/lit/ - Literature

[Anonymous No.17292534]

books about coping with your girlfriends sexual past

[Anonymous No.17292544]

>>17292534
Love in the Time of Cholera

[Anonymous No.17292549]

>>17292534
I am her complete sexual history.

[Anonymous No.17292583]

>>17292534
The cuck section on pornhub

Alternatively go to therapy

[Anonymous No.17292618]

>>17292534
>gf uses my pc one day and forgets to close gmail
>can’t resist temptation to check
>realize I have access to 10 years of her emails and past google activity, including her google maps history

[Anonymous No.17292621]

>>17292618
and?

[Anonymous No.17292638]

>>17292621
She did lesbo porn in college.

[Anonymous No.17292647]

>>17292621
Horror, anon. Horror.
>>17292638 ain’t me.

[Anonymous No.17292681]

>>17292638
link?

[Anonymous No.17292686]

>>17292534
Read Christopher Uckdyu's book "So Your Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Coming Over; A 12 Step Guide to Get Over Their Relationship." He also has a good one called "Growth Hormones and Why Your Girlfriend Wants You Sleeping in Another Room"

[Anonymous No.17292705]

>>17292549
>He doesn't know

[Anonymous No.17292713]

>>17292705
well if she faked her hymen and everything I have to congratulate her on the effort

[Anonymous No.17292715]

>>17292534
Stop caring about genital stimulation.

[Anonymous No.17292716]

>>17292534
Nothing will ever help anon, normies lie to themselves that they dont care and try to push it out of mind. You can either do that or break up with her. Reading books on it will just justify your contempt and magnify your anger.

[Anonymous No.17292717]

>>17292534
If you are religious then you should understand the importance of forgiveness, if not, just grow up.

[Anonymous No.17292725]

>>17292534
How many partners are we talking about?
It's a non-issue if its 1 or 2, but if its something like 30+ you might as well just break up and save yourself the pain of being a cuck.

[Anonymous No.17292727]

>>17292716
>just justify
Try this: only justify, merely justify, simply justify.

[Anonymous No.17292728]

>>17292713
There are more holes in a woman

[Anonymous No.17292729]

>>17292713
you might have been her first, but that doesn't mean you were her second

[Anonymous No.17292734]

>>17292729
what did he mean by this?

[Anonymous No.17292738]

>>17292725
Depends on the one or two and if she was married to them at the time. It's just better to find a chaste woman, I know this from personal experience.

[Anonymous No.17292739]

>>17292716
more like, no, it's not fun to think about, but my own history is just as bad or worse than hers, so it's not like I'm in much of a position to judge.

[Anonymous No.17292741]

>>17292727
>he can't pick up on that perfect phonetic rhythm

very sad!

[Anonymous No.17292742]

>>17292734
it's possible to cum in a pussy that has already been cummed in

[Anonymous No.17292746]

>>17292734
She was cheating on him.

[Anonymous No.17292752]

>>17292739
retarded egalitarianist morality

[Anonymous No.17292761]

>>17292741
If you're making a joke please put a smiley face or else type lol at the end of the post or something okay, lol :>}

[Anonymous No.17292765]

>>17292738
>I know this from personal experience.
Any stories/anecdotes?

[Anonymous No.17292767]

>>17292739
It's only equivalent if you also were penetrated by men.

[Anonymous No.17292770]

>gf is 24 and has had sex with 7 guys
>this doesn't bother me at all
>when she was 15 she jacked off and sucked three guys at once, once of which she was madly in love with
>disgusts and depresses me

[Anonymous No.17292774]

>>17292752
Let him cope in peace anon. Thinking about this topic rationally feels like death.

[Anonymous No.17292778]

>>17292729
oh no wtf I'm going to doubt my stable secure relationship now???

[Anonymous No.17292781]

>>17292770
What the fuck. How the fuck do you know this?

[Anonymous No.17292783]

>>17292765
You must be very bored today.

[Anonymous No.17292784]

>>17292761
sad autistic retard can only think within technical rules of english writing unable tp pick up on the almost rhyme like quality of a "j-j" expression you likely have aspergers

[Anonymous No.17292799]

>>17292534
Tess of D'uberville

[Anonymous No.17292811]

>>17292783
Come on anon, tell us the stories!

[Anonymous No.17292817]

>>17292767
I was, but only as a child
>>17292752
it's not really egalitarian. And I know it's cope to a degree because if I actually start thinking about it and visualizing, it just leads to despair. But as the other anon said, so does thinking about death too hard. You gotta live, anon, and you can't let death stop you from doing that; you gotta love and you can't let retroactive jealousy prevent that.
The key thing that made me actually accept it was that I dated someone with no sexual history, just had kissed and cuddled and whatnot with guys, and I /still/ felt jealousy. Not only that, the jealousy wasn't any less than it is with girls with much larger histories. So my feelings of jealousy did not scale at all relative to the magnitude of the objective issue, which makes them extremely irrational feminine emotions, and I feel no guilt in just ignoring them to the best of my ability.

[Anonymous No.17292823]

>>17292817
I should add, it probably helps that I never date actual sluts, only "serial monogamists" who've been dating a different guy every 9 months since 8th grade. So high body count, but not much otherwise slutty behavior

[Anonymous No.17292840]

>>17292817
jesus christ this is the biggest cope ive seen in a while

[Anonymous No.17292852]

>>17292781
What do you mean? She just told one night, she's a German tomboy with (possibly) Aspergian honesty.

[Anonymous No.17292864]

>>17292817
>which makes them extremely irrational feminine emotions
This is true. Jealousy not only makes you suffer, but it also makes you come off as
weak and feminine in front of your girl, because it is.
If you do feel jealousy, at least never show it/let it be known.
>>17292823
You simply cannot know this. This is what I thought about my ex before >>17292770
For the sake of your mental peace, NEVER check your gfs google history.

[Anonymous No.17292875]

>>17292852
What the fuck man. Sorry, I could not reconcile myself with that, ever. Are you in love with this girl?

[Anonymous No.17292880]

>>17292852
>German
One of them was a roach or Arab, wasn't he?

[Anonymous No.17292889]

>>17292534
>same age as gf
>first blowjob at 7
>lost virginity at 9
oh wait that's me not her
Do girls get jealous of guys body counts?

She knows I fucked her best friend before we started dating because she was in the room.

