cgl feels thread

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cgl feels thread Anonymous Wed Dec 10 16:29:30 2014 No.7987040 [Reply] [Original]

New feels thread, try to keep it cgl related

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 10 16:58:18 2014 No.7987081 I'm just really tired and don't know what I'm doing.

Anonymous Wed Dec 10 17:12:47 2014 No.7987110

I need to control myself
I buy clothes and cute shit whenever I have money left
I'm addicted to online buying
I don't even work ( only study) so I can't even pay for burando.... because I can't commit myself to save money
I feel better about myself when I dress cute, because I know I'm just a piece of shit girl with shit hair and a face full of acne and the clothes make people look away from my face for a few moments.

sometimes I just wanna die... or sell all my stuff just to buy more

Anonymous Wed Dec 10 17:12:54 2014 No.7987111

I'm getting depressed over a lot of stuff and eating more and honestly my biggest worry is that I may not fit into brand anymore.

I've busted an AATP skirt zip recently and I cried for hours. I'm going to try and get it replaced but this isn't helping me feel any better.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 10 17:22:57 2014 No.7987125 >>7987111 >>7987110 are you both me

Anonymous Wed Dec 10 17:27:58 2014 No.7987131
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>going out today
>cute new outfit, using new Alice and the Pirates beret that I just dropped $80 on
>very excited
>suddenly, my ears feel cold
>that's weird
>OH SHIT
>beret is gone, must have slid off my head since I was wearing a wig and using old bobby pins to keep it on
>have been walking around for a half hour straight and have no idea where it fell
>retrace my steps, nothing found
>try not to cry like a bitch
>cry like a bitch when i get home
reposting since the last thread died

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 10 17:33:26 2014 No.7987138 >>7987131 >wig You deserved it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 10 18:30:09 2014 No.7987220 >>7987131 No one deserves that So sorry anon :c

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 10 18:35:27 2014 No.7987230 >>7987131 wig clips anon. Sew them into your berets in the future. So sorry for your loss.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 00:58:31 2014 No.7987833 >>7986328 I would do these things. >tfw friends are too busy to hang out >tfw friends leave events without saying goodbye >tfw friends aren't really friends Why can't i transform this engulfing loneliness into magnificent art?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:03:52 2014 No.7987840 >>7987131 Same thing happened to me once, though luckily it was a cheapie, but I still miss it and have yet to replace it. Sorry 'bout that.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:05:17 2014 No.7987841 >>7987131 >suddenly, my ears feel cold a beret doesn't cover your ears though...?

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:12:09 2014 No.7987848

>bought dream dress
>I want to tell everyone
>realizes that a lot of my friends are poorfags and will give me a hard time about it
>quietly sits there just thinking about dress

I have a slight shopping addiction and it doesn't help that a lot of my friends get on me about it. I work hard for my money, and i'm responsible, but I don't know, people I'm friends with are so petty.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:12:18 2014 No.7987849 >Go lolita crazy >Buy lots of stuff >Aw yeah my wardrobe is growing >Barely anything matches each other >I'm an idiot I really like buying pretty things but it always turns out to be a hot mess.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:12:49 2014 No.7987850 File: 5 KB, 192x243, 1409882651625.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >go to order cute ass boots on Bodyline for me and a friend since they are only $27 with free shipping >mfw as soon as I check out they are sold out in our sizes

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:13:56 2014 No.7987852 >>7987849 That was me before I started buying brand main pieces. Now I keep a list of mutual colors in my pieces to make sure something at least matches.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:22:23 2014 No.7987862

>have some money saved up, but not quite enough for dream dress
>dream dress appears in auctions at an affordable price!
>tries to get
>fails
>it was the first time in months that it showed up
>it's been months since, still hasn't shown up again, not in auctions, egl comm sales, facebook sales, anywhere
>actually has the required amount of money for it now (and more)
>where are you, dream dress

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:24:36 2014 No.7987868

>>7987852
I have some similar colors (The main colors in my wardrobe seem to be black and green) but some colors that go with nothing and themes that are all over the place. I need to make a list of things I need to complete what I have and not stray from it.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:35:15 2014 No.7987886

>be raised fundamentalist christian
>believe daydreaming about a sin is as bad as committing it
>feel guilty for daydreaming about real people in any way
>even feel guilty imagining other people's characters
>end up creating elaborate alternate worlds to drift off into
>use that for fap material, prefer it over porn to this day
fast forward to now:
>take tons of pics at conventions
>friend i'm with comments, "another one for the spank bank, eh anon?"
>me: "what?"
>"you must have thousands of asses saved by now, care to share?"
>me: "uh no thanks, that's not what i'm doing"
>stop taking pictures
>feel guilty all over again
>wonder if i'm being invasive
>OCD kicks off in high gear

i should probably see a therapist. i'm having the same paranoid, guilty feelings i had that made me rearrange my mind as a kid to stop even daydreaming about people around me, which i know is fucking ridiculous. even now, if i imagine myself finishing an unfinished conversation with someone i feel self-indulgent and gross about it--and i'd never masturbate over someone's actual picture. so why feel guilty and predatory over taking pictures of someone in costume?!

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:35:19 2014 No.7987887

Mfw getting 3 popular recent releases but deciding not to say much about them because so many people did not even get one piece in one release and everyone's so damn crabby about it. I'm not such a bragging person but I sometimes like to post when I'm happy to get something, sheesh. I got them because months have gone by with nothing I liked so I've just saved my Lolita money and was able to jump fast enough for these.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:40:25 2014 No.7987900 >>7987849 > love shiro > barely any of my whites match fuck me

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:43:28 2014 No.7987904

>loses ID
>can't go to school, have too many violations already
>will risk a suspension if I go to school
>also have important test today
>will risk failing if I don't go to school
>wat do

I ended up deciding not to go. Happily enough though, my friend taking the same class just texted me that we had a free cut and the test is going to be scheduled at a later date. I still have to find/replace my ID though, but at least I don't have to worry about missing a test.

cgl related:
>bodyline order finally arrives
>exactly on the 40th day
I'm not sure whether I should be happy or annoyed. Oh well, at least it's here

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:44:25 2014 No.7987909 >>7987886 Your friend is just a pervert, don't feel bad. Most people don't think they're about to get fapped over when somebody takes a pic at a con.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:49:56 2014 No.7987917

Recently lost a lot of weight (xxl to m) and I am ready to cosplay again but I just get worried I still look fat. I kinda keep going through this cycle of being really excited and ready to tackle costumes I have always wanted to do. Then I look at myself in the mirror and still see my fat self and just get discourage and give up. I know its crazy to think this way but I just dont know how to shake these feelings.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:51:30 2014 No.7987923 >>7987900 I like mismatched whites and ivory in there as well. I notice whites not matched in the magazines too. I don't think it's a big thing.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:53:29 2014 No.7987927 >>7987886 You're friends a pervert dude. You're perfectly fine, just call him out on his bullshit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:54:44 2014 No.7987929 >>7987923 Just when I thought I bought someone that would go with such or such white garment, it turns out to be cream or three shades off. I'm not sure which is more frustrating. Your words comforts me though, anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 01:59:54 2014 No.7987938 >>7987848 same. people in my comm always talk about brand whores and i sit there quietly in my brand. then other friends give me a hard time when we go shopping and want to take my wallet away even though i work hard for my money.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 02:01:18 2014 No.7987940

Someone I know whines and moans (ongoing) because she's too fat for dat burando and can't afford more clothes...then she mentions that she bought a couple of pounds of expensive Christmas candy. I'm running out of sympathetic things to say and running low on empathy feels. Who stuffs themselves with that much high dollar candy and expects to lose weight/save money?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 02:16:48 2014 No.7987965 >>7987940 As soon as you say that, tell them you just bought an amazing expensive dress that fit you perfectly. Doesnt have to be lolita, but that should help put things into perspective for her.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 02:18:13 2014 No.7987967 File: 116 KB, 400x400, KjDecfF.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] TOOT TOOT

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 02:27:55 2014 No.7987986 >>7987929 This is me whenever I buy anything for my wardrobe. Everything is always slightly off and it drives me crazy hunting for another piece that might possibly match instead.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 03:13:17 2014 No.7988031

The only saving grace about my job is that it pays for my bills and a bit of brando
Otherwise I fucking hate it. Upper management is the worst pain in my ass.
Not that anyone cares, but one of my co-workers mom's is very ill, and I get that, I do my best to be accommodating, and the overtime is nice.
She called out to upper management, who then called the store for me, found out I was not in, so they told the store to call me and have me call them on their cellphone?
Why do you have to do everything the most CONVOLUTED WAY YOU PASSABLY CAN, SHIT. It is not like she does not have my number we have worked together for 3 fucking years why not call me yourself?

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 03:53:28 2014 No.7988076

>>7987868
Once had a similiar problem.
>want swimmer biscuit bag in dark brown
>keep track of auctions
>happy it's so cheap
>spread whole wardrobe on bed so I can make a list of thing I need. I want to make a big ss order
>suddenly realize swimmer bag would clash with other themes, only food themed dress would be Honey Cake in ivory
>oh, well then no swimmer bag for me..

There isn't even dress on my wishlist that the bag would fit to..

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 03:55:58 2014 No.7988077 >>7987886 Your friend is gross, but you might see a therapist anyway.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 06:38:23 2014 No.7988176 >>7987917 I'm going through a similar thing, anon. Glad I'm not the only one.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 06:56:38 2014 No.7988190 >>7987081 Are you me?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 06:58:09 2014 No.7988194 Angelic pretty opens made to order for Celestial... >no extra money because Christmas is about friends and family >that feel when I want to say fuck you guys

>>	Claudie !!5M+s+ZHeFhU Thu Dec 11 07:04:50 2014 No.7988200 File: 388 KB, 1280x711, BsDlK6O.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7987081 >>7987110 I know, anon. I know.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 07:14:15 2014 No.7988209 >>7988194 Whut? Where? When?

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 07:44:18 2014 No.7988229
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>so after nearly 4 years I think I can finally come out that I'm fucking heliophobic.
>Get anxious about going out into Sun
>will not leave without my 50+ on and long sleeves, even in summer.
>stupid, retarded butterfly feeling following into heart pounding followed by frustration if not in short access of sunscreen, or hat and cardigan before having to go out
>haven't gone swimming, my favourite outdoor activity, in years since no indoor pools in area
>can't even remember last outdoor activity I joined in with my local youth group
>fucking Type 3-4 on Fitzpatrick scale, never burn just tan always on my mind
> I think I also turned a little rascist - not that I care about any other races for any other reason, I'm totally chill with them and don't hate them at all.
> I just know I would hate to have their skin tone, that's it.
>Disgustingly vain, I know.
>A good day for me is if I didn't have to go outside
>could be dying of lack of vitamin D, who fucking knows I just don't want tans and wrinkles any sooner than I can control

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 08:58:47 2014 No.7988276

>tired and confused
>I have no idea where I'm going
>feel like a failure
>sometimes contemplating suicide because everything is tiring, pointless and stupid and we all grow old and die eventually anyway so whatever sacrifice or successful choices you make will mean nothing in the end
>...might be having an existential crisis

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:01:26 2014 No.7988279 I went to Daiso for the first time in my life last night. O MY FUCKING GOD

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:23:37 2014 No.7988303 >>7988229 stop going on /int/ and /pol/ and grow up. You'll be fine with good sunscreen. White people tan too, I'm Irish and I tan quite nicely despite the stereotypes. A tan is not forever, Christ.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:27:34 2014 No.7988311 >>7987862 What is your dream dress anon?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:27:57 2014 No.7988312 >>7988229 Jesus christ, I can't have any sympathy for you. You're absolutely insane. I do hope you get better though. You can't function and will probably become an obese hikikomori at this rate.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:32:19 2014 No.7988319
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>>7987886
iktf
>raised Catholic
>feel guilty over fucking everything
>everything I do makes me a loose harlot
>everything I say makes me a loose harlot
>everything I think makes me a loose harlot
>anything bad that happens in the house is my fault because mammy says so, and I should feel bad
I've moved out and now don my fedora with pride, but it stays with you.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:33:24 2014 No.7988321 >>7988312 >will probably become an obese hikikomori at this rate. are you saying they aren't right now anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 09:56:59 2014 No.7988341 >>7987904 >>will risk a suspension if I go to school I don't understand. Because you lost your ID? Are you high school or college? At my uni, people lose their ID all the time.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:07:47 2014 No.7988356

>>7988229

>tfw burn extremely easily
>can lightly burn walking to uni so I have to bike
>don't want to go outside because sun
>hate sunscreen, hate the look and feel and scent of it, it necessitates washing it off and changing my moisturizer/makeup halfway through the day
>have to use it if I'll be outside for more than 20 minutes
>seriously thought about using a parasol, except people would think I'm crazy
>only able to go outdoors if forested for dat shade

>going to Florida for four days over winter break to visit grandfather

Why couldn't the old fart move to PA or Maine or somewhere with tree cover? GDI. And since I have to take a plane there, the molestation company is going to set limits on my liquids, so I can't take my routine with me. How am I supposed to wash the sunscreen off without my OCM and cleanser?

