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Would you be comfortable dating a girl that was much better read than you?

>> No.15415543

>>15415537
how come none of the girls i knew that were into slayer looked like that

>> No.15415549

>>15415537
>tfw no mommy anna gf

>> No.15415551

>>15415537
Yes, because while it might make me feel somewhat inferior at first, I know that we could eventually establish a mutually beneficial intellectual relationship that would improve the both of us.

Also, a girl with a Slayer poster never actually listens to them.

>> No.15415556
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>>15415537
see picture
>>15415549
degenerate

>> No.15415560

>>15415556
get lost you sad little turd

>> No.15415561

>>15415537
yes.

>> No.15415562

Yes, I actively seek out women who are better than me in at least one respect

>> No.15415565

>>15415537
Yes.
You put yoo much emphasis in how much one had read.
>And not enough on how well one can write.

>> No.15415573

>>15415556
fuck you coomer bait is the best part of /lit/

>> No.15415574

>>15415537
yeah id be into it
anna is so hot

>> No.15415615
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>>15415537
More read woman = More neurotic
More neurotic woman = Better sex

So yes.

>> No.15415635

>>15415537
That's an impossibility

>> No.15415648

Yeah, but the category of well-read does not apply to that unibrowed, bird-faced retard of the slavic complexion known as Anna Khachiyan. In a better world, she would be constantly assaulted by BB gun pellets for being, quite clearly, an unholy hybrid of avian and human characteristics; such an affront to human reason and genetics is she, that one must wonder what other great ills her family has brought upon Earth. If one were to chart her ancestry hundreds of years back, I could imagine an ancestor, with the same repulsive facial features as her, to have started quite a few plagues in their village. It is clear that there have been profound missteps in our ability to weed out, abort, and eliminate such disheartening features in our young.

>> No.15415649

>>15415537
I could date a woman taller than me
I could date a woman richer than me
I could even date a woman with a bigger dick than me
I could never, under any circumstance, date a woman who's smarter than me.

I'd rather die.

>> No.15415661

>>15415537
Yes it would inspire me to read more but also I wouldn't care anyway.

>> No.15415662

>>15415537
NA. Impossible.
I'm one of the dumb motherfuckers who actually reads here.

>> No.15415670

>>15415662
Name five books.

>> No.15415682

>>15415648
Based

>> No.15415685

>>15415615
>More neurotic woman = Better sex
how do you come to this conclusion?

>> No.15415687

>>15415649
>I could even date a woman with a bigger dick than me
Literally impossible

>> No.15415689

>>15415685
These is what they call "common knowledge"

>> No.15415694

I would love to find someone more intelligent than I but usually the kind of men that go for huge tits don't touch books.
It's like being an attractive female only attracts idiot men. Or are all men idiots around attractive females?

>> No.15415699

>>15415537
Impossible because women don’t read

>> No.15415700

>>15415694
I will never understand the motivation of someone who larps for (you)s on /lit/

>> No.15415701

>>15415694
Mental illness

>> No.15415705

>>15415670
I'm finishing up Ernst Cassirer's Essay on Man. ISOLT x 2 because I've read it twice. Lionel Snell's My Years of Magical Thinking (good recentish book). E. R. Dodd's autobiography Missing Persons...

>> No.15415708

>a girl much better read than you
No such thing.

>> No.15415716

>>15415537
*who
Use relative pronouns correctly, nigger.

>> No.15415728

>>15415694
post tits or stop larping

>> No.15415735
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>>15415685
Borderline, Dependant and Histrionic are more common amongst women, and those PD's often result in hypersexuality/Promiscuity.

That's why those girls are so needy and fucked up.

>> No.15415740

>>15415694
>someone more intelligent than I
LMFAO, nice grammar nigger

>> No.15415750

>>15415537
Absolutely. I like hearing people talk about their passions.

>> No.15415754

>>15415537
yes . she’d be really fun to torture with my feigned ignorance .

>> No.15415759

>>15415735
I'd rather crack a prude than get a whore

>> No.15415761

>>15415735
schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, are more common among men.

>> No.15415762

>>15415694
I’d love a well read big tiddy gf.

>> No.15415767

>>15415537
Anna's hot but a dumb bitch

>> No.15415769

>>15415537
Don't know, haven't met any yet.

