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Feels Thread Anonymous Fri Sep 19 02:55:44 2014 No.7828366 [Reply] [Original]

Let's feel dem /cgl/ feels, kids. Continuation of autosaged thread >>7823414
I will start:
>tfw when everyone calls you a control freak but once again your flaky friends have proven exactly why you can only rely on yourself when it comes to anything cosplay related

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:01:14 2014 No.7828374 >>7828366 Happy feels from me for once >tfw you manage to pick up two of your top dream dresses within just over a week of each other >tfw TaoBao order also ships in the same week with accessories perfect for coording both dream dresses >praise

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:06:07 2014 No.7828382
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>tfw flakiest friend keeps inviting themself into cosplay groups
>even though someone is usually already cosplaying the character they insist they're doing
>and they probably won't make the con

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:10:56 2014 No.7828390 File: 47 KB, 300x100, oh.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Have been fretting about job hunting all week >See this image when I click into this thread

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:11:52 2014 No.7828391 File: 26 KB, 350x236, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7828382 Flake despising OP here, I seem to attract people like this, all I can ever think is "won't that be nice" in this fucker's voice. Mostly I just ignore them though.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:21:44 2014 No.7828399 >only a few classes this semester >applying for a part time job just near my college >tfw I can keep the burando coming >tfw I'll fund my trip to glorious Nihon all by myself >tfw

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:23:37 2014 No.7828401 >wanted to do lolita for a long time >do lots and lots of research on the fashion >lurk 5evr on cgl to learn more and avoid ita mistakes >tfw too insecure to even try lolita because I'm scared to be ripped apart on here

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:25:52 2014 No.7828405 >>7828401 Then don't post your pic on the internet and/or don't brag about your unique fashion sense and don't act like a twat, I promise you won't be posted here.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:28:00 2014 No.7828409 >>7828405 They're already acting like a twat.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:29:21 2014 No.7828413
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>send message to someone a few weeks go, just asking them how things are going
>it never gets read, but I see this person still post other stuff
>find out now that the message was read a week ago, still no response

This always happens to me and... I want to say I am sick of it, but maybe this means I just have to get used to it. I still do not think it is pleasant, though.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:30:39 2014 No.7828416 >>7828401 shit I was just like you and spent years watching other girls have fun before jumping in myself. don't hold yourself back. as long as you aren't a bitch and don't buy lacemonsters no one will shit on you. buy dresses and be beautiful, anon.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:31:40 2014 No.7828418
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>attempt to commission JSK from seagull
>seagull responds and says she'll contact me later
>week or so later no contact
I'm not mad at you or anything and you're probably busy but plz respond.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:32:08 2014 No.7828419 >>7828409 How?

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:42:40 2014 No.7828434

>be a moderately cute lesbian
>go out to straight nightclubs sometimes
>wear sexy outfits to feel attractive and confident
>i understand that dudes will hit on me, and i honestly don't mind but they're always SO FUCKING WEIRD
>like one dude who hit on me just stood there for FIVE MINUTES and stared after i told him I was gay
>tfw no gay bars in my city

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:50:05 2014 No.7828441 >>7828413 happens to me always too maybe i am just ugly and not worth the attention

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 03:57:19 2014 No.7828451 >>7828434 babe let me get you straight one night is all i am asking, nothing sexual just one night of you and me. >tfw jumping out of a plane >tfw landing in rome >tfw I am about to kiss you to cont.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:03:50 2014 No.7828455
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>>7828434
>my life ever since I broke up with LDR gf after moving
Holy shit anon, me too. I love getting dressed up to go out, and clubbing with friends is still fun but I still have this irrational wish that girls would approach me instead.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:17:17 2014 No.7828474 >tfw poc but too pale for tumblr brownie points man i'd love to get asspats ands notes just for existing :(

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:19:50 2014 No.7828478

I'm a bad friend.

>have a boyfriend
>he's not into the things I am but I love him
>have two male friends who are great because we share so many things about our favorite hobbies and personalities
>both are quiet nerd guys who don't get attention from women
>a "miracle" happens and one of them ends up getting a girlfriend
>now everything he does is with his girlfriend
>still have my other friend
>sometimes I poke on his insecurities because I don't want to lose my last real friend to an eventual girlfriend
>I know he's lonely and often depressed

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:21:16 2014 No.7828480 >>7828478 He sounds nice. You should rape him.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:21:42 2014 No.7828481 >>7828474 So you like being treated like a widdle tardbaby?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:22:15 2014 No.7828483 >>7828480 I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I don't feel that way about my friend.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:23:11 2014 No.7828484 File: 48 KB, 625x626, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7828480

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:23:31 2014 No.7828485 >>7828483 They said that in this same thread before. It's a joke

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:24:00 2014 No.7828486 >>7828483 >cheat Nobody said you had to rape him alone, Anon. It's easier with a partner, especially if your bf has some upper body strength. >I don't feel that way about my friend. Again, this is why you invite your bf in.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:24:22 2014 No.7828487 >>7828474 tumblr doesn't asspat POC people because they actually like them, it's just white guilt and so they can be seen being nice to POC people. you shouldn't want them using you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:26:37 2014 No.7828489 File: 59 KB, 625x626, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7828486

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:26:52 2014 No.7828490 >snag a wishlist dress for super cheap >re-doing my wardrobe and I'm really proud of my progress >my lolita senpai notices me fuck yeah

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:27:24 2014 No.7828491

>tfw my school dun fucked up on international loans
>I know because last year I did all my shit at the same time and got my loans two weeks earlier
>down to literally last cents in bank
>'lol we're still waiting for loans'
>fuuuck you this did not happen last year

This is pissing me off.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 04:29:44 2014 No.7828492 >>7828487 tbh i just want to use them for compliments. it'd be a mutually parasitic relationship. i guess looking white is fine because i can't be lazy about my work, though.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 06:22:42 2014 No.7828551 >>7828492 >pale white girl >my fetish would compliment tenderly

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 06:53:20 2014 No.7828563 >>7828474 No need to remain a person of calories then. Get fit and fuck tumblr.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 07:33:06 2014 No.7828586
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>>7828366
I've been offered to take part in a research project my professor is conducting ... And the work will be paid.
Writer festivals, conferences, and workshops abound this fall, and I want to throw myself into the opportunities before I graduate and am out of the loop.
My creative energy is picking up in an exciting way I haven't experienced in ages.

......so today I think I'm gonna quit my job. I feel guilty about it. But it's burning me out and I get overworked with little pay and our policies are just so strict and very "Asian business." I don't want to have to add the company handbook to my list of textbooks, really. Plus, I'll have to leave for an internship next semester anyway.....yet I can't stop feeling like a baby for quitting already. I guess I had a lot of misgivings about the company, and little willpower.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:00:31 2014 No.7828603

>>7828474
I know that feel
>any half decent coord gets a ton of notes because white guilt reblogs
>not white enough to get attention from sad beta males
>not black enough to get pity from tumblr
>in a weird purgatory that doesn't result in any attention

wanna shower eachother in compliments?
>>7828551
she's not white you dumb fuck

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:04:32 2014 No.7828604 >>7828603 >shitskin detected

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:07:03 2014 No.7828605 >>7828474 This except I'm extremly pale.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:08:54 2014 No.7828607 >>7828603 Maybe you don't receive compliments because you're ugly.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:14:29 2014 No.7828611 >>7828603 what a sad fucking nigger with daddy issues

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 08:34:41 2014 No.7828625 File: 1.43 MB, 300x168, ottercups.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7828605 >bitches not knowing how to talk themselves up properly It's called porcelain darling.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 09:59:17 2014 No.7828671 A super cute chick in Liz Lisa stuff sat next to me at the bus stop yesterday. I really wanted to say something to her but I was in ratty normalfag stuff.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:09:17 2014 No.7828713
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>live with parents
>own a pretty big collection of hobby-related stuff
>couple hundred volumes of manga, figures, t-shirts, artbooks, dvd ect
>have a really tiny bedroom so everything takes up space or is in a bin under my bed
>starting to feel like I'm straddling the line between being a collector or a weird fangirl hoarder

I can't stand this. I always think "well, when I move out I'll have more space for this stuff so it's okay to have so much now" but....I don't know. I kind of want it gone so I can get some more money and free up space. I've gone through my manga once or twice a year and sold stuff to keep it trimmed down or swapped some titles to digital but I can't fit my collection in my bookcase anymore. I feel like I'm wasting money just letting the figures sit in boxes in my closet, nor do I really look at the ones I have out anymore.

