/cgl/ feels thread

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/cgl/ feels thread Anonymous Tue Oct 21 13:46:14 2014 No.7890782 [Reply] [Original]

Old thread >>7884268 # on autosage.

Keep the shitposting to a minimum.

>cosplay/lolita/jfash related

Continue to feel.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:17:35 2014 No.7890911 >tfw no qt seagull to share bread crumbs with

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:25:17 2014 No.7890931 >trying to make own cosplay >can't cut a straight line >finally after weeks of hard work have a passable cosplay >day of con put on cosplay >it rips.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:27:04 2014 No.7890936 >>7890931 MY WORST NIGHTNAME ANON HOW DO YOU STILL LIVE

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:28:03 2014 No.7890939 >tfw brown skin with a feminine face, also to tall to cosplay most dark skined characters.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:30:48 2014 No.7890940 File: 2.97 MB, 300x169, 1.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw 6 feet tall and too masculine to crossplay as a cute girl which is all I want to do Life is hard.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:31:47 2014 No.7890944 File: 481 KB, 500x270, tumblr_lpjmmmeqcq1qh3j4zo1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw finally bought one of them kawaii ass intasx cameras

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 15:52:25 2014 No.7890972 >>7890940 >the struggle is real

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 18:12:37 2014 No.7891217

>tfw go to a con and no one recognizes who I am and no one takes my pictures
I wonder if I went as someone from Ghost in the Shell anyone would recognize me. Only sad thing is so many young people go to conventions now that only like newer animes. And the sad thing is they don't even like the best newer animes like Watamote.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 19:34:17 2014 No.7891359 >>7890940 Crossplay as Sailor Jupiter and find other girls to be the other inner sensi? Makoto is so tall but I feel like most girls who cosplay as her are too short.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 19:39:44 2014 No.7891366 >>7891359 I have honestly never watched Sailor Moon, so I guess I'll need to watch it. Though that doesn't fix the masculine part, but thanks for the suggestion anyways, Anon!

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 19:40:12 2014 No.7891367 >>7891217 Who did you cosplay as? I'm wondering if people would recognize Satoshi from abenobashi. I'm definitely finicky about anime and I always pick up on animes that most are clueless about.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 19:41:05 2014 No.7891368
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>Halloween weekend coming up
>rarely buys alcohol anymore because bills, frills, and food are more important
>bought some nice beer for the weekend's festivities (rhps and some parties)
>caught the cold
>have to work through this week

Oh well, I don't really go out much anyway.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:08:42 2014 No.7891399 >>7891368 This is why I spend booze money on vidya. Though, that makes it vidya money.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:20:27 2014 No.7891416 File: 193 KB, 1451x1738, Poison.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7890940 duuuuuuuuuude.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:32:04 2014 No.7891436
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>>7891367
I went as Adachi. I have the same hair color as him, so I styled it exactly like his. That's what I get for expecting people to actually play games that aren't AAA where I live. Even if he is kind of a generic looking guy. I wanna come up with something more unique looking this time though.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:34:24 2014 No.7891440 >live abroad >talk in my usual accent >"oh hurr you sound so stupid and fake" >try to mimic the native accent >"stop that, it's annoying, you sound so stupid and fake" well which is it

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:38:56 2014 No.7891446 >>7891436 Maybe you were just a bad Adachi.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:39:01 2014 No.7891448
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Here's my feels from last thread:

>Tfw trying to romance a guy I like on the other side of the country
>Saving money in hopes of starting a LDR
>Watched my dream dress be swept from under my feet
>Watching another beautiful dress set on lacemarket I love too
>Someone will probably snatch that up
and new feels:

>tfw I last text him "text me back tommorow first, ok! :)"
>its been 3 days
>I see him online facebook mobile
>text him "idiot"
>still nothing
>its been 4 days
>losing interest because anyone who ignores me like this is scum and not worth my time

I guess I can buy dresses now..
but a part of me is wondering why he's doing this, because he gave off some signals that he liked me. who knows.
I wish I knew.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:39:26 2014 No.7891451 >>7891416 But I want to be a cute girl, not a sexual predator.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:42:43 2014 No.7891455

>>7891446
You're a bad Adachi.
>>7891448
Don't put yourself through a LDR. I've been in one, and after over half a year, she just stopped talking to me with no warning. It also sucks never being able to spend time with the person or anything when that's all you want to do.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:44:01 2014 No.7891456 >>7891455 its a childhood crush. who apparently liked me back the whole time. lives close to my family.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:46:40 2014 No.7891461 File: 983 KB, 400x225, 1.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7891456 Oh. Well than that's shitty. We're always here for you, Anon.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:52:17 2014 No.7891471 >>7891448 Dresses will never break your heart. Dresses will be there forever. Dresses are better than boys.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 20:54:47 2014 No.7891475 >>7891471 What if there's a boy who will never break your heart and loves dresses as much as you?

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:04:26 2014 No.7891484

>>7891461
Why do you always post the same gif? It makes it easy to identify you.
You're the "subby man" who doesn't know what lolita is, who would be extremely happy if you had a gf who wanted to be your chained up sex slave cosplaying as your favorite character whilst you and your friends rip into her handmade cosplay and gang bang her. The same guy who wants to dress up as a girl and get fucked by a girl that's into crossplay, but you're too "tall and masculine". I identified you and your posts based on that 1 gif you keep posting.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:07:50 2014 No.7891488 >>7891440 When people say that after you talk normally, switch accents and ask if they prefer that. If they say no, tell them to shut the fuck up then.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:13:29 2014 No.7891493 >>7891484 The fact that a guy like this exists here repulses me. Thanks for the warning Anon.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:15:27 2014 No.7891496
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>>7890782
>Tfw you didn't realize that your buyer would have to pay additional fees if you declared that the item was worth more than like $20

This is why selling outside of the US is usually a hassle, fuck.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:25:14 2014 No.7891514 >>7891484 Because I have very little else on this phone, and I keep forgetting this board is smaller because I'm used to larger boards. I'll try to be less noticeable, though my phone posts everything as 1 in the filename.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:34:49 2014 No.7891535 >>7891514 >>7891484 Oh, and the gangbang thing is wrong. I do not want to do that.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:39:29 2014 No.7891546 >>7891535 Woops. That's right, you wanted to be the one chained up and gangbanged.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:39:52 2014 No.7891547 >>7891484 I recognize the gif.. but the fact you memorized all that is pretty amazing.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:41:07 2014 No.7891553 >>7891546 Nah, not gangbaned. Just chained up. Now I'll go, because I'd rather not shit up this thread. I'll just stay Anon by not posting pics here unless one is actually needed.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:42:17 2014 No.7891556 >>7891366 The outer ones are pretty tall. Pluto is 5'10" and Uranus was 5'9". Uranus is the most masculine looking one.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:42:57 2014 No.7891557 >>7891475 Love The Dress, embrace The Dress, lick the Dress and it will never let you down. There is no substitute for The Dress, there is only The Dress. Join us. Join us...

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:43:17 2014 No.7891559 >>7891553 I'm just pulling your chain lol, don't let me get you down. Keep posting, you're a pretty nice guy.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:44:45 2014 No.7891563 >>7891217 >GitS Who would you cosplay as, I'd totally take your picture, that's my favorite anime.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:45:35 2014 No.7891565 File: 673 KB, 1325x1190, 1352337346578.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7891436 You sound like this guy.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:45:48 2014 No.7891567 >>7890944 I think my sister bought one of those and then forgot about it, should I steal it and take it to cons and take super cool pictures?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 21:45:56 2014 No.7891569 File: 70 KB, 970x1010, 1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7891559 You know, you saying that kind of makes me happy. Though I'll seriously stop shitting up this thread, it's for feels, not shitposting.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:00:22 2014 No.7891590 >>7891553 >>7891455 Sorry I called you a bad Adachi earlier, anon. I will chain you up if you wear the cosplay. sage even though these are my cgl feels

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:03:32 2014 No.7891595 >>7891461 thanks anon. too bad, childhood friendships into relationships are just really really cute, I wanted to live that.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:05:12 2014 No.7891598 >>7891436 >That's what I get for expecting people to actually play games that aren't AAA where I live. Chill. You're Persona 4. That's not exactly 'indie.' Your cosplay probably just sucked.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:15:51 2014 No.7891611 File: 2.03 MB, 320x240, 1406268956524.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7891565 lmao holy shit

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:18:23 2014 No.7891616 >>7891448 If they aren't saying Fuck Yes to being in a relationship with you, then move on. They're either interested or not and it sounds like they're not. Sorry they cost you your dream dress, but go ahead and buy the pretty one.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:27:35 2014 No.7891637 >>7891590 It seems Anon doesn't like you.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:37:33 2014 No.7891662
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slightly cgl related because of going to conventions and social anxiety
>finally get assigned a great counselor to work with me after my 9-5 job
>insurance changes, can't work with me anymore
>offers other counselors but only have appointments during my job hours
>just when I was making progress, I have to rehash everything again

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:40:00 2014 No.7891671

>post things for sale on LaceMarket last night
>everything's already been sold

Still waiting for people to pay their invoices, but it's such a good feel. I can buy a wig I've been eyeing along with making a small taobao order for blouses for my evolving wardrobe.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:41:40 2014 No.7891674
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>>7891616
I didn't even ask him out yet, but I'm pretty sure its been obvious that I like him.
theres been so many mixed signals, so I thought he was into me.
funny thing is he told me
"I liked you so much, I wish I could go back and change things, been nice to you, gotten to know you better.. you were always so cute"
and then doesn't message me back for 4 days when I drop hints I like him.