>> No.15415773

>>15415740
You're literally proving their point.

>> No.15415775

>>15415767
>but a dumb bitch
How so?

>> No.15415781

>>15415762
Unless you enjoy humiliation and sexual torture, dating someone who is both more attractive and more intelligent than you would be utter torture.

>> No.15415784

>>15415773
>literally
nice vocabulary LMFAO

>> No.15415792

I like Anna a lot, but she's tricking y'all motherfuckers with angles. She's 35-years-old, and looks like this when she can't pick her shots:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gs8NGrWs3mc

>> No.15415796

>>15415773
>their

>> No.15415798

>>15415784
well it's true: to prove a point is an idiom but not a figure of speech.

>> No.15415800

>>15415560
absolutely called the fuck out; nice seethe

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>>15415792
it's a shame too I much prefer a frumpy 30-40 year old owning that with sexual confidence rather than trying to reclaim some 20something vibe.
i'm 25, I study with a bunch of 30somethings, they don't look too much older than me but I do think the chicks have much more alluring personalities, more of a handle on nuanced behaviors evoking seduction and eroticism, which to my reasoning can only be the result of maturity.

>> No.15415818

>>15415775
Her analysis is facile and surface level. There's no direction or logic to her political thought accept an aesthetic sensibility and contrarianism.

She is better than most other online leftoids only because the online left is the dumbest most dog brained group of people online. Just say the opposite of whatever the Jacobine editors say and you can attain Anna's level of accuracy.

>> No.15415823

>>15415784
Creative posting method, LMFAO. Let's hear you call someone a faggot now before you leave so we get all of the charms of 4chan in one go.

>> No.15415829

>>15415781
I have punched above my weight class in every sexual and romantic relationship I've ever been in, I'm about a 6, and now am married to an absolute 9-10 chick who is significantly smarter than me.
It's fucking awesome dude, you're gonna grow out of this tendency to reject and agonize over gifts you feel you don't deserve.

>> No.15415838

>>15415823
... this is not 4chan, friend

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>>15415761
Yeah, most people here have those traits, either that or avoidant traits.

>> No.15415851

>>15415648
She's not even slavic, she's a swarthy Armenian

>> No.15415853
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>>15415841
no, it's 90% dudes
Not that it means anything, my point is that gesturing towards gender imbalance in personality disorder prevalences is meaningless. dont explain nufin

>> No.15415871

>>15415823
Fuck off to reddit carebearniggerfaggot LMFAO

>> No.15415893

Yes. There isn't much that being "well-read" actually amounts to in the context of a relationship.

>> No.15415898

>>15415823
Look we have a special guest from twitter.
Would you like tea with or without cooream my good sir?

>> No.15415903

>>15415537
Yes. It's not a competition.

>> No.15415909

>>15415893
I grafted my girlfriend's entire social scene, so it could mean her friends and therefore your life of houseguests is going to be more interesting and less relaxed/cool

>> No.15415914

>>15415537
SLAYER FUCKIN SLAYER
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

>> No.15415917

>>15415829
If you are confident and can genuinely support and feel happy for your partner than I sincerely congratulate you. If you're just LARPing and I really have no hope of finding a similar relationship, fuck you for getting my hopes up.
Every guy I've been with has wanted in some way to drag me down to their level, rather than either accept the imbalance or boost themselves up to where I am.

>> No.15415922

>>15415853
No, it does explain quite a lot. Men trending towards antisocial personality disorders explains quite a lot given that men who tend to be successful and high status reach those results in large part due to a tendency towards assertiveness and a lack of agreeableness (which at the extreme manifests itself in antisocial personality disorders). In the same way successful women tend to be ones that are very concerned about how people perceive them which at the extremes leads toward personality disorders like Borderline where there is an extreme dissociation between their self-perceived worthlessness and behaviors/actions which indicate narcissism/solipsism.

>> No.15415930

>>15415909
Again, there isn't really a whole lot it would change. If there's such a significant disparity to cause strife between the two of you then you probably wouldn't have been dating anyhow, as you'd have never been attracted to each other.

>> No.15415933

>>15415917
You will never pass

>> No.15415941

>>15415537
Yes. I do not feel threatened by intelligent women, the social dynamic is different.