>tfw girls have always told me i'm incredible at sex because I learned orgasm control at a young age.

>>17292638
Unironically very sexy, think she'd be into a MFF threesome with you?

[Anonymous No.17292896]

>>17292875
Pussy pussy go to bed
Wait, your girlfriends giving head
Go into another room
While i maek your girlfriend coom

[Anonymous No.17292916]

Fuck everyone who's making me feel bad about this. Have you no fucking sympathy? This hurst assholes

[Anonymous No.17292931]

>>17292880
Is that your fantasy?

[Anonymous No.17292940]

>>17292889
>Unironically very sexy, think she'd be into a MFF threesome with you?
That wasn’t me >>17292618
Just some anon busting balls. I did find a lot of lesbian and orgy porn in her history though.

[Anonymous No.17292942]

>>17292534
Unironically develop a mild cuckold fetish.
Turn your pathetic anxiety into pleasure.

[Anonymous No.17292946]

>>17292916
Get the fuck out of here now. Hide this thread.

[Anonymous No.17292947]

>>17292942
His GF wen she hagns out with the boys

[Anonymous No.17292963]

>>17292840
enjoy being single

[Anonymous No.17292971]

>>17292942
>Unironically develop a mild cuckold fetish.
I unironically have one already, but it just makes me uneasy because I don't want her to actually cheat on me.

[Anonymous No.17292987]

>>17292971
Dam u seen her camster shit is heat

[Anonymous No.17292988]

>>17292971
I know the feeling.

[Anonymous No.17292993]

>>17292534
you should probably focus on addressing your fixation on something so fucking stupid.

[Anonymous No.17293000]

>>17292738
>just find a chaste women bro
How

[Anonymous No.17293002]

>>17292971
>>17292988
Same. Fantasies are fucking retarded. The human brain is so dumb. Why would it make you feel horny over something so undesirable that would obviously break you to the point of killing you?

[Anonymous No.17293003]

>>17292549
based if true

[Anonymous No.17293007]

>>17293000
Go to your local public school and sit by the fence

[Anonymous No.17293073]

>>17293003

But it isn't true tho.

[Anonymous No.17293079]

>>17293002
Transmutating the pain into pleasure as a coping mechanism.

[Anonymous No.17293085]

>>17293007
Keyed and locked

[Anonymous No.17293093]

>>17293079
Makes sense. But it is vile and I want nothing to do with this psychological cope.

[Anonymous No.17293104]

>>17292880
She's sort of racist honestly, I'm not racist but the pussy good

[Anonymous No.17293123]

>>17293104
Do you want to marry her or are you just fooling around?

[Anonymous No.17293126]

>>17293002
>Why would it make you feel horny over something so undesirable that would obviously break you to the point of killing you?

For me it's pure moral inversion.
I was 6 when I saw a horror movie in which there was a cheating scene. People would get chopped into pieces and I didn't care, but the cheating itself marked me, took me years before I understood people didn't get jail time for it.

[Anonymous No.17293142]

>>17293002
Every man in the world is sexually aroused at the thought of their girlfriend/wife being fucked by someone else. Best thing is to acknowledge it for what it is (a primal instinct) and not indulge in the thought.

[Anonymous No.17293168]

>>17293142
Projection. I can get off to cuck porn but its because I insert as the Bull and I like domination and mindbreaking.
The idea of my girlfriend cheating on me is repulsive and I'd dump her in a millisecond for it.

[Anonymous No.17293172]

This thread is a good reminder that I'm on a board with a bunch of fourteen year olds.

[Anonymous No.17293206]

>>17293126
>For me it's pure moral inversion.
That’s the definition of “Satanic”. It’s literally, unironically a Satanic inclination. We rightly perceive it as disgusting and vile.

[Anonymous No.17293218]

>>17293172
Why?

[Anonymous No.17293233]

>>17293168
>Projection. I can get off to cuck porn but its because I insert as the Bull and I like domination and mindbreaking.
This is probably an inversion of real life.

[Anonymous No.17293244]

>>17293168
Watching another man fuck a woman you would like to fuck is extremely cucked.

[Anonymous No.17293264]

Get her pregnant. The baby will destroy her pussy beyond what any cock could do. Now you've truly ruined her for other men

[Anonymous No.17293265]

>>17293168
Consciously self-inserting as the bull is one thing, but there's much more going on in your unconscious that you refuse to acknowledge. It's clear from your second sentence that you have a complex about this sort of thing, so naturally you repress your unconscious urges. The reality is that if your girlfriend cucked you, you would be both repulsed and aroused. I'd even be willing to bet that your shame at your arousal would compound it.

Coming to terms with your unconscious desires is necessary for growth :)

[Anonymous No.17293267]

books about coping with your ex-gf's sexual present?

[Anonymous No.17293286]

>>17293267
This.

[Anonymous No.17293403]

>>17293265
>Coming to terms with your unconscious desires is necessary for growth :)
They are not desires, it’s simply sexual arousal. You can be aroused yet not desire it, as you recognize it is simply a bad, vile inclination of our animal part.

[Anonymous No.17293481]

>>17293403
petty quibble

[Anonymous No.17293499]

>>17292534
hahahhahahahahahah

[Anonymous No.17293513]

>>17292770
Dude she was 15. We've all done fucking retarded shit at that age. Sounds like she's not proud of it and she's comfortable enough with you to tell you about it. Good for you to be honest

[Anonymous No.17293579]

On all of my relationships I have never asked and I'm very clear about not wanting to know, I'm also very clear on letting them know that I'm gonna dump their ass at the slightest signs of whoring, I'd rather have them tell me they want to break up to be with someone. Most of them don't believe I have the balls to blow them the fuck out cause I'm a very nice guy; sadly some of them have learned deep down I'm a cold autist.

[Anonymous No.17293582]

>>17292534
It's hopeless.

[Anonymous No.17293589]

>>17292713
The guy who took her anal virginity is still laughing at you.

[Anonymous No.17293594]

>>17293513
>dude, like, every 15 year old girl has had a foursome with three dudes. Perfectly normal mistake
Fucking kek the absolute state of the West.

[Anonymous No.17293602]

>>17293579
>i_have_two_personalities.jpg

[Anonymous No.17293634]

>>17292770
Cuck.

