/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

its cute because its a girl

>>2058179
Well, guys aren't cute.

>>2058198
i am a man and find shy/anxious kind guys cute. will not fuck, or kiss, but gladly hug and dote on. if girls can do it to other girls so can i do it to other men.

>>2058179
this is 100% correct
where do I find aqua gf?

>>2057972
Yes and?

>>2058179
I've seen girls call guys "cute" for this kind of shit though, it all depends
usually it's reserved for children though

>>2057972
Relatable

>>2058691
girls like Aqua are usually ugly irl

>>2059624
But Aqua is actually really cute irl though.

>>2058275
Based, I bet you also kiss your homies goodnight

>>2057972
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_GGtDa-vC4

>>2059624
false
>>2058691
well you see, you have to be able to make them happy/comfortable in their few public interactions without being creepy or intrusive.
this will sound autistic as hell but bringing your mother or a female friend might be necessary. if you have a nice mother or a sociable one, or both, they can breakdown the barrier of an anxious or autistic girl. same with the female friend thing, lets the girl know you're 'safer' than some random guy they think is dangerous.
you should also act and dress the part. if you're some completely normal guy hitting on them/socializing with them you'll stick out way too much in their vision.

>>2061191
no. but i deeply love my best friend. he's a good man who cares about me and i him -- we'll talk about death, suicide, all of it, and continue on our days making what we can of life, no dramatics or else. you know a character you see in an anime/book where you go "i wish he/she were real"? well he is that for me in the universe of friends. maybe even more. i've yet to meet a girl as such, but for the formerly socially awkward and few friended self of before he serves as a reminder of what relationships can be achieved in this life, as hopeless as everything can seem.

>>2061347
based loving anon
but that doesn't have anything to do with guys being icky
except some femboys i guess as long as they keep their mouth shut

>>2061493
i think if you're honest with yourself you'll see how men can be cute. once you 'get' that you understand life in general a lot more.
think of it this way, imagine a girl who can't understand or appreciate a cute girl. not so fun right? life's too short to make everything cute sexual and everything sexual cute. my friend is undoubtedly fucking cute as hell as well as masculine. nothing sexually exciting but i'm not into guys -- still don't really get what makes a guy 'sexy' in a girl's eyes.

>>2057972
Did it actually end up happening?

obviously fake. why would she ask something like that live? what if noel said no?

>>2061656
no, i kinda get it, but my friends aren't cute. i know they're guys and guys smell and are hairy (yes i know some women are hairy too) and i love my friends but i don't think they're cute the same way i think a girl is cute. i want to kiss cute girls on the cheek, i don't wanna kiss my homies. that's kinda gross. but that's just me, we still hug and shit

>>2058691
>where do I find aqua gf?
sorry to say you might be too socially adjusted/well off already. 4chan is certainly full of autistic, socially akward, abnormal atypical people, no doubt about that, but this is a girl who used her mother to communicate at a hospital. just think about that for a moment, a girl, past her teenage phase, young adult now, who brings her mother every step of the way in the hospital.
i'm not trying to shit on her, it's just that even for my autistic ass I'd be unable to do that, using my mother to communicate. how many people here genuinely use their mother to communicate with strangers?
of course not all these girls think alike and they don't all want the same thing, especially since confident men are liked, but such a girl would probably want someone who understands their anxiety struggles. if you're mortified over using your mom for all communication, everywhere you go, then you might not be able to relate with her at a deep enough level.

i changed from a shy autist to a louder one. figured it's better to see reality for what it is and then respond as I can. it works but it's hard to know what I've lost from it -- not least of which the understanding from others that can be gained from being more shy. i have the actions of an introvert but the desires and personality of some mix've introversion and extroversion. i just want to never stop understanding people and trying so hard at it. maybe it's because I struggle so much with making sense of everything that I enjoy understanding people so much.

>>2061656
Come out of the closet already, fag

>>2061656
You sound like a great friend to have. If you appreciate life for what it is and try to make the best out of the relationships you have with people in your life, especially the ones you can be genuine and honest with, then you are doing everything right in my book. I would totally dote on my homies but sadly I am too cowardly to act on how I feel and I don't have the impression they'd feel comfortable about it.

>>2057972
Why do you need to made a thread about this shit eop nigger. Take it to global or kys. Fucking trash.

