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who is she?

what a beautiful jurl

>>17804970
Is this woman a pornography actress, if so, what would mayhaps be her name so that I may look her up and masturbate to her performance.

>>17804970
>Zarathustra
>21

I´ve only been using it for 3 months tough

>>17805010
Is it that rich hapa girl from face abuse?

>>17805010
emily grey. have a good fap

>>17805024
nah she wasn't this hot

>>17804970
>between 400 and 500
post tits

>>17804970
I don’t use Tinder and you shouldn’t either

>>17805031
jesus thank you, I'll dedicate this fap to you

>>17804970
sorry i dont talk to chinlet cumrbains. I also reported you

>>17805044
uh oh INCEL ALERT!

>>17805044
>and you shouldn’t either
why

>>17805073
it's undignified

>>17805073
Why do you use it?

>>17805080
I don't use it either but the sad truth is most people meet using tinder or similar apps nowadays.

>>17805080
who cares lol
>>17805090
I used it a long time ago and liked it, I dont use it anymore. Met a lot of cool girl tough, just filter the disgusting skanks and you´ll find cool girls

>>17805114
most people are sad and dumb

>>17805122
Maybe, but you will have a harder time finding a mate by not playing their game.

>>17805080
>it's undignified
>No, you can´t have fun, you have to be hyperconscious about your social standing

>>17805125
i wouldn't want to find a "mate" on tinder. that's just asking for suffering

>>17805136
Then remain alone

>>17805135
if i were hyperconscious about that i'd probably use tinder

>>17805136
This. Even for casual shit, tinder is the fast food of human interaction.

I'm not terrible looking, but lost a lot of muscle mass and haven't had sex in a little over a year now. Can I just take one natural light selfie, and 3-5 trippy colored light pictures in my apartment and use it on Tinder? I don't have any pictures with other people or outside.

>>17805136
I had that same mentality but then met my gf there and made me change my mind, there´s a lot of disgusting pussy there, but also a lot of formidable girls
You underestimate the amount of alienation everyone today faces when finding partners and end up resorting to dating apps, Tinder isnt just used by sluts, a great portion of normie girls are there

>>17805156
>Tinder isnt just used by sluts, a great portion of normie girls are there
what did you mean by this?

>probably As I Lay Dying
>100 since i installed it three weeks ago

Is there no escape from the vaginal jew? Do you have to post this shit even on /lit/?

Kys!

>>17805156
Average normie girl IS a slut you idiot

>>17805169
>Average normie girl IS a slut you idiot
suit yourself, I disagree. I think female misanthropy distorts your perception of reality

>>17805155
Rule of thumb:
1st pic: you with a group of friends
2nd pic: you and your cool hobby (or pet)(no, not the gym)
3rd pic: you at a cool place (traveling)
4th pic: just you (if you’re attractive)

>>17805143
sorry, but i used tinder for a while but the whole thing just bothers me for reasons i can't quite articulate. the whole effort of making the right sort of profile, taking the right sort of pics, making the right sort of conversation, it's just tedious and not worthy of my time and the pay off doesn't seem worth it. but if it works for you, then keep using it. a lot of my friends feel the same way too.

>>17805155
Selfies just look sad, really try to avoid them

>>17805175
Enjoy your sloppy 32nd's, normalslime

>>17805119
>my pee pee got sucked so it was nice

>>17804970
>tinder
fuck off, worthless cumbrain

>>17805169
Based, ban jezebelposting and hang simps

>>17805183
I unironically love tailoring my profile just because I´m a photography nerd and love to see my goated pics make bitches baffled

>>17805135
If anything wading through a sea of vacuous photos of people "traveling" that exist only to engender reflexive sympathy for the purposes of sex has made me hyperconscious about my social standing.

I don't want hedonism, I want a faithful loving marriage with the mother of my children and though it seems to mean I shall stay lonely, I would disgust myself to use Tinder for a second more, enabling more misery for me and everyone else on there.

>>17805175
>female misanthropy
it's called misogyny, dimwit

This is it. If I swipe one more girl right, it'll be the closest to getting laid I've ever been.