I also feel very awkward whenever my parents go into my room because they probably think I'm a complete manchild for still being interested in this stuff.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:27:12 2014 No.7828728 >>7828713 lel man baby

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:31:25 2014 No.7828737 >>7828713 sell all your stuff and buy yourself a gf

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:32:50 2014 No.7828739 >really want to try wearing kegadoru and visual kei >afraid I'll just look foolish >don't even know where to find the nice white square eyepatches

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:33:19 2014 No.7828740

> Lived with abusive family that would beat the tar out of me
> Finally had enough and decided to get out
> Friends across the state say "it's okay, anon! we'll help you no matter what!"
> Get shit together and move later that week
> Settled down at a house that my friend rents out
> Find job and everything is peachy
> Keep getting texts from family trying to guilt me into coming back
> "Anon! We miss you! We can't sleep or eat because we're crying etc. etc. etc."
> Get extremely depressed
> Ask friends for advice and they say "Geez, anon, you're asking for too much!"
> Drifted away from friends because they started to get annoyed by my "negativity"
> Meet new friends at con
> Have similar interests and they fucking rock
> Trying so hard hide depression because I don't want to lose them
> Now have to bottle up all my negative feelings so I don't lose friends
> Feels bad, man.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:41:21 2014 No.7828746

>Get called a variety of names in hs because of how I look, good at ignoring it but it's still annoying
>"oh anon! college is way better! people are way more mature and nobody cares about that sort of thing!"
>wear fashionable but still normal outfit.
>walking to class, first five minutes in and I'm already getting comments.
>"dat lil white girl be lookin like a fucking twilight vampire holy shit bruh"
>tfw you're pale, petite, slender and have long brown hair so you will always look like a freak compared to the spray-tanned whales in the florida panhandle

You know, I'd understand if I acted weird but I seriously don't. I'm pretty charismatic and flexible when it comes to conversing with normalfags and can hide my power level pretty well. I mean, I work retail so I'm pretty used to talking with people on a daily basis.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:42:00 2014 No.7828747 >>7828737 I'm not gay but selling the figs is kind of tempting, I could easily get a couple grand out of them...

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:43:04 2014 No.7828748 >>7828747 You said manchild so I assumed

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:43:16 2014 No.7828749
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>place order with My-Lolita-Dress in June
>includes is a pre-order with a July release
>ask where my order is in August
>"oh, everything else is done but this one thing, order will ship by mid-Septemer"
>September arrives
>get told "It'll ship next week" for 3 weeks
>mfw should have filed a PayPal claim

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:44:28 2014 No.7828751 >>7828749 Sorry, August I was told "confirmed we could ship out within next week. So arrival at mid-September should be no problem."

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:44:34 2014 No.7828752 >>7828749 >includes is a pre-order with a July release From who? I know that taobao preorders sometimes take a long time to actually release, despite their release date.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:47:02 2014 No.7828754 >>7828746 >college up in FL panhandle there's your problem

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:47:09 2014 No.7828755 >>7828740 Have you considered therapy, anon?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:49:48 2014 No.7828758 >>7828754 It's just for my AA so I can get my basic classes out of the way, but either way an education is an education.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:50:44 2014 No.7828759 >>7828752 Serene Purity. It seems to have filled the minimum number of orders and released on time, there's a batch of reviews on the item's TaoBao page from late July.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 11:56:14 2014 No.7828766 >>7828758 Community college I presume? Don't expect comments like that once you get to uni. CC brings about a lot of classless people.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:06:38 2014 No.7828775 >>7828766 State college, practically the same thing though. I plan to transfer after I finish with my basics. It's just so convenient because I live not even five minutes away.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:06:39 2014 No.7828776
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Had my first interview for a position I've been trying to get into for a while, I think it actually went really well. If I get it I'll finally be able to start expanding my wardrobe!

>mfw I got home from the interview

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:11:38 2014 No.7828778 >>7828755 Yeah, I did. I work a 9-5 and most of the doctors I called up are not open when I actually have free time.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:23:35 2014 No.7828792 >>7828766 >CC brings about a lot of classless people. I went to one for a year and a half or so and it was nothing different to high school. Shame I can't afford to go to anything better.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:25:22 2014 No.7828793 >>7828792 Yeah, I felt the exact same way. I'm in university now and it's completely different.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 12:39:38 2014 No.7828803 >>7828746 >Oh no I'm attractive and people notice what do :(( Seriously, just rock it.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:02:52 2014 No.7828822
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>gf is into lolita
>used to only wear it at cons and such
>slowly started incorporating it into daily wear
>tfw going to ralphs to get groceries and she is in OTT sweet

like i understand it
but god damn i fucking hate it

cant even buy deli meat and rice without everybody staring at me for being with little bo peep

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>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:13:19 2014 No.7828826 >>7828822 I'd be embarrassed too. Wearing OTT on a daily basis is like too much. It'd be better to wear toned down stuff when just going grocery shopping or something

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:27:15 2014 No.7828836

>>7828740

I feel sympathetic towards you anon but I just want to make sure: Is your depression a self-diagnosis or have you seen someone and gotten an actual diagnosis? If you haven't please consider seeing someone.

It might also be beneficial if you cut your family off for a while and focus on yourself. Or at least limit contact since it sounds like they're stressing you out. You may have gotten out of there but messages like that are manipulative and emotionally abusive.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:27:15 2014 No.7828838 tfw actually on top of my shit and getting stuff done on time for once?? you mean I might not have to pull all nighters before my next 2 cons?

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:36:07 2014 No.7828842

>Apply for a job
>Interview was yesterday
>Interviewer was super nice, tells me she's positive I'll be starting monday
>Check my email this morning
>"Unfortunately, after reviewing your application, we are not prepared to move forward at this time"
>I was positive I had it

I mean I know I shouldn't have expected to get it, but I was really excited for this job.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 13:43:18 2014 No.7828848

>>7828746

>Florida Panhandle

Not surprised people seem immature. I know the local CC in my area has a high school built in so there's a bunch of 15 year old students running around and taking classes as regular college students. Might be the same situation with you?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 14:56:25 2014 No.7828918 >>7828739 http://www.jbox.com/product/net100 Here, anon. Good luck!

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 15:10:59 2014 No.7828935 >>7828918 >jbox >buying from jlist at all >having the under 18 link

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 15:14:06 2014 No.7828938 >>7828405 Nope its impossible. If youre a good lolita, /cgl/ will be jelly and youd stillget some hate

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 15:23:09 2014 No.7828946

Not /cgl/ related, but I'm happy.
>bloodwork came back
>literally the best cholesterol the doctor has ever seen
>says I have 1/4th the risk of developing heart disease than an average person

>>7828918
Thanks! Not sure about buying from them, but I'll investigate.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 15:38:59 2014 No.7828961

The girls who call themselves my friends are no support, and when I meet them for something I can't help but be annoyed by them.

One of them only pops in to complain or gloat about something.

I either need to stop being so annoying or find new friends.

But its hard to leave them because what would I say?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 15:47:52 2014 No.7828970 >>7828961 gurr u shud drop dose zeros n get heroes ayy knomsayin

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:23:24 2014 No.7829002 >>7828961 just cut all contact easy

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:28:16 2014 No.7829010 >>7828366 >tfw your dad goes on /hc/

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:31:31 2014 No.7829015 >>7828836 OP might have used "depressed" as a synonym for "extremely sad and helpless" and didn't even suggest that she had actual depression.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:32:18 2014 No.7829016 >>7828836 Being depressed is different than depression, anon...

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:43:32 2014 No.7829028
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>Be 151 at 5'4 about two months ago.
>Have asthma and knee injury.
>Had never had motivation to work out since everything I did triggered one or both.
>Finally start going to a new gym with a pool.
>Try that for a bit.
>Feels great.
>Move on to equipment since I feel like I'm doing more with that.
>Been doing fucking amazing for where I was a month and a half ago.
>Nearly lost ten pounds.
>Go to movie last night.
>Splurged on some M&Ms I ended up dropping half of.
>Person next to me says she hopes that I didn't lose too many.
>"Oh, it's fine! I shouldn't be eating them anyways!"
>"Oh, anon, why?"
>"Oh, I'm trying to lose weight!"
>She looks me up and down.
>"Uh, okay,"
We're literally watching a movie with Keira Knightley, lady. Next to her, I'd look like a whale.

>Today
>Realize I'm losing what little curve I had.
>Am I...not pear shaped?
>What little T&A I had are going away.
>Slowly becoming a board.
>Oh well. Guess I can always do the loli characters. Or Jinx.

No amount of boob tricks will help me at this point, I'm pretty sure. I-It's okay. I-It's not like I was about to try to cosplay someone more mature, anyways.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 16:45:06 2014 No.7829029 >>7829028 T&A are usually the first things you lose when you start losing weight. Everything else hopefully will catch up.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:01:09 2014 No.7829039

>>7829015

I guess I was projecting a bit since I have a similar background as anon described. And yeah, it was the "extreme" part that alarmed me along with the manipulative text messages and prior abuse they mentioned. Honestly, I'd be surprised if they didn't have problems with depression or anxiety.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:05:56 2014 No.7829051 File: 849 KB, 800x1132, 1399758372700.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829028 ... you know, some guys LIKE the trim athletic types. If anything you should be eating more to ensure you're gaining muscle from your workouts.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:07:59 2014 No.7829055 >>7829051 girls don't want to be skinny for boys, girls want to be skinny for expensive clothes

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:17:21 2014 No.7829068 File: 159 KB, 446x400, 1406330942581.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829051 >guy opinion

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:18:25 2014 No.7829069 >>7829051 >eating more to ensure you're gaining muscle She's trying to drop fat and you're telling her to eat more ..

