How to completely stop getting sexually aroused?

[Anonymous No.13479920]

I am on nofap. Not masterbating isn't an issue, but continuous sexual thoughts have become a big problem. Having them when I'm studying/reading is making me lose my concentration. Also having an erection for 10 minutes is painful. What must I do to get rid of these thoughts?

[Anonymous No.13479927]

>>13479920
>>>/adv/

[Anonymous No.13479934]

>>13479927
Yeah, I already posted there. Anons in /adv/ are generally against nofap. So I thought, maybe I could get some advice from /lit/.

[Anonymous No.13479937]

>>13479934
/r/nofap

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !!pCXg+Sw92A9 No.13479953]

>>13479920
God, you're retarded. Get a girlfriend, OP.

[Anonymous No.13479964]

>>13479920
Cold shower and mini meditations and it goes away after a month and once u have normal sex life there's no problem

[Anonymous No.13480199]

>>13479937
r/nofap is circle jerk try r/pornfree it's much better

[Anonymous No.13480202]

fasting kills all libido, it's why monks do it. Just stop eating bro, you don't even feel hungry.

[Anonymous No.13480208]

>>13479920
Not literature.

Chemical castration though.

[Anonymous No.13480228]

>>13480208
Ppl tried to forcibly castrate me and I'm not sure if they managed it I think I'd know but I've never been castrated before and everyone told me they were castrating me for not having sex

[Anonymous No.13480296]

>>13480202
This. Stopped eating anything for 6 days and now I'm on 8 days nofap.

[Anonymous No.13480498]

Eliminate sexual stimuli. Block every image if need be. Goal at your stage should to not even allow arousal the opportunity to manifest.
Take CNS stimulants.
Eat protein and fat rich meals in mornings only. Vegetarian or vegan meals for night.
Lions mane mushroom to crystallize your new state of perfection. Good luck my friend. Freedom is possible.

[Anonymous No.13480502]

>>13479920
>there are people here who actually buy into this crap

Embarrassing.

[Anonymous No.13480503]

>>13479920
Some people are naturally asexual but since you're not the only solution is literally to have your balls removed.

[Anonymous No.13480506]

>>13480502
>there are people who cannot go without sexual release and are slaves to their dicks
Embarrassing.

[Anonymous No.13480509]

>>13479920
you'll be missing out

[Anonymous No.13480511]

Nofap is for people who are impotent because pornography overstimulated them. Just do noporn if you have some objection to pornography.

[Anonymous No.13480514]

>>13480502
>Kant
>Tesla
>Tissot (and thousands of prominent physicians throughout history)
>Pythagoras
>Hitler
>thousands of monks, priests and theologians
wtf I can't believe people buy into this crap

[Anonymous No.13480515]

>>13480506
>he's so mentally weak that he has no power over a tiny portion of his organism so he has to shut it off completely

Big yikes.

[Anonymous No.13480525]

>>13480514
Hitler was wounded. Doesn't count

[Anonymous No.13480526]

>>13480514
>all pseuds

So, what's your point exactly?

[Anonymous No.13480530]

>>13480511
>only reason to do nofap is impotency
Delusional cumbrain that can't see why life is better without this chain.

[Anonymous No.13480549]

>>13480530
Taking some easy pleasure where I can get it doesn't hold me back in any way. All of the links in the OP image either don't support his claim or are garbage studies.

[Anonymous No.13480569]

>>13479920
Cut off the entertainment in your life and focus the free time you now have on getting laid. No binging TV shows or movies, no porn, no youtube, no 20 websites open in tabs. Keep the books, keep the boring stuff and start working out.

I'm watching some french black and white movie from the 60's for the tenth time because I turn it on at midnight and fall asleep 30 minutes into it. I only watch things that put me to sleep. When someone tells me that I "must!" watch a movie or TV show I tell them kindly to fuck off.

I wish I could cut off the internet completely.

[Anonymous No.13480597]

>>13480549
It does if you knew how profoundly it affected you. Even the consideration of decision impairs judgement.

