Feels thread

[Anonymous No.10633474]

"The first con after covid is gonna be a nonstop orgy" edition.

[Anonymous No.10633513]

I want to try out going to orgies. How do I do that? How do I find someone else into that?

[Anonymous No.10633564]

>>10633474
>"The first con after covid is gonna be a nonstop orgy" edition.
god I wish
but I doubt corona restrictions will be lifted here soon. enjoy your freedom, burgers

[Anonymous No.10633568]

>>10633474
people are going to be more hesitant to fuck around now not less

[Anonymous No.10633576]

i'm so tired of having no lolitas in my area

[Anonymous No.10633577]

>>10633513
If you have to ask, you ain't gonna have one

[Anonymous No.10633578]

>>10633513
they're disgusting, have some self respect

[Anonymous No.10633579]

>>10633513
They’re fun if you’re a lil kinky and bisexual, but if you’re a smelly heterosexual 19yo, you’re probably not gonna have a good time

[Anonymous No.10633638]

Saw this on my feed a while ago and I find it hilarious that this guy probably got into cosplay just to get his vaccination photoshoot. Would anyone here ever get into cosplay just for the vaccine?

[Anonymous No.10633654]

>>10633577
>>10633578
Many, many times the dumbos on 4chinz have tried to tell me what I could and and couldn't do. And y'know what? I did what the fuck I wanted anyway

[Anonymous No.10633659]

>>10633638
Jesus Christ that guy is such a narcissist. What a jackass

[Anonymous No.10633667]

>>10633659
nigga what is the problem with the pic

[Anonymous No.10633708]

>>10633638
CRINGE

[soup No.10633714]

IT’S SO HOT I’M MELTY

[Anonymous No.10633732]

I was trying to be a good noodle about my spending and not look at the buy sell trade thread because I had just bought a dress, and in the 4 days of me trying to not spend more, my dream dress was posted and I missed out on it. My feels are salty at myself. This is what I get for trying to not be tempted into impulsive buying.

[Anonymous No.10633741]

Scrote here, just noticing nearly all my con friends are women.
Why is it so much easier to become friends with y'all than it is to be friends with other cockhavers?

[Anonymous No.10633753]

>>10633741
Because you're gay

[Anonymous No.10633755]

>>10633741
Less aggressive? Shared interests? Empathy?

[Anonymous No.10633830]

>>10633579
True honestly

[Anonymous No.10633856]

>Have made my cosplay as perfect as can be
>Theres nothing more about it that I can improve on
>But it still looks bad on me because of my body proportions
>If it was someone else wearing this then it would be amazing
>Am not even fat, its all in how tall/broad I am which cannot be fixed
I hate cosplay

[Anonymous No.10633867]

>>10633741
probably just a coincidence.

[Anonymous No.10633874]

>>10633856
I have the same issues as a woman. I wish I could wear blouses with pride but my damn shoulders...

[Anonymous No.10633876]

This situation happened to me pre-covid. I went to a regional con where my roommate dropped on me last minute (less than a week before the con). So I ended up in a two double bed hotel room by myself. My friend's nephew had a cosplay group that was room packed with 8 people. I offered to let him and his fiance stay in my room and use the bathroom in the morning for showering/day prep to alleviate strain on the room. They accepted and that was Thursday night for the con. On Friday, his sister and one of her close friends took the other bed.

Come around to Saturday. They were doing an Attack on Titan group cosplay. Most of them were college-aged, just over 21 and legally allowed to drink. Their Mikasa was kind of down on her luck. She was only there because someone else in the group had payed for her con badge and wasn't being charged to stay in the room. We planned to go out for Sushi on Saturday for lunch and BBQ for dinner. She was going to stay in the hotel room and eat ramen out of the room's coffee machine.

Honestly, I remembered being there and said we're going for Sushi, I'm paying. I paid for the whole group. Later one of her friends wanted to stroll through the dealers room and had something she squeed about being so cute that I just had to buy it for her. When we went for BBQ I paid for a 3-person plate that we split and took leftovers back for the people who didn't come.

That night, she told the group that she needed some time alone, and after showering told me “tell everyone that I slept in the other bed.” That was most certainty one of the best nights I've had in my life. I still haven't told anyone what really happened and most likely never will.

[Anonymous No.10633912]

>>10633755
>Females
>Empathy

[Anonymous No.10633918]

>>10633513
dont be fat, dont be ugly.

Hell, sometimes just not being fat is enough.

[Anonymous No.10633923]

>>10633474
>con is in one month
>over a year since Ive done anything

Great, I need to lose quite a bit more weight or else Im simply not going cause Id rather not feel like a loser.

How much smaller could I get at just 500cals a day? 20lbs is probably my perfect weight, though being food deprived helps cheat as well since my water weight will be way lower too.

[Anonymous No.10633934]

>>10633912
t. incel

[Anonymous No.10633935]

>>10633912
Literally the reason why we're the caregivers and take care of children dumbass.

[Anonymous No.10633937]

>>10633513
kill yourself

[Anonymous No.10633938]

>>10633923
I always assumed not eating a lot a day would put your body into reserving calories and your weight would generally stay the same. I'm sure /fit/ has some guides

[Anonymous No.10633939]

>>10633923
hahaha fat fuck

>>10633934
>>10633935
retarded crotch bleeders itt

[Anonymous No.10633942]

>>10633939
Ah. So you're a 12 year old that just randomly name calls, not surprised. This is your last (you from me. Good day.

[Anonymous No.10633944]

>>10633942
learn how to take a joke aspie cunt

[Anonymous No.10633946]

>>10633935
You're not having children anymore though are you roast beef?

[Anonymous No.10633947]

>>10633939
t. incel

[Anonymous No.10633950]

>>10633923
500 a day is too low. Here
https://tdeecalculator.net/
Put in your info, scroll down, click on the 'cutting' tab. This will show how many cals to eat a day for you to lose weight. Keep this up along with at least 30-1hr of exercise 3 times a week. Include weight lifting, no you won't get buff, you can do this at home Give it a month before you start to notice changes.

[Anonymous No.10633952]

>>10633950
You’re a fucking retard. 100+ G protein ? This is a weight lifting diet you autistic piece of shit she just wants to lose weight. Fucking mong you’re probably not even fit

[Anonymous No.10633955]

I don't know who needs to hear this bur prepare a spray bottle with salt water. I got blood on my cotton brand, and it washed out super easily thanks to me already having salt water prepared. Go save your future self now.

[Anonymous No.10633958]

>>10633952
Calm your testies. This is just and example with a made up weight and height and I'm pointing to the calories so she knows where to look. She doesn't have to pay attention to the rest.

[Anonymous No.10633961]

>>10633876
>I still haven't told anyone what really happened and most likely never will
I don't get it

[Anonymous No.10633977]

Venting post

Guy I'm seeing doesn't seem to understand what "cleaning" actually is. He picks up but when it comes down to actually scrubbing and wiping things down he refuses to do it. He said if I don't like it, I should do it. Told him I'll do it, but I'm not doing it alone. He refuses. I already did it a few times before but after this time I'm not budging. He's getting roaches and flies from his sink and speaks of spilt food left on the countertops. I asked him is he really okay with this and he says he'll buy bug traps. That...does NOT fix the reason why he has bugs. I'm this close to just breaking up because if he can't maintain his own shit, living with him will be a nightmare. /rant

[Anonymous No.10633978]

>>10633977
Holy shit what a disgusting slob. I know people say dump him over stupid stuff but being so filthy that he gets bugs and doesn’t think to actually fix the underlying reason is a legitimate reason to dump someone. Imagine eating roach shit because this pig can’t be assed to do the dishes or clean up spills

[Anonymous No.10633981]

>>10633977
>>10633978
Omg you stupid women it’s your job to clean so clean stop whining Jesus fuck

[Anonymous No.10633983]

>>10633977
Dump him before he becomes a /ck/ horror story

[Anonymous No.10633987]

>>10633923
do not go that far on your diet, just hit the gym and you'll look much better

[Anonymous No.10633992]

>>10633978
He's does the dishes and picks up clothes and trash but he won't wipe the sink and when he leaves dishes in the sink, he doesn't AT LEAST rinse them off. So it's full of left over food on it that stays overnight. I gave him a shot because we had similar hobbies and had been friends but I'm looking for long term relationships and those habits are a no go if we were to ever live together, even after I've helped and said I would do it with him.
>>10633983
I hope not. As funny as that sounds, I wouldn't wish that on him. He's still a good guy just...gross.