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:27:06 2014 No.7829080

>Student loans kick in starting November
>applying for part time jobs left and right, no one ever calls me back
>I have 5 years retail experience, are you fucking kidding me
>refuse to go back to that hellhole previous part time job. Working manual labor for minimum wage
>I feel like the biggest piece of shit ever why won't anyone hire me
>Drop out of cosplay groups
>Stops sewing
>I don't want to even be part of things anymore I feel so worthless

I seriously can't understand how I don't meet qualifications for any of these jobs that I don't get contacted back or am told "I don't meet their qualifications" for part time retail positions. I am trained to pretty much do anything retail related at this point in time. Hell, I even used to drive a delivery truck, and all I want for once is a nice, relatively stress free and non labor intensive part time job for once instead of having to work insane hours and busting my back for pennies.

This whole situation makes me hate myself more and more and I go into these places that I've applied to when I shop and I see the new employees they hire and they're either young lazy high school kids or people my age who get quit after a month.

I don't want to sew anymore, I don't want bother putting effort into my appearance because what even is the point if no one appreciates me or wants to hire me.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:29:48 2014 No.7829084 >>7829080 please pardon my english, I can't form proper sentences when I'm angry. polite sage for rant

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:41:35 2014 No.7829102 >>7829080 You might be over qualified. Some employees don't hire if you have too much experience because you'll want better pay and leave

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:45:06 2014 No.7829105

I miss Gaia, but there's no way I'm going back to that pile of crap now. I can't seem to find another active forum that has the same community feel that Gaia used to in it's early days, though.

Also,
>quitting one of my jobs with next week being my final week
>going to have actually days off again after ~6months of working 7 days p/w
>i'll have time to get my life on track and start up my hobbies again aw yis
>planning for a korea and japan trip next year too
>but bf keeps inviting friends over every Sunday night
>don't really want to come home since socialising is super tiring after work and I can't shut myself in my room because 'omg why are you being so antisocial they'll think you hate them'
>every time they come over bf shouts them pizza
>complains to me that he's poor for the rest of the week

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 17:50:49 2014 No.7829116 >tfw you see lolitas irl for the first time >tfw they're ita as fuck

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:01:15 2014 No.7829135

>>7829102
argggggh nooooooo crud, all I'm asking for is $9 an hour. (minimum wage here is $8.25), which I think is reasonable for someone with previous experience?

I remember once my old store hired a girl who only had cashier training and they gave her $9 while I was trained in every department and they only just then gave me $8 because of minimum wage increase. It's kind of why I had to leave though because they had me locked at minimum wage and were refusing to give me what everyone else made...

If anyone has any tips or ideas on what I should do, I would be very grateful for the help...

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:05:10 2014 No.7829140 >>7829105 Gaia's amazing if you aren't taking it seriously like a fucking faggot

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:13:52 2014 No.7829146

>>7829080
Anon do I know that feel. Parents refused to help me out financially because I'm in the exact same situation but chose to live in the city as opposed to at their place. I think that >>7829102 is partly right because literally no one will call me back for any kind of part time or full time job because I have some sort of degree. Older friend says it's common because they don't want to hire people that will leave the moment something 'in their field' or better comes along

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:27:35 2014 No.7829163

>>7829028
I posted this before, but it's relevant.

>be 5'2" 130 lbs last year
>"gonna lose weight"
>get down to 115, stay there for a while
>decided my abs and legs needed more work
>got down to 105
>doctor starts worrying
>go on ADD medication despite concerns about my weight
>now weigh 96 lbs
>hourglass figure barely clinging to life
>booty is leaving me
>tits are fading

At least I have abs.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:28:27 2014 No.7829164 >>7828563 >>7828551 >>7828481 >>7828607 >>7828611 >>>/r9k/

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:31:10 2014 No.7829168 >>7829105 >feel that Gaia used to in it's early days you mean "glomps chu ^____^ kawaii!!!!! i wuv u sepiroth-kun desu :333"

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:31:36 2014 No.7829169 >>7828776 Hey, good luck! I've been interviewing a lot lately too and I'm really anxious to start a new job. I've only been jobless for a week but it feels like an eternity.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:32:41 2014 No.7829173 >>7828842 That really sucks, but I'm sure the next interview you have will go well! Good luck!

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:32:53 2014 No.7829174 >>7829164 >>>/tumblr/

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:33:04 2014 No.7829176 File: 90 KB, 650x650, 1390866694428.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829168 oh god the flashbacks i'm having right now

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 18:36:31 2014 No.7829183 >>7829168 smacks ur ass ;3 want to go nto that house and cyber???

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 20:01:40 2014 No.7829312

>>7829146
I'm living at home to try to save up money, but I need to pay of my loans like a real adult when they kick in. It's very frustrating since even though I have a degree, I'm not ready to move out of my house and go career searching just yet.

Plus I've always had a steady part time job going since I was in highschool so I just can't comprehend not being a desirable candidate. It's so frustrating...

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 20:12:33 2014 No.7829319
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I cosplay with my bf and his standards are annoying.
He has that mindset of 'if its a cute girl it doesn't matter that her costume is shitty because she's cute', but he's very critical of all my handiwork for the costumes I make him.
He cares enough to complain about shitty costumes but isn't willing to go the extra mile to make ours the best they can be.
I wish I had more people to cosplay with.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 20:57:48 2014 No.7829392 >>7829168 >visiting the cb I meant more Barton town/marketplace/art haunts

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:26:15 2014 No.7829423 >>7828935 What? I've never had a problem from jlist One time I ordered a package, didn't get all of it, emailed - and got refunded no problem m8

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:29:21 2014 No.7829427 >>7829055 oh man this

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:42:06 2014 No.7829443
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>>7828434
>tfw also gf-less lesbian
>meet straight girl, become somewhat friends (not interested in her more than friendship, just fyi)
>she tells me silly bar stories and such
>"A lot of these happened in gay bars. Haha I used to hang out in so many gay bars."
>mfw
>mfw TELL ME WHERE THESE ARE. ARE THERE ACTUAL GAYS IN THEM? DO YOU KNOW ANY SINGLE GIRLS.
>refrain because we're not that close

To keep it /cgl/ related:
>also looking for cosplay gfs at conventions
>of course that's going swell

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:44:12 2014 No.7829445 >>7829163 bruh how do you get on add medication, i want this life

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:46:38 2014 No.7829447 >>7829445 Idk what it's like in your region but it's pretty easy to doctor hop where I live and get a precription for Adderall. Or, alternatively, buy it from a college kid who sells all theirs.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:47:44 2014 No.7829449 >>7829312 Just know that a lot of people are in the same boat as you, so try not to feel too discouraged. At least you're trying and you're not just being a bum, right?

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 21:57:30 2014 No.7829464

>blouse to finish outfit comes
>outfit perfect
>because of silky fabric and man shoulders it won't stay buttoned.

This is why I don't by brand blouses. My shoulder are too big. I'm well within the bust measure for the blouse. I'm at loss of what to do I was going to wear this at an event and don't have time to buy a new blouse.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:01:35 2014 No.7829470 >girl in comm has a shitton of burando >told me she doesn't wash her dresses because "oh I don't sweat" and "I don't wear them often" > mfw she sells her things on LM >mfw i almost bought stuff from her a year ago

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:04:23 2014 No.7829475 >>7828822 Dump her, OTT Sweets are embarrassments to lolita and society in general.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:04:32 2014 No.7829476 >>7829470 Holy fuck please share her un or at least her region? I don't wanna buy from her.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:06:30 2014 No.7829482

>>7829443

>tfw bisexual girl who got out of a heterosexual relationship
>every girl I'm moderately attracted to is straight
>not a single lesbian in sight
>how the fuck do i meet grills who like grills

There was this one chick I met on OKC I really clicked with - we shared interests, she was lovely, and was my type, but then she disappeared after citing 'family problems.' I knew it was too good to be true.

Relevant to you anon, you just have to hang out with the local LGBT group really to find out the gay bars. That's pretty much how I used to find them in town. Although maybe the ones I went to were crap - they were all for gay men with nothing for people like me. I have yet to find a gay girl bar.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:06:48 2014 No.7829485 >>7829475 Tbh I gotta agree. It makes the style look like a costume or like it was designed by a child, IMO.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:43:41 2014 No.7829549 >>7828749 >>7828759 Anon it's Serene Purity themselves who suck, I pre-ordered their library jsk last year and it took me 6 months to get it, when I did receive it it had a shit ton of loose threads.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:50:05 2014 No.7829557

>>7829445
Have ADD, or convince the doctor that you have ADD. I actually need the meds, my ability to remember things and multitask at work has improved dramatically. I'd probably be fired soon without them.

Weight loss due to lack of appetite is a common side effect, as are irritability and insomnia. If it's worth it to you, go for it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:53:31 2014 No.7829564 >>7829443 next time she tells you a story "haha you have to take me to these bars sometime!"