[Anonymous No.13480631]

>>13479934
Why would you think that? Unless you’re looking to discuss books on not fapping

[Anonymous No.13480641]

>>13480569
Stop browsing 4chan if this is really how you want to live

[Anonymous No.13480653]

>>13479920
Nofap is attempting to solve your hunger by telling yourself you don't need to eat and then starving. Does this seem like a sustainable form of living?

[Anonymous No.13480662]

>>13480653
>food analogies

[Anonymous No.13480671]

>>13480662
Not responding to the main point. Nofap is exactly like breatharianism.

[Anonymous No.13480672]

>>13479920
Is this peak Christianity?

[Anonymous No.13480676]

>>13480671
You can go indefinitely without sexual release. You can only go weeks without food. The urge for sex recedes and nearly disappears with strict abstinence.

[Anonymous No.13480679]

>>13480672
>mental control + f for any religious allusions or references
>no results found

[Anonymous No.13480686]

Managed 3 days lat time. Without a strict schedule the devil will provide something to do for your idle hands. I don't know if it's making me dumber, but the fap shaming across 4chan is working and I feel pretty shit afterwards. Not to mention its just a colossal waste of hours (yes hours) of the day. Absolute hell

[Anonymous No.13480690]

>>13480679
Many forms of life denial can be a sign of internalized, unconscious Christianity. You may not be as secular as you think.

[Anonymous No.13480693]

>>13479920
>Also having an erection for 10 minutes is painful.
How circumcised are you?

[Anonymous No.13480706]

>>13480676
Its true that you will not die but without some sort of release you will be permanently damaged. It is also true that you can repress the urge for sex, like we can repress all other biological necessities and you might even believe you have it under control, but that is an illusion, the urge is still there and you just refuse to acknowledge it. It doesn't matter how long you can hold your breath, eventually you have to breathe. I also think its reprehensible to use nofap as motivation to find a hole with whom you share no other interest than using as your personal receptacle.

[Anonymous No.13480721]

>>13479920

[Anonymous No.13480743]

>>13480706
>without some sort of release you will be permanently damaged.
Cumbrain propaganda, that's what nocturnal emissions are for, they're natural and harmless
You know the truth, I know, everyone knows; if you want to stay a slave, I won't stop you, but it's kind of sad

[Anonymous No.13480744]

Holy christ what is with all these increased anti-sexual memes that rise from the right?

[Anonymous No.13480752]

>>13480744
Trying to wake up the sheeple.

Have this picture OP

[Anonymous No.13480754]

>>13480744

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480808]

>>13479920
Have sex

And read a book other than yer damn bibble

[Anonymous No.13480812]

>>13480808
have a bath

[Anonymous No.13480816]

>>13480706
>Its true that you will not die but without some sort of release you will be permanently damaged.
Utterly untrue. A baseless claim. Sex fluids with the exception of prostatic and cowper's fluid are continually being recycled and replaced. The latter two are almost exclusively incurred alongside arousal and sexual activity. All other constituents' respective organs are covered with epithelial tissue that serve ultimately to recycle what isn't used.
In point of fact, the opposite argument could be made seeing that sexual activity has pro-inflammatory effects (eg IL-6, PGE2 elevation), affects a litany of hormones and neurotransmitters, and semen itself arguably being more nutrient dense and harder to produce than blood. Experiments done with copulatory frequency show that celibate animals live longer. Actual studies that correct for age and prexisting health problems show that an excess of sexual activity in early years is associated with prostate cancer with statistical significance whereas infrequency is not.
>It is also true that you can repress the urge for sex, like we can repress all other biological necessities and you might even believe you have it under control, but that is an illusion, the urge is still there and you just refuse to acknowledge it.
The urge is non-existent with strict abstinence. Stimuli and thoughts trigger arousal which leads to habituation, which leads to what many find an impossible urge to transcend. Animals in the wild stay are capable of staying dormant for months until their respective mating seasons without any problem. What you said is like saying crying should be done regularly otherwise your urge for sadness will go away. Nonsense.
>I also think its reprehensible to use nofap as motivation to find a hole with whom you share no other interest than using as your personal receptacle.
No one in this thread has suggested this so far. I agree, which is why /r/nofap is garbage and pure reddit.
>>13480754
I've had numerous girlfriends, am not religious. I've noticed draining effects from sexual release no matter what, whether it's from my own hand or with a woman. It fogs the mind and makes nearly every other aspect a chore in life with the only reprieve being the ephemeral moments of release. It is a recipe for mediocrity. If you want to be like the majority of the population, by all means, indulge.

