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nobody wants to post in a nearly dead feels thread >>10571831 so here's a nice shiny new one to post your feels, nonnies <3

>> No.10574957

>>10574950
Shut up 2oup

>> No.10574958

I would never admit this irl, but I have a serious drinking problem and it’s sucked the life out of me over the past few years. It’s really fucking with me, because I want to dress up and do what love and shit, but I just drink 24/7. I can’t kick it and I’m scared I never will. Damn feels good to just write that.

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>>10574958
you really shouldn't try to kick a long standing alcohol problem without medical supervision boopbop. seizures are common with alc detox and they'll give you benzos while you're detoxing and monitor your vitals etc. most psych hospitals have a chemical dependency program, idk where you live though. usually if you call them and say you want help for your drinking problem they will make you an assessment appointment.

how long have you been drinking 24/7 and how much are you drinking?

>> No.10574983

>>10574950
Thank u bpdchan <3

>> No.10574985

This is a simple feel, but a happy one.
The new BABY embroidery release is reminding me of what made me fall in love with lolita all over again
Anyone else have a dress like this?

>> No.10574988

My AP Paris order is stuck in the sorting center and it’s stressing me out. What if it gets lost? It’s been there for like a week now

>> No.10575018

I don't think I'll be coming back to the con/cosplay scene after covid. This last year has given me a lot of time to reflect and I'm not sure what's really left for me in the scene, and I'm going to be moving to somewhere with much less of a scene than where I am currently. I'm not sure what to replace it with, though, I've got plenty of hobbies but few are social in the way that cons were.

>> No.10575031

>>10574958
i hope you pass out in a pool of your own vomit and die, namefag

>> No.10575043

>>10575031
This is so clearly vendetta you fucking moron

>> No.10575045

>>10575043
>that's, like, soooo vendetta
learn how to use the word before you throw it around like a retard

>> No.10575051

>>10575045
AYRT I meant hailbop is vendetta posting: she knows the person who actually has a drinking problem and is trying to get them publicly castrated

>> No.10575052

>>10575051
castigated not castrated lol

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10575053

Dammit that new AP blouse with the bows is so cute no wonder all the APfags and scalpers charged towards it at mach 10 speed. I should kiss good bye to any dreams of ever owning it

>> No.10575054

>>10575051
idk, it's pretty believable to me that a loser namefag who roleplays on /cgl/ is a trashy alcoholic

>> No.10575234

>>10575051
This is such a weird conspiracy kinda cope.

>> No.10575247

>>10574958
I quit drinking and I hate it, but it had to be done

>> No.10575248

I am way too mean and unhealthily obsessed with shitting on itas. I know why but I can’t stop. I hate this part of myself but when I see someone post a shitty aliexpress dress or crappy drag coord I lost it. I don’t know how to handle this and become a better person.

>> No.10575249

>>10575248
shitting on itas is better than shitting on pretty people out of jealousy desu. do you

>> No.10575276

>>10575249
There is usually a seed of insecurity if you mind other people to the point of obsession. And not to mention projecting, I do it a lot myself.

>> No.10575279
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10575279

so, you all bitches cry and complain in life because you can't get attention from cosplay conventions and your shitty dresses are stuck because of pandemic?
you're all pathetic.

>> No.10575281

No cc update yesterday ;_; was sad that i stayed up late.

Buuut maybe that means a big one today?

>> No.10575318

>>10575249
I do this

>> No.10575340

>>10574958
Real @ hailbop here. Idk what your issue is but when I find out who you are I’m having you kicked from our comm. You better pray to god we don’t share mutuals

>> No.10575349

I'm up like $18,000 on bitcoin and in happy but at the same time I don't want to sell it. It could be so much burando though...

>> No.10575350

>>10575349
Sure lol

>> No.10575363

>>10575248
just log off cgl. it gets better

>> No.10575364

>bpdumbass still trying to convince everyone they're not soup
>still doesn't know when to make a new thread
did those outside cats you refuse to help die yet?

>> No.10575366
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>>10575364
already been confirmed I'm not soup. I've even sold nudes to a gull lol. my cat is indoor only because I give a shit about him.

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>>10575340

>> No.10575371

>>10575366
>that hair
thems man paws

>> No.10575378

>>10575371
Anon, have you ever seen a man's arm? BPDchan would have to be under 12 if she was male. Plus scrotes are annoying in a different way than her, she's annoying in a way only a female could be.

>> No.10575380

finally got my first pairs of lace AP wristcuffs. feels so good.

>> No.10575382

>>10575350
It's true, I bought $2k worth when it was only $6 each. I wish I bought more

>> No.10575383

>>10575382
$6k not $6 lool

>> No.10575429

>>10575340
Sure Jan.

>> No.10575435

>>10575018
I feel you anon. I feel really mixed. On one hand the weekly wondering if you have a disease that will at best scar my lungs combined with having to care for my elderly parents really has forced me to confront questions around death and what I want to do with life. Like even though I'm pretty stable quarantine forced me to come to terms with how big of cope cosplay has been in my life, especially recently. I don't want to drift away from my cosfriends but I also just don't feel compelled to participate in cosplay like I have before. It just feels like I'm going through the motions now.

>> No.10575441

>>10574950
>did another session of dermapenning
>laughed because would otherwise cry
>if it doesn't bleed stab it again
>rubbed hyaluronic acid on it all and sitting here naked and stinging
>this is time #3 and no results yet
for how much i fucking suffer this better work on these damned stretchmarks. men can't even be bothered to shave their disgusting face, and women are willing to stab themselves all over repeatedly just to look a little more pretty.

>> No.10575452

>>10575349
>tfw was interested in buying when it was 6k but had no money
>only recently gotten money to throw around and now it's 60k
I went with GME. I want to sell for 1000 but have a horrible suspicion I'll only get at most 350 due to shenanigans. Already failed to maximize my potential profits on it and am feeling shitty about it, so if I get rugpulled on the squeeze I'm going to throw hysterics. I have another 10k in my checking I don't need (17k total, will be 19k by the time that stimmy comes in) and Idk what to put it in. I'm too bitter to buy into bitcoin now. Of course if I stop fucking around and get my CPA I can get my ass a better job...I should be earning 20k a year more than I am.

And I'm still a stingy bitch to the point of wearing threadbare socks and feeling anxiety at the thought of spending $6 on coffee out.

>> No.10575457

>>10575452
You could try looking into other crypto, I think there's potential for them. I think there's a lot more potential for btc though it may crash again in which case I'll buy more. When I bought it back then everybody told me it was stupid, just sell it, etc.
I have mixed feelings about gme, I only have one share I'm autistically holding so I'm not too worried
I have a lot of other savings I'm not sure what to do with so I'm slowly putting it in gold and other crypto lol. You sound like you're on a fine path anon, don't be too upset if rugpulled, it's all learning and you can jump on the next opportunity

>> No.10575458

>>10575452
diversify your profile anon. invest a bit into btc, check out cardano, and ethereum is probably a good bet.

>> No.10575459

>>10575378
soup is asian, some asian men have fine hair.

>> No.10575460

>>10575459
You think soup owns a bunch of AP? You're more retarded than bpd-chan. That's clearly a white person's hand, azn body hair isn't blonde.

>> No.10575463

>>10575460
Anon, you forget someone was posting as soup pretending to be a lolita. It's someone posting as him. He doesn't have a trip, he was just IDed as soup at a con once.

>> No.10575466

Due to depression and multiple surgeries is the past few years I have gained 80lbs and can no longer fit into my wardrobe that I have collected for over 10 years. I feel discussed with myself and lost. I used to be very active and lived a healthy life style. Now I’m 200bls and bedridden. A month ago I had to have an abortion because it was unsafe for me to be pregnant. No one in my family knows except my boyfriend. I just want to be healthy and enjoy life again but I’m not sure if that we’ll ever happen.

>> No.10575467

>>10575466
Not with that attitude

>> No.10575473

>>10575466
You're that fat, bedridden, and giving up on becoming yourself again but still keeping your collection? A child literally couldn't survive in your body because of how big you are. Maybe you should focus on improving yourself instead of focusing on clothes you don't fit into. Use that money to buy a damn bike and a gastric bypass. Or if you insist on being depressed and a fat loser forever just sew giant side panels into your brand so we can laugh at your desperation to participate in a community that does not want you.

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10575477

i just want cgl to like me. i've worked really hard on being less annyoing on social meida, losing weight, improving my makeup and coordinates for approval but nothing i do works.

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10575489

APfags are the worst. your overpriced fotm jsks? wack, your rainbow coords? wack, your plastic $100 accessories? wack. me and all my homies are truelita rocking gothic

>> No.10575490

>>10575477
Are you ugly?

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10575491

>Mfw I don't watch anime and hate dirty weebs that don't wash but I'm tempted to go to animazement because it's so close to me and I'm desperate for cons.

Pic not related.

>> No.10575492

>>10575466
Sell ur least favorite clothing and use the money to buy sessions with a personal trainer. Ur health is more important than some dresses and it’ll be better in the end to be able to wear some again than none

>> No.10575494

>>10575466
Even if you're bedridden, you can still do things to lose weight. You can enjoy life again, if you don't give up.

I used to be nearly 300lbs. I've dealt with chronic depression and anxiety my whole life, but I was active and healthy up until I got in a bad accident. I could barely walk for almost a year, so I almost never went outside or did anything but shuffle from my bedroom to my kitchen. Mentally, it fucked me up. I ballooned up, 60 lbs in one year, then 60 more and 60 more in the years after that.

I spent 10 years of my life waddling my fat ass around, feeling sorry for myself, always making plans to change but never actually doing it. Then I realized that it's not that hard, you've just got to stick with it long-term.

You don't even have to have some sort of strict diet every day, you just have to be aware of what you eat MOST days. You don't have to work out hours every week, just be a little more active than you are right now. It takes little changes, not big ones. You won't lose weight fast but you'll be creating a sustainable lifestyle change that'll help you become healthy gradually.