I actually feel like I sort of deserve it too, since I rejected someone in the past weekend due to wanting to be in a relationship with someone else.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:44:45 2014 No.7891682

>giant canker sore right inside lip
>too painful to eat
>another one pops up on the other side of my mouth
>really can't eat
>hurts to put on makeup
>don't want to irritate it any more with lipstick
>weak and shaky all the time because no food for three days

I'm dying ;__;

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:46:29 2014 No.7891684 >>7891682 Can you make yourself smoothies? I know that feel, anon. I get black out shakes if I go too long in a day without eating; I can't even imagine what three would do to me.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:47:10 2014 No.7891686 >>7891674 Sounds like hes a pussy. Or leading you on. Don't waste your time baby, call me up.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:50:47 2014 No.7891696 >>7891682 Have you at least tried soup? Don't even need to chew.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:52:32 2014 No.7891700 >>7891682 If you can, get Oral Medic and put it on the sores.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 22:52:46 2014 No.7891701 >>7891686 n-no thank you. my heart is still healing!

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:00:14 2014 No.7891723

>>7891684
I'm lactose intolerant, so I can't have any ice cream, milk, yogurt, etc. which is awful. I worked tonight and had a shake because they're non-dairy and it felt amazing, but I need some solid food in me.

>>7891696
I'm retarded, I didn't even think of soup.

>>7891700
I got some stuff at the pharmacy, some kind of numbing shit, but it wears off so fast I've already used up half a tube of it. And it also makes me drool on myself.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:00:28 2014 No.7891725 >>7891682 I rub salt in that shit or get some mouthwash and just bear it until the pain is dull.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:01:43 2014 No.7891726 >trying to move towards gothic a bit and avoid buying sweet for until wardrobe is 50/50 split >all these cute sweet pieces on LM and CC >CC meta pieces so fucking cheap FUCK MY LIFE I JUST WANTED TO BE A BAMPIRE QUEEN I DIDNT ASK FOR THIS FUCK

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:03:29 2014 No.7891733 >>7891682 The trick, Anon, is not minding that it hurts.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:14:47 2014 No.7891757 >>7891723 Get oral medic specifically. It's a purple liquid that comes in a cotton swab. Do it, I'm serious. I had those problems before and it's amazing.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:17:15 2014 No.7891765

>>7891725
I've been rinsing with lysterine and peroxide, and brushing my teeth more often to keep any sugars from sitting on them, and then rinsing with salt water.

>>7891733
I'm a wee babby ;-;

>>7891757
I don't think we have that here. I struggled to just find some Orajel-type stuff at my pharmacy and they usually have anything I need. Lots of cold sore medicine, but that won't do much for a canker sore.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:22:39 2014 No.7891782

>>7891765
>Oralmedic is available from all good Pharmacies in the UK & Ireland
Well no wonder then. Is a canker sore the same as an oral ulcer? I would guess so. if not maybe you could try going to the chemist and asking for oral ulcer medicine. If they are, perhaps they have some other medicine for you to try? Something that creates a protective film over the wound.

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:25:10 2014 No.7891788

>>7891782
Yeah, it's just an ulcer in your mouth. They're called all sorts of things all over, we call them canker sores here in the US. I asked the pharmacist, but all they had to tell me was the aisle that I would find it all in. It was lumped in with the cold & flu medicine, so I assume they just don't have a whole lot.

Maybe i'll try ordering something online for next time this happens.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:26:10 2014 No.7891793 File: 27 KB, 203x345, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >buy contact lenses >they come in a blister pack sheet >no lens case >buy lens solution >doesn't come with a lens case

Anonymous Tue Oct 21 23:31:29 2014 No.7891803

>>7891788
You can try ordering OM online, they have a website with links to web shops where you can order it. Sorry I sound like a shill, I used to have the same issue every few months because I'm a bleeding genius and bite myself whenever I talk. Spent litres of cheap Supervalu mouthwash before I discovered it. Never looked back.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:02:44 2014 No.7891861 >want to try several different J-fashions >no money to do so I'd probably look shit in them, anyway.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:03:13 2014 No.7891862 >>7891803 Oh. Looks like there's a similar product in the US, but it's prescription only .-.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:20:50 2014 No.7891898

my sister and i both live at home. shes got a super successful job and always supports me (sometimes financially) with my dumb lolita/cosplay hobbies. lately she's been really stressed after taking a much higher position because most of her dep got fired/quit

i feel so bad for her. she's freaking out completely and she works so fucking hard. i wish i could do something to support her for a change

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:31:35 2014 No.7891914 >>7891898 You do cook her dinner right anon?

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:35:29 2014 No.7891921

>Selling muh weeaboo plushies off
>Selling them as a bundle
>This girl wants to buy just one
>Insists on me meeting up with her so she can buy one for $5
>Messages me whining about how she needs the plushie
>No fucking way I'm taking a subway out to meet you for $5 (2 after subway costs)
fucking weeaboos man

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:38:11 2014 No.7891925 >>7891914 if mom doesnt make anything i do. its a small perk of still living at home i guess

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 00:56:45 2014 No.7891972

>be in community college
>about to graduate
>have really unrealistic dreams of being an actor. Able to get a few acting jobs. Love it.
>Realize I need to work towards a grown up job just in case acting doesn't work out.
>Wants to be a veterinarian, but wouldn't have enough time to act with vet school.
>don't know if I even want an AS or AA because that is the only science degree I want
>Would be far away in the acting world if I tried to pursue veterinary science.
>kind of freaking out

Not only that, but I would be far away from all the cons and friends I have. Thinking of settling for journalism at a closer college so I can try to fulfill my unrealistic dreams.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 01:01:59 2014 No.7891994

>>7891972
m8 both journalism and acting are shit jobs and are completely unreliable. I say this as a journo without a degree, you don't need a degree to be a journalist or get hired as one and it should most definitely not be your primary plan. If you want something that is stable, go for being a vet. I know you shouldn't do jobs you hate just for the sake of making money, but pick jobs that make money which you don't hate so you can have hobbies you absolutely love and spend money on them.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 01:34:41 2014 No.7892079

>>7891994
Journalism is more stable than acting-- I am aware that it's not exactly stable, however. Vet school isn't even a guarantee since it only has about a 50% acceptance rate.

I am just bummed because if I do get into vet school, I am going to be upset because MUH DREAMZ. Won't have time for that shit in school and will be past the age where they are actually looking for new talent.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 01:43:31 2014 No.7892089

>>7892079
There's way too many journalism graduates now, it's an incredibly oversaturated field and they all fight tooth and nail to get some shit-paying little job in my experience. My grandfather and I worked for the same news company by chance, and even at that time (40s, 50s) he quit because it was too unreliable and low-paying.

I would encourage you to please try for vet school and after the entrance exam/interview (don't know how it is in your country) is done concentrate on acting again. While you're preparing for vet school look up acting gigs online that are scheduled for after the exam or interview so you can dive right in as a reward for hard work.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:12:37 2014 No.7892131
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>tfw becoming full hiki
>all the friends I used to party with have moved
>sorta losing contact with several high school friends
>only two friends left that I actively try to meet up with
>best friend is making lots of new friends in the gaming scene
>would like to befriend these people too and hang out in arcades but I'm a shit gamer
>just sorta hang out on the sidelines, it's cool
>have no energy to converse with people in my uni classes, just sit with a group of acquaintances and nod vaguely
>losing motivation for uni alltogether
>losing motivation to even go outside
>local con is this weekend
>had no motivation to finish my cosplay and now I really don't have time this week because assignments
>just recycling last year's mediocre cosplay
>feel like friends aren't too fussed whether I'm there or not
>losing motivation to even go to the con

Maybe I'll just stay home and watch anime

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:33:22 2014 No.7892156 File: 94 KB, 500x667, T1zIYnP.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] So I saw this on my facebook feed and thought it was cute so I liked it. Then I noticed it was my ex who posted it. And now I feel really bad.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:34:55 2014 No.7892161 >>7892156 And you automatically assumed it was about you? Hmmmmm

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:36:04 2014 No.7892162 >>7892161 Well, no, it is just not an appropriate thing for me to like but he has probably seen the notification already so oh well?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:44:06 2014 No.7892180 >>7891682 L-Lysine vitamins will knock that right out for you. It helps repair tissue and shortens canker sores and fever blisters from inside the body. Take with meals.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:57:03 2014 No.7892192

Ordered shoes with bodyline, 2 of them get sent right away, one stays in custom. why ;_; I needed those ones more than the others even for a coord soon. I hope they don't stay in customs long since they don't need to (it's under the import costs value anyway, but they might be suspicious because it was marked down). This is my first time it happened and I'm a little bit paranoid and also irritated because I just want my shoes ._.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 02:59:50 2014 No.7892196

>Started working out recently
>Not really looking to lose weight, just want to develop some muscle tone and give my body a bit more shape
>Not gonna complain if I do lose weight as a side effect though
>Feeling healthier
>Looking better
>Eating regularly again
>Generally all good things
>But then
>Notice that some of my old dresses are getting tight
>This happened a lot when I used to row crew, shit

I wasn't exactly looking to get smaller, but I definitely wasn't looking for bigger. I guess it's not that big of a deal, since the tone makes me look thinner regardless of whether I actually am or not, but it's frustrating that my body automatically reverts to crew-mode whenever I try to exercise, especially since my shoulders are already so broad. My cardio options are pretty limited due to collapsing arches, and I'm not particularly interested in dieting since I barely get enough calories as it is.
>At least the cosplay I was exercising for is a dude with filled-out shoulders
>Sigh

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 03:06:13 2014 No.7892202 >>7892162 That's pretty awkotaco

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 03:12:03 2014 No.7892203
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>tfw sick as a dog and possibly going to miss a tea party that's been in the works for months
>tfw being sick makes your emotions super fucking erratic

I want to cry, but I'm so dehydrated that nothing comes oooout.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 04:11:52 2014 No.7892271 >>7891726 I know this feel! >have been wanting to goth it up for years >cannot resist those adorable ETC pieces on Closet Child I can still incorporate this frilly pink polkadot dress in a gothic coord, yes? And bunnies? Right? No? Fuck.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 04:47:14 2014 No.7892288 >>7892192 My dress has been stuck in customs all week. I'm getting paranoid and annoyed too. What's worse is that a dress I shipped to a buyer might also be stuck. No clue what's going on with Chicago customs.

