/ck/ - Food & Cooking

>>12540980
https://www.esquire.com/food-drink/a28169912/anthony-bourdain-day-eric-ripert-jose-andres-interview/

Forgot to post link

>>12540980

Dunno, probably just hang around the house I guess.

Drink some beers in celebration of the fact that this literal cuck decided to off himself instead of poisoning an elected world leader like he talked about.

commit suicide

Jerk off to sadpanda while drinking wine

>>12540980
Rip a fat line of blow then fistfight a guy in an alley behind a restaurant.

>>12540992
Hand down my pants? check.
Noose around my neck? check.
Family to abandon? check.
Yep. It's gamer time.

>>12541085

I did that yesterday though.

Going to work

>>12540980
Actually I choose not to remember "Sanctimony Cocaine" and choose to celebrate the fact that this fucker lives instead out of spite against that pretentious dead pervert

>>12541116
Guy Fieri hates eggs, he's retarded.

>>12540980
Probably donate money to a charity for survivors of child sexual abuse.

>>12541136
yeah maybe some of that money will go to the kids he abused

>>12541004
Fuck. Off. Dickweed.

>>12541116
You're a dumb little asshole, aren't you?

>>12540980
I would have my wife fuck another man and then taunt me about it until I killed myself if I was a fan of that cucked faggot, but I’m not.

>>12541260

You sound so manly.

imagine getting cucked to death, and by a child of all things
serves him right for marrying a literal harpy, i suppose

>>12540980
For a second there I thought you said it was boudin day and I was excited

>>12540980
>Anthony Bourdain!!!!!!!!!!

>>12541310
>A person is soy!!!!
>Don't ask me why though
Dunno why this hasn't been banned yet, sure is retarded

>>12541319
>Dunno why this hasn't been banned yet

>>12541332
Cringe.

>>12541332
Seething

>>12540980

>>12541289
He was an asshole when he was alive and killed himself even tho he’s a father. Any respect I might have had for the man is long gone. I respect Jack more than Anthony, and if anyone could legitimately justify their own suicide, it’s Jack.

>>12541358
Yikes
>>12541361
Have sex

>>12541371
Dilate

>>12541371
Cope

Is today the anniversary of his suicide? Time to celebrate. Death couldn't have happened to a better cunt.

>>12541319
>How the FUCK could anyone talk shit about BASED GOD BOURDAIN or ever disagree with me!!! This is clearly grounds for bans. Make it so, jannies.

>>12541407

No one will care when you die. No one. You know that though, don't you?

>>12541412
Same with you.

>>12540980
>what are you doing
Being reminded that even living life to the max like he was he still couldnt outrun his mental illness, ergo I dont have a hope in hell.

>>12541413

I've got a few people that give a shit. But not altogether a lie.

>>12541412
What a strange thing to say.
If Justin Bieber dies tomorrow he'll be one of the most mourned celebrities in history. Do you think that makes him a meaningful person?
Hell, there might be more people mourning the death of Hitler than that of Bourdain.

>>12541398
Well I think that's pretty much it

>>12541427

People that really care because if who he was, matter. Hitler's mourners are pieces of shit. Bourdain actually mattered to human beings. Don't be an obtuse piece of shit when you post. You can be fucking stupid in front of people, but we'll see it.

>>12541437
What would you say you specifically cared about in Bourdain?

>>12541427

Now I have Carly Rae Jepson stuck in my head, you mind Hitler. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qV5lzRHrGeg

>>12541459
People liked him because he's a degenerate line cook like most of /ck/

>>12541459

He was a reformed addict that worked his ass off his entire life. Wrote a great book about restauranturing and from there it got picked up and he went on to research food around the globe. He was a genuinely good person. He went to El Bulli ffs.

>>12541467

I'm sure you're not a human piece of shit. Stop projecting your self hatred for once in your life.

>>12541465
Blessed webm.

>>12541479
>>12541485
He killed himself. Why don't you go dig up his corpse and fuck it if you like him so much?

>>12541500

So you don't understand depression? I doubt that strongly. You're probably trying to figure out how to do it cleanly.

