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Post dresses that you think would make good wedding dresses or ballgowns to a formal/semi formal event! It could be the dress itself, or coord ideas. What dresses would you wear to a lolita wedding?

>> No.8673367
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lady bianca looks like it would be a good dress for the bride at the reception party

>> No.8673368
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>>8673367
rosier marriage as the actual wedding ceremony dress would be amazing

>> No.8673370
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>>8673368
la fee de rose noir seems like a great wedding dress if the theme is dark

>> No.8673371
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>>8673370
i think bridesmaids wearing either bless from michael or gathered chiffon would be really great because there are so many colour options and they're not too hard to get

>> No.8673377

>>8673371
If most people could fit the damn thing! Gather chiffon keeps getting smaller. I'm pretty tiny (85cm bust) and that dress is still tight!

>> No.8673382
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>>8673377
ah i didn't realise it was that small, maybe not then

as just a guest, i'd still pick a print, but something toned down like moitie

>> No.8673393

>>8673382
Isn't this JSK quite small (even for Moitie JSKs) too though?

>> No.8673397

>>8673393
it's just something i would wear as a guest, it wasn't a suggestion for bridesmaids or anything haha

almost all the moitie jsks in that cut have a max bust listed at 82cms though

>> No.8673412

>>8673334
Any word on how much the belle dress will be? The usual 100k for baby wedding dresses?

>> No.8673414

>>8673397
All Moitie dresses have the bust listed as 82, but it doesn't mean anything because it's written on literally every item. Some Moitie dresses can be really big. But yes, that cut is actually good for 82cm busts, although it can go up to 88cm sometimes. The incorrect measurements are probably one of the reasons why Moitie stuff doesn't sell very quickly. Silly Mana.

>> No.8673421

>>8673414
ah that makes sense, thanks! i have a 82cm bust so i didn't think too much of it

i think most VM and MM pieces would be really good to wear to weddings too

>> No.8673428
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I think this might work, maybe with a really long veil? obviously not for a very classical wedding

>> No.8673575

>>8673334
>La belle et la secret de la rose
Someone please pay Baby some French leassons.

>> No.8673577
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If I wore lolita to my wedding, it would probably be Michael's Blessing.

>> No.8673579

>>8673575
It's not just Fench, they butcher every non-Japanese language they touch. You speak English, have you not seen some of their longer print names?

>> No.8673582

>>8673428
Dang, I thought that was Boz until I looked at the corner. What's the name of this dress? I suddenly need it

>> No.8673585
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8673585

Pic related is my dream wedding dress. Simple, but beautiful details/cut and elegant. I wouldn't want something with a lot of fluff and frill like the Baby ones but rather finer accessories like nice jewelry and an intricate updo.

>> No.8673586

>>8673582
Rozalia Gauze OP

>> No.8673588

>>8673575
honestly, they could just have opened a dictionnary, no need for actual lessons...

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>> No.8673635

So if the bride's wearing this, what's the groom wear?

>> No.8673638

>>8673635
moitie, aatp, atboz if they're going for an ouji or aristo look
h.naoto, alice auaa and other brands are available too

i think it would still be fine for the male to wear just a nice, fitted suit

>> No.8673647
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I wouldn't wear lolita to my wedding, at least not to church. My bf wants me to wear a traditional wedding dress, it has to be floor length with a trail and such. Since I'm pretty tall, no lolita dress would meet those requirements.

I'd wear a lolita dress to civil marriage though, but not styled in a lolita way. Probably something a la Juliette et Justine, that could pass as non lolita fancy wear. I already have a dress in mind (pic related) for this occassion and reserved it just in case, since I suspect that my bf is proposing to me soon kek.

>> No.8673660
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I'm going to have a beach wedding so I'm thinking of getting a white baby dress that would work without blouse,otks etc.

>> No.8673683
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This is perfect.

>> No.8673685
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>>8673683

>> No.8673781

>>8673647
It's not just about what your boyfriend wants you know. It sounds like you're holding back your real desires, tastes, etc, to meet a more acceptable style to those around you at the expense of your own happiness. Just saying. I don't know you but that's just the feeling I get from your choice of words.

>> No.8673835

>>8673647
Have fun wearing what your husband wants for the rest of your life.