I would never date a woman that has had sex with someone else than me. Even having had a boyfriend or kissed someone is too much.

[Anonymous No.17293695]

>>17293085
Forced meme, kill yourself at your earliest convenience.
>>17293142
>>17293265
The same advice goes for the poster of these posts.

[Anonymous No.17293722]

>>17293104
Then she must have had her fill.

[Anonymous No.17293746]

>>17293513
I found her story really fucking sad actually, I'm not proud of my disgust but I feel it. It's like a backhanded pity but it's how I feel about it.

[Anonymous No.17293781]

>>17293722
Of white dudes, yeah.

[Anonymous No.17293799]

>having a gf that isn't a virgin and had kissed, fucked someone before
LMAO just admit you're cucks

[Anonymous No.17293821]

>>17292875
Not in love but I like having her around. She's never had a proper female friend and hates other women nearly as much as incels do, not exaggerating.
She's like hanging out with a male friend who happens to be an attractive girl I sleep with. It's honestly the best relationship I've had, which is not a good sign.

[Anonymous No.17293825]

my gf told me her friend has fucked 30+ guys and another one fucked 27 guys. what the holy hell is going on in this society? i expected it to be like 10+ for a total slut like these girls, i wasn't expecting cartoonish levels of sluttiness like i would have said as a joke

i can't believe this is an actual real threat now, imagine developing feelings for a woman and finding this out about her. imagine finding out the mother of your children was sexually active with 25-30+ guys. i guess women who do that kind of thing will broadcast that they aren't good mothers or partners in other ways, since they're clearly retards who don't respect themselves or see intimacy as special, but what if one slips through the cracks and lies to you? the mother of your children would be a whore, that's fucking awful

[Anonymous No.17293829]

>>17293821
Why? Because you think you'll eventually fuck it up somehow?

[Anonymous No.17293857]

>>17292534
You don't. You either accept what you can get. Or you get a girl acceptable to you. Choose now and act.

[Anonymous No.17293866]

>>17293829
It's not a a good sign because this is the best relationship I've had and it's not all that great.

[Anonymous No.17293876]

>>17293825
If her friends have fucked that many guys, your gf definitely has too by the way.

[Anonymous No.17293879]

>>17293866
I guess this is what happens to some of us. We settle for less and it's not even that bad. I'd try to find someone better if I were you. You can do it, anon.

[Anonymous No.17293885]

my gf is a virgin and wants me to be her first. Feels good man.

[Anonymous No.17293886]

i met a girl on tinder and started talking to her about stirner. she recognized him from the memes so it actually led to a decent conversation

[Anonymous No.17293887]

>>17293885
she's lying to you

[Anonymous No.17293891]

>>17292534
>broke up with my high school sweetheart in first year of college.
It's only down from here isn't it

[Anonymous No.17293898]

>>17293825
If your gf has slut friends, she is a slut.

[Anonymous No.17293910]

>>17292534
The thought of having a wife, a life partner, a mother of my children who had at some point gotten every hole fucked and stretched by an unknown amount of strange men is too much to handle for me. The thought of my future wife, ever so sweet and doting, having her nipples pinched and throat filled with cum is sickening. I know it's an incel meme but I honestly think I have to find a virgin if I'm ever going to be married, which makes me a hypocrite because I'm not myself a virgin. I'm probably too neurodivergent to have a successful LTR anyways.

[Anonymous No.17293915]

>>17293891
I'm so despondent about everything. Everything I try goes totally wrong. There's no escape from this hole here. I feel drained. So far, I still haven't found a real purpose in life. Sometimes, I'm afraid to get out of bed in the morning. There's nothing to get up for.

[Anonymous No.17293920]

>>17293513
>>17293594
>DUDE! It's fine bro! Everyone sucks a few cocks and gets their pussy wrecked at that age! Just grow up you insecure little beta!

[Anonymous No.17293924]

>>17293898
Sagely advice for young anons itt

[Anonymous No.17293932]

>>17293825
who cares unless you larp as a christian

[Anonymous No.17293934]

i dont get the point in romanticizing virginity even if you yourself are a virgin. most of you probably watch porn and jerk off. many would be manwhores if they were more attractive (hence the term "IN-cel") its not like youre moral either

[Anonymous No.17293943]

>>17293934
We're doing whatever serves our interest, unlike you, faggot.

[Anonymous No.17293947]

>>17293891
Yeah you done goofed. I married my HS sweetheart despite the strong pull of strange in college and I’m really glad I did. Family events feel natural we’re each a part of the others family. Our relationship continues to grow each day. She has full trust and faith in me and I in her and we’re incredibly comfortable with one another. It’s the best decision I ever made to just stay at home and fap when the stupid teenage horny wanted to go fuck a drunk slur instead of staying faithful.

[Anonymous No.17293950]

>>17293910
I feel similarly although I don't really care if she's a virgin, I think the virgin thing is a meme. For me it's fine if she has only had 2-3 relationships, max, and each one of them was her trying for the real thing.

Also I was promiscuous in my 20s in a way I wouldn't accept in a woman but it's not the same so I don't feel hypocritical at all. A man having a high number is an accomplishment, and sex for men is like a hobby at most. A guy can be a perfectly good person and have slept around. A woman cannot be a good person if she is a whore. It points to BPD/histrionic personality, aka she is one big chaotic ball of entitlement and mental problems that haven't developed since she was 13, or it at least points to her soul being so dead on the inside that she can't appreciate the majesty of love and intimacy. Emcels as they call them.

I don't want a psycho overgrown child gf or a depressed discord emcel gf, I want a normal woman. Here's a good test you can use to protect yourself from whores in life: Is sex/dating/hooking up/carousing with men her primary hobby? Is it her primary way of killing time and having fun? If so, run away. That's a stunted person. If she isn't responsible for herself and doesn't love herself, how can she be responsible for your children and love them?

[Anonymous No.17293953]

>>17293943
itd be in your interest to not artificially limit your potential dating pool based on arbitrary criteria that very few women will realistically meet

[Anonymous No.17293957]

>>17293910
>which makes me a hypocrite because I'm not myself a virgin
Most women don't seem to value virginity in a man as much as men value virginity in a woman anyway.

[Anonymous No.17293961]

>>17293932
>everything is a larp lol like nothing matters i have no real thoughts uhhh laissez faire everything tends downwards everyones just trying to get their rocks off why judge anyone dont judge me
Good example of what being a whore does to a woman. Disconnects her from all pride, dignity, nobility, caring about the world in general. Bad mother material.

