What rustle your jimmies lately /cgl/?

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What rustle your jimmies lately /cgl/? Anonymous Sun May 25 19:42:11 2014 No.7578102 [DELETED]

Hi /cgl/ here's a thread where you share the things that grind your gears in general (cosplay,lolita,personnal),so you can put it out of your mind and be more peaceful afterward.

I contribute with personal shit no one cares about.

First,that supah famous girl in my friend list,she became super famous in a week after she first cosplayed (it turned out she was fucking cute and hot) 300+ likes on her instagram pics,tons of compliments... I just want to be famous and have attention because my self esteem is so fucking low and the most I get is 100+ likes and "you're so so so cute /emoticon/" and they get loads of like and nosebleeding images (but my bf is very jealous ,like,to a yandere point)
>inb4 attention whore

Secondly,I have that girl wearing a bit of alt style (lolita,fairy kei,pastel gawth) in my friends,she's like 12 but she got the special snowflake syndrome. She don't give a shit if you're not wearing something ~~edgy and special~~ or if you aren't ~famous~ (she's always trying to be friends with the famous lolitas/edgy people and shit and success because tiny azn). And she tries kinda too hard to be famous herself. She's a tiny azn so everyone is praising her. Plus she's such an attention whore claiming she's fat when she's underweight,that she's sooo ugly while posting pics of herself,...The whole damn thing just pisses me off. Also the famous people attention whoring and bawwing and receiving asspats.

End of the abloobloo

>>	Anonymous Sun May 25 19:45:10 2014 No.7578107 >>7578102 Once I was there with my friend (who's also her friend but she mainly ignore her bc she's not into any alt style) and she totally ignored her,not even a "hello". jfc

Anonymous Sun May 25 20:06:23 2014 No.7578146

I follow this really supremely mediocre girl (both looks- and craftsmanship-wise) who somehow gets all this attention and is a huge bitch because of it and I resent her a whole lot for being as popular as she is. At the same time I know I'm not that good yet, so I feel like kind of a hypocrite.

>>	Anonymous Sun May 25 20:07:35 2014 No.7578151 >>7578102 Also >she's like 12 And how old are you, underageb&?

>>	Anonymous Sun May 25 20:20:01 2014 No.7578185 What really pisses me off is having no gf.

>>	Anonymous Sun May 25 20:40:57 2014 No.7578268 File: 533 KB, 1936x968, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] This koreaboo bitch I know from uni I always knew he and a few others there were koreaboos, but after this everything looks so much more punchable.

Anonymous Mon May 26 01:36:03 2014 No.7579034

Why are a lot of lolita comms so freaking bitchy? Like seriously I just sit back and watch with a few close friends as it's practically internet battle royale. I feel they dress in cute innocent clothes to make up for their nasty attitudes and thirst for drama sometimes.

Anonymous Mon May 26 01:42:07 2014 No.7579052

>>7578268
so wait this person is saying
>i'm short but i totes don't care
>society is impossible to ignore
>it's impossible for me to not need validation from others
>society needs to change their perspective, i don't need to change my need for validation
>i can't handle my own insecurities

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 01:42:36 2014 No.7579053 I hate not having a site where I can look at cute coords without having to weed through all of the personal crap. I don't care about your opinions on racism or feminism; I just want to see your outfits.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 01:52:03 2014 No.7579076 File: 82 KB, 1193x801, 171860580_ffea823f0d_o.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7579053 This. It doesn't help that there's absolutely nothing you can do about it except unfollow or pray to the blog gods that they tag their shit.

Anonymous Mon May 26 01:58:13 2014 No.7579088

>>7579053

Hey I don't post personal crap! My lolita tumblr is separate from my (slightly more curmudgeon) personal tumblr. I do it for you (and me too, since I know there are people like you who appreciate that sort of thing).

Seriously, it's annoying. I feel you.

Anonymous Mon May 26 02:03:27 2014 No.7579099

>>7579088
I'm to the point where I want to abandon my tumblr and unfriend half the people I know.
I don't even disagree with everything people post, I just hate the way it's done and hate that it shits up my dash. I created a tumblr for the sole purpose of seeing and cataloguing cute things to look at to destress, and somehow a majority of the people I follow have shifted from posting mainly original content of cute things to reblogging fandom/tumblr feminist shit. I hate it.

Anonymous Mon May 26 02:05:44 2014 No.7579104

I find people's never ending desperation to get 'Likes' and 'reblogs' as if it's some valid form of approval as a human being petty and derisible. It's nice when people genuinely like similar things, but, in the case of say Tumblr, unless it's something you actually created yourself, all you're literally doing is posting a photo that someone else took and someone else posed for, why the hell do people think reblogs = some kind of personal achievement??
Before anyone jumps in with the predictable 'Are you butthurt because you get no reblogs', my max reblogged picture is around 28k; it's nice so many people like what I like but this reblog amount does not make me some sort of transcended internet entity.

Anonymous Mon May 26 02:08:52 2014 No.7579112

>>7579099

Yeah. Hardly of my friends tag their shit on tumblr. It's unfortunate (and kind of perplexing) why they even reblog this shit. When I talk to them online or IRL, it doesn't come up and they are all nice and intelligent people. Then they blog something incredibly stupid (like the whole UCSB thing that has been going around lately) and I'm just like... why. Why did you do that.

I think I need a break from tumblr myself.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 02:29:16 2014 No.7579148 >>7578102 That second girl sounds like someone I used to be friends with. I wonder..

Anonymous Mon May 26 02:41:22 2014 No.7579172

>>7579052
Yeah people called him out being contradictory but he was a nasty bitch to everybody and by then no one could even tell what he's rambling about.

He's Chinese and 5'3". The only reason he cares is because he's a koreaboo who seriously wants to audition and be a kpop dancer/singer/whatever, despite the fact he's a 6/10

I'm glad to finally get it off my chest, I can't rant to anyone irl because they know him...and like him. "Height privilege" fuck this gay earth

Anonymous Mon May 26 06:16:32 2014 No.7579436

>>7578151
>LOLOL UNDERAGEB&
>mfw I'm 19 I just happen to have some really young people in my friends (nothing under 12 though,she's the only one being 12 the rest is around my age or a bit less)

>>7579034
>Internet Battle Royale
I would totes pay to watch something similar

>>7579148
Please tell us

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 06:35:38 2014 No.7579454 My jimmies are rustled each time someone posts "Hi [insert whoever" for fucks sake it's stupid and zero contribution to the thread.

Anonymous Mon May 26 07:09:41 2014 No.7579482

>completely obvious troll posts a completely obvious trolly comment
>some sjw shit cunt just has to reply and feed it so they can feel good about themselves
>troll replies
>sjw keeps replying so the troll keeps replying

Seriously, go die you sjw losers.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 10:40:42 2014 No.7579738 >>7579436 People who are actually above the age of 15 are not jealous of 12 year olds.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:21:22 2014 No.7579815 >>7579738 I never said I was jealous of a 12 year old? I just said hse was pissing me off by acting like a special snowflake attention whore...Do you know about reading comprehension? Because you don't look like you know about reading comprehension.

Anonymous Mon May 26 11:24:23 2014 No.7579823

Oh okay here we go.

My jimmies are massively rustled thanks to a few bnf bloggers in my subfandom who got known for drawing good to decent porn in a pretty closed circle jerk and then decided to try their hand at cosplaying. It was all individual decisions but they all chose characters heightened by the fandom as super sexy and in combination with the fact that they draw porn they are suddenly praised as "omg so hot cannonest x ever" or something when really all of them are...average at best and on top of that cosplay including a lot of the headcanons they use in their art. It works in fanart but not cosplay. It really wouldn't frustrate me as much as it does if it wasn't for the fact that I too cosplay one of those characters, have put so many hours in being as close to canon as posdible and know I look better than them, but because they have a huge amount of followers and popular pieces of their own fanart to fall back on their derivations from canon (which really is just lazyness to begin with) they get thousands upon thousands of notes while I'm stuck with a few hundred at most.

I know I'm not perfect, but it still angers me. Feels bad man.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:24:33 2014 No.7579824 >>7579172 weeb(or keeb?? in this case) asians are always the most laughable things.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:30:33 2014 No.7579839 Uh recently I see a lot of con cosplay photos where people have chipped nail polish on (usually black because 2edgy4u) If your character doesn't wear nail polish maybe take some time to remove it.

Anonymous Mon May 26 11:31:30 2014 No.7579843
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I was outbid on a beautiful dress this morning in the last 3 hours while I was sleeping. I was so sad and mad at myself for not just immediately buying it but then the winner of the auction decided she didn't want it! Im getting my dress seagulls and I just can't believe how happy I am!
TL;DR thought My day started in tears and ended with an invoice for my new dress!

Anonymous Mon May 26 11:34:10 2014 No.7579848

>When people ask me why I don't just buy my cosplay from a costume shop instead of buying it

You'd be surprised by how many people don't seem to get the various explanations of:
>I like feeling like it's something I made myself
>They rarely sell what I want to cosplay as
>Most costume shop stuff is shit, and that which isn't, is usually comically overpriced.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:39:49 2014 No.7579857 >>7578102 >>7579436 >>7579815 The way you type irritates the hell out of me.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:46:55 2014 No.7579872 File: 135 KB, 303x323, 1396307837107.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7579857 Oh really why? Too bad cuz i don't curr. English isn't my first language anyway.

Anonymous Mon May 26 11:50:52 2014 No.7579888

I know this bitch who thinks she's the shit and it's really annoying because she's a really mediocre cosplayer who makes a fool out of herself every chance she gets, and yet she goes around talking shit about how great she is and how she's so tight knit with the community, and then when things go wrong she blames everyone around her. It's driving me nuts.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:50:58 2014 No.7579889 >>7579872 Yeah your 1st language is speaking like a 12 year old.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:52:44 2014 No.7579894 >>7579872 >English isn't my first language anyway. I love how you said this even though it's very obvious that english is your first language, you're just a tool.

Anonymous Mon May 26 11:56:36 2014 No.7579901

>>7579889
>speaking like a 12 year old
>mfw I clearly speak normally
Were you born retarded honey?

>>7579894
I speak french you deepshit. Tu ne me connais clairement pas mais je suis assez contente que tu penses que mon language maternel soit l'anglais. Mes efforts ont payé <3

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:57:49 2014 No.7579905 >>7579901 oui oui baguette to you too

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:59:09 2014 No.7579909 >>7579872 You type like a twelve year old, have twelve year old friends, and seem to be imitating things people on /cgl/ say >>7578102 >abloobloo >azn >bawwing Still convinced you're too young for this site.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 11:59:44 2014 No.7579911 >>7579905 >being this much of a faggot Yeah,whatever,back on the thread.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:01:11 2014 No.7579916 >>7579843 Congratulations! What dress was it?

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:01:21 2014 No.7579917 >>7579901 You type and insult like my sister who is 12. Go away underageb&.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:01:50 2014 No.7579918 >>7579901 so you're a retarded 15 year old jelly of some 12 year old who can use google translate, okay.

Anonymous Mon May 26 12:03:06 2014 No.7579921

>>7579909
>imitating things people on /cgl/ say
I happen to say things people on this board say because...oh,I don't know? Maybe we're on /cgl/ darling?

>You type like a twelve years old lol
>no arguments
You just went full retard also
>implying people on /cgl/ never use "azn" or "bawwing"

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:03:25 2014 No.7579923 I'm mad at videogames.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:05:31 2014 No.7579933 File: 54 KB, 429x595, 6bqMLKG.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I'm sad because I'm too late to get on the Frozen cosplay train, even though I would make a great Elsa

Anonymous Mon May 26 12:05:36 2014 No.7579934

>>7579921
I don't think you get it. Anon said you're just mimicking us, because you're clearly just trying to act mad rachet for no reason to try to fit in but it's seriously obvious that you're doing it to be as you said ~edgy desu~ you're like that 12 year old girl you hate.

Anonymous Mon May 26 12:07:25 2014 No.7579938
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>>7578151
>>7579889
>>7579894
>>7579909
>>7579917
>>7579918
Don't know if bad samefagging or retards being butthurt. You should maybe learn how to read too I never said I was jelly of a 12 years old, hun.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:09:26 2014 No.7579943 File: 10 KB, 225x225, muhsides.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7579934 >implying i want to fit in

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:10:49 2014 No.7579947 >>7579938 >Hey guys look at me! Am I 4chan yet? Retards, bakas, butthurt fagfags!

