/cgl/ feels thread

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/cgl/ feels thread Anonymous Sun Dec 28 17:31:50 2014 No.8020249 [Reply] [Original]

did everyone stop feeling during the holidays?
let's get a new one rolling

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 17:50:49 2014 No.8020277 File: 37 KB, 600x338, waifu.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020249 No she wouldn't.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 18:05:59 2014 No.8020291 >>8020277 You have a terrible waifu. I'm ashamed.

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 18:18:33 2014 No.8020304
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I got a shit ton of money from relatives and I'm torn between pursuing cosplay or buying a portable keyboard piano that I could practice on at night and bring to family gatherings.

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 18:46:03 2014 No.8020332

>TFW no weeb/Goth protégé
I've been clearing out some stuff at my parents house and I've got a bunch of almost unworn tacky goth stuff from brands like Poizen Industries etc that I'm worried the charity stores might just bin, but I've had bad experiences with getting to sell on eBay and it doesn't seem worth it. I just want to walk up to a tween Goth and hand it over, I remember how much tacky skulls and zips on everything meant when I was that age and how much it hurt when I couldn't afford the clothing of my people, but I don't know any kids that age.

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 19:40:32 2014 No.8020426

>>8020332
Same anon! All of my gothic clothing is stuff I either still use or gave to my sister, but I was clearing out my hats/scarves/gloves box and at the bottom I found a bunch of fingerless gloves and lace-up armwarmers and shit. At the time I thought they were the height of cool, and I kinda don't wanna just throw them away even though I'd never touch them now. With the prices they charge at Claire's and the alternative market near me, I reckon I've got $40 worth of stuff, which ain't that much but it's a lot of money when you're a tween.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 19:53:56 2014 No.8020457 Hey guys, I kind of want a girlfriend. Advice?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 19:55:43 2014 No.8020461 >>8020332 >>8020426 Leave it in a box marked "free" outside the local middle school / high school on the first day back to classes?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 19:56:48 2014 No.8020463 >>8020457 Go to SOC and fuck off before you get banned.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 20:03:21 2014 No.8020478 >>8020461 Damn that's a good idea. Not that anon but I might do that with my old Hottopic shit

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 20:03:31 2014 No.8020480 >>8020461 That'd just seem weird. If only their was a Closet Child equivalent over here I'd donate them (don't expect to sell). I know that charity shops in certain areas have more alternative stuff than others, but I don't live near any of them.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 20:05:56 2014 No.8020484 File: 45 KB, 527x487, 1416438895447.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw walk past grill in store >tfw she smells good

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 20:57:32 2014 No.8020634 File: 783 KB, 1500x1796, tfw.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020484 >tfw cute girl smiles at you at store >tfw when you walk by and she farted

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:05:28 2014 No.8020644

>>8020457
give back to humanity, realize humanity owes you nothing, and enjoy what you receive. this simple change in attitude, combined with learning a skill which has tangible effect on the physical world, can make a difference in how you see people and how they see you.

even if you do not get a girlfriend from these changes, you will find peace.

>tfw alone and peaceless
>tfw on the path to useful serenity

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:06:06 2014 No.8020646
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>>8020249
>Didn't get any money, any gifts, or anything
>Not going to get anything in 2015 either
>Is kind of depressed because I'm getting people gifts and going out my way to get them from Japan

I know I'm a beta and a loser but it's like I wish that I could have a boyfriend or a friend or my family or someone give me good stuff, even if it's not on a holiday.

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:07:45 2014 No.8020650

>>8020480
"Oh man if only I could get rid of this stuff in a way that required 0 effort and resulted in me feeling 0 guilt."

Put them in bundles of related gear, mark them as "Lucky Packs," advertise them on tumblr for likes or however tumblr gives away free shit. advertise it local-only if you don't want to pay for shipping. set up a neutral, public drop-off if you don't want to continue interaction with the winner. get creative.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:09:20 2014 No.8020653 >>8020646 It's understandable anon, it's nice getting gifts even just to know that it's because they care enough to get you anything at all. And I'm sure it'll get better at some point, really.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:09:57 2014 No.8020655 >>8020332 Are you in the US? Give it away on Craigslist.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:15:59 2014 No.8020664 >>8020653 Thanks. I've been sort of down because of life issues and stress so hearing people getting ipad and iphones sort of makes me feel worse because my phone is a five year flip phone lol. I just lost my job too.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 21:25:29 2014 No.8020687 >>8020664 Venting is perfectly fine about stuff like that, and let's hope 2015 will bring some better luck to you!

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:02:42 2014 No.8020764 File: 39 KB, 312x247, 958311976.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >help someone make a prop for their cosplay. >Wouldnt have been able to make it without me. >Make a post saying they finish it and im not mentioned at all

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:08:34 2014 No.8020784

>>8020249
Was reminded of this by the other thread.

>tfw maid fetish yet too uncomfortable with the concept of maid cafés to ever visit

I mean, if I had a girlfriend that wanted to dress up as a maid I'd be fucking delighted, but the cafés always seem so skeezy and weird.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:11:43 2014 No.8020792 File: 145 KB, 525x394, 1424221.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020784 >tfw have a maid dress and would dress up for qt boy if i knew one >tfw would go to a maid cafe if one existed here feels bad

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:15:34 2014 No.8020800 >>8020792 >tfw not a qt boy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:26:20 2014 No.8020821 >>8020800 >tfw not a qt girl so i cant find any qt boys it hurts

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:29:23 2014 No.8020833 >>8020764 You should call them out on it anon.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:33:27 2014 No.8020849 >>8020332 See if there's an alternative buy/sell/swap fb group for where you live, I know there's one for the UK, I offloaded a ton of hellbunny dresses on there

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:52:57 2014 No.8020893 >>8020821 for a second I thought I'm on /tg/

Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:54:47 2014 No.8020896

>>8020249
>be me, 24yo
>get kicked out of house at 16
>told to come back when I'm a man or to not come back at all
>join army as soon as possible
>spend the entire time without talking to entire family (family is very broken up)
>facebook creeping family, seeing what I can without being friends
>dad doesn't have a facebook but horrible stepmom does
>stepmom used to abuse the fuck out of my brother and I, beatings, cuttings, ruining all healthy relationships and purposely getting us fired from jobs
>dad has muscular dystrophy so I don't know how much longer he'll be alive, he was in bad shape when I left years ago
>I decide to suck it up and message them
>they add me as a friend instead
>15 minutes later my dad messages me and tells me he creeped my profile, he's proud of who I've become
>approves of my wife, job, everything
>he then proceeds to upload a couple hundred photos of me as a kid
>tells me he looked at them every day for the whole six years and was waiting and hoping I'd get in touch with him again

Now I just need to get my brother to the point that he can do the same

I have had a very good holiday.

>t-thanks Dad, I missed you

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 22:58:55 2014 No.8020902 >>8020893 Sounds a little more like /lgbt/

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:00:25 2014 No.8020908 >>8020902 nah, wanting to be a little girl is totally a /tg/ thing

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:03:19 2014 No.8020917 File: 1.40 MB, 300x199, 1399432039686.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >con coming up >still on period >tfw skin too sensitive to remove unwanted hair

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:04:37 2014 No.8020919 >>8020896 Good for you anon!

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:05:57 2014 No.8020920 >>8020902 Nobody in /lgbt/ wants to be a 'little' girl. Geez. That's /tg/ thing.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:06:05 2014 No.8020921 >>8020919 Thank you, I feel relaxed for the first time in years.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:06:29 2014 No.8020922 File: 31 KB, 500x492, 1419286721210.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020484 >>8020634 >tfw 4'10" >tfw guys will never see me as a woman

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:07:18 2014 No.8020924 File: 110 KB, 640x853, moot-i-wish-to-be-the-little-girl.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020908

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:07:34 2014 No.8020925 >>8020922 I know a lot of guys who like short women anon. I would do recommends but eh they are sort of weebish.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:07:36 2014 No.8020926 >>8020922 I only like super short women, I'm 6' tall. There is hope. Short women are a lot more fun imo.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:08:23 2014 No.8020927 >>8020924 it was always well known that moot thinks /tg/ is the best board

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:08:41 2014 No.8020928 >>8020920 But they didn't say little, they said "qt girl", and since /lgbt/ is 70% the T part of the acronymn it seems to be a pretty common sentiment there (even in those exact words, back when I still lurked there).

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:09:48 2014 No.8020930 >>8020896 >tells me he looked at them every day for the whole six years and was waiting and hoping I'd get in touch with him again T-these aren't tears.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:10:24 2014 No.8020931 >>8020928 and you think a qt girl is not little?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:10:48 2014 No.8020933 >>8020927 +1

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:16:09 2014 No.8020937 >>8020917 I miss creepy-chan so much

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 28 23:52:55 2014 No.8021009 >>8020917 I hope things get better in time for the con, anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:01:11 2014 No.8021026 File: 227 KB, 661x677, 1413939688851.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8020926 tfw 6' tall woman tfw taller men all like short girls

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:03:01 2014 No.8021029 >family is homophobic as shit >anon why don't you get a boyfriend >too ugly for girls to like me back anyway

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:08:20 2014 No.8021041 File: 16 KB, 100x100, annoyed-6_zpse374c774.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021026 >5'11'' >medium size chest >tfw taller men want short girls just because they can bounce them up and down >tfw many guys want girls with really big boobs

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:10:22 2014 No.8021044

>lurk /cgl/ for makeup and fashion threads
>have 0 experience with makeup and fashion
>in an emotionally abusive home
>just want to read about drama to distract self
>hope to one day improve self and gtfo
>boss at work making me want to an hero
>same tactics as dad at home

Worst part is that I'm 19 and supposed to be transferring out of CC in a year. I just want to be a functional young adult, that's all I want.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:12:24 2014 No.8021048 >>8021041 >tfw taller men want short girls just because they can bounce them up and down what?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:12:27 2014 No.8021049

>go to dinner to a fancy restaurant with my parents and siblings
>seated between sister and brother with assburgers
>brother with assburgers sits at the very end, far away from everyone except me
>we order, food arrives, we start eating
>SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK
>won't keep his mouth closed when he chews
>gurgles and gorgles and burps as he eats
>I feel sick, ask to switch seats with sister but she doesn't want to
>mfw he eats food off his plate and starts eating food off mine
>I say no and my mother tells me I'm not the one paying for it so I should be grateful and not stingy
>he keeps eating my food
>Brother constantly jumping in his chair, looking around and rattling his cutlery because he's bored
I'm sitting next to my da next time

It isn't a very important feel but I hate how I always get stuck with him because I'm the youngest. He's gas and all but sometimes they expect me to act like his mammy while his actual parents don't give a fuck and expect others to raise him.