>> No.10575498

>Got really stressed 3 years ago
>Contracted alopecia Areata and hair started to fall out in patches
>Combined with some natural male pattern hair loss
>Has been the absolute bane of my existence for so long
>I already was very image conscious
>Haven't taken a photo in 3 years and I always cut my hair short to avoid people noticing despite always liking my hair at a mid length
>Finally after 9 months of being consistent with my treatment I can see some visible results
>Patchy areas are noticeably less thinner and the hair on my temples is growing back thicker and darker
>Still looks really bad in my opinion but I'm happy something is finally working

For any guy suffering hair loss, get onto it quick and be consistent with your treatment even if it takes up to a year to see even the smallest results. You don't have to just live with it.

>> No.10575500

>>10575466
you don't get to be 200 lbs by being sedentary. you have to EAT like a motherfucker to reach that point. i'm a lazy piece of shit and never got fat even when i went months without more exercise than basic stretching once a week. exercise is a SMALL part of daily calorie balance. it's almost entirely diet. (exercise is mainly about muscle maintenance, bone density, cardiovascular health, etc.. weight as a measure alone is nearly entirely diet related. you can be a 110 lb skinnyfat even if you were stuck in a wheelchair. is it healthy? no. but you'll be able to fit in cute clothes.) stop eating whatever the fuck it is you're eating too much of.
>>10575473
>Maybe you should focus on improving yourself instead of focusing on clothes you don't fit into.
voice of reason
>>10575494
i knew someone who was super obese and just wouldn't stop fucking eating, was obsessed with cupcakes and candy and other garbage to the point it was her "hobby". instead of just eating a fucking salad instead of a cupcake, she opted for a stomach band (or whatever it's called). surgery got botched and she spent a year clinging to life in the ICU. she's still majorly fucked up to this day, and still obese, and still downing cupcakes on the daily. her kid is obese as fuck to the point of having forehead fat hanging down over his eyes.

imagine being so addicted to sugar that you would rather get your abdomen sliced open and risk the most painful agonizing death imagineable rather than stop eating so god damned much sugar.

>> No.10575502

>>10575477
cgl is not a hivemind and cannot be appeased. Do not waste your energy on trying to get cgl's approval

>> No.10575506

>>10575248
I can almost physically feel myself becoming a worse person when I spend time here. in a way its kind of addictive since I'm usually very agreeable and passive IRL. what's helped me is seeing itas actually in the wild and having fun. It's much easier to hate someone when it's a grainy photo posted here with no context. but when i see someone who is clearly enjoying themselves, even if their coord looks like shit, i actually usually feel happy for them

>> No.10575508

>>10575506
the problem is they're not having fun because they don't care how they look, it's because they don't realize how bad they look. that's why itas become so embarrassed and defensive. it's like when you're dancing to music alone and someone catches you, you're having fun until you realize how dumb you look.

>> No.10575509

>>10575248
Try to examine what it is that makes you so mad at them. Maybe it's feeling too much pressure to be perfect that seeing someone else not putting that work in makes you insecure? There is always some reason and you'll feel better when you can address it. Sometimes it's not even a belief you have to change, just observing what is is helps.

>> No.10575513

>>10575500
this. i was obese from childhood as a result of the eating habits i was taught, but i've lost over 100lbs and am still losing. it's completely a matter of your eating habits and discipline assuming you don't have some kind of fucked up thyroid disorder or something. i'm aware that other conditions/medications can contribute to making weight loss significantly more difficult, but i still think the main thing obese-for-lifes struggle with is not actually knowing what regular eating habits look like.

>> No.10575526

>>10575508
but dancing to music alone is fun even if you look dumb

>> No.10575527

>>10575513
literally just watch anime and see what portion sizes they eat. and i mean anime like SOL, k-on, etc, not DBZ or one piece where they eat hilariously huge portions for comedy. if you want to be japanese level thin eat japanese level portions. *shrugs shoulders* just become a weeb and you'll learn how to dress and be pretty and become a good gf and wife. it's that easy.

>> No.10575528

>>10575490
I think I’m okay looking

>> No.10575529

>>10575527
>just become a weeb and you'll learn how to dress and be pretty and become a good gf and wife. it's that easy.

begone scrote

>> No.10575530

>>10575527
Good bait made me chuckle

>> No.10575535

>got my second wu flu shot today
>first one was alright but had a bad headache
>this one is so bad in terms of pain and fatigue I couldn’t even get out of bed and pissed myself because I physically couldn’t lift myself up to even stand

On the plus side I finally got my preferred cut and color of moco moco bunnies

>> No.10575575

>Wear the same thing every single day
>Inevitably people notice and ask me why
>I tell them Steve Jobs did it
>It's actually because I feel like anime character

>> No.10575576

I decided I’m going to be single for the rest of my life. I’m asexual so dating someone normal obviously wouldn’t work, but I do not trust dating another asexual at all. Too many normal people fake being asexual to feel special. Plus there’s the chance that someone who actually thinks they’re asexual could turn out to be demi instead. And asexuals are more likely to be SJWs than not from what I’ve seen. No thanks. It’s too risky. I’d rather not bother and be alone forever.

>> No.10575579

My cunt neighbor is blasting shitty party music downstairs, but on the plus side i will be awake for the cc update i guess.

>why don’t you ask him to stop

I knocked on his door last time to ask him nicely. and he was clearly on drugs and would not stop, i called police but they didn’t do anything. Apartment management won’t answer until monday and they are useless. so I’m just waiting 2 months left for my lease to end.

When I move out I will be sure to be extra loud about it.

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You ever just go back to Deviantart and look at cosplay/art from the early 2000s?
>The unironic overuse of emoticons
>"omg so smexi x3"
>Sailor Moon OCs (and everyone thinking they're original for making "Sailor Earth")
>FMA, Akatsuki from Naruto, KH, FF, etc.
>Poorly "drawn" OCs using MS Paint bases
>red eyes from disposable cameras
>Frizzy, party city wigs
I honestly miss those times

>> No.10575609

>>10575535
lel did you get the one that has been called back?

>> No.10575612

>>10575609
No. Not sure what the fuck happened. My hands started going numb and stayed that way for hours and I was literally wailing for my mom. Might as well have actually gotten the wu flu at that point.

>> No.10575619

>>10575612
Second dose is the one that people try to warn you about. Side effects typically only last a day which beats getting covid imo

>> No.10575623

lost my motivation for cosplay 2 months into quarantine after making two mediocre costumes. doesn't help the fact my current SO hates / is extremely jealous of one of my bestest friends who i cosplay with all the time, so i feel trapped and not even able to go to cons.

>> No.10575627

>>10575619
They warn you of “flu like symptoms” for the second dose. They don’t tell you that it’s gonna feel like every nerve in your body is being attacked for hours and you’ll lose feeling in your hands. I’m not super sensitive to pain either, and I can confidently say this is the worst pain I have ever felt.

>> No.10575630

>>10575627
It varies for each person, but yeah people mention the second dose being like a day or so of COVID-lite. That's why my partner and I are staggering our doses and making sure we are both around to help one another after the second shot.

Make sure to report all your adverse reactions so more people can be aware/a doctor can help if it is really abnormal. Also I was told after my first dose (haven't had second yet) to avoid taking ibuprofen or tylenol. Cause it can make the shot less effective by tampering with your immune response since they reduce fever, etc.

Can't wait for my comm to all get vaccinated so we can at least do some more outdoor meets that aren't just the established oldfag friend group.

>> No.10575633

>>10575630
I was surprised by how unaffected I was after the second dose since all my colleagues complained about it. It's fine to take ibuprofen/tylenol if you're experiencing symptoms post-vaccination. It's taking it before that's not really recommended.

>> No.10575640

>>10575535
>>10575612
>>10575630
Fuck, I live alone so hearing this stuff has me scared about my vaccine, whenever I get it.

Living alone is kinda scary in general for shit like this. Sometimes I think about what'd happen if I had a heart attack or something, just die alone on the floor and nobody'd even know until a neighbor smelled my rotting corpse or something.

>> No.10575641

>>10575581
Me too anon but I also remember that this was the time where I've experienced the biggest physical and mental abuse in my lifetime. It's a bitter sweet memory and I'm on a roller coaster of emotions because of that.

>> No.10575650

>>10575581
I miss those times a lot. I think what I really miss, though, was being an outgoing teenager with no real sense of shame about myself or my love of anime. I don't know how I went from that to the self-hating miserable ball of social anxiety I am now, though I did have an abusive relationship that I'm sure didn't help.

>> No.10575658

I was thinking about making some armor inspired by Skyrim but I'm playing Dawnguard for the first time and it's so tedious that it has sapped my interest. I would scream and kill all the npcs in the dlc if they weren't immortal.

>> No.10575660

After five or six years of wearing lolita, I finally have hit the point of realizing I’m moving on from the fashion. It’s nothing against the comm or the clothes, I still find it beautiful, but it’s just not for me anymore. I’ll probably keep my old school skirts and my Jewel Leopard set, but will be saying goodbye to the other dresses. Oddly enough, it’s not that bittersweet; it actually feels like a fresh start and progress towards finding out more about my personal style. I like the general ladylike jfash style a lot!

Thanks, lolita, for teaching me how to style clothing the right way. I’ll look back on things fondly

>> No.10575734

>>10575535
meanwhile i literally just recovered from round 2 of 'rona (round 1 was last year's variant about a year ago) and i was never so weak that i pissed myself like an invalid.
>>10575579
slide a pisspuck under his door.
>a what
freeze urine into hockey puck shape. insert under his door. ??? profit.

>> No.10575738

>>10575734
>freeze urine into hockey puck shape. insert under his door.

I feel like going through the effort of collecting your hot piss and then freezing it just to piss off (pun intended) a loud drugee neighbor sounds more like a self own than anything desu. Plus doors exterior to a unit in apartment buildings don't typically have large gaps underneath them, do they?

