/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

[Anonymous No.7350148]

NY's "Lolita Fashion Week" starts tomorrow at the Japan Society lecture. Who's excited? All talk surrounding the upcoming NY events can go here.

[Anonymous No.7350157]

Ridiculously excited, but scared the snow will make the trip in miserable. Can't wait to getting dressed up and meet a bunch of other lolitas though!

[Anonymous No.7350248]

I'll be coming to the lecture tomorrow assuming that the weather doesn't cancel my bus ride. IDK what to wear yet!

[Anonymous No.7350253]

I was thinking of going to the lecture until I saw who else was on the panel, lol.

[Anonymous No.7350260]

>>7350148
Why does her smile weird me out.. Everything else about her is qt

[Anonymous No.7350486]

>>7350253
never read Ramble Rori, I'm alright with F Yeah Lolita but it's still just a blog, and what the fuck in terms of the photos from the "performance" artist's website

honestly for the panel Misako seems like the only speaker with any kind of serious lolita credibility with a fanbase of more than just blog followers

im going on the city bus tour on friday since its only $20 and the party on saturday

[Anonymous No.7350504]

>>7350248
I still don't know what to wear... I've been trying stuff on for like 2 hours now. I'm attempting to balance warmth + snow resistant shoes + something that will be comfortable for 6+ hours of travel time -_-;;

[Anonymous No.7350553]

I'm so excited, but terrified about the snow. I don't own any loliable boots s I think I'm just going to have to chance my TPs getting snowed up.
I'm skipping the tea party but going to the Seagull meet so that should be nice as well.

[Anonymous No.7350582]

My DC area comm is going, to a lecture, but I'm not. Wish I was.

[Anonymous No.7351259]

Looks like because of the rain/snow the MTA is shitting all over this lecture

[Anonymous No.7351560]

>>7350486
Well the former can't dress herself and the latter is a shitty, up her ass mod, so...

Yeah I have no idea who the fuck the artist is but I hate most performance art anyway, so.

[Anonymous No.7353172]

How was the lecture? Any seagulls on right now who attended?

[Anonymous No.7353242]

Yeah, I attended. I'm glad that i got to go but I feel like it was more of a Lolita Fashion 101 panel like you'd see at an anime convention - and it didn't actually answer the question about whether lolita is a costume or a lifestyle. Misako was cute as fuq, Miss Caro-chan and the other girl were OK, but the moderator was someone who had never been a lolita and she was asking stuff like "does lolita have to do with music, like punk subculture?" and "is there a place for men in lolita?"

I'd say that the audience was maybe 60% girls in lolita and 40% boyfriends/friends/moms of lolitas, random old people, weird hipster photographers, and random Asians. It would have been nice if it was a panel for people who already knew what lolita was. The most cringe-worthy moment was during the Q&A section when some old guy asked "what do your boyfriends and parents think about you wearing lolita?"

Also cgl got a shout-out.

[Anonymous No.7353255]

>>7353242

>what do your boyfriends and parents think

What kind of response did he get? Did Misako respond? She likes men with bulging veins but thats all I got.

[Anonymous No.7353281]

>>7350486
FYLolita can't really dress herself, either. It was really disappointing to see her after using her blog when I first started out last year.
What's wrong with her modding, though?

>>7353242
This sounds awkward and awful.

[Anonymous No.7353338]

>>7353281
She's milkteamilk on LJ, if that explains it.

[Anonymous No.7353385]

>>7350253
Isn't the person who runs F Yeah Lolita milkteamilk?

oh lord

[Anonymous No.7353419]

thought she wasnt going...?

[Anonymous No.7353450]

>>7353385
Yup, as well as owner of Orphanim.

[Anonymous No.7353611]

Wasn't able to make it to the lecture because of the shitty weather so I paid for a tea party ticket. Half hoping amber refunds me because I feel dirty and hypocritical giving my money directly to her after laughing at her on here for half the month.
There are like 2 spots left anyway so I'm sure she's more than happy to receive that money.

[Anonymous No.7353853]

>>7353419
A "Vanessa G." is listed down in the guest list, so maybe they worked something out through PMs.

[Anonymous No.7353857]

>>7353419
lol is this what she's talking about, they look gaudy as fuck

[Anonymous No.7353858]

>>7353172
As someone who is a complete lurker and a lone lolita, I was really surprised at how well spoken the other two were (not the moderator - she was a train wreck). After reading comments on here I was expecting a lot worse, but it really wasn't that bad (and they were dressed fine too? IDK maybe I'm missing something, but they were not, like, disgracing the community with their outfits).

Misako was super sweet, but gave really flat answers (not much depth).

Afterwards I got my picture with Misako! She was really cute and complimented my outfit, but I'm pretty sure she was doing that to everyone.

I thought it was a good time. Worth going to :)

[Anonymous No.7353868]

>>7353242
It sounds like the panel that they had on lolita a few years ago at FIT when they had a Japanese street fashion exhibit. Lots of questions from people why don't really understand lolita. I remember they asked something like, "Is there any kind of environmentally friendly lolita?"

[Anonymous No.7353876]

>>7353281
I've tried google, but milkteamilk doesn't seem to have any public photos of herself online? What does she look like?

[Anonymous No.7353881]

>>7353876
http://distilleryimage1.s3.amazonaws.com/4b5c43f48eca11e3858a0e399160e2e5_8.jpg

[Anonymous No.7353884]

>>7353881
Well that's really damn helpful. I don't know who any of these people are except Misako. And why didn't you just add the image to your reply instead of pasting a URL?

[Anonymous No.7353885]

>>7353884
Didn't have to post anything. You want some cheese with your WHINEEEEE.

[Anonymous No.7353887]

>>7353881
I'm still not sure exactly which one is milkteamilk in this picture either, but everyone seems to be dressed well.

[Anonymous No.7353891]

>>7353887
I found another one with them on stage. I believe Ramble Rori is in the middle, and FYeahLolita is on the end in black.

I agree, I didn't really see anything wrong with their outfits. The coords were really simple, but if you saw FYeahLolita's dress in person, it was a really gorgeous older piece from IW - the picture doesn't do it justice.

[Anonymous No.7353893]

>>7353887
Isn't she the one with the piano dress, short fringe and glasses ?

[Anonymous No.7353899]

>>7353885
You sound really lovely, anon-chan

[Anonymous No.7353902]

Got refunded for the tea party becouse it's full apparently :/
I will never see misako ;-;

[Makilemore No.7353920]

The lecture was alright at times, honestly awkward at others - it was just a dressed-up version of a Lolita 101 panel, like another anon said. I felt bad for Misako and the other two girls, they were incredibly well spoken and seemed knowledgeable but really weren't given a chance to display that since the questions were pretty much 'durr durr i know nothing about lolita'.
There were some really obnoxious people there as well, especially this old hag that kept filming everyone 'for vine' and screaming "HARAJUKU HARAJUKU" when she jammed her fucking phone in your face.
I did meet a lot of girls I wouldn't have had the chance to otherwise, and most people were really gorgeous and sweet, so brava to all the lovely lolitas who were there!
Also, Amber showed up late. In bodyline. And uggs, as well as with a shitty knit beret and nonmatching tights, bitch looked a mess (if the rest of us sloshed there in TPs and RHS, you can put some effort too).
Let me know if you guys have any other questions.

[Anonymous No.7353931]

>>7353920
XDD

[Anonymous No.7353948]

>>7353884
i think shes the one in the black piano dress with the glasses.

[Anonymous No.7353960]

>>7353931
Fucking rude and poorly dressed, just as expected from a nigger

[Anonymous No.7353990]

Why is it that all the egl moderators are hideous itas? I don't get it.

[Anonymous No.7354044]

>>7353920
Are we still on for tomorrow night? Just cause there hasn't been an email update in a while.

