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Anti-SJW military lolita gf edition

>> No.9709507

/pol/tards need to get off my board and stay go.

>> No.9709513

putting a chiffon bow on an office shirt doesn't make it any less ugly.

>> No.9709529

I like it!

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I just adore those caps.

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Military trousers mmmmmm

>> No.9709536

Maybe just make a military lolita thread instead of putting this in a feels thread?

>> No.9709539

Tfw I'm a totally SJW by most people here's definition I just love military shit

>> No.9709542

>tfw no bf

>> No.9709543

I didn't make those two posts

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This is a military lolita thread now

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>> No.9709692

I won't complain.

I haven't seen this girl for a while on COF, where's she?

>> No.9709833
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>tfw bf teases you for being an anti-SJW military lolita

>> No.9709908

>tfw fem-pen-pal

>> No.9709916

I'm tripping balls here, anyone else ever so tired that they a start seeing things that aren't there? I've had it after a convention as well, and I saw people crawling on the floor at the bus stop, but it wasn't real.

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>tfw no one to buy Christmas gifts for
a-at least that means more money I can spend on brand, huh

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I've never been so tired I hallucinated but I've had hypnopompic hallucinations before thanks to being an insomnic piece of shit
>woke up thinking there were cockroaches crawling through the crack in my wardrobe door, got up to get the bug spray then turned back to see the door was wide open (as I'd left it the night before), and there were no roaches. >Stood in the middle of the room questioning my sanity for at least 5min

>> No.9709948

I hope you can find friends to enjoy christmas with one day, anon! Don't give up.

>> No.9709949

Buy me Xmas gifts, anon

>> No.9709954
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>unbox ultimate dream dress today
>it's even more beautiful irl and I love everything about it

I'm still in shock that it's mine. It's such a good feeling, it takes away all the pain.

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>tfw I forgot about the preorder for this dress and regret it every day

>> No.9709956

Thank you anon, you're too sweet! I hope that you'll have a wonderful Christmas.

I really regret not participating in the /cgl/ Secret Santa, I would've loved to buy cute stuff for another gull!

>> No.9709960

What's the dress?

>> No.9709982

They had some in stock? I got one a month or two ago.

>> No.9709986

AP Romantic Rose Letter OP

>> No.9709995

I used to be mad into military style and fashions.
then my older brother joined the army and I saw that solders are just dumb kids fucking around in uniform and getting ripped off by the government and the regalness of the style wore off.

I still really like the dress with the army cat, just cuz cats doing anything makes for a good print.

>> No.9710001

Why are there two feels threads

>> No.9710008

>tfw the feels are too strong for one thread.

>> No.9710010

Who got it?

>> No.9710014

Who got what exactly?

>> No.9710017

I assume quads, and it was in the other feels thread

>> No.9710021

Not even on busy boards much less here go back to /r9k/ or /b/

>> No.9710344

Kek, I found someone in Lolita on Seeking Arrangement.

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>> No.9710347

Her whole coords are cheap taobao( and a replica) too.

>> No.9710352

Gross. I hope nobody gives her money, she’ll just spend it on more tacky Chinese knockoffs. Someone with taste would have saved up for the good stuff.

>> No.9710393

This one was kidnapped

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where can I get a dress like this?

>> No.9711787
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Dunno what anime that is but it looks exactly like Atelier Boz's new releases

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The anime is Girls und Panzer.

>> No.9711795

What were you looking for?

>> No.9711803

To satisfy my curiosity, but mostly a girl on my campus. Found another lolita in my city instead kek.

>> No.9711832

Good for you, anon!

Got a long-sleeved MM OP yesterday, without shirring and without back-lacing, nervous about trying it on (all my other MM dresses have back-laces), but it fit as if it was tailored for me. Starting to suspect MM uses a fitting model with my exact build; I just wish they had some more adventurous designs.

>> No.9711839

Too much same fagging. Sage for not contributing to the thread.

>> No.9712656

I'm the anti-SJW military lolita gf.

>> No.9712710

Prove it

>> No.9712792

No trigger discipline.

>> No.9712804

why are you on seeking arrangement?

>> No.9713003

How possible is it to collect the whole collection in both colour ways?
Or how possible is it to at least collect the girl version in one colour way?

>> No.9713007

Not that anon, but I'm pretty sure I'm the one who started this meme by posting in a previous feels thread about wearing D. Walkure to my super SJW uni. I wore it (without the hat), nothing happened.

>> No.9713031

>without the hat
The hat is the best part

>> No.9713037

The hat is sadly too big for me unless I wear a wig. I'm still looking for a solution.

>> No.9713041

You're also the one who sperged all over the place about having suuuuch a unique name, right? And then it turned out you're named after a fucking bean. You're like a feels thread mascot but I'm not sure if that's a good thing.

>> No.9713045

Meant for >>9713007

>> No.9713046

Kek, I'm glad you keep up with my life so much.

>> No.9713049

Leave my waifu alone please

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>tfw you wore a military coord (including hat) to uni and got in trouble for it

>> No.9713061

What happened?

>> No.9713074

My uni is quite liberal and I guess some of the people I had a lecture with were 'uncomfortable' (I wasn't wearing D.Walkure or anything nazi-uniform looking btw).
I had to talk to someone working at my uni and tried explaining to them that it was merely a fashion thing and that I wasn't trying to make any political statement, but I still ended up receiving a formal warning letter for 'offending' other students.

>> No.9713078

Fucking disgusting. People really have nothing better to do with their time than be offended over shit as innocuous as that?

>> No.9713082

Yeah, I'm still kind of upset thinking about it now, especially since I'm a huge fan of military lolita.
I'm from Germany so I suppose people are just quick to judge that kind of thing here. Oh well.

>> No.9713084
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Does anyone else on here struggle with being busty?

I'm about 95 cm in bust, and I feel like whenever I try to wear J-fash it looks so bad

In the last two years I've gained some weigh (not a lot, I'm still about average I would say)t, but even when I was almost underweight, there wasn't really that much of a difference

I want to work out and eat healthy and stuff, because I don't like how my tummy looks, but the fact that I'll still be incredibly unhappy with my body because of my boobs just kills any determination I have

>> No.9713272

I've a 95cm bust too and depending on the style you're going for I can't say that they're that bad. Like eg Lolita, so far I could easily fit all the burando that I like. Also for gyaru, boobies can be pretty cool.