>> No.10575739

>>10575576
Good to see you again, asexual-chan. You stay single and work on your goals.

>> No.10575742

>>10575738
depends on the building
>self own
i'm not disgusted by my own urine. i pee on my own legs in the shower daily. point is don't give a weak knock on the door and then huddle away because you're overly polite and terrified to seem rude. stand up for yourself.
sleep is beauty. preventing you from getting sleep is the same as assault. flip the circuit breaker on his unit. bash on his door until he has to open up. wake him up every morning, the second quiet hour is over, with an airhorn. stop being so pathetic, like a little shaking chihuahua.

>> No.10575745

>>10575742
You don't have to be disgusted by your own pee to know pee is unsanitary, smells like pee, and even in a hockey puck shape isn't going to fit under a sealed exterior door. Being an asshole back to the neighbor for being loud isn't going to make the neighbor stop being loud. I imagine it is less not trying to be rude and more not wasting time on futile efforts since it's only a couple months.

>> No.10575771

>>10575745
then cower in fear and the rude faggot will get away with his rudeness and party in peace. you are a human chihuahua.

>> No.10575790

>>10575579
Hmm ok have you tried oh I don’t know minding ya own damn business Karen?

>> No.10575793

>>10575771

I'm not even the anon in question. I don't care much about loud neighbors cause I like background noise so things don't feel eerily quiet, and I can be loud when I need to and they can't complain.

>> No.10575795

>>10575771
kek imagine thinking someone is cowering in fear bc they don't want to freeze their piss

>> No.10575797

>>10575790
I would be happy to mind my own damn business if I could fall asleep, you moron. I could physically feel his bass music and he went until 4am partying which is pretty unreasonable imo

>>10575745
Yeah he has a sealed door so piss puck won’t work and I don’t want to soend energy dealing with an asshole.

During my last week I’m going to start doing jumping jacks because he was complaining that i ‘stomp around’ (bitch I’m 120 pounds and never had this complaint from anywhere i lived)

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>>10575742
>>10575771
> i'm not disgusted by my own urine
so you'd be fine peeing yourself and walking around?
> i pee on my own legs in the shower daily
lmao and? Everyone pees in the shower because it washes off. You sound like a pissbaby. There are plenty of other ways to get back at your neighbors. Even peeing directly on their door would be less cringe

>> No.10575913

>>10575640
When you live alone it's a good idea to carry your cell phone at all times. I got into the habit after I broke my knee and then had to crawl my ass all the way up a flight of stairs to get to my phone.

>> No.10575917

>>10575913
I live alone but in the same building as my partner and I keep my phone around and charged in case I fall, there is a break in, or need help, etc

>> No.10575946

>>10575797
Model glue in the keyhole, put posts on the craigslist free section advertising free cigarettes because "my gas station closed down and I want to stick it to the atf by selling them tax free, and I'm having a little party with some friends so I'm not going to answer my phone, address is 123 W Street Ave, follow the music over here"

>> No.10575952

>>10575797
Find out which car he drives and put a confederate flag sticker on it. Someone here knows what the real name for these are but paper sticker if you REALLY want to fuck him over because those don't come off easily.

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10575953

I really wanted to get into lolita.
But I fucking hate fat people with a passion, they're gross and disgusting and always have a terrible personality. I don't want to be around them ever.

But every lolita meetup, its like I'm on my dad's ranch with nothing but an ocean of cows grazing on what was once a lavish display of quality snacks that has long since turned into a pile of empty plates and crumbs. I swear if the plates were edible they'd be gone too.

Why can't these girls just not stuff their face with everything that's in front of them. Its not that hard to keep a slim figure, you literally just have to eat less. Its not even that hard to survive on 1 meal a day which could easily get any girl back down to a manageable size within 2 years tops.

Its disgusting, its ruined the entire fashion for me and I hate seeing them. Why do fatties have to ruin literally everything in life?

>> No.10575954

>>10575953
It seems like you're ruining it for yourself. Just ignore them and be glad you don't look like them. Be a lolita and follow only non fatties. No use worling yourself up over people you strongly dislike.

>> No.10575957

I'm really gonna do it gulls. I'm gonna go to bed earlier and drink more water. I'll become prettier in no time, just you wait.

>> No.10575958

>>10575957
Yes anon, good for you! I highly reccomend drinking like a gallon a day. It helped my skin even mire than my diet or skincare.

>> No.10575977

>>10575953
you seem extremely insecure, but just don't go to meetups if you hate seeing fat people so much

>> No.10575979

God i hate fats so much.
Being fat should be a fineable offense.

>> No.10575980

>>10575953
I would recommend you go to a therapist before a lolita meet, just saying. Sound sound like you have a lot of mental health issues to work through.

>> No.10575981

>>10575954
This. I'm personally very happy that I'm one of the only people in my comm who hasn't gained weight during quarantine and didn't ever really need to worry about what dresses I'm buying. I have a closet filled with brand and always to spectacular at meetups. Lolita is about making yourself happy so how others look and act shouldn't keep you from it.

>> No.10575985

>>10575979
Opinions on fat acceptance?

>> No.10575987

>>10575979
Agreed

>> No.10575988

>>10575985
Literally the worst.
I can maybe. Somewhat. Understand saying we shouldn't "discriminate" against someone just because they're fat. But let's be real that's a fucking pipe dream.
Fats are inconvenient for everyone else. They take up more room, they weigh more, they smell bad, they eat more food, they constantly get in the way, they always have an inferiority complex.
And now they're preaching about how they're better because they're ugly and disgusting? It's literally the worst thing I've ever seen.
You shouldn't be applauded for being objectively unhealthy and inconvenient for everyone else. And you shouldn't be proud of the fact you lack basic willpower and self control to make yourself look appealing to other people.

>> No.10575992

>>10575985
It’s bad that people get ignored by their doctors/get misdiagnosed because their doctors assume any health problem is because they’re overweight. Things as dangerous as tumors get overlooked and have killed people. So I think it’s a good movement ultimately

>> No.10575993

>>10575992
They should be doing another kind of movement if they really want to be healthy.

>> No.10575998

>>10575498
What treatments did you use? I don't want to let go of my Samson locks just yet

>> No.10576015

>>10575992
Because doctors aren't gods you freak. They work with what they can see. If a common symptoms of being fat is present when you are fat, theyre going to say it's because you're fat. Is it "possible" it's actually Lyme disease and there's a tic hidden under your massive layers of fat? Sure. But it's 1000x more likely it's because you're fat. And they have thousands of fat people to go through diagnosis the exact same shit. They don't have time to give you a full body scan and everything on the off chance you have a tumor. And even if they did you'd just bitch about the medical bill.

>> No.10576027

I think my authentic self is actually a full on degenerate and I feel bad and don't really know how to embrace it in a healthy way.

>> No.10576041

>>10575985
I agree with anon. It would be nice if people could reach a level of being "okay" with being fat so they didn't get an inferiority complex and could focus on improving themselves in other ways. It sounds dumb, but i ended up loosing the most weight when i stopped caring about being larger and just decided to work at getting smarter or learning a new skill. It's a roundabout solution but I think learning to be okay with it and accepting that you're fat is a good thing ultimately. >>10576015
does kind of have a point though.

CGLfeels
I had the chance to buy a dress i thought I wanted, but I couldn't even get excited about it. I guess I dont love it as much as i thought I would. Maybe the problem is that it wasn't the color I wanted. Maybe I'll feel that spark when the right one pops up.

Cosplay feels, I miss conventions so much. I want to have something in my life to look forward to. I'm so bored and lonely I could cry.

>> No.10576045

>>10575988
Why shouldn't you discriminate against fat people? It's a very observable indication of lifestyle which is generally a very good indication of personality.

I'm not going to spend the time to get to know each person individually so I use physical indicators about a person to tell me about their personality. That's just how humans operate when you are surrounded by millions of strangers every day.

>>10575992
>You have myraid of health issues that are common symtpoms of obesity
>let's go with a bunch of expensive tests just to prove the most common hypothesis wrong

There's a reason doctors pick on obesity as the most common factor for health issues and that's because, it is the most common factor for most health issues. Lose the weight, if the issue is still present then the doctors have a reason to expect it's something else.

Why should the health system pay for some fat asses expensive tests to try and keep them healthy when it's obvious in the first place that the person doesn't care about their health until it becomes terminal or severely inconvienient?

Also wasn't it found that something like 77% of people hospitalised for COVID were already obese? The comorbity of obesity and other diseases is so high that nobody should care or be surprised when a fat person also presents other ailments.

>inb4 some people can't control it
Yes you can.
>muh thyroid
Your body can't create matter, eat less.

>> No.10576047

>>10576027
Everybody has degenerate desires, everybody has violent desires, everybody has sinful thoughts. What defines you as a person is whether or not you act on them.

Understand that they are normal but ultimately in the long term it is not conducive to a fufilling life to indulge them.

>> No.10576048

>>10575980
NAYRT but

>I don't like your opinion
>So I'm going to pathologise it

I love leftists.

>> No.10576053

>>10576048
Having a really strong abnormal hatred of something to the extent it triggers you and ruins something you supposedly otherwise love does sound like some mentally ill shit. Fatties need to lose weight but idgaf about them.

>> No.10576055

>>10576045
Discriminate as in legally treat them differently.
I can on some level see the case for it. Slippery slopes and what not. We charge fatties extra on an airplane? Why not charge people with exema extra because their gross ass flakes are making us double the cleaning. Why not make people with acne pay more because they spend too much time cleaning their face during lunch break. Etc.

But everything else is stupid. They should feel bad about their life choices just like alcoholics and smokers should. If you want to live an unhealthy life, that's fine. But you should be well aware of the consequences and not be told its "okay and totally healthy!".
You should be told "it's fine to eat an entire cheesecake because you had a bad day! Just know you'll be more depressed once you're done with it, and you'll be ugly and unappealing to everyone around you! But it's your choice to do so"

>> No.10576058
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>>10576045
>77% of people hospitalised for COVID were already obese?

