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Previous thread >>9453350

How are you feeling, gulls? Keep the answers cgl-related, please.

>> No.9456659
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>tfw the hot cosplay guy you've been con-crushing on turns out to be a reverse trap

>> No.9456683

I hate con dramu but I also love it

>> No.9456686

I see nothing wrong here.

>> No.9456691 [DELETED] 


my gf intentionally flirts with other guys at cons so i get mad and beat her when we get back to our room. not like seriously beat, but like hate fuck, choke, pinch, slap, etc

shes a gull too. what do.

>> No.9456692 [DELETED] 

she sounds crazy, gtfo while you still can

>> No.9456693 [DELETED] 

Disgusting and TMI

>> No.9456710
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At first I thought you were talking about romantic partners, and "beat around the bush" was lesbian innuendo.

>> No.9456719

fucking kek

>> No.9456839

Would anybody be interested in cosplaying as my gf?

>> No.9456893
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>be depressed
>only thing in the world that makes me happy is clothes
>think about killing myself
>remember that a big burando order is on the way
>have to hold off until it arrives in the mail
>order more burando

i have a feeling that this is grinding to a halt and i won't have anything to look forward to anymore

>> No.9456909

I'm worried. My boyfriend told me today that he wouldn't fuck Jessica Nigry if he had the chance.

>> No.9456956
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>make friends with friend group of this crazy bitch I've known for years
>"These people seem really cool, how are they friends with this whackjob? Am I the one in the wrong?"
>find out they all fucking hate her too

>> No.9456958

Your bf has self respect, good job.

>> No.9456961

neither would I.

>> No.9456965

Sure, but if would have to be a gf (male)

>> No.9456969

get your shitty Facebook memes out of here anon

>> No.9456977

So long as it's a feminine gf that's fine with me

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But she so nice?

>> No.9456986

Buy me stuff and it's a deal.

>> No.9456990

ill buy you a double cheese burger a mcdonalds

>> No.9456993

I hope you appreciate a double cheeseburgers worth of effort

>> No.9456999

a gfs a gf

>> No.9457015

I'm finally coming to terms with the fact that a group of people that my partner and I thought were our good friends are, in fact, not our friends. This time last year they were constantly inviting us to go do stuff, hang out, etc. and we almost always accepted.

Then towards the end of last year the hang out invites stopped coming. They weren't interacting with us on social media as much either (now they don't interact with us at all, ever, I'm actually considering deleting them). I confronted the person I considered myself to be closest to about it and was upfront about being confused and having slightly hurt feelings. I was assured everyone was just busy and it was nothing personal (even though they were still hanging out with each other quite often). I was just like okay, thanks for taking the time to talk with me. They acted like everything was totally fine, when obviously things weren't fine.

That's pretty much the last I'd heard from anyone in that group of people other than in passing. We didn't get invited to the holiday friend gathering/gift-exchange, which was especially shitty considering I'd already bought everyone gifts like 1-2 months in advance. We saw one of the guys in public a few months ago and he was... friendly in a super fake way. Definitely didn't seem happy to have run into us.

Fake fucks, I swear to god. Why can't people just be upfront? We were always a bit different in certain ways from these people but it always felt like we got along and the constant hang out invitations made it seem like they liked us. Both my partner and I are kinda shit when it comes to befriending new people and we were pretty thrilled to have found a group of friends we enjoyed hanging out with. Now I'm just left with the nagging feeling that they only ever spent time with us so they could gossip about us once we left.

>> No.9457020

>friend is getting married
>super broke not sure why she is even going through with it
>tell her well I can help you look for a dress @ X plaza
>nty I found a website that has it for super cheap
>she links me a chinese replica website, like milanoo for dresses
>tell her don't do it, it's a knockoff website
>but anon it has GREAT reviews
>she links me fake reviews or paid dor reviews
>keep telling her not to do it and that she'll not only lose her money on something hideous, but will ruin your wedding
>show her actual reviews of people complaining
>gets mad that im not supporting her
At this point I want her to do it so I can see her fuck herself over

I wish normies would at least try and see if the site is legit!!
One of the dresses has another website all over the stock images !

>> No.9457048

>tfw too depressed to work on cosplay or look for a better job

I don't deserve nice costumes, or a good job.

>> No.9457053

I'm currently trying to build up a cuter/better normie wardrobe and it's really fucking with me. My proportions are apparently very off so barely anything fits as it should and I just kind of hate the way I look in general. And I hate how people on the Internet who /should/ look worse than I do can pull off whatever and look absolutely stunning when I've only looked good a handful of times throughout my whole life...

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>tfw no jfash gf to match outfits and go to cons with
do lesbians other than me even exist because i've never met one

>> No.9457097

You warned her, she didn't listen. Best to just let her have at it and want her cry into the sateen nightmare she gets.

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I too know that feeling. I don't even want a girlfriend right now because I'm not stable enough to balance a relationship with schooling but I'd just love a flirty bi/lesbian cosplay or Jfashion partner for conventions. Nothing sexual, just flirting, hand-holding, some cuddling, and looking kawaii for a weekend.

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>> No.9457120

>Nothing sexual
So you're the female equivalent of the jerkoff crystal/imitation crabmeat guy?

>> No.9457123

...the what?

>> No.9457126

I regret googling that, but no, I'm not the female equivalent of that guy. I just only do the dew with girls I'm in a committed relationship with.

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>tfw will never charge my JO crystal with another girl in a completely heterosexual manner

>> No.9457141

Anon I do not know anything about your situation or who you are but I think you do deserve to have a good job, and to have cool costumes of the characters you like. I know you are depressed right now but I believe in you. I hope that you can find motivation soon.

>> No.9457146

>but I think you do deserve to have a good job, and to have cool costumes of the characters you like. I know you are depressed right now but I believe in you.
But why, Anon? What makes you so sure? that Anon might genuinely be a terrible person. What if your encouragement motivated them to go out and start doing terrible things?

>> No.9457150

I'm male and just about every women I talk to ends up being bi or lesbian. What cons are you going to? Maybe we need to switch places

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>tfw your almost done with your cosplay and its made of reused shit
>tfw you barely had to pay for anything at all

Feels good man,doing dbs trunks and i just need to work on his hair and ill be good, also looking to order a light blue wig for ssb vegeta so that should be sweet

>> No.9457211

>made long distance friend last year by meeting at a con
>slowly develop crush but we live across the country from each other and are both at really unstable parts in our lives
>turns out they like me too
>we're both unsure where to go from here because starting a relationship might fuck us both over

I'm waiting on a couple of international job offers, while she's starting med school in the fall. It's weird limbo and neither of us want to lose what we already have but we're both not sure if we can make the commitment when our lives are about to change in a pretty big way.

>> No.9457289

Thanks, cosfam.

I'm gonna bring my mom lunch tomorrow and see if that makes me feel better.

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Time to ask yourself why you fell for a guy(girl)

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I wish we didn't have to give a standing ovation every time a fatty-chan goes out in public.

Wow, way to be obese. So brave.

>> No.9457462

>be fat
>"man, i wanna cosplay. i should probably lose some weight."
>loses 20lbs
>still fat, just stronger
>still look like shit
>still balding
>still aspie as fuck

>> No.9457465

You basically got naked at her tea, and you're mad at HER for kicking you out?

I knew seagulls were some silly bitches, but this is too much.

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Keep at it anon, you'll be a qtpa2t in no time

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but i wanna be a big, strong man!
>thanks tho, anon

>> No.9457519

Theres chubby characters out there and cosplayers i see who accept they are kinda chubby and play a chubby character seem to have a blast.

