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I just had a heartbreaking, rage-inducing and emasculating conversation with my (soon to be ex) girlfriend. To make a long story short, we were talking about sex and she said “I love your dick. It’s the perfect size; Not too small, but not too big either. My ex was so big it hurt every time and I could barely fit the head in my mouth” and laughed it off like it was nothing. I played along and said something to the effect of “Yeah, that sounds like it sucked”, but I could feel my soul turning black and my blood boiling. Then came the confusion. Did she say that shit to shit test me, or is she just retarded? I have no idea, and I don’t think I’ll ever know the answer. We kept the conversation going and moved on to another topic, but ever since she uttered those words, they’ve been on replay in my head. I’ve gotten over similar issues before by finding books I can relate to, so I’m asking you guys for recommendations. Do you have any? I’ve read books about heartbreak before and enjoyed most of them (Werther, Kreuzer Sonata etc.), but this is different. I need something heavier and more fitting for a guy in my situation. Preferably written by a misogynistic author.

>> No.19657602
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19657602

Also, jannies, this isn’t a fucking bait or demoralization thread. It actually happened to me, so delete all the shit tier spam threads before you go after mine

>> No.19657604

>>19657566
Yeah, dump that slut, there's nothing to salvage there.

source: had identical situation happen to me

>> No.19657609

>>19657566
The Sun Also Rises

>> No.19657627

>>19657566
Could be both. Could also be you overreacting.

>> No.19657670

>>19657604
Thanks for your reply. It’s not much, but knowing others have gone through the same thing helps. It may sound pathetic, but literature one of the few things that has helped me out before, so I figured it would now as well. I hope these intrusive thoughts and memories from the conversation we had stop plaguing me once the initial shock subsided

>> No.19657672

>>19657627
It is absolutely OP overreacting. As hard as it might be for you to understand, since a lot of young men only experience the inner workings of womens brains through cherrypicked blackpills online, for every woman fetishizing dick size, there's another woman who is honest with her own preferences and knows she doesn't want to be painfully stretched out to meet some societal expectation. Ive had an ex tell me my dick was literally perfect in size and shape, because i could ram her as deep as i want and she wouldn't need a day to recover, which is a much more practical preference to have when youre a rational and sane person who genuinely likes sex and thus like having it pretty frequently without pain or necessary downtime. Also, when youre massive you will NEVER experience a deepthroat. My wife loves that she can manage to press her lips against my crotch as she takes me in her throat, it arouses her to know she can offer such pleasures - not to mention that throatfucking is as incredible as you would imagine, and I can do it without a crotch full of vomit or an apprehensive/uninterested partner.

So anyways, to conclude, you yourself are emasculating your own manhood with your irrational obsession with how you interpreted a one-off comment. Be a man and own your self.

>> No.19657679

>>19657609
Sounds interesting, thanks for the recommendation. I’ve heard about the book before, but it’s way down on my list. Just read a brief plot summary and it looks like a good fit

>> No.19657715

As I said in the thread over on /his/, your gf sounds like a free spirit. These kinds of girls are of a very specific type.
They don’t belong to any man, but rather they share their love with many.
Your attitude is all wrong, you should cast aside those feelings of jealousy because it’s really not personal.
After all, she left the other guy even though he had a bigger dick.
Girls like that share their love with many men, you’re acting selfish because you want to keep her love all to yourself.
But it doesn’t work like that with that type of girl, and you’re unironically ruining your relationship by acting like a green-eyed monster.
You should cherish your relationship, you should feel grateful and honored that she chose you.
In this journey we call life we cross paths with many people and you were lucky enough to meet her. Girls like that are rare, they are virtuous because they love selflessly.
Treasure your time with her OP.

>> No.19657726

>>19657670
subsides*
>>19657672
OP here. Thanks for the input. I’m also open to books that challenge my reaction to her comments, which is admittedly rooted in juvenile feelings of insecurity. Reading books has changed my mind dozens of times before, so I’m all ears

>> No.19657735

>>19657566
Just rape her with a baseball bat. Most women have rape fantasies and a baseball bat should be just right size for her cunt.

>> No.19657750

>>19657735
this.
/thread

>> No.19657758

>>19657735
>>19657750
gotta say, i really don't think this is it

>> No.19657759

>>19657715
Thanks. I was gonna tell the jannies over there to delete it because I posted it on the wrong board, but I couldn’t be assed. Yours is an interesting perspective, and I’ve seen it expressed in many books before. Especially modernist novels where the main character is a young, gullible guy who is stupid enough to fall for a woman of the kind you described in your post. My problem is that I can’t accept it. I can’t accept the fact that my girlfriend is one of these “free spirits” despite having been one myself. I guess I’m fucked. Might re-read some of the novels I mentioned

>> No.19657769

>>19657758
Well excuse me, you gotta a fucking better idea anon?