>> No.9713301

I'm tall and have small boobs, but I also have a large bone structure (inb4 fatty, I'm actually middle of healthy weight for my height) and my bust is 94cm. I have quite a few brand pieces that fit and look fine on me. I don't feel as cute in j-fashion usually as tiny girls that I see online, but really, what can I do about it? I'm tall and it's just my lot in life and I've come to terms that I'll never be tiny and cute, but I can be tall and cute if I dress well and wear things that fit and take care of myself.

Just wear things you like and think are cute, and don't compare yourself to tiny girls with no bust, or you'll just feel bad about yourself always and that's never good.

>> No.9713370

Man i'm the same situation as you. It sometimes pisses me off thinking than fatter but smaller people than me can fit piece i probably couldn't breathe properly in them.

Thank god we can nicely fit every shirred piece at least!

>all the sensible points you can offer can't do anything against people feeling offended
I feel you, anon

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>go to the gf store in my new coord
>make my way to the lesbian section
>my hoop skirt knocks over a clearance bin full of fatty-chans
>mfw security subjects me to a full butthole inspection and bans me for a month

>> No.9714874

>forced into butt-hole inspection
>not defiantly pooping
Shiggy diggy.

>> No.9717774

>go to cafe with bf wearing lolita
>catch sometime staring at me
>its another lolita
>go to smile at her on my way back from the counter
>she looks at me like i'm a piece of garbage ita mess
>quickly look away

i don't really understand, any time i've seen a lolita in the wild its been a welcome sight. i would think the same for anyone else who's in the fashion. i obviously know you dont automatically become ~~bestest frilly friends forever~~ just beause we're wearing the same fashion.

has anyone else had this happen to them?

>> No.9717776

I'm unbelievably jealous because all my dream dresses are from mm, but good for you anon!

>> No.9722929

Any ideas on what to get an online significant other? Can't be something physical. Already got her something nice in a game we both play, and aside from lewd pictures, I can't really think of anything else. I'm going to try to find some steam games or something but her PC is pretty old.

>> No.9722930

I dunno, I like drawing my ldr boyfriend pictures and stuff. I realize it's not anything monetary, but he likes them, so that's what I do. You could record a special video or recording of you talking about how much they mean to you, etc.

>> No.9722931

Newegg store credit so she can buy herself a new computer.

>> No.9722933

I was going to write a letter to that effect as well as call her. Thank you though, glad to know that wasn't just something I thought of.

I have offered to do that but she keeps saying no for some reason. Thanks though.

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>be me
>going to tea with friend
>gonna wear dream dress set
>wake up with migraine
>quickly get packed
>pack everything
>remember every small accessory
>get to friends house an hour away
>I forgot the petticoat

I may just wear it anwyay and hope there's no lolitas at the christmas tea.
Or I may pin up my friends' white broom stick skirt as as a makeshift petticoat

>> No.9723651

Im a huge fan of this girls military coord i enjoy the blouse and bow

>> No.9723657

This. So. Much. I wish gulls would just try to understand that you are more than just into the fashion but realize that that is what can bring you guys together. So many times i see lolitas not in my comm and they just dont wish to become friends and have their noses in the air.

>> No.9723661

All of you guys particularly this thread seem really nice gulls, anyone want to become pals? Pen pals would be cool too. I love military lolita but my closet is mostly sweet bc ive not built up the military side too much yet. If not totally cool, but jw.

>> No.9723666

Time to get those plastic bags out

>> No.9723671

I've pinned up the skirt. It's not the poofiest option, but it does give it enough and it's far much better than nothing. Luckily the skirt already had two layers.
I'm excited for the tea, despite being the only one in the group in lolita.

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>I want that jacket/dress hnnggg
You are not alone anon, I love military lolita designs too

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>tfw no qt redpilled military lolita gf
I dont even care about looks that much, i just want to dress up and save the West

>> No.9723749

sign up for /cgl/ ss next year. i've actually made some good friends from it and it's always pretty fun for me.

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>try to go on a diet
>low carb, high protein
>end up eating pizza and/or potatoes 3 times a week
>"Anon, why aren't you eating?"
>"Anon, are you sick? Take a few more slices of pizza"
>"Aunt Natalie made this pasta, you'll offend her if you don't have some"
These are the same people who comment that I've been gaining weight. No way to win this game

>> No.9723780

best way to save the west is to kill off the white race unless you just want your descendants to suffer

stop breeding, abandon ship, problem solved

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>excited after joining my first comm
>everyone seems very nice
>notice however that people seem overly clingy to the point that i'm getting gay vibes from it
Is this normal? Should i look for a different comm?

>> No.9723883

Kill yourself

>> No.9723945
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Its completely normal.

>> No.9723947

>gay vibes being a bad thing in lolita

>> No.9723960
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I got up to use the bathroom at Momocon and when I got back a Chloe Price was eating my waffle fries.

>> No.9724000

Tbh i dont want some creepy woman making unwanted advances on me anymore than Id want them from a man.
Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you're free from being a sexual harasser.
Sage for politics

>> No.9724035

Wow. Your life is strange.

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This tbqh with you fampai. For some reason other women think they can be all touchy feely with you just because you're both women.

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>Haven't embroidered in years
>Get inspiration
>Go through my emroidery threads
>Have several bulks of some of the colours
>Have no Idea what I bought them for

Any suggestions why I have needed dark green, yellow and orange threads for?

>> No.9724402 [DELETED] 

You smelly shitskins are so bitter I like it. Stay that way

>> No.9724406
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The only bitter one here is you honey ~

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Sorry you'll never be white and beautiful sweetie ~

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Glad I could make you reply bitter chan~

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Which also means you're just as triggered you fucking idiot lmfao

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I wish all these fugly bait chans and roleplayers would leave
and crawl back into the dumpster that they came from

>> No.9724423

this feels thread is the shitted up one. Petition to make this a containment? Or just ban all the stupid bait takers and crossboarders.

