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Feels Thread Anonymous Sun Oct 25 02:20:15 2020 No.10492855 [Reply] [Original]

Stop shitting up the rest of the board edition

>>	soup Sun Oct 25 02:27:41 2020 No.10492856 today was a good day I mean ...I-I-I’m sorry op I’ll be good from now on don’t report me to janny pls.

>>	soup Sun Oct 25 03:14:04 2020 No.10492862 >>10492856 fuck off, me

soup Sun Oct 25 03:21:07 2020 No.10492864 [DELETED]

rip he ded and to think I dropped my name and was nice to him in that other thread too. fake ass anons can’t even help me funpost.

I’m boreddddd. Op you can’t make a thread and not post your feels. How are you feeling? If someone don’t post their feels I’m going to go find an active thread.

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 05:02:36 2020 No.10492888

My feel is that I have a really bad sweets addiction that has been kicked off by Halloween being my favorite and the fact that I always celebrate by trying fun and festive sweets. I'm quickly gaining a lot of weight tho since I'm binging pretty much nightly. It really sucks, I wish I had my ED back, as bad as that sounds.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 05:04:10 2020 No.10492890 I miss cons. I miss cosplaying with friends. But I’m still hopeful they’ll come back, eventually. These virtual cons have been boring as hell.

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 05:31:54 2020 No.10492902

>>10492888
Halloween is my favorite holiday too. I like binge watching Halloween specials, the weather and all the decorations. I like sweets too but not store bought ones. I like getting all the different kinds of candies from trick or treating but can’t do that anymore rip.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 08:36:47 2020 No.10492920 >>10492888 Yo can try making home-made sweets and use low carb recipes. I find making sweets relaxing and it helps me with anxiety-induced binge eating.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 09:32:44 2020 No.10492927 i shouldn't have spent so much money in one go i'm so retarded

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 11:35:51 2020 No.10492962 I get really mad when I see lolitas on social media going to meetups right now because I know my comm won't have one any time soon because of the rona. I miss meet ups so much, especially since I dont wear lolita that often outside of them

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 13:57:28 2020 No.10492997 I just farted guys, it stinks really badly, can you smell it?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 14:42:49 2020 No.10493021 Haven’t bought anything lolita-related for about a month now to not impulse buy, a JSK I discovered earlier this year popped up for sale and I’m hoping I can win the auction! >worth the wait

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 14:53:31 2020 No.10493025

>Newbie discusses lolita with senior comm members
>They are just about to order their first dress
>We ask if they have their petticoat and shit
>They don't
>Discussions circles for a while
>Newbie asks if it's possible to do lolita without a petticoat
>I say it
>"No, it will look ugly."
>The other comm members smooth over my brash statement
>Explain why the silhouette is important and so on
>She settles to look for a petticoat to order too
>Everyone is happy
>But I know what I said
>She will look ugly without a petticoat and I stand by that

I really want her to wait on wearing that shiny sparkly new dress in public until she gets her petti, because I don't want to force more smiles for itas. I know that she will look adorable if she just follows the damn rules, so fuck yes, I'm proud of daring to say it like that. I wish someone would have told me...

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 15:07:29 2020 No.10493032
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>tfw find some old cosplay blogs and get hit super hard with nostalgia

I hate it but now I finally have some motivation to do the cosplays I had in my folders since 2013

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 15:15:32 2020 No.10493037

>>10493025
I donno you sounds like a dick. You made your other comm members cover and explain for you instead of just saying it’s ugly and why. You can be both upfront and helpful at the same time especially when it seems like the newbie was looking for improvement.

>>	anonymous Sun Oct 25 15:31:07 2020 No.10493041 File: 368 KB, 828x953, D13842E4-447E-4F66-8E48-AAD4245E992F.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I bought these earrings. how sus are they on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being not sus

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 15:37:01 2020 No.10493042 >>10493037 Yeah it was a bit of a dick move, but I stand by that. I joined in the nice and pretty discussion of the silhouette too, with nice tone, but I opened it with harsh facts. A dick is both hard and soft, I'd say.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 16:14:31 2020 No.10493056 Can someone here berate me and call me a fat fuck so I can stop eating so much? I hate quarantine.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 16:26:46 2020 No.10493059 >>10492855 A local weeb shop that sells 'kawaii' marked-up Aliexpress items is going to start selling 'lolita dresses' and I'm really worried for an outbreak of itas in my area. First I gotta deal with covid and now this shit, too?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 16:29:26 2020 No.10493062 Oh god I'm shitting everywhere please help my asshole is bursting open

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 16:41:01 2020 No.10493073
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>>10493056
Think about why you want to lose weight instead. To fit a dress? Be accurate for a cosplay? To generally like yourself in the mirror? Then try to remind yourself of that goal before you eat something extra. Is this temporary moment of happiness worth years of unhappiness? Drink water instead, distract yourself with something else, work out, lift weights, work on something you've been putting off, clean your room, etc.

If you end up eating anyway, it's not the end of the world. Do some cardio or weight lifting to try to work off what you are. Check the calorie count of whatever you're eating. Is it worth it? Is it worth never being able to look the way you want to look?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 17:19:43 2020 No.10493093 Tfw when you've put together really cute coords but your mirror isn't big enough to take pictures and your living space is too small to buy a bigger one

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 17:21:04 2020 No.10493097 >>10493056 Lift weights so that I may live vicariously through your efforts to cope with my injuries

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 17:28:15 2020 No.10493106 >>10493097 I really want to, its just hard to push myself because I really hate regimentated excercise. Sorry about your injuries, hopefully your recovery is quick.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 17:53:08 2020 No.10493131 >>10493106 Just put on some music and get a burn on. I've grooved like an idiot to Jungle Boogie between sets when I didn't want to be there.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 18:47:28 2020 No.10493193 >>10493025 I know that feel. Sometimes I end up being too harsh just out of habit, I suspect it may be a side effect of being here for so long.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 18:54:39 2020 No.10493198 >>10493193 bitch this ain’t the army. how can a bunch of seagulls in pretty dresses brain wash you?

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 18:56:39 2020 No.10493201

>>10493198
As I said, it's a side effect. You spend too much time here with the association that talking about [x] allows you to be an elitist cunt, so when you start getting serious about [x] sometimes it slips out.
Of course, I wouldn't encourage this, nobody should. But it still happens regardless sometimes.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 19:10:24 2020 No.10493207 >>10493056 keep stuffing your fat fucking pig face all you want

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 19:11:22 2020 No.10493209

>>10493056

stop being a disgusting fat piece of shit, women will never love you, people will never want to be your friend, people hate you, you fucking disgust them. You're a burden to the tax payer, people laugh and talk about you when you leave the room.

STOP EATING AND GET FIT YOU CAN DO IT.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 19:11:32 2020 No.10493210 >>10493056 Stop eating so much you fucking fatty, everyone hates you

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 19:18:37 2020 No.10493212 >>10493056 >tfw lost weight in quarantine Just fix your diet, fatty. Cut out sugar, stop snacking, eat meat

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 19:19:32 2020 No.10493213 >>10493056 You're shortening your life and worsening the time you have left.

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:19:51 2020 No.10493226
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>>10493056
Come on over to /fit/'s Fat People Hate - half the group are people who used to be fat and use shame to stay thin.

Also consider fasting. You're probably a serial-grazer who snacks all day, fasting will help you fight that.

>>>/fit/58078759

We can all make it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:25:15 2020 No.10493228 File: 153 KB, 500x464, HeartBreaking.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493056 Choose your future.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:44:27 2020 No.10493239 >>10493198 Its almost like the people you talk to can have an influence on your opinions and personality

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:45:52 2020 No.10493240

>>10493106
I feel this way about exercise as well. Luckily you only need to do it for about 30s to and hour 3 days out of the week. Before quarantine though, I lost most of my weight through playing DDR at the local arcade. Hundreds if not a thousands custom songs on that machine that reach insane levels and mods that kept me motivated. Can't do this at home since I live on the second floor unfortunately.
>>10493207
>>10493209
>>10493210
>>10493212
I see /fit/ has arrived.
>>10493226
Knew it. I'll be there in a bit, I love fph threads.

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:49:40 2020 No.10493242

>>10493240
I always just count my calories, I'm a 20 bmi but im gaining weight quickly and thats a problem. I used to be obese and I had such low self esteem, I never want to go back to that again. Only problem is im skinnyfat and want to gain muscle or at least tone a little, I think im gonna start with some 15 min workouts or something and then go from there

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 20:56:44 2020 No.10493245

family wants to go to Hawaii next year in March. I started working out 2 months ago, but my problem is that I don’t eat enough. I’m trying to gain about 30 lbs before March and get buff af. I’m pretty good at getting myself to lift but sometimes I don’t have an appetite so I don’t eat enough calories for that day. I’m lifting and home right now but I’m close to making out the weights I have available so I’ll hit you he gym once I max the ones I have. The gyms in my city but you have to call in ahead of time to set an appointment.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 21:03:36 2020 No.10493251 File: 134 KB, 410x351, 1593402459068.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493242 Lift those weights girl.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 21:06:15 2020 No.10493254 >>10493251 I want to! Just trying to work around not being able to go to the gym

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 21:23:51 2020 No.10493259 >>10493056 No miracle will come, you are the only person who can fix the sorry state of affairs in your life. Get your shit together or you'll waste all your time away

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 22:16:44 2020 No.10493277 File: 295 KB, 951x800, 1571421890562.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493251 >no Saotome gf

Anonymous Sun Oct 25 22:46:31 2020 No.10493287

today was a good day. my parents wanted to go to the pumpkin patch to take family pictures so I decided to wear one of my favorite jsk. everything was perfect but ofc my little sister had to come along too. I hate her so much. she always take my things without asking and alway tries to one up me. If she doesn’t get her way she would cry and my parents alway pick her side over mine. like this b word is so stupid she calls her Elsa costume (from frozen) a lolita coord lol. I kept to myself though and manage to take some pretty nice photos for my TikTok so overall I had a good time.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 22:48:08 2020 No.10493288 >>10493287 You have to be 18 to use this board kek i feel like im reading a diary entry from a PMsing 15 year old girl

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 22:49:34 2020 No.10493289 >>10493287 You're young and probably won't get it until you're older but I guarantee she's trying to "one up" you and calls her costume lolita because she just wants to be like her big sister. She probably looks up to you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 22:54:41 2020 No.10493290 >>10493289 Exactly. My sister hated me growing up (she’s 7 years older) and I still have barely and relationship with her. It’s heartbreaking as she’s someone I’ve always looked up to. Grow a pair and give your sister some love and respect.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 23:13:00 2020 No.10493296 File: 1.99 MB, 1280x1354, F837504D-983C-4C5C-9CBB-302CDCCB61D6.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493056 You may be a fat fuck, but you are not doomed to being a fat fuck.