[Anonymous No.7354068]

>>7353931
just when I thought all the bullshit was over

[Anonymous No.7354071]

>>7354068
Oh no! She's dipping into her own funds to make sure you get something to drink!

Get outta here you drunkard scum. Buy your own drinks if you honestly need to be tipsy in order to have fun.

[Anonymous No.7354076]

>>7354071
You missed the part where she sold 50 more tickets then the venue owner said the quote was for

[Anonymous No.7354079]

>>7354068
Isn't she supposed to be a professional party planner? Imagine if she was organizing your wedding. Holy shit.

[Anonymous No.7354081]

>>7354071
Aren't you late for homeroom, anon?

[Anonymous No.7354210]

>>7354079
She has her "certificate" from an online scam party planning "college"

[Anonymous No.7354267]

>>7354071
This, isn't this a... teaparty? Jesus.

[Anonymous No.7354402]

Pics from a lolita, not a very flattering picture

[Anonymous No.7354406]

>>7354402
And another from daily lolita on fb

[Makilemore No.7354620]

Other notes before I forget:
>Misako & other panelist predicted that the new 2014 trends would be longer skirts with less poof
>Fashion show was really lovely, lots of variety in outfits despite derpy as hell commentary by moderator
>I talked to people after, one girl came out form Texas just for the event
>lots of people going to the tea party but there were some voiced worries about Amber's competency, actual event, etc
>Simply confirmed for going to tea party, apparently Amber apologized to her???

Just a few more random observations for those who weren't there.

>>7354044
Yes! I'll send out an email tonight as a reminder, but the meet is still happening.

[Anonymous No.7354627]

>>7354402
I take it the woman behind misako is her translator?
She looks like a floating head.

[Anonymous No.7354656]

>>7353902
I love those hair clips.
The more I see the worse it gets regarding the event...it just is not so difficult to know how many seats your venue has????
I'm sorry anon.

>>7354267
Some venues that have tea also have bars or an alcoholic menu.

In some ways I wish I went in others...not so much.

[Anonymous No.7354664]

>>7354402
Ugh, those land whales next to Misako. Those coords are okay, but nothing amazing.

[Anonymous No.7354671]

>>7354656
The venue is a bar. Look at the reviews on yelp and it pretty much is just a bar with pretty decor.

[Anonymous No.7354673]

>>7354620

tall lolitas rejoice

[Anonymous No.7354743]

>>7354406
Aws, this is just adorable!

[Anonymous No.7354751]

>>7354656
Bar capacity varies according to event type, private party booking the whole bar or part, whether sit down or mingle reception style etc. I'm not a party planner but I've booked a few venues for things. It's one of the first things you iron out before deciding other details.

[Anonymous No.7354766]

>>7354751
Yeah, I was looking around for something recently and a lot of places will say that it fits X amount of people, but when you mention chairs and tables then it becomes a much smaller number. Lots of places are used to art gallery styled cocktail parties where most people are standing around.

[Anonymous No.7355576]

I was doing a photoshoot in Manhattan this morning, I wish I had known this was going on.

Any good photo opportunities later in the week?

[Anonymous No.7356056]

>>7354743
lol, her bag is backwards.

[Anonymous No.7356963]

>>7356056
It's common in regular fashion to wear bags with the logo facing in, even some Chanel fashion shows do it purposely. So it may not be a mistake or accident.

[Anonymous No.7356972]

>>7354620
> longer skirts with less poof
yes i was seeing this in kera recently
i am excite

[Anonymous No.7356985]

>>7356972

Just got this in the mail a few months ago in Bordeaux, excited to coord this now!

[Anonymous No.7356990]

>>7354664
I'd like to see the coords in good lighting before saying anything, honestly. That's not very good lighting at all. The only thing I see for sure that looks out of place is the panelist on the left sitting with her legs apart and holding the mic in an...um...unfortunate way.

[Anonymous No.7357010]

>>7356990
i dont think her legs are apart, her thighs are just too fat thus making it uncomfortable to touch calves

[Anonymous No.7357140]

So /cgl/ I just got back from hanging out with Misako on the ride and then at a thai restaurant. Here's a rundown of what happened.

>The ride was an energetic and extremely tacky tourist attraction that I would never pay full price for and I'm glad I didn't
> Misako didn't enjoy it as much as she would have liked too since everything was in English
> The restaurant luckily had a lunch special so it wasn't expensive.
>Thai iced coffee is a bit too sweet for Misako
> I asked her a few questions but her answers were pretty... I'm not sure what the right word would be, short, bland?
>Like I asked what she thinks of the rarity of certain colors like orange and green in lolita
>Her answer was they are cute but I like pink
>Lots of photos were taken everyone was looking fabulous (except me probably)
>She called my personality soft, which couldn't be further from the truth but it warmed my heart anyway.
>She was impressed I could eat the extra spicy curry

Sorry most of that must have been boring.
I'm going to be at the tea party tomorrow so if anyone has an interesting question they wanna ask her I'll write it down and hopefully I can talk to her again.

[Anonymous No.7357200]

Can't believe no one has posted a photo of this group pic yet itt.

[Anonymous No.7357237]

>>7357140
tell her that the peasants are starving and are in need of bread

[Anonymous No.7357247]

>>7356972
>>7356985
I hate myself for not buying this dress, it's so pretty.

Also, loving the long dress trend. Between AATP and IW, I'm amassing a nice collection of stuff that actually looks right on my 5'9" frame.

[Anonymous No.7357253]

>>7357200
Is that simply26 on the left in the second row? Thought she was banned from attending.

[Anonymous No.7357265]

>>7357253
No, she was banned from Amanikitty's meetups, but they can't ban her from an event that's open to the public.

[Anonymous No.7357299]

>>7357253
What's the story on this?

[Anonymous No.7357300]

>>7357010
Who is she?
I don't see her listed in the event details.

[Anonymous No.7357307]

>>7357237
Somehow I managed to read that as
>tell her the peasants are starving and are in need of brand

[Anonymous No.7357309]

>>7357140
Not boring at all, I was hoping for deets!
I'd like to know what her fave print motif is or what foods she likes best for events and teas.

[Anonymous No.7357313]

>>7357309
I asked her if she could design a print what the subject would be, turns out she already designed a dress for Baby and that its all about ribbons.
Not sure about the food question though.

[Anonymous No.7357315]

>>7357140
If like to hear what age she thinks is "too old to wear lolita"

[Anonymous No.7357378]

>>7357313
>Not knowing about this glorious dress

[Anonymous No.7357414]

>>7357200
Holy crap, I know far to many people in that picture.

This is why I never come on /cgl/. Too close to real life.

[Anonymous No.7357474]

>>7357200
What a train wreck most of them are

[Anonymous No.7357506]

>>7357265
Public or not, she should have been barred from attending this.

I was infuriated when she was allowed to attend.

[Anonymous No.7357526]

>>7357506
Who what why?

[Anonymous No.7357640]

>>7357506
Aside from her generally awkward/retarded behavior does she actually do anything specific at events to merit being banned? She's been quiet on EGL for a few years so I didn't realize she was still actively pissing people off.

[moot No.7357662]

>>7357299
>What's the story on this?
I too wish to know this.

[Anonymous No.7357663]

>>7357662

Well, if moot wishes to know: http://getoffegl.livejournal.com/tag/name%3A%20simply26

[Anonymous No.7357676]

>>7357662
you should go out with Amber instead for a milkshake. she's still single and looking for that special someone!

[moot No.7357681]

>>7357663
I can't read this drivel.

>>7357676
whut

[Anonymous No.7357691]

>>7357681
Moot when will there be a 4chan get together at a bar? Hanging out with you would be a bit more fun then hanging with Misako truthfully.

