/fa/ - Fashion

[Anonymous No.10808154]

Fuck. I can't seem to find a single woman I'm interested in. I've dated about 10 women the last year and every single one of them was annoying as fuck. i hate the term but they were literally all basic bitches. nothing special about them whatsoever.

for example here's how the latest date went (to be fair, every woman I dated had pretty much the same character) :

me: what are you doing for fun?
> ohh you know the typical stuff, hanging out with my friends, chill, watch tv

now, since I've met her friends before, I can safely tell you that they were all CANCER. garbage. absolute pieces of shit.

anyway, i ask her about the tv shows she's watching atm:

> hahhaha do you know this show called "new girl", it's so funny!!

me: hah yeah heard about it before, never really got into it.
(watched it before and if you don't know, it's literally the worst)
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exhibition 2:

her:
> one of my hobbies is fashion

(she wasn't particularly dressed well, so it was kind of surprising to me)

me: oh really? what are your favorite brands?

> umm you know, i LOVE new yorker

REEEEEEEEEEEEE

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exhibition 3:

me: what kind of music are you into?

> i am usually listening to the charts, or some youtube mix

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???

does anybody feel the same way? i am only 19 but I am literally kind of scared that i'll never be able to find "the" special girl.

[Anonymous No.10808166]

>>10808154
op again. bare in mind, i am really not a shallow person. it's not like i would immediately pigeon-hole a girl just because she doesn't have the same "TV show taste". but to be honest i've yet to meet someone that seemed "compatible" to me. and it's really fucking bothering me.

[Anonymous No.10808176]

>>10808154
ohh fuckk. mixed it up. meant to say 2 broke girls, not new girl.

2broke girls <<<<<<< new girl
that's how bad the show is

[Anonymous No.10808177]

>>10808154
You're not the only one bro, I experience the same things. Hope you meet someone interesting senpai

[Anonymous No.10808183]

>>10808176
New Girl is actually aight

[Anonymous No.10808190]

>>10808154
Chill man. I'm not sure /fa/ is the right board for this discussion. But there are plenty of girls. Maybe try dating less and get to know a person better. Because so far it seems like you're looking for a person who has the same interests as you.

I do get your point when it's boring to be with someone who shows no particular interest in any kind of activity or hoby, but on the other hand some people have their most interesting parts hidden from strangers that you might have been dating a noble prize matematician.

I once dated a chick from tinder. At first glance seemed like a basic chick that works at HnM and posts instagram selfies and deep quotes. When I got to know her, it appears she read at least two books per month and what struck me most was that she had a whole filmography sorted out by director each one of them having some kind of remarks or notes to it.

TL;DR Stop thinking you're a special snowflake and give other people a chance.

[Anonymous No.10808191]

girls are boring

[Anonymous No.10808201]

maybe ur just a gay faggot

[Anonymous No.10808213]

>>10808177
good to hear i am not the only one. thx b

>>10808183
never really watched it really so i can't tell. i do know however that 2 broke girls is the shittiest thing i have ever seen.

>>10808190
yeah i just picked /fa/ cause it seemed like the members on here could possibly relate the most.

i am not even looking to meet a girly version of me. i just want to meet someone interesting.

and i REALLY don't think of myself as a special snowflake, or that i would be somehow superior to others. it's just that most of the people i meet just don't have a "character" if that makes

>>10808201
m8 1v1 me on rust

[Anonymous No.10808217]

>>10808213
***if that makes sense

[Anonymous No.10808218]

>>10808154
>>10808177
given your age, you guys are basing your opinions on your experiences from high school, the beginning of college when you are only a year or two in town, or some shit job either in or not far from where you grew up, which is probably suburban. what you complain about in women is also true of men. insinuate yourself into a community of musicians, artists, and casual drug users. or whatever else you're interested in.

[Anonymous No.10808232]

>>10808213
I get what you're trying to come across with. There are really too few people that stand out and are interesting. But they are also really difficult to get along with because of the way they see themselves,they might also find you boring or not of the "right character". And this imbalance between people really does affect a lot of relationships in general not only with girls. Because it's like a never ending ladder. Someone is always above or below you in terms of whatever you choose.

There's not much advice but only to keep looking and meeting people. Also, never lower your standards, work on self improvement and eventually you'll naturally linger to the side of the spectrum where you'll be meeting people closer to your interests.