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 23:30:44 2020 No.10493305 >>10493056 Your outside repugnance is a mirror of your inner vice and failure. Why don’t you do something about it?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 25 23:42:39 2020 No.10493310 >>10493287 >b word Hope your parents catch you cussin like that

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 00:59:48 2020 No.10493324 Anyone tried mewing before?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 01:47:00 2020 No.10493335 >>10493056 I'm not even going to put in the effort to come up with something witty for someone like you, you're simply not worth the effort . You're a fat loser of a human being and that's all there is to it.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 01:59:08 2020 No.10493336

>>10493025
>but I know what I said
Lol you’re kinda savage but I like that. You’re not wrong, and you did technically explain why. Explaining that lolita has a silhouette that requires a petti is spoon feeding imo and I don’t have the patience for that

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 03:46:15 2020 No.10493349 >>10493025 Why people in lolita think being sincere is somehow wrong?

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 04:32:35 2020 No.10493355

>Friend really upset she gained weight
>Blames everything and every one but herself
>She no longer fits into her lolita clothing
>Blames our lolita friend group for doing social things with a lot of food
>We offer to lose weight together. So no more snacks and high teas but we'll think of someone else and support each other through dieting.
>She throws a tantrum and now blames us for *depression* because we are fatshaming her

It's not my fault you got fat, bitch! You just don't want to diet because of your food addiction. If you don't want to diet and exercise you are choosing to be fat yourself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 06:53:33 2020 No.10493371 >>10493324 mew

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 07:08:25 2020 No.10493377 >>10493355 keep shaming her

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 07:41:38 2020 No.10493398 File: 407 KB, 720x603, 1581867024178.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493228

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 07:41:52 2020 No.10493399 >>10493310 best reply >>10493324 yeah it actually works just takes a lot of self control and persistence

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 08:07:09 2020 No.10493404 >>10493324 I had to search what it was and seems like I've been doing it naturally all my life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 11:40:32 2020 No.10493457 >>10493056 We all believe in you, anon. You're gonna fucking make it, I just know it

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 11:57:33 2020 No.10493463 >>10493056 Start an onlyfans and appeal to the thicc crowd If Momokun can do it so can you!

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 12:45:45 2020 No.10493482 >>10493463 I'm not thicc. I'm like 125 lbs, I just dont want to get any fatter than this.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:00:41 2020 No.10493489 >>10493324 >mewing I didn't know what this was and Googled it, and it's just resting your tongue against the roof of your mouth? The place your tongue naturally rests? What is the point?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:02:13 2020 No.10493491 >>10493482 eat more dumb skelly

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:05:27 2020 No.10493494 >>10493491 That's not that thin for my height bud

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:07:13 2020 No.10493496 >>10493494 grow more dumb manlet

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:14:53 2020 No.10493503

My mental state is in constant flux. My friends seeing pictures of my face for the first time in literal months because of Australia's Victorian lockdown and saying I look better gives me a feeling of impostor syndrome.

I think the worst thing after getting no compliments at all is actually getting them but not being able to accept them on a mental level. Anybody else in the same ballpit?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:22:08 2020 No.10493507 >>10493489 The point is a lot of people don't rest their tongue there naturally and it fucks up their jawline

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:23:11 2020 No.10493509 >>10493496 I'm a girl but ok

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:35:55 2020 No.10493513 A taobao dress I ordered back in july is finally coming in. I'm excited and can't wait to try it on. I'm also going in for second fitting tomorrow with the tailor for the AP dress I got. It's a good week, I wonder what's going to ruin it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 13:54:10 2020 No.10493519 >>10493513 >It's a good week, I wonder what's going to ruin it nothing, because you deserve it, anon!! <3

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 14:31:27 2020 No.10493533 I want new makeup and clothes so bad I wish I wasn't such a poorfag

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 14:37:57 2020 No.10493539

here's my feels today. i am a dumb bitch who can't stop eating and while I still fit my op's the guilt is real and I cannot stand the thought that I may be stretching out my dresses
I keep spending little bits of money on other bullshit when I desperately need to save for a winter coat for lolita or I will fucking die outside. they're so expensive though and damn does it piss me off to spend dress money on something that isn't a dress.
also this virus has made it so I've still never met another lolita in person...maybe I never will now. kinda sucks as ive been into it since 2010-ish and now might never get to have lolita friends because I waited until a stupid pandemic to finally get started wearing it. my internet isn't fast enough to attend online meets either so that's a bummer too.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 14:40:35 2020 No.10493540 File: 2.45 MB, 500x500, cutenope.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10493056

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:00:42 2020 No.10493549 That happy feel when no more CoF threads That happy feel when no more online comm thread That happy feel when no irl comm threads Lolita is finally maturing and leaving drama behind, lets end ita threads next.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:07:28 2020 No.10493551

>>10493539
>also this virus has made it so I've still never met another lolita in person...maybe I never will now. kinda sucks as ive been into it since 2010-ish and now might never get to have lolita friends because I waited until a stupid pandemic to finally get started wearing it.
I'm in the same boat. I have 6 dresses now which is small compared to most but I just started during the pandemic. I really want to go to meets and teaparties to meet others in my city and generally have fun. I want to go to lolita day in Disney, go to a cafe with the girls, museums, see a play, everything I didn't do when younger because I thought girls were just stuck up bitches and boys were more fun and cool. Jokes on me, I should have bonded with other girls more.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:08:35 2020 No.10493552 >>10493549 Ok sjw

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:12:21 2020 No.10493553 >>10493549 kek. sorry you got posted

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:13:50 2020 No.10493555 >>10493553 This lmao

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:14:52 2020 No.10493556 >>10493549 Its because the whole board has been dead you stupid bitch, mainly because newfags like you took it over

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:23:13 2020 No.10493560 [DELETED]

It is kind of embarassing how some flat chested girls tell themselves that women don't care about their breast size and how "nobody wants big saggy boobs" even though you can have a moderate sized chest and still have them perky and that is usually what women go for when they get breast implants. Not to mention that there's subreddits for small breasted with tons of posts from women saying their flat chest is a huge source of insecurity for them. Anecdotally, I've had quite a few friends who have confided that they wish their breasts were bigger, not debilitatingly huge duh, but bigger.

It's so obviously a cope and honestly makes me a bit sad, the insecurity must run really deep if you've convinced yourself that trait is never a source of insecurity for anyone even though so much evidence points to the opposite.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:28:33 2020 No.10493563
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My friend is a well-meaning retard. Whenever I wear anything around her she's guaranteed to mess my shit up with her foolery completely by accident. Yet I can't lose my shit at her without seeming like an asshole for getting upset about "just clothes," and it is *accidental* after all. Unfortunately because we share so many circles, I have the choice of either wearing cheap and boring things around cause she's guaranteed to be there, or wear my nice things but risk having her stupid vapors reach my shit again.
>stepped on my fluevogs and ruined one shoe by leaving a giant unrepairable indent on the tip, she just wanted to be close to me
>stained white fabric on the bodice of my costume by giving me a drunk hug and rubbing off her body paint on me homestuck style...later confessing she painted herself with wet acrylic paint
>nudged me into a candle at a party which lit my lolita dress on fire that caused unrepairable melt damage, because she was trying to make room for other people
There's other ot things. Like she almost killed our friend group in her car once. She passed out behind the wheel on the highway after we all asked her if she needed one of us to drive. She insisted she was good cause she knew we had work in the morning while she didn't, but she wasn't actually ok to drive. I wound up driving the rest of the way after feeling her car drift out of lane and seeing her sunk at the wheel, and I wasn't good for work after driving all night.

She's a good friend and that's why I feel guilty for being so fucking mad that she's an idiot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:30:02 2020 No.10493565 >>10493560 Nice b8

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:32:56 2020 No.10493569 >>10493563 at least with social distancing you can just keep 6ft away from her with the pandemic as an excuse? damn that's gotta fucking suck though. is this bair? how has nobody else gotten their stuff damaged or yelled at her yet?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:33:27 2020 No.10493570 >>10493563 Has anyone confronted her on all of this? Does she have ADHD or autism? She sounds really impulsive

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:40:41 2020 No.10493578 >>10493563 >She's a good friend how terrible are all your other friends?

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:45:14 2020 No.10493585

>>10493569
Not bait unfortunately.
If she's damaged other people's shit then they're probably doing what I'm doing and not talking about it. Although I do recall some complaints about her before (she helped a friend move but improperly packed a box which broke a bunch of stuff--but said friend was acting p ungrateful for any help desu). No one wants to be mean to her, and if she's doing all this unintentionally it's not like she can stop being stupid and gain awareness overnight.
However, she has been annoying before and mutuals have aired annoyance or exasperation for it. Her famous routine is randomly disappearing from our group if we travel someplace or go to a convention together. Sometimes when she's drunk at a convention she'll b-line for someplace random which obviously concerns us all. That type of behavior is more dangerous/attention-seeking which is why I think it was easier for everyone to call out, whereas the other times her intentions were either good or selfless.