[Anonymous No.17293998]

>>17293218
The ideal reality manufactured by the technological system (i.e the driving force behind all civilisation) has necessitated the belief that one has control over his life, and therefore his evolutionary instincts. However, the stipulation that the individual exists within said society is merely a façade, and thus he is not static but a variable to be imposed upon. With these two axioms, we can conclude that it is existentially necessary for one to adhere to the current culture of society (as we are doing right this second my engaging in gf talk on an imageboard) and realise that there was never a metaphysical reason for one's morals or an ethical system, other than propagating the technological system.

Read Ted K.

[Anonymous No.17294007]

>>17293932
Read stoics and realise you can't change the world

[Anonymous No.17294008]

>>17293953
There's this thing called self-respect, you probably haven't heard of it.

[Anonymous No.17294020]

>>17293998
>yfw your catholic daughter tells you this bullshit to justify being a whore

Nope, you're going to Adoration.

[Anonymous No.17294023]

It's 2021. You are not going to find a non-slutty woman unless you convert to Islam or something, even then it's questionable.
The best course of action is to develop your own life and never integrate any woman too deeply into it.

[Anonymous No.17294029]

>>17293920
Of course it doesn't happen to everyone, but if you judge people based on what they did when they were 15 then I judge your moral character more than her's.

[Anonymous No.17294036]

>tfw gf tells me that I am a little smaller than she is used to

[Anonymous No.17294051]

>>17294036
why would someone say that? That's just insulting.

[Anonymous No.17294064]

>>17294036
quite hot, wish I had a smaller penis.

[Anonymous No.17294068]

>>17293746
It honestly sounds like an awful situation for her to have been in. Pathetic even, to be taken advantage of like that by someone she was in love with.
But Christ, man. If it really impacts the way you view her then you need to fix that shit.

[Anonymous No.17294084]

>>17292534
>girl tells me she had 3 guys in her life which have been relationships
> i'm okay with it since i dated 10+
> she tells me one of them was black
> my opinion of her instantly goes to shit
I have come to terms that i am sexually racist, i am unable to find even the hottest black women attractive, when i see a woman dating a black/dark man i instantly assume she has issues and i lose respect for her. I'm ok with Asians.
Might have something to do with growing up in Eastern Europe.
I'm not consciously racist thought and don't believe in the inferiority of other people just due to race but it seems my dick thinks otherwise.

[Anonymous No.17294097]

>>17294020
spooked

[Anonymous No.17294105]

>>17294084
Europeans and Sub-Saharan Africans are arguably two different species. It's understandable that would upset you.

[Anonymous No.17294125]

>>17294084
I'd like to think that most rational people wouldn't fuck an orangutan, many black people aren't far off.

[Anonymous No.17294128]

>>17292534
As the great O’Neal said, you ain’t ever gonna find a girl whose hymen ain’t broke.
There is no book. You acknowledge it, and live with it. Just keep pounding away until her vagoo can only remember you.

[Anonymous No.17294134]

all modern "women" are whores

[Anonymous No.17294151]

>>17292534
Anything on the nature of sex and women. It'll hurt before it heals obviously (don't let it black pill you) and it needs to be coupled with days upon days of introspection. But eventually you'll come to the understanding of how all women are like that and it doesn't matter and you'll know exactly how to make that slut yours and yours alone.

[Anonymous No.17294167]

>>17293934
I’m not a virgin and don’t consume pornography. I don’t hate people that do porn or consume porn, neither woman that are too loose on their intimacy. I hate people in general because most of them are shitheads that can’t seem to think over the consequences of their actions.
I dont even know how this happened. I lost my virginity at 20, but when I was a kid/teen my friends and some cousins would playfully let me touch them. I got to know the structure of a vagina at a young age. At some point I started to feel some disgust towards girls that led to me rejecting a lot of advances during my late teens/young adulthood. It was pretty shitty and I’ve become very asexual and won’t do any sexual advances unless the girl starts it

[Anonymous No.17294256]

>>17292817
Books about correlation between being diddled as a kid and being mentally ill cuck?

[Anonymous No.17294280]

>>17294256
>marrying a non-virgin makes you a cuck

[Anonymous No.17294287]

>>17292916
The mouth you kiss has been filled by cum of 30 different guys at least a 100 times. How does this make you feel anon?

[Anonymous No.17294348]

>>17294280
Uhhh, yes? I thought this was the general agreement?

[Anonymous No.17294368]

God you faggots are so weak willed.
You cunts think Camus ever worried about any of his slut's sexual past, present or future?

[Anonymous No.17294406]

>>17294368
>I only like STRONG men, men STRONG and ALPHA enough to KISS me on lips that licked a hookup's hairy asshole even though I never thought I would do that because he forced me to do it and being forced is hot and I like giving up control and I don't fully understand why I want this but it's actually because I'm a valueless whore free-falling with no love or family or bedrock to sustain me, so being used and degraded sexually by men gives me a brief moment of feeling like I am part of a system of order, brute animal order but order nonetheless, but this further degrades me into an animal that can't find love or create a family and support system which makes me further crave degradation so one day I'm going to be a 32 year old spinster completely hollowed out inside like a junkie who has burned his reward system so thoroughly that even if he kicks the habit he'll still always be fundamentally addicted to his drug of choice and everything else will pale in comparison so I'll be fiending for cock and degradation and self-destructive cheap thrills even as I'm an old woman and long past the age where I should have become a strong dignified mother at the head of a family now kiss me my love kiss me on the lips that kissed a man's asshole and swallowed cum and hold my hand that typed "lmaooooo i sucked his dick for weed ikr so ratchet" to my thot friends who also don't understand why men can't love them and we drag eachother down deeper into our shared hell every week kiss me my love I'm ready to settle down be a man and accept me for who i am

[Anonymous No.17294418]

>>17294287
Hint: so has your mother's mouth who kissed you before you went to school. You've got to learn to deal with it early in life.

[Anonymous No.17294435]

>>17294406

Bloody fucking hell, please tell me this is a pasta I've somehow failed to encounter before. If you truly wrote that just now...