[Anonymous No.13480839]

>>13480569
This is really strange, what do you think is going to happen after you get laid ?

[Anonymous No.13480847]

>>13480816
/thread

[Anonymous No.13480850]

>>13480653
Low IQ cumbrain

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480855]

>>13480850
This is the equivalent of a cave man trying to debate a professor by throwing his feces at him

[Anonymous No.13480856]

>>13480693
I am not circumcised. When I mentioned painful, what I meant was it's hard when your erected penis keeps pushing against your pant.

[Anonymous No.13480857]

>>13480850
What's this from?
Pretty based

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480860]

>>13479927
Fpbp

[Anonymous No.13480864]

>>13480839
you get laid again

[Anonymous No.13480867]

>>13480199
Both are shit and do not treat the matter as gravely as it really is. 'yeah bro, let's joke sexually and post lewd memes, let me call it a dick still and talk vulgarly so my arousal gets activated, lmao, yeah bro its a "challenge", i'm just doing this to get laid"--- with this attitude, scarcely 1/100000 of these redditors will make it. Most will be slaves to their dick the rest of their lives.

[Anonymous No.13480871]

>>13480808
this
Proven by math and described in this book in chapter 19: https://www.inference.org.uk/itprnn/book.pdf

[Anonymous No.13480876]

>>« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE
This is the equivalent of a mental patient trying to debate a psychiatrist by throwing his feces at him.

[Anonymous No.13480882]

>>13480856
Your thoughts, exposure to stimuli, and inactivity are to blame. When abstinent, I get less random erections.

[Anonymous No.13480888]

>>13480202
It has the opposite effect

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480894]

>>13480876
That anon:
>Nofap is attempting to solve your hunger by telling yourself you don't need to eat and then starving. Does this seem like a sustainable form of living?
You:
>NO CUM-BRAIN
You’re a nincompoop
Take a nap

[Anonymous No.13480897]

>>13480498
>Using stims to avoid sexual arousal
Not gonna make it

[Anonymous No.13480899]

>>13480857
Kellogg, Plain Facts for Old and Young. Very based indeed.

[Anonymous No.13480904]

>>13480894
cumbrains:
>faulty analogies
>ad hominems
non-cumbrains:
>actual arguments and evidence
(you) [worst poster on /lit award]
>seethes every thread on this subject

[Anonymous No.13480912]

>>13480816
>Utterly untrue. A baseless claim...
You may attempt to obscure your lack of arguments by making yourself sound "scientific" yet the fact of the matter is that people go quite insane when they are deprived of sex and go to desperate lengths to get it. There definitely are physical and psychological factors that get negatively affected by the lack of sexual release.

>The urge is non-existent...
You kind of seem to me like you are burying your head in the sand. Denying that the urge even exists. Humans are very peculiar organisms, as far a I know they do not hibernate and are not driven by mating seasons, this is irrelevant.

>I agree
Glad we could find a common ground.

[Anonymous No.13480915]

>>13479920
Anons, I laid with an artsy thot in lust yesterday. My mind feels hazy and crazed but it felt so nice and warm to be with her. I felt as if I were like Odysseus man and ate lotus flowers while under Circe’s spells. Do I really need to avoid all sexual relationships if I wish to do great things?

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480917]

>>13480904
Take a nap

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13480933]

>13480904
>seething on this subject
It’s not literature

[Anonymous No.13480938]

>>13480816
>I've had numerous girlfriends, am not religious. I've noticed draining effects from sexual release no matter what, whether it's from my own hand or with a woman. It fogs the mind and makes nearly every other aspect a chore in life with the only reprieve being the ephemeral moments of release. It is a recipe for mediocrity. If you want to be like the majority of the population, by all means, indulge.
I'll answer honestly, since you seem like a genuine guy. I had a phase like this in my teens, which turned out to be depression. After I got over it, I've come to find sex as one of the most mentally clarifying and invigorating activities to engage in, only surpassed by exercise (obviously, masturbation is no replacement for sex and doesn't have these effects). But at the time, I also massively reduced my sexual activities, which I held responsible - that only ended up making me feel worse.