[Anonymous No.10634001]

>>10633977
Do you think that there's any underlying reason he refuses to clean stuff properly? Is he depressed? Does he has poor hygiene in general?
Him going as far as buying bug traps while not wanting to clean stuff properly is weird. Did you ever ask bluntly why he doesn't want to clean it?

[Anonymous No.10634002]

>>10633977
My bf was like this when we first dated, and I’ve convinced him to be a bit cleaner since then mainly because we love each other and he was willing to listen. He still leaves wet towels on the ground and dishes around and I have to pick up after him - I’m not too pissed about it anymore, but if you don’t want to settle then yeah, do yourself a favor and find someone who isn’t a slob. Seriously.

[Anonymous No.10634004]

>>10634001
>Is he depressed?
Nayrt and while hygeine can lapse when one feels depressed or poorly about themselves, his rude response to her and demands that she take care of it, rather than discussion or introspection makes it seem like even if he is struggling with his mental health it is potentially harmful to anon to try to stay with him. He isn't wanting to do better or change and that's not her responsibility to put up with in a partner. She is his friend and gf, not his therapist or caretaker and the desire for the bare minimum of a partner to avoid creepy crawlies and shit everywhere is a reasonable expectation. If he can't figure this out he needs to work on himself. Relationships are not meant to be one person fixing the other, they're a mutual partnership out of a desire to be in each other's lives for both parties' benefit. She didn't sign up to be a maid, as nice a guy or friend as he may be, and needs to pursue what is healthiest for her.

[Anonymous No.10634006]

>>10633939
>>10633912
>>10633981
>>10633946
>>10633944
Kill yourselves

[Anonymous No.10634008]

>>10633977
DUMP HIM. men know how to clean he just wants you to do it. Why the fuck do women date men that treat them like slaves? Grown ass men know how to clean. He just wants you to be his maid. Please fucking dump him. You remind me of women who stay with guys who barely wash their ass. Also get some self esteem this is pathetic

[Anonymous No.10634009]

>>10634001
>Did you ever ask bluntly why he doesn't want to clean it?
Actually I have. He just answers that he doesn't want to then goes into how he does "clean" by picking up, taking out the trash and doing dishes. I think he just doesn't like having to deal with anything "gross". He's mentioned before if he ever has a kid he's never changing their diaper and doesn't like getting his hands dirty.

As for his own hygiene he is good with it, even took my advice on skincare and now his acne had calmed down. Taught him how to use a flat iron since he was complaining about how he didn't like his wavy hair. I liked it, but since he didn't, I showed him what to do and bought him a small one. Sad, that was a fun day of me doing it for him to show him how.
>>10634002
Yea, I wouldn't mind if he was willing to try, I don't expect him to change overnight but he outright refuses and doesn't understand that the bug problem if from the gunk of food in the sink or crap that fell out of the over-stuffed trashbag that he doesn't pick up.

[Anonymous No.10634019]

>>10634009
I see, at least sounds more like he doesn't want to do ""gross"" stuff rather than not taking care of himself at all.
Maybe you can try arguing from this line of thought:
- "What would you do if you lived alone?"
- "Isn't even more gross to have cockroaches around? What if one gets in your bed while you're sleeping?"
- "You'll have less work to do if you clean it first rather than putting up traps. You'd also have to take the cockroaches out anyway"

>He's mentioned before if he ever has a kid he's never changing their diaper
How old is he? This sounds more like him being immature than a personality problem. Sucks, but imo easier to fix with time and talk.

[Anonymous No.10634024]

>>10634019
lol I asked him those exact things
>- "What would you do if you lived alone?"
"Hire a maid"
He does live alone, I just come by and stay with him every now and then. He used to have a monthly maid come in but stopped after he lost his job during covid. Still does not have a job, living off of unemployment.
>"Isn't even more gross to have cockroaches around? What if one gets in your bed while you're sleeping?"
"That's why I'm getting traps and I'll bug bomb this place."
>"You'll have less work to do if you clean it first rather than putting up traps. You'd also have to take the cockroaches out anyway"
"Then you take care of it if it bothers you that much."
>I'm not going to do it alone, you should learn how to do this too. If you see for yourself how bad it is for yourself and put the effort in, you'll be less likely to let it get bad again.
" I already clean up as it is."
>"That's...not enough."
Rinse, repeat, circle.

>How old
He's 34 I'm 30. I'm basically going to let him do what he wants, it's his place and not go over anymore. If he still doesn't want to clean up properly even with my help, that's on him and I just will go back to being just friends.

[Anonymous No.10634030]

>>10634024
he's 34 and acting like this??? girl, leave. you're not his mother.

[Anonymous No.10634090]

>>10633638
This guy is based.

[Anonymous No.10634094]

>>10634090
that is photoshopped retard

[Anonymous No.10634098]

>>10634002
>He still leaves wet towels on the ground and dishes around and I have to pick up after him
The absolute state of women.

[Anonymous No.10634114]

>>10634024
honestly i think he should leave you for being a dumb lazy cunt who takes dating advice from 4chan/cgl

[Anonymous No.10634118]

>>10634114
t. the nasty fucking cockroach boyfriend

[Anonymous No.10634121]

>>10634114
>dumb lazy cunt

Kek if she's a dumb lazy cunt what does that make the gross dude

[Anonymous No.10634122]

>>10633513
I got invited to one. Turned it down because that's not my scene.

My friend who went got crabs.

[Anonymous No.10634123]

>>10634121
based

[Anonymous No.10634153]

Don't reply to the dude that's throwing out random insults. He's clearly some kid that just trying to get a rise and an argument that will go nowhere.

[Anonymous No.10634167]

>>10634024
Fair enough, sounds like he really doesn't want to clean up for some reason, and you were reasonable when trying to talk with him. He sounds like a good dude otherwise, and you must be a mature person if you tried to talk with him like that. Oh well. Wish you the best.

[Anonymous No.10634171]

>>10634167
>he sounds like a good dude otherwise
lol

[Anonymous No.10634173]

>>10634171
From that anon's own posts:
>[...] we had similar hobbies and had been friends >As funny as that sounds, I wouldn't wish that on him. He's still a good guy just...gross.
>As for his own hygiene he is good with it, even took my advice on skincare and now his acne had calmed down.
It sounds like their relationship could work if the dude wasn't stubborn on this issue.
While I disagree with the reaction of instantly breaking up at the first disagreement, it sounds like she reasonably tried to explain to him that cleaning = good, and not cleaning = bad. It's unfortunate that it's not working.

[Anonymous No.10634178]

>>10633741
cons are usually 50/50 but women are mostly there for the anime aspect and men there for the video game aspect.

[Anonymous No.10634180]

>>10633977
never date someone with the expectation he/she will change over time.

[Anonymous No.10634188]

the matching tights for my favorite dress came up for sale but I'm tall with thick thighs and don't want to deal with the disappointment of buying and not fitting them

[Anonymous No.10634212]

>>10634173
Yeah no. OP is coping hard.

[Anonymous No.10634221]

>>10633564
Will do.
Have you considered moving to freedomland?

[Anonymous No.10634223]

>>10633923
You mean losing 20lbs right, not getting yourself down to 20lbs?
What are you, 1 foot tall?

[Anonymous No.10634224]

>>10634221
god I'd love to visit (moving is a different story). You guys have a bunch of cool cons
but AFAIK your borders are still closed
nway, make sure to party a lot to compensate for us who can't do that yet :3

[Anonymous No.10634225]

I was wearing lolita (just toned down classic tho) in the city yesterday and as I walked past a bus stop a guy cracked open a beer, did a mock bow and said “may I escort you” and I guess maybe some people would be offended by that(?) but I thought it was funny and we both laughed and I was thought if I’m going to have any stranger interactions in lolita, this is the fun and harmless kind I want

[Anonymous No.10634236]

>>10634224
Why wouldn't you want to move to burgerland? We have no customs fees, vaccine access, no lockdown. Seems great.

[Anonymous No.10634237]

>>10634094
No u

[Anonymous No.10634240]

>>10634225
That sounds cute and harmless to me. Everyone is different but if guys are classy or polite with their cat calls I don't mind.

[Anonymous No.10634246]

>>10634240
nta but i assumed it was not really a cat call/flirting and more just him being funny and friendly. every man who tries to interact with a woman is not flirting.

[Anonymous No.10634253]

There's only one not-gaming con in my small, European country that isn't officially cancelled yet, but it will probably be. The vaccine schedule is that people above 18 will be finished a little bit before it is to be held, but there's only a few months left so there might be too little time to make the con and I have the feeling the people behind that con are of the "responsible" type who take Covid seriously, so it's very likely that it'll be cancelled and the next con won't be until spring and the next """"big"""" one next summer.
I still haven't given up hope but logically I know that it's extremely likely that it'll be cancelled.

