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>SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES THREAD

Cgl share your worst love experiences with otakus, cosplayers, weboos, fags, losers >CON PEOPLE

>> No.7122130

I was ignorant and went shirtless at a con as an in-shape male with visible abs once

Needless to say I learned my mistake and have never made it again

>> No.7122132

Went as Poison Ivy, and was the smallest one there. An asshole tried to pick me up for a picture. Did not help that he was total neckbeard and smelly as all shit like damn.

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>>7122111
>weboos
I don't know why but the pronunciation of that typo just make me crack up so bad

>> No.7122173

i had a weeb back in school stab me because she had to get the faeries to protect me from the demons and ninjas, but thats about it.
Nothing con specific tho.

>> No.7122176

i don't have any but i'd still like to fuck a hot cosplay chick

>> No.7122178 [DELETED] 

The main thing popping into my head right now was an annoying neckbeard who showed up to gaming club yesterday at my university
>he's covered in peach fuzz and acne
>lanky, has braces and coke-bottle glasses
>said "I don't do facebook" in an oddly smug tone when I told him to join the club's FB group for updates
>acted like he was the first person to discover PokeMMO
>Was nagging everyone to join at the same time as him so we could "have a contest to see who could level up the fastest!"
>spent the whole time playing on his laptop in the back corner

>> No.7122199

I saw someone cosplay as roll at a con one time and wanted to cosplay as megaman just to hang out with her more...

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It's always particularly fun to deal with two middle aged Otaku (in every sense of the Japanese definition) where I live. They constantly plaster all over the local conventions wall (That is sci-fi oriented) to bring Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, or Morning Musumune to the con. Not to mention they always turn every conversation into a long rambly conversation about japan, including talking about how amazing and perfect Japan is, and we should all strive to be more like the Japanese.

A local girl has a small shop importing japanese fashion, and he likes to think she has some sort of crazy pull to bring big bands all because he was so generous to introduce her to a Japanese ambassador.
It's also hilarious to watch him go on rants about how high speed internet is a scam (his dial up is pretty fast! lol) and how HD anything is crap.

>> No.7122265

Having a way older otaku (it could be pedofilia) saying how I saved he's life, and was his light.
I didn't want nothing with him so aparently I am a whore

>> No.7122343

>>7122265
Had someting similar with this dude that kept asking for my photo at con when I was cosplaying. Until I heard someone saying to him "congrats ur gf is so cute" and i didn't know if to yell at everybody or just hide from him forever.

>> No.7122374

Well, a self-described "65% gay" guy stroked my boyfriend's nipples through his shirt in a hallway, then asked to watch us have sex. Handsome guy, but that was weird as fuck.

>> No.7122548

>>7122130
Details please. I'm going to guess unwanted attention and innappropriate touching from ugly people?

>> No.7122558

Well, I randomly dressed as Cirno and was hugged by a short Marisa cosplay with an accent.

Pretty good feeling.

>> No.7122560

Jesus you guys are vain as hell. God forbid someone "violate" you with their presence.

Get rekt, faglords

Love,
/jp/

>> No.7122559 [DELETED] 

joined a group of happy tree friends cosplayers
took the girl doing flaky up to my room later
it just so happens that flaky is my favorite character from the show
yep

>> No.7122561 [DELETED] 

>>7122558
I see what you did there!

>> No.7122580 [DELETED] 

>>7122560
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2013/09/14/cops-hunt-man-for-listening-to-walkman/
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2011/12/26/police-hunt-man-for-walking-in-street/
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2012/06/22/police-hunt-man-for-standing-at-station/
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2013/09/12/maori-thrown-out-of-onsen-for-tattoo/
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/2012/03/05/osaka-if-you-have-a-tattoo-your-values-are-messed-up/

Just like in your beloved Japan.
Weboo status: Buttfaglordized

>> No.7122592

>>7122265
Made friends with huge otaku in 9th grade. He didn't have any friends and was socially inept and kinda creepy not to mention fat and unfortunate looking. I integrated him into my group of friends cause "hey people who like video games and anime should be friends, we like the same things!" Mistake.

As expected, you can't be nice to neckbeards cause it automatically means you MUST be attracted to them. I told him I wanted nothing to do with him relationship wise but we could always be friends if he wanted. He went full rage mode calling me a whore and then broke down crying and saying he would kill himself.

I got a boyfriend shortly after, whom he attacked at a party while piss drunk. You would think after getting the shit beat out of him he would stop? No. He proceeded to stalk me up till University where he started making up rumors about me (or trying to). Fortunately people just saw him as a creepy neckbeard who was butt hurt and proceeded to bully him until he dropped out of Uni.

He tried to contact me several times after that through facebook, text messages and he even called my house. He kept saying he was in love with me and then he said I ruined him. I of course blocked him to hell. He finally stopped when my dad picked up the phone and threatened to put a restraining order on him.

Its been 3 years and not a sign of him. I hope he isn't plotting to murder me.

Never

>> No.7122596

>>7122592
Oops submitted before I finished.
*Never again will I be friends with an antisocial neckbeard.

>> No.7122602 [DELETED] 

>>7122592
Well done, stupid bitch. You being a superficial cunt destroyed a life. If you had just seen his internal beauty, this could have been a happy story, and you wouldn't have to look over your back for the rest of your life afraid of him retaliating for some of the damage you inflicted on his heart and mind.

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>>7122602
lolzarooniekinz

>> No.7122622 [DELETED] 

>>7122615
>>7122592
You deserve to be killed, your head put on display for everyone to spit on

>> No.7122627

>>7122622
ITT: you're either a neckbeard who's done the same thing to another innocent girl, or you are that guy.

>> No.7122631 [DELETED] 

>>7122627
Kill yourself.

>> No.7122634

>>7122631
Stage 5 clinger stalker confirmed.

>> No.7122637 [DELETED] 

>>7122634
Kill yourself.

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>>7122602
>>7122622
>>7122631

I'm so glad these guys will never mate.

>> No.7122647 [DELETED] 

>>7122646
Kill yourself.

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>>7122647
I fucking love this board. Makes me glad I found my perfect guy way back in highschool.

>> No.7122659 [DELETED] 

>>7122657
Kill yourself.

>> No.7122660

I never knew /cgl/ had some many egomaniacs. I thought /fit/ was the board for that. It's kind of cute here though since I imagine the posters here as thin and pale :3.

Learned something today!

>> No.7122662

>>7122602
>>7122622
>>7122631
>>7122637
>>7122647
>>7122659
Same fucking fag. Can the janitor delete these posts or something?

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>>7122660
I imagine you're fapping with your tears over your mass rejection in this board.

>> No.7122665 [DELETED] 

>>7122662
Kill yourself.

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>>7122660
We don't. It's just the most obnoxious of the male posters harassing the topics generally talked about by women. There's maybe a handful of the neckbeards, but they are the loudest.

>> No.7122668

>>7122664
>mass rejection

Pardon? I'm not the autist spamming "kill yourself". I don't really have any interest in cosplay tbh.. it's just kind of neat to see a different userbase in action.

Feel free to post any ZUN related news, anecdotes, or pictures on /jp/!

>> No.7122673 [DELETED] 

>>7122667
>>7122668
Kill yourself.

>> No.7122676

>>7122673
Oh you!

>> No.7122678 [DELETED] 

>>7122676
Kill yourself.

>> No.7122685

>>7122631
>2edgy4me
oooo, you really got me scared.
yup, confirmed neckbeard.

>> No.7122688 [DELETED] 

>>7122685
Kill yourself.

>> No.7122707

>>7122602
>If you had just seen his internal beauty
>"He proceeded to stalk me up till University where he started making up rumors about me (or trying to)."

Oh yes, he's beautiful.

>> No.7122718

I have this guy following me around like a little duck lately.

Well, a really big, obese, acne-ridden, greasy, smelly duck. I'm nice to him, and even give him hugs. I don't hate people with unfortunate features, but I do hate that he keeps going out of his way to speak with me despite the fact that I have a boyfriend and, gee, I dunno, we're in the middle of fucking CLASS.

I'm not even joking, this guy kept trying to talk to me even though I was CLEARLY working on a warmup, and when the teacher asked for the warmup, surprise, surprise, he hadn't finished his.

I just want to tell him that it's okay if he wants to be friends. I clearly have no problems talking to him and I even tolerate how bad he smells (this dude does NOT seem to shower well). However, when he starts to ignore his responsibilities and disrespects those around him, including me (seriously, dude, I'll talk to you when I'm done working), then it becomes a problem.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of problem? It's really creepy and I want it to stop.

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>>7122602
>>7122622
>>7122631
>>7122637
>>7122647
>>7122659
>>7122665
>>7122673
>>7122678
>>7122688
comedy gold

>> No.7122740

>>7122592
I don't think you should have started talking to someone while looking down on that person as a lesser being, which seems to be what you did judging by the second sentence. Also, though I wouldn't blame you for avoiding neckbeards forever, probably a better lesson to take is setting boundaries early in a friendship with a guy if you have no intention of a relationship with him, especially with loner-types. They're bound to take things the wrong way if you don't as any attention from girls will seem meaningful to them. If nothing else, it helps to avoid misunderstandings and grudges down the road.

I wouldn't condemn you for what followed since you tried to do something nice and no one has the power of clairvoyance. Maybe you did make it clear what you were doing early but he still took it the wrong way. I don't know, but I don't think loners should always be regarded as potential crazies.

>>7122602
How do you see internal beauty? Through actions, one would suspect since we have nothing else by which we can judge others. And, judging by this person's actions, I don't think there was much perceivable beauty. Perhaps you think that beauty was hidden, but non-expressed beauty is roughly equal to nonexistent beauty. Assuming anything else would be somewhat autistic.

>> No.7122743

I had so many encounters with butthurt. Particularly in my freshman/sophomore years at college.
>make friends with a guy from anime club
>isn't entirely attractive, but he seems average
>philosophy major so he has interesting shit to say sometimes
>get to know each other for more than a few months
>have sex one night in his dorm
>kind of gets clingy to me after that
>figure out he has a myriad of personal/mental problems
>not really looking for a relationship and try to bring him off the thought of that easy
>doesn't work
>he gets extremely angry with me
>tells everyone and their dog we fucked and how I wouldn't date him blah blah blah
>starts calling me names and circlejerking about it with his friends
>these people are at every activity I want to attend
>I get angry and completely reject him from my life
>he tries to enact little instances of vengeance like telling every person I ever showed interest in a bunch of lies
>hate him forever

>years later after trying to break my reputation he slinks around and tries to apologize to me for the shit he pulled
>gets peeved with me when I won't accept any of his apologies
>protip him that apologies don't have to be accepted
>he gets mad again
>nope.jpg
Actually, come to think of it, one of the things I learned throughout college is that a lot of people only intend to apologize to absolve themselves from what they did, not to actually make things better.

>> No.7122758

Nothing bad, just amusing.

>be in Japan
>have DeviantArt account
>location accurately says I live in Japan
>comments on my page, every god damn day
>OMG U LIVE IN JAPAEN!!1
>[horrible broken Japanese intensifies]

I don't watch anime, I wasn't wandering Japan on some soul-seeking adventure, and I didn't even particularly want to be there. I was there for three years on business. Every time I saw a comment raving about how jealous someone was that I was in Japan and begging me for details, I'd usually reply along the lines of "It's like any major American city only with slightly more Asian people and slightly less Asian food."

>> No.7122761 [DELETED] 

>>7122743
lol, you deserved it.