>> No.15415960

>>15415537
Sure, so I could surpass her

>> No.15415961

>>15415917
I had a couple girlfriends before my wife, every one of them was blatantly hot and I'm normal af, and sometimes I would really fuck it up with jealousy or competitiveness or even manipulating her self perception with subtle digs at her appearance, dark shit. Teenager though so not really something I feel guilty for, everybody's learning, but still.
When I started dating my wife I felt really insecure, but I was incredibly into her, something like a precursor for love, and saw the situation was going to require a certain attitude from me. I worked overtime off the bat to fake it, eventually making it.
Girls like guys for totally different reasons then guys like girls, I truly don't understand it, but there are way more fugly dumb dudes fucking hot smart chicks than the other way around so something has got to be up.

>> No.15415963

>>15415781
More attractive is mostly subjective, I’d love it
More intelligent is categorical, and again, I’d love it.
Won’t matter if her tits are bigger than mine or not.
>>15415841
Nice
>>15415917
Guys are usually like that. There has to be some with enough confidence and grace

>> No.15415971

>>15415543
Because she's not into slayer

>> No.15415980

>>15415537
>have podcast complaining about women being dumb whores
>do the exact same shit

Colour me shocked

>> No.15415986

>>15415922
it's hilarious you think antisocial personality disorder can do anything but fuck up lives. Nobody gets successful off of true sociopathy.
Honestly bro you have an odd perception of this stuff, it's idiosyncratic and doesn't seem to be based in the mainstream of psychiatry. I imagine there's some cultural pundit or whatever talking to you about this stuff, I invite you to instead visit the primary materials and look at formal research if you are actually interested.

>> No.15415997

>>15415961
How did you approached hot girls as an average guy?

>> No.15416019

>>15415997
I was in a band.

>> No.15416047

>>15415537
Of course not, I would be inferior in all respects in comparison and men should by definition be superior to woman so I must date inferior woman so I can be man in the relationship :(

This shit fucking sucks

>> No.15416057

>>15416019
In an underground band?
Also I am sure being in a band wasn't the reason reason.

>> No.15416099

>>15415986
I don't think antisocial personality disorder can cause anything positive. I think that antisocial personality disorder is the product of an excess of a trait which is necessary for success for men. Men require a certain amount of assertiveness/lack of agreeableness in order to be successful so this trait is selected for. The process of evolution works through an antifragile process of elimination because sexual selection is imprecise and genetic variation is large. The result of this selection for assertiveness is that a certain portion of the male population will overshoot the desired goal of assertiveness resulting in a maladaptive excess of these traits (which manifests in an antisocial personality disorder).

The same can be said of any trait. This conversation can be easily shown to be the case with intelligence. Intelligence can be very adaptive to a certain extent however at a certain point intelligence can be very isolating and maladaptive once it becomes difficult to relate to your surrounding social environment. This is one of the main explanations people have for radical geniuses having such serious psychological troubles because their intelligence (a desirable trait) overshoots desired marks to the point of causing maladaptive behavioral/psychological tendencies.

>> No.15416100

>>15416057
I guess it was underground, it was a teen band. we recorded some stuff but it fizzled out when we all went to college. thrash and hardcore.
no but my strategy was I'd invite them to shows and then at the show after or before we played I'd invite them to kick it somewhere after, we'd blow the door money on wine or beer and hang out at some park. All the dudes in that scene were straight up retarded and primarily interested in skateboarding and making loud noises, but the chicks that we hung out with all ended up at like prestigious colleges and shit.
So I'd approach a normie chick I had previously been talking to on a casual/ friendly acquaintance level and say something that made my intentions clear, I'd tell her she should come to my show, she'd show up with a few friends, etc.
My wife though I met in between high school and college in unrelated circumstances, we dated through college.

>> No.15416108

>>15416099
That's an interesting theory!

>> No.15416162

>>15415986
Trump, Obama, Bezos, they’re all sociopaths. The most successful people are.
Sometimes it’s crippling and they aren’t successful, but there aren’t any people in high positions of power that aren’t sociopaths.

It’s worse than the schizophrenics

>> No.15416164

>>15416057
I bought some pedals off of a guy who I later found out was one of the primary producers of The Body's I Have Fought Against It But I Can't Any Longer, and he's the one who told me to start a band. He asked me how old I was and I told him I was fifteen. In response he said:
"You should start a band. You get chicks, free beer, and chicks."
I followed his advice. carried me through high school. Any underageb& lurkers should do the same.