>>12541465

Welp, I thought that was going to go differently. For once anon is not a cunt.

>>12541412
>No one will care when you die. No one.
What a meaningless and impotent insult. My family and friends will care. That's all that matters. I couldn't care less if strangers mourn me. Not to mention I'll be fucking dead so it's a moot point.

Imagine living such a pointless life that a mediocre food writer who made a career of being a contrarian cunt for the sake of being a cunt who bitched out of life like a coward is someone that you venerate and worship to the point of whiteknighting his rotting, worm-infested corpse on an anime imageboard. What a miserable existence you must suffer. I'll be sure to pray for you.

>>12541500

Where'd you go, emotional cripple? Done chatting?

>>12541521

He was a very caring person in his CNN days. I would have liked to know him. You sound intimidated by someone who wasn't trying to do that? What's going on with you? Who fucked you up?

>>12541544
>who hurt you?
Go dilate, insect.

>>12541485
Everything in my post is true, sorry you have a hard on for Bourdain but it is what it's is. He was a drug addict line cook.

>>12541557

kid language. stop being a baby.

>>12540980
guess I'll clean the junk out of my closet

>>12541560

And what else? You read Kitchen Confidential I assume.

>>12541560

I know you're just a stupid piece of shit, but humor me. I don't mean to tease you, but you're being a fucking idiot.

Headed off to the cemetary to go piss on his grave right now.

Used to watch Bourdain with my dad, only have good memories of the show but it's probably because I don't live at home anymore and feel nostalgic for it all

What's up with the hate on /ck/? He didn't seem like that much of an asshole. Pretentious maybe, but I can't remember much to hate him for. Did I miss something? (Other than his suicide)

>>12541581
>humor me
He was a line cook, and a drug addict. I don't know what you aren't understanding. His girl cheated on him and he hung himself. He took the easy way out and left his kid behind like a piece of shit.

>>12541605
Is the suicide not enough? The guy had a young daughter but killed himself because his trash gf was fucking some other dude.

>>12541605
"cuck" isn't an ironic insult

>>12541605
>What's up with the hate on /ck/?
Probably a manifestation of self hatred

>>12541605
>He didn't seem like that much of an asshole.
He was nice to people on his TV shows but treated everyone else like shit. His entire writing career was him being a cunt.

>>12541611

But you'll languish in your shitty life talking about "other people".

You're just human mould.

>>12541639
>But you'll languish in your shitty life talking about "other people".
You mean like you are right now?

>>12541639
yep, you write like someone who reads drug addict autobiographies

>>12541612
I mean I understand hating him for it, but if my dad killed himself I wouldn't be mad at him personally. There are some points in my life where I really did understand what would drive people to suicide, and the only thing keeping my alive was stubbornness or maybe an inability to change.

Maybe it's a shitty thing to do. I don't know. I've never been left behind like his daughter was. But at the same time I wouldn't want my dad to wake up every day with the same throbbing mental sickness I felt

>>12541639
You sound cranky. Frustrated with all the dilating?

>>12541659

the fuck does dilating mean? You sound like a fucked up 4chan mistake.

>>12541653
I suffer from mental illness and the only thing that ever kept me alive was the guilt I felt for the pain I would cause if I killed myself. That man decided it was better to let his daughter spend the rest of her life knowing that she wasn’t enough reason to live compared to the pain her dad felt because some bitch cheated on him. This isn’t a case of mental illness. It’s about him being a selfish asshole who didn’t give a shit about his own daughter.

>>12541671
stretch out your vaginal wound my man, chill out

>>12541653
Speaking as someone whose best friend shot himself: I loved him like a brother and I will miss him for the rest of my life. But I'm not going to accept or respect his suicide as anything but a coward's way out because he was unable or refused to change his way of life of alcoholism, loneliness and wallowing in self-pity despite our group of friends trying to involve him and give him advice.

>>12541674
depression and retardation are two different "illnesses", champ. I'm sure the daughter, like his wife, prefers new daddy.

>>12541685
I never accused Anthony of being retarded.

