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Be honest

>> No.12698959

>>12698953
Pros:
You get to stop being a loser
Cons:
You don't get to look cool on /lit/

>> No.12698964

>cons
you'll waste money
>pros
none

>> No.12699152

I've seen this thread too many times. Shut the fuck up.

>> No.12699412

>>12699152
Let me guess, self-help books didn't help?

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12699418

Actually this one is pretty fucking good

>> No.12699443

>>12699418
Thanks. Will look into it

>> No.12699450

>>12699443
There's a short passage in there that helped me accept myself for being shy.

Turns out we shy folks are just acutely aware of the consciousness of others, which is not a bad thing in and of itself.

>> No.12699462

>>12699450
Do girls like our shyness, and find us cute for it? Seeing us as delicate, and sweet?

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12699482

>>12699462
Yep, can confirm

>> No.12699498

>>12699462
Generally speaking no, but it's not some kind of nail-in-the-coffin. Some of us take a long time to open up and get comfortable, and many women are also that way, or understand that and are patient with it. Just don't use it as an excuse to never ask someone you feel you might be able to really love on a date.

>> No.12699583

>>12699462
Imo, shyness is a very attractive trait and it show authenticity. For men however, shyness is a hit or miss for women. You still have to be confident one way or another. Strong body posture helps if you're an autist

>> No.12700931

>>12699462
no it makes you look like a pussy

>> No.12700934

>>12699462
why would you want to be seen as cute, delicate, or sweet by a woman lmao