>> No.19657770

>>19657715
Are we calling whores free spirits now?

>> No.19657778

>>19657672
>It is absolutely OP overreacting.
Nah.
OP is a cuck for dating a whore in the first place. At least he’s angry about it.

>> No.19657785

>>19657770
Yes, and rare and virtuous too apparently.

>> No.19657796

Strangle her

>> No.19657805
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>>19657566
OP, I spend most of my time masturbating to pick of small women getting cartoonishely stretched out by cocks the size of their torso but you have to realize that irl, there is too much of a good thing.
You might also be jealous because she mentionned her bigger ex, but there's a reason why he's her ex and she's praising your dick instead

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>>19657805
>I spend most of my time masturbating to pick of small women getting cartoonishely stretched out by cocks the size of their torso
wtf anon?

>> No.19657825

>>19657778
this

>>19657566
You need to leave that bitch, saying something like that to your face is utterly disrespectful to you. The past should be past and not been brought up in a new relationship.

>> No.19657828

>>19657672
Jesus that's a lot of cope

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>>19657817
we all have our preferences

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>>19657830
fair enough desu

>> No.19657842

>sex-haver's problems
Reminder that you will NEVER be a great writer if you liberally expend your seminal fluid

>> No.19657843

>>19657566
Honestly, I hope you kill yourself over this. You're complaining about having a girlfriend and you're complaining about having sex. I sincerely hope you kill yourself.

>> No.19657866

>>19657770
>>19657785
You don’t understand.
A base woman, which are unfortunately all too common, cannot love but lives only for herself.
Another woman would have stuck with the ex because of his bigger cock because they cannot love, they are materialistic and only care about their own pleasure.
OP’s gf is a free spirit, I can’t know her reasons but it’s true that she didn’t love her ex because of his dick.
Girls like her are rare because they are virtuous, they love selflessly, unlike the aforementioned size queens.
Girls like that understand that we only exist on this earth but for a short time, we are but like mayflies.
That’s why they love selflessly.
OP, you are wasting your time worrying about superficial shit like that, you should instead cherish your time with her.
Your relationship isn’t any less special because she has loved other men.
Girls like that understand that every relationship is unique and irreplaceable.
Don’t let others shame you into quitting a great relationship.
Set aside your selfishness and love her, treasure her and cherish your time together.
Your relationship is unique and special, and you’re lucky you crossed paths with such a good and virtuous woman.

>> No.19657871

>>19657805
I wish it was this simple. He’s her ex because she dumped her, and she spent six months getting over him
>>19657825
I know, which is why I’m gonna break up with her. I just want some books I can relate to

>> No.19657873

you are overreacting, it doesn't sound like she said it out of malice. Accept your penis size, she clearly does.

>> No.19657874

>>19657866
>Girls like her are rare because they are virtuous
>virtuous
>probably was ravished by at least 20 cocks of all shapes and sizes
Lmao this is how far standards for f*male conduct have fallen

>> No.19657875

>>19657866
What Reddit does to a mf

>> No.19657878

>>19657871
because HE* dumped her

>> No.19657880

>>19657866
Fuck me I'd say you have to go back but honestly I hope you stay kek.
Take my upvote kind sir.

>> No.19657888

>>19657726
You don't need a book you fucking retard, do you also need a book to instruct you on how to go to the toilet? She said she likes your cock better and you've nevertheless taken it as an insult because you spend too long online looking at 4chan blackpill memes. Unless there are other reasons to think she's unsatisfied with you sexually, you just sound like an insecure, emotionally unstable faggot, sort yourself out

>> No.19657890

Céline, Miller, Hamsun, Bukowski, Houellebecq... people like that. If you like books about men who are played with, tricked and cheated on by women, you'll enjoy the works of these guys and others like them

>> No.19657897

God you can smell the faggot redditors who have never been in a relationship itt like they shit their pants. If a woman you love casually mentions her ex's dino dick, you're a cuckold if it doesn't make you feel SOMETHING

>> No.19657899

>>19657609
This. First thing that came to mind. Hell the Fitzgerald chapters in a Moveable Feast would work too.

>> No.19657906

>>19657890
>Céline, Miller, Hamsun, Bukowski, Houellebecq
>If you like books about men who are played with, tricked and cheated on by women
You've clearly never read these authors and believe the memes you've seen on 4chan.

>> No.19657915

>>19657897
It appears OP has taken the cuckold thing to the extreme and is now probably jerking off to being humiliated by both /his/ and /lit/.

