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>>16675221
>I don't get why in the world anyone would prefer a virgin to a non-virgin, it's literally a viewpoint i cannot comprehend.
It's not like non-virgins can't be great or amazing people or anything. But being a non-virgin not in a committed relationship is a pretty serious warning sign.
It means that the person has had previous relationships that didn't hold up for whatever the reason. Be it due to serious problems from either party making it impossible, or sheer negligence from either party not deeming the relationship important or whatever. But the end result is the same, it didn't hold up. And it's a warning sign indicating that if the flaws that ended the previous relationship(s) are still present, the same could very well happen to you too if you got involved with them. And marital statistics supports this. By a lot.

And it's not as if it's unfounded or anything. To begin with, "love" is a chemical process and a neurological phenomenon. And sex, the process of making offspring with a mate, naturally has a strong impact on it.
With sex you get a flush of hormones that imprint an image of your partner in your mind, growing into a kind of obsession that's essentially what we call love when said image festers. But what happens if you sleep around? Then the image is diluted.
If you have repeated sex with the same partner the image of said partner grows stronger each time and results in a strong and clear imprint that makes for strong love. If you have repeated sex with different partners, the image of each partner is diluted and weakened each time and won't result in much of an image at all as such don't do much in he ways of love.

But that's not even all. Not only do people who sleep around have a backlog of interfering imprints diluting the strength of their imprints. But as with other chemical responses from the brain, be it from from external means like food/drugs or from internal functions like the response from sex. The effects of these chemicals weakens with time and exposure. That means that a person who has already slept around a lot, not only already has very diluted imprints in their mind, but their ability to make strong imprints has already been weakened. A combination which is not good if you ever want to strive towards "true love" or anything close to it.

Basically. Not only do non-virgins not in committed relationships already have a bad a track record to begin with. They're also challenged in the ways of feeling or falling in love. Sex is not "just sex". It's a core biological function that affects our very beings.

>mg's faces when
Y'all are keeping yourselves pure until you find your SO-fu, right?