Yep. This is why (at least in my state) obese people are able to get the vaccine faster. Shit pisses me off because people who actually have chronic illnesses they can't control can't get a vaccine yet but fatties who choose to stuff their faces can.

>Your body can't create matter, eat less.

Exactly. As a person with a thyroid disease using it as an excuse is total lazy bullshit. The one time my metabolism came to a screeching halt I gained like 20lbs in a few weeks, noticed, stopped eating so much, went for more walks, and lost the weight. It's that simple.

>> No.10576060

>>10576047
>Everybody has degenerate desires, everybody has violent desires, everybody has sinful thoughts.
no they don't.

>> No.10576065

>>10576058
>people who actually have chronic illnesses they can't control can't get a vaccine yet but fatties who choose to stuff their faces can
This is a blatant lie. Chronic illnesses and obesity are in the same CDC guideline vaccination group (1B), at least in my state. Where do you live?

And some chronic conditions like autoimmune conditions mean you should avoid some vaccines if it is severe enough because many people with autoimmune diseases are too weak for some vaccines and rely on herd immunity.

>> No.10576066

>>10576047
I get that. It's just normal relationships and sex are honestly so boring to me. I've tried total celibacy too and that didn't do it me either. The whole thing makes me feel sort of empty, loke life is just dutifully waiting for death, as silly as that might sound.

Also, I seem to be genuinely happier if I go out and get plastered every once in a while. I know it's not good for me, but I seem to enjoy life a little more with it.

>> No.10576067

>>10576058
20lbs in a week? How are you alive? Smells like bs to me

>> No.10576069

>>10576065
Not a lie. It's only the same category as people who have high risk compromised immune systems like cancer patients and people with asthma. Other chronic illnesses do not qualify you.

I'm having surgery next week for my worsening auto immune disease and the projected time I'll be able to get the vaccine is summer/fall.

>> No.10576070

>>10576067
Learn to read I said in a few weeks not a week. It was probably 3-4 weeks i.e. close to a month.

>> No.10576080

>>10576069
If you are at high risk and have a chronic illness, you do qualify/the CDC says talk to a doctor to be sure if you have a compromised or weakened immune system but that you can get the vaccine as far as qualifications. You still never said what state you live in.

>> No.10576085

>>10576080
Don't feel like saying what state I live in and it doesn't really even matter desu.

My point is that just having a chronic illness does not automatically make you high risk. I am not in the high risk category because I have graves disease which doesn't weaken my immune system. It is only very specific illnesses that are in that category.
Many disabled people have been complaining about this.

>> No.10576087

>>10576085
The state you live in does matter because the CDC and federal government designation is broad while states and even different providers are more specific (my bf and I have asthma and once vaccine provider included COPD and asthma in the eligible group, while a different one in the same state only includes COPD and asthma is a separate condition that they may consider but isn't guaranteed like COPD), so I am curious what state would deny someone with serious enough condition to need surgery to be vaccinated. My sister has a thyroid condition and she qualified but decided not to get the vaccine yet because she's pregnant.

If you are an immunosuppressed person you should be able to qualify unless your state has defined vaccination eligibility extremely specifically. I have not heard much from my chronically ill friends other than encouraging everyone able to get a vaccine as well as flu shots even if they can't get the COVID one so they can be safer since even pre-COVID they had health risks even from common colds.

>> No.10576088
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10576088

>be me on Comm Discord
>member says she might have COVID
>she goes get tested
>comes back positive
>2 weeks later
>last post was a couple of days ago
>everyone starts wondering what happened
>her friend announces she passed away from COVID
>everyone is crying
>only react to announcement with :crying: emoji
>decide to check her coords
>literally 300 pounds
>mfw I'm smiling because I received my first dose on Friday cause county health department didn't want to waste doses

>> No.10576091

>>10576085
>My point is that just having a chronic illness does not automatically make you high risk.

Also, if you aren't high risk, why are you mad that obese people who actually are high risk are getting vaccinated? I was under the impression you are arguing that fatties are somehow taking the vaccine away from you and your illness made you high risk. If it doesn't, how are fatties wrong for getting poked for the greater good, trying to not die, and protecting everyone and themselves? I fail to see what the complaint is. Everyone is going to be eligible at the end of May anyway.

>> No.10576096

>>10576088
Are you happy they died or just happy you're safe?

>> No.10576097

>>10576087
Sigh. I live in WA. Trust me, I have constantly been checking the qualifications and am signed up for notifications for when I do qualify.
I do not qualify because like I said I am not immunosuppressed. Grave's disease actually means your immune system is in such high overdrive that your body thinks YOU are the virus and is trying to kill you. Confusing, but still I don't qualify because of it.

>> No.10576099

>>10576097
Ayrt, see my post >>10576091

I know what Graves' disease is. My mom and sister have Graves' and Hashimoto's. What is the point of complaining if you aren't immunosuppressed and not in as much danger as the people who are eligible to be vaccinated, fat, old, or otherwise?

>> No.10576100

>>10576091
I'm complaining because I have friends who would die if they got covid due to chronic illnesses they can't control but aren't in the high risk category so they have to wait.
In any case, I was mostly just venting and made a throwaway comment. I don't actually care all that much and it's not that serious.

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10576104

Opinions on pic related?

>> No.10576106

>>10576100
If their chronic illness would make them more likely to die getting COVID, they literally would be the definition of high risk? I am genuinely confused.

I hope everyone regardless of what health issues they have can get the vaccine and be safe. I was just frustrated because it seemed like you might have been intentionally spreading misinformation to contribute to the fat hate in the thread (I used to be fat and am still sensitive to people being mean about it despite having put in the work to lose it). Sorry if I came off rudely.

>> No.10576116

>>10576096
Yes.

>> No.10576118

>>10576116
Seems a lil fucked but okay

>> No.10576121

>>10576118
Nah, not that anon. It's a joke.

>> No.10576124

>>10576104
Save it for a self post thread

>> No.10576143

>>10575509
I feel like itas are doing lolita “wrong”, and I adore the fashion to a fault. People mislabeling stuff as lolita makes me feel like they’re trying to take lolita away from me, and I worry that they’ll ruin it because brands will stop making dresses I like and instead make crappy $10 dresses.

It’s not a realistic fear and I know it’s delusional but it almost feels like...lolita is mine, I know how to do it right, they’re doing it wrong, and they’re threatening my thing that I like. It’s dumb, I know, and it’s something to talk about in therapy. I’m trying really hard to be kinder and really only leave comments if I can be totally helpful and if the help is asked for. It’s a start

>> No.10576148

I saw an usakumya for cheap on closet child but I would feel guilty if I got it. I hope it gets bought soon it's stressing me out somewhat. https://www.closetchildonlineshop.com/product/356852

>> No.10576164

>>10576055
Eczema and acne aren't a choice.

>> No.10576165

>>10576060
Okay, didn't realise I was speaking to Jesus.

>> No.10576168

>>10576053
I don't think so. Human brains love patterns and associations. Like, most people attach names to certain people they've met and become to hate certain names because of that.

The name is just a name but through association of people, I've come to really like and really hate certain names.

>> No.10576170

>>10576168
I guess I am an anomaly then cause I don't ever have that happen. If I hear a name of someone awful I might think "oh, x person also has this name and they suck" but I don't think "man i really hate that name because of x person"

>> No.10576172

>>10576170
I mean I don't hate people when they have a name I hate but its definitely something in my head that needs to be overcome. It's like the relationship already starts negative rather than at 0.

Another example would be that because of certain people, I can never give my child the same name because I hate the association.

>> No.10576173

>>10576168
There are more fat normies than lolitas. You're just mentally ill.

>> No.10576174

>>10576173
I'm not the anon who made the original claim. I'm just explaining the reasoning.

If someone observes a particular type of people they don't like doing an activity, they will eventually come to dislike the acitivity through pattern matching and association.

You're lying if you pretend your brain doesn't do this.

>> No.10576176

>>10576174
>You're lying if you pretend your brain doesn't do this.

Your brain can have negative associations without it causing you to hate something you otherwise like and enjoy (lolita) when the worst that the activity was is being fat, not abuse or anything.

>> No.10576178

>>10576174
>If someone observes a particular type of people they don't like doing an activity, they will eventually come to dislike the acitivity through pattern matching and association

i hate all of you but i still love lolita. is this what happens when you take a psych intro course lmao

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10576194

I'm sick and tired of SJWs and woke people. Is there a single sane woman left in this world?

>> No.10576195

>>10576194
shit bait

>> No.10576197

>>10576194
Every girl I've dated and been in a relationship was a self-described feminist full of woke opinions but eventually begin to adopt my views over time, although not entirely but mostly.

I find its mostly girls with weak or no male role models that have SJW tier values. Introduce a male they can look up and they change.

>> No.10576198

>>10576148
Why would you feel guilty?

>> No.10576204

>>10576197
Fuck off scrote

>> No.10576223

>>10576195
>>10576204
Why would you think it's a bait? It's factually true that woke shit is all over the place.

>> No.10576224

>>10576197
>>10576204

Eh, let them. It's not half-bad bait. Someone who posts shit like >>10576194 most likely won't be the strong male an SJW can look up to, and equally likely someone who decides to get with someone like that is gonna be pretty weak as well.

Either two weaklings end up meeting each other in the middle and both stop being SJW/incels and become happy, or it'll be a disaster where they explode all over the place trying to annoy each other. One is a happy couple and the other is an entertaining train wreck for us to watch.

>> No.10576231

>>10576065
Same category with limited vaccines means you have less vaccines for those that deserve it since fatties are taking them first.

>> No.10576232

>>10576164
Yeah. But when we start justifying discrimination based on physical attributes, businesses don't care if it was a "choice" they care if they can steal more money from you and if they have the justification to do so. Fatties are the first step for them figuring out they can charge you based on physical attributes.

