New CGL Feels

[Anonymous No.8385796]

Old one in autosage

>go to con
>see obvious newbie lolita there in homemade dress
>be friendly but she's very shy
>go to lolita swap meet
>strike up convo with the person who sets up her items beside mine
>who would show up but newbie
>you can see her fawning over AP dress neighbor is selling
>neighbor explains that it's her dream dress but it looks bad on her and that's why she's selling it
>"how much do you want for it?"
>"150."
>"oh... That's okay, thank you"
>neighbor sighs "how much do you have?"
>"100..."
>hands her the dress "here you go, enjoy it."
>can't hold all these happy feels

[Anonymous No.8385802]

>in a chewbacca suit for 6 hours
>balls sweaty like hell
>finally get out of suit
>scratch balls
>smell it

it's a good feel

[Anonymous No.8385804]

>>8385796
Just got back from my first con and I feel so dead inside. Post-con depression is no joke.

[Anonymous No.8385818]

>>8385804
Post-con depression is weird, it doesn't matter how bad your con was you can still get it. and sometimes the better the con was the worse post-con will be.

[Anonymous No.8385819]

>>8385818
I had a ton of fun so that's probably why this sucks so hard. I probably won't get to go to anything else until next year.

[Anonymous No.8385821]

So I am really insecure about my teeth
>poor teeth runs in my family
>one tooth is impacted and needs surgery to be brought down
>front teeth have a small gap
>massive overbite
>was told teeth were too fucked for orthodontics

I learned at this point in my life to just not show my teeth in cosplay pictures but in the rare times I smile with teeth I never really feel comfortable about it

>Get posted about a month ago as the OP image for a Bad Teeth in cosplay thread
>An outpouring of support for me and to tell OP to stop being a judgmental cunt
>I start to feel a bit better since cgl is always full of sandy people
>Go to a convention where I cosplay as Mega Milk (as a joke)
>Have people ask for the crazy grin so I show my teeth in pictures
>Am posted in the post-con thread
>Everyone says how awful my teeth are

When it rains it pours.

[Anonymous No.8385829]

>>8385821
Buy flippers for cosplay where you can't avoid smiling?

>tfw too much toddlers and tiaras

[Anonymous No.8385834]

>have cosplays ready and set for the drive
> prepack in the car, dont want to wrinkle main pieces, make it a last minute thing.
>forget them in the morning after a 5hour drive
>salvage a cosplay from just the jacket,wig and other things.
>look in the mirror
fuck

[Anonymous No.8385839]

>wallowing in self-pity because I thought it'd be impossible to find otome-aproppriate shoes in my size
>somehow wind up on aliexpress
>surprisingly find a treasure trove of shoes that actually go up to a 12

I added so many things to my wish list, holy shit. I need to sift through everything to find trustworthy sellers and stuff, but to anyone else suffering with clown feet: there is hope.

[Anonymous No.8385840]

>tfw trying to get professional help to lose weight

I'm hope it'll help seagulls, I'm sick of spending so much time wasting away because I'm fat and I hate how I look so much I don't even want to be seen in pictures anymore.

Maybe this way I'll be able to finally loose weight for longer then a month or two before giving in to binge eating again. All I want is to be able to wear cute clothes and cosplay, I have so many cosplay plans but I don't feel worthy for any of them as long as I'm still fat.

[Anonymous No.8385847]

>>8385821
Anon I know teeth issues. I'm 20 and have had to have my front teeth re-implanted into my jaw.
My teeth are weak and crack and take damage quickly and I have had everything under the sun done to them, and now they look great in pictures.
Granted it was paid for by a mix of NHS and my uncle owning a privet practice, and having his dentists work on me like a pet project but-

No matter how bad your teeth are, it can be fixed.
Go to a dental practice that specialized in
cosmetics, they WILL find a way to fix it.
Get the impacted tooth sorted first, as it may change some gaps in your teeth and alter your bite.
You can get orthodontics for overbites, I've seen a lot of them.
You can get the gap filled in with composite resin, it wouldn't take more than 20 minutes in a normal dentist. Or get a crown made, even though a good one is expensive.

There is ALWAYS a way to fix your teeth. Go get a second opinion from another dentist.

>was 16 when permanent front crown broke in way that I was told by the NHS could not be fixed.
>My 16 heart broke that day when I was fitted for a partial denture.
>My fathers mentions it to my uncle.
>Next day uncle rings me. Then I'm half way across the country with a new dentist who repaired my crown in a hour,with it being partially implanted into my jaw.
>Crying with happiness on the train journey back home.

[Anonymous No.8385853]

>>8385840
Heres to you anon, it will be worth it in the end, you can reap the perks and that will help motivate you to stay healthy and be at a comfortable balance.
Question:
how do you get a fat friend/SO to lose weight for their benefit, so they can show and feel comfortable in their own skin and have tons of things to wear.

[Anonymous No.8385858]

>>8385821
this >>8385847 isn't bad advice, but i'd add, it isn't your defining feature, so dont make it so.

[Anonymous No.8385859]

>>8385853
thank you, I've tried more times then I can count over so many years, at those point I just have to accept that I need more help then just trying not to eat shit.

As for you friend, it's difficult. Are they in any way aware they are fat and want to change it? Are you willing to actually help them or just want to comment on it?

Weight is a delicate situation and someone who is aware they're fat and attempt to change it really do not want to be told they're fat. If they aren't, it's still delicate but you could, in a nice way, mention that if they ever need help you're there for them. The short time I was able to work out along with friends was great but it isn't possible anymore, but it's one of the best motivations to have.

[Anonymous No.8385865]

>>8385853
Not the anon you replied to, but:
I could stand to lose quite a few pounds myself and I've been dieting since March. My boyfriend is/was nowhere near satisfied with his body (I think he was 375lbs at his worst), and after seeing me make progress he found the rest of the motivation he needed to diet strictly. I think you should try to show the person you're trying to help that it's really not difficult, and if you also have something to gain from doing healthier things, you can work alongside them to keep them on track.

[Anonymous No.8385873]

>>8385858
yaeba as FUCK

sheeeit I am in love

[Anonymous No.8385876]

>>8385821
Sorry to hear that anon but you know this is a place of hate. Take it with a grain of salt and don't let it get you down. Your teeth are fixable when you have the time/money but this will always be the same shithole.

Me:
>Bought dream dress
>Realize I've been depressed since missing the reservation because now nothing seems to be getting me down.
>Literally a dress was the key to my happiness and it's white so I have to be super careful not to fuck it up.
>new anxiety over stains but still happy.

I might need a doctor...

[Anonymous No.8385880]

>5'4 and 150ish, 27inch waist 23 in a corset, 38 bust, 39 hips.
>BF is 140, 5'11, 28 waist, 35 chest, he's muscular but wants to bulk up more for cosplay.
>I eat very small meals, snack very little compared to him.
>He eats like a hobbit. Breakfast. Second Breakfast, 11sys, Lunch, Tea, Dinner, Supper. Each is meal size.
>I want to lose 20 pounds and he wants to gain 20.

Cosplay has made his so vein. It's cute.

[Anonymous No.8385888]

I'm breaking out like fucking crazy and it's driving me insane. I'm hoping it's just hormones, but it's still awful. Also feel like I've gained a bit of weight, but that's my fault.

[Anonymous No.8385894]

>>8385829
I might consider it in the future if I have the budget for it
>>8385847
My boyfriend thought maybe raising some money to get me some extra dental work. Once we get more of our finances in order I might just consider it.