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>cosplay I thought would be extremely simple and straightforward is taking way more time and effort than expected

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>enjoy spending time with my best friend more than spending time with my bf
Not sure what to feel

>> No.9457524

there arent any chubby male characters i'd like to go as rn. maybe i'm just missing them, but most fat dudes seem to be comedic relief or the creepy otaku guy. i'd rather get into good shape so i can make a good Fuhrer Bradley

>> No.9457527

If you can convince yourself it's worth it to wait, wait. You guys are going to be dedicating a lot of energy to work (for you) and school (for her). Adding the workload of a LDR is going to be stressful. I would at least wait until a month or two when you're both used to your new schedules and workloads.

LDRs are really hard work. I've only ever seen LDRs work when both people either don't have many friends (so they mainly socialize with their partner outside of work) or don't have much going on in the way of schooling/careers (so they have the time to check up with their partner).

>> No.9457529

it happens. finding romantic partners is just like finding friends with the caveat that you're also mutually attracted to one another. since they're basically acting on the same part of our brain, it's not uncommon for your significant other to end up being a compromise of who you gel with the best personally and sexually. at some point, a compromise needs to be found and you rarely end up being with the person you're best friends with or the most attracted to.

>> No.9457533

It's just that i never had feelings this strong for another girl. I'm pretty sure i'm straight so it's just confusing me.
Sorry for blog but this is just really messing with my head right now.

>> No.9457535

at least you have a friend

>> No.9457540

i've been in kind of similar situations, where if i've been super lonely for a while after getting fucked over and i meet someone i mesh with well, i'll feel like i'm being too clingy as a friend. but honestly, i think it's just a natural reaction to having a super close friend. if you ever get romantically attached, address that as it comes up, but don't feel bad for wanting to spend time with some people over others. you probably got with your bf for reasons totally different than why you hang with your friends, so why even compare?
also, >>9457535
everyone i befriend ends up fucking me over, so i'd suggest you treasure a good friend for as long as you can.

>> No.9457543

Don't feel bad, I thought I was completely straight until I started crushing on a dude back in high school. Heteroflexible: straight, but shit happens.

>> No.9457544

I got together with my bf because i felt like i'd stand out at college if i didn't have one.
Don't get me wrong, he's not a bad guy it's just not what i expected when we started dating.

I appreciate your input but i think you are a guy?

>> No.9457550

They are just pretending in order to get away from you

>> No.9457551

you are being groomed by a predatory lesbian, get out while you can

>> No.9457577

Had that happen to me too recently. Ended up getting high with a friend of hers who turned out not to be much of a friend at all, now he sends me all the juicy screencaps. I feel a little sorry for her because she clearly has no idea what a lolcow she is, but on the other hand, she does have the option of not being a crazy vindictive turbocunt.

>> No.9457610

mfw having to work full time internship for 1,15 p/h because else i get behind on my college progress.
10h gone per day and no energy left to make any cosplay and having to deny nicely paid commission requests while making 200 a month feels really bad.

>> No.9457731

I'm feeling serious regret about joining a panel for an upcoming con. We haven't done any planning and it's in a couple weeks now. Since I am not the main person running it, I don't want to step on any toes and start taking charge (I'm trying to back away from this tendency in general), but it's starting to give me a lot of dread because it's a couple hour commitment at this convention and I don't want to waste my time or look like a dumbass in front of a bunch of people.

I seriously want to quit the panel but I'm one of the main characters and I hate disappointing people, especially ones that I will continue to run into in my circle of friends. So I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, and can't wait until it's all over so I can stop feeling this way.

>> No.9457736

So i kind of fucked up the ears by making them to big, but my momiji cosplay is more or less wearable now. This is the first cosplay i've made in a good year or so. I'll have to hold off on remaking the ears only because i might need to move soon since i have new roommates coming in and there is question on if i'm staying in my current room. So i cant make a big crafting mess right now. So it's fine i guess...i still need a sword and shield any ways so it wont be 100% complete until the end of year anyways. I'm happy i finally have a new cosplay but I'm upset at myself for goofing it up and not asking for help when I should of.

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I must see this!

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>be /fit/izen
>two days ago cosplaying shirtless character, wearing some pretty tight tights
>girls getting pretty touchy when taking pictures with me
>some were underage
>"wow you're ripped bro" comments everytime
>got my butt slapped two times

T-thanks Rippetoe

>> No.9457749

you are now a male slut, was it worth it?

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Wtf was deleted here???

>> No.9457824

Just dump him holy shit, stop being a heartless whore and leading someone along. He could be finding somebody who actually wants to be with him for the rest of his life, but by the time you've mustered up the courage to tell him that you want to replace him, many of the people who he could have dated instead of you will already be with their own future husbands.

>> No.9457827

That latter sentence is fragmented as fuck but man do I care little for syntax when I'm salty.

>> No.9457835

I need to trim threads but i might post pics in the progress thread later. I made fox ears, instead of wolf ears and I feel really silly...,

>> No.9457852


This is a good feel.

Who were you cosplaying as?

>> No.9457938


>> No.9457941

if you buy me dresses

>> No.9457949

How many? I only have $300 right now

>> No.9457950

>wants a lolita gf
>only has $300

>> No.9457969


>> No.9457971
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How much income do you need before you're considered capable of sustaining a lolita gf? I'm a line chef at Wendy's and pull well into six figures. What are my chances of getting a lolita gf with that? Pls help.

>> No.9457974

say a dress new costs 300 dollars and your lolita gf follows all new releases that come out every week (we're talking AP here), say you need at least 4 x 300 dollars is 1200 dollars a month.

>> No.9457978

My bf wouldn't either. He has standards and has seen her face.

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>taking advantage of beta males for personal gain

>> No.9457981

i would say (reasonably) about a coord a month would satisfy me (not that i expect my partner to do that- but if they were willing) so around $1000, a little more, a little less, a month of spare money you can throw away.

>> No.9457984

Yes, but most are ugly or fat.

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>Spending $12,000 dollars a year on fashion just for your gf

No /seagull/ pussy is worth that.

>> No.9457993

why not? so many people do it

>> No.9457999

I'll give you an actual realistic answer for your silly memeposting
Most lolita girls would be absolutely thrilled if their SO got them some brand gifts for birthday, christmas and anniversary
So let's say three gifts a year, of say a main piece, a blouse/shoes/tights and some accessories, maybe $500 a pop?

So something like $1500 a year

>> No.9458003

Line chefs make that much money??????

>> No.9458013
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>usually wear black
>really in the mood to bust out the pastels for a change
>period started today

>> No.9458049

Have you actually gotten an SO that dropped 1k a month on your lolita hobby? I know it's definitely possible, just seems a bit absurd.

>> No.9458052

I'm a math major and made 300k fresh out of college.
Never had a gf tho...

>> No.9458054

>300k fresh out of college
Audible chuckle.

>> No.9458059

Throw in an extra $500 for regular dates throughout the year, plus small surprises (like a box of hamsters (´・ω・`) )
Then you're set for life, enjoy ur kawaii gf

>> No.9458062

more like enjoy your kawaii gold digger

>> No.9458064

>implying there's any such thing as a gf that's not a gold digger

>> No.9458069

>3k a year makes a gold digger
Oh man the betas on this board are pure gold.

>> No.9458073

I end up being friends with most of them and they actually date women.

>> No.9458075

Let's be real, it's almost a fair trade considering how specific most requests for gull gfs are on here. E.g. pls be my own real life anime girl, that shit takes skill, cash and genetic luck

>> No.9458077 [DELETED] 

crying does anyone's SO do this for them

my bf pays for our housing expenses but he doesn't buy me gifts or anything. desu i'd probably prefer fancy gifts instead.