>> No.9724428

This is the most pathetic thing but here we go. I crave and chase efame because I have no friends. I want to be adored and cared about but more than any fame I'd love a little group of friends to do stuff with. I'm at 10k followers on insta but it doesn't mean shit when I wake up on my days off with nowhere to go and nobody to talk to. I see pics of others doing stuff with friends, throwing parties, going for lunch, to the cinema, to parks and zoos and even on holidays, and I literally just sob into my insta feed. I have nobody. I have a handful of friends who have other friends they do stuff with all the time.
I'm crying as I write this, this is so pathetic.

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>someone does a vendetta post
>thread continues 400+ replies later due to jealousy cockfighting
>some dumbass falls for bait
>suddenly can't handle the bantz
geez you dumb fatties

I personally do not like company but people try to talk to me/invite me out/befriend me anyway because they enjoy having conversations with me, even if I ghost them. Sounds like you've got a personality issue

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>complains about shitting up the thread while also shitting up the thread

Feels threads are doomed to this

>> No.9724441

>wow look at me, people just want to talk to me because i'm such an awesome person
suuuuure thing

>> No.9724446

Why are you still so upset

>> No.9724466
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oh hi I'm the one you originally replied to

I'm so white I'm translucent, so nice try. sorry you lack the foresight necessary to not induce endless suffering upon your descendants.

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Thank you anon>>9724466
you're a hero

>> No.9724473
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Are the youths already on holiday break or something? There's so much garbage in all of the threads.

>> No.9724475

Anon this was really fun but now you're really just pathetic that you'd go as far as to timestamping your own wrist. because you're so triggered You could be asian for all I know so post face too and maybe your self harm scars as well, sweetie

>> No.9724482
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Sorry you got served

>> No.9724483

Dunno what you mean anon, it's just a wrist

>> No.9724496

>I'm so white I'm translucent, so nice try. sorry you lack the foresight necessary to not induce endless suffering upon your descendants
>so I allow myself to get blacked everyday it's the best way to atone for my ancestor's sins
I'm sorry you're so far down this rabbit hole. I hope you're taking your anti-depressants and mental illness medication, fake whitey-chan

>> No.9724506

my ancestors haven't sinned, they just never ended up in a trailer park environment like your's did, so they weren't deluded with the false assumption that they could outbreed the blacks while still retaining any semblance of what made whites great in the first place

unless your idea of saving the west is to turn it into one giant trailer park

>> No.9724512

Don't bother answering them anon
They just can't accept that they lost

>> No.9724514

I bet you live in the UK. I'm happy that you enjoy getting blacked by tyrone but since it's specifically due to political reasons that's just sad

>> No.9724522

wrong on both accounts but keep coming up with random stuff if it makes you feel better about an intelligent (162 IQ), cute, skinny, pureblooded German white girl not breeding to "save the west"

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Ahaha, fucking typical euro. Sorry you're in such denial you don't even know what you're talking about anymore, race traitor-chan. Never change /cgl/

>> No.9724531

I didn't think it was possible to be THIS mad about some stupid shit on a Chinese image board

>> No.9724538

Whoa, what's wrong with your dick? NSFW that regardless.

>> No.9724545

I thought I was safe from being called a race traitor but that's what I get for marrying a dirty Nordic man

>> No.9724549
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Is there a more easily baited sub on the internet than cgl?

>> No.9724554

A small triumph

>go to a friend's meetup in a different comm
>Everyone is nice except 2 girls, who are whispering and staring
>I try to start a conversation with them but it's going nowhere, give up and enjoy the rest of the meet.
>after the meet my friend tells me

It turns out they were shy because they were gay for me

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>> No.9724791

every military coord this girl does gives me very gay feelings.

>> No.9724794

Harry Potter? Sage

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>> No.9724842

Wow, Mr. Yan is really out for blood tonight isn't he

>> No.9724855
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Eternally underrated

>> No.9726200

what is, if they are actually pro-SJW?

>> No.9726206

>gf store
>lesbian section
as a male, may I ask what that's supposed to be?

>> No.9726224

She's literally whiter than you, and still somehow isn't a racist low-IQ "we wuz vikangz an shiet" /pol/ster. Stay mad.

>> No.9726334

Maybe you bought a ton of colors in bulk and they were leftovers?

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>want to make local lolita friends
>act like a sperg every single damn time I attend a meet

why am I like this

>> No.9726398

Katya Zamolochikova-kei

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>> No.9726866
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It's where you buy a gf if you can't capture one in the wild.

>> No.9731327

people are nicer and more understanding than you think. they probably understand being new.

>> No.9731359

ok, and where can I find one?

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>tfw no cosplay GF
Even better if she has a sugar daddy and can buy me gifts.


>> No.9732926

>Wanting to be cucked.

>> No.9732931

I've seen that a couple times lately, what does it mean?

>> No.9732960

It's from someone, somewhere misspelling "poetry" as "pottery", whilst using the phrase "It's pure poetry".

It's generally used when an action lines up with a stereotype, as it was in this case:
>Living in Melbourne.
>Desiring cuckdom.
>Browsing tumblr.

IIRC it's from before autocorrect or even mobile shitposting was even a thing that people did.

>> No.9732975

>have a bf of four years
>he passed the bar a few months ago
>really happy for him
>he breaks up with me
>says our priorities in life just aren't aligned because I never grew out of playing dress up
>feel like I'm getting too old for this hobby anyway and if he talked to me about it, it might have been the right push to finally quit
>he doesn't give me any warnings or anything. just says he can't be with someone like me anymore

>> No.9732977

That's harsh. Chances are that there was more behind it, though, because if cosplay (?) was really the only problem then he would have talked to you about it earlier. You don't dump someone you've been with for four years just because of one harmless hobby.

>> No.9732984

>bf wakes me up
>asks me if I always had a mole on my back
>snaps a picture on his phone
>holy shit it's huge
>he tells me I should get it check out because it might be skin cancer
>freak the fuck out and schedule an appointment right away
>show my doctor my back
>he just looks at me confused and says there's nothing there
>tell my bf what happened
>he starts laughing his ass off and tells me he can't believe I actually got myself checked out
>apparently the mole was a wad of his boogers he stuck to my back
>he thought I'd eventually figure out that moles don't look anything like a wad of boogers

>> No.9732991

Moving to another city next year, but my current comm has me SO spoiled with niceness and wonderfully themed meets...My future city's comm is so trash that they ended up making a con stop having Jfashion events...and have this weird man-lita..ughhh.