[Anonymous No.8385902]

>>8385839
If you could throw some links out there you would be my hero

[Anonymous No.8385904]

I recently got my first job after finishing school, and even though I like it, it's obviously very tiring since I'm not used to it.

I have 4 cosplays to completely make, some which I haven't even started on. I suck at sewing and it's frustrating for me, at this point I never have the energy to start on it after work.
My con is only a month away and I really want to enjoy it and cosplay these characters like I've been planning all year.

Where do you seagulls get your energy and motivation, please tell me.

[Anonymous No.8385909]

>>8385858
this, I'm one cavity short of Shane McGowan and tbh I don't give a fuck, wide toothy smiles abound
Keira Knightley has a lovely smile despite uneven teeth, I don't see why Americans love their artificially white and even teeth so much.

[Anonymous No.8385922]

>>8385904
Insomnia and boredom.... the perfect cosplay motivation.

[Anonymous No.8385924]

>>8385840
Hey, you should check out freelee the banana girl on YouTube. It might work for you, it might not, but it's worth a try for sure!

[Anonymous No.8385925]

>>8385894
By the looks of it, all you need are a few gaps filling, which is either done by a composite, but a bridge would fill that gap. Invisaline bracers would straighten your teeth out, they should be $3000 max.

[Anonymous No.8385926]

>>8385902
Here you go:
pastebin.com/ND4sa2JZ

[Anonymous No.8385927]

>>8385924
Thanks I'll check her out!

[Anonymous No.8385937]

>tfw 21 year old male that eats whatever he feels like
>tfw never in my life had to worry about my weight
>tfw 135 lbs, /fit/, have a gf

[Anonymous No.8385942]

>>8385937
>135lbs
>/fit/
You're either a manlet or a skelly.

[Anonymous No.8385944]

>>8385937
>>8385942

Stop getting the thread derailed. cosplay or lolita feels only, please.

[Anonymous No.8385990]

>>8385937
Yeah 135? No mention of height, regardless no matter your height you're a fucking skeleton kid.
>/fit/
ok

[Anonymous No.8386012]

>feel uncomfortable with girlfriend doing cosplay because of all the male attention
>she thinks it's stupid and insecure
>tells me to try it
>I go as Aladdin first time I go to a con
>first day I drown in female attention and have women molest me all day
>gf is fuming mad

no winning with cosplay

[Anonymous No.8386027]

>have crush on cute bara guy in cosplay comm
>want to ask if he'll cosplay with me
>friend who knows i have a crush on him asks him to couple cosplay with her
>he says yes

[Anonymous No.8386039]

>>8386027
What a bitch
>Fuck her dad
>Become her stepmom

[Anonymous No.8386052]

>be me
>struggling hard with uni
>con season soon
>local con happening
>have no money to buy for ticket
>mum walks in room while im studying
>"hello anon, I got u some tickets to the animal convention"
>gets teary because mum is ill and bought be ticket still
fuuuck, im so glad she bought it for me, but I feel so guilty. She tells me to not cry for her illness, but shit is hard yo

cgl related
>be cute black grill
>love 2hu
>not sure which 2hu would fit complexion

[Anonymous No.8386060]

>>8386052
Honestly I'd sooner consider which one suits your build (tall, short, busty, etc). Who cares if some sperglords get buttmad because they can't become the little girl and someone is "soiling their waifu?"

[Anonymous No.8386065]

>get money
>enough to buy mo sunscreen
>bag I bought arriving today or tomorrow
>getting new shoes for my coord
>found lots of good music lately
>all medical expenses paid
>new JSK
>and that's with a huge chunk of it already in savings

[Anonymous No.8386069]

>>8385926
Thank you!

[Anonymous No.8386070]

>>8385839
Source that avatar is from?

[Anonymous No.8386076]

>>8386070
Ar Tonelico Qoga.

[Anonymous No.8386089]

>>8385821
Aw hun, I know that feel

I actually had braces when I was younger but my teeth moved extremely fast (they were off in 8 months) but did the same after. Seriously, I was told to start only sleeping in my retainers. I took them out for ONE HOUR and could not get them back in. Now I have 4 impacted wisdom teeth, extreme crowding/crookedness, crossbite, overbite, open bite and had to have lots of filling/root canal because my teeth are wearing down like crazy due to my shitty bite. I try to keep my mouth closed for photos and so always end up with the most akward face where my lips have caught on my buck front teeth. Had to demand my friend take photos of me down from ILD because I was so scared of experiencing what you did with being reposted. Yes I have the coveted V shape face but that narrow jaw an palate comes with constant facial pain, breathing problems, dental problems, TMJ, consequent ear drama etc etc...

[Anonymous No.8386092]

>>8386012
Your gf is a hypocrite unless she's just jealous but isn't being a bitch about it to you specifically

[Anonymous No.8386101]

>>8386052
She's trying to get you to destress. People with illness need rocks but if you're depressed about something it rubs off on them too. She knows you best anon, she needs you happy to smile too and it's only money. It can be made and paid back after con.

[Anonymous No.8386104]

>>8385873
>>8386089
>>8385821

>yaeba as FUCK

I forgot to mention, when I found out 'yaeba' was a thing, it made me feel just a bit better. Go google it for a while and bask in it

[Anonymous No.8386107]

>>8386039
I second this.

[Anonymous No.8386109]

>get back from con
>got pics taken
>tfw must precariously search through various mediums of social media to see whether or not I look like trash

[Anonymous No.8386119]

>>8386092
She's jealous as fuck that I "had myself on display" and didn't "respect" her. I wanted to do something easy as first cosplay to get in to a hobby.

Apparently cause I have an adonis belt I knew what I was doing?

[Anonymous No.8386122]

>>8386109
>finds photos
>making an unattractive face in at least half of them
>why do people post pictures of me half blinking anyway?

[Anonymous No.8386129]

>>8386119
Get a better, less petty gf anon. You don't need to put up with her shit.

[Anonymous No.8386136]

>Go to con
>Meet up with group, mix up in room and I have nowhere to stay
>Manage to find an empty spot by paying a little more than I have to
>won't be able to hang out as I would have in the same room but majority of the time
>Kinda getting an annoyed vibe whenever I hang around them on day 0
>Help with last minute cosplay touch ups and minor fixes
>notice someone else cosplaying the same character as I am in the group
>Cool, maybe I can learn something off him
>Get asked not to be in the group and not to bother with the room party later

>Mix of wanting to drop it and move on with a helping of that hurts.

[Anonymous No.8386168]

>>8386129
She's the only girl I've dated that didn't think I was a freak for my closet /tg/ hobbies

[Anonymous No.8386172]

>>8385796
that's a great story, OP ;_;

[Anonymous No.8386174]

>>8386122
I always make sure to get at least 2 pics of people for just this reason. It blows when the only pictures of yourself that you find are shit.

[Anonymous No.8386180]

>>8386168
So what? So am I, mostly D&D though.

[Anonymous No.8386190]

>>8386012
Your gf sounds like an insecure dick.

[Anonymous No.8386193]

>>8386174
Lesson learned for sure. I mean I don't think I am very photogenic but this is just genuinely upsetting how derp faced I look.

[Anonymous No.8386195]

>>8386193
Anon are you me? I feel like I look disgusting in most photos and would hate to see them online. I'd just think "No! I swear I'm not that ugly in 3D!"