>> No.19657921

Tranny wokepedians simp for trannies >>> 19653722

>> No.19657924

>>19657899
>the Fitzgerald chapters in A Moveable Feast
Rundown? Sounds interesting

>> No.19657925

>>19657566
She did that to fuck with you 1000%. I think you should dump her, you shouldn’t tolerate that disrespect. She will only continue to disrespect you, especially since your reaction was so meek.

>> No.19657928

>>19657715
This is industrial, non FDA approved copium. Should be taken only in the most life threatening of circumstances.

>> No.19657931

>>19657715
Haha an actual, unironic cuck. Neat!

>> No.19657934

>>19657871
Get out of that “relationship” immediately, OP. The fact that she talks about her ex’s big cock means she has exactly 0 respect for you, and with the context you provided it also means she wouldn’t hesitate a second to cheat on you if he ever wanted her cunt back for easy fuck. I know it hurts, you’ll attempt all sorts of mental gymnastics to convince yourself that girls couldn’t possibly be this awful - but they are.

>> No.19657942

>>19657888
You're retarded if you think a comment like "I love your dick! By the way, my ex boyfriend was huge and I couldn't suck his dick properly" isn't hurftul. It doesnt matter if she said it to make OP insecure, stuff like that hurts
>>19657897
this
>>19657906
>You've clearly never read these authors
Yes, I have

>> No.19657943

>>19657897
There's a big difference between feeling nothing and getting so butthurt you decide to break up with her and go on a literature form to ask for 'misogynistic author' recs. It's not exactly a mature response, I understand OP feeling upset but he's not 'heartbroken', he's acting like she fucked her ex or something. Maybe she was fucking with him to see his reaction, unless she's stupid she should know it would produce a response. But if so this isn't a good reaction

>> No.19657945

>>19657924
Basically Fitzgerald’s wife was a psycho who loved to put him down and would often tell him he had a small prick. Hemingway explains the nature of psycho women to Fitzgerald and tells him there’s nothing wrong with him.

>> No.19657952

>>19657566
That's stupid anon, there's not even a point in getting worked up over that. Your feelings are completely normal for this situation, but she was definitely trying to provoke you and get a reaction from you. Don't ever take something like that to heart, especially when a girl mentions another man. You can find someone better than that too; someone who doesn't purposely try to make you angry and jealous about your physical attributes.

And there's no need to generalize women in general. Sure, you can point to this situation, but manipulative remarks like that span across relationships with both genders.
Take care of yourself anon. I don't have any book recommendations right now, but take some time for yourself. Don't willingly subject yourself to someone putting you down

>> No.19657953

>>19657943
It’s a fitting reaction for a female that is utterly disrespectful and unconcerned with her partners feelings. You don’t say shit like that. It’s also just a massive, massive red flag. If a girl came out with remarks like that, or showed a hint of it in the dating stage, I would dump her. I’ve been through the same thing with these mouthy, disrespectful women myself. They shit test you and try to hurt you under the guise of “honesty”.

>> No.19657954

>>19657943
Nobody gives a fuck, reddit cuck. It's cuckolds like you who have made natural human relationships an absolute mine field of do's and don'ts. Eat shit.

>> No.19657957

>>19657897
this, I'm honestly not sure if there are any situations where it's appropriate to talk to your current romantic partner about how they compare to past sexual experiences you've had. even if it were 100% compliments it'd still be demeaning to the person you were with before and just about amount to saying "if it doesn't work out between us I'll talk this way about you".

>> No.19657972

>>19657957
In these modern times I think everyone can agree that acting like you're the only person your partner has ever fucked is the way to go. Was probably the same in ancient times... but also true.

>> No.19657978

>>19657952
Also, I meant: Dump the girl.
If I wasn't completely clear.

This girl is clearly disrespecting you and comparing you to other people. Don't tolerate shit like that dude. Especially with friends or girls. They don't value your time or perspective. Why even keep people like that around?

>> No.19657984

You see OP? This is how people consumed by envy act like.
They are trying to tear you down because they are jealous, they rather destroy someone else’s happiness out of spite because they can’t stand the thought of someone else being happy while they are miserable.
Don’t throw away your relationship because they mock you, your relationship isn’t good and beautiful.
Your gf is a good woman, she’s had beautiful soul.
Who are you gonna listen to, the great authors of old that wrote extensively about he mysteries of love or strangers on the internet?

>> No.19657990

>>19657984
>Your gf is a good woman, she’s had beautiful soul.
source

>> No.19657998

>>19657984
What’s “happy” about his girlfriend disrespecting him like that? To me that sounds like a potentially miserable relationship with many future disrespects and possibly infidelity down the line. I’m genuinely advising OP to break up with her to save himself the hurt of experiencing that, as I myself have been through a similar experience.

>> No.19658003

>>19657942
Well you misunderstood them.

>> No.19658005

>>19658003
What did I miss?

