/vt/ - Virtual Youtubers

[Anonymous No.]

How do I convince myself to fall out of love with a vtuber and how do I prevent this from occurring in the future?

[Anonymous No.]

Have sex

[Anonymous No.]

>>4217495
Now give me a realistic solution. One that is actually achievable.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4217373
You don't

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>>4217520
Get a irl gf.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4217520
Pay for sex.

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>>4217373
Make a Tulpa

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You can't. My oshi graduated 2 months ago and I'm still crying every day. Every fucking day. And she didn't even have any GFE in her.

[Anonymous No.]

Remember that your oshi is human and she has to shit and perform other bodily functions.
Instead of idolising a woman turn toward worship of something greater.
Try going to church.

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>>4217373
Show oshi

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>>4217373

you are asking for emotional control beyond human capacity.

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>>4217605
I unironically don’t know how normal people get girlfriends

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>>4217614
This. You'll either be happy with her or you end up in a mental institution. Either way you'll have moved forward.

[Anonymous No.]

Get a GFE escort
Don't fall in love with her though

[Anonymous No.]

>>4217614
>>4218133
Go to hell

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>>4217373
Just be pic related OP.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4217746
My oshi is already a god and i'd drink her piss

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>>4217373
Cut your dick

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>>4218166
>Don't Dead Open Inside
Excuse me what?

[Anonymous No.]

>>4218108
this.
Like actually what the fuck am I supposed to do. It's already a rare occasion for me not to have an autism attack mid conversation let alone having multiple a day and having to include romantic gestures and flirting.

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>>4217373
Not wanting to love your oshi is a cardinal sin. The only way to reach true enlightenment is to be obsessed with her. Everytime is see someone love their sushi more than mine I feel a deep burning envy in my chest. You should live for your oshi otherwise she's not your oshi.

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>>4218822
What do you do when their boyfriend gets them pregnant?

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>>4218822
>love their sushi more than mine
looks like your autocollect was on

[Anonymous No.]

Keep obsessing over it until you burn out.

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>>4219010
This is what I did. I still love her but it doesn't hurt anymore

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>>4217373
your oshi does not exist. you are in love with an idealized caricature of a woman.
no, you don't love her roommate either. you only know her on a superficial level. if she weren't the voice of your favorite cartoon, you'd call her a twitch thot.

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>>4217373
Become a Lars poster Looked through archive for this and boy ame goslings during the first three months were wild if you want to see the madness of it look up gosling or lars on /jp/ and go to the earliest date and go from there. You don't want to be like them in ANY capacity

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>>4217373
Unironically get a real gf, the love of an actual women cleans up all gosling shit almost instantaneously. But given the we are reaching 30% sexless rates among men, im not so sure that is a realistic approach for a gosling like you, you probably lack the necessary skills to get a gf in the first place. So most realistic answer, just keep on being a gosling.

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>>4217373
Just accept that you are infatuated with one. but since it's an impossible conclusion you'll have to move on.
You don't just do it in a day obviously, it's gonna take some time, but you'll get over it.

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>>4219349
Do I need to know japanese to post on /jp/?

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>>4218632
>Like actually what the fuck am I supposed
Nothing, you are kind of fucked to be honest. Sexlessness among men in the west has been rising steadily for the past 15 years. Chances are you just won't find irl love.

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>>4219388
No its all english with the exception of the Japanese learning threads

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>>4219361
How? I interact with 0 females per day. How do I get to the point where I am interacting with potential girlfriends at last semiregularly?

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>>4217373
Break the wall. Check who's their roommate

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>>4219349
ame's roommate doesn't give a fuck whether you live or die.

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>>4218108
>>4218632
>>4219479
To be honest, instead I wuold just try to make friends. I don't have almost any experience with romantic relationships but I surely would prefer to be gathered with many friends. You can think about romantic or sexual relationship later, try to gain more confidence first, (inserting corny line) your friends make you strong.

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>>4219605
Okay, so how do I get to the point of interacting with potential female friends then? If I have a 5% change to become their friend then I need to meet like 10 of them.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4219361
>30%
My countries even worse...

[Anonymous No.]