[Anonymous No.8386201]

>mfw newfag
>first post
>ohgoddon'tkillme.jpg

I hope this is the right place to post this, but I can't seem to find any Denver or Colorado lolita groups. Are there any out there?

[Anonymous No.8386224]

>>8386168
Dude, she's gonna give you headaches for the rest of your life. She's not the only girl out there. She'll only probably bring you down and has the princess syndrome where her shit doesn't stink but yours always will.

I don't like doing revealing cosplays because I'm more old school and I only do anything sexy and revealing for my hubby but I know if I did that shit and he felt uncomfortable I'd stop it but even then, if I did do those cosplays and then he would. I'd be fucking proud that my boy is getting mired by all the ladies and knowing that he's mine and not theirs and be all over him


Seriously dude. She sounds immature as fuck and you guys don't have an equal footing. I bet she threatens to leave you anytime you guys get in an argument and she's at fault so she pulls that card to absolve her of any faults and make you come crawling to her and now you're in her power.

Dump the cunt. Don't be a beta bitch bro.

[Anonymous No.8386238]

>>8386190
>>8386224

Yeah you're probably right. I'll break things off in the morning

[[e-mail] No.8386259]

>>8386195
I am so glad that another anon feels this. I don't understand what makes me take such a bad photo honestly because irl multiple people have told me I am fairly attractive. As soon as a photo is taken though I look so gross?
I have tried different angles and everything but for some reason I cannot take a good photograph.

[Anonymous No.8386260]

>>8386238
I hope this is true, I honestly do. I have so many male friends who are with girls like this and they're upset and sad because of the way she acts and I give them advice about why they should leave and why that girl isn't good for them but they're so scared of being alone it's ridiculous more than once I've just rage quit and just basically said "Fuck it, you gonna be a little bitch and not respect yourself enough? Then quit complaining"

[Anonymous No.8386266]

>>8386238
Oh and make sure you keep up those gainz, you're getting some mirins now, you sure will later and probably find yourself some cardio bunny qt at the gym

[[e-mail] No.8386267]

>>8386260
I have so been here before anon. Unfortunately there is really nothing you can do for them besides watch them make the mistakes they are going to make.

[Anonymous No.8386289]

>>8386260
Not exactly tho, not saying he shouldnt break up but the same has happened to me, did that. now gf-less for about 15 months with no end in sight.I reverted to full austimo with good looks, occasionally get hit on, but they dont hold any similar interests/hobbies

[Anonymous No.8386292]

>>8386267
God excuse for mini rant but I had a friend that I didn't think was an idiot

>21 years old
>Beta, let's people walk over him
>But solid guy, good heart. Really nice guy
>Goes through relationships and falls for girls like knocking over bowling balls
>I give him advice as best I can, even go as far to try and help him lose weight and get healthy and encourage him to do other things than play all day
>Asks out this girl after 3 days of meeting her
>I meet her, she seems alright, happy for him maybe he's finally found someone
>BUT I should have seen the warning signs, had her nudes leaked already, cheated in a relationship to get the guy to break up with her instead of doing it herself, she seemed mature when talking, is "bi"
>Anyway two weeks later he's spending more than a 100$ on her on gifts
>She controls him, basically clings to him every turn, tells her ex she loves him, he can't hang out with anyone but she'll bring in her ex and her friends to hang out with him
>Obv then I tell him he should probably just dump
>He's a beta fuck so he's happy about the attention but complains she hogs all his time
>W/e just ignore
>I end up not being friends with him cuz reasons
>I have access to her skype account
>I just read it because it's like looking into some teenage written dramatic stupid love story
>Constant fighting, she gets mad at him for working a lot and for sleeping I'm not even joking. I'd post screencaps but I'd have to find them
>She ended up trying to cheat on him but the guy rejected her. He still didn't leave her
>Cries suicide
>Guilt trips out the ass
>And biggest thing so far
>She went and hung out with male friends "They got me drunk and raped me"
>Also, she's 15.
>Has a fucking daddy fetish sex blog


I stopped feeling sad/mad for the guy now it's just like watching a trainwreck,

[Anonymous No.8386299]

>>8386289
Ah damn, well I'm sorry you haven't found anyone, you have good looks like you said. It might just take time, have faith anon, don't settle for less. I can't promise you, you'll find your grill but I hope you do.

[Anonymous No.8386300]

>>8386289
Oh, honestly. Just get out there dude, or enroll in some college classes or participate in community things. Might just help keep you on the social aspect things so that way not robot

[Anonymous No.8386313]

>>8386260
Yeah we had plans tomorrow. Thankfully we don't share an apartment yet so the break up should be pretty, uh, easy I guess.

I'm going to be a little sad about it but if anyone wants to drink with me tomorrow and help me think of cosplay that a half persian could pull off hmu

>>8386289
15 months isn't that long. What are your hobbies?

[Anonymous No.8386316]

>>8386313
You're making a good choice bruh, I know I don't know you but I'm happy for you and hope you find someone better.

[Anonymous No.8386317]

>go to first lolita meet in new city
>part of a girl's headdress breaks for the second time
>she starts crying and getting bad anxiety
>one of the organizer lolitas holds her and calms her down and tells her she's beautiful
>huge group of girls gathers to cheer her up and help her feel better
>girl manages to stop crying and smile and continues to look cute as heck even with a broken piece
>we go on to have an amazing time as a comm


I really really love my new comm

[Anonymous No.8386323]

>>8386168
Dude. If you have girls molesting you at con.

The LAST thing you need to worry about is a girl being scared off my your /tg/ hobbies.

Drop the scarcity mentality. Adopt the abundance mentality. I'm jealous of you, I have to work hard just to have a girl not be terrified of me.

[Anonymous No.8386328]

>Left the house wearin something handmade.

>People on cgl are shitting on the dress.

Like I understand cgl is full of douche bags but the dress wasn't that bad and it's not like I even posted pictures online. It's like you can't even leave the house without people being nasty. What is the point of this horrible fashion and all these nasty people?

[Anonymous No.8386333]

>be attractive
>be a pretty good cosplayer
>starting to become really known
>still fucking single
>a lot of people interested but there is always a block that stops us from actually dating
I'm a 23 yo kissless virgin and I'm starting to lose hope.

[Anonymous No.8386340]

Im a gifted prosthetic and make up artist and can never wear my creations as im the one that brushes them on.

feels good and bad.

[Anonymous No.8386411]

>>8386060
I also struggle with melanin during cosplay, fun times

[Anonymous No.8386412]

>>8386333
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxGRhd_iWuE

[Anonymous No.8386414]

>>8386328
lets see what u made gorl

[Anonymous No.8386422]

>>8386092
To be fair, she might not have a lot of dudes creep on her, but any dude in cosplay is gonna get a shitload of attention

[Anonymous No.8386427]

>put on corset under one of my cosplays
>doesn't show through
>tighten it a little
>I think I look cute and I just start giggling to myself for a good two minutes and twirling in it
>felt confident all day

[Anonymous No.8386429]

>>8385796
>ILD meet this weekend
>WWII weekend nearby
>worked a 30 hour weekend fuck my ass
>meet announced
>it's in one week
>why the fuck can't you assholes plan more than a week ahead of time so I can request a day off ffs

[Anonymous No.8386430]

>>8386414
seconding

[Anonymous No.8386436]

>Just picked up another job
>Technically I have 2 already, so it's a third job
>Go in to third job at 8, get out at 4
>Go into first job at 5, get out at 11
>First job is also weekend job
>Second job has meetings every week now

I'm dead after every day now but my paychecks are going to be gorgeous.