So I'm going to burn and break out and look ugly for weeks because we don't have freedom to take mineral oil and neutrogena on a plane.

I can't stop thinking about how I'll probably get skin cancer because my parents let me burn red every summer of my childhood.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:10:43 2014 No.7988362 >>7988276 Me all day everyday, anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:12:57 2014 No.7988365 >>7988356 Just get a parasol, dude. I'm the exact same way, burn after just a few minutes outside, and I used to feel the same apprehension about buying a parasol, but I finally said fuck it and got one, and it's made a huge difference for me.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:21:57 2014 No.7988383
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>>7988319
I know how you feel anon, I'm trying to get myself out of this exact situation right now by moving out. It's so hard to get rid of my Catholic guilt about fucking everything I think and do.

/cgl/ related
>start to buy liz lisa so I can wear cute stuff more often
>selling off all my sweet lolita because I don't wear it anymore, all sitting in closet never seeing the light of day.
>thought I'd be really sad to see my dresses go because I have problems with being way too attached to clothes with memories/sentimental value but I'm so happy with new liz lisa stuff
>thank you liz lisa for helping me move on

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:44:55 2014 No.7988422 >>7988365 Do you get looks/comments? What type of place do you live in (metro, liberal, red, backwoods?)

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 10:54:41 2014 No.7988435 >>7988209 Check ap website. 12-14 they're accepting orders. They'll be shipping out in March/April. I'll just have to get mine from auction but at least I'll have it early

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:03:18 2014 No.7988449 >>7988356 what about a hat, princess? revolutionary, i know

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:24:36 2014 No.7988487

>>7988422
I mean, yes, I get looks a lot, but the only people who comment are usually little old ladies or hipsters saying it's cute. I started using it while at university (relatively "liberal" environment, I guess, though it was in a redneck state), use it while visiting my parents in the suburbs, and live in a metro area now. To me, being stared at occasionally is worth not blowing through a shit ton of sunblock and/or burning up.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:27:37 2014 No.7988493
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>mfw i weighed myself this morning and realised i managed to lose all my medication-weight and then some

feels fucking good man. i hope i can fit into my ruffles again in time for christmas.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:31:20 2014 No.7988500 >>7988435 I did check on their official site, am I blind?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:45:07 2014 No.7988520 >>7988493 > check my weight just now > mfw I gained weight and then some Bad feels, bad feels.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:48:42 2014 No.7988529 File: 3.28 MB, 430x288, 1390380103742.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7988520 its ok anon. at least you're aware now and can watch what you eat.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:48:58 2014 No.7988530 >>7988500 Must be it's the new notice Translated reads like "due to popular demand" blah blah and "follow all rules please 1 week to pay" I'll try to screen shot which notice but I'm on mobile so bare with me

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 11:51:34 2014 No.7988531 File: 297 KB, 750x1334, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7988500 This one I just pulled from their standard shop

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 12:26:14 2014 No.7988581

>>7988356
If it's really that necessary for you to have your routine with you then there are several possible options.

Put your stuff into smaller bottles that you can take with you. You can buy some cheap small ones from the dollar store, walmart, or 5 below and if you are only going for 4 days then you won't need too much in each bottle.
Buy the stuff when you get there.
Or just check your bag. The only limits on your liquids are when you do carry on and not checked luggage.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 13:09:36 2014 No.7988634 >>7988279 > tfw no daiso's in europe goddammit why can't we have cute stuff easily available, seriously it's so hard finding stuff like cute stationary here and the few things you do find are also overpriced

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 13:12:16 2014 No.7988639

>>7988276
don't worry anon you're not alone, I feel like I'm just going to college because I have to, and that I'll just end up spending every day in a cycle of being tired and lonely for the rest of my life, just going with the flow of life, and then I wonder if I should just go full NEET, do nothing for a few years and then off myself.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 13:14:28 2014 No.7988643

>>7988581
>Or just check your bag

Don't think I can because it costs extra, and I'm not buying the tickets so I get no say. I'm gonna see if they sell travel bottles of my stuff, or at least an approximation. Otherwise I'll get empty small bottles to take.

My skin is so picky. One wrong move and I break out.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 13:15:34 2014 No.7988648
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cgl related:
>realized my mom is getting me some kajihime clothes from lizlisa for Christmas
>This is the first time she's been supportive of jfash at all
>So happy that I now have a style that both she and I like since I'm pretty close to her

non-cgl:
>Have an on and off casual thing with a friend of a friend
>I know he doesn't want a relationship, yet still takes me on dates
>I ask if he's seeing anyone else, he says no
>Just hope for the best because I have the hugest crush on him and really want it to turn into something
>See him this past weekend, had lots of fun
>Text him a few days later asking when I could see him again
>He says we won't be seeing each other again, I can no longer stay with him when I visit
>When I ask why, he says he got back with his ex
>Try to play it off like I don't care, but I was really invested in him and it feels like a punch in the gut

>>	Clockwork Loyalty !!AeVd1sjJ70p Thu Dec 11 13:37:26 2014 No.7988692 >>7988648 The fact that your mom even knows what to get impresses the hell out of me

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 13:52:11 2014 No.7988728
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>raised non-christian
>wearing and associating with other religious symbols makes me uncomfortable
>it just feels wrong to me. I was raised being told that christianity wasn't for me
>all of these cute dresses come out, like celestial church and all the nun themes
>covered
>in
>crosses
I want them but I know I would never wear them because I just can't get over my awkwardness with religions.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 14:33:38 2014 No.7988802

>>7988728
I know that feeling. I was so happy when Ista Mori's Nameless Poem OP was available without the cross embroidery.

I have this one overblown gothic cross necklace that my aunt gave me and I like to use it in co-ords sometimes. When I wear it I justify it to myself by saying the Church of England shoved prayers down my throat all the years at primary school and had a decent go during secondary as well, and if they insist on having bishops in the house of lords then I can damn well borrow christian iconography for my own pleasure.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 14:37:38 2014 No.7988813

>>7988581
>>7988643
I buy cheap asian makeup sometimes just for the tiny bottles. Gift sets are great for this too, since a lot of them usually come in mini bottles.
I bought that Shiseido shampoo+conditioner set just for the little bottles so I can bring my cosmetics with me as I travel a lot.
I don't know how the TSA is since I live in Europe and the only encounter I've had with them is when they broke my luggage and refused to pay for the damage caused by opening it until my insurance company stepped in, but this is what I've done:
>cleansers, toners, anything liquid should be in a sealed container, wrapped in a plastic bag or cling wrap
>creams should be in their tubes or alternatively in little jars, be sure to pack a spatula with you and cling wrap it too
>anything that you don't have to use during the trip should go in your luggage
I'm fairly certain they can go in your luggage, you should have a one-bag of x kilos allowance for the flight, even for the cheapest airlines (Ryanair and Wizzair have it normally here, for example). Unless yank airlines are jewing it up in which case I'm terribly sorry.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 14:42:16 2014 No.7988821 Just ate a meal for the first time since Monday. I'm too lazy to exercise, I'm also too lazy to go and buy food and that's what keeps me in brand, both in terms of size and wallet.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 16:06:11 2014 No.7988955 >wide shoulders >narrow hips >big boobs >haven't exercised enough in nearly two years, have beer belly type of fat i could just get off my non-existent ass and exercise, but it's so haaaaard.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 16:36:28 2014 No.7989007 >>7988728 I know that feeling. It freaking sucks when I want to get those stained glass prints but can't wear it comfortably.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 16:41:15 2014 No.7989012
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>Tfw you want to reserve a Celestial Church JSK for yourself but payroll has been cut storewide and you still need to buy Christmas presents for your family. So money is going to be tight the next couple of weeks...

I-it's not like it's that great anyway...
(Except it totally is. It's much prettier in person, ugh.)

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 16:43:23 2014 No.7989014 >>7988531 Thanks a bunch anon, I'm an idiot I guess. But if they only open it for 2 days, I'll have to pass because I've spent all my money on christmas presents.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 16:51:28 2014 No.7989020 >>7988955 I have the same problems. Try cutting carbs, and doing strength training. It helped me a lot.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:25:39 2014 No.7989168

>download a game
>scan it through virustotal
>3 anti-virus sites find a problem with it/claim it's a trojan
>it's listed as "verified" on the torrent sites and has a bunch of seeds, no one in the comments complaining about a virus
>don't know what to believe
What do

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:27:45 2014 No.7989174 >Be heavy-set male Severely limits my cosplay. The mrs. is gonna help me make a Gravelord Nito cosplay for next year, hopefully it goes well.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:37:18 2014 No.7989199 >miring jfash for almost 10 years >always been too broke >start lifting >now 23 with okay income >body type now unsuited for lolita and anything cute Captcha: ndumpi somewhat

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:46:33 2014 No.7989224
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>>7987040
>meet exchange student girl in uni
>don't know how to feel about her, she's just so weird
>she's not feminine nor masculine, not ugly but most definitely not pretty
>I can't even call her plain because I never met anyone like her
>she is supposed to look plain and dresses plain but somehow still looks out of place to me, I can't explain it
>makes really weird jokes
>is kinda nice
I'm so confused... I don't know whether I want to be her or bang her
I thought I was straight
What's wrong with me
I'm not even sure she swings that way, I mean she doesn't look like a typical straight girl but also doesn't look like she'd be gay either

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:50:54 2014 No.7989237

>>7989007
guys for real?

You can respect what religion does for society without believing in a higher power. Sort of like how you can enjoy christmas music despite being a different religion, because it's something beautiful that humanity has created and it's just art.