>> No.19658011

>>19657998
>possibly infidelity down the line
>possibly
More like certainly, and possibility that it’s already happening

>> No.19658023

>>19657566
my guess is she's retarded and was not acting with malice. if you want to level the playing field (assuming you think this is a provocation) I'd make mention of some feature of your ex which she lacks casually. assuming she's a typical neurotic women it may send her down a psychological spiral that will be akin in pain to what her retarded comments have done to you. All is fair in love and war.

>> No.19658032

>>19657566
Just learn to enjoy thinking about that big dicked ex fucking your girl.

>> No.19658034

>>19657984
>>19657943
>not a mature response
Dude, who gives a shit if OP asked for misogynistic recommendations at first? That clearly just shows he might be a little less experienced or misguided. He's not trying to hurt anybody here, he's just asking for advice.

The girl in this situation is displaying some prime dishonest communication, almost to the point of a humble brag - do you really want someone acting that insidiously around you, casually lying to you, to test how awful she can make you feel?
I understand there are different degrees to this, she shouldn't outright shame or demoralize her partner.

If only you knew how much time you were wasting, putting up with these kinds of people. Tolerating their shitty behavior towards you, trying to drag you down, instead of just cutting them off and getting the fuck on with it.

>> No.19658040

>>19657566
Checked satan digits.
>“Yeah, that sounds like it sucked”
Fuck man, you are already in an emasculated state of mind else she would've never said something like that and you would've never replied as such. If my girlfriend or wife would say that to me I'd punch her with no hesitation.

Girls say that shit because they lost respect for you and from there it is a downward-trajectory very difficult to break out of. Instead of reading books you must fortify your spirit and become the unmoved mover. As a guideline read Chapter 20 in Revolt Against The Modern World and internalize it.

Also, you created this problem because you gave away your masculine energy by having sess out of wedlock.

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>>19658040
>Also, you created this problem because you gave away your masculine energy by having sess out of wedlock.

>> No.19658058

>>19657943
OP here. I know for a fact that if I had said something that disrespectful, she would have ended it. I don’t really care what she meant. I mean, why would I? There are two alternatives; One is that she is stupid enough to overlook the disrespectful and hurtful nature of her comments, the other is that she is a cold bitch who said it to hurt me. Both alternatives are equally shit. My posts here may sound pathetic or whatever, but I don’t give a shit. Accepting this shit is what’s pathetic, no matter what her intentions were. I’ve already said I’m breaking up with breaking up with her several times
>>19657945
Very interesting. Definitely reading this
>>19657952
>>19657953
>>19657954
>>19657957
Thanks for the support

>> No.19658066

>>19657715
kek top tier b8 m8

>> No.19658071

>>19657566
Just leave the bitch behind you, don't think about it too much, not now and not after you freed yourself

>> No.19658074

>>19658034
>>19657998
>>19657957
>>19657972
You know what, you guys have convinced me. I was arguing against OP before but the more I imagine myself in that situation the more I understand how he feels, I'd probably be seething too. At best his gf is incredibly oblivious, but yeah I can't imagine telling my gf 'haha I'm sure glad your ass is flatter than my ex, that was way too much' and not expecting her to be upset.

I guess I was thinking that complete honesty is what you should strive towards in a relationship, and that if you can't handle the honesty then it's a problem with you. But maybe that's ignorant of the human condition and some things should just not be said in relationships regardless of their truth.

>> No.19658077

>>19657566
Read Gynecocracy, it shows how boys find happiness from being sissified and spanked by women.

>> No.19658084

>>19658077
Why bruh

>> No.19658088

I hope this thread has been useful for you OP, but it really didn't belong on /lit/. please restrain your autism in the future and go to /adv/ for your blogposting needs.

>> No.19658093

>>19658071
Oh he’ll think about her plenty, those traumatic relationships with evil sluts stay with you forever, especially the first time you’re confronted with the female nature in its whorish ugliness. But right now, OP needs to ditch the bitch asap and worry about redpill lessons later.

>> No.19658102

>>19657670
Litterature can really be a valuable data training feed. Hope you'll handle this situation like a king, anon.

>> No.19658104

Now that OP has had his issues sorted, are there any good books about physically emasculated protagonists, besides anything about the jews? All the rage, anxiety, and emotion of emasculation is kind of hot.

>> No.19658105

>>19658088
/adv/ is literally full of retarded children who couldn’t provide an inkling of credible life advice, he’s better here, with us.

>> No.19658110

>>19658074
And just like that the r*dditor casts off his oppressive shackles and becomes the infamous hacker known as 4chan. Use the power wisely desu, try not to get too bored.

