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Hi, So bassically I feel alone, very. I am otaku, I collect anime and manga, 5 years ago I was dump by my girl friend cause she went with other guy.

I was very inlove, decided to focus on my job and six month later I fall in depression and panic atacks.


I have been taking sertraline since, and some times when I am very stress Valium for sleeping.

I currently enter to those sites for meeting girls and actually meet some body, , and I like 2 girls on my town, but I am afraid to make a mistake, so I need a good advice.

or just talk and make new friends

>> No.13901112

/jp/ - Blog Culture

>> No.13901123

>>13901106
Go for them and do your best anon. It's now or never.

>> No.13901127

>>13901112
Thank you anon

>> No.13901131

>>13901123
Thank you for you kind words

>> No.13901133

If OP is Japanese this is actually interesting.

>> No.13901144
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13901144

op /jp/ --------> /fit/ ---------> /g/ profit....

this helped me a lot

>> No.13901145

>>13901133
I am American,live in california area, One of the girls I like is japanese, but she is not Otaku, she is a flower artist in Japan, I am happy to talk with her on mails, but I am not sure to follow this path, or etc

>> No.13901150

>>13901106


learn it
where there is space add a .
http://neetcode xyz/

>>>/g/49571570

>> No.13901154

>>13901145
southern cali or northern?

>> No.13901156

The problem is I dont have a lot of friends to talk about this, they really dont care, this week was kind of hard to me.

Maybe share the situation will help?

>> No.13901157

>>13901156
go on but also add if you live in southern cali or northern cause pen pal

>> No.13901158

>>13901154
Sourthern

>> No.13901161

>>13901158
same, LA or San Diego county?

>> No.13901169

>>13901156

ok I'm listening

>> No.13901178

>>13901157
>>13901157
Thank you,

So after I suffer panic atacks and etc caused form the depression, I focus on my job office, try to date girls, to replace the feeling for my ex, but didnt work for a long time.

Bad experiences and etc, I meet a girl she is Otaku, but some times very emotional and this not help me at all.

The other girl I meet in my town is bassically a very old friend that help me alot in dificult years and you know.

The last option is a Japanese girl I meet online, she is so far away and not otaku, actually she says otaku hobby is ok but not for her

>> No.13901181

>>13901161
San Diego

>> No.13901188

>>13901169

Thank you for listen to me , it really helps

>> No.13901194

KILL WHITEY!!

>> No.13901208

>>13901178

>The fragile woman

no, she is going to make your situation difficult.

>The old friend

How does she make you feel? Do you see her as someone that would want to be with you? Is she only friend material?

>The long distance relationship

Will never work, to bring someone from that country to the states takes a lot of paperwork and you don't know if she is just using you to get to the states, remember that.


Someone told me once that to attract someone you have to focus on yourself first.

>> No.13901209

>>13901156
Give up on "real" life. It's not for people like us. Surely, if you were truly otaku you should've realized this at some point. This is a blessing in disguise. You don't need a girlfriend; you shouldn't rely on another person to make you happy.

You will not be able to replace this girl and you shouldn't try to. What you need to do is stop hunting and just get over it; looking will only continue to remind you of what you had. It will take time and it will hurt all the while, but someday, this will all seem very trivial. Divert your feelings into something constructive. Maybe art or writing or something. It's cheesy, but it'll help. Maybe make some online friends you can talk about this to, not those fake fucks in real life you call "friends." As you've said, they don't care.

Can't believe I'm seriously offering advice to an EET shitblogging on the Jay. But seriously, people need to stop it with this gf/bf meme.

>> No.13901211

>>13901181

shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, we live in the same county. oceanside?

>> No.13901212

Valium is making effect, Today was hard, so I took 1.5, tomorro I will post again.

See what happens, Thank you all to, hear me, is kind of strange to write this here ,

>> No.13901217

>>13901212


k, we will be here seeing that there is a fellow /jp/ in same county is cool, see ya

>> No.13901219 [DELETED] 

>>13901106
I hope you're a troll, jesus.

>> No.13901221

>>13901208
I agree, you are rigth, she is fragile, my second friend she is very diferent .

Like to drink and etc, some times she is ok but is unstable.

Japanese girl you are rigth is just a dream

>> No.13901231

>>13901209
Very good advice, Thank you for you time and input, I always wanted to draw or something.