Get this chastity phase out of your system if you must, I did the same thing, but don't be shocked if it doesn't give you the results you're hoping for. After that, find out if depression may be the cause of the problem.

Ideally, I'd hope you avoid my mistake, but this is probably a matter you just have to find out about for yourself. Just make sure you actually pay attention to the responses your body is giving you.

And please don't drag this stuff into /lit/.

[Anonymous No.13480942]

>>13480915
Depends what you are aiming for. You can still be productive in matrimony. Oxytocin release of having a woman is nice. The problem develops with morning release. That is what ruins it. You won't ever be Kant-tier but you'll probably have a happier easier life than Mr. Königsberg himself. Et liberi et libri.

[Anonymous No.13480943]

>>13480202
This

[Anonymous No.13480949]

>>13480938
Different anon but I’ve had the same experiences as that anon. Why would I be feeling depression? I’ve always been considered a pretty happy and upbeat person, but I always find myself feeling down and feeling disgusted at myself for wasting my time like that. Maybe it’s because I’ve never had a genuine GF, but I would appreciate your insights

[Anonymous No.13480957]

>>13480942
What’s the morning release, can you elaborate?

[Anonymous No.13480980]

>>13480743
Okay my friend, but with nocturnal emissions aren't you just masturbating unconsciously?

[Anonymous No.13480983]

>>13480912
>people go quite insane when they are deprived of sex

>Jan., 1879, Havelock Ellis writes: "In cases of sexual excess, great physical exhaustion, with suspicions and delusions, is often observed. Hutchinson has recorded three cases of temporary blindness, all in men, the result of sexual excess after marriage (Archives of Surgery, Jan., 1893).
[...]
>The great philosopher, Herbert Spender, himself a lifelong celibate, describes as follows the effects of sexual excess: "Chronic derangements of health supervene, diminished bodily activity, decline of mental power, and sometimes even insanity... Specialists, who have good means of judging, agree in the opinion that the aggregate evils arising from excesses of this kind are greater than from those arising from excesses of all kinds put together."
[...]
>Mercier, an English psychiatrist, in his "Sanity and Insanity," writes that after the act of coitus, the resulting languor and lassitude indicate that a great strain has been placed on the store of energy available to the organism, whose seat is the nervous system, the highest regions of which--the brain--are most powerfully affected, and this tends to produce disorder of this organ. But while, with a normally constituted organism, the stress of the sexual orgasm is not sufficient to produce brain disorder, unless it is repeated with undue frequency, in one whose energies are naturally defective and which is constitutionally below the normal level of stability, the effect of the act will be to produce disturbed cerebral functioning. This is especially true when such indulgence is begun at too early an age. "Hence we find that a certain number of cases of insanity," says Mercier, "are attributed to sexual excess," adding, "The indulgence in this proclivity is a fruitful source of that deterioration of the higher powers of the nervous system which is the foundation of insanity."
[...]
>Prof. von Grutzner writes that in his opinion sexual continence is almost never injurious. Prof. Meschede, during 47 years of psychiatric practice, has never seen a case of insanity caused by sexual continence. Weber writes that that continence is not injurious to young men, but, on the contrary, is useful. Hoche is of the opinion that sexual continence is not injurious to young men and does not lead to masturbation.
[...]
>Hutchinson says: "The belief that the exercise of the sex function is necessary to the health of the male at any age is a pure delusion while before full maturity it is highly injurious."