>> No.10576256

>>10576232
Your slippery slope just doesn't hold up.

>> No.10576258

>>10576198
because I already bought a different usakumya recently also I usually feel guilty if I see a good cheap item online (that's not a wishlist item) and I snag it because in my thought process is that someone who really wanted it could have had it when I only impulse wanted it. Also, I get anxious when I keep seeing it up for sale because it temps me a bit.

>> No.10576264

>>10576231
Vaccine quantity over the next few months will be enough for literally every American who wants it. They aren't that limited. Some places even have extra doses that get tossed or given away to anyone or else they'll spoil. And no one doesn't deserve a vaccine. Everyone deserves it (even if they didn't all of society benefits from everyone getting it) the goal should be to vaccinate everyone as quickly as we can. I don't see you complaining about the healthy young people not in priority groups waiting to snap up extra vaccines that might go to waste from facilities. So it's just about hating fat people who clearly have similar risk as other people in the priority group based on death rates. If you want fat people to die just say so, it would be more respectable to be honest rather than hide behind concern for people with health conditions.

>> No.10576265

>>10576231
Why tf are non fatties so slow scheduling their appointments for vaccines?

I'd be embarrassed that a lardass managed to drag themselves off the couch and away from their potato chips long enough to beat me to scheduling a life saving appointment.

>> No.10576294

>>10576265
In my area fat people are considered high risk so they started being able to schedule when the age for non-high risk people was still set at 50. Is your state just on a first come, first serve basis?

Not even the angry anon, just curious.

>> No.10576304

>>10576294
>>10576294
>non-high risk people
From TX. They did healthcare workers first, then over 50 AND anyone 16+ and high risk I believe, which includes chronic conditions and illnesses, one of which is obesity. But it's first come first serve as far as people in that priority group getting appointments. There are a lot available though. You can get the first shot within a few weeks from city government facilities or local universities with medical facilities, and most people who know they need the vaccine have already signed up for a waitlist a while ago if they could back when the state was doing things through PCPs and hospitals only.

And HEB (Texas grocery store chain) has their pharmacies releasing tons of appointments weekly. Especially if you are not in a big city or willing to drive to a nearby town or suburb, spending one off day just stalking their site and grabbing an appointment (they go fast) and you can get one far sooner than government sponsored vaccination sites, like next day. With FEMA starting to help states as well, there will be increased availability.

Tbh the vast majority of fats are poor, and poor people are more likely to be essential workers at fast food, grocery, etc. so them getting the vaccine sooner than people who are not high risk makes sense cause they are more likely to be exposed and more likely to die.

I fail to understand concern about fatties who are legitimately high risk getting vaccinated before non high risk people. Other high risk people have equal opportunity to schedule appointments. It sounds like it's all non high risk people mad and complaining that fat people get one tiny advantage in vaccination over healthy people purely because they, over the long term, could control their weight and didn't. Which, even if that is the case, weight loss is not immediate, it takes time. They can be someone who has just started eating better and exercising, but they are still currently obese and still currently high risk.

>> No.10576423

>>10576104
Obvious bate but still gonna reply because I have nothing better to do.

Being fat is not beautiful to most people and there is no reason it should be. It's unhealthy, and most humans will unconsciously like physical things that say healthy, well of, and/or able to reproduce. Even the characteristics people like that don't fit those categories never say "unhealthy". Of course there are exceptions, but those are a minority and fat people need to accept that.

Either work as hard as needed to loose weight, or accept you're likely never be beautiful to most people. Acceptance also can give happiness without trying to force everyone to love fat people. Probably gives more happiness anyways, since the entire world won't really change, even if it becomes socially unacceptable to say, they'll hate behind your back and when you're not used to hearing it it'll be only more painful when you find out.

And no, history never liked real fat people unless the other options was too poor for food. Chubby, yes happened quite often. But there is a difference between chubby and fat. If people went with fat people it was more often status, power and riches than "Omg he/she is so hot".

>> No.10576425

>>10576106
nyart but I too am chronically ill but despite the fact most people with this illness get big trouble if they get corona, the goverment decided it's not bad enough to be considered high risk. I'm guessing ayrt also meant not high risk according to authorities so not getting the vaccination, but high risk heath wise.

I'm super scared of getting sick due to this, which sucks that I don't get a vaccination. Also, in my country I won't get one starting May, as I'm not from the states unlike ayrt.

>> No.10576488

who /fa/ here? where do your bf's buy their normie clothes?

>> No.10576500

>>10576488
grailed, duh

>> No.10576551

>>10576500
you have to shuffle thru so much shit to find something you like only to have them not have pics of them wearing it so you don’t know if it looks good or not.

>> No.10576552

I just got my dream dress, and it doesn't fit me. it's not even that I'm fat, but it doesn't fit my ribcage even with a binder on. should have known better with IW since their mediums never seem to fit me despite their measurements. but i was hasty and jumped at the opportunity since it's such a hard piece to find, and because I don't think I've ever seen an L of it sold even though one was produced. really disappointing

>> No.10576553

>>10576552
you could try modifying it? and that sucks sorry :(

>> No.10576555

>>10576552
get it tailored

>> No.10576565

>>10576552
What dress?

>> No.10576579

>>10576552
Have you tried losing weight?

>> No.10576619

>>10576552
what dress? im always interested in IW, even knowing what it is would be helpful in case i want it and didn’t know it fits small

>> No.10576637

>>10576579
how will that change their rib cage. you can't lose bone

>> No.10576642

>>10576637
You can have some of them removed for autofellatiallic purposes

>> No.10576644

>>10576552
Maybe a corset? I have the same issue with OPs, where the waist hits just at my lower floating ribs, and my ribcage shape projects outwards so fitting is difficult.A corset will actually bring in the lower floating ribs, though.

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>>10576642
a la marilyn manson, are middle schoolers even being educated on the important things anymore?

>> No.10576675

Bought what i thought was a black blouse from cc because I don’t have one. but it’s arrived and is actually a blue blouse :/ i don’t have anything blue in my closet whyyy

This is just an excuse to buy more clothes to match so i’m only slightly sad

>> No.10576680

>>10576675
rit dye it

>> No.10576690

>>10576680
I feel like that would hurt me emotionally if i did, do you think it’d work?

Its a meta blouse with slightly shiny material and gold buttons with a pearly inside. I wouldnt mind if i could dye the buttons black too

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>want to be scene
>have job in rural texas
>want to keep job in rural texas
life hurts.

>> No.10576730

>>10576725
Unless you can go back 10 years, you don't need to worry about that

>> No.10576744

>>10576690
Not worth it. Especially in case there's poly thread or whatever that won't dye well. Plus, imagine if the black dye came off on something expensive D:

>> No.10576748

>>10576744
That's why you seal in the dye with vinegar.

>> No.10576800

>>10575466
you already murdered a baby what's anorexia between friends?

>> No.10576801

>>10576637
Because you have fat under the bone that causes it to expand. Your ribcage isn't a solid piece of bone, it expands as you do, when you breath, and so on.

Being "big boned" is a fatty meme.

>> No.10576805

>>10576725
>want to be scene
>24
>bald
>too young to have done it when it was the thing
>still love msi from when I was a pre-teen
kill me

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10576811

>innocent world online shop staff telling you you're cancelled when you forget to post 'I agree with 1-4' in the comments of your order
Vs.
>innocent world online shop when you place an order properly and have been waiting 3 days for an invoice

S-sure hope I didn't get blacklisted

>> No.10576861

>>10576801
I’m going to be so happy if this is true. I hate my huge ribcage

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>>10576861
It isn't. And chances are yours isn't huge for your gender either.

>> No.10576874

>>10576801
Your rib cage doesn't grow. It expands when breathing sure, but fat forcing your ribcage to expand doesn't make sense.

1. How?
2. Even if it did, how would losing that fat reduce your ribcage if it's already grown? Does your ribcage shrink like it's made of putty?

>> No.10576888

>>10576067
NAYRT but I have hashimotos and gained 20 lbs in about 7 weeks. None of my unshirred pieces fit, I just got diagnosed so hopefully the synthroid helps me get back into the unshirred part of my wardrobe. I’m so fucking tired of wearing AP and Meta

>> No.10576912

>>10576888
I’ve had Hashimoto’s since I was a kid, and while I gain weight easily, I’ve been able to lose weight as long as I work towards it. People have even considered me skinny at one point. As long as the disorder is treated and you make sure to put in the effort to lose weight, you should be fine. Good luck!

>> No.10576937
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10576937

I never thought this would be me, but I've lost the motivation to wear lolita. Congrats covid, you killed my passion for my favorite hobby. I've been wearing full coords to run errands since the pandemic, but I stopped about a month ago. Can't even work up the energy to try on a coord to wear around the house anymore.

>> No.10576997

>>10576874
It causes expansion. Just talk to any ex-fatty. Their ribcage shrinks.
Or ya know, maybe there is confounding factors and what you think is your ribcage is just you being a fat.

Either way. Losing weight will help and the fact you're so defensive about it just proves that I'm right.

>> No.10577001

>>10576997
Or maybe people just store fat all over including their rib area? You can have fat on your ribs without that meaning it pushes your ribcage open.

>> No.10577007

>>10577001
>Or ya know, maybe there is confounding factors and what you think is your ribcage is just you being a fat
I can tell you store your fat inside your cranium.

>> No.10577008

>>10577007
Fat people store fat on their bodies including ribcage area, once they lose that excess fat, their ribcage gets smaller because the fat around and on top of it is gone. If you are not overweight and have never been, there is a slim to none chance you have some sort of stretched ribcage you retard.

>> No.10577013

>>10576805
At least I’m actually hot. I doubt you ever were.

>>10576730
I want to bring it back and I don’t care that no one else is

>> No.10577029

>>10577008
You see. It's funny because I said it. And I quoted it. And yet you're still too stupid to read it.

