what if a Chinese girl did this

[Anonymous No.10427622]

>>10427610
moot point, americans would beat her on the way to the con

[Anonymous No.10427637]

>>10427595
Keep going! I cut down what I ate and did some minor weight lifting.

[Anonymous No.10427639]

I just really want to meet Matt Mercer and thank him for all the joy and laughter he's brought into my life and the fact that this might never happen breaks my heart... I live in Germany and meeting him at a con or sth here is extremely unlikely, and traveling to a con in the US is out of the question for me due to financial reasons... DESU I'd probably cry happy tears if I ever met anyone of the CR cast

[Anonymous No.10427644]

>>10427639
I met him at garycon on accident and hes nothing special. Got a huge ego.

[Anonymous No.10427668]

I can't take this fucking virus anymore. I'm starting to get really bitter seeing other countries doing fine during all this meanwhile cases are skyrocketing over because "much rights" and "muh covid19 is a hoax"

[Anonymous No.10427704]

>>10427668
Honestly it's still pretty bad in other countries.

[Anonymous No.10427723]

I’m so sad man 2020 sucks

[Anonymous No.10427732]

>>10427704
>Laughs in Australian

Just don't look at Victoria, we're putting them in timeout.

[Anonymous No.10427747]

>>10427668
the guy who insisted mask orders are unconstitutional just implemented a mask order, that's how bad it's gotten in tx

[Anonymous No.10427834]

I'm usually good about limiting the amount of Lolita I buy over a given period. However, at the moment everything I have purchased is stuck in holding until I can ship things out of Japan again... It is making me question all of my purchases and the backup of not being able to resell what may not fit correctly is making me stressed. I'm lucky enough to say not financially stressed but the longer things take the more I worry they will be stained, gross or bad fabric when I do get the items.

[Anonymous No.10427850]

>tfw want to cosplay but too self-conscious to put face out there
>only option is armour
>tfw knowing doing a full armour cosplay as a first timer will takes days of work hours and potentially over a thousand dollars in fuck ups

[Anonymous No.10427855]

>>10427850
Could just go for a masked character instead.

[Anonymous No.10427860]

>>10427362
I swear my comm is nothing but itas, brolitas, fatty-chans, pickmeishas, bisexuals, braphogs, TERFs, and DDLGs.

[Anonymous No.10427864]

>>10427860
You posted this last thread.

[Anonymous No.10427871]

I don't think I'm desirable. All my value lies within my cosplay and on my charity work. Despite that I'm nothing more but a wimp male that has little more than a pretty face and a wallet & a car.

It's horrible to realize that, and know that's a rational conclusion, and not just a bad day thought. Besides cosplay I'm a boring fuck.

[Anonymous No.10427876]

>>10427871
good looks and self-sufficiency are more than enough to be desirable. a lot of men aren't even one or the other

[Anonymous No.10427878]

>>10427411
They might just not have it properly listed. Not clothing, but I ordered some microphone cables from Bratislava and USPS took about a month to eventually ship them to me without updating the tracking number

[Anonymous No.10427883]

>>10427548
>>10427595
For the first time in ever I've been able to consistently stay at my target weight even with my cardio work so I don't feel like I'm dying (underweight)

[Anonymous No.10427889]

Was mulling over getting a dress that wasn’t on my radar before but it was a good price. Decided against it since it wasn’t on the list but found others that were and decided to pass. A week went by and I started seeing the dress pop up on IG and FB (in coords)
>maybe I should get it since it matches my wardrobe
>it’s only $X, I’ve had a rough week but made good money
>TREAT YOSELF!!!!
I scoured through listings thinking maybe it was buried since it was a week. Finally I realized I could use my browser history to look for it. Gone. The listing got taken down. I am disappointed. But on the plus side, while looking for that one, I found another dress on my list!!!
>if it’s meant to be, it’ll be

[Anonymous No.10427928]

>tfw coworkers just want to make petty small talk

Fuck off. I don't want to talk about sportsball, I don't want you to talk about my haircut, I don't want to talk about the weather, I don't want to talk about whatever girl you find attractive, I don't want to talk to you unless you have something interesting to say. Just don't talk to me.

[Anonymous No.10427931]

>>10427928
this is why i eat lunch in my car

[Anonymous No.10427992]

>>10427871
Are you ok with dating another boring fuck? If so, you'll be fine.

[Anonymous No.10427995]

>>10427871
>>10427992
Backpedaling to offer some actual input and not just shitpost. Having interests to begin with means you're not boring. What do you like about cosplay and working for charity? What value does it bring YOU? People like to hear other people talk about things they are passionate about. Or to put it more simply, interest (in things) begets interest (from people). It's not like you literally spend all your time watching TV or browsing the internet. THAT would be boring.

[Anonymous No.10428009]

>tfw to get a good job you need a degree
>tfw even if you get a degree, it's not enough
>you need to have extracurricular activities, you need volunteer work, you need special projects done outside of university
>all on top of working to survive

There is literally no time to rest. You spend all semester on studying and working then when you go on break, you're not allowed to actually relax because interviewers ask what you did with your time. Fuck this garbage. I want a holiday.

[Anonymous No.10428013]

>>10427995
your interests are boring to people who don't share them. i can't stand listening to people talk about sports, for example

[Anonymous No.10428033]

>>10427928
This is what I heard desu

[Anonymous No.10428043]

>>10427995
Not that anon, but I often feel my interests and habits tend towards being impenetrable, so I try to appear as bland as possible

Things like:

>don't like reading fiction, not because I don't enjoy good stories, but because it's hard to focus on a book. I enjoy dry textbooks as much as my easily distractible mind will allow

>don't play many games, and I read wikis for the games I don't play just to get to the spoilers

>when I was unemployed I once spent an entire year trying to understand what a society would look like on Venus, this included pouring over as much data I could find along with making my own 3d models and an infograph
I eventually had to give that up because I immediately realized I sounded insane talking about it at a Christmas party

>listen to the same song on repeat for hours while working because it created a specific mood and I'm too obsessive to allow that atmosphere to change

>do most of my personal work between 1:30am and 6am because I'm more relaxed after the sun sets

>when I watch movies with someone I often prefer to stand, even if it's 3 hours long

>primary interest in history is Soviet Rocketry, but I often get tripped up on names and Soviet naming conventions, so for something I enjoy the most I feel like I know very little

>in the past ten years I can count the number of times I've visited my friends on my hands

>absolutely terrified of everything, especially dark forests at night, so I often wander through those alone specifically as a prank on myself

>haven't drank any alcohol, and haven't ate meat in almost 20 years just because I decided that would be my thing, as a kid

So whenever people ask me about myself I just tell them I'm a photographer because it's easy to relate to, and I'm obsessed with photography too

[Anonymous No.10428066]

>have a bunch of cosplay friends
>one dude comes out and says cosplay helped him realize he was a trans woman

Should I be supportive?

[Anonymous No.10428078]

>>10428066
No. Its a mental illness. Tell him to seek help, there's deeper issues.

[Anonymous No.10428081]

>>10428078
it is a mental illness, but the cure is transitioning, not suppressing it.

[Anonymous No.10428083]

>>10428081
No "cure" causes a 40% chance of killing yourself. It's like saying methadone is a cure for heroin addiction, it's not. It's a treatment for it but it doesn't get rid of the addiction. The rest is up to the person, hence why so many junkies just relapse.

Transitioning is a treatment that people believe is the cure, a very poor treatment at that. Most trannies especially men to female, cannot pass. Purporting transitioning as the cure to all their emotions is what causes people to kill themselves. They expect once they've transitioned they will be fine, they will be at peace. But the reality is, transitioning does more harm then good. Instead of having functional normal body, they have this weird twilight zone of not quite either male or female. Then society will be weirded out by them and treat them as a transgender not as their desired sex only adding to the mental illness.

[Anonymous No.10428084]

>>10428083
Transitioning doesn't cause the 40% suicide rate, it's the gender dysphoria. That's like saying that medication for depression causes the suicide rate for depressed people. Though I do agree that transitioning is a bad solution to gender dysphoria, it's the only solution trans people have at the moment

[Anonymous No.10428087]

>>10428083

Even without any extreme transitioning (medical transition, not sure about social) , most trans people can have the suicide rate reduced just by being heard, loved, accepted, and understood by their families and friends and communities. The real treatment is the social acceptance of who they are or want to be and depending on their life situation transitioning and passing is the most straightforward way to be "accepted" as their new gender at a glance by society in a way, but it doesn't provide the deeper love and support that they need from that familial or community/societal care and acceptance.

[Anonymous No.10428088]

>>10427668
Meanwhile all the educated members of society are saying it is a nothing burger with the only counter evidence being people who work in retail saying the exact opposite.

[Anonymous No.10428098]

>>10428088
all the people dead from it would disagree

[Anonymous No.10428117]

>>10427883
Congrats!

[Anonymous No.10428118]

>>10428043
I'm not trying to be a bitch by saying this, are you on the spectrum? I know a high functioning girl who does some things like this

[Anonymous No.10428119]

>>10428043
me and my gf each have our own really niche interests (hers include rollercoaster engineering and ocean wave science, for example) and we both delight in listening to the other ramble about them even if we have no idea what the other is talking about. honestly you seem pretty cool! you just need to find another person you can be weird with. also, random question, do you have ADHD? i do and pretty much everything you said sounds like ADHD quirks.

[Anonymous No.10428172]

Men are really awesome because they give us babies. I love being a mommy and can't wait to cosplay with my little ones.

[Anonymous No.10428174]

>>10428172
Damn anon that second sentence was so cute and wholesome; it's too bad it was preceded by the first one.

[Anonymous No.10428178]

>>10428172
I don't care so much about the babies part, but men are indeed awesome for giving us sex. I dated an asexual once and it sucked. Breaking up with him and dating a normal person instead was the best decision of my life. I've never felt closer to someone, more connected to him, than when having sex. As good as it feels physically, the best part is definitely the romantic bond to the person. The asexual I dated didn't feel like anything more than a friend I could kiss and cuddle with, which isn't exactly satisfying.