Seems people don't care about cosplay anymore anyway. No cons are growing, people don't make meetups anymore, and what do I have anyway, I don't have any series in common with people anymore and the culture has changed for the worse.

[Anonymous No.10634256]

>>10634236
I'd have to think about it... but your cons are awesome

[Anonymous No.10634277]

>>10633950
Oh shit lmao I didn't realize it was in kg and put in 150 kg and was perplexed when it said "morbidly obese"

[Anonymous No.10634280]

>>10634277
oh god lol

[Anonymous No.10634303]

>>10634256
Fly into Denver, drive through Grand Junction, Moab, Kanab, the north rim of the Grand Canyon, St. George, Las Vegas, Death Valley, out to Los Angeles, and catch a con there. You'll have a great time I might even let you shoot my revolver in this ghost town near Moab, but you'll have to promise to say "yeehaw!" when you do.

[Anonymous No.10634408]

My so asked if I'd be okay by myself today, and I told him I couldn't kill myself because I had plans the next day. He didn't find that reassuring. I'm also afraid I screwed up my Haenuli pre-order, because for a while I've been like stuck and forgot to finalize shit. Like, I don't have much to do, but man I've been fucking it up lately. Also, in therapy and stuff, just might need to be in-patient or something.

[Anonymous No.10634445]

>>10634408
you shouldn't need plans as a reason to stay alive if you have an SO whom you love (that should be reason enough), so I think saying that was a bit rude to your SO. but I'm sure he understands that saying something like this is a result of your mental state, so don't kill yourself about it, just add it to your socializing experience and use it to be nicer next time. I'm sure he would like that.

Regarding not feeling accomplished, do some super easy stuff to balance the harder stuff. Like - put on some lotion, have a glass of water, do a stretch. Your goals should be customized to you. So then if you do mess up an order its ok because it was only one goal among several.

[Santa Claus No.10634498]

cum

[Anonymous No.10634536]

Roommate/sister didn't sign for my package despite hearing the mailman and now I can't get it until Sunday

[Anonymous No.10634546]

>>10634445
>you shouldn't need plans as a reason to stay alive if you have an SO whom you love (that should be reason enough)

Suicidal thoughts and mental illness don't get cured by a partner. That's a retarded take that is not at all helpful.

[Anonymous No.10634561]

>>10634536
Can you pick it up from the post office?

[Anonymous No.10634566]

>>10634546
Don't burden a partner with suicide

[Anonymous No.10634568]

>>10633977
I’ve always been of the opinion that people who don’t respect themselves, their things and their space will never respect you. Even fucking animals don’t leave rotten food in their den. That’s fucking disgusting. It’s one thing to be messy or cluttered but that’s inexcusable. You aren’t his mother and he’s grown. Get some self respect and drop him.

[Anonymous No.10634571]

>>10634546
That's not the takeaway. It's not "my partner makes MY life more enjoyable for ME". It's "I love my partner enough to care how THEY would feel and don't want to make THEM go through that".

[Anonymous No.10634576]

>>10634571
I know your point exactly but trying to guilt suicidal people into not killing themselves by being someone who frames suicide as selfish just makes those who want to kill themselves feel worse if part of their desire for relief is the idea that they don't think they are a good person or deserve to be alive/any other self hate based reasons for wanting to die. Saying it's selfish or to think about how much it would hurt others or make them feel may just reinforce to that person they have negative qualities that people don't like or are inconvenienced by and make them feel like others would be sad for a little bit but better off without them in the long run.

The ideal scenario is to let them know you are there for them and want to support them, not act like having a partner is enough to make those thoughts go away if they are truly at risk of offing themselves and believe they need to go inpatient as anon said they were. There isn't an easy answer to how to stop someone from wanting to die all the time, but backhandedly insulting them for having the desire or struggle at all when they have a partner as if that should be enough to resolve their mental illness, trauma, or other problems is shortsighted and immature and has the potential to make things worse.

[Anonymous No.10634579]

>>10634566
A suicidal person may feel like burdening their partner with their depression or other issues is worse than just killing themselves and ripping the bandaid off to get it over with.

[Anonymous No.10634605]

>>10634576
It's not saying stay alive for your SO, it's saying you don't really love them all that much if you do so don't be in a relationship with them if you're going to choose your own feelings over theirs.

[Anonymous No.10634607]

>>10634576
It's not saying stay alive for your SO, it's saying you don't really love them all that much if you do kill yourself so don't be in a relationship with them if you're going to choose your own feelings over theirs

[Anonymous No.10634651]

>>10634561
Not until after 6/19 (today) and the post office is closed Sunday so I can't go until Monday

[soup No.10634666]

if you're suicidal and looking for a purpose in life feel free to join my irl guild. I need gold farmers

[Anonymous No.10634696]

>>10634576
Holy shit anon, you know your stuff. If it's any reassurance I work with good people for my mental care. Shit's been rough, and no one has energy to reach out or ask for help. I just try and find joy in the small things.

[Anonymous No.10634704]

>>10634579
Both of those options will give your partner depression. Don't burden your partner and let them go date someone sane if you're going to an hero. Out here wasting everybody's time.
>How dare you suicidal people have mental health problems wah
Reminds me of all the fucked up men who get into relationships with women in order for the women to "fix" them. End up traumatizing countless swathes of women. Fix your own ass first before you fuck up someone else's life. Find a therapist

[chocolat-chanon No.10634706]

Feelin some good feels over a new job and also I finally completed my grail set. I got the Chocolat-chan headbow and coat to go w my op and socks!!! They'll be here this week. >:3

[Anonymous No.10634712]

>>10634576
Good god, proofread your posts

[Anonymous No.10634807]

>>10634712

there is nothing grammatically wrong with that post? maybe run-on sentences.

[Anonymous No.10634808]

>>10634704
Being mentally ill at all isn't an inherent burden to a partner or going to give them a mental illness. My bf has a couple diagnoses and takes meds and I have issues I'm not currently medicated for and we get along just fine. It's just a matter of being reasonably stable and knowing all these things before making the decision to date anyone long term.

As long as no one is expecting the other person or the relationship itself to resolve every problem and make life perfect, or expecting the other person to be perfect, there shouldn't be anything wrong with the informed decision to date when dealing with mental illness.

[Anonymous No.10634809]

>>10634706
no one cares and you are a noob

[Anonymous No.10634810]

>>10634704
>Reminds me of all the fucked up men who get into relationships with women in order for the women to "fix" them.

isn't it usually pickmes or women with no self-esteem who intentionally try to fix men who aren't good enough or whatever?

[Anonymous No.10634877]

>>10634810
I guess it’s both, takes two fucked up people for a toxic relationship

[Anonymous No.10634982]

Seeing lolitas from other countries having meet ups while I’m stuck in a country where only 11% of the population have been vaccinated sucks

[Anonymous No.10635051]

At this point I'll take having cringy weeb friends that unironically say sussy baka in real life over my current social life

[Anonymous No.10635054]

>>10635051
having aspie friends is pretty based

[Anonymous No.10635056]

>>10634982
I'm assuming you're a fellow Brazilian lolita and yeah, here sucks rn

[Anonymous No.10635057]

>>10635054
Even if they say dead reddit memes in real life?
I mean I guess it's better than being completely alone

[Anonymous No.10635062]

>>10633876
i've read this story 3 times and still don't understand any of it, aside from the fact that you like bragging about paying for things?

[Anonymous No.10635102]

>>10635056
Hope we can get through this and go back to seeing each other at least before mid 2022, I hate online meetings

[Anonymous No.10635142]

>>10633564
>that pic
Have you considered spreading your legs?
I'm sure you'll find some scrote to jump you

[Anonymous No.10635145]

hello I want a gf please and thank you

[Anonymous No.10635148]

>>10635145
meet
>>10633564

[Anonymous No.10635152]

>>10635062
>That night, she told the group that she needed some time alone, and after showering told me “tell everyone that I slept in the other bed.” That was most certainty one of the best nights I've had in my life. I still haven't told anyone what really happened and most likely never will.

Anon got laid.

[Anonymous No.10635174]

>>10635051
Same bruh

[Anonymous No.10635183]

>>10633474
TFW it's your little brother's 18th birthday and all your friends start chanting ara ara.