>> No.9458081


I'm going through the same thing. Eat fewer carbs and shoot for a 300 calorie deficit every day

>> No.9458085

>not a 6'4 chef at Wendy's
Obviously fake

Good point. Sometimes I feel like they deserve it for being so clingy and needy. Still, it's like being cruel to a dog that trusts you

>> No.9458093

I have a scapular injury from a car crash that happened almost two years ago that still flares up from time to time. Normally it doesn't cause me problems except for mild pain, but this weekend was as the weekend my period started, and the lower abdominal and back pain, vomiting, and bleeding from that combined with normal scoliosis pain and the pain from my injury made me feel so bad that it caused me to miss a meetup I wanted to go to.

>> No.9458094

Of course not. But that's not going to stop anyone demanding it in a feels thread.

>> No.9458105

I'm a 6'4" chef at the airport. Is that good enough?

Pretty stoked because my garbage man cosplay came today.

>> No.9458125

After spending $300 on a new alternator and battery for my car, expecting to pay $200 in labor to replace both as well as an additional $100 for replacement parts to pass my inspection, I found out that I just needed a new battery, the battery failure was triggering the check engine light (which is now off), I was able to return the alternator, I only paid $40 in labor, and a family friend can power screw the side mirror that isn't fully secure for free. I've been worried sick about this for the past week, especially because my job is dependent on me having a car. I won't have to cancel my con plans after all!!

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>Still use my email account I made at 14
>The most cringey weeb thing with a full fake japanese name for the account and a -chan in the username
>Have become too stubborn to make a new account
>Around New Year's finally tried to change some things like using my actual name
>Fast forward to last week
>Send a google request to my professor
>Defaulted to this email but figured he wouldn't know who it was from so resent the request from my school email
>I was wrong
>My account still had the weeb name but the icon was a photo of me
>'Anon please use your student account next time'
>mfw I spend a half hour navigating through google so no one will ever see that email again

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Update: It did!

>> No.9458177

Hard to feel bad for people stupid enough to fall for it.

>> No.9458185

Just tried to freshen up my (dyed) copper coloured hair with a dye I've used before with great results.

And now I have dark brown hair with red undertones and Schwarzkopf have a mildly annoyed mail in their inbox...

>> No.9458269

I've known a couple girls with boyfriends that bought them a big angelic pretty package on special occasions, yeah.

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>finally got my hair cut to a shorter style
>nonstop compliments all day at work

It's crazy what kind of difference the right length makes to an awkwardly proportioned face

>> No.9458373

My SO buys me lots of lolita stuff but we still live with our parents so he doesn't have any bills yet.

>> No.9458377

I hope this is a troll but I've got a feeling it isn't.

>> No.9458382

I've lost enough weight that my tits fit in my I Do Declare dress. Now just to give up drinking beer more than three times a week. Seriously, why is beer so delicious?

>> No.9458385

do you also have a room temperature iq?

>> No.9458390

A lot of people live with their parents.

>> No.9458392

>been inside for 4 days writing finals papers
>finally free this morning
>decide to go out and enjoy the beautiful weather in new coord
>phone suddenly blows up with weather alerts
>area immediately goes into tornado warning

Anyone else here waiting to get fuckin rekt by this storm?

>> No.9458411

Mine does, and so do my parents. I don't really wave it around though. It's weird when people ask "how do you get so much stuff???" and when I give them the answer they seem offended. As if I just sit on my ass all day and don't deserve anything. Like, I'm a full-time student and I have a job, calm down.

>> No.9458430

>Receive house payment worth of dresses every month
>Heh, calm down poorfags

Are both your parents and SO putting into savings? Sounds like you don't understand money very well.

>> No.9458447

...Wait, what? Are you confusing me with another anon? I was just answering their question as to whether or not anyone's SO does that for them. No need to get weird about it. I never called anyone a poorfag.

>> No.9458449

Celsius or Fahrenheit?

>> No.9458450

>t. bitter poorfag

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I got some lolita-looking panties in the mail today, and they're so pretty I'm honestly terrified I'll poop them.

>> No.9458454

>cute lolita panties
pics or didn't happen

>> No.9458455

But you do understand getting ~12k a year worth of burando is like getting bought a new car every two years, or getting free house payments/rent. There's a reason they're likely upset, it's a bit out of touch to assume it's reasonable.

No, just aware how much money 12k a year actually is, regardless of income. Even with a decent six figure salary, 10% of net income is far from nothing.

>> No.9458457

We're full time students with part time jobs. We'd rather not live in dorm squalor while paying out the ass for it.

>> No.9458460

That's fine, but I'm allowed to think it's rude when people ask me "how I get so much stuff" and then bitch about the answer. I'm totally aware that I live a nice lifestyle. What's the problem?

>> No.9458461

Don't worry anon we've all been there

>> No.9458466

>it's a bit out of touch to assume it's reasonable
nayrt but you do realize that what's "reasonale" differs between classes, right? buying that much might not be reasonable for you but it could be for someone that has the money. rich people live on a whole different planet from everyone else. it's weird but there's no reason to be bitter about it, which you definitely seem to be.

>> No.9458470

*reasonable, fuck mobile keyboards

>> No.9458472

>wanting to see the undies of a girl who dumps her drawers on the reg

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I don't shit myself! I'm just afraid of ruining my nice new pants.

>> No.9458481

Being wealthy doesn't make money any less valuable. That's a terrible misconception. Maybe it's because these anons are younger and have never had to plan investments, but it's still unreasonable considering they don't have ownership of a home or stable income.

>> No.9458489
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>mfw I may have to take a Greyhound to AX this year

Any better recommendations like Boltbus or Megabus?

>> No.9458514

>making assumptions
I have a house, a steady income, and an inheritance. I don't get why you feel the need to be pedantic and judgemental towards someone you don't know, but have fun I guess?

>> No.9458519

get out of the US and find the pure slavic goddess of your dreams anon, unless you're okay with settling for either the el classico roastie normie turbocunt or the fat smelly dumblrina

I have the thicc genes and I've been doing heaps of cardio and strength training since a month ago. I havent shrunk a single bit yet either, but don't worry anon we'll get through this together

What's wrong with Greyhound? I've never taken those huge buses before but I was considering using them to get to AX as well.

>> No.9458521
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>get thousands of dollars of dresses for free
>calm down I deserve it by doing exactly what everybody else on the planet does

really makes me ponder

>> No.9458522

Very nice thing of you to do, good job!

>> No.9458524

So it's okay for people to be dicks just because I'm financially well off? If they ask, I tell them. If they don't, I keep it to myself.

Really makes me ponder.

>> No.9458525

How pretty are we talking?

>> No.9458528

Some people prefer to tell others how they feel about them instead of talking about them behind their backs. It usually means they aren't fake and consider you a friend.

>> No.9458529

How does that relate to the situation at hand, again?

I just answered an anon's question about whether or not someone actually gets that treatment from their boyfriend and I managed to trigger people. I'm grateful for it. What do you want me to do, act like I'm not?

>> No.9458530

Not even being a dick, just it's pretty obvious if you're getting 12k of dresses, still in college full-time, and have a house, your parents are probably paying your way through life and you're really fortunate they're in a position to do so. Very few people have that going for them. It's the fact that you think you actually deserve it by default that's probably the point of contention among your friends, which is what I've been trying to explain this whole time.

>> No.9458532

Justifying getting thousands of dollars worth of clothes by saying you work and go to school isn't the same as saying you're grateful for it, it makes it sound like you think you deserve it for doing what everybody else does.

