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12857265 No.12857265[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

Do you go dutch when it comes to the first date?

>> No.12857273

We don't date in this country. On the plus side, you don't get taken advantage of, like in your OP.
On the negative side, it's harder to meet women.

When we hang out (it's not like dating, it's casual and you're friends at first until maybe something happens) you either pay for your own share (most common) or you take turns paying.

>> No.12857279

>>12857265
No. It's not that big of a deal because for a first date I'm not taking some chick to an expensive place and I probably make more than she does and it's fun to pay for it, I really don't mind.

>> No.12857280
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12857280

Wow, women are horrible
Who knew?

>> No.12857282

>>12857265
Yes.

But it also depends on the circumstances of how we met.

>> No.12857285
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12857285

Fuck no.
Society's opinion on this has not changed.
After all the shouting and ugly hanging tits protesting over feminism bringing equality to men and women, it's still expected of men to pay for the dates. My female co-workers however make as much as me but can't lift shit, fuck bosses for better positions, and then go out dressing like a hooker for free drinks.
Give up on any idea of equality when it comes to women.

>> No.12857289

>>12857279
Jesus what a fucking cuck

>> No.12857291

>>12857265
What a bullshit title, they contradict it in the body

>> No.12857294

>>12857289
How am I a cuck when I'm making a boat load more money than she is? Maybe you're just a poor faggot.

>> No.12857299

>>12857294
Because you are being used and cant even see it.
That is the classic definition of a cuckold.

>> No.12857303

>>12857289
You don't even know the meaning of the term "cuck" do you? That's when you're married or out with some chick and she's cheating on you.

>> No.12857304

>>12857285
>can't lift shit
I hated this, don't fucking talk to me if you aren't helping

>> No.12857306

>>12857303
It also includes you using your resources to help raise another mans child.

>> No.12857307

>>12857299
It really isn't cuckholds know what they are doing, that's the fetish you dumbass. This guy is saying when he goes on a first date it's probably to some average joe food spot and doesn't mind paying. How many fucking first dates do you think people go on?

>> No.12857309

>>12857306
That too, but that's never happened with me.

>> No.12857325

>>12857309
Actually, if you expend resources on a woman without getting anything in return, you are subsidising her and her unborn children.
You
Are
A
Cuck

>> No.12857327

>>12857299
A cuck lets himself be used because the act of being used excites him. If you find it enjoyable to whip out your wad of cash to elevate yourself over the woman that's not being a cuck.

You whip out the cash, she looks pretty and feigns interest. It's a trade, she's a whore, you're the John.

>> No.12857333

>>12857327
This is not correct, you are being had

>> No.12857337

>>12857325
I suspect that you've only dealt with negro and drug addict types of girls/women. I find it much better to be honest and deal with those types, not everyone is a crackhead, meth addict skull cap wearing negro.

>> No.12857341

>>12857337
... not deal with those types

>> No.12857342

>>12857337
No matter the culture or subculture or even species, the math works out the same.

>> No.12857351

>>12857342
Not everyone is consigned to minimum wage, read too much shit on these boards here and it comes across as if everyone is some kind of fucking pauper when that's not so.

>> No.12857359

>>12857265
I took the best gf I had out the first time to KFC, we had a good time

>> No.12857361

>>12857351
You dont even see how your ego has been manipulated to get to your wallet.
Just like a pudgy pasty white middle manager in a strip club.
Its just a nice brunch spot instead of a seedy bar

>> No.12857363

>>12857359
A picnic in a park is nice too and not expensive.

>> No.12857368

>>12857361
Are you some kind of stupid socialist / communist, the bullshit is bleeding from you.

>> No.12857372

>>12857363
picnic in the park does not have all you can eat chicken, check mate atheists

>> No.12857373

I love these incel /r9k/ threads!

>> No.12857375

>>12857372
Why the fuck would I or a girlfriend want all we can eat shit chicken in a park?

>> No.12857380

>>12857373
Apparently you spend a lot of time on /r9k to know the difference.

>> No.12857384

>>12857375
who doesnt want all you can eat chicken?

>> No.12857389

>>12857279
Except for fun to pay for it, tradpilled
>>12857289
Ask me how i know you dont give women orgasms

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12857391

>>12857384
Who does? Only negros.

>> No.12857410

If you pay on the first date (or any date really), it sets a precedent that you will be expected to pay from thereon out. When you don't pay, the other person will feel let down as that is what the arrangement has been

Don't be the idiot that pays for meals. At that point, just pay for a prostitute and grab some fast food afterwards

>> No.12857418

>>12857391
well southerners are the negros of the usa, so there you go, first your money then your clothes.