[Anonymous No.8386440]

>>8385894
Aside from teeth, because they're really not that bad,

Your eyeliner looks fucking jacked. Learn how to apply that better. I shouldn't see a strip of skin around your eye like that. Also your facial expression isn't crazy-looking, it's "please leave me to cry myself to sleep I don't want to take a picture." You need to smile with your eyes, not just your mouth.

[Anonymous No.8386445]

>>8385894
Holy shit your teeth are awesome! I'm not even kidding. I'm from south Texas and literally I've seen really bad teeth and yours are amazing and very fixable. I can't count how many of my friends had teeth like yours and got them fixed by the time they reached sophomore year in High school.

[Anonymous No.8386446]

>>8386193
I'm the anon you replied to and I have this EXACT problem. I started this multiple pic thing just because even if I always end up looking stupid I can at least try to make other people happy by doing what I can to make them look good.

[Anonymous No.8386461]

>>8385840
/fit/ here. I'm surprised this even needs saying at this point.

Calorie deficit loses fat.

Eating at maintenance while lifting weights burns fat fastest.

Eat oats and eggs for breakfast, then much and dinner are meat carbs and veggies. Find your calorie limit, and stay at it or under it.

Don't go on some crazy banana diet, it will destroy you

[Anonymous No.8386466]

>>8386461
tfw you put an egg in your oatmeal to make it fluffy

[Anonymous No.8386468]

>>8385937
Spookiest skellingtom around

[Anonymous No.8386470]

>>8386136
>room mix up
Sure anon, that's what they told you

[Anonymous No.8386478]

>>8385894
>684x1024)
Lmao I have never seen cgl be this nice. Honestly your teeth are really gross. Like they look hillbilly quality without the rot. And I mean overall you need to do your make up so much better. Like you are clearly trying to look attractive with the shirt (yes I know the ref) but honestly you don't look attractive. Pluck your eyebrows more and learn how to do eyeliner. Also you would really improve your hair to compliment your face better,
And I mean on top of everything your stomach is sticking out a lot which is not good at all for this character...

[Anonymous No.8386479]

>be me
>wants to cosplay so many female characters
>wants to cosplay male characters
>wants to wear dream dresses
>92cm bust while every other part of me is pretty small
>super petite and busty to the point to where it's not funny anymore
>tfw dream dresses won't fit boobs
>tfw binder makes boobs have a weird shape
>can't cosplay dudes with massive tits
>thinks shes a DD
>goes to Victoria secret for the first time
>gets fitted
>"oh you're a DDD
>cries in shower that night
And the cherry on top is when girls with small boobs tell me they envy me and I stare back at them and say that I envy them.
>asked parents to visit doctor to get opinion about possible breast reduction
>complains about massive backaches and stretch marks and skin discoloration
>"it's because you're not comfortable with your body anon. You need to learn to accept it."

[Anonymous No.8386482]

>>8386478
And this is the cgl that we all know

[Beanie-kun !!haFBv+kEAYe No.8386488]

>>8386482
and love

[Anonymous No.8386507]

>>8386466
I bet that's a good feel, but I just do 3 eggs fried + bowl of oats milk and zero cal maple syrup. I like rough textures to my food.

Cosplay feel:
>ex fatty, lost 50kg now
>gonna cosplay for first time ever in a few weeks
>going as Spider-Man because it's cheap and easy for a first timer
>sweating bullets because I still have the 'ex fat guy' apron skin thing that I hope the suit will hide since I look good clothed, train wreck naked
>oh god body dismorphia is real

[Anonymous No.8386509]

>>8386478
They cosplayed that character as a joke so I doubt they'd spend time getting into shape for it.

[Anonymous No.8386521]

>>8386479
>can't cosplay dudes with massive tits
Who the fuck's going to stop you?

[Anonymous No.8386536]

>>8386521
Myself and cgl shitting on me if I tried. I just generally try to cosplay within my body type and there lots of dude cosplay I know I can pull off if not for the rack problem.

[Anonymous No.8386542]

>at con
>friend is wearing archer from fate/stay night
>notice the "skirt" part at his waist keeps slipping down
>it's held onto his top with three safety pins (two on the sides, one at the middle of his back)
>it looks bad and it still keeps slipping
>"anon, can you help me fix these? (insert other friend here) didn't really pin them well."
>tries to fix the safety pins at least for the time being
>doesn't work that well
>"hey, after the con, i could fix this up and maybe use velcro to keep this from falling down? that way at your next con you won't have to fuss around with these."
>"sure, anon!"
>cut to a week later
>"hey are we gonna do this or not?"
>"anon i really think you're just being nitpicky and disrespectful to me"
>"your cosplay was literally falling off you so i don't think i'm being very nitpicky. i just want you to look good since you spent all this money to cosplay him in the first place."
>"anon you're missing the point ugh i'll fix it myself when i want to. you're so disrespectful."
>this dude has never sewn before in his life
>loud groaning

if i was really "disrespectful" of him i would let him walk around looking busted as hell and his cosplay falling off him. christ i'm just trying to make you not look like shit, chill out.

[Anonymous No.8386552]

>have weird bout of ED for two years, go from literally obese to low end normal BMI
>hate self and body too much to cosplay or lolita
>get over it somehow, OKish with body
>start cosplay and lolita again
>get fat again though
>look back at skinny pics and cry over all the wasted potential
I'm going to start dieting and working out again but I swear to god if I get weird about it again I give up. I just want to look good and not be horribly depressed at the same time.

[Anonymous No.8386561]

>>8386552
>>8386552
Don't do it in extremes. Stick to your maintenance eating plan and keep up the cardio / weights.

It's a lifestyle choice, not a quick fix.

[Anonymous No.8386602]

>>8386313

You should take advice with a grain of salt. Only break up with her if you think you should, ignore most of what people online say, because they literally only know her from that one story you just told, and so are obviously going to assume the worst.

They don't know about any time you've spent together, any of the things you've done, any of the aggregate experiences that make up what you guys are together, but only that one story.

You have to weigh the pros and cons yourself.

[Anonymous No.8386606]

>>8386561
That's how I started before but I got too crazy about it. Went from working out 2-3 times a week and just cutting out bread to running for an hour and 45 mins every day and only eating tomatoes and kit kat bars. I don't really know how I went from ok to crazy, it just happened. I'm just paranoid I'm going to fuck up again.

[Anonymous No.8386622]

>last Tuesday
>upload some items on edivv (website you can trade unused makeup with others)
>someone wants to trade
>they have barely received 1 feedback
>see they have some highly rated Black Rose mask I'd like to try though
>accept trade
>person immediately emails me
>"I'm excited to trade! When can you send? I can send Thursday or Friday"
>reply "I'm excited too! I'll send my package once I receive the tracking number for yours"
>"Okay as long as you send"
>receive another email Saturday night
>"Are we still trading? When you send package? I can send Monday or Tuesday"
>reply "I'll send it once I get the tracking number for yours"
>browsed too many eBay threads to guess that broken English is probably trying to scam me

I feel bad but there's a lot of users that will not send their package until a tracking number has been posted because they're "tired of getting scammed." I know it's just makeup, but that broken engrish and procrastination on the send out is making me uneasy. There's also no buyer protection like eBay has so if it ends up being a scam I'd be screwed.