>>	Voldie !YXLuNAGINI Wed Oct 22 05:19:43 2014 No.7892308 File: 98 KB, 300x224, 6.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Tfw I had to put my cat down yesterday that I've had since I was young Sad feels /cgl/. To keep it related >Too upset to work on costumes/commissions

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 05:25:59 2014 No.7892315

>>7892308
I also lost my childhood cat, who we've had since I was six years old, a few weeks ago. Went into mourning for a few days and just told people it was due to a "loss in the family" because that's basically what it was. Had to skip a meetup but no regrets.
Did yours basically die of old age, too? At least we can be glad they had a nice, long life. It just has to come to an end eventually.

Voldie !YXLuNAGINI Wed Oct 22 05:34:19 2014 No.7892325
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>>7892315
I'm sorry to hear that anon. And no, she was only 11, but she got very depressed when my younger brother went to prep school, and stopped eating. We tried force feeding her and giving her meds and all that but after 3 or so days her liver shut down. The first vet we saw said there wasn't an issue and she was just bummed out, but we had another vet come in when her condition worsened and they said she had liver and pancreas failure, and had almost zero chance of surviving. By the time I trained to my parents place to see her she was in an awful state (didn't move at all, never closed her eyes, stayed in the same place all day) so we called the vet back on Monday when they were open to have them come put her down. It really, really sucked, but I'm glad she isn't in pain any more.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 05:34:54 2014 No.7892326 >>7891723 You can make smoothies with almond and soy milk too, you know. I'm lactose intolerant as well. Plus allergic to sugar and I still have smoothies without both very often. Just think a little outside your bubble, anon.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 05:50:49 2014 No.7892337
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>>7892315
Mine was found dead outside, and she was only 4. I'm out of the country, so it hasn't properly sunk in yet that I'm never going to see her again ever.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 06:51:32 2014 No.7892373 >>7892156 >mfw this is me but without the second panel Ahaha....

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 06:55:07 2014 No.7892375 >>7892315 >>7892325 >>7892337 Holy shit, I teared up a bit reading these. A-anything I can do to help, let me know.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 07:27:30 2014 No.7892396 >>7892156 lel

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 07:29:25 2014 No.7892397 >>7892156 >Using Facebook That's what you get.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 07:42:58 2014 No.7892404

>>7891972
I'm a veterinarian and used to be an (amateur) actor. It won't get too bad till you get to internship (or residence, depending on your country). Then you won't have time to breathe. When you start working, it all depends on the job you land at, hospital, slaughterhouse, etc.

Now I do my acting at cosplay masquerades, though it's not the same thing I kind of get my fix.

On feels:

>Have awesome job at a pound
>Contract is over
>They can't hire me permanently, but they put in my curriculum to be analyzed
>Waiting to know if I'm in or out
>If I'm out I'll have to work at a clinic, which I hate (I hate pet owners and crazy people, so dealing with pets without owners is the best)
>And I won't have time to go to cons
>But if I don't have a job I won't have money for cosplay and expenses

So yeah, fuck

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 07:43:39 2014 No.7892405 > sad cat feels oh god I don't think I could handle my dear cat passing away, I've had her since I was little and right now she's sleeping on my bed like most days.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:09:55 2014 No.7892422 I start my dream job today. I can't believe I actually got it, I'm so happy. Related because I'll finally be able to rebuild my wardrobe, and boy do I need to do that.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:10:30 2014 No.7892424 >>7892422 what is it?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:12:12 2014 No.7892425 >>7892422 Give me money. I need it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:40:53 2014 No.7892446 >>7891436 >adachi >guy who wears a suit all the fucking time >basically you're just you wearing a suit >expecting people to know who you are when all you do is put on a suit. nigga wat

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:47:51 2014 No.7892456

>>7892373
the problem is you think getting a girlfriend will fix your problems

it won't, if anything, if you start a relationship with all those problems present, it'll only make it worse/rub off on her

newsflash; girls like it when a guy's goal in life is more then girls.
the very fact that you're sad about not having a gf screams insecurities; you can't be happy without being validated by someone else

and it's for good reason too, let's say a guy whose goal in life is to get a girl, then he gets a girl, what then? he has no goals left to aspire too, he'll slack off become lazy and that's it.

>b.. but it's not my only goal
the problem is that it is a goal in the first place.
set out to improve your life then find someone to share it with, don't find someone to share your life with for the sake of making it better

pussy is cool, but you never do shit specifically just to get pussy
the pussy smells this behaviour and it does not like the smell.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 08:50:13 2014 No.7892460 >>7892456 I have more important goals than just pussy.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:07:02 2014 No.7892479

>>7892460
I'll just quote myself, specifically, I'll quote the part you seem to have completely ignored:
>b.. but it's not my only goal
the problem is that it is a goal in the first place.
set out to improve your life then find someone to share it with, don't find someone to share your life with for the sake of making it better

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:08:07 2014 No.7892482 >>7891436 Maybe your cosplay sucked ooooorrr you could put some sign to be more recognizable like "bitches and whores" or something

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:11:07 2014 No.7892486 File: 88 KB, 220x200, 1405562669892.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7891557

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:21:15 2014 No.7892496 >>7892315 >>7892325 >>7892337 I have a lil puppy (nearly 1 year) that I got for my depression, I swear thinking about him dying is just horrible. >mfw i just want a world where cats live forever and everything is carebears and cuddles ; _ ;

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:24:26 2014 No.7892505 File: 961 KB, 3264x1836, 1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7892496 My dog is a lovable fluff ball. I don't know what I would do without her.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 09:28:06 2014 No.7892509 >>7892156 >>7892373 >tfw same >tfw I do have a SO but even they can't break through this shit >tfw it's exhausting for them too b-but relationships were supposed to be magical

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:26:35 2014 No.7892569

> need to work on school project
> only have one week to get it done
> con I've been looking forward to for months happens during that weekend
> Waste all time I should spend on the project on finishing my costumes and having fun at the con.
> 'Oh well, I'll start on monday after the con, I'm sure I can finish it in one day'
> can't finish it
> lie to professor that I'm sick and can't do the project because I'm a coward who can't deal with consequences
> Looks like he's on to me, will need to hand him a doctor slip or I'll fail the project
> now wallowing in self-hatred because I'm an idiot who can't get his priorities straight and got in deep trouble because of it.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:38:27 2014 No.7892583

Found a really cute app that is called "burn your fat with me", I hope it's going to help me get motivated and not de-rail my attempt to lose 5-7kg until February.

Also going to ask my doctor for advice on how to exercise with my sensitive limbs, I love being sore after a day of working out but I'm honestly scared of the pain I get sometimes WHILE working out because of my body.

Wish me luck cgl

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:40:01 2014 No.7892587

>>7892583
>Found a really cute app that is called "burn your fat with me", I hope it's going to help me get motivated and not de-rail my attempt to lose 5-7kg until February.
>really cute
Uuuh. That app is basically a dating sim for fat japanese dudes. I hope you're into animu chicks. (Protip, I am into animu chicks and it didn't really do it for me, plus you have to buy a lot of shit to get to actually do anything)

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:41:30 2014 No.7892591 >>7892583 Swimming, maybe? It's a great workout and puts far less strain on the joints than something like jogging does. Of course I'm not your doctor and don't know what your body is like so you're better off listening to them.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:42:50 2014 No.7892594 >>7892456 Can you please tell Brandon this?

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:47:53 2014 No.7892604

>>7892587
I thought it was cute, so I figured why not give it a shot and see how it is.

I'm going to give it a couple of days at least, and if it's true that I have to buy shit for it then I'm deleting it. At least hopefully it will motivate me to get started and work as some kind of reminder, I tend to start on projects and forget about them a few days later.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 10:51:38 2014 No.7892609

>>7892583
I want to make a game where it's a cute animu girl on the screen that encourages you to work out. And she reacts to how well you're doing, and gets sad if you slack off/don't work out for a while. She'd be more proud of you the longer you work out and everything. It would use Kinect/the Sony thing/come with a small camera for PC version.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 11:17:01 2014 No.7892647

>>7892609
make it a VN with a pedometer
3 routes
>easy mode
chubbeh girl that wants to get fit for a love interest, asks you to help.
>normal mode
normal girl with track team aspirations but has a health condition
>hardcore
sporty girl who promises to help you get with her cute friend if you can keep up with her

genderswap dlc

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 11:18:12 2014 No.7892653 >>7892647 That completely ruins my artistic vision. Fug off.