>> No.8673856

>>8673781
>>8673835
How would you feel if your husband wanted to marry in jeans and tshirt? It's a fucking marriage, you know the thing where you declare your supposedly long term partnership. I'd kind of expect everyone to make compromises.

>> No.8673881

>>8673781
>>8673835
Wow such ridiculous assumptions. Stay classy cgl.

But just to make it clear: My bf is a sweetheart, supporting and encouraging me in every way, and he is not telling me what to do with my life or suppressing my desires or whatsoever, okay?

I'm totally fine with a traditional wedding dress, we both came to the consensus that that this aesthetic would be best fitting for a church wedding. And btw, a relationship is also about being able to make compromises. We both make the decisions, it's not only about my own happiness, I'm not a selfish cunt who only thinks about her own well being.

>> No.8673928

>>8673647
>traditional wedding dress

Congrats/good luck on your upcoming/possible proposal, but please do wear what will make you both happy, and is actually required by whatever deity you believe in. Don't buy in too much to the less-than-200-yr-old idea that white = virginity, you must have a train, and that you must even wear a dress in the first place. Fashion trends started by the queen of england \= actual important marriage traditions, even if great auntie thinks so.

>> No.8673933

>>8673881
It is a little bizarre that he has a preference that he's weighed in with for what you wear on your wedding day, though. Most dudes leave that completely up to their wife-to-be.

FWIW you provided minimal context about your situation and it is not unreasonable that people could read it as you caving to your fiancé's demands. It's also a bit OT and blog post-like since the thread is not for talking about how this is a thing you wouldn't do. Not your blog, etc.

>> No.8673953

>>8673881
>we both came to the consensus that that this aesthetic would be best fitting for a church

That makes way more sense, choosing that aesthetic together because you feel it's the most fitting for the kind of wedding you both want. It originally sounded more like you or he wanted to choose the tradition dress style (which it isn't anyway) because you or he felt you ought to.

>> No.8673977

>>8673933
>It is a little bizarre that he has a preference that he's weighed in with for what you wear on your wedding day, though. Most dudes leave that completely up to their wife-to-be.
It's normal that people have preferences, and i'm encouraging my bf to express his opinions. Maybe that's where the differences lies.

>It's also a bit OT and blog post-like since the thread is not for talking about how this is a thing you wouldn't do. Not your blog, etc.
OP asked about what we would wear to a lolita wedding, and I simply explained why I would not wear lolita to church but to civil marriage and how come I already have a specific dress in mind which also happens to be a lolita dress.
The thread started to become OT once the other seagulls responded with stupid assumptions about my relationship.

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>> No.8674101

>>8673647
this reminds me of an episode of Say Yes to the Dress where the husband came because he had final say over what dress she wore, and he blatantly ignored that she didn't want a big poofy princess gown, because that's what he expected his bride to wear

>> No.8674104

>>8673881
I'm sorry these gull's idea of compromise is "you should never listen to his wants, only do what you want, you go girl!"

>> No.8674105

>>8673856
>Wanting to wear a short white formal dress instead of a long white formal dress with a train is the same thing as wanting to get married in jeans and a t-shirt

Wow

>> No.8675174

>>8674105
>It sounds like you're holding back your real desires, tastes, etc, to meet a more acceptable style to those around you at the expense of your own happiness
It's all the same, if you hold back your real desires at the expense of your own happiness. :^)

>> No.8675182

>>8673977
>"What would you wear to a lolita wedding?"
>a bunch of superfluous personal details no one cares about
>gets pissy when people draw conclusions based on what anon has supplied
Next time just say "this is what I'm wearing to my civil marriage" jfc

>> No.8675193

>>8673977
No one currs, you whore. Shut the hell up and leave this thread to the real lolitas who'll add on topic discussion about wearing lolita to their wedding because their boyfriends don't mind and don't try to control them to be mainstream.

>> No.8675609
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White/ivory/cream etc looks bad on me but I'm worried that if I wear a different colour I won't look/feel like a bride

>> No.8675636

>>8675609
What skin tone are you? How does it look bad?

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>>8673781
>>8673835
>>8673856
>>8673881
>>8673928
>>8673933
>>8673953
>>8673977
>>8674105
>>8675174
>>8675182
>>8675193
Leave it to lolitas to start drama about irrelevant stuff, because you can simply ignore it, right?
Keep posting dresses, bitches.