[moot No.7357693]

>>7357691
>Moot when will there be a 4chan get together at a bar?
The day I stop having creeptastic stalkers.

You're all welcome to have one though!

[Anonymous No.7357701]

>>7357681
m-moot, why do you care of the loli drama?

But basically simply is pants on head retarded, and has had sales related issues in the past...

[Anonymous No.7357699]

>>7357663
Where is the post talking about her being banned from events?

[Anonymous No.7357700]

>>7357693
Maybe girls "stalk" you because you don't give them a straight answer when they ask you out so they need to keep asking because you give them the run around...

[moot No.7357707]

>>7357700
>Maybe girls "stalk" you
I'll stop you right there—"girls" don't stalk me.

[Anonymous No.7357704]

>>7357681
I was with Amber a week or so ago and I'm not sure if she was referring to the same girl but she said that a person got banned from the New York community meets for racism and calling someone else a nigger.

[Anonymous No.7357710]

>>7357707
.....why do boys stalk you?`

[Anonymous No.7357711]

>>7357707
moot, you're so cute.
are you going to come to the midwest anytime soon? can we lewdly hold hands if you do?

[moot No.7357713]

>>7357710
>.....why do boys stalk you?`
Mental illness, I suppose.

>>7357711
>can we lewdly hold hands if you do?
Are you a wouldholdhangswith/10?

[Anonymous No.7357716]

>>7357707

I'd stalk you, but it would require leaving my basement.

moot roams free for another day, alas.

[Anonymous No.7357717]

>>7357711
i am seconding this please visit chicago so i can be your kawaii rori girlfuriendo

[Anonymous No.7357730]

>>7357713
no I would not hold hangs/10
but hands maybe...
>posting best tier eva waifu

[Anonymous No.7357974]

>>7357707
Moot come to one of our NYseagull meetups! We promise it's cute girls only , we just had one today and all wished you were there.

[Anonymous No.7357991]

>>7357663
>Referral to getoffegl?!?
>Really? Oh come on.

Someone local to the event and in the know is missing the golden opportunity to tell moot the story.

[Anonymous No.7357997]

>>7357140
Ask her what modeling for Bodyline was like.

[Anonymous No.7358043]

>>7357707
>>7357974
We def did. We talked about you mootykins. Please join us ~

[Anonymous No.7358089]

>>7357997

[Anonymous No.7358098]

>>7358089

[moot No.7358259]

>>7357974
>>7358043
You didn't invite me!

[Anonymous No.7358269]

People are fucking fools.my gf is simply26 I'm a blackman so how is my girl.friend racism

[Anonymous No.7358290]

>>7358269
>I'm not sure if she was referring to the same girl

[Makilemore No.7358316]

>>7358259
We're holding a karaoke meetup soon for the NYCgulls, consider it an open invitation moot-senpai

Speaking of which, for those parties interested, the NYCgull meet happened last night! It was really fun and everybody who came was super nice and sweet. Further meets to come in the next 2-3 weeks, shoot me an email if you're interested in getting on the mailing list.

[Anonymous No.7358441]

>>7358316
Add moot to the email list.

[Anonymous No.7358467]

>>7357662
She started out as just an annoying noob (made several livejournal posts in which she could not figure out how to post photos) and then became a scammer (would buy things from people and then do a paypal chargeback). When people started to call her out for these things, she responded with nonsensical rants filled with racial slurs and insults (many of which were directed at Amber, the girl pictured in >>7357676 who is a self-styled leader of the NYC lolitas and is "organizing" aka making a mess of the Misako tea party). Then escalated into going after a few other people online (making sock accounts slightly misspelling their names and shitposting to try to get the real accounts in trouble) and repeatedly spamming all the lolita livejournal communities with gore and pictures of shit-filled toilets. Was banned from anything Amber organizes for these shenanigans.

[Anonymous No.7358719]

Someone tell this fat bitch to stop stretching out my dream dress.

[Anonymous No.7358727]

>>7358719
Man your tears taste even better considering misako loaned her that whole outfit

[Anonymous No.7358791]

>>7358727
Seriously?

[Anonymous No.7358840]

>>7358719
I'd agree with you if she actually wasn't fat enough to stretch it out. I feel obliged to ask if you aren't from North America.

[Anonymous No.7358876]

>>7358840
Are you kidding me? Based on the pictures Amber posted from her ~mission trip~ she's fucking huge. She must use a lot of shapewear, but I'd be surprised if she wasn't stretching it.

[Anonymous No.7358890]

>>7358719
How is the meet, anon?

[Anonymous No.7358903]

>>7358727
Lol Man I bet it's becouse misako saw she can't dress herself when she showed up in bodyline,a beanie and uggs on wensday.
the only reason Japan society contacted amber to run the tea party is becouse seeing as how amber has no job, no education and no life she, like a true weeaboo regularly volunteers for js.

[Anonymous No.7358915]

>>7358903
Jesus Christ, I just had war flashbacks to Amber showing up to a meet with frizzy hair, a gross bodyline JSK (might have been an OP but it was a terrible shade of light blue) with pinks that just did not match and oh god it was terrible. I avoided her the whole meet. I didn't want to be seen next to... that thing.

[Anonymous No.7358927]

>>7358903
Wait... that's the person who organized it?
>my jeffs.

[Anonymous No.7358935]

>>7358719
She looks like a middle-aged gorilla. Yikes.

[Anonymous No.7358955]

>>7358719
She looks cute. Mad because you can't twin with Misako?

[Anonymous No.7358960]

>>7358719
This actually makes me feel good (in a way). I've always been afraid of towering over Misako whenever I end up meeting her, but Gorilla-Face is taller than me, so I shouldn't be too tall. (I just didn't want Misako to think "damn, big-ass foreigners.")
>>7358955
lol you've probably never seen Gorilla-Face (I want this nickname to stick) in person. She's the lolita version of ratchet. Bonus points to her for having no job/life/goals and aspirations outside being "kawaii".

[Anonymous No.7358984]

>>7358955
You're probably also a gorilla faced nigger.

[Anonymous No.7359013]

>>7358719
What blouse is Misako wearing?

>>7358890
I want to know too

>>7358955
She looks like several things, none of them cute.


> Misako's face here...

[Anonymous No.7359024]

>>7358960
>>7358935
I really hate white people, I'm really tired of black girls being equated to monkeys, with your plain ass oatmeal looking selves, I don't even like Amber but she doesn't look like a gorilla, you just like showing your true racist colors when no one can see you.

[Anonymous No.7359028]

>>7359024
>plain ass oatmeal looking selves

that the best you got? hard for chimps innit. mad jelly alll up in here.

[Anonymous No.7359034]

>>7359024
Hi wonderfinch

[Anonymous No.7359045]

>>7359024
the high hair bun doesn't help

[Anonymous No.7359062]

>>7359024
Are you even looking at the picture? She's pulling a gorilla face in it. It doesn't take my pale-cracker brain to see that.
Also I don't know what oatmeal you've been eating, but if your oatmeal is as light as my skin you need to buy better oatmeal, that's nasty. Everyone knows the good shit is a tan-brown. Maybe cream of wheat would have been a better analogy. Or the milk left over after a bowl of plain special k. No that's pushing it. Raw pancake batter? I'm trying to stick with the breakfast theme...

[Anonymous No.7359063]

>>7359024
Anon the term 'racist' is triggering and offensive. It's also very ableist. :(
Educate yourself and check your black privilege.

[Anonymous No.7359071]

>>7358955
tots cute

[Anonymous No.7359097]

>>7359028
>using the same gorilla insult from centuries ago
>thinking you have good insults
top lel
>>7359024
It's okay, anon. Really they're just mad that a black girl got to chill with Misako. You can tell from their aggressive attempts to make a shit meme stick and their weak insults.