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>>7122761
Wrong. The correct response was "lel kill yourself" like what you were saying earlier to others. Now, proceed.

>> No.7122790

You see, my gf studies Japanese and I deal with all this crap. All the Japanese erasmus students would end up talking to me, if they could muster the courage to talk to a white man, because I didn't give a fuck about Japan. All the class were such mega fucking loser weebs that they were either fethisising neckbeards or cringey loudmouth anime-soc types. I used to think mainstream concepts of romance were fucked before I meet anime nerds. The sort of wizard-virgin tier drama about eye contact and bus seats to conventions. Spare me.

Stumbled onto board. I'll go now.

>> No.7122793

>>7122758
that sounds hilarious, post your deviatnart

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>>7122548
Oh yes, basically everything you would expect attention wise from a girl wearing a skimpy outfit but then 10x worse since women will actually touch whereas *most* male harassment stays in the staring/inappropriate comment range. Also, having a bf next to you will normally scare some guys off. I had my gf with me pretty much the entire time and they just did not care at all

Going shirtless as a built male with visible and pronounced abs at a con basically sets off an alarm and every hamplanet within a 100 foot radius will roll themselves over and put their hands all over you, and then deafen you with squees before you can protest.

It's really just a terrible experience, especially if you're someone who doesn't like people getting overly close in the first place. I learned my lesson though, and I only cosplay as characters with several layers of clothing or armor nowadays

>What I was feeling inside the entire time

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>>7122805
I can vouch for what this dude is saying, as the same stuff happens to my husband when he cosplays with me. With me standing right there.
>mfw a chick in a crowded hall we were wading through very intentionally grabbed his dick

>> No.7122814

>>7122805

And your gf wasn't pissed or anything?

>> No.7122822

It's not my personal experience, but there's this guy that goes to my school. He definitely should have graduated by now, but something about how he was homeschooled for so long made it so he can't graduate or something.
Anyway, every single year I've been in this school, and this is my last year, he's stalked a chick. He picks one girl every year, and follows her to every one of her classes, does creepy shit like record her voice to put in his 'rap songs'(which is hilarious enough as it is because he's a lanky white kid who thinks that he's the king of rap), and ultimately makes her feel uncomfortable. He was expelled for a while, but according to him, he threatened to sue the school and they let him come back. He's continued his tirade, and even the teachers are sick of him.
The last year, he's grown attached to a girl I was childhood friends with. I have classes with her, and he walks in, yells like he owns the place, laughs the girl off when she tells him to leave her alone, and has to get kicked out of the class by the teacher.
Thankfully, I've never attracted such creeps.

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>>7122805
>10x worse since women will actually touch whereas *most* male harassment stays in the staring/inappropriate comment range

Had a similar experience. This was true.

Tried to explain my discomfort to the friends who had dragged me to the con. "Haha, what's that Anon? You don't like attention from women? Are you secretly gay? Cooooome ooooon, it's fun," was the reply.

Not even five minutes later, an extremely unattractive anime fan who smelled somewhat like tuna JUMPED and latched on to my arm. It would have been cute if it was a five year old doing it, but it nearly tore the joint apart. Before I could ask what the fuck they thought they were doing, I was defeaned by her shrieking "NYAH!". I mean actual pain, where you can feel your eardrum vibrating and it almost feels like grinding in your head.

Never again.

>my face afterwards

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>>7122805
I did male Black Rock Shooter once and I can vouch for this as well.

>girl asks to take picture with me
>okay
>one hand running down my torso and the other planted on my ass
>doesn't ask if it's okay, doesn't hide that she's doing it, doesn't even try to be subtle

At first you think of it as a compliment but then you feel like taking a shower after every few pictures because your chest feels strange.

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About 7 years ago when I was 15 my younger sister brought a friend from school back home who claimed she'd been kicked out of her home by her abusive step-parents and was asking if she could stay with us for a while. Of course my mother said yes and so for about two weeks we fed her and allowed her to sleep in my sisters room.
This girls name was Amy and Amy was a compulsive liar who claimed to be a half Japanese American who just happened to be living in England (bullshit she was English). Her real father was supposedly a famous Japanese millionaire voice actor who had done voice work in for all of the Final Fantasy games (btw this was around the time FFX had just been released... that's right, FFX, the first Final Fantasy to feature audio dialogue) and the Pokemon games. Yeah, we just went a long with it at the time...

At the time I was drawing a lot of cruddy manga sketches and Amy was enthralled by them and always asking to borrow my professional markers which I reluctantly agreed to; just to be polite to our guest. For the first week I kept on noticing that little things were going missing, a marker here, a dress suddenly vanished, and a black cat ear headband mysteriously disappeared. I didn't pay much mind, living in a house with 4 other sisters, stuff went missing all the time only to show up later in a wash basket or under a pile of stuff.

Over the next two weeks Amy would take me and my younger sister up to her field to visit a horse she owned. Whilst we were up there we would change the straw in the horses shed, clean up the manure, groom the horse and a couple of times we took the saddle from the shed and rode her. This was actually pretty fun, up until the day when we were stood grooming the horse with some brushes when suddenly we began to hear angry yelling. Looking up we see a woman running over to us from across the field and MAN did she look pissed! Can you guess who this woman was? Yeah, it was the fucking owner.

>> No.7122834

>>7122831

Amy had found this field with a random horse in it and pretended it was hers. Before the woman could reach us Amy had already bolted leaving me and my sister standing there looking sheepish and embarrassed. We explained to her the situation and gave her our home address, and later that evening she came round and had words with Amy about how she was even considering pressing charges against her etc. etc.
Amy was all snivels and tears at the time but after the woman was satisfied with her apology and left, she did a complete 180, instantly the tears dried up and Amy was snarling about how she was a fat cunt and a baka whore. Bear in mind this is coming from the mouth of a 14 year old.
I was pretty aghast by this sudden change in personality, and this is what initially led me to suspect that Amy might have been behind the sudden disappearance of the various object from my room. The next day I feigned illness and waited for Amy to go off to school, when I crept into my sister room and began rifling through Amy's suitcase, and what do you fucking know? I was right. I found some of my expensive markers, a dress, patterned tights. my cats ears, earrings, assorted jewellery, and actually the things that enraged me the most was finding a stack of my drawings crumpled up at the base of her suitcase; obviously taken without my permission. Later that night I confronted the bitch and she claimed ignorance. It ended up in a shouting match between me and her and after slamming the door to my sisters room in my face I stormed off to my own room and proceeded to plot a revenge that I was never able to carry out due to following events.

>> No.7122835

>>7122834

It was the next day that my sister burst through our front door with Amy in tow, both home from school. Slamming the door shut behind them Amy was blathering something about how her abusive father was coming to get her and how we had to hide her, when the the doorbell went. I opened the door and there standing on the step was a very meek, concerned looking gentlemen who asked me if it was okay if he came in to speak to my mother.

So he came in and sat down with my mother in the next room and that's when the whole story came out. Amy had ran away from home where she lived with her father (not a Japanese millionaire voice actor) after being scolded and punished for selling her deceased step-mothers jewellery that her father kept in memorial, and then using the money to buy yaoi and manga on eBay. Apparently her father had been worried sick about her, but as she had done this multiple times in the past instead of calling the police this time he decided to wait for her to return home. The father was exceptionally embarrassed and tried to pay my mother compensation for having looking after her for the last two weeks, but my mother refused.
Amy's dad took her home that day, with her spitting and clawing and screeching about how she was going to get him "done by the social" for touching her up and how she wished he would get cancer and die. Later that week my sister reported that Amy had been sent to Wales to live with her mother who was divorced from her father and we never saw her again.

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>>7122831
>Over the next two weeks Amy would take me and my younger sister up to her field to visit a horse she owned. Whilst we were up there we would change the straw in the horses shed, clean up the manure, groom the horse and a couple of times we took the saddle from the shed and rode her. This was actually pretty fun, up until the day when we were stood grooming the horse with some brushes when suddenly we began to hear angry yelling. Looking up we see a woman running over to us from across the field and MAN did she look pissed! Can you guess who this woman was? Yeah, it was the fucking owner.

wat

>> No.7122837

All was right in our household again, and it was the same night after finding out that Amy had moved to Wales that I decided to break out my tablet and indulge in a little cruddy teenage manga attempts... accept my tablet was nowhere to be found, and neither was my set of markers, or the big pile of drawings I had hidden away in my cupboard, and my goddamn cat ears! GONE, AGAIN. THE BITCH HAD ROBBED ME BLIND AND HIGH TAILED IT OFF TO SODDING CYMRY.
You know what it's like when siblings are taking things from you, sometimes it takes you days or weeks to even notice that something is gone? Well that was what it was like for the next few months, going to use something and discovering that it's not there.

It was about 2 months later that my sister came home from high school looking mischievous and full of gossip. She'd accidentally stumbled across Amy's new Deviantart page and I'd never guess what....
All those drawings I'm mentioned Amy had taken from me? Well she'd scanned the lot to her computer, uploaded them to DA and was claiming them as her own work.

Anyway, sorry for the TL;DR, although I actually left out a looooad of shit about all the other lies she told me (for example Two Pints of Lager and a Packet of Crisps was actually an American production and was filmed in America) and that one time I walked in on her showing Yaoi to my 4 year old sister.

Picture related, my other sister sent me this picture of her to me 2 days ago.

>> No.7122840

>>7122836

As in Amy had found a random field one day with a horse in it and decided it be a really good idea to lie to a shit load of people about the horse being hers and then running off and leaving us behind to get the blame when the actual owner showed up.

Turns out she even broke into that shed in the field that contained all the equipment too, that's why it was always open when we went up.

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>>7122831
>>7122834
>>7122835
> Amy had ran away from home where she lived with her father (not a Japanese millionaire voice actor) after being scolded and punished for selling her deceased step-mothers jewellery that her father kept in memorial, and then using the money to buy yaoi and manga on eBay.

WAT

>> No.7122842

>>7122837
So, did you ever do anything about the stuff she stole? Especially something like a tablet or the markers, that shit's expensive.

>> No.7122847

>>7122842

Well in regards to DA I rounded up a load of LJ users who belonged to an anime/manga community and we spammed the living shit out of her DA with abuse until she was forced to close it. I also had most of the artwork taken down after reporting it for plagiarism as a great deal of it were traces from game artwork.

In relation to the stuff I stole though, no, nothing every happened. The tablet was only a little cheap one, nothing expensive, and tbh I was just sick of the bitch and wanted nothing more to do with it, so I just let it go.

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>>7122841
>mfw I had a sibling who did something similar. He robbed the family of several items and cash for drug money, but the worst was the wedding rings of my grandmother's deceased husbands. She kept them in her jewelry box under her bed.

>> No.7122857

>>7122849

Chick who lived with crazy Amy here, but yeah, I actually had the same scenario happen with one of my 4 sisters. The eldest is estranged from my family now, but she got into drugs and every time she stayed over our house the next morning something would be missing. My mother kept letting her come back time and time again after giving her multiple chances (you know what mums are like). I remember waking up one morning and my PS2 and my entire game collection was just gone. Another day I came home from college to find all of my drawings (I was still drawing, only vastly improved obv) dumped on the floor still in their plastic sleeves, and my expensive leather portfolio folder gone a long with half my wardrobe, a silver necklace given to me by my boyfriend and a very expensive brand new handbag that I'd only had for a day.

It's pretty heartbreaking isn't it.

>> No.7122862

>>7122857
Yes it is. My brother's been disowned by multiple family member including me. I wish it had just been theft but it escalated enough he was thrown out of the house after he sexually assaulted a 9 year old girl when he was 16.