P.S. You now have autism

>> No.19658112

Get out OP. Don't listen to the cuck groomer posters itt. I am glad you are already decided you are gonna break up with her. You deserve better. Cuckoldry is for plebbitors.
From your first post I knew it wasnt HER who broke up with the guy and you proved it in the next post. You will only come up stronger from that, it will just take some time. Get rid of the whore.

>> No.19658132

>"To reflect that each one who enters imagines himself to be the first to enter whereas he is always the last term of a preceding series even if the first term of a succeeding one, each imagining himself to be the first, last, only and alone whereas, he is neither first nor last nor only nor alone in a series originating in and repeated to infinity"

James Joyce

>> No.19658133

>>19658105
have you considered that /lit/ is better precisely because we don't come here to give each other life advice? the more people like OP use a board as their personal dumpster the worse it gets.

>> No.19658138

>>19658132
Mmmm *sniff* mhmmm yes my dear Nora

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>>19657817
That's a pretty good fetish imo, having a physical dominance on my partner is what fuels me with determination for sports.

>> No.19658151

>>19658104
You should ask a wom*n for this kind of advises.

>> No.19658156

>>19658132
I hate this faggot so much

>> No.19658158

>>19658071
OP here. This is what I’m thinking too. I just need to find the right time and place. I’ve given myself a few days tops
>>19658088
I specifically asked for books to help me digest my emotions and overcome the intrusive thoughts I’ve been having since she said these things. The thread is severing it’s purpose, as evidenced by the recommendations I’ve got. If I was looking for advice, I wouldn’t have come here. I’m not looking for advice, I’m looking or books I can relate to
>>19658102
>>19658112
Thanks

>> No.19658162

>>19658058
>I know for a fact that if I had said something that disrespectful, she would have ended it
then if you want to break up with her, do this instead

>> No.19658171

>>19658151
Seriously? No books on Nero and Sporus? No retelling of the myth of Ganymede where he has his balls clipped for the honor of carrying Zeus’ liquids?

>> No.19658181

>>19658132
Is Joyce talking about men sleeping with women here, or about life itself? Nice quote anyway

>> No.19658182

>>19658158
bro, don't make excuses. you wanted /lit/s input on a situation you didn't know what to make of, and then you added a token "recommend me some books for this feel". it's fine, but at least own up to it.

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>>19658158
OP, you did not reply to my post which gives you the best advice. You deserve to suffer and die. Sex out of wedlock is a mortal sin and that's what you get.

>> No.19658184

>>19658132
cringe

>> No.19658187

>>19658133
He mostly explained his personal situation for advices AND books recommendations about a very specific and niche kind of thing, so yes, he belongs among us.

>> No.19658202

>>19658171
My parents are teachers, aficionados of Greco-Roman mythology and I never heard about those guys.

You picked my interest tho, I'll search about those tales once I'm home.

>> No.19658203

>>19658187
>so yes, he belongs among us.
sus

>> No.19658207

>>19658202
What until you hear about the myth of Attis and Cybele

>> No.19658214

>>19658203
From the top of his head, right down to his reasonably average sized penis.

>> No.19658217

>>19658132
This epitome could be better and shorter, but it permits to still get the idea.
Good quote, anon.

>> No.19658234

>>19658214
>right down to his reasonably average sized penis.
Just say small anon. You know it’s what he wants.

>> No.19658237

What’s your cock size, OP?

>> No.19658239

Kind of off topic, but that reminds me of when my ex and I were about to fuck like 30 min after we last had sex but then we noticed that she was bleeding a bit from before and we postponed it. I said it's ok because it wouldn't have felt as good for me anyway so shortly after I last came and she then told me, seeming kind of surprised, how the other two guys she's been with always wanted to fuck again after like 15 minutes. It made me kind of mad because it felt like she was comparing me negatively to them (although I'm sure that wasn't her intention) but I also felt like I was overreacting. Was I overreacting or should I still be mad?

>> No.19658240

>>19658132
Nice quote. Now I just need a book that’s like a 2-300 page version of it

>> No.19658247

>>19658239
*not my ex but my current GF lmao

>> No.19658253

>>19658239
"that's weird you must have dated gorillas in the past"

>> No.19658255

>>19658239
>although I'm sure that wasn't her intention
Are you sure?

>> No.19658257

>>19658237
7x5.25, slightly bigger if I’m in good shape and super horny. That’s not my issue, though. It’s the disrespectful comments and the insecurity, rage and intrusive thoughts resulting from them. I’m fine with my penis

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>>19658257
>I’m fine with my penis
Makes this thread on multiple boards

>> No.19658277

>>19657890
Where do I start with these authors?

>> No.19658287

>>19657566

Give it a few weeks and on your way out tell her,

>"I've always loved your pussy, the way your labia hangs so low is so sexy."

She'll never be the same again.