[Anonymous No.8386626]

>go to local con with bro and his disabled brother
>lets just say bro and jeffer for reference
>Jeffer is a 13 year old autist with OCD
>Funny kid, loves anime and cartoons
>Guess it helps him to cope with stuff when it gets to real
>Anyways we're walking around the con and Jeffer is in heaven
>Like complimenting everyones costumes and calling them by their character names getting photos and high fiving everyone who had an awesome costume
>Its a 3 day con so me and bro go halves on getting him a naruto costume and agree to suprise him
>Next day he dresses up and is more excited to go to the con
>Spends 20 minutes adjusting his headband and jacket and redoes his makeup alot but we were prepared for this
>Get to con and he's getting alot of photos with people
>They're loving how in character he is
>We take him to a group of naruto cosplayers
>He hits it off with everyone
>Bar one guy
>Lets call him cunt
>Cunt is uber elitist
>Cunt hates the fact he's wearing a store bought cosplay
>Cunt is 25 year old neckbeard
>I go to get food for Jeffer and bro
>In that time Cunt tries to get jeffer removed from the group shot and openly points out the costume thing
>Group tell jeffer to go away
>Bro is furious
>Jeffer is hysterical and decides he's not good enough
>Have enough and attack cunt
>tfw im now banned from the con for attacking a 25 year old neckbeard and jeffer keeps calling me neckbeard slayer and has told everyone we know about the incident.

Worthy sacrifice?

[Anonymous No.8386632]

>>8386626
So worth it. My little brother is autistic and I've done similar stuff a few times.

[Anonymous No.8386636]

>>8386626
you probably should have gone to staff instead of getting violent to start off with.

[Anonymous No.8386638]

>>8386602
This should be stickied on every advice thread. The comfort of asking anonymously is you won't get judged for what you ask. If you do, know it's based on what you wrote and not on you as a person. You also don't get any bias from friends that just tell you what they think you want to hear. The discomfort is, as anon said, the anons giving advice are going off of one story, with one subject, and with one ending. They don't know the details you may feel is irrelevant but could actually change the advice someone gives.

I take the advice I get here as a guideline for what to do for that specific situation. Then I really think about what I feel I should do. Unless it's in one of the online shipping generals
There really isn't much to think about when someone posts, "I never received my package, this seller has sent the wrong item numerous times, etc"

[Anonymous No.8386644]

>wear super popular cosplay (or so I thought) to con
>becomes running joke between my group to see if we can count to 30 before being stopped for photos/video
> hit it twice the entire day
> Post con
> Handful of photos found
> Watch 2 hours worth of cmvs and what not from the con, not a single vid to be found
> I didn't want to see it anyways

[Anonymous No.8386651]

>Webshop is ready to go.
>Huge order of materials/supplies arriving in two weeks.
>Draftin' patterns.
>Using up old materials.
Having labels, tags, business cards and coupons printed.
>Designing moth/butterfly set; Jsk, skirt, blouse, a couple of light jackets and accessories.
>So excite.

I'm torn between names for the store, though. One works really well for a high-quality Otome/Vintage clothing store. The other.. Gives off a more 'rockabilly' vibe, but means a lot to me and is probably easier for normalfags to remember.

[Anonymous No.8386655]

Imagine 5 years from now, and wonder if you still cosplay.

[Anonymous No.8386772]

>>8386461
Oh I know HOW to lose weight, my issue is that I find it impossible to have self control; mind you this isn't just a weight thing for me it affects other parts of my life as well which is why I'm trying to seek out help.

[Anonymous No.8386822]

>>8386772

Try meditation.

[Anonymous No.8386828]

>>8386651
Hey anon, would you be interested in a collab of some sort? I design jewellery and am also about to start my own shop (albeit on Etsy), so maybe I could help you get customers and vice versa, as I don't do clothing myself and the people who buy my jewellery would probably be interested in it.

[Anonymous No.8386840]

>>8385894
I kinda know how you feel Anon. My teeth aren't as bad as yours but I'm a britbong so I don't have like...pearly white teeth. They're straight and stuff, never had to wear a brace or anything but they're pretty discoloured. Does anybody know of anything that can get discoloured teeth a lil bit more whiter? (That isn't going to break the bank). My next big con is coming up in July so I might as well see if I can get my teeth a lil bit whiter in time for it.

[Anonymous No.8386841]

>>8386840
I've only ever heard of Crest strips, or whatever superdrug has. I just brush after tea.

[Anonymous No.8386850]

>Small comm has become super active with more than one meet a month
>people actually have been planning stuff rather then pushing it all on one girl
>Thisisgreat.jpg i can probably get these days off
>Realize new hosts have been directing statuses at old host and writing secrets about her
>new hosts are great at planning events
>old host isnt extremely friendly, kind of acts cold but she may just be shy
>new hosts kiss ass online but arent too friendly in person
>occasionally say things they'd only know from cgl yet treat cgl like its satan's butthole
>pretty sure sides are being taken and while i dont want to take sides, the new hosts plan more convenient locations and dates so i cant always make the meet up from the old host
>old host travels country wide for meet ups and has a large closet
>new hosts are okay coorders but one is a bit of a fatty chan who appears in the ita thread occasioanlly
>old host seems to be annoyed but not doing or saying anything

ill attempt to go to both but i feel bad the newer hosts are trying to make it some kind of contest and kissing ass online when they dont act like it in person to get more members to go to their meet ups instead.

[Anonymous No.8386857]

>>8385924
>>8385927
Uh this is bad advice. Listen to the /fit/izen instead.

[Anonymous No.8386865]

Help
>21 years old
>Girly face and body Btw, I'm Asian
>have Social anxiety (Got bullied in HS)
>want to have normal social life
>Cosplay comes to mind
>Bought a wig for Juuzou
>watch and read about props
>Excited as hell
>surge of Anxiety comes,
Should i continue or not?

[Anonymous No.8386877]

>>8386840
Gargling diluted hydrogen peroxide. Also seconding crest white strips. I have alot of enamel loss from bulimia

[Anonymous No.8386879]

>>8386651
Moths

YES

[Anonymous No.8386881]

>>8386632
Both myself and my brother are autists. I find it difficult enough to manage myself without making sure he isn't irritating people, getting lost, drunk etc and I'm 22. The struggle...

[Anonymous No.8386887]

>>8386626
>things that didn't happen

this is like a babby's first post on /cgl/ edgy desu as fug post if there ever was one. we all know the real end to that story is
>hits it off with naruto cosplayers
>have lunch with a bunch of spergy narutards

[Anonymous No.8386910]

>>8386865
Continue.

[Anonymous No.8386923]

>>8385840
Hey anon, I hope this helps you like it helped me. The secret to losing weight is portions. Chances are you live in America where portion sizes are huge. Don't force yourself to finish stuff just because it's on your plate.

[Anonymous No.8386924]

>>8386910
Let's hope Cosplay will cure my Social anxiety, my only motivation in doing this cosplay is to meet alodia

[Anonymous No.8386928]

>>8386479
Consider going to another bra store, VS is known for abusing the sister size system to get people into their standard sizes.

[Anonymous No.8386933]

>>8385937
>135
>/fit/

I can bench press twice your bodyweight for reps

[Anonymous No.8386937]

>>8386479
I'm also quite busty anon but I recently cosplayed a dude and it was a total hit. Loose fitting clothing and the right sports bra can give the illusion of pecs.

[Anonymous No.8386938]

>>8386479
>getting fitted at VS
Yeah, she's definitely not a DDD either, especially if they think she's going to wear her bra upside down.