>>12541653
You're mentally ill, do you really think you're in the right headspace to judge this accurately? He's a piece of shit for leaving his daughter without a father.

>>12541671
https://youtu.be/dfb1Fjmfj8A

>>12541690
>Kills self.
>Not retarded.
Lol.

>>12541674
Don't you think it's at all possible he loved his daughter enough to not want her to have to take care of her miserable shell of a father?
I guess you're right. I'm very naive when it comes to people

>>12541690
I wasn't referring to him ;)

>>12541698
Retards are the happiest people on the planet. They are too stupid and happy to want to kill themselves. Anthony was a cunt and a whiny selfish bitch, but not a retard.

>>12541699
>miserable shell of a father
Some bitch he dated for less than a couple years cheated on him. What kind of colossal faggot couldn’t get over that shit?

>>12541699
The fact that he killed himself over a woman, and a slutty one at that is the problem.

>>12541674
I don't know a lot about his personal life. Did his daughter even live with him? See him that often?

>>12541685
>I'm sure the daughter, like his wife, prefers new daddy.
Probably not. If you have a good relationship with your parent, you want them to be happy and move forward, but you'll always resent the negative impact "Mommy/Daddy's New Partner" hsd on their life. We live in a weird society where kids are taught at an early age that they're supposed to be their parent's world, and when they grow older and realize they aren't, it's just a sad lesson. Like all forms of love, your love for your parents won't save them, it's depressing AF. But that's why it's like a second chance for some parents, and then a death sentence for others.

If I was his daughter, I'd be really sad and angry, but that would only be if we had any actual relationship outside of "dump me on mommy, because daddy's in show business"

>>12541700
Pretty sure you were.

Retard

>ITT, seething

>>12541709
>>12541710
So I have no idea about this either. He killed himself because he was cheated on?

>>12541716
exactly my point

>>12541719
Yes. His gf cheated on him and taunted him about it after he paid off that guy she fucked when he was underage.

>>12541719
It was likely the final nail in the coffin. I doubt he didn't know she was cheating, but to have it made public and rubbed in his face was salt in the wound. This is why paparazzi are scum assholes who should crawl back to the New Jersey hellhole they came from.

>>12541726
You should stick to “burning” people on fb...

>>12541699
>Don't you think it's at all possible he loved his daughter enough to not want her to have to take care of her miserable shell of a father?
That's not love. It's cowardice.

>>12541733
Paparazzi only exist because there is a demand for what they supply. Don’t blame them for making a living, blame the people who are responsible for making sure paparazzi have jobs.

>>12541729
I don't get it. I've had relationships fall apart because of betrayal, and after that you just lose feelings for them and move on. It's not like he couldn't find another woman

>>12541437
>Bourdain actually mattered to human beings
>People who mourn Hitler are pieces of shit
You honestly believe that doing drugs and making food drunk as fuck has more value than taking care of a global problem that has plagued mankind for 2 millennia now?

>>12541748
What you just said is exactly why we have no respect for the man. Rather than do what you said and move on with his life, he killed himself over something almost everyone experiences and left his daughter to live the rest of her life knowing her father was more upset by his gf cheating on him than he was at the idea of his daughter having to live the rest of her life knowing she wasn’t enough of a reason for her father to keep living.

>>12541753
Hitler was controlled opposition. He has made anti-semitism (rationalism) completely taboo

>>12541479
>worked his ass off his entire life
He specifically wrote in his book how much he half-assed cooking and being high his entire career
>>12541611
Keep in mind he left his devouted wife and mother of his kid for that trashy as fuck gf after a decade of marriage

>>12541693
>>12541684
I get that when you're in a low point you think it's never going to recover, and you're prone to making poor decisions, but killing yourself isn't intrinsically cowardly. It's not just that some people don't feel any pleasure or motivation in being healthy, or engaging socially, but there's sometimes a fucking pain, a haunting pain that fucks with you the moment you wake up, where you can't do anything that day because not only is any choice uninteresting and pointless but also fucking painful, and the only time you feel a net 0 pain/pleasure is sleeping, and for someone to convince you that you should just overcome that because you have friends and family who can help you is a nice sentiment but it comes from a place that has never seen what it really is. It's caused by measurable genetic defects in the brain, but because it's not as physically obvious as cancer it's dismissed as something you can simply work hard and overcome. You cannot

>>12540980
>imagine feeling so attached to some corporate media personality that you literally mourn his death

Time to turn off the idiot box and go outside.