How many replies you people guessing?
I think we go to 200+

>>17805193
>>17805191
I don´t know why I even try to have normal conversations with people in this board. I´m just going to start calling everyone here a nigger. its all so tiresome

in search of lost time

>>17805184
>Selfies just look sad, really try to avoid them
Why are zoomers so insecure and weird? Selfies were fine in my age

t. millennial

>>17805176
>1st pic: you with a group of friends
I don't have any.
>2nd pic: you and your cool hobby (or pet)(no, not the gym)
Posing with a book is way too douchy.
>3rd pic: you at a cool place (traveling)
I don't go outside.
>4th pic: just you (if you’re attractive)
How would you take the "just you" picture?

>>17805218
This.

>>17805210
lol easily

I'm a virgin that's desperate to lose it even during lockdown, how do I make a tinder bio that isn't dogshit?

>>17804970
MOSSAD GLOWNIGGER DATAMINING THREAD!

>>17805202
I didn´t go there with the purpose of sex and got a relationship instead, sure I had to turn down the majority of my matches because of it but a screening process is always important to get what you want. I don´t understand why you have to subscribe with the pre-made goal of that app

>>17805229
this post will get ridiculed but save it for someone you like, don't just throw it away on some tinder slag

>>17805229
learn photography

>Libra by DeLillo
>10 in a month, but only due to having a gold account, which enabled me to match all of my likes, except for one hideous girl and two fatties. Without this feature, I would have gotten exactly two matches naturally. Depressing, really.

>>17804970
why tf is this board so misogynous? I also think women have inherently worst characteristics than men when it comes to temperament, but I don´t understand how that translates to hatred towards women
Women are fun to engage with, why are you niggas so disgusted by them?

>>17805278
>Women are fun to engage with
unless you're counting sex, wrong.

>>17805080
I'll give you undignified, fuck off!

>>17805292
anon... i kneel

>>17805175
>female misanthropy
More reading less simping, retard.

>>17805212
>other people aren't normal
>not like me, whose first reaction is to call people nigger

>>17805080
be careful not to hurt your vanity anon!

>>17805135

>>17805303
people with self respect don't use tinder, sorry. maybe go outside and talk to someone instead of using an app idk

>>17805305
Anglos ruined social discourse

>>17805278
No sex, frustration from suffering over no sex, desire to transcend sex.

>>17805278
Other than the wet hole between their legs, there are precisely 0 reasons to interact with women outside your family. You sound like a 17 year old fresh after his first fuck.

>>17805239
Wrong, women are physically repulsed by non-herpetic men, even the quiet ones, even the faux-religious.

>>17805307
>people with self respect don't use tinder
Your premise is retarded and shows you haven´t left your home in 10 years. Imagine tying your entire self-worth to the usage of an app lmao

>>17804970
decline of the west
0

normies girls on tinder look so depressingly bland that this fucking app made me appreciate arthoes and egirls, which i'd normally despise. yesterday, i superliked some stupid hipster broad just because she had medicine bottle by red house painters as her profile song ffs

>>17804970
>Naked lunch
>I have a gf who loves me I don't need to comodify my sex drive to fuck whores

>>17805318
>there are precisely 0 reasons to interact with women outside your family
I´m sad that you never found a good girl anon. Hope you manage to find one

>>17805324
you sound upset

>>17804970
>Incel bait thread
>Automatically most popular /lit/ thread

JUST GO GET FUCKING LAID OR OFF YOURSELVES YOU DISGUSTING FUCKING INCELS, STOP POLLUTING THIS BOARD REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>17804970
>Remains of the Day
>0
I've been happily married since before tinder existed.

>>17805218
>>17805220
Then just use a casual full body shot, a charming headshot and hope for the best. Location plays an important role and this >>17805184

>>17805336
>muh good girls
Kek. I remember idealizing women as a sexually active teenager chasing easy pussy. Wait til you have some experience with long term relationships and we can discuss “good girls” again.