>>4219803
Wow, real Japanese post here?

[Anonymous No.]

>>4219803
Welcome actual /jp/ poster

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>>4219734
That's not how probability works. Anyway what anons and goslings don't wanna hear is how fucked they are how much more fucked they only help themsleves to be. Normie girls aren't gonna understand you, and frankly i don't blame them a lot of you are weird fucks. So that leaves you with femanon types, but retards here have spend more than a decade telling femanons that "tits of gtfo" so congrats you made most women leave from the place online you spend time on. In short, you are fucked and have only put effort towards making yourself more fucked.

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>>4219945
Well, there's always islam which is slowly taking over the west anyways. Might as well join the winning team. And they don't believe in age of consent laws which is a huge plus for chumbuds.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4220404
Embrace the one true way brother. Inshallah the sword of Islam will surely be the victor.

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>>4217373
Don't watch those that give GFE or BFE

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>>4217373
Love is not real

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>>4220487
All chuubas are GFE when you haven't spoken to a real female since high school 10 years ago.

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>>4217373
..you're just joking right?

[Anonymous No.]

>>4220532
There are definitely different levels. Matsuri or Noel go hard on it while others like Luna are very light

[Anonymous No.]

>>4219945
>saying tits or gtfo is bad
Fuck off

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>>4219734
>interacting with potential female friends
You don't.
Intergender relationships of those around the same age are vastly founded on attraction to one another. You're either a tool to them or they're a tool to you. No matter who or how they shriek otherwise; boys and girls can't be 'just friends' and it is only healthy to be friends with those of your own sex. Women have friendships the hardest as they've become the predominantly competing sex as society strives towards empowering them over men whilst men are naturally giving less of a shit overall as life is becoming increasingly trivialised and more reflecting the clown world people percieve it to be.

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>>4220646
Yes faggot, enjoy being 80 and alone.

[Anonymous No.]

what is the Final Solution to the gosling posting problem?

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>>4220793
state mandated wives

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>>4217373
meds

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>>4220789
>implying attention whores are wife material
>implying you should wife up females that float around cuck chan

[Anonymous No.]

>>4218268
Your oshi is a whore and she'll never love you because you're a foreigner

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>>4219361
OP is actually lying to you. Getting a gf is nice during the honeymoon period but you will quickly discover the negative sides to women which Oshi simply don't have because they are perfect.

[Anonymous No.]

How do I prepare myself for becoming a wizard?

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>>4217373
Just ge scitzoid personallity disorder bro, just don't care about women anymore.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4221288
I thought I might have SPD but I really want a wife so maybe I'm just autistic.

[Anonymous No.]

understand and keep your emotions in check

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>>4221098
gain weight
around 230 pounds and age 30, you just stop caring

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>>4221081
>Hating foreigners
Based, you'll never be Japanese

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>>4221081
Wrong and wrong

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>>4217373
Just watch Artemis my guy
https://voca.ro/11NpFQRtvJBI

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>>4219349
Never seen Lars, but I've jumped into these threads from time to time to remind people that gosling should be compared to training wheels or crutches. Use your Oshi to better your life personally, find a skill you can get better at that would improve both your life and the imaginary life you would live with your Oshi. It can be as simple as cleaning your house once a week or as tough as learning to play an instrument, but try to do something that will improve your future life together. Crutches analogy is for people who had issues with past relationships and gosling to not have to get back into the dating world. Fake girlfriend is easier than real, but she wouldn't want you to sit around alone with her all the time, go out and make some friends! Trainingwheels are for the virgin babies who need to have some kind of overarching push to better themselves and make themselves feel comfortable with their life to the point where they can be not afraid to take the next step.

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>>4221098
How old are you? Honestly, as a wizard it isn't the worst thing as long as you have some outlet for social interaction. No, talking on the internet doesn't count because it keeps you confined to one spot.

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>>4220793
legal whores

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>>4220793
Amegeddon but that failed so they're here to stay forever

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>>4220789
tits or GTFO only filters the women that don't deserve relationships anyway, there's thousands of femanons that exist here normally because they never use their sex as a way to grab attention.