Not excuse me, I have a madonna crown I need to pair with Die Walkure. (jkjkjk)

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:59:05 2014 No.7989253 >>7989168 if its a cracked game or keygen or whatever your antivirus will go off

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 18:59:05 2014 No.7989254 >>7988341 She's clearly in high school. Colleges don't give a shit if you lose your ID, and her high school shouldn't care either if she just goes in and says she needs a new one, but apparently she's too irresponsible to do that.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:02:55 2014 No.7989264

>>7988356
Nice thinking, but PA doesn't have much tree cover unless you're litrally in the middle of a forest. A lot of forests have been cut down to make room for farmland and buildings and shit. There's woods all over, but they're mostly privately owned and you could be shot by some stupid redneck if you go walking around in them.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:05:45 2014 No.7989273 >>7988802 The christians took the cross from the pagans, so you're only stealing what they already stole. Who gives a shit?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:07:22 2014 No.7989276 >>7988422 I also use a parasol on sunny days. I'm in an urban area right near my university. For the most part, people don't say anything--I've only had maybe three or four smartasses tell me it's not raining. It's 100% worth it.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:16:45 2014 No.7989307
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Getting really sick of my lazy ass postal deliverer.
This is the second time I've had a package marked as "Delivered" only for it to show up the next day. The first package was guaranteed to be here on Monday and of course, wasn't.
I suspect that she knows I don't check my mail every day, that's why she does this, but if I have a package coming, I'll check the mail every hour if I can.
If you can't get something here day-of, it's okay to deliver it the next day, just don't fucking label the package as "Delivered" if you didn't deliver it.

Unless there's some weird thing about this in the mail system that I, as a non-employee, don't know about?

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:23:59 2014 No.7989325

>Bought a replica of my dream dress because I pretty much gave up on it
>Finds dream dress a month later for a good price, buys it too
>Stuck with replica and dream dress. Replica is in a different colorway than dream dress

Should i keep the replica and wear it for coords or should i just give it away since I already have my dream dress? I know how people get their bloomers in a twist over replicas.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:25:05 2014 No.7989328 >>7989325 Sell it on ebay, some ita will buy it.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:25:55 2014 No.7989335 >>7988728 I'm an atheist, but that is a cute dress. I've always loved how crosses look as clothing/patterns. Can't wear it or my dad will start celebrating. At least it isn't as bad as buddhists have it with that whole swastika thing.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:37:21 2014 No.7989376

>>7988813
>Unless yank airlines are jewing it up

We are. Ain't no free luggage here. Usually you get an overhead carry-on, so like a small backpack, and I just put everything in that and that is all I have. aaand thus the liquids rule. Fucking terrorists won, man. TSA, they gave me a pat down last time. "I am going to feel your buttocks now, miss, is that okay?" Not even kidding. They also asked if I was over the age of twelve, and no that is not a standard question. Wasn't sure if I should feel flattered or like I was getting molested by a pedo.

I wish they would let us have free luggage if we're under, say, 200 lbs. I think that's fair.

>>7988821
>too lazy to go and buy food

I skip dinner most of the time because I can't be pissed to cook. Pretty great diet plan.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:40:53 2014 No.7989379

>>7987940
I know that feel anon. My boyfriend's been the same way, constantly moaning about how he wants to lose all the weight he gained in the past year... And then spends a full week doing nothing but sit on his butt and play PS4. Won't even take the dog for a walk. Doesn't help that I'm the only one with a job and I know he's not looking nearly as hard as hr claims he is... I'm getting more stressed and more angry everyday. Things are gonna blow their top pretty soon.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:41:34 2014 No.7989380

>>7989264

Oh, I didn't know that. I go with friends and we just park on the side of the road and go off to the woods. But maybe that's a park-hiker-y area of the state, near the water gap. I'm only familiar with the eastern half of the state. Would you really get shot? Are people sitting in trees with rifles waiting for a trespasser?

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:42:27 2014 No.7989382

>>7989376

I always get a fucking patdown because of the fucking radiation in the fucking x-rays. If I'm assuming correctly though, did they get a female to pat you down? That should be protocol. I was once stuck for half an hour waiting for a female TSA agent.

You're too right though. Let's drink to the ineptitude of airport security.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:44:05 2014 No.7989388 File: 111 KB, 350x467, nameless_poem.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7989335 I'm an atheist too. I have nameless poem coming in the mail. Admittedly I feel a little weird about it, but w/e it's cute.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:45:09 2014 No.7989391 >>7988229 >could be dying of lack of vitamin D yup.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:46:39 2014 No.7989395 >>7989335 >>7989388 I'm atheist too, but I'm also a lapsed Catholic. Crosses mean nothing to me unless they have dying Jesus on them. Fuck yeah religious remnants dictating my weird preferences.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:49:38 2014 No.7989400

>>7988728
It's interesting to see how uncomfortable some people who were raised without a religion are with religious symbols on clothing. I'm agnostic/heavily leaning towards atheist, but I was raised Catholic and live in a mainly Catholic country, and it's never even crossed my mind to feel bad about wearing religious symbols, I'd do it all day erryday if I had enough clothing that fit the theme. I would feel more uncomfortable wearing a Jewish-themed dress or something, though, so I guess I lucked out being raised in the religion with the most popular symbolism.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:55:08 2014 No.7989410

>>7989376
>I wish they would let us have free luggage if we're under, say, 200 lbs
wait so your weight actually gets measured on there? top lel
here if you're that fat you don't get to board at all, but your actual weight has no impact on the amount of luggage you carry.
Usually you're allowed a carry-on bag (anything from a weekender to those small suitcases with wheels up to xkg (usually not above 8), and on top of that big luggage up to xkg (depending on the airline it can go from 15kg to 30kg).
I just returned from a trip to Turkey and for example Turkish Airlines let me check in a 30kg suitcase, Lufthansa usually does something like 25.
>"I am going to feel your buttocks now, miss, is that okay?"
wot, is that a regular thing? Here we just roll everything through the scanner and if we don't beep we go through. Only once did I have to take off my shoes. For EU members you just scan your ID or passport and roll the fuck through without any hold-up.

How much do you have to pay if you want to bring luggage with you? And do they open your case? Which company is this?
I also keep hearing things about passengers being rude and nasty on board, is that commonplace?

It seems like a completely different world there.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 19:58:50 2014 No.7989418

>>7989395
>>7989400
I'm Orthodox but same. Crosses and religious symbols aren't something I care about much, unless it's the half-moon and star and that's only because the muzzies get butthurt about it so much. Basically if you live where you live nobody would give you shit (unless they're a diehard Muslim) because we have so many religions here that people just see it as normal.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 20:49:27 2014 No.7989517

>>7989382

I went through the cancer machine and they still wanted to pat me down. They be 'miring my ass from dem squatz. But no, I had a dress and a sweater on, with a backpack, and the dress got fussed up in the back and was bunching. So they had to grope me. Yeah, it was a female, but what do lesbians not exist?

I just got a CAT scan so that's my radiation for the year. I'm getting the pat down when I go. My dad is a tinfoil hatter so he'll understand.

>>7989410
>your weight actually gets measured on there

It doesn't. But I wish. I'm not-fat and therefore saving them fuel money. I should get perks.

You ALWAYS need to remove shoes here. And belt. They don't open anything, you put it in bins on a conveyor belt and your stuff goes through a scanner. Then you collect it down the line.

>passengers being rude

This is America, everyone is rude to anyone who gets paid to take their shit with a smile. Customer is always right. Mainly the issues are fat people being fat and loud kids crying incessantly.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 22:16:46 2014 No.7989632

>>7988341
>>7989254

Ha, I actually am in college. It's a rich college and it's near another one where the poor go, so the admin is paranoid that people from the other college are going to come in and steal people's shit. I used to purposely(and stupidly) not wear it because the entire thinking behind it pissed me off, and I got into a lot of trouble with the admin for that.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 22:24:45 2014 No.7989651 File: 1.64 MB, 352x217, crClrO9.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7987841

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 22:27:51 2014 No.7989655 >>7989382 You do of course realize that the radiation you're exposed to on the plane is hundreds of times higher, right? Even eating a banana probably exposes you to more >Muh tinfoil hat

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 22:33:52 2014 No.7989665
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>be shopaholic
>spend money on shitty eBay clothes
>buy useless stuff on Chinese wholesale sites
>justify that it's all cheap
>in reality spend $100+ a month
>bf teaches me that buying better quality clothes are cheaper in the long run
>haven't spent a dime on useless online shit since June
>suddenly
>started buying tons of x-mas gifts
>felt like shopaholic again
>ignore feeling
>debit card declined on Shoprite trip

..Yeeaah, I'm not going to spend anymore until next Christmas.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 22:54:16 2014 No.7989688 File: 212 KB, 1205x899, 1395715300065.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Hung out with a seagull today. Wasawesomeyayhappyfeels.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:10:15 2014 No.7989709
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Oh my god.
>live in college dorm
>dress in sweet lolita at least twice a week
>when dorm staffers ask what the fashion is called I tell them, they get this really grossed out look on their face
>fuck they think it's a fetish
>order some rilakkuma plushies on ebay from US seller
>excited to get them, go down to the resource center when I get the notification email for the package
>have to talk to a staffer to get package, sign for it, etc
>they hand me the box while avoiding eye contact
>the seller literally shipped my stuffed animals to me in a god damn diaper box
>A DIAPER BOX
>AFTER I TOLD THEM 'LOLITA'
>quickly sign and escape
>'age play' echoes in my mind as i throw away the box ASAP

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:25:15 2014 No.7989728

>just finished making a costume
>want to sew something else
>no money for fabric right now
>no plans for more cosplays
>want to take commissions
>everything I make I just wing it
>no guaruntee a commission would come out looking even a little decent
>can't risk it

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:26:42 2014 No.7989731 >>7989709 Hahahaha, oh, that really sucks for you. That's horrible.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:27:45 2014 No.7989732 >>7989709 oh my god, i would be horrified. I live in a college dorm and I'm pretty sure the people sorting the mail really get tired of me getting so many packages.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:28:24 2014 No.7989736 >>7989728 Learn dem fundamentals so you can have a set process.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:30:35 2014 No.7989741 >>7989709 >rilakkuma plushies on ebay from US seller i ain't feelin' the diaper box but can you tell me the seller

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:31:34 2014 No.7989743

>>7989736
Yeah, my main issue is sizing, because I just keep measuring to my body as I sew, but that doesn't work if I'm making something for someone across the country. I do have a friend who wanted to do a Solaire cosplay, I could make him his tunic and maybe help him figure out the chainmail for a challenge, but he's not very motivated to do it.

I also have some friends who want some perler bead shit of their favorite characters for Christmas, so I guess my time would be better spent working on those since I can only do 2 or 3 a day because of my fucked shoulders.

I don't even actually know how to use patterns properly. I'm so much better at just looking at things and figuring them out myself. I plan on making an Elsa cosplay sometime soonish and I'm going to need a pattern for that, so I guess I should really get on learning.

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:41:26 2014 No.7989757
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>start a cosplay this summer
>make really good progress
>have to stop due to moving and school
>con in less than two months
>no motivation to work on character
>don't even like character/source material that much
>lost passion and interest in character
>70% done cosplay and I don't even want to wear it anymore
>tfw

Anonymous Thu Dec 11 23:49:41 2014 No.7989770
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>>7989741
They're called yeah.panda , I think they just sell random japaroo stuff but it might be worth watching to see if more rilakkuma stuff shows up.
Got these two babies for $34 shipped (clean and authentic fuck yeah), I just wish they hadn't been shipped in a fucking Pampers box.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 00:01:07 2014 No.7989793 >>7989770 that's a nice deal thanks

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 00:57:24 2014 No.7989872

>Go to party drunk as fuck
>make out with this girl and we exchange facebooks
>see her at cons in cosplay and all that
>she asks me on a date
>go on date and it was really nice!
>both of us sucking at pool and having great conversation and all that
>realize I may not have romantic feelings for her
>realize I may be completely in love with this chick I met on tumblr who I have had a crush on for months
>Girl on tumblr hasn't even talked to me recently
>fuuuuuuck

I am tempted just to text the girl from tumblr about it since she hasn't been talking to me anyways. It's not like I have anything to lose now.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 00:59:05 2014 No.7989876 >>7989872 What are they like? You might as well choose or try out the one you'll be beast with.