[Anonymous No.17294459]

>>17293891
No, you made a good choice. Men should avoid committed relationships AT LEAST until they're 30. This is when male and female sexual market values intersect as men begin to rise and women begin to rapidly fall. The strategy for women is to find a high value man (you, after you start making pretty good money) riiiiiight at the tail end of her attractiveness (after she's spent a good decade and a half sucking and fucking all the men she ACTUALLY wants). Their game plan is unironically chad fucks, beta bucks. Trust me on this. If you don't want to trust some random anon, read these:
>https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18634307-the-rational-male
>https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56186117-the-book-of-numbers?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=AtcEBYEQAG&rank=1

[Anonymous No.17294466]

>>17294418
My mother was a virgin when she met my father at 15. Virginity before marriage has been the norm in my country even few decades ago. Not everyone on this planet has been so spiritually conqured yet to forget what a spine is

[Anonymous No.17294478]

>>17292770
I think I was one of those dudes. Good luck anon kek

[Anonymous No.17294487]

>>17293957
That's 100% true, virginity means completely different things for men and women. It's perceived as impressive if a guy has a high body count because IT IS IMPRESSIVE if a guy manages to fuck dozens of women. That shit's hard. What isn't hard is batting your eyelashes and spreading your pussy for the 100th guy. It's only with this cult of equity that we're supposed to see male and female sexuality as existing in the same world. It is a damning condemnation of a woman to have a high body count, it's indicative of value for a man. This kills the feminist.

[Anonymous No.17294494]

You depressed incels are faggots. The world is shit and there is only one clear path to make the most of it: make as much money as you can, manipulate and fuck as many bitches as you can. LARP as a Christian or whatever the whole time so you appear morally sound during the day while you're hatefucking a bitch at night. Perhaps, one day, you'll meet a bitch who meets your ridiculous criteria and you can marry her. And since this is /lit/, make sure to read some books along the way.

[Anonymous No.17294498]

>>17294084
>I have come to terms that i am sexually racist
You're just racist, and that's a good thing. If you unironically think race is just skin colour then there is something seriously wrong with you.

[Anonymous No.17294504]

>>17294459
>a capitalist economist tries to find love
Miss me with that cringe shit
>inb4 Marxist
Nah

[Anonymous No.17294516]

>>17294494
>make as much money as you can, manipulate and fuck as many bitches as you can.
Based
>And since this is /lit/, make sure to read some books along the way.
and wholesomepilled.

[Anonymous No.17294523]

>>17293915
Lol based. This anon reads

[Anonymous No.17294532]

>>17294459
>be pussy-starved from 18-30
>only get laid a few times
>stop caring so much about women
>become happy and successful on my own
>women I used to know 10+ years ago start hitting me up
>they're all rapidly approaching the wall if they haven't already been destroyed by it
>disregard them
>they want a piece of the self-confident and successful man they wouldn't have dreamed of fucking a decade ago
>exclusively date 20 year old bombs
>they think I'm a catch because I'm not poor and desperate
>feelsgoodman

[Anonymous No.17294546]

>>17294348
no, it's only cuckery if she's been with more people than you.

[Anonymous No.17294547]

>>17294504
It's literally just examining numbers, you weak-minded little wanker. The author is irrelevant.
>percentage of women with STDs
>percentage of women with kids
>percentage of women who are obese
>percentage of women with reasonable standards
>percentage of women with retarded body-mods
>percentage of women with retarded far-leftist politics at the forefront of their lives
Everyone here should read it. It's like 100 pages.

[Anonymous No.17294569]

For yourself, man, if you love her and enjoy spending time with her, you need to get over it. I know that sounds impossible and since you’re on here people have the instinct to call you a cuck, but that feeling isn’t going to “go away.” And that’s why it’s difficult, because even if you two break up you’ll still be tormented by her sexual past and on top of that you’ll no longer have the person who I assume is your friend and someone you love and brings comfort to you. I’m not saying to be ignorant about it, but you really have to make a personal decision whether to break up with her or keep going and forgive it for what it is. The only advice I can give for forgiving her is to remind yourself that her past doesn’t lower you or what you feel. If you feel it lowers you, you’ll never forgive her.

[Anonymous No.17294598]

>>17294569
I also don’t know what YOUR history is, but I know many on here maybe have been love deprived for portions of their life. If you have been deprived of touch and love when she wasn’t, you’re going to be angry with her. And it’s common for someone whose been starved of love in their life to hate the person who gives it to them finally, because they take that person as a representation of love and the thing which has ignored them their entire life. This must be avoided in the mind.

[Anonymous No.17294606]

>>17294547
>love by the numbers an autists attempt at interpersonal relationships
>I put in x value gib y response the literature suggests you must!

[Anonymous No.17294624]

>>17294606
man it has nothing to do with "how do I find love". It's literally just looking at what percentage of American women would be considered marriageable by non-retarded young men. It even advocates against marriage, as you can't even be sure that you uber-rare marriageable woman won't turn into a demon post-ring.

[Anonymous No.17294634]

Really need a slutty BPD E-girl goth gf right now bros.

[Anonymous No.17294645]

>>17294634
Ech, do people actually like this look? She looks like she smells of cat piss and cigarettes.

[Anonymous No.17294652]

a toast to all the roasties lurking this thread with morbid curiosity and seeing how men really think of sluts

[Anonymous No.17294669]

>>17294406
>0 matches on warosu or precise google search
legendary

[Anonymous No.17294683]

>>17294652
BASED

[Anonymous No.17294697]

>>17294624
Yeah but the funny part is you thinking this isn’t inherently autistic and antisocial behavior. Just own your autism and I won’t have anything to say against it.

[Anonymous No.17294726]

>>17294652
Oh Roastie, you could have had the world.
You could have been our special one, our beloved diamond girl.
You chose instead to attention-post-
to seek love online, from men who'll ghost.
Your value shown, your treasures acquired
You're not that special, you mind-sick liar.
Oh Roastie, what is it that you've done-
to yourself for others' fun?
You showed your hand, you fool!
You gave them what they wanted!
And for what, I ask- for what and why'd you give-
you secret Roastie treasure, to Chett and Jack John and Riv?
Oh Roastie, I'm tired of you.
Begone.