[Anonymous No.13480994]

KYS

[Anonymous No.13480999]

>>13480912

>"To this letter he made the following reply: Dear Mr. L_____________: "You ask whether the draining from the body of lecithin and phosphorus through the sexual act will hinder the highest intellectual achievement and debilitate body and brain. Most definitely this is the case. Read my article on "Do Neuroses and Psychoses have a Chemical Origin?" in the June, 1936 issue of The Modern Psychologist, in which I show that the loss of these nerve-and-brain foods through sexual indulgence in any form deprives the nerves and brain of needed nourishment and leads to nervous and mental disorders. Our insane asylums are now overfilled with the victims of thoughtless sexual indulgence which has withdrawn valuable nutrients from the brain and disordered its functioning. These pitiful individuals, when in possession of their normal brain-structure, never realized that with each discharge of seminal fluid, they are pouring forth the very substance of their nerves and brain, until a time is reached when their brain is so sapped of lecithin that it ceases to function. Measurements have shown an actual decrease in the lecithin content of the brains of the insane. This was due to previous sex indulgence, as a result of which the sex glands took up the blood's lecithin to replace expended fluids.

>"The greatest intellectual geniuses in both ancient and modern times led continent lives, and there is yet to be recorded one individual who freely expended seminal fluid who ever amounted to anything. In most cases, individuals who have achieved have been forced by necessity to abstain from sexual indulgence, as Cervantes, who wrote Don Quixote while in prison, or Dante who wrote his Divine Comedy while in exile. Milton wrote "Paradise Lost" when blind and when he did not indulge in sex. Sir Isaac Newton, active in intellect until the age of 80, led a continent life from birth, and so did Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo, both of whom retained their creative genius [until] an advanced age.

[Anonymous No.13481011]

Cut your balls off, literally. That is the only way possible to NEVER get aroused again. Even NoFap will not help you not to get aroused again. You are human and you will always feel what you naturally must. The point though is, not to never get aroused again, but to learn how to control your impulses and degenerate tendencies. You MUST learn how to control your person, in general. Create an environment of discipline around yourself and then you will inevitably stop fapping. NoFap is NOT your problem.

[Anonymous No.13481030]

>>13481011
Enuchs can still have sex and still ejaculate prostatic fluid.

[Anonymous No.13481045]

>>13479953
>just get a girlfriend OP

[Anonymous No.13481048]

>>13480983
I am all for preserving the wisdom of the ancients and I will agree that porn dependency and doing nothing but masturbating constantly is absolutely harmful. But you can't post sources from the late 19th century and expect well read educated people to take you seriously.

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13481052]

>>13481045
Or, since you’re all underage, take a nap

[Anonymous No.13481056]

>>13481048
>But you can't post sources from the late 19th century and expect well read educated people to take you seriously.

[Anonymous No.13481068]

>>13481056
Why are posting a crappy drawing of yourself?

[Anonymous No.13481078]

>>13479920
watch kpop, I'm not even kidding.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Iio3mi6lzk&list=RD5Iio3mi6lzk&start_radio=1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qY22HPfafSQ&list=RD5Iio3mi6lzk&index=2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7rCyll5AeY&list=RD5Iio3mi6lzk&index=11
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHNzOHi8sJs&list=RD5Iio3mi6lzk&index=12

[Anonymous No.13481085]

>>13480983
>>13480999
Absolutely based. Trips confirm my statement.
>>13480980
Eh? That's the body's mechanism to get rid of unused sperm
>Some reported that it is due to being sexually inactive for a period of 1–2 weeks, with no engagement in either intercourse or masturbation.

[Anonymous No.13481086]

>>13480503
I am one such person, only realizing it recently. I literally can't feel sexual desire, or to know what that even constitutes. I have never watched intercourse videos in my entire life, and when I see the act, I literally don't even become physically aroused, let alone mentally interested. It's pretty awesome, desu. That said, I still feel the urge to "release" once a week or so, and still need to develop willpower enough not to give into it as I typically do.

[Anonymous No.13481100]

>>13481085
>Eh? That's the body's mechanism to get rid of unused sperm
That's false. It does not accumulate in some reservoir like the bladder. See here: >>13480816
The body is already recycling it, in some cases the turnaround is hourly. Nocturnal emissions happen primarily from arousal earlier in the day, but can be triggered by dreams, heat, or friction.

[Anonymous No.13481107]

>>13480744
They want to cut themselves from the gene pool altogether. And that's a good thing.