Plus he's 28, my "parenting" duty stopped when I turned 18 and moved out. And it doesn't help that they let him do everything because "oh darling he's just like that, he just doesn't understand"

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:15:56 2014 No.8021054 >>8021049 talk to your parents about euthanizing your brother

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:17:53 2014 No.8021060 >>8021048 Sex, I think

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:21:23 2014 No.8021067 >>8021054 LOL fuck you you made me laugh like a little girl

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:22:41 2014 No.8021072 File: 23 KB, 720x480, accurate.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021054

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:23:43 2014 No.8021075 File: 487 KB, 500x370, time to dance.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021026 >>8021041 I wish I had a girlfriend who was taller than me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:26:10 2014 No.8021077 File: 1.79 MB, 345x199, Tiny tim.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021075 Meant to post this one

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:30:48 2014 No.8021087 File: 79 KB, 576x638, ginger japanese girl maybe an alien.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021075 >>8021077 either way not many of us are comfortable with having our boyfriend shorter than us except for koizumi after 19 episodes

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:35:08 2014 No.8021099 >>8021075 are you a cuck?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:42:01 2014 No.8021118 File: 311 KB, 1050x1500, FIND IT.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021099 Fuck no, I'm into strong amazonian women.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 00:58:50 2014 No.8021153

>Two weeks ago, Friday
>Get the flu right when I had two meets with friends coming up
>Cancel everything, feel like shit for four days
>Tuesday, feeling much better
>Wednesday I wake up with nausea
>Miss work
>Spend Christmas and the day after puking and pissing from my ass
>Don't eat in three days
>What did I do to deserve this
>Saturday I feel better
>Finally meet up with some friends
>Subway travel destroys my stomach again
>Spend Sunday in bed
>Feeling better as night approaches
>Sleep
>Wake up at 3 AM
>Something's wet
>Fuck no
>Run to bathroom
>There's blood in my panties
>Change, go back to sleep
>Cramps don't let me
>Get up three hours later to go to work
>Mirthlessly laugh as I type this and try to eat half an apple

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:01:27 2014 No.8021164 >>8021118 >mfw I'm an amazonian woman >mfw I've read and got off to this manga need tiny skinny short boy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:04:33 2014 No.8021173 >>8021164 Do you roam conventions forcibly taking the virginity of young boys while shouting DEATH BY SNOO SNOO?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:06:33 2014 No.8021177 >>8021164 How tall?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:07:05 2014 No.8021179 >>8020926 More fun like how?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:07:27 2014 No.8021180
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>tfw I have no Jfash friends to teach me to be better at being gyaru.
>tfw no female friends at all

I haven't had one female friend in almost two year, It's like I have a phobia of having a female friend. I don't want to be one of those "gamer girls who like, is just like the boys!"
I think after so many bad experiences in the past with having best friends with girls I have made myself think that all girls are the same when I know it's not true.
I actually get jealous on facebook at all those girls that annoy me that are like "BESTIES FOR LIIIFE", in reality I think I want something like that...Minus the gross FB posts.

The worst part is I have added a couple girls to my skype but, I end up avoiding them in the end because I'm too scared. Or when I get into group calls with friends to play games and some girl shows up I get really shy and end up not speaking at all.

This post ended up longer than I planned lol, sorry for the full rant. My best friend has been a guy for 3 years, while thats all dandy, the problem comes when he is in love with me and I can't talk to him about guy troubles, he'll listen, but I feel shitty for hurting him. In the end I don't talk about it to anybody. Since all my friends are guys, and a lot of them like me *which is usually why I make myself stop being their friends in fear of hurting them* I have no one. FFFFFF

TL;DR It's be great to have Jfash friends! Annnnd I'm just high off my medications, so other stupid bitching.

And before any nice ladies offer to talk to me, It is most likely I will chicken out. Or I have to make a new skype because, reasons.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:12:04 2014 No.8021194
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>tfw go to college with lowest weight you have been since elementary school
>still trying to lose final 10 pounds
>also trying to get straight A's
>father gets in bad accident, now wont walk for a very long time
>stress constantly
>do nothing but study and try to help family
>eat poorly
>exercise once a day until the week before finals
>the week before and after kill my weight
>am back to the weight I was before summer began
>I feel fat and ashamed but mostly guilty
>wear lolita constantly but I know I could do it more justice if I was skinner

plus
>tfw your mom is as skinny as a supermodel and weights less than you...

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:13:02 2014 No.8021196 >>8021054 I wish sometimes He always gets a pass on things the rest of us have to work for because he's "special"

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:13:43 2014 No.8021198 >>8021173 Not anymore... >>8021177 5'11

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:15:17 2014 No.8021201 >>8021198 Oh, I'm the same height. >tfw too tall to have a gf that's taller than me and isn't a weird looking giant

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:16:37 2014 No.8021207 >>8021201 You're not a damn manlet bro. I need to get my paws on a tasty 5'7 dude.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:21:02 2014 No.8021212 >>8021044 hang in there anon. save money and get out asap.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:26:27 2014 No.8021224

>>8021180
Same here, and please PLEASE don't listen to sandy cunts who give you shit for not having female friends. There isn't a gender quota in friendship and you make friends with people who fit you best, nothing wrong with that.

THAT SAID, if you're scared to be friends with girls and talk to them, how will you befriend one in the first place? A lot of those 'besties for life' HAVE been besties for life, or at least a long time. Maybe try getting into the whole thing not with the aim of making FEMALE friends, but with the aim of making friends with the same interests? Not all girls like makeup and jfashion and a lot of them don't like the same things you like necessarily, so your perception of a perfect female friendship may not be exactly realistic.

I don't know, most of my (very few) friends are male as well, (except nobody falls in love with me because I'm not really a dainty and feminine type and I'm as ugly as a witch's tits) I've had trouble befriending women because a lot of them are a bit too serious for my taste and often get offended for the smallest things (she accidentally looked at me with the wrong eye at a certain angle that I didn't like? WHAT A BITCH!). So I definitely get what you're saying.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:27:39 2014 No.8021227 >>8021224 stop CAPITALIZING THINGS for EMPHASIS it makes you look retarded.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:28:08 2014 No.8021228 >>8021164 >>8021198 >>8021207 Holy shit, are you in California? I'm like 5'8". No, I'm not that faggot, Sieg.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:29:26 2014 No.8021230 >>8021227 cry MOAR

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:30:35 2014 No.8021233 >have minor dry cough on Christmas >thinking it's allergies >cough gets worse; so does stuffy nose >Saturday night; come home from work with a fever and the worse achy joints I have ever experienced >fuck you flu

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:35:43 2014 No.8021237

>>8021180
I kind of feel the same way only I guess I'm the opposite of you? My personality is too rough and blunt for most girls who end up either taking things personally or seriously. My guy friends and I, and my few friends who are girls joke around with insults all the time, many girls I've met are just too delicate. Others I've met tend to be jelly of me, not because I'm super attractive, but because they're buttass ugly. I've had girls insult me to my face for not having big boobs or for dressing really feminine, when they themselves are fat lards with fucked faces.

It's really sad. I honestly think my looks coupled with my personality isolate me from a lot of people, girls and boys. My looks make me seem like a snobby stuck up bitch, which turns off some guys or my personality makes me seem like a blunt tomboy which turns off some girls, and my friends are either similar to me, or give zero fucks.

I'm hoping to meet more girls myself and be able to do kawaii shit with them, but it's been really difficult. I used to have a troupe of weeby fangirls but damn they are a hassle.

In any case, I'll just sit here and keep watching animu with cute girls in highschool being best friends and cry into my ice cream.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:36:44 2014 No.8021239 >>8021228 I kind of wish now. I'm on the east coast.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:37:50 2014 No.8021246 >Tfw no 5'11" gf

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:42:15 2014 No.8021258 >>8021239 Welp, good luck in finding a shorter boyfriend. I'm sure we will find the love of our dreams someday.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:43:34 2014 No.8021261 >>8021228 >5'8" >short try being 5'3" lolshotamode

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:44:41 2014 No.8021265 I want a taller wife just so my kids have a shot at being taller. Hell, I'd settle for "not short"

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:46:01 2014 No.8021267 >>8021261 Oh, I know I'm not "short", I'd just love to have someone taller than me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:50:36 2014 No.8021281 >girlfriend will never gently dominate me >will never scratch me behind my ears and tell me I'm a good boy Not cosplay related but feels are feels I guess

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:52:35 2014 No.8021286 >>8021281 >girlfriend will never exist Try that, faggot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:53:14 2014 No.8021290 >>8021286 B-b-but she does anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:53:51 2014 No.8021291 >>8021290 No, I meant for me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:56:24 2014 No.8021296 >>8021048 As anon >>8021060 mentioned sex. Some guys are weird.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 01:59:31 2014 No.8021303
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>>8021118
Fucking love that manga.

>>8021087
I don't know about you but I would love a short man just like picture related. Just so he could couple cosplay and oh suck my chest while I jack him off.

>I need to take a cold shower.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:06:19 2014 No.8021310 >tfw no specific fantasies or desires regarding a gf >tfw no need for gf >tfw would rather have a close friend to do creative geeky shit with >mfw most people prioritize sexual intimacy over and before friendly intimacy

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:07:43 2014 No.8021312

>>8021237
>>8021224
iktf anons
most female friends I had would get offended for every single thing and then bitch about it behind my back
>she said this word instead of that word, despite them being completely synonymous it means she hates us!
>omg she looked at me weird!
or when you clearly make a joke and they take it seriously and think "it was clearly making fun of me, disguised as a joke, therefore she is a cunt" and twist the story around when they gossip to their friends.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:08:33 2014 No.8021314 >>8021164 >>8021303 Fuck, what was that manga called, I thought I had it favorited on exhentai.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:17:08 2014 No.8021328 >>8021314 http://exhentai.org/s/324762f5f4/488312-13

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:36:27 2014 No.8021363 File: 407 KB, 1050x1500, rider.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] needs more Rider

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:41:59 2014 No.8021369

>planned a cosplay for 2+ months
>want to debut at a con this Saturday because there's no more conventions in my area for another 2-3 months
>procrastinated on starting the project until last week (was hired into a full-time job and now my days are ..different)
>stressing on completion
>period began yesterday
>breaking out
>no good acne treatment immediately available
>pimply face, barely-started dress construction, lots of painting to go

This is mostly self-inflicted. I'm a wad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:45:26 2014 No.8021376 >>8021363 I think it's time for you to stop posting.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:46:32 2014 No.8021379 >>8021369 Lesson learned anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:51:34 2014 No.8021389 >>8021379 She's a cosplayer, we never learn.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 02:53:32 2014 No.8021391

>>8021310
I have friends just that most of them are either fedora tipping guys, fur fags, live in different states, or we are not into the same things so it's pretty hard to do creative geeky shit with them

>tfw one friend likes video games and stuff but only like Blazblue and Dramatical murder.
>tfw she doesn't want to cosplay anything from those series
>tfw the guys don't want to do it because MUH makeup and wigs

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:30:52 2014 No.8021450 >>8021261 You still tower over me by a whole inch

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:32:28 2014 No.8021452 >>8021261 i feel you bro >tfw 5'4 >tfw im do pathetic i was excited about your comment because its a guy im taller than

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:37:14 2014 No.8021457 >>8021450 And you tower over me by a whole inch. > mfw hobbit mode 4 life

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:38:32 2014 No.8021460

>newbie to cosplay/cons in general posts in a fb group asking for easy cosplay ideas for her first costume
>mfw someone introduces her to lolita through shitty amazon links

h-here's to hoping she'll listen to my comment about taobao/bodyline for a cheaper alternative to brand and not end up ordering something from amazon thinking it's lolita...

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:38:48 2014 No.8021461 >>8021452 I'm a 5'2 girl and I like guys between 5'3 and above, if it can help. Nothing is lost.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 03:43:59 2014 No.8021463 >>8021457 Forgot to mention that I am female >still ashamed of looking sixteen forever

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 04:43:29 2014 No.8021550
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>develop small, nearly invisible bump on arm
>make the mistake of talking to my dad about it
>without provocation he grabs my arm and starts squeezing like a son of a bitch
>a day later what was once a small bump on arm is now a giant swollen incredibly painful pus-oozing pit

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:03:02 2014 No.8021567 >>8021463 >ashamed of looking young eventually you're going to look back and wish you still did

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:26:27 2014 No.8021598 >>8021087 What if you wear heels? Does it even factor in? Because I am in the weird spot where I am taller than girls in flats, but smaller when they wear heels.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:30:54 2014 No.8021605 >Mum: Wow fatty-chan! You've lost weight! >TFW I've had the shits for like three days straight >At least I'll fit into burando

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:39:28 2014 No.8021611 >>8021164 LONDON O N D O N

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:46:52 2014 No.8021619

>>8021044
I went through it too, it gets better. Wait it out.