[Anonymous No.10635193]

need to finish two costumes for a con just a month away and i spent the whole weekend posting on four channel

[Anonymous No.10635195]

Browsing lolibrary for hours gives me way too much serotonin, god why am I such an autist

[Anonymous No.10635231]

>>10635152
That's a good ass joke

[Anonymous No.10635233]

>>10635231
I don't get it, what's the joke

[Anonymous No.10635236]

>>10635233
>/cgl/ posters
>having sex

[Anonymous No.10635254]

>>10635236
>tfw i met my boyfriend here

[Anonymous No.10635266]

>>10634982
Your country is at 11? Mine is only 3% fully vaccinated.

[Anonymous No.10635280]

>>10635056
>>10634982
stay strong, fellow huelanders
t. huehue cosplayer

[soup No.10635313]

>>10635056
>>10634982
>>10635280
hola amigos and amigas (amigx)!! yo onions soup. ¿qué opinas de california? - es hermoso, pero el clima es caluroso.

[Anonymous No.10635315]

>>10635183
Funny way to admit you're friends with a bunch of pedo weebs

[Anonymous No.10635321]

tfw no cute small ED lolita gf

[Anonymous No.10635326]

>>10635315
18 year olds aren't children

[Anonymous No.10635338]

>>10635254
Is he hot?

[Anonymous No.10635339]

>>10635338
he is trans, so ya

[Anonymous No.10635346]

>>10633947
I can smell your beef flaps from here. Take a shower fatty.

[Anonymous No.10635347]

>>10635338
i think so.
>>10635339
hell no.

[Anonymous No.10635348]

>>10634024
>30
Where did your life go so wrong that you're still on this site at that age?

[Anonymous No.10635349]

>>10635145
i'm male, 4'11", balding, indian, have schizophrenia, schizoid personality disorder, BPD, ADP, BDD, KML, Klinefelter's, paranoia, type 1, 2, and 3 diabetes, multiple personality disorder, single personality disorder, depression, major depression, seasonal depression, low-functioning autism, aspergers, a 31 BMI, i hate women, i hate men, i hate animals, i'm vegan, i'm racist, and you WILL DATE ME.

[Anonymous No.10635350]

>>10635347
Is he white and over 6 feet tall?

[Anonymous No.10635353]

>>10635347
If you "think" he is, then he isnt. Don't settle for less, know your worth.

[Anonymous No.10635355]

>>10635347
>i think so.
>think
Dump his ass. There are rich, good-looking chads out their waiting for you. Don't settle for less.

[Anonymous No.10635357]

>>10635349
Damn I check off three of these, should I just kill myself at this point?

[Anonymous No.10635358]

>>10635357
One less annoying scrote shitting up the thread would be nice. So yes, please kill yourself you worthless waste of air.

[Anonymous No.10635360]

>>10635355
nta but
>tfw bf looks like this except with pretty long hair and is over 6 ft
NOICE

honestly i'd sooner recommend getting an /fa/ bf than a /cgl/ one, a solid majority of 4chan-using scrotes suck but skinny tall fashionable boys are cute. plus if they're actually /fa/ they're used to dropping $800+ on a single article of clothing and won't bat an eye at getting you a dress (or cosplay if you're into that) as a gift or whatever

[Anonymous No.10635363]

>>10635360
i AM that anon and you basically described my bf as well. he was crossposting in ff thread.

[Anonymous No.10635373]

Reminder to everyone here

[Anonymous No.10635379]

>>10635373
We need a height and weight requirement for guys posting here

[Anonymous No.10635380]

>>10635379
>weight requirement
Same for all the fat women then too

[Anonymous No.10635384]

>>10635380

[Anonymous No.10635457]

>>10635313
We don’t speak spanish, moron

[soup No.10635482]

>>10635457
tu mama bianchi pendejo hue hue

[soup No.10635486]

>>10635482
if you’re reading this JANNY pls don’t ban me I can’t help myself sometimes. I just wanted to show off my Brazilian language abilities

[Anonymous No.10635496]

>>10635457
Fellow brazilin I'm disappointed that you fell for soup's bait, but we all learn eventually (just ignore them)

[Anonymous No.10635497]

>>10635496
*brazilian etc etc

[Anonymous No.10635520]

>>10635482
Mama aqui ó glub glub

[Anonymous No.10635521]

>>10635379
6'0 158lbs here. How do I get a patch for pants made out of an unknown material?

[Anonymous No.10635534]

>>10635521
>6'0 158lbs
If you were an inch taller you'd be a circle.

[Anonymous No.10635536]

>>10635534
Nah I'm more like a long rectangle

[Anonymous No.10635538]

>>10635536
A girthy one?

[Anonymous No.10635539]

>>10635538
No, I'm fairly slim.

[soup No.10635551]

>>10635496
>>10635520
escrevi e sai correndo, pau no cu de quem ta lendo

[Anonymous No.10635567]

>>10635534
what

[Anonymous No.10635599]

>>10633474
Wow, better snap up this deal!

[Anonymous No.10635613]

>>10635599
Jesus imagine whoring yourself out this stupidly while also using zero two as your icon for extra cringe points
Couldn't people just print this out themselves and bring it in?

[Anonymous No.10635616]

>>10633474
There's been cons in the sane parts of burgerstan.

[Anonymous No.10635623]

>>10635599
I shiggydiggy

[Anonymous No.10635634]

Male brains are the cause of sexual entitlement, degeneracy, and rape. It has little to do with their dicks because these limp-cocked or inverted-cocked trannies are even more sex obsessed than your average male. Men wack their dicks to porn constantly, yet their level of depravity only increases exponentially. Trannies are no different in this regard.

Trannies have trained their brains to become even more extreme in indulging their male sexuality. Male sexuality, which is based around dehumanization, depravity, degradation, fixation on specific fetish scenarios, dominance, objectification, novelty, and thrill seeking. They don't need dicks or testosterone to continue their obsession with their twisted view of sex.

Ironically, men "becoming women" is the epitome of male sexuality. Men who chemically and physically castrate themselves are more stereotypically male in thought than men with normal male hormones and working cocks. Trannies become the perpetrators as well as the victims of their own sexualities. Even their performative submission requires humiliating women, either in a meta-AGP way or making some transwidow degrade herself by relenting herself to his fantasies. Let us not forget how prone to narcissism men are, as well. Troonism is so entirely male that when you realize it, it will hit you like a brick.

It's amusing to see how incapable moids are of understanding this concept. Men see TiMs and resent them for becoming "like women", or "like fags". They see troons as ugly, sterile men with broad shoulders. They see troons failed men who rejected their superior male sexuality for the inferior existence of a woman. They hate trannies because their misogynistic view of femininity - not even understanding how misogynistic and stereotypically male every troon is. This is why incels and trannies are one in the same with a different coat of paint. They both carry the same beliefs, only one wears a cheap anime maid dress.

[Anonymous No.10635641]

>>10635599
If I ever find myself paying money to touch tits, just shoot me in the fucking head.

[Anonymous No.10635644]

>>10635599
>$250
You could fuck a decent looking escort for that much

[Anonymous No.10635664]

>>10635644
>be decent looking escort
>charge 400+
no you can't.

[Anonymous No.10635666]

>>10635644
You can bang a thottie for free. If your standards are low enough.

[Anonymous No.10635672]

>>10635664
Guess you're actually a good looking escort

[Anonymous No.10635685]

>finally got over my fear of asking women out
>but now I'm too old to ask girls out at conventions

I'm currently the fittest I've ever been, but by the time the next convention I can go to rolls around I'll be almost 30

[Anonymous No.10635688]

>>10635685
They don't want to be approached b men anyways. It's the number one complaint I hear from women. Even if you're chad, they'd still rather be left alone. The only hooking up at cons happens at hotel parties where pre-existing friend groups intermingle.

[Anonymous No.10635691]

>>10635685
>approaching girls in public
We don't go to conventions to get hit on. If you look like a good time I'll approach you, but if you come up to me it's creepy dude.

[Anonymous No.10635703]

>>10635691
You all say this but most of you have boyfriends, so clearly, at some point, a guy who was a stranger talked to you and you were receptive to it. Just admit that it's only okay if it's chad.

[Anonymous No.10635704]

>>10635703
it's like having a job, you need a friend to refer you. get friends first.

[Anonymous No.10635706]

>>10635685
>approaching girls at all
By default they're all either taken or otherwise not interested.

[Anonymous No.10635708]

>>10635685
Just give up and kill yourself. You were never gonna make it anyways even if covid didn't happen. Nobody will miss you when you're gone scrote.