>> No.12857450

>>12857265
>Do you go dutch when it comes to the first date?
When you invite someone out, you are treating typically. Think of it like you invited them to your house, for a get together or party, because you want to spend time enjoying something with them.. Do you go to the grocery and prepare food, or call a caterer/takeout, and then charge $15 admission to anyone entering at the threshold of the door? No. You wouldn't do that. Your idea, your invite, your gift. Next time, they can reciprocate if they feel inclined to throw a dinner party to make it even.
Poor people don't take turns treating as much. They instead play some games with potluck, bring your own beer/drinks BYOB, or bring something as a side only or bring your own meat for the grill, etc...lots of games. When dining out, esp if they are cheap, they get separate checks because they aren't into the appetizers + 4 drinks + most expensive cut + dessert kind of split the bill mood with people partying it up. Being on a budget is a real thing, but sometimes for the sake of good company people should relax the strict rules some.
When dining out, there's societal norms and other considerations to discuss politely with kind offers, but ultimately you should accept if you invited someone out and you do like them and wish to dine again with them, you don't apply politics or other crap that might offend someone or make you look like no proper upbringing was had. Offer to get the bill. If that doesn't work, offer that they can get the next bill. If that doesn't work, offer that it could be split down the middle this time, but next time you are treating. If that doesn't work, separate checks. The other person will have their reasons for feeling uncomfortable with owing another person, or guilt for ordering expensive things, or some inequity or the fact they feel sorry for you, or that it was lousy food and they picked it, or whatever. Don't make discussion of money your defining character flaw.

>> No.12857455

>>12857265
Going to a restaurant for a first date ??? Who does this kind of shit ? Just have a drink, near your house.

>> No.12857458

>>12857273
What cuntry

>> No.12857473

>>12857285
Oversexualization in the workplace means I couldn't possibly advance in my job, no matter how good I am, if I don't fuck the boss. Some use sex as way to advance even if they're shit at their job, but they're just abusing the system already in place, the boss promoting an ass just to keep having access to it is just as guilty. Men thinking you can exchange drinks for sex when they see a hot ass knowing full well most women are just looking for free drinks are just as guilty.

That said we indeed don't lift shit and a lot of women just act like pic related and go gossip while others do their job and then take all the credit for the work done. At least help moving other things you can lift or help clean while things are getting moved, bitch.

What I'm trying to say is, we all suck and we all contribute to society being garbage. Hope you find someone to fuck that pays their half of the tab, just tell women you're going half/half while arranging the date and not while you're already at it.

>> No.12857556

>>12857389
A real man does not care if the woman orgasms or not.

>> No.12857604

>>12857265
I also go to a church party for free food , I give no fuck about Jesus Christ

>> No.12857605

>>12857556
Literal copeposting. Shame on you

>> No.12857617

>>12857450
>t. has never been on a date

>> No.12857618

>>12857265
Study finds two thirds of women lie

>> No.12857623

>>12857556
yes he does. if she cums, she gets dickmotized and addicted to you. if she doesnt, she needs to do it some other way or with someone else.

>> No.12857630

>>12857418
so negros in the south are what? because thats most of the south these days, smart guy.

>> No.12857633

When we were dating we would take turns paying. After getting engaged we got a credit card for shared expenses and split all those costs evenly.

>> No.12857642

>>12857623
The more you concern yourself with her orgasms, the less likely she is to have one.

>> No.12857656

>>12857642
ok. and? if your gf doesnt cum, shes probably fucking someone else. does your gf say "its ok." to you? its not ok, and she is either fucking someone else or about to.

>> No.12857658

Date?

I miss the old 4chan when only social misfits posted instead of depressed normies.

>> No.12857669

>>12857265
Honestly, if you don’t pay you won’t gry laid so please don’t create morevincels.
After you fuck them, get them to pay. If They say no, at least you pumped them full of your cum.

>> No.12857683

>>12857656
I can tell you dont get it.
You are the male, dominant , not some sniveling little faggot wringing his hands worried his gf did not cum.
This will dry a woman like you would not believe.
No matter what they tell you, they do not find this attractive.

>> No.12857685

>>12857473
>Oversexualization in the workplace means I couldn't possibly advance in my job, no matter how good I am, if I don't fuck the boss

What fantasy world is this? Large companies have quotas to fill. For every lecherous boss there are a couple white knights and value signallers.

>> No.12857699

>>12857685
All of the men you mention,
Lecherous boss
White knight
Virtue signaler
They are all out to help promote the females.

>> No.12857729

>>12857265
Well yeah on the first date I eat mexican for 3 days straight prior to the date then I ballgag her and tie her up in my car while I'm having a concerto, a gas requiem. After a few hours when I'm out of steam I let her out of the Dutch oven.

>> No.12857860

>>12857683
Can confirm. Not once in my life has another person made me cum. Im not bothered, sex still feels great, and I'm more focused on pleasing my husband. If we're getting down to the core of it, sex is supposed to be a special union, expressing your love physically, and hopefully to procreate. If I want to cum ill masturbate, and thats like once every three or four months.

>> No.12857901

>>12857860
Frigid women like you suck.

>> No.12857913

>>12857683
no, you still arent the one "getting it". it just happens. thats why I dont worry about it. youre raging and projecting really hard right now. calm down kid.

>> No.12857923

>>12857860
>can confirm. im sexually broken.
there are men that have this problem too. they have masturbated and watched so much porn, they are desensatized to actual pussy and need to fap to cum. thats not normal, but whatever helps you bond with another person is whats important.