[Anonymous No.10808281]

>>10808218
yeah living in a suburban, going to the first year of college.

definitely is also true about men.

thing is, I can't seem to find a nice community in the near of my shithole suburban.

>>10808232
i guess i will come eventually across someone. but it's just so fucking frustrating to keep looking.


besides that, there's also this girl in college i really get along well with. since my college is about 2.5 hours away from my actual home, she even offered me a place to sleep in her shared flat. politely rejected her offer, since ill be moving out in two weeks anyway. (college starts in 2 weeks)

but ofc she has to have a bf of 3 years. oh man the feels.

[Anonymous No.10808428]

>>10808154
>mfw girls says she's interested in fashion, ask her what her fav designer is, answers: I don't really have a fav designer, but I love Zara, h&m

[Anonymous No.10808444]

I've never had a gf but sometimes you guys that do seem so hard on people. I mean what makes you so interesting? I have hobbies but if you put me in a crowd I'm probably a pretty average overall person with some strengths and plenty of weaknesses. I'd assume any girl I was with would be similar. If she likes some pleb fashion brand I don't know that I'd care, if her hobbies were basic so are most people's (probably mine too).

I'd like a gf i could grow with and maybe take two boring people and make a slightly interesting couple when we put our heads together.

But I'm forever alone so what do I know

[Anonymous No.10808446]

You sound like a little bitch OP, but I get what you're talking about. We all understand that you're looking for someone that's intellectually compatible with you but there's no need to be so stuck up about it.

It's perfectly fine that someone is basic and doesn't aspire for more, and that doesn't necessarily make them boring either (I wont argue with you on annoying though).
Just find other or expand social circles, it's really that simple. I went from private to public schooling when I was little so I have friends in middle/upper class and they're totally different people, yet both are great in their own way.

But you're young, you'll learn.

[Anonymous No.10808448]

>>10808154
Don't try so hard to find someone
Pursue your passions and interests and be a cool ass dude and the girls will come to you

[Anonymous No.10808457]

U fuckin special snowflake. Its like i love dark ambient and every girl i know doesnt even know who Lustmord is. Fuckin basic bitches.

[Anonymous No.10808472]

>>10808444
>what makes you interesting?
i am a freelance music producer (working with ableton push), play the guitar, i like all kinds of sports and go to the gym regularly, i am studying medicine, i dress myself well, don't listen to shit-tier music, i have a good sense of humor and i am working towards being able to DJ in my free time.


>I'm probably a pretty average overall person with some strengths and plenty of weaknesses.

so is everyone else, just try to improve yourself, do what you love and it's all good. oh and don't compare yourself to others, just focus on yourself, this is important

[Anonymous No.10808479]

>>10808472
>>what makes you interesting?
>answering a rhetorical question
this guy

[Anonymous No.10808483]

>>10808446
>you sound like a little bitch OP
i am little, but i am not a bitch. fight me irl scrub. noscope only.

>>10808457
to clarify once again. i don't search for a girl that is exactly like me or has the same interests as me. i search for a girl that pursues something passionately. i search for a girl that doesn't wear distressed skinny jeans because other girls are doing it. i am looking for a girl that has something special about her.

[Anonymous No.10808489]

>>10808281
where u from man?

[Anonymous No.10808492]

>>10808472
You sound pretty average to me

[Anonymous No.10808504]

Christ you're whiny.

I hear it said that love is a choice, not a feeling. If it doesn't feel right, give it some time. If you don't want to feel unsatisfied, maybe you should lower your standards, suck it up and go the distance. See how it works out.

[Anonymous No.10808509]

>>10808154
It's such a shame that someone so special and godlike as you has to settle for someone who isn't as intellectually superior and interesting as you.

[Anonymous No.10808510]

>>10808154
kindly fuck off back to /r9k/, you piece of shit

[Anonymous No.10808516]

You're trying to hard friendo.

I'm dating a normal girl, she doesnt understand half of the stuff im into (music production, fashion, nerd shit) but she stil llikes me and finds it interesting to listen to me talk about them. She dresses decently but isnt super into fashion or spending a bunch of money on clothes (shops at target and other cheap places). If you're so uptight and shit you'll never find a good girl. Stop expecting to find someone into the exact same shit you're into, maybe settle on a normal "basic" girl and try to mold her into what you want her to be.