[Anonymous No.10635709]

>>10635708
Who hurt you anon jfc don't choke on your bitterness

[Anonymous No.10635711]

>>10635709
MEN. Men hurt me.

[Anonymous No.10635712]

>>10635685
There are also girls there that are the same age you realize that right?
Also don't listen to these sour femcel fatties, be strategic about when you talk to girls, don't cold approach but if for example you're standing next to a cutie in the vendor room go ahead and try to make small talk. Or just compliment their cosplay, basic easy shit.
Just be smart about it.

[Anonymous No.10635714]

>>10635712
>There are also girls there that are the same age you realize that right?
There are very few people above 24 at conventions period aside from a few aging creeps. He's out of the age demographic to even show up there, let alone talk to females. What a joke.

[Anonymous No.10635715]

>>10635714
Why are you trying so hard just to be a shithead on the internet?
Couldn't you use your energy to help people instead?

[Anonymous No.10635717]

>>10635715
I am helping people by giving them facts instead of delusional cope. Once you get properly blackpilled, it frees you up to stop caring entirely and focus on other things in your life. As long as you still have a little hope, you will continue to waste all your energy fruitlessly chasing after women that hate you and want nothing to do with you. Get a real hobby (wearing costumes is not a real hobby), get a dog for companionship, get a better paying job, and enjoy your single life.

[Anonymous No.10635718]

>>10635717
>women that hate you and want nothing to do with you
Don't you think maybe you're just projecting?

[Anonymous No.10635719]

>>10635711
So you need to tell random strangers on the internet to kill themselves because of you own bitterness i.e. fuelling the hatred men have for us because they can't even talk to a woman without her telling him to die for existing?
Congrats your part of the problem, asshole.

[Anonymous No.10635720]

>>10635718
nta, but this man is nearly THIRTY and is talking about picking up girls at cons. He is the biggest incel in this thread. Hell, I'm a dude and even I would steer clear of any man over 22 that hasn't gotten their dick wet at least once. There's seriously something wrong with someone like that. They are literally a defective and failed human.

[Anonymous No.10635721]

>>10635719
Simple solution: don't fucking talk to women.

[Anonymous No.10635723]

>>10635721
What bubble do you live in where you actually want men and women to never interact
Some of us aren't man hating lesbians or sexist hags just because toxic masculinity and the patriarchy suck ass
Go see a therapist and get over your trauma

[Anonymous No.10635724]

>>10635720
Nice try femcel
There's nothing defective about having social anxiety and being late to the game like that guy.
There however is something very wrong with someone who would call another human they don't even know defective or a failure.
You need to go to church or something and stop being so bitter.

[Anonymous No.10635725]

>>10635724
There's something wrong with any dude who's still a virgin past the age of 18, let alone almost fucking 30. That's straight up a genetic dead end.

[Anonymous No.10635726]

>>10635725
That anon never even said anything about being a virgin, what exactly is wrong with you that you need to go on this bizarre tirade?

[Anonymous No.10635727]

>>10635688
>>10635691
>>10635706
This is basically what I already think is the case, which is why I almost never initiate. I have been approached irl before, but it's happened very few times and I fucked it up most times due to a lack of experience.

>>10635712
>>10635720
I'm not really asking for guidance, I'm just here to air my grievances since this is a feels thread. There are other better places for people in my age group to meet other people at (that I'm unaware of, but I've heard going to meetups is a good option), but it's the experience of getting a con gf (or for that matter a cosplayer gf) I'm sad I'll never properly experience.

[Anonymous No.10635730]

>>10635720
>They are literally a defective and failed human.
>coming from a /cgl/ poster

[Anonymous No.10635732]

>>10635727
If you tell yourself you'll never do something then no shit you never will
Your clear lack of self esteem seems to be your biggest problem

[Anonymous No.10635733]

>>10635726
I think they're trying to play cyberbully. Kinda sad desu.

[Anonymous No.10635736]

>>10635725
>all men care about is sex
>eww virgins are gross kys
femcel logic.

[Anonymous No.10635737]

Thanks for reminding me why I'll die alone with a bunch of half-finished project cars in my shed

[Anonymous No.10635740]

>>10635737
Go finish those cars faggot

[Anonymous No.10635741]

>>10635740
A project car is never finished

[Anonymous No.10635746]

>>10635685
Lmao I'm 24 and I'm still not over the fear of looking awkward in front of strangers, so my flirting is nonexistent.

[Anonymous No.10635755]

>>10635691
>tfw the most successful approach I've ever used is just walking up and saying hello

[Anonymous No.10635757]

>>10635737
Nigga fuck a car. You can buy a used airplane for the price of a new car. Fuck, you can even buy a functional Mig-21, a fucking mach 2 capable jet fighter, for two hundred thousand

[Anonymous No.10635758]

>>10635757
Can I get that shit on layaway?

[Anonymous No.10635760]

>go to panel at con for the first time in over a year
>panel host spend 5 minutes explaining the pronouns of a fictional anime character
are all panels going to be like this now?

[Anonymous No.10635764]

>>10635712
>if for example you're standing next to a cutie in the vendor room go ahead and try to make small talk. Or just compliment their cosplay, basic easy shit.
Holy shit, please tell me what cons you go to, I need to see this shitshow

[Anonymous No.10635766]

Quite a nasty scrote infestation in this thread. Extra whiny ones too. Ew.

[Anonymous No.10635767]

>>10635764
I know right? It's so fucking cringe. I hope no one actually does this.

[Anonymous No.10635769]

>>10635703
>just admit it’s only ok if the guy is good looking, can hold a conversation, has a stable career and handles his shit, knows how to fuck, dresses well, cares about his health and looks, and doesn't perpetually loom like he’s waiting for his mom to pick him up from GameStop… ADMIT YOUR HYPOCRISY YOU ROASTIE!

[Anonymous No.10635770]

>>10635767
No, they do it, and it’s ducking painful. Stop wasting my time, I’m in artist alley to buy art, not have some creep try to make clearly unwelcome small talk.

[Anonymous No.10635771]

>>10635714
>There are very few people above 24 at conventions period
Not at all true. Anime cons definitely skew young, pop culture and comic cons definitely have a lot of 24+ people. Even at anime cons, there are plenty of 24+ people, but mostly people working as con staff, in vendor/artist hall, hosting panels, etc.

[Anonymous No.10635772]

No wonder you people have no fucking friends

[Anonymous No.10635773]

>>10635770
Scrotes will be scrotes.

[Anonymous No.10635774]

>>10635772
Cope

[Anonymous No.10635775]

>>10635770
do you people have Asperger's?
small talk is what normal people do in social settings

[Anonymous No.10635777]

>>10635775
Do you have autism? Just because you can talk to people doesn’t mean they want to talk to you.

[Anonymous No.10635778]

>>10635775
You're just a fucking scrote who feels entitled to someone else's time and attention. Leave women alone you creep!

[Anonymous No.10635779]

>>10635777
and how would I know that if I don't interact with them? Should I assume everyone I meet is an angsty anti-social aspie like you?
>>10635778
take your risperdal and take a shower holy shit

[Anonymous No.10635781]

>>10635779
Body language, what they’re currently doing, where you are, holy shit dude I teach straight up retarded children who have a better grasp on this than you. This is not hard, no one but you and a couple other con creeps have a problem understanding this.

[Anonymous No.10635783]

>>10635781
not everyone is going to be giving off those signals so what would the problem be with making small talk with someone who seems willing?
Your claim is that all small talk at cons is bad, in what fucking world does that make any sense?

[Anonymous No.10635794]

>>10635783
Not all small talk at cons is bad. All small talk initiated by moids towards women is bad. It's not that complicated. Leave women alone creep.

[Anonymous No.10635802]

>>10635766
The absolute state of this e-girl asuka edit.
Retch.

[Anonymous No.10635811]

>>10635708
shiggy

[Anonymous No.10635813]

>>10635778
>how dare you feel entitled to someone else's time!
holy shit I keep forgetting people like you exist
Please stay at home for the rest of eternity
>>10635777
technically true and nice trips, but if you can't make it clear you don't want to be talked to in the first few sentences of responding to someone you're probably just as autistic as them, just a woman.

[Anonymous No.10635822]

I like it when randos talk to me at cons uwu

[Anonymous No.10635823]

plis sir how i get woman? my hobby: i dancing, basket weaving and drinking tanqueray gin. thanks you.

[Anonymous No.10635845]

>>10635775
>, I am entitled to at least initiate a conversation with you.