[Anonymous No.10428179]

>>10428043
>don't play many games, and I read wikis for the games I don't play just to get to the spoilers
I do this but with movies and books as well. Reading spoilers helps me judge if something is worth watching/reading.
>>when I was unemployed I once spent an entire year trying to understand what a society would look like on Venus, this included pouring over as much data I could find along with making my own 3d models and an infograph
I've been world building a planet, it's government, countries, trade routes, society, religions and fashion for the past 6 years
>>listen to the same song on repeat for hours while working because it created a specific mood and I'm too obsessive to allow that atmosphere to change
I listen to static. I do like music, but static is easier on my mind while focusing or sleeping.
>do most of my personal work between 1:30am and 6am because I'm more relaxed after the sun sets
Night are my best hours as well
>absolutely terrified of everything, especially dark forests at night, so I often wander through those alone specifically as a prank on myself
Same except actively going out to said places. Fuck that.

There are more people like you than you think. A matter of finding them however is hard.

[Anonymous No.10428180]

>>10428178
nice, glad you've found your happiness anon! Sex for me has always been a chore and I blame years of reading hentai. They make it appear as if it's mind blowling and amazing for a woman and when I started having sex it...wasn't. I thought something was wrong with me but turns out I just had way too high expectations.

[Anonymous No.10428184]

>>10428180
Glad you started enjoying it too. I thought I'd never enjoy sex, but turned out I was just demisexual and needed it greatly once I fell in love. Now I feel really bad for people who can't enjoy it like I do. I can't imagine being in love and not bonding with the person physically like this.

[Anonymous No.10428185]

>>10428184
>Glad you started enjoying it too
My post may have come off weird, it's still very "meh" and a chore to do to me. Like i'd rather do something else like sewing, drawing, or do laundry.

[Anonymous No.10428186]

>>10428178
>men aren't the only people you can have sex with
>>10428184
>asexual people literally don't have the ability to bond through sex like this
I'm glad you've found a more fulfilling relationship anon. Im sorry to hear you felt so held back and misunderstood in your previous ones. But realizing you actually had a more conventional approach to relationships and sex doesn't mean that everyone in unconventional relationships is unhappy and unfulfilled like you were. You can be happy in your own journey with sexuality without invalidating others relationships.

[Anonymous No.10428188]

I gained a renewed interest in lolita for the first time since college (so 7 years) and started hanging out here (still cosplay) but I feel like a side effect is becoming overly critical of my body image. I have an 18bmi solely because I'm a 165cm 36aaa. From the neck down id be a fridge/plank/other unfeminine insult. If I was going to be so flat at least I could have been smol or runway model height. I literally watch drag tutorials on how to make fake cleavage for cosplay but I have such little tissue/fat these drag queens can make way more realistic boobs than me. I would never get implants despite having had plastic surgery in other respects due to the health risks but I'm really jealous of normal boob ladies. Oh and I have swimmer shoulders for no reason.

[Anonymous No.10428210]

>>10428043
>listen to the same song on repeat for hours while working because it created a specific mood and I'm too obsessive to allow that atmosphere to change
>unusual history interests

Are you me? Gee, I do that so often. Songs and certain moods, listening to the same song on repeat for hours, or listening to it at least once every day.

>>10427992
>>10427995

I am the quoted anon and yes i'm ok with that.
Also, perhaps people just outright see me as innocent or too young. I have a good cosplayer friend that's on her 30s. I'm 21. And usually people don't see me as a 'threat' or as someone meaningful. Without any memes, i'm a 'nice guy', simply put. Good company, good jokes, ideas, but no romantic interests from anyone.

Also i've been told I could be on the spectrum so maybe there's that too.

[Anonymous No.10428226]

>>10427564
Virgins? In MY 4chan?
It's more likely than you think!

[Anonymous No.10428231]

>>10428188
start wearing lolita and you'll feel real good about that flat chest, anon. these things are a damn curse in this fashion. breastplates are always an option for cosplay, but try as you might to flatten big titties, they don't really go anywhere and they're so limiting to what you can wear in lolita.

[Anonymous No.10428242]

I’m so incredibly jealous of a girl I started following a few months ago and I can’t stop thinking about her. Her wardrobe is huge, she buys popular new releases that get sold out in seconds, she has rare items. My complete goals as a lolita. I hate her and every time she posts it makes me so angry but I can’t help but continue to follow her. Since following her I’ve added more items to my dream dress list so I can try and get some of the same items in her wardrobe. I know it’s unhealthy but I can’t stop.

[Anonymous No.10428246]

I wish I were asexual

[Anonymous No.10428250]

>>10428246
No you don’t

[Anonymous No.10428252]

>>10428250
Why not

[Anonymous No.10428254]

>>10428250
Honestly, if all incels and mgtows were asexual, that’d be great

[Anonymous No.10428255]

>>10428242
Stop wasting your time being such a petty person and get some help.

[Anonymous No.10428259]

>>10428242
there is always going to be someone "better" at you at your hobby/job/sport/etc. Accept this reality, and let go.

[Anonymous No.10428277]

>>10428185
Yeah honestly a lot of men have no clue how to give a woman an orgasm. Try masturbating to figure out what your body really responds to

[Anonymous No.10428305]

>>10428118
Genuinely don't know. You'll have to take my word on this one but I've got a painfully well developed sense of social awareness, so that's the thing that makes me feel like I'm not actually autistic

>>10428119
When I was younger the schoolboard tried to put me on ritalin, but I never received an official diagnosis. Between my constant leg shaking and having to pace to think I may actually have ADHD

>>10428179
Static is good, too. Actual soundscapes help when I really need to focus, because my multitasking abilities are ABYSMAL

As for the world building, normally I enjoy worldbuilding for writing exercises all the time but I listed this one because I got so into it for no reason other than I was probably not the most mentally well at the time. I made 3d models, programmed little calculators, made an infograph and everything

>>10428246
I'm an asexual bisexual. Unless you're already able to relate to people really well you'll find you need to understand solitude like the back of your hand. You would think you'd be able to relate to other asexuals, but everyone has their reasons for having a lack of interest, and for many it's unfortunately based on some really specific trauma

On the subject of solitude I know we're on an Assyrian coinage printing forum so I'm preaching to the choir, but I think one of the most harmful things we can do to ourselves is to grow bored of our own company. If you can't fulfill your own needs prior to a relationship if it turns out your SO can't you'll only feel more alone

[Anonymous No.10428313]

>tfw watching lolita pr0nz
tell me this is only the beginning

[Anonymous No.10428327]

>>10428305
>asexual bisexual
What the fuck
>>10428313
v&

[Anonymous No.10428330]

>>10428043
>>10428305
anon you sound like you have ADHD

[Anonymous No.10428333]

>>10428305
>I'm an asexual bisexual.
What. I think you mean asexual biromantic instead.

[Anonymous No.10428334]

>>10428333
Fuck, that's it. I'm not used to using labels like that. I'm a fucking idiot, thank you

[Anonymous No.10428354]

>>10428334
>>10428333
the absolute state of sexuality in the year 2020

[Anonymous No.10428371]

>>10428188
>36aaa
what is that like concave at that point? i thought one a was already nearly flat

[Anonymous No.10428375]

>>10428334
the asexual part if what will hinder you getting a partner, not being a weirdo. there's lots of weirdos out there. but not a lot of asexuals.

[Anonymous No.10428384]

>>10428375
Correct, which is why I said being asexual means you're going to be spending a lot of time alone. When you actively don't want to enter the dating pool you're obviously just not going to be talking to many people. I wasn't complaining about not dating, just that I feel what I enjoy makes me harder to be around

[Anonymous No.10428425]

A con starts in 2 weeks in my city. I'm absolutely amazed it hasn't been canceled.

[Anonymous No.10428436]

>>10428425
What city is hosting a con at a time like this??

[Anonymous No.10428458]

I want to tell my trans gf that I also want a side bitch(afab), I am not interested at all with any relations with that other girl but just want to have some variety is all.

Afraid shell take it the wrong way.

Also small con end of august and ai cant wait to show how good my conditioning is after livin healthy but itll prolly get canned

[Anonymous No.10428480]

>>10428371
Well cup letters are relative to the band size. So the wider the rib cage and the flatter you are the more As get tacked on apparently. Bra sizing is really whacky on the very flat end of the spectrum and resources like abrathatfits are definitely designed to help people fit on the other end. Just wear a bralette you say, but the ribcage thing really fucks me as they are always too tight.

[Anonymous No.10428483]

>>10428480
im sure its not so bad triple a can be cute

[Anonymous No.10428487]

>>10428458
>I want to fuck someone other than my gf who likely has a lot of insecurities about sex but it's okay because I'm not actually interested in her
yeah can't imagine someone taking that poorly
just break up with her

[Anonymous No.10428492]

>>10428487
This, unless you wanna end up like Projared just let her down

[Anonymous No.10428496]

>>10428458
Why are you such a slut? Apologize to her for considering something like this or break up with her so she can find someone better. I don't care if you're a man or woman, that's shitty.

[Anonymous No.10428498]

>>10428084
Is it not possible for people to make peace with their natural born sex and decide to be a feminine boy, or a masculine boy, whichever makes them feel better?

[Anonymous No.10428544]

>>10428498
Society says no. Only women can be feminine and men can be masculine. Crossing over is a sin against nature that must be mocked until they conform.

Pretty fucked. If the people of the western world can accept men and women dressing and acting the way they wanted without being mocked, I'm sure the amount of trans people we have today would be cut down to people who have genuine dysphoria and treat them properly. There are trans people out there that are not crazy as the ones in social media and in the streets. Ones that are fine not being accepted in certain spaces and just wants to feel comfortable with their bodies, for themselves and don't mind if someone misgenders them. It's a shame there is too few of them and they are too quiet.

[Anonymous No.10428546]

>>10428458
she deserves better than you

[Anonymous No.10428565]

>>10428498
No

[Anonymous No.10428587]

Today I found the exact fabrics that match my VM dresses! The plan is to make matching accessories with it.

[Anonymous No.10428714]

im dying inside because one of my dream dresses popped up on the secondhand market for a really good price but i don't have a job or any money bc of covid

[Anonymous No.10428715]

>>10428714

I feel your pain anon. Just remember that it'll come up again eventually and it's not the only thing in life you need to be happy.