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Wed Oct 22 11:19:30 2014 No.7892654 >>7892609 sounds like a good add-on for that kim kardashian game

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 11:25:47 2014 No.7892663 >>7892609 >>7892647 I think we all can agree that there needs to be more motivation animu work out games despite having different visions I'd play both games tbh

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 11:55:26 2014 No.7892707 >>7892594 Bitch don't you think I've tried? that faggot is on every board

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 12:52:01 2014 No.7892835
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>meet this weekend
>money tied up in cosplay because i thought deadline was end of november
>deadline gets pushed back to spring 2015
>tfw i could have bought lolita stuff this semester instead of cosplay stuff
>tfw I'm going to look so plain jane compared to everyone else at the meet
>tfw afraid of getting posted or critcized

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 12:57:31 2014 No.7892848 >>7892835 we all end up here anyways start to care less

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 13:02:57 2014 No.7892859 >Convention soon >Super hyped, cosplay looks pretty darn great >Remember someone I really truly despise is going to be there >Shit what if they talk to me >Buzz killed

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 13:04:37 2014 No.7892860 >>7892859 Post the cosplay. Also, don't let them asswipes get you down, there's plenty of other people.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 15:10:38 2014 No.7893085

My last convention was in April, and despite being the best convention in my country it was a sad experience. I'd already had many terrible conventions in a row, and when even that failed to be fun to me I decided to stop going to conventions. But now, I want to go to the convention that is this weekend. I'll tell myself that it is for the panels, because I have no cosplay friends, but I'm starting to look at an old, shitty cosplay to see if I can make some improvements. There's also a couple of small events next weekend, that I want to go to. Ugh, I probably have a terrible reputation in the cosplay community.

I always go alone to cons, and am alone much of the time, and I know this time will be no exception. But still, I am a little bit excited about going to a convention and cosplay.

I know it'll be a terrible experience.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 15:20:27 2014 No.7893107 >no one ever redponds to my help requests. >friends are useless

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 15:58:46 2014 No.7893185

>has no talent for anything
>at the most, all right at general desktop support, good at editing, decent at crafty things that don't involve drawing, good at video games (but lmao like i'll ever get a job related to playing them right)
>mfw i'll likely only be able to get some low-paying job that won't even involve any of these things, particularly the first option because there's no IT positions available here and i've been looking for months

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 16:00:55 2014 No.7893192 >7893185 again >and to keep this cgl related, wants job for money obviously, but especially for lolita and cosplay >job searching is suffering

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 16:42:41 2014 No.7893275

>>7893185

Look into contract video game testing, anon. You don't need experience or a degree, just common sense, maturity, the ability to pick up and learn new devices and programs they want you to use for writing bugs and stuff, and some basic common knowledge about video games to begin with that you probably already have. It is a good stepping stone to getting job experience, a steady pay check, and maybe you can work your way to becoming a full time employee, maybe move into IT from there.

>experience: did the same thing

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 17:23:19 2014 No.7893401 >>7891921 what plushies are you selling, anon?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 17:53:56 2014 No.7893505 File: 116 KB, 250x179, happytears.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7890782 >Mfw I show off my new Baby skirt to my fiance and he just smiles really big and says it's beautiful.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:10:38 2014 No.7893547

>give dear lanore a try since I need to replace some gold shoes of mine, but I have no real deadline
>and I mean customer service has to go up at least temporarily after that blow up, right?
>communication really good in the begining, answer all of my queations
>said will take 15 business days, cool.
>give them a few extra days, then pm asking for my tracking
>no response 3 days
>say if I do not get a responce in 48 hours I will open a paypal claim
>responds within the hour saying I will get my tracking number by Saturday
>it is tues so whaever
>Saturday comes and goes, no tracking.
>pm them again on Tuesday, kindly asking for my tracking
>no response
>give them 48 hours to respond again
I bought a pair of shoes, and as a special gift I got a fucking headake.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:13:50 2014 No.7893557 >>7893547 FILE A CLAIM I don't understand why you would order from Dear Lenore knowing they suck, but at this point it's claim time.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:17:21 2014 No.7893568 >>7892089 >40s, 50s holy shit anon how old are you??

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:17:25 2014 No.7893569 >>7893505 Congrats on snagging a man of your own, Anon.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:19:52 2014 No.7893576 >>7893557 I'm well within the 45 days though, I won't start one till they break this deadline I gave them or if it was close to that, but yeah If they have an excuse or no don't reapond it is claim time.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:24:48 2014 No.7893593 >>7893568 21 I don't mean we worked at the same time, obviously, he retired well before I began, but he told me a lot about it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:25:13 2014 No.7893596 >>7892424 I'm doing scheduling for a shipping company. I have my own office and everything, it's beautiful >>7892425 I will if you're selling things I want

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:28:59 2014 No.7893608 >>7890972 >using greentext wrong My newfag detector is off the charts. Also, ebin maymay bro!! :^)

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:29:07 2014 No.7893609 >>7893596 I can sell you a nice dicking! :^)

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:29:07 2014 No.7893610 >>7893593 oh my god for a second i thought you meant you were in the same company at the same time

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:30:02 2014 No.7893615 >>7893608 how are they using it wrong though

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:32:45 2014 No.7893624 >>7893609 O bby Not unless you include some sweet sweet burando

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:34:41 2014 No.7893635 >>7893624 I have no idea what that is, but if it gets me paid for fucking you vigorously, deal!

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 18:42:02 2014 No.7893666

>>7891496
Not your fault, you and/or the buyer could even get in trouble if you'd lied. Yes, customs can suck, but if the buyer lives in another country and buys from you, they should know better.
I was SO annoyed at two women (keep in mind I said women, not girls, the younger one was at least in her twenties) at the costums office who tried to pick up a statue or something from Japan. "Blablablublu we didn't realize it was gonna be SO expensive, why do we have to pay fees, we already paid for the product!" In the end, they decided they'd send it BACK. Well I'm sure the seller will be delighted.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 19:06:25 2014 No.7893739

>>7892456
Anon I'm going to screenshot your wise words so they are forever immortalized.

Though to be fair to most of these guys they have been groomed from birth to think that their value is directly tied to how many girls they get with and how pretty. Because most of them are young and stupid i cant blame them yet for not being able to see past all that brainwashing.

Thank you for your post and i hope that the guys who need to read it see it and understand eventually.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 19:59:54 2014 No.7893921 File: 382 KB, 250x226, 1413269703215.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >mrw my dress finally gets out of US customs after 8 days there Oh man, I was afraid it would be stuck there another week if not more.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 20:11:23 2014 No.7893954 The sudden influx of males coming here and exclaiming what they'll do to this and that with their dicks, and voicing their shit opinions while turning every thread into a discussion about cosplay sex, is quite unnerving.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 20:19:34 2014 No.7893981
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Did a buy it now on Lacemarket super early in the morning on the 16th. Got a congratulations from the seller and that's it. Haven't heard from them since. I just want my shirt already but I feel like I'm just being impatient.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 20:21:01 2014 No.7893990 File: 106 KB, 500x558, 1390593000417.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7893666 who you tryna fool satan

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 20:52:27 2014 No.7894064 >>7893981 Did they at least send you an invoice? If they haven't, it's been long enough and you need to send them a message.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:00:29 2014 No.7894092

>>7892456
>and it's for good reason too, let's say a guy whose goal in life is to get a girl, then he gets a girl, what then? he has no goals left to aspire too, he'll slack off become lazy and that's it.

What if their goal is to buy a home, settle down and raise a family, anon? At some point, even if they managed to buy a home by themselves they will reach a stage where finding a girl to share it all with is the main goal as it's a roadblock to all future goals.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:03:59 2014 No.7894105 >>7892337 >letting your cat outside and you didnt see this coming?

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:11:32 2014 No.7894121
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>>7892456
This. I've been on both ends of this spectrum. I was kind of on the receiving end of a relationship like this. I was the "her". It was exhausting and it got to the point where I'd pretend I was sick just so I didn't have to hang out with him. Everyone told me that he vastly improved when he was with me, but I was honestly miserable. A person's issues are a lot to shoulder and can be very exhausting, ESPECIALLY if they're not willing to shoulder your problems. In my current relationship I'm the top panel and quite frankly, while my boyfriend can temporarily help me forget about my anxieties, they still come back. Any time I reach some milestone or something that I think will make me feel better (eg: I'll stop being anxious when I go out with him, I'll stop being anxious when we make our relationship "official", I'll stop being anxious when we have sex, etc.), I quickly find something else to feel like shit about. I'm aware of my issues and I deal with them on my own. While I talk to him about them and get reassurance, I'm not going to him for everything.

Idk, the point is that people aren't fucking band-aids. A relationship might help you deal with problems but they sure as hell won't make 'em go away. People, face it, if somebody likes you they'll be happy to help you with your problems but nobody wants to be your fuckin manic pixie dreamgirl and exist for the sole purpose of making you feel better.

Sorry for the rant, this is just something I've experienced a lot of bluh.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:16:57 2014 No.7894135 >>7894105 holy shit you are one turbo bitch there is a line and you've clearly passed it edgelord.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:20:55 2014 No.7894144 File: 88 KB, 720x720, 1324918859158.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >boy i like read my text but hasnt responded been over an hour f u c k

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:23:09 2014 No.7894148 File: 81 KB, 462x640, 1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894121 >girls get anxious about relationships This actually happens?