>> No.7122864

>>7122862
>thrown out of the house
Don't you mean thrown into jail?

>> No.7122865

>>7122857
Shit, I get pissed when I just can't find a brush or realize my sisters used up all my shampoo, or ate all of a certain kind of my food.
I feel glad they've never gone to the point of actually stealing like that. The worst any of them has ever done is taking my makeup, tweezers, or hair ties and never returning them.

>> No.7122868

>>7122864
No sadly because it was within the family he wasn't charged and thrown in jail. He ended up at a boys home for awhile. All the good it did him, since he's been a piece of shit for 20+ years.

>> No.7122874

>>7122862

Holy shit.
I think the worst my piece of shit sister has done is... well, she uses abortions as a form of birth control and she'd pregnant right now with a drug dealers child, and is still drinking and taking drugs.

But that's wow. I hope you talk to the guy any more. It sounds dour, but people like that will never change. It almost seems like they need the chaos to survive, but you probably know all about that already.

>> No.7122878

>>7122841

Man, I got a flashback to a friends brother who was engaged to a really bad weeaboo girl. I knew she was bad for him and he was quite the beta guy so despite all the bad he stayed with her until one day she decided the best idea in the world was to use the rent money to buy the rest of the manga she was reading.

He got real angry, wised up that day and broke off the engagement that very day.

>> No.7122882

>>7122857
Your mother sounds like a permissive pushover and an enabler. That whole Amy situation could have been avoided had she just called a child protective service. I would NEVER take in a child who claims to have been "kicked out" of their house, which is especially proven by the fact that she lied about it anyway.

And I know you think Amy's dad looked sheepish and trite when he went and reclaimed his daughter from your house, but no functional, nurturing household environment turns a young person into a thief and liar. Her admission of him 'feeling her up' might actually not be a lie and might be very telling of the kind of fuckery that went down in that household. No responsible parent would let their child remain "run away" for weeks without stirring a fuss even if she was a repeat offender.

>> No.7122886

>>7122882

Wow lol, don't take this the wrong way but you're a fucking retard and don't have a clue what you're talking about.

Sometimes people are just born rotten. Nature over nurture applies in a vast many cases, and her dad never felt her up it was all bullshit and a stunt she'd apparently tried before in the past, trying to get him arrested whenever she didn't get what she wanted.

>> No.7122887

>>7122874
>she uses abortions as a form of birth control
...so what? Abortion is birth control no matter how you choose to sugar coat it. I like hearing about how irresponsible and responsible people who don't want children having abortions. It's proven to reduce unwanted, statistically more fucked up children in the world who would otherwise suffer.
I personally find the fact that she's intending to keep a pregnancy while drinking/drugging wayyyy more offensive than someone who's had an abortion 20 times.

>> No.7122889

>>7122886
>Sometimes people are just born rotten.
No they're not. And I find it hilarious that you're calling me the "retard" when you believe in the "bad seed" theory. Behaviors are learned and are a product of environment.
You don't know if her dad didn't feel her up.
You don't know what happened behind closed doors.
Stop acting judgmentally zealous just because you're burned that you had your weeb shit stolen from you.

PS your mom is still a dumbcunt.

>> No.7122893

>>7122887
I think she means as her main form of birth control, which is pretty scummy. Use the pill and/or condoms instead of going bareback, making a baby, and then getting rid of it repeatedly. It's way healthier to just use a condom than get repeated medical procedures done as well.

>> No.7122894

>>7122887

Seriously? Because I think not bothering to organise some sort of protection and then saying "WHOOPSIE" a month or two down the line and having the thing killed is pretty fucking irresponsible and amoral.
I am all for a woman's right to choose, but people like my sister should not be allowed to abuse a service like that. Her having abortions carried out so arbitrarily could well result in another person being deprived of something they need from the health service. I mean, this shit costs money.

>> No.7122895

>>7122718
For one, how about you stop giving him physical affection, ya ijit?! Now he for sure can claim that you were "leading him on"

>> No.7122896

>>7122893
>which is pretty scummy
Why?
>It's way healthier to just use a condom than get repeated medical procedures done as well.
This is literally the only reason why it should matter. There is nothing morally 'scummy' about having multiple abortions.

>> No.7122898

>>7122868
That's bullshit. My grandmother wouldn't let my mom press charges either after my step-grandfather raped her and her sisters, and she actually got flak when she pushed the issue. Her mom ended up running off with her step-dad so he wouldn't go to jail and my mom went to live with her aunt. She was 12 or 13 at the time.

>> No.7122900

>>7122889

The concept that behaviours are entirely learned and not something that is partially innate in nature is something that has been disproved many, many times over the last 20-30 years. Under your logic peoples personalties are also something that is taught, so yeah, you're still an enormous retard.

If a Sociopath rips the wings off of a live bird for enjoyment does he do so because he learnt to do it from somebody else? How can you be this ignorant.

>> No.7122902

I work for some big company and I met a guy from work during some con. He obviously doesn't have the best social skills and thought I wanted to be friends with him, from time to time he invites me to have lunch with him. He keeps talking about anime and other nerd stuff. One day I asked a bit about his personal life and it seems like he has a disabled dying brother and never had a girlfriend. Probably a virgin, which I consider a deal breaker.

>> No.7122904

>>7122902
0/10

>> No.7122905

>>7122896

>there is nothing morally 'scummy' about having multiple abortions

Er, yeah there kind is. Allowing multiple foetuses a period of gestation before killing them on a whim because you were too fucking lazy to whip out a condom is more than a little scummy. Like I can understand one or two or even three, but beyond that you're either stupid, lazy or both and deserve to be sterilised.

>> No.7122907

>>7122896
I've known men who were hurt when they found out their girlfriend was pregnant and went to get an abortion. I've known parents who have been hurt that their child went to abort something that would have been their grandchild. It hurts more than just the woman to get an abortion. I think it's always sad when a woman needs to get an abortion and it's something that should be treated a bit more somberly.

>> No.7122909

>>7122900
And it's been also shown that even compulsive or destructive personalities under the right instruction and environment are not harmful or dangerous to others, which proves that you're still a massive butthurt tardweeb.
>but but...sociopathy!~
You don't know if she was clinically diagnosed as a sociopath. Just shut up lol.

>> No.7122910

Nothing too bad, but there was a boy in high school that shoved yaoi in my face. No joke. He opened a book of yaoi drawings he had snuck into school, hit me in the face with it, and followed me as I tried to back away from drawings of guys shoving popsicles in their asses. I couldn't get my face out of that book for a minute because he wouldn't let me.

"LOOK HOW HOT THESE YOWEE BOYS ARE ANON!!!"

>> No.7122913

/cgl/ - Neckbeard Stalkers and Abortion Debates

>> No.7122912

>>7122909

You are so upset right now.

Amy, is that you?

>> No.7122916

>>7122912
Are you upset because not everyone is poo pooing your assbackwards living situation?
>implying Amy isn't busy as fuck taking cock up her ass to be on 4chan

>> No.7122918

>>7122907
>abortion hurts others
You're blaming the person who gets an abortion for other peoples' irrational sensitivities?

>> No.7122922

>>7122918
Yes, because they have a lot more choices for birth control than just using no protection and then getting rid of the consequences. You do something stupid once or twice, you get an abortion. Medical issue, you get an abortion. Raped, you get an abortion. That's okay, but don't make it a regular occurrence if you have the opportunity not to.

>> No.7122947
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7122947

>mfw neckbeards are buttravaged because even after they find girls who like anime and games they still don't like them so they take their anger out on /cgl/

>> No.7122966

There was this guy from my asian ethics class in my first semester of college that found me on facebook. We had to do a self presentation for our final so he did his on tokusatsu, so everyone sorta knew him as the Power Ranger guy (felt kinda bad for the dude since he was super socially awkward). I tried to be nice by saying "So you're talking about like Kamen Rider" and since then he would talk to me, but it was a bit uncomfortable because he talks like a robot and kinda just gives me like a straight dead on stare. He talks to me like he is a Wikipedia page. I'm not very social myself, but I've never felt more uncomfortable.

I have screencaps of a convo I had with him on FB that I can put together where he kept bringing up South Korean people with how they are plastic surgery obsessed and they are unoriginal with their music (honestly I could care less but he said that the Japanese had more integrity pretty much). Idk I reall try not to be mean to people and was trying to consider what he was saying but it was pretty awkward. On top of that, when school started my friend told me the guy found him and was asking about me so much like

"Hey where is Anon? Have you seen her today? When are you going to see her? Do you know when you'll see her?" Friend said the guy was like all sweaty and nervous and had a deranged look.

>> No.7122984

>>7122966
>honestly I could care less

NO, YOU COULDN'T* CARE LESS

Sorry, pet peeve. Americans always get this phrase wrong and it's like.... jeez, I must have corrected people on this over 100 times by now.

I... kill me.

>> No.7122987

>>7122907
Maybe those men or those potential grandparents would then like to raise the child on their own, eh?

If the woman can't take care of it by herself, and she doesn't want to put a child at risk like that, it's way more responsible to abort it than to let it live and have a shitty life.

Sage for offtopic

>> No.7122991

Can people stop responding to the abortion troll? Thanks.

>> No.7122995

>>7122987
It's even more responsible (by a wide margin) to use birth control

>> No.7123031

>>7122805
>Wahhh girls like me too much, they were touching me and sexually attracted to me, it was horrible!

Fuck you faggot. God you piss me off stop being so gay.

>> No.7123035

>>7123031
>actually wants to be swarmed by slimy hambeasts

Gross.

>> No.7123036

>>7123031
Ooh, somebody sounds jealous. So desperate for somebody to want to touch you that you'd settle for what normal people consider to be harassment?

>> No.7123041

>>7122984
I'm an American and I hate it when people do this shit, too.

You think Americans are retarded? Just imagine what it's like being surrounded by them and being grouped in with them.

>> No.7123042

>>7122984
AH SHIT I DIDN'T REALIZE MY MISTAKE SORRY. I was more focused on trying to remember my story and didn't go back to check if my post had any errors.

>> No.7123048

>>7123035
Yes, because all of them were slimy hambeasts right?

Who cares even if a fat girl does touch you? So what? Fat girls need love too anyway.

>>7123036
>So desperate for somebody to want to touch you that you'd settle for what normal people consider to be harassment?

If that's what is considered as "harassment" now then I don't know what's wrong with the world.

Yes, it should be quite obvious that I would like to be in his place. There's no need to point out the obvious. I don't really respect the thoughts of 'normal people' by the way or think they are relevant either.

>> No.7123055

>>7123048
That didn't sound like a trolling response... Are you actually serious? I'm sorry, but getting touched by strangers when you don't want to be touched by them is harassment (and potentially assault), and I feel kind of bad for you since it seems like you really are legitimately some extremely lonely guy.

>> No.7123063
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>>7122916

Hi Amy.

>> No.7123073

>>7123055
>I'm sorry, but getting touched by strangers when you don't want to be touched by them is harassment (and potentially assault),

Perhaps because you're a girl you think that. Girls are always so sensitive with that because in society they are sexually placed on a pedestal, and are used to being sexually desired. In fact in most cases in society, women are given the benefit and have worth by default for doing nothing, while men are disposable, and are considered worthless until proven otherwise. This is a very primal thing that exists in most species.

The point is of course a female would think that's "harassment" because of this. Most guys would like it if a bunch of girls were admiring him and touching him.