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>>4223277
>ahhhh im gonna IMPROOOOOOOVE
Improvers have already failed. Accepting what you already have and loving it just the way it is - that's the first and only step and the core of all religion and philosophy.

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>>4220773
This is so true. Someone always wants to fuck someone in this situation and sooner or later someone will make a move. The one thing it doesn't take into account is that this isn't talking about friend of a friend where it's a more casual, less contact friendship. Think something like my friend's wife/husband. You don't talk with them that much in public and probably never in private and if you do, it's a very sketchy situation.

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>>4223835
Fuck you faggot. Try putting some effort into making your situation better and maybe you won't have to blame everything on fate and how unlucky you are. Hard work does pay off.

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>>4223835
>the core of all religion and philosophy.
Only if you're gay (Buddhist)
Based western religion is all about death rebirth and growth.

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>>4217373
spend money on gacha

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>>4223643
>tits or GTFO only filters the women that don't deserve relationships anyway
So you want a serious relationship with a women who pops out her tits when a stranger shouts a meme at the?

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>>4224697
reading comprehension anon, you'll never be told tits or gtfo if you never bring up being a woman, which is inherently attention seeking on an anonymous forum

[Anonymous No.]

It’s hard when they like or read your comments. I need to stop, the attention feels too good

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>>4217373
stick with her until you find replacement. At least she'll keep you alive - until someone else does. Than let go of her. You cool with pseudo-NTR, no?

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>>4221098
You don't. And once your there you will only be wonderig where all the time went and what you could have done different.

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>>4217373
I personally struggle a lot trying to balance how much I enjoy them and how actually weird is to like vtubers.

For example you can have the total psychos that never miss a stream, go out covered on their merch and dump lots of money trying to get a little bit of attention, I dont want to be like that.

But I think I have been so insecure about myself and hidden my power level for so long that I dont know how to enjoy things anymore, I avoid accepting that I like them, I am not subscribed to them, I pretend I dont know what they are and so and so.

What really made me feel empty inside was this one time I got some psychical merch of her, was very cute, but I feel so bad having it, like I would die of cringe if someone sees it (not like anyone is going into my room), but the truth is that I like it and I get so fucking depressed when I realize how much I fucking love her every time she makes a pun and laughs at it.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4220789
Attention whores who post on 4chan are not wife material, just like men who post here are not husband material

[Anonymous No.]

Play Fallout 4 and focus exclusively on settlements. You won't have time left, neither you will want to watch VTubers anymore.

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>>4217373
Love everyone, then you are free.

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>>4219548
Why would they, does your roommate give a shit about your work? Mine sure as hell doesnt

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>>4219328
>you only know her on a superficial level
This is when women are at their most attractive though.

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>>4219361
>Getting a gf will instantly solve your problems

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>>4228306
It good women by your side solves a good chunk of problems, ngl.

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>>4228306

a virtual gf is argueable less bad than an actual gf

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>>4221083
If you feel this way you don't want a woman you just want the endorphin drip feed of the feeling of being in love. At which point you might as well just throw yourself into opioids (don't actually do this anon).

Most who aren't mentally ill understand that feeling is fleeting and doesn't last forever, but regardless it's an important step in relationships that most stable, traditional relationships are built on. If one of you or both of you don't feel that way at the same point, your relationship is doomed to fail.

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>>4228417
Well said anon

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>>4220793
fixing society, witch is not possible anon

[Anonymous No.]

Unironically? Invest in yourself. Lift weights, go to church if you're religious at all and read neckbesrd books if you aren't. Learn to cook and do housework. Work on actually learning Japanese. If any of this leads to you getting a gf than all the better, but that shouldn't be the explicit goal.

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>>4217373
Why would you want to do that, anon? Are you saying you don't want to care about her or her happiness anymore? Was it just a lie all along, were you deceiving her?
That's pretty disgusting, anon.

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>>4228417
an actual good take

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>>4217373
what you need to do is completely detach your idea of what you're in love with from the actual vtuber, so that they'll never retire and then slowly forget theyre not real and unreachable, and then come to accept the kind of lonely stasis of desiring the unattainable

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>>4228556
>>4229553
Samefag. You have never had a gf or interacted with a woman who could tolerate your body odor

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>>4220773
So it's too hard to get a girlfriend and becoming friends a with a girl can't happen? How am I supposed to make progress if it's impossible?