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:24:47 2014 No.7894151 [DELETED]

>>7894144
hey Its been 4 days.
I sent a "wtf bruh" type message
and he said "sorry I picked up a double shift at work, so I don't have much time anymore, It ends in two weeks"

I scolded him for not telling me (I had a fucking heart attack as you can see early in the threads)

and wished him luck, that insane bastard

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:25:20 2014 No.7894152 >>7894148 Aren't you that guy that wants to get chained up and fucked while dressed like a little girl

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:26:42 2014 No.7894155 >>7893547 You're an idiot.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:29:21 2014 No.7894159

>>7894144
hey for me Its been 4 days.
I sent a "wtf bruh" type message to him
and he said "sorry I picked up a double shift at work, so I don't have much time anymore, It ends in two weeks"

I scolded him for not telling me (I had a fucking heart attack as you can see early in the threads)

and wished him luck, that insane bastard

I'm still really irritated. best of luck to you

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:30:27 2014 No.7894164 >>7894064 Yeah, they sent the invoice the same time they sent the only message. I paid it immediately. I'm just too used to speedy sellers I guess.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:34:16 2014 No.7894170 >>7894144 It's been a month with a week between texts for me. Dating sucks. I want to go back to before I knew what kissing and touching felt like.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:35:35 2014 No.7894175 >>7894152 Yes. All night long :^)

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:39:18 2014 No.7894183 >>7894144 >>7894159 >>7894170 Jeez, why do people do this? I talk to the person I like as much as I can.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:41:58 2014 No.7894188 >>7894183 Because of the whole treat em mean keep em keen mentality.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:44:59 2014 No.7894196

>>7894183
She's supposed busy and much as I believe her I'm annoyed that she can't be assed to send me a text more than once a week. I probably deserve it though, since I'm one those people with intimacy issues and over enthusiasm totally turns me off. Gotta admit I've never wanted her more than since she started ignoring me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 21:46:47 2014 No.7894199 >>7894188 Well that's retarded. I like sexy and cutesy shit.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:01:28 2014 No.7894233 >>7894199 But it works anon, see>>7894196

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:07:09 2014 No.7894244 >>7894233 Keep in mind that I have serious intimacy/trust issues and if I didn't actually have reason to believe her I would ended that shit as fast as it started. A month of playing hard to get is just crazy.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:08:50 2014 No.7894248 >>7894092 What happens when he's bought a home, married a wife, and had kids? Are the kids his life after that?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:16:34 2014 No.7894264 That feel when no girlfriend

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:18:56 2014 No.7894267 >>7894248 Securing a future for his children with a stable job and make sure they don't fuck up and end up shitposting on 4chan, keeping the wife happy, other old people goals

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:20:24 2014 No.7894269 >>7894264 Fuck all these other feels. This is the feel right here that transcends feels. If it wasn't for all of us feeling about no gf, you wouldn't even have feels to begin with.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:25:19 2014 No.7894278 >>7894248 >Are the kids his life after that? Clearly you haven't had kids

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:25:47 2014 No.7894281 >>7894264 >you and roomie start seeing girls right around same time >she's now in a relationship while I'm single and alone yet again Where can I sign up for my cat lady card

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:26:54 2014 No.7894283 >>7894281 >lesbians

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:28:31 2014 No.7894287 >>7894264 That feel when broke up with girlfriend because she became fat and got an upgrade

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:35:07 2014 No.7894310

>>7894278
You haven't either, where I'm from the parents take care of you for 18 years then you're on your own, and even when they did take care of me, the most they did was feed and dress me and spend the rest on opera tickets and stuff for themselves.
You aren't necessarily your parents' life, sorry to say. Important to them yes, but not to a point of them giving everything in their life just to please you.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:44:15 2014 No.7894330

>>7894310
I have no doubt that you're omitting plenty of things that your parents did for you growing up.

And while parents may not give everything just to please a child, especially if they're bratty they will most certainly love them unconditionally and do whatever they can to protect and help them growing up. It's their goal to see you succeed after all.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:50:46 2014 No.7894350

>>7894330
As long as one of the children is a success, the others don't need to be and definitely aren't pushed to be anything. Not blaming this on my parents but I didn't finish high school and they absolutely couldn't give less of a fuck because they already have a son who is successful.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:51:59 2014 No.7894355
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>>7892308
>>7892315
Awww I feel you guys. My sweet little man passed away a couple weeks ago. I got him when I was six years old and we were best buds for 17 years. I miss him so much. I was working on a dress when he started going downhill and haven't picked it up since

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:52:12 2014 No.7894357
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>tfw knowing crush likes stereotypical 'moe' girl characters
>has already told me I look especially cute in cosplay
>tfw considering picking the most cliched outfits to the next con see if I can figure out his fetish
Might as well put all these maid, idol, magical girl and schoolgirl cosplays to good use.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:53:08 2014 No.7894360 >>7894287 she dodged a bullet

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 22:58:29 2014 No.7894372 >>7894360 Hell yeah. I'm glad for anon's ex.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:02:54 2014 No.7894374 File: 428 KB, 250x266, 1414.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7890782 >Tfw you recently got an AP blouse and a BTSSB skirt for $80. Total. And they aren't hideous/damaged in any way.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:05:17 2014 No.7894381 >>7894360 >>7894372 Why would anon want to dat a fat girl? He did the best thing when his ex turned into an ambulocetus.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:09:39 2014 No.7894385 >>7894381 And then she dumped him for an upgrade. Did you even read his post? He openly admits his ex's new bf is better than him.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:10:47 2014 No.7894387 >>7894385 >she got not she dumped* I'm dumb, my bad.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:11:06 2014 No.7894388 >>7894385 No guy who dates fat girls is an upgrade in any way. He's just wrong.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:13:14 2014 No.7894392 >>7894388 >tfw fit as fuck >tfw chubby chaser Fuck off you low test beta male

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:14:22 2014 No.7894394 >>7894388 He's a lot better than most of the guys here. Probably more attractive, too. Sorry that girls don't like you.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:16:21 2014 No.7894399 >>7894372 >>7894360 It will never be a woman's fault. Never.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:18:00 2014 No.7894404

>>7894392
See, this is exactly my point. Most of those chubby chasers are these self-proclaimed high test males, such as this one here. They think having high test is a reason for them to rationalize why they like landwhales instead of thinking they're mentally defected.

See, if you couldn't tell the most important thing to him to prove he is better than another man is that he's fit. That's his number one most important quality and why he is better. Just a coping mechanism instead of realizing he's actually mentally defunct.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:18:38 2014 No.7894405

>>7894399
You sound like a sarcastic beta. Not sure if that's what you were going for...? But at any rate, it's just as bad if a woman dumps a man for something superficial like that. You can't control who you're attracted to, sure, and if you genuinely don't feel attracted to the other person anymore, that's okay. Just know that you made a dick move and don't be a whiny little baby when they move onto someone better than you.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:20:42 2014 No.7894408 >>7894399 1. He let her get fat 2. He could have said something and stopped her from getting fatter 3. He could have helped her lose weight if he wasn't a lazy out of shape fuck himself 4. He could have fucked the fat off of her

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:22:44 2014 No.7894410

>>7894405
She got fat, that's not attractive, physically or mentally. Maybe if she was vocalizing efforts to get better then he might have a reason to stick around but she didn't. When a man gets fat and a girl dumps him it's all "you go girl."

>>7894408
>Women will never accept responsiblity

I feel like Bill Burr at this point. I just want one woman once, once in her entire life, to admit that she is wholly and completely responsible for her own life choices, and that she made a wrong choice.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:25:18 2014 No.7894416 >>7894183 I don't know. he's already won me over, if he texted back more I'd call him and ask him out.. but he's always busy..

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:26:54 2014 No.7894419 >>7894183 'Cause it keeps girls on your dick if you play it right.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:31:41 2014 No.7894422 >>7894385 >>7894388 Guys, you're completely misreading his post.Due to shit tier grammar but still >That feel when (I) Broke up with (my) girlfriend because she became fat(,) and got an upgrade. He upgraded after his initial gf got fat.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:32:04 2014 No.7894425 >>7894374 what blouse and skirt?

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:32:12 2014 No.7894426

>>7894404
Chubby =\= landwhale

Don't be mad cause your low test gives you an attraction to fucking holocaust survivors

Nothing wrong with showing off my masculinity to put betas like you in your place

This is why you don't get women and instead complain in a feels thread composed of mostly women about how much you hate them and how horrible your life is lmao

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:33:07 2014 No.7894429 >>7894357 >moe >picking loli characters Anon. Learn your archetypes first.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:34:10 2014 No.7894430 >>7894350 It's really just the first child they care about. I graduate HS, but I work a dead end job living at home, and my parents don't give a shit what my two younger sisters do.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:36:18 2014 No.7894433 >>7894183 IDK anon if the guy I'm dating just ignored me for days, I'd kick his ass.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:37:52 2014 No.7894435 >>7894429 Dang. Teach me, or at least what should I google. Overall point is that I know he likes little anime girls and I want to find out his exact taste.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:42:02 2014 No.7894439

>>7894435
no you were right anon's just retarded, loli characters do a lot of moe stuff.

>>7894433
it seems these anons are crushing on others and are getting this treatment from their crushes. but yeah, if my SO did that while we were dating I would kick their ass. why do people do this to others they're interested in?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:48:01 2014 No.7894445 >>7894422 Not the same anon you're talking about but this happened to me too recently. its a good feel.

Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:49:23 2014 No.7894449
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>>7894430
>mfw you're right
holy shit he is the firstborn
and he even has legit autism
but they bought him an apartment while they are asking me to pay rent for living in one of the apartments they own (that's right, several)
they pay for his food and medical bills while I have to save up to see a doctor and grovel and apologise if I even DARE to ask them to borrow money for a dentist
And I'm 21 while he's 25

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:50:07 2014 No.7894451 >>7894426 Yeah, but if you read my posts I never said anything about how I hate women. That high test thing is just like penis inspection day.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:58:31 2014 No.7894468 >ldr boyfriend hasn't messaged in a while >prob busy with job and health issues were planning on meeting up at a con next year, but i don't even know now :c

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 22 23:59:32 2014 No.7894471 >>7894430 or it goes the otherway, like they're super hard on firstborn and expect the world from them, while letting younger siblings off the hook.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:00:14 2014 No.7894475 >post in several different help threads >no one responds >feel lost >guess I'll just get one of those shitty quality $100 pre-made costumes...