>>10493570
I suspect she could be on the spectrum. But it would honestly be very hard to tell at a glance. She has plenty of friends, and seems to recognize many social conventions.

>>10493578
I've had really bad friends baby.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:45:22 2020 No.10493587 >>10493556 Good. Stay dead salt lords. Tyler is cringe btw.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:46:20 2020 No.10493590 >>10493585 Women tend to hide autism really well because they're better at picking up social cues.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:52:31 2020 No.10493598 >>10493585 It sounds like she's doing it on purpose anon, are you sure you aren't frenemies?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 15:56:21 2020 No.10493604 >>10493587 Based

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 16:00:19 2020 No.10493609 >>10493587 Tyler is cringe and so are you kek

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 16:21:59 2020 No.10493633 >>10493609 Way to piss your pants in public anon. You going to shit and cum too?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 16:31:44 2020 No.10493643 >>10493556 Only newfags and children post in the ita threads. Grow up.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 16:40:11 2020 No.10493651 >>10493643 Whatever you say sjw

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:06:47 2020 No.10493676 >>10493651 The only thing funnier than an ita is the fat ita posting about her on cgl ;)

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:07:53 2020 No.10493677 >>10493676 I have a 23 in waist

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:09:20 2020 No.10493679 >>10493677 Sure you do, fatty.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:17:16 2020 No.10493686 >>10493679 Thanks a lot, im ana and because you said that now im going to go make myself puke up the piece of toast I had for dinner. Fuck you.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:20:57 2020 No.10493690

I've gained 3 pounds in quarantine. I'm so fat and disgusting, just shoot me and put me out of my misery. Yesterday I ate 2 cups of carrot sticks instead of just one, im so tired of the binging and shame that follows. Why can't I just stop shoving my fat face with food?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:25:35 2020 No.10493693 >>10493686 You're welcome!

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:29:07 2020 No.10493696 >>10493690 bait

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:33:52 2020 No.10493698 >>10493696 Fatty

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:35:27 2020 No.10493699 >>10493690 calm down zoeosaki

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:37:05 2020 No.10493701 Why are some of you so concerned about being fat? Men would fuck moist chicken sandwiches. Momokun proved you can be a planet and still have a following. But yeah if you're a fat dude you should just neck yourself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:39:31 2020 No.10493702 >>10493701 >Why are some of you so concerned about being fat? Men would fuck moist chicken sandwiches. I don't care about what men want, I want to fit nice dresses and enjoy looking at myself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:47:50 2020 No.10493708 >>10493701 Because some of like being able to go on runs and walk up stairs without panting, hamplanet.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:51:28 2020 No.10493711 >>10493701 Its a fattycope to think being thin is only for the opposite sex kek

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 17:59:02 2020 No.10493715 I ate so much today I gained nearly five pounds compared to this morning. I feel like a fat fuck

>>	pous Mon Oct 26 18:08:02 2020 No.10493721 File: 540 KB, 828x1085, 117C488D-3672-49A9-ACD6-683D25B3B248.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I got a free sticker in the mail. now I can tell people I voted when I didn’t pogu

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:28:32 2020 No.10493729 Went on cof omg the state. Blouseless, agps, handmade, shitty taobao is it just hallowen bringing out the itas or what

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:34:27 2020 No.10493733 >>10493551 wow, we both have 6 dresses, that's kinda funny. but ya that's exactly how I feel. I wanted to finally start making friends and enjoying a fashion I love with other girls...but nah.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:35:37 2020 No.10493734 >>10493701 Being fat is unhealthy and I actually enjoy being alive.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:41:02 2020 No.10493738

>>10493733
Even though this is all disappointing, I try to think of this as my cocoon year(s). Spending this time building up my wardrobe and getting other cute shit. I want to try having a penpal just so I have an excuse to use stationary and feathered pens.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:45:00 2020 No.10493743 >>10493734 >I actually enjoy being alive Get a load of this normie

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:56:43 2020 No.10493747 >>10493743 kek

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 18:58:54 2020 No.10493749 >>10493743 Hey, I had to go through a lot of nothing to get to this point.

>>	puos Mon Oct 26 19:02:13 2020 No.10493750 >>10493733 >>10493738 damn girls sure like to beat around the bush. I think both of you want to be friends with one another.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 19:06:44 2020 No.10493753 >>10493738 yeah I'm kinda doing the same. hopefully by the time I go to a con or meet I will have a really good wardrobe. a penpal sounds like a really cool idea tho, if I wasn't moving I'd probably try to find one too

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 19:12:17 2020 No.10493754 >>10493750 i don't think shes tryna be my friend lol unless im too autist to understand, we're just having a conversation.

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 19:47:36 2020 No.10493769

>>10493750
Just chit chatting really, it's local lolita friends that we're yearning for and covid has killed opportunities for now. >>10493753
I'm sure you will seeing as you're going the same pace I am. I've been watching old meetup vids on youtube in place of actually getting to go.

puos Mon Oct 26 20:09:28 2020 No.10493779

>>10493753
See there’s another one
>>10493754
this anon def. wants to be friends
>>10493769
this anon is too shy to ask. other anon already said she wants to be friends are you going to leave her hanging like that. If you don’t move fast you’re going to miss out on two friendos

>>	puos Mon Oct 26 20:20:26 2020 No.10493789 I farted on my hands today just to keep them warm

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 20:43:45 2020 No.10493802 do you guys smell something? I farted

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 20:52:33 2020 No.10493811 I farted during a Zoom meeting for work, and I forgot to turn the microphone off first

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 20:55:03 2020 No.10493813 now I’m known as fartface at work. Ppl think they’re bullying me but I like it brrrrrp~

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 21:00:20 2020 No.10493816 Time to make another fattysperging containment thread.

>>	puos Mon Oct 26 21:01:06 2020 No.10493817 >>10493789 >>10493811 If I ever find you imma lock you up in a box and fill it up with my fart till you die. I’ll name the box fartwitz

>>	puos Mon Oct 26 21:29:06 2020 No.10493829 I collected all of my earwax one summer and put it in a jar and sometimes I like to smell it lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 21:38:58 2020 No.10493831 >>10493829 I used to collect my scabs

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 26 21:40:00 2020 No.10493832 >>10493831 I kept them in a little drawer in my jewelry box

Anonymous Mon Oct 26 21:54:33 2020 No.10493841

>>10493769
I sure hope so, and that's a great idea, perhaps I'll check out some videos of meetups nearby to fill the void lol!

>>10493779
both of those responses are me. and while I'd like to make friends, cgl doesn't really seem a good place to do so.

>>	puos Tue Oct 27 00:18:54 2020 No.10493905 >>10493841 That’s true you got people collecting earwax, scabs and farts over like wtf guys

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 01:11:08 2020 No.10493926 >>10492855 Is it true that male scrotums live rent free inside our heads? I called a maleposter a scrote the other day and they replied with that.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 06:20:02 2020 No.10494038 >>10493926 Not for me. I don't think of men unless confronted with them.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 06:43:10 2020 No.10494042

can cats survive the when it’s cold out? my friend has some outdoor cats and she was wondering if she should leave some blankets in a box out or something for her cats. It’s not too cold but it’s cold enough where I have to sleep in my clothes kinda cold

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 07:06:47 2020 No.10494047 >>10494042 >it’s cold enough where I have to sleep in my clothes kinda cold

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 07:08:48 2020 No.10494048 Wish I wasn’t a lonelita. tfw no comm.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 08:35:00 2020 No.10494066

I'm really in love with prints in general, I think being able to wear such artwork on your clothes is amazing. Sucks that I can't wear them. For a while I even thought of buying some pieces just as a collector's item, but in the end I prefer someone else to wear them and enjoy them properly.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 08:47:02 2020 No.10494071
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>>10494042
She should make them some sort of warm, waterproof shelter, there's easy-enough ones you can make from rubbermaids. Even if she does just put something in a box, she should use straw rather than a blanket, it stays drier while just sitting outside, and so keeps them warmer.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 08:49:16 2020 No.10494074 >>10494066 why can't you wear them? >>10494047 same. nothing in my area. debating starting one myself, but not really sure what it'd entail

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 08:50:34 2020 No.10494075 >>10494066 why can't you wear them? >>10494048 same. nothing in my area. debating starting one myself, but not really sure what it'd entail

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 09:17:48 2020 No.10494080 >>10494075 Because I'm a 6'5 dude

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 09:45:42 2020 No.10494090 >>10494080 Excuses

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 10:33:27 2020 No.10494104
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>wake up at 5AM to get ready for crappy job
>sit for a bit while shower warms up and browses LM

>DD pops up in the exact color and cut I’ve wanted
>great price, no damage

>buy that shit ASAP

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 10:38:54 2020 No.10494106 >>10494104 oooh grats anon! What did you score?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 10:56:13 2020 No.10494111 >>10494104 Hope the day at your crappy job is slightly less crappy today. Congrats!

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 10:57:06 2020 No.10494113 Kinda mad that the superbuy package i bought 2 months ago has just now shipped out wtf

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 11:12:46 2020 No.10494118

Im such an annoying burden to everyone around me.
Why the fuck do i even buy lolita. I rarely do anything but work from home in my increasingly messy bedroom all day. Im in this room 22 hours a day.
Im a disappointment to my friends and family and no one should have to deal with my wothless ass.
Im about to just trash all my belongings, get in my car, and go 90 mph into a concrete wall.
Posting here on anon so im mot bothering more people with my bull shit because this is the void and who the fuck cares.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 11:20:42 2020 No.10494121

>>10494118
Start with cleaning your room on your day off. I work from home too and shit piles up through the week and I feel lile crap. Once my day off comes around, I spend it cleaning and then looking over my dresses and accessories, shop for some cute loungewear and feel better.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 11:27:02 2020 No.10494123

I’m too anxious to go out into my city in lolita. I’ve tried before to hide behind wigs and makeup but the idea of somebody seeing me and recognising me really freaks me out... I know this isn’t really a normal reaction, I’m a 22yo professional supporting herself and is otherwise pretty well. Anyone have any advice?