>> No.9458534

I don't think I deserve it by default? I do charity shit, I volunteer, and I work hard for my family. I don't think that I DON'T deserve it because I don't sit on my ass all day.

I'm tired of being seen as inherently shallow and evil because I have money. Stop making assumptions.

>> No.9458537

I really never thought you were shallow or evil, just terribly out of touch with the value of money.

>> No.9458538

If you would've left it at "you're grateful" I would understand. But again you're trying to justify getting thousands of dollars worth of clothes for doing exactly what most of the planet does just to survive. You're not evil but you do certainly -sound- pretty shallow and spoiled.

>> No.9458540

Not to sound like a common "rich bitch" but when you have a lot of money, things change for you. You don't look at it the same way that everybody else does. So yeah, I don't understand why this is such a huge deal to everybody else and why people feel the need to tear me down for something that's completely normal for me, my family, and a lot of my friends.

I'm not going to argue with you. You were trying to say that I'm not grateful, so I tried to justify things to you, and you're still trying to paint me as the bad guy. I really don't get why you're trying to make me feel bad. What do you want me to say, I don't deserve the things I have?

>> No.9458545

>when you have a lot of money things change
lmao true words of a kid with rich parents

>> No.9458546

I'm not trying to make you feel anything, I don't care about you because I don't know you. Feel however you want, I'm just sharing my perspective with you on the internet.

>> No.9458549

ITT: bitter poorfags

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REEEE shut the fuck up stacy I'm not the only one who wants free coords without having to do twice as much as the other whingey richfag anon with the richfag parents

>inb4 I'm not rich I just have a different view of money x((((

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>people are honest with you on the internet
>get personally offended

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basically this >>9458549

People tend to forget that people can do whatever they want with their money lmao

>> No.9458627

You would all be happier if you stopped caring so much about other people's money. Some people work hard for their stuff, some people work a fair amount, some work a little bit, and some people don't have to work. That's the way the world is.

>> No.9458651

>I'm tired of being seen as inherently shallow and evil because I have money.
Technically you didn't say you have money. >>9458411 Your said your parents and SO do. Did your parents buy a car for you at 16 too? Given all the financial hardship that exists, most middle to lower class people would expect you to have some degree of gratefulness at least for being born into the right family when statistically a new baby is more likely to be one of those plebeians struggling with college loans and skyrocketing real estate prices.

I don't think people are saying you don't deserve the things you have. If you're earning the money that pays for the dresses, that's normal. If your SO is buying them for you, you're expected to show some appreciation for the fact that it's not common to have a rich boyfriend who buys you designer on the reg. If your parents are paying for your school, you're expected to show gratitude for the opportunity to not be a stereotype starving student living off ramen. To not do these things implies you are entitled and egotistical.

Then again, maybe it just feels unnatural for people who grow up with money and luxury goods and rich neighbors to see their affluence as out of the ordinary. Maybe these are just bourgeoisie affectations the sub-omeguloids make up to make their own lower stations in life more palatable if it's acknowledged to be at least partially luck.

>Not to sound like a common "rich bitch"
Too late, all signs point to yes. But hey, you do you and be a stereotype gated community out of touch upper-class twit as much as you want. No skin off my back. Just don't expect people to tell you back "yes, you SO deserve all this!" if you haven't cured AIDS, if you're not humble about your wealth, unless they are sycophants after a piece of your pie.

>> No.9458668

W-We know that anon but it's not like it's easy for poor people like us to not feel a little irritated when somebody like richbitch anon showed up..

>>9458651 basically summed up everything I would have said but I'm very slow but not like it matters

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I worked on my sword a little tonight, and it looks okay. A little melty. I should learn to use thermoplastics instead of just painting the foam.

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>> No.9458707

>my uni's hot cosplayer + avid gamer is in a relationship already

>> No.9458726
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Tfw convention is two months away and still havent lost any weight and I've yet to recover the expenses on my current costume

I'm probably better off not attending but I'd also feel really sad about it. But anyway it's not like I can buy anything with zero dollars or even look good 40 lbs overweight

Please dont let yourselves go, gulls

>> No.9458760

It's okay to be irritated by someone's attitude, just don't be so insanely ass blasted like >>9458651
It's tacky. Be thankful for what you fucking have and stop being so goddamn bitter. You're able to sit on your ass and complain on the internet about some girl buying dresses; you have it a lot fucking better than most people on the planet.

>> No.9458788

I love beer too anon thank god I'm not fat. Good luck with your weight loss!

>> No.9458886

>need 2nd costume. first is ryu
>can go as either gai or cody. gai is easier overall even with the wig and itll matches me better

i still kind of want to see how id look like as a blondie though.

want to look like a roided out guy who dyed his hair blonde(still dark brows and stubble) and some jewelry foe that ultimate delinquent look.

>> No.9458892

I know this feel all too well. Good luck to the both of us

>> No.9458895


you could safely lose 16 pounds safely in 2 months. but if you put effort into it i can easily say you could probably do 16-25 if you tried. you can poop a pound and i think that even though you may not get to your goal weight you can still start and feel better for your convention! I have so little conventions available to me that i wouldn't want to miss it for the world. even if it means going in normie clothes or something different to make you more comfortable in your skin. i believe in you anon!

also for my cgl feels: the con is in less than a month away and i still have a costume to do. i know most cosplayers can do this easy peasy but im still a beginner and i take time simply because im not used to the process.

I believe I can do it, so im going to mark down work days on my calendar so i can work around school, gym and work time. im sad i will have to leave one costume until a convention later in the summer but im so excited i should just try my best

>> No.9458914

caught a cold recently, trying to get the motivation to add more pockets to my first cosplay assembled...

>> No.9458919

Pockets are even more important when you have a cold so you have somewhere to keep all the tissues.

>> No.9458936

That's a really good point... on top of that, I forgot to mention I also want to make another set of boot covers that are better made than my first attempt (which went well, for what it was worth, just need to do a little reinforcing hem job on it)

>> No.9458964

Iktf, I only allow myself to drink beer once every 2 weeks and I always regret it because I get so bloated. BUT IT TASTES SO GOOD

>> No.9458995
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>nyaatorrents is gone foever
>bakabt is now a closed group and requires account
>registration is invite only
I am mad as fuck right now.

>> No.9459059

I have been having a rough week, so I'm going to write some positives feels.

>despite all the lowkey stresses I've been focusing on, I have a lot to look forward to
>finally have the base bag and merch for the ita bag I want to create
>excited for a small gaming convention in two weeks
>boyfriend and I both got small promotions
>just put in a big order for a new jfashion wardrobe
>found a drawing book I've desperately wanted but didn't want to buy at the library
>attending a hotel room party tomorrow hosted by a cool coworker
>visiting one of my best friends in another state to watch his recital and meet his friends
>got a Hector and a Tharja in Fire Emblem Heroes

I have a lot to be thankful for.

>> No.9459082

Stay away from any chinese people, they are fucking nuts.

>> No.9459085

>Not to sound like a common "rich bitch"
>continues to sound exactly like a "rich bitch"
"Why are people poor? Can't they just like buy money or something lol"

>> No.9459089

get into AB?

>> No.9459113

>2k a year for a kawaii gold digger.

Sounds like a bargain.

>> No.9459121

How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

>> No.9459151

>tl;dr my gf gives me the fault for not getting noticed enough at cons

A couple years ago my LDR became a normal relationship due to her moving here. Since we're both into cosplay and cons we started going to all the available ones in my country. It's always great fun if it were not for the aftermath.