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:01:46 2014 No.7894480
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>>7890782
Some good feels
>be me
>be 12
>first con
>first cosplay
>recipe for disaster
>handmade cosplay
>I was aware that it looked like shit
>disappointed because a lot of people from the same fandom had way better costumes
>be in dealers room
>chicks with cameras walk up
>ask for me and friend's photo
>so overjoyed that someone wanted a pic
>seriously even teared up
They're why I was encouraged to cosplay more after that.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:03:44 2014 No.7894484

>>7894350
>>7894430
>>7894449
>White Parents

Literally the worst kind of parents, don't care about their kids. My Dad is from South America, my Mom was born in the US and traveled around the world with her mom and dad because of Military enlistment. My Dad was able to secure a future as a Government employee and managed to support 7 children and put them all through college. My parents divorced a couple of years back, Dad keeps house, Mom gets half of everything (At least $200k just from the house). When my siblings ask my mother for money to help pay for college since Dad can't do it all, she says that she's barely scraping by. Fuck, White People.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:07:00 2014 No.7894485 >>7894475 Whats your question nigger? Im all liquored up tonight with Magic Cossack Juice. I can feel the ingnuity of Kalashnikov himself coursing through my veins.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:08:34 2014 No.7894489

>>7894485
I want to cosplay as Brief, and I'm trying to figure out how to start. A lot of cosplays online say they used flight suits which I might try and do that, but I'm not sure where I'd get a green belt and a good wig. I actually have no idea where people get good wigs, and I don't know how to commission anything either.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:08:58 2014 No.7894490 >>7894484 i know dozens of decent and wonderful white parents, including my own.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:09:10 2014 No.7894491

>>7892196
Maybe you need to eat more or take green tea pills. It happens. If you eat too little (under 1200 calories) your body rebounds. You actually shouldn't be gaining weight if you're eating at a reasonable deficit and exercising, have you logged your calories?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:15:06 2014 No.7894501 File: 86 KB, 250x346, boxer briefs.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894489 Is it this guy?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:16:10 2014 No.7894502 File: 37 KB, 90x90, tumblr_inline_n27y7cX5Yp1qid2nw.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] tfw when you're hanging out with someone new and it turns out they're a fellow seagull! You were so cute!!

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:21:47 2014 No.7894510 >>7894480 >tfw purposefully go out of my way to take pictures of people not getting a lot of attention with not that great or obscure costumes Your feels are why it feels good man

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:22:09 2014 No.7894511 >>7894484 >being a racist fuckwad good job Miguel, now fuck off back to your banana tree

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:22:43 2014 No.7894512

>>7894484
I agree with you. My parents aren't shitlords and want all of us to succeed. 2/3 of us are already successful with the first child being the fuck up. They still haven't given up on him. I want to give the same love to my children and see them all succeed as well. Asian parents btw.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:31:20 2014 No.7894529 File: 135 KB, 538x436, artist 3.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894511 >Accusing someone of being racist and then saying something racist Lol

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:32:10 2014 No.7894531 >>7894529 thatsthejoke.jpg

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:33:13 2014 No.7894532 >>7894501 Yes. That's him.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:34:40 2014 No.7894535 File: 33 KB, 640x480, my time on 4chan.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894531 >I was only pretending to be retarded.jpg FTFY

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:36:53 2014 No.7894539

>>7894422
Thanks for clarifying my grammar errors; I was in a rush and had to go buy something.
>>7894445
It's an awesome feeling when you get into a new relationship with a person you're actually sexually attracted to. It's best for the both of us. I get a more attractive girlfriend, she finds a less superficial boyfriend-- everybody is happy.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:37:10 2014 No.7894540 >>7894535 sure, w/e doesn't change the fact that you're a racist fuck who assumes repeating "lol silly white ppl" is going to make your race look better

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:41:00 2014 No.7894550 >>7894540 k Still doesn't change the fact that most white parents don't give two shits about their children once they reach 18 years old.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:43:32 2014 No.7894554 >>7894550 >most lel I'm sure that's why about half of europe is stereotyped as momma's boys and having several generations live in the same house is not that uncommon

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:43:55 2014 No.7894556 >>7894550 Only people disagreeing with you are poor saps who's parents wouldn't care if they died. That's why they have so many issues as you can see in this thread.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:47:08 2014 No.7894563
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>>7894532
Looking at the character, Hwo much do you want the style to be like his? Do you want to just get some green cargo pants with a belt, a green hoodie, or do you want to hand make the costume? The patches can either be made, or you're bound to find something similar online, buttons are also easy to make, buy a button maker or something. Headphones can be made by taking some old headphones and changing the ear pieces. Backpack is going to be a challenge, what's your budget and skills?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:49:09 2014 No.7894568 >>7894550 proof?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:50:33 2014 No.7894573 >>7894468 Have you been trying to contact him? It is strange not to at least get a message. >been in an ldr for 5 years (school and family health are current priorities) and never go a day without contact

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:51:29 2014 No.7894576 >>7894568 This thread

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:52:01 2014 No.7894579 >>7894144 >>7894159 >>7894170 we should all be in a support group together I want to talk and hear about your relationship feels and share spaghetti is that weird?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:53:01 2014 No.7894582 >>7894576 im hoping youre trolling because a thread in a board of 4chan is some pretty unreliable and shitty proof 1/10?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 00:56:36 2014 No.7894593 >>7894568 Your parents.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 01:05:16 2014 No.7894611 >tfw almost every post these days has me thinking "gee, what a retard" What happened to you /cgl/ >inb4 /cgl/ was never good >inb4 can't inb4 your own post

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 01:13:05 2014 No.7894618 >>7894611 This board needs less penises. Men thing everything.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 01:14:58 2014 No.7894619 >>7894611 This board needs less penises. Men ruin everything.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 01:29:01 2014 No.7894633 Sometimes I wonder if my development got messed up somewhere along the way...I still live at home, I cal my parents mommy and daddy, and I still want my dad to tuck me in at night... >also a sweet lolita >maybe the stereotypes are true

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:10:53 2014 No.7894751 >>7894573 i'm usually the one to message first, but lately it's been responses to the effect of "oh, how are you doing? well, i hope." and similar stuff

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:32:21 2014 No.7894766
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>>7891448
damn these feels are so close to the ones I had over the summer
>also trying to romance a guy I like on other side of country, also saving money for transportation to visit him
>ask multiple times if its cool that I stay with him, he says yes
>save money for a month, watch cute lolita stuff I want get bought by others but it's gonna be so worth it right?
>save up enough money, tell him the dates I was gonna come down
>he responds with something like "why are you telling me this", blows me off
>heartbroken, spend 500 dollars at APUSA

I guess he didn't actually blow me off. He meant "why are you telling me this" like "why are you asking me if the times are okay, because I live here so of course it'd be okay". Oops.

>still working on this guy just fucking go out with me already god damnit

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:32:23 2014 No.7894767

>>7894148
didn't you hear? they've conducted several experiments on women in the 50's, the results are rather shocking and have been kept silent from the public but rumors have it scientists came to the conclusion that females were humans all along.

Or are you one of those faggots who assumes women are above human behaviour? I bet you have a oneitis you sing songs of prayer too before you go to sleep who is mediocre at best with a boring shit personality but hey she was nice to you once.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:34:21 2014 No.7894769 >>7894766 you are the female equivalent of that guy who complains about the friendzone while being nice to a girl without ever making a move ever

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:37:03 2014 No.7894773 >>7894766 assuming you don't cross the country to meet him, how would you date? I ask because "go out with me" would be kinda hard from so far away.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:38:21 2014 No.7894775 File: 37 KB, 612x414, 1373825318982.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894769 eh, I'll allow it

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:40:05 2014 No.7894779 >>7894773 it's called a LDR for a reason? Also we both travel a lot so it'd be possible to see eachother often-ish

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:43:44 2014 No.7894783

>>7894769
I think the reason why nobody cares if girls complain about this same issue is that the human race's survival used to be directly tied to women acting entitled to whatever they wanted including but not limited to a preferred mate.

Of course humanity has moved on past that and the idea is horribly outdated but society still teaches girls from a young age that its ok to think that way.

Or i could be over thinking it. Im sure our anon friend here understands that she cant control anybody's feelings and is just venting frustrations. This is after all the feels thread

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:53:19 2014 No.7894790

>>7894491
I usually hit somewhere between 1200-1500, slightly more recently since I've been hungry (I don't hardcore count, but I look at nutrition facts on things I eat frequently). Old ED issues + current brain pill side effects mean I don't register hunger most of the time, so it's weird.
I also only eat once or (infrequently) twice a day, so maybe that affects things? I'm thinking about bringing some peanut butter and a roll to class with me so I can snack on something before I go to my workout class without like eating my whole dinner.
Would drinking actual green tea help as much as the pills? I do really like green tea so any excuse to drink more of it would be nice. (And I'd like to avoid supplements if I can because they're so inconsistent.)

But like I mentioned, I don't wanna go super hardcore. At my thinnest in high school I was approximately a size 3 pant and if I get any thinner than that I start looking freaky (big ribcage, even now my bottom ribs stick out and if I raise my arms the bottom 3 are visible). I'm a 5 now, I'd just like a nice waist tuck and some arm definition and then call it a day, not whatever haywire shit is happening right now.