[Anonymous No.13481110]

>>13480816
>I've had numerous girlfriends

[Anonymous No.13481111]

Someone please, please tell me how to filter buttershit.

[Anonymous No.13481119]

I've gone 40 days before without a single wet dream or pain or sickness or everything. And 40 days is nothing.

Servants of Ahriman are watching this thread.

[Anonymous No.13481129]

>>13481111
>2019
>not having 4chanx
people do this?

[Anonymous No.13481142]

I am on day 17 now, my dick is hard around half the time im at home, at work i can manage as im distracted. I have limited but i still watch a little bit of porn, the asian stuff is just too fucking good and i feel the dopamine in my brain reacting and rewarding me if i watch a couple seconds.

There is a girl at work that i love but she is away for 3 weeks and its been getting easier, however im afraid once she is back my brain will go nuts and the distractions will go full throttle. I am thinking of just doing 30 days and after that try to stay porn free and jack it once a week.

[Anonymous No.13481148]

>>13481142
You're doing it wrong and your lack of desire to quit is what is causing arousal throughout the day. NOT gonna make it.

[Anonymous No.13481155]

>>13481148
whatever bro, im gonna fuck a hooker soon anyway

[Anonymous No.13481170]

>>13481155
t. redditor nofapper

[Anonymous No.13481182]

>>13481170
Why so mad? I wrote some sentences and you made some really cringe NOT GONNA MAKE IT BRUH MAGA! response. Im still cringing hard at your initial reply. Even harder now. How do you live with yourself after knowing that you are infact the "redditor" if you read your own posts carefully? Are you going to refute? Laugh? Try to set it right? I wonder.

[Anonymous No.13481192]

>>13481182
You're the one who seems mad.

[Anonymous No.13481221]

>>13481142
>the asian stuff is just too fucking good and i feel the dopamine in my brain reacting and rewarding me if i watch a couple seconds.
I've watched the porn videos I considered good so many times that I just got bored of porn and masturbating.

[Anonymous No.13481225]

>>13481221
https://pornhub.com/model/asiangoodgirl

tell me this aint perfection

[Anonymous No.13481249]

>>13481225
Ban that internet address on your router, fucking cumbrain.

[Anonymous No.13481251]

>>13481225
Asian women are nasty in the first place and she's just some milf with big tits.

[Anonymous No.13481267]

>>13481251
she had no kids

anyway, i as i was saying, the main reason i started this no fap thing, was because i "gave" up and decided i will just fuck hookers for the rest of my life (spain, germany and sea planned), so afraid of a possible deathgrip im on day 17 now. I will probably start jacking it again soon but try to stay away from porn. There is no real desire to stop these sexual thoughts (will be easier once i jack it again once a week or so), and i dont really care

[« Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ » !mxvabIoSIE No.13481270]

>>13481107
It’s not so much a genetic thing though. It is memetic, and cancerous.

>>13481111
By not reading the clearly marked posts. How autistic can you get? How do I avoid your dumbass posts?

[Anonymous No.13481335]

you'll never completely stop sexual arousal unless you cut it out at the root like a Buddha, but I'm not sure yet if that's completely necessary for a person who is not ready to take that step.

anyway, there are enough people in this thread that are worth helping, so I might as well post this. I have tried a half dozen things for suppression, and this works the best. if you need a way to stop wet dreams, as well as suppress urges, this mantra + the breathing technique is simple and it works extremely well. ideally you're already familiar with meditation and cold showers, but it will work regardless. read it carefully and don't dismiss it as bullshit.

https://gnosticteachings.org/lectures-by-samael-aun-weor/146-the-transmutation-of-sexual-energy-4.html

[Anonymous No.13481363]

>>13481225
YOU'RE DEFINITELY NOT GONNA MAKE IT

[Anonymous No.13481373]

>>13481363
what's the point of escaping the cave of porn if you're still trapped in the cave of imageboards. true freedom requires putting both behind

[Anonymous No.13481378]

>>13481363
everything in that picture is true

if only you knew how bad (and good) things really are

[Anonymous No.13481385]

>>13481373
I agree.