[Anonymous No.7359106]

>>7359071
I JUST LOST MY SHIT bless you anon

[Anonymous No.7359116]

>>7359097
Nah, I really don't care that she got to "chill with Misako" I just care that she's a rude psychopathic bitch and I can't stand her personality. So when she makes a face, and said face looks just like a gorilla's (it's more than the colour of her skin, mind you. It's the actual way her face is set in the picture.) I am going to call her out on the face. Especially since I'm on anon and won't have to deal with her being a psycho to my face. (She's the reason I left the NYC community. She went full-psycho and I didn't feel comfortable around her after that.)

[Anonymous No.7359120]

>>7359097
Are you even from NYC anon? Read the damn thread before you decide to make a condemning post about any of the insults thrown at amber. She deserves that and worse for being a serious cunt to anyone that opposes her in even a tiny way and thinking she's gods gift to Lolita.
She is especially mean to white members unless they have an intense case of white guilt and suck her ass at every opportunity ( like Victoria & co ) so please save your feeble attempts at defending quite possibly the meanest member of the NYC Lolita community and expel that energy on perhaps understanding that we in new york are all victims of her ratchet reign instead.

[Anonymous No.7359125]

>>7359071
More kawaii gorilla chan

[Anonymous No.7359141]

>>7359120
This. I've been commenting a bit in this thread, and the amount of times Amber has given me these... Looks... Like I mentioned how it's impossible for me to tan, but I don't really mind since I have weird undertones... (we were talking about tanning) She just looked at me like I'm scum of the earth, how dare I prefer my skin to be pale because it looks better on me. I didn't say it looks good on everyone, I said it looks good on ME because of my undertones.
Not to mention the time she messaged me for nearly a week straight, grilling me with questions, asking if I was afraid of her (yeah I am, but I didn't say that to her face), asking what other girls thought of her... I was terrified! I lied to her about everything, saying I thought she was "awesome!" and "no one hates you! You're so nice!" Because I watched her send a girl into full on tears and banning her from the community because of a meet. Just for organizing a meet and then seeking shelter from the rain because we were, you know, wearing brand that runs when wet. I was terrified she'd do the same to me, and possibly worse.

Anyone who defends her needs to kindly fuck off. I've detached myself from the comm, so I don't feel as scared writing this... But believe me it's taking a lot of courage to even hit submit right now.

[Anonymous No.7359146]

>>7359125
Misako's face, oh my god.
>the fuck you doing, gorilla-chan?

[Anonymous No.7359162]

Hey peeps, how was the party? C'mon, I want to hear the details, the food, the venue, the activities. Somebody spill.
I don't even know Amber, I just want to hear about the partyyyyyy!

[Anonymous No.7359177]

>>7359162
Paid 67 dollars to be packed in, shushed and stale food.

[Anonymous No.7359181]

>>7359177
Kindergarten roll call happened too

[Anonymous No.7359213]

>>7358955
she look salty as hell

[Anonymous No.7359218]

>>7359177
What was the menu? Deets please.

[Anonymous No.7359245]

>>7359141
Your courage is appriciated anon ! Seriously imagine how that girl feels. Knowing her irl she's since partially quit Lolita and stopped going to meetups in NYC, completely quit Facebook, cut off ties with all the Lolita's that shit talked her publically on FB after reading ambers post on basically saying everyone should hate her and last time she was at a con (otakon) Victoria made a loud remark along the lines of "how dare she show up!"
I feel really really bad for her but thanks to that amber really showed her true colors to the Lolita community.
Of course most girls that weren't in attendance took ambers side in this but also remember a majority of the NYC Lolita comm is pocs who look up to amber so really it's not much of a suprise.

[Anonymous No.7359257]

I should also mention that amber likes to cry racist at every opportunity so she's probably said a few things about you just for that remark.
Her main power in the NYC comm is crying racism actually becouse if she accuses a member of such the rest of the community being mostly pocs
Will shun them or automatically hate them.
It's really the worst comm becouse of amber.

[Anonymous No.7359277]

>>7359245
Thank you! And I didn't know she (even partially!) quit lolita! If you see her let her know that I was at the meet and I talked to her on FB (before she quit) and then on skype and I had sent her caps to help back her up. She should know who I am, tell her that I was completely on her side, and that I hope she doesn't quit lolita, she looks amazing in it! If she ever wants to meet up, too, she can feel free to message me on skype.
(also, I knew Victoria was a bitch, but holy shit, that's terrible. The worst I've had with her was asking to take a picture with her at a meet once. She gave me this dirty looks like I was some sort of peasant beneath her. The photo came out terrible, I wish I still had it.)

>>7359257
Pretty much this. I'm kind of happy I'm moving in August, and that the comm is supposedly really nice! I really hate that Amber has the comm twisted around her finger like this.

[Anonymous No.7359278]

Amber,rune and some of their close friends are probably having dinner with misako rn.

[Anonymous No.7359289]

Ok, I went tonight. I had fun.
Was VERY crowded. I'm surprised we did not break fire code or something? There was an open bar for a bit, drinks were very good. The bartenders were nice, and were open to conversations and jokes.
Otherwise, there were tea sandwiches available, and they were enjoyable.
Everyone looked lovely, had some nice conversations. But seriously, no more then 50 MAX people should have been in that place.

Have questions, ask away.

[Anonymous No.7359295]

>>7359289
How long did it last? What were the sctivities? Were the table sets nice or just average.
What kind of sandwiches? No pretty sweets? No pix?
> sorry! I wish I could have gong but I live far.

[Anonymous No.7359313]

Kawaii sardines anyone? It must've been so hot.

[Anonymous No.7359315]

I want to get Misako to come to AB, but I'm not in the Boston comm because it's shit, should I just go for it anyways?

[Anonymous No.7359320]

>>7359315
Yes. If you do ill actually attend ab. Last year there was almost no Lolita.
Also I thought the Boston comm was pretty decent. Well anyone compared to NYC is decent.

[Anonymous No.7359326]

>>7359313
it was fucking miserable.

[Anonymous No.7359329]

>>7359295
It went from 2-7
the activities were basically a Q and A and a raffle
No pretty sweets. I know one was a classic cucumber sandwich, and there was a bunch of breads with spreads on them. Fancy spreads and I am a little tipsy so I don't really remember there names, but one had olives in it and one tasted like lavender. There was a jam sandwich too that was really good.
No pix from me sorry.

[Anonymous No.7359338]

>>7359329
Was tea actually served?
How hard were you sweating?

[Anonymous No.7359341]

The tea party was pretty fun but I wish that it would have been in a bigger venue. This place was just way too small for 100+ people. I'm surprised it wasn't a fire hazard.

[Anonymous No.7359342]

>>7359338
There was no tea.

It was not so hot surprisingly, I was comfortably warm but I am one of those people who is always cold so I'm sure a lot of people were too warm.

[Anonymous No.7359344]

>>7359342

Did it stink at all? Was there BO? I feel bad if Misako had to deal with a bunch of sweaty gaijins in a cramped little room.

[Anonymous No.7359355]

>>7359344
Was not overwhelmingly smelly like say a gaming room at a convention, but it did smell a bit like hot people? Hot people with good personal hygiene I guess? Was not overwhelming

[Anonymous No.7359362]

I really feel sorry for this black chick... she tried to make a nice event for everyone to attend and these ungrateful racists have nothing to say graciously, of course.

You must be the same faggots whining about the Coke superbowl commercial in different languages. Enjoy being sterile and weak. Also enjoy your men who are limp noodled and weak minded freaks who are more likely to turn into freakish serial killers. FUCK I hate white people sometimes. You people are so damn gross. And the saddest part is you someone think you are the most desirable. Haha. No. FUCK no.