>>12541756
You’re making idiotic assumptions that someone in a such a compromised suicidal state is in a clear thinking state of mind. Do you think people just have one bad experience and go “lol killing myself xD” its a gradual downward slope and degradation of the mind and sanity in most cases. The mentally ill are ill for a reason

>>12541745
Fuck this way of thinking. That entire industry is built on writing celebrity fanfiction and selling it to the lower class. You can go photograph families for $300 an hour instead of stalking people and invading their privacy for money. Fuck the tabloids and fuck these scumbag assholes.

>>12541748
Yeah, it's like he had depression and logic and reason don't matter and you fight and fight and fight and fight and then you quit. You can be a wealthy, world-famous chef and it doesn't matter, you still want to die. This is why you must find happiness in the every day, somehow, or you'll never make it.

His daughter is what, 12? He traveled constantly. She probably saw him for no more than 3 years worth of days back to back. I'm sure she's not wondering why she wasn't enough for Daddy, after he kept abandoning his family for cheap thrills.

"People also ask: How did Anthony Bourdain daughter?"

>>12540980
Bourdain is alive. Screenshot this

>>12541776
Holy fuck you sound like a faggot. Fathers who kill themselves are the most pathetic men in existence.

>>12541778
Have you looked into asia argento's past? He was a fucking idiot for even getting involved with her let alone a woman 20 years younger than him thinking there wasn't a catch.

>>12541729
>>12541733
That makes me sad. My first and only gf cheated on me after two years, and when we broke up I wasn't torn up because I was just ready to look for someone who could love me as much as I loved them, but the more people and relationships I see less I think two people can actually wholly want the best for each other. I hate cheating so much

>>12541753
>>12541759

Oh great, you woke /pol/ up. Happy now?

>>12541822
You do realize people hated jews long before /pol/ right?

>>12541765
As someone who struggled with the same issues, I put in hard work by making positive life style changes even when i didnt want to. Youre just trying to excuse being a weak willed bitch.

>>12541830

Go back to your own kind. They miss you.

>>12541838
I’m not /pol/ and I don’t really hate Jews more than I hate the rest of the general population.

>>12541830
Fuck off stormfag

>>12541789
Great argument, faggot. If you want to see something truly pathetic you should take your shirt off and look in a mirror

>>12541841
Pretty sure it’s the leftists who hate Jews these days. I think it’s considered islamophobic to not hate Jews now.

>>12541846
How did you know about my abnormally small nipples?

>>12541840

>>12541852
(You)

>>12541796
To some degree one person or the other is usually always half way out the door with someone else in mind before they make the decision to end it (or get caught). Cheating is unfair, but the opposite is when 2 people who don't love each other, or one of them is checked out, never split and actually stay together and live an unfulfilled life that consumes both of them because there "wasn't a good reason" not to be together. If you are under 25 and were cheated on, I am sorry, but almost any relationship under 30 isn't worth quitting the game over. People in our culture just cheat because at least there's a fallback. We're taught we need a reason to leave, and perhaps you were making it too difficult to break up with (just consider..."breaking up" sounds easy but people will not let you do it).

Love is wanting the best for someone, but that doesn't mean you will feel like that every day for the rest of your life. It comes in waves. and there can also be an air of insincerity when your partner is giving you unconditional love signals all the time. I have a male friend and a female friend who do this with every partner. Every new partner is their "best friend" and they are "finally" able to "be who they are and be supported", and you kind of just look at either of them and think "Yes, but you said that about the last 3." Love is an individual lesson. It took my male friend 1 nasty divorce to take off the blinders, but I believe he is finally in a real, lasting relationship because he's not in love with being in love.