[Anonymous No.17294736]

>>17294406
based schizoposting anon

[Anonymous No.17294740]

>>17294645
>Ech, do people actually like this look? She looks like she smells of cat piss and cigarettes.
I actually like the smell of cigarettes, so I think it would be okay for me. I am a virgin though, so I can't actually say what I really like beyond what type of woman seems appealing sexually to me.

[Anonymous No.17294753]

>>17294740
I mean I kind of get it, I guess. But she looks like Daddy Issues incarnate.

[Anonymous No.17294754]

>>17294697
>nnooooo you can't look at relationships rationally you have to just live life unconsciously and partake in the degeneracy like the rest of us
what compels bugmen to make such pathetic posts? desperation?

[Anonymous No.17294765]

>>17294652
Oh Roastie, you could have had the world.
You could have been our special one, our beloved diamond girl.
You chose instead to attention-post-
to seek love online, from men who'll ghost.
Your value shown, your treasures acquired
You're not that special, you mind-sick liar.
Oh Roastie, what is it that you've done-
to yourself for others' fun?
You showed your hand, you fool!
You gave them what they wanted!
And for what, I ask- for what and why'd you give-
your secret Roastie treasure, to Chett and Jack and John and Riv?
Oh Roastie, I'm tired of you.
Begone.

[Anonymous No.17294796]

>>17294726
There once was a roastie named Gwen
who used Tinder to cycle through men
They always had sex
but then they'd never text
and she wound up alone in the end

[Anonymous No.17294798]

>>17293513
Found the roastie

[Anonymous No.17294810]

>>17292544
If anything it would be Fermina coping with the fact that Florentine was fucking prepubescent girls. Fermina only had sex with her husband of 50 years.

[Anonymous No.17294817]

To anyone in this thread who is despairing, I just want to say: despite the situation you’re in, it’s still better than being a degenerate faggot/queer/tranny/nigger/kike/female. Though the chances of your ideas of success aren’t high, they’re still better than those people. There is no hope for them.

[Anonymous No.17294829]

There once was a roastie named Kate
who every week had a new date
The men came and go,
but none bothered to show
any interest in being her mate

[Anonymous No.17294844]

>>17294765
>>17294796

[Anonymous No.17294867]

>>17294753
>I mean I kind of get it, I guess. But she looks like Daddy Issues incarnate.
That's what makes them attractive to me, they are kinda manic pixie dream girls. I am a scrawny virgin that sits inside on imageboards and plays vidya while they are attractive young girls that go to festivals, smoke weed and fuck a lot. It's pretty much just a golden fantasy for me, some kind of saviour fantasy. They pull me out of my shell and I give them some ground to stand on.

Sorry for the pathetic blogpost by the way.

[Anonymous No.17294898]

>>17294867
>They pull me out of my shell and I give them some ground to stand on
Sounds like a nice book but this isn't reality. An out of control woman will permanently ruin your life in several ways. It's unironically better to die a lonely virgin than it is to take a chance with a blown out festival whore.

[Anonymous No.17294900]

there once lived a roastie, Suzanne
who every day had some new man
but she turned 34
and could no longer whore
“want someday” her bio demands

[Anonymous No.17294908]

>>17294634
>bpd
lol no you dont want this. they will play you like puppet

[Anonymous No.17294916]

>>17294754
a vagina or a trannywound

[Anonymous No.17294919]

>>17294754
Huh no you misunderstand the direction I’m coming from. I’m >>17293947. Promiscuity is the first mistake in my mind. Everything after that is a bit of a cope. You will find it much more difficult to feel close to someone and accept them truly as a member of your family. You looking at women as stats to be analyzed and manipulated confirms this belief for me.

[Anonymous No.17294923]

>>17294867
stop watching that nhk anime

[Anonymous No.17294935]

>>17294867
These girls are the least likely to do that for you. It's all image. They are the absolute epitome of "girl who is really a boring 15 year old wearing a clown costume exterior made up of some total package of fashion style / persona." There is nothing inside them except whatever banal family/class background they left to atrophy and rot when they decided to don the clown suit (whether it's the grimy slut clown suit or the bald antifa clown suit, there many variants).

If you took a thousand girls like this and scratched the surface, you would find boring rich girls, boring midwest girls who rely on it as a crutch because they have no personality, boring mulattos who work at Target and the most interesting thing about them is they claim to be into astronomy, etc. You would rarely, maybe, find a true manic party slut, given over to drugged-out hedonism with reckless abandon and capable of manifesting the grimy whore image effortlessly, but they would be all surface with no depth, they would fuck you because you have drugs and then go fuck some black fellow for the same reason 20 minutes later.

That's not even counting all the complete basic bitches who WANT this image but only commit to it on their tinder profile. There are millions of mixo-matcho genetic deadend Latinas on twitter who do this pouty "lol i'm such a depressed slut and i type all in lowercase cashapp me see what happens xx" bad bitch wannabe pose and they're all just pigs who work at Target. It's like sassy fashionista black women, it's all illusion manufactured on Instagram. Underneath every black woman's purple wig and caked-on makeup is a little dumb Dominican who works at Target.

[Anonymous No.17294938]

>>17294406
Real ass dude of the week

[Anonymous No.17294948]

>>17294900
Mary was a pretty thing
Mary had a little fling
Fling turned to a trend
For decades on end
Mary now whines there's no ring

[Anonymous No.17294956]

yall need some of this

[Anonymous No.17294958]

>>17292534
This fucking thread makes me want to off myself, I guess it was always hopeless, since the beginning, I will never find a common woman, i'll probably off myself before having to settle down with a fucking whore, i'm studying at university and this shit only made it worse, it's full of whores
I can't cope with this life, I can't cope with having to sleep next to my girl, thinking about those men she loved before, all those fucking sexual experiences, I can't compete
Why god, why is this world like this, I wanted to find a common woman, I wanted to find a family, now I have to pick between whores and dying alone

[Anonymous No.17294965]

>>17292739
Should girls not be allowed to want a tall man if they themselves aren't tall?
Just like how there are differential standards for attractiveness there is a differential views on sexuality
why should you hold yourself to the same standard to satisfy an arbitrary sense of equality?

[Anonymous No.17294969]

>>17294697
Are trying to say that your ideal wife is a 400 pound communist single mother with depression? The book lays out the statistical truth about people in this country, are you really saying that a person's personal traits have nothing to do with their eligibility as a partner?