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 12:12:03 2014 No.7579950 >>7579943 >>7579938 >>7579921 You're like trying to be a weird deconstruction of /cgl/ or something.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:20:16 2014 No.7580110 File: 35 KB, 250x333, 69253-3767-2014-05-19798171.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7579916 Dolce OP Mint or this beauty here

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:29:32 2014 No.7580130 >>7580110 Oh,congrats anon! I don't know how you look but I think it'll look great

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:32:54 2014 No.7580139 The community organiser who's head is so far up her own ass she thinks every lolita should drop everything to be free help at her wedding.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:33:42 2014 No.7580144 >>7579454 Hi, anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:34:51 2014 No.7580146 >>7580130 Thank you so much anon! I am 5ft half inch with 32 27 33, so the measurements are pretty near perfect on the dress I bought. I am planning a coral/mint coord for this dress and I found the cutest hand dyed tights!

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:36:43 2014 No.7580151 >>7580144 shit how did you know it was a selfpost

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 13:45:23 2014 No.7580170 >>7579823 Oh man, anon, I love ~fandom~ idiocy, which series is it?

Anonymous Mon May 26 14:19:18 2014 No.7580212

I already posted this in the "bad cosplay" thread, but I think it belongs here.
It pisses me off that Harley has become the go-to for bullshit like this by "edgy goth" girls putting a "dark" twist on the character, especially when people like pic related have openly admitted to just reading the wiki and "absolutely loved" Harley. Shit russles my jimmies so bad.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 14:20:13 2014 No.7580213 >>7578185 Pls don't shoot anyone, incel-kun!

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 14:27:00 2014 No.7580225 >>7580212 Shit, phone dropped image, but www.s-t-i-l-l-d-o-l-l.tumblr.com

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 15:21:12 2014 No.7580345 >>7578268 >I don't need to change my own perception of >I need for society to change its perception of it. Good luck being mad for life, bb boy.

Anonymous Mon May 26 15:23:54 2014 No.7580351

>>7580212
I'm worried because I'm doing an adapted/original Harley design as part of a group performance following the theme and I don't want people to think I'm like that... But I suppose it's inevitable really, I wouldn't blame others since it rustles my jimmies too. Just weird that I'm also partly one of them now. At least I'd never claim I'm the biggest Harley fan, but I grew with the cartoons and loved her in those, not so much in the comics?

Anonymous Mon May 26 15:43:51 2014 No.7580403
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I went to a small ass Sci-Fi/Anime con (Should have been my first warning as a fusion con) because I heard there was a $500.00 prize for getting first place. My friend and I get there, and there's hardly anyone at this convention, they upped the tickets $10.00 to make up for that I guess at the door. My friend and I reluctantly pay the price for ShitCon. Volunteer asks us if we are competing in the competition, we say yes and he replies "Cool cool, it's free I think (Second Warning Sign)
We can't stay longer than an hour. No events, no panels, same local merchants, Eric Stuart is the only guest and I love the guy but I see him at cons so much that I feel like a creeper at this point. Find out there is a "rave/ball/dance" later (their exact words) but it's an extra $10.00. We clearly skip that as well.
Go there the next day, go to sign up for competition and we are told there is a $25.00 fee to enter. Because we are dumbasses we pay it and we get one shirt to share because there was only one shirt left. Needless to say, we lose and some badass Final Fantasy cosplayers win the award (deservedly).

TLDR: $45.00 for a shitty local con with no panels/events/one guest, $10.00 admission to Rave/Ball/Dance/Clusterfuck, $25.00 to enter Cosplay Competition Pyramid scheme, rude staff equals the biggest regret ever.
Picture is one I found of facebook from that Rave. Glad I atleast dodged a bullet there.

Anonymous Mon May 26 15:51:57 2014 No.7580426
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>wear extremly popular rare expensive dress
>go OTT
>throw on everything that is trendy in lolita right now
>sashes, flower crowns, rosaries, veils, madonna headbands despite the fact none of these really match the dress theme
>take picture, slap on some nice filters
>"Omg best coord ever!!1"

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 16:00:04 2014 No.7580461 >>7579901 *Langue maternelle. Langage and not language. Language maternel doesn't even exist but whatever.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 16:31:49 2014 No.7580594 >>7580139 Haha what the fuck? So rude. You don't even ask bridesmaid to do do that.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:08:08 2014 No.7580831 >>7580170 Three clues. Massive fandom. Massive amount of shitty """au""" cosplay. Massive amount of characters.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:20:46 2014 No.7580871 >>7580831 It's Erwin and Levi isn't it.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:34:38 2014 No.7580902 >>7580871 seems like something Eren* and Levi fans would do, afaik Erwin isn't that popular. That or homestucks/hetalia

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:38:04 2014 No.7580914 Fucking Homestuck cosplayers waving buckets around to be so funny with their crappy in-joke. Ohohoho the trolls fap into buckets ohoho so funny- STOP it's been done EVERY TIME. Fandumb drives me to fucking tears you have no idea

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:43:10 2014 No.7580928 >>7580594 I was bridesmaid for a bride that did. She was so fucking disorganised. Still traumatised.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 18:44:02 2014 No.7580932 >>7580914 Oh god, that one nasty video of all the Homestucks spitting in a bucket. Have some decorum and behave like a well-groomed person of society.

Anonymous Mon May 26 18:47:40 2014 No.7580937

>>7580932
Ugghhh god that video made me fucking feel sick. I mean I cosplay Homestuck and I'll quite happily say a few of them are nice talented people but ugh the majority of cosplayers are just fucking embarassing human beings

It makes me sad and angry but more angry tbh. Like stop making the rest of us feel embarassed for you because you clearly have no idea what a normal, well-adjusted person would do

Anonymous Mon May 26 18:51:25 2014 No.7580949

>>7580937
It really sucks that Homestuck has such a shit name because of the fandom because a lot of people won't give it a chance. I know I haven't.

But really, what makes a group of people say
>HEY GUISE. LET'S SPIT IN THIS BUCKET. SO COOL. YOUTUBE FOR SURE.
I just don't understand fandoms sometimes.

Anonymous Mon May 26 18:53:52 2014 No.7580955
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>>7580902
I thought Erwin since anon said "regarded as sexy" or whatever which is what he is, at least in the older half of the fandom.

*of course I am an Erenfag and regard him as sexiest but I'm a fagoot so I must not think like one*

Anonymous Mon May 26 18:56:39 2014 No.7580960

>>7580949
At the end of the day I don't blame people for not wanting to go near it. I enjoy it personally, but the fandom is just so fucking awful that I really understand people who are just like fuck no I'm not going near that.

And really there's probably even more gross shit that the Homestuck fandom has done and I'm just so fucking done with them all that I'm not sure if anything could bother me anymore!

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:05:01 2014 No.7580978

>>7580949
>>7580960
Honestly, I blame how long it is. The only people who are still into it are either:

> People who have kept up with it since earlier on
> People who are crazy enough to actually read the entire thing starting now
> People who straight up haven't read anything and just hang out in the fandom headcannons (probably initiated through the porn and.or cosplay)

If it was shorter and easier for anyone to pick it up, there would be more people who appreciate the depth of the lore. I enjoyed reading it a lot, but took a break just after the ancestors were introduced. By the time that I came back for it, there were a massive amount of updates and it would be impossible to find the page I was on. So I gave up. I might try to tackle it someday, but with every day and every update that passes, the task just gets bigger.

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:10:21 2014 No.7580989

>>7580978
Well I was one of the few who was crazy enough to read the entire thing last summer, after having been called out after saying shit about it in general. I pretty much figured I would tackle it and then make a judgement.

It's only got one more big update left so I guess if you wanted to tackle it now would be your chance. At least after the comic ends the largely disturbing part of the fandumb will move somewhere else. It seems like SnK is their weapon of choice right about now.

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:14:59 2014 No.7580994

>>7580937
I know some Homestucker cosplayers and they all are pretty nice people. Also same here but with Hetalia...this fandom as a really bad name because of all the damn obnoxious weebs in the fandom,but like in every fandom,there's the annoying idiots and there's the good part. My friends and I have a little Hetalia cosplay group and we all behave like well mannered people in public (yes,some of us happen to like BL (boy's love) but we keep it for ourselves and don't annoy anyone with it.) People won't give a chance to Hetalia either because of all the retarded weebs...it's pretty sad (sorry for the shit english not my main language)

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:17:43 2014 No.7581001

>>7580989
It's ending? I wonder what those poor lost souls will do. It's been going on for, what, five years now? Damn. There's going to be a riot.
How long did it take you to go through it last summer? When I picked it up for the first time, I think it took me about 2-3 months to bring myself up to the current of the time. Though was doing other stuff at the time too.
It'll be nice to read it after the fandom dies. I liked it for having an actual plot with some ridiculousness thrown in. I think the worst of the fandom are the ones who just revel in the ridiculous.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 19:20:40 2014 No.7581007 File: 19 KB, 259x194, whydoifeel.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7580937 >>7580949 >>7580994 I feel you fellow homestuckers and hetalians...I feel y'all

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:24:24 2014 No.7581020

>>7581001
Yeah, Hussie's been on the Gigapause/Mega Hiatus since November '13, roughly to finish the final big animation and the last few pages, and then release them all as one big update.

It took me about maybe a month, although I have a very fast reading speed, plus I had to go back and reread some bits later on because I had pretty much missed them out.

I wouldn't count on the fandom dying completely- Hussie launched a new spin-off webcomic designed to specifically keep Homestuck alive- Paradox Space, where they explore canon and non-canon mini-stories. I admire his business strategy but curse him for giving the fanDUMB portion a larger bone to chew on.

>>7580994
That happens in all fandoms and it's really quite sad sometimes. Not just in pop culture though, now that I think about it, but in every kind of gathering- you hear one really bad thing or bad opinion and no one reports the good stuff so you only hear the bad sides.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 19:26:02 2014 No.7581024 Lolitas who have boyfriends who look like pedophiles and treat them like the little girl. You're not doing any good for the cause.

Anonymous Mon May 26 19:29:11 2014 No.7581033

>>7581020
>>>7580994
>That happens in all fandoms and it's really quite sad sometimes. Not just in pop culture though, now that I think about it, but in every kind of gathering- you hear one really bad thing or bad opinion and no one reports the good stuff so you only hear the bad sides.

This so damn much.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 20:24:30 2014 No.7581165 Fat fucks who tell me that I suck because I'm thin. Fuck off.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 20:30:39 2014 No.7581177 Lose a fuckton of weight for Lolita. Can fit into smaller things now. Shirring not stretched the fuck out. Rarely does anything look right on me because my build isn't narrow and tiny. fml.

Anonymous Mon May 26 20:35:06 2014 No.7581189

I made a fb status about working out and eating well so I can look good and trim for my next cosplay, and some fat acceptance bitch made a comment like "what's that supposed to mean, fat girls can't cosplay?" When I said that's not what I said at all, just that I'm glad that I am happy that MY body is looking better, she started demanding what my problem with being fat is. I made the mistake of outright saying that I don't think I look attractive when I'm heavier. What the actual fuck. You can't even have a preference for your own body with these people.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 20:39:17 2014 No.7581201 >>7581189 I have this happening to me on Tumblr right now. Why do I bother with Tumblr

Anonymous Mon May 26 20:42:40 2014 No.7581205

>>7581177
Ugh, this. 32-25-36 but the look of everything is ruined by my wide-ass shoulders. Also I'm 5'9", so my arms are too long for cute blouses. Fucks up my kimono ensembles, too.
Maybe we should give up and dress like dolly-kei hobos or something.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 20:44:22 2014 No.7581211 >>7581205 >arms too long oh lord, those feels. I have to hunt for normalfag long sleeves, no way I'm fitting in asian long sleeves.

Anonymous Mon May 26 21:02:40 2014 No.7581253

What's rustling my jimmies right now is the slew of invites I'm getting to "like" people's fanpages on Facebook. These people are just lolitas. Not gorgeous, mediocre coords, not models (not even regular models at shows and conventions like some of the ones I know), not accessory makers or seamstresses making beautiful lolita clothes...

just regular lolitas.

Wtf? Do they really need to feel that important for being just... them? Confuses and annoys the fuck out of me.