>>12541791
I am sure he knew, but that's why he chased cheap thrills. People are good at finding ways to poison themselves, especially if "substances" are off the table. To be an armchair psychologist, I think he would've done better to stay around his child longer but that would've been a challenge and not an escape.

>>12541860
I diagnosed you with incelitis

>>12541822
>Muh /pol/ Boogeyman
>Happy now?
>Supports Bourdain who wanted to genocide whites and poison an elected official
Seriously fuck off back to r/greentext you aren't welcome here this is a fast food appreciation board your leftist politics have no business here

>>12541881
Not an incel tho.

>>12541832
Look there's no positive lifestyle choices to make with a brain so fucked heroin is an attractive alternative to being sober. Good on you for overcoming what you went through, I did too, but I got close enough to that point to realize there are problems you can pull yourself out of, and there's fucking cancer of the mind. You don't will yourself out of that shit. That's like a cancer survivor saying they put in the hard work, and that everyone who died of cancer is a week willed bitch. Either you didn't have fucking brain cancer, or you were lucky enough to be receptive to treatment. A healthy lifestyle will cure some benign cancers. Malignant tumors still exist and no amount of hard work will kill them
And sure you can say I'm sympathizing with the weak, but this is like a fucking physical thing. Some people have, written into their DNA, the inability to live

>>12541889
Everyone has a left hand, doesn’t count

>>12541903
Pretty bad if you have to convince yourself that everyone on the internet you don’t like can’t get laid.

>>12541605
His politics and his East coast high and mighty "I know better than you" attitude. He's been afforded the opportunity to travel the world and shits on people who can't

That said I love his shows, specifically no reservations

>>12541927
If that makes you feel better about your situation, by all means.

>>12541877
Sure but you can still disengage a relationship because "I don't love you" or "it won't work"
In fact, I can't imagine forming a relationship with someone you don't love, but sure love comes and goes in waves. Or at least that feeling that comes with love, because if you really loved someone even when you didn't feel that feeling that comes with love you still don't fucking cheat on them because instead of searching for your own personal pleasure you put the health of your relationship ahead. Not because you have no reason to leave but because you still love someone, even though you don't feel intense passion for them at all times. If you feel like you aren't interested in the relationship as much as with what you can take out of it, and start preparing alternatives, that's a good enough reason to leave, because staying any longer would parasitize the happiness of your partner. I know people have the capability to feel like this because I do. Giving up on love to form a lasting relationship is a hell some people endure because it's better than being alone.

>>12541935
That was my perception of him at first, the more I watched I found him to be quite the opposite. He certainly didn’t mince words but he absolutely did have humility towards the walks of people he encountered

Everyone in this thread is a moronic faggot except me

>>12541938
I got a well paying career I don’t enjoy, a loyal wife, 3 kids with my blood running through their veins, and I just ordered the bricks to make a wood fire oven/smoker/bbq pit in my back yard. I’m content.

>>12541950
based

>>12541953
I dunno why you'd lie on 4chan but sure

>>12541116
Based and flavortownpilled.

>>12541956
cringe
>>12541950
redpilled

>>12541953
Very content indeed yeah absolutely

>>12541974
I don’t have any reason to lie. You faggots aren’t worth the effort. My life is suppose to be mediocre. Not my fault you assholes decided to be fat faggots obsessed with Japanese children’s cartoons.

>>12541987
I don’t need all my dreams to come true to be content.

>>12542016
Do you know where you are right now?

>>12542022
Ja/ck/?

>>12542016
I didn’t say they did. I wouldnt call that contentness based on your alarmingly apathy and hostility. But please, be happy. Sincerely

>>12542060
I’m happy when I’m with my family. The rest of the shit I don’t fucking care about.

>>12541944
Do you think I am not in love, because it is not the kind of love you imagine? If so, you're just seeking a reflection. In that case, love yourself. Projecting your expectations of how others should love, and love you, will not yield you strong results. People who feel "alone" are just looking to be validated in a very specific way that only they could articulate, but won't, because most feel "they shouldn't have to". I had a very bad go at friendships for a long time because I wanted vocal validation constantly that I was their friend, from my own insecurities.