>> No.19658289

>>19658274
I truly am. That doesn’t mean comments like that don’t hurt. It hit me on an emotional level. The disrespect and (probable) malice alone made it bad enough

>> No.19658297

>>19658255
yes, i'm sure she was genuinely surprised that guys have a refractory period after sex (which exceeds 15 mins in most cases). it wouldn't make sense otherwise because it wasn't on me that we didn't fuck again right away but due to her bleeding so she couldn't have meant it as a reproach in that context. still made me mad at her regardless

>> No.19658305

>>19658274
Eventually OP will figure out the competitive nature of sexuality and will either channel his rage into his penis, making it even larger, or become a submissive who neurotically believes his penis is gradually getting smaller.
Many such cases.

>> No.19658307

>>19658257
That’s an above average dick size

>> No.19658324

>>19657566
Why are you dating a non-virgin?

>> No.19658329
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>>19658239
>(although I'm sure that wasn't her intention)
The absolute state of 4cucks. You became sentimental with her and she snipped your balls off. Whenever a girl says something disrespectful it is with malicious intent that comes when you become a huge pussy.

>> No.19658333

>>19658324
Where exactly should he find a decent looking virgin older than 16?

>> No.19658334

>>19658324
Better question might be “why are you expecting not to feel emasculated while “dating” a non-virgin”

>> No.19658335

>>19658289
>malice
What malice you weird cunt? It sounds like you're just dating some basic bitch level hoe but you come across as a moron so maybe you're made for each other. What even is this thread? You didn't care about book recommendations you just wanted to tell us this story for some odd reason. Break up with her, don't, read my comment while you jerk off furiously cause this thread is part of this new fetish you have, buy a cuck cage to save your relationship, whatever desu, (you) do (you). Deary me, what truly odd threads these were. Should've just done what /his/ did and insinuate you were a homosexual. Could've saved us all 45 minutes.

>> No.19658336

>>19658289
Man, you're such a pussy no wonder she insulted you. If this gets so much into your head you deserve to suffer.

>> No.19658350

>>19658335
lmao did this faggot crosspost this on /his/?

>> No.19658351

>>19657866
obligatory i’m a nazi, but lol at you trying to reason with incels/incels in denial. these guys got dumped enough to get so jaded that they latch on to whatever woman that’s so sad that she will never leave them. that’s what happens when you’re a loser ;)

>> No.19658355

this is why the sacrament of marriage is so sacred.

>> No.19658358

>>19658350

>>>12573761

>> No.19658361

>>19658351
I bet you would have savoured the emasculating comments OPs gf made, and then you would later put on your women’s knickers and stick a 9 inch dildo up your ass

>> No.19658364

>>19658289
You sound insecure. None of us can be sure of the intention behind her comment. It’s starting to sound like she wasn’t fucking with you but rather this idea is eating you alive, that a better man exists. Now that this idea has taken you, you should use it to better yourself to prevent your fear of being abandoned. My psychoanalysis.

>> No.19658366

>>19658350
Yeah, as you can see I forgot how to crosspost properly though and can't be fucked working it out again.

>> No.19658367

>>19657672
>because i could ram her as deep as i want and she wouldn't need a day to recover
My gf and I can only fuck twice a week because we have to take breaks in between. I wish I was smaller sometimes t b q h f a m

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>>19658350
Yes.

>> No.19658370

>>19658368
Apparently he posted it on the wrong board at first

>> No.19658371

>>19658370
He's a faggot for thinking about it and posting it everywhere.

>> No.19658377

>>19658335
OP is pathetic, but this is on a whole other level. Imagine simping this hard for a woman you don't even know

>> No.19658378

>>19657866
You got all this from the anecdote in OP? You read one sentence that allegedly came from this person and you say all this? Get a grip dude

>> No.19658379

>>19658333
Depends on what country he's from. I'm 21, and somehow most girls I've been close with were virgins, some of them were also really hot. I honestly don't see what's so hard about finding a 16-20yo virgin. Maybe stop paying attention to whores?
Also this >>19658334

>> No.19658387

>>19657871
Grow up dude. You don't have the biggest cock. Work on that fragile ego. Stop watching porn and cherish your loved ones.

>> No.19658391

>>19658132
I got a good laugh from this

>> No.19658394

>>19658377
What are you talking about cunt I don't care if they break up? I'm just saying she sounds like a fucking idiot and so does he, ergo they might just make it work if he's prepared to put his cage on for months at a time or whatever weird shit he's now into. If that doesn't sound ideal then he should probably break up with her. Fuck knows why he came to tell us all this story though as he's certainly not here for book recommendations.

>> No.19658397

OP and his ex-gf should watch Eyes Wide Shut together.
Tom Cruise goes on a night of attempted revenge sexcapades after Nicole Kidman tells him she fantasized about fucking a sailor once. Ends up at a Dionysian orgy of the political elite. Very funny. Based on a book too, called Traumnovelle or something?