If you want to know. Yes, I'm a lonely guy who's basically a shut in and has been for years.

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>>7122991
>bringing it back up nearly 40 minutes after it ended
Smart one.

>> No.7123092

>>7123073
Attractive people of both sexes are used to being sexually desired. Unattractive can manage to get pity fucks, but they usually end up with terrible confidence and can't respond well to people potentially being into them because they're not used to being desired either. Confident people don't like awkward people (for the most part) and awkward people can't get their attraction across well, so it can be hard to form awkwardxawkward relationships.
When I go out in public with my husband, he always gets more direct attention than me. Men and women look at me, but people actually go up and hit on him. All the time. Even when I'm there. I get more attention online, but that's it. We're on roughly the same level of attractiveness.

>> No.7123098

>>7123073

No, actually, a well-adjusted male who didn't think his own self-worth was in the crapper would not be okay with a stranger sexually touching him without his permission.

Some people don't care, sure, but most prefer it if people they don't know don't cross the line by grabbing their asses, junk, or pecs without permission. You can't say you speak for 'most guys' when you're clearly someone who not only is starved for sexual attention, but socialization in general.

TL;DR: You sound like Chris-Chan, and that's just...bad.

>> No.7123107

>>7123048
I've seen my boyfriend get touched by strange women. He loves sex, but he looks about as uncomfortable as I am when I'm touched by strange men. I've had to swoop in to rescue him a few times. Once some drunk girl had the audacity to plop herself down right on his lap. He gave me the "help me" look and tried to lean around her to tie his shoes. I persuaded her off of his lap and had a talk with her about manners in the parking lot.

Jut because you're pathetic and will take any attention you can get doesn't mean all men are.

>> No.7123108

>>7123092
You don't understand that I mean what I mean on any scale, obviously compensating for attractiveness.

Unattractive girls are still much more sexually desired than an "equally" unattractive guy.

>Men and women look at me, but people actually go up and hit on him.

That's because no guy is stupid enough to go hit on some girl with her husband there. Girls tend to more often think this is okay in the opposite scenario.

>>7123098
>No, actually, a well-adjusted male who didn't think his own self-worth was in the crapper would not be okay with a stranger sexually touching him without his permission.
>You can't say you speak for 'most guys' when you're clearly someone who not only is starved for sexual attention, but socialization in general.

You have a warped reality of how guys actually think if you seriously believe this.

Can you answer this question, why is it that when a girl has sex with a lot of guys she is considered a slut, but when a guy has sex with a lot of girls it is treated as an accomplishment?

A girl letting guys touch her is seen by society as someone with "no self worth". Because they don't have to be anything special to get groped by guys, or have to try whatsoever. A guy however is not. How many guys do you think go around worrying about getting "sexually harassed" by girls? Now ask yourself that same question with girls.

You really seem to be having a hard time understanding this issue from a guy's perspective and keep blaming it on me like I'm just an exception. You have no clue.

>> No.7123112

>>7123107
Perhaps he was uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to cheat on her, or have a misunderstanding with her? Have you ever thought about that you idiot?

>Just because you're pathetic and will take any attention you can get doesn't mean all men are.

I'm just going to say this again. You really have no clue how most guys think. They just don't tell you, you're not a guy. Guys act completely different to girls to an extent you probably wouldn't believe. You really just don't get it.

>> No.7123117

>>7122740
Originally I started talking to him because he had similar interests to mine. I love talking about anime and vidya so I wanted to befriend him cause he liked it too. I never befriended him out of pity. I write about him spitefully now because of everything he did afterwards. I didn't find him attractive and didn't want to date him so he tried to make me miserable instead.

I don't think I did anything for him to take it the wrong way, I never treated him specially. But as you say loner-types tend to take friendliness completely wrong since they are not used to it. It doesn't bother me that he grew romantically interested in me. I hate the guy because he turned into a crazy jerk when I turned him down.

I'm sure not all loners or neckbeards are crazy. Sorry if I made it sound like I was generalizing.

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>>7123108

C'mere, sweetheart, let me diddle your balls. You said you were into this, right?

>> No.7123121

>>7123112
We had an open relationship at the time (closed now). He's straight made out with women in front of me (with my blessing), we've had threesomes together. You know, with women that talked to him respectfully first.

And he didn't want this strange bitch on his lap.

You ever think that maybe you're a no-standards loser, or have delusions about how people think? Ever think about that you idiot?

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>>7123108

You wear a trilby, don't you anon?

>> No.7123134

>>7123121
>And he didn't want this strange bitch on his lap.

Fine, maybe she was nasty. Maybe he didn't want her on his lap. This doesn't change or discredit anything I said though.

>You ever think that maybe you're a no-standards loser, or have delusions about how people think? Ever think about that you idiot?

Ever think you're a bitch? I wish cunts like you who don't understand the issue and think that the douchebags you sleep around with are "most guys" would be put in a position where they would have to.

>>7123128
No. Nor do I look like a fat neckbeard or any stereotype.

If you saw me in real life I look like a completely average young male.

>> No.7123137

>>7123134

A completely average young male who types like he has profound knowledge of how other people think when, in reality, he admits to being starved for attention.

Uh-huh.

>> No.7123141

>>7123134
>Ever think you're a bitch

No, I'm nice to most people, but I do think you're fucking pathetic for having no standards or self-respect. Not just that, but you're so aggressive about it. It's like you're angry at others for being desirable enough to afford having standards. That isn't healthy, brudda.

Sad.

Well, I'm done talking to you, so go ahead and wretch and moan about being denied further female attention.

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>>7123134

> be me
> average young male
> don't have any friends
> no qt 3.14 gf
> be at convention
> no one touching me
> pic related walks up to me
> grabs junk without any provocation
> cum everywhere
> try to tell others about why men should let strangers molest them
> no one agrees
> feelsbadman

>> No.7123147

>>7123134
All I hear from this guy is how he doesn't understand that people want personal fucking space.

>> No.7123148

>>7123134

"All female hands on me!" - Anon

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7123149

Not even involved in any of these conversations but I really don't know why any of you act so touchy and sensitive when you post your bullshit here.
These threads always end with someone disagreeing and then devolving into a 50 reply ragefest.

I seriously don't get what any of you fucking expect.

>> No.7123152

>>7123108
My point with
>Men and women look at me, but people actually go up and hit on him.
isn't that he gets more attention, it's the fact that attractive men get their fare share of open sexual desire directed towards them as a counter to
>Girls are always so sensitive with that because in society they are sexually placed on a pedestal, and are used to being sexually desired.
which implies it's just women that get this.

>> No.7123153

>>7123149

Say what you will, but it's a good way to waste time.

>> No.7123155

>>7123152
*fair

>> No.7123157

>>7123137
>A completely average young male who types like he has profound knowledge of how other people think when, in reality, he admits to being starved for attention.

When did I admit to being starved for attention?

>>7123141
> It's like you're angry at others for being desirable enough to afford having standards.

I think it had little to do with being "desirable", a lot more to do with how often you leave the house and interact with other people on top of your attitude about it. I'd just like to reiterate that girls cannot be compared to guys on this, it's way easier for a girl to be found sexually attractive than a guy of "equal" caliber. Hence they could "afford" more "standards".

I'm angry and pissed off all the time anyway. This isn't something special to me.

>>7123146
As soon as a ``girl'' who looks like that touches you I'll take back what I said. I doubt there's any girl at a con nasty enough to be "grossed out" simply because they touched your stomach though. I just don't get it, who cares?

>>7123147
Female detected.

>>7123152
>which implies it's just women that get this.

If you thought I implied that with that statement you were wrong.

>> No.7123164

>>7123157
>Yes, I'm a lonely guy who's basically a shut in and has been for years.

>> No.7123167

>>7123157
>I'm angry and pissed off all the time anyway.

Aw, you're so cute anon~

>> No.7123168

>>7123157
If you're not implying it's just women that get it, what are you saying? That women process the same thing that happens to men differently? Wasn't stated very clearly if that's your point.

I was actually talking about something similar to this with some men the other day in response to a buzzfeed article that's going around where 27 men write quotes pertaining to their sexual assault. One of the men I was talking to was raped by a woman and got laughed at by the police, the other were just sympathetic. All of them stated that their opinion was that unwanted touching is not okay and that men aren't just sex machines that desire every creature around them.

>> No.7123173

>>7123164
And? How does that mean I'm starved for attention? If I was starved for attention I'd leave the house in cosplay and go to a con.

>>7123168
>If you're not implying it's just women that get it, what are you saying?

That the scale is skewed in girl's favor. Nothing more nothing less.

>All of them stated that their opinion was that unwanted touching is not okay and that men aren't just sex machines that desire every creature around them.

Yes, because a news report is what you should base your thoughts off of. Do you know why those cops basically laughed at him? There's a reason for it, go on and tell me.

>> No.7123179

>>7123173
I just said I TALKED to men after we all read the article. Reading comprehension is important. I'm basing my opinion off of these men I talked to (plus numerous other men in my life), not the men in the article.

>> No.7123183

>>7123179

It'd be best to just give up now. I'd wager you about three-fifty that he's just doing this because this is the first bit of female attention he's received in years.

>> No.7123186

>>7123179
>I just said I TALKED to men after we all read the article. Reading comprehension is important. I'm basing my opinion off of these men I talked to (plus numerous other men in my life), not the men in the article.

"They just don't tell you, you're not a guy. Guys act completely different to girls to an extent you probably wouldn't believe."

There are things most guys will not tell anyone, there are things guys will only tell other guys, and there are fake bullshit personas guys put on (mostly unintentionally) when talking to girls.

I wouldn't say most guys are sex machines that want to fuck everything either. But I'm serious when I say them telling you something might not be accurate of what they actually think or act like. Often guys turn into completely different people around girls.

What is your point in bringing this up anyway? Yes there are guys who will complain about "sexual harassment", I never claimed there wasn't.

>>7123183
I argue on the internet all the time.

Do you think that I'd treat you like anything special because I think I have a chance of fucking you? You're an anonymous girl on the internet and I don't think for one second I have a chance in hell of ever meeting you, so don't pull that card. Get over yourself.

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>>7123173
> Do you know why those cops basically laughed at him? There's a reason for it, go on and tell me.
I find it so sad when men are so prejudiced against other men that they don't think they're capable of having their own thoughts and feelings that extend beyond biology concerning who they have sex with. My heart truly goes out to all the rape victims, male and female, who have been told they must have wanted it for whatever reason.

>> No.7123197

>>7123191
I think that picture was taken as a joke.

>> No.7123203

>>7123186

> Implying I'm a girl

Man to man, you're pathetic.

>> No.7123206

>>7123197
http://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/male-survivors-of-sexual-assault-quoting-the-people-who-a
He's number 11. This thing has been all over social networking sites, I'm surprised you haven't seen it.

>> No.7123212

>>7123203
You're a girl. I can tell.

>>7123206
>This thing has been all over social networking sites, I'm surprised you haven't seen it.

Was that a passive aggressive joke I just heard?

Most of those are guy on guy rape, a serious thing. I'm sorry but I'm going to continue to laugh at girl on male "rape".

>> No.7123218

>>7123212
Read what the person I'm responding to said.
>I think that picture was taken as a joke.
That is ALL the link is supposed to be a response to. And no, it wasn't a passive aggressive joke because I didn't realize >>7123197 was actually the same dude as all these other posts. Way shorter posts than any of the others.

>> No.7123220

>>7123218
Alright. Point taken.

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this thread has become terrible. Good thing for screen caps.