>>complains about massive backaches and stretch marks and skin discoloration
You should stop getting fitting at VS too.

[Anonymous No.8386946]

> Dressed up for ILD the other day
> tfw no comm
> goes to store to buy some cookies because why not
> 10 y/o kid stalks me on his bike
> slaps me on the ass and rides away laughing
> dad tells me it's expected
> felt like shit afterwards

[Anonymous No.8386950]

>>8386946
..Wow. Must feel awesome to know your dad believes you can be treated like a piece of meat because of the way you dress.

[Anonymous No.8386951]

>be me, have massive overbite (i can fit my pinky in there)
>multiple dentists have suggested braces to me when i was younger
>too stubborn to get when younger
>now an adult
>multiple dentists telling me that my overbite is big enough it's causing other major dental problems (breakage/grinding mostly)
>there are two solutions, one is braces which i'd have to do for a year
>other is surgery that would involve removing two of my back teeth and reshaping my jaw
>go with braces, i can do the invisible plastic kind but it's still expensive as hell
>won't be able to buy new lolita stuff until i get the debt from these braces paid off

[Anonymous No.8386953]

>>8386951
It's worth it anon.
You can grow out of lolita, but you can't grow out of health related problems caused by misaligned teeth. You did the right thing.

[Anonymous No.8386954]

>Be 15 year old me
>Decide to cosplay Mad Moxxi to con
>First cosplay so pretty shit but getting heaps of attention
>Feeling good
>Even get a couple of interviews
>Heaps of great photos post con
>Feeling a bit insecure because I don't want people outside of cosplay seeing the pics
>All is good and the pics don't get around
>Be 17 year old me
>Graduating high school
>Teacher (not mine but its a small school) asks if I'm going to supanova
>Sure am teach- hey how did you know I go to cons?
>"Oh one of my friends interviewed you a couple of years back."

tfw the most judgemental "hip" teacher in the school knew nothing about you other than your shitty slutty cosplay for 2 years

[Anonymous No.8386979]

>>8386606
Two birds, one stone.

[Anonymous No.8386983]

>>8386542
Let him look like shit it's no skin off your nose. And when he eventually asks you for help one day politely decline and remind him that you wouldn't want to be 'disrespectful'. Then sit back and enjoy his glorious sewing blunders.

[Anonymous No.8387004]

>>8386950
I think he was referring to ten year olds being shitheads

I certainly hope so at least

[Anonymous No.8387006]

>>8385802
top kek

[Anonymous No.8387009]

>>8386954
Kek

[Anonymous No.8387011]

>have been sewing my own clothes for a few years
>never sewn anything for anyone else
>bf's sister, who has a similar body type to mine, asks me if she can commission a lolita dress from me
>she's offering to pay and it sounds like fun, so I say yes
>I'm halfway through making the dress and it turns out that her girlfriend wants one too so they can twin at a con
>girlfriend in question is very obese
>I have no idea how to make a flattering lolita dress for someone with a waist circumference larger than their bust and hips, poor girl is shaped like The Blob
>original commissioner makes it clear she only wants her dress if her girlfriend gets one too
>would feel like a shitty person if I said no
>would also feel like a shitty person for making someone an ugly potato-shaped dress
>can't just make a run for it because this is going to be my sister-in-law
>what do

>>8386951
Iktf, anon.
I did have braces for three years as a kid but after they were taken out my jaw just decided "hahaha fuck you" and poof, I had an underbite again. I also have grinding issues and the only way to fix my bite would be to have surgery that would knock me out of the running for a few months and would cost thousands.
Thanks for nothing, whichever-great-grandmother-fucked-a-Habsburg. I'm sure you know who you are.

[Anonymous No.8387014]

>>8386606
You don't have to completely cut out anything anon. Just eat less than you move.

[Anonymous No.8387017]

>>8387011
The worst part about all this is that I would still have a small overbite with braces, the only way to completely get rid of it would be surgery

[Anonymous No.8387022]

>>8387011
Did the sister tell you beforehand that she wanted it only if she could twin with her fatty friend? That could be an excuse, that you don't have enough time/money/tools/whatever to make two dresses because you only agreed to make one initially.
Either that or suck it up, have her pay extra for materials and time, and make the sack dress for fatty. Just get pics.

[Anonymous No.8387023]

>>8386954
>15
>Mad Moxxi

[Anonymous No.8387039]

>>8386954
>15
>Mad Moxxi

Post pics

For science

[Anonymous No.8387055]

>>8387004
Still though that's some pretty outrageous behavior for ten year olds. Touching strangers and spanking them is going a bit beyond typical ten year old brat tier.

[Anonymous No.8387065]

>>>Losing weight but not so much in your stomach. Look pregnant and still fatty moo cow still.

[Anonymous No.8387078]

>Be fat
>Decide not to be, lost 50 pounds, gain abs
>Life goes to shit because relationships
>F5 Tornado of depression for the next few months
>Binge drink and eat, drink while driving, at work , when I wake up, and till I fall asleep
>Finally get over tornado of depression but the carnage that it left.. Fuck
>Bad short term memory, gained 60 pounds, even lower self confidence
>Literally feel uncomfortable in my body, sitting hurts because of my belly
>Spend past couple months eating one meal a day, enough protein, and plenty of water
>More fit then before and abs are back
>Visit cgl with new confidence and now actively cosplaying
Just want y'all to know, even though this place has the worst gossip/drama shit talking circle jerk, this place has helped.

[Anonymous No.8387109]

>8387011
>original commissioner makes it clear she only wants her dress if her girlfriend gets one too

What a piece of shit trying to force you into this when you only told HER you could make a dress. If I were you I'd tell her that you don't have enough time/materials/money to pay for the materials of both dresses in advanced and only do them both if she pays up upfront. If she's willing to go back on the agreement of doing one dress she's probably cheap enough to try and get out of paying for them both too. If she's willing to pay for them now I'd do it.

[Anonymous No.8387118]

>tfw made enough money off of a taobao dress to buy dream MM

Replacing my wardrobe with high quality brand pieces is making me happy as fuck right now.

[Anonymous No.8387144]

>Go to AX
>TFW have no costume
>Make worst possible choice and put on random items from closet
>Go to "Who would win" panel
>They're pulling people up from the audience
>Up I go
>Whoarethesecharacters.jpg
>Crack some funny jokes
>Feel good about myself
>See cameras everywhere
>After con try to find evidence
>I know you fuckers have it
>filenotfound
>One pic uploaded
>I look fat

[Anonymous No.8387186]

>18yo, totally new at cosplay
>mother is a fairly passable seamstress, get her to help me out (she did a kinda hefty amount of work on my last one, which i'm still mad grateful for)
>want to learn how to sew well
>need to make a long coat for my current cosplay, ask her to help me out but take a less active role
>why don't you get one made for you instead anon, it's easier

I totally get where she's coming from, especially since my last cosplay was kind of a pain to sew and she did the majority of the legwork, but I'll never learn to make stuff by leaving everything to other people and she just doesn't seem to want to let me try.

And also
>tfw your feel post on /cgl/ makes you sound like a whiny bitch

[Anonymous No.8387204]

>Lift heavy ass weights
>Diet like mad to get sexy six pack
>Do cosplays that show off my bod
>Girls swoon over skinny little DYEL shits
>Only people that tell me I look good are gay guys and /fit/ fags mirin

Can the whole skinny guys are sexy thing die please? A six pack doesn't count when your arms are all bone.