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:58:48 2014 No.7829567

I'd been doing well lately in dealing with depression and had been feeling pretty good about myself/life. I joined a new group of cosplayers and have been working through social anxiety in order to make new friends, and I've felt pretty excited about upcoming projects. But I've hit a dip the past couple days, and now I'm spending my Friday night alone in bed crying. I could have gone out with my boyfriend and some of his classmates, but I genuinely feel that would have just made things worse, made me feel anxious and had me in the bathroom to catch my breath every few minutes due to being surrounded by so many intelligent, successful people when I'm so worthless. I can't even make myself go work on the simple costume I have half way finished because what's the point, I'll just look disgusting in it anyway. I wish I were dead, but I feel too guilty thinking about how upset my boyfriend would be if I killed myself, though I'm sure he'd be relieved in part to not have to deal with me anymore. Ugh. Here's hoping tomorrow is better.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 22:59:18 2014 No.7829569
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>My boyfriend lives in a city about an hour away
>all my friends are through him/live in his city
>I live with parents
>Dad works, mom physically disabled and younger sister mentally disabled
>I want to move to where my boyfriend and friends are but I need to be at home to help my family
>no friends in my city

I mean I love my family and everything and they need me around to help with chores and shopping, but I really want to move away to be with my friends. But I'm the only one who can take care of my mom and sister.

At least I get to go visit a few times a month.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:00:45 2014 No.7829572
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>lonely a lot of the time
>already have gf but she's long distance
>just want a girlbro, not a girlfriend, just a girlbro that'd hang out with and go shopping and cycling and casually play vidya with
Life hurts

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:02:19 2014 No.7829576

>>7829482
Ah, the eternal struggle for bisexual girls. For the majority of my life, I could not find a girl who was interested in girls who I was also attracted to. That is, of course, until I get a boyfriend and eventually move to a new city with him, a city filled with beautiful girls who hit on me every time my boyfriend leaves me alone in a bar for five minutes. Seriously, universe, what the fucking fuck.

Anyway, good luck, queer anons. Your ladies are out there.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:03:13 2014 No.7829579 >>7829482 Yeah, a lot of the gay bars I hear about are full of gay guys and straight girls who don't want to be hit on. Lesbians are a huge pain to find.

Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:35:59 2014 No.7829608

going on the bi feels
>be in hetero relationship
>I love bitchy looking girls they're so amazing
>bitchy girls in classic are great and lovely
>feel like I'm going to die without feeling another pair of boobies
>bf a typical guy saying "three way?"
>I tell him yes we can have a three way but I'd most likely leave him for the girl
>he hasn't brought it up since

I've crushed on my best friends hard before, and I don't tell them I'm into girls because I don't want to make it weird. I did ask one of my friends if I could see her boobs in 5th grade once. she noped out hard and to make matters worse I offered her a dollar to see her boobs

I hope she doesn't remember.. god I fucked up.

currently I don't even know any females let alone any lesbian females.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:39:03 2014 No.7829613 File: 527 KB, 2386x1608, dyke ntr.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829608 inb4 this happens

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:39:25 2014 No.7829615 >>7829567 Anon, unfortunately depression just does this and is super insidious and sucky. Just stick it out. It's okay to feel sad, this too shall pass.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:39:48 2014 No.7829616 File: 113 KB, 1000x421, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw mask fetish intensifies All I want is for an athletic or bearmode man in an intimidating mask to plow me. Is that so much to ask for?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:40:37 2014 No.7829617 >>7829615 I know, I've been doing this shit for years, just venting. Thank you, though. I'ma tryin'.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:40:45 2014 No.7829618 >>7829579 Or if there are lesbians, they go there with their girlfriend.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 19 23:51:23 2014 No.7829635 File: 61 KB, 500x667, tumblr_nc6cceOoMV1qmr80mo1_500[1].jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >like girls >dress girly >loser friends think all lesbians must be dyke looking >they don't believe me >mfw

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:04:14 2014 No.7829653 >tfw I have gained 3 pounds that my body has refused to lose >I've gone from having a 35 inch waist to 34.5. >knees are starting to get stretch marks

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:16:32 2014 No.7829674
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> tfw trying to lose weight and ended up gaining 3 pounds that refuse to come off
> Doing cardio and calisthenics like crazy
> Waist goes from 35" to 34.5".
> getting stretch marks on my knees
> still have 40 pounds more to go

Weight loss isn't easy but I'm kinda amazed about the knee stretch marks. I have them in one leg but not the other. It makes no sense

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:19:08 2014 No.7829675
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>tfw you don't wear the clothes, the clothes wear you

Every time I coord an outfit, I don't feel very happy in it or like I look very cute. Even if I end up looking good, I feel so awkward that it ruins the entire look. At this point I'm tentative to even buy new clothes; I don't have much money to burn and the last thing I'd want is to buy a 200+ dollar dress and have it go to waste because I feel like a mess when I wear it.

This would be understandable if I were in some big lolita community. People can be ruthless to newcomers and really critical of others sometimes. The problem is that the only time I'm not self-conscious is when I'm in pajamas, so this applies to everyday life just as much as it would if I were wearing a coord to some big meet up.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:26:34 2014 No.7829683 >>7829674 Your leg really looks like my leg. Even our skin tones are really similar.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:35:35 2014 No.7829697
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>>7828740
It really depends on the friend, there are some people who will understand out there.

>have clinical depression and anxiety
>leader of old friends keeps playing armchair psychologist with me, despite being a barely employed, barely qualified art student
>"get over it anon"
>"cheer up"
>"you need to get laid"
>"you're better off meds"
>figure out he's an asshat and people only seem to tolerate him because he's a decent gm and his parents buy him lots of shit
>find new larp friends
>be quiet, conceal feelings, only hang out during larp
>friend notices me acting glum
>semi-sarcastically confess loneliness
>shows genuine concern, offers to hang out
>mfw

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:46:36 2014 No.7829707 File: 50 KB, 542x540, 1411184682223.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >always try-hard everything >work 80+ hours a week >have no time for anyone >girlfriend leaves me because I don't have time for her but at least I have my money, right?

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:49:31 2014 No.7829712
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>been working out like crazy for the past 3 weeks
>really trying to tone belly/abdominal areas
>started new birth control this week and new antidepressant last week
>BELLY IS GETTING CHUBBIER

I'm pretty sure it's because of my medication, but it's still really discouraging :c

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 00:59:50 2014 No.7829719 >>7829707 >work 80+ hours a week how are you alive

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:05:58 2014 No.7829727 >>7829712 >working out like crazy >3 weeks You're not going to see any noticeable results after 3 weeks. Especially if you don't adjust your diet. You can work out all you want but if you take in more hamburgers than you burn off there's no point.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:12:17 2014 No.7829731 File: 82 KB, 292x302, 1337264391314.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7828713 >sold stuff to keep it trimmed down or swapped some titles to digital

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:22:33 2014 No.7829741

>>7829727
yeah, I mean I wasn't expecting to see "RESULTZ" by now, but what I have seen a clear increase in my belly area, which is really frustrating

I haven't changed my diet really, but I don't think that's the problem. I've had stomach issues my whole life and I hardly ever have an appetite. I usually have to force myself to eat, and it's usually simple things like yogurt.
>inb4 metabolism blah blah blah

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:34:35 2014 No.7829759 >>7829055 holy shit anon, my new mantra

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:45:29 2014 No.7829777 >>7829475 >dumping her over wearing dresses dont be salty now, i still love that broad i just wish she didnt do it in public

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:48:25 2014 No.7829780 File: 841 KB, 500x281, Gou.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829055 Thank you, anon. I was that OP and couldn't think of how to respond. You are a beautiful human and 100% accurate.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:53:32 2014 No.7829787

>>7829470
>tfw me too
In addition to those reasons I'm worried about getting dresses damaged during washing or drycleaning, and only wash blouses, bloomers, socks and pettis/whatever makes contact with my skin. I'm a bit of a hoarder though, and only really sell the dresses I haven't worn much.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 01:56:32 2014 No.7829791 >>7829787 >tfw also me thank god im not the only one. I'm in perpetual fear that I'll ruin my stupid 300 dollar dresses so I barely wear the ones I can't throw in the wash.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 02:01:07 2014 No.7829796

>Decide I'm currently kind of a fat neck-bearded fucker at 6'1'' and 230lbs.
>Broad shoulders, but not particularly muscular so most of that is belly-fat. Nice round gut. Rotund.
>Think about going on a diet and starting to exercise.
>Nah fuck that mate.
>Cut out sugary drinks and just have water instead.
>Still eating garbage food like Fries, Burgers, Chicken, Pizza every day. Order take-out regularly. Junk food too whenever I fancy it really.
>Only real difference I've made is cutting out the soft-drinks and cola, and some of the junk food.