>> No.7123229

>>7123212
>Most of those are guy on guy rape, a serious thing. I'm sorry but I'm going to continue to laugh at girl on male "rape".
I'm going to assume you're either trolling or clinically retarded.

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>>7123228

>> No.7123234

>>7123229
Care to explain why you think that?

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>>7123232

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>>7123235

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>>7123242
This was solved to be fake.

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>>7123254

>> No.7123262

>>7122827
I feel ya, that sort of post-touch trauma sticks. Homestuck fans set a new record with that for me.

Creepiest was a 14 year old girl (not a hambeast, oddly enough) who couldn't stop talking about her "hundreds of fanart images of my character" and eventually stuck her hands into the neckhole of my full lycra bodysuit because "she was cold". This was all within 120 seconds after we met.

Nopenopenopenopenope

>> No.7123286

>>7122805
I feel you man, it must really suck because if a guy complains about being sexually harassed NOBODY will listen to him about it. There might be a lot of wankers in the MRM but they do have some things right.

What I would recommend doing is just being a complete dick to them. Tell them to get their clammy, flabby hands off you because you can smell their vagina from here and it isn't pretty. You can't physically repel them without a shitstorm unfortunately, so just ruin their con. If they really, really persist, consider bringing a female friend with you who has more balls than your pathetic fucking girlfriend, and warn her that she might be needed to help with all this. Get her dinner or something to say thanks if she has to deal with weebs, I'm sure she won't mind if she's a good friend. With any luck it'll make your girlfriend jealous and she'll realise she needs to be doing this shit herself rather than just stand by and letting you be harassed.

It kind of sucks that you have to be so underhanded and nasty about it, but like... that's life for guys. If some sweaty cunt grabs me, I can punch him and probably not get in any trouble for it. If a guy does it to a girl, it's shitstorm city, so have alternative tactics prepared.

>> No.7123292
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7123292

>What really grinds-my-gears

You know what is it cgl? The fact that just because you're into cosplay, anime, or such other people who do the same think you're INSTA FRIENDS. Then penta 100000x friend requests on facebook and other shit
I'm always nice to people when they talk to me in cons or internet but that doesn't mean you have the right to be an ass

>This guy I met because I was cosplaying a character he liked
>Starts talking to me & e dealed with him as I do with every single friend
>Makes a major rant claiming that nobody treats someone that nice and that I want something with him
>errr... no...
>Claims that I'm a brat just like his ex's (no wonder he has so many)

Lesson, never ever ever ever befriend with a weeb person, and if you do, check their reputation in your con scene, you know, just in case.

>> No.7123303

>>7123234

fuck you

educate yourself

http://oratorasaurus.tumblr.com/post/44771537153/40-of-rapists-are-women-yes-get-over-it

>> No.7123336

>>7123303
>>>/r9k/

>> No.7123353

>>7123292
Oh god yes, people who think you are the best of friends just because you share the same interest...

>at connwith froends, they are playing a boardgame and I'm sitting next to them fixing a part of my cosplay
>guy goes by, sees my cosplay and comes over to talk
>He's a big fan of the game I'm cosplaying from and we talk a little about it
>he asks for my facebook, he seems pretty harmless so I give him my fb
>during the whole con after that, whenever he saw me, he would come up to talk to me, but he never wanted to leave. I got really annoyed with him but I didn't want to be a bitch to him so I would make up excuses so I could get away from him.
>Later I hear from my friends that the same guy had been flirting with three of my guy friends
>after con he would message me every day on FB even though I constantly ignored him

>> No.7123361

>>7122173
Dets man. you can't leave us hanging like that.

>> No.7123366

>>7122592
Knew a guy just like this. His constant cries of "Friendzoned again! All women are whores!" will haunt me forever. He started hitting on a girl who was like 13 when he was in his early 20's... apparently she "got him" and her dad was just trying to keep them apart.

Last i heard he had gotten into a bit of trouble with the law for his "true love".

>> No.7123378

>>7123353
This happened to me, but it got worse. Way worse

>> No.7123380

>>7123366
Hate those weebs after little girls. They just can't get a woman so they go after "kids". They just don't know how to handle a "normal" love relationship

13 and 20's ew... But seen worst.
15 with 35 guy

>> No.7123381

>>7123378
Please tell

>> No.7123383

>>7123361

ok lets get this story told.

>be beta as fuck
>meet chick, sorta weebey but w/e i need friends
>she's one of those "IM A NINJA/DEMON HUNTER" or whatever flavor of the week anime she's into but she seemed normal otherwise
>she finds out im gay
>holy shit this is terrible no
>she starts claiming that she needs to protect me because the "dark forces" that follow her are gonna attack me and that her "fairy friends" had to protect me

>> No.7123384

>>7122874
Hey, another anon here but what you are talking about is exactly what happened to my uncle.
He died last year and man let me tell you it was a small funeral with some fucking crummy people at it. When the casket bearers use names like "Chainsaw" and "dingo" you can tell its been a life worth living.
Basically he started out being an asshole teen, it progressed to petty theft, then drugs; then bigger theft, then he joined a gang. After a few years working his way through the gang he crashed his motorbike and lay in a ditch for 2 days having broken his spine. He should have died of exposure but he didn't though after that he was a paraplegic. Incredibly being in a wheelchair didn't stop him being an asshole and he kept using till his death of a meth overdose. My grandmother bailed him out every time, she loved him so much and after he died she just sort of faded away on us: in the end he stole from his family and friends, destroyed our piece of mind and robbed us of a loving grandmother who only ever wanted the best for him.
Some people just won't change and they live to make people around them miserable.

>> No.7123386

>>7123383
>cont.


>shrug it off as another weird thing she does
>go over to her house a few weeks later for vidya games
>she has a "transmutation circle" from FMA drawn on her floor but i dont ask about it
>we start playing games, with us sitting in the damn circle cause every other surface was covered in weeb shit

>> No.7123387

>>7122889
Actually the current thinking suggests its a combo of both nature and nurture. Girl might have had issues after dealing with her parents split, then having her step mother die. teens are a tidalwave of hormones and strange brain activity + some family issues and you have a highly reactive situation that doesn't actually need the extra element of sexual abuse. Also sexual abuse can come from outside the family and teens are not exactly above lying about shit.

>> No.7123399

>>7123386
>cont.

>i get into the game, doing a boss fight or some shit when i feel a sharp pain in my arm
>she fucking STABBED me with a pair of scissors and it hit fucking bone.
>she pins me and keeps fucking going
>i scream and ask what the fuck her problem was
>she starts wailing about how the fairies made her do it, and how they demand blood of the fey (??) for their help and that i was somehow a reincarnation of their leader
> i cant move because shes fucking huge

>> No.7123411

>>7123399


>she starts trying to strip me, claims its "for the ceremony"
>start struggling because im most likely about to be raped by a hamplanet
>she tries to strangle me because my struggle "awoke the demons"
>her mom comes home and she gets distracted and she lets go of my neck
>I manage to squirm out


Needless to say, i bolted and got medical attention.
She got shipped off to ontario to live with her dad, and i got permanent damage.
She fucked shit up so bad, i can barely use that arm. i cant grip properly with my right hand, and it left some ugly scarring.

i have tons of stories, that one is just the worst.

>> No.7123417

>>7123353
I'm the same anon
>Cosplaying a old school character
>Only old school otakus will know you
>Anon asks for picture and Facebook
>Starts talking to me everyday which at the time made me feel super akward, but as I was naive and nice I answered back
>The anon starts this epic romance in his head where I'm the sweet innocent young angel.
>I was ok with it but when saw that the weeb was serious backed off still trying to stay friends.
>He just wanted probably a fuck budy so he just ignored and says shit about me since the day he understood I only wanted a friend AND had a boyfriend.

anon still tried to get me to make cosplay stuff for him.

>> No.7123476

>>7123411
Pics or it's fake.

>> No.7123539

>>7123411
pics, man, we need the pic.

>> No.7123562

>>7123476
>>7123539
I'll get pictures when my boyfriend gets home from work.
i cant work a camera by myself.

>> No.7123581

>>7123411
>>7123399
>>7123386
>>7123383
Very similar to some anons story from 2011.

VERY SIMILAR.

2011 story had sibling who stabbed anon though...

>> No.7123586

>>7123581
*siblings

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>>7123257

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>>7123593

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>>7123597

Ursula Part 1

Before, people cried bullshit till some anons found out this was true. They provided links and stuff. And apparently some guy who used to be on this board a lot started work this year at an events company and found out his boss is OP.

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>>7123643
Ursula Part 2

Still one of my favorites.

>> No.7123657

>>7123643
I was in that thread. It actually turned out to be true? I am dying to see the links you're talking about.

>> No.7123660

>>7123597
Holy shit.

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>>7123643
>>7123646
NOPE

>> No.7123681

>>7123657
>>7123643

not the poster but I was there too. I'll try to remember it. "Art" after posting his ending, logged off. Some anon jacked his story and put up marriage in hawaii and shit. He came back on a few hour later, read them and posted so then disappeared.

Someone terribly screencapped the thing and posted it months later. /cgl/ went the way of the Seagull on it. Till some anons actually on investigating. They found, according to the timeline, it was stalking case back in 2003 in Chicago. The anon who found it posted link to the tribune. Then some anon found some correlation with Court statement and stuff.

Last year we had Mujibur, hope you guys remember him. Anyway, Mujibur was able to was on a thread where Art was lurking. I dont know the details but other people can attest they became friend there.

>> No.7123693

>>7123681
anyway Mujibur graduated from college last year and moved to Chicago last dec. He found work there. In the company where Art works. He did not know at the time it was Art. Somehow they got to be talking about 4chan then connection.

Mujibur was here around last feb. He went and defended the Ursula story and gave updated details. Art and Maya broke up in 2006 and got back in 2009. They got married in 2010 and Maya is set to give birth to their first kid this year, if she has'nt already.

Not much else I can give. Perhaps some other anon who was present when Mujibur was around can help.

>> No.7123812

>>7122743
You dumb cunt, why did you fuck him!? You met him at an anime club, for crying out loud...

>> No.7123820

>>7122896
Shit, even the whores on MTV reality shows even say "It's still a hard choice."

>> No.7123837

>>7122637
*kel erselph
Jesus christ learn 2 spellings

>> No.7123868

>>7122718

Tell him in no uncertain teams to leave you alone, for starters.

>> No.7123871

If I've learned anything from this thread, it's "don't be nice to losers."

Thanks, /cgl/!

>> No.7123915

>>7123871
its more
keep losers at a distance

>> No.7123949

>>7122907
yoooo
wow i know other people can be hurt by this decision like the potential father or whoever but fuck them. they don't have to carry that baby and give birth and be expected to take care of it 90% of the time. if a woman wants an abortion fuck everyone else and go for it

>> No.7123957

>>7123031

1/10

>> No.7124358

>>7122966
>he talks like a robot and kinda just gives me like a straight dead on stare. He talks to me like he is a Wikipedia page.

i don't wanna diagnose the guy but that sounds like classic Asperger's. my bro has it and he does this all the time. he can't help it but that doesn't make it any less creepy.

>> No.7124560

Alright, if this is an honesty thread I'll give it a go but I expect flak.

There's a very large portion of the cosplay community which is artificial, judgmental, and all around not nerdy or geeky at all. I don't know when people decided that fashion, photo-whoring, and popularity contests were "nerdy", but it's a load of crap.

I feel like nobody realizes that if the average nerd in the US walked into the Japanese fashion scene, they'd be ridiculed. But since ridicule, cliches, and social hierarchies are already becoming a part of US cosplay, I guess people would be ok with that.