Maybe I am just dependant and need to focus in me, but is hard cause I fell alone,

>> No.13901234

>>13901209
>not those fake fucks in real life you call "friends." As you've said, they don't care.
why are people so fake

>> No.13901237

tomorrow I wil post around 10:30.pm
My eyes are closing now,

Thank you all for your time an advice

>> No.13901241

>>13901221

is your friend an alcoholic? That's what you meant by unstable? if so don't go for her, she might be someone who has many men under belt.

I would say just work on yourself and become someone better.

or become a MGTOW (men going their own way)

here is the link:


flaming golden eagle an mgtow otaku
https://www youtube com/channel/UC-_1OuLOwK8ve25sIu-5L5w

or search for stardusk

>> No.13901242

>>13901237
See you bro. Hang in there.

>> No.13901249

>>13901237

we will be here

>> No.13902329

>>13901178
Dude, definitely old friend is the best choice here

>> No.13905632

>>13901178
>The last option is a Japanese girl I meet online
Where did you meet her? Do you talk in Japanese with her or does she know English?

>> No.13907695

Hi guys I am back, I will read you comments

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Should've used my daily kuso thread image and post for this shit thread.

Damn...

>> No.13907746

>>13901241

Not alcoholic but the is Bulimic, I discover this like a year ago, also she is the kind of girls that spend all the money she is in debt rigth now so bad.

So is not the best option, how ever some times she is ok to talk and etc.

>> No.13907759

>>13902329
Some times I think the same,
I think is the time of the friendship that make me think that, but like I mention some times she is agressive and a mess.

I need to organize my feelings

>> No.13907766

>>13905632
I meet the Japanese girl on a date site.

I study Japanese for a year, and I mix japanese and English, she speaks very basic English btw.

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>>13907746


Hi I'm the guy from SD from yesterday, all I see are red flags, just don't go for any of them and focus more on your hobbies or just improving yourself.

>> No.13907824

TODAY STATUS OTAKU LIFE

Today I wake up kind of late, yesterday I took Valium always make me sleep more that I need,
I clean my aparment and intall manga studio on my Laptop, I am planning to make a manga .

I like to draw and etc. I clean my figurines , well only a part of them cause I have a bunch, always take me like 3 days to clean my room.

In my job was all normal, no stress there, I saw my Old friend I mention, i can really talk about anything whit her anymorer or maybe I am changing.

Japanese girl rigth now is sending messages, not a lot of activiy with friend today, mostly I only have facebook contacts I never see.

During the nigth I have kind of a nigthmare, cause I decided not to talk to my family anymore since the beggining of the year, they are so negative and etc, My doctor mention is better because I am in a process of understanding issues, and talking to them will distract me so much.

So tomorrow I plan to wake up very early, to start walking or runnin on the park, and control all in my life, I dont know today I feel like anti women , they arre so complicaded

>> No.13907876

>>13907781
Yes, I agree, the thing is I meet them when I was totally depress and lonely so I was looking for friend, now is like what the heck do I did

>> No.13907997

>>13907781
I will start tomorrow, no girls this week,see what happens

Thank you for your support and input

>> No.13908159

>>13907824
>>13907876
>>13907997

Hello Kentaro. Once the threads been archived. Can you create the new thread with Kentaro General #001?

>> No.13908247

>>13908159
Yes I will do new tread but what do you mean by kentaro general?

>> No.13908278

>>13901144
I want to lick blood off her cheeks when she comes back from a battle.

>> No.13908281

What is up with your typing style.

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>>13908281

he's from San Diego county, he might be a latino or hopped up on valium.

>>13907824

Op stop taking that crap, it's going to kill you one of these days and if your passion is drawing then go for it, there are threads on /ic/ that will help you as well. go to bed early 8 or 9 pm and wake up early, you have a longer day.

>> No.13908359

Sick 旋風神 broski

>> No.13908394

>>13908315
>he's from San Diego county, he might be a latino or hopped up on valium.
He types like an Asian person. Also, him being from SD shouldn't alter his typing like that, nor should valium.

>> No.13908628

>>13908394
Or you know, his name is Kentaro, Sherlock.

>> No.13908693

>>13908628
He's saying he's american thou.

>> No.13908962

>>13908693
>thou
oh shit, we gettin ye old english up in here

>> No.13908992

>>13901106
>>>/int/india
>>>/soc/

Not your blog.

>> No.13909000

>>13908992
>India
They rape women there. /jp/ is feminist.