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 21:03:32 2014 No.7581255 File: 253 KB, 960x540, 1401127339225.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >don't wanna end up in the National Virgin Registry >need to find a girl to take my virginity Fuck me

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 21:11:46 2014 No.7581276 >>7581255 Don't give up now, wizardry is within your grasp!

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 21:20:09 2014 No.7581294 >>7581255 Elliot Rodger is that you?

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 21:27:25 2014 No.7581307 my jimmies are rustlin' because I'm not sure if I'm a weeb or not, and I'm a summerfag

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 21:30:30 2014 No.7581315 >>7581276 They'll take me away

>>	Anonymous Mon May 26 23:22:45 2014 No.7581571 I'm as thin as my hippy frame allows me to be but I'm still really jiggly in the ol' appendages and no amount of cardio, excerise, or cutting out gum/soda/sugar/etc is helping so far and it's been three months. I'm really upset!

>>	Anonymous Tue May 27 02:00:24 2014 No.7581884 I hate the stupid r-word campaign and people who go fucking crazy whenever I say it in casual conversation.

Anonymous Tue May 27 21:24:33 2014 No.7583642
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>haven't eaten anything today besides cookie
>post-con bank account (i.e. poor as hell)
>best friend just got paid and offers dinner at fav restaurant after he's done work
>hells yeah
>"I'll pick you up after I drive (ex-greencard wife) home"
>she doesn't have a license bc she hates woman drivers, I'm fucking serious
>she's done work like 2 hours after my friend
>mfw when I have to sit here grumpy and hungry for 2 more hours because this bitch is retarded

>>	Anonymous Tue May 27 22:38:52 2014 No.7583957 >>7581884 r word? rectum? retail? retina? raccoons? rabies?

>>	Anonymous Tue May 27 22:46:46 2014 No.7583972 >>7583957 retard, you fuckin retard.

Anonymous Tue May 27 22:49:28 2014 No.7583982

>add girl from my cos com on fb
>popular, pretty, yada yada
>my friends who had her added for a while tell me that they unfollowed her
>??
>two days after adding her
>news feed spammed by her constant statuses
>every status somehow about how pretty she is
>fucking why

>>	Anonymous Tue May 27 22:54:14 2014 No.7583993 For some reason, cgl on mobile isn't working for me. Fuck you Apple.

Anonymous Wed May 28 14:56:53 2014 No.7585447

I started cosplaying a few years ago with a friend, we always cosplay together from the same anime/whatever. Last year she invited these 2 girls to cosplay too and now she only cosplays what they want and I have to cosplay alone. They don't even watch anime, they don't know who they're cosplaying, and my friend even has to make their costumes. Pisses me off knowing I lost my cosplay partner to them

>>	Anonymous Wed May 28 16:17:32 2014 No.7585600 >>7579933 I feel the same way about Ryuko. Going to do it anyways because, (and perhaps I'm being delusional), I know I'm a top-tier Ryuko.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 14:38:00 2014 No.7587431 File: 30 KB, 599x580, BonIqldCYAE9wMd.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7578102 >What rustle your jimmies lately /cgl/? One word: Misogyny. Can't stop thinking about how true picture related is.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 14:54:25 2014 No.7587473 >>7580994 I hate how so many weebs gave Hetalia a bad name. Like, I can't believe it.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 14:56:09 2014 No.7587479 >>7587431 The fact that people like this exist who aren't trolls rustles the hell outta my jimmies.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 15:02:14 2014 No.7587497 >>7587479 Same. The shooting incident just brought everyone's most beautiful colors out, don't you agree?

Anonymous Thu May 29 15:03:31 2014 No.7587499

>>7580994

Not to mention a lot of he homestuckers moved into the Dangan Ronpa fandom.

And I absolutely hate it. Anything that get popular on tumblr I loose my love for it. In particular DR/SDR2 and Dramatical Murder.

I played in Japanese for all games and it was so great when the fandom was small and people were nice and discussed things civilly.

I was in the hetalia fandom once. Glad I got out of it.

Anonymous Thu May 29 15:06:22 2014 No.7587505 [DELETED]

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>>7587497
pic related is me on tumblr

This kind of ridiculous bullshit almost makes me, as a girl, want to shoot up some people and cite extreme feminism, SJWs and tumblr as my main inspiration or something. I'm not that much of sociopath though...

Anonymous Thu May 29 15:14:26 2014 No.7587522 [DELETED]

>>7587505

It would probably backfire and everyone would hail you as a martyr. Even if all your victims were girls, they would probably make up some bullshit about how you just had a troubled mind and these girls were internalised misogynists anyways.

But man, fuck, this reaction made me lose faith in the feminist movement as a whole. They clearly are in it just for the wimmins, and I'm currently not sure what sort of goal they have in mind even as a wimmins movement.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 16:28:49 2014 No.7587645 >>7580426 I think octavekitten's coord would have been better without those huge ass flowers on her head while I personally don't like the coord of the other girl.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 16:47:02 2014 No.7587672 >>7583642 I hope you're sucking his dick afterward atleast.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 17:07:56 2014 No.7587713 >>7587431 This is actually pretty deep stuff. I never thought about it like that before.

Anonymous Thu May 29 17:14:54 2014 No.7587718 [DELETED]

>>7587713
Except that the latter the term, the less people think abortion is alright.
Gender isn't decided right when it comes out the womb, it's decided inside it, and you'd think if this crap were true, that the moment the fetus turns out to be female, abortion would be deemed alright.
But you're most likely a troll, so sage. I'm just responding because there are people like that...

Anonymous Thu May 29 17:29:47 2014 No.7587737
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Guy in red was a friend of mine for years. I had to delete him because I couldn't stand the shit he was saying, it made me physically sick.
Honestly, how could you say those things when your mother is female, your girlfriend is female, your aunt is female.. etc
Honestly, the bodybuilding community is infected with extreme misogyny. It's no wonder people like Elliot Rodgers turned to those sites.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 17:31:51 2014 No.7587741 >>7587718 >not knowing what saging actually is >calling someone with a non-inflammatory comment a troll uwot.

Anonymous Thu May 29 17:45:23 2014 No.7587767

local lolita who is pretty new to the community totally tore apart another (super nice and friendly) well known lolita that has been part of our community for years. The things she said were untrue and needlessly hurtful. I don't understand how she thinks she still get to be part of our comm and come hang out with the girl she shit talked for no reason

Anonymous Thu May 29 17:53:01 2014 No.7587775 [DELETED]

>>7587718
What the hell are you tolking about? The point is that in patriarchy, fetuses have more rights than women - they want it make illegal to kill fetus but it is perfectly acceptable by society to kill women because they are not having sex with men.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 17:53:53 2014 No.7587777 >>7587767 What comm?

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 17:54:51 2014 No.7587778 >>7579901 Tu parles ton "language maternel" (mdr) comme t'es bourrée.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 17:54:53 2014 No.7587779 File: 108 KB, 609x489, this is an actual quote from an actual respected feminist.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7587522 Equality is misogyny also, didn't you hear?

Anonymous Thu May 29 17:55:27 2014 No.7587780 [DELETED]

>>7587775

Where in heaven's name do people get the idea that it's okay to kill women because they're not having sex with men. The outrage over Rodger's death (while simultaneously ignoring the racist undertones of his ~manifesto~) is enough to say that no, society doesn't deem it okay.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:01:22 2014 No.7587794 >>7587775 >The point is that in patriarchy No one in the Western world lives in a patriarchy, you fucking moron.

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:03:06 2014 No.7587796 [DELETED]

>>7587780
It's about the deep seated misogyny that is institutionalized when we teach young men that they are entitled to having sex with women they find attractive and that society owes them such girl (or any girl at all) - as they are taught by Hollywood movies / power fantasies where the ugly guy also gets the girl.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:04:42 2014 No.7587801 >>7587780 The most shocking thing about his racism is finding out that he's half-Chinese. His racism against Asians spawned from the fact that he blamed his heritage as being unattractive to girls, especially his "favourite" blonde, blue-eyed girls

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:07:52 2014 No.7587805 [DELETED]

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>>7587801

He's a good example of internalised racism. He hates himself and he projects his hatred onto other people because of arbitrary features.

Not any of this "I don't support #CancelColbert" shit.

But I think we're derailing the thread quite badly now so that's the last I'll post on this subject.

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:11:37 2014 No.7587809 [DELETED]

>>7587737
>woman chooses to terminate pregnancy out of own accord = ok
>woman does not choose to terminate pregnancy out of own accord, pregnancy terminated through violence = not ok

Pretty simple logic to no get regardless of your stance on abortion. Also lol completely discredited him when he started referencing that "hypocritical feminist" meme. If his arguments are based on memes why even try to reason with him.

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:15:58 2014 No.7587820 [DELETED]

>>7587801
Is there some kind of one drop rule for white people in the media going on? Erasing people's ethnicities so they can fit them into their little "White people commit all evil" narrative whilst simultaneously going on about how damaging erasure is to minorities.

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:18:56 2014 No.7587826 [DELETED]

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I hate weak men. Unfit, low confidence, uncharismatic men. They repulse and disgust me. The fact that modern society protects, and encourages, this behaviour angers me. Adding to that, the fact that weak men are necessary to maintain the balance of power (where I sit comfortably at the top) upsets me even more. There is literally nothing I can do, save endure having to deal with these pathetic weaklings on a daily basis for the rest of my life.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:23:08 2014 No.7587831 >>7587820 Bad question to ask on /cgl/. The girls here still think that Zimmerman is a murderer who deserved to rot in jail.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:24:33 2014 No.7587838 >>7587826 >yfw this is what /r9k/ thinks women actually believe

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:24:58 2014 No.7587839 [DELETED]

>>7587820
>white cis males commit all evil
Ftfy

Captcha: evelobq Spaniards

I think I just saw a post roll on my dash with a headline something like "Girlfriend stabs boyfriend for complaining about no dinner" or something and the comments were simply just lyrics to Cell Block Tango.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:26:13 2014 No.7587844 File: 68 KB, 960x720, Sakura Content.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7587838 I bet you're one of them.

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>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:33:11 2014 No.7587860 >>7587831 It was literally an Ace Attorney case but my girlfriend (who claims to like the AA-series) called me a racist and a misogynist for saying that. I suppose women just can't think clearly, no matter how much evidence they're presented.

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:33:55 2014 No.7587863

>>7578102
I hate hipster "professional" cosplayers who shit talk about others just because you/they're cosplaying someone from a popular show.

>eg) Kill la Kill, AoT, Naruto etc.

Who made them some sort of cosplay authority?
The funny thing is, most of them are l4ndwh4les or skeletors.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:35:34 2014 No.7587866 >>7587855 Another thing I hate? Opinions being dismissed because people disagree with them. >lol baitu XD Fucking pathetic. This is why I hate weak-minded losers; they can't handle being called out.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:36:31 2014 No.7587867 File: 181 KB, 625x626, bait10.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7587826 >>7587831 >>7587860

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:38:16 2014 No.7587872
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So let me get this straight: a thread asks us to post when we dislike. People post what they dislike. Suddenly that's bait? Yeah, nicely done. I'm sure you're very successful in life.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 18:44:31 2014 No.7587881 File: 122 KB, 780x880, c75506_3788498.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >visit catalog >visit any thread >newfags, fatties, /r9k/ and /fit/ everywhere >summer, summer everywhere

Anonymous Thu May 29 18:59:59 2014 No.7587905 [DELETED]

>>7587867
>Zimmerman is innocent is b8

Literally go fuck yourself you hamplanet-turd. Did you see the trial? No? Then GET THE FUCK OUT.

You are the biggest trash on Earth.
>waah, waah, he must be guilty because that's what I saw on the TV and read on Tumblr
>the evidence and the "facts" were clearly manufactured by the patriarchy

Anonymous Thu May 29 19:17:31 2014 No.7587934

This is going to be long. Because I'm angry as all hell.

My boyfriend has been unwell for months now, and even before that there were issues in our life that we kept fairly quiet from our friends out of a desire for privacy. During this time, he stopped working, and later dropped the PhD he was working on because the situation drained him of the motivation needed to finish it within the time allotted.

Since he fell ill, he has had multiple surgeries, and has been depressed as a result of not being able to get back to work or focus on the other things he wants to do with his life. All the same, he's done his best to stay positive and recognise that while he's got it bad, he's not dying (that we know of), and will recover once the doctors figure out what's wrong.