[Anonymous No.17294979]

>>17294598
also realise that ive watched degen porn

[Anonymous No.17294981]

>>17292534
Also OP, try reading The Kreutzer Sonata by Tolstoi if that helps

[Anonymous No.17294989]

>>17294935
This anon gets it. This is why straight laced girls do the freakiest shit in bed. People who want to be SEEN as edgy are hiding deep milquetoast inner selves whereas people who want the world to think they are boring are trying to throw everyone off the freak scent because they are into shit that legitimately unsettles many normies. That’s why swingers clubs trade on anonymity and masks and darkness to hide real identities.

[Anonymous No.17294996]

>>17294969
No I’m saying if you missed out on getting settled down young there’s no going back to finding a good one.

[Anonymous No.17295001]

>spend all life waiting for a virgin while jacking off to tranny porn
>stay khv
>settle for a loving caring gf who has been and is very sexual

It's a trade off but I can get over myself.

[Anonymous No.17295058]

>men having sex good
>women having sex bad

So we should all just fuck each other?

[Anonymous No.17295063]

>>17295058
It is hypocritical

[Anonymous No.17295076]

>>17295058
gay sex? redpilled

[Anonymous No.17295081]

>>17295058
>10% of men having sex with 90% of women bad for society as a whole

[Anonymous No.17295083]

>>17295081
nigga youre retarded

[Anonymous No.17295087]

>>17295081
do you people unironically believe this?

[Anonymous No.17295089]

>>17293589
ew, he can keep it, I don't want that hole

[Anonymous No.17295098]

>>17295081
So the people in this thread are betas that women don't wanna have sex with. Nothing I have problems with but that makes sense.

[Anonymous No.17295100]

>be me
>live in semi rural India
>think life sucks and wish I had been born in the west
>read threads like this
>learn there is no chance of finding a virgin to marry in the west
>holyshit.jpg
>mfw I realise my parents will arrange me to a virgin qt from our caste community

[Anonymous No.17295109]

>>17295100
Enjoy it, /lit/jeet.

[Anonymous No.17295111]

Now a Haiku

>I don't mind
>Other guys dancing with my girl
>That’s fine
>I know them all pretty well

[Anonymous No.17295129]

>>17292770
>>17292770
why would she even tell you this. i certainly hope you didn't just laugh along with it

i'm not even an incel type that expects purity in women, but that's the kind of shit you just don't tell your partner about. it fucks with the animal parts of our brains and it's needlessly cruel. i've had threesomes in the past and i wouldn't just tell my girlfriend about that shit

[Anonymous No.17295133]

>>17295100
Wholesome

[Anonymous No.17295145]

>>17295001
Make sure to forgive her when she is being very sexual with other man in your bed

[Anonymous No.17295147]

>>17295081
REMEMBERTHEGOLDENRULE

[Anonymous No.17295155]

>>17295145
bruh why do chicks get that tat on their stomach it looks so trashy

[Anonymous No.17295160]

>>17295100
Nice

[Anonymous No.17295161]

>>17295147
Why the fuck did I enter this thread

[Anonymous No.17295171]

>>17295100
I would rather have a white whore than a pajeet virgin

[Anonymous No.17295177]

>>17295145
>coke
bitch she does meth
they drop like flies
dont do drugs kids

[Anonymous No.17295184]

>>17295161
post roast

[Anonymous No.17295185]

>>17295171
Enjoy

[Anonymous No.17295190]

>>17295129
>nooo you should not expect your woman to not be fucked by other men... you're an incel!
>I have to pretend my gf wasn't dogged by other men....it fucks with my animal part of the brain!
clown

[Anonymous No.17295197]

>>17295177
i just stick with weed and even that fucks me up. i refuse to ever touch the hard shit

[Anonymous No.17295198]

>>17294958
Same bro. I cope with thinking demiurge has a beef with me, he caused me to be born 50 years after fall of traditional marriage and 50 years before either sexbots or inevitable collapse

[Anonymous No.17295202]

>>17295184
I'm a man, and I feel like shit because this shit is true, there isn't hope, you either cuck yourself or die alone
Should I off myself?

[Anonymous No.17295205]

>>17295185
Can't, because I also live in a shithole where every girl my age is a boring puritan

[Anonymous No.17295207]

>>17294900
There once was a whore pulling tricks
Who claimed she could handle five dicks
She removed her glass eye
And figured she'd try
To show all of the boys she'd take six

[Anonymous No.17295215]

>>17295205
I would trade my situation for yours in a heartbeat

[Anonymous No.17295216]

>>17295197
I’m weed and like a once or twice a year shrooms guy myself. Shrooms are great but need a very conscientious/spiritual approach to get the most out of a very positive and mind opening experience.

[Anonymous No.17295217]

>>17295161
Its better to leave the Cave and step in the light of the sun, no matter how hard its rays burn

[Anonymous No.17295220]

>>17295198
>>17294958
There are good women left, you just have to work a little harder to find them. Luckily they are as dismayed at their cogenderists' actions as you are, and they tend to hate men because of men's complicity in the whole degenerate fuckfest. A lot of decent women are craving the simplicity of a strong marriage with a guy who loves them. Don't give up hope. Build a strong family and raise 10 daughters who have values. Be the change you want to see. We need to start stemming the tide of shit in the world.

>>17295100
Based pajeet

[Anonymous No.17295223]

>>17292534
Fuck this gay earth
Thread theme
https://youtu.be/y8RKbG0am0Y

[Anonymous No.17295224]

>>17295215
I would kill to live in the west

[Anonymous No.17295232]

>>17295220
Thanks man, I want to believe not everything it's over

[Anonymous No.17295239]

any emotionally mute people here?
I feel nothing in this conversation
maybe i have the tism

[Anonymous No.17295244]

>>17292534
I lived my whole life surrounded by puritans and am sick of them. I want to live in the west and be degenerate!

[Anonymous No.17295250]

>>17295239
I wish I were you
Living as a full autistic schizoid that doesn't need anyone else may be the biggest blessing a man can receive

[Anonymous No.17295253]

>>17295202
No. Realize how unimportant pussy is. Buy it if you have the means and can reasonably expect to not get BONKED by your government. Get a fleshlite. Get a sex doll if you must. You need to pull yourself away from the idea that you need a nattering cunt in your life to make it worth living, which is easier said than done. You're up against millions of years of genetic programming and decades of indoctrination. SO FEW marriages (even those that don't end in divorce, which is less than half) are actually "happy". 99% of the time it's watching TV together and talking about family drama. It's not worth it, man.