>> No.13910340

>>13901106
Do sport ! Try to interact with people, and see if you can keep the touch with them. Concerning your "medecine" you don't need that. I had "problems" with my heart and stress and was taking pills. And one day I thought : "Fuck that, I'm not sick". And since this moment I've never had again these "problems". I know it's hard but just so no and overpass this but it's true, you don't need to take pills.

>> No.13910606

>>13908962

kek

>> No.13911481

>>13908394
Valium could easily impair his ability to type, wtf are you talking about

>> No.13911575

>>13901106
Dude u are a pathethic wimpfaggot. Just kill uself

>> No.13911579

>>13901106
Masturbate more. Broadcast live fappinv sessions

>> No.13911702

>>13908278
That's how you get diseases anon.

>> No.13911768

>>13901106
I also have anxiety problems.
Do you have skype? We could text chat if you would like.
Email me ( 8mbgmgs@gmx.co.uk ) if you want to talk

>> No.13911773

LA is hell on earth

>> No.13911830

>>13911773
truths

>> No.13912411

>>13910340
I am back, I am reading the comments meanwhile I am esting and drawing some manga caracther.

What with my typing? Yes English is not my native Lenguage.

However I am trying to do mybest here.

>> No.13912427

>>13910340
Yes today I start to run on the park, and
I am planning to go to the Gym I am kind Skinny.

is very good advice, Sertraline or Zoloft is not that bad hass Valium, but booth are quimicals .


So I am planning to first get rid of the stupid people on my life an then the medicine each week decrease dosage.

Also plan to go and meet people on Starbucks at least say hi and be outside my aparment

>> No.13912450

>>13911575
Thats cruel..

No I will not kill my self, once I consider that when I fall in love of my last girlfriend and she dump me after 3 years of relation ship.

Now I am happy to be alive and I have a world of opotunities , is just that rigth now I am in the final. curve of my life , but I know that I can do it!

>> No.13912491

>>13912411
Don't worry about it too much. Your best is fine and legible.

>> No.13912553

>>13912491
thank you Anon

>> No.13912603
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Today Status

Today was very hard to wake up, the plan was wake up at 5am , but is hard when I am on pills, I wake up at 9am pff.

Very sleepy I made some coffee and start clening my aparment. After that I check my to do day list, I was feeling distracted, so making a list give me a sense of direction.

Then Work, I was happy cause a problem was solve, Relax day on the office.

I got back to my aparment, eat chicken with some hot tea, post a comment on a facebook group about Dragon Ball Super, I most of the time dont like to give my opinion on that cause always are stupid people anwsering .

And yeah that happen, I decide to not reply and erase my comment, just enjoy the content of the group and etc.

I made this drawing today during meal time nothing special, I really like to draw.

Japanese girl today send me messages she is kind of cute today, but I decided to focus on my self, no girls week.

Plan to go visit a local gym today, doing sport is a good idea!

>> No.13912671

>>13912603
you can do it anon, i believe in you.

>> No.13912673

>>13912603
I'm confused.

If you're American, why are you posting as Kentaro and why is your English so shit?

>> No.13912713

>>13912671
Thank you now going to the gym!

>> No.13912720

>>13912673
I am American but was raised in other country, thats why.

>> No.13912761

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RjKv8J1y4U
Was listening to this while reading the thread
Thought it might ease your problems...

>> No.13912858

>>13908628
Plenty of weebs adopt Japanese names for their online handles dude. He types like an Asian person, but he doesn't know Japanese all that well since he mixes it with English when speaking to the Japanese girl. As such, I'm guessing he isn't Japanese or wasn't raised there, at least.

>>13911481
Valium wouldn't make you type like an Asian ESL person online dude don't be silly.

>> No.13913565

>>13912761
Hi I back from the gym, thank you for sharing, I have a Orguss figure btw

I like Macross

>> No.13913702

TODAY STATUS after gym

First day on the gym, I feel num of my legs, was ok , tomorrow I will be in pain for sure.Thats is the instructor said.

I feel very calm just with my headphones by my own, I nice to see the sunset working out,

I put some ghost in the shell ost , I think today I will sleep with no problem cause I feel tired of the gym.

Today I didnt talk with the girls I mention just with the Japanese girl.

She wants to I go to Japan, but she lives in Hiroshima omfg, I only want to go to Tokio an Akihabara

>> No.13913714

>>13912450
>kill
Kill urself

>> No.13913771

>>13913714
noup

>> No.13914149

>>13911702
I'm sure Emroy doesn't mind how I died, only that my reasons were just.