>> No.9733004

Haha, cancer scares! Hilarious!
>dump his ass

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>> No.9733479

on christmas? damn

>> No.9735852
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>tfw femme lesbian and no femme lolita gf
It feels bad y’all

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Gratuating school in 3 months
realise that i have no friends, and no idea what to do next in life.
Have grades and money for uni, but no motivation, all i do i sleep and workout.
And im to autistic to go to a con by myself

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>> No.9737659
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Just do it and have fun.

I'm anxious and a bit socially awkward with basically one really good friend I only see in person 1-2 times a year. This year I got over it and went on a trip by myself to two big theme parks and had a blast and I've done conventions by myself in the past as well.

You may think it'll all go wrong but once you get there and have fun, you'll be alright. If you're worried about interacting with people at a convention, either get a costume or get a camera. All you have to do is exchange a few words with people for photos and you'll be on your way with a small but positive interaction to boost your confidence.

>> No.9737676

Nah he definetly wants to fuck other people. Hes officially a lawyer now, do you know how much pull that has on tinder?

Source: About to do the same thing to my gf because Ive lost a ton of weight and want to enjoy all the newfound female attention. But Im at least waiting a couple weeks into Jan. But definetly before the Valentines delusions kick in.

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>Ive lost a ton of weight and want to enjoy all the newfound female attention

We'll let you believe it works that way, mate.

>> No.9737761

A costume is a must for me if ill go to a convention. But it feels the same as going to the cinema by yourself

>> No.9737766

Think of it this way, it's more enjoyable to go by yourself so you can decide what you want to do and when you want to do it. Usually when you go with friends you end up having to decide what to miss in order to go see something you can all agree on because no one understands the meaning of "We'll split up and meet up later".

>> No.9738374

Is this bait? Are you double-baiting?

>> No.9738375

It means you should lurk more or go back to R*ddit.

>> No.9739128

>tfw my thong diaper was stolen at a meet

>> No.9739138


Those wrists look so snapable.

>> No.9740234
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>Lost weight
>able to wear smaller clothes
>able to buy brand that fits
>feeling more confident in cosplay
>then a family member decides to go through an old photo album.
>has pictures of me at cons and my wedding when I was 200+ lbs
>remember how much I hated my wedding photos and hated looking at them
>looks like a different person in all the photos
>look like a fat cross-dresser in old con pics
>depressed realizing I was a fat bride and can never have that day back or get nice photos to remember those days

I would give literally anything to turn back time and relive those days at a healthy weight. Especially my wedding. It makes me sick to my stomach just thinking about it. All I can do is remember I'm not that fat girl anymore, and remember this feeling to keep me from ever being her again.

>> No.9740345

I know how you feel.
I only got /fit/ after I got married.

Dropped 30kg in total from 110 to 80.
Can deadlift 220kg now.

>> No.9740378
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>Kind of want to buy body pillow of husbando
>At the same time, not a big enough weeb to not be self-conscious about unironically owning an anime body pillow
>Especially because he's kind of an odd husbando and not your typical cute anime boy

>> No.9740417
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name this odd husbando?

>> No.9740425

I went bowling in lolita tonight
Had 4 ladies and 1 man compliment my dress.
First girl was 14 or 15 ish.
Said she was saving up to buy her first coord.
One mom said she loved it so much that it was so lady like and had a dozen respectful questions.
I'm on cloud nine.
My local comm is flatline dead, maybe I should be an everyday lonelita.
Maybe I should make my own meets, not sure, but the rando normie love make me adore my city so much.
I'm floating as I walk seriously!

>> No.9740427

"Renew" your vows, take new photos that you love. My shrink would say it's healthy. Seriously. Do it. Have memories you can look back on and love yourself as you should.

>> No.9740429

at least you lost weight

>I only got /fit/ after I got married.
isn't it usually the other way round?

>name this odd husbando?
yes, please!

aren't lolita clothes uncomfortable for bowling tough?
just asking

>> No.9740432

Usually, yes.

But I realised I owed it to my wife to be healthy, or at least somewhat attractive.

>> No.9740434

ok, you are a dude, I thought you are a woman (except you are a lesbian couple)

>> No.9740437

Not really. My game was a bit off till I learned to compensate for my petticoat but the air conditioner was strong enough that I was pretty set.

I did wear a Bodyline dress and plain fleece lined solid tights, I wouldn't subject my brando to such treatment. Well maybe a dress or blouse but I'd wear Plano tights or switch to normie socks to keep the bowling shoes from ruining my ap socks.

>> No.9740438


The weights should have clued you in.

Though it is my secret dream to be a femme lesbian with a femme waifu.
But I'm smart enough to play the cards I've got.

>> No.9740449
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Alphonse Elric from FMA. He is technically a cute anime boy, he just spends 95% of the series as a soul bound to a 7 foot tall set of armor. (yes the body pillow is of his armorself)

Sorry if my answer is a little anticlimactic!

>> No.9740470

this is a pretty normie husbando anon

>> No.9740472 [DELETED] 

isn't he like 14

>> No.9740513

As if age seriously matters in Anime anon.

>> No.9740769

Is there an uncropped version of this?

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Very in character for Worst Girl.

>> No.9741045
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>I've gained some weight

>but the fact that I'll still be incredibly unhappy with my body because of my boobs just kills any determination I have
I mean, I let myself go pretty badly years ago. Got into some major, major digestive problems. We're talking liquid shits, literal butthurt, gallbladder attack, surgery, abrupt weight loss after the surgery (so much weight loss that the surgeon was visibly worried), a careful diet that I still have to stick with to this day even though the surgery was a year ago...

You don't want to deal with any of that shit, right? Then you should probably keep yourself fit. At the very least don't drink sodas or sugary drinks, just stick to water for your thirst.

>> No.9741485

Remember when Universities used to be about freedom and college students were proud to have offended some pearl-clutching bluenose?

>> No.9745059

People really need to stop wearing military outfits when they're not affiliated with the military.

>> No.9745334

Are all the lesbian lolitas lonelitas as well?

>> No.9745398

Thought this was Katya from RPDR

>> No.9746015

boy just wait until you hear about re-enactors

>> No.9746146
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How do you guys feel about attending cons without a cosplay

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>> No.9746348

>See evidence that husband is cheating on me
>Wtf we literally just got married

A-at least I'll always have my cute dresses. This is going to be a nightmare

>> No.9746364

were there signs before the marriage anon? anything that you were in denial about?