[Anonymous No.7359365]

>>7359045
It's really just the fact that she was pulling a bitch face THE WHOLE NIGHT! She was the worst hostess, didn't crack a smile all night and treated everyone like they were naughty children for not being quiet enough at a fucking party.

[Anonymous No.7359367]

>>7359344
I saw one girl apply some body spray during one of the "down times" during the event, I don't see why others didn't follow her lead

[Anonymous No.7359370]

>>7359362

Amber pls go and stay go

[Anonymous No.7359377]

>>7359362
Are you retarded?

[Anonymous No.7359374]

>>7359362
>comes on 4chan
>whines about 4chan being 4chan

Back to your tumblr hugbox.

[Anonymous No.7359375]

>>7359277
Where are you moving anon?
>Hopes its my comm because you seem cool and I wanna hear more NYC gossip

[moot No.7359380]

You guys are so mean ;_;

[Anonymous No.7359382]

>>7359380
their frills hide evil, man

[Anonymous No.7359383]

>>7359367
Not everyone planned for being in a cramped space?
>>7359380
Everyone is mean on the internet mootykins, sorry

[Anonymous No.7359385]

>>7359362
Holy shit. It's not the fact she's black. It's possible to have a gorilla face and not be black, in fact I see it as much on South East Asians as I see it on black people, but I guess then it's called gorirra face.
No, it's that she's allegedly some hella cunt of a bitch. Who dressed so fucking bad Misako had to give her brand.

>>7359380
Fuck me, you roid monkey.

[Anonymous No.7359387]

>>7359365
She’s obligated to smile all of the time? Fuck, you sound like my customers. Sorry I’m not smiling idiotically to myself when just standing around waiting.
And what kinda annoying ass noise were you people squawking about? This was a meetup for a fashion… not Saturday night at the club… show some fucking class. Being rowdy and vulgar is embarrassing. I’m sorry Misako had to hang out with someone like you.

[Anonymous No.7359388]

>>7359380
We're sweethearts irl ;-;
Come kareoke with us well show you a good time moot!

[Anonymous No.7359389]

>>7359380
I'm sorry we did not invite you moot, but you would have probably just fallen asleep like last time.

[Anonymous No.7359392]

>>7359387
You sound like amber exept the difference is you're hinting at actually having a job.
Based on your writing skills i assume you work at mcdonalds?

[Anonymous No.7359395]

>>7359388
Ah! I will drive down to NYC again to go karaoke with moot-senpai. We can lend him some buddyline

[Anonymous No.7359402]

>>7359387
Were you even there? No one says she has to smile the whole time but she didn't even look or sound happy to be at her own event. She seemed miserable and when you are the hostess you set the mood. Also, people paid to have a party and have a good time. Not to sit in silence while camera crews take video.

[Anonymous No.7359405]

>>7359395
Lol! Yes and maybe we can have a meetup with mr yan and moot as the guests of honer!

[Anonymous No.7359408]

>>7359402
Video? Be sure to link us when it gets posted

[Anonymous No.7359410]

>>7359405
read that as
>guests of boner
sorry, giggled

[Anonymous No.7359420]

>>7359392
I thought she worked retail. Last time I checked she worked at that cute store at the seaport mall (now closed) and some Harry Potter exhibit thingy.

[Anonymous No.7359424]

>>7359402
Don't act so fucking innocent. You bitches were lambasting her days prior to this event... in this very thread.


Considering the circumstances I don't blame her for being defensive. I wouldn't be very happy hosting an event in a sea of two faced cunts who are just as quick to come back on 4chan to claim how fat, uggo and terrible she apparently is.

[moot No.7359427]

>>7359389
>I'm sorry we did not invite you moot, but you would have probably just fallen asleep like last time.
My impression of seagulls from those drinks was "holy hell drama."

Within five minutes the conversation had gone to polyamorous relationships, who was fucking who, threesomes, etc. I was flabbergasted.

[Anonymous No.7359431]

>>7359427
Don't forget about the two headed cows.
Or was it goats.
I don't remember moot why did you not have fun

[moot No.7359435]

>>7359431
>I don't remember moot why did you not have fun
I enjoyed myself, I was just exhausted and had no idea what anyone was talking about.

Some of the girls were qt though ^____^

[Anonymous No.7359439]

>>7359435
O-only some?

[moot No.7359440]

>>7359439
>O-only some?
I don't have the best memory. There were 1-2 dudes as well.

[Anonymous No.7359445]

>>7359440
If I remember, it was you, one dude, his gf and 2-3 other girls.
I-I just want to know if senpai noticed me

[moot No.7359447]

>>7359445
Were you the one with the meowing boyfriend?

[Anonymous No.7359451]

>>7359447
M-maybe, he does not remember meowing

[moot No.7359452]

>>7359451
Beats me then.

[Anonymous No.7359454]

>>7359380
Thank you so much for making this website. Oh my kami-sama, I love you so much, moot-sama.

[Anonymous No.7359460]

>>7359452
senpai did not notice me

[Anonymous No.7359469]

>>7359447
W-ws she a qt?

[Anonymous No.7359472]

>>7359427
Try coming to Australia sometime, the cosplayers and lolitas are much nicer here <3

Also, whilst you're here, what would your favourite lolita motif be?

[moot No.7359474]

>>7359472
No plans to go down under, and no idea what my favorite motif would be because I always forget their names.

[Anonymous No.7359477]

>>7359474
Aww ;_; But we have lovely sunny weather!

Motifs are things like carousels, horses, kitties, books, snakes, gates - which would be your favourite to see on dresses?

[Anonymous No.7359479]

How does Moot decide which board to grace with his presence and when? Also, do you even like lolita?

[moot No.7359481]

>>7359477
>which would be your favourite to see on dresses?
The one where I get to see your pretty eyes, bb.

>>7359479
>How does Moot decide which board to grace with his presence and when? Also, do you even like lolita?
~It is a mystery~

[Anonymous No.7359482]

>>7359479
I'm guessing he goes on /cgl/ for qt girls and frills.

[Anonymous No.7359484]

>>7359482
What a little bitch

[moot No.7359487]

>>7359482
>I'm guessing he goes on /cgl/ for qt girls and frills.
I was somehow linked to this thread, and have kept it open in my browser.

[Anonymous No.7359490]

>>7359481
Aw, you charmer! <3

I'm sure the guro lolitas would be pleased to hear that you like eyes on dresses, though!

[Anonymous No.7359493]

Make a NYC meet up so I can finally shake your hand.

[Anonymous No.7359499]

Amber was extremely rude and unprofessional to everyone. Apparently she wants to be a party planner in the future, well she better learn to be nicer to her guests. I do not care what she says but she should have been at the venue at 1:00pm if a party of 100+ people are going to be there at 2:00 instead of getting there late and bitching at people for being there at a proper time

[Anonymous No.7359504]

>>7359482
I'd guess maybe for the sometimes horrifying social paradox.
>the real secret life of Lolita now playing live on /cgl/

[Anonymous No.7359505]

>>7359395
>>7359405
Moot and Mr. Yan face off to decide who gets first pickings at a kawaii waifu, on the next episode of... Buddyline Z!

[Anonymous No.7359506]

If I make a 'Moot judges our coords' thread, would you girls be willing to post your pictures and let Moot tell us what he thinks of our outfits? I'm infinitely curious.

[Anonymous No.7359510]

>>7359487
This thread is like Medusa. As soon as it sees you, you're petrified and forced into seeing everything.

>>7359499
What time did she even get there?

[moot No.7359511]

>>7359506
I'm down.

[Anonymous No.7359514]

>>7359506
Definitely. I want to know if moot thinks I'm kawaii... ;-;

[Anonymous No.7359516]

>>7359514

Me too! Someone make it happen!