Lost 10lbs in two weeks. Well that was easier than expected. Alright then lets keep this up. I really feel that I should be making more of an effort though.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 02:25:47 2014 No.7829826 >go to con >conveniently forget how embarrassing some of my friends are until it's too late >he actually tipped his fedora at me >he actually did it unironically Throw that on top of the guy who wants me to recolor a Sonic sprite to look like his OC.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 02:44:31 2014 No.7829847 I am the definition of skinnyfat. I don't seem to gain weight at all, but I've never had the determination to see if I can gain muscle.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 02:49:19 2014 No.7829851 >rapidly growing fandom of a show I'm cosplaying >in a race against time to finish it before it makes me look like a bandwagoner I need people to know that I've liked this longer than them!

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 02:53:09 2014 No.7829855 Tried going on cgl chat. That was a mistake. I just want to see cute girls in lolita, not one shirtless dude and one who is fast asleep

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:01:34 2014 No.7829867 >>7829851 what is it?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:03:23 2014 No.7829869 >>7829867 Wakfu. It's just been dubbed.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:07:04 2014 No.7829872 >>7829869 oh shit, I thought about that I've cosplayed from the series too. I'm the annoying butt in the threads thats so persistant about a cosplay group at AX

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:27:11 2014 No.7829885

>>7829787
>>7829791
I can understand your fears. but this came up when I asked her, "you wear lolita a lot and drycleaning is expensive. how do you wash your stuff"

"oh, i don't, i don't really sweat"

and she sold an op the other day so i just kinda nope'd the fuck out

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:41:40 2014 No.7829893 I need a sugar daddy.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 03:54:57 2014 No.7829900 >>7829707 Must be japanese businessman

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:08:51 2014 No.7829905 >>7829569 Have you considered hiring a caretaker?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:12:00 2014 No.7829910 >>7829572 where are you located?

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:22:27 2014 No.7829916
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> Found myself getting nostalgic remembering an old RP partner who I used to MSN roleplay hawt yaoiz ^^ with in my teenage years.
> Start getting really upset remembering how that was probably the happiest time in my life
> Message another friend who I used to RP with attempting to rehash old nostalgia and feel a little comforted
> No response
> End up turning on music and fantasizing in my head about our old characters and what they'd be up to now
> Get so caught up in the memory it starts to feel too real. Daydream about living in that time of my life again and almost forget I'm not
> Start crying like a baby
My life is a fucking mess holy shit. I'm terrified I might just go off the deep end and slip into my daydreams forever.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:25:12 2014 No.7829920
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>tfw fuckzoned

Anyways, /cgl/ woes to keep it /cgl/... I really want to cosplay a couple characters, problem is they parade around topless and I love my chub too much to lose it. I'm also too lazy to maintain that sort of body. Guess I'll have to throw away those dreams, too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:34:38 2014 No.7829924 >>7829893 Me too. What does a bushy-bearded factory worker like me have to do to get a guy to buy me pretty things these days.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 04:54:18 2014 No.7829938 >>7829872 Well if my EVA ever actually arrives then maybe something could happen.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 07:25:31 2014 No.7829988 >>7829712 >>7829741 Birth control can cause you to retain water; it's a side-effect so don't stress. Keep pushing anon!

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 08:57:45 2014 No.7830058 >>7829910 United Kingdom

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:01:15 2014 No.7830062 >>7830058 pls be in london

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:29:35 2014 No.7830082
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>>7829847
I've been trying to get abs so I don't look weird in tummy-exposing cosplays.
No results after a year.
I'm starting to get convinced my body has no idea what muscle even is.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:35:57 2014 No.7830087 File: 53 KB, 828x472, 1411218397724.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830062

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:37:45 2014 No.7830089 >>7830082 you must be doing something wrong

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:38:55 2014 No.7830091
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>>7828366
>TFW fat
>TFW limited cosplay opportunities
>TFW no matter how much I exercise, I don't lose fat because thyroid
>TFW it'll take me at least another year to find a thyroid medication at the right dosage for me to get to a healthy weight
>TFW doctor's bills cut into my cute clothing budget

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 09:40:42 2014 No.7830095 >>7828739 Aren't those just medical eyepatches? Maybe you could check medical supply sites.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 11:12:39 2014 No.7830179 >>7828746 >not going to a major metropolitcan city for uni Well that's your problem right there. Transfer out NY/CA/where ever else and you won't even be noticed anymore.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 11:28:31 2014 No.7830194

>>7830179
not that anon but I live in Houston, and yeah the colleges are big but city colleges are fucking huge. Like sitting in an auditorium with 400 other people straining to hear the professor huge when it comes to the prerequisite classes. Lolita should NEVER dictate your quality of education. Unless you go to a very very good metropolitan school I would not suggest it. I'm actually going away to attend a smaller school--only it's northern and filled with hipsters so not as many people will give a fuck as in, say, Florida, where it reeks of tourists and beach bums.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 11:29:17 2014 No.7830197 >>7830089 Probably. I've been doing lunges for that year too and my thighs are still delicate marshmallows.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 11:52:08 2014 No.7830219 >>7829169 Good luck to you too! I'm really looking forward to it, since it's a super neat field. What have you been looking for?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 11:53:38 2014 No.7830222 >>7830197 What is your routine? We can help

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 12:47:46 2014 No.7830263
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>go to a lolita fashion show at a convention with SO
>Misako is modelling a dress
>fall in love with dress
>SO preorders it for me!
>dress arrives the day before yesterday
>try it on
>omgitfits.jpg
>it's just so goddamn cute
>legit start crying and hug SO because he's the best
>"awww honey, you look so cute. Misako would be proud"
>cry even harder

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 14:01:28 2014 No.7830329 File: 50 KB, 374x355, 1388526542596.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830263 That's adorable as fuck, oh my god.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 14:31:40 2014 No.7830354
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>mom recently got contacted by a long-lost part of our family
>neither side knew of the other until a recent death and the following inheritance stuff
>what the... there is actually more family left other than my mother
>absolutely hate familial bonds and can't cope with the emotional baggage and sentiment
>mfw everyone expects me to contact them
>mfw I get queasy just thinking about it and the fact that they're actually family
>just wanna become a NEET and stay in bed with my laptop for the rest of my life

family is a terrible, terrible thing....

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 14:40:04 2014 No.7830367 >>7830354 Can I have your family anon? I'm an only child and so are my parents. >tfw no cousins or siblings to grow up with >tfw no doting aunts or cool uncles

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 14:40:46 2014 No.7830368 File: 2.31 MB, 500x304, that fucking feel.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >that post-orgasm feeling

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 14:45:06 2014 No.7830371 >boyfriend and me live 200km apart >we see eachother every weekend >i start again with school >he gets an offer at his job for more hours >he has to work weekends/schoolvacations now >tfw we just don't have time for eachother now

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 15:09:49 2014 No.7830391 >>7830367 I'm an only child too and enjoyed it so far. So this is just... too much. Let's switch families, anon.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 15:12:26 2014 No.7830394

> Be 25 year old faggot
> No boyfriend in 7 years
> Holding out for dream guy
> Husband material, not a hook up, we have apps for that
> Never going to find him
> Meet someone who might be him at con
> Unsure whether he's gay
> Might be bothering him too much
> Really bad at this

Why is this so hard?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 15:19:27 2014 No.7830401 >>7828478 what youre doing is terrible, and you do not deserve friends if you were telling the truth

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 16:08:14 2014 No.7830426 >>7829613 my sides

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 16:42:43 2014 No.7830451 >tfw bf has blueberry fetish that involves females turning into giant blueberries >he wants me to go as Violet Beauregard for halloween b-but I wanted to dress up as wednesday adams ;_;

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 16:45:09 2014 No.7830452

>>7830451
Human beings are so fucking weird. And why does he want to be popping boners while you're out on Halloween with you dressed as his bizarre fetish? Do what you want for Halloween and surprise him with some blueberry/Violet stuff in the bedroom.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 16:48:54 2014 No.7830456

>join new cosplay group
>1/3 are varying levels of spastic weeaboos who really shouldn't still be acting this way in their mid-20s
>1/3 are varying levels of pretentious theatre kids who need all the attention
>1/3 are varying levels of socially awkward nerds who can't hold a conversation
>fuck

I just want some cool people to cosplay with and maybe hang out, play games, or get drinks sometime. Geeky people, there are some true gems, but most of you are the worst.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 16:51:43 2014 No.7830457 >>7830456 whereabouts anon?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 17:03:25 2014 No.7830473 > tfw constant paranoia you'll be the third wheel in a friendship and eventually get left behind I don't think it helps that I don't really have any irl friends (above are online ones) and my social life is non-existent .

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 17:05:30 2014 No.7830475 >>7830473 >tfw lone wolf >tfw haven't had a best friend in 10+ years and just move around groups

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 17:31:25 2014 No.7830515 File: 187 KB, 245x170, waitwhat.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830451 Blueberry...fetish...

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:09:21 2014 No.7830575

>>7829905
My dad makes enough that they could hire a care taker but I don't think they want to. Plus it would have to be a live in caretaker or someone who gets up super early since I have to get my sister ready for school and driver her to school in the mornings.