>>8021179
they're more enjoyable to fuck for one, I can pick them up and throw them easy as pie. It makes BDSM a lot more fun. Tall women are more fun for power struggle sex, like wrestling match shit. I don't know, both are good, I just prefer little women for some reason.

I have a massive weakness for petite (5'4 and under) brunettes with a tan and/or freckles. I just can't help myself

>>8021457
>>8021463
LONDON
oO
N
D
O
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>pls be brunette and freckled/tanned too

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:51:45 2014 No.8021624 >>8021619 >for some reason you prefer little women because you feel weak and not masculine enough so you need someone to boss around to stroke your male ego and feel manly. In other words, it's because you're a manlet cuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:55:53 2014 No.8021630 >>8021624 nice try first year psych student, I get all the power over others I need at work. I'm also tall, a competitive mens physique athlete and I'm married. 10/10 projecting though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 05:58:09 2014 No.8021634 >>8021624 I'm a woman and I prefer short men. What can you say about me, anon ?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:01:04 2014 No.8021638 >>8021630 i believe you >>8021634 I don't know, you weren't the one talking about BDSM and power struggle sex

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:16:51 2014 No.8021654 >>8021461 >tfw im gay s-sorry anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:36:18 2014 No.8021673 >>8021049 >let him do everything because "oh darling he's just like that, he just doesn't understand" as someone with assburgers myself I hate that shit tell me what I'm doing wrong so I can fucking fix it, makes me into more of a functioning adult.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:39:00 2014 No.8021677 >>8021673 some people don't want to function m8, some are beyond help ever been to walmart?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:41:12 2014 No.8021679

>>8021677
no walmarts over here, eurofag.
and trust me I've met others and while I'm aware I have moments full of autism the ones that are the worst are those that are reminded constantly that they have autism. Parents then like to focus on what they can't do, instead of trying to actually help them.

there's a reason I stopped telling people I have it unless we're close.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:45:59 2014 No.8021685

>>8021679
A good choice m8. Autism isn't really that big of a deal unless it's not handled right when the person is growing up (there's always exceptions and outliers to every statement ofc)

I had a kid with megabad aspergers in HS, everyone encouraged him to do ridiculous things to get a laugh out of it. The best of the best of his personal hit list was fucking a hot girls sandwich and giving it back to her and (he was extremely underdeveloped) crawling in to his huge backpack and laying in it in the hall while doing a startlingly accurate gollum impression

Kind of a shame, the kid was a savant at sculpting but only the art teacher encouraged that from him.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:49:14 2014 No.8021693

>>8021685
Exactly, I got lucky if anything to get a late diagnosis in my teens rather then when I was a young kid, cuz if you're unlucky you get send to special school and coddled and you'll never learn how to behave.

These days other then a few odd behavioral things here and there, the worst I do is sperg out about vidya I like to people. But I'm doing computer science so it isn't that bad.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:51:26 2014 No.8021694

>>8021679
>>8021677
eurofag as well, and we don't really have the cases like they do in walmart. We do have alcoholics though.

He isn't all bad though, he's actually quite considerate and I love him a lot despite his condition. He knows how to be a real gentleman when he puts his mind to it, he's just really clumsy when it comes to social interactions and knows how to make things awkward for everyone. The example above was in an upscale restaurant, and other diners were definitely looking at us oddly because of his behaviour. Other time he asked my fat aunt if she was pregnant and once he grabbed this old woman's arse in the bus.

The annoying thing though is when people tell him to behave, we're called bullies and insensitive.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:57:15 2014 No.8021697

On the topic of autism and asperger's... I once knew a woman whose parents were so ignorant and didn't want to acknowledge her problems that she let her get away with
1. not washing her hands/ cleaning her teeth/ showering. Like. She smelled like vagina and sweat and whatever she had eaten for the last month
2. Never trimming her nails

And then she would complain about how no one wanted to take cosplay photos of her when she refused to do anything about her hairy face, wear wigs or any sort of makeup.

>The feel is I wanted to feel bad for her
>but she was disgusting
>I still blame her parents but she was like 30 years old fuck

sage.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 06:59:38 2014 No.8021700 >>8021697 so what makes an assburger different from a neet?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 07:10:01 2014 No.8021716

>>8021700
a neet can actually comprehend social cues but doesn't know what they are as they don't interact with others much.
an assburger cannot, despite interacting with others, and they often make bad decisions because they're only going off of what other people told them not to do which gets confusing.

In a nutshell, when you see an assburger you'll know. A lot of them have weird tics, speech patterns etc that just make them "weird" to others. They also look slightly different.
A neet doesn't necessarily, but they might do some weird shit anyway.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 07:13:48 2014 No.8021721

>>8021700
>>8021716

assburger anon here, personally when i was young I always felt like everyone got handed out a book on social skills etc when they were born and I was forgotten, causing me to constantly need to learn how to act.

idk if that makes any sense at all.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 07:14:08 2014 No.8021722

>>8021716
Yep. Basically this.
I once said I didn't like Kurt from Glee (not because he's homo, but because he's a drama queen) and she refused to even discuss Glee or listen to the music when I was around. This is when four of my friends lived in the same house

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 07:25:04 2014 No.8021732

>>8021716
This
Basically, when you see anons talking about spilling their spaghetti and acting weird, they are aware of it, they just don't know how to act because they're loners and recluses. A lot of those stories end up with them knowing they fucked up and losing sleep over acting weird.
An assburger may not be aware of their behaviour and will often say that they don't see anything wrong in behaving the way they did.

For example, my brother doesn't know that chewing with your mouth open is rude despite being told so multiple times, and will only correct himself if he remembers.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 07:47:58 2014 No.8021756
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>be me
>doing guest relations shit for a con over the holidays
>would have had this done sooner but i wasn't in control of anything
>still at 0 guests and con is in 3 months
>get told "Oh hey our budget increased. How about two more guests anon!"
>mfw
>amidst it all my aunt is dying from stage 4 lymphoma
>really close to her
>see her a week before she passes
>Dec 22 she passes away

It was probably one of the hardest holidays. Just didn't feel like celebrating.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 08:01:13 2014 No.8021761 File: 197 KB, 530x354, dikdik_ss_leg.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021756 oh anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 08:11:59 2014 No.8021772 >>8021756 I'll be a guest for ya.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 08:26:49 2014 No.8021785
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>>8020304

I honestly think go for the keyboard anon.
>Will be able to help you practice, especially with volume control.
>Wont become outdated as fast as clothes or costumes, you'll be able to use it for many moons to come
>You will get much more use out of it, day to day use instead of once in awhile for cosplay

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 08:32:58 2014 No.8021793
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>get $300 for Christmas, fuckyeah.jpg
>on the hunt for dresses off wishlist
>I usually see these dresses all the time, just couldn't afford them before
>the face when none of them are to be found
>not on mbok, maidensclothing, toyko alice, y auctions,
>one of them on lacemarket
>it looks like shit and is way overpriced, not going to buy that garbage
>I just want some new dresses god damn

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 09:37:44 2014 No.8021852 File: 404 KB, 436x441, aeaedb7f74a76b81a260f6bb6cf3b68b.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021793 >mft you think tfw means the face when

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 09:43:06 2014 No.8021859 >>8021852 >mfw >retard >sage for typo

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 10:06:34 2014 No.8021887

>family has a rule that you won't receive any presents when you are 18+ except maybe something symbolic
>still got some chocolate
>that I threw away the moment I got home
>because mom was poking my stomach and calling me fat all christmas
>I'm 5"10 and weight 135lbs
>been feeling disgusting since then

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 10:08:56 2014 No.8021890 >>8021654 There are a lot of gay guys that like short bottoms, I don't see the problem.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 10:19:04 2014 No.8021902 >>8021890 No, OP assumed they were talking to a dude. Then they said it was a lady.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 10:28:16 2014 No.8021910 >>8021887 What the fuck. Your mother was being an ass, your weight is perfectly fine. Don't let her get you down.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 10:50:23 2014 No.8021926

>>8020896
Let me get this straight. He's still married to a fucking psycho cunt who he knows CUTS HER STEPCHILDREN and you just decided it's water under the bridge? Did I make a wrong assumption?

If I'm understanding you correctly, then you're better off without him. I haven't forgiven my father. Sue that bitch for assault. Holy shit.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 12:03:58 2014 No.8022014
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>been hypomanic for like a month
>get a bunch of cosplay stuff done
>start redecorating
>immediately get depressed

>"anon your pastas ready"
>"........*grunt*"

i have a party to go to in a couple of days too. i hope my antidepressants do something so im not just sat there uselessly. but probably not.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 12:24:54 2014 No.8022033
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>>8020249

Been sick for a long period of time, celebrated christmas by myself (I cooked myself some good food though) because I have isolated myself from everyone. Most likely depressed, nothing is fun anymore. It's been a good ride.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 13:01:30 2014 No.8022086 >>8021550 GO TO THE doctor damn. Your dad is a bitch. It could get infected anon so just GO.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 13:02:40 2014 No.8022089 >>8021624 I'm a woman and I prefer short men too. Not the same anon and not talking about BDSM and power struggle sex. I just like short guys to cuddle with.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 13:05:30 2014 No.8022097

>>8021716
I don't know if I can agree anon. I knew a guy with assburger and he didn't seem any weird than the other buddies I hung out with. In fact he was better than the pedo guy and the girl who thought she was a lesbian even though she was a virgin and she hated vaginas or something?

I dunno I think everyone is fucked up in life and there's various levels of fucked but in the long run you're fucked up.

>I mean look at us seagulls bitching on the internet instead of to someone in real life.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 14:57:51 2014 No.8022328

>>8022089
I can't say I prefer short men but my boyfriend is a few inches shorter than me and its only really an issue if I wear heels and we try to hold hands while walking, or kiss or whatever. I'm used to it I guess cus I'm 6' and thats how it is when doing anything with anybody for me.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:16:40 2014 No.8022377

>spend 1 weekend 2 years ago in cosplay group with this one douchebag
>douchebag acts like the leader of the pack, charismatic but pushes people into humiliating scenarios, lies to ("trolls") people for fun, is abusive toward his girlfriend
>hits her during room party while she cowers
>convince myself none of this actually happened or was that bad because no one else reacted
>see him now
>can't forget his behavior from years ago
>suspicious of his attempts to be friendly
>suspicious of everything he does
>wish everyone could see who he really is
>wish I spoke up during the room party
>wish I could be 100% certain enough of his violent nature to speak up now

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:20:20 2014 No.8022385

>>8022097
well sure but there's different cases. Most often people notice something's up, I met one assburger that acted perfectly normal on the outside but then I found out she didn't pay any of her bills and was facing eviction because she just didn't want to. Nobody could convince her that it was a bad idea.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:40:22 2014 No.8022440 >>8022377 I can empathize with your situation, hopefully things will work out.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:43:45 2014 No.8022454

Is 25 too old to start cosplaying? School, work, life have kind of been in the way for a bit, but now that I have the time I've been feeling so self concious about my age, under the impression I'll only have until 30 to do anything.