>>	smoker !HOZlQYR1MY Fri Dec 12 00:59:54 2014 No.7989877 >>7989872 Holy shit how can you be this much of a fucking cuck beta faggot?

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:14:55 2014 No.7989902
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>>7989770
I love you, anon! I asked around friends who has a bunch of Rilakkuma stuff, but they buy them at cons. I was hoping that there was an eBay shop that sold legit goods.

Anyway feels:

>falling for a fellow /mu/tant
>he doesn't mind my weeb tendencies and that I wear lolita
>tfw we live hundreds of miles apart
>all my roommates have dumb normalfag bro-y bfs who seem to hang around the apartment and unknowingly increase the electricity bill (which is under my name)
>hunger drives my hikikomori tendencies to the kitchen
>as I'm putting dishes away/microwaving food
>the dumbest of the bunch shares a shitty joke with the bros

"Why do women like to take long hot showers? Because it reminds them of Hell - where they came from!"

>hurrdurrdasfunnybro

Now, I'm not even going to go tumblr on this shit, but that was the dumbest thing I've heard all day - even I could come up with a better sexist joke.

>mfw I don't understand how my roommates date these people
>tfw normalfags are insufferable
>tfw hiding in my room again and watching Sailor Moon Crystal until I can vid-chat with my /mu/tant crush
>tfw can't physically be in Portland with him right now

Why can't I be a Sailor Senshi?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:18:16 2014 No.7989913 File: 10 KB, 226x200, mahnigga.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7989902 >>7989770 By the way, holy shit, dem lady figs.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:18:41 2014 No.7989914 >>7989902 I think we all could come up with a better sexist joke than that, and we're women.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:22:48 2014 No.7989920 >>7989902 b-but it's men that like long hot showers.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:26:26 2014 No.7989922

Facebook makes me so fucking angry. Women all over the world fight tooth and nail for the right to choose and these stupid fucking women in liberal ass states want to whine about how nobody understands how they accidentally ended up with five children and it wasn't their choice and other people need to pay for it. I literally just read this and I want to punch this bitch in her uterus so fucking hard. Idiots, idiots everywhere. You DO NOT "accidentally" have FIVE CHILDREN. That's like saying I accidentally got hit by a car five times.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:30:06 2014 No.7989929

>>7989922
Holy shit anon I'm sorry.

I see a lot of people I know making poor decisions, but not that bad.

I get a lot of "I'm 17 and in love and he's 25 and we have a puppy and live together even though I'm still in high school and we're getting married and my parents are 100% okay with this" and "I'm 18 and just graduated and am already married and pregnant" (the second one x2 actually)

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:31:07 2014 No.7989930 File: 15 KB, 226x199, 1402026294769.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7989922 Elaborate, anon

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:37:27 2014 No.7989940

>>7989929
Haha I think you need to leave your small town. This shit happened a lot with the yokel idiots and plebs from my hometown. So I stopped associating with them. They are all crack addicts who feel their only job is to spew out babies so I have nothing in common in them. The 25 year olds preying on underage are just as emotionally immature as the underage so its not even that weird.
This in particular was a friend of a friend but makes me so mad. Women have been fighting 50 years for the right to choose and these women make it no choice at all, and they want everyone to pay for it. If it's *your* choice, you need to OWN your choice. I want to yell at her for it but it being public and facebook I don't feel comfortable expressing my opinion. I should probably get over it though. But literally, you don't accidentally have five children. You just fucking don't.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:47:06 2014 No.7989957

>>7989922
Salt in my wounds. If you're poor and single and working, heath insurance is still expensive as fuck. But if you quit your job and get knocked up, the government will pay for everything. Like, why am I not fucking the nearest loser right now? It actively works against me to make non-idiotic life choices.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 01:54:41 2014 No.7989973

>>7989957
At least we have our bodies anon. Pregnancy wrecks your body, it wreaks havoc on everything, your mental state, everything. I don't think that's worth the $1500 a month or whatever these bitches are getting. So fucking sad though, in every single way all levels of society are set up to benefit the people most detrimental to that level. The people having children to get a paycheck aren't the people who should be having children, etc.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:00:30 2014 No.7989976

>>7989957
It rustles the shit out of my jimmies.
Here I am working my ass off, in a male-dominated field, to make a decent living and the government doesn't pay me shit.
Meanwhile my friend's mother married a guy, divorced him to get dat dolla, married some lowlife in a rock band, had six kids with him and neither of the parents work because the govt actually pays more than they would ever earn working a min wage job (they can't get any other because they're uneducated).
Why six? Why not stop at one that you can actually support by yourself?

Not to mention all the ladies who cam and open their legs to strangers or shake their ass in front of a man's face and call it hard work and then go and DEMAND respect and if you tell them to fuck off they have a horde of feminazis defending them as well as an army of sweaty greasy desperate neckbeards.

Or those idiots who got pregnant at 15, popped out a kid whom the baby daddy left, let their parents raise it while they go shopping and getting pedicures and then they have the gall to be condescending asshats on facebook because -they're mothers- and -motherhood is the hardest job of all, and I don't even get paid- or -you haven't seen anything, wait until you become a mom! xD-
Not to mention that they always treat their child like an accessory or a doll and name it dumb shit like Katniss or Daenerys.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:05:06 2014 No.7989977
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>slowly losing my interest in cosplay and anime
>falling for lolita at the speed of light
>spend hours browsing the interwebs for dresses that even if i am able to buy will probably never wear
>miss school bc sick
>end of semester and grades are shit
>what do i do with myself

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:05:34 2014 No.7989979

>>7989976
The real solution is to stop indulging these fucking narcissistic delusional shitheads.
Maybe being a mother is hard but it's also something that literally all life on this planet has been able to accomplish in some capacity. Point out to me all the monkeys and bears who are accomplished statisticians and scientists and I'll be more impressed with whatever accomplishment motherhood is supposed to be.
I'm a little surprised at y'alls bitterness though. They are living in their own self created hell, having that many children isn't easy unless you are angelina jolie. I would rather be homeless on the street than have uncle sam doling out living money for some squalling children. But that's just me.
And congrats anon, for working your ass off in a male dominated field. You are respectable.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:07:29 2014 No.7989980

>>7989977
Go for lolita, it is superior. use it to encourage yourself to make up those grades. You can do it! I went from basically failing out in spectacular fashion to graduating with Ass and Bs across the board, upped my GPA a full point in half a semester because I focused ahead and on what I would be able to do once I got out of school (wear lolita and cosplay)

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:13:44 2014 No.7989990 >>7989980 holy shit you're awesome :') thank u

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:14:52 2014 No.7989993

>>7989976
It extra rustles my jimmies, because I grew up relatively poor, even though both my parents worked. My parents are both educated, but once the taxes and health insurance were paid, there wasn't much left over. So I got constantly harassed by housing projects trash because I didn't have $100 jeans and $100 sneakers. It's an endless fucking cycle.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:17:42 2014 No.7989996 >>7989922 What happened to "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, im a drooling retard"?!

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:29:39 2014 No.7990010 >>7989990 Good luck anon. Also lmfao "Ass and Bs"

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:33:36 2014 No.7990018

>>7989993
Absolute trash, wasting their last money on some fucking $100 jeans they don't even understand. They rarely understand beauty or why the jeans are $100 or why they should be or why they are better.. They understand status I guess.
But I can't even argue with the pain of "feeling poor" it's like you are inferior to these cretins and you know it's so fucking stupid but you still want them to see you as being equal at least. But you're better anon. Hopefully you know that by now. I don't know if I do. It's hard.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:34:50 2014 No.7990020

Buyfag related:
>missed out on great statues on mandarake because procrastination
>want to do massive taobao order but no space for stuff in apartment

Non cgl related:
>recently saw pics of bf kissing exes
>tells me he also dated a model
>was sure he is vanilla
>says all sex has been mediocre and others had low sex drive
>claims I am best by a lot
>find out he has "dabbled" in bdsm
>anon, you're okay at oral and topping but not great

Pretty butt hurt that he is most likely just saying I'm the best because he is with me now. I feel childish for hinting that my ex is much larger and took almost all my firsts.

I feel like I am very confident when single but super insecure when in a relationship

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:48:07 2014 No.7990049

>>7990020
Well, if it's a young relationship everyone is a bit childish. Just try to keep it down and let things grow. I think you were probably way too honest to begin with, most men cannot handle hearing about women's past conquests, especially firsts and volunteering that all at once along with his size is a huge red flag. You are inviting his male ego into its natural competition mode. He retaliated. I would lay back on trying to top each other's past and just enjoy each other right now. Assuage his ego a bit, but not too much or he'll get cocky. Otherwise you guys are going to get into a stupid arms race and it's going to end badly. He wants to hear about your past as much as you want to hear about his.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:52:13 2014 No.7990057 >>7989224 People look like their sexuality?? Just speak up if you have a crush on her. You hardly know her and sound so confused that if she says no it's no biggie.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:53:29 2014 No.7990059
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>have a constant urge to get into cosplaying
>theres no cons in my area
>terrified of picking someone to cosplay because i cant think of anyone and want to pick someone who suits my physical looks
>end up not doing shit and browsing cgl every once and a while instead

cool

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 02:59:46 2014 No.7990069 >Recently bought dream dress for about 250 >Mfw Celestial is now being made-to order should i drop another 300 bucks on it?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:08:23 2014 No.7990083 File: 402 KB, 598x564, 1407226759371.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7989400 >it's never even crossed my mind >crossed

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:09:21 2014 No.7990088 I'm 10,000 usd in debt from buying stuff. Mostly lolita. My fiance lets me buy anything I want and we can pay it off in 4 months really, but we want to save for a house and a car and it's really not healthy. I bought 6 fucking dresses from Celestial.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:10:49 2014 No.7990092 >>7990088 Tell your fiance to stop letting you run around and throw money around. Make him limit you if you've got that bad of a shopping problem, taper off and spend less. Go see a fucking therapist.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:12:32 2014 No.7990096 >>7990088 Yeah, you definitely need to get a grip on your spending compulsions. Good luck with that, I doubt it'll be easy.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:19:17 2014 No.7990101

>>7990088
>my fiance lets me
well there is your fucking problem right there, jesus christ. You're an absolute retard as well, there is no reason to buy 6 pieces from a release. You're going to be one of those people who hits $30k in debt and then freaks out and goes bare bones and you know what, no one will give a shit because you and your fiance are both fucking retards. You don't even have a car. I bet you have literally no clue why you even want to save for a house other than "they r niec" and other people told you that you buy a house and get married when you get older. Do you even have a plan for saving for your wedding? You have absolutely no agency as a human being and your fiance proably doesn't either, there's you're fucking problem right there. $10k debt is nothing compared to that.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:20:18 2014 No.7990102 >>7990088 >lets me you're a fucking adult, he should be "letting you" do anything you want to. You're responsible for your own decisions and if you choose to drown in debt, on your own head be it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:23:47 2014 No.7990108 >>7990083 kek

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:28:43 2014 No.7990113 >>7990057 >People look like their sexuality?? meet the gaydar, anon

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:48:01 2014 No.7990127 this fucking shit. since when were dreadlocks and cyberlocks in any way, shape, or form related to lolita and fairy kei? stop it. they seem to be coming up more often than usual.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:49:03 2014 No.7990128 File: 365 KB, 439x459, fuckyou.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990127 dropped.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 03:52:54 2014 No.7990131 >>7990128 tell them it offends you because its appropriating your culture ect i bet theyll ake it down

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:00:19 2014 No.7990141
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I never really understood the frustration Lolitas had with the replica versus brand debate, but I feel like I got a taste of it recently.

