/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

Always feel l estranged reading that stuff which keeps coming up on the boards.
Not only I would definitely rather have the girl to be active sexually, since it means interested in it and more likely to be proactive and willing to try things out.
But also the narrative of every girl is riding carousels of dick as soon as they enter higschool is so detached from reality I don't even know where to start. Yes some are active, but some aren't, for many reasons, be it too high standards for themselves, mental illness, general disinterest which is the most common (not always against it but like just not worth bothering), focusing on job or studies...
II did met quite a few pretty cute that just didn't do it because they were sheltered and insecure as teens, or far from the city, granted it was around weeb circles but still. But it wasn't really a positive aspect, just sounds like more work.
Why do people try so hard to push for a narrative harmful to themselves, just to have the high ground and call other naives? I don't get it.