Feels Thread

[Anonymous No.13260140]

Hi, /fa/, let's have a fashion feels thread
>low selfsteem don't even let me get out of bed
>can't wear my /fa/ clothes cause I only leave house to work
I don't even know why I started buying clothes in the first place, I don't even feel good in then anymore.
How you doing, anon?

[Anonymous No.13260160]

>tfw manlet

[Anonymous No.13260175]

>depression
>gain weight
>can't wear cool clothes
>wear sweatpants and baggy jeans while looking at your closet
>can't workout because of classes and depression
Can I just play Russian roulette with a semi?

[Anonymous No.13260187]

>tfw you'll never be a cute girl

[Anonymous No.13260203]

>>13260187
this

[Anonymous No.13260209]

>>13260187

[Anonymous No.13260217]

>>13260209
>>13260203
I'm actually pretty fucking annoyed at this desu... I just want to be a cute girl with a gf

[Anonymous No.13260247]

>>13260140
i had a good day, and hope everyone of you in this thread will have one too now or tomorrow

[Anonymous No.13260259]

>>13260140
Last night she said she really likes how i dress. In general ive been getting a lot of complements on my clothes but i still dont think im capturing the style I want.

[Anonymous No.13260282]

>>13260203
>>13260209

I hope reincarnation is real or maybe brain transfer/cyborg bodies in the future

[Anonymous No.13260291]

>>13260259
This, also thinks it don't look that good and people just complement out of pity, damn I'm feeling so fucking sick

[Anonymous No.13260304]

>>13260187
>>13260203
>>13260209
You can though

[Anonymous No.13260316]

>>13260304
>Cute
Can't you read?

[Anonymous No.13260328]

>>13260316
Eh, gotta work with what you got. You might not become anime level cute but you can always become cuter

[Anonymous No.13260359]

>>13260328
Nah senpai, im a 6ft muscle guy; I can't change my bone structure.. it's just not the same :(

[Anonymous No.13260384]

>>13260140
Come on anon, you can make friends easily. At least you have a work were can make it, not a neet like me :(

>How you doing, anon?

>neet
>poorfag
>acne

Well, nothing that I can't change.

[Anonymous No.13260583]

>>13260187

[Anonymous No.13260585]

>tfw see failure as something to fall back on rather than to avoid

[Anonymous No.13260590]

>>13260187
fucking THIS

[Anonymous No.13260602]

>>13260585
Damn... this is some abstract meta-feels

[Anonymous No.13260611]

>>13260602
>tfw using your faults like depression and ADHD to not get ahead in life, and instead perpetuate your misery
>tfw you use misery to justify everything bad in your life and don't try to improve it
>tfw when you're too much of a coward to end it

[Anonymous No.13261602]

>>13260585
>tfw you fuck up things on purpose so you can feel good about yourself if you manage to weasel yourself out

[Anonymous No.13261614]

>>13260187
>able to wear overall without looking like a kid
>wear skirts/pants/shorts
>boots/high heels/sneakers
>doing whatever the fuck you want and still get compliments

[Anonymous No.13261645]

>>13261614
Are you pretty anon?

[Anonymous No.13261649]

>>13261645
>hrt maymay
look at transpassing and transtimeline on reddit and link to me 1 (one) who passed.

[Anonymous No.13261651]

>>13260140
I have this exact feel bro

[Anonymous No.13261665]

>tfw I have a strange affinity to disappointing other people who think I have potential.

[Anonymous No.13261681]

This is our precious threads theme.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3bfRBassAQ

[Anonymous No.13261683]

>>13260175
>He wears pants
I haven't worn pants in weeks

[Anonymous No.13261687]

>>13260359
I'm sorry anon. I hope you find another avenue to express your femininity.

[Anonymous No.13261704]

>>13260187
>>13260203
>>13260217
>>13260583
>>13260590
I was jacking off to a (((girl))) I follow with a dick like 20 minutes ago on periscope, she has these lil nips and she straight up fooled me at first for like 5 minutes, there was like 40 viewers so we actually had back in forth, she laughed at a couple of 4chan memes so I guess everyone can make it, I'll be their if you need a horny qt bf, don't worry.

[Anonymous No.13262011]

>>13261665
I've heard this before but it's usually just an excuse to avoid putting in effort and risking actual failure because this way you can feel in control and like you could succeed if only you tried.

[Anonymous No.13262032]

>>13262011
You actually figured me out.

[Anonymous No.13262061]

>>13262032
I figured you out because we're the same, brother.

[Anonymous No.13262074]

>>13262011
>>13262032
>>13262061
How do we stop being such cowards brehs?

[Anonymous No.13262113]

>>13262061
>>13262074
We will make it boys, we will.