Between bills and tuition, I saved up and finally commissioned my own kigu. It came in the mail and it's super rad, cozy, machine washable, got pockets, thick and fleecy, totally legit kigu.

Go on Facebook the next day and see that my friends have gotten "off brand kigus from Winco". from fucking Winco. and they're so generic and thin. Of all the opportunities for a totally rad kigu why get something so....basic? It's like my legit kigu got pissed on 'cause "lol we can get the same thing for so much cheaper pleb". 'cept it's not the same thing.

I don't really know what I'm feeling right now. I feel ashamed of my reaction, I guess. I'm going to bed.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:07:05 2014 No.7990146

>>7990141
i used to make kigurumis on commission and i stopped doing it fairly quickly because of the same reason. I did a lot of things the knockoff kigus didn't have-- i chose thick fleece, handstitched detail, super deep pockets (i could fit a smartphone, 3DSXL, and a small tablet in there), and made it to measurements. i think the biggest i made one was for a guy who was 6'4".

then friends, family would shit on my short-lived commissions, saying that it was too expensive and they were appaled people would pay that much
>anon you can get a kigu off ebay for 20 bucks!!1 i wouldn't pay more than 30 for one of yours, they're just pjs
>aren't these really easy to make, can't you just crank it out in an hour

overall i got really tired of doing this, even more than shitty retail at macy's. i'm glad people like you understand the beautiful work of a one-of-a-kind project and ebay cheap knockoffs are not always the same thing

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:09:01 2014 No.7990154

>>7990141
Youre only offended because your friends didnt drop the same amount on a kigu. They have a kigu( jesus christ its only a kigu; it doesnt matter if its shitty) and saved a ton of money.now Youre on the same level, except they have more money to spend on other things or things that matter more than japanese pjs, whereas youre broke having to spend too much money on custom pajamas

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:11:03 2014 No.7990160 >>7990154 >its only a kigu who cares if it's shitty Basically this

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:11:41 2014 No.7990162 >>7990154 salty replica-chan

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:13:13 2014 No.7990167 >>7990160 It's like the difference between a good cheese and american singles. They're both food and have no effect one someone's life but one is just better. It matters so some people but not others.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:15:07 2014 No.7990171

>>7990141
I bought a shitty $20kigu and its so warm I can't lay under the covers at night or i'll drown in my own sweat. It's currently 55degrees in my room and my kigu has me comfortably toasty. Had it over a year and no issues, wash it once a week.

There's really no reason to commission one of you but from a seller with good reviews unless you want a custom character or you're somehow too tall for them.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:15:22 2014 No.7990173 >>7990162 Lolita is my thing. I own a 100% burando wardrobe because i care, but i dont care about a stupid fad like a kigu that half of ravers wear(probably all "replicas" too). So no, not jelly

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:18:07 2014 No.7990179

>>7990173
You also can't really have a replica of such a generic item either. That's like saying "well I bought footy pajamas from the original company that made them!" Like okay licensed characters can be knockoffs but a generic frog out cat or skeleton kigu cannot be a knockoff, any more than a striped T-shirt can be a knockoff.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:19:48 2014 No.7990182 >>7990179 You have to be a weeb to care about "replica" kigus

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 04:24:06 2014 No.7990192 >>7990182 Also this.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 05:37:25 2014 No.7990285 >>7987900 This is me with browns. I don't even mind mixing shades and not everything has to match 100% but cool and warm browns look like shit together. Shoes are especially terrible.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 05:45:44 2014 No.7990297 >>7988692 Haha it impresses me, too! I helped her a little bit, though, steering her towards the right websites once I found out she wanted to get me ll

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:10:47 2014 No.7990315

>>7988229
Vitamin D supplements are cheap, anon. Tons of people actually have a vitamin D deficiency, especially those with dark skin.

>>7988634
This feel. There's a little "cute Asian shit" shop near my house but it's extremely overpriced. Like I could buy all that stuff from Taobao, eBay or even YesAsia and would still be saving 50% even with shipping and SS fees.

>>7989902
I used to work with obnoxious bros like that, as well as a bunch of girls who kept giggling at everything (literally everything) they said and encouraging their obnoxious bro-ness. One time they made a joke that was literally just about them crashing into another person's parked car and how it didn't matter because the owner of the car was a woman and women can't drive. The entire room burst into laughter and I hadn't even realized it was supposed to be a joke until then, because it just sounded like a dumb story, not a joke.
I mentioned their bullshit to a higher up (aside from them being sexist dumbshits they were also disgusting and hoarded moldy peanut butter jars) they said that they really couldn't do much because they were unpaid student interns. Worst part is that I can't take any solace in the idea that these people are failures who will end up working at Walmart the rest of their lives - they were all neuroscience students, like me. The worst bros I know from high school also all went into politics, business or medicine because apparently that's where the big bucks are. Imagine having one of these assholes as your doctor.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:18:45 2014 No.7990319

>>7990101
We want to buy a house because his job either gives a housing allowance for rent, or 10% market value of a house we bought. Meaning the sooner we buy one, the sooner we stop throwing money at other people. In 10 years we'll have a free house basically. We have a pretty rad motorbike, a chopper, and we're not in the US so public transport is great and affordable. There's actually a problem of too many cars in this country and we really don't want to get one but for convenience and our pets.

This is the last one. We want to go to Japan and not planning to get married for at least another 2 years so that's not a problem.

Thanks guys.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:22:05 2014 No.7990322

I've already dropped 20kgs, but I'm still big. I bought a dress I absolutely adore in a size that fits me now, but I want to drop another 20kgs, and I'm going to be so heartbroken when it's too big for me and I'm forced to either sell/trade or attempt to take it in.

>I just want to feel pretty now
>not buying brand until I'm at goal weight

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:29:19 2014 No.7990326

I was looking at some photos of me from a few years ago and though I knew I gained weight it sorta put things into perspective for me. In the pictures I looked at, at that time I used to think I looked so fat but I really, really didn't once I dressed myself properly. I probably could have stood to lose 20 lbs at that weight but I looked pretty much fine. Looking at myself now I am just so dissatisfied with how I look and I can't believe I let myself gain all this weight back...in the pictures I was admiring myself in I actually had lost some weight and yeah in the past 4 years I gained it back and basically it's just my fault. Sigh. I would only have to lose about 30 lbs to get back to that weight but I still feel like an ass for gaining it in the first place and I'm also mad I thought I looked so fat when, looking at myself now, I looked nice. Ugh. I've been sulking for the past few months now but I've just recently began changing some bits of my diet and I've started exercising more. Trying a 1 month 10 lb kickstart thing.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:31:16 2014 No.7990331 >>7990326 Good luck, anon! Sometimes you only see yourself at your best when you look back on it. >tfw I made the same mistake with my hair

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:32:32 2014 No.7990332 >>7990322 nice progress so far though! don't give up!

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:33:56 2014 No.7990336 >>7990322 Take it in. 50 dollars or however much you spend on that would be worth much less than losing 40 kgs in total. You can do it!

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:38:12 2014 No.7990338

>>7990336
>tfw haenuli's angel of music JSK
>$250
I'm really pissed because I love the dress but I don't want to ruin the print. I'm hoping I can just find a tailor who can gather it properly at the waist so that the border print isn't skewed.
That, or I hope enough M's are ordered (I got an XL for the wiggle room that I feel dresses always need, even normalfag ones) that I can buy and sell my XL.

Has anyone ever taken in a JSK like that?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 06:39:15 2014 No.7990340 >>7990336 >>7990338 omg saging. Sorry, I thought you meant $50 I spent on the dress!

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 07:20:36 2014 No.7990357

>>7990018

Conspicuous consumption mixed with being a blind sheep. I live in a housing association/ authority house alongside homes worth $3million. We pay rent, my parents have been to community college because they couldnt afford unversity and worked many skilled jobs in IT, teaching, interior design, creative metalwork, art and now tv/film.The work is sporadic though, we still are in the lowest income bracket in the country. I wear lolita and yes it helps with my low self esteem, but I was never ashamed of not having expensive brand until people told me at meets that I 'should' buy it if I have the cash. I use that to cover the $250 a month it cost me to travel to uni, the food budget etc I also have multiple chronic illnesses and can't juggle a job with my degree. I don't want to waste my disability money when the lolita I buy is on par or less than normie clothes but the mythical brandwhore does exist and keeps telling me that it's brand or bust. So yeah I'm a poorfag even with government money but I trybnot to abuse it. I don't give a shit about designer clothes and just want to graduate, move out and support myself. If I didn't have that housing project/council house I would never have been in the catchment area for a private school I won a scholarship to and thus got to uni from. My entrance exam score was the second highest of 650 applicants, but had I still been in some ghetto bedsit I think I would have stayed in the gutter. I believe that some of our government assistance has enabled us to give back to society. Were we homeless, then it really would be throwing money into a bottomless pit with no tols to make economic or socisl progression. So whilst welfare is frustrating for people who work hard, opportunities often cost $$ from someone even if you are the most intelligent selfmade hero.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 07:43:35 2014 No.7990375

>>7987938
Your friends need to mind their own damn business. Are you taking care of bills? Do you starve yourself due to lack of cash? Do you have all of your necessities prioritized?

If the answer is yes to all those questions, then yoyr friends need to keep their nose out your wallet. Its like my coworkers harp on me when I dropped a couple hundred on my Tippman A5. Yet they have spent several grand on 4 wheelers, guns, tricks, and campers. And they have been bankrupt. People man...

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 07:45:05 2014 No.7990378 >>7990375 Well, i meant not starving. But yall know what I mean.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 07:46:45 2014 No.7990379

>I turned 20 today
>I'm having a midlife crisis
>I'm too old to pursue my dreams of becoming an idol
>My friends hate me
>My crush doesn't feel the same, and probably he's incredibly annoyed by my constant bothering
>Abusive parents who are forcing me to study a degree which I hate with a passion. Not kidding, this year I have spent more time locked in uni's bathrooms crying that actually going to class
>So depressed I can't even feel sad or angsty, I just feel empty.
>There's no way to make me happy, even cosplay/lolita don't make it for me anymore
I have planned doing an hero as soon as they leave me alone. Wish me luck /cgl/

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 08:00:37 2014 No.7990390

>>7990375
Different anon but my coworkers and some of my friends spend twice as much on alcohol as I do on clothes and they still harp on me for 'overspending on frivolous shit'. I've pointed this out to them but they just go
>lol but beer is fun and we're young so whatever
It's apparently impossible for them to see that I get as much enjoyment from my clothes as they get from drinking beer. I haven't even gone into the fact that many of my dresses could actually be resold for at least 50% of their original price if I don't like them anymore, but I'm pretty sure they wouldn't understand that either.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 08:20:44 2014 No.7990401
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>>7990379
>Turning 20 next year
>Looking at photo's from age 14-18 cosplay life
>People say I have my life ahead of me but
>I know that feel anon

It's probably not much of an cheer-up but, please remember that (Japanese) idol life has a lot of downsides and isn't really something you should've wished for in hindsight. A lot of money and attention isn't a free ticket to happiness, especially not in those quantities. There's the issue with boyfriends as well, public scandals, missing childhood even more when you're discarded as too old by your fanbase, ect.
For myself, I can say I don't really have that many friends either and even though I enjoy my studies I have a big chance of failing them for the second time just because I'm so bad at it. Is there anything you'd like to do in stead of your current education? Discuss it with your parents, tell them that your current degree is making you sad. No matter how abusive they are, they must care for your happiness too, right?