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 11:48:51 2020 No.10494137

>>10494123
I live in the suburbs about 30 minutes away from a big city. I find it a lot easier to go to more urban places because the cities and bigger and there's more people and they care less about "weird" people. Is it possible for you to try wearing frills in a different area or a big city near you?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 12:01:59 2020 No.10494141 >>10493093 i know that feel anon... i know that feel

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 13:04:48 2020 No.10494156 >>10494123 I always wear a facemask if I'm out in lolita, feels so much safer.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 13:27:54 2020 No.10494163
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My feel is that I hate not being able to wear cute lolita socks due to my huge calves. I'm not fat and I fit lolita perfectly everywhere else, it's just my calves that are the problem. Should I keep trying to slim down and do calf exercises or is it hopeless lol

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 13:46:34 2020 No.10494171

>>10494163
Are the calves huge because of fat, or because of muscle mass? If the latter, you may want to actually not work them out, because that will allow them to atrophy and get smaller.
If the former, keep working out, but as with all goals to get rid of fat, do general cardio instead of spot exercises.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 15:57:37 2020 No.10494214 >>10494163 You might be fatter than you think you are. Not trying to be mean, but I didn't think I was fat even when I was borderline obese. I thought I was "chubby" only after I lost weight did I realize how big I was.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 15:59:15 2020 No.10494216 >>10494163 If you really do fit lolita perfectly everywhere else, avoid detailed knit socks and printed tights and you'll be fine

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 17:48:30 2020 No.10494254 File: 1.83 MB, 3645x1515, Won.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I'm happy this person won this dress. I was watching the bid war at the end and was rooting for her.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 18:16:14 2020 No.10494261 >>10494254 selfpost?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 18:47:12 2020 No.10494274 Guys I just let out a really warm fart, it felt really wet so I thought it was poo but it wasn't so I'm really proud of myself. Can you guys smell it?

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 18:49:56 2020 No.10494278
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>In Secret Santa
>Excited to go shopping for my match
>Drop phone
>Shattered screen
>Hardware failure
>Mfw

I will be able to do both, but it sucks that two big money sinks will hit my finances at the same time. At least I can buy a phone with a better camera, right?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 18:54:46 2020 No.10494280 Someone copied something I said on here. I lowkey think they want to be me.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:02:33 2020 No.10494287 >>10494280 You can't say that and not give details, anon. What did you say?

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:08:43 2020 No.10494296 [DELETED]

I like to have my girlfriend wipe my stinky butt in lolita. Sometimes I like to fart in her hand the air wooshes against my clitty and I get a lil wet. The feeling of her rubbing the toilet paper around my stinky little asshole while the frills brush against my thigh is truly better than any drug I've ever had.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:21:38 2020 No.10494303 How do you guys cope with being sad and empty all the time? Lolita no longer fills the void

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:24:34 2020 No.10494306

Halloween is my favorite holiday ever and every year I spend it alone, I haven't dressed up in years and this Halloween I'm going to be stuck at home again because my bf works. It sounds dumb but it makes me want to die because I've always wanted to dress up and go to a Halloween party but I have no friends so it doesn't happen. Oh well I guess.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:25:29 2020 No.10494307 >>10494306 If you live in California I will legit invite you to my socially distanced halloween party

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:35:03 2020 No.10494314 >>10494307 That is so sweet of you anon, but I don't live in California unfortunately.

>>	puos Tue Oct 27 19:40:19 2020 No.10494318 >>10494314 wow someone that doesn’t live in CA actually feels unfortunate about not living in CA. I just thought other states hated people from CA

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 19:53:13 2020 No.10494324 One of my dream dresses, MmM's Silent Moon in the white colourway is up on Lacemarket, and I'm broke. Waiting on a job interview right now but I know I won't be able to scrape together the $500 in time.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 20:08:15 2020 No.10494329

>>10494324

I've been struggling with the same thing anon. Applying for jobs, having interviews, dealing with hiring freezes going on and off repeatedly depending on case counts in my area or state, wishing I'd get hired already so I can comfortably save, pay bills, and buy lolita.

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 20:54:52 2020 No.10494359

I can't be happy about my weight loss because I feel so unsatisfied with how my body looks. I expected my body to look amazing because i was fat for so long, there had to be something bangin under there right? but its just meh. I get really jealous when I see those skinny girls with perfect proportions; tiny waist and sizeable hips, you know the type. I carry the majority of my weight in my stomach even at my lowest weight which was pretty low for my height (my doctor got concerned with how much I was losing even) my waist was pretty thick ugh, I just feel so unfeminine. I got super into lolita because it distracted me from how disappointed I feel but now it's all just coming back. I know it's vapid of me to care this much but I can't stop myself, I just want a nice body dammit.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 21:18:55 2020 No.10494371 >>10492890 I feel u anon. I miss the experience of walking around con (i never go for the panels and usually just chat and shop)

Anonymous Tue Oct 27 21:31:30 2020 No.10494374

How to politely bring up the topic of sex with my cat? He looks at my dick constantly with those "fuck me" eyes but idk if he's ready yet, I know I am but I dont want to pressure him into anything. How did you ease into that part of the relationship with your cat? Nobody ever talks about it, I know it's a really intimate thing

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 27 23:37:41 2020 No.10494439 >>10494359 Sounds like you need to loose more weight, unless you have a fridge body

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 00:37:53 2020 No.10494451 >>10494439 Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit is it?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 00:45:03 2020 No.10494452 >>10494439 >loose

>>	puos Wed Oct 28 00:49:15 2020 No.10494453 >>10494278 lmao. can’t you just order a new screen off amazon? maybe that will fix the hardware issue too.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 00:49:53 2020 No.10494454 >>10494452 It bothers me that so many retards spell it like that

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 00:52:15 2020 No.10494456 >>10494439 > mentions they were losing so much weight their doctor was concerned > "why not lose more weight tho?" Scrote logic

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 01:22:01 2020 No.10494475 >>10494359 Start eating again, most lolitas are fatties like you so in the end it doesn't matter and you'll be happier the way you were. A cute little piggy.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 01:23:47 2020 No.10494476 >>10494475 Whatever you say scrote

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 01:25:11 2020 No.10494477 >>10494475 No thanks I actually like being able to comfortably go on walks and runs, project your feeder fetish on to someone else

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:18:04 2020 No.10494505 >>10494477 Oh stfu, you love food.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:27:46 2020 No.10494513 >>10494505 We get it, you're a fattychan and you want everyone else to be as miserable as you.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:29:51 2020 No.10494516

A few years ago I had a lolita friend that I really bonded with. It was during a rough part in my life, so I was grateful for the company. Bonus that we got along well outside of lolita too! One time we went out for tea in the afternoon, went home to recharge and change, and then met up again to go to the club. It was so much fun and I was happy to have a friend that could do both! Unfortunately things got a little awkward once we started drinking together more often. One night she got a little too drunk so I brought her over to my flat to sleep it off. While I was tucking her in, she motioned me to sleep next to her. Now I’ve always been in the gray zone about my sexuality, and I know she was confused about hers as well. But since she was off her face, I politely declined and said it would be more spacious for all parties if I slept on the couch. We woke up fine the next day, I tried to laugh it off but I could tell she was embarrassed. We slowly stopped talking after that, despite actively showing each other support via social media. She seems like she’s figured herself out, I’m rather jealous.
>throwback to that one time I could have had a lolita gf but I’m not sure if I would date a girl

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:30:48 2020 No.10494518 >>10494513 Oink Oink piggy

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:31:25 2020 No.10494519 >>10494516 Ew you're one of those straight girls

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:32:33 2020 No.10494520 >>10494518 120 lbs isn't fat but ok hamplanet, sorry you're obese.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:33:45 2020 No.10494521 >>10494520 Holy shit, 120? You're huge. You should quit lolita.

>>	puos Wed Oct 28 02:34:58 2020 No.10494522 >>10494516 are you sexually attracted to girls? or did you want to date her because you guys got along? If it’s the latter than you just wanted a bro not a gf.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:35:39 2020 No.10494523 >>10494521 > t. seething hamplanet angry that thin girls exist

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:38:03 2020 No.10494527 >>10494522 Oh I’ve had sex with girls before, I just don’t know if I could be romantically involved with one.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:39:35 2020 No.10494529 >>10494527 You have some internalized homophobia, you should sort it out. If you can be intimate with women, there's no reason that being romantic with one would be any less fulfilling than with a man.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:43:57 2020 No.10494531

>>10494529
I’ve thought about that, but I’m also a people pleaser. In the handful of situations I’ve been in, I’m always the giver. Mainly because I get really shy when I’m asked if I’d like to receive. I usually say no. Then that goes into my BDD where I get embarrassed by my own body because the person I’m sharing it with knows how it’s supposed to be like from first hand experience lol

>>	puos Wed Oct 28 02:50:24 2020 No.10494532 >>10494527 >>10494529 Yeah did you not want to date because you’re afraid of what other people might think when you’re in public? If you’re bi you might like dating another girl more since you share more stuff in common desu.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 02:55:41 2020 No.10494536

>>10494532
No, I don’t care about that at all. It’s really more the fear of it being uncharted territory. I’ve built strong relationships with women where we become emotionally invested in one another. But idk if I’d be able to have that with someone as well as romantic feelings.

God that sounds so fucked up out loud lol. Guess that says a lot about my past relationships

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 03:01:57 2020 No.10494538 >>10494536 Why do you think it would be so different with a woman? Are you scared of having that kind of emotional intimacy with someone you're in a relationship with?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 03:08:00 2020 No.10494539

>>10494538
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to have that kind of emotional depth and intimacy with a romantic partner. But I’ve never had it before and I low key don’t believe it’s possible for me. I’m really guarded in all of my relationships, romantic or platonic...