[Anonymous No.7359517]

>>7359510
She didn't get there until about 1:50

[Anonymous No.7359520]

>>7359506
Sounds like fun!

[Anonymous No.7359524]

Moot, the janitors are so anal about everything, and have hypocritical bans can you get them to tone it down or at least be consistent with bans instead of cherrypicking people they prefer to not get banned?

[Anonymous No.7359527]

Karaoke time!

[Anonymous No.7359530]

>>7359506
>>7359511
Has someone made a thread yet?

[Anonymous No.7359532]

>>7359499
In the event page she said that people should come at 2 because she and the camera crew would be there at 1/1:30 to set up. She states that SHE should have been there at one yet is angry that SHE was late?

[Anonymous No.7359536]

>>7359530

Right over here

>>>>7359533

[Anonymous No.7359538]

>>7359387
Technically if we're paying her that much god damn money, we are her customers and she should have treated us better. There wasn't even any fucking tea or actual food

[Anonymous No.7359542]

I need to see more pictures

[Anonymous No.7359566]

>>7359538
Have you been to a tea service before? There's never "actual food"

[Anonymous No.7359567]

>>7359566
Not that anon, but... there's usually TEA though.

[Anonymous No.7359571]

>>7359567
Technically there was tea.... rum-tea

[Anonymous No.7359573]

>>7359571
the rum tea was really good

[Anonymous No.7359574]

>>7359566
yeah..there's at least tea and there could have been some sweets or something other than those sandwiches...

[Anonymous No.7359581]

So how much do we think Amber pocketed on this? $55 each X 100 guests is 5500 minus paypal, venue misako and food.

[Anonymous No.7359590]

>>7359581
A fancy venue like that (even a small one) in Manhattan is very expensive.

[Anonymous No.7359592]

>>7359581
more like 67$ each

[Anonymous No.7359597]

>>7359592
So 6700. Gotcha. Still, do you think that cramped space cost more for 4 hours than 2000

[Anonymous No.7359598]

>>7359574
There was cake.... and cupcakes...

Did everyone but me ignore the food and drinks?

[Anonymous No.7359609]

>>7359597
You don't know manhatten. Plus a few days before the event the venue owner pointed out to her how the price was for 50 people (which is what the place should have fit) and had to raise the price on her and she stated how she might have to dip into her own money to cover her stupid mistake of over selling.

[Anonymous No.7359630]

>>7359387
Actually I probably sound like your fucking boss. I work in customer service too, so I know the number one priority is keeping people happy and making them feel welcome and I'm sure that goes double for event planning.

[Anonymous No.7359632]

>>7359277
Aww anon, I remember you! We have to chat sometime , I left my email in feild so feel free to message me! Let's hang out sometime.

[Anonymous No.7359642]

>>7359597
Call the venue and ask their party rates. Easy enough.

[Anonymous No.7359650]

>>7359630
yeah when I'm at cons at the end of the day my mouth hurts from smiling so much. Fucking hate them weeboos but I gotta act nice to them so they can buy my shit. And then they remember me and how 'nice' I was and buy more from me at other cons

[Anonymous No.7359660]

>>7359598
It was incredibly hard to get to everything and there wasn't any tables really for eating. It just wasn't an appropriate venue at all. You've probably seen the other tea parties that Misako has been guest at, and they just look so much more elegant than this little bar.

[Anonymous No.7359676]

So how many people were there that didn't actually pay to be there/ were "guests"

[Anonymous No.7359730]

What do you guys think about the coords Misako selected as "best dressed"?

[Anonymous No.7359764]

>>7359730
Which were they? Pix?

[Anonymous No.7359796]

>>7359424
this so fucking much

[Anonymous No.7359981]

>>7359660
ah thats unfortunate for nyc and just for amerca

[Anonymous No.7360017]

>>7359375
Where I'm moving, I'd be in the Central Florida comm. And yes, once I'm far away from these bitches and don't have to worry about if they'll hear me/know who I am/publicly flog me, I'll totes tell you all the drama that I've encountered. (Granted if we're in the same comm, ofc)

>>7359632
; w ; / Hey! And definitely, I'll be sure to email you.

[Anonymous No.7360019]

Wow, you ungrateful bitches are distasteful. Simultaneously whining that the host wasn't being friendly with you when there was a hoard of other people to talk to and then coming to 4chan to bitch about her. She was clearly busy attending to more pressing matters other than playing nice with a bunch of two-faced bitches.

I want to see what your ugly mugs look like.

[Anonymous No.7360024]

>>7360019
I didn't end up attending (with all the shit that went on I pulled out) but I mean, come on! She could at least smile! Putting a smile on your face, even when you're asking someone/a group to quiet down makes it seem much more well-intentioned and less "Shut up you brats", which is the general feel when someone's frowning like that and telling you to do something. I work at a "family setting" kind of place, and I have to keep a smile on my face for 8 hours a day. If you're smiling, things just generally go over better. For instance, one day I was having a REALLY bad day and I was frowning and told a kid, "Hun don't touch that." They immediately burst into tears and the parents were like "How DARE YOU." Meanwhile, all the other days that I smiled, I'd never gotten a reaction like that. Coincidence? I think not. Which is why learning to keep a genuine smile was part of our training.
Not only that but who wants to be frowning like an ape when they're being filmed...? Ew.

[Funk Brothers !!sEQILr75Rya No.7360026]

>this thread

[Anonymous No.7360027]

Honestly I'd love to see anyone bitching and moaning about the events plan a party of more than 100 people during Fashion Week and shuttle around a film crew and special guest. Don't want to be shushed? Don't come to a meet that's going to be broadcasted on TV.

[Anonymous No.7360028]

>>7360024
>yeahokay
I've been to conventions and meetups alike. I've seen how hard it is to genuinely get people to shut up and pay attention. It leads me to wonder how many times she had to ask.

And considering how the tea parties in Japan are... this is just embarrassing for America. A bunch of rowdy, loud brutes. Act with some decorum. The face of "Kawaii" is here with you schmucks.

[Anonymous No.7360029]

I attended and had a perfectly enjoyable night because I didn't go in looking for things to hate on. It's like that one girl who went to an AP tea party expecting to be ignored by everyone for her "steampunk loli" and remained bitter the whole time.

[Anonymous No.7360032]

>>7360029
It's just Frill all over again (senseless bitching and whining with no appreciation/consideration that hosting events is pretty hard). Except this time the anons actually attended an event for once...

[Anonymous No.7360033]

>>7360028
I can guarantee you it wouldn't have been so rowdy were it not for the fact they had over double the guests intended for the space.

[Anonymous No.7360035]

>>7360028
I was sitting near the back and the reason why everyone kept on shushing the same people is because they were already half drunk and didn't give a shit about listening to the interview. Stay classy, NYC.

[Anonymous No.7360036]

Are people really complaining that they didn't have a good time because they weren't being smiled at or being personally catered to? Act like an adult and stop shitting in your diapers. I've been to plenty of events where I didn't even expect to see the host. My good time was solely based on how I chose to enjoy the event and people around me. Don't blame her for your shitty disposition on life.

[Anonymous No.7360037]

>>7360035
How disgusting. I bet it was the same anons from this thread who were whining earlier that there wasn't going to be an open bar. Go be pathetic alcoholics elsewhere.

[Anonymous No.7360042]

>>7360035
Finally some truth about the evening.

[Anonymous No.7360053]

I wouldn't be surprised if some anons were trying to be ruder than usual to make Amber look bad out of some hate against her. From what I'm reading about girls being loud and drunk, complaining about "not being smiled at", and not being able to have a deep intimate conversation with Misako because they don't speak any Japanese, the ones who made the party not enjoyable was all these fucking catty bitches.