You see, I just cosplay for he sake of building my costumes and wearing them; that is were most of the fun lies for me. Altough having people recognize my niche stuff is really neato, it's not my main concern. And due to how my better half normally acts I thought that she was the same.

But for the last couple years she started throwing little shitfits after cons when she felt like she didn't get enough attention and/or pictures taken of her. Nothing major or world-changing but just enough to sour the time we had at the con in retrospect.

Last con that we went to a couple weeks ago got a little worse tho. I was wearing a costume with a helmet I had sunk the last 7 months into making and that I was actually proud of how it came out while she was doing something that was barely more than closet cosplay. On our drive home afterwards she just went off on me about how I was hogging all the attention (which was mostly little kids since they usually love my costumes) and how it was my fault that nobody wanted a picture of her. She basically just went on and on about how I apparently just put effort in it to overshadow her.

To be fair, she has apologized shittons for it since but whenever I'm working on my helmets/armor now, I just can't seem to relax as much as I used to be. There is just a constant worry that future trips are gonna end the same way.

>> No.9459159
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Alright then, Megabus it is

>> No.9459162

Hm, out of curiosity do any lolitas prefer the indie stuff, or is there very much of an attitude of not brand not good?

>> No.9459176

try >>9456532
Personally I'll buy indie whenever an indie brand comes up with something I really like, but much of the time the established brands are more reliable.

>> No.9459194


Hmm sounds like a case of the youngns. Girls hasn't learned the fact that you usually get back equal to the effort you put in.

Do your do. And while you are working on yours give her a gentle reminder like, "Hey you got something in mind? Cause if you start looking for the lace/fabrics/buttons ect now you'll save yourself the mad dash later."

>> No.9459223

TokyoTosho anon, use the magnet links through that.

>> No.9459230

It's hard to stay patient if she keeps pulling that shit off, doesn't matter how many times she'd apologize because it'll get old real fast. l I find shit like that really annoying and I've had friends like that, too many times I just decide to go to cons alone. It's always a severe underlying problem for people like that to get worked up so much over petty issues and if it isn't cons they're complaining about it's always something else or someone else not giving them enough attention. Also, blaming others for their own faults is always a big red flag on it's own, my ex would pull this shit on me for everything expecting me to turn into her bitch slave so I ended up abandoning ship

If she IS an underage babby then I guess you'd expect that
Otherwise what the fuck

Sorry for rant I'm salty when it comes to people like that

>> No.9459264

Why do you have the palate of a 5 year old?

>> No.9459283

Megabus looks so cool, but I've heard super bad things about it. The Yelp reviews are poor af.

>> No.9459284

still need a gf

>> No.9459287

Amazing comeback, totally destroyed that anon.
Beer confirmed for mature adult beverage that is completely ignored by kids.

>> No.9459334

How about boltbus?

>> No.9459457
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I heard the best way to approach hot cos-guys is to pretend they're not cute. Does it work?

>> No.9459505

No that will make me not like you

>> No.9459536


>implying lolitas are kawaii

Kek, half are fat, other half are either batshit crazy daddy issues le randum gurl or butterfaces

Keep dreaming that some alpha male like me will *ever* pick you up

>> No.9459540


Don't worry about it. Everyone has their own problems.

The dude you ran into probably had ten other things on his mind that day.

I've found peace by forgiving and forgetting them the things I feel they've done to me. Hate is toxic. Exhuming old hurts, mulling over them, can only make you sick. Forgive and forget it.

>> No.9459646
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She is.

>> No.9459661
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>thinking anyone wants you

>> No.9459665

>lose 3 inches on waist
>gain them in chest
>burando all loose on waist but too snug on boobs
I should be happy but I'm honestly so upset

>> No.9459719
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A while back, someone posted that her mother doesn't want her to get her picture taken with fatty-chans.

I thought it was super bitchy until today. I texted my mom a pic of me from a con and she said "Can you please erase those big fat girls so I can share it to Facebook?"

>> No.9459725

Marry him immediately.

>> No.9459730

Get #rangerfit and start doing masked cosplay. Mechs, Super Sentai. Kamen Rider is SUPER popular with the fujo crowd now because they keep pushing bro ships in the show. There's hope for guys like you and me.

>> No.9459734

The fuck's up with moms? My grandma is like that too, but she's super bitchy and anorexic and repressed, so it doesn't surprise me from her.

>> No.9459753

My mom is the same way. When I showed her pics of me from my first meet she told me that all the "ugly fat girls" made me look bad. Then proceeded to go on a rant about how she doesn't understand why all these fat girls are wearing clothes too small for them and how the clothes make them look like ogres. All I could think is how well she'd fit in here on /cgl/

>> No.9459767
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What is this obsession cosplayers have with farting?

I've farted in the dealer room at every con I've ever been to, but I never thought to brag about it.

>> No.9459798

My mom is the complete opposite. We actually got into an argument about itas once because I asked her for advice about how to kindly turn down a girl in a laughably bad cosplay for our local lolita fashion show. She felt that having standards was bad and exclusionary and that everyone in the pictures I showed her was equally bootiful uwu even though some were brand models and some were girls with plastic rainbow wigs stuffed into handmade shower curtain monstrosities that hardly covered their ass.
>There's literally no difference if they're having fun!
I mean, being downright bitchy isn't a good thing but I feel like saying "everyone is equally beautiful regardless of looks" is harmful too, because nobody truly believes that and you're blowing smoke up the asses of people who will only end up feeling disappointed once reality hits. It's an unfair thing to do to someone, especially if it's something they could actually improve on if only they got criticism.

I guess if your moms are cgl then my mom is the tumblr hugbox incarnate. I have no idea how I ended up a seagull.

>> No.9459805

>managed to snag qt cosplayer boy without even needing to put in the effort of doing a fanservice cosplay to pander to him like I was planning
>can now safely introduce him to my cuter-than-me friend
>no longer last single friend

Desperation pays off sometimes

>> No.9459818

>be ugly af
>have my face sperg out and get red when in cosplay
>do exclusively cosplays of masked characters because of that
>over time, got gud enough to get attention from women
>their interest vanishes once they see my face

[obligatory |nobody cared who I was until I put on the mask|]

>> No.9459821

Thanks anon. Drink a couple of Great Lakes for me.
Yeah, I probably shouldn't drink beer at all with my migraines, but fuck me, I already gave up caffeine, I'm not giving up beer too. One day, I will have your steely will. Until then, I'm taping a picture of my dress to the fridge.

>> No.9459836
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>work at food place while in college
>have boss
>boss is a little bit of a cunt and everyone knows that
>still really like my job and all of the supervisors and bakers
>multiple stations at my job, can work all stations successfully and on my own if need be
>boss: "If you want to work over the summer then please give me the paperwork by X date"
>give paperwork to her three days before the date it was due
>"Oh I'm sorry I already made the schedule -it looks like we don't have room for you right now."

I work so fucking hard at my job, I don't have any absences, or tardies, and on my shifts I never stop moving. So now I don't know if I have a secured job for the summer. I applied for two other jobs, I'm waiting to hear back. I hate being a slave to capitalism.

>> No.9459845
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Do you ever sing as part of your cosplay?
Rate my performance.

>> No.9459860

>Deciding to finally tell my parents about me wanting to dress lolita
>Telling them on holidays so I won't have to worry about school
>Three recent taobao releases that I fall in love in
>They are all gone now

I don't even know if I will have the courage to tell them. I really don't want to wait another 2 years so I can buy clothes by myself. I already know that they won't like it. All I can do right now is mourn over my dream dresses.