Everyone shows and speaks love in their own way, and once you see and appreciate that, the world is not a lonely place and love isn't a matter of "falling into" someone as it is realizing that they are their own person and you don't want to be without them. I think you'll be fine but there has never been a case where anyone has been "blindsided" by cheating, they were just blind by their own will. Until you can let that go, you'll just invite it again and again.

There are people like you, but they are not you and they will be driven away by that projection. Just a fair warning.

>>12540980
I'm trying a new way to cook my pizza, and drinking beer. May post a pic if it doesn't come out looking like a retard was in charge.

>>12541765
I've been suicidal for 10 years and you're wrong. It's very simple. It's an ongoing, moment by moment decision to engage with the world, even if it feels painful and pointless and inauthentic. You force yourself into the meat grinder again and again and again, and you dont whine about it or pity yourself, you are grateful to find out what happens next, even if you don't care and don't want it. You take your lumps and say thank you and then you do it again the next day. And after a couple of years, you get tougher and it gets easier. Suicide is a self indulgent faliure of perspective.

>>12540980
Oh, did this guy have an impact on your life? Did his TV show touch your soul?

>>12542319
What do you tell medfags when they run through their scripted questioning about whether you've had suicidal thoughts?

>>12541841
>only stormfriends hate the jews
>>>/tumblr/

>>12540980
I'm not glad he's gone, but I'm glad he's dead.

>>12541116
Absolutely fucking based.

>>12541882
>Bourdain who wanted to genocide whites
He did shows on mouthbreathing, knuckledragging whitetrash subcultures of the US and treated them with respect. But yeah, he recognized whites are a dying race (which census data confirms) but that's hardly white genocide.

>Seriously fuck off back to r/greentext you aren't welcome here this is a fast food appreciation board your leftist politics have no business here
Your advocating for a hivemind is more r/* than anything itt, retard. You have to go back stormie.

>>12542334
His first book and first(?) show were pretty good.

>>12540980
Banging some Thai kids

>>12542243
We are all seeking reflections, that's the Phenomenology of the Spirit. But I'm not talking about feeling lonely, and I'm not talking about something that can be cured by "loving myself"
I love myself, I love this world, and I love people. I don't know if you love or not. I think there exists love not in the way that I imagine it to exist. I know many people call what they feel love because they're afraid to admit they're selfish. My girlfriend was like that. Everyone who loves does so in their own way, yes, but not everyone loves. Many people drift through relationships on autopilot as a survival technique. They take what they want and cheating to them is nothing more than prolonging good feelings. That is not love, but people do not want to see themselves as parasites they call what they feel "free love" and are happy with it. I don't know if this is what you do.
I do not project my idea of love onto other people, however I do expect that if I'm going to enter into a relationship with them they will love me. This is not too much to ask, and if it is, then being alone is a perfectly healthy alternative.

>>12542521
Jesus, you are an odd one. Both sanctimonious and a fag. I don't love you.

>>12542319
But the people who actually kill themselves don't whine about it or pity themselves. You don't seem to understand. I feel everything in my life is joyless and inauthentic. I decide, moment by moment, to engage, to continue, and sometimes the joy I get from human interaction keeps me going just long enough to get to the next event.
I have never been addicted to heroin. Most people will never become addicted to heroin. Most people who try heroin will never become addicted to heroin. This is the same for morphine and other opiates. I don't know if you're addicted to heroin but I imagine you probably aren't because you don't seem to understand what drives someone to seriously kill themselves. It's not a slog through your life. It's not a pointless battle to go through the motions until you adapt to living. It is in every sense of the world an unlivable hell. I promise you have not felt it in all 10 years of being suicidal or you would understand. Normal people can get depressed and have suicidal thoughts. People who get addicted to heroin are not normal people. They live in acute pain that only ever goes away when they are unconscious or so high they might as well be. It's very easy to say once you go through it long enough you get better, and that suicide is self indulgent, but that's a cynical and ignorant perspective on the situation. The world did not "do you a favor" by allowing you to exist. You and I "take our scraps" because we don't know any better. We live so our family doesn't get sad. We live because we think in the future there might be something better. We aren't stronger than most people, we just don't know any better. Some people do not get scraps. They exist in a constant state of existential fear and pain so great it immediately outweighs any benefit of it ever going away and leaving you with the simple dull nonpleasure we have. It's self indulgent to ask these people to continue living because we'd be sad if they died.