[Anonymous No.13262219]

>Gf wont dress effay
>Everytime we go out its like im with a regular, basic graphic tee, flats girl.
>Our fits are so dissonant.

Help /fa/gs

[Anonymous No.13262922]

>>13262219
At least you have a girlfriend.
Finally a feels thread.
>be me
>meet cute girl who loves everything you love
>finds out she likes you and your style
>be together with her for 6 over months
>she have a boyfriend tho
>I already knew about it
>ask if she would leave her boyfriend for me
>"no, anon, he's so good to me, i can't do this"
>love the shit out of her
>can't stop having something with her
>keep cuckolding her pseudo alpha boyfriend
>feeling shit about myself for this
>also can't stop doing this
>cause I fucking love her
Really, /fa/gs, I just can't stop thinking about her, and she's so fragile and effay I don't fucking know what to do, did I fuck up?

[Anonymous No.13262938]

>>13262922
how can you love a piece of shit like that ol

[Anonymous No.13262984]

>>13262922
Sorry, anon. That's a shitty place to be. I know what it's like to hang on to someone that you share a lot with, thinking that you'll never meet another person like them.

She sounds confused, still trying to figure out what she wants out of life and her relationships. But for the time being she certainly enjoys the affection she gets from both you and her boyfriend. The whole situation sounds so transient to me.

Best of luck to you, man. Hope everything pans out.

[Anonymous No.13262991]

>>13260140
>tfw decent looking face
>not a manlet
>decent proportions
>shit taste

[Anonymous No.13262993]

>>13262922
Try hard to change your mind, ik how you feel but srsly anon you're wasting time for nothing

[Anonymous No.13262997]

>>13262991
For example ...

[Anonymous No.13263027]

>>13260140
I’m only 18 and my hairline makes me want to kms

[Anonymous No.13263028]

>>13260140
>really tall and hilariously underweight guy
>will never have a feeder gf get me out of my depression and into a healthy weight.
>tfw

[Anonymous No.13263048]

>>13260187
this explains so much about /fa/

[Anonymous No.13263068]

>>13262922
Give her time and be there for her, I did that with my gf and everything worked out. She might sort herself out and she sounds like the right gal for you. Good luck anon

[Anonymous No.13263080]

>>13260140
>can't wear my /fa/ clothes cause I only leave house to work

This is probably the worst feel. I have lots of pretty nice clothes but I never have an occasion to wear them. The only times I leave my house are to work (which I'll be damned if I dress up for), to go to the gym (no reason to dress up since I'm in athletic wear), to go shopping for groceries (again, no reason to put in effort here) and very rarely to go out with friends, almost always to some pleb apartment party or blue collar dive bar.

Wish I could be a socialite with important events to attend desu.

[Anonymous No.13263092]

>>13260140
>can't wear my /fa/ clothes cause I only leave house to work
I can relate I have to wear a suit to school and we're not allowed to do anything particularly fancy with it. At least I have a moderate social life so I have some opportunities but I feel you anon. Good luck pal

[Anonymous No.13263133]

>>13263080
If you live in a big city you can be a well dressed flaneur.

[Anonymous No.13263135]

>>13263048
I just want to be pretty.

[Anonymous No.13263223]

>>13263068
Damn, anon, I needed to hear this so fucking bad
I mean, she is cute and thinspo, and loves anime shit and weird music... Damn, she said she loves me, anon... I can't let her go, thanks for this, anon.

[Anonymous No.13263243]

>>13262938
She's not a bad person, she's just in a bad moment and place to be. I wouldn't know what to do in her place too, so...
>>13262984
Thanks, anon, I'm still thinking about what the fuck I'm doing with my life
>>13262993
I tried everything, I even saw other girls for some time, but no time is better than when I'm with her... I'm so fucked

[Anonymous No.13263244]

>>13263223
Not that other anon, but dude you need to give her at least a fucking reason why she should fuck you and not the other guy, I mean she get's all the other relationship bonuses by being around you shooting the shit, work on yourself, make yourself the obvious choice.

[Anonymous No.13263267]

>>13263244
That's the shit part, I'm already the obvious choice, people who don't even know we are together says that she should leave him, TO HER FUCKING FACE, cause he's a really shit person in general. I mean, he's a absolute garbage if compared to me, and I'm not a good guy or look that good...

[Anonymous No.13263301]

>>13263267
listen guy, I'm a shut-in, have been for about five years now, so I don't exactly know how those things work or what you do or where you go etc. but what I was trying to get to is the fact that for women generally, morality is 100% co-ordinated and not a rulebook to follow. Look at what investments she has in the other guy, write down all of the things regardless of good or bad and find an emotional pattern and then as best you can mimic that pattern. It could be she forgives people too easily or that she likes drama, or could be that she's afraid of change. Try not to think of life as good versus evil, more like who's playing to what end.