Scenester, hipster, and hijacked nerd/geek culture is not real nerd geek culture, and yet everything nerd and geek is being INVADED by people like this. And a lot of you are just going along with it. I also feel like a whole lot of female cosplayers are getting into it more for the fashion show and popularity rather than geeking out, and this is slowly becoming less about fun and more about being queen fake-nerd in an alt-fashion scene.


When booth babes are more interesting to talk vidya and anime to than a try-hard cosplayer who is more concerned with who's good enough, you know there's a problem. Fakers and artificial turncoats everywhere.

>> No.7124569

>>7123949
I'm the person you're responding to, and I totally agree. If you read further up in the comment thread, you can see that I'm talking about how I believe it's scummy for a woman to use abortions as her main form of birth control, and why doing that while you have so many other options is awful.

>> No.7124576

>>7122743

Would like to hear his side of the story, especially with that vague part where you didn't have the class or mental distance to just accept an apology and move on. Maybe he was that bad and you're still pissed, but I wouldn't personally "protip" someone I was pissed at, I'd tell them to leave me alone and leave it at that.

>Actually, come to think of it, one of the things I learned throughout college is that a lot of people only intend to apologize to absolve themselves from what they did, not to actually make things better.

You'd rather he mowed your lawn, payed you for emotional stress, went around to everyone from your past years ago to explain what they don't remember, or some other ridiculous thing that will never happen? The desire to absolve oneself is born of guilt and empathy. If it's absolution he was after, then that would indicate he genuinely feels bad, which means the apology is a gesture to you.

If it's a sinister motive you're after, though, I'd lean more on him being over this years ago and just seeing if he had a chance to fuck you again, being that his past experience with you indicates you fuck guys on a whim and don't require a relationship. I dunno you or him though so I don't know if this is likely.

>> No.7124577

>>7123949

If you're ready to say "fuck everyone else" or "fuck him" about your SO, then don't expect that relationship to last very long.

Reverse the situation. Should he decide "fuck her" if she decided to keep it and up and leave?

While you can claim it's her decision her body as if it's a black and white issue, it's really more complicated than that if you care about not being alone in life. Including people so they're aware of a situation is how interpersonal relationships work. Having a mentality of "fuck him" means that person is going to know instantly that they have a lot less value to her than they thought they did, that's she only really looking out for herself etc. Basically, the exact opposite signal you want to put out if you want to be seen as a viable long term partner, friend etc.

If I had a SO who got an abortion without telling me, and especially if she told a friend, I would probably pack up and leave because I'd know the relationship could never work. Certain situations test the strength of the relationship and that's one of them... if you can't tell a guy something like that, then you shouldn't even be with him.

>> No.7124582

>>7124560
My greatest con fear is I'll meet a girl who I think is cool and nerdy and gives me a rise in my trousers that I'll focus on her instead of the probably more conservative actually nerdy girl who would be a much better match for me.

Oh boner, why do you affect my judgement so.

>> No.7124691

>>7124582

I wouldn't assume that only the attractive cosplayers are susceptible to the fashion show and social-hierarchy mentality. Sometimes lower "tiers" are just too socially awkward or low in the look department, and yet want to be artificial, judgmental, and on top.

With people worth while, looks shouldn't matter as it will be obvious with a few convos why they're at the con and what they think of people. If it's to win social circle cred or fulfill some popularity fantasy, just move on cause they'll drop anyone like a brick to move up on the ladder towards fake-nerd celebrity status.

>> No.7124784

ITT: unrealistic standards for how humans act and look

>> No.7124802

>>7124577
>Should he decide "fuck her" if she decided to keep it and up and leave?
Not only is that situation different completely, but to humor you--yes. People walk away from relationships all the time when their SO's decide to have kids against their will. The only difference is after the kid is born you have to pay child support and then mess up their lives by being an absentee parental figure.
>it's really more complicated than that if you care about not being alone in life
Do you even realize how manipulative that statement sounds? So in order to not be alone you have to make choices against what you feel is right for yourself? That's messed up and I think frankly some people would rather go through life alone.

Just because one says "fuck that" in terms of being coerced into having a child for someone else doesn't mean they mean it in every other aspect having to do with the SO.
>Certain situations test the strength of the relationship and that's one of them.
Said every single teen mom ever.

>> No.7124814 [DELETED] 

>>7124802
>So in order to not be alone you have to make choices against what you feel is right for yourself?

Yes it's called compromise and it's the basis for all successful relationships.

>> No.7124981

>>7122857
Your mother sounds like an absolute saint, sure she could use a firmer resolve but bless, I'm glad people like the exist in the world.
Similar situation here,too. When I was a eleven it was just me and my mother, and for some bizarre long-to-explain reason we ended up taking in a teenage girl for several months until she was old enough to move on to a new care system. Total problem child, despite doing all we could she just didn't want to play house, my dreams of finally having a big sister were smashed when without any real authority we couldn't keep her from disappearing to get blazed 420. She'd already been kicked out of school and she stole stuff constantly. She wouldn't even play vidya with me, she'd just use the house like a store room and go get in trouble even when my mum played a total hardass. We were discovering things missing for months after she left.

But, whatever, i was a spoilt brat and it taught me think twice about it. She wasn't from the worst situation but it was bad enough that she hadn't been able to learn how to share or to have her own nice things, and even though we weren't that well off we would be able to replace the missing straighteners and things in a year anyway. I don't think she cared that we were trying to help, but we did. Helping people isn't about feeling happy like in some film, it's just about doing what you can.
Long live altruistic mums.
Let's hope both our foster sisters learnt some life lessons about ownership and respect later down their lines.

>>7122882
You are, however, a total cunt.

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7125005

> TFW going to a con as a 'toned' Asian guy with long hair

I've had a group of 250+ women take a picture with me, at the last moment, one of them slides her sausage hand over my dick and makes an ":O" face. Hambeast women treat cons like stripclubs.

> TFW when women think I'm from an Asian country and must know all about anime and the culture/customs and shit and wet themselves when I tell them I'm Japanese. But me, my parents, and my grandparents were all from California

>> No.7125030

>>7124814
>Yes it's called compromise
What a poor excuse.
Kids should be a unanimous decision, not a compromise to be swept under the rug when they're not really wanted or loved to begin with.

How old are you btw? You have the ideals of a 15 year old.

>> No.7125034

>>7122894
I agree, and it's there are many people like your sister. One of my family and my best friend works in a shitty college and many of the girls there, all under age 19, treat abortion as easy and natural as having a shit. They laugh and joke about it afterwards and it's almost something to be congratulated on. A woman's right to choose indeed, pity so many of them rarely choose contraception or just keeping their legs shut.

>> No.7125038

>>7122857
>>7122862
These people.... I don't even.... This is some dr phil shit right here.

>> No.7125039

>>7124577
I completely agree. If you cannot tell your SO about it and how you want to not have the child then that relationship is worthless. You can still decide whether or not to abort but the guy needs to know.

My boyfriend and I suffered through an unplanned pregnancy scare when my cycle was over 2 weeks late. (Suspected a 'cryptic pregnancy') I wanted to get an abortion if it turned out to be trite but I told him and he was so grateful that I did. Yes we spoke about the alternative but it wouldn't have worked out since we didn't have any daily a resources as we try to finish or degrees and internships.

But we now know where we both stand on such a pressing situation in our lives.

>> No.7125045

>>7125039
Typos

Trite=right
Daily=family

>> No.7125044

>>7122882
Amy, plz go

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>>7123173
I'm a female and I feel you bro. It's really unfortunate that the only people who have the guption to reply to you are extremely biased or just plain ignorant. It could comfort you to know that you're not alone in thinking that cgl is a festering shithole of unbridled stupidity.

All that aside, having been well acquainted with geeky, deluded females so starved for any kind of physical contact with a member of the opposite sex that have little physical restraint when an opportunity presents itself I can safely say that it isn't a source of attention anyone that would want. Just think about it. You don't have to have experienced assault to know that shit is not desirable.

I'm guessing that you don't have much social experience, right? It may seem convinine to want to affiliate with other nerds and what not but be warned that unwanted shit may go down if you ever decide to put yourself in a certain situation.

>> No.7125050

>>7125046
>I'm not like other girls!
>p-please notice me

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>>7125050

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>>7125051
Not even.

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>>7125054
really?

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>>7125056
Really.

>> No.7125062

>>7123411
Plz tell me you sued her ass

>> No.7125063

>>7125061
not related to thread but that picture is incredibly gruesome, I wish I wouldn't have clicked on it

>> No.7125064

>>7122805
I will do that next time too. Free pussies. No hambeasts though.

>> No.7125071

>>7125063
lel 'gruesome'

>> No.7125074

>>7123915

Actually, it's both "don't be nice to losers" AND "keep this particular kind of loser far away from you."

>> No.7125077

>>7122947

Hahahaha! Even female otaku don't want them cause male otakus are so pathetic!

Classic!

>> No.7125081

>>7125005
Omg anon you shouldn't tell them that when you're not really from Nippon ><

>> No.7125084

>>7125056

What anime is that from?

>> No.7125119

>>7125005
Have you tried telling them to fuck off and not touch you?

>> No.7125138

>>7125084
occult academy

>> No.7125334

>>7122592

There's that guy's problem right there:

"Socially inept, creepy, fat, and unfortunate looking."

Sadly, it sounds like that guy may never wake up.

>> No.7125429

>>7122984
aye fuck you, I'm American and I know that its couldn't.

>> No.7125449

i met animeangel and i never cosplayed again >_>

>> No.7125487

>>7125449
Who?

>> No.7125512

..I sit right next to a hambeast who stares at me/ shares her obviously inaccurate stories and raves about japan.

I thought she was a normal fat girl till somehow we started talking about anime...

doesn't really bother me....i think its kinda cute how she is so unaware of how i am not even a little interested....she even tries to poke my stomach when i try to stretch.......its kinda weird but i feel kinda responsible for being nice to her...

>> No.7125517

>>7125512
You're going to regret your naivety when she breaks into your house and gives you a blowjob in your sleep.

>> No.7125519

>>7122602
>all these replies
is it that easy to b8 on /cgl/?
should come here more often

>> No.7125533

>>7122918
>irrational
hahahaha wow

>> No.7125543

>>7123212
god damn you are worthless

>> No.7125583

>>7123366
Ewwww.

>> No.7125650

>>7125583
It's not that disgusting when you consider he probably had the emotional capacity and maturity of a twelve year old boy. I'm not endorsing ebebophilia but I think it is ignorant to consider someone like him a creep or predator when they obviously have major emotional issues. They probably can't connect with people there age because of their problems.

>> No.7125657

>>7125519
/ck/ is even easier. Just make a microwave brownie, ramen, well-done steak, or quinky sauce thread.

>> No.7126371

>>7124802
>Do you even realize how manipulative that statement sounds?

It's really not manipulative to be expected to involve your SO in a situation which absolutely affects the relationship. What would be manipulative is if you didn't tell them, and kept on with the relationship as if nothing happened, because that's the definition of deception.

>just because one says "fuck that" in terms of being coerced

You're misrepresenting / manipulating this very conversation. An expectation that you tell your SO that you're pregnant is not an expectation of coercion. It's giving your SO the respect, trust, and love of including them and being willing to hear what they have to say. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't have an SO, and you probably shouldn't be fucking up your birth control since you aren't going to be ready to be a good parent if you fail at interpersonal relationships.