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 08:43:55 2014 No.7990412

>>7990390
That's how my friends are. They have no problem blowing a hundred dollars plus on alcohol and drugs and shit every other weekend, but when I spend a couple hundred on clothes or video games once in a blue moon, it's suddenly, "Anon, you're so bad with money. That's not worth it!" Never mind that I'll have these things for likely the rest of my life, but since it's not instant gratification in the same way booze is, it's not worth it.

>OT, is there a way to get this new reCAPTCHA to work with 4chan X? It doesn't come up for me unless I disable.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 09:02:44 2014 No.7990425

>>7990390
Different strokes for different folks, i just don't want to get demonized because I have different tastes, hobbies, interests than my peers. I spend 20 bucks a month on beer. I couldnt imagine being wasted every weekend. I do kinda overspend on MtG though. But some of those cards i have can be resold, and i usually break even concerning value. I got the new Nissa for the M15. But they snicker behind my back because I like something they don't. It's an ignorant us vs them idealogy. Its stupid.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 09:13:17 2014 No.7990430

>>7990412
>>7990425
I wouldn't even care if they weren't so sanctimonious and hypocritical about it. They act like alcohol is a necessity simply because they enjoy it yet my interests are frivolous and a waste of money, despite the fact that I enjoy them just as much. You'd think that "stop liking what I don't like" mentality would blow over some time after high school but several of these people are in their mid thirties and have children of their own.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 09:17:18 2014 No.7990432

>>7990401
I still really wanted to be an idol even with the downsides. It has been my dream since I was about 3 years old and I really love music, and singing and dancing, so it was in fact my only dream. Also, I am already experiencing the downsides of being an idol (stalkers, boyfriend scandals) even thought I've got a tiny, tiny fanbase.
Also I have already discussed it with my parents and they have seen me getting phisically sick from the stress of going back, and even thought I have given them plenty of other choices they are just like "AIAIAIAI IT HAS TO BE THIS DEGREE. IT CAN'T BE OTHER ONE. THIS ONE. HERE. U DON MOVE".
I'm so upset.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 09:33:40 2014 No.7990444 >just almost decided not to follow someone on tumblr because they're ugly >/cgl/, you're what made me this way

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 09:36:48 2014 No.7990449 >>7990444 me too... and black girls and brolitas

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 10:12:58 2014 No.7990495
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> Order felt pillbox hat for lolita friend for Christmas.
> It arrives today, seller has sent it in a thin plastic jiffy bag rather than a box.
> Postman has a habit of being cunty and complaining when I order a lot of packages.
> Postman was too lazy to knock on the door for a signature so he's forced the parcel through the letter box.
> Open it and the hats completely mangled and lost its shape, spent an hour fixing it with a hair dryer.

Seriously, fuck lazy sellers and postal workers.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 10:15:59 2014 No.7990501 >this influx of mecha cosplays on /cgl/ is crushing me >want so badly to commission one of the mech namefags

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 10:21:05 2014 No.7990506 >>7990444 >>7990449 I don't follow ugly people or brolitas either, unless I know and like them personally. My tumblr is for pretty things. I'm not going to invite ugly things onto it just to be politically correct or spare someone's feelings.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 10:44:07 2014 No.7990529

I'm just getting into lolita. I know starting out seems expensive, but I think I've gone overboard for a beginner. I just counted up the purchases I've made in the last two months, and it's probably close to $800 for my first four main pieces plus some blouses, wigs, shoes, and accessories. I know by lolita standards, that's not all that bad, but I feel so guilty for spending that much money so quickly.

To top it all off, I'm impatient and anxious about sending money to people in general, and I'm so afraid I'm going to get scammed. Most places have had good communication, and truthfully, it's only been 10-12 business days since I began the more complicated transactions, so I know I'm probably worrying about nothing, but I can't help but feel anxious about that much money just floating around with no products to show for it yet.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 10:56:29 2014 No.7990547

>>7990432
Anon, I know this is all easier said than done and you might already be in too deep (financially) with college and idk your housing and financial situation with your parents (if you don't have much of a choice but to rely on them) but at some point I hope you are able to just break off from them...like, completely move somewhere else and cease all contact with them. Whether you have to do it quickly without warning (wake up next morning, "bye mom n dad") or what but no one should ever have that kind of control over someone's life and you deserve happiness and to control your own life. I know that's kinda something big to do, but I hope you are able to escape their grasp somehow, other than offing yourself, because you really do deserve to enjoy your life.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:02:35 2014 No.7990556 >>7990547 I have tried and tried but they always seem to find out when I'm about to leave for good. I think my only options at this moment are basically get married as soon as possible with a foreigner/ accept this life and try to live with it

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:06:36 2014 No.7990561

>>7990432
Can you lie to them? Is there another degree you'd like to pursue? Go back and declare the major you want, have all mail from the school that might give it away sent to an address other than your parents', maybe tell them after you graduate and have a job.

Honestly, at 20, I would recommend you move out if possible and cut them out of your life. Get whatever job you need, find a roommate or stay with a friend if you can, even for just a little while. It's your life, anon.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:08:01 2014 No.7990565 >>7990556 They can't literally keep you locked in their house, can they? Idk where you're from, but unless it's some really strict country where they can legally control your life for whatever reason, who cares if they find out? Have a fight and leave.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:14:47 2014 No.7990577 >>7990529 It'll be okay. Slow down your spending if you're worried about it. And if your items are coming from overseas, you'll probably start seeing them in the next couple weeks. Just stay in contact with whomever and ask for updates periodically.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:16:33 2014 No.7990578

>>7990561
I lie to them but they always find out. They always use their mails for uni related shit, and since I live in a shithole country where they think your parents can't be abusive they can sign me up for uni without me knowing. This year I tried lying to them and controlling their mails so they wouldn't find out, but they did anyways. They are basically like a "Big Brother" to me
.>>7990565
Well, no they can't, but every time they find out they manage to cancel my plans and take my money away, which they have done a lot of times. At this point they have become so paranoid that I can't leave the house alone/ meet with my friends without parental surveillance and they drain my money by using the excuses "you are too expensive/we need to pay for your brother's medicines/ we have some unexpected bills". Also every time I find a job they manage to find a way to have my salary managed to them to "pay for petrol" because, obviously, I can't drive yet (heck, in fact they never taught me to ride a bike so I couldn't leave too far)

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:46:18 2014 No.7990606

>>7990578
Even if your country doesn't believe your parents can be abusive, surely they believe in theft? If they just outright take your money away, that's not okay. I'm really sorry for you situation, but frankly, you're an adult and need to find a way to get out. A lot of this sounds like excuses. And I'm speaking as someone who left abusive parents to live on a friend's couch and live off stale bread and ramen for two months before I could save up enough and found a roommate. It can be done.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:50:22 2014 No.7990612

>starting to feel ill
>dizzy, tired, unable to concentrate
>just made a couple of really dumb mistakes while sewing my new years dress
Holy fuck I am so happy I bought extra fabric.

Also
>boyfriend works in hospital
>I work at home and rarely leave the house lately
>bf started feeling ill a few days ago
>I started feeling ill today
>clearly I am the one who brought this (cold, flu, whatever) into the house, not him
>?????
>logic

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:57:09 2014 No.7990620 >>7987110 are you me?

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 11:58:09 2014 No.7990623

>>7990606
Yes and no. My country of course believes in theft, but if it's vour close family the one who takes it away, they brush it off by saying "it's just money they need, they'll repay it back anon, they are family they would never do bad shit to you"
Also of course I need to leave but most of my friends wouldn't put me up, it's a mixture of "I don't believe you"+"we don't give a shit"+ "I still live with my parents and they don't believe you". If I left I'd go homeless. Also not really keen on leaving because I have a brother and if I left the abuse could turn on him. I prefer to be mistreated myself than leaving and having my brother be mistreated.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 12:13:32 2014 No.7990638
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Good feels:
>order a half a yard of fabric to check quality cuz no samples available
>fuck it, I have a couple extra bucks, even if it's shitty
>get 2 different colors
>BOTH ARE SUPER CRAZY AMAZING QUALITY
>1 color has been a color I've been looking for for literally almost a year
>no more money in my account because I'm an adult who pays bills on time and shit
>shamelessly phone mother and ask to borrow money til Friday
>SHE SAYS YES!
>snagged last 4 yards of super amazing fabric
>site now says it will NOT be restocked
>happily paying mother back today
omg yesssssssssss....
This is a huge win for me. Now I can make the secret costume I've been wanting to make but never had the fabric for, so I planned but never put it into action!
I started working on it this morning first thing.
YES!
Also:
>last of non-prescribed ADD meds from my shady sister
>could not get to a legit doctor because of my insurance
>husband just got officially hired into his company after 8 months
>literally does not/has never happened to someone who has only been there that long
>now has family insurance plan that is amazing and basically accepted anywhere
>mrw I can finally stop buying super butt expensive pills and go see a legit psychiatrist and do it all legal now
>also getting off government assitance

Bad feels:
>pills I take make sexy-time difficult to get into and borderline painful
>husband is a grumpy bear over it
>acts like a douchebag whenever I physically cannot have sex
>now have very little money for food every week that still cuts deeply into our budget

Husband has issues. But, shit, I'm mostly thankful for the good stuff! I'm okay with being a bit hungry after all we've gone through!

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 12:23:37 2014 No.7990649

>Want to take cute pictures with new camera
>Mom messed with my room and the SD card is missing
>She's been depressed so I don't want to bring it up and make her feel bad

Dammit mom, everything would be fine if you just stopped touching everyone's stuff.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 12:25:42 2014 No.7990654 >make a test version of cosplay(tight fit dress) >realize I don't need to sew zipper because I'm so flat and can just pull it over myself To be honest this makes me kind of happy, it means less work.

>>	The Warden !!TdjiLcSZ3ta Fri Dec 12 12:27:52 2014 No.7990659 File: 18 KB, 300x300, face palm.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Every time I scroll through the Kumoricon facebook page I die a little inside.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 12:56:24 2014 No.7990687 >>7990654 this is my logic too. invisible zippers are a bitch.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 13:52:48 2014 No.7990748 >>7990638 My boyfriend gets like that too, because my BC killed my sex drive and sometimes I just.... can't. He can't help it though, he gets so upset with himself later for getting upset about it.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:02:01 2014 No.7990763

>>7987040
>took photo for my new ID
>they turn it black and white
>hadn't slept the previous night and it shows
>today I receive it and I look like a completely different race holy fuck
>mfw I'm a pasty white girl with dark circles and they made me look like an ugly, cocaine-addled Arabic child trafficker

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:07:06 2014 No.7990783

pretty good day seagulls

>mom opened up to me about her horrible childhood
>(she's been attending therapy recently and is on antianxiety and antidepressant medications)
>really fucking awful childhood
>had no parents, really
>amazed because she is the most motherly person I know
>don't know anyone who doesn't like her because she's just so sweet and goofy and loving
>i luv u mam

We bonded so much, like I am SO happy she felt comfortable enough to tell me.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:08:48 2014 No.7990789 >>7990783 I read that as "we boned so much" at first

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:35:39 2014 No.7990846

>>7990748
Man, at least your bf shows some remorse.
Husband is SUPER passive-aggressive about it and says shit like "why did I even get married if I'm just going to be denied sex all the time" and garbage like that.