>> No.9746373

Fuck. My heart goes out to you. Gather evidence. Take everything. Burn hin to the ground. Salt the earth after.

>> No.9746388

No, I trusted him so much. He seemed like such a kind and moral person.

There's no point really. Pretty much every state is no fault and we haven't purchased any assets together. Everything we had is still pretty much separate just moved in together. I just don't know how to bring up that I know. I guess I'll have to just ask point blank eventually. Thought about asking "if" since there's always the possibility what I saw wasn't as bad as it looked (very flirty text messages and photos- not nudes i think but I didn't really look)

>> No.9746393
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>be thin skinned as fuck
>go to convention
>one person acts like a dick to you
>it wasn't a misunderstanding or reading too much into things. they were 100% being a dick to you.
>feel bad for the rest of the day

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I'm so sorry, anon. Honestly even if it wasn't 'as bad' - Just flirting and non-nude photos - That's how 'as bad' always starts. There's no excuse to be doing that at any stage of a relationship, let alone immediately after getting married.

Personally, I'd go back and double-check. Have a good, proper snoop to know exactly what is happening so that he can't lie to you, then sit him down and talk to him about it. There's every chance the situation could be fixed before it degrades.

(Snooping is a pretty shitty thing to do to a partner who hasn't given you any reason to; But in this case he obviously has. I SERIOUSLY don't recommend bringing it up before you know the real truth, because you won't be able to know if he's just lying. I learned that lesson the hard way with my ex.)

>> No.9746438

God this sceonday feels thread has been alive for ages. Why won't it die already?

>> No.9747302

To spite you

>> No.9749639

delet this

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>> No.9750345

Delet yourself

>> No.9750384

It happens anon. I’m really pleasant and agreeable when talking to people I don’t know well (like at cons), and yet I’ve experienced people being rude just for the sake of it. Just try to think about all the nice interactions you had that day, and realize that the ass was an anomaly.

>> No.9750444

Man I just really love lolita

>> No.9750485

This is why the thread hadn't died. "Man I just really love lolita" anon hadn't blessed it yet.

>> No.9750568

Anyone wanna shit post this thread into oblivion?

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>> No.9756151
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>see anarchy stocking cosplayer
>give her a hug
>mfw she farts

>> No.9756182
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to get you to stop hugging her u creep

>> No.9756748

It's fine, not everyone has to cosplay

>> No.9756760

I'd rather people just go without a cosplay if your only other option is to slap some shit together you already owned and calling it a "cosplay" but every time I've gone not in cosplay it just feels weird so I understand why people do it.

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>not hugging a cutie just because she did a tootie

>> No.9757136

Survived the snowstorm. Time to buy more burando.

>> No.9757138

>Usually not working bcuz 'muh anxiety' so always being a burden on ppl and complaining about money
>Get a decentish paying job with a ridiculous amount of overtime (at least, for me)
>hella cash for cosplay and video games or whatever and... no time to enjoy activities

Uhhh. Shit, dude. I understand that most ppl with this problem just buy costumes from taobao or w/e but in my experience, even though I'm not an expert seamstress or whatever, the stuff I make usually looks better and feels better than the stuff i buy. I get like two hours to myself a day and sometimes I even have to work weekends on top of a 40 hour week. How are there so many cosplayers that manage this shit?

>> No.9757166

Got a dream dress but I was optimistic about the bust measurements. I'm thinking about getting it turned into a skirt professionally since the waist measurements fit fine. It's a simple square-necked jsk so it shouldn't be a complicated alteration. Not sure if this is a good idea or if I should just layer it with a button-ed up cardi or sweater on top for casual looks instead.

Also, my friends who weren't into the fashion before decided to give lolita a try. We ordered dresses together and I've been helping everyone with their coords and they want to go to afternoon tea together. I'm so stoked.

>> No.9757199

>40 Hour work week.
Boo hoo.

>> No.9757203
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I recently had a friend tell me that she'd like some lolita pieces to incorporate into her casual wardrobe. She knows a lot about the fashion, has a decent sense of aesthetics, and isn't planning to call it lolita or join a comm; she just wants a couple of pieces for her own wear.

The problem is, she's both tall and fat. She's 5'10, and her measurements are 39 bust, 38 waist. She knows it'll be hard for her to find brand that would fit, but she's listened to me whining too many times and wants burando, not custom fit taobao. We've been looking at Maxicimam, but she thinks most of their stuff is too tacky and old-school.

I'm guessing most classic brands are out of her reach, but I've seen major fattie-chans fit back-shirred AP and Meta before. Could my friend fit those? Or is she stuck with Maxicimam and full shirring?

>> No.9757211

Also I'm really not sure how to feel about her wanting some lolita pieces but not wanting to try an actual lolita coord. Part of me feels weirdly possessive like "Hey, those are our clothes!" I know she will treasure the pieces she buys, but she's not a lolita. On the other hand, I also feel weird about it because even though she's a good friend and generally dresses well for her size... She's really big and not very cute. She might never look right in lolita clothing.

>> No.9757307
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Realtalk, would you be disgusted seeing someone’s selfharm scars in cosplay?
I’m deeply ill, and I have scars because of it. I’ve hid my scars for a long while but there’s cosplays I want to do that would show them. I know I shouldn’t care about opinions and yes I know down the road for results attentionwhore blah blah blah, still.
I’d spoiler these but I guess they don’t exist here, haven’t posted in forever.

>> No.9757313
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If getting comments like 'gosh are you ok?' bothers you, you could try doing a cute kigu cosplay.
If you're comfortable handling people making it their business, do what you want to do anon

>> No.9757317

You'll get small looks of concern from a couple strangers.

>> No.9757318

Apology for late reply.
It was a joke. Merry belated Christmas.

>> No.9757331

Just like tattoos, I'd expect any scars, self harm or accidental to be covered by makeup. I wouldn't be disgusted, but it would certainly lower how much I liked the cosplay.

>> No.9757339

What kind of packages do taobao come in? Ordering questionable clothes and I live with people.
>tfw just wanna dress cute for cheap by my lonesome but I'm a guy

>> No.9757347

everyone's got their shit anon, and you'll find while some people may look very few will actually say anything. your comfort and concern matters far more than what anyone else thinks, just do what makes you feel good.