>> No.13914862

>>13913702
OP, man this stuff, like what youre saying is crazy. at least you have a girl to pursue. best of luck to you and yeah. Keep us all updated OP.

>> No.13915174

>>13913702
Hey Op don't limit yourself to Tokyo. Also stay away from the niggers in Ropongi.
As an overseas visitor you can get a 14 day rail pass quite cheap (by Japanese standards) and can ride the Japanese shinkensen trains.
I did capital cities in Japan in 2010 and had a blast.

>> No.13917002

This feels like the movie densha otoko

>> No.13917082

>>13913702
Continue to do your best OP. I believe in you.

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13917144

Is this going to turn into another Denko fiasco?

>> No.13917153

>>13917082
exactly what i was thinking

>> No.13917159

>>13917153
>>13917002
^replied to wrong post

>> No.13917171

And people say there are no more good threads on /jp/...

>> No.13917191

I will put on a trip so that people dont impersonate me.

>> No.13917230

>>13917191
What are you hoping to gain from doing this? Proof of existence?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhKEd1-6EHs

>> No.13917240

>>13917230
I literally cannot stop sucking cocks.

>> No.13918355

is this a satire?

is this a result of New Sincerity?

>> No.13918727

>>13917240
NOT ME

>> No.13918764

Hi Guys I am back.

Today Status, yesterday it works, going to the gym tired me so much that I didnt need to take Valium pills.

And good news! I wake up at 5 Am, was strange I finish cleaning all the aparment in one hour, after that I took a shower and enjoy the silence, so I check my main desk were I draw and start cleaning it.

Was cover in dust. and full of figurines so I decided to make some space and clean it.
Now I only put. my favorite figures and I room to put my Ipads and pencils boxes.

So yeah, was great, after that work was Ok I need to send some Emails and etc today not big deal.

Japanese girl was very boring today, or I need to learn more japanese or she more Enlgish but is very annoying to explain everything 3 times.

Second Day of gym, but my body really hurts!

Still little distracted of looking a girl, is hard not too.

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So I have this sick fetish with girls feet, yes I am a sick pervert oh well.

Try to ask the japanese girl a pic and this is her anwser...


pfff, I cant Imagine if I go to visit her what will happen in the converstation

>> No.13918857

I hope you find happiness, Kentaro. You shouldn't be afraid to be alone. Happiness is within you. Love yourself first. Then that love will flow to those outside of you.

>> No.13918907

>>13901106
Are you japanese?

>> No.13919037

>>13918857
thank you Anon

>> No.13919044

>>13918907
Noup, Iam american but raised inother country

>> No.13919353

>>13919044
I see.

>> No.13919754

in the gym kcVVZgkz

>> No.13920217

I wonder what would happen if I were to do the opposite.

Like, start a normie journal and then write about not spending half my waking day in front of the computer.

>> No.13920281

>>13919754
Keep it up Kentaro I am rooting for you!!

Ganbatte~

>> No.13920295

くそスレ

>> No.13920305

>>13920217
good point anon

>> No.13920373

>>13918764
>Still little distracted of looking a girl, is hard not too.
Try your best! Be sure to focus on you.

>> No.13923367

>>13920373

I feel like Crono Trigger last Boss figth with Lavos,
is very hard to control my thougts some times.
in the gym they are so beautiful girls also.

However they are like level 9 or 10 I will never be with them,

>> No.13923549

So today was BAD

Yesterday after the gym was ok, I draw a litle bit and watch some Anime, the App I bougth on my Ipad didt work well, So I send a Email to the Administators to fix. I spend $1.50 on that hehe

So the plan was to sleep early like an ANON suggested, and in the morning work some pendings, how ever the Japanese Spsicopath contected on facebook

She is always serious and never understand my jokes, and sice last week she dont want to talk on Microphone .

I feel she is controling and very grumpy, very bad temper. Some times when I dont write in Japanese correctly she ignore it, need to be perfect every time.

So yesterday I decide to ask her for more pictures cause , I have to say, she dosent have one picture of her self on her facebook!

Only of her vacations like parks and etc. and always send me like old pictures of her self,
like from the earlys 2000s , so I decided to talk more like usually do with a otaku Girl.

She start to be agresive and she reply, why you only do the things I hate? So I was in shock, if she wants to be with me why to say that?

I piss off and ignore her then she changes to be the victim , oh you dont like me and blabla

when I realize was all most 1am! and because I got Angry I got insomnia until 2am when I decided to take Valium like my last resort.