Don't get me wrong, we do love each other and have a pretty good relationship, but he's such a fucking dick when he gets denied, and I only deny him if there's a good reason, so.
Ugh.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:39:34 2014 No.7990851 >>7990846 If that's such a problem for you, why did you get married? It sounds like you guys aren't on the same level of needs and wants in the relationship.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:42:50 2014 No.7990859 >>7990846 Hah. I hope he soon realizes he can get sex elsewhere if you wont give it to him. Id feel bad for him if he already had a kid with you, then hes truly screwed

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:46:17 2014 No.7990862 File: 1008 KB, 300x225, WYVEC3N.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990851 Wow! You've deduced that from the one issue I've mentioned while knowing nothing else about our relationship or who we are as people? Thanks, doctor!

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:49:28 2014 No.7990865 >>7990862 Damn, what a bitchy knee-jerk reaction. I was asking a simple question you stupid bitch.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:50:37 2014 No.7990866 >>7990862 Who pissed in your oatmeal?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:51:04 2014 No.7990868 >>7990748 He should get himself an escort . For once, muslim men are in the right for having multiple woman. All this shit western women pull.... Jesus

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:53:10 2014 No.7990871 >>7990868 >>7990859 >>>/r9k/

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:55:48 2014 No.7990874

>>7990748
>>7990846
>>7990859
Man, I'm super glad I'm not dating a man-child who cares more about his dick than my well-being. If I say it hurts, he stops, no questions asked. If I say I don't want to, he gets the fuck over it without being a little bitch. I agree that you should be with someone with a similar sex drive so one doesn't always feel pressured and the other rejected, but I bet it sucks to be stuck with someone who feels entitled to your body whenever they please.
>inb4 frigid, hope he cheats, blahblahblah
We have sex usually daily or every other day at least, and he also says no sometimes, and I fucking deal with it like an adult who cares about my partner.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 14:58:54 2014 No.7990878

>>7990874
Most of these people are probably over reacting. I know that for a lot of people any kind of disappointment shown about it gets them up in arms and offended.

If they get pushy then obviously that's an issue, but it's also an issue to get mad at them showing disappointment.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:02:48 2014 No.7990884

>>7990878
But I mean there's a limit to it. My sister got married to a guy who hasn't touched her in months and her marriage is suffering because, while she doesn't have much of a sex drive herself, they hadn't fucked more than twice in a year and each time he couldn't finish and got tired halfway. It's completely okay to get mad sometimes, albeit OP's husband is pushing it.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:03:55 2014 No.7990886

>>7990874
there is a point where it just doesnt work out and there needs to be a compromise; Like a sugar baby on the side just for sex. Naturally, most mammals are not meant to be monogamous. I dont believe humans are either. The "seven year itch" isnt a phenomenon, nor does the divorce rate lie. The only population that have low divorce rates are due to being super religious, filial and conservative.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:07:29 2014 No.7990892

>>7990884
Obviously, but honestly most of the people who get pissed about this shit are really blowing it out of proportion. It usually boils down to "omg he FROWNED a little bit, he's going to rape me, he doesn't respect my body disgusting horny men!" when it's really no big deal.

People just overreact to this stuff too much in a really special snowflakey way all the time.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:12:02 2014 No.7990897 >>7990892 Pretty much this. Of course your own body is important and deserves respect, but it gets to the point when it seems like they don't understand who they're with. When it's marriage it's like how did you not know this?

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:18:43 2014 No.7990904
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>tfw got job back
>tfw want to buy all sorts of things again:

a dress and jsk set on the comm sales, a kigurumi, a new petticoat, a blouse or two, some shoes, and Christmas presents for others

>tfw rent and utilities due by Jan 5th
>tfw budgeting realistically and realizing that even if I did order my things, they won't get here when I want them

>mfw no spyro the dragon kigu to wear on New Year's Eve

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:21:27 2014 No.7990907 >>7990623 in soviet russia, tv watches you?

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:23:51 2014 No.7990912

>>7990874
He gets like that after we don't have sex for like... two months. He's got an insane sex drive, so it really eats at him.

It's not like "weh you didn't have sex wih me 4 times this week weeeeeeh"

We used to be fine, but when I got on BC everything went downhill. I have to be on it for medical reasons.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:25:57 2014 No.7990918 >>7990866 Her husband, I'm guessing.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:26:48 2014 No.7990919

>>7990912
Also he doesn't like try to make me do anything, he just gets grumpy and doesn't talk much, because he knows he's grumpy and he doesn't want to snap at me.

Honestly he has the patience of a saint with me. The sexual tension just makes him grumpy sometimes.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:26:58 2014 No.7990920

>>7990865
>>7990866

Because it's seriously such stupid fucking question.
>why did you get married if this is such a problem?
Implying that this was always a problem, even 4 years ago.

I called tell if these replies are from retards or trolls, at this point.
Then again, /r9k/ seems to have dropped in hard, so.

>>7990874
Yeah, it sucks.
You don't have to justify yourself and your actions, anon, no matter how much sex you and your SO have.
I'm glad for you!
I just have to work with husband and his issues. He's a recovering alcoholic and has NO idea what to do with his emotions and feelings now that he doesn't have alcohol as a crutch to go to now that he's got a court-ordered blowbox.
It's just a matter of talking through shit and having him realize that it's no okay for him to take out his negative feelings on me and he needs to find another way to deal.
Slowly workin' through it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:27:29 2014 No.7990924 File: 3.60 MB, 370x229, disgusting.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990315 >imagine one of these assholes as your doctor

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:46:44 2014 No.7990943

>>7990912
Okay, no sex for two months seems ridiculous. Do you at least blow him or anything? Can you try a different BC that might have a less drastic effect on your libido?

>>7990920
You sound like a supportive spouse, and I hope you two can work through it in the end.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:47:30 2014 No.7990945 >>7990920 Wow you are really a bitch. I'm not even any of the other anons, and I'm not a troll, but you are definitely the kind of people that >>7990892 is talking about. The problem isn't his reaction, it's the fact that you take it so personally.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:49:46 2014 No.7990948 File: 105 KB, 680x454, 11676652-md.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990865 >expecting people to be nice on 4chan >abloo bloo bloo

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 15:57:37 2014 No.7990964
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>>7990945
You have to be a troll.
No one posts something like what you just posted and isn't pants-on-head retarded.

I'm more dumbfounded and not and all offended. You seem to be the one who's taking it so personally.
Why so mad that an internet stranger called you stupid, anon?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:00:57 2014 No.7990967 File: 441 KB, 500x280, 1410101554485.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990943 >Do you at least blow him or anything?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:03:42 2014 No.7990972 has 4chan been riddled with 12 years old today or?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:04:21 2014 No.7990973 File: 37 KB, 1148x549, beep.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7990763 Kek

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:11:05 2014 No.7990977
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>dress coming in the mail
>bound for old address because mistakes
>been watching it bounce back and forth between different offices for a week and a half now, all within driving distance

When am i going to get this shit

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:12:50 2014 No.7990980 >>7987887 Anon, bitches you hate you for being happy are just that, bitches. It's just about timing and picking your words, I remember people getting mad at one girl who was like "OMG I GOT THREE CELESTIAL DRESSES WHAT A SURPRISE!"

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 16:13:02 2014 No.7990981 >>7990972 >implying 4chan isn't riddled with 12 year olds every day

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 18:53:07 2014 No.7991159
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>group of friends going to show at con
>I have a panel i want to go to, so i cant wait in line with them
>"save a spot for me friends"
>"kk"
>get out of panel and go to meet up with them
>get in line with them
>girl behind me immediately starts bitching us out
>dont respond to her cause its not worth it
>she keeps causing an uproar
>constaff notice
>upgrades her whole group to VIP
>"if i see one more body added to your group of people you will not be allowed into the event and kicked out of line"
>mfw

Like really? One more person isnt going to be enough to keep you from getting into a show in a main events room? Can you please calm the fuck down? I can imagine getting mad of a fuck ton of people show up but i am one god damn body.

She was in a shitty au cosplay that wasnt even constructed very well, so thats a small win for me.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 19:03:34 2014 No.7991170

>depressed
>haven't worked on cosplay in months
>basically just going through the motions of living and only looking forward to being unconscious again
>barely eating because don't care and hardly feel hungry anymore
>at least i'm losing weight and will look better in cosplay photos/lolita once i force myself back into the hobbies

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 21:06:03 2014 No.7991310 >join maid cafe >realize almost everyone looks like shit except for you I don't know if I'm happy or embarrassed.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 22:34:43 2014 No.7991425 >>7991159 You cut the line. You are at fault. You don't fucking do that shit.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 22:37:23 2014 No.7991428

>>7990977
Call the iffice, ask them to hold it, go pick it up

.>>7990943
My mom had a stroke while on the kill, so I can only have hormonal BC, and the pill is too fussy for my work schedule. I'm switching to the arm implant, but if that doesn't work I'm out of options.

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:33:17 2014 No.7991506
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>Meet up with local girl to buy a wig off her
>Waiting for subway to go home
>The lady beside me jumps and kills herself
>Hold me seagulls

to make it /cgl/ related
>I had been carrying part of a commission I did for a friend
>It got crazy squished on the dash to the shuttle buses
I fixed it on the way home though

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:36:30 2014 No.7991509 >>7991425 Not that anon, but unless it was a people restricted event, I wouldn't really care. If I really wanted to go to the event, I would have gotten there sooner. You just kinda have to plan for the line to elongate in front of you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:38:45 2014 No.7991517 >tfw can't afford to go to Katsucon

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:39:58 2014 No.7991519 >>7991506 Jesus. You okay? That's a rough thing to witness.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:42:40 2014 No.7991521 >>7991506 Oh god. You should find someone to talk to about that. I hope you're alright.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:55:56 2014 No.7991532 >>7991506 I once saw a small child get crushed between train and track, it's a very hard thing to get over I really hope you get help if you need it!!

Anonymous Fri Dec 12 23:58:54 2014 No.7991535
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>>7991506
I'm sorry, anon! I've had something similar happen to me and it's really, really scary. I wish I knew how to help aside from that. Internet hugs for you.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 00:18:37 2014 No.7991542

>>7991509
No you don't. You don't cut queues in the first place and then blame everyone else when people throw a fit. If you lived in my country you'd get the whole queue yelling at you and telling you to fuck off until you do. Were you raised in a barn?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 00:25:48 2014 No.7991547 File: 1.82 MB, 1929x4240, 1418435643459.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7987927 >Goes to a con dressed like pic >Calls some out as a pervert for looking at it Its not illegal to take photos of things in a public space sweetheart.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 00:37:04 2014 No.7991557

>>7991159
you sound like an entitled brat, sorry anon. kids like you pissed me off back when i was in public school.

it's not about what /actual difference/ it makes, it's about respect for other people. the world would have no order if everyone thought like you - "oh i'm just one person what does it matter if i violate social norms of fairness and respect! everyone needs to calm down i'm not hurting anyone!!!"

some people don't care, and that's fine, but others get rightfully upset. you were even more of an ass by ignoring her.

with your notion of "one body doesn't make a difference" you could've just let her go in front of your group of friends, and I'm sure all would've been fine and dandy.

but you'd still be a dick for cutting in the first place.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 00:40:09 2014 No.7991559 File: 60 KB, 1280x720, 1397012328192.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7991547 >all those guys >none looking at her

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 00:40:17 2014 No.7991560 >>7991547 He asked for the thousands of ass shots he had. Look, we both know she's dressed like a whore, that doesn't mean it's polite to announce you're fapping to them.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:04:20 2014 No.7991587 >>7991547 That doesn't make taking pictures of possibly non-consenting people to spank to any less creepy or disgusting

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:10:55 2014 No.7991598 >>7991587 Any less creepy and disgusting than being a cos whore?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:13:29 2014 No.7991603 >>7991598 coswhores aren't creepy and disgusting, just annoying and disgusting

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:18:13 2014 No.7991606 >>7991598 More imo Conwhores just annoying, perverts are disgusting

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:30:04 2014 No.7991620 >>7991517 There with you. I could propoobably be able to cut it, but I know it wouldn't be responsible and it would still take a decent chunk of my small savings to swing it. >maybe next year

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 01:45:44 2014 No.7991650

>>7991620
>>7991517
>going to katsucon
>not sure if enough money
>gonna have to wing it, hotel's booked, friend and another seagull staying with us

At least my badge is paid for?