[Anonymous No.17295254]

>>17295190
i'm well aware and at peace with the fact that my girlfriend has had partners in the past. that doesn't mean i need to make a point of getting detailed images of those encounters in my head. retard

[Anonymous No.17295257]

>>17295244
You don't know what you are saying

[Anonymous No.17295262]

>>17293934
see>>17294965

[Anonymous No.17295265]

>>17294898
>It's unironically better to die a lonely virgin than it is to take a chance with a blown out festival whore.
I always felt like this is a cope, sour grapes. "Well they are out there having fun but at least they aren't spiritually superior to me."
>>17294923
>>17294935
It's all just a fantasy for me, nothing I actually expect to happen. Just as the average joe wishes for a blonde bimbo to suck his dick or as the average 4channer wants a big milky mommy. Mental mastrubation, really.

[Anonymous No.17295267]

>>17295253
How do I do that fren? What if I die trying not to care? I tried to act like a buddhist monk but i'm too much of a brainlet and an animal to control myself

[Anonymous No.17295276]

>>17293579
based

[Anonymous No.17295277]

>>17295257
I am somewhat attractive and extraverted, the only reason I'm a virgin is that every girl my age surrounding me is scared of sex because of social stigma.

[Anonymous No.17295280]

>>17295265
Is their any cringier phrase than sour grapes? I cannot think of one.

[Anonymous No.17295287]

>>17293579
Nice

[Anonymous No.17295292]

>>17295280
You don't like it because it exposes you

[Anonymous No.17295296]

>>17295254
>you literally have to brainwash yourself to not wrongthink in order to stay together with modern woman

[Anonymous No.17295300]

>>17293579
unfathomably based

[Anonymous No.17295302]

>>17293513
>We've all done fucking retarded shit at that age
I haven't :(

[Anonymous No.17295304]

>>17295205
Kill yourself you fucking twit
While i lick your bitches clit
Put a magnet in your mouth
With a metal pole down south
When they magnetize you'll feel
This orgasm's fucking real
Why you troll on 4chan's dumb
Lemme fuck your thicktit mum
You're a virgin plus your sad-
Daddys penis tasted bad
Why'd you let him fuck your ass?
Cause its better than a lass
Now you gotta hate the women
'Cuz your daddy needed rimmin'
Your a fucking loser bro
Find a therapist and go

[Anonymous No.17295305]

>>17295280
you sound bitter pham

[Anonymous No.17295309]

>>17293910
Just join a church and date a qt 18 year old and treat her right. Women almost have to come from wholesome two parent households to be right in the head. There’s always outliers but I wouldn’t risk it.

[Anonymous No.17295330]

why the fuck would you even care?

[Anonymous No.17295346]

>>17292534
The Idiot

[Anonymous No.17295348]

>>17295254
how does it feel to know that one of those men probably tongued her asshole and dogged her aggresively while she squealed in pleasure :)

[Anonymous No.17295355]

>>17295330
Please go away woman

[Anonymous No.17295362]

forget everything you heard
forget everything you heard
you don’t know who’s feeding it to you

[Anonymous No.17295370]

>>17295330
Hello Bertha

[Anonymous No.17295374]

>>17295265
It's not, it's just being practical. Be reasonable for a moment. Look at this woman. GOD she's attractive. Look at those hips, those juicy tits. Wouldn't you like a go at her tight(?) little cunt? I know I sure would. Some time goes by and hey! You got it! She's having sex with you! Wow, this is great. Coom feel good. But... what now? You've been sated, your need to coom is temporarily gone. What else does she offer? YOU bring a lot to the table. You pay for everything, do favours for her, emotionally support her- the lot. But what does she do for you beyond get naked a few times per week? She isn't just any girl, she's a blown out festival whore like you said. She is a vapid nonentity that lives for novelty and excitement. Gradually the sex becomes less frequent, some years have passed and she's not quite what she used to be. Mentally she's still that blown out festival whore. Now what? Now she leaves you after vampirically sucking your will to live (and occasionally your cock, if you earned enough husband points) for the last decade. "Geeze", you think to yourself. "Maybe I would have been better off focusing on developing myself instead. Could have bought pussy, saved four or five times as much money as I actually did (no to mention alimony)". Anon, you can do whatever you want. It's your life and I wouldn't dare tell you how to live it.

[Anonymous No.17295376]

>>17294979
I don’t know if it’s good to forgive people based off of what you’ve done, cause a lot of times you won’t even forgive yourself and when you get the inclination they’ve forgiven themselves the entire system reverses and makes you resent them even more.

[Anonymous No.17295384]

my ex from high school became an onlyfans model. she was covered in tats and piercings and gained a lot of weight since then. i paid for it...it was only $5

[Anonymous No.17295399]

>>17295384
Why did you do it

[Anonymous No.17295405]

>>17295399
i didnt know how bad she got. her tits were quite nice, but now she was chubby instead of slim and was showing quick signs of aging in the face from a hard party lifestyle

[Anonymous No.17295430]

>>17294981
Only good rec in the thread

[Anonymous No.17295458]

“Stop judging, so that you won’t be judged, 2 because the way that you judge[a] others will be the way that you will be judged, and you will be evaluated by the standard with which you evaluate others.

3 “Why do you see the speck in your brother’s eye but fail to notice the beam in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when the beam is in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite! First remove the beam from your own eye, and then you will see clearly enough to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

[Anonymous No.17295466]

>>17295292
>>17295305
>no u
>u mad
Say sour grapes
You can laugh and stare
Say sour grapes
But I don't care
I couldn't care less if I didn't have a friend
'Cept people would say I was crazy
And I wouldn't work 'cause I don't need

[Anonymous No.17295485]

>>17295458
fuck off woman

[Anonymous No.17295489]

>>17295374
You shouldn't marry some random hookup who you don't even really like, it's not that hard

[Anonymous No.17295491]

>>17293513
No.

[Anonymous No.17295494]

>>17295489
marriage is a scam in the 21st century.

[Anonymous No.17295517]

>>17295458
But everybody already know christianity is religion of cuckolds, even its greatest prophet was basically "wife's son", that beta stepdad raised as his own. Read Nietzsche