>> No.10577050

are you guys still confused about how ribs work?
>fat is not stored beneath the ribs
no. if anything it's on top of them, but then if you're not fat it won't fix it
>ribcage shape is genetic
bone size and chest cavity will affect this
>being big boned is a thing
it's sometimes more obvious in men than women, because it directly impacts how much muscle you can build, generally though, taller people have larger bones than shorter people unless you're genetically predisposed. but just like having a narrow pelvis or wide hips, bone shape and size varies between people. it's often used as a fatty cope, but it's not.

unless OP is an apple, her ribs are not covered in a significant layer of fat. anachans need to fuck off.

>> No.10577054

>>10577050
>unless OP is an apple, her ribs are not covered in a significant layer of fat
Thank goodness someone else has some common sense. Ana-chans are just so afraid of ever weighing more than a 15 year old that they have convinced themselves of pseudoscientific ways being fat fucks over your body (despite there being other real ways being at fucks over your body) to accuse anyone with above a 30 band size of being obese or previously obese.

>> No.10577062

>>10577054
exactly. i am 180cm and weighed 55kg at my smallest and was never thin looking at a BMI of around 17, it's just life.

>> No.10577065

Just post your body you fat whale.
I'm sure its totally just your big bones and not because you eat 10 meals a day

>> No.10577080

>>10577050
>>10577054

OP here finally checking back in on this thread. I'm 5'10, so yes, I have a larger overall frame even without being fat.

A lot of IW JSKs have necklines that go up stupidly high and have short straps, including the one that I bought. If I unbutton the straps and lower it to create a pseudo strapless piece, I can fit into it just fine. As long as the partially shirred part sits lower on my back/waist, then I can wear it even without a binder. It just seems to be wearing it as a regular JSK that poses an issue, since the shirred part sits so high otherwise and can't accomodate the size of my ribcage

>> No.10577105

>>10577065
t. anachan who actually has big bones and is bitter that she will always look like a female dwarf instead of a tiny doll

>> No.10577110

I bought what was marked a prisila wig on fril. The description said it’s prisila. and it arrived and it’s a brightlele wig :(

But it seems to be an older one that must have never been used.

So i might have lucked out? The quality is decent, its not too heavy, and it looks convincing. Not as nice feeling as the prisila wig i have, but its not bad at all.

But also wtf fril seller, why misbrand :(

>> No.10577115

>>10577110
A ton of Japanese sellers mistag things to increase their visibility. Which is why a ton of taobao on fril is labeled handmade and with brand tags.

>> No.10577184

I've just got word that I can have a private apartment viewing on Saturday. I'm first in line, so if I say yes the flat is mine... I'm so nervous. I might just attend the viewing in lolita to bolster my courage. If this space is to become my home I want to make a strong first impression. Now what to wear...

>> No.10577281 [DELETED] 

>>10577080
that's a lot of words to try and make excuses about why you're probably just a fatty

>> No.10577305

Girls aren't real.

>> No.10577308

>>10576997
>How does fat cause a rib cage to expand?
>>It causes expansion.

Fucking brilliant answer.

>what you think is your ribcage is just you being a fat.
There you go. So the whole idea that a ribcage gets bigger because of fat is complete bullshit that makes zero sense.

>>10577008
once they lose that excess fat, their ribcage gets smaller because the fat around and on top of it is gone.

You know the ribcage is the bone structure in your chest connected from your sternum to your spine right? It's not just the general area of your chest. Sure the chest area will shrink when you lose weight, but not your fucking ribcage holy shit.

>> No.10577312

>>10577110
i wonder if you misread it. did it say in the description, or just the tags? have the link?

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>>10577105
>Hating on female dwarves

>> No.10577693

>get barely any sleep to try and win auction
>lose it within the last 2 seconds
>find another dress I love on xianyu
>my order gets cancelled a day later
Jesus fuck this is annoying

>> No.10577704

>>10576165
kek

>> No.10577706

>>10577305
Neither are boys

>> No.10577708

>>10577308
When I say ribcage I meant rib are measurement, my bad. Like your underbust measurement not actual bones.

>> No.10577710

I swear to god, I can find the weirdest shit in lolita with ease but god forbid I want a simple red headbow.

>> No.10577711

>>10577710
Baby usa is selling simple headbows on their site atm - it may not have been put in the accessories section yet but there should be some in the new category if they haven’t sold out

>> No.10577713

>>10577710
>>10577711
https://shop.baby-aatp.com/collections/new/products/p17ha917-center-ribbon-headband

>> No.10577718

>>10577710
https://www.mercari.com/jp/items/m90627515807/

>> No.10577719

>>10577711
Ahh but all the head eating bows are sold out :(

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>>10577711
Thank you darling! I'm trying to match this dress so I'm not sure that headbow will fit, but I will pick it up!

>> No.10577726

>>10577718
This, this is wonderful, thank you!

>> No.10577728

>>10577726
No prob anon.

>> No.10577729

>>10577724
No problem and good luck! I’m getting that dress as well (diff colorway though), so I’m excited to see how other people coord it!

>> No.10577737

>>10577729
Me too! It such a cute dress!

>> No.10577743

>My university has a student run facebook group which is absolutely massive and for many people is a primary source of information about events on campus, unofficial announcements from staff, QnA, news and jokes mixed in for fun
>has recently started to get very political because of the passing of the torch from now graduated students to a new moderator team of students
>People posting lots of left-wing/progressive SJW things which have nothing to do with the university aren't being taken down
>some people start complaining about how these aren't relevant to the page or the university
>one of the moderators chimes in and says "These are not political issues, these are human issues and this is a page for humans. If you don't like that leave."
>I also saw, "Students world-wide have always been on the forefront of progress, this is a student group and therefore a group for progress."

Why does absolutely everything have to be infected with political garbage?

>> No.10577744

Have some good vies my fellow gulls. I can't understand a single thing they're saying but this vid gives me them heppy lolita feels man.
https://youtu.be/QNJi0aHW6R0

>> No.10577746

>>10577744
*vibes
sorry am retard; too busy vibin to spell vibe correctly.

>> No.10577893

I'm so tired of post being so slowed down it's been taking a month for an item to get to me in Eu from the UK, japan isn't any faster
just feels bad i want my things

>> No.10578005

>Am Asian
>TFW seeing all the posts about Asian Americans and the racial injustices they face, just like they did with blacks like half a year ago
>RETWEET THIS AND REPOST IF YOU ACTUALLY CARE
>STOP SCROLLING AND READ THIS
>DO BETTER
>STOP CALLING THEM GOOKS AND CHINKS :((
>NOO THE POOR SLANTERINO EYED YELLOWS LETS POST A SQUARE FOR YOU :(((
I'm getting so tired of virtue signaling sjw faggots. Kys if you're participating in this.

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OH MY FUCKING GOD, something so great happened to me !!! I was searching for a first dress since 8 months and had finally found a JetJ dress in another country but missed the auction like a dumb nut this afternoon. But while sadly searching around on a local equivalent of depop, praying that the JetJ dress will be relisted, I stumbled upon a beautiful oldschool floral. It was not any floral OP, it's the VM OP I was not even thinking I could ever own ! I'm so lucky for ounce it's crazy!! Can't wait to get it !

>> No.10578015

>>10578005
They only care because a white guy did it this time. Black men have been attacking asians for months and nobody gave a shit.

>> No.10578016

>>10578005
Am asian
honestly have only seen this like 2 or 3 times, not nearly on the same level of the black shit.

still cringe as fuck, though desu i recently got hired at a new place that's literally nothing but white autistic dudes, and jesus fucking christ I've never felt like sjws had a point until this shit.
nothing like even explicitly 'abusive', there's just so much casual sexism and racism thrown about its not even funny. i'm okay with some sex/race jokes, but there's a difference between making a joke and some light banter with just someone casually stating something completely sexist and everyone just nodding along like it makes perfect sense. shits fucking weird, already looking for a new place because i want no part of this shit when it hits the fan.

>> No.10578017

>>10578014
Congrats, anon :)

>> No.10578018 [DELETED] 

>>10578005

People literally don't care it's just for virtue signaling. They're already turning it into a woman's thing and downplaying the racism, and headlines are downplaying the fact that 6 Asians were shot dead. Dozens of elderly Asians were killed in the past months and literally no one gave a shit.

On top of it all, being told to "not blame black people" when literally we should be telling the black community to do better is sickening. Some black people have stepped up and acknowledged which is nice but most haven't. Black people need to address their own racism instead of relying on trying to divert attention, full fucking stop.

>> No.10578021

>>10578016
That sounds awful, anon. Hopefully you can find a new workplace soon. It sucks when the whole place is like that as opposed to one person since you can’t report everyone/hr is probably similar

>> No.10578025

>>10578005
Here we go again. the worst is people trying to profit off this shit.

>> No.10578026

>>10578018
Silly anon, blacks can't be racist, you should know that by now.

>> No.10578028

>>10578026
nta but I've know plenty of Black and POC people that say racist shit about eachother all the time. No one says shit about it though.

>> No.10578029

>>10578021
Its just weird. Like I'm by no means an sjw. I've been on 4chan for over 10 years at this point. I regularly make jokes about myself and happily make shitty banter with people. So like, I even enjoy environments where I can just do shit like make dumb asian driving jokes or laugh about autism.

This is just the first time I've literally been somewhere where I go "oh. I guess we do still have a long way to go"

>> No.10578031

>>10578028
For the 5 millionth time that is not racist, racism is privilege + power, POC cannot be racist

>> No.10578032

>>10578028
Another thing that slightly annoys me about this race shit. As an asian I give no shits about all of it. But it bugs the fuck out of me that every times someone mentions minorities or 'people of color' they don't mean minorities or poc, they mean blacks.
Like full stop, ain't nobody gives a shit about indians, asians, mexicans, whatever. they mean black. like just stop pretending and just say blacks, at least the BLM shit was blunt about it.