I guess I'll have to ask all my relatives for money for christmas and... not spend anything else until then.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:16:34 2014 No.7991680

>go on /r9k/ to see what new depths of depression they've found
>see thread about /cgl/ feel threads
>robots all whining about how every girl on /cgl/ brags about using betas for gifts while they wait for chad
>see this thread
Feels pretty good. Good to know that /r9k/ are just being autistic as usual.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:23:41 2014 No.7991689 >>7991680 >Ever doubting /r9k/'s autism >EVER

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:24:10 2014 No.7991691

>>7990886
>The "seven year itch" isnt a phenomenon, nor does the divorce rate lie
Yeah... it says that a lot of people are selfish twats who can't commit to relationships. Then they'll claim "oh it's just because humans can't be monogomous" so they don't have to feel like pieces of shit about it.

Meanwhile... millions of people around the world have successful and fulfilling marriages that they are happy to be part of.

Relationships require work. A lot of people don't seem to understand that, so they aren't willing to put forth any sort of effort to maintain a relationship. Thus, they end up cheating and then pretending it's okay.

Have fun dying alone.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:33:32 2014 No.7991695 File: 160 KB, 333x500, 1418176152903.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7991691 i never mentioned cheating. there is such a thing as a healthy AND happy polygamous relationships.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:47:00 2014 No.7991706 >>7991695 Every single one ends up shitty. You say people are "naturally" polygamous (they aren't) but boy, they're even more naturally possessive and jealous. Have fun with your petty drama while I'm happily married.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:48:21 2014 No.7991707 >>7991680 Never change, /r9k/. They aren't even ugly, just deluded with horrid personalities.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:51:25 2014 No.7991710 >>7991707 One of these days I'm gonna go there and brag about how good Chad Thundercock is in bed and how I only sleep with big handsome alpha men that they will never measure up to. Ought to rustle a jimmy or five.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:54:14 2014 No.7991714 >>7991706 Youre pulling shit out of your ass.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:56:14 2014 No.7991716 >>7991714 So are you, what's your point?

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:57:21 2014 No.7991718

>>7991706
This. Humans evolved to be monogomous because it helped us survive. The way our young develop does not compliment polyamory.

>>7991714
Try doing a little research, dipshit.

Humans had one partner typically. They'd mate, have a child. The mother would care for the child while the male hunted/gathered and brought back food. This is where gender roles come from, not from ~muh oppression~. By the time one kid was weaned and old enough to sort of handle itself without mom, there'd be another kid that needed her tits to feed it. So the kids were cared for and protected by the mother figure while the male father figure would find food and shit.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 02:58:03 2014 No.7991720 >>7991716 No, im not. You can look shit up yourself. What i wrote makes more logical sense and you can find statistics of.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 03:02:09 2014 No.7991724 >>7990529 >>7990577 Just received shipping confirmation for two main pieces, thank god. I knew I was worrying about nothing, but I'm so happy to have that info finally.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 03:07:08 2014 No.7991730 File: 783 KB, 1500x1796, a feel from the abyss.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no lolita gf

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 03:15:14 2014 No.7991745 >>7991720 Statistics don't mean shit and I'm not gonna look it up for you. If you had facts to back it up you'd look for them yourself.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 03:20:30 2014 No.7991751 File: 35 KB, 309x300, face14.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Feel threads on this board always go from lolita/cosplay feels into senseless arguing every fucking time and it's always something different

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 03:59:48 2014 No.7991780 >>7991751 You mean like pretty much everywhere else on 4chan?

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 04:17:48 2014 No.7991788

>>7991560
>7991560
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAH. God you're naive.
>>7991587
Implying that its not a given thing. If you want to do this then you should expect it. Men can masturbate over your body if they want. You dont want them too? Dont go outside dressed like a giant slut.

Its like if you dont want cataracts dont stare at the sun all day.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 04:24:55 2014 No.7991792 >>7991730 >tfw no ouji bf

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 04:28:06 2014 No.7991794 >>7991788 > this much in denial about being a creep Kek, have fun fapping over those pics.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 04:42:07 2014 No.7991802

>>7988321
>>7988312
Not obese, or overweight? I care so much over small issues with my looks and you think I'm ready to accept the idea of gaining weight?

>>7988356
I use a parasol even in no rainy weather. Nothing more obtuse looking than going out in Lolita clothes though.

>>7988303
Would love to just have grown up 4 years ago.

>>7989391
Good thing I just found out I've been buying fortified milk this whole time.. dodged a bullet there

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 05:22:26 2014 No.7991821 >selling on lacemarket >two internationals ask about shipping costs >both leave when I tell them how much it is Welp. Thanks US exporting costs.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 08:01:05 2014 No.7991895 File: 205 KB, 455x292, 1417763750354.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7991788

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 10:40:31 2014 No.7992031 >>7991821 I know right. I've had buyers get mad at me when I tell them shipping is going to be at least $35 with the tracking. The USPS apparently doesn't like us regular folk trying to mail things across our country's lines.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 10:52:19 2014 No.7992042

>Message two different sellers about same dress
>One of them stops replying for some days so I make arrangements with the 2nd
>The 2nd says she will check for shipping, and tell me how much it is.
>The 1st one responds and is much quicker responding my emails, so probably she would be quicker sending the dress.
>2nd one has been inactive for a few days.
Should I ditch the 1st one and go for the 2nd? Wouldn't that make me... Kind of a bitch?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 10:53:35 2014 No.7992043 >>7992042 Aw sorry, I mean ditch the 2nd one and go with the 1st. My reading comprehension = terrible

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 14:35:34 2014 No.7992227 > Never going to find a cute, shy, gay Asian boy, with a good job, to cosplay with.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 15:21:41 2014 No.7992293
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>live in bumblefuck
>bae lives in next state over
>majority of friends live long distance too
>work 40 hours a week
>fucking up school
>have terrible terrible self esteem
>buys burando and always makes cosplay plans but never can get self to do stuff in public
>fits of depersonalization,derealization,severe panic,anxiety and dissociation at times
>i just want to be involved with my hobbies and live somewhere where theres actually stuff going on, and have friends who are into the stuff im into

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 15:54:07 2014 No.7992341 >>7992227 >I'm getting older now >feel the same way >even more hopeless since I'm black and asian guys rarely like black girls >I have a date this Christmas miracles do happen

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 17:22:57 2014 No.7992483 >>7992042 I would stick with the one who didn't flake for a few days mid-sale, even if her emails are a little slower, she seems more reliable.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 17:59:08 2014 No.7992536

>Gorgeous boy at work makes my heart go doki-doki
>Doesn't seem to mind my outlandish clothing, we get along really well
>He has a girlfriend though, so I mentally file him as "unavailable"
>Out drinking after work, he kisses me
>Tells me he really likes me, but keeps trying to get me to sleep with him even though he knows I really have a problem with the fact that he's already in a relationship

I guess he's just an asshole, but damn. He is exactly my type and dresses incredibly well. He looks like an anime bishounen; my 14-year-old self would have instantly creamed herself if she'd been in my position. We would have been so cute together. </3

Also:
>No money for Christmas presents
>Apartment looks like an episode of "extreme hoarders"
>In spite of this I still keep browsing auctions and lacemarket

I have a problem.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:06:13 2014 No.7992543

>>7992536
I have a similar problem. My room looks like what you're describing as your apartment. I have unsorted boxes of lolita/j-fashion in my room that I haven't put away in my wardrobe, let alone tried on. And I have stuff coming in the post. AND I'm planning to buy a luckypack and another dress. Goddammit. All my xmas money went when Juliette et Justine finally charged my debit card 3-5 months after I purchased something (goddam 64k yen), so any christmas presents are coming out of my savings (as well as these future fashion buys).

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:09:33 2014 No.7992549 >>7992536 wow fuck that dude

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:13:07 2014 No.7992552
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>purge after overeating
>can't handle the taste and smell of my own vomit and stop after puking three times
>feel like I need to do it more but know I shouldn't
Sorry if this is triggering to anyone.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:14:59 2014 No.7992554 >>7992536 Those guys are never worth it in the end. Just ignore him and try to get over him, when you do he will look like any other guy.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:29:39 2014 No.7992563
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Two of my dream pieces are shipping to me this week! I'm really hoping that they'll get here in time for Christmas. It feels so wonderful to move them from Wishlist to Wardrobe.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:38:56 2014 No.7992573 >>7992552 If you can't do any more, then stop. You'll ruin your gag reflex. Also, purge doesn't have to just be throwing up. There is excessive exercise too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 18:39:02 2014 No.7992574 >>7992536 Later you don't want to be in his girlfriends position when he moves on to the next girl.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 19:25:30 2014 No.7992633 >>7992573 >tfw I do both I hate myself so much. I'm trying to decrease the amount of times I purge per day, but I don't know how successful that will be.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 13 21:52:21 2014 No.7992858 >>7989902 /mu/ is possibly the worst board. It fucking sucks. Im ashamed that this faggy guy lives in the same city as I do.

Anonymous Sat Dec 13 22:14:11 2014 No.7992887

not really /cgl/ related but
>everyone at work getting on my nerves
>they need help for simple tasks and get pissed when I say no because I'm busy with other tasks
>how are they all even this incompetent
The owners have been jewing out on our team (cutting hours/staff/overtime pay/not fixing shit that is broken) so I'm trying to leave as soon as possible ugh.
They're also holding our work Christmas party this Thursday and people keep yelling at me when I say I'm not going.

>at least I found some otks that have been on my Wishlist for a while on lacemarket this morning

Anonymous Sun Dec 14 04:48:30 2014 No.7993273
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>need to change one of my classes (drama) because I have ridiculous anxiety and keep getting shit grades in all the assignments because of that
>want to be a director, artist and/or psychologist so would prefer to take an elective that relates to that
>too scared the counselor is going to ignore me and refuse to let me change, which has happened before (she previously put me in band even though I explicitly told her I can't play any instruments, the band teacher literally had to kick me out before she would listen)
>it's already the end of the second quarter
kill me

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 14 10:03:21 2014 No.7993519 >>7993273 Are you in highschool?

Anonymous Sun Dec 14 14:28:18 2014 No.7993894

>see dress I want on LaceMarket
>not really sure if I should buy it
>but it's such a good price
>decide to put in a bid with 5 hours left, if I get it, I get it, if not oh well
>wake up this morning
>I got it
>babbys_first_burando.jpg
>super excited now

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