Not her but no. No you are not. No woman owes you her time. No stranger owes you anything, scrote

[Anonymous No.10635857]

>>10635845
Who are you quoting?

[Anonymous No.10635858]

>>10635794
You have issues, see a therapist

[Anonymous No.10635861]

>>10635858
creep

[Anonymous No.10635862]

>>10635858
nah you're just weird and gross

[Anonymous No.10635867]

>>10635858
How hard is it to comprehend that women aren't interested in "making smalltalk" with random creeps?

[Anonymous No.10635868]

>>10635858
You're getting ratio'd so bad. Just give up and accept that you're wrong.

[Anonymous No.10635919]

>bf puts on cat ears and lays down next to me when he gets home
Everything is going according to keikaku

[Anonymous No.10635927]

>>10635685
Its unironically easier to pick up a non nerdy woman outside of cons and pull her into the fandom. Even getting a girl from work is easier.

[Anonymous No.10635936]

>>10635927
>girl from work
>I work from home and live by myself
Lol

[Anonymous No.10635937]

>>10635919
Whats the next step of your master plan?

[Anonymous No.10635941]

>>10635937
A collar with a bell, maybe a tail plug

[Anonymous No.10635944]

>>10635936
I work from home as well and still got a gf. I met her through a cycling club.

Where do you live because location kinda matters.

[soup No.10635947]

>>10635941
mind as well full send and get 2 furry suits

[Anonymous No.10635948]

>>10635944
In a heavily populated area, so it looks like my prior statement about meetups is my best bet right now. I've already been hitting the gym a lot to try to lose what little weight I gained during the lockdowns as well as to grow a lot of muscle, so it looks like I just have to stick with my current plan and after several months I should start seeing results if I go to meetups. Still, it's missing out on this sort of thing when I was younger that's the worst part, but the comments in this thread that were posted ever since my initial reply make me think that I dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous No.10635957]

For everyone who doesn’t know where to look for a gf or bf, dating apps are a good idea. It can be frustrating sometimes, but hitting on people irl can also be frustrating, it’s a part of the dating game.

Take nice pictures, describe interesting stuff that can strike a conversation in your bio, try and have a nice conversation without being all about finding the other person attractive until you find a little bit about each other and go grab a coffee together given your country is safe from rona. If things go well, you will soon be Netflix and chilling and may even engage in a relationship.

Also, for all that’s sacred, no depreciative comments about yourself. I know most here have low self steem, but no one knows how to answer this shit or wants to do emotional labor for a stranger, you are just making things weird, let your self steem problems for the future when both of you will know enough about which other to actually care.

[Anonymous No.10635958]

>>10633935
Women are only caregivers to children. That's because of narcissism, not empathy. You see children as possessions or an extension of yourselves. They're your belongings, your accessories, and you care for them the way you care for an expensive purse. They make you look good, so you want to maintain them.
You don't care about your people, your culture, the elderly, or the men who created every modern convenience you excessively indulge in. Calling women caregivers is disgraceful. They only care for things that make them look good.

[Anonymous No.10635962]

>>10635957
>grab a coffee
I never understood this part about dating. On the few dates I've been on, I took the girl I was with to restaurants instead and didn't have any problems with this. Everyone says that coffee is better because you can escape easier if the person is dreadful to talk with, but to me, if I'm at a restaurant with someone I'm not really into, at least there's great food for me to distract myself with

[Anonymous No.10635964]

>>10635958
Kek the projection

[Anonymous No.10635965]

>>10635964
Women also lack self-awareness

[Anonymous No.10635967]

>>10635947
No that's weird

[Anonymous No.10635968]

>>10635962
I tend to go to art expos or the cinema, never actually had the unpleasant experience of meeting someone who turns out to be dreadful, the worst that happened to me was that the person was boring and had bad breath, but then we didn’t kiss and the movie was cool so whatever.
Only suggested coffee because it seems to be the norm so in case you don’t know what to do, coffee is a good idea, not a rule. If you find someone who is enough of a weeb you can even meet at a con and fulfill the con girlfriend dream that the other anon seems to have.

[Anonymous No.10635972]

>>10635957
the few people I do match with, its nearly impossible to talk to because idk the person and its an online chat. Its hard for me to actually want to put effort into it too since its just some random person I have no connection with.
The last person I matched with on bumble started out with "we have nothing in common, but you look cool"... idk how to go from there exactly... I tried to find some common interested but she was right, we had nothing.
Its incredibly easy for me to make friends, but no one actually wants to date me. Like at cons people will come up and talk to me all the time, but none of them actually are interested in dating me.

[Anonymous No.10635978]

>>10635958
This is scientifically incorrect. Women are biologically programmed to be nurturers. It isn’t because of narcissism, it’s because of how we’ve evolved. And we've evolved to be nurturing and empathetic. Women in general have higher emotional intelligence and are better at forming social bonds.

[Anonymous No.10635983]

>>10635978
no. not at all, it's all socialization.

[Anonymous No.10635984]

>>10635958
Chill
Woman aren’t a cruel hive mind and the world isn’t that terrible. Go seek some therapy to deal with the bad relationship you had with your mother and that one girl that was mean to you and maybe you can live a better quality life without being angry at half of the population.

[Anonymous No.10635985]

>>10635957
Don't forget: juts b. Urself!

[Anonymous No.10635988]

>>10635958
>You see children as possessions or an extension of yourselves.
No, that's men. Men only want children to continue their bloodline and keep family power. This is why males were wanted more than female children. It's literally built into you that you breed as often as possible throughout the year and leave. There's nothing in you biologically that tells you to actually care for your children like women have.
>You don't care about your people, your culture, the elderly
I find this funny because most careworkers are women and there's even a wave of feminism trying to include men to help them.

Your projection is so backwards it's hilarious.

[Anonymous No.10635990]

>>10635868
You just replied to the same post multiple times and never made a real argument

[Anonymous No.10635999]

>>10635957
dating apps suck not gonna lie, especially for dudes
you're constantly competing with hundreds of other dudes whenever you message a woman, it just rubs me the wrong way
meeting someone IRL it's just them and you

[Anonymous No.10636022]

>>10635957
I get with more and prettier girls by just strolling up and saying hello for the effort than I do with tinder

[Anonymous No.10636032]

>>10636022
where do you go to do this?

[Anonymous No.10636041]

>>10636032
Bars, gallery shows, concerts, sometimes street festivals, group bike rides, anywhere normal for strangers to socialize strangers

[Anonymous No.10636046]

>>10636041
seems like you would only meet normie women in places like that, what about those of us who want an aspie gf?

[Anonymous No.10636047]

>>10635999
I know a fair amount of dudes who get laid often enough and some who got into long lasting relationships through dating apps. You might feel it’s hard or whatever to compete with a bunch of other dudes, but most of them are absolutely incapable of maintaining a conversation so it’s really not that many competitors if you are somewhat decent.
If you rather go face to face, that’s up to you. Dating apps just make things more practical in my opinion and may help the ones having a hard time socializing.

[Anonymous No.10636054]

>>10636047
I need better pictures before I attempt online dating again

[Anonymous No.10636055]

>>10636046
Just pick the right concerts and keep your eyes open for aspie artists. Trust me; there's plenty of female aspie artists.

[Anonymous No.10636085]

>>10635958
Explain how women put up with Hobosexuals then.

[Anonymous No.10636211]

>>10633474
>in my comm's group chat
>some girl shows off a meat and sauce dish she made for her bf
>everyone falls all over themselves telling her how good it looks
>mfw the autistic kid says "This looks like when I get diarrhea on my period."

[Anonymous No.10636217]

>>10636211
Based

[Anonymous No.10636222]

>>10636211
Kek. Absolutely based.

[Anonymous No.10636226]

>>10636211
absolutely based

[Anonymous No.10636233]

>>10636217
>>10636222
>>10636226
Cringed zoomer samefag

[Anonymous No.10636261]

how tf did this turn into a dating advice thread
scrotes have got to go

[Anonymous No.10636267]

>>10636085
Most don’t, some looney broads do

[Anonymous No.10636296]

>>10636211
savage autismo.

[Anonymous No.10636307]

>>10636047
>but most of them are absolutely incapable of maintaining a conversation
Man I wish this weren't me. I guess I'm kinda the opposite of a lot of people, I'm good company in real life but really struggle with the online stuff, the weird pace of conversation and lack of physical cues really fucks me up and I think I get psyched out by the fact that it's a dating site and not just a natural friendly conversation that might evolve into something else. Doesn't help that most of these sites are smartphone-only either, I can carry on pretty naturally with a real keyboard where typing is second nature to me but typing on a touchscreen really takes me out of the flow and frustrates the hell out of me.