>> No.15416174

>>15416047
Indeed, the world and the way it’s been working sucks. But now do you understand why many women just switch off and let the man drive?

>> No.15416178

>>15416162
I don't think any of those 3 are sociopaths. Trump is a narcissist, Obama is hard to read but just seems like your typical scumbag actor politician, Bezos is just a striver sperg.

>> No.15416181

>>15416108
I'd recommend looking into some evolutionary psychology. It's a very interesting field and has quite a lot to contribute to conversations surrounding why certain behavioral/psychological trends are persistent even through extreme social efforts to combat them. As with any scientific field there's always a few quacks/controversies and scientific information is only good until it's disproven but I find it to be something which offers very powerful explanations without requiring massive leaps of faith to believe like many other construction oriented/post-structural psychological subfields.

>> No.15416184

>>15416047
if you're serious, there are many other ways of looking at it.

>> No.15416202

>>15415648
Good post but could use some fine tuning. You should have used “Slavic persuasion” instead of “complexion”, “bombarded” instead of “assaulted”, etc

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>>15416164
>I followed his advice. carried me through high school. Any underageb& lurkers should do the same.
Damn, I already graduated and the only person who would make a band with me isn't into the same music as me.

>> No.15416230

>>15415537
Am I the only one who is more attracted to Dasha?

>> No.15416238

>>15416230
Dasha is really unattractive to me, I don't really like her body or face.

>> No.15416244

>>15416178
They all don’t give a single shit about anyone else. They all have blood on their hands and they don’t have trouble sleeping at night. They’re all narcissistic “strivers”, that’s how you get ahead.

>> No.15416248

>>15416230
>>15416238

Someone post that video of her thrusting on the ground.

>> No.15416273

>>15415986
I agree with you, but his POV isn’t odd. It’s a pretty common meme, the epic Machiavellian sociopath lol

>> No.15416298

>>15416184
Really, you simp beta cuck nuliberal incel? Please tell me i_i
>>15416174
Yeah they just sit around and look at their tits and shit but if they were to ever take the lead, would normies ever give them shit for it? Fuck no. God I wish I was gay.

>> No.15416309

>>15416298
wow, you're mad.

>> No.15416331

>>15415537
Already do. I'm in med school and my GF is graduating in social sciences. I know I'll never have the time and opportunity to read as much as her, but in the end, people can only focus/talk about so many subjects at once, so it's not as if I'm crushed by her cultural baggage in a daily basis. To be honest, we just sporadically discuss literary and philosophical stuff, most of the time we just wanna chill and be togheter

>> No.15416333

>>15416309
Tell me your magic ways of looking at the situation differently or fuck off genius. Should I be less mad?

>> No.15416341

>>15416333
yeah, you should chill out

>> No.15416350

>>15415537
Women only read YA and that doesn't count as being well read.

>> No.15416358
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>>15416333
>Should I give up the school of resentment

Y E S

>> No.15416366

>>15416341
No, you should just stop being such a pussy.

>> No.15416372

yes, but anna is not a good example. there are better read women out there who are not ideological zealots who have distanced themself from reality by becoming so irony poisoned that they can’t discern the plain truth from the aesthetic underpinnings of their whole identity, that they have leaned too far into to have any hope of ever attaining real intellectual prudence, insight, and a balanced understanding of humanity

also, i’d prefer a girl who is considerably less materialistic. but i suppose that cultivating a contrived online persona goes hand in hand with materialism

>> No.15416394

>>15416366
ah so to avoid being a pussy I need to get my dander up about nonsense and hamstring myself like you?

>> No.15416456

>>15416394
Uhh what? Right so it's all pointless for you so whatever you don't care nothing hurts you. Go watch anime or something, your opinion on anything sounds like trash.

>> No.15416539

>>15416358
I resent my loser-ness because I'm not the stereotype of not loser-ness which is being superior to women. Why should I reject resentment when I will end up getting bullied for being an inferior man who isn't superior to women?

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That she continues to derive such fulfillment from thirst trapping /lit/cels should tell you a thing or two about how well-read she supposedly is.