What's funny about your take on this, is that most guys are going to provide immense emotional support to their SO through something like that, but by not including a good guy you love in the situation and not even being willing to talk about it, you're probably going to lose him unless you decide to lead a dishonest relationship and hide the truth. Like it or not, pregnancy is something which affects both of you, and ignoring a guy's feelings by not even telling him is equivalent to ending the relationship because you're basically telling him he's not worth your time or consideration.

> That's messed up and I think frankly some people would rather go through life alone.

Yeah, sociopaths. The rest of us don't think we live in a bubble and actually put value in others.

>> No.7126372

>>7125030

For someone who thinks the SO shouldn't even be told about the pregnancy, who are you to be talking about the values that go into becoming a parent? Sounds like first you need to learn about how to have a real relationship.

>> No.7126381

>>7125039

And that's how healthy relationships work when the issue of pregnancy comes up. Going solo on a big issue is almost guaranteed to end it, whereas trusting your partner to be there for you can strengthen it.

If a guy is worth staying with, he's going to appreciate hearing about it and being able to have that conversation, and like I said earlier... most worthwhile guys are not going to stay in a relationship after something like that is hidden from them. It's a conversation that just needs to be had for the relationship to survive.

>> No.7126459

>>7122984
DAE THINK AMERICANS R DUM???? HEHUEUEHUEH EU DA BEST RIGHT? EVERY CUNTRY EXCEPT EMERICAXDddddddd

>> No.7126460

I'm glad for these threads. Every once in awhile I think of getting out of my hikikomori lifestyle or at least taking a brief break from it to go to a con and I'm set right by these kinds of threads. I can just picture it now:

>engage in awkward conversation with someone, hands shaking the whole time due to disability.
>sometime later in a bad /cgl/ con experiences thread: 'omg I meant this total creeper (his hands were shaky the whole time. helloooo, warning bells!) I'm so glad my friends were with me he totally looked like the type that would rape someone.'

Yeah. Can't deal with it.

>> No.7126468

>>7126460

lol.... don't fret. Read my posts:

>>7124691
>>7124560

Artificial dumbasses are entirely anti what this culture was originally about. Personally I'd judge you not on your handshake or shyness, but on what you have to say and if I enjoy what you have to say, because that's really the only reason I bother to go.

A lot of the judgmental stuff on 4chan is kind of inverse nerdrage. But some is about people who genuinely are messed up. I wouldn't be quick to include yourself with them, because most likely you'd be scared by them too. I'm talking severe personality disorder people who either can't pick up on or just don't care about social cues. For those people, it's kind of obvious that this scene was just a convenient outlet due to the level of acceptance, and unfortunately they end up freaking people out or sometimes hurting people (at least according to anonymous posts).

>> No.7127704

>>7126460

You're a human being. Social interaction is hard-wired into your DNA.

Being a hikikomori is not healthy.

>> No.7128931

>>7127704
[citation needed]

No, seriously. I've been hearing this since grade school and I haven't been presented a single scientific evidence yet.

>> No.7128940

>>7128931
Why the fuck do you think tribes exist throughout the world? Because its a natural occurrence to be near/around creatures like you

>> No.7128964

>>7128931
look up the side effects of quarantine and then tell me about how nobody needs people

>> No.7128970

>>7128931
Or you know, look at just about any mammal.
Even if the animal lives its adulthood as a solitary animal, it was still raised by it's mother.

>> No.7128987

>>7128940
No. You can choose not to.
Lots of exemples in history. You're dumb and you should stop even using the word "natural" or "DNA" or "human being" as long as you don't clearly make a difference between a natural inclination and a capacity that is pre-existent to education (and there are few of them).

>> No.7128990

>>7122894
while i do agree with you, i will point out that most of the time in most states women have to pay for the abortions out of pocket. so there is that.

>> No.7128992

>>7122907
abortions are often harder on the woman than on the man, but you can grow past it and heal.

>> No.7129227

>>7128992
I doubt it's that hard on the woman in question if she's using it as her main form of birth control instead of a condom or the pill or SOMETHING else. Which once again, was my point if you actually bother to read through the entire comment thread. What I said was a response to somebody else saying it was not amoral for a woman to get multiple abortions because she doesn't feel like using any other sort of birth control.

>> No.7129263

>worst love experiences
Loving /cgl/
It's a damaging relationship.

>> No.7130156

I'm the kind of guy that doesn't really have a problem talking to women or dating outside of the nerd spectrum. Yet, I've tried to pursue a relationship with a few otaku fems in the past and it doesn't ever get anywh.ere. I want to say ita frustrating but I think its only because I may project too much expectatiins on them. Nerdyfems are a birderline fetish. There's also the idea of dating someone who shares similar hobbies as me that seems attractive. Idk.

>> No.7130370

>>7130156

I'm gay and can converse with booth babes and your average 'I'm mostly only into whatever is trendy at the moment.' type of female. I get so intimidated/self-conscious when I try and talk to nerdy females though. Huh.

>> No.7130441

>>7122132
>Did not help that he was total neckbeard and smelly as all shit like damn.

That must have hit a nerve with most here.

Funny as fuck. Bravo.

>> No.7130529

>>7122849
>>7122857
This shit makes me rage. My boyfriend's brother stole a bunch of army mementos and awards, jewelry, and a large collection from their grandfather to pawn off for drug money. He's even stolen money from my sister.
The sad part is that their grandparents give them everything they ask for until they don't have any money to give. They're such nice people, but damn it they need to put their foot down or up that kid's ass. They didn't do a single thing when they found out because "oh, but he's had such a hard life..."
He got busted once for recording himself torturing/killing a kitten and got himself in juvie. His parents don't give him money because even they know he spends it all on drugs. The guy is an adult, lives with dad, mooches off grandma and grandpa, can't drive, and my boyfriend got him his last job which he bailed out of because they wanted to test him for drugs. Maybe his life wouldn't suck if he'd stop being such a fucking scrub.

Sage for off topic whining.

>> No.7131481

Well, I have a horror/stalking story from a con

>Female who cosplays as a male character 9/10 times
>Cosplaying since 2009 so I usually know how to avoid creepers
> Cosplaying my favorite character, last year so its 2012
>Find an AMAZING cosplayer from same anime, also a villian
>Forgot to mention, dude is not a neckbeard, or overweight, or smelly, or sweating grease.
>At first think the creep is just because dude is REALLY into his character, shrug it off because....
>Boyfriend appears who I have been dating for 2 years and who is cosplaying leader of said Villians
>We both think dude is kinda cool and invite him to join our Stunt Combat group cuz thats how we roll
>Bid him good-bye and go out to dinner with some other friends.
>Eating dinner not to far from the con, this dude appears.
>Dont think much of it because hey, we're in cosplay, theres a few other groups in cosplay, clearly cosplayers eat here after this con
>He's alone so group invites him to sit with us
> Dinner goes by with this dude only wanting to sit next to me, not a big deal, were cosplaying villians from the same anime.

>The next weekend, Dude appears at our stunt group. Horray! aother amazing cosplayer to add to our collection.
>Starts creeping on not just me, but other females in the group. Slowly at first, centering on mostly me.
>Few weekends later (because we only meet up on sundays) Everyones getting creeped.
>Every week after practice, we go eat hotdogs at a local joint down the way.
>He joins us, in the usual 'follow-me-carpool' we set up for newbies
>Starts doing some incredibly creeper things
>Warning flags go off for those who are in charge, boyfriend included.

>The next weekend, after practice, pouring rain so no way to initiate 'follow-me-carpool' thanks to visibility being null.
> Pair off veterans with newbies to help guide the way

>> No.7131494

>I volunteer to go with Creep because I'm a nice person.
>Previously had figured all creeps were just strange autistic attempts at friendship. My BFF is autistic so I've seen similar behaviors before.
>NOPE!
>We arrive at local place (and apparently to the relief of everyone, especially boyfriend) and the rain has gotten worse.
>We decide to see if rain will get better in a few mins
>It doesnt
>Oh hey! I have a tarp in my trunk we can use as an umbrella!
>Good idea Creep!
>I, being smaller at only 5'3" and he being around 6' 2", crawl into the backseat of his car to open the middle seat to get to the trunk.
>Oh hey! Be careful back there! I've got alot of rope and tape and stuff.
>Thats... odd. Oh well, grab at tarp. Find lots of what he said was back there. Kinda feeling creeped, but no big. I'm a cosplayer too, tape n shit is important.
>Feel something touch my ass
>MY bad! That was my elbow
>cant confirm or deny because im like shoulders deep into his trunk trying to get tarp out.
>Finally give up and tell him he needs to pop his trunk and we'll run around back and grab it
>Leans over as if he's going to make out with me.
>Push him off and remind him of bf
>proceed to get out of car quickly
>Apparently first sight bf gets of me is us running to grab tarp.

>Get to back of car and laughing because we're going to use Tarp as umbrella
>Immediately horrified because its not just tape and rope, but like handcuffs and stuff like that
>Stop laughing, it stopped being funny.
>use Tarp to run into restaurant with Creep and immediately smothered by scared boyfriend.
>We spend much of the rest of the time locked in each others arms.
>Clearly, creeps not happy about this and sits as far away from us as possible.
>Later bf and i talk about it
>I was worried I was never going to see you again Anon!
>Tell bf what I occurred upon trying to remove tarp and what I saw in Creeps trunk.

>> No.7131503

>>7131494

>Next weekend, Creep re-appears.
>Unknown to me, the leaders of stunt group have decided to do a background check on him
>As a family friendly group with underage participants, we have a right to perform a background check on anyone we want.
>They get his info and practice proceeds as usual
>That day he decides not to join us at local place
>Doesn't appear again at stunt group ever again and leaders never run background check.

>Fast forward to convention a few months later
>In same cosplay because I've gotten local con famous for it
>mostly because I went hard core and got the characters tattoo, no big.
>OH HEY!
>Turn around, its Creep
>Look around quickly for bf or someone I know, No one anywhere
>nervous: oh hey Creep.
>Hope he'll just say Hi and leave because hes not from same anime this time.
>We chat for a bit, he apologizes for not being at group lately because blah. blah, blah.
>try to laugh it off, clearly uncomfortable.
>Ok, well bye Creep, I gotta go -poorly made up excuse-
>Try to get lost in crowd, Im short, usually works.
>Think I've lost him, turn a corner and right into
>Creeps waiting and open arms
>Freak my shit out, but he's got my face pressed into his chest so all I can do is squirm and hit and try to breathe.
>Bite his chest as is my best weapon and run down the hall in tears looking for some con staffer.
>Find bf instead and collapse into his arms in tears
>he comforts me and takes me back to our room
>unknown to us, apparently Creep has stalked us all the way back to our room.

>I get out of cosplay, feeling thoroughly disgusted and decide I want to shower before the pool party. Cant go to raves because I'm epileptic
>Boyfriend decides to go down stairs and try to file report with con staff.
>Tells me he'll bring food back to room since I dont want to really go back to con at moment
>Few minutes after bf leaves, I step out of shower and a knock on the door
>Oh bf! What great timing you have! Open door in towel
>NOPE! Its Creep!