>> No.9757390

My life has been nothing but shame and dread for the past few years as my 20s near their end. Cosplay is the only thing that keeps me sane.

>> No.9757404


Plain brown box. Degenerate.

>> No.9757430

I cover what I can up with make up or thicker dance skin colored leggings/stockings. Generally nobody seems to notice them, and when they do, the most non-tactful thing I've experienced is people just staring at them which is fine by me!

I also have a sensitive skin issue where I bruise and scar easily and post-scab areas leave a unsightly purple mark for weeks until it fades. I've come to really use Morphe, Walmart's Gen X, and BH Cosmetics color concealers before foundation for that too.

For places I know have scarring but are unreachable or not great because of how much it can rub against my cosplays/stain them like collarbone and mid back I just don't give a fuck. So have fun anon!

>> No.9757431
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>have con crush for the longest time
>message him from time to time and he always replies
>never really get messages from him unless i send them first
>yet lowkey plan stuff together in the future even though we live in different cities, he seems very excited about it all as well

I feel like he might just see me as a friend, but last time I saw him he was standing really close to me while we spoke and held me by the waist when we took a photo together. Aren't straight dudes supposed to be super flirty and shit? Idk what I'm doing wrong or if he's actually even interested. I don't want to flirt with him much because I feel like it might be off putting? I'm never the one to take the first step so this situation is a bit difficult for me

>> No.9757434

>about to get into cosplaying after a three year break
>initially just felt too poor and busy for the scene and a lot of my friends stopped cosplaying once we started college
>now fresh grad with new job and spare time and seeing old pics of me in high school looking dopey as hell is kind of nice
>feel intimidated by the new scene of people caring too fucking much about the scene

I just want to have a good time, but seriously what's with all the new Pateron cosplayers and instagram fights or whatever? Makes me wonder if the con days from like 3 years ago are over and I should just leave cosplay as I have. I'm super bummed because I work at a design makerspace now and feel like I can really commit to making some great builds and got a minor in costume design because I enjoy sewing a lot, but maybe I should try the LARP or RenFaire scene?

>> No.9757435

I think you guys aren't that close. I would try to be more conversational even post con and out side of con. It's not too pushy to want to be closer friends. I think that would be a good point to confess.

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Are you putting off the right signals for them to pick up on? Also, if that's how you want to take things, 99% likely they've already personally decided if they would get with you or not. Waiting at this point isn't going to change anything, so you may just be wasting your time not trying to move things forward yourself.

>> No.9757439

say scene again

>> No.9757462

What kind of pieces is she planning on getting and with what is she planning to coord them?
Unless your friend is really, really fashionable I don't think it'll turn out looking good. Not even because of her size, but because 99% the time when newbies or non-lolitas incorporate lolita into their daily outfits it either just looks really out of place or evokes the feeling of "I didn't have enough money to afford more lolita clothing so my shitty office blouse will have to do uwu".

Yes, technically she would be able to fit into some shirred AP and Meta, just check lolibrary or ask about specific pieces. Remember though that just because she'll fit into it doesn't mean it will actually 'fit' her.
And yes, non-taobao classic is pretty much all out of reach.

I honestly think Maxicimam would be ideal for her, they have some plainer pieces, it's on the cheaper side and a lot of it has a more casual/relaxed feel.
I mean it would probably be easier to combine with normie stuff than some fancy AP or Meta JSK.

I do think her measurements are quite big for lolita clothing, simply because at a certain size it just starts to lose its silhouette. I guess if she doesn't want to wear it in an actual lolita way that's less of a problem..?
But at that point she might as well just get other vintage inspired fashion that's actually made for her body type.

>> No.9757512

Definitely have vow renewal or something - you can mark an anniversary with it or something, too :)

>> No.9757514

Doing the same thing to a dress I bought, but in my case because the bodice was too short for my torso. Definitely get it done professionally, though.

>> No.9758268

Actually, 60 with all the overtime we've been getting :') It should settle down soon. I guess? I just don't get how people aren't totally exhausted when they come home

>> No.9758331
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I skipped a cosplay ice-skating event tonight because I was so tired, and then I burned a hole in my pajamas. Sucky night.

>> No.9760915
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Why the fuck are girls always cosplaying traps. My community has a few well passing traps and it pisses me off when I see that the females get more attention than the males do. What the actual fuck. Can females fuck right off and leave those characters to us males?

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>> No.9761259

>tfw no small asian bf to dress up as a frilly friend

>> No.9761546

>be married
>be child free
>start getting sick every morning for a week
>find out I’m pregnant
>talk to husband
>we agree that I should get an abortion
>go to abortion clinic
>get scared
>drive back home
>husband is at home
>”hi honey, I bought your DD today”
>start crying
>admit that I didn’t get an abortion
>husband consoles me as I lay on the floor crying
>husband is ok for not getting an abortion
>says I could sell my dream dress
>I keep it anyways
>have child
>lose weight
>dream dress fits

This child thing is not bad at all. It’s more responsibilities, but I can mold our child the way I want to. Though I’m going to ruin his life by showing his friends baby pictures of him with Sanrio toys.

>> No.9761548

Just stuff your pants.

>> No.9761640

>sugar daddy stopped paying attention to me
>try to up the ante by finally giving him nudes
>he ghosts me
>has a new Lolita sugarbabby
>haven't had a new dress in months

It hurts. I was getting full coords every other week.

>> No.9761758


Teach me your ways. Just without the ghosting part..

>> No.9761770



Yeah that's true even though I'm childfree I always thought that if for some reason I decided to keep the child it wouldn't be the end of the world. I could raise them to not be an asshole when they are 3 and to be a decent human by the time they are 10.

I would just hate how poor it would make me all the time.

I like the breathing room of not having a kid. We cut it close enough as it is with our income.

>> No.9761801

I self harmed for over four years and once in a while I relapse. It is such a powerful addiction. I hope you will feel better soon. I would not be disgusted, but I would be concerned and I would worry about you. I took a public train recently, and the girl sitting next to me was SO nice and was also covered in self-harm scars. I personally find those people to be very brave, they are making themselves vulnerable... I truly think that the people who will find them disgusting are not very nice people, and you shouldn't give them the light of day.