>>19658361
Why does emasculation fetish stuff always go towards womens clothes. Seems so much hotter if the emasculated party attempts to retain his masculinity

>> No.19658398

>>19658379
Have you ever considered the possibility that they were lying to you? I find it extremely hard to trust women in sexual matters after I've fucked 5 (five) teenage church girls, 0 (zero) of which were virgins even before I shoved my cocks inside them. No doubt they told their tradcuck husbands that wedding night was their first time though.

>> No.19658408

not reading your blog faggot

>> No.19658409 [DELETED] 

>>19657566
lol

>> No.19658417

>>19658397
>Ends up at a Dionysian orgy of the political elite. Very funny. Based on a book too, called Traumnovelle or something?
Based on real life***
Except they were fuckin kids
That’s why they necked Kubrick

>> No.19658421

>>19658394
This is why men are losing. If a woman had posted something like OP did on a forum for women, she would have been showered with support and encouraged to break up with her man. On 4chan, all he gets is people defending his whore girlfriend and telling him he deserves her evil words

>> No.19658431

>>19658397
Downloading Traumnovelle as we speak

>> No.19658445

>>19658398
I'm very sure most of them did not lie. Somehow I earn women's trust easily (or I just spend time only with such women), and there's something that feels fundamentally different about a woman who's virgin. I think you know that feel too, so I wouldn't elaborate.

>> No.19658447

>>19658421
I'm not defending the stupid whore you retard. I'm saying he comes across so incredibly stupid that they might just work and (most importantly) that I don't care either way and I would like him to know his new-found fetish involving us anons is something I find very peculiar.

>> No.19658458

>>19657672
Your gf struggled to fit the head of my cock in her mouth, she had to suck on my balls while stroking it instead, still ate my nut like a good girl though

You’re a lucky man

>> No.19658460

>>19658417
Ok, but the plot of Eyes Wide Shut is based on a German novel called Traumnovelle.
OP is asking for book recommendations on emasculation

>> No.19658467

>>19658460
OP here, Traumnovelle is the kind of stuff I’m looking for. Thanks for not derailing my thread with irrelevant shit

>> No.19658479

>>19657566
>My ex was so big it hurt every time and I could barely fit the head in my mouth
I'm truly (unironically) sorry OP, I am that guy. Every girl I've been with say it's the biggest they've ever had. Sometimes girls flat out refuse penetration once they see it. Regardless, it definitely leads to some hilarious pillow-talk. Two recurring themes are bitching about guys with small dicks, bitching about guys who think their dick's big when it's really average.

My condolences anon. I hope your next gf has never met someone like me.

>> No.19658480

>>19657672
Cope: The Post

>> No.19658494
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19658494

This thread is nightmare fuel. I'm NEVER having sex.

>> No.19658497

>>19658479
Nice try, but that doesn’t really matter. I guess it’s more the dissonance of being as big as I am and a girl telling me she’s had bigger. I’m used to being you, now I know how it feels not to be. That’s not the point, though. I’m sure plenty of girls will have slept with a bigger guy. The point is that the comments she made mean she’s either A) trying to make me feel bad or B) a massive retard

>> No.19658504

>>19658494
based volcel

>> No.19658506

>>19658494
There’s a reason why so many authors write about the horrors of being in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with a woman. That shit is horrible. Most wise men advise other men to abstain from sex for a reason

>> No.19658509

yeah it was a test. and if you don’t present her with a bull soon you’ve failed it - women need bbc and you’re a child if you can’t accept this

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>>19658494
GIGABASED.

Give not a whore attention, for the key to heaven is semen-retention.

>> No.19658585

>>19658550
Read the entire post and it hit me like a ton of bricks. Where do I start if I want literature about this? Confessions? I don't want to become some kind of trad larper, but I enjoy reading about the detrimental effects of being addicted to masturbation, porn and casual sex.

>> No.19658600

>>19658550
>Give not a whore attention, for the key to heaven is semen-retention.
Pithy.
You know the purpose of semen retention in tantra, where the practice comes from, is generally to increase the potency of sex magick, right?
If you’re just hodling your semen, you’re basically self-castrating in a vain attempt to become prepubescent

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>>19658585
Confessions does not cover it properly. There are sections where St. Augustine commends his friend Alypius for his chastitiy, in hindsight, and regrets his fornications before he became Catholic.

I have a collection of Christian, mystical and esoteric literature but none of them aim explicitly at celibacy. I can only advise you whenever you get these urges to drink a couple of beers, take an ice-cold shower or, the best solution, pray in stillness and meekness. Drinking alcohol fixes the dopamine you crave and you will feel similarly post-nut with the difference that you did not spill your manhood and committed a mortal sin. Of course use it reasonably. Cold showers and prayer are self-explainatory.