[Anonymous No.8387223]

>>8387204
Can you just die?
Yeah skinny dudes are gross and have no idea why people are into that. But you are just as bad thinking you deserve some attention for your six pack. They aren't that hard to achieve. And you come off as some try hard, passive aggressive fagget.
I bet you spent most of the con just giving stink eye to skinny dudes instead of just having fun. Go back to /fit/ with your fedora shit.

[Anonymous No.8387224]

>>8387204
You can't control what other people find sexy, asswipe
>lifting for girls
ya blew it

[Anonymous No.8387249]

>>8387204
he looks like a beaten up Belgian cow

[Anonymous No.8387252]

>>8386292
Why the fuck is your 21 year old friend dating a 15 year old?

[Anonymous No.8387259]

I have a great job that pays over minimum wage but they like to crack down on hours, so buying dresses is tough so far.
also my job requires lifting heavy objects and carrying them upstairs, so my arms are getting all big and muscley which is not what I want, cause it's gonna look silly in dresses.

I kinda want to apply to be a flight attendant but that involves public speaking which I don't like. Buy I have a sort of easy way into that career path cause I work in an airport. And I don't really like customer service jobs.
also can't afford to go to school to get a real paying job. Besides I'm 27 and by the time I get put of school I'd be really old... Lots of people tell me I look young but I see wrinkles and gray hair and idk how much longer my youth is gonna last. At least I can get into Lolita now before it's too late and then when I'm like 35 I can sell all my stuff off.

[Anonymous No.8387266]

>>8387204
So stop lifting and get skinny by starving yourself like girls do for guys.
fucking idiot.

[Anonymous No.8387268]

>>8387259
How'd you get a job at the airport? I'd love to work there

[Anonymous No.8387270]

>>8387186
No, I get this. One of the many things I hate about my parents is that they didn't want to teach me how to do things or didn't want anyone else to teach me either.

Your best bet is to get some sewing books and try to learn.

[Anonymous No.8387272]

>>8387268
Well I was unemployed for a few months so I just got lucky while applying for jobs on Craigslist. They had an entry level position open and I magically passed a drug test lol.

[Anonymous No.8387278]

>>8387186
Your mom's probably right- unless you find a pattern that's exactly like it (you probably won't) it will need to be drafted, it is going to be complicated to sew by design, and it's probably going to require a heavy material that's just hard to sew in generaI. It is possible to sew a coat but you won't have the skills to do it, so it's going to fall down to your mom. TBH there is no way for her to teach you how to make a coat without an understand of basic sewing knowledge and techniques from you.

If you want to start sewing, you have to learn basics first, start with making cotton shirts, or at least pick a character with simple clothes like a school girl outfit that you could sew a majority of. Don't let this discourage you, sewing is fun! It usually ends up looking way better than store bought clothes and you can get better fabric patterns. I started sewing recently and after only a few tries I can actually wear what I sew in public without being ashamed of myself.

[Anonymous No.8387282]

>Be me
>Be 29
>Cosplay a lot and look pretty good
>Get attention from grills
>Makeup and cosplay make guessing age difficult
>Many of them are underage
>Never seal the deal because afraid of getting V&
>Too beta to just ask for ID.

[Anonymous No.8387283]

>>8387270
That's so annoying, iktf
>dad always telling me about new things, how things work, how blood works, how we digest food, pollination of flowers, you get the picture
>every single goddamn time he starts telling me something mum starts nagging him
>"why are you telling her that? she's too young, stop being an idiot"
>"stop wasting time and do x"
>"you could try doing something useful for a change or taking her outside to play"
Now that I'm all grown up I see that mum's the most basic of bitches. Luckily I've still managed to learn something after all.

[Anonymous No.8387287]

>>8387282
Why don't you look for a girl around your age or just casually ask how old they are in conversation? Like "I want to hit up on a bar or something," type of thing. Seriously there's a lot of over 18 girls at anime cons.

[Anonymous No.8387291]

>>8387287

Sometimes it's hard to tell, and even hooking up with a 21 year old makes me feel a bit like a creep. It's tricky to find girls around my age when they're all dolled up in cosplay.

[Anonymous No.8387311]

>>8386651
>moths
gieb info pl0x. If it's the right style, I know someone who'll throw money at you.

[Anonymous No.8387317]

>>8387278
I guess you're right. To be honest, I am actually considering having it commissioned, since it'd no doubt be better than anything I could make. I guess the problem is that if I get the coat made, it won't really feel like "my" cosplay when I'm wearing it around the con, since it'll have none of the effort put into it. I'll still have my props and my bootcovers and stuff, but the majority of the costume will just feel kinda... I dunno, loveless?

I guess I'm kinda torn about this. I want to look good, obviously, but at the same time I feel like the achievement will be lost if I just take the easy way out. I'm probably thinking too much about this.

[Anonymous No.8387322]

>>8386626
You didn't handle that situation with maturity and you're lucky to not have been arrested but fuck that guy anyways. Who cares if there's a 13 year old in a storebought naruto costume? What an elitist shitlord.

[Anonymous No.8387325]

Literally CGL related feel.
I have three threads I'm really interested in that I've been watching for several days, but they're getting no activity. It's depresses me every time I see one of the drama threads hanging at the top when the threads I'm watching keep getting to the very bottom and then re-bumped only to end up right back to the bottom. I don't like drama threads so it's always disappointing to see that those are so popular. And all the morons who keep making bullshit threads are just making them threads I'm watching die faster.

[Anonymous No.8387328]

>>8387325
Welcome to 4chan

[Anonymous No.8387337]

finally I found the solution to a construction problem I had for a few days with a new OP I'm making and it was just so simple. It's a new pattern I'm using, so I was half panicking and felt like giving up on it. glad I didn't do that!

[Anonymous No.8387351]

>>8386333
20 yo kiss virgin here. i feel you. how do we meet people in this hobby who arent huge creeps, seriously?
>tfw no bf

[Anonymous No.8387352]

>>8386865
Are you me anon? I struggle to have a social life as well and i have anxiety too. I was also bullied in HS. I get anxious to go out in lolita outside meets instead and my social life sucks as well...
>>8386333
I'm 24 and femanon and kissless virgin too, also good looking but my personality is so inept i can't meet much people. Let's be sad together anon!! I thought if i would be e-famous would help me to find someone but from your experience it doesn't work. W-well... i can be e-famous for myself....
>at least i'm glad i'm not alone in my suffering

[Anonymous No.8387365]

>>8387291
Then keep on trying. Honestly I'm 29 but I don't get hit on by guys and most people don't think I'm 29 either. It's probably because I crossplay. The point is don't give up.

Me myself:
>Cosplaying as a girl character for the first time in 2016
>I'm going to be 29-30
>Mfw I feel like I'm not attractive enough to do it/too old to be doing this shit.
Everyone says I'm overreacting because I feel like a fatty at 65kg and 180 cm and I don't look like a 29 year old.

[Anonymous No.8387385]

>>8387351
by not assuming everyone is a huge creep from the get-go.
mr. husband could have easily fallen into my friend-zone, but I gave him a chance and dated him. It's now been 7 years, with our 1 year wedding anniversary coming up.

[Anonymous No.8387409]

>>8387351
I wonder the same even for someone into jfashion as me. I get tired of dating and meet new people because most of them are creeps, not interested on me, not interesting for me, friendzoning too.
>tfw no bf
>i try and try but no results
>>8387385
Why you first wanted to put him in the friend zone?

