/lit/ - Literature

Some people are late bloomers. But you dont have much time. I'd say 4 years, maybe 5 max. After which there is no hope.

>>13350896
>people are just being hyperbolic when they say that if you don’t have a gf or lose your virginity by the time you turn 18 you never will, r-right?
yes. i got together with my gf when i was like 20

Assuming that you're American.
You have significantly less opportunity to find a gf after you finish highschool, which is probably where you're at if you're 18. You need to focus on making yourself a desirable mate and becoming an interesting person who some girl would want to spend time with. That won't happen if you're actively lusting after the pussy or just reading books on your couch. You actually have to go outside and become a rounded person. Join a club, go for a hike, do something with at least the chance of socializing. You aren't going to find a gf at a bar so don't feel like you're missing out there.

I lost my virginity at 24 and shortly after had a at Asian med student girlfriend for four years.

>>13350896
I lost my virginity when I turned 18 and now I'm 22 and never had sex with anyone else besides that girl. we broke up two years ago

>>13350981
>significantly less opportunity

Are you a fucking idiot? College is basically a social reintroduction camp. If you cant get laid in college you are literally autismo

>>13350896
Completely, I got my GF (now wife) and lost my v-card at 20. No need to take memes too seriously; if anything you're better off waiting, so you don't make a bunch of regrettable hormone-brained decisions in your teens.

>>13350994
tfw

>>13350994
If OP is going to college he's probably too dumb to get help from a bohemian tile painting forum

>>13350896
everyone who will go on to become a Chad lost their virginity before the age of 18.

if you haven't managed it yet, then you know that women have no respect for you.

>>13350896
>still caring about losing your virginity after high school
No one cares OP. If it bothers you that much just hire a hooker. If you lived in a cucked country where prostitution is illegal, save some money and go do some sex tourism in an exotic country. Now fuck off with your off-topic thread

>>13351011
what if i haven’t really tried to yet

>>13350896
Focus on improving yourself and don't be discouraged by what other people say.

>>13351106
Chads don't need to try. If you need to try you've already lost

>>13350896
It’s not about finding a gf, it’s about finding a gf who hasn’t fucked 100 men before you, which 21 is the cut off for. Maybe 18 now.

>>13351138
bro it's so fucked what do I do do I just forgive my future wife do I go into monasticism do I give up on women

>>13351146
I did, didn’t give up on self improvement though

>>13350896
>yes this post is related to literature because i read books
kek

>>13350896
Op, it's nonsensical to think in terms of such permanence. You could willingly choose to change huge aspects of your life at any given moment.

The average age for losing your virginity is 17. Do the math

volcel until I was 24
yes legit volcel, ignored many girls in high school and early adult life
whenever I masturabte since it feels as if my energy is depleted
idk man

Not really. Lots of guys lose their virginity in their 20s, but they are too ashamed to admit it.

>>13351166
>>13351177
>>13351199
Blessed thread

>>13350896
Don't worry.

If you make a cursed photo on your 20th birthday, you'll turn into 2D wizard instead of regular one at 30.

>>13350896
if you look at the statistics the percentage continues to go down even into the 40s, eventually youll find someone. if not remember that many the only philosopher who was mostly right (spinoza) never fucked

>>13351011
>>13351122
>being a chad is everything
sex is fun and all, but I find i have a much more interesting time either monogamous with a gf or just hooking up once a month or so. constantly thinking about and trying to get sex just wastes time I could spend reading, shitposting or hanging out with friends.

>>13350896
I lost my virginity at 22, nothing wrong about that. I never even had a gf before.
you just need to find someone who will truly love you, like I did. she was my first gf and will probably be the last

>>13351023
I think you might want to turn that plane around, chief.

>>13352696
>sex wastes time
How long are you fucking? Like seriously, it takes like half an hour minimum.
>shitposting
>not wasting time
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>13350986
Wow, what a fucking loser

>>13350896
I got my first gf this year. 20 yr old first year of uni. Girls were surprised when I shared I haven't been in a relationship.
High school and the whole mentality of teens is fucking retarded and the one time I took interest in a girl I got involved in drama. Some will say I am coping but I have friends 20+ that are dating hs girls and it's the equivalent of dating a dry cucumber personality-wise. I spent my high school years with the boys (we all got gfs straight out of hs) doing boy stuff and laughing our asses off at the dumbest shit. I will say that there is performance anxiety but that goes away after you realize the girl honestly doesn't care if you suck at something. The fun part is learning new things.