My friends say I look great for my age and I'm being retarded, but I dunno.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:55:29 2014 No.8022475

>trying to sell on LaceMarket
>get PM
>can read PM
>try to answer PM and keep getting bad gateway errors
>have been unable to answer PM for three goddamn days

I'm sorry potential buyer. I really, really am. I don't think I'm going to bother with LM ever again after this.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:56:34 2014 No.8022479 >>8020480 List them reeeeeeal cheap on LM? Or offer them free+shipping? Like "please take this." Or try ebay, people on ebay will buy fucking anything.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 15:59:46 2014 No.8022486 >>8022454 No. There isn't a cut off age to stop or start cosplaying. Knew a Mario and a Peach couple who cosplayed up until they retired in their 80s. Sweet couple too.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 16:04:35 2014 No.8022499

>>8021049
My parents are the same way with my ADHD sister.

I had ADHD and I got slapped when I was an obnoxious twat, so I learned not to do that. She gets away with it because "oh she doesn't have her patch on today" so that's a reason to be a cunt or something.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 16:08:31 2014 No.8022509

>>8022385
I know a person who does that. They just don't know how to prioritize and they feel that their bills are not a concern because she has men that pay her bills and her daddy. Now mind you she doesn't have assburgers and is considered 'normal.' She's just a trifling, lazy, selfish bitch.

I wouldn't treat anyone with assburgers as different or a special case. I mean I would help out people who didn't have one arm or something in certain cases but I wouldn't treat them any better or different than the next joe.

You get what I mean? Like I didn't think that pedo dude was autistic or special or sick. I just thought he was a fucked up dude that needed to be punch for manipulating little girls at anime cons.

I have no idea why seagulls even use that term in the first place against each other. I feel that most of us are really sad individuals and use the computer to vent because of a lack of confidence or social lives or whatever but eh.

>This ended up being a rant instead of a reply orz.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 16:11:06 2014 No.8022518 >>8022377 Out the fuck outta this asshole

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 16:15:25 2014 No.8022531 >Picking up bf tomorow for new years trip >39.7ºC of fever For god's sake body, behave yourself and let me enjoy new years fuck you

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 16:47:24 2014 No.8022608 >>8020249 >bf finally on two week Christmas vacation >omfg we're gonna get soooo much stuff done around the house and have fun times hooray >immediately get sick >now he's sick >gfdi only six days left

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 17:10:37 2014 No.8022660
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>Buy the Cameo Window JSK a little over a week ago in Ivory because it is literally my dream dress
>Just visited the San Francisco store website, find out they have the OP on sale for 50% off
>Figure out I spent more on buying the JSK alone, on top of shipping fees
>mfw
I have such shit luck. I guess on the bright side is that I kind of do prefer the JSK to the OP.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 17:52:33 2014 No.8022721

Two not really sure how to feels:

>paid invoice for item from a seagull three weeks ago
>contacted three times, nothing
>will dispute in a couple days, never had to dispute anything before
>first time ever buying from a BST thread here, not sure if I even want to try again

>got first Mary Magdalene dress
>fits perfectly
>except the neckline seems a bit low
>turns my modest 87cm bust into some serious cleavage
>on the one hand, suddenly boobs yay!
>on the other, feel almost too indecent to wear this beautiful dress to a meet
>what do?

>>8022660
imo, the OP is really fug anyway, but that is a shitty feel, anon, I'm sorry.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 18:04:34 2014 No.8022741 >>8022660 >need a coat >Just find out the BTSSB site is having a sale from this post >all of the coats are sold out I-I guess I should have guessed.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:03:13 2014 No.8022869

>>8022499
Holy fuck are you me anon. My parents beat my ass until I couldn't walk when I did the same things they let my little brother get away with. My Mom got him evaluated and basically excuses him of all the symptoms the paper listed and he has an IEP meaning they have to excuse him of his behaviors at school and give him certain allowances so his grades don't suffer. When my grades suffered because of ADHD, they'd just beat my ass until I made A's. He's a little asshole because they blame his condition on everything he does

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:05:22 2014 No.8022874

> go to first meet in a while
> because it's during winter break, lots of lolitas show up despite it being a casual meet
> was looking forward to talking and meeting new people
> social anxiety kicks in and I end up breaking off from the group to hang out with close friends I already know
> this happens every meet
> mfw I suck at socializing
> mfw everyone probably thinks I'm a rude elitist bitch

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:06:22 2014 No.8022879 >>8022741 I am you and you are me. Hurts my heart!

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:07:29 2014 No.8022883

>>8022869
If you're old enough (and don't have a formal diagnosis, just the same behaviour patterns as your brother being treated differently), at least refer yourself to a diagnostitician so you can shove it in their face that they're treating you unequally. No regrets for getting an autism diagnosis at 19, even if by then it was too late to help with school or anything.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:11:04 2014 No.8022891 >>8022874 Maybe a little post in the group to that effect and a suggestion of playing a 'getting yo know you' game at the next meet?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:41:39 2014 No.8022948

I know it's not cgl related but I don't know who else to talk to about this.

>Come home from school
>Mom broke her wrist again, great
>Mom also got a new boyfriend, which I feel happy for her!
>I tell her I'll help her as much as I can
>She dumps me with our dogs as soon as I get home, with good reason, she had to get surgery on the wrist the next day and it was easier to move about in her new boyfriend apartment than our two story house
>Ok, fine and dandy
>I'm eating and staying at home alone because friends stayed home for school and have jobs while I don't
>well this sucks.jpg
>Mom's demands start getting frustrating, ie. Wrap all these presents, take care of dogs all the goddamn time with no help, bake all of these sweets for Christmas!
>I get sick on Christmas, everything lies on me, including cleaning everything
>Hope for some bonding time with my mom this weekend
>nope.jpg
>Mom decides to not tell me she's staying with boyfriend Friday Night and dumps the dogs on me again
>gettingrealtiredofthisquick.gif
>Get urgent call to babysit, I take it, telling my mom the time I should be over call
>Mom decides to spend time with boyfriend over me, and thus again, leaves the house empty with dogs
>Repeat on Sunday
>Today, mom is finally home tonight
>hopesarehigh.png
>Ask what we're doing for dinner, since our old tradition is getting food and sitting on the couch watching shitty reality tv together
>Gets annoyed the first time I ask
>40 minutes later, I ask again.
>She says she's waiting on her boyfriend to respond back to her on food
>areyoushittingmerightnow.jpg

I can't get a fucking night alone with my own mom or even a willing 'i want to spend time with you' quip and goddamn I'm upset. I don't want anything more than just to eat dinner with my mom.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:46:07 2014 No.8022959

>tfw I really want a close cosplay friend
>been moving around a lot so I don't have any close friends
>only person I'm ever spending time alone with is my bf
>have lots of not very close friends, the ones that you talk to sometimes or maybe hang out with when in a group
>everyone already have close friends so it's not easy getting close to anyone
>just want someone to hang out with

I really don't know what to do. From what I've heard people like me and thinks I'm fun to be with, but everyone of course would rather spend time with their current friends than someone they just know a little. Whenever I've tried seeing people alone they are busy. I never thought I would feel so lonely while knowing so many nice people

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:54:40 2014 No.8022983 File: 298 KB, 240x199, SadAlienCrabtopus.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8021598 Such is the curse of the low-average zone.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 19:59:55 2014 No.8022993

>>8021180
I understand how you feel anon. I have one girl friend and the rest have always been guys for my whole life. As a girl who used to be in the pro gaming circuit, it's hard not to have guys assume you're a "cute gamur gurl." All of my guy friends have had a crush on me at some point and I've politely let them down and we are still good friends. Like the other anon said, just go into it looking for friends with the same interests as you, doesn't matter if they happen to be girls. If you want to talk my skype is zombie_waffles or my steam is knightalterra. Let's play some games sometime. (:

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:02:25 2014 No.8023000 >>8022874 Are you in the UK, anon?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:02:46 2014 No.8023001 >>8022948 Have you told her that you want to spend quality time with her? Even just suggest you eat dinner with her and the boyfriend?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:06:51 2014 No.8023005

>>8023001
I want to but at the same point, she tends to get annoyed with anything I say that she's doing 'wrong'. She gets really defensive really quick.

And I don't mind eating dinner with her and her boyfriend, but she focuses so much on him she barely talks to me while her boyfriend tries to include me. In no way am I mad at her boyfriend or dislike him, he is a nice guy, but I hate how she's acting.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:07:56 2014 No.8023007

>decide I want to do my first real cosplay
>browse this board
>know that my first try won't be great but at least it will be something
>get all the stuff together and ready to buy
>suddenly lose all motivation to cosplay
>wonder what I wanted to cosplay for in the first place

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:17:46 2014 No.8023021

>>8023005
I think maybe you should have a talk with the boyfriend, because it sounds to me like he might be seeing what's going on. Just tell him how you feel, and say that if she won't listen to you, maybe he can get her to listen to him and you all can spend some quality time together.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 20:19:31 2014 No.8023025

>>8022948
>>8022948
Venting about your housework responsibilities is fine, but I'm sure that one incident of not doing the food and reality TV thing isn't indicative of a serious change in your relationship with your mom. Just ask again some other time and it'll probably be fine.

In that vein, a similar thing happened to me just before Christmas
>everyone in the house except me, my dad and my 12-year-old sister gets the winter vomiting bug and spends 3 days throwing up and another couple being listless and barely eating
>dad is a useless shit who's barely ever in the house (during the whole time everyone was ill, he'd regularly return home at midnight or later because he'd been visting friends or my grandma and then have the gall to complain that the house wasn't as tidy as he liked it)
>all of the housework falls on me because my dad's out, my little sister is a useless shit (and had a cold that she was exaggerating like crazy to get out of doing work), and my mum and other sisters were too busy vomiting everywhere to do anything
>two major deadlines and two tests in the same week, I'm travelling to college an hour and a half away from home every day and don't get back til 6
>stuck cooking everyone proper meals as well because takeaways will make ill people throw up
>dad's always out with the only car and "forgets" to pick up shopping on his way home and we're running out of food; every meal takes me at least an hour to prepare because all the stuff that's quick and easy to cook has been used up
>as soon as people start recovering from the vomiting thing, everyone gets flu, including my little sister this time, I catch some cold thing that's not as bad but leaves me feeling shitty and I get a coldsore from being run down
>still doing everything in the house single-handedly and looking after 4 sick people
>overall was doing this for nearly two weeks

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:15:04 2014 No.8023088 >>8023000 nah, US >>8022891 I think I need to just attend smaller meets, so I can actually talk to people

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:31:18 2014 No.8023112

>>8022883
I was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and heavily medicated but my parents seemed to think that the meds would magically cure me of all my symptoms. Eventually they just stopped caring and let me do my own thing because they had my little brother to worry over. I quit taking my meds and I think I'm doing well enough.