>>17805229
A few big things - have photos of you with your friends. This signals that you are social and people want to be around you. If you do not have friends or your friends are total dweebs whose being your friend will (you think) lend you no social credit, go to the local nightlife area and ask to take a picture with a group of chads. They will agree - and besides, birds of a feather flock together, don't they? If you are nervous, put on a fake European accent and say that you are a tourist and want a picture of yourself with people enjoying the local nightlife to show people back home. But the chads will want to take the photo.

Be funny. Women love funny men. I am not abnormally attractive, but being able to make witty comments at the right moment and make a group of people laugh all at once makes women go crazy, because it's one of the few means by which you can demonstrate power over others without either asserting some sort of "intellectual superiority" (cringe) or using violence (illegal). Maybe that's not the correct psychological explanation, but the input (funny) and output (attraction) are absolutely true.

Do not talk about things you intend to do. Talk about things you actually do or have done. Women want someone who has demonstrated their potential, even in seemingly minor ways, not someone who "may" have potential. For example, do not talk about finishing your degree - talk about how you took charge of a group project and got it done. Make sure the story is funny, so that it seems like the point is not to demonstrate your efficacy, but to merely tell a funny story. It will have the intended effect, but you cannot be too direct about these things or it will fail.

Do not ever talk about video games or Star Wars or Marvel or anything like that. You can confirm that you are generally aware of these things, but go no further.

This is mostly advice to have sex with higher-achieving women who have a touch of narcisssism (which any women above a 6 will have). If you're literally just trying to lose it with any woman, you won't need this advice, but it probably won't hurt either. It has always worked for me, but, as I said, I have empirical evidence that women find me witty and interesting, so maybe I can make things like this work where a different strategy would work better for someone else.

I don't know if this gives you hope or not, but it all boils down to confidence. Always, always communicate confidence in yourself, no matter what.

>>17805360
I´m literally engaged to my 8 year gf
You´re still wrong btw

every girl I met on tinder turned out to be a massive cunt

>>17805366
Sure you are, simp. Post proofs.

>>17805377
fuck you want me to post lmao
I´m not doxxing myself

>>17805213
>110 matches
>57 likes
Yikes. You swipe right on everyone?

>>17805239
Normally I'd agree with you but I only have a year left of college and will feel miserable for the rest of my life if I never get pussy here

>>17805364
I'd rather buy a prostitute than this roundabout personal fabrication shit.

Don Quixote
0 matches across Tindr, Bumble, Hinge, and Coffee Meets Bagel

>>17805364
TLDR

>>17805364
yeah this is what i meant by undignified. i almost burst out laughing reading this shit.

>>17805385
>will feel miserable for the rest of my life if I never get pussy here
no you won't. you will grow up and mature and not think about such stuff when you're racked with enough adult responsibilities.

>>17805382
I have basically the same match/like ratio even though I swipe right maybe one fifth of the time tops. It's weird.

>>17805388
The only real fabrication implied in that comment was to deny liking basedboy media. The rest of it boils down basically to: have friends, be witty, and communicate your achievements, which is barely even advice, because anyone who needs it will already lack friends, not be witty, and have no real achievements.

>>17805397
Nigga this is just common sense, i dont know why that anon made such a long post

Reminder that this is what your Tinder "experience" is going to be unless you're a Chad

>>17805412
So your advice is basically
>just already be a chad

>>17805419
below average and black and yet he apparently only swiped right on the top 10% of women

>>17805364
Holy cringe..... do incels really go through reflection on basic social discourse like this? What would even cause you to think of going through the trouble of doing this shit?

>>17805419
I guarantee you his profile is setup shittily.
This is the number one problem I see with these incel posts, their profiles are always very unflattering and very uninteresting. It's not a case of dating, it's a case of them failing to grasp the medium they're using.

>>17805419
...aaaaannddd this is your crush's Tinder profile. Notice two things. First, she swiped left on over 80% of men. Second, out of the 20% she swiped right on she matched with 80% of them thus confirming the 80/20 rule - women only find top 20% of men attractive. Absolutely brutal

>>17805364
just be yourself bro

>>17805430
A case of being themselves basically. You gotta jump through loops and invent and fake a chad personality to get laid once.