>>19658600
Fuck off with your magick and barbarian believes. You retain your semen because it is the right thing to do, brings your closer to God and to the fair sex.

>> No.19658651

>>19658585
I recorded a podcast no so long ago and read from the section where St. Augustine mentions the chastity of his friend Alypius. Skip to 43:05: https://www.bitchute.com/video/rgFs660Tumbx/

>> No.19658659

>>19658633
>and to the fair sex.
Not sure how semen retention will bring me closer to beautiful men
>brings your closer to God
oh. You mean the jew god. What a turnoff

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>>19658659
Faggot kill yourself.

>> No.19658681

>>19658667
You and your god make me want to

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>>19658681
Be my guest.

>> No.19658692

>>19657566
lmao who cares what she thinks anon you fucked up

>> No.19658693

>>19658684
Do you ever get tired of being miserable and making everyone miserable?

>> No.19658704

>>19657566
>having insecurities over dick size
I cannot imagine being this much of a bitch.

>> No.19658705

>>19658684
you have become the cringe

>> No.19658709

>>19658693
You are miserable, I am content with you burning in hell forever.

>> No.19658723

>>19657566
>asking a bunch of angry incels advice about women and relationships
When seeking to attain something, you must always emulate the man who has achieved zero succes whatseover with the thing in question: only then will you be a true retard.
- Sun Tzu, the Art of Mouthbreathing.

>> No.19658726

>>19658506
Any recommendations?

>> No.19658727

>>19658709
You're a slave and a loser.

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>>19658727
If you say so :^]

>> No.19658746

>>19657566
Ultimately the best way to avoid such circumstances is to find a woman who hasn't been in prior relationships. Not to say that a woman who's been in a prior relationship is necessarily of a poor character but it does demonstrate to a certain degree a lack of female competence.
The union of two people is a life-defining thing, you shouldn't view relationships frivolously or try to repress healthy jealousy. No woman who "shit-tests" her husband is worth associating with.
We aren't apes, we have thousands of years of culture and understanding to tap from. The negrofication of our society is the cause for the undermining of a great many social mores (though you can't really blame the humble negro).
Find a woman who appreciates the art of home-making, that's the most important thing, everything else derives from this.
As an aside the institution of "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" is a neoliberal cancer.

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>>19657566
imagine being upset that you have a classically aesthetic penis

>> No.19658750

This thread should have died like 50 responses ago

>> No.19658753

>>19658723
>Projecting this hard
I’m sorry you’ve had to experience involuntary celibacy in the past, anon. Hopefully you’ve already overcome it by now.

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>>19658750
Should've been saged to death after the first reply.
sage

>> No.19658783

>>19658770
Based schope always right in the end

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19658795

APOLOGIZE

>> No.19658797

>>19658709
I’m actually quite content compared to you.

>> No.19658801

>>19658795
Schope-sama, I kneel...

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>>19658797
That's why you justify yourself.

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>>19658816
You've gone incoherent.

>> No.19659208

>>19658753
Projection

>> No.19659238

>>19657672
Literally the truth
>>19657566
Your girlfriend is just being honest with you you fucking retard, and the honest truth is that you like your penis
Step back for a second and realise that you're irate because you make your girlfriend happy

>> No.19659245

>>19657871
Yes I'm sure the six months were spent getting over his massive schlong that she didn't like and not THE PERSON

>> No.19659255

Just to clarify:
>OP is too insecure to talk about sex with his girlfriend
>OP is too insecure to take a compliment about his penis (which is loved)
>OP manufactured a fantasy where his ex spent six months getting over a penis that she didn't like
>OP can't imagine that a woman wouldn't realise how irrationally insecure he is
And finally
>OP is shitting up /lit/

Maybe you should break up with her so she can find someone who's less of a retard

>> No.19659257

I want to be a priest so these talks about women mean nothing to me
But I'm surprised you guys could be with women that talk so openly about dicks, that it belongs to you or to one of her excess shouldn't change anything, I don't see how anyone who considers themselves civilized could even stumble on the topic in a casual conversation

>> No.19659301

>>19658257

7 inches is really big, like above top 10% according to studies. If you're not rounding up

>> No.19659336

>>19657715
>They don’t belong to any man, but rather they share their love with many.
>you should feel grateful and honored that she chose you.
aka women should be allowed to do whatever they want, the whole world should conspire to facilitate this endeavour, and we should all feel honoured that we got to be part a young woman's journey to never prioritize anyone above herself.
Consequences are only for men, never for women.
Compromises are only for men, never for women.
Sacrifices are only for men, never women.
Selfishness is selfishness.
This is just lipstick on a pig.