And no I don't have autism. You fuckers think autism is the answer to all. Do you even know what autism is. Autism is not ADHD. It's having trouble with communication and forming relationships. ADHD is about having trouble with attention span and keeping still.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:32:54 2014 No.8023114 >>8022086 I agree. Sounds like a boil gone wrong. If you can't get to a doctors right away, grab some tea tree oil. It helps, but real meds will knock it out of the park.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:33:29 2014 No.8023116 >>8023021 boyfriend would probably be down to help sounds like he's trying and he's feeling awkward at seeing what's going on too

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:35:28 2014 No.8023119

>>8023112
No, I wasn't implying you had autism, I was just saying that I personally didn't regret getting diagnosed (with autism) at a late age because it allowed me to "prove" to my family that they were treating my brother preferentially, and that you might not regret getting diagnosed (with ADHD) either. But if you've already got a diagnosis just fuck your family then,

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 21:40:12 2014 No.8023127 >>8023119 Oh sorry my bad. It's just people throw around the word Autism a bit too much around here.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:00:24 2014 No.8023170 >Want to start cosplaying, Finally have enough confidence to try it >No fabric stores ANYWHERE >Sewing game weak I should really ask my dad to properly teach me how to sew before I get a sewing machine but for that I'd need some attempt at fabric.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:03:52 2014 No.8023174 >>8020332 I'd totally take it off you as I'm an 18 year old who's still struggling horribly to get out of the goth phase but I'm crippled with Tech debts at the moment unfortunately

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:04:28 2014 No.8023176 >>8023127 Why do they? Do some people even know what autism means? It's like calling someone gay.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:05:34 2014 No.8023178 >>8020646 Post an email and a size.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:23:05 2014 No.8023200 >>8023174 Which country?

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:26:24 2014 No.8023204

Not (entirely) CGL related, but, not only do I need to vent, but advice would be appreciated. Sorry for the TL;DR.

>grill my two oldest kids on what they wanted for Christmas for weeks
>even had them write down a list of items they wanted
>list was very specific; they copied directly from a toy store wish list so there was no confusion
>ask Oldest if she wanted books; she says yes, any kind of chapter book she can read would be fine, she's not picky
>ask Second if she wants books; she says she only like certain kinds, but she'd rather receive Monster High things
>was told by my Second and multiple other people that she REALLY wants the Recharging Station; it's a double whammy gift because it's Frankie Stein's toy and that's Second's favorite MH
>week before Christmas; find the recharging station AND a $180 MH Monster Maker for $50
>Christmas comes; they open their gifts, Second isn't even showing any emotion at all as she opens them, ESPECIALLY the recharging station
>"What's wrong? I though that's what you really wanted?"
>*cue hissy fit*"'heavy sigh' So far I haven't gotten ANYTHING I wanted for Christmas! You got Oldest books and that's what I REALY WANTED! And that's not even Frankie! This Christmas sucks!"
>MFW I have various forms of proof that this little shit wanted everything under that tree that's labeled for her

And it was just her that was like this. Case and point with my oldest:
>Oldest really wanted Minecraft; bought within two days of finding this out
>browsing Goodwill, came across a Minecraft shirt, had brilliant gifting idea
>wrap game up in the shirt to make her think that's all she got
>it worked; she opened up the gift, sees the shirt (game fell on the floor as she opened the shirt), gets this absolutely heartbreaking look on her face, But still manages to look at me and go "Thank you mommy, I really like the shirt."

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:37:12 2014 No.8023209

>>8023204
Damn. I went over the text limit.

I'm wondering what the proper punishment would be, but taking her toys away causes ME anxiety attacks (thanks fucked up childhood), so what the hell do I do? I'm trying to convince my husband to return the one gift that came on Saturday (that she hasn't opened, so I'm ok with returning it) but he's all "it's a rare toy! If anything, it's mine" considering what it is, it makes no sense whatsoever...

To make this CGL related:
>getting back into lolita after a hell of a hiatus
>be on BC and another lovely drug, which combined, makes me a normal functioning human being - with energy!
>Gyno won't refill my BC; says I'm lying about a "hormone imbalance" when all I did was suggest I have one, considering all the shit that's fixed when I'm on it, and says since my hubby has had a vasectomy, there's no need for it
>I've had two periods in the past month, my hair is greasy as fuck, my neck looks like the bubonic plague, can't wear makeup - oily ass face makes it run off, immune system is completely out of whack (which is what happens when I'm on my period - fuck I hate my body)
>all gumption to wear lolita has gone out the door
>fuck you body and fuck you Gyno

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:39:06 2014 No.8023213
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>>8021087
>either way not many of us are comfortable with having our boyfriend shorter than us

I never got this. Are women afraid that people are going to call you an amazon or something behind your back? What is the stigma about dating a man shorter than you? Is it a purely binary attraction thing ( I get that individual preference may very) or is there some sort of magic range of so many inches you can be taller before it's Jill of the Jungle and Danny DeVitto?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:40:18 2014 No.8023219 >>8023170 buy some shit from online even cheapo stuff from china if all you need is practice stuff then it'll do

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:42:52 2014 No.8023222 >>8023204 >a kid >wants books >in 2014, the age of tv and cellphones and youtube and internet everything holy shit your kids are awesome I hope they have library cards and hit that shit up like drug addicts goddamn I'm second-hand proud of your kids

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:44:21 2014 No.8023223 I forgot >gets mad because she didn't get books

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:51:43 2014 No.8023235

>>8023204
Kids are just fucking weird like that.
Take my Cousin, she is a loud, annoying, selfish pest that only thinks of herself above all else.
She is obnoxious and acts like she is 12 half the time and it gives me a headache to have a conversation with her. Her mother is quite the same but she is an alcoholic and even harder to hold a conversation with.
She recently had a kid, and she is such an angle it is bizarre. She was never much of a crier, she is like..2 or so and she never cries or has a hissy fit. She will get a bit fussy if she is hungry/ tired/needs to be changed but she will tell you what the problem is (Even if she uses her pampers she tells you she has "Bubble" me and my mom keep telling the twit it is time to potty train the girl but she will not hear it)
I mean, it may have a lot to do with that since my mom is retired she has been watching her while my cousin is at work but holy sit it is so jarring to have the two of them in a room she is nothing like her mom even at an age where it would be appropriate.
ANYWAY LONG RANT, kids are weird man

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:52:59 2014 No.8023237

>>8023204
Forgot to add:
>"So if I get Oldest books, you won't be upset?" "No mommy, I want MH stuff."
Which is pretty much why I'm pissed.

>>8023222
We try.
We have two cousins who are 10 and spoiled as fuck and we're trying to not make our kids like them. The girl opened up a Galaxy Tab 3, and says as deadpan as she could "Thanks, but I really wanted the 4."

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:55:11 2014 No.8023242 >>8023235 thank my phone for all that auto correct sorry.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:55:14 2014 No.8023243

>>8023213
I have no problems with dating a guy shorter than me, but that might be childhood influence because my mum's taller than my dad. My ideal range is probably around my height (if it was just up to me) or only a couple of inches taller (since most guys don't tend to like taller gfs, especially if theyr'e already insecure about their height). I've dated 6'1" guys, 5'8" guys and 5'6" guys and I've gotta say it was easiest logistically with the 5'8" guy. At my height (5'5.5"), 5'8" is the sweet spot where in high/platform heels I can be taller, mid heels I'm the same height, and low heels and flats he's taller, so everybody wins and relative heights can be changed around at will. Kissing really tall dudes is fucking hard, and it's annoying dating guys so short that you literally can't wear heels around them without making them feel insecure. Overall though height's pretty low down on my list of qualities I value in a partner, and I don't understand girls who think a guy being short is a dealbreaker.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:56:41 2014 No.8023246

>>8023243
Anon, I think girls who literally won't date guys shorter than them are stupid, but I can also sorta understand the sentiment because a lot of girls are short to the point where a guy shorter than them would be a literal dwarf - a 5'2" girl is a little shorter than average, but a 5'1" guy is completely abnormal. Then girls that are tall enough that a guy that is shorter than them could still just be in the "a little shorter than average" guy range are likely to be self-conscious about their height already and don't want it accentuated by a short partner.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:58:04 2014 No.8023250

>>8023237
Ehh, kids are capricious and annoying but to some degree they can't help it. If she kept whining about it I'd be pissed but if she doesn't bring it up again I wouldn't care. I mean, the kid can always get books from the library, it's not like it means she can't read now.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:58:48 2014 No.8023252 >>8023213 I like my girls shorter than me, but I can't stand short guys. My justification is that since I like huge muscular dudes, they just look ridiculous if they're short.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:58:56 2014 No.8023253

I went to a sorta cosplay related event a few days ago. It was okay. Was not sure if I'd go, as traveling that far is expensive and had to skip a meetup to go. Couldn't finish my cosplay in time, which I planned to finish on the bus.

Went alone as usual, and didn't really know anyone. I was so excited before I got there, but then I got really shy and nervous and couldn't talk freely to anyone. Spent all the time alone, but ended up in some groups now and then, and joining a group playing spin the bottle before it ended, and then not leaving those who remained when spin-the-bottle ended. I was mostly watching people having fun and trying to stalk their conversations. The best part was the quiz, where I got into a team, and then saying bye to them when I had to run to reach the train. There was also someone I spent a day with at a convention once there. Probably tried to ignore me and stay away from me, but wanted a pokemon battle. I had no pokemon to battle with.

As I said, it was okay. Nothing amazing, but was some sort of social interaction. But now I feel a little down about various things. I have no friends there. They all knew each other and were talking about what they do, and meet each other regularly. Also, I don't watch much Disney movies, because that's something you do with friends. And I also remember seeing a movie theater setting up Lion King a few years ago, and I wish I could go with someone. And pokemon. Unlike them, I dont have any friends to play with. They can meet each other over and over to challenge each other or just play pokemon together. I think pokemon loses so much fun when you don't have anyone to play with.

Not really any really worthwhile feels I know, but I just wanted to say it.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 22:59:10 2014 No.8023254

>>8023235
Don't get me started on the potty training shit. My 2.5 year old is still in Diapers because she refuses to use the bathroom at home. However, at Grandmom's or at church, she uses it an even asks for it. The only time she asks to use the potty is if we're at Lowe's. No matter what we do, she refuses to use it at home and hates underwear.
We tried potty training my son for over a year, he just wouldn't grasp the concept. A month before my youngest was born, he was trained within 3 days. Weirdest shit ever man; kids are fucking bizzare.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:02:36 2014 No.8023261

>>8023209
>and says since my hubby has had a vasectomy, there's no need for it
Wow, this made me unbelievably angry. Just because it's labelled "birth control" doesn't mean that's what everyone's using it for. Mention that you're worried his vasectomy will reverse itself and that you're not ready for another kid. Either that, or find a new gyno all together.

Also, talk to your kids. Make it clear that those are the things they asked for when you were making up christmas lists, and they're being little brats when you could have given them nothing. Tell them that you're disappointed in their behaviour, and that it really when they were being so ungrateful over the gifts you gave them. Threatening to cancel next christmas (or at least gift-giving) if they don't straighten up their act is optional, but keep it in the back of your mind if they're going to keep being shits like that. Also, really emphasize it's supposed to be the thought that counts.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:05:53 2014 No.8023266 >>8022959 Did you try to join meet ups at anime con forums to anime cons that you go to?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:07:32 2014 No.8023269 >>8023007 Get off your lazy ass and cosplay if you bought it already. If you didn't then don't even worry about it. You're suppose to cosplay for yourself not because of this damn board.

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:20:51 2014 No.8023284

>joined a comm a while ago
>girls are super nice but all already know each other, but that's fine
>after a few meets get to know them better, become casual friends but not close
>wouldn't have a problem with this normally, but they're apparently all besties and I'm one of the only ones not in the circle
>they meet up casually when meets aren't happening because they're actual friends not just who happen to like the same fashion
>live way out of town and so only see people for meets, can't make it to all meets
>perpetually feel excluded even though no-one's been anything but polite to me

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:23:44 2014 No.8023290

>>8023261
Oh I'm definitely finding a new gyno.
And "kid". The other three were grateful as hell for what they got. Jesus, my son got a box of Lincoln Logs that I found at Goodwill and you swore he just unwrapped a PS3. And I did tell her that her birthday and Christmas would be canceled. There was a previous punishment of her clearing out some of her old toys and filling up a box of my choosing, but I might increase the size of the box.