During this time, we've also had a friend of his around, who has a number of issues, but only recently started seeking help for said issues. I've never been particularly fond of this friend, mostly because I find him obnoxious, but also because he's such a negative force in the lives of everyone he meets. Everything that goes wrong is the end of the world with him, no matter how small. He is addicted to negativity and rarely has anything positive to say about anything. We take him to a restaurant we like? He talks about how it makes him miss X place in Y city, and how much better they were. We talk about movies we've seen recently? He talks about how X movie by the director is better. We mention that we're going to a wedding, he details his love life troubles to us in full (which has been a common theme of his complaints recently).

Anonymous Thu May 29 19:24:38 2014 No.7587945

>>7587934
In short, he won't talk about anything except how horrible his situation is, and his remarks are always aimed at my boyfriend with a "look at you, you're so lucky" attitude. This just makes my boyfriend feel even worse about the situation he's in, and every time the guy leaves our house, you can just tell how much the time together has taken out of my boyfriend.

It's frustrating and annoying, and a few days ago, my boyfriend actually told him off for being so continually "woe is me" on a Facebook status. He got a really cliche apology e-mail in response, which he didn't answer, because he didn't know how to answer it. It placed the burden of his friend's woes on a recent break-up (the relationship lasted less than a year and the reason she broke up with him was because of his continually negative behaviour at all hours of the day). So my boyfriend left it alone, saying that the friend had cried wolf one too many times, and he didn't feel like dealing with it.

Last night, as I was making dinner, my boyfriend came in and showed me a text message from this friend, which read like a suicide note. He asked me what I thought of it, so I told him to call a few friends of ours who live near the one who sent the suicide note message, to check on him. We found out that he was going to check himself into a clinic. Then this morning, we got another message through Facebook, with a long-winded explanation of things that explained nothing, saying therapy isn't working and that he tried to kill himself the night before, all the while saying "it's no one's fault but my own!" while hinting that it was, in fact, someone's fault very much so (meaning, my boyfriend's for not leaping to his assistance for the millionth time).

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 19:25:45 2014 No.7587947 all this summer has me pretty ruffled tbh

Anonymous Thu May 29 19:26:35 2014 No.7587948

>>7587945
I really want to tell my boyfriend to cut all ties with this guy right now. He has been nothing but trouble for years now, and has continually tried to drag us into his bullshit. When he and his wife had issues with one another, he blamed *us* and told us that all of his relationship problems were because we didn't treat him with respect. After spewing insults at us, he then vanished for a year. When he came back, after a divorce, he blamed his ex-wife and said that she put the words into his head, that he hadn't meant them.

My boyfriend forgave him, but I've been wary of him ever since, and I think rightly so.

I understand that depression, particularly clinical depression, is a disease and a difficult one to deal with, but I want this guy out of our lives. He needs to find his own way to cope and deal with his problems, because all he's doing is bringing us down when we have enough of our own to deal with.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 19:42:29 2014 No.7587977 >>7587905 He was racist because Trayvone wouldn't died if he hadn't chased him with pistol

Anonymous Thu May 29 20:11:09 2014 No.7588013

>>7587948
I've dealt with someone like this anon, except it was my dad.
If it's completely possible, get him out of your lives. He is only being toxic and you are gaining nothing from having him around. I'm sorry you have to deal with him and I sympathize with you :(

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 20:31:39 2014 No.7588044 >13 year olds in the dmmd fandom >13 year olds doing dmmd panels I worry for them and their parent's reactions. How and why did this series get popular among an underage crowd all of a sudden?

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 20:43:10 2014 No.7588060 10 or so minutes ago, some kid on fb asked me why lolita fashion was named lolita. It's tiresome, but it would have been fine if he didn't start off with the question: > so is like lolita reverse NAMBLA? The serious fuck, man?

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 21:04:35 2014 No.7588088 >>7588060 what the fuck is a nambla. what is a reverse nambla- albman? >google >north american man/boy love association god fucking dammit.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 21:07:48 2014 No.7588092 >>7588088 >>7588060 So reverse would be like woman/girl love? So frilly older lesbians with frilly younger lesbians?

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 21:45:05 2014 No.7588148 >>7588092 I'm guessing. That's such a weird question. And why does someone know what the hell the acronym for the nambla is/means anyway?

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 21:46:58 2014 No.7588152 >>7588148 I only know it from watching too many SVU marathons.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 21:49:53 2014 No.7588157 >>7581253 I like how certain lolitas will have a follow option on their personal fb page or a public link to their blog, although I know some people would prefer to keep that part of their lives private or less busy.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 22:20:38 2014 No.7588209 >>7588148 South Park

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 23:14:31 2014 No.7588277 >>7579933 wait a few years until it's a "classic"

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 23:16:33 2014 No.7588282 Reminder that if you don't think Zim-Zam was innocent then you are the same kind of trash as Stalin or the Kim-Chongs.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 23:37:18 2014 No.7588310 >>7588282 http://strawpoll.me/1784314

Anonymous Thu May 29 23:46:42 2014 No.7588322

>Has this friend that I enjoy being around
>Except every time I decide not to purchase something because it's over my budget she's like "but anon your rich" or "so what you can afford it" really loudly
>Everyone else around us stares and thinks I'm rich
>I'm not rich, but my parents are well off enough.
>It's super awkward for me
>I end up looking stingy

I'm a full time student and my parents already covers almost all of my expenses. They work really hard for their money and deserve to spend it on themselves. Just because I can afford something doesn't mean I should buy especially if I'm not the breadwinner. Why can't poorfags just realize just because someone's parent's are loaded doesn't mean that their child is entitled to spend their parents money? Same goes for friends who don't understand why I treat my parents out to dinner or insist that I pay them back my college tuition when I finish school and get a real job.

>>	Anonymous Thu May 29 23:54:36 2014 No.7588337 >>7588322 Filial piety doesn't exist in the west

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 00:57:13 2014 No.7588451 >>7588337 It's a shame, but I don't think it's much better in the east considering that friend it particular comes from China and almost all my friends are at least of Asain decent

Anonymous Fri May 30 01:12:17 2014 No.7588499

>People who swear up and down /cgl is full of mean evil bitches out to get people for no reason.
>Find out that they were either tripfagging, being a cunt, or have never spent more than 5 minutes here.
>People who insist on not wearing a wig for their cosplay because of dumb/lazy reasons.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 01:14:48 2014 No.7588504 The thing I see most often that rustles my jimmies the most is unhemmed cosplays. Seriously, just. Just hem your shit, guys. It'll look so much better.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 09:31:15 2014 No.7588916 >>7588282 What is a Zim-Zam?

Anonymous Fri May 30 09:45:01 2014 No.7588926
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>>7588152
>too many SVU marathons
Totally going off topic but goddamn I am so tired of that series, my parents watch it too much. I've had to listen to so many of its reruns and some of them are laughably bad. I find it funny that they're the kind of people that think the youth are corrupted by violence in videogames/other media and yet they're transfixed on this show.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 09:59:32 2014 No.7588944 >>7588916 i'm assuming a nickname for george zimmerman

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 10:10:20 2014 No.7588957 >>7588944 At first I thought they were talking about some kind of tim-tam variant

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 10:21:00 2014 No.7588966 >>7588926 Well some of the plotlines are based on real cases so I can see how your parents get sucked into buying the whole storyline.

Anonymous Fri May 30 11:33:00 2014 No.7589068
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Hipsters liking anime ironically (I MEAN UN-IRONICALLY BECAUSE THEY LIKE SAILOR MOON) and using "hentais" in their shitty conceptual glitch art work.
Nothing can quench this rage.

Anonymous Fri May 30 11:36:45 2014 No.7589073

>Friend decided they want to start cosplaying and making their own costumes. Cool!
>Friend said that we should cosplay together in a couple years. Cool!
>...Because in a couple years her prop work and sewing will be at the same level as mine!! ...Wait, what?

Whoa there, I've been slaving over my own costumes and props for close to ten years. I'm not great, I'd say I'm mediocre, but my jimmies are SUPER rustled by you thinking that my level is low enough or that you are so much better than me that you can catch up to me in a couple years. And do you think I'm just going to sit on my hands during this time and not try to improve myself?

So bothered. SOOOOO bothered.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 11:55:47 2014 No.7589085 people who leave their piercings/plugs/tunnels in for cosplay. if i can take my 12 out in under 5 minutes for a costume, you can take your ~lel edgy~ lip out.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 11:57:48 2014 No.7589089 >>7589073 Maybe they think you'll help them along the way to improve

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 12:05:54 2014 No.7589099 File: 503 KB, 1280x1516, tumblr_n5wi3i5fiJ1sw92j5o2_1280.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] The fact that this got unironical notes on Tumblr.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 15:00:47 2014 No.7589319 >>7579901 Vachement? Deepshit? C'est "Dipshit", pute. Serieusement, tu parles comme une jeune fille en anglais et en français. Donc ferme ta bouche.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 15:54:00 2014 No.7589385 >>7588499 I have only cosplayed characters until now which pretty much had normal hair and my hair colour. A wig would have looked a lot worse.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 15:55:35 2014 No.7589390 >>7589099 >unironical

Anonymous Fri May 30 16:02:48 2014 No.7589401
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I finally got a reply from the moderator of a fb group for the lolita community where I will soon be moving. It took about 3 and a half weeks but she replied. I messaged her back immediately saying I wanted to join and now, nothing. Its been a month and the blue check marks notify me that she has seen my message.
>tfw I just want to look at local girls coords

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 16:31:05 2014 No.7589442 >>7589401 and now I have been blocked. great.

Anonymous Fri May 30 16:49:58 2014 No.7589476
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>>7589442

Well, maybe you should have contacted HER instead of bitching on cgl.

She may just have forgotten to answer your message; but now she must assume you're a potential drama whore on cgl who will immediatley bitch on cgl as soon as she encounters any kind of problems with her comm. Not fair, but that' life.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 16:54:09 2014 No.7589483 >>7589476 I waited a month for a reply I didn't do anything immediately, then messaged her again saying I sent a request. I felt pathetic sending messages and getting no reply so I vented.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 17:00:51 2014 No.7589495 >>7587778 Comme si t'étais bourrée plutôt, non?

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 17:25:38 2014 No.7589534 when I type in "vintage circle skirt" into a shopping site's database, I expect to find SOMETHING at least long enough to cover my ass. >99% of the time >lolnope >tina groan

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 17:35:09 2014 No.7589555 >>7588944 BUT ZIMMERMAN IS A MURDERER

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 17:53:59 2014 No.7589591 >>7580426 what is the deal with these stupid skewer headbands? they look far from saintly. i don't get why they're popular now, why is it trendy to look like a religious icon

Anonymous Fri May 30 18:46:28 2014 No.7589695

Ever since I started my first year of college my mom has started hanging out with this super controlling bitch.
She's always telling me what to eat/wear/think/do and my mom just fucking goes with it and agrees with her because she afraid of having no friends.
But the one thing recently that has pissed me off so much that I just might fucking smash ever last window of her house
>be collecting anime merch since i was a middleschooler
>I paid for all of my merch, with the exception of birthday presents
>come home from school
>hear mom and friend in my room
>check out wtf they're doing
>they're throwing all my merch in black trash bags
>mom and friend what are you doing haha
>friend says "this is so unhealthy anon you need to change your lifestyle. I don't give a fuck how much you like your baby cartoons this is disgusting and it needs to stop. A girl like you grow up and find a real hobby like boys and dancing"
>mom is just sliding my figures into the trash
>my touhou buttons
>my Pokemon towels
>my cosplays
>all of my beautiful figurines
>everything
>I try to take the garbage bags back holding back my tears
>friend rips open the bag
>no
>she pulls out my Stocking fig
>snaps it in half
>"anon if you want your toys back then have them like this"
>stand there helpless watching my precious merch gets obliterated by some smelly fat bitch and my retarded mom
>I've been in my empty room for 3 days now and haven't eaten
>her friend is here daily and I can hear her talking shit about me from downstairs
I dint know what to do

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:49:41 2014 No.7589699 >>7589695 Fucking say something? How old are you, you should be able to get the cops involved if you're allowed to be on this site. That's damage to your personal property.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:50:22 2014 No.7589702 >>7589695 Smash every window in the house. Not even kidding. or take her to court for destruction of personal property.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:50:59 2014 No.7589704 >>7589699 I want to. I really fucking do. In fact I'll do that right now.