For what it's worth, we do have a caretaker for my sister on weekdays after school/over summer and I get paid as a caretaker on weekends.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:24:13 2014 No.7830596 File: 1.82 MB, 480x270, e1dcd3990fb915dae228dd4ce10902f8.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829168 10/10 post but God damn.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:28:23 2014 No.7830601 I just spent $500 on a video game as a Christmas present for my girlfriend, so I have to ban myself from buying lolita for the rest of the year. It's gonna be so fuckin hard.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:29:41 2014 No.7830602 File: 44 KB, 191x214, are you stupid.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830601 >a video game >a What the fuck game, anon?!

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:30:56 2014 No.7830603 File: 2.64 MB, 400x225, 1393294864820.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829608 >I offered her a dollar to see her boobs

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:31:09 2014 No.7830604 >>7830602 Could be collector's edition, rare, old, etc.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:31:39 2014 No.7830607 >>7830602 It's a complete boxed copy of Earthbound. Completely worth it IMO.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:31:40 2014 No.7830606 >>7829105 i miss how the art forums used to be now you have to bribe an arm and a leg for any kind of art from a decent artist not that i blame them, the economy is so fucked

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:33:16 2014 No.7830609 >>7830607 The big box with the guide and scratch and sniff stickers still included??

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:34:04 2014 No.7830611 >>7830609 Yup. I'm giddy. She's gonna be so happy.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:37:23 2014 No.7830614 im just so lonely any norwayfags around?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:38:23 2014 No.7830617 >>7829613 Jesus Christ.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:43:08 2014 No.7830622 >>7830614 dem ronery feels >move to new city for school >tfw no friends next con in 3 months. feels so far away I-i just want a friend with similar interests ;_;

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:47:32 2014 No.7830628 [DELETED]

>>7830394
Huh, you sound like the gay version of me:
> Be 24
> No girlfriend in 6 years
> Holding out for dream girl
> Wife material, not a hook up, we have apps for that
> Never going to find her
> Meet someone who might be her at con
> Unsure whether she's straight
> Might be bothering her too much
> Really bad at this

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:49:16 2014 No.7830630
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>this girl and I have been best friends since middle school
>we both have bfs and sometimes go on double dates
>only problem is her bf is incredibly abusive, mean and cruel to her alot
>try to talk to her about it constantly
>always just shuts me down and doesn't wanna believe me
>one day i finally talked to him but he just guilt tripped me
>she got mad at me and ignored me for a few weeks
>felt bad, finally apologized to both of them
>he's apparently been "better" since then
>have my doubts but I'm pretty sure he's still going
>we're now drifting apart

She helped me get out of a abusive relationship in the past, and I know it's not her fault that he's doing this to her. But I'm loosing my best friend because of it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 18:49:19 2014 No.7830631 >>7830607 That's impressive.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:14:20 2014 No.7830666 >>7830607 I want to be your girlfriend 275

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:20:01 2014 No.7830676 File: 178 KB, 1008x600, get a load of these lawfags lucy.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830607 Oh, nice. She's gonna be ecstatic. Where'd you manage to find it?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:23:30 2014 No.7830683 >>7830607 better not let her open it lmao

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:27:04 2014 No.7830691 File: 253 KB, 500x462, ayy.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830683 open it up > decrease its value by $300

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:40:32 2014 No.7830704 File: 205 KB, 434x342, amor.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830607 >Likes lolita >Earthbound

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:42:26 2014 No.7830707

>>7830676
On ebay, dude was selling his for $580 and ended up taking my offer for $540. Hype as fuck. I'm the game collector but she's been in love with Earthbound for years so this is all hers.

>>7830683
Oh god, sealed Earthbound for $540? Nah man that shit's open, I don't even want to think about how much a sealed copy would go for.

ok this is enough gamefagging from me, ya'll return to your /cgl/-related feels. Still bummed about no more dresses for a while but fuck yeah Earthbound.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:44:57 2014 No.7830709
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>Decided to try looking for a nice floofy lolita skirt to pick for a weight loss goal.
>Browsed an upscale lolita online shop.
>Find one that's what I could and would love to wear.
>Decide to scroll up.
>Webpage scrolls up instead
>Realize that I am at an entirely different online shop instead of the one I had clicked.
>Realize that not online did I lose the website, I had lost the skirt that I had wanted.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:46:21 2014 No.7830714 >tells crush about waifu >later realized he now probably thinks I'm a lesbian

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:48:28 2014 No.7830716 >>7830709 >upscale lolita online shop anon there are only like 4 of those. unless you're referring to a taobao shop also >what is back button/ ctrl shft t

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:52:34 2014 No.7830720 >>7830716 I... I am a panicking fool. I had found the skirt at Milanoo, actually.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:52:56 2014 No.7830721 File: 33 KB, 500x387, 1247554188569.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830607 Brofist needed You're fucking awesome

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:53:10 2014 No.7830722 >>7830720 oh okay you're joking

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 19:57:12 2014 No.7830724 File: 26 KB, 306x273, tumblr_static_cwvmb789j54o4o4k8s8wog8ck.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830720

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:03:38 2014 No.7830730 File: 41 KB, 604x453, BABE.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830720

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:05:23 2014 No.7830733 >>7830722 I... Had forgotten about Milanoo's reputation. So I had went from Milanoo to a place called my-lolita-dress.com.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:07:42 2014 No.7830737 >>7830733 how do you forget about something like that? dude you need to lurk more before you splurge on anything lolita related. for your own benefit.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:09:16 2014 No.7830741 >>7830733 >either shop >upscale ??

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:09:56 2014 No.7830742 >>7830737 Yes anon. I had almost made a huge mistake.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:10:10 2014 No.7830744 >>7830733 Avoid Milanoo, but I've had success with my-lolita-dress - it's just a reselling site. The prices are pretty reasonable. You can also order from clobba.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:17:22 2014 No.7830757

>>7830575
Why don't you try sitting down with your dad and explaining things? That you love your mother and sister but you feel isolated and really want to try moving near friends and beginning your life. Suggest that maybe you two can look for caretakers together and make sure that the are acceptable? And talk to your mom as well to explain that you don't see her as a burden but you just want to try this out

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 20:49:50 2014 No.7830807 >Finish cosplay! Hooray for me! >Happiness only lasts ten minutes before I realize I'm still alone and miserable and that will never change

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:01:10 2014 No.7830822 >By sheer luck meet qt girl who likes anime, vidya, cons, lolita, etc. >We get pretty close fast >Never felt so sure of mutual interest in my life >Finally get balls to ask her out >Rejected >Continue riding on the loneliness train

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:02:27 2014 No.7830824 File: 253 KB, 500x462, ayy.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830822

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:15:50 2014 No.7830844 File: 494 KB, 500x278, lonliness.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830822

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:19:47 2014 No.7830850 >>7830844 >shouldhavebeenascreencap.gif

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:29:01 2014 No.7830863
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I've put on so much weight recently, 20lbs in the last 6 months alone.
Things have been so shitty in my life I lost control over my body because I was too distracted and now I feel like a cow. I spend so much time looking in the mirror and hating what I see.
I'm going to lose at least 30lbs before my next con, I can't stand being like this anymore. I want to look cute in all my clothes again and be able to wear shorts again next summer.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:30:06 2014 No.7830865 File: 73 KB, 400x388, feelsbadman.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830822 I feel such a bad second hand feel for you bro. I'm going to hug a pillow tonight and pretend it's you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:36:59 2014 No.7830874 >wake up with clear skin >by lunch a nasty zit that looks like it's been marinating for days pops out of nowhere >like fucking clockwork s2g I'm starting to suspect a curse or something

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:38:18 2014 No.7830877

>>7830863
the feels

i used to be 100lbs with a rack to boot, now i'm on the flabby side of average at 130 lbs.
it only happened in the last 6 months as well, so i'm wondering if it isn't some medication i'm taking.
either way i need this extra weight gone by next con.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:39:00 2014 No.7830880 >>7830607 >>7830707 are you nemu's boyfriend

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:49:27 2014 No.7830898 File: 60 KB, 754x722, 1406687506996.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7830807

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 21:55:08 2014 No.7830908 >>7830822 At least you're still friends, right? Otherwise she was probably just too nice to tell you to piss off.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:16:24 2014 No.7830930

>>7829163
>>7829028

>last year
>girlfriend is 5'5 and 160
>stonking great tits
>curvy ass
>bit of a belly but I love chubbies
>she decides to lose weight
>drops down to 130
>loses tits and ass
>she loves it
>still love her and find her attractive but miss her hourglass figure

I'm happy at how confident she's gotten and will never say something because I know being thin makes her really happy but God DAMN would I be okay with a relapse.

Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:22:59 2014 No.7830934

>>7829028
>>7829163
> Be 5'1
> 140 lbs
> Mom: "Wow anon you got more tits than me"
> 130 lbs
> A&T are leaving me
> Waist still the same why
> Mom: "Wow anon, your tits are actually not that big."
> 120 lbs
> finally waist decides to catch up
> ass is proportionally large
> but still tiny tits
> oh well
> is considering losing more because maybe my waist will shrink
> but then again maybe not
eh

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:23:49 2014 No.7830936 >>7830930 yeah that's the only thing i can say for my weight gain is that i finally have an ass >ass no longer fits in any of my jeans >don't know whether to be sad or happy

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:31:54 2014 No.7830945 >>7830936 Be happy. When's the last time you heard a song about liking little butts? Never.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:39:53 2014 No.7830947 >>7830394 >havent had a boyfriend in 7 years >holding out for dream guy >might be bothering potential guy too much look for a pattern here

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 20 22:41:03 2014 No.7830948 >>7830863 Exact same here. I've lost 6/20lbs since July but it still sucks so much.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 01:58:42 2014 No.7831260 >>7828740 Dude, you don't owe anything to your family. Contact, your time, anything. You don't owe that shit.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:02:00 2014 No.7831264

Kind of 4chan related because Japan? Just had to get this feel off my chest and fuck if I'm going to /r9k/

>Join Japanese dating site
>Start talking to a guy on Line
>He's p cute, fun to chat
>Realize he's in fucking Sagamihara and I live in the US and I'll never meet him IRL
>What's the point of online dating foreigners
>T-They are probably all serial killers anyways ;_;

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:02:40 2014 No.7831265 >>7829116 Describe. This sounds great.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:07:23 2014 No.7831274 >>7829569 Sucks to have your life virtually halted by that baggage. They shouldn't be putting that on you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:09:06 2014 No.7831276 File: 8 KB, 288x201, Bill_Murray_seducing_a_tulip.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7829924 Will all sincerity, if I was a rich man, I'd buy you plenty of pretty things. Bushy bearded factory workers happen to be just my type

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:14:34 2014 No.7831280 >>7830733 My-lolita-dress is legit. Milanoo...no. Not even once.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:26:42 2014 No.7831293

> Hiki for almost a year.
> Even when I did go outside, people were oblivious to me because I was too terrified to even make eye contact with others.
> No friends because bullied in school up until graduation.
> Spend most of my day online or gaming, my doctor is actually concerned about vitamin D deficiency due to lack of sun.
> Own so many cute clothes, but never an opportunity to wear them.
> "I should just get dressed up and go outside. Who cares?"
> Begin to doll myself up nicely every day, trying new makeup and hair styles.
> Grab my camera and head out, start taking pictures of random stuff and enjoying the last of summer.
> Discover a bunch of cool new places I didn't know about, despite living here for years.
> People start calling me 'camera girl' and chat me up while I take pictures of their dogs etc.
It feels good. It feels really good.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:53:17 2014 No.7831325
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>School work keeps piling up
>I have to read four books, write a paper, as well as an outline for another paper by monday
>Been reading shit all day
>tfw It's only been a month and I'm already struggling so hard with classes at uni
>Have a professor that acts high and mighty and says we're talking bullshit about being stressed

Luckily I only have one more semester after this, but this is some serious bullshit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 02:59:29 2014 No.7831336 >>7831293 I'm proud of you anon-chan ! Photography also helped me out of my hikki way, I'm so happy it works for you too. Keep it up !

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 03:03:43 2014 No.7831342 >>7831325 >says we're talking bullshit about being stressed this is the worst kind of people especially old faggots that never had to progress past Algebra 2 in highschool. Fuck those people.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 03:05:11 2014 No.7831345 >>7831342 *kind of person

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 03:32:21 2014 No.7831366
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>new job has shitloads of downtime
>/cgl/ moves too slow
>start checking out other boards for the first time since high school
>mfw

sage because this should not be a revelation but holy shit y'all 4chan is the fucking worst.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 03:46:19 2014 No.7831378 >>7830457 Texas. You near here, anon, and less autistic?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 04:12:31 2014 No.7831400 >got a (non-paid) modeling gig on tuesday >all soft and doughy >excited but really anxious about looking like a fatty moon face I'm hoping if I eat really light until then I'll lose maybe .5" due to water loss

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 04:13:58 2014 No.7831403 >>7831366 /m/ isn't that bad, they have some really fun threads. The catch: you have to be into robots.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 04:24:40 2014 No.7831411 >>7828366 >Watches Deka Wanko for cute lolita outfits >Most if not all are nice-looking ita at best >Still a a pretty decent show Cgl I just wanted to watch cute lolis

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 04:49:19 2014 No.7831426

>there is an anime/japan themed convention in town
>see a cosplayer in full gear going to the event location
>really well made costume, hair and etc.
>the person is heavily overweight
>tfw first time posting on /cgl/ just to complain

Isn't anime cosplaying the act of trying to dress up and look like your favorite characters? I understand you want to dress up but why choose a slim bishounen character when you are badly overweight ?

What is your take on people "cosplaying outside of their weight class" ?

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 05:12:06 2014 No.7831437
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>>7831426
I think you shouldn't only see it as "cosplaying outside your weight class" but "cosplaying against your body type". It's a general phenomenon not limited to overweight people (they only get the most hate since they're the most obvious).
For example I cosplayed Date Masamune from Sengoku Basara a few years ago. He's a brawny tall japanese warlord with muscles all over. I'm a 5'' 3' skinny white girl with big tits. But I love the game and the character so much I cosplayed him anyway and tried my best.

Now there are indeed people who are too stupid or oblivious to cosplay things which would suit them. However, there are also a good bunch of people who simply love a character or a show so much they eventually decide to cosplay him anyway (well aware of their faults and trying to compensate for them). The fact that the cosplayer you've seen had a really well made costume speaks for him/her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 05:17:24 2014 No.7831439 >>7831400 Cut out carbohydrates and/or take a diuretic beforehand.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 05:32:05 2014 No.7831454 >>7831366 >tfw wish I could get back into fandom so I can enjoy downloading gigabytes of qt3.14 husbandos from /cm/ like I did in the good old days This board is pretty slow when you're bored and have nothing to do.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 05:55:36 2014 No.7831469 >>7831366 I feel you anon. >tried looking at /ic/ because artfag >mfw first thread is some cunt crying about photobashing >scuttle right back to /cgl/ and f5 rest of day

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 06:21:07 2014 No.7831493

>>7831469
oh god I feel you anon

> artfag and hey there's /ic/!
> 90% of the posts are "if you don't draw loomis for 12 hours each day you'll never make it. and you suck"

sometimes I go back because they do have some nice links with references, but damn I'm going to stay the fuck away from there otherwise.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 08:30:14 2014 No.7831578
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>that moment when you realize that no matter how much weight you lose, you will still feel like a lard-ass when you touch your stomach or look at your thighs or feel any separate parts of your body rub against each other
It's depressing, but somehow liberating.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 08:43:42 2014 No.7831587
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>meetup today
>excited as fuck, been working my ass off at school and really need a break
>it's also my friend's birthday and I am bringing a present to the meet
>get 1/3 of the way there
>flat tire
>try not to cry
>with help from my friends and a kind stranger, get the doughnut on and carefully drive to the tire center
>flat is under warranty but ends up costing over $200 anyways because the front tires are both totally bald and need to be replaced
>start to feel ill
>can't pin anybody down for a ride home/back to pick up my car
>finally get a ride home
>start to feel REALLY ill and have a migraine too
>by the time I've picked up my car and returned home I'm shaking
>exhausted but spend literally all night alternating between throwing up and trying to sleep through my migraine (and failing)

I think everything just hated me today. I was so hype for that meetup too :(

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 12:54:16 2014 No.7831819

I've been seriously reconsidering joining my local lolita comm and the only reason is that these bitches can NOT take a joke, or sarcasm, or anything that's not 100% "srs loli talk".

It really sucks because I was excited to have friends with similar interests but whats the point if they can't even laugh?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 13:10:48 2014 No.7831842 >>7831819 Never trust anyone without a sense of humor. You're well rid of them.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 13:22:20 2014 No.7831857
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I can't stand it when people act like they're going to purchase something of yours then end up saying "SORRY I CAN'T AFFORD IT RIGHT NOW". Like jfc why even bother asking me all these questions about the item when you're just going to back out?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 13:31:05 2014 No.7831867 File: 1022 KB, 500x233, tumblr_m3qf6kq72e1qf2wdco1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Adding up expenses to see how much your cosplay is going to put you out Somebody hold me.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 13:33:51 2014 No.7831868

>>7831400
It's not a big deal, I've done a lot of unpaid modeling gigs. It ain't the real deal til it's for something other than hobby, portfolio, or class. You'll do just fine, just relax and don't let your anxiety show. Have fun with it.