If they're just scars, you can put makeup on them, something full coverage, or wear tights over the spot. If you currently self harm, try to resist for two weeks before the con, so the cuts heal enough so you can put makeup on them.

>> No.9762025

>tfw no conslut fwb

>> No.9762349

I can understand that having a child is expensive. My husband and I both have advanced degrees with good paying jobs so we’re well off even after the child comes into play.

>> No.9762854
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>friends want to do a group cosplay
>decide on one that is simple yet cute for all of us
>need matching suit jackets
>they want to order it from Wish
>it comes in the mail and looks like hot garbage but they are excited about it and I can't tell them how much i hate it without being a buzz kill
>reaaaallyyyy don't want to wear it because even after altering it still looks like garbage

>> No.9762908

Where did the farting lolitas meme come from?

>> No.9762921

From lolitas farting.

>> No.9762952

Ok thanks.

>> No.9762971

>but I can mold our child the way I want to
Wew, you're a terrible mother already just from this short bit of information. Do yourself a favour and don't have kids if you're selfish or immature.
And if your first thought is that you won't fit your dream dress anymore.

>> No.9763273

anon i really feel this.

i have only recently started actually wearing lolita out after over a year of slowly buying, and the other day walking home i felt so confident and inspired. i had received a number of compliments that day, some people asking for pictures, some people just telling me i was cute, my hair finally sat nicely and held its curls (for once). everything was perfect honestly, just me being a cute lonelita wandering about the city.

I felt on top of the world, and i feel extra inspired to keep wearing the fashion as much as possible and just own it.

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>Aren't straight dudes supposed to be super flirty and shit?
Some people happen to be humble, anon
Also, if you're in the US (aka, the land where women are treated like fucking endangered species), do not be surprised if he's afraid to make a move.

>> No.9763591

Pussy ass binch

>> No.9763627

>where women are treated like an endangered species
No, where attractive, reasonably intelligent women are an endangered species.

>> No.9763721

>Aren't straight dudes supposed to be super flirty and shit?
only if they are chads

>> No.9763743

Guys are morons. If you feel the vibes are right then just confess. Worked with my current bf when I wasn't sure whether I was just being autistic and imagining shit that wasn't there. Turns out it was and he was wondering the same thing.

>> No.9763744

I'm so done with men telling me to not be mad about shit. Do you have any idea of how "not mad" a woman is expected to be? My doctor fucked up my prescriptions. That's fucking annoying. I can be pissed about it. I'm going to a convention. I need those pills. I'll accept responsibility for trusting my doctor, but I can still be pissed when my trust is misplaced.

>> No.9763790

I feel like nearly every lolita friend I have ever made is really selfish. I am pretty normal(?) with spending money on other people, like I'll treat them to an occasional meal, give them rides, buy them a bday gift, have them over for dinner now and then, etc. but all the lolitas I've befriended are super tight with their money with me and nearly everyone they know.

They blow $100s a week/$1000s a month on lolita shit but won't cover their portion of the tip at a restaurant, they ask me to spot them if we are out shopping, or they contribute nothing when coming for dinner (like, not even a snack or drink or dessert), and I've never gotten a birthday or holiday present from them, not even a card. And they make waaaaay more money than me. And I'm talking about lolitas between 25-35 years old.

Am I just really unlucky? I've become a lot more careful about who I give to now, but I never had this problem with normie friends or even weeb friends.

>> No.9763796

I think you're just unlucky with the friends you've made. I'm a younger lolita with friends my age and even though we're all poorfags we contribute our share.

>> No.9763809

>won't cover their portion of the tip at a restaurant
> ask me to spot them if we are out shopping
>they contribute nothing when coming for dinner (like, not even a snack or drink or dessert)
> I've never gotten a birthday or holiday present from them

>They blow $100s a week/$1000s a month on lolita shit

suddenly i guess i've found the reason

>> No.9763822

Probably unlucky? Or maybe just have unfortunate friend judging skills? There are certainly a lot of cheap lolitas, but my lolita friends do make an effort to be fair and are considerate when it comes to contributing/paying. Even those who are tighter in money will put in their share if they chose to participate in the activity; that's just the polite thing to do.

>> No.9763837

>just submitted payment to SS for holy grail dress
>one of Baby's more iconic OTT dresses
>scared the listing will be a scam
>feels overwhelmed but excited
>wants to scream to the world
>also scared to say anything until it is actually in possession

>> No.9764242

My boyfriend left a tab to okcupid open on his computer. I went and snooped and he's been browsing and messaging a lot of girls. Feels bad man.

>> No.9764246
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You know what must be done.

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>> No.9764281

Shit head.

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personally i recall "the tale of inappropriate curiosity" from "don quixote"... wait sorry it's not /lit/

i mean i feel for you

>> No.9764326

Somebody brapped at tea. :(

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>bend over to get something at the meet
>suddenly hear paper rip and feel a breeze underneath my dress
>turn around to see a con creeper running off with my diaper
Joke's on him. It was pooped.

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>tfw you are a pistol instructor and your dream is to train a Lolita to be deadly accurate and discuss the fashion between magazine reloads but all you get is regular people who talk about their kids

>> No.9765288

Dump him. I don’t care how ugly you think you are or if you think you’ll be alone or whatever. That’s shady and you deserve someone who isn’t looking around for other options. Dump him first.

>> No.9765290

You can purchase a gf in most of the countries of southern and central Asia.

>> No.9765307

Do I need to stuff you in a locker for the good of mankind?

>> No.9765340

So somebody changed you for free? Sounds like a hell of a con!

>> No.9765365

I know that feel bro :(

>> No.9765392


>> No.9765415

>friend asks me to book hotel room for her for a con
>got on booking site the second it's online
>quadruple check all information to maleness sure it's 100% correct
>hit submit
>site crashes
>friend: I got the confirmation email but it's one day off
>go back to change reservation
>all rooms are sold out and I can't extend her stay

This all happened within 7 minutes. I'm pissed but at least my friend was somewhat forgiving about the situation.

>> No.9765443

>tfw I landen a GF who is a cosplayer.
I feel happy. We already had cosplans together.
Thank you /cgl/ for some of the mental support you guys gave me.