Anonymous Fri May 30 18:51:34 2014 No.7589705

>>7589695

Anon, what the hell. Your story almost made me cry and puke up at the same time. I don't even collect merchandise, but my heart is bleeding.

I can only advise: Can you get out of there? Move in with someone? Anything, as long as you are getting away from these toxic people.
Maybe try talking to your mother?

Honestly, this might not be very rational but maybe you could take something your mother love, and destroy it. I woul drag my mom's wardrobe into the garden, and set it on fire. See how SHE likes that.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:52:39 2014 No.7589711 File: 54 KB, 576x384, 1313692651895.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7589704 Do it Anon, please!

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:53:51 2014 No.7589713 >>7589702 >>7589705 I'm calling my brother right now and getting a lawyer. I'm going to sue the living shit out of this bitch.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 18:55:32 2014 No.7589716 >>7589713 Post results please! I wish you all the best Anon, I hope you will get justice.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 19:00:11 2014 No.7589728 >>7589716 I'll definitely post results. I can smell the sweet revenge(which will be her money)

Anonymous Fri May 30 19:03:06 2014 No.7589734

>>7589728
>I'll definitely post results.

As I have said I wish you all the best and hope you are successful!

>I can smell the sweet revenge(which will be her money)

Yes, hopefully. And not only her money, I guess, but also the fact you will most likely be spending it on things she does not approve of again.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 19:11:14 2014 No.7589749 >>7589728 Afterward, buy even more figs with her money and mail her pictures of you laughing with them, having a wicked sweet tea party, etc. GL in beating that supreme cunt, Anon.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 19:14:43 2014 No.7589755 Having Boobs too big to get any nice Lolita Brand.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 19:50:51 2014 No.7589828 >>7589068 Example, anon?

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 20:18:05 2014 No.7589865 >>7579933 Maybe do a concept version of her? It shows you like the character without looking like the rest of the flavor of the month cosplayers.

Anonymous Fri May 30 20:55:22 2014 No.7589918

>>7588088
That was my initial reaction. I get that people ask about the fashion in relation (or lack thereof) to Nabokov, but this was the first time someone's ever asked me this.

Not to my surprise, the kid continued to pester me with questions about the fashion (the typical negative kinds, including pedophilia - read the fucking book, you dope). I thought it would end when I answered his original question with

>No, it's just a trans-periodic inspired fashion

It took a great deal of patience from me to answer and make sound arguments because I was up since 4:30 am that day, although, not enough to answer his questions about guys who wear lolita (I just gave up and we somehow moved to something else). He admitted to trying to troll me toward the end of the stupid conversation.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 21:04:19 2014 No.7589930 >>7589695 Call the police you fucking moron? People aren't allowed to just break your shit you know. I don't know what's more infuriating about this story, your mom's friend being such a bitch or you being such an idiot.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 21:04:37 2014 No.7589931 >>7589695 If my mother and her friend were doing that in front of me they would be in serious shit,you should've called the cops when they are destroying your stuff.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 21:53:45 2014 No.7590010 File: 957 KB, 500x235, tumblr_mehxfhHE2j1qaryr9o1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7589319 >tfw i retained enough french to understand this

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 21:56:44 2014 No.7590015 >>7589695 what the fuck is wrong with your mom when she will let some psycho bitch disrespect her child like that?

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 22:02:50 2014 No.7590027 >>7589828 Seriously? Omocat, fuccboi street style clothing that's just sports numbers with words like HENTAI above them, shopping with asian stereotypes There are way more examples this stuff has been all over /fa/ and it's dumb as hell

Anonymous Fri May 30 22:06:47 2014 No.7590032

>>7579104
I agree. It also annoys me when people on here go "How did this get so many notes?" or "This doesn't deserve ___ notes. It's not even that good." Notes are not proportional to quality. It just means someone likes something. Nothing has to be top-tier for multiple people to like it. Most things I like aren't top-tier.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 22:29:20 2014 No.7590061 >>7590027 Omocat is only really known by real anime/manga fans, in my experience.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 22:34:35 2014 No.7590074 >>7589089 I sorta hope that's what it is... except we live pretty far apart, so...

Anonymous Fri May 30 22:35:30 2014 No.7590076

>>7589828
Basically, >>7590027
I hate how people are turning anime into this whole edgy "aesthetic". I could rant about this for pages. At the risk of sounding like a complete ass I'll try to restrain myself. (Personally I can swallow omocat because they're at least using their own art.) Tracing some EVA chick's tits on a shirt and slapping "ヘンタイ" over it isn't fucking shit.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 22:49:15 2014 No.7590093 >>7590061 >only really known by real anime/manga fans Ugh no, I only found out about them from Tumblr and /fa/. And the people into that are the type of kids who've only watched Akira and Neon Gene- oh, I mean Rebuild of Evangelion.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 22:56:06 2014 No.7590101 >>7590093 Would /fa/ agree with this type of shit? >http://animeclub.storenvy.com/products/4099913-anime-club-cyber-gf-t-shirt-in-white-exclusive

Anonymous Fri May 30 23:02:37 2014 No.7590110

>>7590093
Omocat is a girl, first off.
No normalfag that I've talked to (even the ones who I know damn well browse /fa/) has ever heard of her when I bring it up. The few people who I've known irl who like her stuff were legit, annoying ass weebs in my Japanese classes and a few cool, closeted weebs in my arch classes.
No need to be an elitist snob and shit on people who've watched Akira or Eva, btw. I'd rather people be into them than be some /a/spie.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:11:57 2014 No.7590121 >>7590110 >Omocat is a girl, first off. Are you being a white knight or is there any point at all in saying this...?

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:14:24 2014 No.7590126 File: 105 KB, 342x423, 1340808218859.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7590110 >a few cool, closeted weebs in my arch classes. >I'd rather people be into them than be some /a/spie By all means continue being this beta.

Anonymous Fri May 30 23:17:05 2014 No.7590129

>>7590126
I'm sorry, but if all you can talk about is how cool you are for staying up until 3 am to win your yaoi doujinshi on Y!Japan, then no, I don't want to get on your level.
I'm much happier being around people who know how to (and do) hide their power level.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:20:34 2014 No.7590133 When a cosplayer's boyfriend pressures her to cosplay all the manic panic pixie dream moe blobs that I dislike. See: Shimashit.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:20:54 2014 No.7590134 File: 143 KB, 698x1024, IMG_6641_1024x1024.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7590129 >who know how to (and do) hide their power level s-sure thing anon!

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:23:14 2014 No.7590139 Having lesbians get into every fucking male dominated sports anime ever, only care about the gay ships and then wanting themselves and another lesbian cosplaying that pairing, for every fucking sports anime. See: Yowamushi, Haikyuu

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:24:31 2014 No.7590141 >>7590134 I'm not saying they wore the clothing. I think wearing any sort of graphic clothing is gay as hell. Knowing an artist and liking them is different, though.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:25:29 2014 No.7590143 When girls overdo the eyeliner in every crossplay they do, runing the character's overall eyeshape. See: SnK, Magi, Free!, just about every male character dominated animu.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:26:10 2014 No.7590148 >>7590141 Then why are you responding at all when the entire discussion was about fuccbois wearing anime clothes?

Anonymous Fri May 30 23:27:43 2014 No.7590152

Seeing every Butler Cafe consist of sperglords, crossdressing girls or people who aren't conveniently attractive, while standards for maids in Maid cafes are an all time high.
I'm not interested in maids btw. How is it so hard to find an attractive guy for these things?

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:30:30 2014 No.7590157 Missing gringolandia cons because your own country's conventions are so mediocre and made up of inexperienced and cheap ass staff that you want to gouge your eyeballs out since there are no other alternatives.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:35:32 2014 No.7590164 >>7590076 I kind of find myself hating this aesthetic too. I like some of her OC's and her glitch clothing, but she's trying too hard. I'm not saying she's the only one, buuut she's one of the most popular cases by far.

>>	Anonymous Fri May 30 23:39:38 2014 No.7590170 >>7590110 I totally agree. I'd rather it be an oldfag than some moe consuming shit that always watches "cute girls doing kyoot things desu~" or haremshit. /a/ has been shitty for those exact same reasons lately.

Anonymous Fri May 30 23:40:04 2014 No.7590172

>>7590093
I've bought some of Omocat's stuff before, and I can't really call myself an anime fan anymore. Back when I liked anime, it was mainstream fandumb stuff.
Her designs just seems to be getting more and more tryhard though. Not gonna deny that she's a good artist, because I like some of her work, but it's really hard to argue that her merchandise isn't the epitome of Tumblrcore. The thought that someone out there has bought >>7590134 and worn it out in public is a little embarrassing.

Anonymous Fri May 30 23:59:48 2014 No.7590210

>>7590172
I used to love Omocat's art a few years back but I agree, her stuff is getting really tryhard. It's less charming than it used to be and now feels like its pandering to that specific tumblr demographic

>>7590134
this is just embarrassing tbh, I can't imagine anyone wanting to wear this for any reason other than to

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 00:01:03 2014 No.7590213 >>7590210 lmao shit I didn't finish that, basically I can't see anyone wearing that for any reason other than to take a bunch of selfies in it for tumblr notes.

Anonymous Sat May 31 00:29:27 2014 No.7590239
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>My friend and I run a kawaii themed blog on tumblr
>We recently discovered lolita, looked for clothing at thrift stores but had no luck
>Where do I find clothing?

Can you not google? How the hell did you find the closed group if you can't even do a basic google search on the fashion?
Noobs who don't bother to do any research rustle my fucking jimmies. Also, people suggesting Etsy as a decent source for lolita clothing.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 00:48:12 2014 No.7590260 Quite tired of this new trend with cosplayers creating private twitter accounts to talk shit about people.

Anonymous Sat May 31 00:57:05 2014 No.7590273 [DELETED]

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this bullshit
>OMG IM SUCH AN ANIMAL LUVR
>doesn't understand that wild birds are opportunistic dumbasses

I also had someone send me an ask along the lines of "omg I want 2 ask u 2 tag my triggers but I don't know if you care about meeeeee ;n; ;n; ;n; weh weh weh weh wow is me ur heartless and sew poopuler". I mean come the fuck on just say "can you tag [x]" instead of pulling passive aggressive bullshit at me.

Anonymous Sat May 31 01:15:38 2014 No.7590293

Girl in my community talked for years about how she didn't want to become Cosplay famous because that would make the hobby 'less enjoyable', and wants to go to school and get a 'real job.' Recently I reconnected with her at a local con and asked how she was doing, and she told me she's in grad school and was 'making extra rent money'... With voice acting in anime. I don't get how she could have talked about not wanting to be famous just a few years ago but has no problems rubbing elbows with all the guests of honor, regardless of how fucking ridiculous she looks doing so WHILE IN COSPLAY.

Maybe I seem like a horrible person, I just find it suspicious that for years she made a point to never take the limelight at cons or at meet ups, and now she's the most famous of all of us? She was always nice to me, but I really have a suspicion that the whole 'BUT I DON'T WANNA BE FAMOUS BAWWWW" shit is just an act and she just hid her desire from everyone. I want to call her out on it because I'm genuinely curious, but am sure I'd get whiteknights up my ass for a week.

Anonymous Sat May 31 02:35:11 2014 No.7590383

annoying girl in the same club as me is one year younger than me, has 2 kids. Is currently going through divorce with her husband, constantly dumps her kids on her parents (who she lives with) to go party or do whatever.
>>She starts dating my friend (which is how I know her)
>>all my other friends hate her too
>>most immature person I've ever met
>>her boyfriend can't financially support himself so his parents want him to go back home so they can help
>>suddenly shes pregnant
>>tells another friend that boyfriend is going to be upset with her because she told him he didn't need to wear a condom since she was going to 'take something' that would keep her from getting pregnant
>>doesnt take whatever it is
>>starts telling people about being pregnant, tells people to keep it a secret because if her husband finds out he could get custody of the other 2 kids.
>>slowly find out she is literally telling everyone, including people who don't know who she is, but hang out at the game store her boyfriend sometimes hangs out at
>>gets pissed when her divorce hearing comes up because her ex found out and the final divorce signing is put off for another few months (but she still gets her kids)
>>we all think she got pregnant on purpose to force boyfriend into staying in town with her.
>>dude seems super depressed and has stopped talking to everyone
>>she still goes out to play around all the time while still dumping her kids with her mom
>>suddenly starts whining that she doesn't have money right now and wants hands out from people (in the form of cosplays or clothes)
>>starts posting all over the place for people to give her pregnant cosplays, announces she's doing Kim Possible.

i'm super sick of this girl, and wish she'd get kicked out of the club.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 02:38:37 2014 No.7590388 >>7590383 she fails at life.how pathetic.