For the weight, eat clean and exercise. Not much else you can do in such a short period of time, other than maybe get one of those belts that makes you sweat out your water weight. Haven't tried one myself.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:41:19 2014 No.7831965 >get frilled up, put on new wig, do my makeup really nice >look in mirror >look like Choke I was always so conscious about wearing lolita, but I guess if I do it right I can look pretty after all.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:42:30 2014 No.7831969 >>7831587 >don't let your tires go to shit in the first place

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:45:33 2014 No.7831973 >>7830733 My Lolita Dress is legit, a nice woman runs it, it's just resold Taobao. She also acts as a SS if you need.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:47:11 2014 No.7831978 >>7830630 She's an idiot. There's nothing you can do, anon, as much as that sucks. She's going to stay with him until he pushes her too far.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:47:38 2014 No.7831980 >spend months preparing cosplay >its the most accurate one i've made so far >go to con >only one person asks for a picture >i didn't even look cute in it >go on hiatus

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:50:14 2014 No.7831984 >>7830091 Cry about it. Your thyroid isn't making you a whale. Try harder or shut the fuck up.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:51:04 2014 No.7831986 >>7831980 Was it an obscure character? If so, I wouldn't worry about it. People are more likely to take pictures of popular stuff, it's nothing against you or your construction.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:55:22 2014 No.7831993 >>7831984 "I don't know how the human body works"

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:56:33 2014 No.7831997 >>7831969 >going into feels threads to shit on people

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 14:59:56 2014 No.7832002

>>7831969
I ran over a nail on the highway, the front two tires were in need of a change but I had no idea because I just had them rotated a few months ago and the tire guys didn't mention anything about them being worn down then. I'm not in the habit of checking my tires for wear daily and I wouldn't know what to look for if I was.

But thanks anyways?

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:02:57 2014 No.7832008

My anxiety is getting worse to the point that now I always feel dirty (even when I've just taken a shower), my skin always feels like there's dust something clinging to it, my clothes on my skin aggravate me and drive me insane with feeling the texture of them, and I can't fall asleep well anymore and I always feel wound up and my skin is always crawling. Just fucking kill me ugh

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:03:08 2014 No.7832009

>>7828366
>tfw ugly manfaced bitch
>tfw I love kawaii/cutesy clothes but I don't like buying them for myself because cute clothes on an ugly person makes the person uglier in comparison and ruins the look of the clothes
can't wait 'till I can get like 100 plastic surgery procedures so I don't have to enter every building backwards in fear of people's first impressions being made based off my face lol :')

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:37:52 2014 No.7832091

>have very pretty best friend
>she's curvy and small and cute, I'm taller and more athletic
>she likes feminine characters, I like the tough girl types and don't mind crossplaying
>perfect for sooo many duo cosplays
>willing to help her/make things for her
>tfw she's lazy and flaky as shit
>tfw she couldn't care less about anime and would rather watch trashy reality tv all day
>tfw if she does want to cosplay, it's always terrible mash ups or steampunk/hipster versions of characters
>whyyyyy

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:39:31 2014 No.7832093 >>7831984 This bothers me so much. Thyroid problems don't make you fat, they just make you retain more water, so you weigh more. The effect on your metabolism is negligible.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:39:54 2014 No.7832095 >>7831993 "I don't feel like trying to keep my weight down." I am 100% aware of how thyroids work, they don't turn you into whales unless you sit around on your ass. Thyroid problems run in my family, and nobody in my family is a fat piece of shit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:48:56 2014 No.7832108 >>7832009 me too anon >;_;

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:48:59 2014 No.7832109

All of my female friends who cosplay are so fucking bad at makeup. For dynamic characters, it's alright, I guess, but they go waaay overboard for most and pick that raccoon eyed stripper look, even for, like, average high school kid type characters. I think they've seen popular cosplayers do it and want to imitate that (and one of them is a stripper, so I'm pretty sure she just does the same over the top makeup at all times). I want to tell them to tone it down, but I'm sure they'll just get offended and tell me I don't know what I'm talking about.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:53:46 2014 No.7832113 >>7832091 Get a friend with better taste. Or just make her the costumes, get her to play dress up for photos, and call it good, I guess.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:58:26 2014 No.7832123 >>7832095 Anon-chan, not all thyroid problems are the same did you know that too

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 15:59:16 2014 No.7832124 [DELETED]

>>7831265
They weren't THAT bad, but they were clearly ita
>both overweight, not huge, but still obese
>looked about 30ish
>one had her hair in a low ponytail, the other had hers low twin pigtails (no wigs, obviously)
>hair frizzy as fuck
>both had thin wire glasses and no makeup
>couldn't see what Low Ponytail was wearing, mostly because she had a leather trenchcoat over it
>I think it was classic based on the dark coat, berry coloured tights and the shoes. Definitely lolita though, could kind of see a silhouette through the coat
>Pigtails was wearing pastel pink - she's wearing sweet (remember, she's obese)
>awful unironed dress (probably one of the worse Bodyline ones), white knee socks (unflattering on most thin people legs, let alone fat ones), pink coat (also probably Bodyline), Bodyline tea parties - all in all, very pig-like
Doesn't sound too bad in the description, but I didn't want to take a picture of strangers so you'll have to believe me when I say it's worse than it sounds. The one in pink kind of talked to us a little, since she overheard me teaching my boyfriend some random Japanese phrases and pronunciation.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:03:12 2014 No.7832135

>>7831265
They weren't THAT bad, but they were clearly ita
>both overweight, not huge, but still obese
>looked about 30ish
>one had her hair in a low ponytail, the other had hers low twin pigtails (no wigs, obviously)
>hair frizzy as fuck
>both had thin wire glasses and no makeup
>couldn't see what Low Ponytail was wearing, mostly because she had a leather trenchcoat over it
>I think it was classic based on the dark coat, berry coloured tights and the shoes. Definitely lolita though, could kind of see a silhouette through the coat
>Pigtails was wearing pastel pink - she's wearing sweet (remember, she's obese)
>awful unironed dress (probably one of the worse Bodyline ones), white knee socks (unflattering on most thin people legs, let alone fat ones), pink coat (also probably Bodyline), Bodyline tea parties - all in all, very pig-like
Doesn't sound too bad in the description, but I didn't want to take a picture of strangers so you'll have to believe me when I say it's worse than it sounds.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:03:45 2014 No.7832138 >>7832123 Anon-chan, NO thyroid problems turn you into a whale, did you know that? Unless you're a lazy fuck, thyroid problems will never just make you into a fatty.

Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:04:56 2014 No.7832140
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>gained 20 pounds over this year
>5'6", 148 pounds
>nothing fits anymore
>feel like a disgusting pig
>tfw loset Child has all sorts of cute coats but none of them fit me

I was already chubby but now I'm on the highest weight I have ever been and I hate myself more than ever. Almost none of my Lolita dresses fit anymore. I have over $1000 worth of brand in my closet and none of the dresses really fit me. Time to put down the fork... I hope I have the motivation to actually do this. ;_;

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:06:09 2014 No.7832147 >>7831984 It's my thyroid and I'll cry if I want to. You would cry too if it happened to you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:08:50 2014 No.7832154 >>7832140 >tfw no chubby lolita gf to give motivation to lose weight

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:35:03 2014 No.7832200 >>7832154 >tfw no qt bf to motivate me to lose weight >tfw no qt bf A-anon are you from Europe?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:35:49 2014 No.7832204 >>7832200 No ;_;

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:37:45 2014 No.7832207 >>7831857 OMG. Had a former RL friend string me along about a jsk for 4 months before I gave up waiting on her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:42:26 2014 No.7832227 >entered the uni >finally able to wear what i want >i am not used to it >feeling extremely awkward >why

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:49:43 2014 No.7832250 >>7832227 I feel you, Anon. Believe me, it will get better, and no one at Uni gives one siblge fuck about what you wear.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 16:58:37 2014 No.7832272 File: 430 KB, 579x505, 1402877661901.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7831378 not that anon but Im fair distance from the 3 main cities, any cons you going to ? We should should chat first to make sure the other isnt cray as fuck.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 22:00:06 2014 No.7832993 Yeah :)

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 21 22:19:00 2014 No.7833037 Not today

Anonymous Mon Sep 22 22:10:41 2014 No.7835394
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>Be me
>be nighttime
>Using my motorcycle helmet to make a mold for my Red-X helmet I'm building
>dad sees me walking out the door with my motorcycle helmet in hand
>"anon, you know what I've said about no riding the Yamaha at night"
>"No I wasn't going for a ride dad"
>"bullshit, explain the helmet then"
>"I was going to use it as a mold for my cosplay I'm working on"
>"honestly anon, I'd have been happier if you WERE taking my bike for a joyride instead of building shit and spending money on those geek fests. You'll get your head out of your ass and come around one of these days"
>dad drunkenly saunters to the couch and mumbles something about "he's a generally normal kid except for this crap"
>feel like shit rest of the night
>mfw

My dad tried to comb me to be "Chad the douchebag" all my life,he signed me up for the wrestling team back in HS, taught me how to shoot, ride motorcycles, work on cars, fish, smoke cigars, enjoy good rum and a bunch of other shit. I generally enjoy most of it and have made him proud for the most part except for the fact that I like anime, vidya and cosplaying. He just can't seem to get over that, my mom likes and supports it (I took her to a local con back in the day and she thought it was fun and there were cute girls there) My dad just can't seem to get the stick out of his ass on this one thing and it's making me feel like shit

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