[Anonymous No.8387413]

>>8387409
you sound picky

[Anonymous No.8387416]

>tfw no gf to cosplay and do cute things with

fuck
i just want to be loved ;_;

[Anonymous No.8387421]

>>8386292
> op's 21 y/o friend is stupid enough to date a 15 y/o
> op is mad that 15 y/o acted like 15 y/o
i kek'd

[Anonymous No.8387426]

>>8387409
cus he was a nice guy who I really didn't feel I had too much in common with. but when we started dating, we just kinda 'clicked'.

[Anonymous No.8387435]

>>8387413
So i have to settle for the first i find? I don't want to settle with someone i wont like, why everyone that has a bit of standards is labelled picky?If i don't like someone as a bf i can't force myself to like someone or i date a player or creep . I don't want someone rich, with a six figure job but at least someone who is like me and similar interests. Finding someone that is fitting for you it's hard not easy. I tried with someone different than me (lifestyle, personality) but it didn't worked and he put me in the friendzone.

[Anonymous No.8387436]

>>8387416
you a girl?

[Anonymous No.8387440]

>>8387436
[nospoilerson/cgl/]no[/spoiler]

[Anonymous No.8387443]

>>8387416
>>8387409
>>8387365
>>8387352
>>8387351
>>8387282
You lot will be much happier once you admit to yourselves you're horrible people who don't deserve to be with someone.
I did, and now I'm fine with being single, and have even rejected a couple of people for their own good.

[Anonymous No.8387445]

>>8387426
You are lucky your relationship worked!My experience was with a guy that hasn't really much in common with me, some things yes but his lifestyle was different from mine... i mean he is a social type me is a social inept one with weaboo stuff. And for idk what in reality, he felt i wasn't really for him maybe and also not much time, plus physical distance.

[Anonymous No.8387446]

>>8387440
Don't know your feels then.

[Anonymous No.8387455]

>>8387443
Thank for the happy advice, anon... wow. That helps a lot...wow
>sarcasm
There are people that abuse of their partners and so they deserve to be in a relationship while us not? I'm not perfect but i see way more shittier people than me in relationships with ones that is too good for them.

[Anonymous No.8387456]

>>8387435
What? how do you go about finding potential dates?

I met mine at a friend's roomate's boyfriend's apartment party.

[Anonymous No.8387458]

I love cosplay and anime, but im also a fledgling stand up comic in San francisco, and those jokes land because the heavy asian audiences usually. I feel guilty going to cons then THAT NIGHT ripping it all a new ass.pretty good jokes though.
hey
hey
how does kagome clean her clothes?
In-a-washa.

>death note cosplayers are pretty gay. Light's last name backwards is literally "I'm a gay."

[Anonymous No.8387464]

>>8387443
Why did you link my name in there? I don't want a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

[Anonymous No.8387469]

>>8387456
I don't really go out much and it's really hard to meet new people in my uni course that is female dominated. I use online dating, but not shit like OK cupid more like places with common interests. I'm not the type to go to clubs, parties and my hobbies are indoor. I want to try anime cons but i'm so sperg i would feel so embarassed to meet new people. Only here i saw guys i would be interested in rl, other than that i use online places.

[Anonymous No.8387471]

>>8387352
HS is the first thing that cause my social anxiety
I got molested 3 times in public places, that's the second thing.
I'd like to share my experiences but its hard to type long stories on my phone

[Anonymous No.8387474]

>>8387464
Probably because I'm phone posting because my home internet is fucked and must have hit the wrong post I guess.

[Anonymous No.8387476]

>>8387443
see this guy fuckin gets it

i would like a creative partner someday though. literally, a partner to build, discuss, design, and get run social media with. a platonic cosplay relationship for the benefit of pulling off some really ambitious projects.
someday i guess, i attract a lot with my craftsmanship, but i specifically need someone with skills i lack (mainly wig, makeup and photography specialist)
im also well versed in photography so both of us setting up compositions and community posts would be cool.
ill find her eventually.

[Anonymous No.8387481]

>>8387443

Hey now, I firmly believe there's someone for everyone, even horrible people.

Mostly because I'm a horrible person who found another horrible person to be an awful misanthrope with. It's amazing, like living the dream of being an evil couple.

[Anonymous No.8387482]

>>8387469
Joke's on you cus I went to a women's college.

[Anonymous No.8387487]

>>8387471
At HS i was always bullied by the few boys of my class and no one cared. I was pretty a 2d anime husbandos in my high school and just three years ago i got interested into dating someone but my social anxiety, the past experiences made me not really a social person. Anon, it's so sad these experiences made your life an hell, some after these function well in society but instead people like you and me still struggle in life. I hope your life would get better anon!

[Anonymous No.8387496]

>>8387482
But anon, i believe you are more socially active tham me. Isn't really my university... i struggle to meet new friends as well. I have some but they aren't in my town, just few hours from my place.
>>8387481
Yes, i mean that! It's weird how that anon said we should not find anyone, he is ok with it but some of us want to find a special one even if we are trainwrecks. At least you found your evil half, good!!

[Anonymous No.8387500]

>>8386651
I've always wondered where people get their materials from. I mean I know there's Alibaba, but I get nervous at the idea of ordering tons of fabric and not knowing how well it'll hold up over years of wear.
Of course I wouldn't try to ask you anon, since that would obviously affect your business and whatnot.
> Tfw wanting to start a line of cute skincare items but hesitant to order ingredients online since I don't have the tools to make sure they're 100% pure and not diluted or cut with random shit

[Anonymous No.8387509]

>>8387443
So if we go by your logic my douchebag friend who scams people shouldn't have a girlfriend for the past ten years then am I right?

What applies to you doesn't work for everyone else nor should be accepted by everyone else. Your standards=/=my/his/their standards.

[Anonymous No.8387512]

>>8387352
Yeah femanon also, and gay. But still. Yeah. Being efamous does help with getting people interested but having like 5+ people aggressively thirsty for you at once is nerve wracking and I couldn't handle it.

[Anonymous No.8387522]

>>8387481
I kinda ktf
I'm in a relationship right now so I'm not looking to date or anything, but I just wish my boyfriend would care about... anything at all, really, enough to at least talk to me about it.
Literally all he says to me when I speak is
>uh huh
>yeah
>yeah I'm listening
>[repeats what I said], I heard you
>oh
>okay
>[plays with dog or browses some funnyjunk-tier website and laughs while I talk and then says he's listening]
And of course when I ask him to do stuff with me it's
>okay
>I wish I could play guitar
>but I can't learn, I don't have time right now (he does)
>I want to get fit
>(when I direct him to Scooby's website/fit sticky) okay [closes website, never looks at it again]
>I'm kinda jealous, that guy looks so fit

All he does is play GTA/Destiny/Whatever and drink Mountain Dew. He's not even fat, he's relatively good looking and a nice person otherwise, but it's like dating a retard. All he ever talks about with me is how he wants us to be together forever but as much as I love him I can't help but think that it would be so fucking dull.

[Anonymous No.8387524]

>>8387522
meant to reply to
>>8387476

[Anonymous No.8387531]

>>8387487
I see anime as an escape into reality but I get into much cause I might neglect real life.
Let's hope that going on cons and Cosplay would help us find friends and be normal. I'm really hoping for us to get well
Oh btw, I'm a guy who hates my own girly face ;_;
Why do you like anime, Anon?

[Anonymous No.8387542]

>>8387531
*femanon

[Anonymous No.8387556]

> tfw want to wear fairy kei but worried about looking like an ageplayer