>> No.10578033

>>10578031
powerprivilege this
*unzips dick*

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>>10578031

>> No.10578035

>>10578032
That's why BIPOC exists anon
It's not that we don't care it's that black and indigenous people have historically suffered the most from white supremacy and continue to suffer the most.

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>>10578005
time to mute twitter again

>> No.10578038

>>10578035
then just say black faggot. pretending you give half a shit about other minorities is just comes off as disingenuous.

nobody gave even half as much of a shit about mexican children being locked up and separated from their parents in prison camps thanks to trump's stupid wall bullshit. yeah they complained a little, but it was more an excuse to bitch at trump than anyone protesting or rioting about it.

meanwhile a few drugged up black people get shot while waving guns at cops and people will put that on the news for months.

and people pretend that's fair.

>> No.10578039

>Am half west asian thanks to father
>Have very dark eyes, hair, thick eyebrows, nose is stereotypical
>Fair skin because shut in for 10 years
>Blacks call me white and act like I’m full blooded European, had someone sperg about a picture of me when I was younger because I was significantly darker(think Halle Berry) than I am now and they thought I was tanning intentionally
>Blacks call me racist for... existing with my natural skin tone?

I’ve seen this shit happen to other people with similar ethnic backgrounds to me deal with this shit too. But Blacks can’t be racist am I right?

>> No.10578041

>>10578038
basde

>> No.10578042

>>10578031
>POC cannot be racist

How stupid are you? Anyone can be racist including internally. Salvadorans are incredibly racist towards black people just to name a single sub group. It's all basic ass tribalism because humanity still hasn't gotten over the primal fear of us vs them.

This kind of logic is what lets people say/do whatever they want while using "POC CANT BE RACIST THEREFORE I'M RIGHT AND YOU'RE THE RACIST" to defend whatever bullshit they want to promote sans criticism. It's a stupid abuse of power that only further fuels racism.

>> No.10578043

>>10578039
Because it's literally by definition not racism. I don't understand the pathological obsession with labeling something you don't like "racist". There's already a word for it. It's called prejudice.

>> No.10578046

>>10578043
>It’s not racist to hate and attack someone because of their skintone

Blacks really are just throwing away all logic to suit their narrative at this point. Bet you’d coo and aww over me if I posted on my Instagram about TSA stopping me for a pat down and cry racism but it’s totally cool for any black person to shit on me for existing.

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>>10578017
thank you anon :)

>> No.10578050

>>10578043
racism and systemic racism are different. racism is prejudice based on your race, just like homophobia is prejudice based on sexuality. that's the word for it.

>> No.10578053

My feel is that I’m tired of threads being derailed

>> No.10578055

>>10578029
Sorry, anon. I guess it’s the difference of laughing with people vs being laughed at? Either way that sounds like a demoralizing experience

>> No.10578059

>>10578053
I bet the fatties did this...

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>>10578005
>>10578016

The time is come for the azn lolita to trade the corset for a cuirass and the cloth for chainmail.

>> No.10578063

>>10578046
tbf most black people would agree 100% that black people can be racist just as much as any other group. It's mostly wokies and white liberals that push the black=flawless narrative.

>> No.10578072

>>10578046
Black people have literally been cancelled for being racist.

>> No.10578074

>>10578055
Na I know exactly what it is.
The thing is something like
>haha you fucked up X
>its cause you're a woman
is a joke. nobody is actually saying women suck at X, its playing up the stereotype in the rare incident directly to someone's face as banter. (to be extremely literal)
you're being brought in on the joke even if you're the target since they know you and that you can take the bant.

Its the stuff where people are casually talking behind people's back and talking about extremely generalized sexist/racist things that's clearly a what the fuck issue. Its clearly not banter at that point, its just people being assholes and talking shit behind peoples backs like high school cheerleaders or something.

(it is funny in a way because my boss goes full michael scott and whenever he says something remotely offensive immediately has that 'oh shit' face and tries to back track it in the most cringe ways possible.)

but whatever. /rant not /cgl/ related.

/cgl/ feel, wish gothic lolita wasn't so, well, goth.
i kinda dig the whole gothic vibe, especially with music and things. like the black and a lot of the embroidery and designs, but god gothic loli makes me feel like i'm back in high school.

>> No.10578079

>>10578072
Blacks can’t be racist...

>> No.10578081

why are black ppl called blacks and not african americans, but asians/mexican ppl are called mexican/asian americans instead of browns/yellows? I called this guy african american once, to try and be politically correct, but he got mad at me and said he was black.

>> No.10578085

>>10578081
probably in part because asians and mexicans tend to keep some of their culture as americans. most american asians, even generations down, still have some asian culture to them thats been passed down.

blacks for the most part don't have that, they're in no way african except genetics.

plus there's the whole taking back the term after being referred to it as it since the 1500s or whatever. if you're called black for hundreds of years, you're gonna just stick with it.

>> No.10578090

i stepped foot out of CGL just to see what DIY is like and I'm already repulsed. I can hardly handle the useless jerks here. Their variety of useless jerk is even worse because they're so blatantly stupid and assholish.

>> No.10578094

>>10578079
are you okay in the head? even putting aside they anyone is capable of being racist, internalized racism is also a thing.

>> No.10578098

>>10578016
Autistic white dudes just suck in general desu

>> No.10578100

>>10578081
for the same reason white people are called white people. the dna is so mixed and ambiguous after a certain point that you can't guarantee someone has immediate african descent or is even african american. it's like assuming all white people in america are british descent

>> No.10578102

>>10578081

Try quoting Stinkmeaner next time.

>>10578090

What makes you say that?

>> No.10578113

>>10578079
>>10578102
is stinkmeaner racist?
>>10578085
>>10578100
damn you guys are so smart

>> No.10578117

>>10578081
They are called black people, not blacks. The anon >>10578100 was sort of right saying how it is similar to white people being called white people (no one tends to call them whites unless it's in a weird ethnonationalist type context or occasionally in some research studies) but I prefer using "x ethnicity" people, to remind us that we are all people not just the ethnicity, regardless of if that's Asian, Black, White, Indigenous, Mexican, etc.

>> No.10578120

>>10578117
"white" isn't capitalized

>> No.10578122

>>10578120
I know people prefer it not be but I just did all of them to be nice and not have people foaming at the mouth about how I'm an anti-white racist for leaving it lowercase.

>> No.10578123

I'm so jealous of everyone getting vaccines, my country is connected to the EU system so there's delays everywhere and I'm afraid the cons next autumn will be cancelled. They haven't announced cancellation yet but it's looking more and more likely.
>>10576725
I realized that scene was cool only a year ago and I do also think it looks really cool, wish I could be, but I'm so old and it'd probably look bad with my wrinkles, also I'm too fat, I've had a year to improve that but I've prioritized eating which was a bad choice, have had some improvement over the last months though.

But I'm not really into scene stuff, it looks great but I'm not into the music or the community or anything like that.
The fact that it's actually dead may be what saves me though, it won't be me emulating cool people when the cool people don't exist, rather just wearing a cool fashion.

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>>10578117
oops my bad anon
>>10578120
lol

anyone else get their stimmy yet? I'm gonna use mines to buy a camera since ax is coming up. gonna find cute cosplayers cosplaying my fav waifu and ask for pics.

>> No.10578130

>>10578128
>that statement history

Kek

>> No.10578133

>>10578081
Because black people whose heritage begins in the US do not feel a connection to african culture.

>>10578085
There a plenty of black people in the US who are 1st/2nd generation Africans (as in they or their parents were born in Africa) so no.

>> No.10578134

>>10578005
It would be more depressing if it weren't so predictable. I've been following the Asian hate crime stories for awhile and seen people wondering why it wasn't getting more media attention, including the horrible story of the Asian woman gang raped and left for dead while the attackers yelled racial slurs.
I privately told someone this would get more attention when one of the attackers was white. Amazing how that works, now suddenly everybody who didn't give a shit the last few months suddenly cares deeply. Disgusting.

>> No.10578135

>>10575957
I'm really struggling gulls. After three days of intense hydration and serious sleep schedule I'm back on my bullshit.

I'll start all over again tomorrow. I'll become prettier in no time, just you wait.

>> No.10578136

>>10578015
This a million times this. Black people only care about justice for black people and fuck everyone else.

>> No.10578144

>>10578136
It's the same for everybody else though. Let's be real, people were only screaming blm for clout.

>> No.10578145

>>10578144
No. A lot of people were saying that to placate the raging masses so they wouldn’t be targeted

>> No.10578146

>>10578145
i think anon is more referring to people IRL

>> No.10578147

>>10578136
People have been talking about this since the pandemic started though? At least people in my sm circle which is pretty broad. And most of my asian friends an other people discussing it have said "yeah those people who did this are all racist assholes, but let's not stereotype all black people or all asians either"

Maybe people I know are just more progressive/concerned about others? Idk whenever I see people complaining about stuff being performative, ignored, horrible, etc. etc. on social media it is always the opposite of my experience. I guess I just got lucky?

>> No.10578148

>>10578136
This is gonna get hijacked in a couple weeks for some other black issue, mark my words

>> No.10578149

>>10578148
Or maybe every group has problems and it's okay to talk about and try to work on all of them without one having to be more important than another just because it is currently the biggest deal in the news cycle?

>> No.10578153

>>10578147
I've seen it here and there. It's just feels annoying that it's a current issue and pretty relevant. But only black shit gets the limelight.
>asians being attacked and discriminated against
>eh here's a blog post
>black dude arrested for doing drugs and freaks out at police resulting in him getting shot
>well let's riot for 3 weeks!

Asians only got on the front cover because some dude just shot up a bunch of asian massage parlors. In 2 days It'll be gone and cnn will be talking about blm again for another 4 weeks.