[Anonymous No.10808517]

>>10808483
>>10808492
hah this, you're literally like any Chad out there

>i am little, but i am not a bitch. fight me irl scrub. noscope only
of all the stuff you could take out of that comment...

[Anonymous No.10808579]

Having hobbies isn't /fa/. Dressing well but then being completely dull and uninteresting is /fa/.

[Anonymous No.10808610]

FUCK OF FROM MY FASHION BOARD

[Anonymous No.10808615]

>>10808154
well, what the fuck are you bringing to the table mr. 10/10? you sound like a complete narcissist

also
>19
>women

[Anonymous No.10808674]

>>10808579
Hey that's me..Bah Gawd!!

[Anonymous No.10808693]

>>10808154
Where do you meet these people?

Maybe you're basic too.

[Anonymous No.10808719]

>OP deleting all his comments
OP confirmed beta cu ck

[Anonymous No.10808731]

>>10808154
first off

>>>/r9k/
>>>/soc/
>>>/b/

this is a FUCKING cancer thread.

OP, maybe if you were actually interesting, maybe if you had some hobbies like you made art, music, clothes, wrote stuff, did some sports or something, you would actually meet like minded people who are interested in the same shit as you.

now get the fuck out of my /fa/ and never come back because i bet you dress like fucking shit

[Anonymous No.10808910]

>>10808510
Tbh this, you'll fit in perfectly

[Anonymous No.10808961]

>>10808154
>women are degenerates

what's new?

also,

>>>/pol/
>>>/r9k/

[Anonymous No.10809003]

>>10808154
okay but, new girl is a fun show though

[Anonymous No.10809139]

>>10808154
you know that you can actually be normal and nice/likeable. asking such a generic question will get you a generic answer. people won't always be opening up to you during the first date. they can see pretty normal and enjoy dumb stuff but also like really dope stuff that they don' t show not to scare you off

[Anonymous No.10809159]

>>10808154
>i am only 19 but I am literally kind of scared that i'll never be able to find "the" special girl.
Also called the HIMYM Ted Mosby syndrome

[Anonymous No.10809313]

>>10808176
Oh shit. Two Broke Girls really is basically the most horrible thing to ever happen to television.

[Anonymous No.10809336]

I was about to make a similar thread before I saw yours, OP. What's the point in dressing well and working out if I don't have anyone to impress? You don't have to tell me. I should do it for myself and not for someone else. I know that. It's just...not a particularly motivating or bright situation.

[Anonymous No.10809347]

>>10808444
You're not forever alone. You're just alone right now. It will get better.

[Anonymous No.10809440]

>>10808154
From what I've read OP, you seem to be incompatible with people around you, and that's fine. It means you are not made by the pattern. I think that what you seek in a relationship is intellectual stimulation more than a hobby like fashion for example. Look at 'tumblr girls', they all want to be unique and different, but what do they get? They are all the same boring 'different' girls, with few exceptions. So what you should do first when you date, ask her what she reads reads for example, don't ask her what her hobbies are, at the moment, she will probably say stuff like 'chilling, Netflix, or whatever'. Make a list with important traits/hobbies you'd want her to have, and see if any of that matches. Yet don't cut her off if she doesn't meet one or two traits, there is no such thing as perfection. Ask her deeper stuff than what she watches; something I've understood is that it's shallow to judge people by what music they listen to, some people never had a chance to experience other genres of music. Show her stuff that you like, she might be genuinely interested in them; you never know if the girl that watches anime (for example) would actually read Camus or listen to doom metal.

>inb4 blogposting
>inb4 the janitors that have to delete a shitton of other threads delete this one too
>inb4 don't listen to this faggot

[Anonymous No.10809478]

>>10809440
This post seems fair,I usually don't comment on this stuff because it belongs on >>>/r9k/ but OP you can't sit on 1 date and expect some disney type shit you need to get to know someone better before giving them the boot, did you even try to make yourself sound interesting? Because from your post it sounded like you don't know what you're doing.

[Anonymous No.10809542]

i am only 19

[Anonymous No.10809826]

>>10808446
>tfw understand and employ this concept happily at the young age of 18
may not seem substantial to everyone but it feels great and reassuring to me to know others feel this way, thanks senpai :)