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 03:09:44 2020 No.10494540 >Take days off work because of con >Cancelled due to covid-19 hysteria >Get invited to party so I keep they days off and could really use a break >Can't pwn everyone in the costume contest at work because I won't be there

>>	puos Wed Oct 28 03:26:01 2020 No.10494546 >>10494536 >>10494538 >>10494539 this is getting too deep but isn’t a SO just someone you’re sexually attracted to plus you get along with them and care for them. do couple shit together etc

>>	puos Wed Oct 28 03:28:33 2020 No.10494547 >>10494540 take a pic and text it in your work group chat. It’s them knowing that you won that make winning feel good

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 06:41:46 2020 No.10494567 >>10494547 >Group chat Why would I ever want to talk to these people outside of work?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 10:53:04 2020 No.10494628 >>10494567 To flex your badass costume skills, duh

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 11:38:01 2020 No.10494634 >>10494359 Guess you're doomed to look like an uncooked turkey. Might as well go eat whatever you want now, not like you can look worse.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 11:54:39 2020 No.10494636
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>>10493056
I'm late to the party but:
TODAAAAAAAAAAAY
NOT TOMORROW
TODAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY
YOU HEAR ME?
TOODAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:00:06 2020 No.10494641
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>tfw unemployed and just dropped $300+ on secret santa before shipping fees

I spent more on fellow gulls than my own family and I'm dreading seeing my credit card bills. At least I'm getting those sweet free promo hotel nights I can't use until post-COVID.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:28:08 2020 No.10494649 >>10494522 >>10494546 Sexual attraction isn't the same as romance, coomer. You can be romantically attracted to someone and not want to fuck them, as difficult as that is for your microscopic coomer brain to comprehend.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:51:54 2020 No.10494655 >>10494649 Speak for yourself, everybody experiences these things differently.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:56:37 2020 No.10494656 >>10494655 Yes, coomers can't seperate sex and romance.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:57:27 2020 No.10494657 >>10494649 >Split Attraction Model Go back to Tumblr.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 12:58:19 2020 No.10494659 >>10494657 I don't know what a split attraction model even is. I'm just saying it's possible to have love without sex, coomer

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:12:11 2020 No.10494665 >>10494657 This. I'm not gonna date some I am not sexually attracted to, doesn't make me a coomer. I don't even watch porn.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:13:14 2020 No.10494666 >>10494659 Yeah that's called platonic love kek

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:14:08 2020 No.10494669 >>10494665 That's way more coomer than watching porn though. Being unable to even love someone for more than their dick/pussy. How sad.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:14:16 2020 No.10494670 >>10494649 You realize you're in the minority here, right? Every man and woman I've talked to wouldn't want to date someone they're not sexually attracted to. Just because you're a broken asexual freak doesn't mean everyone else is.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:15:33 2020 No.10494671 >>10494669 Oh well, I'm just glad I'm not a broken asexual.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:15:45 2020 No.10494672 >>10494670 I'm aware of that

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:16:39 2020 No.10494674

>>10494649
What scenario do you imagine where a relationship BEGINS with zero sexual attraction? The only ones I can imagine are where a couple is happily married for 30+ years and no longer feels the urge or if they both meet in a retirement home where they both just don't have the energy for that sort of stuff anymore. Any other scenario just seems like a mental theoretical exercise that only makes sense in your imagination tbqh

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:16:47 2020 No.10494675 >>10494671 I would be glad too.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:16:53 2020 No.10494676 >>10494672 Good

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:18:03 2020 No.10494677 >>10494676 Is it possible to fix?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:23:15 2020 No.10494679 >>10494677 Probably not

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:27:06 2020 No.10494682 >>10494359 Well, you should work out (or try different ones), not just eat less Also lot of those skinny girls have to work hard to maintain that body, keep that in mind.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:27:37 2020 No.10494683 >>10494679 What should I do then?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:31:34 2020 No.10494685

>>10494683
What do you mean? Assuming your not a troll attention whore, if sex isn't something you're interested in, it's as simple as having a conversation about it. If you're "platonic love" actually exists, than it'll be stronger for it. Otherwise, you're just shitposting about an imaginary condition because you have to be write on an anonymous basket weaving forum, you hypochondriac. Either talk and behave like an actual human being or fuck off

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:32:02 2020 No.10494686 >>10494683 Not that anon but I remember you and your sperging. Asexuality isn't the problem here, your attitude to it is. Stop letting yourself get bullied by fags on 4chan and go to therapy already, BPDfag.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:32:41 2020 No.10494687

>>10494682
That's not what I mean, you're right I should work out. I just mean my fat distribution even at my lowest weight was really bad. I've known a lot of girls with nice bodies who don't work out, like close friends so I them well. Some people just naturally have good structure and fat distribution, and most girls look a lot better than I do. It just sucks.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:33:30 2020 No.10494688 >>10494686 No one's bullying me though. They're just telling the truth

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:34:07 2020 No.10494689 >>10494685 She has bpd and she's asexual and keeps sperging about it on here, thats what it is.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:34:59 2020 No.10494692 >>10494685 >If you're "platonic love" actually exists, than it'll be stronger for it How will it be stronger if I won't bond in the way that makes it stronger?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:38:05 2020 No.10494693

>>10494692
>>10494689
Look, you're way better off talking to a doctor and getting the help you need. Along with the pills, you're going to also need therapy. You shouldn't be ashamed of it, if more people got it, everyone would be much much happier. Stop taking advice from people that don't know better, but more importantly, do something that will actually help yourself instead of feeding this weird learned helplessness routine you have going on. Frankly, this is the wrong board for it, and I'm not completely convinced you're not a troll, but whatever. It's not that big of a deal one way or the other, just stop posting and get actual, real help

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:38:45 2020 No.10494694 >>10494688 So you're just going to complain about how broken and inferior you are on a Mongolian costume board forever. Got it.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:39:58 2020 No.10494695

>>10494674
I'm not the anon you're responding to, and not trying to claim to be whatever new sexual name the kids use these days, but I've been romantically attached to people with not sexual desire, and I've been attracted to people that I feel both for. The first usually how I feel about another girl I like. I want to do romantic things with them but have no desire to have sex with them. So I get where the other anon is coming from.

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>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:42:24 2020 No.10494698 >>10494695 Saying that anyone who wants sex in a relationship is a "coomer" is retarded though

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:47:17 2020 No.10494701

>>10494698
That's not what was said. The anon said sexual attraction and romance is not the same. If it were, then every guy sexuality attracted to the people they fap to are also romantically attached to them, which we know is not true. People just want to fuck and that's it, Coomers mostly. It IS possible to be both sexually attracted AND romantically attracted but the two are not the same thing.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:47:55 2020 No.10494702 >>10494693 What do they not know better? I'm sure everyone who's been responding knows what love is. >>10494694 It's just good to remember the truth now and then. I forget sometimes.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:48:51 2020 No.10494703 >>10494701 That isn't what they said kek this anon sperges all the time and tries to say that anyone who doesn't experience romantic attraction solely with sexual attraction is a whore. Lurk more if you're that out of the loop

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:52:22 2020 No.10494704

>>10494702
Oh my fucking god, they don't know how to reach through a computer screen and force feed you pills, nor do they know how to get you to be in an environment where you feel safe and free of judgement where there's a back and forth with a licensed professional that knows how to deal with both personal and generalized trauma.

>>10494703
You're mixing up different anons. I was the original, and I didn't really express what I meant that well. I know I only talked about sex, but I also meant physical attraction, as in you like looking at your partner, or however you'd describe it. But on second thought, I didn't consider that maybe one partner was really overweight, but they really clicked anyways, so they decide to get together despite one partner having zero attraction. I don't know, I'm just saying yeah I take it back, it's possible for plenty, guess I'm just shallow

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:52:45 2020 No.10494705

>>10494701
Sure they're different, but I've never met anyone in my life that would be okay in a relationship without sex or that feel romantically attracted to someone without sexual attraction. That's usually just what friends are for. Anon said that if you need sex in a relationship you "only care about their pussy/dick" stop trying to rationalize what they're saying because the anon in question isn't rational at all

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:54:11 2020 No.10494706

>>10494702
>>10494704
Part two of my post I forgot to mention: Great, you're reminded. Now you can tell yourself you did something but doing fuck all and crying about how you're being ripped apart at the seems but nothing you've tried works. Well news flash: it's because you tried nothing at all. If you did, you wouldn't be here, you'd be at the fucking doctor. K last post from me, I'm done. This is way too much for me this morning

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 13:55:42 2020 No.10494707 >>10494697 I feel you, anon. Can we please stop giving this troll attention?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:00:45 2020 No.10494712 >>10494707 it happens every fucking week. i just want it to stop.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:01:54 2020 No.10494714 >>10494706 I've been to the doctor and somehow there was nothing wrong with me physically.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:02:42 2020 No.10494715 >>10494714 Well guess where your next stop is genius? Therapy and/or fucking off

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:06:59 2020 No.10494716 >>10494712 Kys then

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:07:05 2020 No.10494717 >>10494715 Will therapy really give me something I never had?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:08:51 2020 No.10494720 File: 96 KB, 247x231, ..png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10494717 BITCH I WILL FUCKING CUT YOU

>>	soup Wed Oct 28 14:09:58 2020 No.10494723 I’m freeee and I got packages weeee >>10494567 Ntpyrt but you don’t group chat your coworkers and talk shit about people not in the group chat?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:10:13 2020 No.10494724 >>10494717 Yes, sanity.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:10:48 2020 No.10494725 >>10494724 What about sexuality?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:13:37 2020 No.10494728

>>10494717
I went to sex therapy for this very issue after sexual abuse absolutely killed any desire I ever had and I’m still struggling. The therapy didn’t really help much unless you do couple’s therapy. I think it’s the type of journey you’ll have to go on by yourself

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:16:35 2020 No.10494729 >>10494716 Kek. Take your own advice, BPDfag.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:17:30 2020 No.10494730 >>10494729 That wasn't me, but you're right and they probably meant to respond to me