Anonymous Sat May 31 03:28:40 2014 No.7590429

>>7590383

wow. just wow.

Bringing kids into this world while not being stable enough to looks after the ones you already have.

This touches a nerve with me because my older sister is similar. She just dumps her 2 kids on my parents because she can't get her shit together.

That is a lesson to you guys out there. Don't stick your dick in anything without taking personal responsibility for your own protection.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 04:13:38 2014 No.7590472 File: 439 KB, 1280x751, what.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Are people really entitled enough to just ask for free money on the internet for such a stupid reason?

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 04:14:50 2014 No.7590473 File: 561 KB, 720x720, the fuck.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7590472 ...and here are the "prizes". I'm irrationally rustled by people who do this. Like what the fuck?

Anonymous Sat May 31 04:39:37 2014 No.7590492

>>7590293

There is a differnece between being well-known because you've earned a place in a community, and being well-known because you gratuitously self-publicise. That difference is the pride you can take in yourself at the end of it. Sounds more like she didn't want to famewhore herself, but got good enough at what she does to manage to get the fame regardless, the legitimate way.

Good job to her.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 04:41:07 2014 No.7590496 >>7587737 You both sound like idiots.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 04:53:23 2014 No.7590507 Shit-tier cosplay partners that don't do the shit they're supposed to until a week or day before con expecting you to help. Not my fault you thought smoking pot while partying and getting around was a better usage of time.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 05:14:13 2014 No.7590515 >>7587737 I'm so sorry anon I'm happy to say i don't know the feel

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 05:42:47 2014 No.7590527 >>7580871 My first thought too, but I follow the bnf artists of that ship and none of them have talked about cosplaying them.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 06:37:03 2014 No.7590549 File: 77 KB, 484x498, 1335612060165.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7590129 There's a difference between being a weeb and hiding your power level.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 07:07:16 2014 No.7590569 One thing that really gets me off, and makes me think the person is a complete ita, is tying your damn waistband around your tummy. Why. Would. You. Do. That.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 09:48:40 2014 No.7590704 >>7590293 > Was always nice to me > Hid her desire to be famous So....you're considering calling out someone who was nice to you and never brought up her own accomplishments?

Anonymous Sat May 31 10:06:01 2014 No.7590728

>>7590472
yes they are, I see poorfag art students begging on tumblr for people to pay their bills and other shit all the time. Well it's usually the art students.
I really hate this trend of people feeling like random people online should pay for their dreams and issues.
Suddenly everyone has a dying sister with heart issues that needs to pay 2000 dollar by next week or else.

Anonymous Sat May 31 10:10:47 2014 No.7590738

>>7590473
>>7590472
This sort of stuff pisses me off. Earn your own goddamn money. Just because you can't doesn't mean you deserve to go. And it's not THAT expensive to go to Japan. Sure, plane tickets can be pricey if you need to fly a long distance, but with a bit of research you can get a nice, cheap hotel, and eat good food for cheap. Travel smart and you won't break the bank. It's not hard.

On that note, it ticks me off when people think I'm rich and spoiled because I CAN afford to go to Japan every couple years. I make okay money, but that's because I'm always working. It's not uncommon to have 100+ hour weeks and it's very uncommon to have weekends off. Really, the only time I have off is when I go to the handful of conventions I attend every year and when I go to Japan. I'm not whining about my job, I actually rather love what I do, but I'm just so tired of people thinking that my ability to travel ever so often just falls from the sky.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 10:16:28 2014 No.7590749 >>7590134 ngl, I'd wear the shit out of that. What's so bad about it? Dressing like a normie is for normies.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 11:32:28 2014 No.7590872 >>7590473 link looks hungover as fuck

Anonymous Sat May 31 12:15:44 2014 No.7590941

>>7590507
>be really into making props/costumes, never have a partner
>finally find a few over time
>every time, they don't even want to learn or get into the cosplaying aspect, but just want the prop and for me alone to make it
>they never get into character, just kind of walk around with the character's clothes/props
>tfw no prop apprentice to teach the craft of prop-making and learn new things together

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 12:33:38 2014 No.7590973 >>7590941 I- I would be your prop apprentice, anon-senpai. We could make swords and armor and so many things Move to Texas please, senpai!

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 12:43:36 2014 No.7590985 >>7590293 I agree, you seem like a horrible person.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 12:58:38 2014 No.7591008 >>7590293 You sound petty.

Anonymous Sat May 31 15:31:25 2014 No.7591205

>>7590985

I wouldn't "call anyone out for that," but i get the feeling. It's insulting to say you don't want what so many others do but then take it when it is handed to you. Some people never get the chance to make it big in the anime community, shouldn't it go to those who spend the time and hard work and actually want it?

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 15:34:51 2014 No.7591211 >>7579933 >No, I'm not going to cosplay that because it's too mainstream! That's just as shitty as bandwagoning. Unless you plan to half-ass it, I guess.

Anonymous Sat May 31 15:43:48 2014 No.7591232

>>7590985

I wouldn't "call anyone out for that," but i get the feeling. It's insulting to say you don't want what so many others do but then take it when it is handed to you. Some people never get the chance to make it big in the anime community, shouldn't it go to those who spend the time and hard work and actually want it?

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 15:45:18 2014 No.7591235 >>7591232 I have no idea why this posted twice. Damn phone.

Anonymous Sat May 31 16:09:52 2014 No.7591269
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>>7590749
Eh, I get the same vibe from it as I do with those rage-face shirts, "weeaboo" should have never left the internet.
I actually like cospa shirts like these though, I wouldn't bash anyone for wearing them especially if they actually like the show/characters.

Anonymous Sat May 31 16:56:18 2014 No.7591321

tl;dr, my male friend's girlfriend causes a lot of stupid, meaningless problems and she keeps inviting herself to hang out with me and my separate friends. She's clingy, creepy, and weird, and the only way to get rid of her is to get rid of him.

>new town
>finally find a group
>people move though
>start hanging out with the only other person in the group still living in our area
>make new friends in a new group
>he has a non-exclusive FWB of a few months
>nobody in our group had met her
>I offered to, to be supportive, as did a few people in the group, before they moved

>she starts pulling weird shit
>having fits and being clingy
>don't get why friend is still dating her
>he says he's gonna break up with her
>then he flips and goes back to dating her

>she tried to invite herself into my new group
>group has nothing to do with him
>no connections to her or him
>he hung out with them twice
>they did not like him
>she'd never met me
>asked if she could go drinking with me and my new friends
>uh no

>they're in an open relationship
>I make out with this guy twice
>he gets a hickey
>she sees and has a fit
>wants to be exclusive
>he tells her he "can't promise to make another mistake"

>"mistake"
>ayfs
>I stopped talking to him
>he sends me a text saying they're going out now, so he understands if I don't wanna be friends anymore
>that isn't why I'm mad

>month later
>he apologizes
>says he's gonna make it up to me
>doesn't do what he promises

>hanging out at a networking event
>he keeps mentioning his girlfriend wants to meet me
>I've said that's not okay
>stop bring it up
>she's creepy and weird for imposing herself onto me and my friends
>wtf

>he keeps pushing it
>I keep saying no
>he finally says, "Whatever, it's no big deal."
>I call him out, "That's a cop-out and what you say when shit doesn't go your way."
>he leaves
>comes back
>tries to talk to me about the event
>I cut him off and say we're no longer friends
>block him everywhere

Anonymous Sat May 31 17:03:43 2014 No.7591326

>>7591321

Also, I'm judging him hard for dating her, as is everyone else in our shared social circle. He's complained about her from day one, and as much as I dislike her, she deserves better than that.

>she complains she hasn't met his friends
>that's...just me, here
>I have three groups of friends: class, interests, industry
>he's industry
>our industry friends moved
>he's only friends with her and with me
>guess just with her now

>he tells her as much
>she still wants to meet me
>when I've said I don't want to
>I'm not comfortable with it

>all this is going through him
>why doesn't he just shut that shit down when she asks?
>"Anon isn't comfortable with seeing you, drop it."
>he's already agreed she's not welcome at industry events
>or when I'm with our mutual friends
>because it'd make me uncomfortable as fuck

>so many red flags
>she has no friends in our area except friends via an old friend from childhood
>she's lived here longer than me
>she's older than me
>she has more disposable income
>she does more "cool" social stuff
>but still has no friends, except her old friend and the boyfriend
>wtf

>she pulls dramatic BS all the time
>she "figured out" who I was via FB
>blocked her

>she's never called him attractive
>she got mad that he and I were talking again and hanging out, after the month I didn't talk to him
>she wanted to make him choose between her and me
>was mad about him getting a hickey during an open relationship
>was mad he didn't propose being exclusive

>he complains about her constantly
>only thing positive: "We have the same interests."
>it's BS shit you could find anywhere
>he says he wants to break up
>then he says he wants to fix shit
>all we talk about is this bullshit
>it's getting annoying and old

Anonymous Sat May 31 17:09:00 2014 No.7591329

>>7580212
>www.s-t-i-l-l-d-o-l-l.tumblr.com
I don't get the goth style with Harley really? She's so perky and kooky why would she be a hot topic goth? Is it all the red and black?
I always thought she would have a more playful retro look, her outfit in Harley's Holiday makes me think even something almost rockabilly before it got hijacked by fatties, brow bitches, and hipsters.
But goth/emo/punk? Not really her, I blame the Arkham games even if those designs are at least better than the cosplayers'

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 17:19:29 2014 No.7591343 >>7590293 you sound jealous as fuck, anon you're getting your jimmies rustled over the most petty shit

Anonymous Sat May 31 20:14:04 2014 No.7591600

Alright, here goes, part 1/?:
>First time going to con and actually knowing what I'm doing
>Plan for months with friend, who shall be called Spazz-chan because that's exactly what
she is
>She wants me to go to the pre-reg with her
>Uhh, maybe, I probably have some stuff to do.
>”ok g8! Ill plan everything around this unstable plan!”
>Big project for a subject suddenly comes up, need to do well since I'm failing it.
>Sorry, Spazz-chan, can't go. Need to do well on a project since I'm actually failing. But since you're already going, can you pre-register my ticket? (I was driving her for free anyways, so I thought it wouldn't be that big of a deal)
>Offer to pay her
>”oh no its ok you dont have to”
>Okay neat
>Next day demands money 'since you refused to go and all'
>Uh okay, no big deal, small money anyways
>Tell her and my older friend (wo just needed a ride) to meet me at the front of the school right after school, since we were carpooling and I was the driver
>Spazz-chan decides to cosplay on the first day of the con
>On the first day of a con (which was a friday), I see her around
>Her wig is as tangled as 5 pairs of apple earbuds put together in a sandpaper bag and shaken (her wig was reaaally bad), her shirt is absolutely terrible (she stenciled the design the day before with a dollar shirt and walmart fabric paint), seems pretty inaccurate from what i remember of the series
>U-uhm, great cosplay Spazz-chan!
>Notice she has no makeup on
>Wat.jpg
>After school, I head to the front of the school and see OF
>OF and I stand in front of the school waiting for her
>15 minutes later, Spazz-chan's still nowhere in sight
>I panic, calling her several times, running around the school
>She finally picks up after another 15 minutes have passed
>"Anon???? o i was doing my makeup in the up stair washroom”
>Wtf come the fuck down
>5 minutes pass, OF and I get into the car
>Some girl runs down the stairs in front of the school without shoes on