And yes, I'm going to talk to her therapist about putting her on meds. Over 6 months of therapy, nothing is getting better and shit's only getting worse? Yeah, she's like me: completely wired wrong and can't be fixed without medicinal help. (However, you can even ask my family, sans one incident, I never was an ungrateful shit in my life.)

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:24:16 2014 No.8023293 >someone makes like 50 "personal" side accounts >they refollow everyone but me just unfollow me fom your main and lock you fucking idiot

Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:25:18 2014 No.8023298

>>8023290
>And yes, I'm going to talk to her therapist about putting her on meds. Over 6 months of therapy, nothing is getting better and shit's only getting worse? Yeah, she's like me: completely wired wrong and can't be fixed without medicinal help. (However, you can even ask my family, sans one incident, I never was an ungrateful shit in my life.)
...what? Is this bait or someone pretending to be OP?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:43:58 2014 No.8023325 File: 46 KB, 1047x453, this.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Tried asking for help like what one anon suggest in /po/ about the Samurai Flamenco helmet >Get responds like this Things like this only depress me more and discourage me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 29 23:55:21 2014 No.8023350 >>8023298 How is it bait? Some kids do need meds to straighten them out. I highly doubt OP meant it to sound like just because her kid acted up on Christmas, meds is the only way to go.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:03:15 2014 No.8023364

>>8023254
2.5 is old enough to just take away the diapers. If she's selectively asking to go, it's a choice. If she had a problem or wasn't ready, she'd still go in the diapers all the time. Just explain then be tough and remove them in the daytime. There may be a few tantrums and messes but then it will just be done. She may legit still need them at night for a while though. Restrict liquids after dinner and get a before-bed potty-sitting routine going. When she has dry mornings for a while transition to none at all.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:11:32 2014 No.8023381 File: 736 KB, 970x888, g10.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no lolita gf

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:27:27 2014 No.8023406 >all the people I know are really into shipping and role playing >mfw being left out every time because I find that cringe as fuck I'm trying really hard to make friends but come on

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:30:26 2014 No.8023411 >>8023406 roleplaying can be fun sometimes but shipping is literal autism

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:32:08 2014 No.8023416 >>8023406 I understand role playing but what's wrong with shipping? It's really hard to ignore romance when so many manga series throw it in reader's faces just for ratings.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:32:58 2014 No.8023418 Do i spend ALL my christmas money on lolita........do i do it........yes

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:34:42 2014 No.8023422 >>8023325 Nah fuck them

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:36:48 2014 No.8023426

>>8023422
I'm still doing it anon but I'm thinking about just asking someone to make it than do it on my own because the method I want to use I can't find the files for since /po/ is being /po/

Also there's no pep that looks similar to the helmet either. I'm hoping that one Toku trip can help me out if the thread doesn't vanish. I still want to do this cosplay but I wanted to be 100%

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:37:05 2014 No.8023428 >>8023418 I mostly did. And got it early since the releases I wanted came before Christmas. Now just waiting for the rest of all the packages...

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:38:24 2014 No.8023430

>>8023416
Some people get so autistic over who is fictional characer fucking and it's really annoying because that's 80% of what they talk about. I could just ignore them, sure, but they're fucking everywhere.
Watching people fight because someone doesn't agree with their headcanon is some of the funniest shit ever

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:45:03 2014 No.8023440
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>>8023430
Oh yeah that's annoying. I hate that too. I don't mind some shipping like if you like the mc with the girl he's suppose to fall in love/in love with but I hate the damn shippers who pair up X with Y or two dudes who are suppose to be friends and throw it in your face.

>mfw someone spoiled a manga chapter because it had a hint of their ship
>mfw my best friend refused to talk to me for almost six months because I didn't give a damn about his ship not happening in Ore imo
>mfw he was mad again because I said I didn't care for Hitagi

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:55:47 2014 No.8023454 >>8023440 >best friend refused to talk to me for 6 months Anon, I don't think this is behaviour of a best friend

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 00:59:47 2014 No.8023460 >>8023269 I think recent life events have convinced me to not buy it, I have to pay a traffic violation now so I'll pay that and then not have enough money to cosplay anyways.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:00:46 2014 No.8023464

>>8023454
He's ok normally but for some reason gets into really heated debates about small stuff and stuff that makes no sense. He used to rage at anyone who even talked about Ore imo because his ship wasn't at the end and they went incest route with it.

He tried to get me into it and defend him on some chat but I told him no, that's stupid and I don't give a damn about that series so he refused to talk to me.

He's a hardcore Monogatari fan too so when I told him I liked everything but Hitagi he got mad again because Monogatari is the best anime of the year (and ever) just because his loli waifu is in it.

Maybe I'm desperate anon because he's the only guy who knows about Guilty Gear. Most people I talk to play Street Fighter or watch AoT/Naruto/Bleach/Jump stuff.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:03:39 2014 No.8023471 >>8023381 Can you afford a Lolita GF?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:15:00 2014 No.8023487 >>8023176 It doesn't have to make sense, it's an insult. I call people gay while being gay myself and I've told people to go climb a wall of dicks without actually expecting them to procure a wall of dicks and climb it. It's how insults work.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:22:50 2014 No.8023504 >>8023487 >That's funny! >Sage for useles comment but 10/10, I lol'd

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:23:03 2014 No.8023505

>Lots of xmas money
>Finally buying myself some more lolita stuff
>2014 is the year I have been to the most meetups but was also the year I bought only 2 dresses?

Also:
I finally found a fucking vet that I like
>First one we go to down right ignores me and my questions and just has a conversation with his nurse while doing the 'exam'
>Second one was sweet, answered my questions, handled by boy well, but she was to terrified by my girl cat to do that well of a job (Well she is a fucking demon at the vets I understand but this is just not going to work)
>Make an apt
>They ask what doctor I want
>anyone but the old man please (She laughed and said I understand. why is that ass still there)
>ok we have this new guy
>He says what he is feeling for and exactly what is good when he feels up the cats
>I have had animals all my life and no vet has ever done this, just MOLEST, all looks good
>He even told us our boy had a full bladder and offered a towel for the crate so if there was an accident he would not muss up the nice blankets we have in the crates
>He even manages to do all this while my girl tries to gouge his eyes out, a full thorough exam and his attendant keeps her under control (she is a very sweet cat at home but she is a fucking demon at the vet, she is 9 pounds and has a big red caution sticker on her folder)
>Boy is a bit underweight, girl is overweight, gives poundage and tips for finding middle ground
>AND he did not make me wait an hour
FINALLY, FUCKING FINALLY.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:31:32 2014 No.8023514

>>8023406

i feel you, anon. i roleplay casually myself (i have since i as a preteen) because i enjoy the collaborative writing aspect and i've met some great people through it, but i've moved into casually playing silly things because people get too into it.

>has known roleplayers who quit school and jobs so they have more time for roleplay
>has known roleplayers who will date someone because their characters are dating
>has known roleplayers who act different and manage to change personality every time they pick up a new character

to be completely fair, some of the more autistic cosplayers do these things too

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:42:49 2014 No.8023530

>>8023514
>has known roleplayers who will date someone because their characters are dating
I knew this one girl who would always compare her boyfriend to whoever character she liked at the time and would compare themselves to one of her ships as well. You could tell her boyfriend hated that and even after breaking up she continued to do that shit
This kind of stuff is really sad to see

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:46:29 2014 No.8023533
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>>8023505
Good to hear. My aunt used to work at a vets office but left after the new doctor turned out to be a complete ass. She saw him try to yank a tube out of a dog's throat and nealy collapsed it's trachea.

>I almost got a job there without realizing it was the office my aunt worked at.

Not /cgl/ related.

My son is only three months old but he's huge for his age. He's already doubled his weight and grown six inches. He's already the size of kids twice his age.

>MFW it feels like my kid is actually Hagrid.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:52:19 2014 No.8023542 >>8023533 stop feeding him shit food.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:54:57 2014 No.8023544 Not /cgl/ related >When people wont stop talking about their damn kids When you post the same thing on Facebook and then come to /cgl/ its time to stop. No one cares about your snotty little poo maker except other people with snotty little poo makers.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:55:15 2014 No.8023545 >>8023505 A good vet is so hard to find! I'm glad this guy worked out for you. My vet is alright, but he's pretty much my only option unless I want to drive 30+ miles.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 01:57:31 2014 No.8023549 >>8023542 I'd be worried if it was just his weight. But he's growing in height too. The only food he gets is breastmilk. Apparently huge kids run in the family. His dad was a chubby baby too and his uncle was huge for his age.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 02:46:38 2014 No.8023596

>>8021194

Anon, I don't know how long this has been going on but please save yourself before it spirals into an eating disorder. If it becomes that mentally bad, you'll either live through it with weakened organs and extremely depressed because of chemical imbalances, or you'll die from malnourishment and diseases. I had an ED for 8 years. They're are many ways to get thin (yes, non muscle stick thin) without starting yourself.

Maybe I'm over reacting, but this just hits close to home for me.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 02:49:17 2014 No.8023601

>>8023533
>>8023549
He's fine as long as he's on the growth chart for weight and height and tracking along the same centile he was born on. Crossing centiles for a 3-month-old indicates something's wrong, although people can start as chubby/large babies and cross to lower centiles (but still be growing normally) once they start running around and having growth spurts

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 02:57:50 2014 No.8023613 >>8023544 This was rudely said but it's kind of true. Unless you are cosplaying with your kids or they are dressing lolita, it's way off topic.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:00:53 2014 No.8023615 >>8020917 Use Veet? Spot test first. I find it gentle enough. If it's brows or facial hair, treat yourself to a wax at the salon, they have wax for sensitive skin and are quick then use a numbing topical cream or lotion. Good luck!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:06:45 2014 No.8023617 >>8023613 There's other canons talking about their kids too. Although babies do seem to tick off a lot of anons. I always notice how many canons seem to hate babies whenever they're mentioned. Even in on topic discussion.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:16:40 2014 No.8023621

>>8023617
I don't mind them in on-topic but I think a lot of parents are reluctant to post coordinating baby cosplay or frillies because then childless anons scream 'accessory' lol. It's going to become more common as Lolitas and cosplayers have families though. At least I hope they won't stop their hobbies completely due to kids.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:22:00 2014 No.8023628

>>8023617
I think its poor taste to post such trivial information about your child everywhere, other people in the threads were talking about feels they can't really express that freely otherwise.

There's a difference between
"My Children did this and its making me feel and Its something I can't talk about that freely so here I am doing it anon on 4chan"
"Here is my child in a topic of relevant discussion"
and
"Hey look world, here is my child, and I am going to say the same exact thing about said child everywhere, so I can make sure everyone knows about my child"

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:25:58 2014 No.8023638

>>8023621
I've noticed that too. I understand. Some people just don't like dealing with other people's kid and some are just annoying as hell. Probably add on how some people get pressured by others because they don't want kids and are constantly told they'll change their mind or they're selfish for not wanting to pop babies out.

I have friends who don't want kids and even though I have one of my own. I hate hearing people say stuff like that. Not everybody wants or is ready to have them. I respect their wishes not to have kids. They're more then happy to give mine attention and had him off to mom and dad afterwards.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:35:35 2014 No.8023652

>>8023628
I can respect that. I can imagine people get tired about hearing about people's little poop machines(and not the best subject to be posting about on cgl)

It really does kind of suck when you realize you've become THAT mom. Not that I was a super interesting person to begin with.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:42:12 2014 No.8023656

>>8023652
There are other things you repeat as well that you've stopped since the kid, but I'm surprised you are taking my harsh criticism well- guess it shows I don't like kids.