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:18:09 2020 No.10494731 >>10494729 I'm not bpdchan but if you're that worked about threads getting derailed on 4chan maybe you should end it

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:18:33 2020 No.10494732 >>10494728 You got your desire back, right? But what if you've never been abused and never felt desire?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:19:11 2020 No.10494733 >>10494732 How old are you?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:19:43 2020 No.10494735 >>10494733 In my 20s

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:20:13 2020 No.10494736 File: 181 KB, 449x634, 1586269587141.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10494735

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:20:16 2020 No.10494737 >>10494735 Maybe ur gay

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:20:59 2020 No.10494739 >>10494736 What? >>10494737 I don't want to have sex with girls either though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:21:17 2020 No.10494740 >>10494732 You can abuse this dick ahaha

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:22:18 2020 No.10494742 >>10494739 You're asexual but idk why you act like that's the end of the world. There are a lot more asexuals out there than you think.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:22:21 2020 No.10494743

>>10494732
The thing is is that I don’t remember lmfao. It was my first experience and it’s fucked me up since. I still don’t have any desire— and that may be because of trauma or it could be asexuality, I have no idea, but I can’t answer things for you. None of us know what’s happening in our own lives, you’ve gotta try and figure it out on your own. By what you’re saying you’re probably just asexual, try reading up on some forums or subs about it and see if you relate to that experience

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:23:11 2020 No.10494744 File: 123 KB, 1000x820, nomu.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I haven't had an appetite for a long while lately. How convenient

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:24:43 2020 No.10494745 >>10494742 How would you feel if you couldn't experience one of the greatest things in the world? Also I don't trust other asexuals.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:27:14 2020 No.10494748 >>10494731 You should end yourself, nonny.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:27:37 2020 No.10494749

>>10494745
They'd probably feel similar to everyone else in this thread having to deal with your attention whoring derailing yet another thread with your apathetic bullshit. If it's a problem, get help. If it's not, fuck off. Simple. You don't see everyone else crying about not getting to experience heroin despite it being the greatest thing in the world. If you're actually asexual, than you should feel nothing towards sex, not longing for it. But seriously, you do actually need to fuck off

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:28:29 2020 No.10494752 >>10494749 Sex is healthy though. Heroin is not.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:29:09 2020 No.10494753 >>10494752 Not to an asexual, what the fuck? You're such a poser

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:29:41 2020 No.10494754 >>10494753 It's healthy to normal people, who literally need it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:30:11 2020 No.10494755 >>10494748 No you, im not the one crying about the feels thread getting detailed. Its time for you to toaster bath, its ok

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:30:37 2020 No.10494756 >>10494754 > Reading comprehension

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:31:29 2020 No.10494757 >>10494754 You're so retarded. You don't want help, you just want to whine.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:33:37 2020 No.10494759 File: 2.00 MB, 1800x2137, Laetitia's special box.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Playing Lobotomy Corporation made me have strange feels

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:35:56 2020 No.10494760 >>10494753 Having sex is unhealthy to an asexual, but not having sex is even more unhealthy to someone who isn't.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:36:26 2020 No.10494761 >>10494760 Ok?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:36:38 2020 No.10494762 >>10494760 No it isn't. It's equally unhealthy for both you retard.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:38:03 2020 No.10494764 >>10494762 It is unhealthy to both, yes. It's selfish for an asexual to not have sex with someone who isn't for that reason.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:38:39 2020 No.10494767 >>10494755 Neither was I. But keep projecting, nonny.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:39:40 2020 No.10494768 >>10494744 wait are you me? I've felt like garbo lately and have had 0 appetite

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:41:08 2020 No.10494769 >>10494764 Nothing you're saying makes any sense. Do you have like a humiliation kink or something?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:42:38 2020 No.10494770 >>10494769 How would you feel if you dated someone who refused to have sex with you? It would be selfish of them, wouldn't it?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:47:29 2020 No.10494772

>>10494770
I wouldn't date them because we'd have different needs. That's why you have that conversation before you get into a relationship, you have a really weird idea of how these things work. That's like saying my female friend is selfish for not dating me because I'm gay, even though she isn't. Gays date gays. Straights date straights. Aces date aces. It doesn't get any simpler than this.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:47:32 2020 No.10494773 File: 403 KB, 1078x804, wew m'lady.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10494770 I'd have a conversation about it. You know, like a normal fucking person. Not like you'd know though, you're clearly just an insufferable troll

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:49:41 2020 No.10494774 >>10494772 Would you be able to date them if they let you have sex with other people, or is love absolutely necessary in order to enjoy sex?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:51:46 2020 No.10494776 >>10494774 No because I don't want to have sex with other people while I'm in a relationship, but everyone is different. Why can't you date someone asexual?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:52:51 2020 No.10494777 >>10494774 Why would they fuck around with that bullshit when they could just date someone else who does want sex?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:53:00 2020 No.10494778 >>10494776 Why wouldn't you have sex with others if they say they're okay with it anyway?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:54:02 2020 No.10494780 >>10494777 Why is having sex with other people bullshit?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:54:24 2020 No.10494781 >>10494777 > Admitting that you have nothing to offer anyone other than your holes, because that's what you are. Worthless

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:55:50 2020 No.10494782 >>10494781 Keep seething, broken asexual.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:56:43 2020 No.10494783 >>10494782 That wasn't me. I'm aware that I'm the worthless one, not normal people

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:56:54 2020 No.10494784 >>10494778 Because I'm monogamous.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:57:44 2020 No.10494785 >>10494784 Why though? Why is monogamous sex so special?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:58:07 2020 No.10494786 File: 69 KB, 880x480, 1598307339936.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Wow, what the fuck is going on in here? Yeah, no, fuck this shit

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:58:44 2020 No.10494787 >>10494785 It's special to me, if I'm in a relationship with someone I only want to have sex with them, because that bond is important and if I did it with everyone else it wouldn't be important to me.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:59:03 2020 No.10494788

>>10494781

You're making no logical sense. Trying to convince a non asexual person to date an asexual and have a healthy relationship by adding the caveat that they can fuck other people is equally as retarded as a straight person trying to convince a gay person to date them by saying they'll let them fuck dudes on the side.

It's an idiotic waste of time; if your sexualities don't line up, then why date at all? Just look for a compatible person you can care about and enjoy that also asexual or also het or gay or whatever.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:59:07 2020 No.10494789 >>10494772 wait, different anon here. I'm a virgin and wouldn't feel comfortable having sex unless I've been dating the person for 4 months. is that something I should disclose??????

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 14:59:08 2020 No.10494790 >>10494787 That's really gross.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:00:14 2020 No.10494791 >>10494788 That anon wasn't me, but I do not trust other asexuals. No thanks.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:00:27 2020 No.10494792 >>10494789 You can usually tell if somebody is just trying to jump your bones and assuming you want more than that, just dip out. Otherwise, yeah, but if they have a problem with it then they wouldn't be good to date.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:00:38 2020 No.10494793 >>10494789 It's perfectly normal to discuss boundaries and let them know you want to wait until you're ready. If they aren't okay with that they're not the right person.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:01:15 2020 No.10494795 >>10494789 Ew nasty demisexual spotted

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:01:28 2020 No.10494796 >>10494790 How is that gross?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:02:30 2020 No.10494797 >>10494791 Why? It says nothing else about that person other than the fact that they don't want sex.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:02:45 2020 No.10494798

>>10494780

It's not if you're both okay with some level of openness in the relationship or polyamory, but monogamy is still the standard in a lot of places and it's safe to assume they prefer to be monogamous unless they tell you otherwise, meaning they want one partner, not a partner and some fuck buddies.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:03:30 2020 No.10494799 >>10494795 This is pretty normal for women. "Demisexuality" is just a fancy word for what most women feel like when it comes to sexual attraction.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:04:07 2020 No.10494800

>>10494796
Thinking sex is so special and emotional that you should only do it with one person that you love. You also contradicted yourself. You can't love someone who won't have sex with you, but you need sex... because it's a way to bond and show the love you already feel? Is it the chicken or the egg?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:04:48 2020 No.10494803 >>10494791 Then date someone who is poly. It seems like you're just trying to force people who don't want what you want to be okay with dating you and it's really weird.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:05:39 2020 No.10494804

>>10494799

Yeah pretty much. I always thought demisexual was one of the dumb excess tumblr sexualities because needing to know or like someone romantically or as a person before deciding to fuck them is perfectly normal and I assumed it was the baseline for everyone, male and female.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:06:03 2020 No.10494806 >>10494797 Because 9/10 times it doesn't. Either they're normal people who love sex but want attention, or worse, they genuinely think they're asexual but turn out to be demisexual garbage. >>10494799 This makes me ashamed to be a woman. Gross.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:06:33 2020 No.10494807

>>10494795
lmao I just don't wanna finally do it only for the guy to turn out to be an asshole. Made the mistake of trusting my last ex who was incredibly repressed and a) tried to do stuff without consent and b) was incredibly toxic and borderline abusive

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:07:04 2020 No.10494808

>>10494800
If I love someone romantically I want to have sex with them. If I'm romantically attracted to someone then by proxy I'm sexually attracted to them. How is this so hard for your retarded broken brain to understand? Who cares which one "came first" that's not how any of this works, they both exist to me simultaneously. There's no contradiction.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:07:17 2020 No.10494809 >>10494803 Even if someone's poly, if they love someone they still need sex with that person. They need the bond.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:09:05 2020 No.10494811

>>10494808
Then why do you not love them anymore when they don't want sex? Don't you still feel love for them?