>>13350896
I got my gf at 19 (very latest you should get one desu) and she likes it when I recite Moby-Dick to her while we're lying in bed naked. Best advice I can give is just be yourself (or read the Iliad if you want to be better) and I'm sure you'll find someone. Go places you like and strike up conversations about anything or go to online communities you enjoy and see what happens there. Just don't go for trannies ok? Good luck.

>>13352857
>>13352865
Fuck off

>>13350896
Just getting laid (without flat out buying a hooker) is a numbers game that you can almost inevitably pull off if you put yourself out there enough. Forming relationships is trickier.

>>13350994
>mfw not a single female showed interest in me last year at uni
>mfw it'll be the same this year

>>13352826
Bro you can squeeze out a quickie in 5

divorce yourself from all the bullshit theorizing and whining about when the time is right or if you're normal. it doesn't matter. the only thing that matters in modern relationships, especially at a young age is generating enough lust to get laid by a willing girl or enough resources to constantly play games. the majority of dudes lose their virginity from various things like coercion, molesting a chick at a party, having enough drugs and alcohol to make the girl forget that you're gross, or even outright rape. go see a hooker if you really care that much about it, it isn't special

>>13352873
You know what to do

i hate this shit board
fuck you and fuck your garbage thread

>>13352885
Nah. I don't care about females that much to waste my life over them. If anything I'll become an anti-tech revolutionary and laugh when the roasties' birth-control stops flowing

>>13350896
I got laid at 21

>>13352881
It's kind of a waste of time in the long run but if you solicit sex (not hookers) online long enough you'll eventually get laid so long as you aren't a complete sped.

>>13352896
>i don't care about females that much
Pathetic virgin cope. Those grapes are really sour, eh?

>>13352899
>didn't have babysitter touch your pee pee at 3 year olds
Fake Chad

>>13352939
Sure are, buddy.

>>13352939
Well, I want sex, that's for sure. But contemporary usage of "care about" with regards to females usually implies putting them on a pedestal or viewing them as human, neither of which I will do.

>>13350994
Lmao dude college is when female hypergamy starts to run wild. Depending on the University, women have access to thousands of Chads and they won't settle for less.

>>13353015

>>13353017
>believes in female hypergamy
>all of world's scientists argue against it
Have sex, brainlet

I'm 23 and have only had one GF in my life. We got along really well but life circumstances tore us apart. I can't even remember if I even touched her body or not. I guess we were more exclusive friends than partners. Still feeling really bad about the whole thing. I really want to love again, but so many things get in the way and it seems like there are very people I could ever get along with for more than a couple months. Feels bad

>>13353028
>gf
>didn't fuck
Yikes

>>13353031
i prefer men

>>13353031
Met her in church youth group, neither of us believed in sex before marriage

>>13353061
>thinks christian girls actually give a shit about sex before marriage when Chad comes along

>>13353023
Yes, and?

>>13353073
If a girl spread her legs for you right now, you'd drop all this pretentious Incel bullshit real quick.

>>13353084
I wouldn't view her as an equal, but a sex object.

>>13353091
Nah, you'd pussy out and start treating her nice after awhile, in the fear that she'd dump your pathetic ass.

>>13353098
You can believe that if you want, but neither of us will ever know because no woman would "spread her legs" for me

>>13353026
Think the guy you're replying to just meant it happens at universities. In my anecdotal experience it seemed like any girl who was above average in attractiveness was just swimming in male attention.

>>13353084
>if a girl spread her legs for you
>an incel
Hmmmm

>>13353084
>if a girl would prove the entire movement right by using their body to get you to change your mind about your beliefs you would, wouldn't you?

>>13353084
>muh incelssss
How much of a mong do you intend on being?