[Anonymous No.13263412]

>>13262991
not bad

[Anonymous No.13263762]

>>13263028
Same

[Anonymous No.13263788]

>see ugly as fuck guys making people love them because they have charisma and confidence
>be averge but lack any fucking confidence
>literally shut down when a qt sspeaks to me and probably come off as a cunt.
I hate this.

[Anonymous No.13264222]

>>13260140
You know, I'm kind of bummed I didn't hit music harder as I grew up. I missed out on a lot of shit like starting a band and just having a fun time with my bros. Engineering just kinda tore me up, and I lost touch with a lot of my passions throughout college. So I guess it's no wonder I kinda let myself go so long.

Working on throwing myself back together, but now that I'm 23 going on 24, I really wish I dived into that teenage angst phase harder. Could have had a cool ska band and played music with some friends. But kinda went through a wall my first few years of college, and I transferred right when i was at the critical part of this musical block, and I just dropped it the past few years.

Hopefully once I'm done with this semester, I can really work hard at it again. Engineering is suffering and probably not even worth it and working a part time job is making it even worse

[Anonymous No.13265769]

>>13261704
He was so fucking cute.
Too bad in recent pics and interviews it looks like he lost all his boyishness and now looks lole a fat manchild.
Time is a bitch.

[Anonymous No.13265797]

>no friends
>no gf
>dress like shit
>no aspirations
>no career goals
>no skills
maybe ill just join the fucking army or something

[Anonymous No.13265825]

>>13264222
>now that I'm 23 going on 24, I really wish I dived into that teenage angst phase harder
I’m 24 in two weeks and I know this feeling too well.
But you know, the good thing is that most people (people over 30) still looks at you like a kid and you still have some years of being young and stupid.
Just enjoy your youth and don’t rush things, money is just a medium, not a goal.

[Anonymous No.13265840]

>kinda bored of wearing artisanal black everything stuff
>wanna dress like a rococo lolita princess grandma
>boyfriend thinks it's too weird
>"please anon, just dress normal"

Why do all my friends who wear Issey and Yohji threaten to disassociate with me when I wear lolita?

[Anonymous No.13265847]

>>13265825
Yeah, older I get the more I relate to this. I don't even make that much but I could be fine with a lower end job no problem. Money really doesn't get me much more than just colognes that I spend all my money on and occasional cops. I'm more content to just chill. But you're right, I'm still pretty young all things considered.

[Anonymous No.13266522]

>>13265840
Probably because your friends are also thinking "please anon, just dress normal" i.e. in a way that conforms to their standards. If a certain style of dress is all it takes for your friends to cut you off, then the authenticity of their friendship should be put into question.

I don't want to feed you some vapid and generic "juss be yourself and fuck everyone else" bullshit, because I'm sure you realise that people surround themselves with like-minded individuals. Appearance factors into that--often rather strongly (e.g. all your friends who wear Yohji). Take some time to figure what you want and what will bring you the most happiness in the long run. Do you browse /cgl/?

[Anonymous No.13266574]

>>13265797
>maybe ill just join the fucking army or something
what is it with anons and joining the army? is it for some sort of glory, or is it just perceived as a quick and easy way to give life a purpose? not shitting on it, i think it's great if you legitimately want to enlist and are committed to it.

but really, judging from your post it sounds like you're just bored. get a hobby dude, go bouldering or hiking or some shit. pick up drawing, painting, skating, learn some history, do ANYTHING. the important thing is to keep your mind occupied. you sound like you're young, so try to enjoy the simpler things while you can.

[Anonymous No.13266587]

>>13266522
I do browse /cgl/ often and I have made friends within my local community but so much of lolita discussion revolves around hedonistic consumerism and drama that it gets boring quite quickly. I love my normie friends too, but it'd be nice for them to not care so much about maintaining appearances and just have fun with clothing. I love yohji and comme as much as the rest of my peers but dressing in one brand/one aesthetic all the time can get boring.

[Anonymous No.13266905]

>>13266587
>I love yohji and comme as much as the rest of my peers but dressing in one brand/one aesthetic all the time can get boring

I totally share that sentiment. There is such a tendency in fashion communities to be restricted to a handful of styles. I find it a little strange that this behavior even exists in alt-fashion communities, where you'd expect more open-mindedness by virtue of it being well outside of what's considered normal dress. This might be stretching it but maybe there are some elements of lolita you could blend into "normal" fits? I used to lurk /cgl/ but not extensively enough to get to come up with a substantial or concrete suggestion. Like you said yo, just have fun with clothing