>> No.7131512

>>7131503

>Oh hey, why'd you bite me earlier?
>pushes way into room
>You need to leave! NOW!
>Aww, cmon Anon, cant you figure out how I feel about you, or are you a bitch
>Freaking out more now, start crying again. I have a bf, leave me alone.
>Pushes me onto floor and tries to take towel off.
>Grab roomates visualkei boot and slam it into his head.
>He gets off me and I bolt for room door, grabbing my swimsuit along the way because hey! any clothes are clothes right?
>Make mad dash for elevator while still in towel
>Run to lobby and inform hotel security. They get me a fluffy fancy robe and security escorts me back up to my room.
>Creep is nowhere to be found, but everything is a mess and my cosplay has been torn to shreds
>Find bf in room frantically calling my cell while holding a pizza
>We file a report with hotel security and remain in our room for the rest of that night
>Creep is nowhere to be seen the next day

>fast forward to a few months ago.
>It's been almost a year since I last saw Creep
>Have remade my old costume and met a new group of friends who cosplay from same anime
>Still love that costume and agree to wear it to con with them.
>Walking around having a grand old time when i see one of his 'infamously huge props' floating around above the heads of other con goers.
>Early warning sign and immediately grab entire group and turn other direction, looking for bf now.
>Tell bf what I saw, we go up to our room and I switch costumes to one he's never seen me in with heavy face makeup that half obscures my face.
>same anime, so I can keep hanging out with group.
>Feels like that moment in jaws as we're held for forever with pictures because 'ive never seen a group this big before!"
>Jaws theme song, wary eye on giant prop floating closer and closer
>Crowd parts enough for me to see who it is
>quickly change pose to face me away from him
>He interrupts photo to walk halfway across the group to say to me specifically
>Hey! Thats a really great costume!

>> No.7131517

>>7131512

>weakly: Thanks
>He leaves and I pray that he was honestly just complimenting me because its a rare character.
>Friends are all concerned because I'm a strong person and they've never seen me back away from an opponent.
>I explain the background story and they agree to keep me safe.
>Next day, decide to wear same rare cosplay along with group. Saving my third cosplay for later in the day when bf gets off work and can be at con.
>We play avoid him all day, including using the scatter technique when too many photographers hold us in the same spot. I'm never alone
> Day is fairly uneventful so decide to keep third cosplay for sunday.
>Day three, bf and I wear our third costume and traipse about the con having a grand old day with our group.
>we're held in place for about 5 minutes thanks to photographers
>unfortunately, not a good place to be stopped because theres a blind corner
>about to scatter but, too late, Creep saw us and has already approached.
>Hey! don't I know you? incredibly creepy smile.
>Bf pushes him away, right in front of con security and says
>Yes, and if you know whats good for you, you'll stay away.
>I love my bf because i'm starting to tear up at how close he is to me.
>Creep leaves and we quickly vacate the con to a friends house.

I can only leave it at this because it was a month or two ago. There havent been any cons since so I'm not sure if he's still hanging around or not. We're trying to put a restraining order on him, but we're having trouble because of the statue of limitations in our state sadly.

>> No.7131588

>>7131517
Cool story bro, it sound like a lie.

>> No.7131597

Ursula story was amazing. The romance was the best part, including the updated details and first baby arrival :0
>>7131517
Great story also, thanks for sharing! Sounds like a pretty close call you had.

>> No.7131631

>>7131588

HAHA. what do you want to proof?

>> No.7131776

>Sitting on bench alone.
>Some guy asks if they can sit next to me.
>Say yes.
>That means they can tell me their life story and we are now the best friends in the world.

Even worse are the ugly people who think because you even make a grunt at them means that you are friends. Last year at Youmacon I met this fat and smelly Green Lantern cosplayer who would not shut up about how fucked his life was and would just follow me around. Even when my friends came and I said bye he would just follow me.

>> No.7131780

One time this autistic as fuck guy wanted to chill with us at a convention since I talked to him about the show I saw cosplaying from for ~5 minutes, wasn't that big of a deal though.

>> No.7131786

>>7122849
My brother did this shit too :( he'd steal from my dad's coin collection and fish all the quarters out of our change jar even.

>> No.7133972

>>7131517

>willingly spending 5 posts to neatly type out and explain "traumatizing" event, essentially reliving it, to anons on the internet.

>confirmed for having a rape fantasy of fan fiction.net quality.

>> No.7134013

>>7122743
>Be whore
Get mad when you get called out
you better believe that's a paddlin

>> No.7134016
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7134016

This happened to me a few years ago when I was like 18/19.

>was at some con in San Antonio (don't remember which one, don't even go to conventions anymore because I grew the fuck up)
>nothing going on, remember being bored as fuck
>all friends were at panels and other shit I had no interest in, so decided to chill outside at this cafe the hotel had
>place was semi close to the river if I remember right (shit it might have been Austin now that I think back on it, who knows)
>as I'm sitting there these stray kittens come up to me and start begging
>I'm aware you shouldn't feed strays and what have you, but I'm a sucker for animals so I indulged
>think I wound up giving them some of my food and pouring them some water
>well apparently I was being observed because before I knew it two of the fucking largest and butterfaced "neko" girls came out of some bushes and walked right up to me
>before I could even wtf, they immediately got on all fours, started purring and "Nyan"ing at me, obviously attempting to imitate the cats I had mistakenly fed
>mfw I didn't even say anything, just stood up and 180'd the fuck out of there
>spent the rest of the night in the hotel room because fuck dealing with that shit

It was around this time that I started to realize that cons were not for me.

>> No.7134024
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7134024

>>7134016
>I grew the fuck up
>still browses a website for neckbeards, weeaboos and edgy teenagers

>> No.7134025

>>7134016
> because I grew the fuck up)
I hate little comments like these, why did you even need to add that? It just makes you sound pretentious.

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>>7134025

>Implying cons aren't infested with over aged children.

You can go to cons and still admit this. Con's aren't for everyone for obvious reasons. It's not a big deal.

>> No.7134053

>>7134047
Do I know you?

>> No.7134072
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7134072

>>7134053

Nope

>> No.7134190

I'm a guy. I'm not MEGA RIPPED but I work out enough that I'm muscular. I want to do a cosplay that shows my chest but people tell me it's a good idea since I don't like people I don't know touching me (yeah Im a social loser beta etc etc). /r/ing any creep stories that happen to"hot" guys.

>> No.7134200

>>7134190
There's a couple in this thread, have you read those yet?

>> No.7134216

>>7134200
Yeah I have and was wondering if there were any more is all.
Is being touched by everyone a common thing for a shirtless guy at a con?

>> No.7134233

>>7134216
If he's hot and either alone, or only has a friend or two with him then yes.

>> No.7134236
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7134236

Randomly scrolled by this thread since I consider cosplaying sometimes and then I remember why I don't.
Are cosplay communities really this fucking vain?
lots of green texting
>"I gave pity sex and now I'm stalked for life, this has nothing to do with cosplay but ANIME KURABU"
or
>"I am not a neckbeard, some ugly girl touched my abs because I wasn't wearing a shirt."

Its such a turn off for me going to cons or cosplaying because the prevalent amount of extremes. You're either a neckbeard or a pathetic attention whore.

Apparently "attractive" geekdom is supposed to be somehow "sexy" and "popular", the equivalent of being on varsity or something in the geek/otaku/nerd community. Obviously, not every person a part of geekdom is a hideous 250 pound neckbeard, but some of these stories are so pathetically "dumb bitch" or "couldn't be sexy in school but DEM NERDS AMIRITE?"

I'm hoping there's decent cosplayers out there who don't think geekdom is some kind of compensation for attention whoring or going full neckbeard.

>> No.7134238

>>7134236
what
I don't even know what this post is trying to say

>> No.7134240

>>7134236
Don't take 4chan as an accurate descriptor of the con environment. Most cons are uneventful as far as bad things go. I've been to roughly 40 or so cons over the years and I've only had bad things happen at maybe 5 of them.

>> No.7134245

>>7134238
I understand. Perhaps I should reference you to:
http://www.learnenglish.de/

>> No.7134253

>>7134245
No, dude. You're just really shitty at getting your points across.

>> No.7134257

>>7134253
Dyslexia must be difficult for you.

>> No.7134261

>>7134257
>getting this butthurt because you can't articulate well

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7134283

>>7134236
>Are cosplay communities really this fucking vain?

Yes.

These threads are like a sitcom.

75 - 80% of con-goers (cosplay or no) are damaged or attention starved. It is possible to meet people straight in the head though. When you do, it's awesome.

>> No.7134422

>>7131517
>Friends are all concerned because I'm a strong person and they've never seen me back away from an opponent.

lol are you autistic too because who the fuck types like that?

>> No.7134458

I'll give you guys a story as a former neckbeard betafag.

>be at con, 220lb, neckbeard, camera at the ready
>see cuter younger girl group cosplaying at power puff girls
>i know i'm harmless (at cons to take pics of really good cosplays, not trying to be a creepy)
>"excuse me, can i take your guys pictures? your cosplay looks really good!" ( always ask politely)
>they agree, so i take pic
>see them later, they see me and look at each other and turn away

>mfw i realize i'm a creepy as fuck neckbeard

I still take pics at cons, but I'm aware how I look doing it. not neckbeard of fat any more, so i don't think it is as bad though

>> No.7134475

>>7122805
So, it was a cosplay or what?
>WHY GIRLS TOUCH ME! NOOOOOO!

>> No.7134493

I once found out my ex was dead at a con. Number one most uncomfortable moment of my life.

>> No.7134515

>>7134422

My former boyfriend. He was all about acting like a shonen hero. He was weird about it, but it was actually quite harmless IRL.

>> No.7134532

>>7134515
I know a dude like that. It's a little weird, but he's harmless. His persona made him be kinda shitty and neglectful to the last girlfriend he had, though. He was too wrapped up in things and ha, oh man, when she called him out on Facebook for posting about his fake superhero shit while ignoring messages from her. I like the dude, but it was good.

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>>7134515
>>7134532

>acting like a shonen hero.

So they were larpers? Whatever floats your boat.

>> No.7135052

>>7123031
Wanting sweaty fembeard hands on you

>> No.7135053

>>7123048
Butthurt fatty detected

>> No.7135086

>>7122176
ye this.
like my first day here

>> No.7135090

>>7134013
yup this
hoes gunna be hoes

>> No.7135384

>>7134458
I am an attractive, in-shape guy and no girl has ever been creeped out by me taking a picture of their cosplay.

It's the stereotypes, for better or worse, that turn a lot of people away. Cosplayers want their picture taken and want compliments, they just don't want them to be creepy and neckbeards are usually taken as being creepy for good reason.

I've dealt with some hambeasts trap me in conversation with them since we share a similar interest. Never had any stalking or anything, but yeah plenty of long conversations I try for 10 minutes to get out of.

This thread reminds me the frustration of dating people with similar interests since the social ineptitude in the scene turns so many people off.

>> No.7138186

>little bored, decide to strike up conversation with someone nearby
>thinks I'm hitting on them
>every fuckin time

[/spoiler]btw im a guy[/spoiler]

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>>7138186

Most con girls are attention starved and socially awkward. Why even bother?

>> No.7138196

>>7138193
When my choices are "attend panel about the differences between tsunderes and yanderes or some other stupid shit" "go home and waste my money" and "see if I can meet someone interesting at this social event" my choices are pretty clear

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>>7138196

>going to a social event where only 10% aren't socially awkward overage children.

You must like making meeting new people hard on yourself.

These people are more comfortable meeting you online first than in person. Talk about backwards. But when one's socially awkward, I guess it's not surprising.

>> No.7139338

>>7131776

Was his name Forest?

>> No.7139357

>>7138186
Maybe you're coming off too strong? Some people may misinterpret you being loud and expressive around them as a come-on.

>> No.7139360

>>7138196
>going to cons that you don't actually care about the content
Why even bother going?