/lit/ - Literature

>>17230222
>in weeks
try years you weak cunt

>>17230222
This is a literature board, sir. Who cares about your lonely soul? Also
>just sent her a message out of absolute desperation.
This is a fuck up. Also
>222
Checked

>>17230222
>weeks
Consider yourself lucky.

>>17230222
what did the message say?
this is important

also godspeed, i hope you're pursuing your interests otherwise

Tell her to go fuck herself

we're all alone, even when we're together. Don't worry too much about what might or might not be. just think about today. what are you doing today to be a better person, anon? how are you different than yesterday?

>>17230222
Why do you care? There are other girls, anon. None is like her and that is what makes things interesting.

>>17230510
We're all alone, ESPECIALLY when we're together

>>17230412
it just said "I hesitated in sending you this message."

Just work out bro it's ez build yourself some abs and stop crying

>>17230549
Woof

>>17230510
>we're all alone, even when we're together.
This is one of those platitudes academics and gurus and Hollywood mystics say which is untrue as I know from bitter experience.

>>17230549
I think you might need to follow up with that i think frequently of things i would like to say but will never get the chance to as the paths of our lives are not destined to cross again. Its selfish of you to impose your feelings and thoughts on someone uninvited, but at this point you already have. You might as well tell her how you truly feel to affirm in your head that it is just a fantasy.

>>17230222
>in weeks
>had a relationship with a girl
consider yourself lucky

Based trips. Also, your life will improve in the future. Get a job, get a hobby, invest in yourself, and look for some friends who share your interests. Be patient, and you will succeed.

Don't see what this has to do with literature, but best of luck to you anyways, anon.

>>17230222
Sounds like you're ready for the anime pill.

>>17230834
there is nothing 'lucky' about being in a relationship. having a woman try to talk to u like 12h a day is one of the most dreadful experiences a man can have

>>17230222
that sounds awful, you should write about it

>>17230222
Lift more faggot

>>17230222
You can use this time to make productive steps to find someone else if you choose. Even something like a job with a high female employee base can help you. I was relatively lucky to find my gf. I must warn you though that you will be tested on the faults of the girl that is right for you. You can fall for the "she's perfect in every way" or you can decide to make the correct choice and help another on their path to beauty. This probably doesn't make a whole lot of sense to you at this time, but there will be one day where you can choose to rake a risk on someone that will dedicate themselves to you or stay in your bubble alone. I would focus on making yourself more attractive if that is a problem for you. Beauty seeks beauty.

>>17230222
wtf OP you literally just described my life EXACTLy right now right down to the sent, but not yet replied to, text

>>17230549
lmfao what the fuck

>>17231132
meanwhile the girl I just """dated""" for a while sent me one sentence boring replies every 12 hoursif I was lucky

>>17230222
Schopenhauer.

Holy fuck people lmao

This will be known as the incel generation. This phenomenon deserves serious study, public debate and sympathy and yet our political and academic elites choose to mock, vilify and blame the victim. This cannot end well.

On a side not, what literature is being produced by and about incels?

>>17233012
KEK only meme tier stuff so far. Redpill and MGTOW. I kinda hope someone gets 'discovered.'

>>17233012

>>17230222
> has had a relationship

Fuck off chad, you don't know what loneliness is.

>>17232651
Who cares? Dont text her then. Did you enjoy time spent with her? If you did then there’s no problem

All of you weak whiny motherfuckers would've been thrown into a pit in a different time. Pull your heads out of your asses and do something for once.

>>17231132
This is something "tfw no gf" fags will never understand. Being in a "relationship" with a woman is just another way of saying that you're her handler and babysitter. Women require CONSTANT validation and attention. It's absolutely exhausting trying to feign interest in all the drivel she ear-rapes you with.
>Oh wow, I can't believe Jessica said that to you.
>You're right babe, that customer was a dick
>Yea I listened to those Pale Waves songs you sent me, they were greeeat.
>You should totally collect those Calico Critters figures.
>Haha what a silly cat. Great video, babe.
>No babe! I wasn't ignoring you, I was in class.
>That was just my mom on the phone!
And this is just talking to or texting her. I'm not even including all the other superfluous bullshit that comes with her periodic meltdowns (directed at you or not), constant need for entertainment (food, movies, hikes, etc), retarded political/social/philosophical "ideas", absolute ADDICTION to her phone and social media. I could go on forever. Eventually you come to realize that the time, mental, and opportunity cost of maintaining a woman's ego is absolutely not worth getting access to her pussy 4 or 5 times per week. Maybe I've been extremely unlucky with the girls I've dated, but I constantly felt like a babysitter.

>>17230222
> I am trying to read a Thomas Mann novel, but the interactions between the characters are worsening my feelings
why do you think people on here read philosophy because novels have romantic relationships in them, they'd rather not be reminded

>>17233814
sounds like you have a shitty gf and are a shitty bf

>>17233814
You are with the wrong girl, anon.

>>17233843
Not saying this isn't a possibility, but I've experienced this with multiple women across geographical and racial lines.

>>17233869
See >>17233875. I wish I experienced this with just one.

>>17233875
KEK don't 'women are all alike' me.

>>17233904
Don't NAWALT me

>>17233875
>>17233882
That means nothing. Change yourself, so different types of women will be attracted to you instead of the lowest denominator vapid braindead whores, which exist across geographical and racial lines by the way, that you can solely attract.

>>17233843
>>17233869
>>17233904
>>17233921
>NOOOOOOOO NOT MY WOMENERINOS!!!! MY PRINCESSES!!!! U PROBABLY JUST DIDNT RESPECT THEM HARD ENOUGH!!!!!!

>>17233012
The victim of what?

>>17233814
Putting up with that shit is better than being lonely, though. (Although it doesn't feel like it at the time.)

Ditching a net positive status quo for a fantasy perfect future is some real American Dream self help bullshit. When you are old and falling apart and she is still by your side, you will be happy you took the time to fake laugh at her shitty cat videos.

>>17234159
I've experienced both and I definitely prefer my solitude, but to each his own.

>>17233944
Just saying that if you don't care about someone, acting like you do feels like a chore. Kinda obvious.

>>17230222
Cool blog bro. What Thomas Mann book and is it good?

>>17233012
I’ll paraphrase some other anon’s words:
>Society needs a metaphorical whipping boy to direct all of its resentment at. Now that every other group is protected, it’s the incel’s job to absorb all of that negative energy. You serve a very important role in society, incel. You should be proud.
Check out Rene Girard if you want a more academic, serious exposition of this same idea.

>>17230240
fpbp
>>17230275
based

>lonely but not sad

>>17230549
holy cringe. Just say hi you autist, if she doesn't respond then she doesn't care and you need to move on

>>17231132
what the fuck is the purpose of having a relationship with a person you don't actually like?

>>17230222
send her this thread