[Anonymous No.10428721]

>>10428715
thank u anon

[Anonymous No.10428737]

Just saw ETC's designer post about Harry potter but she misspelled the tag hurrypotter so i clicked on it to see who else misspelled it and there are a lot of Asians in that tag and an Atelier Pierrot post. So is Harry Hurry in Japan?

[Anonymous No.10428744]

>>10428544
Pretty boys and tom boys have existed for a long time, they are well accepted within society. Sure they might get bullied for being different, but the nail that sticks out gets hammered down. Any difference will get you bullied, not specifically trans. That's just a normal societal mechanism to ensure group cohesion.

[Anonymous No.10428873]

The announcement of TWEWY anime in AX brought me back to my early cosplay years and it brought me so many feels.
I used to feel so excited for cosplay and create so many things like a little kid. I looked so cringey and sucked but I had fun.

Nowadays sure I might look better comparetively but I barely do anything and I barely feel any joy and excitement anymore. Not to mention how much no matter how better I look, this hobby has had my self-image and confidence completely destroyed. I always feel like I'm in some sort of beauty pageant mentality and I'm no longer happy at all.

I miss being that happy tarded kid with cheap party city tier wigs a bit sometimes.

[Anonymous No.10428885]

>>10428744
>Pretty boys and tom boys have existed for a long time, they are well accepted within society.

That highly depends where you are and your age range. Adults can handle the bullying a bit better but high school and growing up as a child these things are knocked out of you and shamed often. I'm not even just talking about the past, last year a friend was nervous and scared about wanting to buy a blouse in public because he lives in an area (america even) where he's seen gays get their ass beaten. I told him of course to buy online but the point is while it may seem like it's accepted, it really isn't especially in smaller areas in the western world. It's even in every day harmless speech.
>"Only girls like that shit."
>"Wow you're crying? Like a girl? "
>"Cut your hair, you look like a girl."

>" Well shit I must be a girl."

[Anonymous No.10428886]

>>10428009
Move to another country that doesnt milk you for all you have

[Anonymous No.10428890]

>>10428492
Im gonna get false rape convicted?

>>10428496
I mean, my feelings are all 100% for her, its just a phyiscal thing, she also is open and curious about dicking a woman but only in special circumstances like in a con party with people were cool with.

this ones a bit different though since Ill just have a side bitch

[Anonymous No.10428891]

>>10428458
Break up with her, she deserves better than you.

[Anonymous No.10428892]

>>10428083
It's more like the 40% comes from society treating them like they're disgusting monsters at every social level, but okay, sure.

[Anonymous No.10428907]

>>10428890
You came to the wrong place to mention this. A lot of /cgl/ is against this kind of thing. You're better off in /adv/ or /lgbt/ because that sounds all kinds of wrong to me. What you're looking for is a sex worker for free. You're looking to use a woman as a fuck toy because you can't control your sexual urges and stick with one partner.

[Anonymous No.10429125]

I used to like cosplaying with my sister but she has gotten really fat. She just doesn't see the weight gain and gets super defensive when our old cosplays don't fit her anymore. She probably gained like 40 pounds the last few years. She wants to start new cosplays with me but she is so in denial of her weight gain that she still thinks her old measurements fit her. She also keeps blaming me for her getting fat. She claims that me pointing out something doesn't fit her demotivates her to lose weight. It's not my fault she has let herself go this much! It's been years since she gained dress sizes but she still forces herself in her old clothing, or worse my clothing. We used to be quite close but now I can't stand her anymore.

[Anonymous No.10429139]

>>10429125

You two sound like you need to communicate with each other a bit better. I think the most supportive thing you can do is help her gently with weight loss and all until she gets into a good momentum and can continue on her own.

Showing her some love and care will probably help her realize she should care about herself enough to not be in denial about her size and make a conscious decision of whether or not she wants to lose the weight (based on her seeming insecurity about it she likely does).

Hopefully things can get better between you two. My siblings and I have always been super close and one of them passed away in an accident and it was extremely hard, so it always worries me when people have issues with theirs over small things since you never know when your last chance to make up and say you love each other may be.

[Anonymous No.10429142]

Anon from a few threads ago that was talking about my neighbors/friends inviting themselves to my wardrobe. So she brought it up, again, and even asked to borrow a wig. My other neighbor asked how much the dresses cost. I told them that they range from $100-$700 depending on rarity. Apparently they were curious on their own and looked into the pricing, so they're well aware. It was at this point that I jokingly snuck in "haha yeah that's why the only person who wears them is ME." We all laughed, but I'm pretty sure she still wants to borrow something. I guess at this point I'll lend her a bodyline dress and call it a day, but I'm not going to bring a full coord.

>this is ruining the enjoyment of sharing the fashion with others for me...

[Anonymous No.10429165]

>>10429139
Doesn't work. She has a lazy type personality. If she doesn't want to do something she will wait around for someone else to do it for her. It gets to the point where I clean up more for her just so the things she borrowed from me don't get destroyed by her place being a mess. I try to be close with her and still want to cosplay with her but seeing her stretch out the cosplays I worked really hard on just ruins it for me. She recently ripped a sleeve and that was just the last straw for me. If we get ready for a convention she won't try on what she wants to wear and it ends up with her not fitting into anything she brought. She is too lazy to try it on before we leave, but also too in denial about her weight gain to think she won't fit into it anymore. It's the same with formal events where she needs a fancy dress. She always wants to borrow my dresses because she is too stingy to buy one for herself but doesn't fit into any of them. So if we go to a fancy event she will makes us be late by desperately trying to find a dress in my closet she fits into. Spoiler alert nothing fits her anymore. We were the same size as teenagers and as an older sister I was happy to share with my little sister, but she isn't so "little" anymore. She needs to either lose weight or leave my stuff alone. She still comes up with sisters to cosplay even though her weight gain makes her look like my mom.

[Anonymous No.10429167]

>>10428890
if you actually love someone, you won't feel like fucking anyone else. let her go and find someone who truly cares about her.

[Anonymous No.10429169]

>>10428907
basically this. even terfs probably agree that you shouldn't be like this. if you want to be poly, find some poly people.

[Anonymous No.10429171]

>>10429167
enormous kek. You sound really young and/or sheltered.

[Anonymous No.10429172]

>>10429171
i don't think they meant literally. i think they meant like decide to pursue.

[Anonymous No.10429177]

>>10429172
OK, that's a little different, although I still don't think it's entirely true. Human behaviour is so much more complicated and varied than what you can boil down to a simple line. There are so many ways to live and I don't think younguns really realize that until they get older and meet lots of people with varying lifestyle choices.

[Anonymous No.10429184]

>>10429177
I think you got it backwards. The young people today are more open and accepting of different sexualities and types of relationships than older people. However you often find poly relationships rarely work with modern people. I'm not saying it's not possible, just rare.

[Anonymous No.10429186]

>>10429184
I guess I have that impression because when I was younger I had a very idealist/trad view of relationships and monogamy, and I've become much more open-minded with time and meeting different people in relationships with varying amounts of openness (plus finding out my own parents are swingers, oops).

[Anonymous No.10429188]

>>10429177
maybe? but you're kind of forgetting that their comment was in a response to someone in a mono relationship trying to force their gf to accept a poly relationship.

[Anonymous No.10429191]

>>10429171
pretty sure most people consider cheating bad regardless of being old/not sheltered, anon

[Anonymous No.10429195]

>>10429191
I don't think anyone was talking about cheating.

>>10429188
Anon said she was open.

[Anonymous No.10429196]

>>10429195
no he didn't he said she was interested in 3 ways.

[Anonymous No.10429197]

>>10429195
OP:
>I want to tell my trans gf that I also want a side bitch. Afraid she'll take it the wrong way.
He wants to cheat because "lack of variety" and pressure her into accepting it. It's disgusting.

[Anonymous No.10429198]

>>10429197
I agree anon sounds like a clueless dick, but that's a separate debate from "if u want to sleep with other people it means you don't love her"

also in his follow-up he said:
>she also is open and curious about dicking a woman

[Anonymous No.10429200]

>>10429186
all the open relationship people i've ever met ended up being a dumpsterfire, and many people online seem to say the same. so idk how anyone could think this kek

[Anonymous No.10429201]

>>10429198
>"if u want to sleep with other people it means you don't love her"
For people who believe in monogamy, that is true. There's a difference between fantasizing and watching porn or whatever, and actually fucking someone else.

[Anonymous No.10429203]

>>10429200
This is true. A lot of monogamous relationships are also dumpster fires. A lot of people in general really fucking suck at relationships.

>>10429201
Oh I absolutely believe in monogamy -- as an option, not as a universal good. I'm in a monogamous relationship myself.

[Anonymous No.10429205]

>>10427519
>I feel disappointed when jannies allow OT male posters in fashion threads
This. That LWLN thread was super annoying because of the amount of MEN in it. We could have like, talked more about the fashion aspect of that video that was meant to be lolita related but instead a bunch of scrotes had to jack off about how much /fit/ knowledge they have.

I hate catching cross boarders too. I saw someone use the fucking "reddit spacing" meme on here like anyone fucking cares about that shit on /cgl/.

[Anonymous No.10429206]

Sex and love are not the same thing.

[Anonymous No.10429215]

>>10429206
I was in that thread and saw that shit too, anon. It was just bait but it still really pisses me off.

[Anonymous No.10429218]

>>10428890
>this ones a bit different though since Ill just have a side bitch
you're a little immature for poly. There's a lot more to it than that.

[Anonymous No.10429233]

>>10429215
I don't know what thread you're talking about, but most people are serious when they think sex and love are the same thing. Or, if you think my post is bait, it isn't. I genuinely don't see love and sex as the same thing. sorry

[Anonymous No.10429253]

>>10428885
Only someone who's retarded would take the phrase "like a girl" and take that to mean they are a girl.

[Anonymous No.10429256]

>>10429253
Clearly you underestimate the average intelligence of human beings.

[Anonymous No.10429259]

>>10428885
>>"Cut your hair, you look like a girl."
I've actually gotten this once. Only made me more of a stubborn fuckhead when it comes to (not) cutting my hair.