[Anonymous No.7360080]

You guys are totally ignoring the fact that Amber was LATE to her own event and then was a giant bitch to her guests when she got there. I've never met the girl before but I didn't appreciate the way she talked to us. I'm just giving my feedback in case people don't want to pay for any future events that are planned by her.

[Anonymous No.7360102]

>>7359730
She looks super cute? I am following her on Facebook and she always looks flawless! (Totally have an Asian bias)

[Anonymous No.7360105]

I don't know what everyone is complaining so much about.
It was cramped, yes. but I am shy as shit and there is nothing like being forced in the same space as someone to force the two of you into conversation. So I kind of like that?
We were shushed a bunch, yes, but there was a TV crew there? What were you girls expecting? Also, amber was always nice to me...That lady with the camera crew however was not so nice. Did she not openly tell the crowd to shut up a bunch of times? Oh well, not really under Amber's control.
No one was crazy or too loud, just 100+ people at a party wanting to talk to one another.
Drinks were had, yes, and everyone was notably more talkative after open bar, but I only saw two openly drunk people.
I did not see anyone who was dressed like a hot mess and that was a nice surprise, and most people were nice and friendly.
Only person I had problems with was the girl who was there with the dude in white jacket? I tried to start up conversation with her a few times, complimented her shoes, ect, and she just ignored my existence? not sure what the hell her problem was.

So ya, tldr: if you did not have fun it is your own damn fault there was plenty of fun to be had. Don't go to something looking to be unhappy you will not find something to change your mind.
All and all a nice meet. Had a blast. Next time more space, and I would do that shit again in a heartbeat.

[Anonymous No.7360112]

We only dislike amber becouse she's a terrible person. I feel like that's pretty justified and all the people white knighting her on her are her poc bffs from the comm who blindly agree with everything she says becouse they've never felt her blatant racism/dislike of white people. She is more forgiving and nicer to poc members, that's a fact. Name 1 close white friend (not Hispanic, excluding Victoria the homophobic sjw and the other mods that put up with her shit). Yeah good luck.

[Anonymous No.7360120]

>>7360102
who is she? She's super pretty.

[Anonymous No.7360131]

>>7360120
victorianme, I follow her, love her coords

[Anonymous No.7360139]

>Crowded
>Alright food, but you had to push your way through a crowd to get two triangles of sandwiches
>Misako was really nice considering the amount of people
>Gave postcards and a gift to everyone who took photos with her
>Q&A was quiet. It started loud then the translated got really quiet.
>Staff were overwhelmed but very nice
>Raffle prizes were good
>Any potential sourpusses kept to themselves
>No drama!

Overall I'd say make the event an hour shorter, little bit more space, but it was a great opportunity to meet people you haven't seen in a while.

[moot No.7360144]

>>7360139
>No drama!
HAVE YOU NOT READ THIS THREAD?

[Anonymous No.7360148]

>>7360144
I love how closely you fallow our drama moot, but this is just shit bitches who did not even attend are saying.
At the event, everyone was lovely and there was no open drama.

[Anonymous No.7360150]

>>7360144
Maybe I got lucky and avoided the drama? I went with the intention of having fun and stuffing my face. Felt good clearing all those sandwiches!

[moot No.7360152]

>>7360150
>I went with the intention of having fun and stuffing my face.
b-be my rori waifu?

[Anonymous No.7360153]

>>7360144
Would you like to try the new Laduree cafe moot?

[Anonymous No.7360155]

>>7360152
Only if you play tea sandwich Jenga with me

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.7360158]

>>7360155
>stuff face at loli party
>cant fit into obscure polyester japanese dresses

[Anonymous No.7360162]

>>7360139
How was the Q&A? I'd be curious to know what questions were asked, she covered a lot of bases at the lecture.

[Anonymous No.7360163]

>>7360158
>Awkward moment when said anon is 90 lbs
>Sadface when too small for some brands

So technically I can't fit into some brand

[Anonymous No.7360168]

>>7360162
>If there was a fire what's the one thing you would take
- The wedding dress

>Accessories you'd like to see more of
-Sweets but classic

>How long have you been into/modeling lolita
- 15 years

>what's the difference between Japan and overseas Lolitas
- overseas is more open to experimenting

>What trend do you see being popular
- Classic lolita

>What's something old school you'd like to come back
- Lots of things, but baby is already brining back some of those designs

[moot No.7360171]

>>7360153
>Would you like to try the new Laduree cafe moot?
I might be into this. I've been to them in London.

>>7360155
>Only if you play tea sandwich Jenga with me
Music to my ears.

[Anonymous No.7360184]

>>7360171
Hey moot, would you like an european qt loli gf to french kiss with ?

[Anonymous No.7360191]

>>7360168
She also said that the intl community has more specifically organized meets like this. I guess it's a lot more common in Japan just to hang out to go eat on any random day instead of doing large events.

>>7360144
I guess "no drama" in terms of no one calling each other out in person. But that's never really been the lolita way of conducting cattiness. So many two faced bitches who will smile and compliment your coords in person but post all of this shit online when they get back from the meet.

[Anonymous No.7360194]

>>7360171
I'd like to have a classy lunch with moot but my boyfriend would get jealous sob.

[moot No.7360205]

>>7360184
>Hey moot, would you like an european qt loli gf to french kiss with ?
How qt are we talking here?

>>7360191
>So many two faced bitches who will smile and compliment your coords in person but post all of this shit online when they get back from the meet.
My takeaway from the drinks I had with some /cgl/ people a year or two ago was that everyone hated each other at some level.

>>7360194
>I'd like to have a classy lunch with moot but my boyfriend would get jealous sob.
qq

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>>7360205
>How qt are we talking here?
at least 7/10 according to my friends, maybe more if I'm your type
Do you like small girl moot ? We could go together hand in hand to the Eiffel Tower and at Ladurée on the Champs-Elysées avenue.

[moot No.7360218]

>>7360215
>at least 7/10 according to my friends, maybe more if I'm your type
What "type" are you/pix?

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>>7360205
Only the lolitas who post here are this catty. The majority who stay away from this place (or those of us who lurk quietly) are not like this at all.

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>>7360218
sorry moot, no pic on 4chan but I drop my mail.
I'm small, fair skinned, long-haired with full lips and small tits.

>sempai noticed me

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>>7360037
I would like you to quote where girls were complaining about drinks in this thread because I don't remember it. I posted a screen cap that Amber made with no comment. I guess my mistake was capping the whole post that Amber made instead of cropping it to the part where she invited more people then the venue could hold and was originally charging her for. Most of us was going WTF over the fact she was talking about liquor instead of tea.

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>>7360233
Better than the tea bags she was considering. I think some of you are trying too hard to make this into the failure you want it to be. Yes it wasn't perfect, but it wasn't a crash and burn.

[Anonymous No.7360246]

Nobody said it was a failure by any means but the feedback should be taken seriously for future events

[Anonymous No.7360250]

The venue was also super dark and so hard to get pictures in

[Anonymous No.7360425]

>>7359362
Tumblr is the other way.

And that coke commercial was fucking retarded.

[Anonymous No.7360539]

>>7360105
Was it the older woman with the split wig...? (I unfortunately could not attend, something came up, but I've seen a lot of pictures from the event!)
Well, I went to the Tokyo Rebel tea party in... Oh god, it was either 2011 or 2012, the one where we got to skype with Misako. Anyways, it was both of our birthdays and so I joked, "Twinsies!" and she just looked at me and said, "Not really." and looked away. I tried complimenting her coord later, too. (We were both waiting to use the restroom) She just raised her eyebrows, "My coord is all Baby. The bonnet, though, was custom made and cost nearly $200. It's superior quality and I had to get it shipped all the way from California." Not even a thank you... Just her explaining why she's superior.