>> No.9459876

You have to be 18+ to use this site

>> No.9459908
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>talking to Overtale cosplayer at con
>mfw I notice her erection

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>> No.9459927

If she's a cunty kind of person you probably needed to give her the document as soon as the very next day after she told you. Might be the kind of person who looks for "go getters" (read: ass kissers)

>> No.9459936

Why next day? Anon should have taken it out of their bag and handed it in immediately after she finished talking.

>> No.9459937

Mine thinks judging other girls for how they dress is exclusionary and mean (reminds her of being in high school), but still said "Oh, you look the best in that line-up because all the others are too fat/old and don't suit these kind of clothes!" when I show her meetup pics with a group of average lolitas. I was really surprised because she's normally very anti-bitching and will never comment on people's weight or appearance. Kind of weird since I'm not baby-faced or young-looking either...

>> No.9459941

>Work at a nice gift shop in a cozy strip mall
>Place sells crafting supplies as well as knick knacks and some toys
>Found a neat hat that's perfect to do Lillie from Pokemon Sun & Moon
>Sometimes buy threads to fix up old costumes
>Road in front of place is being redone in about 2 months and will be completely closed
>City estimates it will take 2.5 months to complete work. Was supposed to happen back in January but was postponed
>Boss/Owner is considering closing the doors at the end of next month
I mean I finish school at the end of this week, but i hate that the city just lets these places die

A coworker's bf works as a fry cook at the diner on the other end of our lot and there's word the owners of the other businesses might sue

>> No.9459950
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>Saving money for the one huge con me and my BF go to every year
>We go to small free cons too but this is the biggie
>Super close to having even more than I normally need, close to having enough money to blow on so much merch and have just us two stay at the con hotel
>Only one more month of working OT and purposefully poorfagging and I can say we safely have a good chunk and can stop throwing money into con savings and working myself to death
>BF cracks a tooth, has to go to dentist

I'm really glad we had the money to pay it in full, and I've been trying to get him to go to the dentist for months, but I'm a bit upset we're put so far back.

I'm actually sitting out here in the waiting room thinking about how much extra work I'm going to have to put in to catch back up. I still have 4 months but I was looking forward to pouring extra money into my main savings instead of the con savings for once. He goes to school and works part time so it's my extra income that normally goes into our fun things.

At least I already finished our cosplays?

Photo semi-related

>> No.9459955

Fucking savage

>> No.9459994
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>sewing jsk
>watching twitch stream as usually so half paying attention
>attaching skirt tiers so whatevs
>look at sewing machine
>look at stream
>look back at sewing machine
>catch the last glimpse of a tiny moth being sucked under the needle
>fucking sewed a moth to my dress

>> No.9460004
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I thought this was going to end with a needle through the finger, so it could have been worse

I guess he meant Overwatch or Undertale. I like how this is what confused you, not the girl with a hard dong.

>> No.9460013

>obese lolita literally SEETHING

have sex

>> No.9460053

What style? If gothic, you are doing pretty good.
If sweet, not so much.

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>aliexpress order from last week still hasn't shipped
>back order arda wigs from months ago still no sign of shipment
>con season coming up

>> No.9460093

DeadMoth style, apparently.

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>get period at con
>mfw a 3-year-old sailor scout slips and faceplants in it

>> No.9460157

Sure, if she knew what the requirements were going to be beforehand. Point is with an asshole boss you gotta play as close to the book as possible and not give them an opening to fuck you over.

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Damn, your mom has no chill.

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>go to gf's hotel room during con
>her roommates are changing costumes
>don't care if I come in
>mfw strange girls are willingly nips-out in front of me

>> No.9460369

Job interview tomorrow, and I'm so nervous I could literally shit.

The future of my burando depends on this.

>> No.9460383

I am just really sad that Angelic Pretty Misty Sky grey color way was a Tokyo exclusive.

>mtw I think what the secondhand sales will be like.

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Good luck anon! I hope you get the job!

>> No.9460431

Just ride with gulls, I did at the last minute last year and it was chill.

>> No.9460490

>decided to run across the street because it was raining
>already 10 minutes late to a meet up I had to pay upfront for
>slipped while turning to get onto the sidewalk
>skin both knees, wreck my otks, shoe scuffed, dress wet, hands and wristcuffs dirty
>text friend to grab my food and meet me at my car after the meet
>sits in car and cries until friend comes

I cried mainly out of pity for myself. I was really looking forward to the meet but I was FUBAR...at least I got my $40 worth of food

>> No.9460549
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Bought cute stuff from YahooJapan and
>weight 12,460g
>domestic shipping 3,600yen
>international shipping 7,800yen
>other fees 1088yen
Total 12,488yen = 107€ (111usd)

The items were like 10k yen total so even cheaper than the shipping itself and i'm buttmad since seamail is the cheapest shipping and i dont want to use it but i have to
Well EMS would have been like 200€ so i got no choice either way

>> No.9460566

FJ have gone to shit with their new fee structure

>> No.9460608

eat only potato for a week, no butter or oils or anything on the potato, just eat potato for a week. go from there

>> No.9460610

I know it's dumb but literally the only people that unfriend me on facebook are cosplayers I'm actually more interested in interacting with/seeing content from then my non-cosplayer friends. I guess I keep mine way too normie but still a bummer cause they were the only people who seemed to not be posting about their kids or engagements nonstop.

>> No.9460622

Congratulations, you're dating a woman.

>> No.9460627

>pays almost 300 dollars for a flight to see a con friend in their home city
>we have a history of con dating at cons and cuddling at cons
>finds out the day that I get to their city that they have an SO
>que me now laying in a cold room while they cuddle their SO and are warm

Ugh I'm so upset if I would've known I wouldn't have dropped 300 dollars and bought them a ton of gifts for putting up with me

>> No.9460633

This is not what i signed up for.
I thought having a gf means having a nice caring person that loves you and has sex with you

>> No.9460637


>> No.9460651

robots /out/

>> No.9460670

My classmate is the only cosplayer in my uni who does it on the regular so we do cosplay work and go to cons together. She's a nice person but she has a few attitudes I can't stand, starting from her habit of cosplaying characters without even knowing them/the series just for the sake of it and has recently been doing it with series she knows I enjoy just to "push" us to cosplay together. She watches one episode or two and the next minute she's buying a cosplay/wig/fabrics/wtv for any random character. This would honestly not bother me so much if she didn't then claims to "loooove the series so much". She's done it with my favorite series as well and it frustrates me quite a bit, I'm really passionate about it but can't even have a conversation with someone who claims to love it because she's not even 1/4 through the series.
I've tried to gently call her out on it multiple times but she always brushes it off or has other people commenting stuff like "because we all know we can't cosplay stuff we don't know, lol" in a sarcastic tone. I don't want to be rude since she's usually nice to me and I barely even have friends were I live.
Also, despite me being one salty bitch in general, she's the one who regularly judges special guests at cons and claims she does much better work but doesn't understand why they get invited/are popular and she isn't.

What would you do in this situation?

>> No.9460673

If she's a nice person and otherwise not toxic stop being austistic and appreciate her companionship. Everyone has their own reason to cosplay. If you start something, you're going to be the bad guy.

>> No.9460675

You're right, I was wrong. Women can and do love and care.

They love money and care about how much you make. As well as your social status, and any other things they can benefit from you with. And if you're lucky, you'll find a good woman who's really good at pretending to genuinely love you, and you won't ever lose your job or stuff and she won't abandon you for some other guy.

>> No.9460694

What is your favorite series?