[Anonymous No.10429264]

>>10429253
Yes. There are a alot of retarded people in this world.
>Ever since I was a child I liked the color pink and now I realize it was because I'm really a girl!
>I used to play with my mom's makeup, that's how I knew I was a woman
>I liked playing with my sister's barbies so now I'm the sister
>My 5 yr old son wanted to wear a dress and that's how I knew he was a she

[Anonymous No.10429268]

>>10429218
I am not looking for a 3rd in our relationship.

This other person is just for variety to spice things up, I have not a care for her more than what she would gaf for someone who just wants a dicking.

The only relationship Ill want is with my trans gf

[Anonymous No.10429276]

>>10429256
I literally got kids asking if I was a girl when I was in highschool and got bullied for behaving feminine by guys and encouraged by girls because they thought I was gay/trans. In no way did I ever once believe I was actually a fucking girl.

[Anonymous No.10429280]

>tfw totalled up all the work I want done to myself

$31,500

That's a fucking house deposit. Anons who've had work done, was it worth it?

[Anonymous No.10429286]

>>10429125
You could try to tell her that you want to start working out/going to the gym but you don’t want to do it alone. Maybe if you make it seem like she’s doing you a favor instead of the other way around, you can kind of trick her into exercising

[Anonymous No.10429295]

>>10429233
Chill out, I'm agreeing with you.
But the same thing was post here
>>10415164

[Anonymous No.10429297]

>>10429280
What the hell kind of Robocop bullshit are you grafting to yourself?

[Anonymous No.10429298]

>>10429268
>I am not looking for a 3rd in our relationship.
Ok so you're also too stupid to know what poly actually is and that a poly relationship can have a different dynamic than a third party in a couple type relationship.

You sound like a fucking idiot honestly.

[Anonymous No.10429301]

>tfw lolita gf to blow my mind through sugar cane and make my heart be sweeter than the honey that's replaced the rain since I met her
Well, I've discovered that this life that was given to me us not really mine. If it were mine, I would have fun all the time. I'm very discontent now and I want a way out now.

[Anonymous No.10429303]

>>10429297
Not that anon but I was considering a breast reduction until I saw the price was $5k and a lift after was $4k and these prices don't include anesthesia, the hospital stay, operating room facilities, etc. said nope to that.

[Anonymous No.10429304]

>>10429303
are you stupid?

[Anonymous No.10429305]

>>10429304
Why?

[Anonymous No.10429306]

>>10429298
>Y-y-you NEED to establish a relationship with the side bitch or else you're doing it wrong

Fuck off side bitch.

[Anonymous No.10429307]

>>10429297
It's a mixed bag. I need some dental work because of impacted wisdom teeth, I also experienced a small period of alopecia areata and I want a hair transplant to fix the spotty bald patches, I would like a rhinoplasty since my nose is kind of bulbous with a small hump and I think my nostrils are too big and I would also like a mentoplasty/chin implant because my chin is about 1/6th of my face rather than 1/3rd.

Nothing too extreme. Just fixing already existing problems and then improving the features I already have.

[Anonymous No.10429308]

>>10429268
So you want a living sex toy to share with your gf. Again, this board is not the place to talk about this. At this point you're baiting or stupid.

[Anonymous No.10429352]

>>10427860
TERFs are a plus though
Not worth putting up with fetishits but a clear plus

[Anonymous No.10429353]

>>10429306
That's not what I said at all you massive fucking moron.

If you're in an open relationship, yes, even if you are just fucking randos on the side - it's poly if you're partner is ok with it.
However if you're doing this and your partner isn't ok with it, then you're cheating and you're a liar.

[Anonymous No.10429354]

I wish I were at AX so bad right now. It's funny, it's not even the con itself I'm missing, I'm finding myself longing desperately for the JW, the Westin, even being in line at the LA Live Starbucks. I guess it's because that's where I've always had fun with friends.

[Anonymous No.10429357]

>>10429308

You make it sound like the side bitch isnt gona like it too

>>10429353
Well thats why I said I hope she takes the idea well, cause Im not doing anything without her genuine consent, stop being a brainlet.

[Anonymous No.10429359]

>>10429357
>stop being a brainlet.
I'm just explaining terms to you since you didn't understand them properly. I'm not even the original person you were arguing with.

Now who's the fucking brainlet.
You are.

Had to answer for you because I doubt you'd be able to figure it out.

[Anonymous No.10429368]

>>10429307
oof on the dental work not being covered, I feel you. I need to get my wisdom teeth out, two of which are impacted. I'm planning on a possible septoplasty, but that's not for cosmetic purposes; it's so that I don't have to deal with constant nose bleeds and irritated/clogged sinuses like I've had for most my life. Bumps are pretty common though. I have a bump on my nose, too, but I'm a guy so people for some reason like it

[Anonymous No.10429370]

>>10429304
Not that anon but breast reduction can be a massive quality of life change for some people, I don't know what's stupid about not wanting to have to deal with large breasts

[Anonymous No.10429372]

>>10429357
>You make it sound like the side bitch isnt gona like it too
I'm against "fuck buddy" situations all around since it more times than not leads to someone getting into fucked up scenarios. You're a slut for considering the idea and stupid for bringing it up here.

[Anonymous No.10429380]

>>10429372
Nayrt but fuck you. Seriously, fuck you. Why should sex always be with someone you love? I bet you rape your partner when they’re not in the mood for sex. Better a slut than a rapist

[Anonymous No.10429384]

I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago and just found out he's already fucked 2 other girls. It hurts because I loved him so much. My mental health issues (mainly BPD) impacted our relationship so much and made it so toxic that I had to leave for both of our sakes. I put him through the worst shit and emotional abuse and he only stayed with me because I'm the stereotypical pretty asian girl, but at the end he just got tired of my shit too and started abusing me as well. I know I have no right to be upset, and I'm not mad at all, just sad. I feel like I'll never be worthy of love since I'm just going to always be toxic and "crazy" until I get my mental health in check, which I don't know will ever happen. I'm in therapy already now, and trying to improve, but it's just so hard because the main flaws have to do with my terrible personality.

[Anonymous No.10429386]

>>10429384
>just found out he's already fucked 2 other girls.
That means literally nothing. Let me repeat.
Love. And. Sex. Are. Not. The. Same. Thing.

[Anonymous No.10429387]

>>10429370
This. I knew a girl in high school who had puberty hit her like a freight train. She was super skinny but she had massive breasts. It caused her so much back pain that her parents let her get a reduction

[Anonymous No.10429394]

>>10429380
Sorry but I'm against the idea of people being used as sex toys. Prostitution, fuck buddies, all end up leading to people getting hurt, mocked, and poor views about themselves and others. I'd have agree'd with you in the past but after seeing what fucked up shit goes down, humans, mostly men, can't control themselves and take advantage of others through these means. Self control is better than being a slut as well as respecting yourself and others.

[Anonymous No.10429395]

>>10429386
He's stated several times how much sex matters to him though. He was a virgin when we met. How he only wants to be intimate with people he truly loves and cares about. I was sexually abused as a child and started viewing sex even in relationships as just a physical act, but when I was with him it meant and felt different to me because of his strong values. I know he's allowed to fuck whoever he wants because we aren't together, but it doesn't make it hurt any less.

[Anonymous No.10429396]

>>10429386
can you stop. no one is even talking about that. also you are factually incorrect.

[Anonymous No.10429397]

>>10429386
You didn't even read the rest of what she posted.
>>10429384
Glad you got out of that and I hope the therapy helps. Just know you're not alone in this situation as many others have gone through similar and come out of it better. I hope you learn to love yourself again.

[Anonymous No.10429399]

>>10429394
What about people in monogamous relationships being used as sex toys by assholes like you who think it should be forced on the person you love whether they want it or not? What would you do if you were dating someone who didn’t want sex?

Also
>implying people in monogamous relationships have more self control

[Anonymous No.10429400]

>>10429396
How am I incorrect? As I said, they’re not the same thing. How is that wrong?

[Anonymous No.10429401]

>>10429399
why would someone who wants sex date someone who doesn't?

[Anonymous No.10429403]

>>10429397
Thanks anon. I hate to fulfill the negative "BPD girls are crazy and abusive" stereotype, but hopefully one day I'll have my own success story of getting out of it. Your reply actually meant a lot to me.

[Anonymous No.10429404]

>>10429395
Everything you said here makes me want to puke my guts out. You and him are both horrible demisexual pieces of shit and I’m glad both of you are hurt. People like you are why I will never have sex with anyone I’m in love with, ever. I’ll even have sex with strangers out of spite for shits like you.

[Anonymous No.10429406]

>>10429401
Because they can just have sex with other people as long as everyone consents???

[Anonymous No.10429409]

>>10429399
You seem to assume I'm the sex crazed one. I'm actually the one that says no to sex. If I'm with someone who wants to have sex and I don't, I tell them no. Same thing goes vice versa. If we are sexualliy incompatible I would no longer date them.
Were you raped or molested anon? Is that why you're acting out sexually? I hear that's a fairly common situation for abused victims. I hope you are able to get help in some way and love yourself.

[Anonymous No.10429410]

>>10429404
Quit protecting your mental illness.

[Anonymous No.10429412]

>>10429403
I hate you. I hope you never get better, and I hope you never find happiness outside of “loving and romantic sex with someone you love uwu uwu”.

[Anonymous No.10429413]

>>10429403
It's no problem. We have to be there to each other. Ignore the person that's giving you hate right now. They possibly had their own horrible experience and taking it out on others.

[Anonymous No.10429414]

>>10429409
And what do they do when you say you don’t want sex? Don’t they pressure you?

[Anonymous No.10429415]

where did all of these retarded children come from? anyone who thinks poly relationships are legit are extremely immature. i am glad most of you idiots won't have kids.

[Anonymous No.10429416]

>>10429410
What do you mean? That I’m mentally ill because I don’t connect sex and love? Yeah sorry, not everyone is disgusting like you

[Anonymous No.10429418]

>>10429412
not everyone is an emotionally detached retard like you.

[Anonymous No.10429420]

>>10429418
Not connecting sex and love does not make me emotionally detached. Sex isn’t the only emotional thing in the world.

[Anonymous No.10429422]

>>10429414
Go do something else, go masturbate or wait until I am ready or I wait until he's ready. It's...not that hard unless you're with an abusive person. In that case, you should break up with them.