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>>8675649

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>>8675652

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>>8675656

>> No.8675815

>>8673585
This reminds me of what Amish and Mennonite women wear daily/on regular occasions.

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>> No.8676431
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More baby. This dress comes in ivory too

>> No.8676567
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I always dreamed I'd wear this dress to my wedding ever since I started wearing lolita. But 7 years later, I went for a princess ball gown instead. I'll always partially regret not wearing lolita since it's part of who I am. But I'm planning to wear lolita for our vow renewals!

>> No.8676579
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A while back I did this collage of simple white lolita dresses to inspire a friend who wanted to wear lolita to her civil marriage.
I don't know if I would personally wear lolita to my wedding, thought. Maybe if it were something on the simpler side... Like the ones from this collage.

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>> No.8676998

>>8674033
I have this top (it's a blouse/SK set), and honestly it's not as great as it looks. Very plain to look at in person and if you don't have an incredibly tiny waist, it's not going to go well for you.

>> No.8677182

>>8675636
Not that anon but I am in the same case. My skin is really really fair, almost white (I was even bullied for that in school as a child), most "fair-skinned" persons I met look tanned next to me and I can really hardly find makeup light enough. Those colors make my veins even more visible and make my skin look grey, dull.

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>> No.8678162

>>8678151
What is this beauty?

>> No.8678208

>>8678162
What is reverse image search?

>> No.8678212

>>8678151
Meta Moonlight Night

>> No.8678213

>>8675609
This is amazing! What is this?!

>> No.8678226

>>8674105
Are you retarded or just arrogant and stupid? Exaggeration is a common debate tactic to reveal points of an argument.

>> No.8678246

>>8678213
>>8678208

>> No.8678262

>>8673428
Am I the only one seeing the deliberate(?) and ridiculously torn up lack of hemming?

>> No.8678265

>>8678262
Of course you are, it's not like they'd do it on purpose or for aesthetic reasons or anything.

Moron.

>> No.8678272

>>8678262
How could you not be sure if it's deliberate or not? How new are you or are you just stupid?

>> No.8678273
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>>8678265
The 12-year-old sewing their first cosplay' aesthetic? It looks fucking terrible.

>> No.8678276

>>8678273
It's meant to look ghostly and antique, but I suppose you're more suited to the 12 year old babby's first sewing project style. Well you are new. I'd rather think that than you just be super dumb.

>> No.8678281
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>>8678276
Okay, anon.

>> No.8678282

>>8678262
How the fuck could they miss that/it not be deliberate?

>>8678273
Pleb

>> No.8678284

>>8678273
Gothic brands like Boz and Atelier-Pierrot do it all the time. That's why the OP of that image said "obviously not for a very classical wedding".

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>> No.8678286

>>8678273
>>8678281
I think you got lost on your way to Club Penguin

>> No.8678293
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Worn to a wedding in July

>> No.8678328

>>8678273
>>8678281
>avatarfagging

>> No.8678344

>>8678285
Her wedding was fucking beautiful. I can't believe it was a city hall wedding.

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>> No.8678406

>>8673428
i had this and sold it because it just wasnt flattering. no corset ties to make it smaller. basically made for one size. i wanted to love it and then i didnt :/

>> No.8678418

>>8678406
About how big was it in the bust? I've debated getting it since I heard it fits pretty large?

>> No.8678537
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For my wedding I wanted the jsk version of this dress, but I didn't have enough time to wait for it to arrive.

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>> No.8683218

>>8678285
What's that dress

Also for the people posting pompadour, while I love that dress, it is way too period for a wedding

>> No.8683223

tfw no lolita gf to one day see in one of these

>> No.8684875

>>8683218
rosa mystica

>> No.8685007

>>8678293
Was the bride alright with that colour? I feel like wearing light colours could be dangerous.

>> No.8685093

>>8675193
The female autism is real

>> No.8685164

>>8683218
Too period-loking? Seriously? Wow.

>> No.8689310

>>8685007
She okayed it a year in advance and I bought it for the occasion; she wore a white gown with a long train and changed into a pink AP dress later on. Swan Lake is actually more warm creams, peach and gold than the stock photos etc let on