>> No.9460711

You could try reaching out to other cosplayers of your favorite series at cons until you find someone who shares your passion level for the show. Then keep the friendship going online until the next con. No need to confront the classmate when she's not belittling you or gossiping behind your back. This sounds a little like a shoujo story where a brash oafish person tries to befriend the quiet mousey one through clumsy but well intentioned overtures. Well, apart from the bit where she thinks she's better than the guest judges but you haven't really said if she's good at making cosplay or not so maybe she could be justified in that?

>> No.9460722

Nayrt but did you miss the
>she's buying a cosplay/wig/fabrics/wtv
part? I doubt she makes anything.

>> No.9460742

What are fabrics used for then

>> No.9460745

You wanna fight bitch?

>> No.9460752
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Hey now, let's not break any nails over some rando who may or may not be buying their cosplay.

>> No.9460755
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>birthday coming soon
>already bought a dress for myself
>I want a meet with my lolita friends I haven't seen in ages
>Meet in a cute caffe, good food, chat about fun stuff
>I'm broke af
>Will probably end up laying in bed in new dress sipping tea all night long

>> No.9460758

why are you posting JAV idols?

>> No.9460777

Wtf, lol. I would have laughed.

>> No.9460798

lmao, lets post this on fb haha

>> No.9460800
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> Lost contact with childhood friend after high school
> 10 years later, hear she got kicked out of her parents' house
> Get directed to gofundme and discover her tumblr
> Find out she hasn't grown out of her teenage weeb phase
> She fights people because "Naruto will always belong with Sasuke" and "the last bit of the manga isn't real because he married Hinata"
> Her girlfriend is one of those "fictionkin witches" that cast emoji spells
> "I'm going to change my name to (insert mall goth name here) to spite my parents!"
> Selfie of her eating katsudon with #yurionice tag (with nothing yuri on ice related)
> Selfie of her downing those gigantic Pixy Sticks with a caption of how she's a bad diabetic
> Quietly donate $10 and try to stifle any urges to get back in contact with her

>> No.9460802
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Even assuming that this nonsense is real, WHY would you laugh at a baby falling face-first into pussy blood? What ails you?

>> No.9460803
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Because women are wicked

>> No.9460831
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I keep a lot of my facebook cut down to people I'm interested in expanding friendships with and some family.

I just removed somebody after calling him out for being an MLM diet shake shill spouting homeopathic garbage. The kind that shares how changing your diet will shrink brain tumors and cure chronic migraines.

>mfw he told me to go away and quit raining on his parade. So I defriended him.

>> No.9460837
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I'm like a serious stress-head anxiety-driven spaz so this may sound stupid but I don't care.
I just got some of the best advice from a friend, I haven't been this happy and stress free all year!

I'm feeling really good, gulls. I'm gonna wear my first Lolita coord tomorrow after building up my wardrobe for months. I'm so happy and I'm not giving myself any more excuses not to wear it. I deserve to be myself and enjoy being myself! I'm not gonna shy away from happiness anymore!

>> No.9460843

>finally got a cosplay gf a year ago
>we go to several mid level cons together
>have lots of fun
>things are going well
>last weekend decide to pay her a surprise visit at her dorm
>walk in on her blowing some jackass from college
I had no idea a heartbreak could hurt this much

>> No.9460859

I do appreciate her company but I'm allowed to find some attitudes uncalled for or stupid. I mean, I know everyone has their own reason to cosplay and I did say it wouldn't bother me much if she didn't go on about how much she loves the series when she barely knows a thing about it. I don't intend to start anything because I'm not a dick to friends, I was just open to advice on the situation. I'll most likely not say anything else to her about this, it's just a bit annoying to get into something and have her pretend she's super into it when barely knowing anything about it. It's not even a one-time thing, she does it repeatedly. Thank you for the input tho.

Just sports animu shit, anon

I do so, I try to befriend any fan of the series that I meet at cons, I just live far from all of them and can see them one or two times a year. You do have a point, she isn't talking crap about me (as far as I know) so I will most likely not confront her about it.
She's decent at cosplay? She's decent with sewing but pretty lacking in other areas. She's not a bad cosplayer but nowhere near "cosplay guest" level. It's just the attitude in itself that throws me off a bit.

She buys some and makes others. I gotta give her kudos for at least attempting to alter some of her bought stuff.

>> No.9460861

Forgot to mention that most of the series she jumps into without knowing are widely popular/flavour of the month stuff.

>> No.9460868
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>need money
>live in a huge city
>apply for internships that relate to my major
>have been doing this for 6 months
>no replies
>can't buy burando, can't buy cosplay, can't do anything

When will my suffering end?

>> No.9460870

What is your major?

Also if you research the best way to off yourself should you see a shrink?

>> No.9460877

I'm a business communications major.

If you're looking into how to off yourself you should probably seek therapy. I can relate as I've been in and out of therapy for years. Currently on anti-depressants but they seemed to have stopped working.

>> No.9460880

Anxious about the kawaii live blood bath later today. Also anxious about having enough time to get my badge and ticket that day. I just want to see my cinderella girls.

>> No.9460885

>business major

If you still cant get a job after a year or more, I'd go back and study anything medical related if I were you. Even coming out of a some literal who community college would land you a job easy since there's no shortage of jobs for it and it's fast money

>> No.9460888

But you won't find a woman like that <3

>> No.9460893

>business comm
If you didn't make connections while you were still in school you're fucked. Go with what the other anon said and go into the medical field, become an RN. It's hard work but you can get a degree in two years and get hired at hospitals with a starting rate close to 20 per hr.

>> No.9460895

Jesus anon it's your fault for always trying to date Stacey
Anywho if you're that jaded you're actually much better off lsucking penis

>> No.9460901

t. failed stacey

>> No.9460907

I have a dick but thanks anyway

>> No.9460913

Is that why you failed?

>> No.9460916

Yeah but you can still suck my cock anon

>> No.9460918

Still no gf

>> No.9460920

but would you settle for a gf (male)?

>> No.9460921

depends how feminine they were

>> No.9460938

Wouldn't that be a 'bf'?

>> No.9460946

Should have gone to the bathroom, rinsed off the dirt so it wouldn't stain, dried it a bit, waited for the rest to dry, explained it and laughed it off.

>> No.9460951
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hey hey you you i don't like ur bf

no way no way i think you need a new one

hey hey you you i can be ur bf

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no it's a gf (male)

>> No.9460960
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>be me
>be stressed out and talk to family member about life/romance/relationships/careers
>oh femanon you should be more open to dating an older man with money
>sex stops at 40 and you should get a man who takes care of you financially
>marrying for love isnt financially smart
>if you wanna attract a man with money you shouldnt wear lolita its childish and scares men off
>get a man who just wants to shower you with gifts just for your time
>i wish i would have followed this advice when i was your age
>give up on attaining things i dont think you can/should have
>stop liking evil things and dark colors
>everything not jesus/religious and bright white/pastel colors is evil
>do what i think is best
It all goes downhill from here.

When i first told her about lolita she was supportive. I show her brand she is supportive and loves the quality/feminine/modest vibe of lolita. Fuck if she wants me to change my wardrobe to attract men with money essentially (imo) being an escort or gold digger why did she support me buying expensive burando? Now because i like dark colors/black clothes im evil. Im not even an angsty teen im in my mid 20s and im just down on my luck right now because of a career change/recent break up and im into sweet and classic styles.

>> No.9460964

What's the difference?