[Anonymous No.10429425]

>>10429422
And what if you/they take too long to be ready? I’m sure someone can only wait for so long. Also judging from my interactions with people, requiring sex from someone is natural and never abusive. Sex is a right

[Anonymous No.10429430]

>>10429425
In hope you get better someday, please be safe out there.

[Anonymous No.10429431]

>>10429430
By getting better you mean becoming able to see how romantic and loving sex really is, right?

[Anonymous No.10429437]

>>10429430
stop responding to bait.

[Anonymous No.10429439]

I sometimes wish to achieve a body like these and crossplay muscular male characters and confuse people.

[Anonymous No.10429443]

Oh no thread's going off the rails again because a man posted some unrelated bullshit

[Anonymous No.10429450]

Just saw someone post a "questions to ask yourself if you're in the lolita community" and all of them are pretty much "are the people I follow mostly white/thin/cistender etc?
Like please fuck off. I follow people if I like their coords, im not gonna follow someone just cuz they're black or trans if I don't like what they post you weirdo

[Anonymous No.10429451]

>>10429450
I'm just so sick of this condescending, guilt tripping bullshit. These people are insufferable and they infect every community.

[Anonymous No.10429454]

>>10429425
bro what the fuck

[Anonymous No.10429459]

>>10429200
I’ve been on a healthy poly relationship for more than 3 years and counting. Me and my partner love, respect and plan a future with each other and it’s really far from a dumpsterfire. I’ve also been on unhealthy poly relationships and it doesn’t feel different from unhealthy mono relationships so idk, to each their own I guess.

[Anonymous No.10429461]

>>10429384
Hnng where u @ bb?

[Anonymous No.10429466]

>>10429268
The way you always emphasize the fact she is trans makes me think you are a fetishist and maybe lying about all the situation. Her gender isn’t even relevant to what you are talking about.

[Anonymous No.10429470]

>>10429450
>"are the people I follow mostly white/thin/cistender etc?"
Yes, because they are a large part of the community. I agree with you that's dumb. If they want to do stupid questions like that a better one would have been " Have I ever bullied or harassed someone for something they have no control over?" Which would apply to anyone
>>10429451
This

[Anonymous No.10429473]

>>10429470
Yeah and it's like, are your follow counts really essential to social justice?
Like I get the bigger picture but it seems like the most vapid thing to focus on.

[Anonymous No.10429475]

>>10429473
people would like to think so i guess. desu i think the very recent outcry and protesting being so solely focused on social media is embarrassing. it's literally this generation admitting they need to be told directly that racism exists and they need to be able to virtue signal in order to get involved.

[Anonymous No.10429476]

>>10429450
>>10429470
This was the stupidest fucking one.
Yes, they predominantly are... because "cisgendered" people are the most common type of people on the Earth.

Also these god damn cutesy posts with people in lolita, but the caption is about how no one should celebrate the 4th of July because aMuRikA wAs fOunDed on rAcIsM. Okay. Were you crying about this last year? So you hate your country? How is this productive? We have come a long way since then. Pretending like the US is the same as when it gained independence is mind-numbingly stupid.

[Anonymous No.10429477]

>>10429476
Pic related

[Anonymous No.10429478]

>>10429473
It's a mess and people are just taking advatage of this situation or deflecting to shit that doesn't matter because it's easier like changing voice actors, giving random black people money, putting a black square up etc.

How about sending emails or calling public officials? How about actually researching who is in charge of what and why things are the way they are so they can be fixed? Why not a mass boycott? Hell that last one was actually proposed by some people but I haven't seen much come of it.
>>10429476
>Were you crying about this last year?
EXACTLY it's not like the shit that's happening is anything new.

[Anonymous No.10429479]

>>10429476
Yeah its so obvious that its just a trend for them and not because they've become enlightened all of a sudden. I just saw someone say "4th of July is literally just founded on aristocratic white men not wanting to pay their taxes" like wtf so government tyranny wasn't a legitimate problem? Every country has a dark history, what is the actual point in rehashing ours over and over and over again, is moving forward and focusing on the future not a better use of energy?
Idk man im just so tired of their incessant need to be angry about nothing and ruin everyone else's fun time.

[Anonymous No.10429480]

>>10429478
Exactly. Even if I'm not for every single thing that BLM (the organization not the statement) stands for, i could respect it a lot more if it weren't for half of their followers just using it for social media points

[Anonymous No.10429482]

>>10429479
>Every country has a dark history
This.

>is moving forward and focusing on the future not a better use of energy?
And this.

I'm so tired of "woke" culture, and I can't believe people are commenting on these posts giving them support/running off to parrot the same things.

[Anonymous No.10429485]

>>10429476
Fuck I just opened Insta and saw this exact post.

[Anonymous No.10429486]

>>10429477
>has the right to freedom of speech so they won't get imprisoned by the government for berating the country
>can use public roads and cross between state borders
>has access to clean drinking water and clean breathable air
>can practice any religion they want without getting their head chopped off
But yeah, screw America, right?

[Anonymous No.10429489]

>>10429470
Here
>>10429476
I was about to reply to this post, typed it out, but I don't want shit coming my way from others on Instagram so I'll post my response here anonymously as a vent.

-Yes to 1-3 because a majority of this community all those things and there's nothing wrong with that. I follow others as well but generally the first 3 out number them not because they are better, just because they are more abundant. I'd say a question to ask instead is " Have I harassed, bullied or provoked any lolita for something they can't control? " which would cover all basis of people instead of singling them out as if being white, Asian, thin, cis is a negative. I know you guys meant well by this but let's not try to divide people. -

[Anonymous No.10429491]

>>10429485
I just read the entire post and I want to bash my head against the wall.

>white
>thin
>cisgender
>harmful norm

What the fuck is this? According to this my existence is a problem and people should not follow me. This POST is harmful. It tries to invalidate people for literally just identifying with their sex at birth.

[Anonymous No.10429493]

>>10429450
I’m so glad I’m not the only one that feels this. As a lolita and an artist my insta is bombarded with ‘how to help black lolitas’ or ‘black artists to support’... like I don’t give a shit if they are black or whatever I’m going to follow them if I like their art or their coords. Plus it feels kinda demeaning to them, as though you’re saying they would never gain traction or success if you weren’t helping them

[Anonymous No.10429497]

>>10429493
Another thing to add to this, these types of acceptances of others have come far too late. The lolita community has been accepting/welcoming black people for years now and we're much more abundant than the past. While we do get some shit every now and then, it's a hundred times better than it was over a decade ago when black girls into lolita and cosplay actually were harassed/bullied up and down constantly. Where was all this support then? Fuck even /cgl/ here, on one of the most hateful sites on the web is better about black people now aside from the occasional /pol/tard that drops in.

[Anonymous No.10429498]

I have a confession to make. Whenever I see a number of likes ending with a 9, 4, 68, or 665, I have to like it no matter how ita or ugly the cosplay is.

[Anonymous No.10429499]

>>10429491
It isn't harmful unless you are doing everything you can to help minorities and trans people.

Yes your existence is a problem because if it wasn't these kind of posts wouldn't be able to motivate white privileged people to help. It doesn't mean that you have to die just be absolutely sure that you are doing your part and no one will unfollow you

[Anonymous No.10429500]

>>10429476
I just commented on this post and they removed my comment and blocked me.

All I said was that the post made me sad and it spread more hate. I asked them why they singled out white/asian/thin/cisgendered people as a problem. Then I told them to please not use their platform to divide people.

I did it on an alternate Instagram account, but I officially hate them now. I wasn't being mean. I didn't use any bad language. But they don't want any criticism.

[Anonymous No.10429503]

>>10429499
Are you being sarcastic? Your post is really hard to read.

[Anonymous No.10429507]

>>10429500
I wish I had a screenshot of my original comment, but you can see here that my comment is showing, but if you click on the post, there's nothing there because they deleted it.

[Anonymous No.10429510]

>>10429503
Yes i'm being sarcastic. The post is harmful regardless of whether you are helping out or not.

[Anonymous No.10429512]

>>10429486
>has access to clean drinking water and clean breathable air
A lot of places in America don’t actually have clean drinking water though

>can practice any religion they want without getting their head chopped off
Jews and Muslims are regularly targeted in America

[Anonymous No.10429514]

>>10429499
But it doesn't motivate white/cis people to help. It just pisses them off or promote them to "help" in the wrong ways. That post wasn't needed. They could instead post other races and trans lolitas instead without any any messages related to their race or gender. That's it. Just treat us the same as you treat a white person. Judge me based on my outfit. I don't want special treatment or anyone to highlight me like I'm getting a participation trophy for being in last place. Stop reminding me that people hate my race, the world already tells me that every day, I don't need my fluffy cute dress feed to remind me as well. Fuck man.

[Anonymous No.10429515]

>>10429512
Not that anon but you just reminded me of Flint

[Anonymous No.10429518]

>>10429512
to add

>>has the right to freedom of speech so they won't get imprisoned by the government for berating the country
but thousands of people got arrested for protesting, so that's not true either

[Anonymous No.10429519]

>>10429512
>>10429515
These are exceptions and my point was there are countries where the entire supply of water is not safe to drink and water sanitation services are not provided.

[Anonymous No.10429520]

>>10429518
Again, there are countries that will literally hunt you down if you berate the government/people in power. There are countries where there are zero laws to protect the rights of their people.

You're cherry-picking here.

[Anonymous No.10429522]

>>10429450
I’m a cosplayer and I’m getting so tired of this stuff. I’m not going to follow someone just because they’re a minority, I follow people if they make nice looking cosplays from series that I enjoy.

Also idk how black cosplayers feel about getting promo’d by a ton of random people, but I’m not cishet and if a bunch of randos were sharing my posts and telling people to follow me just because I’m gay, I would be so fucking uncomfortable. I want people to follow me because they actually enjoy my content. I‘ve previously had a group parade me around for social justice points (irl and not in a cosplay context) and it honestly just felt so slimy

[Anonymous No.10429523]

>>10429520
Don’t bother, Americans wear totally opaque blinders to the rest of the world. The vast majority never leave their borders, and most never move out of the state where they were born — why would they bother paying attention to anywhere else?

[Anonymous No.10429527]

>>10429520
You are correct that the US isn't a completely authoritarian hellscape, but compared to other developed nations, it's a damn mess.