Anonymous Sat May 31 20:15:27 2014 No.7591606

>>7591600
Part 2/?:
>Oh god it's her
>Makeup half on, wig off, clutching her high heels, holding her bag
>”aaauaaua sorry anonnn i dunno what i was thinking i thought we would like do our makeup after school??? eeeee”
>What the fuck, where did you get that idea?
>Okay, whatever, let's go
>Spazz-chan and I haven't planned out what we were going to do due to not being able to meet up and her not being able to get on the computer so I ask her to circle the panels she wanted to go to
>”wait i need to do my makeup”
>After 40 minutes, we arrive
>OF leaves immediately
>Spazz-chan still doing her makeup, finally finish 7 minutes after arriving at the con
>Gets off the car and drops all her stuff onto the ground
>Turns out she didn't even organize her stuff
>wait for her to
>Finally at the entrance of the con. I'm pretty pissed off by now. Also expected the cosplays to be better.
>uncolored eyebrows and lack of wigs everywhere
>also hamplanets and bad construction
>Criticize a bunch of people (of course, I also pointed out the good ones)
>See people cosplaying from the same series as Spazz-chan
>Girl cosplaying same character
>They make eye contact
>The girl says “tenativeely approaaches fellow *character name”
>Her greasy hair is hanging limply all over her lard body
>Fat autist dude says “i didn't know u had a sistar, *character name”
>I am now thoroughly disgusted and slowly move 5 feet away
>after the small exchange, Spazz-chan leaves with me
>I point out her disgusting hair
>We finally figure out how to get inside after 30 minutes of wandering around (neither of us have ever went to this con), and go to artist's alley
>She doesn't let me look at anything, and just looks around restlessly

Anonymous Sat May 31 20:16:51 2014 No.7591609

>>7591606
Part 3/?
>Suddenly starts complaining to me
>”ugh i have no money. Thats it”
>She doesn't have a job and lives with her parents (which is pretty reasonable since we're both seniors) but she basically does nothing to deserve money from her parents
>Her family is also poor overall
>She acknowledges that but still says “i hate my mom”
>Her parents are pretty nice to her, what the fuck
>You'll grow out of it
>She also acknowledges that
>We then walk around awkwardly
>”where are the panels”
>Oh
>They're in another building, Spazz-chan
>We head towards it
>I criticize a cosplay
>She mumbles something under her breath
>Wait, can you say that again, Spazz-chan?
>She yells pretty loudly “CAN YOU STOP”
>Whoa okay
>She then says stuff like “oh my god can you stop being so mean you dont need to critisize EVERYONE ugh”
>”i like you right now and if you dont want me to stop liking you then-”
>She cuts herself off, starts apologizing
>That was probably the most self righteous thing I've heard in a while (I forgot to mention she's a giant tumblrfag and SJW)
>We walk to the panel in silence
>I slowly get angrier and angrier as we walk there
>I tolerated all the shit SHE did but apparently I was “Too much”
>I leave halfway through the panel since it was boring and I was angry
>wander around the dealers room

Anonymous Sat May 31 20:19:05 2014 No.7591613

>>7591609
Part 4/?
>The next day, I get there in cosplay.
>First time cosplaying, but I know I'm way better since I didn't last minute my cosplay and my wig is nice
>Go to a panel, check my phone since it was kind of boring.
>She sent me a message on facebook
>Can't pull it up since she unfriended me and stuff but it basically said “im sorry for makiing you late and stuff but im not apologizing for your negativeness because youre such a negatoid i cant see past your hatred sicne its SUCH A BIGG PART OF U that you cant go 5 MINUTES WITHOUT CRITISIZINF SOMEONES COSPLAY ugh lets not go together tomorrow bc i didnt enjoy it you even dissed my WIG” (I did not, in fact, 'diss' her wig. I said it was tangled, which it was. She also said it was tangled before I did)
>kinda angry about this, but I thought she was just a bit angry too and that we would go back to being friends afterwards
>Spent that panel typing a message back to her acknowledging all my faults and pointing hers out
>reread her message later on and realized that she didn't want to be friends with me anymore
>Pretty shocked and hurt by this since I was always really nice to her and I always listened to her problems
>Feel sad the whole day since we were kinda good friends
>leave the con

Anonymous Sat May 31 20:20:26 2014 No.7591618

>>7591613
Part 5/5:
>Last day of con
>I don't go in cosplay
>Older friend told me that Sunday is the best day to buy everything since the sellers need to get rid of their merch so they price down everything
>Buy a bunch of stuff
>Go home
>I got a message from her
>Something like ”sigh sorry sigh i know i cant fix this but i was really angry about you not coming to prereg with me. Maybe if i wanstn angry about that and we had more people in our group ok but yeah i just wanted closure”
>Oh, okay. Shame our friendship had to end due to a con.
>”Sigh ok look im sorry i was just angry and i dont want to lose you i think sigh i bet if we had planned better and had more people it would have turned out fine is it ok if i refriend you again”
>What
>She unfriended and unfollowed me
>That usually isn't a big deal but she did that all on Friday which means that she actually meant to cut off our friendship
>”i dont want to lose you i think”
>Yeah, I don't think you like me very much and if we did stay friends I'd probably just think of how I'm such a 'negatoid' and how hatred is such a big part of me all the time, so let's just go our separate ways. See you at school.”

We have mutual friends, and I see her at the clubs I go to sometimes. It's quite awkward. Apparently she feels bad about it, but I'm really not ready to deal with this bullshit any longer.

Anonymous Sat May 31 21:14:15 2014 No.7591687
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Girl I lived with for two years during college was a monster. Abused her boyfriend, cheated on him, abused her dog, compulsive liar (about EVERYTHING). It was a whole facade of "Oh look at me I'm so innocent and I have a fake English accent even though I've lived in America 15 years and I'm 20". Men ate it up obviously. She lies about being educated at a private uni. even though she failed getting her GED and gave up. Reality is she was a disgusting no job slob who lied about medical issues to get prescription meth.

So she steals money and destroys my friend/her boyfriend's life and moves on to next gullible azn man with white fever for the third time now.

So two years later now she streams on twitch in purchased ebay cosplays "she totally made" and has enough followers that she gets donations to go to all these cons around the world despite having an un natural hate for the exact video game she now streams. She has a guy pump up her stats to show off and only plays casual games to stream.

It disgust me how such a vulgar terrible psychopath can convince so many people to pay for her plastic surgery and living expenses. Sadly, she is surrounded by a heavily moderated wall of white knights.

Anonymous Sat May 31 21:24:26 2014 No.7591701

As much as I love Lolita, the community doesn't really keep my interest. I'm not 100% into the fashion 24/7- video games, anime, costume making and being a super nerd is what I am about. I've felt x10 more accepted in the cosplay comm and feel I can talk to everyone without feeling terribly awkward, uninteresting or bored. It's always a great laugh and I meet wonderful people. Then when it comes to loli meets a strange sense of quietness consumes me, start to worry about having anything to say and I end up feeling like I'm wasting precious air. It just isn't for me I guess...

Anonymous Sat May 31 21:33:44 2014 No.7591718
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>Search for an item for almost a year, posting WTBs everywhere (fb, lj, here, tumblr, etc.)
>No one ever has the item in the color I want
>Abandon search, switch styles, wardrobe no longer suits the item
>MFW a member of my comm posts the item for sale

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 21:34:58 2014 No.7591720 So my dog ran away today and I can't find her anywhere. I'm pretty heartbroken and my family is making it worse by saying its my fault and I should've been nicer to her even though she was pretty much my best friend.

Anonymous Sat May 31 21:42:56 2014 No.7591738

>>7591720

Awww I hope you find her as soon as possible anon. T_T Spread the word, social network it the works, she's bound to be somewhere. Your family needs to back off, pets run away for many reasons, most are unpredictable regardless of how great of a best bud they can be. Here's to hoping she's safe and will return.

Anonymous Sat May 31 21:49:08 2014 No.7591747

>>7590110
The poster didn't say anything about gender, you stupid cunt. And the poster didn't shit on people who watched it, only people who have only watched it, and nothing else. And yes, there is a difference between the two. Do you even know how to read or do you just cherry pick the parts you don't like so you have have a retort in your retarded mind?

>No need to be an elitist snob and shit on people
>I'd rather people be into them than be some /a/spie.
Dat doublethink, doe. Might want to get a brain before you post.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 21:51:58 2014 No.7591752 >>7579933 People are still cosplaying Madoka, for christ's sake. Go for it!

Anonymous Sat May 31 22:22:54 2014 No.7591799

Just doing a board cruise since it's 5am and I can't get any sleep. So what's the deal with /cgl/? Everyone here is pretending to be a grill or are you all actually grills? I can't tell since most of you are typing like regular anons save for the retard OP and that one girl who got her shit trashed by her mom's asshole friend.

Anonymous Sat May 31 23:20:01 2014 No.7591875
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I don't know how cgl related this is, but I seriously need to avoid facebook more often or at least hide certain people's posts. I'm just sick of seeing (their) SJW-tumblr-esque statuses. For example, lately, I'm seeing a bunch of my female friends posting a bunch of "body appreciation" photos of themselves. Sure, for the most part, I like the concept of positive body images, but dammit, some people are just fucking dumb. You don't exactly want that shit online if you're planning on getting a professional career.

/rant

A more cgl related note, I haven't gotten a whole lot of requests to join my lolita community, but I noticed that there are very few people who are actually into lolita and frequent meets, and a majority of people there were just added on by other people in the group who are actually a part of the local Homestuck group (Damn...now I feel sad that the loli comm is no where near as big and active as HS and we've been around a lot longer). It seems like it's just one of those things I have to wait it out for. Maybe I'll "clean up" the membership list toward the end of the year.

I am a bit concerned about a girl who I added into the group a little over a year ago.

>met girl at a local con
>huge girl in a M*lanoo-esque maid-like "lolita" dress w/cat ears
>invited her to my info/basics panel
>wasn't able to show up, but when we met earlier, she expressed interest in learning more about the fashion
>year later at the same con
>shows up in the same exact outfit

God-fucking-dammit. I don't think she bothered to read the file pages of important links, but if she did, she either didn't follow up and/or I failed to offer personal guidance. I guess I should be glad that she hasn't ever shown up to a single meet (not that we had many lately), but I hate it when this kind of thing happens.

>>	Anonymous Sat May 31 23:25:31 2014 No.7591885 File: 320 KB, 320x240, fuckoff.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7591799 cgl's a female dominated board. Man. It's much more summer here than I thought.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 05:46:03 2014 No.7592275 >someone posts a slightly nooby question >"ugh is it summer already??????????????" chill, people post nooby questions all the fucking time

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 06:26:04 2014 No.7592301 >>7591885 I know it's a female dominated board you idiot, I'm just asking whether there are dudes that pretend to be grills since you all write like guys. This is 4chan after all, it's not like my assumption is far-fetched.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 06:51:12 2014 No.7592316 >>7592301 you're a moron.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 07:00:59 2014 No.7592325 >>7592316 Don't make me post that period-eating /cgl/ screencap.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 07:07:55 2014 No.7592332 >>7591885 >>7592316 >taking that b8

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 07:17:23 2014 No.7592340

>>7589695
Fuck anon, I'm a collector as well and if that happened to me, I'd punch that bitch in the face, drag her ass to court to pay for the damaged merchandise (if possible based on aftermarket price) and tell my mother that she can forget about ever meeting her grandchildren if she values some cunt's opinion over my happiness.

Please go through with that court case and get the hell out of that house. Take any valuable possessions with you, in case they throw a bitchfit and destroy more of your stuff.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 08:12:00 2014 No.7592380 >>7591618 You sound like an asshole.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 09:10:22 2014 No.7592415 christopher ross

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 11:23:43 2014 No.7592526

>>7592301
how would we write "like girls"? how do girls write that is different from guys?
is it all "OMG my bff jenny and i were trying on each others' bras and liek then some CREEP LOSER PRIVILIEGED MALE asked 2 take our picture like WTF?!?!?!?!"

ugh.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 12:12:31 2014 No.7592590 >>7592526 >ugh That's how.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 12:13:30 2014 No.7592592 >>7592380 That's why I'm here.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 14:00:38 2014 No.7592747

>>7589695
this makes my heart hurt anon. i cannot even imagine if my parents destroyed my idol merch. i hope you get justice. god love you anon i would have snapped that bitch's finger and been like "oh you want to have fingers? have them like this." my jimmies are so rustled.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 14:14:05 2014 No.7592774 http://youtu.be/CThEflzSM4g Cute things

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 14:23:37 2014 No.7592786
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This isn't exactly /cgl/ related but it happens even in the /cgl/ community...
I'm just getting really tired of people treating me like I'm retarded when they find out or I tell them that I have social anxiety.
Not to mention all the assholes who think they can "cure" me...
I trip over my words on occasion and take just a couple seconds longer than average to talk or answer a question and suddenly people start talking to me in a condescending tone.
The vendors at cons do this to me all the time.
It's come to a point right now that I feel like it would be better if I just didn't talk at all.
/rant

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 14:35:42 2014 No.7592797 >>7592786 I don't know you, but have you tried something like drama club to help with your problem? I had a friend who was always stuttering, and it helped her to be better at speaking in front of people.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 14:42:39 2014 No.7592812 >>7591738 I found her! My parents spotted her across the street this morning! She's fine but she's being a little quiet.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 15:02:21 2014 No.7592850 >>7578102 Friends who want to drag me into the Lolita craze, or won't shut the fuck up about it. It's so fucking annoying, holy shit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 15:09:56 2014 No.7592867 >>7590749 yes, and dressing like retard is for retards

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 15:13:58 2014 No.7592875 >>7592526 >ugh That's exactly how. It's really easy to tell a difference between an average girl typing and a normal intelligent person, regardless of sex.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 15:53:39 2014 No.7592949 >>7591618 >This girl I know was an asshole to me. This annoyed me. >I was an an asshole to this girl I know. This annoyed her. It's almost like other meatbags are people. With feelings. Weird.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 16:52:43 2014 No.7593078 >>7592875 How is an average girl different from a normal intelligent person?