>>2064333
Tldr

there's a special place in hell for twitchniggers

>>2058198
sick of this rrat that most boys fall for nowadays. if you go on thinking this, you will never realize that you're cute too.

>>2057972
I like this one more.
https://youtu.be/yoWrE8zZFUQ

>>2070305
y-you too...

>>2070035
You leave my paypigs alone.

>>2061715
I don't doubt it's real. As weird as it sounds, chat can kinda be a support in cases like this. Without seeing the live chat, I bet people were cheering her on. But yeah if Noel said no then she'd probably cry and then an hero on the spot.

>>2058922
Personalty flaws are cute as long as you are attractive

>>2072446
the fucking redpill

>>2059624
Your dox reps anonchama

>>2071799
>You leave my paypigs alone.
F-finally. S... Someone sta-stands up... for me...
All it t-took was my w-wallet. h-heh

>>2072446
retard San, no. they're cute as long as you arent a massive cunt. when you're a nice or good person they're cute.

>>2072446
some people will make you want to throw them through a wall no matter how attractive they are

>girl walks into starbucks
>her mother walks up and orders her a matcha frappe
>shes a bit behind her, sees you looking at her
>spaghetti drop from her pockets
what do you do?

>>2072446
Being shy isn't a flaw.

>>2073127
smile, and tell her that I want to fuck her mom

>>2073202
Aqua isn't just shy though, she is a complete autist

It's endearing and all through the avatar, but people like this are a huge pain in the ass if you have to deal with them every day. Especially if you're also introverted; the worst possible company for an introvert is someone even more introverted than themselves. They expect you to be extroverted (since everyone is an extrovert compared to them) and it leads to extreme awkwardness.

>>2058198
wtf do you mean? boys are cute as fuck too

>>2073202
Unless you are a man

>>2073368
Autism doesn't exist.
>>2073426
It's not a flaw then either.

>>2073389
i mean, i'm fine with that
but aqua is kinda extreme seeming. i'd like a girl who impresses me with their pursuits in life... any girl like her would have to have something like hololive to point to as a thing they're good at/better than me in. that and i like light fem dom/care, don't know if she's capable of being supportive given her anxiety.

>>2072446
Yep, this, a shy reserved good looking guy will be seen as cute, while a shy reserved ugly guy will be seen as a school shooter.

It's all about looks, nothing more.

>>2073581
>a shy reserved ugly guy will be seen as a school shooter.
nope. only knew one person in my life who had been actually reported as "im scared this guy will shoot up the school" and he was a complete as with anger issues.
most people will NOT assume the nice quiet kid who stumbles his words will be the school shooter. they assume the kids with anger issues, doing crime, etc, will be.

and being handsome will 100% not stop you from being profiled if you act like an angry ass with no friends.

>>2073713
Nigger are you serious? All my life people thought I was that "weird dude" who looked like he'd kill everyone. One guy literally told me he thought I'd shoot up the school. He'd never even talked to me.
Normies are horribly superficial. They hate quiet people.

>>2073459
>Autism doesn't exist
Explain /vt/ then

>>2073936
It really could have been because of who you are as a person

>>2073936
i'm going to be super fucking honest with you: that same person acted like you. he thought everyone in the world was out to wrong him and that he could do no wrong.
do some self reflection. i've been a quiet socially awkward person all my life and have never been told by a guidance councilor or HR that they're worried about my mental health due to classmates/coworkers.

the fact you drop nigger like that is just a cherry on top. you sound like a professional victim bitching about normies and how everyone is out to get you.
when you act like an angry asshole who throws friends under the bus you get ghosted, i don't know your story but it wouldn't surprise me one bit if you're a toxic asshole.

>>2073936
I've never met one person who was nice, kind, had their shit together, or in general a good person, and talks like this.

>>2073936
Man I wish people thought I would shoot up the school, I was always the quiet one but it didn't make people scared of me, I just ended up getting picked on all the time because I didn't fight back.

>>2074152
me through elementary to middle school.
then i stood up for myself, rest of middleschool and highschool wasn't bothered by anyone. ended strong even. it's amazing what one good friend can do for your personality.

>>2074199
I feel like you're supposed to grow from those experiences but frankly I ended up doing the opposite, I regressed and I'm now an even bigger pussy than I was back then.

I also think my fetish for rape, ryona, guro and just sadism in general stems from the anger and resentment I feel from those years.