>>12542534
Oh fuck off you flagrant cunt, just because you think you're smart doesn't mean anyone gives a shit about what you think

It's my third anniversary so we're ordering a shitload of pizza and wings

I will have some wine and celebrate that he killed himself. Fuck that roody poo faggot.

>>12542604
That wasn't even me, who you were talking with up until this point, but I think he sees what I'm seeing.

This is, in the end, a kind of psychotic twist between transcendentalism and existentialism. You are expecting something, and you are looking for people to feel sorry for your being cheated on. This is going to poison you. You couldn't control what happened, you can't control what's going to happen. You can't expect people to love you the way you want them to. You will always be disappointed. We do not owe each other anything. That's why when someone does give you their love, in a genuine way, that's why it feels good and why sometimes it's not what you think you wanted but it ends up being exactly what you needed.

Anyway man, good luck, I'm going to get a burger and fries and think about abandoning children.

>>12542651
Congrats bro.

>>12542489
>t.

>>12540980
absolutely nothing
S to spit
SSSSSSSSSSSSS

>>12542319
>Suicide is a self indulgent faliure of perspective.

Almost like you like being a victim? Can you follow-up?

>>12542243
There can be love and commitment between 2 people, while for a variety of reasons one or the other has sex with other people. That act itself, does not diminish the love, it's simply an expression of individuality that can coexist with the commitment of an insurmountable love for the primary partner. The quaint notion of a puritan ethic regarding union is long dead.

>>12542396
I haven't been dealing with doctors for a while. If I trust them, I tell them the truth, and if I don't, I tell them what they need to hear. I don't get much from antidepressants anyway.

>>12542893
wew

>>12542581
You don't know fuck about my life or what I've dealt with. I've lost friends to heroin, and they are not categorically different from anyone else. They've generally backed themselves into a self-destructive corner, but it's not some special status. I don't know where you get off thinking you're the only one with insight into everyone else's inner life, but you sound like a self righteous asshole.

>>12542892
How do you read that I like being a victim from what I've said? People kill themselves because they get trapped in a self-indulgent worldview, I've got not a clue how that implies that I like being a victim.

>>12542927
>I've lost friends to heroin
No you didn't you fucking moron.

>>12542917
Nice rebuttal! You're a literate one, you are!

>>12542959
Thanks!

>>12542958
The fuck is wrong with you

>>12542959
is this your first day on this website

>>12542927
>calls him a self righteous asshole
>literally only posts about how "I put in hard work!" "everyone else is weak as fuck"
neck yourself

>>12540992
Underated post

>>12542859
Dude I seriously hope you don't talk like this in real life

All I ever said was I was looking for someone who I can love and who can love me, said I was fine with being alone. You're now trying to inject some sort of persecution complex when I never even once hinted that I was dissatisfied with my own search for acceptance. I can search for someone who will engage in a positive relationship and not leech my wellbeing so they can be happy and then drop me when something better arises. That is my right. I never said anyone owes me anything. I think you're either
1, trying to make me some sort of psychology patient because you've learned something interesting and want to apply it to real life
2. trying to rationalize your own decisions by painting them in contrast with my own
I never once, or anywhere, made this about my search for a relationship, but rather that most people are ingenuine and unaffecting. My expression of "genuine" love as I have used it thus far amounts to not autopiloting a relationship to get what you want. If someone tries to tell you that's their love, and you find that to be what you needed, good for you. Most people however don't particularly enjoy being used and would consider settling for that kind of relationship a bad idea. That is not a poison but something called basic fucking self respect

>>12543490
Don’t worry, he doesn’t have anyone to talk to in real life.

>>12540980
literally who?