[Anonymous No.10429528]

>>10429522
Lately its been pretty popular to tell any black person who opposes things that they're not actually black. Which seems way more racist to say that anyone belonging to x category has to agree with you otherwise they're not valid.

[Anonymous No.10429530]

>>10429527
we are a mess and we need some real change but people who are calling for a revolution have no fucking clue what they're asking for, that or they want needless bloodshed and suffering.

[Anonymous No.10429531]

>>10429527
I'm aware of this, and it is sad.
But it's just that people saying "screw the USA! This place sucks!" sound really naive.

[Anonymous No.10429535]

>>10429499
I cannot tell if this is satire or not.

[Anonymous No.10429538]

>>10429530
Some people actually sound like they want and would revel in a literal bloody revolution because they're radicalized, but most of the Twitter "activists" would shit themselves if faced with any actual combat.
I try to rationalize the crazier shit as just being ploys for followers/retweets.

[Anonymous No.10429539]

>>10429527
Everyone who lives within their country is very critical of it. Grass is always greener.

Unless you live in a third world shit hole, you have no reason to compare a first world nation to another first world nation because I assure you, those people there hate it too.

>t. Australian born, lived in UK, US, Germany and Japan

[Anonymous No.10429544]

>>10429528
I got this a lot in the past when Tumblr was high on the whole cultural appropriation ordeal. I don't get much any more because I don't speak up anymore unless I'm anon. Apparently if I don't think a certain way that means I'm not black even if my skin says otherwise.

[Anonymous No.10429547]

>>10429544
I love when a white person starts detailing a list of how "people of color" need to be represented in media and that anyone reading needs to shut up and listen, because there are definitely no non-white people on the internet.

[Anonymous No.10429553]

>>10429544
That really sucks, anon. Just know that there are people out there who will listen and believe you even if your opinion goes against the norm.

[Anonymous No.10429559]

>>10429544
I remember this image and I always found it funny that the fat sjw appears to be wearing a lolita blouse.

[Anonymous No.10429565]

Are there any anons into cosplay/jfash who'd be interested in a group chat or Discord? I can't really find a server that hits the balance of casual, fun chat about interests/daily life and shitposty non-PC (but not /pol/tard) humor I like, so I kind of want to make one.
All would be welcome, but scrotes would be on thin ice.

[Anonymous No.10429571]

>>10429565
Id be down yo

[Anonymous No.10429577]

>>10429565
I'm already in 4 /cgl/ related servers but I'm sure others would join.

[Anonymous No.10429580]

Haven’t been to a con in like a year and a half and it’s depressing.

[Anonymous No.10429587]

>>10429459
>healthy poly relationship
no such thing. ask a psychologist lol. monogamy has always been the norm for women throughout all of history, it's what we are wired for.

[Anonymous No.10429591]

>>10429528
when i've spoken out against blm stuff i've been told that asians don't count as poc and we're basically white people so our opinion doesn't matter lol

[Anonymous No.10429594]

>>10429528
when i've spoken out against blm stuff i've been told that asians don't count as poc and we're basically white people so our opinion doesn't matter. like ok thanks

[Anonymous No.10429595]

>>10429587
>no such thing. ask a psychologist lol
not that anon but my roommate is a psychologist and is in a poly relationship that works out well and has for like the past decade.

[Anonymous No.10429597]

>>10429594
I remember hearing shit like when I was growing up. I'm so glad I moved away from that racist shit hole.

[Anonymous No.10429617]

>>10429594
To me, I'd consider some asians "white" as well but that doesn't mean your opinion doesn't matter. I just have a very different view of what poc is. Anyone with dark skin I'd consider a poc because all around the world, dark skin is treated generally the same when around those with light skin. Darker Asians, Indians, Africans, Mexicans etc. are all seen as a negative thing. Still though everyone should have a say, especially about their own people and selves regardless of color.

[Anonymous No.10429622]

>>10429587
are you retarded? i don't personally like poly relationships very much, but monogamy isn't biological and things being the norm doesn't make them natural (and things being natural doesn't make them inherently better). poly relationships are just more work because more people are involved, and you're more likely to be dealing with some dumbfuck man who wants to generate a harem.

[Anonymous No.10429625]

>>10429565
me!

[Anonymous No.10429655]

>>10429595
>my roommate is a psychologist
psychologists make six figures and wouldn't need a roommate. i'd say nice try, but you didn't even try lol. go look up published studies on this subject.

>>10429622
it's uncommon for a reason, unnatural for women at least, and anyone who has studied humans and their brains know why. again ask a psychologist.

[Anonymous No.10429729]

>>10429587
That's not really true. Monogamy today is related to wealth.

Polygamy is found mostly in poor countries because it's much harder for 2 people to split the labour of a household than say 4. Water collection, food collection and prep, child rearing, income earning etc. A lot of these tasks are very inefficient in third world countries so they generally take all day to do, so polygamy is encouraged from a purely productivity point of view.

But as per history harems are common amongst the uber wealthy simply because more sex the better.

[Anonymous No.10429732]

>>10429729
polygamy = a man with multiple women. the opposite never happened in most of history because it is unnatural and mentally detrimental for women. psychologically, women view relationships and sex in a totally different way than men.

[Anonymous No.10429736]

>>10429732
Not that anon
The opposite has happened, Polyandry, but it's the same thing. A woman would be married to two men, brothers even.

>According to inscriptions describing the reforms of the Sumerian king Urukagina of Lagash (ca. 2300 BC), the earlier custom of polyandry in his country was abolished, on pain of the woman taking multiple husbands being stoned upon which her crime is written.[18]

>An extreme gender imbalance has been suggested as a justification for polyandry. For example, the selective abortion of female fetuses in India has led to a significant margin in sex ratio and, it has been suggested, results in related men "sharing" a wife.[19]

[Anonymous No.10429756]

>>10429732
Polygamy isn't "natural" but it certainly occurs within humans naturally. Polygamy only became a thing when we became agrarian societies and before that we're not entirely sure but it was presumed monogamy.

But that doesnt disregard my point that polygamy today is a function of wealth in a reverse bell curve of probability.

[Anonymous No.10429763]

>>10427456
/fa/ is no different, hell, no board ive been on really constructively discusses any of the topics they're supposed to be based on. it's all a bunch of kids and rapidly aging doomers flexing, shitting on eachother, and asking stupid questions. it's hard to find anywhere on the internet that isnt like this, it is exhausting.

[Anonymous No.10429766]

How many of you lost their job because of corona?

[Anonymous No.10429800]

>>10429766
I didn't but my step-dad lost his job as airport security. My job actually experienced an upswing in business and we've had tons of newbies join mainly cabin crew and holy shit are they pathetic.

The most menial jobs they can't take without needing constant hand holding (like we train dumb ass kid fresh out of highschool how to do some of this stuff) and I really feel they think my job is beneath them and they can just half ass until (if at all) their old jobs come back.

Fuck anyone who works as cabin crew.

[Anonymous No.10429808]

>>10429736
This is only possible with men in charge

[Anonymous No.10429817]

>>10429800
>cabin crew
What is your job?

[Anonymous No.10429819]

>>10429571
>>10429577
>>10429625
Okay, I made it! It's very new, hope anons like:
https://discord.gg/VVRrhU

[Anonymous No.10429820]

>>10429766
Not I but a handful of people in my groups did.

[Anonymous No.10429873]

>>10429766
My work was giving me like 4 hours a week because there weren't any customers, I quit when they started acting like I wasn't doing any of the work around there plus the pay was ass

[Anonymous No.10429878]

>>10429766
Me

[Anonymous No.10429882]

I don’t know how I’ll ever feel ok going out without a mask/hand sanitizer again after all of this is over

[Anonymous No.10429895]

>>10427639
You should post this on /tg/
:)

[Anonymous No.10429902]

>>10427639
>>10429895
:)

>>>/tg/73570313

[Anonymous No.10429954]

>>10429655
Nta but psychologists with established careers can make 6 figures. Most people on this board are 18-27 so assuming anon and their roommate are in that range then it makes sense that they aren’t earning that much yet

[Anonymous No.10429966]

>>10429729
>it's uncommon for a reason
It's more common than you are apparently aware. Extramarital sex alone is quite common. Just, most people are idiots, so they cheat instead of discussing healthy communicative options.

>and anyone who has studied humans and their brains know why
Enlighten us then, o intelligent one, with the results of your studies. ie: post up scientific evidence or shut up because you sound ridiculous at this point.

[Anonymous No.10429967]

>>10429966
Oops. Meant for
>>10429655

[Anonymous No.10429972]

>>10429655
are you stupid?

[Anonymous No.10429978]

>>10428436
Huntsville, Alabama
hsvexpo

The social distancing guidelines were just extended recently too, still not canceled. idk how they plan to do it. I'm gonna check it out, but stick to outside, away from the crowded indoors.

[Anonymous No.10429988]

Soon all americans will succumb to corona.
Time for europe to rise up.

[Anonymous No.10429991]

>>10429902
You're cruel, anon

[Anonymous No.10430034]

>>10429565
Sounds based, I'm in

[Anonymous No.10430039]

>>10429527
America has a lot of problems but the woke left almost never talk about those problems and instead focus on a set of relatively minor made-up problems because they are idiots that believe everything the media tells them while thinking they're revolutionary.

[Anonymous No.10430042]

>>10428885
It's getting insane. I know two people who went to the same LGBT posi therapist I go to, and convinced them to transition. He encouraged me to as well during a really vulnerable time and I seriously considered it because I became convinced it was the only way to solve various insecurities, mental anguish and recurring. episodes. I've heard of this happening now in highschools with kids who aren't gender conforming..

>>10429384
It will help to.. not-hear about him as much as possible. I suffered a lot more for my friends always telling me about what my ex was doing and hoping to get my take on it.. I think it was entertaining to them, and traumatic to me, even if they had no ill intentions. I recommend doing breathing exercises and even some sort of meditation to help alongside therapy. Recognizing when you're losing your shit is one thing, but it took me a long time to know what the hell to do with that information - becoming self aware doesn't just fix the part where you feel like shit, you need something to help reign it in. Owning up to and correcting your shitty behaviour is the hardest thing to talk about and improve upon, it's shameful and embarrassing but absolutely vital to moving forward. Don't ever feel like you're too far gone to save, just keep as steady a pace forward as you can.