>>17805430
based incels

>>17805430
Cope. You can be a literal Nazi and provided you're sufficiently attractive (8/10 or higher) foids won't mind

>>17805435
Tinder's Gini coefficient - a measure of equality of distribution of resources - is higher than that of pretty much every single country on Earth (including the US)

>>17805385
I have a friend who focused on his studies, got a good job after college, and then married the first woman he ever dated, who is completely brilliant and gorgeous. Tell me, do you think he regrets not having sex with thots?

You may be under the delusion that women will somehow be able to tell that you're a virgin, which first of all they can't, and that somehow your "stock" will go down if you wait, but it's not true. It's a very pernicious lie pushed mostly by people who have nothing else to look forward to, and who have little hope of achieving something more interesting than sexual conquest.

People make sex out to be some kind of measuring stick of worth, but the correlation is so attenuated that it's worthless. Be a good, upright person, have a little self-confidence, talk to some women, and don't go into things for the wrong reason and you will find the right woman soon enough. Go after sex for the sake of sex is like going after dinner for the sake of dessert.

>>17805477
Based post.

>>17805477
Your friend is a happy exception to a generally unhappy rule. Saving yourself for marriage used to be a good advice in the 50s. In 2021 it boils down to
>I, a 35 year old virgin, happily married a used up foid who got off the cock carousel and is probably a coal burner too! But at least I'm not like them hateful incels, r-right?
There's no point in saving yourself for marriage because it's pretty much guaranteed your future wife won't (unless you found her in your local religious community)

>The Tartar Steppe
>600+
>pic related

>>17805419
Thank fucking god I'm a chad because 50% of matches I get I end up going on a date with lmao
Those statistica are a joke

>>17805031
Thanks anon. That was great. She’s so cute in a weird way.

>>17805457
Kek

>>17805503
>35 year old virgin
There's a big difference between a 20 year old virgin and a 35 year old virgin.

>>17805503
>unless you found her in your local religious community
Have you ever been around church girls? They're hopping on the cock carousel at 15 like any other slut.

>>17805477
nice

>>17805523
No shit. 15 years to be precise. What does this have to do with the substance of my post?

>>17805430
This. My sister showed me the guys on her Tinder and Im absolutely baffled by the lack of effort EVERYONE puts in their photos. No wonder no one swiped them right lol

>>17805524
I live in a majority Catholic country. I assume it's different in Protestant American "churches"

>>17805521
no problem anon. she got a boob job and plastic surgery recently unfortunately. i don't know why top tier cuties like this feel the need to do that it's sad

>>17805537
Are you not ashamed of your sister?

>>17805503
I don't mean to say that you should save yourself for marriage - I mean that you should not pursue sex for its own sake. If you find a nice girl who you connect with emotionally and whom you can have a stable, long-term relationship with, I think it's good to make sex a part of the relationship. But pursuing sex because of some societal pressure that you think you feel is an emotionally and spiritual dead end.

>>17805537
If anything that should be a good sign, that they don't take shit too seriously.

>>17805527
You're replying to someone who says 'don't sweat not getting laid in college,' and then going off about 35-year-old incel virgins settling for a used up roast beef sandwich. There's a world of difference (more than just 15 years) between a fresh-faced 21 year old college grad and a 35 year old frustrated incel socialized into soi tendencies.

Analogy: I would not be worried that my 3 year old son doesn't understand the basic rules of grammar. I would be very concerned if my 18 year old son did not. The difference is not just the age, but in the context that surrounds it.

>>17805551
I take my photos seriously because Im into photography and hate seeing shit photos. Especially when the main goal of the app is to present yourself in the best possible light through photos
Just using my PENTAX with auto mode takes better photos than 99% of niggas there
Like learn fucking proper lighting and portions jesus fucking christ, put some effort into it

>>17805540
No, I mean catholic girls. Good luck finding one that's still a virgin at 16 lmao.

>>17805292
Did that sound cooler in your head?

>>17805557
Why is your assumption the guy in that anon's story is 20-21?