>>7894510
God bless people like you. I did a sort of obscure (and tbh kind of shitty but not too bad as a first cosplay) costume my first time at a convention and if it hadn't been for the encouraging comments and few pictures I got I might have dropped it right then.
>Made my friend's costume for her
>Two girls walking by gasped and said 'She looks like a princess' in these awed voices
>I will never forget you, mystery Fanime girls

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 03:54:06 2014 No.7894791 >>7894783 What history book have you been reading where women were allowed to choose whom to marry and procreate with?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 04:02:30 2014 No.7894797 >>7894766 do you wanna be friends?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 04:10:29 2014 No.7894809 File: 121 KB, 1280x720, Nichijou399.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894797 yes

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 04:14:02 2014 No.7894810 >>7894809 you've melted my heart already that's my favorite nichijou picture. lets talk about boys and email eachother what's your email

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 04:17:53 2014 No.7894813 My mother passed away on tuesday.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 04:25:06 2014 No.7894819 File: 93 KB, 300x300, 1378961605263.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894810 i pride myself on my nichijou reaction image collection nichijoutan@gmail.com

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:14:47 2014 No.7894844 >>7894813 im sorry for your loss anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:14:57 2014 No.7894845 >>7894813 I'm sorry anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:15:49 2014 No.7894847 >>7894783 I just wanted to point it out because I hear a lot of 'friendzone doesn't exist!' It does exist and people put themselves in it by doing shit like this

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:19:44 2014 No.7894852 >>7894813 It won't always be as bad as it is now.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:21:50 2014 No.7894855

>>7892456
here

>>7894092
If you're thinking about settling down and having children soon before you even have a GF is like thinking of flying a spaceship to mars soon without even having a drivers license.

Your plans for the future are not your goals anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:25:25 2014 No.7894858 >>7893608 Call the 4chan police! What if it's a spy from our arch enemy, reddit?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:29:05 2014 No.7894860 File: 9 KB, 180x180, None of life's strings can last.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7894813 All Things Must Pass

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:34:37 2014 No.7894863

>>7894847
"friend zone" is a mislabel. It used to mean being in the unfortunate situation of only being someones friend and not a love interest WITH the important realization/acceptance of the fact the other person has their own feelings, will, standards. Ultimately resulting in a term that got the idea across that "yeah it sucks I'm just their friend but what can you do? ill move eventually/soon"

However nowadays its a term guys use when a girl doesn't want to date/fuck you and WITHOUT the above realization.

The current stigma around the term "friendzone" comes from the stupid assumption that you have control over whether or not a relationship will happen with another person. Whether or not they will like you is dependent on them. Your statement that "people could put themselves in it" implies that they could get in a relationship by lying or hiding things about them self. While that is technically true it would be a shallow relationship that would not last because the other person will find out things they wouldn't like.

If you're saying that it technically exists then sure. But its really just an unpleasant part of relationships that people don't want to have to deal with. So they externalize their faults/problems and gave a new scummier meaning to "friendzone."

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:40:46 2014 No.7894867

>>7894863
cont.

For both guys and girls i wish people would just own up to their problems, improve, and stop blaming others/other things on their faults. its easy but its horrible for you in the long run.

For you anons complaining about being single stop caring so damn much, be the best you that you can be, accept it when others may not find that you to their tastes and see >>7892456

I know we're on 4 chan and aren't the most well adjusted folks but goddamn this basic shit here.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:40:48 2014 No.7894868 >>7894484 Where did you even get the idea that any of these anons are white?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:45:57 2014 No.7894871 >>7894813 I'm sorry for your loss

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 05:50:35 2014 No.7894875

>>7894863
>>7894867
I don't understand why these guys don't use the term "unrequited love" or even "unrequited attraction". Is it because "friendzoning" sounds more deliberate, allowing them to bitch about the horrible women who dare to do this to them? It feels especially stupid to me because the one time I was accused to "friendzoning" a someone, this was a guy I absolutely did not consider a friend at all but rather a somewhat annoying acquaintance I sometimes had polite small talk with when I was stuck next to him during class.
Also fuck those people who think women never experience unrequited attraction. It's a universal phenomenon in human socialization and it sucks for everyone. Deal with it.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:06:13 2014 No.7894882

>>7894875
back in the day when it was just unrequited love, guys still bitched about women who dared to do it to them (though not as much) The words used to describe the phenomenon don't matter.

It is indeed stupid and frustrating. Its just people externalizing their problem rather than facing it because its easier to be angry rather than own up to things and improve/change. This is a lot like how hating someone is easier than forgiveness and understanding.

The butthurt comes from feelings of entitlement to romantic and sexual partners. That entitlement comes from years of conditioning starting at birth telling us all we deserve some 10/10 partner and without them we're nothing. For guys its especially worse because they are told from birth verbally and non verbally that their worth as a person is directly tied to how many women they get and how pretty. So they overdo things and become as masculine as possible so they can hope to be needed or wanted by a woman.

Anime makes it especially worse with all its harem shit and blatantly pandering wish fulfillment for BOTH sexes.

I have a love hate relationship with anime and manga. Its entertaining and fun but its turning people across the world into objectifying and simplistic idiots.

My jimmies are really rustled.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:15:35 2014 No.7894888 >>7894563 Skills are very low, looking to spend $150 or less.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:22:58 2014 No.7894891

>>7894882
Cont.

It makes me sad that I can only really post what i just did here on this board. You ladies of /cgl/ have been objectified several times over so you know what I'm talking about.

I used to be kind of guy who did exactly what I've been posting about. Its the fault of guys (and a few girls) like us that the dating game even exists and is so damn hard.

I used to like this girl but she was lusted after by so many guys and all of them only saw her as the girl of their dreams. Not caring about her really but just how good she'd make him look. She couldn't tell the difference anymore. She couldn't tell which guys were fine and which were scumbags. Then latter on i realized i wasn't any different. So I'm actually glad i never became her boyfriend. I would have just made things worse. I understood finally that behavior like this was just hurting everyone so i made it a life goal to change and respect people's wills.

Even though I'm a guy and single I'm so sick and tired of hearing
>tfw no gf
>tfw no bf

Those are my feels. I'm sorry for the rant /cgl/

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:24:41 2014 No.7894892 >>7894891 That was the most bleeding heart thing I've ever heard.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:32:54 2014 No.7894895 >>7894892 Yeah and i realize my words wont change anything. Recent events in my life have all been related to what I've been talking about and this thread finally set me off. So i finally decided to just let the feels out. Sorry

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:46:58 2014 No.7894901

>>7894863
It's a mislabel yes, that's what I'm trying to say.
The 'friendzone' is what insecure people call the zone they place themselves in so they can tell themselves the problem isn't them, but their love interest.

The 'friendzone' is a skewed up fucked up coping mechanism for these people because thanks to the friendzone existing, they don't have to question their own frail selfworth and social ineptitude

It's not based on gender, it's based on insecurity.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 06:55:20 2014 No.7894904
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>>7894901
here again

>>7894863
>>7894867
I'm the same guy

I'll try to explain with a story; The friendzone is something you place yourself in, by being overly friendly and not being clear in your intentions.

Let's say we have beth and billy
billy has liked beth for 6 months, billy has always been nice, but that's about it. He hasn't tried to be flirty, hasn't tried asking her out, hasn't tried teasing her in a friendly way. All he did was being nice, something he does to his grandmother as well, hopefully with different motives, but the same anyhow.

Now beth has known this friendly guy for 6 months and she likes him too, maybe she liked him but after 6 months he hasn't made a single move, maybe he doesn't like her? otherwise he'd have done something by now. Oh well, I'm not going to approach him.

And bam, just like that Billy and Beth are in eachothers 'friendzones' because they're too scared to step out of their own comfort zone and are now doomed to an eternal life of awkwardness of questioning why one doesn't like the other while they do, all because neither has the balls to step out of their own comfort zone.

This is how I vieuw the 'friend zone' as the 'victim's' own comfort zone.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 07:05:07 2014 No.7894913

>>7894863

Your statement on relationships has an underlying assumption that potential partners are given deep and thoughtful consideration. My experience is that human interaction is much shallower.

Furthermore you presume that we have a core identity that is static. In reality we are constantly changing as we experience life and even change the way we behave in different situations with different dynamics.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 07:19:13 2014 No.7894921

>>7894904

I would say there is a little more to it than that. I meet alot of girls on the dance floor. I hit it off with a lot of them because I'm a good dancer and I can make them feel like they can dance too. There is nervousness, intimacy, and excitement in our first meeting. I almost never have a better opportunity than when we get off the dance floor. I've made some really close personal connections with girls when talking to them immediately afterwards.

Sometimes I don't have a chance to speak with them and occasionally I run into them later. They remember I can dance well but it's like the interest you have for someone who can do a task really well, the energy from the moment is gone.

Timing matters, sometimes the friendzone is the difference between acting when you really have a chance to shine and backing off because it feels safe and comfortable.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 07:25:42 2014 No.7894926

>>7894904
This post has it dead on correct. I would like to clarify that the term can be used by both genders and agree its about insecurity.

>>7894904
However this post talks about something different altogether. The story you explain here is what the "friendzone" originally was but then people started using the term for something else. No arguments here i think you're right and I its unfortunate that we don't have two separate terms.

>>7894913
Ok well in my experience people's core identities aren't static but they change too slowly and with too much effort (most of the time). That's why i believe potential partners should be given thoughtful consideration. If you may potentially spend your life with a person I believe you should find at least some compatibility. This is a belief though, and i fully admit that the worth a person gets from a relationship is relative to them self and not meant not be measured by my standards. So ok a shallow relationship is cool too and i guess one could indeed just change the way they act so that they can get with someone. That would then validate the idea of being in the friendzone as one's own fault and then make it true that its up to the suitor and not the potential love interest.

I'm just not in for that. Given how many times you see people here complaining about how their SO is a dick or how some girl ended up being crazy right after they made her their gf i dont think many would want a shallow relationship.