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>>7360539
>>7360105
Oops, I should specify, I was asking about the woman/girl who was with the dude in the white jacket. I know the woman in the split wig hangs out with him a lot (or so I can assume from Facebook).

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>>7360543
The girl with the golden ribbons on her legs? She was cold shouldering everyone

[Anonymous No.7360627]

>>7360606
Dunno, I can't see her legs in any of the pics on facebook. But she wore a red and white split wig.
If it wasn't her, then I don't know anyone else who hangs out with that guy.

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>>7360539
>I had to get it shipped all the way from California
"Psh, pleb. I had MY bonnet shipped all the way from Japan"

[Anonymous No.7360669]

>>7360606
That chick was clearly miserable the entire time. The only reason she was there same to get Misako-sempai-sama to notice her. Also, Moitie-whore. Nuff said.

[Anonymous No.7360679]

>>7360627
No no. Your guys are talking about the girl in the Haenuli Little Prince coord. She's the gf/wife of the dude in the white jacket. She is super socially awkward sometimes. Not rly a bitch tho.

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>>7360669
Ha, truth. It's a good thing Misako was so sweet to everyone, she was the only part of the party that made it worth it. I feel bad for the people that came from Canada and Georgia for this crap

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>>7360679
Oh shit, whoops. I jumped the gun there, thought you all were talking about the other chick.

[Anonymous No.7360701]

>>7360102
I feel like she's so xenophobic with her friends. At least from what I saw.

[Anonymous No.7360728]

>>7360539
Was not that girl, was the tall blond with the spiky purple shoes, I really did love those shoes.

Mary Alice (the older chick with the red white split wig) did also cold shoulder me when I tried to make conversation but she always does so I did not think much of it. I think I asked what she was drinking or eating or something and got no reply?

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>>7360728
Yeah, I know Mary Alice, I just didn't want to say her name, since I guess that's just... Who she is? None-the-less, yeah. I've gotten pretty used to it, too.

[Anonymous No.7360745]

>>7360701
Why?

[Anonymous No.7360757]

>>7360539
Mary Alice? Strange, I never had any problems talking to her. Even when I was super ita she would talk to me.

[Anonymous No.7360791]

>>7360757
Huh. How old do you look? I always thought she ignored me/does that thing she does because I look younger than I am. Just thought that maybe she's one of those people who thinks the older you are the more elite you are? I dunno.

[Anonymous No.7360807]

>>7360791
Maybe she's the type who doesn't talk to people unless she's seen you a few times.

[Anonymous No.7360833]

>>7360807
I thought that after my first interaction, but the first time I saw her was probably in 2011, and she still ignores me. Eh, it doesn't really bother me that much.

[Anonymous No.7360848]

>>7360791
Don't think it is this, I'm 23 but I think I look a little older.
>>7360807
I have also seen her a bunch of times?
I don't know. I always thought she just does not like me, we did talk a bit at a meet in may but she clearly did not want to and directed most of the conversation at the person next to me. I change wigs/hair often so maybe she just does not recognize me, I'm not there often?
Eh, oh well I guess. I will keep trying and she can shut me out all she wants.
>>7360833
It is really comforting to know I'm not the only one she shuts out.

[Anonymous No.7360869]

>>7360848
We should form the "Mary-Alice Doesn't Like to Talk to me" Comm.
Joking aside, I feel comforted, too. Before my not-caring stage, I had thought that I must have spoke funny or something.

[Anonymous No.7360890]

>>7360745
She and her group of friends don't talk to anyone who doesn't speak Chinese. They don't even affiliate with anyone who isn't Chinese, and only came to this meet up because Misako attended. I think she just acts high and mighty, because she's somewhat e-famous on tumblr. That's just my opinion.

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>>7360890
Oh, is that the 'Chinese lolitas comm' that some anon's been desperately namedropping with compliments recently?

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>>7360890
Are they Chinese girls from China who moved to New York to work or study? This is a really common thing for Asian cliques, whether it's Japanese, Chinese, Korean, sometimes Filipino, etc. Pretty much half of the Koreans in my college only speak English when they have to talk to a professor.

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>>7360969
I understand that, but I think it's a little off-putting in this fashion, especially when you're in the same community essentially. It's just the attitude I feel from them, like everyone else is beneath them and we are just nonexistent plebeians.
>>7360906
I believe so!

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>>7360890
Thanks for explanation.

Though some of her coords are really top tier.

[Anonymous No.7361098]

>>7360032
>ignoring the myriad of problems with Frill
>including the people that organized it returning dealer's items incomplete and damaged

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>>7361093
They look fine but I wouldn't say top-tier. Most of them are just lots of brand with little to no accessorizing. Pretty boring imo.

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>>7361098
>incomplete and damaged
>or not at all

[Anonymous No.7361800]

>>7360890
Your opinion is horrible because you don't know what it feels like to meet girls that you can speak the same language with and have the same passion about something in a foreign country that's probably new to her. Plus starting over and living alone surrounded with people who don't speak your mother-tongue sucks.

[Anonymous No.7362845]

>oh no, the black chick wasn't being friendly enough with me!!
>oh no, the Chinese chick wasn't being friendly enough with me!!
>reverse racism and xenophobia!!

Holy fuck there is a bunch of white whining in this thread. Did it ever occur to you that you might not be as kawaii or on a lower tier than them? Poc don't have to coddle you or even like you. Welcome to the real world.

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>>7360890
That is such a lie, you're just trying to stir the pot. She went to a Broadway show with one of my friends, my boyfriend and I (my friend and boyfriend DO NOT speak Chinese), and we invited a bunch of my and the other girl's friends in NYC during Broadway week. The other girls didn't come because they were hard up on money (having funneled a lot of their lolita funds for the month into the Misako tea party), but she is happy to talk to and hang out with non-Chinese speaking lolitas. We spoke in English the entire time. I feel like this is just a vendetta.

[Anonymous No.7363048]

>>7362971
There are so many people that she hangs out with that are NOT CHINESE, if you even attempted to get to know her, you'd realize she's a very nice girl. It's easier for her to meet new people if they speak Chinese, but she is not shy or averse to the idea of talking to foreigners. She studied in Spain before coming to the US and is most certainly not racist or "above you" like you like to imply. If you talk to her, you'll realize that she wears lolita because she likes feminine clothes. She's a very normal person, with normal interests. Try to approach her, she would happily be friends with any of you.

>>7362845
As her friend (of the Chinese girl), I would say she does not care about how kawaii you are, and does not think about lolita in tiers. She chooses to be friends with people if they NICE and want to hang out with her. They don't even have to be lolita.

>>7361800
She speaks English and Spanish and has had the experience of living in a foreign country before. She has no problems making friends, but almost all of them are school friends.

I'm probably going to get shat on for whiteknighting or something, but I don't care. I can't stand lolita sometimes because so many of you are catty bitches and would rather draw your own conclusions from short encounters than actually talk to a person and see if they're actually like that. My gosh.

[Anonymous No.7363304]

>>7360728
>>7360757
>>7360869
I've known Mary Alice for years and she's always been exceptionally nice.

Then again, I'm not a lolita, maybe she's different when she's surrounded by /cgl/ types?

Also, why are there so few pictures from the events? And did moot show up? (Maybe he was undercover.)

[Anonymous No.7363401]

>>7363304
A bit confused, if she hangs out with you, and you're here, you're a /cgl/ type, too?
I dunno, I always make sure to compliment her since I do really like her coords whenever I see her. Once again, not much bothered by her ignoring me though.

[Anonymous No.7363417]

>>7363401
No, I met her as a cosplayer and a dancer, not as a lolita.

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>>7363417
Oh yeah, got confused because /cgl/ is cosplay and gothic lolita.

[Anonymous No.7364302]

video of lecture
https://www.japansociety.org/webcast/lolita-fashion-costume-or-culture