>> No.9460970

nayrt but
>degree in biomedical sciences with focus on cancer therapeutics
>been applying for lab/research jobs for 6+ months
>either "you're not experienced enough" or "you're overqualified"
I worry that even if I went and got a nursing degree or whatever, the "overqualified" moniker will follow me to my grave. Maybe I should volunteer at a research laboratory? Is that a thing people do?
>tfw no money for burando

>> No.9460980

So this is the power of baby boomers
Its not like she can stop you from buying burando anon and I honestly disagree with everything she said. Sounds like she wants you to have the typical sad, unfulfilled adult life

>marrying for love isn't financially smart
anybody who has followed this advice have it so much worse emotionally and financially than the couples who marry out of genuine love for each other

>> No.9460984

>>marrying for love isnt financially smart
If you're a woman and you don't already believe this then I respect you as a person, because in my experience most women believe this by the time they're in their 20s.

Trying to date as man sometimes feels like you're applying for a job.

>> No.9460985

Why are you giving her the time of day? she sounds loopy.

>> No.9460995

This is sadly the case for so many people, medical field or not. This "overqualified" meme also exists because companies/hospitals outsource the "overqualified" workers from other countries because they're cheaper, so you have a little less opportunity than they do. This is especially true in the tech field

You may as well get the nursing degree or do the volunteering like you suggested. Better than reaching and breaking out of the "you're not experienced enough" category than staying stagnant

>> No.9461010

God yeah, I noticed during my internships that certain labs were full of Chinese people who worked like 80 hour weeks but only got paid for 36 because they're 'more ambitious' (=don't want to be sent back to China). Most of them spoke very little English and were all but impossible to communicate with. Easier to do constant overtime if you can't have a social life, I guess.

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Thank you.

I ended up being there almost two hours, so I guess they were interested? They passed me around between three different people.

I just gotta hope no one better shows up, and maybe send a thank-you email on Friday or Monday?

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Losing lots of family in the last 5 or so years is hard. I reconnected with her after a lot of family troubles. We lost her mom her dad (my grandma and grandpa) her brother (my uncle) and my mom stole almost everything after their deaths. We dont talk to my mom anymore for obvious reasons. So all i really have family wise is her and my dad and my step grandma whos going crazy from dementia or something and my dads taking care of her. My life feels like a copypasta. I may as well have super special animu powers and over 300 confirmed kills.

>> No.9461026

Go to /fit/ and read the sticky if you haven't already.

>> No.9461067

>knowing that you've farted in the dealer room at every con you've been to.

Seems like you've got quite the obsession, too

>> No.9461085

>internships for money
kek, no one makes money as an intern anon. Most people make pennies per hour or nothing at all (school credit)
you do internships to gain experience and MAYBE get hired at that place after graduation if you're interning during senior year. make connections, go to mixers, get job experience anywhere so you can start building your resume

>> No.9461091

Deal. East Coast best coast?

>> No.9461098

Why not suggest going to the park and having a picnic there? Also happy birthday, anon!

>> No.9461100

anon, calling yourself an alpha male ultimately negates that.

>> No.9461113

>tfw try to date a girl
>offer her money, dresses (both lolita and non), car, etc
>offer improving her social status
>offer to help with schooling and her family and etc
>offer to move her to a nicer place and find her a good job that pays much more than she makes now.
>I even say that she can stay with me without loving me and it'd just be me that loves her.

>she still says no

I don't get it. I filled out your entire list.
Why won't she be my gf.

>> No.9461119

I feel like I missed the golden age of weebery in London and sometimes it makes me feel really depressed. There used to be all these Japanese club nights, events, hangouts etc, now there's nothing. Feels p bad when you're trying to liven up the jfash scene.

>> No.9461121

Sounds fishy to me if she said no to all of that. Are you in an LDR?

>> No.9461126

>paying $2000 a month for a gf


>> No.9461143

Maybe she doesn't see you that way? You offered her stuff, but it doesn't make her entitled to be with you. Did she accept any of it? Maybe she didn't like the idea of you "buying" her.

>> No.9461151

You could literally shit gold and she would most likely say no, if she doesn't like you as a person.

>> No.9461155

You should be my gf.
I like lolita

>> No.9461156

Are you an ugly beta?

>> No.9461159

Ah, i see all these guys begging for a g/f and i think "wow, how creepy/pathetic/weird" and then i think, at least they are trying, i've pretty much written myself off being able to date anyone again. which is probably more pathetic.

>> No.9461164

Maybe she just didn't like you? Also I'd be pretty insulted if a guy blatantly insinuated I was a gold digger and tried to buy my love instead of just being kind and fun to spend time with. My bf currently can't afford to spend any real money on me but he's a sweet, fun guy so that's good enough. If some asshole offered to buy me away from him I'd tell that guy to gtfo.

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I feel that hard anon, I've classified myself as undateable-tier too.

>> No.9461177


She seems iffy about me at times (as in we have our disagreements on stuff) but doesn't seem to mind having me as a friend, at least. Enjoys talking to me and said that she finds me comforting at times.

This. She refused to accept any of it (even without strings attached) and said she didn't feel ready to be in a relationship (mentally).
Still heartbreaking. She's a lovely person and I need that sort in my life; too many others in my life are either sleazy or manipulative and I'm worried about it rubbing off on me.

>> No.9461187

Losing your visa and having to go back to live with your parents when you've already built a life here is sure some motivation. Not STEM, but I know a postgrad in this situation and she's shitting herself about graduation.

>> No.9461188

What if an attractive funny guy with a big dick and lots of cash tried to buy you away?

>> No.9461194

I don't get why guys don't understand this. If we don't like you, that's it. You can have a big dick and lots of money, but unless we're genuinely attracted to your personality it really doesn't matter. Unless you just want a gold digger, then you're gud2go

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>Thinking size of dick matters much to women

>> No.9461231

Big dick hurts.

>> No.9461290

t. Stacey

>> No.9461308

These guys are like autistic children who think that if they do X and Y then the woman HAS to do Z, because they don't understand that women are people with thoughts of their own. We're not vending machines, buddy. It doesn't matter how many coins you put in, nobody is obligated to love you in return.

>> No.9461314

I feel like the guys who brag about their dick size are the same guys who only do missionary under the covers with the lights off lmao

>> No.9461336

Stacey cant feel dicks dumbass

>> No.9461362

I'm pretty sure it's just robot trolling

>> No.9461381

How does that work?

>> No.9461396

Spending another evening mindlessly scrolling cgl because my job leaves me too tired to do anything, and even though I love it, it's also making me leave my academic dreams behind.

Instead of working on my PhD I'm planning coords for meets later in the year because it's the only thing I feel like doing in my 'free time'

>> No.9461456

A jackass? Looks like she's into some kinky stuff.

>> No.9461463

My one friend flaked out on our room because she jumped ship for a rando group staying at the con's hotel. That's okay, whatever, but not only is she still asking "can I leave my stuff in your room/hang out with you guys, I'll just be at my room," but she's also trying to get other people in my room to jump ship as well (tagging them in posts, telling other people if she can bring a friend and then asking people in the room chat if they want to join). I get it, staying at the con hotel is better, especially for this one, but why are you trying to put me in a shitty position in the process?

>> No.9461538

>be me
>be poor
>see a full alice and the pirates coord on LM for $450
>seller agrees to payment plan for $50 a week
>make last payment last Friday
>seller sent it in the mail on saturday
>it was meant to arrive today
>check status updates between my 2 jobs
>"undeliverable" due to incomplete address

Ive already called the post office but my first job gets out after all the people who could help have already gone home.
They told me to call in the morning. Which i will 1st thing at 6am to see if I can pick it up.
My second job is done at 10pm. Good bye sleep.
I already messaged the seller incase its already en route to be returned.
Im so freaked out right now.

>> No.9461544

I think they mean a Stacey is so lose it's like a hotdog down a tunnel.

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