Maybe I'm unlucky for just having met shit people who don't change for the better in any amount of time I'm willing to deem acceptable

also just for the sake of identification im not
>>7894921
I'm
>>7894863

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 07:27:24 2014 No.7894929 >>7894926 I made a mistake sorry i meant >>7894901 Is correct

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 08:13:10 2014 No.7894945

>>7894926

I'm
>>7894921

You misunderstand, I'm saying that the same individual can be different to different people. Someone who is quiet and reserved around strangers might be a chatterbox with their friends. A person might be domineering with someone passive but subservient with someone more assertive, or might be domineering or subservient all the time, it varies depending on an individual's personality but also the person they are interacting with. An individual is not one person to all people.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 08:40:17 2014 No.7894959
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>tfw hard to buy presents for
>tfw you make a spreadsheet of things that you'd like and would be useful with many options for price, location and willingness to go outside their online-comfort-zone
>tfw happy with just receiving money in a pinch
>tfw useless presents that you can't use/don't like

i literally work on these sheets for at least six months, and make them easy to navigate and sort, with things ranging from £1 to £100, nihongo, to korea, to western, hell, even things you can buy irl in supermarkets/drugstores, and i still get how 2 draw mango books and really overly masculine things that even the most dudely of dudebros wouldnt touch. i appreciate that they're getting me gifts when they don't have to, I just wish they'd pay attention to what I actually want.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 08:58:23 2014 No.7894967
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>>7894959
iktf
I still get soft toys, I'm 22 and poor
it's not that I don't like them, it's that there's absolutely nothing to do with them other than display them somewhere or leave them on the shelf to collect dust. My parents usually know what to get me, as does my husband, but everyone else...
I got the same perfume for three (3) holidays in a row and it smells like shit AND lasts for less than 10 minutes. I also have way too many photo frames to know what to do with.
Shit, I'm not even that difficult when it comes to presents, even socks would do as long as it's something useful, I'm way too poor to collect toys while I go in socks with holes in them.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 09:04:02 2014 No.7894969

>>7894921
>sometimes the friendzone is the difference between acting when you really have a chance to shine and backing off because it feels safe and comfortable.
Actually, it's always this. The friendzone is when the latter happends (backing off because it feels safe) in combination with deluding yourself that it's because that person doesn't see you as a partner without you having any valid reason to believe it other then your own selfworth because if you think your shit, why would she think you're not?

>>7894945
Someone who is quiet and reserved around strangers and is a chatterbox with their friends is someone who feels insecure around strangers but confident around friends.

It means they receive their validation from external sources. There's not much wrong with this, as long as you constantly have one of those external sources on you
>which you don't

I'm very well aware of the person you speak of because I am that person. This all boils down to self validation. I'm a very analytical person and I've pretty much made a rulebook of myself of what it takes to be socially succesful, my problem is my anxiety still gets in the way from time to time and I end up punching myself in the head for it.

I do however have a general good idea of what it takes to be socially succesfull. I'm aware that a situation isn't awkward until you think it is.

The major problem lies in the fact that kids get told they're perfect the way they are, they grow up believing this, gaining somesort of superiority complex over others only to see people not seeing them as potential partners but others who they have a superiority complex over, I'll present you a 4chan favourite example:
>fking chad thundercock

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 09:10:03 2014 No.7894974 File: 983 KB, 323x224, 1412070267801.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] stop talking about the friendzone jesus fucking christ

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 10:56:27 2014 No.7895087

>>7894974
Fucking right, this.

And it is always because of the same fucking guy who comes in these feels threads and tells everyone to "stop saying tfw no bf or gf" and then drops all this nonsensical bullshit about his failures with girls.

You know how I can always identify his posts? He uses the fucking word "latter" instead of 'later' every fucking time.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:02:56 2014 No.7895092 >Want to cosplay >Never cosplayed before >Artistic skill of a 3 year old >Consider using the services of a commissioner >Think that no one will respect me if I pay for a piece >Discourages me from trying >tfw endless dispair

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:06:04 2014 No.7895097 >>7895092 >commission all my cosplays >don't have time to learn how to sew >no one questions me >if they do I tell them I got it commissioned >they don't give a shit >I just love wearing cosplays but not actually making them

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:11:12 2014 No.7895106 >>7895092 In my experience, sometimes people will be a little let down if you don't make your own stuff but nobody will actually give you shit for it. I've been on both ends and it's really not a big deal.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:14:40 2014 No.7895113

>>7895092
I get probably half my cosplays commissioned. It's not that big of a deal, the only time I received a rude reaction (and I've been cosplaying since 2006) about buying them and it wasn't even that bad. They just went "...oh" and gave me a judgmental face and walked off.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:27:15 2014 No.7895131 >>7895097 >>7895106 >>7895113 Maybe the community is not as cutthroat as I thought it was, thanks bros.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 11:32:01 2014 No.7895134

>>7894959
>>7894967
I have an entire shelf full of cat statues because someone once told my grandmother that I liked cats. 20+ ugly cat statues, just sitting there, taking up space and gathering dust. She means well and I appreciate that but I'd honestly prefer not getting anything at all...

>tfw all the stuff I want is either expensive shit from Japanese websites, inexpensive shit from Taobao, or something I'm super picky about so I worry that people will get it wrong (t-thanks for that bolt of crushed velvet and scratchy raschel lace, mom)
>tfw I should probably follow anon's example and make spreadsheets but I worry that I'll come across as snobby or entitled

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 13:57:38 2014 No.7895321

Only loosely cgl related but I don't have anyone to confide in

SO was in a position to get a raise as soon as he passed a test to get a license in his job, which would lead to even more chances to advance.

Company pays for him to go to the city where the class his, sets him up for the week, gives him a per diem, etc.

Every day he tells me how hard and boring the class is, but never how much he is studying. In fact he talks about hanging out with some guys from work who are also taking the class, going shopping, etc. He even got his tongue pierced.

Every day he would call me and talk to me for a long time. I would have to make him hang up each time.

Well of course he failed the fucking test. Why? He didn't study (obviously) because he heard the class has a 95% pass rate, so he thought it would be really easy. Even the guys from his work passed, and they don't strike me as being very intelligent. I am so disappointed with him but he's beating himself up over it, so I shouldn't rub it in.

He has one more chance to pass this test and that's it. No license if he fails and his career stalls.

Vaguely cgl related because I spend a lot on lolita and although I wouldn't have made him buy me any if he had passed and gotten his raise, he probably would have picked up a little more of the bills, and I would have had some extra money to spend on the fashion. Most clothes I buy are burando.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:02:13 2014 No.7895329 >>7895321 Tell him you'll do cosplay sex or something if he passes. That oughta give him some ambition.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:03:52 2014 No.7895330 >>7895329 Not everyone is interested in your fetishes, anon. If you even read the post, she is into Lolita.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:06:19 2014 No.7895333 >>7895330 Let's be real here. There isn't any guy in the entire world who wouldn't be motivated by his girlfriend dressing up in a sexy costume. They just don't exist, unless they're gay.

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:12:12 2014 No.7895338

>>7895131
People bare their fangs on cgl but in the real world literally nobody gives a fuck. Don't believe me? Walk around a con. Yes, the people with incredible craftsmaship and amazing detail are gonna take more pride in their look, but if you just wanna do it for funsies nobody cares.

>on the same boat as >>7895092
>sick and tired of spending money on stuff that ends up looking shitty
>boutta call it quits and commission my cosplays from now on

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:14:08 2014 No.7895341 >>7895333 They exist alright. If I dressed in a sexy/revealing outfit, let alone a costume, my husband would laugh his arse off because to both of us it seems retarded

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:18:10 2014 No.7895346 >>7895329 >thinking with your dick to find a fix for every problem

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:38:59 2014 No.7895363

>everything is pointing to me being an autist
>I don't want to get tested because if I'm not, that just mean I fail at being a normally functionnal human being, the only thing I'm meant to be.
>I swear I try hard I try really hard

Also
>Alternating violent mood swings since two weeks
>Trying to keep it up with this guy who seems to like me
>I fail even more at flirting than before because I'm struggling with myself
>But I can't stand being alone anymore
>I'm so anxious about everything in my life
>I just want to have some nice, relaxing sex and some good endomorphines with someone I like so I can be actually physically relaxed.
>I know I'll scare him away if I try to explain it to him, but now I must just look like I'm not taking any of this seriously enought.
>Trying to not kill myself because I'm such a desperate looser and feel even more awful after each day at school and each new failed interraction.
Sorry, I swear I really appreciate you.

The positive end is that I nearly stopped eating since the end of summer and dropped 12kg in two months and a half, so at least I'm pretty. I'm a mess, but I cover it with great make-up and burando. At least I try.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:44:30 2014 No.7895367 New thread: >>7895366

Anonymous Thu Oct 23 14:47:54 2014 No.7895369 [DELETED]

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>tfw get into character when I cosplay
>tfw cosplay Le Fezzer near-constantly
>tfw his personality traits bled into my normal personality
>tfw I cannot go a day without flapping my hands about when I talk, hunching my back and wringing my hands, or making one analogy before calling it rubbish and the making another one
>tfw my last 3 relationships starts only because I was close enough to being The Doctor for 6/10 LEL SO NEEEERDY GURLS XD to throw themselves at me
>tfw despite all this, my cripplingly low self-esteem is getting lower and lower by the day

>pic related

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 15:21:58 2014 No.7895419 >>7895363 fix yourself before you move on, no guy wants a sack of sad. Unless you want to be manipulated then go ahead,

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 23 15:28:09 2014 No.7895429 >>7895341 Your husband must be gay

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 24 03:27:07 2014 No.7896509 >>7894974 the thread was at 280 replies, in terms of human years that's like 84 years old. It's not like it was going to last very long or there were going to be a lot of stories left to tell. Unless you have one, ofcourse. >>7895087 l2read pls

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