I get late to work, I am on my lounch brake, I am thinking in blovking her I dont need a girl like that!

What you guys think?

>> No.13923579

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0uQZFb0KpY

>> No.13923583

When this thread ends, start a new one titled "kentaro general #1" so that we can find it more easily

>> No.13923589

>>13923549
Sounds like that girl sucks and you should break up with her.
Btw, I strongly recommend that you avoid taking valium as much as possible. That stuff is addictive. Trust me bro, you don't want to experience benzo withdrawal.

And even if it's not a benzo and just some less serious drug like promethazine, using drugs to get to sleep for more than just a night or a couple of nights is a really bad idea because you can get dependent on them very quickly. It happened to me, I ended up taking promethazine for months, and then when I stopped I couldn't barely sleep for like two weeks.

Sorry if I bothered you with any of this.

>> No.13923620

>>13923549
Give up on the Japanese girl.

>> No.13923636

>>13923583
Good Idea Anon thank you

>> No.13923669

>>13923589
You are rigth, I totally agree, I notice that I got insomnia when I am stress so I will not talk to this girl any more, yesterday I didnt took Valium to sleep the Gym works!

So Is logic to follow that path, for a man a girl is important more is she is cute but damn it they are crazy!

>> No.13923755

best thread onthe jay

I believe in you Kentaro

>> No.13923822

Kentaro, are you Japanese? Just wondering. By the way, do you play any musical instruments?

>> No.13924099

>>13923822

No I dont play instruments, I would like to learn Cello or Piano to make music specially with secuences or etc like Vangelis or Scifi

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I just talk with the Japanese girl

VERY STRANGE

She dosent talk in mic that much,
and even correct Japanese I use she seems to ignored and just stay silent.

I talk about her actitude and really nothing happen she is very clever to elude and etc.

I ask her why she broke up with her last boyfriend and suddenly she say I have to leave sorry

Maybe her ex is dead or she eat him.

>> No.13924527

>>13901112
/jp/ is not a Blog Culture. /jp/ is a board that was made specifically for all things Japan, advice for ppl who wanna go to Japan, and Japanese silly things in general.

>> No.13924555

So I have a dollfie Doll Dynamite
planinng to buy the ona hole part
to have sex with her and forget about
women for a while.

Also they sell the super boobs extension
I try the texture before and feel nice,

I am otaku but not virgin btw

>> No.13924637
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13924637

Some times I take my dollfie to a Coffe shop

>> No.13924753

>>13924637
not a good idea
what if someone tries to rape her

>> No.13924888

>>13924637
you are amazing

>> No.13925142

>>13924527
Blog Culture is part of the silly things you mentioned

>> No.13925577

Dammit, I wanan live in Japan so bad XD
but my parents just wouldn't let me;_;
so all I can do is dream about being a manga artist in Japan and eating sushi in Japan :C

>> No.13925752

>>13925577
poor girl

>> No.13925774

>>13924440
You could be being catfished OP. Be careful.

>> No.13929434

this thread belongs on page 1

>> No.13929457

que?

>> No.13930498

>>13925577

Practique and you will achieve it

>> No.13930501

>>13925774
I agree the is setting up a trap.
Push how hard she test my limits, women are predators

>> No.13930507

Morning status

I sleep well, I woke againon 5am now cleaning the aparment, today is gonna be a great day.

>> No.13930572

>>13930507
good luck my man

>> No.13930649

Is Kentaro a fictional character?

>> No.13931226

>>13930649
Noup, is basically my journal for my otaku life

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before 9am morning status update

So today I feel very in peace and happy and Psicopath Japanese girl start with her daily manipulation.

I decide to not give in.

I start talking about otaku stuff she started to get angry and attack me with saying she hates Otaku stuff.

I then send my favorite song from anime she get even madder.

At last the reveals that she Hates otaku but actually was specting to me to change in the relationship!!!!!

Screw you!! I said in my mind

I say to her to bad, good bye forever!

She block me form facebook and then she send me a Email in japanese

I simple anwser I dont know japanese now DIE!

was quite fun

Do I am becoming evil?

>> No.13931669

>>13931259
Nope, good point

>> No.13931702

>>13924527
/jp/ is not for all things Japan, you little blogging retard.

>> No.13931715

>>13931259
>>>/soc/
>>>/wordpress/
>>>/not_here/

>> No.13931761

>>13931259
post email you got from her

>> No.13932432

>>13931702
Yes it is. Stop trying to appropriate /jp/ to your culture of misogyny.

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