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>>4234036
Your 'progress' is their bait.
Learn to let go of vain hopes for intimacy and seek out ways to better yourself; mentally and physically or indulge in life's trivialized distractions - either is fine, there's no wrong way about it in clown world.

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>>4220773
*tips fedora*

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>>4217373
Fap to gay anal porn. You will become a homosexual and won't feel this way anymore.

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>>4234518
I want to be loved by someone though. Why can't I have that?

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>>4235724
start by loving yourself

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>>4235724
Being loved takes work, are you willing to do that work? I'm not even talking about improving yourself, I'm talking about keeping up a relationship so you don't get abandoned

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>>4217373
If she has a place in your heart, find someone who deserves it more than idealized façade of a person. If not a girlfriend - just a close friend.

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>>4235735
I already do.
>>4235785
Sure, but that's not the problem I am having.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4236098
wait till corona is over then go outside and stuff

[Anonymous No.]

>>4236114
So, do I just go to the grocery store and start talking to random girls?

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>>4236114
Fag

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>>4235724
You’re not trying hard enough. You have to either put in the work or lower your standards or go it alone

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>>4236320
What work do I need to put in?

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>>4236389
>>4228667

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>>4236389
I don’t know you personally anon lmfao. Focus on status, money, looks in that order. And try to be interesting. And keep your autism to a minimum (you should instinctively know what topics a woman will see as a red flag). If you’re not good at small talk it’s better to stay quiet as much as possible. Have a clearly defined trajectory for your life, women like stability. Get a dog maybe. Speaking of stability don’t show excessive emotion around women, let her be the emotional one. This is basic common sense stuff but it has been aggressively beaten into modern men that it’s ok to cry in front of your girlfriend(outside of contexts where it’s warranted like your Dad died or something but even then keep it to a minimum) or get worked up over insignificant bullshit or whatever. Don’t fall into that trap women will always see unwarranted expressions of emotion asextremely unattractive.

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>>4236504
>>4236767
I already do some of that. My problem is that I'm not meeting girls. Which is a necessary first step of starting a relationship. The things you guys are suggesting seem to be for improving your odds at creating one or maintaining one, but that's not my current problem.

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>>4236870
Meeting women is as simple as going to the store or going to work or school. Women are everywhere but you actually have to go outside and do things

[Anonymous No.]

>>4236940
Sure, but the opportunity to talk to them doesn't exist.

[Anonymous No.]

>>4236870
Do you do anything where you have a chance to meet women? Classes, church, office job, etc?

[Anonymous No.]

>>4236870
You need to touch grass
But seriously, just go places and talk to people, it doesn't HAVE to be at a bar but you have higher chances of meeting people there

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>>4236987
You’re making excuses, it’s not as difficult as you’re making it out to be. if you’re not an autismo you’ll learn to use context to talk to women and if you don’t know how to do that the best way to learn is through trial and error.

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>>4217373
I had to talk a friend out of watching a vtuber cuz they ended up doing some not cool stuff to their audience...

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>>4219328
>no, you don't love her roommate either. you only know her on a superficial level. if she weren't the voice of your favorite cartoon, you'd call her a twitch thot.

I want to frame this post cause holy shit its dead on.
You can get the same kind of experience with twitch girls, they just use their real faces instead. To be honest that's why I like Botan so much, she doesn't play that shit, its clear she's there to have fun with it.

[Anonymous No.]

Ignore the bait, Anon.
Real people don't try.
Any and all confidence evoked on the internet is 100% fake and should be rightfully ignored.
Stop taking advice from the internet for once in your damn life.

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>>4221098
Gets easier with the years, you simply stop caring.
t. soon to be 38 year old wizard.

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>>4221098
Browse /x/ and realize how absurd it is to be a normie.

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>>4237810
everytime I went to /x/, the posters there always struck me as those retarded normies that say they are witches and talk about horoscopes

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>>4217373
grow up