[Anonymous No.10636333]

>>10635719
youre just weak, kys

[Anonymous No.10636334]

>>10636261
Because /cgl/ has women on it

[Anonymous No.10636335]

>>10635719
why are you blaming a woman for mens inability to think that obviously not all women are like that> If you think a random anon is at fault for that youre just as bad as every other pick me out there. Not our fault for men being pedophiles, murdering, abusive rapists, and manipulators who have hurt and enslaved women since practically time began. fucking handmaidens

[Anonymous No.10636384]

>>10636335
See a therapist or just stew on a femcel subreddit. Either way, it's not /cgl/ related feels.

[Anonymous No.10636387]

>>10635719
Kys

[Anonymous No.10636388]

>>10635719
*you're

stupid ho

[Anonymous No.10636389]

>>10635721
Honestly, if men and women never interacted it would solve so many problems. Just take the gay pill.

[Anonymous No.10636394]

>>10635719
Maybe they should die just for existing. And so should you, scrote.

[Anonymous No.10636401]

The internet was a mistake. I am leaving this website. God grant me the strength to stay away for good this time.

[Anonymous No.10636402]

>>10636401
See you tomorrow faggot

[Anonymous No.10636403]

>>10636401
Exit this world too if you're a scrote.

[Anonymous No.10636430]

tfw have never gone to a con and now am just a weird old person with no friends
also tfw I've never had a relationship or any emotional intimacy b/c untreated severe mental illness (schizophrenia)
I want con friends and also not-con friends and also not to be a complete drain on society but it all seems so impossible
even now that I am relatively stable to how I used to be I feel like I am impossibly far behind other people in terms of establishing social ties, financial wealth/independence, and human satisfaction so I feel so guilty whenever I spend time or money working towards fun stuff like cosplay
like
it's a waste of money isn't it? especially if it's money spent on me. shouldn't I be working towards catching up to other people instead?

my one and only skill is to cook nice home meals
I used to be smart enough to do things but the schizo literally filled my brain with holes and the meds remove all of my motivation so it's a double ended btfo of destruction levied upon me and my ability to complete projects
get me out get me out get me out get me out get me out get me out get me out
>>10635771
tfw 26 and have comparatively no interest in pop culture or comic cons
kill me please

[Anonymous No.10636449]

>>10636430
Anon, your biggest mistake is comparing yourself to others. Not everyone reaches arbitrary goalposts at the same time. Hell, some people never do, and some people do not want to. Learn to focus on yourself. Better yourself as you are and do things you want to do for yourself and be content in that. As long as you are working towards bettering yourself and becoming the best version of you as possible, that is all that matters. Get into hobbies, hone skills, maybe force yourself to work out or do something like learn a new skill or a new language. It can be hard with no motivation, I know, but just be consistent and your time will pay off. Above all, stop comparing yourself to others. You are YOU, not the millions of others out there.

[Anonymous No.10636479]

>>10636430
Are you a girl or guy? Hard for me to tell based on your post because this thread has way more moids than usual.

If you're a girl you can get away with going to cons a lot older (up to 30). Older guys are looked down on for being creeps and manchildren. This isn't a problem for you if you're a woman. Now, eventually you will start to show your age appearance-wise which will make you look out of place. But the line for that isn't until 30+, when you hit the wall. Really the main issue will be the generation gap between you and the other con-goers. If you can still talk with and relate with 18-22 year olds then you will be fine. You sound like you're mentally younger than your actual age anyways, due to your lack of significant life experience.

Nothing you listed about your personal life, being behind other people, etc., is not a problem (if you're female), you can work past that easily. Well maybe not easily, but you can catch up with others and et yourself in a better and more fulfilling life situation if you keep working at it. Statistically speaking, women have much better outcomes longterm for mental illnesses like schizophrenia. If you're a man you should just kill yourself though, you're fucked beyond all hope and cons are the least of your worries.

[Anonymous No.10636486]

feeling kind of weird. been mentioned on here multiple times, indirectly but still, it is increasing my urge to delete all my social media and become a true lonelita. I never imagined when I found cgl as a teen I would be posted about by someone else some day. I don't really like the idea that I may start to stand out in the lolita community. standing out amongst normies is fine but I really don't want to be known in this community even if its for positive reasons. after 10+ years on this board I am sure I do not want any part of the bullshit that comes with being even vaguely well known amongst lolitas.

[soup No.10636495]

pee pee poo poo well at least I'm in a good mood today

[Anonymous No.10636496]

>>10635056
>>10635102
Como é a cena brasileira de cosplay e cons atualmente?

Sou um pouco mais velho que média (28 anos), quando eu era adolescente eu tinha uma vergonha alheia gigantesca dos otakus, apesar de que eu já gostava muito de animes, visitava o /a/, etc., desde meus 13. Isso me deixou com uma visão meio negativa desses eventos e do pessoal, queria saber se mudou o perfil ou não, eu tenho até vontade mas fico com o pé atrás.

[Anonymous No.10636539]

>>10636479
They type like a girl

[Anonymous No.10636553]

>>10636479
>If you're a girl you can get away with going to cons a lot older (up to 30). Older guys are looked down on for being creeps and manchildren.
>if you're a man you should just kill yourself though, you're fucked beyond all hope and cons are the least of your worries.
I'm so glad our society reached gender equality

[Anonymous No.10636556]

>early Morning
>My Mom needs me to drive her to work
>She asks me some heavy ass questions on the freeway that i could barely answer
>Drive home down and feel like my day is already ruined

[Anonymous No.10636560]

>>10633474
>"The first con after covid is gonna be a bunch of ners suffering anxiety attacks trying to remember how to talk to strangers" edition.
FIFY

[soup No.10636568]

being autistic it’s already hard for me to recognize facial features but now people are using apps like faceapp to look younger and even switch genders! I came across this lolita on Instagram that I thought was pretty kawaii judging from her Instagram posts. yk she had everything a soup could ask for cute face and big bobas. I decided to slip into her dm’s to work my magic but from past experiences I knew that before you take it to the next step you gotta facetime. every time I brought up ft she always dodge it coming up with an excuse. I knocked it off as her being shy but as someone who’s used to getting dodge by ppl in league whenever I joined their lobby I held strong. she finally agreed and answered my call. when the click went through and I was going to finally be able to erp after holding on for so long mfer it’s sexy baby. suffering. yeah I get using makeup to cover up some blemishes but picture filters should be a crime. I had to pull up their insta post to finish the erp sesh.

[Anonymous No.10636573]

>>10636479
>telling someone with schizophrenia to kill themselves when we have working treatment for it

are you people all actual psychopaths or something?

[Anonymous No.10636576]

>>10636573
moids were a mistake and the world would be a better place with less of them

[Anonymous No.10636580]

>>10636576
you need to seek religion or something this is not a way to live

[Anonymous No.10636595]

>>10636576
word

[Anonymous No.10636619]

>>10636556
I hate when people do that, like I dont see driving you as a huge favor but could you just not break my balls? What'd she ask you anyways?

[Anonymous No.10636623]

I've been doing my best at uni because I know that a good grade can open up opportunities and I want to make good money so I can spend on my hobbies. Today, I crunched some numbers to see if it is possible for me to get first class honours, and it turns out that it isn't. It's a bit disheartening to know that I won't be able to get first class even if I scored straight As for the next 2 years, but I guess now I'll just have to do my best at maintaining my second upper.

[Anonymous No.10636632]

first time fucking around in cgl, holy shit this board looks like a dumpster fire crossroad between r9k and cc

>>10636430
same age, i have gone to a single con in my entire life 8 years ago and it was a really shitty experience and i am way too socially anxious or embarrassed to go to another one because i'm too old for it. it's upsetting seeing so many people already have gotten it out of their system, while i just kinda sat around as an introverted autist
really just seems like there's no point in going anymore

i'm stuck in that same limbo between youth and adult life. i'm a bit ahead of you in the "catching up" part, but it really isn't bringing me happiness, because "adult life" and "catching up" is just a competitive rat race.