>>10429450
on the topic of mental health, this stuff is bringing me down especially. maybe that's the point..

[Anonymous No.10430044]

>>10429507
Who is this?

[Anonymous No.10430046]

Are americans aware they are the laughing stock of the world?

[Anonymous No.10430048]

>>10430042
These therapists and doctors need to be sued, what they're doing is disgusting. They're manipulating people.
I think there's going to be a big reckoning along the lines of the people who pushed satanic ritual abuse decades ago. There's a history of therapists with an agenda convincing their patients of really harmful beliefs.

[Anonymous No.10430049]

>>10430046
Of course, we have been for decades. We laugh at ourselves as well because it's such a shit show. To be honest I do love living here because it's the only place I've known and used to but I'm aware of how fucked up it is.

[Anonymous No.10430050]

>>10430048
It reminds me of this post

[Anonymous No.10430051]

>>10430050
Yes there's a shitton of money in trans drugs and surgeries. Lupron, used to stop puberty, is a billion dollar drug pushed by AbbVie (big pharma) that has a long history of being prescribed off label for stupid and sketchy reasons to increase sales. When people say there's no evidence stopping puberty is harmful they are delusional or lying. This drug has harmed many people, including children before.

[Anonymous No.10430059]

Why must my seller take days to respond, my brand could've arrived by now if she wasn't being so slow

[Anonymous No.10430068]

>>10429539
>Everyone who lives within their country is very critical of it.
eeehh. I live in Canada and very rarely do I hear other Canadians speak ill of Canada as a whole. I think it's because we can directly compare ourselves to the US (being neighbours) and our issues just start to look silly in comparison. Like yes we have political corruption and some political bickering, but it's just not even close. Some people (mostly in QC and justifiably) complain about health care wait times but most of us love the system and not having to worry about health bills or paying to see our doctor. Violent crime is minimal and the "dangerous" parts of Canada are still laughably tame in comparison. I think we mostly recognize we have it pretty good. Except the fucking snow.

[Anonymous No.10430069]

>>10430046
If you're like, slightly left of center or farther, yes. Anyone on the center or the right is still convinced every other country is jealous of our "freedoms."

[Anonymous No.10430107]

>>10430044
Pretty Princess Club. The same people trying to put on that Royal Vegas Retreat in November.

I just saw they now have more comments on their post. There's 11 comments showing, but you can see there was originally 12. So basically, they only deleted mine because I was the first person to criticize them and they wanted to skirt any type of non-support.

[Anonymous No.10430150]

>>10430107
Well ain't that some shit. Not surprising

[Anonymous No.10430181]

>>10430107
Looking at the current comments you can criticize them if you're some kind of poc

[Anonymous No.10430182]

>>10430059
That's annoying

[Anonymous No.10430223]

Had plans to cosplay with my boyfriend but we broke up yesterday. I haven't seen him since before quarantine and I guess now I never will again. Unless I run into him at a con in like 3 years which will be awkward.

[Anonymous No.10430244]

>>10430223
Sorry to hear that happened anon.

[Anonymous No.10430250]

>>10430181
I also noticed most of the people posting positive comments are pasty white people.

[Anonymous No.10430252]

What is with woke people and their need to put x in every word? Im starting to see people write the word "folx" more and I just....why? Folks is not a gendered word, what is the reason for this?

[Anonymous No.10430261]

>>10430181
The original ig poster is so self effacing in the comments that it’s just painful to read.

[Anonymous No.10430266]

I feel so bad for asexuals. I thought I was one for the longest time, until I fell in love and finally understood how awesome and romantic sex is. I can’t believe there are people out there who will never be able to bond this deeply with their partners. I’m so glad I turned out to be demi and not an asexual freak.

[Anonymous No.10430269]

>>10430266
Bait

[Anonymous No.10430270]

>>10430269
Sorry you’re an asexual who will never know what true love feels like

[Anonymous No.10430271]

>>10430266
demisexuality isn’t real

[Anonymous No.10430273]

>>10430271
Except I literally don’t feel any sexual attraction unless I’m in love with someone. And boy do I feel so much sexual attraction when I’m in love with someone. It’s awesome

[Anonymous No.10430276]

>>10430266
>Demi
Why are straight people so desperate to be ‘queer’? Falling in love before having sex is normal you dunce.

[Anonymous No.10430279]

>>10430276
Because I thought I was asexual and it sucked. But if being demi is normal, that’s really good, because most people deserve to share this beautiful bond with their partners and no one else. Again, I feel horrible for asexuals. They might as well kill themselves

[Anonymous No.10430280]

>>10430273
There is literally nothing abnormal about that though. I’m happy for you anon but still

[Anonymous No.10430281]

>>10430280
True, asexuals are the abnormal ones. They must not even have emotions

[Anonymous No.10430282]

>>10430270
Oh boy. Are you the antidrug anon too?
You are seriously so fucking weird.

[Anonymous No.10430285]

>>10430282
What did I say that’s weird? Are you an emotionless robot who doesn’t understand how beautiful sex with someone you love is?>>10430282

[Anonymous No.10430286]

>>10430279
I think you might be BPD.

[Anonymous No.10430287]

>>10430285
Damn u weird. If you don't see how what you're saying is weird then you might be an autist.

[Anonymous No.10430290]

>>10430286
I have a bpd and I can confirm this is classic bpd attention seeking behavior.

[Anonymous No.10430291]

>>10430286
>>10430287
What is weird about romantically bonding with someone through sex?

[Anonymous No.10430293]

>>10430291
Thats not the part that is weird. The part that is weird is you talking about finding love or whatever and then casually dropping in some "asexuals are freaks and should kill themselves" sentiment.

[Anonymous No.10430296]

>>10430293
Because they are freaks, and I would know. Anyone who has had the beautiful experience of having loving sex with a romantic partner would know that asexuals are unfortunate freaks. I know I would kill myself if I were ace.

[Anonymous No.10430297]

>>10430291
It’s not weird; the fact that you use a woke label on something that is so normal and vanilla is what’s weird. It’s not called “demisexual”, it’s called being normal straight-chan.

[Anonymous No.10430298]

>>10430290
Yup, it's pretty obvious once you're familiar with the patterns.

[Anonymous No.10430299]

>>10430296
Bro we get it you're getting dicked down and it feels great. You don't need to explain it in a whole paragraph for all of your responses.

[Anonymous No.10430300]

>>10430297
True. Asexuals are the weird ones. I don’t even consider them human. They have no emotions.

>>10430299
Sorry you’re asexual and unloveable

[Anonymous No.10430303]

>>10430300
it's really weird that you equate not being horny with having no emotions. Is horniness the only "emotion" you feel? damn....that must suck

[Anonymous No.10430305]

>>10430303
Sorry you’ve never experienced true love and sex with someone you love. It’s a bond like nothing else. I would not be able to handle dating an asexual, ever. I know that for sure

[Anonymous No.10430306]

>>10430300
Sex bad

Drugs good

[Anonymous No.10430308]

>>10430306
Not surprising that aces are so miserable that they resort to drugs. That’s what not feeling love does to someone

[Anonymous No.10430309]

>>10430305
Do you honestly think anyone who disagrees with your "asexuals are not human and should kill themselves" is secretly just disagreeing with you because they're asexual and not because what you're saying is absurd?

[Anonymous No.10430311]

>>10430308
I knew it was you, superiority-complex chan.

[Anonymous No.10430314]

>>10430309
What makes it absurd? Imagine dating an asexual or being asexual and tell me how that would feel.

[Anonymous No.10430315]

>>10430314
Are you bitter because you dated an asexual and they didn't want to fuck you?

[Anonymous No.10430316]

>>10430309
>>10430315
Ignore them. They're BPD or some other cluster B personality disorder and baiting for attention because it makes their brain feel good.

[Anonymous No.10430317]

>>10430315
Imagine dating someone who won’t fuck you though. It would be absolutely unbearable. Are you actually saying it’s excusable for someone to get into a relationship only to not have sex with the person they supposedly “love”?

[Anonymous No.10430320]

>>10430316
U right. Its kind of entertaining to engage them but better to not shit up the thread and reward that kind of behavior.

[Anonymous No.10430321]

To answer the question, I did date an asexual once. It sucked. I asked nicely and politely so many times, but they just refused to fuck me. And even when I finally got them to, I could tell they weren’t into it at all. It sucked hard

[Anonymous No.10430327]

>>10430321
> even when I finally got them to

Ew you sound kinda rapey

[Anonymous No.10430329]

>>10430327
I just wanted to show them how much i loved them, but they clearly didn’t love me back

[Anonymous No.10430330]

>>10430069
I'm sure you think all the maga trump retards and shootings are the reason we're a laughing stock. Those are bad, for sure. Center and right wingers don't think anyone envies us, we think we're just as much a laughing stock for BLM, obesity, feel the bern, pokemon go to the polls, cringy virtue signalling celebrities etc

[Anonymous No.10430333]

>>10430329
Sex =! Love

[Anonymous No.10430334]

>>10430333
Ok asexual

[Anonymous No.10430337]

>>10430252
Shibboleths

[Anonymous No.10430338]

>>10430334
I am and?

[Anonymous No.10430339]

>>10430338
I could tell lmao. Mostly by you not knowing the definition of love.

[Anonymous No.10430342]

>>10430339
I love my mom. Guess by your definition I have to go fuck her now otherwise its not real....damn...

[Anonymous No.10430343]

>>10430342
I meant romantic love

[Anonymous No.10430346]

>>10430343
you really think that the definition of sex is love?
Its literally just people mashing their bodies together for fun and yeah sometimes feeling romantic towards one another can make it better but by your definition, one night stands are just ways for people to profess their deep love one another. Or are you the type that thinks people who have casual sex are degenerate sluts?

[Anonymous No.10430350]

>>10430334
no one wants to hear about your dumb neurotic coomer shit, go take your meds

[Anonymous No.10430351]

>>10430350
Coomers have sex with people they don’t love. I have loving sex to bond with my beloved partner. There’s a big difference

[Anonymous No.10430352]

Stop responding to BPD-chan, it's what she wants. You all better let her rot in the next thread.