Catch yourself before its too late, one of my other friends gave everyone gift cards with her kids faces on it, as a way of forcing pictures of her kids into everyone's wallets. At least you're not that far.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:49:02 2014 No.8023662

>>8023656
Dude. Instead of telling me here. Tell me on Facebook(since I'm guessing you're somebody I have on my friends list) you can just message me there. I don't think I'm that unreasonable to criticism. It's valid. Maybe a little harsh(but it's 4chan so I've gotten way worse) but it does kind of suck that my life revolves around my kid so much now that it's almost all I talk about now.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:51:41 2014 No.8023664

>got lots of christmas money
>catch up on bills, buy a few things I needed
>put in a small closet child order for myself
>still got plenty of money put aside
>good times
>next day closet child emails me, item sold out, so sorry etc. etc.
>decide to buy something else with refund money
>great great
>look at bank account
>... I am missing money
>shit
>refund hadn't processed yet
>way low on money now
>not financially comfortable enough to buy a few accessories or blouses like I had planned now
>fuck banks and their shit

I should've known the refund wouldn't come in immediately. Ugh. Live and learn, I guess... won't make the same mistake twice.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 03:52:05 2014 No.8023665 >>8023464 So he's your shit taste friend ? It's weird to see someone get that passionate about awful animus.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 04:25:18 2014 No.8023690

>>8020304
This is just me because I absolutely hate playing the keyboard due to how it feels on my fingers, but why not get a stage piano instead of a keyboard?
Unless that's what you meant, go for it. They end up slightly more expensive than a keyboard would because most (all?) stage pianos don't have built in speakers so that's a lot of accessories you need for it.
I decided on the best quality piano instead of going down in quality a bit so I could afford a stage piano and speakers for it. Sometimes I regret the decision because it could be nice to take it to family gatherings or even ask the local community if they want live music for parties and whatnot. So go for it!

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 04:29:45 2014 No.8023694

>>8020304
Like a clavinova, stage piano, or keyboard? A good clavinova is awesome for not disturbing others when you practice, but not as portable as a keyboard and you have to be careful when transporting it.

>>8023690
Does your stage piano not connect to any generic speakers? I always thought they could, but I've only had keyboards and fully weighted clavinovas.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 04:47:13 2014 No.8023716

>>8020304
>>8021785
>>8023690
>>8023694
Everyone, get a real piano. 15 years ago I was having trouble with practice on a keyboard, because the feeling was not the same as the real thing and, especially, because it had not enough keys. It's super expensive, but it's a life investment. Then you plan meets at your house to show off your mad skillz. Pianos have a mute pedal you can use to practice at night.

Or a clavinova, that's ok too.

Only problem is that you can't really take a piano anywhere, so I'm thinking nof getting a melodica to play at parties and so on

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 04:50:22 2014 No.8023719 >>8023664 The fuck is closet child? Sounds pedo.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 04:56:48 2014 No.8023726 >>8023716 Not all pianos have the mute pedal - my one at my parents' house has a half-sustain pedal instead. I think if you're going to be moving house a lot a clavinova is infinitely more practical and disturbs the neighbours less.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 05:07:29 2014 No.8023731 >>8023266 Yea I have. I'm pretty much in the same position as this >>8023284 girl. I have no problem getting to know people, it's just really hard getting into a close friends circle

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 05:24:01 2014 No.8023746

>>8023716
Hey >>8023690 here, I do have a real piano that I spent a lot of dorrar on, just stated that a stage piano could have been nice too since I can't take this one anywhere. Since I actually study music, it could be nice to play at other venues than my own room. But I love it nonetheless, it's my baby.

>>8023694
I don't have a stage piano, but my old workplace did and yeah, they can connect to generic speakers. You'll want some good quality speakers as much as possible though to really get an amazing sound.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 05:33:06 2014 No.8023756

>>8023726
Speaking of disturbing neighbours - I play an air instrument and have to practice during the day when everyone is at work, and when I do it during holidays my housemates get pissy. I can't go anywhere else, I only have one room to myself and the walls are quite thin. What do I do?
I'm always told that it's annoying, but the instrument itself plays only higher pitched notes and there isn't much I can do to fix that.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 05:37:12 2014 No.8023758 >>8023756 Maybe look into ways to help soundproof your room that can easily be removed(especially if you live in a rental place) google, or even consider asking /diy/

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 05:50:39 2014 No.8023765

>>8023746
Oh, I see. Totally misinterpreted that statement!

>>8023756
I know that there are soundproofing curtains and things that are sold, maybe if you could rig yourself up a 'room' with dampening fabric it could help? If you're a piccolo player, I swear that instrument can cut through everything.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 06:05:11 2014 No.8023780
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>makes most cosplay plans privately with friends a-chan and b-kun
>we all tend to like similar series, but different characters, so it works out
>other friend c-san keeps trying to butt in despite not knowing any of the things we cosplay when we post about it, so we don't usually do so
>posts about cosplaying character x because i'm really excited
>"suddenly, c-san is there. "omg anon you will look so good as x! i'm going to do y! i love their design! i'm going to watch it tonight!!"
>y being the one shipped with x
>"actually, b-kun is doing y. a-chan is doing z."
>"that's ok with me!"
>b(eta)-kun decides against cosplaying it because c-san announced it
>c-san neither watches the series nor does the cosplay but periodically reminds everyone they're going to cosplay y one day, seriously!!
>a-chan and i do it as a pair but it's less fun
>mfw i ruined my own group

try_myBest Tue Dec 30 06:12:14 2014 No.8023789

>>8020249
The IW Happy Packs came out earlier than I expected this year, I've never been quick enough to get one, and I want one so desperately. So I didn't have enough money saved up to put in a reservation. My boyfriend says he will buy it for me as an early birthday gift, and I'm over the moon! But I didn't get in in time, and got placed on the waiting list. After the usual week waiting there was no e-mail from IW about cancellations so I was sad. A week later I go on holidays. I return from a week and a bit "holiday" from the middle of nowhere (this place has no internet or mobile phone reception) to find an e-mail from IW requesting payment for a happy pack as there was cancellations.. I trip out! over the moon! Payment due date... Yesterday...

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 09:14:41 2014 No.8023927

>>8023471
Not him but it has been my impression lurking this board that not many of these girls have jobs, or even if they do it is nothing to brag about.

It might just be the general age group here, but Lolita is a hobby she should be able to support it herself.

With the spontaneous gift from me here and there.

Savings, 401k, mortgage, all comes first.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 09:19:59 2014 No.8023934 >>8023780 We decided against letter names BTW, call people by colors or names of sodas. I'm sorry about whatever's happened though, alphabet-chan.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 09:29:13 2014 No.8023943 >>8023927 Lolitas are greedy by and large and expect more gifts than regular girls.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:15:00 2014 No.8024023 >>8023943 Sounds like they need some growing up to do. Surprise gifts are fantastic, but too many gifts often sucks up a lot of money that could be put else where as I stated above. Any girl worth my time would understand and agree.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:39:23 2014 No.8024056

>>8020332
Anon, if you are on fb search for gothic/punk/alt whatever selling groups, here i sell the stuff i don't use even the cheap shit. Better than ebay because you won't have to deal with fees, also remember to up the posts every few days.
>mfw i'm past 20 and still wearing these brands at times
>>8020917
Using a razor right? That is easiest and painless thing ever to remove hair even if grow faster. I never use wax or stuff that hurt like bitches so i would rather to shave often.
>>8023544
Finally an anon said it.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:45:24 2014 No.8024069

>>8024023
Not all lolitas are like that hopefully. I would never ask to get even a single brand JSK because it's too expensive and i never do expensive gifts so i require friends or partner to do the same as me, unexpensive but cute/useful gifts and not often. I dislike the fact some lolitas would brag burando to bfs or even sugardadding to get their precious stuff, instead of working or budgeting to get stuff. Some people is really too greedy.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:45:48 2014 No.8024070 >>8023719 lurk more.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:50:50 2014 No.8024079 >>8024069 Sounds like we see eye to eye. I'm not even against buying an expensive gift, but I shouldn't have that expectation that it is required from me.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:52:37 2014 No.8024086

>comm leader asks me sor meet up ideas
>I suggest a nice place
>leader is all over it and settles date
>I am over the moon since the place is just a few minutes far away from me
>out from nowhere girls from other state want to join but don't like the date
>leader makes a poll
>other date wins with just one vote more
>can't go anymore since I have other plans for that date
>feels like shit

This is so fucked man, everything was fine untill those girl jumped in. I want to hate them special snowflake-litas but they are nice.
At least I've already been to that place and will likely not miss out on something but still, I want to see my girls!

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 11:58:14 2014 No.8024097

>rack up a pretty impressive credit card bill
>bill that ended on Dec 12th says $300 but I know I put more on it since that
>next bill could easily amount in the realm of $400-500
>was doing dishes the other day
>laptop was in the kitchen
>suddenly a slosh of soap water shoots up and lands on the laptop
>try my best to dry out the keys but they shorted
>need to get it fixed
>the repair will likely minimally cost $100 that will have to go on my credit card if I don't get paid enough
>my next credit card bill will likely be $600
>could pay it off when I get loan money but I will have to make slightly above minimum payments until then
>the interest rate shoots up to 16% if I can't make it below $200
>tfw I'm not in horrible trouble but these people are going to be making soooo much money off me

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 12:21:37 2014 No.8024137
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Finally found Bodyline's Soft Cream skirt in Sax after so long! It might not be typical "Dream Print" material but I fell in love with a while back and have been hunting religiously for it! And now it's mine!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 13:16:19 2014 No.8024242 >>8021550 sounds like a cyst

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 14:42:24 2014 No.8024399

>making camp in artist alley
>drawan, chattan, sellan prints.
>a few old acquaintances approach me, I've met them a few years earlier.
>they outright acuse me of stealing art, they have seen it before they say
>it takes a few min of back and forth until I can prove who I am.
>Turns out they didn't recognize me from years of depression/weight gain.
>we both part ways feeling like crap.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 14:54:34 2014 No.8024427

the girl I though was my best friend, just won't give a shit about me anymore.
she was in an abusive relationship and I supported her big time. we would also meet quite often as the asshole lived out of town.
now she's found another (this time good) boyfriend in town and she never has time to meet me. we sometimes chat online but that's about it. now it's all her boyfriend. plus she does meet other friends but it's like "couples meeting". of course I'm single so I'm not joining in.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 14:58:29 2014 No.8024432 >>8024399 At least they were looking out for your art and standing up for it? That's something.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 14:59:16 2014 No.8024433 >>8023200 Northern Ireland (Late as shit reply whoops)

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 15:06:03 2014 No.8024448 >>8023756 Tell them they have to suck it up or choose to go out for the hour or so you practice but be as flexible as you can about a time that suits them best. That's a fair compromise.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 15:22:05 2014 No.8024476 >>8023464 drop him as a friend. he's called shit taste bitchbaby now.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 16:30:35 2014 No.8024600

>>8021196
That's a shame. Assburgers is high functioning; I'd bet you 20 bucks he knows he's not acting appropriately and likes getting away with it. That kinda attitude from your parents is going to do him a lot of harm.