Also would you feel okay raping someone? Is the best part about sex really seeing the other person enjoy it, or is it okay if someone makes themselves uncomfortable just to stay with you?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:09:17 2020 No.10494812 >>10494806 You realize that people release oxytocin when they have sex, right? It's the same hormone that causes women to bond with their children. That's the reason a lot of people feel sex is special, because it literally creates a bond.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:10:08 2020 No.10494813 >>10494812 I'll never know how it feels to bond with someone then

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:10:30 2020 No.10494814

>>10494171
There is a bit of fat which is the part I'm hoping will go away after exercise but even after pinching away all of it I don't think I'll ever have super skinny legs. I've had thick calves ever since I was born and I'm sure running a lot didn't help with that. I haven't run in a good while now but my legs still haven't slimmed down so I don't think I'll keep waiting for them to do so, I'll just try to tone up and lose some more weight. Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it!
>>10494214
No worries, no offense taken. I'm honestly thin everywhere besides my calves, so I don't think it's that I'm super fat. I am trying to lose some more weight though in hopes it will help.
>>10494216
Yeah, everything else fits me perfectly. It's just that the ones you're telling me to avoid are the ones I want to wear haha. But I'll keep trying to slim down my calves so hopefully I'll be able to fit in them one day.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:11:06 2020 No.10494815

>>10494811
I want to have sex with someone who enjoys sex, what is wrong with your brain? Of course I wouldn't be okay with raping someon. It isn't that I wouldn't love them anymore, it just wouldn't work out. It's the same reason I wouldn't date a straight girl. How low is your IQ?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:11:10 2020 No.10494816 >>10494812 Also that's really creepy that bonding with children is the same kind of bond as the one you get through sex

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:12:11 2020 No.10494818 >>10494815 So I can't even make someone happy by having sex with them unless I somehow enjoy it too? That sucks.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:13:03 2020 No.10494819 >>10494813 Who gives a shit? You can bond in other ways, I'm just telling you the reasons a lot of people don't want to sleep with just anyone. Jesus you're hopeless.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:13:12 2020 No.10494820 Wait, so how do people bond with their children without fucking them?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:14:05 2020 No.10494822 >>10494816 Oxytocin also induces labor contractions. Hormones do a lot of different things, it's not that deep.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:14:13 2020 No.10494823 >>10494819 I can bond in other ways, but not the most important way.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:15:15 2020 No.10494824 >>10494822 Then aren't there ways to bond romantically without sex? There aren't.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:15:48 2020 No.10494825 >>10494823 Boohoo. Get over it, "most important" is subjective.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:16:38 2020 No.10494826 >>10494825 Really? Then how come most people can't date or bond with someone romantically without sex?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:17:37 2020 No.10494827

>>10494824
There are other ways to romantically bond with their partner, but people who have a libido want to experience sex with the person they love, and without it people feel a lack of connection. It's not that complicated but your retarded BPD brain can only see things in extremes.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:19:15 2020 No.10494828 >>10494826 BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE EXPERIENCE SEXUAL ATTRACTION BUT ASEXUAL PEOPLE DON'T, THEREFORE THEY WILL BOND IN DIFFERENT WAYS. How do you not understand that different methods will vary for different people? You are mind numbingly stupid.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:19:40 2020 No.10494829

>>10494827
>people who have a libido want to experience sex with the person they love, and without it people feel a lack of connection.

Just contradicted yourself there. Do they have a connection that makes them want sex, or do they only have a connection if they have sex?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:22:57 2020 No.10494830 >>10494828 How do asexuals bond then, and why can't fully-formed humans bond the same way?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:29:06 2020 No.10494832

>>10494829
They have a connection, therefore they want sex with that person, when they have sex with that person they feel connected with it strengthens that connection because of the hormones people release during and after sex. There's no contradiction, you're just incredibly dumb.

If someone enjoys hiking a lot, they will want a partner they can go hiking with. If that partner doesn't want to, the person will probably not want to date them. Sure, they can go hiking with other people, but it's not the same, they want to do one of their favorite activities with the person they love because doing something you really enjoy with someone you feel strongly about is very pleasurable. This is no different than any other compatibility issue.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:29:31 2020 No.10494833 File: 62 KB, 500x500, 1599613840920.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] > Come back a few hours > Thread is still feeding the troll with THE SAME FUCKING TOPIC AND POINTS SINCE I LEFT Wew. Just fucking kill me I guess

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:30:08 2020 No.10494834 >>10494830 They bond in ways that are pleasurable to them.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:32:38 2020 No.10494835 >>10494830 There's more to bonding than sex.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:34:07 2020 No.10494836 >>10494830 You know how some younger teens date but don't have sex? That.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:38:31 2020 No.10494838

this thread has gone to shit but imma post my feels in the middle of this minefield anyway

im fucking tired of being fat. i need to figure out how lose more weight faster without making my family worried. im at 125lb at 5'7" but i still don't fit as well into my dresses as I'd like.. my OP's, they fit yeah but theyre a little tight and it looks disgusting to me. should I try to trade or sell them all for JSKs instead, or just kms cause i will never be thin enough to look good anyway. descisions, decisions. and on top of that I'm convinced other people in this fashion won't want me around even if I do ever stop being fat enough to leave my houde who wants to hang out with a poor loser ana-chanbwho is so obsessed with this fashion its nearly all I talk about??? even to other lolitas that has to be annoying as fuck. I really just dont care about anything other than lolita and video games tho so.....guess I'm doomed to only be friends with men who will tolerate my annoyance because they have a chance to fuck me. poor pity me. boo hoo. god im so sick of my own shit. I really would kill myself if it wouldn't destroy my kid's life

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:42:25 2020 No.10494840 >>10494838 1. That isn't fat 2. Get therapy

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:43:46 2020 No.10494841 >>10494838 I'd want to talk to you. I love lolita so much, I'm not huge into video games except AC but still

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:44:45 2020 No.10494842 >>10494838 You have a kid and you're still acting like this? Get help, if only for their sake.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:45:22 2020 No.10494843

>>10494838
If you like them, don't sell them. Alter them or just wait. I know the waiting feels like hell, but that weight WILL come off. Inevitably. That's just how it works. The slower you do it, the more likely it is to stay off, too. It's going to be okay, anon.
As for the rest, I'm sure you're not as annoying as you think you are. You sound like me and my few other lolita friends, lol. It's okay to have hobbies you're passionate about, and it's okay to only have the time and mental space for a few.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:46:48 2020 No.10494845 >>10494838 I'm 128 lbs at 5'3" and fit OPs fine... where are your problem areas?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:48:31 2020 No.10494846 >>10494838 At your bmi, you don't really have a lot of room to lose weight without getting into ED territory.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:49:23 2020 No.10494847 Resident female on male rape victim here, I think I finally got a girlfriend

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:49:32 2020 No.10494848 >>10494845 You lucky bitch. I'm 125 and 5'5 and OPs are too small because my waist measurement is too big. You probably don't carry much weight around your waist huh?

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:51:29 2020 No.10494849

>>10494843
i agree with the rest of what you said but... why are you encouraging this anon to keep losing weight? they're already very thin for their height and it could put them in danger medically as they would be classified underweight by losing less than 10 pounds. sure they might fit into OPs but that's not worth being malnourished, especially with a child to take care of. they're clearly very sick and validating those irrational thoughts isn't helpful.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 15:52:27 2020 No.10494850 >>10494848 Most of my weight is in my booty and thighs (thanks mom) but I do have a pot belly. My waist is 72cm.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:06:43 2020 No.10494853 Do you guys think some people are just meant to be underweight or look better that way? I got down to a 19 bmi but I still had a substantial amount of fat on my stomach. Enough that I could pull 1-2 inches away from my stomach.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:33:58 2020 No.10494875 >>10494853 I don't get why you gulls don't understand that you don't need to be underweight, you just need to be fit. Don't look at just your BMI but at your BFP too.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:34:11 2020 No.10494876

>>10494840
kk thanks im cured. already had therapy for 5+ years, quit cause it wasn't helping any more.

>>10494841
thanks anon. I do appreciate that.

>>10494842
yeah....ED's don't just go away when you give birth?? and I am working on it for him. it's just hard and I still want to kill myself regardless

>>10494843
yeah I will probably keep them in all honesty, thank you for the kind words. i really hope I'm not as annoying to others as i think I am.

>>10494845
I think it's my shoulders, but...idk. I have a 95 cm bust, with compression I can get down to 88cm, and 64 cm waist...my shoulders are like 44cm tho so I'm guessing that's the real issue...

>>10494846
I already have an ED not worried about that. thanks anyway.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:37:02 2020 No.10494879 >>10494875 If I lower my BFF will that make all the fat in my stomach go away? It's because not a lot of people have time to go to the gym 4x a week.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:40:23 2020 No.10494880

>>10494876
What do you expect people to tell you? Like you have a kid FFS, if you're not getting better through therapy its because you're not putting in the work. Nobody is going to congratulate you for having an ED or tell you that you should lose more weight. Losing weight isn't going to make your big boney shoulders go away either, accept it and don't wear OPs (known to be made for petite girls, which clearly you aren't) or shut up.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:44:50 2020 No.10494885 >moving on the first >shopping service has all my items >i will just ship them now it only takes 3 days! >processing takes 2 days fuck. i am and idiot.