[Anonymous No.10430353]

>>10430343
Hang in there buddy. I know we're in quarantine and its probably difficult not being able to see your therapist. I hope you get your meds soon.

[Anonymous No.10430355]

>>10430353
Do you think romantic love doesn’t require sex? You’re delusiobal

[Anonymous No.10430356]

>>10430352
Does she shit up threads pretty often?

[Anonymous No.10430357]

>>10430355
Maybe you can make a virtual appointment over Skype? I hear a lot of people are doing that nowadays.

[Anonymous No.10430358]

>>10430357
Sorry asexual freak, but no one will love you without sex

[Anonymous No.10430359]

>>10430355
Your past asexual partner probably wasn't asexual. You were probably just too ugly and insufferable to fuck. Desperation ain't cute huh.

[Anonymous No.10430360]

>>10430358
Meds. Now, uggo.

[Anonymous No.10430361]

>>10430360
You know I’m right

[Anonymous No.10430362]

>>10430361
Nobody is asexual. It goes against biology. If your partner doesn't have sex with you its because you probably have a gross body, can't get away with a subpar body when there's so many hot girls you can look at naked online. I feel bad for uggos that are below at least an 8, it would be miserable to go about life being rejected even by people who love you.

[Anonymous No.10430364]

>>10430346
honestly that definition for love starts to have some really disgusting implications when you start considering the people who have sex with things that don't want to or aren't able consent.
can't say I'm really surprised with that person's way of thinking though. nobody should ever take anyone who unironically calls themselves a "demisexual" seriously lol

[Anonymous No.10430365]

>>10430280
It is abnormal though, just look how common hookups are.

[Anonymous No.10430367]

>>10430365
We know that hookup culture often entices women into participating but they rarely recieve any benefits. They usually don't cum and a lot of women have come forward to say that it was harmful to their mental health. Im not saying some women can't enjoy hookups but it seems far from abnormal for women to need an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

[Anonymous No.10430370]

how many girls have i known with such terrible hygiene and social retardation that theyre too insecure about their bodies to enjoy sex until 8 years after everyone else has lost their virginity, then become sex obsessed with their ~one true love? how many have i watched threaten to kill themselves and think the world was ending when the one dude that would fuck them eventually moves on to someone less clingy and insane? why is this so strangely common?

i notice a similar trend with people who try weed for the first time in their mid twenties, i swear to god they turn into the 420 blaze it pot heads that were already cringy in highschool, but now it's so much more embarrassing.

[Anonymous No.10430373]

>>10430370
Oh god. Sounds like me when I was 18. I cringe so hard and sometimes I really want hit up some of my old fwbs just to say that I am sorry for being such a crazy bitch.

[Anonymous No.10430380]

>>10430293
Had a former friend with bpd who talked like that all the time

[Anonymous No.10430385]

>>10430380
Same anon: I have bpd and have been in a relationship with someone who had a LL, when your sexual advances get rejected it can feel really personal since BPDs are notoriously bad at handling rejection. I remember feeling super bitter and hurt about it. Its just funny how easy it is to tell that this person is just going off because they feel slighted that their partner didn't want to fuck them all of time. Not saying asexual people don't exist cuz they totally do, but i guarantee their partner wasn't asexual, its just classic black and white thinking. "You don't want to have sex with me right now? You're obviously asexual and aren't attracted to me"

[Anonymous No.10430386]

>>10430385
LL= low libido

[Anonymous No.10430395]

>>10430370
>tfw be 18
>completely against all drugs, thought they were for drop kick losers and caused a lot more harm than they were worth, don't even drink
>Sitting at a friends hosue one night
>Friends start passing around a bong
>Get peer pressured with 'You can't judge something unless you try it'
>Thought "Okay, I will try it once, then never again, just to see what it's like."
>Get high as fuck
>Giggly fucking retard
>Genuinely felt nice
>Couple of weeks later
>Friend offers me weed again
>Say no
>6 years later
>Still believe that they are for drop kick losers and cause a lot more harm than they were worth, still don't drink

However my opinion has changed that drugs aren't the problem, it's the people who do them.

[Anonymous No.10430400]

>>10430305
how...how do you know I haven't...I'm literally not asexual I just disagree with you implying people who aren't horny never have emotions. Lmao

[Anonymous No.10430432]

>>10430395
Do you think it's impossible to do drugs responsibly and in moderation?
Serious question.

[Anonymous No.10430435]

>>10430432
Sure. I have a friend who is a doctor and microdosed meth to make him more productive or get him through really tedious parts of his research. He also does cocaine on his weekends.

But he's the exception, not the rule.

[Anonymous No.10430436]

>>10430432
I ask because I genuinely feel that the problem a lot of people have is more so because of the loud minority of people who do drugs and act obnoxious. Then there's people who do them responsibly and live a normal life, but you wouldn't know because they don't shove it in peoples face and have a sense of balance.

[Anonymous No.10430440]

>>10430435
You obviously know very little about drugs if cocaine is your example of a safe recreational drug lol. It can be, but it's far below shrooms, lsd, and cannabis on harm scales.

[Anonymous No.10430442]

>>10430440
When did I say it was a safe drug? You just said responsibly and in moderation.

[Anonymous No.10430445]

>>10430440
*far above

>>10430442
I'm a different anon. Weekly cocaine use is not responsible use. Folks I know who use cocaine use it very rarely, a few times a year.

[Anonymous No.10430446]

>>10430445
He functions perfectly well in a hospital environment and in his personal life. I would say so far, his use is responsible.

[Anonymous No.10430452]

>>10430446
Functions fine, sure, but that shit is hard on the body and will have long term effects.

[Anonymous No.10430487]

Watching Total Recall made me totally recall what a mentally ill, PTSD-addled faggot who tries to escape his shit life by pretending to be invincible tough guys from his favorite movies and shows. I need to go back to therapy.

[Anonymous No.10430506]

>>10430452
I'm sure he's well aware.

[Anonymous No.10430577]

>>10428180
>They make it appear as if it's mind blowling and amazing for a woman and when I started having sex it...wasn't
Well yeah, compare hentai dicks to the average ones. Add that to being able to last more than a couple minutes and keep going after busting.. and they just don't.. measure up

[Anonymous No.10430594]

>>10430367
>to enjoy sex.
its not "to enjoy sex", its to have any sexual attraction at all.
Whether hookups work out for people or not is irrelevant, its about if they WANT it or not. I'd say its fairly common for people to have sexual interest in someone without forming an emotional bond.

[Anonymous No.10430600]

>>10428180
Sex can also be disappointing at first or if you're inexperienced. Experience (and exploring kinks if that's your thing) can make it much more intense. That doesn't necessarily mean having lots of partners, having more experience with one partner can be more educational and rewarding in fact.

>>10430577
>Add that to being able to last more than a couple minutes and keep going after busting
This varies tee bee h. My ex had almost no refractory period and could keep going after, no problem. "A couple minutes" sounds like premature ejaculation, which can be an issue if the guy hasn't had sex often or hasn't learned to edge.

[Anonymous No.10430609]

Why are so many people on this board insane

[Anonymous No.10430610]

>>10430609
Sex is literally the most ancient of human drives.

[Anonymous No.10430624]

>>10430609
Dressing up in alternative foreign fashions and/or like foreign cartoon characters characters is the kind of thing one would expect to attract weirdos. For their part, weirdos have mental health struggles more frequently than the general populace.

[Anonymous No.10430634]

>>10430609
No cons no sex unga bunga >:[

[Anonymous No.10430641]

>>10430577
Ask whichever guy you like to take caber for a week. It's a drug used by bodybuilders to reduce prolactin becase when they take certain compounds which increase progesterone which turns into prolactin causing lactation.

But fun fact, the reason that guys experience a refractory period at all is because of a prolactin spike after orgasm. Take enough caber, you elimate your body's ability to use prolactin therefore elminating the refractory period.

[Anonymous No.10430710]

>>10430577
>dicks
No, no It's nothing to do with dicks. In fact I learned that was part my problem. I thought a big dick and lasting a long time is what matters. What actually got me off was clit stimulation. After doing some research I found that only around 30% of women orgasm from penetration alone, and that vags are only 4-7 inches deep. 8-9 inch dicks are just pain, a thick 5 works for me but I still don't orgasm from it unless there is clit stimulation. I don't dislike sex, it feels good but it's not something I really care about either and feels like a chore and isn't the mindblowing thing I thought it was when I was younger.

[Anonymous No.10430711]

>>10430609
First of all it's 4chan and secondly it's much tamer than the rest of the popular boards.

[Anonymous No.10430714]

>>10430710
Smells bad too

[Anonymous No.10430771]

>>10429394
>consensual sex between adults is evil and amoral

get a load of this boyfriendless shut in. My gf also liked the idea of having an occasional third if theyre cute.

[Anonymous No.10430792]

>>10430711
True, but from my brief time on /cgl/ it's a very different vibe. I've mostly stayed on /tg/, /an/, and /out/ for years though

[Anonymous No.10430821]

Hiding replies and hiding threads has significantly improved my experience here. I'm not taking bait.

[Anonymous No.10430903]

>tfw super cute /fit/ cosplay bf

I’ve been with him for a year and a half by now but I’m gonna keep saying it

[Anonymous No.10431149]

>>10430903
Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[Anonymous No.10431260]

>>10427362
Where does a fella find a Georgia Cosplay GF

[Anonymous No.10431544]

Radfems are just a different brand of wokesters and even tho I agree with some of the things they stand for, I generally find them just as insufferable as other types of PC warriors and im sick of them inserting their beliefs into every platform like just shut the fuck up for two seconds and stop being a child and calling people names just because they disagree with you.

[Anonymous No.10431601]

>>10430641
>Take enough caber, you elimate your body's ability to use prolactin therefore elminating the refractory period
Now we're truckin

[Anonymous No.10436031]

>>10430362
>Nobody is X. It goes against biology.
You can probably see how stupid this statement is if you think about it for a few seconds

[Anonymous No.10438070]

>>10428066
Just be polite about it, anon. Research points to putting up with it if you want her not to off herself, and modern social conventions point to putting up with it if you want to stay within that friend group.