>> No.12857935

>>12857913
>thats why I dont worry about it.
But you clearly implyed that you in fact do worry about.
You are changing your story

>> No.12857937

First date is coffee

>> No.12857952

>>12857923
>thats not normal,
actually it is, being sexually pleased by a 3dpd is peak boomer

>> No.12857975

>>12857937
Don't forget to take her swimming too.

>> No.12857989

>>12857975
?

>> No.12857993

>>12857989
Not that guy but it's so you can see her body as well as her face without makeup

>> No.12857998

>>12857989
Taking your date swimming helps expose what she looks like without makeup.
It's downright scary how deceitful that shit is these days.

>> No.12858013

>>12857993
>>12857998
While I think this is interesting in theory, I'm not sure you'll get many women to go swimming with you on a first date. I don't live near the ocean, though, so I may be unaware of that culture.

>> No.12858015

>>12857327
t. proud cuck

>> No.12858019

>>12858013
I mean, yeah. It's a dumb idea propagated entirely by people who don't really go on dates. I was just explaining

>> No.12858022

>>12858013
Take her to the pool then.
But yeah, I guess some women might not want to be able to get into a bathing suit on the first date. I live in a country with a shitload of coastline so it's not all that unusual here.
Plus my hometown has a decent bar and a minigolf course by the beach so we can go there afterwards. It makes for a nice casual atmosphere compared to cramming yourself into a suit and going to an expensive restaurant.

>> No.12858031

>>12857265
depends, if I like her I go dutch
if I don't, I'll take the hit, so I don't have anything hanging over me.
I also have no problem with her paying for the whole thing if it makes her feel important or strong

>> No.12858040

>>12857860
You sound like a shitty lay and I'd cuck you in a New York minute for a cock hungry slut.

>> No.12858042

>>12858022
My man, are you seriously wearing a full suit on a first date with a stranger?

>> No.12858056

>>12857265
i never pay for the first date. not going to set a precedent for me paying for everything. once we are in a relationship for a bit ill start covering the bill from time to time but never out of the gate like that

>> No.12858069

I don't think I've gone Dutch since high school. I'm married now so my wife and I just pull from the same bank account so we're both paying, but back before I met her if a girl wanted to go out with me I'd not so sincerely tease her that I'm sure she could pay for me and they can pay on dates, especially if they want to be a big independent 21st century woman about it. I ate free just as much as these thots are doing now. You've got to cash out on these hoes. Either they pay for the date or they buy food and I come over and cook for them, which was the instant panty dropper.

It's like Lil B said: if a bitch want to fuck, she at least gotta buy food or something.

>> No.12858070

prostitution should be legal and women should simply charge a fee for sex with any man who 'dates' them. The uglier the man, the higher the price she will charge for the date. the man can accept or decline.
Every woman has a price. It's a win win. the man gets sex, the woman gets money.

>> No.12858073

>>12857265
i usually date older men so its them who pay

/shrugs

>> No.12858179

>>12857630
They’re niggers

>> No.12858195

>>12858073
whore

>> No.12858198

>>12858195
lol you got a teeny tiny pee pee

>> No.12858205

>>12858195
>thinking im female

>> No.12858216

>>12858205
You are, you type like one. You are also a worthless whore. Reevaluate your life.

>> No.12858219

>>12858216
im gay you seething incel

>> No.12858225

>>12858219
>im gay
You definitely need to reevaluate your life then. Your very existence is an abomination.

>> No.12858227

>>12858219
>incel
sodomy isn't sex, so technically you are much more of an incel, and a degenerate one at that.

>> No.12858235

>>12857265
>pic
It is true that free food is what I enjoy most about dating my bf.

>> No.12858296

>>12857265
The first paragraph immediately exposes the lie in the headline. The person responsible for that headline needs to be fired. You can sensationalize without falsehood.

>> No.12858313

>>12857993
>>12857998
ok, guys. The thing is that when you fall in love you see her differently anyway. The way she looks without makeup when you're not in love with her has absolutely no bearing on the prospects of your future relationship.

If you're only in it for a fuck, don't bother. You are being sucked into a system of cheap gratification that tears you apart mentally and spiritually.

>> No.12858351

>>12858313
Hate to be the one that tells you Stephan, but men don't shed tears over the cheap gratification of getting their rocks off in a one night stand.

>> No.12858425

>>12857291
ikr
>1/3 of women only date men for free food
vs reality
>1/3/ of women have gone on a date for free food
pretty significant - but hey, that's the clickbait game

>> No.12858462

>>12857458

Sounds like bongland. Relationships just kind of happen through mutual friendship and friendgroups chilling out together at first before an official 'couple' forms. Non of these awkward formalities like America of Japan has of declaring your intentions up-front.

>> No.12858684

>>12857265
Semen is free though?

>> No.12859036

>>12858425
Still seems really shitty

>> No.12859229

>>12857265
Don't care-better then eating alone. I like new things and places