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 16:57:20 2014 No.7593090

>>7592949
Yeah but see, when she was being a big, inconsiderate douchebag, I didn't raise a big shitstorm over it. I knew that everyone made mistakes and that this kind of petty shit wouldn't cause me to cut off our friendship. Apparently, our friendship wasn't worth more than a con gone wrong to her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 16:59:58 2014 No.7593091 >>7592867 fuck off normie

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 17:28:17 2014 No.7593133
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My jimmies are rustled because I have no motivation to work for my dream job. I live in an area where such opportunities are few and far between, and I don't have the money to move my own
>Uber successful friend: "Reality" is just a limit you're putting on yourself! You say you need a job to support you while you get your dream job; why not just get the dream job right now?
Uuuugh

It's a writing-relevant job, but I have serious writer's block, on top of lack of opportunities.

In short, I have rustled my own jimmies.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 17:28:37 2014 No.7593136
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This guy I met at Ohayocon 2010. He has been obsessing over me for the past 4 years and even when I don't respond to his multiple FB messages he *will not* get the hint. Likewise, I can't remove him because he's part of my con circle and unless everyone else realizes how much of a shitlord he is or I uproot myself from that social circle, there's nothing I can do.

He has absolutely no knowledge of boundaries, and treats every girl he meets at cons with the same amount of blatant disrespect. It's like his form of a greeting is "take off your shirt and I'll buy you shit." Unfortunately, there's a ton of women who fall for this. I don't, so I tell him I'm not interested and to stop making sexual passes at me, and he immediately starts with "Well I would have said [sexual innuendo] but you'd just get mad at me."

I had no choice but to stay at his place for 3 days when moving from the midwest to east coast. Prior to my visit, he tried to tell me there was no space so I'd *have* to sleep in his bed... with him... He continued to tell me this even after I said "I'll sleep on the floor". I get to his house and guess what? There's a 2 bed spare bedroom that's completely spotless, and 6+ people worth of couch space.

He, surprise, lives in a basement. When I went upstairs to use the bathroom he grabbed my ass as I started climbing the steps, I turned around and shot him a bitchy look but he just smiled.

Later that weekend, fed up after more sexual passes and offers to join him in bed, I snapped at him. I told him that he needs to learn that I have no interest in him and never will, and more importantly if he wants female attention so bad he should start treating them the same way he does the men in the convention crew; respectfully, like friends, not like he want to make it blatantly obvious right off the bat that he wants to fuck them.

(cont)

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 17:34:04 2014 No.7593147

>>7593136
He laughed, he grinned, he acted pleased, and his only verbal response was "but I'm a nice guy!"

Don't get me wrong he does have the ability to be a nice guy. He might be as desperate and entitled as a certain someone from the recent news, but he's not dangerous or abusive. He did help me convince my housemate to drop his psychotic, abusive ex fiance. He has tried to be financially helpful even though I turn him down because I don't want him to get the impression he's buying me.

Earlier this year and ex who I met at that same Ohayocon told me that after we had been hitting it off at the con, this guy pulled him aside and tried to "warn" him about me. This desperate shitlord basically tried to convince him (my ex) that I was crazy and dangerous, for no other reason than to drive him off so that he (shitlord) could have me all to himself. Mind you, both guys knew me for the exact same amount of time; that Ohayocon weekend, and no, I'm not fucking dangerous.

Recently I was in a relationship. I hit a rough spot in life and he offered (without my asking) to forward me some money. Despite acknowledging I had a boyfriend 2 messages prior, he asked for "naughty pics" (see attached image)

I stopped responding and he seemed to give up on the monetary aid, but he proceeded to send me almost a message a day for two weeks. I didn't respond or view his messages and he *kept* sending them. The above pic is only the start of it. I had to tell him to please stop sending me multiple messages if I wasn't responding, but he still does it, now he just tries to bring up a topic, like commenting on a status in a message or asking about things my friends post.

There are rumors he's banned from a handful of cons because of his behaviour. I know Sugoicon is one.

I don't know, there's really nothing I can do about him since he's in my con circle and he's not a threat, he just drives me up a wall and I felt the need to vent.

Inb4 r9k troll comments.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 17:46:25 2014 No.7593164
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>>7591618
God, I would hate to go to cons with you. What kind of person just spends their whole time criticizing other people's cosplay instead of, I don't know, enjoying the con with their friends? Good for her for breaking up with you.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 17:47:33 2014 No.7593168

>>7593136
>>7593147
>"he's a nice guy"
>violates your personal space
>ignores your requests to be left alone
>harasses you
>wants to pay you for sexual acts that you've already said you won't do
>ignores that you have a boyfriend and demands nudes anyway
>acting pleased when you verbally address him to leave you alone, like it's all a joke
>banned from cons for shitlord activities
>recognizes you don't like the way he speaks to you, does it anyway
i'm glad he didn't take his unwanted attention further while you were there, but block and drop this guy. make it clear to your circle you do NOT want to be around that creepy pervert, no matter what. if they refuse to hang out with you to hang around him instead, they're assholes too. why should you put up with his unwarranted, creepy, obsessive advances because your friends like him?

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:08:56 2014 No.7593201 Katsucon still hasn't reimbursed me for being a panelist and I'm getting really goddamn salty about it. They're an organizational nightmare, and being a panelist for them was not a pleasant experience save skipping the 3-hour pre-reg line.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:23:08 2014 No.7593224

>>7593164
I was really irate at the time due to Spazz-chan's shenanigans. I did that for maybe the first 30 minutes after we got there, and as those 30 minutes passed I slowly mellowed out. It was a douchebag move, and I can see why one would not want to be around me at the time, but she was being incredibly pissy (and self-important) too, which was why I got angry.

In the end, my point is that I thought our friendship was stronger. But apparently, my faults are sooo bad that she can't stand me for even 30 minutes, even though I put up with a lot of her shit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:29:47 2014 No.7593232 >>7593224 >doesn't cosplay >spends the entire time criticizing other people's cosplay and you call her self-important and pissy

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:33:09 2014 No.7593237 >>7592797 I have actually thought about that. I think it may help me but on the other hand, I'm kind of scared it will just exasperate the problem. ...But I won't know until I try, huh? I'll definitely keep it in mind.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:40:08 2014 No.7593256

>>7593232
I said 'too', I'm not denying that I was/am self-important and pissy.
I wasn't nitpicking, I pointed out real bad things like lack of wigs, uncolored eyebrows, and bad construction. Most of the people I pointed out were also probably newbies. And I avoided all the shit I pointed out when I cosplayed the next day.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:47:03 2014 No.7593272

>>7593147
Just delete him from your fb/block him? Doesn't mean you have to cut all the other friends out. Unless your 'friends' are the sort that get tetchy about omg defriended on fb.... in which case can you just add him to a block list?

Honestly, it sounds like he has the ability to be a nice guy when it suits him, and I disagree about the risk of him dangerous/abusive. He's actually a disrespecful fuck who doesn't give a shit about other people's boundaries, imagine if you were the sort of person who's a bit shy/retiring/felt obliged and didn't snap at him - not only would he continue to harass you (and he did, even when you told him not to) but in that situation, possibly be dangerous/threatening. Harassment, unwanted propositioning, unwanted physical contact in a sexual way and lack of respect for boundaries DESPITE being told no is scarily close to 'but she totally wanted it/was asking for it' sexual assault and rape charges where the person's defence is 'but I'm a nice guy/she's making it up/omg girls are such bitches/she didn't stop me so she obviously wanted it'. I bet you he tells you to lighten up and stop taking things so seriously as well when you tell him to fuck off, and says anyone who rejects him is a bitch/friendzoning him/dumb slut/ugly whore.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 18:48:57 2014 No.7593274 >>7593256 Honestly, it kinda sounds like you and spazzchan deserve each other and the shit you put each other through.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 21:22:54 2014 No.7593541 My boobs are too big to fit comfortably in anything without a binder or a tight sports bra. I want a breast reduction, but I can't justify paying for it. I could stand to loose like 20lb, but my boob size is basically forever a DD.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 22:00:30 2014 No.7593614 >>7593541 Have you ever been measured somewhere other than VS or La Senza? Because if your boobs are so huge they negatively impact your life I doubt they're a DD.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jun 1 22:07:51 2014 No.7593631 >>7593541 >DD Please get yourself over to the bra thread.

Anonymous Sun Jun 1 22:23:04 2014 No.7593659

>>7588322
Seriously though. Both my parents are doctors but I am working on my second degree before med school , I am the very opposite of rich with shit in my bank account and loans for my school. My parents money is not my money, they earned that- I feel dirty taking large amounts when I know I could earn it if I tried too.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jun 2 02:34:37 2014 No.7594008 >>7591326 >>7591321 You all sound really annoying and like you fight over meaningless shit tbh

Anonymous Mon Jun 2 05:32:02 2014 No.7594200

>Selling an IW skirt for $125 including postage
>I think this is reasonable seeing as I bought it BNWT for retail price and wore it once
>Someone PMs me saying they will buy the skirt, end up exchanging messages regarding measurements, postage etc
>Everything going fine, until: "also it's too expensive for me lol, I can pay $60, is that alright?"

If only I could slap people over the internet

>>	Anonymous Mon Jun 2 05:54:37 2014 No.7594223 Fuckin' glitter. People are not kidding when they call it the herpes of the craft world.

Anonymous Mon Jun 2 10:05:48 2014 No.7594425

Not very /cgl/, but:

I commissioned a friend a year ago for a couple pictures. I was originally supposed to get them at a con, but she was busy so I told her I could wait until after the con. Months and months pass and she doesn't respond to my emails. Hey, whatever, she's way busy, I'll get my commissions eventually. She finally responds to the fourth(?) message I send her and says she's going to start working on it after some class projects. This month she started taking new commissions. When I asked her about mine, she said she was working on them on the side as she waited for other commissions to come in.

Wait, it's been a year since I commissioned (and completely paid!) you, and you're givng EVERYONE ELSE AND THEIR MOM priority? Jimmies seriously rustled.

Anonymous Mon Jun 2 10:15:00 2014 No.7594433

>>7593136
>>7593147
He's sexually harassing you, doesn't take anything you say seriously, doesn't take no for an answer and is straight up trying to separate you from the people around you. Drop this asshole and everyone who sides with him.
Why not? Even if you don't think he's physically dangerous he's making you miserable and there's no reason whatsoever to put up with his shit. You don't owe him your attention or company. If he can't behave like a decent person then he doesn't deserve to be around you or anyone else.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jun 2 15:04:06 2014 No.7594748 >>7581189 Oh that is so annoying! Good for you anon, the health-thing!

>>	Anonymous Mon Jun 2 15:12:37 2014 No.7594754 >>7587948 This is more than depression. You can be depressed while not being an asshole. He's a toxic asshole. I hope you get rid of him

>>	Anonymous Mon Jun 2 15:27:34 2014 No.7594778 >>7581189 Of course you can have a preference! As long as that preference is fat, not fit or skinny. Good for you, though. Just ignore the assholes and don't let them affect your sense of accomplishment.

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