I have a younger brother with the same diagnosis. He was a problem kid and had pretty much zero friends when he was in grade school. My parents never told him he was diagnosed though, so he grew up with normal expectations and now he's pretty much normal, only slightly awkward.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 16:43:24 2014 No.8024628

>>8022869
I was even diagnosed when my grades started to drop, they whooped me anyway.

I have related trichotillomania and my parents still constantly tease me and ridicule me about not having eyelashes and tell my sisters that it was a "mistake" when they ask about it.

Last time I snapped and said, "No, it's not a mistake, it's a condition, because you never got me treated." and they haven't mentioned it since, but... ugh. It makes me feel like shit. They still think I do it for attention (never mind the copious amounts of eyeliner and falsies I wear to hide it)

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 16:44:30 2014 No.8024630 >>8023487 >climb a wall of dicks I like that, I'm going to have to start using that, thank you anon.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 18:13:27 2014 No.8024773 >finally grab a heart to buy a lolita coat I really like >marked as out of stock online so there is a good chance it might be still in a physical store >hopes are really high >get mail that it is completly sold out. Why do I have no luck with coats?

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 19:58:15 2014 No.8025011

>>8022454
the cosplay scene could use people with maturity and skill, not just to cosplay characters that aren't children/teenagers, but to level out bullshit drama and raise the standard of quality and behavior in general.

Don't leave the con scene full of hyperactive hormonal drama queens, please.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:25:13 2014 No.8025089

>really nice dress shop near house, sells expensive vintage-esque dresses
>doing 15% off sale for boxing day
>walk past, beautiful lavender dress in window
>try it on, shopgirls all gush at me over how cute and petite i look in it
>feel amazing, then i look at price tag
>$250
>only have $150 on me
>friend offers to buy for me if i pay off the remainder by the end of the month
>take it to counter, dress shows up at $130
>"the price doesn't look right, are you sure this is it?"
>"that's the price that's coming up on the screen, anon"

I'm not usually into vintage-styled dresses but god I am in love with this piece. It's so luxurious.... Hand-dyed silk with a run limited to 100pcs. Feels good man.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:28:16 2014 No.8025095

>25 years with no one to call a friend
>All my life I have been in groups where went from the perfect group of friends to a dramatic ending for me, leaving me alone
>That situation only repeated itself until I stopped caring about socializing
>I became a loner and I thought I was ok with that but I found that that it was eating me from the inside and I can't stop being sad about this
>I don't know what it feels to have friends crashing at your house at random hours or just surprise you on your birthday
>I have never went on vacations with friends
>I only have casual friend but I don't see them often, like 4 times a year, I live really far from them.
>Leaving far gets me excluded from meeting because they can't invite me to dinner or just to go out a couple of hours and I feel excluded even when it's not their fault.
>I get depressed/jealous eveyrtime I see ANYONE talking about meeting other friends of them
>Without my boyfriend I would be alone as fuck.

I really do try not to feel bad but it's getting harder.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:33:16 2014 No.8025110 File: 41 KB, 355x236, 1413370478967.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8025095 >I can relate to all of this and I'm only 18 how fucked am I anon

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:37:57 2014 No.8025117

>>8025095
Image all of this anon but:

>Casual friend told you to go fuck yourself and die you bitch because of some he said she said gossip
>No boyfriend

Then you have me. Be happy with what you have and count your blessing. When you get more friends you will get more friends.

>>8025110
>18

You still a babe. You have time. Now if you were 30 or so then I would say you fucked. Apply yourself more at groups/meets/etc.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:39:59 2014 No.8025121

Because of the boobs thread, I just got fitted and I went from a 36b to a 36ddd. Not sure if happy that I have good fitting bras, or sad that I'll have a hard time finding pretty onrs .On a semi related note Victoria's secret carries like two bras in 36ddd.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:43:39 2014 No.8025131

>>8025117
>You still a babe
>Apply yourself more at groups/meets/etc.
It's kinda going downhill at this point and I have serious trust issues going on, I don't want to come out a tumblrian but it's literally what's happening

I-i'm gon' do it 4 u anon tho

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:44:43 2014 No.8025135

>>8025121
There are a surprising number of large-cup brands that carry pretty bras and go on clearance, and even 'normal' brands often have large cup runs. Elle Macpherson Intimates now does up to a G cup, and Curvy Kate and Cleo have really fun bras as well

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:46:00 2014 No.8025139 >>8025121 Good that you finally know your size though, it's shitty how many people don't realise theirs.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 20:48:31 2014 No.8025147 File: 100 KB, 605x735, spoilt brats.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>8023237 >The girl opened up a Galaxy Tab 3, and says as deadpan as she could "Thanks, but I really wanted the 4." Nothing makes me more mad than this.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:08:51 2014 No.8025183

>>8025131
>Trust issues

Not every single human is perfect or without baggage. You either have to deal with it or not deal with it. Either way find the signs before you cut off from friendship. If a person is autistic or a mooching loser make sure to drop it while it's hot. Don't deal with a toxic person and don't deal with friends like anon >>8023440

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:14:06 2014 No.8025200 >>8025117 >Be happy with what you have and count your blessing. I know what you mean and I'm sorry if my opinion about my situation offended you but I can't live thinking 'I have to be happy because someone has it worse'.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:27:19 2014 No.8025234 >>8025139 I need to go get mine checked but I'm afraid that the person who measures it might think I'm horrible if I have an ill fitting bra

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:28:49 2014 No.8025237 >>8021049 Huh, I guess it goes both ways. I have the sperg too and will have a meltdown if someone is eating loud. I actually have a policy with my boss that I can leave the room if someone starts eating loudly.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:31:32 2014 No.8025241

>>8025234
Dude. No they won't. It's their job to help fit you properly. I went to get fitted and the lady was nice and professional. They know most woman don't wear the right size anyway because we're not taught how.

My mom flat out taught he how to size my bra wrong and I wore the wrong size for like, 15 years until I finally got fitted. I actually need to go get fitted again since it's be a while and my size has changed.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:32:45 2014 No.8025246
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>so many things I want for cheap on J-auctions
>graduated and in job-limbo
>tfw bills before frills

Also, I have a URI and I should be preparing for a panel presentation. I just hope that I'm not contagious by the time of the con and I don't get worse because I'm around people with con funk.

Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:34:47 2014 No.8025250

>Be me
>Be in love with this guy for 6 years
>He was in a relationship for a long time
>They break up
>I'm in a relationship so I can't do anything about it
>I break up with my bf
>He meets this other girl, they're now dating
>I really like the other girl too, she's pretty nice
>But it breaks my heart so much every time I see photos of them together or see her reblog lovey dovey shit about him on tumblr

Hold me seagulls

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:34:49 2014 No.8025251 >>8025234 They didn't even measure mine, the lady pretty much went "tits out!" And didn't even look at my old bra also, Fredrick's has non hideous bras in large sizes if you don't mind sifting through trashy lingerie

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:36:11 2014 No.8025255 >>8025251 *look at my bra size Not measure. It's been a long day

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:38:41 2014 No.8025262 >>8025234 Go in free-boobing!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 30 21:53:02 2014 No.8025295 >>8025251 Do you have any suggestions on where to go? unfortunately the place I was planning to go to closed down and I'm not comfortable with walking into Victoria secret since I look younger than I am

Anonymous Wed Dec 31 00:18:12 2014 No.8025606

>>8025295
JC penny does it, as does Macy's. Don't be afraid, they've sized landwhales and men before. Just make sure you get a good sizer. If you have a lane Bryant and a larger ribcage, my stepmom suggested them also, Victoria's secret is targeted towards teen to twenty somethings

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 31 02:01:28 2014 No.8025765 >>8025237 it's a generally annoying habit, not to mention disgusting. It's not unique to people with assburgers to get annoyed by it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 31 04:13:45 2014 No.8025926 >>8025095 Anon are you me? This is my social life in a nutshell. I suggest you to go to sport clubs and take courses with your intrests. I will try to find people near me too but those trust issues...

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 31 09:40:07 2014 No.8026116 >>8025926 Hahaha, where are you from? We might be living near and become bff like having tshirts with the other person's face. Suppa kawaii-

Anonymous Wed Dec 31 12:16:00 2014 No.8026282
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>full time college student, unemployed currently
>get $100 for Christmas from grandma
>not much, but fuck yeah, money for new lolita stuff
>trying to figure out what to spend it on
>fast forward to a couple nights ago
>boyfriend asks if my boobs have gotten bigger
>pssh no way in hell, my boobs have been the same size (34B) since I was 10 and don't even fluctuate with my weight, which hasn't changed at all either.
>boyfriend is convinced my boobs have gotten bigger
>whatever, I'll measure just to prove him wrong
...
>shit, he's fucking right
>went from a 34B to 32D
>probably cause I got an IUD inserted in october
>tfw have to go spend christmas money on new bras
>tfw still have relatively average boobs from a normalfag perspective (my bust is about 92cm), but I have a couple dresses from when I was a 34B that I was near the max bust on then, probably won't fit me now
>mfw

Should I get my dresses tailored or just wear a binder/sports bra/whatever with lolita?

Anonymous Wed Dec 31 16:45:31 2014 No.8026623
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>Likes short men
>Likes young looking men
>Likes younger men
>Likes qt femboys
>Wants any of the above as a boyfriend.

I feel like a cougar. Stuff like Puppy lovers is my thing but I can't seem to find any of the above in a mature guy yet.

Anonymous Thu Jan 1 06:15:10 2015 No.8027575
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>ombre dyeing white cotton sateen to match a pink colour that shows up in the outfit
>swatch test is great!
>second-guess myself when dying the "real" fabric
>leave the fabric in the dye for twice the time
>oversaturated bright pink that doesn't match the muted dusty pink
>tfw
>....going to make an hour-long pilgrimage out of town to a JoAnn tomorrow to find colour remover and see if that works

>>8026282
From a non-lolita perspective, wear a sports bra. I'm a 32G and wear sports bras with almost all my normal shirts to make them fit right. And because I'm so used to wearing sports bras, I have a few cosplays that I tailored to a squished bust instead of remembering to put on a proper bra, so they also don't fit except with sports bras.

Anonymous Thu Jan 1 09:25:52 2015 No.8027709

My anxiety has become so bad I couldn't even go upstairs to be with my family for new years. Instead I sat in my room and cried alone. My agoraphobia is out of control and I've ruined all my friendships. It felt really lonely because as stupid as it is I was hoping my mom would try at least a little to try to get me to be around everyone. I guess it hits me hard because it's almost been a year since I was in the hospital for attempting suicide.
I mean, it's not their fault as I'm always angry, at all times I snap at people for the stupidest things. I have a psych appointment Friday but, I don't think I can go, the idea of leaving my house terrifies me. If I don't go to this app though they are closing my case. This whole year has been shit, I feel like a robot.

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 1 11:18:07 2015 No.8027800 >>8026623 I thought you had a crush on the big gorilla looking guy.

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 1 11:33:24 2015 No.8027812 >>8027709 I believe in you Anon, you just need help and you want to get it. It's just a matter of overcoming the obstacles in your life. I feel like you don't believe in yourself, so you can at least believe in the Anon who believes in you.

Anonymous Thu Jan 1 15:36:37 2015 No.8028093

>grad student living on own in different city from parents, largely self-sufficient
>on vacation with parents
>mom jokingly says "it's funny how we don't bicker like this when you're not around!"
>feel like useless unwanted family member
>wonder what is even the goddamn point if not even my own family wants me around

at the same time I wonder if it's because I don't put up w my mom's emotionally abusive shit and it empowers my dad to talk back more when I'm back but that's wishful thinking honestly, I have a pretty atrocious obnoxious personality

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