>>	soup Wed Oct 28 16:47:18 2020 No.10494886 haven’t coomed in like a month I think I’m asexual too

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:51:53 2020 No.10494887

>>10494879
Depending on how dedicated you are, definitely. You don't need to hit the gym either, sure /fit/ especially will tell you to lift in gyms but you can also do bodyweight exercises at home. You don't want to be thin, you want to be lean.
I feel like most gulls make the mistake of cutting calories and losing weight but not necessarily fat.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:52:26 2020 No.10494888 >>10494853 Then work out, the leftover fat won't disappear without it, look for specific exercises. Why it is so hard for you gulls to get this, is it a side effect of living in burgerland? Like this is the third post today about whining stomach fat.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:53:22 2020 No.10494889

>>10494880
I don't want congrats. just here to post my feels. therapy doesn't work for everyone, and dont really want ecouragement or discouragement for my ed as it gives me all the fuel i need, tho it is nice to have it fed by being called not petite, thanks love! excuuuuuuse me for coming to the feels thread to have feels. take your shitty attitude and go fuck yourself with it. this thread is for bitching, dumbass. don't wanna read it, then leave.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 16:59:24 2020 No.10494890 >>10494888 They just want to complain about being fat without being told to put in the work. Your good advice is wasted on them.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:02:03 2020 No.10494892

>>10494888
You're truly retarded. You can't target weight loss, you can either gain muscle, lose muscle, gain weight or lose weight. You literally can't change your fat distribution, that's not how any of that works.
Do you honestly think that if you do ab exercises you'll lose weight in your stomach and keep it everywhere else? Or if you only do thigh exercises you'll get skinny there and then keep it everywhere else? Laughable
It must be a side effect of living in burgerland to fall for phoney dieting tactics from people trying to take your money.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:03:52 2020 No.10494893 >>10494889 I feel bad that your kid practically has a whiney teenager for a mom

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:10:21 2020 No.10494895 >>10494889 There's a high likelihood you had the wrong therapist for you

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:13:40 2020 No.10494898

>>10494889
I'm pretty sure the petite comment wasn't supposed to be a dig at you, it's just a fact considering your height. Honestly, I feel bad for your kid. You don't even sound mature enough to be on 4chan, which is saying something considering the average 4chan user is a retarded sperglord.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:13:44 2020 No.10494899 >>10494889 You're on 4chan, if you want a hugbox go to reddit or something

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:14:55 2020 No.10494900 >>10494898 It wasn't supposed to be a dig. Like you said, I was just pointing out that trying to lose weight to solve a problem that has nothing to do with weight and everything to do with bone structure and overall height, is illogical.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:34:21 2020 No.10494906 >>10494892 Nobody wrote that, illiterate-chan. I guess when the fat cope take over, people will respond to anything else other than the logical reasons, just to not have to exercise.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:42:03 2020 No.10494911

Another gull here to complain about her body fair warning but I’d buy more OPs if they fit my shoulder width but there’s nothing I can do about that shit. the few long sleeved OPs I have I love so much but I have trouble lifting my arms in because of the stupid shoulder width. Otherwise, they fit and look so flattering on me but I’d have to sacrifice comfort and the ability to reach the top shelf lmfao

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 17:55:19 2020 No.10494914

>>10494906
> then workout, the leftover fat won't disappear without it, look for specific exercises.
Actually you implied that losing weight through excercise would magically make certain fat go away in a way that is different than eating less. If someone is already a really low weight but their fat distribution sucks, then excercise won't magically make that fat go away any more than if they just continued to eat less. You said something stupid, but its ok, you'll get over it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 18:04:24 2020 No.10494919 Just eat healthy, eat less, go on runs and do some cardio. drink black coffee to speed up metabolism. fast if you want to lose weight super fast but don’t kill yourself over it. vape to kill appetite. this is probably bad advice but whatever

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 18:18:46 2020 No.10494938

>>10494893
same. poor kid deserves better.

>>10494898
yeah I'm probably pretty immature, everyone around me seems miles ahead of me but like, what can i even do about it? I've tried many therapists and self-help books, and held a few jobs but none of that helped. but yikes if I am not mature enough for this shithole I really do need help.

>>10494899
didn't i say i aint here for anything but to complain, I dont want a hug box or even sympathy in fact this harsh treatment from the dickholes here is what i needed to hear, im just a whiny teen inside still and obviously need to do something about it if its this apparent to others.

>>10494900
I know it wasnt a dig, the truth just hurts. Im not petite and that fact will trigger me, regardless of whether it's an insult or not. might as well use that feeling to my advantage.

anyways I guess I needed to hear that I'm being insanely immature and should probably continue seeking better professional help, thanks gulls

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 18:21:11 2020 No.10494944 >>10494895 sorry I missed your reply above. but probably, I had a few and they all taught me some good coping mechanisms but none of them ever truly helped? and I've never felt comfortable with any of them. I probably just have to keep trying.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 18:59:52 2020 No.10494979 >>10494938 Therapy isn't a one size fits all just fyi. You should see a psychologist, get a diagnosis overall, and then look for therapists that specialize in that.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 19:01:40 2020 No.10494982

>>10494944
I've had this problem with not feeling comfortable and never truly opening up with therapists and that's why it never worked for me either. I would just hide all of the ugliest parts of myself and I wasn't honest, you have to really reveal yourself in therapy in order for it to work.

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 19:04:56 2020 No.10494985

>>10494938
I sympathize with you anon, I don't have a full on ED but I did get really obsessive about my intake at one point. Like you, I'm trying to come to terms with my body because no matter how much weight I lose I'm never going to be petite ): and it really sucks because in my head that's the ideal but it's just never gonna happen for me

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 19:43:29 2020 No.10495010

>>10494979
Sadly I have already done that, I started out with a psychologist and moved to therapy after my diagnoses. Probably need a re-evaluation tho as I was diagnosed about 10 years ago. Haven't found any specialists in my area and my internet is too shitty for online stuff, but I'm gonna keep looking.

>>10494982
Yeah...I kinda figured that was the problem. Guess it might really be time to truly open up, but I don't want to get committed to a psych ward...then again my insurance won't pay for it so i probs shouldn't be so worried about it.

>>10494985
be careful and don't let that slight obsession build, it can easily lead to a full blown disorder. but yes, it's really painful to not be able to live up to your personal ideals, I'm sorry you're suffering in this way as well.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 20:08:04 2020 No.10495031 Paycheck coming up don't know if I should buy A. Perfume, Skincare, lotions B. Shoes and socks C. Skirts and Blouses D. Normal clothes E. Room decor F. Bathroom spa shit G. loungewear

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 20:10:36 2020 No.10495033 >>10495010 Wish you luck anon. Life is rough, just do what you can and don't beat yourself up for still struggling. I don't know anybody in life who doesn't have hangups or complexes from the shit that just happens in life.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 20:16:28 2020 No.10495037 I've stopped the binging so far. Realized I could just drink bouillon cubes + hot sauce when I was craving flavor and so far its worked

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 20:25:47 2020 No.10495044 >>10494911 A lot of OPs are made with low armholes which restrict arm movement. There's a good chance it's a construction problem, not a shoulder width problem. If you want more mobility look into adding underarm gussets to your OPs.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 20:50:47 2020 No.10495071 I'm gonna kms, my dream dress popped up on LM but I need to spend my money on new normie clothes and underwear

Anonymous Wed Oct 28 21:11:33 2020 No.10495086

>>10494911
I feel this in my bones. I'm 165cm tall with a long ass torso and broad shoulders despite being 49kg most long sleeve ops and other dresses I buy from tb/Asia have the wrong proportions. The waistline is hitting at the bottom of mt ironically non existent boobs (for cosplays) and the ops I have trouble zipping up by myself because I can't lift my arms high enough to reach behind. Feels bad man

>>	soup Wed Oct 28 22:10:07 2020 No.10495109 playing with a new ring I got but I slipped it on the wrong finger because I wasn't paying attention and now it's stuck

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 28 23:06:56 2020 No.10495136 >>10495109 Time to cut your finger off

>>	soup Wed Oct 28 23:51:14 2020 No.10495155 >>10495136 I got it out but it left a red bump. also got my boots but I dunno if I like them or not. can’t tell if they look funny on me

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 29 00:36:01 2020 No.10495171 I kind of wish I bought some pepfox when they first started, since those collections appealed to me more than their current ones do and are now impossible to find.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 29 01:14:05 2020 No.10495181 File: 431 KB, 342x342, 1520002713698.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I love all of Touhou's silly outfits, especially the hats. Next year, I'll pick someone to cosplay as for sure.

Anonymous Thu Oct 29 05:57:17 2020 No.10495238

The shitty cgl attitude on 4chan is rubbing off on me and while part of me hates it because I know what its like to be treated badly for not being "in the know" I also know that with all the harsh treatment i experienced in the past I think im better for it

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 29 13:22:40 2020 No.10495351 >>10495238 You can find a middleground. Asking others to do bare minimum research and not be spoonfed is fine. Being an ass for the sake of it is not.

Anonymous Thu Oct 29 13:44:07 2020 No.10495366

I got my first wearable set of lolita boots and cloak for the first time earlier this year and now that is is cold where I live I cab finally wear them. I have really been enjoying my fall chilly weather coords. It's a nice change to my regular wardrobe and has made figuring out different coords more fun!

The only bummer feel I have right now is that I am unemployed because of burgerland corona stuff and my job search has been stressful to near impossible so I've missed out on a lot of desirable wardrobe pieces I really wanted.

I'm just grateful to be enjoying what I do have in my wardrobe. My current favorite has been chocolatey coords while last year in winter I was super into coording my strawberry prints.

Anonymous Fri Oct 30 00:11:10 2020 No.10495617

>>10494306
I couldn't get Halloween off this year because 3rd shift is the only shift with a limit on how many people can request off. Because of this we're also the only shift that requests time off instead of just calling off unscheduled. I'm sick of being told 1st or 2nd are understaffed when I clock in or when I'm almost at the end of my shift.

Anonymous Fri Oct 30 07:20:12 2020 No.10495702
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>>10494723
>Ntpyrt but you don’t group chat your coworkers and talk shit about people not in the group chat?
I mean I do with the rest of the IT department but we know that anything we say can backfire on us since we are all infosec, so it's strictly professional. We usually go to food establishments that are noisy so we can't be (easily) recorded when we want to talk badly about others.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 13 12:18:50 2020 No.10501647 File: 2.88 MB, 730x1095, 1604354792771.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Amazing thread

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 13 12:27:35 2020 No.10501651 File: 86 KB, 785x1000, 1323210621016.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Refer to thread number one-zero-four-nine-two-eight-five-five on the cosplay board. Scroll to the bottom, there's a surprise waiting for you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 13 12:29:49 2020 No.10501652 >>10501651 > holy fucking BASED

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