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>Ex was all over OkCupid, Fetlife, Craigslist, /soc/, etc.
>Spend like three years trying to dump him but he's pretty abusive and likes to threaten to kill himself. Tldr.
>I already know he's a cheating piece of shit so I feel zero shame in snooping through his phone to get 'proof' so that I can dump him without people seeing me as the bad guy.
>So he starts Snapchatting some chick he used to go to school with.
>I text her and she says "I DON'T KNOW ANYBODY BY HIS NAME GO AWAY."
>Adamantly denies that there's anything between them. Cries like a little bitch when I dump him, says he wants to marry me and stuff.
>Leave without a second thought.
>Less than a week later he is 'in a relationship' with her.
>Months later I remember I know all of his passwords and check stuff out for fun.
>He's been cheating on her from at least the one-month mark with an obese, 36-year-old goth prostitute from Fetlife.
>mfw I see them together at mutual friend gatherings.

>> No.9765512

Where do you teach? I'm taking some classes this summer in a couple different states, would be cool if maybe that'd happen.

>> No.9765681

Try calling.

>> No.9765723

I teach in Wichita, mostly in outdoor ranges with very little indoor class time. I stress practical pistol work and skills, not pandering in classrooms to eat up class time.

>> No.9765727

Nah, it's not the men who are at fault. Especially not in the US, where even making advances on women can get them in trouble.

>> No.9765731

>tfw no star wars/deadpool gf to role-play with at cons and have sweet sex after it after we've teased each other the whole event

What I'm the world I wouldn't give to have someone special in my life. I hate being an incel no matter how much I try.

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>be friends with a cute girl I really like
>both of us in the cosplay community and go to the same cons regularly
>build up courage and ask her to the formal dance at an upcoming con as well as a few other dates over the weekend.
>says yes and talk about how excited she is to go and how much fun they'll be
>con comes around and it's a few hours before the dance
>get a text from her saying she "forgot" she had a cosplay meet up with some friends and cancels the date and the others as well
>next day scroll through snapchat out of boredom
>see she posted a bunch of snaps
>pictures of her laying next to some other guy and him walking around the hotel room
>"look at my SNACC!"
>"My snacccccc is sooo hoooot!"
>get super depressed and spend most of the con in my room watching TV and sleeping
>weekend and overall con experience ruined

She literally flaked on me just so she could go hook up with some other guy.
I've never been so heartbroken. I know I probably shouldn't let it get to me, but I feel so awful that it happened. Is this how protags of ntr series feel? God, getting cucked feels the worst. And I was so looking forward to that con as well.

Two days afterwards the guy she hooked up with dumped her and she sobbed about it on facebook about how she can never find love and no one wants to date her.
So I kinda feel a bit better knowing she got her comeuppance.

>> No.9765857

I'll dance with you next time anon.

>> No.9765867

Let it go ya cuck. There are better ones than her.

>> No.9765877
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>being this fucking omega

>> No.9765896

how is he "omega"? it's natural to be upset if you were jilted, natural to be glad when that person who had jilted you was ditched, and he has stopped all the further advances, he did everything right

>> No.9765905

Fuck off, he's totally right to be mad

>> No.9765906

I know. The feeling just sucks, ya know.

>> No.9765916

>how is he "omega"?
The assumption is he's a fully grown man in his twenties at least greentexting with an anime image on 4chan about how he's 'never been so heartbroken' because some conslut he knows bailed on a dance to fuck someone else, and he let it ruin his entire weekend. This is teenage shit to be getting this 'jilted' over

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>cosplay event tomorrow
>so scared
>con crush is gonna be there
>mfw she plans to twerk on other goys

>> No.9765954

he should be a sociopath or an edgy teenager like yourself, right? Don't be such a dumbass.

>> No.9765960

>you shouldn't be mad when someone is a cunt to you at a really bad time
I mean, I shouldn't expect lonely autists to have empathy, but jesus, this thread took an embarrassing turn

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>when she thinks it's cool to lift her petti and fart during the ceremony

>> No.9765969

>I'm a sociopath because I think a grown man greentexting a story about how he got cucked and 'heartbroken' by a conslut is pathetic
The only dumbass is you for using that word in the first place, sperglord

>> No.9765975

>it's normal to be a sobbing mess because you got le friendzoned

>> No.9766026

The friendzone doesn't exist you sperg.
What that girl did to anon was just a bitch ass thing to do.
Anyone would be upset if it happened to them, including you.

>> No.9766029

t. incel

>> No.9766056

t. dumbass in denial

But keep shitposting, I can't wait for this shitty thread to hit the bump limit

>> No.9766058

Lmao I don't get rejected.

You have to talk to girls for that to happen.

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Since we're pouting right now
>stand at a con is selling bootleg shit
>can't even make good posters, a bunch are noticeably pixelated

why do these people even bother?

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>mfw this old thread is almost at bump limit

>> No.9766141

They know fans will buy it regardless.
A lof of the times people shopping in the dr don't really look at the thing they're buying and will pounce on a good deal out of fear that someone else might buy it.

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Fucking finally

>> No.9766158
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Please cosplay as Leone

>> No.9766159

ESPECIALLY if you're at events where nothing is done about it. Like in latin america, we mostly do not give a fuck because the real merch is expensive.

>> No.9766178

/pol/ thread die

>> No.9766202
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We made it, seagulls

>> No.9766206

>girl in the picture is pretty and not fat
I don't think so, Tim.

>> No.9766528

>friend got a Nendo at a con
>gets home
>it's bootleg
Nani the fuck man??!!

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I wish I could say I know those feels
>have dream dress
>Barely fits my tits but trying to lose a little weight to make it fit a bit better
>get pregnant
>keep it because husband and I wanted kids eventually anyways just happened a little sooner than planned
>tits fucking explode
>now 6 months out from having kid
>tits are gigantic
>like three sizes bigger than they used to be
I don't think I'll ever fit my dream dress again. S-Should I just sell it and buy something I can actually wear and enjoy or continue hoarding it with the vague hopes that I'll fit it again someday? It was Krad Lanrete's Phantom Of the Opera OP in black and it took me over a year to find it for sale in large. Sometimes I like to just take it out and feel the soft fabric and wish I could wear it.

>> No.9766870

what I know, they become smaller when you stop breastfeeding your child

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>the never ending feels thread finally is dying

Goodnight, sweet prince.

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