>> No.10578155

>>10576937
Dude, it's just frilly clothes. With that said, sell them and make some money back to put towards another hobby.
>>10577743
Human rights, sure, but sometimes we need a break from those issues and distract ourselves from the real world. These SJWs are missing that point. It doesn't have to be "hUmAN RiGhTs" all day, everyday. There is nothing wrong with unplugging from that shit when desired.
>>10578031
Dawg, this has to be bait. The amount of ignorance in a such a small text box is astounding. How much of that Kool-Aid are you chugging to actually believe that anyone not considered white can not be racist because of "oppression and stuff?"

>> No.10578156

>>10578122
You can't be racist against whites tho

>> No.10578166

>>10578153
I see no black shit getting limelight currently desu. I have literally just seen people talking about anti-Asian racism and hate crimes for weeks, months, etc., especially since Trump started on his "China virus" shit and literally everyone thought that was shitty and would lead to anti-Asian hate, which already existed but definitely got worse since the pandemic started (even during BLM stuff this was constantly discussed, during which time many Asians did not want to talk about black issues at all, some of them legitimately racist, some jaded by hate crimes that had been committed by black perpetrators, and many other Asians wanted to discuss black issues too and to support one another as well and black people were raising awareness for them too).

Idk I guess I just have access to a more nuanced and less stressful performatively woke version of the internet than other gulls do, and I try to avoid assumptions that just because someone talks about one issue first or often that they can't care about other things they discuss or even don't discuss too unless they have given me a legitimate reason to believe they're apathetic.

>> No.10578167

The world gains nothing when we assume the worst of everyone.

>> No.10578169

>>10578122
That literally never happens though. Nice bait, tho.

>> No.10578170

>>10578166
>It's trump's fault black people are attacking asians
Do people think black people love Trump and would have no idea where the virus came from if it weren't for him? I genuinely don't get this line of thinking

>> No.10578172

>>10578166
The thing is I'm not part of those woke parts.
This is shit I see in my daily life just being a normalfag. Its shit I see crammed in my face constantly. And it's the shit normalfags talk about. It's always black people, black idols, black history. And here's why blacks are so great and an important part of our community.
Oh and BTW don't rape and murder any asians.

It's not even something I'm that angry about. It just feels like it's tacked on there and feels kind of annoying.

>> No.10578176

>>10578170

If that was all you took from that post you should really read it again anon. These anti-Asian hate crimes have been getting media attention for a while, especially after the pandemic began. Saying that what one of the most important people in the country at the time said clearly didn't help isn't blaming Trump for some shitty people choosing committing hate crimes.

It is kind of annoying when gulls claim that the media only cares about xyz issue when they are the ones clearly in their own media bubble if people like myself and others are capable of seeing news besides the fear-ridden hatemongering stuff people are obsessed with watching.

Gulls just love to victimize themselves and pretend they're under some attack from woke culture when they themselves have created the online sphere they engage with through likes, follows, friends, and interactions and subconsciously chosen to be bombarded with things they hate and complain about via the algorithm.

>> No.10578177

>>10578169
kek, calling something bait while posting bait yourself in response to said "bait", good one anon

>> No.10578178

>>10578031
Man this is top tier bait

>> No.10578181

>>10578038
To be fair, detaining illegal immigrants has been going on long before Trump.

>> No.10578183

>>10578043
>My new definition is the definition

Post modern definitions are not in any way academically credible.

>> No.10578184

>>10578183
Nayrt but that's just like, your opinion man

>> No.10578187

>>10578184
I can't tell if you're a genius or retarded.

The entire idea of everything being an opinion/artificial and nothing is tied to the laws of nature is a completely Post-Modernist idea.

>> No.10578198

>>10578153
he said he didn’t even target them specifically for being asian, it was all about him having a sex addiction and seeing these massage parlors as being temptation for him, ppl are ignoring the incel problem and the violence against women and already painting it about race without even giving them a chance to investigate

>> No.10578200

>>10578187
I mean definitions are a social construct. Race is a social construct. So I don't see why the definition of racism wouldn't by definition also be a social construct and therefore essentially the opinion of society, an artificial creation.

>> No.10578201

>2 inches of waist fat away from fitting comfortably in 2010's AP
fatness isn't kawaii so rather than buy plus size lolita I promised myself I wouldn't get into the fashion until I fit what I wanted to wear. I've come down from hamplanet bmi to a normal bmi for the sake of wearing pretty clothing. Lurking here has been a great motivator so thank you /cgl/

>> No.10578202

>>10578198
If you don't see how the dehumanization of women in general but specifically Asian women working at massage parlors often stereotyped as sex workers (maybe some of them are doesn't matter) being reduced to "tempation that must be gotten rid of" rather than living breathing people who exist beyond a sick murderer's sexual desires is clearly related to race then idk what to tell you.

>> No.10578206

>>10578202
Bruh its not like there are legal whorehouses with only white whores. Where do you suggest people go if they want to murder whores but don't want to be racist about it?

>> No.10578209

>>10578200
Definitions aren't social constructs. Definitions exist to define things and concepts that humans experience about the world and internally. These things exist and aren't imaginary.

Racism isn't a social construct. It's an innate natural law. We know this because when very young children are given the option to play with dolls which look like them or like another race, the vast majority will pick the one that looks like them despite being too young to understand the modern concepts of race.

Human society at its base level is tribal. Humans and our ancestors have always existed in tribes. Internally and subconsciously we define the tribe to be people who look and act like us. This law of the tribe and of in-group preference makes humans averse to other tribes and other groups when they look or act different. Pretty much any living creature that can consciously determine change and difference will avoid things which are different because different means possible danger and introduction of unknown variables.

This is not to say racially motivated crimes are justified but it is so say that multiracial societies go against what hundreds of thousands of years of psychological evolution has programmed into us. Therefore it's not unreasonable to suggest that multiracial societies are not sustainable given that no egalitarian multiracial society in history has ever lasted and all have ended ethnic cleansing, ethnic assimilation, autonomous regions or balkanisation. They require humans to exert unnecessary effort and all things will return to their natural state as dictated by entropy.

People will always prefer their tribe when things because dangerous. Because your tribe has a higher chance of taking care of you.

>> No.10578211

>>10578209
Definitions are absolutely social constructs. You are conflating a symbol of a thing with the thing itself, having a word for a thing does not make the word the same as the thing. One is a construct and one is not.

>> No.10578212

>>10578202
So do you think that if all the women were another race he wouldn't have done what he did?

I'm thinking he would have done it regardless of the race.

>> No.10578215

>>10578211
No they aren't. Definitions exist as part of the theory of forms. We, as humans, intrinsically know that a thing or concept exists and has a perfect and pure form, definitions are our way of (mostly imperfectly) describing that thing, attempting to get as close to describing the pure form as possible.

I won't acknowledge any post-modern concepts because they're based on inherently false as axioms that the human experience is artificial.

>> No.10578217 [DELETED] 

>>10578215
I don't think you know what a social construct is. I don't like PoMo either but "social construct" doesn't mean "invalid concept"

>> No.10578218

>>10578217
I know what a social construct is. But I refuse to acknowledge the term because it's exclusively used in a post-modern definition which ignores that social constructs exist as reflection of natural laws not just oppresor vs oppressed.

>> No.10578222

>>10578218
Postmodernism really has been a disaster for the human race. It makes me laugh when people talking about de-centering white men when they literally came up with everything wokism is based on.

>> No.10578228

I can hardly express my biblical ire towards parents who boil vegetables. Complete fuckbrains who deserve a feature-rearranging smack across their stupid faces. Raw veggies are crunchy. Boiled veggies taste awful and are gooey. When your food activates your child's gag reflex, then your food is shit and you are a jackass for terrorizing the kid for not eating it.

>>10578201

Go you!

>> No.10578234

>>10578222
Post-modernism is just an excuse for people to take more money and power, that's it.

If it was truly about taking down the 1% and tearing apart those who have benefitted from the American system, it would turn incredibly anti-Semitic given Jews make up a ludicrous percentage of the extremely wealthy, executive positions in companies and political positions on both sides of the political spectrum.

But Jews are very much a protected class immune from criticism because of Nazism. So the next option is white men as the cause of all suffering, then people begin to act surprised when white men begin to turn to extreme views because they are being isolated and some individuals are acting out but to the SJW crowd this is seen as confirmation of their own views that white men as an entire group truly are evil and therefore need to be punished and/or removed.

What is incredibly ironic about all of this is, what SJWs are doing to white men is exactly what people were doing to Muslims years ago.

People turned against Muslims as they viewed them as a threat, Muslims feeling more and more isolated and threatened took on extremist views to protect themselves, which people interpreted as confirmation of their views that Muslims really are a threat. The SJWs ran to the defence of the Muslim community because whilst yes, there were extremists, the majority wanted to simply live in peace and therefore should not be punished and/or removed for the actions of a few.

The icing on the cake being Muslims are doctrinally against pretty much everything SJWs promote but white men aren't held to any doctrine and many have views on issues which allign with SJWs but they rescind these views when they're being constantly attacked. Why should a white person judge people by their character when the world doesn't care about the content of their own character just the color of your skin?

>> No.10578340

>>10578201
Good job!
Good to see a gull better her life and body instead of taking the easy way out.

>> No.10578355

>>10578061
lole

>> No.10578393

>>10575508
Dancing to music alone is my favorite work out and what ever if someone thinks I look dumb at least I am skinny and toned and can do a split.

>> No.10578457

>>10578228
Have you ever heard of the concept of blanching?

>> No.10578469

I really don't give a flying fuck about whatever issues people who aren't native born white Americans face anymore. You people can figure your own shit out and stop bothering me because you got followed through a store or someone made fun of your name

>> No.10582345
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10582345

I have no clue why the drinking age isn't 18 in the U.S, but hopefully I find some other way to get shit faced in cons.

>> No.10582368

>order cornet dress before proxy opens
>it’s open for two hours
>the dress sells during business hours
>I ask if they bought it
>reply to me within minutes saying it sold out
Are you fucking kidding me

>> No.10584022

>>10582368
Which one anon
I have a few cornets I’m going to sell cuz I never wear them