>>17805544
Yes lmao, but I tell her that all the time. Also most niggas have 0 fucking banter by the convos she shows me. Its embarassing

>>17805583
the life of the male in 2021 is hard anon... cut them some slack... they are tired...

>>17805581
The guy was probably 23-24; that said the anon he was replying to was (again) talking about being a virgin with one year of college left, which implies an age of around 20.

>>17805576
Are you American? Catholic foids will naturally mimic the behavior of secular foids. In my country it's getting worse but I don't have it nearly as bad as my American incel comrades

>>17805599
Slovakia. I wouldn't believe what these catholic girls do behind daddy's back had I not seen and doneit myself.

>>17805524
Maybe if you live in a shithole full of dead churches.

>>17805610
Are you a Catholic girl or just someone who banged one?

>>17805503
Just marry young and you don't have to worry about any of it.

>>17805610
Ahoj zachodnio słowiańskim braciom, Polak tutaj

tristram shandy
23 over 2 months, was in a relationship for the other 10

>>17805616
Poor phrasing, apologies. What I meant is that I fucked a couple catholic teens myself and seen others blow their friends like it's nothing.

They're all married and proud tradwives now, of course.

>>17805630
Sláva kurva

>>17805642
No worries anon, was just curious! Yes, there is certainly a reputation that 'bad girl' Catholics live up to. Usually it's those who did the worst in their youths who become insufferably upright in their adulthoods. Meanwhile the quiet Catholic schoolgirl who never made waves or blew her friends gets married quietly and leads a quiet life.

>>17805659
>those who did the worst in their youths who become insufferably upright in their adulthoods
>quiet Catholic schoolgirl who never made waves or blew her friends gets married quietly
100% correct based on my experience

>>17805653
Baza przyjacielu
>>17805659
There's nothing bad about acknowledging the mistakes of your old ways and attempting to amend your life itself, the problem is they later expect you to treat her as if nothing had ever happened.

>>17805687
>There's nothing bad about acknowledging the mistakes of your old ways and attempting to amend your life itself, the problem is they later expect you to treat her as if nothing had ever happened.
Agree entirely.

>>17805687
Seems like a thing they would absolutely do again if they were were 16 again. Moralizing for most of those types seems like a cope.

>>17805166
Post jawline

>>17804970
I really don't understand incels:
>Premise 1: women are dumber than men
>Premise 2: I'm a man
>Premise 3: I want to have sex with a woman
>Conclusion: its easy to have sex with women because since I'm smarter I can influence them easily

But not, yall niggas somehow end up with:
>same premises
>conclusion: therefore I can't have sex with women because they're sluts (which would only make it easier for you to get laid)

>>17805428
Why? Because 80% of men will remain sexless unless they either do this or buy prostitutes.
Most females have had casual sex through tinder but not many males and of those it's a small minority of have almost all of the casual sex.

>>17805820
I think hes talking about the logical breakdown of intuitive social discourse, not the use of tinder

>Complete Emily Dickinson / To The Light House

>0 Start app, take pictures, feel self aware, who is this person in the picture?, want desperately to avoid this feeling, want to be nothing, delete app and go back to reading poetry.

I just wanna hold hands again bros.

>>17805842
I have aspergers and unless I plan my moves ahead when taking to women they will generally be disgusted by me in a few minutes, even if they approached me because they presumably though I was attractive.

>>17805790
Faulty premises and a conclusion that doesn't follow from them regardless.

Your Premise 1 is not a universally accepted incel premise.
Your conclusion 'the smarter person can influence the dumber person' doesn't flow from any premise and is in fact a premise on its own. But it is a faulty one - there are enormously stubborn idiots out there, along with very persuadable 'intelligent' ones.

The actual ideas around inceldom are that (1) women have more agency or power in accepting/rejecting potential mates than men; (2) society no longer discourages women from promiscuity (or even 'society encourages women to be promiscuous'); (3, generally unstated) there is nothing to discourage men from being promiscuous if they can, (4) Because there's a large supply of both men and women seeking sex, women can be very selective about who they sleep with due to premise 1, and they will choose the most attractive men available while ignoring the average or below average men. Usually there is also a (5th) point which is that this is an unjust or unfair or unstable system for society to have.