>>2074436
to be fair i grew up in a white rural affluent state. easier to stand up for yourself when you don't have (many?) people with nothing to lose. when you face real losers is when you can get really fucked, from what i understand, because their family doesn't care and neither do they.

>>2074056
You're completely right. You don't know me. Every single one of your assumptions is wrong.
>thought everyone in the world was out to wrong him
Wrong.
>and that he could do no wrong.
Wrong.
>you sound like a professional victim bitching about normies
Wrong.
>how everyone is out to get you.
Doesn't apply to me.
>you act like an angry asshole who throws friends under the bus
Wrong.
>you're a toxic asshole.
Wrong.

Do you know what's funny? That same guy became a great friend later, once he ACTUALLY got to know me.
Only when everyone else saw me hanging out with him, interacting normally with another human, they actually considered that I might be a human too. Eventually I became close with everyone in my class, and THEN they told me they were scared of me at first because I "look like I want to kill someone". Without exception, they were all surprised at the fact that I'm a genuinely chill dude who just doesn't talk much.

This specific scenario happened in college, but it was roughly the same throughout my entire life whenever I entered a new environment. "OMG Anon, you're so nice and funny, I thought you were a psychopath, hee hee"
It's genuinely hurtful how shallow people are.

>omg you said nigger! you're toxic
This is 4chan retard. Fuck off.

>>2074604
>>thought everyone in the world was out to wrong him
>Wrong.
yet bitches about normies and confidently enters the thread to state all anything society cares about is looks
>>you sound like a professional victim bitching about normies
>Wrong.
>Normies are horribly superficial. They hate quiet people.
>>2074604
>That same guy became a great friend later, once he ACTUALLY got to know me.
good for you, don't say retarded shit bitching about normies if you know it's wrong. you have even less of an excuse than the spaghetti droppers on here.

>>2074759
>literally ignoring the entirety of my post and grasping onto straws to save face
Nice rebuttal faggot.
Normalfags ARE shallow and they WILL fully judge you without ever exchanging a word with you.
This has been my experience all my life, the fact that I can make friends with them doesn't change that. But feel free to try and convince me that people are all flowers and sunshine and would never think I'm a dangerous weirdo without ever actually interacting with me.

Don't bother replying if you're just gonna be mad at me for calling out retarded normalfag behavior.

>>2057972
Have you seen Noel's rack? Most people would be nervous.

>>2076323
she's not planning on sleeping under them anon.

>>2073368
She's more along the line of Avoidant Personality Disorder than actual autism.

>>2076474
Social Anxiety pretty much

>>2076474
She isn't AVPD or she wouldn't be a Vtuber, fuck off with this /r9k/ diagnosis everyone loves to spout. Personality disorders are more serious than you think.

>>2074952
well you just contradict yourself. it's hard to contradict someone who has no consistent argument. if you are back to blaming the world for everything wrong with yourself then yes, you are a massive faggot who should grow up and learn people have bias for good reason and you are most definitely 100% doing something(s) to earn such a negative bias from people.
your emotions and personality display on your face. not exactly a newsflash for most people but maybe you lack understanding that others can, most of the time, understand your inner self intuitively. guts are usually atleast more than half right, if everyone's gut instinct is you being a massive pos to avoid then you're doing something fucked.

tl;dr don't group us in with you. aqua has issues with communication, not hating people. she's not a bitter incel raging against the world or some mentally ill reject hating humanity. neither are most of us. if you think you have good company in hating people you're at the wrong place. it's possible to have issues communicating with others, and being misunderstood by others, without hating others for being mostly normal humans.

>>2079042
Mental illness is far from consistent in all avenues of life or logical approaches. I agree with your sentiment that we should avoid seriously diagnosing but I disagree with the idea that AVPD is impossible. Some of the most sociable people I know pop a Clonopin after being outside for thirty minutes, sometimes followed by an anxiety attack, and, for one person, they sometimes literally collapse and start crying with twenty minutes warning, sometimes seemingly out of nowhere. As hard as it is to believe, I completely believe it's possible for a V-Tuber to have AVPD, Anxiety, Autism, etc. It's suprising how illogical mental illness can be, deciding that somehow streaming something possibly to-be-seen by millions behind an anime avatar is much less scary/ripe for issues than ordering a starbucks drink.

>>2079186
Based anon educating incels