>I feel so guilty whenever I spend time or money working towards fun stuff like cosplay
it really depends on how much money you have. the difference between minimum wage and 50k is huge. the difference between 100k and 200k is pretty insignificant

[Anonymous No.10636660]

>>10636632
>the difference between 100k and 200k is pretty insignificant
Compared to the gap between 20k and 50k sure, but im making 120k and I can say there's a huge gap between me and 200k

[Anonymous No.10636671]

>>10636660
when you're making 120k your hobbies make up less of a percentage of your income. i think if you feel bad about indulging in your hobbies on 10k a month you'll feel bad indulging in it at 20k a month as well
i don't actually know how much cosplay costs though and i am also projecting. i made about 140k last year and i really don't think i would be much happier if i made 280k. it wouldn't open any doors for me, just make me feel slightly less insecure about myself

[Anonymous No.10636672]

>>10636671
Should have mentioned im not the poster you replied to, sue me massin

[Anonymous No.10636673]

>>10636660
i mean in terms of hobby spending. after a certain income level you can indulge in your hobby since it's not impacting your ability to live or pay bills. but i don't really know how much cosplay costs, so maybe it does still completely break the bank at 10k a month
more money is useful if you're looking to retire early or do something big, but that's really it. so maybe "pretty insignificant" is not the best phrase. but i think that going from 20k to 50k is a huge happiness boost compared to going from 100k to 200k

>>10636672
i figured

[Anonymous No.10636731]

I’m having a hard time parting with my pieces in my wardrobe and it’s becoming frustrating. During quarantine I got used to the fashion no longer being a big part of my life anymore or giving attention to my local community. I’ve been able to focus my money into other interests, things I wanted and goals I wanted to achieve so it’s been nice. However, with things going back to somewhat normal in my area meets are happening again, I still intend on wearing the fashion but I’ve found it hard to downsize. I spent so much time and money collecting certain dresses and items to pair perfectly with them without getting the chance to wear them before quarantine. I’ve actually been wanting to move to a different style that is more comfortable and easier to wear for me now but again, I’m having difficulty letting go of these dresses. I’ll even make mock coords to convince myself not to sell them knowing very well I don’t even like the way a dress my currently look on myself or doesn’t suit me, etc. I just put so much pride in the collection I have now that it seems impossible to let it go.

What can I do to help get over this? How can I get rid of this attachment to these clothes?

[Anonymous No.10636733]

>>10636430
>>10636632
26 is not too old, get off your asses and go. There are plenty of 20 and 30 somethings at cons, they are the majority of attendees.

[Anonymous No.10636740]

>>10636731
maybe think through exactly which feature of the piece you like. for example if you like the pearls on it, only keep your one favorite piece with pearls and sell the rest. if you like a print but not necessarily as a dress, then print a copy of it and put it in a scrapbook or embroider a copy of it and hang it on your wall, then sell the dress. also remember it's ok to feel negative emotions. be sad. it'll pass.

[Anonymous No.10636764]

>>10636632
This board is just /r9k/ with frills

[Anonymous No.10636798]

>>10636211
Was it Girlyhoot?

[Anonymous No.10636811]

I'm feeling really good about leaving lolita and switching to a more casual j-goth style. Nothing against it, but I felt like I didn't look or feel right in it. I even feel happy about selling my pieces to new people. They're going somewhere they'll be worn and loved instead of sitting in the very back of my closet.

[Anonymous No.10636817]

>>10636764
How? The man hate?

[Anonymous No.10636858]

>>10636619
>What'd she ask you anyways?

A Series of questions one after the other


>Mom: I was looking at jobs at the internet and seems like youre too under paid for your position
Me: And? Do you want me to quit my current company and look for another one
>Mom: I don’t know, why don’t you back to college so you can apply for a bigger title/pay
Me: I don’t have the time to do work and study at the same and its too hard. Not to mention getting into the program is already hard. I dont want to take on student debt
>Mom: Here’s a good idea, why dont you go to college/uni during the day and just work during the night
Me: *disagree quietly while focusing on the road*

Minutes later
>Mom: Your well-off sister decides that in the future she will instead retire in the philippines instead of the USA because its expensive, What about you, do you want to go back to the philippines when you get older
Me: I don’t know! Sure i will if she agrees to take me in

There are a few questions but im too tired of how powerless my personal situation is

Hate these existential crisis causing talks when were in the middle of rush hour traffic at 65mph

[Anonymous No.10636897]

>>10636573
If all scrotes killed themselves, the world would be a better place.

[Anonymous No.10636900]

>>10636740
Thank you, anon. Reading this already helps a lot and will given me a better outlook on this process.

[Anonymous No.10636903]

>>10636632
>first time fucking around in cgl, holy shit this board looks like a dumpster fire crossroad between r9k and cc
What do you expect from a board that's 50/50 genderwise on 4chan. Every moid on this site is a coomer incel and any woman that would come here is severely mentally ill and drinks too much radfem kool-aid. The fact that these threads devolve into embarrassing and childish shit-flinging between incels and femcels is not surprising.

[Anonymous No.10637140]

/cgl/ has become a cross between Lipstick Alley and FDS withh a cosplay bent.

[Anonymous No.10637153]

>>10636764
Crystal Cafe, or what it used to be, is a better comparison

[Anonymous No.10637342]

>>10637140
I think it's just >>10636897

[Anonymous No.10637387]

I have these old pants that have been discontinued for many years, but they've got rips and tears. I want to repair them, but I have no idea where to start since I have no clue what material they are. I've tried looking up "ems hiking pants" but all the newer ones are made of different material. And not as good. To make it more difficult, my older ones are made of two different types of material, a soft inner layer and a more durable outer shell with some degree of waterproofing.
Would it be possible for me to identify the material (since I assume photos won't be be of any help) and potentially buy more material to repair the pants properly? Or should I just get some patches and go hobo mode?

[Anonymous No.10637519]

>>10637342
>>10637342
That means LSA and FDS shitters have moved here. Bitter women are drowning out the sane ones.

[Anonymous No.10637544]

>package arrives from Japan today. Super excited
>get the "you're an adult now, why are you spending so much money on children's stuff" comment from parent
>happiness tainted
It was just some badges and artbooks, nothing "childlike" but all anime is children's media in my mom's eyes and though I really am trying to let it bounce off my shoulders, receiving judgement from one's parent is really sour. Big sad.

[Anonymous No.10637575]

>>10637544
What artbooks did you get? Coffee-table-esque stuff like that is about as far from "childlike" as it gets, but I suppose I can spare a miniscule shred of empathy with her over the badges.

[Anonymous No.10637616]

>>10637544
Move out already

[Anonymous No.10637625]

>>10637616
I'm working on it! Moments like these reignite the fire under my ass to get things moving. I'm mostly at the mercy of time at this point though.

>>10637575
I bought two Fruits Basket artbooks. One is in the 2009 anime artstyle and the other is the reboot Season 2 art style. To be fair, I didn't open the package in front of her so she doesn't know what I bought anyway. Though I can imagine seeing japanese mangos wouldn't really make a difference in her impression lol. I think she just associates anime with another type of cartoon and "cartoon=kids' stuff" so here I am.

>but I suppose I can spare a miniscule shred of empathy with her over the badges.
Unfortunately I agree. If my kid was spending a sizeable amount of money on the equivalent to buttons from Hot Topic with funky looking characters on it, I'd probably raise a brow too.

[Anonymous No.10637701]

>whole thread of one shitter from FDS whining about men
I'd bitch but I think I'll save it for next thread, I don't want some bitter fatty-chan instigating a fight with me.

[Anonymous No.10637773]

Whenever Moitie releases something new, I keep thinking, damn, that's boring, I'm not buying that. And yet later I find myself buying lots of Moitie...

[Anonymous No.10637788]

>>10637701
do tell

[Anonymous No.10637802]

>>10637544
>>10637625
That sucks, I hope you get a nice place to decorate.

[Anonymous No.10637846]

>>10637802
Thank you, that actually warms my heart.

[Anonymous No.10637912]

>>10636733
i always thought the majority was in the 18-24 age group. a lot of my friends regularly went to cons every year nonstop and they kinda just stopped as they got older

>>10637625
>I'm mostly at the mercy of time at this point though.
i plan on trying to move out around 27 or so, but only if i can justify it by finding work away from home

[Anonymous No.10637946]

>>10637912
Same. I want to move out before 30, but my future career is really going to be calling the shots on that one. Best of luck to the both of us I suppose!

[Anonymous No.10638048]

>having a nice day
>remember casual sex exists
>day ruined

[Anonymous No.10638471]

>>10637544
If its your money then its none of her business

Mfkers act like you bought cocaine/meth

[Anonymous No.10639048]

>>10634408
you should definitely break up with your SO. If you survive being alone for one month then you have passed the ultimate test of life and you are worthy to continue living and get back with your boyfriend. IF YOU FAIL... it was simply meant to be, you are not strong enough to survive in this universe.