YMMV in how persuasive you find this line of thinking.

>>17805861
It might actually be your obsessing over whether or not women find you attractive in the first place that turns them off. I can't fathom the fact that some people really go about structuring their daily lives based on arbitrary shit like sex appeal. Seems like an easy way to be miserable.

>>17805863
There should be a nothing controversial about those statements and they are obvious to anyone with any knowledge of evolutionary mating strategies.
Sadly most people think we are above our animal instincts, this is obviously false.

>>17805880
Did you miss the part where the anon said he has aspergers? I don't think he would disagree with you that this is a miserable way to live.

>>17805863
Touché. I kneel anon

>>17804970
>>17804993
>>17805010
>>17805008
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>>17805521
That's a man

>>17805880
I don't obsess over those things, maybe this is you projecting. I said if I talk naturally about what comes to mind they leave very quickly and seem disgusted by me, this does not imply me obsessing over their feelings about me. In fact I don't really care about feelings to much because as I said I have autism.

>>17805887
I agree in general, but I can see controversy around the first two points (women have agency; women are encouraged/are not discouraged from promiscuity). The woke left will (somewhat ironically) refer to men's physical strength over women on the first point (nevermind the even stronger societal norms that we live under), and the mixed messages regarding promiscuity on the second (Madonna-Whore complex stuff).

>>17805863
>4) Because there's a large supply of both men and women seeking sex,
A minor correction I'd suggest is that it's actually the imbalance of so many men seeking sex relative to women leading to run-away selectivity. Even if we assumed relatively the same number of men and women being interested in sex at some point, it obvious that both the rate and intensity at which men are interested in sex is much higher than women.

>>17804970
TELL ME HOW TO PICK MY FAVORITE BOOK
PLEASE

>>17805946
The Ethics - Baruch Spinoza (pbuh)

>>17805382
no, one in 25-30 girls at most

>>17805932
I suppose that's fair (that is, it seems right on a gut-level, though I haven't actually looked into it at all and wouldn't be surprised if that's not the full story). I'd suggest that it has more bearing on the first premise (women have power to accept/reject mates) than the 4th though.

>>17805955
fuck you

>>17805955
based

>>17805863

Also worth reading on the subject - Mike Anton's thoughts on Tom Wolfe. First half of this essay is pertinent: https://claremontreviewofbooks.com/a-woman-in-full/

>William Crooke and Sir Herbert Risley, two 19th-century English social scientists, coined the term “hypergamy” to describe their observations of inter-caste marriage in India. Women, they found, married up but never down. Crooke and Risley concluded (or assumed) that hypergamy’s root (in India, at least) is the male insistence on preserving the status of the patrimonial line. A decade ago, political theorist F. Roger Devlin revived the term and gave it a new twist. Far from being unique to India, hypergamy is in Devlin’s account universal and, what’s more, driven by female, not male, desires. “[W]omen,” he wrote, “have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best.”
>When properly channeled, hypergamy can be individually and socially beneficial. It encourages young ladies to become worthy of a worthy man, and vice versa. Yet off the leash, it spurs women in unhappy and self-indulgent directions.
>...
>The sexual revolution, universally assumed to be a boon for randy men, has turned out to be in at least one respect much more conducive to satisfying women’s preferences than men’s. Men may have started it, or at least egged it on, hoping that with the old restraints gone, they would be free to indulge. But they forgot or never understood a fundamental law of nature: throughout the animal kingdom—up to and including Homo sapiens—males merely display; females choose. When a woman’s choice is completely free of all social, legal, familial, and religious boundaries, she prefers to hold out for “the best.” Hence a constrained-supply problem arises.

>>17805963
How does this work though? The likelihood that you would like precisely the girls, and only the girls, that like you back is slim. Does Tinder show your profile only to girls you've already liked?

>>17805307
based

>>17806087
No nigga, I just have a 10/10 profile, I use common sense